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Men really can't handle the fact women are people. They don't want to deal with our feelings, personalities, etc. They just want the sex and validation and catering without reciprocating. So now they throw $20 at you and get nudes, emotional labor and satisfaction. Women, as a commodity, has become so unbelievably cheap now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:41 AM
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Don't pretend like white women are the most guilty of being handmaidens. It neglects POC culture where fellow women are fucking nightmares that you couldn't even comprehend. The constant shitting on white women is just a weird form of invisible racism because it makes all the struggles WOC face with women in their own culture completely invisible. Topping off that, singling out white women is also just misogyny because all races have handmaiden issues. Black women and their race loyalty causes p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:37 AM
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You described what's happening to women everywhere. Getting filled up because wrinkles and thin lips will make no man want you. Liberal feminism has made it so women will never admit the real reasons they do things because they'll feel embarrassed. When you push aesthetics as empowering and 'choice', the women who says she feels pressured is not a Boss Babe uwu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:35 PM
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Her looks are not being criticized, her choices are. Those lips were a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 07:32 PM
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it's kinda why men hate sluts. They hate women who are easy because they acknowledge how abundant and easy to get dick is. They assume you have no standards or that you don't respect yourself if you're so easily accepting dick that comes your way. Also why men who fuck lots of women are hailed as heroes. Women are meant to be the choosers and a man getting chosen so often makes him a hero among men. it's funny how men's behavior is very monkey-brain shit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:33 AM
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And here we have marriage used to trick a woman into having a baby she doesn't want because having it while married probably makes her feel 'better'. Men know exactly what they do. The whole stigma of having a kid outside marriage is still around, lurking about, so being married relieved a lot of anxiety, about him leaving and her being unable to take care of herself(bc you know she assumes her husband's gonna suddenly turn into a HVM) Marriage is such a god damn scam for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:27 PM
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Virgin seems to be a way men say a woman hasn't been 'used' yet. I never see an obsession with male virgins, it's only with females ones. It's also why they include rape as a way to lose your virginity. To men, consent doesn't matter, if you get 'used' you get used. All the same to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:22 PM
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Wow, that's actually very true. I'm going to check out his instagram! I think there are western men who express misogyny this way, too. Like the neglectful husband/boyfriend who still uses you for emotional and domestic labor while hating you. And eastern men who avoid women as a whole even in regards to sex, like Japan I suppose, where men love their 2d women and idols while avoiding real women like the plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:15 PM
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Thanks for the video! Isn't it damn ironic how an actual narcissist, a father of narcissism discourse, can admit to objective reality regarding the oppression of women but normal scrotes and wanna-be academics can't? Life is a joke sometimes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:02 PM
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Privileged women have a hard time empathizing with women below them. Class systems is one of the great dividers of women. I know this seems like an obvious thing to say but once you notice the issues this division causes, it's worth a note. You see the division easily in feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:05 PM
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Remember how popular border patrol rape porn and immigrant rape porn became every time some shit about it happened in the news? or when black lives matter become popular and police rape porn became a popular searched term or some shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 03:05 PM
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Not an unpopular opinion, notice how many men suddenly seem to hate their wives after they knock her up? The thrill is over, his seed has done its duty. You're not the 'hot girlfriend' anymore, you're the wife, the bangmommy. Not long after, he goes out and gets himself a girlfriend. The woman he has to woo and court, a woman he hasn't 'gotten' yet. But tbh, I do find myself getting salty at pregnant women because my thoughts are always 'BUT DOES THE SCROTE DESERVE TO HAVE HIS GENES PASSED ON? H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:57 PM
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Which video was the 4 pillars of love? I frequently binge his videos, they are a treasure. There's something very sad about Sam. He truly hates his mental illness and you can see it in his talks, in his poetry and in his desire to help heal those who have it. Oh and he's said some insightful things about male/female relationships. He is kind of a boomer so the generational gap makes him say things you know aren't true(about the dating scene mostly lol) but he's talked about women and their slave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:49 PM
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Don't believe men, not even the ones you think are friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:38 PM
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Living with your parents is not shameful. In many cultures, you live with them until marriage, sometimes even after marriage the son's wife will just move in with lol. I've seen this culture shock a few times in youtubers marrying outside their culture but I believe the lack of connection to family is one of the reasons the West is a mess. But in your particular case, escaping garbage parents to only have to return can be horrible. It can make you feel like you're back at square one. Don't worry…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:35 PM
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Rape would become legal so quickly lmao. Same if women collectively said we're not fucking men until they stop treating us like shit. Men would just make rape legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:25 PM
