..did anybody see this?

AyemHerself · 2021-08-13T01:06:28+00:00

Guys like this love to talk about "if the roles were reversed" as if they weren't by default.

So many male-run subs are everything these critics accuse FDS of being, and most of them are shielded from criticism because "it's just their opinion." Which is technically all that FDS poster shared. When a certain sub about "good men" gets in their crosshairs, I'll start believing their cries for "equality" are genuine.

Spiritual_Cockroach · 2021-08-13T02:42:52+00:00

I love how he says "imagine if the roles were reversed".... Yeah wow IMAGINE. It's almost like there are MULTIPLE SUBS dedicated to making sexist comments about women and actively discussing how men can get away with manipulating, murdering and raping them, but yeah gosh IMAGINE if men had a sub like FDS just shitting on women and being sexist!! 🙄

fleuretpomme · 2021-08-12T18:13:04+00:00

Weird that he had a problem with that but not the man attracted to his daughter's 15 year old female friends. Keep talking and proving the point. I sure wish I had his life where womens suffering at the hands of men is an abstract talking point to debate and not my everyday lived experience. Stats don't lie, an overwhelming majority of men commit violent crime and are one of the causes of female mortality rates.

Dude needs to shut up and get back to wanking his little dick because women won't ever touch it.

ETA: Isn't he breaking the brigading rule mentioning the sub name directly? 🤔

Cersei_Is_My_Queen · 2021-08-12T19:30:20+00:00

I just looked at that post and the comments have A LOT of women (and a few men) who are actually defending us :o I guess we're getting some good exposure lol

Men keep reposting FDS everywhere out of rage but they fail to realize its why we're actually getting more popular 😂 My god, they really do lack critical thinking.

frustratedmarxistfem · 2021-08-12T18:25:40+00:00

The fact that he wrote so many words and not one of them was condemning the men who made the original post

feminologie_ · 2021-08-12T18:53:25+00:00

I love how they conveniently ignore all of the posts where we praise HVM. Where FDS women who have HV partners tell us about their healthy, loving and fulfilling marriages/relationships. We very clearly separate good men from bad men. They are triggered because they identify with the posts where we bash LVM.. Because that's what they are, low value scrotes.

howdoilogoutt · 2021-08-12T20:18:23+00:00

Lol yep they are so deluded there's so many subs dedicated to sexual violence against women and children and yet they're mad at a female centred sub.

thatshadywitch · 2021-08-12T19:48:56+00:00

They are mad cause it's true lmao.

Aocwannabe · 2021-08-12T18:09:13+00:00

This made me 😂🤣 He made FDS’s point for us when he went into his role reversal paragraph.🤣 Kyle, every day the media does tell women we are 💩, they just fancier language than your expletive laden potty mouth and brain can comprehend.

Status_Theory_726 · 2021-08-12T21:07:15+00:00

imagine if the roles were reversed

yeah, imagine that....

finalbosskitten · 2021-08-12T20:14:47+00:00

That poster is being really emotionally manipulative! Wow. I don't see "men should literally just kill themselves" here, yet he tries morally dunking on us: "Haha! You say men are creeps! Well, maybe we should ALL DIE THEN!!1111" Even though, aside from the meanest criticism, FDS has always been more towards self-improvement for men.

I find it extremely interesting that pedo-dad took the martyr approach too "it takes me effort and convictions to not throw myself on hot teens uwu". Not saying they're the same, but it's blatantly obvious this rhetoric really works on the hivemind; the subversion of expectation keeps everyone on the hook. Literally a pseudo-threat is being awarded in spades annnd everyone sees no issue with it. Okay, Reddit, okay.

seraphinelysion · 2021-08-13T02:03:57+00:00

I'd like to point out that ever since news broke about all the shady shit priests were doing to kids and how the churches covered it all up for probably decades, the world over has made this a running joke. We see a priest and just automatically think, "Yeah, he probably diddled some kid before," and it's a total normal reaction to have because there is TRUTH behind it. And yet, no one thinks society is toxic for doing this. 🤷‍♀️

But when we hurt men's feelings, suddenly it's toxic! Suddenly, it's a problem!

Cersei_Is_My_Queen · 2021-08-12T18:56:01+00:00

My post literally got reposted on so many manosphere subreddits lol looks like I hit a nerve for speaking the truth. Whoops 🙊 Had to block my DM’s because I got so many angry messages from ZERO testosterone scrotes who spend all their time stalking a women’s forum. I honestly don’t understand how they made it past evolution and natural selection 🤢

Almost every women have faced harassment by older men when they were young teens. Every single one of us. B-b-but “not all men” right? Even the men who don’t act out on their pedophilic desires still have it. They even say it’s biology and any man who disagrees is just lying. Straight outta the horses mouth lol

They’ll admit this THEMSELVES but when we say it, they gaslight us and say it’s not true LOL

EDIT: WOW looks like I really did trigger all of Reddit. They’re reposting it like wildfire lol I’m glad though. It means many women will see the post and actually it will give FDS a lot of exposure.

TONS of women are defending my post haha they called out OP for only posting my caption about 99% of men being pedos but not having the guts to post my screenshots. How convenient am i right? He doesn't have the guts to post my screenshots because then hes pretty much proving my point. Instead, he's just going to post my caption and cry about it LOL

catenabler · 2021-08-12T18:13:00+00:00

interesting.

so we are a toxic sub reddit for saying how disgusting it is that all these men in that thread are openly admitting to being attracted to underage girls.

scrote logic.

OrangeyPanda · 2021-08-12T19:05:48+00:00

They're literally defending pedophiles and saying we're the toxic ones 😂😂😂 you can't make this shit up. Creep logic.

corago513 · 2021-08-12T20:02:10+00:00

Sounds like he has a solution to the problem. I see no issues here 🤣🤣🤣

queen-wannabe · 2021-08-12T18:01:26+00:00

Original FDS post https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p2h1zt/men_admit_to_being_sexually_attracted_to_their_15/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

giftofnocondemnation · 2021-08-12T18:58:27+00:00

Imagine how many women are going to be rescued here because of that post.

thatjimmylove · 2021-08-12T18:17:54+00:00

They are so mad about it, but they won't do anything about. If it's not all men, then all men must stop this behaviour in its tracks and never let it persist. Where's your outrage to all the CP or teen oriented subreddits, the jailbait tags, the disgusting perverted loli communities??

Where is all of that, oh you don't care? that's what I thought. I can not and will not tolerate this behaviour and if you are not actively against it you are with it, and Women have every right to condemn the collective culture.

everythingandlove · 2021-08-12T18:14:26+00:00

Wow! Do these men have no lives?? To be so concerned and bothered by some women who have standards, that takes another level of depravity. Why do they even care? They prove our every point, it’s hilarious.

ArugulaIsAwesome · 2021-08-13T02:53:44+00:00

I’m confused, he said “imagine if the roles were reversed” and there were forums that speak about women as if they were one singular group.

Except there are several forums EXACTLY like that!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Fetus92 · 2021-08-12T18:21:11+00:00

I mean where’s the lie though?

Men do generally suck, they are generally depraved in some way, and it’s safer for us to assume all men are dangerous until proven otherwise.

I don’t understand (actually I do; see sentence above) why men get so butthurt over women trying to encourage other women to seek healthy fulfilling relationships, be safe, and desire positive attributes from a partner.

If a relationship isn’t bringing more positives than just being alone then it ain’t worth it, and if a man were to say this it’d be universally understood, but because we (THE AUDACITY OF WOMEN /s) say we only want to be in a relationship that brings more positives than being single by removing toxic, good for nothing, emotionally unavailable, pornsick, mom-wife wanting men… Well clearly we hate men and are toxic and want men to go extinct. Makes so much sense.

RecentSprinkles5997 · 2021-08-12T18:33:20+00:00

Lol imagine as if incel subreddits didn’t used to frequently make the front page back in the day

Sallou9 · 2021-08-12T19:45:28+00:00

So we have 3 different posts that happened:

A man says he is attracted to his daughters friends. Makes weird comments about his own daughter ("Im not into her like that" - the fact one even has to say that...)
A FDS poster posts about it saying "wtf- this is fucked". Indulges in a bit of hyperbole saying 99% men might be like this. The comments, however, are mostly filled with criticism that a man saying he wants to fuck his daughters 15 year old friends is met with upvotes, "understanding" and general frustration that stuff like this isn't called out for the vileness it is.
A man posts about the FDS thread- calling FDS toxic because of the hyperbolic title.

Guess which 2 get upvotes, awards, comments, agreements and discussion?

The fact that they aren't viewing "1" as worthy of the same attention and outrage as "2" is making FDSs point. The hyperbole in "2"s title came about precisely due to frustration that the vast majority of men don't seem adequately outraged or plussed by "1". When we see men say what was said in "1", and men upvote, award and agree in comments, and then when thread "2" brings this to light, and none of these men seem anywhere near as outraged by "1" as by "2"- its easy to think "WTF? Why do men not think this is a big deal? Why are they acting like a frustrated post about it is worthy of using words like Toxic? BUT NOT ACTUAL GROWN MEN WANTING TO FUCK 15 YEAR OLD FRIENDS OF THEIR KIDS." Then no wonder some conclude "are most men just ok with this/into it themselves?".