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Women doing emotional labor for men again lol. Without even being asked, too. I can hear the chant now, in the distance... 'pick me! pick me! uwu'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:24 PM
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This is the same type of women who loves incompetent men. They feel safe knowing the man is 'helpless' and will always need them. They assume it means he'll never leave them but jokes on them, when he does, he usually just replaces them with another bangmommy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:09 AM
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Being a man is such an incredible convenience, I s2g. And now with women shopping for mates in the homeless section of Walmart, being a man has truly never been easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:02 AM
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Why is it always men who are at the bottom of the hierarchy so outspoken about maintaining this hierarchy while denying it exists? Oh. Right. And let's remember, the hierarchy is monkey brain shit. It's 'might is right'. Yes, our society has allowed LMV to seem to be at the top thanks to money, but put them in prison and see what happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:56 AM
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I mean...not wanting to be with someone because they have bad genes is kind of valid lol He was upfront and honest with you about it as well.(about the autism thing, saying his mom didn't approve was cowardly but mother-in-laws Can be extremely picky about this.) Sure, it wasn't pleasant to hear but that's reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:45 AM
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Women are the prize and men know this. If you pursue the man, he thinks you're undesirable in the eyes of men because you're doing the chasing. Men value what other men think A LOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:41 AM
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Never let a man know how you feel about yourself. If you think highly of yourself, he'll bring you down. If you think lowly, he'll lovebomb you. I'm a firm believer that keeping things private is how you keep your power. He cannot destroy what he does not know. He cannot utilize what he does not know, and he cannot manipulate you if he simply does not know enough about you. Of course I'm not advocating to never reveal anything but to be strategic with when and how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:35 AM
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Basically this scrote is unable to read a woman's personality traits (kindness, intelligence, extraversion/introversion, etc.) unless the woman literally spells it out for him. Scrotes are all socially retarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:31 AM
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Your actions make you. What one does is more important than what one says. Of course a LMV scrote said this, they never do shit and that's why they lack value: because there's nothing to appraise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:30 AM
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It's because they get carded. They don't realize there's a policy in most places saying to card anyone who doesn't look like a senior citizen lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:12 AM
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This is just a gay man trying to cope with being gay lol Gay men are a whole other mess but internalized homophobia can make you sprout some real dumb shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:54 PM
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Should've thrown the man away at 'made me go dutch'💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:52 PM
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Love this post, worth a read for every woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:44 PM
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Tbf Selena's face barely changed for years lol. She has a hardcore babyface. But soon as she began looking closer to her age, pick-me's were dying to shit on her. They aid in the normalization of pedophilia culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:12 PM
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We should've began rioting when men began using rape as a form of domestic terrorism to keep us in constant fear. Our rioting is long over-due.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:29 PM
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I saw some women saying age caught up to Selena. Yet only difference is that now she looks more like she's in her early 20s as opposed to 12 like she usually looks. Women are fucking terrible to each other. I find they're the ones dying to point out how old you look, you have a wrinkle, is that grey hair?, your pigmentation looks bad uwu, etc. The others are usually scrotes but LVM aren't real people so idc lol Classic Pick-me behavior, de-valuing other women constantly thinking it elevates you.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:25 PM
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I had a pick-me friend dating a 20 year old while she was 30. Or not dating, just sleeping with. He pumped and dumped her and she was thinking about marriage and children and I was like 'girl, he a child' Anyone who doesn't get freaked out by a huge age gap is sus as hell. People under 25 are going through so many changes, it's just a poor investment overall IMO. If you're over 25, it's better to date 25+. At that age, they're also more knowledgeable about who they are and what they want out of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:53 AM
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Hot spooky take: romcoms are all actual FDS horror movies. If we did a scary movie week, it'd straight up just be all the fucking romantic films aimed at women to trick us into thinking LMV are people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:43 AM
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@this scrote, cashapp us.💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:41 AM
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'should be attracted to me if they weren't so shallow' This has to be a troll, the words used are too satirical. Or men really are this unself-aware, jesus. Anyway, I hate uggo males bc they have ugly personalities to match and also have shit genes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:39 AM
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Ha!😂 The women men shit on are always the women they secretly desire lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:38 AM
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Yes! I love that! It'd be extremely useful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:36 AM