Because I cannot understand why the title of post "2", as OTT as it might look to some people (I'll even say understandablely), is more toxic or outrageous than the first post, and specifically the fact that the first post didnt get pushback. And that posts like the first one are made all the time, and we just see men on here ALL THE TIME be like "yeah, me too bro. Its ok. Its normal. Its ok. Yourre so brave". And none of these men want to talk about how toxic male behaviour and sexuality is getting?

abirdofthesky · 2021-08-12T18:34:01+00:00

Why are internet men so obsessed with being thought a pedophile? Why are they so concerned about our reactions to awful behavior and never* concerned about how the awful behavior itself?

*the few times they do express concern it’s to perform actively talk about how they’d beat the guy up. Not like…listen to or help the victim. Nope, it has to center their feelings.

Also do they not know what hyperbole and gallows humor is?

dkwantsdk · 2021-08-13T01:26:41+00:00

"imagine if the roles were reversed." But they're not.

Lonlinessandtitties · 2021-08-13T04:57:02+00:00

Hey! I got hate mail on Reddit for commenting on this post pointing out how he ignored the cosigning of pedos to call FDS a hate sub.

I'm super proud.

Maingurl · 2021-08-13T04:35:48+00:00

Me to him: Si te pica te aplica!

relationship_reddit · 2021-08-13T05:39:59+00:00

I also think that 99% of men are pedophiles.

shockingupdate · 2021-08-12T19:07:59+00:00

They showered that post in awards 😂 Like awarding this take is going to make them look less pedophilic

queeninprogress · 2021-08-13T04:29:07+00:00

Here's the thing: it's not just that one post is it? Those posts by those men are part of a wider pattern. Stfu with the "not all men". Women KNOW that, we've been forced to hear it every time we notice a disturbing pattern in male behaviour, and men always get more pissed at us for noticing the pattern than at the bad behaviour in question we've noticed.

Illustrious_Dream751 · 2021-08-13T08:05:01+00:00

Damn I tried commenting there but they already locked it lol. The comments section was a mess. Men just don't understand FDS. It's like they get triggered and go full amygdala

mothboon · 2021-08-13T04:35:42+00:00

I'm glad they posted this because I wouldn't have found this subreddit otherwise! Everything I've seen here so far is exactly what I've been trying to articulate for years now and it's so powerful to find other women who have had enough.

HumanAdhesiveness360 · 2021-08-13T04:36:02+00:00

Sexist, LMFAOO. No such thing, just 99.9% women with BAD experiences

MamaGia · 2021-08-12T19:06:33+00:00

Hahaha "imagine" there are sites discussing how awful women are? They exist man - and you know this because you likely post there.

And women don't just get called names because they rejected - they get killed you piece of shit.

Fuck off.

suckmypussy143 · 2021-08-13T03:32:36+00:00

Lol they should drop dead the world would be better off

modernmedusaa · 2021-08-13T12:00:10+00:00

Classic smearing and immature, guys probably sold 14yr old basement incel & has no clue about womens real lives.

Thing is - the stats and crime stories don’t lie.

See Violent sexual crimes recorded in the EU by Eurostat

‘More than 9 in 10 rape victims and more than 8 in 10 sexual assault victims were girls and women, while nearly all those imprisoned for such crimes were male (99%)’

https://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/web/products-eurostat-news/-/edn-20171123-1

Where is THE LIE?

Despite their screeching most get away with it too- it’s difficult to prove consent to the court of law.

Only 1.6% of rape cases made it to court in the U.K. last year and these scrotes still screech about false allegations!

That’s because when the lazy sexist police and pathetic courts fail to get a conviction - they expect victims to stay quiet.

So most real cases don’t even make it to court.

The law isn’t even fit for purpose.

Most men are watching pedophile content though - the numbers don’t lie

Teen and incest have been the top porn categories or years now . Funnily enough birth rates have sharply declined in that time....

Whereas lesbian porn is most popular among women - tho women watch far less than men. Men frequently create fake female accounts to skew the stats.

Britain is the third largest consumer of live-streamed child abuse worldwide. That is just disgusting and not even surprising at this point.

They get bored & have to escalate to the next degenerate thing.

Why would we want children with trash like that? Especially with stingy 50/50 scrotes?

It’s not our fault men have gotten more degenerate to the point they offer little incentive or value - they created porn and pushed for hookup culture.

They are behind the direction of most major news outlets and social media sites.

It is pretty common place for men to consume extreme porn content now and theres various articles & studies as to how this makes men more violent, affects their brain and is driving an epidemic of paedophiles, serial cheats and child abusers. Evidence linked on the wiki in the side bar

paperwasp3 · 2021-08-13T03:38:22+00:00

I tried to talk sense to a couple of guys, but they just can’t get over what they saw, compared it to themselves, and lost their shit. Sometimes it hardly seems worth the effort. But I do it anyways.