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let's be honest, what would most men do if their gfs/wives have them such a coupon? You'd be hearing some seriously sick and depraved shit. Men just need the right opportunities to show who they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:34 PM
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There's a line of pick-mes dying to let this man know they are Not like those other girls, those thots smh, and wore a totally different outfit that expresses themselves as the unique individuals they are. Men like these are the worst because they pit us against each other by creating a 'Bad' class of women to shit on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:26 PM
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women naturally overcompensate while men over exaggerate their qualities. You articulated this better than me, thank you. This is exactly it. Women should always consider the differences in male and female behavior and not pretend men are just women with dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:49 PM
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😩 The accuracy! Ted Bundy Lite!😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:46 PM
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His bangmommy was by his side all along....😢 what a romantic story for the ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:44 PM
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You're a woman. When men do fail to do these things, it's very different. You have no cleaning schedule while a man will have never cleaned ever. You like graphic t's whereas a man will wear that shit with shorts and socks in sandals every day, all day, and do his laundry once every 3 months. Like if you showered every second day but you still washed your ass properly, it's very different to a man who showers daily but doesn't wash properly. Men be just standing under the water like 'ok done' Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:43 PM
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💋 Some fat to cushion the core: bottom males are also the ones who are usually raped in prison. Men love hierarchies, but in society the lowest male thinks himself above the woman and is content with life that way. He usually never aspires to be much thanks to this. 'at least I'm not female lolol' But when he gets to prison, the harsh reality of where he stands among fellow men sets in. This is also the reason some gangs have a level of men that are basically fucktoys. They are Obsessed with sys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:26 PM
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Girl is doing a whole ass intervention on this lousy scrote😭 Should've thrown him out instead of the lotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:17 PM
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The 'dead fish' syndrome men claim women have is them projecting their inability to be expressive during sex lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:13 PM
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I said it before and I'll say it again: men are socially retarded. When men say they're 'autistic uwu', I say they're just fucking male. There are a multitude of ways to ask for consent without using those actual words. This is social knowledge, understanding how to communicate an idea in an appropriate way for the setting/context. This also ties in with all those Reddit threads of men not being able to notice when a woman is interested in them despite her obvious signs. If a man cannot notice w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:12 PM
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This is the cutest shit😭 Majority of men are socially and romantically retarded, they don't understand how this type of behavior is sweet and endearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:06 PM
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The removal of this post has the same core reason as why men don't want women to get together and talk. I bet a lot of women would've resonated with some of what you said and might've woken up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:35 AM
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She had a whole twitter thread talking about how male crew-members tried sabotaging her film. Talk about pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:32 AM
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I used to deal with this on FB from random men. Just outta nowhere they'd msg me with compliments. I had social media back then and was more social so I'd reply to a few and eventually it would turn into excessive ass-kissing. How quickly these creeps start calling me 'Mistress' is fucking weird. Men just be throwing their kinks at any woman who looks like she'd step on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:30 AM
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Make the post, I would love to read it! I'd love to read more responses to this phenomenon as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:25 AM
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Dating apps are a scam. So, long ago, I'd use this app every few years or so and every time, this same guy would msg me. His profile and photo was always the same, years between. I called him out on it the last time and blocked him. He then messaged me from his REAL account congratulating me on being smart and ladies, he was a fat old balding guy!😭😭 Using ancient photos of himself to trick women! 💀 I deleted my account and never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:21 AM
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😩 The truth in this post. The attitude you describe is also something haters and pick-me's do. Reminds me that if you give an ugly man a chance he'll make you feel like the ugly one. It applies to stupid men, too. Broke men as well. I had an ex who did strange things and years later I realized this man was straight up jealous of me and would try to find ways to passive-aggressively insult me. Men say they hate it when women compete with them yet they do it with women all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:16 AM
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I hope you threw them both away, the freaks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:04 AM
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Nah, the reality is that society, by default, will always have males at the bottom that no one wants and are not meant to breed. Women as the choosers means we're supposed to choose the top males and ignore the losers. Low males must rape, deceive and abuse women to reproduce. But society today has evolved to aid the lowly male with production to create more workers to exploit. Deny rights to women unless they have a man, that way they're forced to marry even the barnacles on society's asshole. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:34 PM