Poorfck · 2021-08-13T06:14:42+00:00

I stopped reading after "imagine if the roles were reversed".

Davina33 · 2021-08-12T19:17:11+00:00

Ooh, possible paedophile being called out? Interesting that it's that specific post that got to him. I really don't care what lies people tell about this sub. Probably some incel pissed MGTOW got nuked.

razseh · 2021-08-12T18:37:29+00:00

Lol, did they swap that stat around? 99% of men aren’t rapists or pedophiles, but 99% (well, knock a few percentages off) of rapists and pedophiles are men!

ItsFreezen · 2021-08-12T19:28:00+00:00

Gaslighting FDS members into pretending they never experience Toxic Males isn't helping there cause.

zombiessalad · 2021-08-12T19:38:53+00:00

Ahh yes the whole “imagine if the roles were reversed” bullshit argument. As if men experience the same oppressions as women. That argument has no footing. Men will never know what it’s like being a woman, and women won’t know what it’s like being a man. If the roles were truly reversed, we’d live in a matriarchy. If men made a subreddit criticizing women’s behavior (which is what, every predominately male subreddit?) Then they would still be living in a patriarchal society where their rights are perceived differently from women’s. They would still be able to walk down the street and not have to worry about the threat of a woman harassing or assaulting them. Men don’t fear women like women fear men. That’s just a fact of life. Men are afraid of what, being rejected, laughed at, stolen from? We are talking about pedophiles and abusers on this sub majority of the time, rejection is meaningless to us. We have so much more shit on our plates to worry about than whether a man would prefer to fuck us or not.

Melanin-Misanthrope · 2021-08-12T18:13:25+00:00

There are stats showing that over 95% of men are pedophiles (and many other things)
I really hope his last sentence comes true bc then the world could truly be a happy place🥰
It’s like he gets it (with his last sentence) but then they never do it😢😢 (they’re all still here)
I think it’s funny that he’s so mad finding out that most men don’t bring any value to the world.

munissa · 2021-08-12T19:24:19+00:00

LOL. Right. We are the problem. Apparently it’s cause of the “1 douche” that we group “99% of men” to being rapist/pedophiles but not the fact that, that “1 douche” is being applauded and backed up by the men on reddit. And that 80% of relationship advice/AITA/confessions posts (throwing a high % since I’m not going to actually fact check but using it based on experience) are literally how a man is emotionally, financially, physically or all of the above abusive towards a woman/how a man has pedo thoughts or is doing something creepy/shady towards a child/how a man is doing something completely unsanitary.

sorshii · 2021-08-13T10:43:39+00:00

The only way I can read that is by doing it in an angry incel voice, something like ben shapiro. IMAGINE IF THE ROLES WERE REVERSED...

505-Minute-Drive · 2021-08-12T19:31:42+00:00

Awww is the wittle baby upset over men making THEMSELVES look bad? Cope with it scrotes, you're only making us stronger with the free advertising 🤣

andwhenwillitbegin · 2021-08-12T19:40:38+00:00

Thanks for the free marketing, scrotes. 😘💅

greatmoonlight21 · 2021-08-13T14:31:17+00:00

So we are toxic for trying to protect ourselves from men? Who might I add shit on us physically, emotionally, and mentally constantly?

Anyone see a pattern there

FineDeliciousSnakes · 2021-08-13T11:58:05+00:00

Pedo males standing up for other pedo males!! In other news, water is wet

tonha_da_pamonha · 2021-08-12T19:40:12+00:00

Yes, please talk more crap about us! That way all your poor girlfriends find out we exist, thus discovering the light in the darkness! Lol I love how more and more women are putting up with less and less crap 💩

2021-08-13T01:37:32+00:00

LVMs do not know how to formulate a solid argument lol. There are so many incomparable, obvious differences within the aspects he's using as examples. Notice the whiny manipulative line at the end 👀👀

ChanelOberlin2015 · 2021-08-13T12:41:52+00:00

"There are shitty people of all genders" What? What he wants to say is "women do it toooooo!!!!!" He's not talking about... Pansexuals or some shit

DeorisGrey · 2021-08-13T18:02:24+00:00

My my, look at all the awards he got. Round of applause for the poor guy who got his feelings hurt for being compared to a paedophile. I'm sure he believes he's a victim of misandry, even though he's not afraid to leave the house because a crazy woman might shoot him, rape him or beat him to a pulp...

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-08-14T01:01:44+00:00

Tell me you don't understand hyperbole without saying you don't understand hyperbole

Title	..did anybody see this?
Author	queen-wannabe
Upvotes	915
Comments	134
Date	August 12, 2021 5:55 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p354mi/did_anybody_see_this/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/did-anybody-see-this.958681 https://theredarchive.com/post/958681

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