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Self-own to the max, holy shit. They basically just outed themselves as the rejected males of society lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:29 PM
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Remember when men would flex on other men by treating their women to lavish gifts and dinners. Like you'd put your wife in a fur coat to flex on other men how good you have it. Buy her a fucking pink car just cause you can, knowing the message it sends to the world. It's why men are so salty at men who splurge on women. They know what it means lol. So ofc, they gotta take it out on women like LVM usually do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:49 PM
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Definitely. And if you wait to have sex, you don't know how he behaves during it and it can be a real wake-up call. Men can do a 180 when in the bedroom. Not usual for women to talk about how decent their guy is and then finally when it gets to sex, he's a fucking lunatic. Men are amazing at playing the long con. If you think you've vetted a man enough, vet even further just to be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:45 PM
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I wish all trashy males did this😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:02 PM
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Men like feeling like they must continuously win you over. Men are meant to court and win over females and I guess this is just a distortion of that, since in abusive relationships, you're walking on eggshells, always trying to please your abuser. I wonder if this is why once a LVM marries, he becomes dissatisfied with his wife and eventually seeks a gf. When his wife takes care of him and all that shit, there's no more challenge, no more excitement. The male loves to put himself at risk, we kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:02 PM
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I swear this is a 'why men love bitches' thing again but just a variation of it. Nice girls finish last smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:00 PM
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Your female instinct aligns with FDS. Your female intuition, too. You must learn to trust yourself. Men and society spends all their time trying to tell you that you're crazy, you're irrational, you're stupid, etc because if we trusted our gut, the whole world would be very different. Unlike males, our instinct for self-preservation is strong. Usually because we carry and raise children. Even our bodies are designed to survive disasters more so than male bodies. The only way to get us to become …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:57 PM
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She's not wrong but she's not right in the way she thinks she is. Women are interchangeable to men on a certain level. If a man hates you, he'll porn-search for a woman who looks like you getting degraded and abused than jerk it imagining it's happening to you. Same thing with incest porn, teen porn, etc. These men search for women who resemble women in their own lives. It's the first step they take before it's not enough and they have to rape/abuse the real thing. I wish women knew how depraved…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:52 PM
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Damn I feel bad for Americans, the vote is between 2 devils. Joe is such an obvious pedophile as well, I just can't believe he's running. And not to throw shade on american women, but what Trump has said is how men do indeed talk when they're alone with each other. So the man you're dating/fucking/your shitty husband have all said some similar shit. I wish women would protest against all male bullshit, not just when they feel like being performative woke. It reminds me of how liberals called Lan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:42 PM
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You bet she thinks he's so cool because he probably has a job and car and young girls always get starry-eyed at the simplest shit. I know it would've sounded great to me at that age, someone to take you places and shit lol Young women desperately need to be protected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:54 PM
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I had a 19year old hit on me when I was 30 and all I could think was 'where is your mother? do you need assistance? Someone fetch this child, he's lost' lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:52 PM
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Especially compared to mid-20s and later and Idc how many people from skincareaddiction try to claim you can't tell the difference lol (they're always saying everyone looks the same across the 20s and they Definitely Do Not!) I swear men going after such young girls usually do it because the girl looks very young and they're pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:50 PM
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This is the best image I've seen, oh my god lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:52 PM
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A LVM will appreciate a blowjob as a gift more than a 1k one. LVM don't have the emotional or mental capacity to understand love languages beyond physical lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:49 PM
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Just be careful and stay safe. Your safety and dignity is more important than finding a HVM.☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:48 PM
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When I think of age gaps, I always ask myself if I'd date someone who was that much younger. Would you date a 19year old at 26? I personally wouldn't. Rubs me the wrong way. Men always go after younger women because they're easier to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:47 PM
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I visibly cringed. Disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:43 PM
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You got a point. Although he liberal man will say he wishes he could sew the mouth shut of a woman who's politics is considered Bad. (like how many liberal men go crazy with misogyny when talking about how they wanna rape, mutilate and kill Those women) I also think the majority of people believe a woman is at fault if she's raped, some of them just don't voice it out loud. Liberal men hold all the same beliefs as conservative men, they're just more manipulative with how they justify it. Like ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:38 PM
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Ah I dealt with this. Y'know, he seemed really nice and all, very great guy, but didn't understand the boundaries I had developed because of past trauma. Granted my boundaries might be a lot more serious than others (no sleeping in the same bed, we need different rooms and my door is locked at night, etc) I still think they should be respected and a real HVM would understand that he has to gain my trust over time. Sorry but I'm not sharing my bed with any man nor am I letting myself be at my mos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:35 PM
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This is a good point but I think the rule of not diverging your past abuse is to protect you and your privacy as well. It's never good for too many men to know of your private history like that and if you use it to weed out LVM, too many men will end up knowing. I think bringing up the subject of past abuse affecting women to see what his opinion on 'traumatized' women is. (sorry Idk how to articulate this better) Sometimes it's better to use a proxy to find out how a man would react to your pas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:29 PM
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Yes, that's true! His desire to keep up the act of feminist means he can be manipulated into at least being superficially feminist. I always resist the urge to put feminist as 'feminist' when discussing a feminist man lmao. Predators disguising themselves smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:09 PM
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Yes, I've noticed how often black women get their style stolen. Even drag-queens seem to basically copy the mannerism of black women and turn it into some kind of joke. I remember someone once saying a black woman was 'acting like a drag queen', meanwhile it's drag queens who act like her. And black-fishing is also a big thing now. It never ends smh I'm glad you're doing so well now and I'm sure you're an inspiration to your students. Just being able to witness a strong woman can have a huge imp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:18 AM
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Sometimes you meet a guy who's a combo of 2 types or more but rarely since NV/LVM are usually two dimensional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:08 AM
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'I have no standards, pick me! uwu' But...do you Really want to get picked by these men you're trying to appeal to? I'm really curious about these types of cool girls, like...why do you want to appeal to bottom-dwelling males? If you're jumping over backwards because you're trying to attract some HVM, okay sure you want that quality and don't care for be courted first I get it, but...these women are not trying to win quality men. So why...why....why do you want some loser who's pornsick, can't g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:06 AM
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'please don't stop' -male finishes- 'please stop- -male becomes more enthusiastic- I've done it, I've summarized men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:59 PM
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I know right😭 Thank you, mods. This is truly a safe space for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:37 PM
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God, black women get shit on since day fucking one, don't they? By their own mothers, by their own men(love the colorism), by their brothers, by their sisters(always fighting over men), jesus. Where do you find solidarity in such a world? This reminds me how the foreveralonewoman subreddit would have occasional posts like 'foreveralone because I'm ugly or because I'm black?' or 'is anyone here not ugly but just black?' You can be a straight up decent looking black woman and end up alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:17 PM
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I see you've put above Feminist man above Conservative man BUT does the feminist man not consider women public property? Isn't being private property better than being public property? I know shit is shit no matter what, but I'm just curious. I've seen the idea that going for a conservative man is better than a liberal since if you get a 'good' one, he'll at least fulfill some duties as a traditional husband whereas the liberal man will do jackshit and demand 50/50 while bringing nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:12 PM
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Nothing but truth here. And telling a man you're feminist just gives him information to manipulate you. Now all he's gotta do is say the right 'feminist' things to win you over. Hell, he probably doesn't even have to say anything feminist, he'll just say he's a feminist too and women will swoon lmao Fuck, reminds me of this interview with a rapper and at the end, the interviewer was like 'are you a feminist?' and he's like 'if that means I believe women should get equal treatment, sure than yeah…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:03 PM
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Our female instinct is to be picky and women get their instincts brainwashed out of them. I'm starting to see why men say they 'tame' us or 'domesticate' us or even 'break us in' They know what they're doing. Our natural instincts are very unfavorable to low value men(we are naturally disloyal to men, instead we are meant to be attracted to the 'winners' and the stronger males) and I'd write a whole post about it if I felt I could articulate myself well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:08 PM
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😬😬😬 Happened to a cousin of mine. Her ex worked in IT and she was paranoid he was hacking into her laptop and stuff, she kept claiming her mouse would move on its own and all kinds of shit. She struggled with privacy, I think. It was so long ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:53 PM
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I- I don't even know what to say. This is a puppy...and these men immediately think of porn. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:36 PM
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For sure, no discussing dating with men, period. No details, don't let them know what you expect from a man, don't mention your type, etc. Nada. Don't talk about your love life at all with any man. I think women sometimes get caught up in seeking validation/praise from others about their choices since we're constantly shit on. We're human, we like positive attention, but it will only work against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:34 PM
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No need to be passive-aggressive over nothing🤷‍♀ if you wanna be a dick to other women just because than this isn't the place for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:27 PM
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Why does this feel like next level roasting😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:45 PM
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Agree 100%. Or even just act nonchalant about politics like some Cool Girl. Men can't help running their mouth eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:43 PM
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And Uncle Toms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:39 PM
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It wasn't advice tho. Sure, no one is perfect but like I said, it was just tone-deaf, that's all. if something shit happened to you, I doubt you'd wanna hear someone say 'well I would never put myself in that position lol' yeah I definitely have lol. I used to say shit like this too until I tried being more compassionate. It's hard, man. Unfortunately, most women do not vet men and put themselves in dumbass situations with men who showed 89342 red flags. Women be out here marrying straight up ps…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:38 PM
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The 'ow slow down' caused him to climax, says enough. Men love knowing they hurt you with their dick. It's the ultimate compliment, that his dick is just so big it hurts. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:22 PM
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Past sexual abuse, especially if it happened when you were young, seems to turn sick men on. They imagine they were the ones who did it to you when they fuck you. There have been plenty of posts on the sex subreddit about this shit, I never would've believed it if I hadn't seen it. Men asking their gfs if they can roleplay their past CHILDHOOD sexual abuse. I just can't with it. The level of absolute depravity. I'm sorry that happened to you, I hope he dies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:19 PM
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Vetting forever! This makes me sound crazy but sometimes I think before women have a child with men, they should pretend to be pregnant and see how the man behaves. I am so sick of men doing a 180 on woman soon as she's knocked up. Every fucking time. Every time! Ladies, trial run these bastards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:55 PM
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Women still have slave-mentality. So long as it persists, we will never get anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:51 PM
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Your post in xchromosmes is kind of tone-deaf though. The last bit 'I would never date a man who forces himself on me' is just...okay? He obviously never raped her before but did now that they're married. Zero need to talk about how You would never date a man like that, it's irrelevant to this poor woman looking for comfort and advice. Plenty of women on FDS have suffered at the hands of their husbands who suddenly turned into absolute losers. Men lie and hide who they are for literal years and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:49 PM
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In all seriousness, women need to vet their male friends as well. Women should be vetting every male that comes into their lives. The story of her 3 friends gangraping her, jesus. As everyone else has said, he was clearly not a HVM from the get-go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:43 PM
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If a man doesn't have the guts to court and approach you, do you really wanna be with him lol ...I say as I get very annoyed at the idea of a man having the audacity to approach me because he assumes I'm in his league lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:14 PM
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He's gonna do this to her as soon as an opportunity presents itself. He'll 'lose his temper' or in the 'heat of the moment' during sex, he'll pull this shit. Imagine going to bed with a man who gets a dopamine rush from thinking of slapping and choking the shit out of you. I so wish I could save women like this but the majority of them won't listen to reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:59 AM
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Men hijacking women's pain is so common, I'm sorry that happened to you. That man was a parasite. Sometimes I think men claim rape is consensual because they failed to protect 'their woman' so it's easier to say it was just consensual than to admit they failed as a protector. Men and their faux protector complexes are a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:54 AM
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Also please remember a LVM will work you to death until you're old age then trade you in for a new, younger one. You will not be rewarded for your suffering. It's happened 4 times now in my family and it's just shocking how pathetic men have become. I'm sick of losing good women to marriage. Ya'll have more to offer the world than being some dude's bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:37 PM
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I thought this the other day as well! Whenever men get comfortable, they behave in such stereotypical feminine ways. We're seeing this today since our lives are a lot more 'cushy' than our forefathers, in retrospect. It's true when they say everything men say about women applies to men and not women. Women run households, they manage things, they keep their emotions to themselves so they don't break down and because they're the backbone of the family and must remain strong. It's why those breaki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:33 PM
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Back when I lurked, I saw a few commenters say they wouldn't date a man who didn't call himself a feminist. Yeah, those ones calling themselves a feminist are the ones you wanna avoid. A man's actions are more important than his words and if he's calling himself a feminist, it's usually to lure you into a false sense of security. Now he doesn't have to do the hard work of 'proving' he thinks women are equal. He said he believes so and you believed him. Just another trick. ngl 'feminist' men can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:26 PM
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Had this exact thought today. Most women suffer from 'not like other girl' syndrome. They cannot and will not identify with other women. It's frustrating how if you acknowledge this behavior in women, you're demonstrating 'internalized misogyny'. Like nah, those of us who have dealt with real life know it's true. Women cannot be saved because they don't want to be. So long as women choose to remain ignorant of the male's true nature, they can play the victim whenever bad things happen to them. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 11:20 PM
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