| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 388 | Screenshot of a comment under a YouTube video titled: "Mrs. America" and the fight over the ERA | REMINDER 👑 | greatmoonlight21 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:19 PM |
| 2 | A visual representation of my standards. I want someone as caring as I am. | LEVEL UP | greatmoonlight21 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:56 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 31 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileOff topic, but it fucking terrifies me how normal he seems. This case really slapped me in the face and woke me up to just how many abusers could be around me. And I would never know. It's so chilling. I'm permanently staying away from men for my own safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:46 AM |
| 42 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.Also Seungri’s case absolutely disgusted me. These idols aren’t as innocent as they look | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:25 PM |
| 141 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Same here. Someone said it was a "female incel sub" and I was like how the hell is that possible? Checked it out and lo and behold, it was the exact antithesis of an incel sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:03 AM |
| 134 | Pakistan Horror: Crazy entitlement and depravity and victim-blaming and gross animalistic behavior - All wrapped in oneAs a Pakistani woman, this is exactly why I refuse to date south asian men. When you’re born into a culture like this, there’s no way you can make it out without being a misogynistic monster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:38 PM |
| 21 | Learned the reality of male friends the hard way todayScreenshot it and send it to his employers or someone he is close with and let them know about this sexual harassment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 01:48 AM |
| 116 | Old as dirt scrote tries to hit on much younger (and richer) woman at gym. She acts like a Queen 👑She’s 19 and a multimillionaire. When will men learn to date people on their level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 30 | All the Plymouth shooter apologists right nowI come from the same background! That’s why it’s so hard for me to read it haha. I don’t know why I’m putting myself through this, but I know I want to read it at some point. But yeah I can see myself in Mariam’s shoes here and there and I have to put the book down often and then come back to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 82 | All the Plymouth shooter apologists right nowJust finished Kite Runner and started A Thousand Splendid Suns today. Khaled Hosseini is a splendid writer but right now it’s so hard getting through Mariam’s story. He does a phenomenal job of writing from a woman’s perspective though and delving into how women are constantly put down by so many different systems in place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 198 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑If I showed up to a date and the dude spends the entire time trying to teach me something about his own interest, I would ask the gods above to just evaporate me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 51 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.I'm angry too. So angry. And no laws will be passed. Nothing will be done to protect us. It's wearing on my mental health so damn much. I'm so tired of being a woman in a man's world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 09:38 PM |
| 12 | ..did anybody see this?So we are toxic for trying to protect ourselves from men? Who might I add shit on us physically, emotionally, and mentally constantly? Anyone see a pattern there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:31 PM |
| 9 | How a scrote just replied to me on a discussion re: sexual harassment & objectificationThey will make any stupid ass analogy to avoid taking accountability | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 53 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.This is just a guide for how to manipulate and bring down women. The fact that some men genuinely follow this advice is worrisome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 38 | Men are jealous of women's successIt actually makes me so happy to see them twist and turn and get all riled up by a woman’s success. Times are changing, and thank god for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 168 | Left-wing men are just as misogynistic as right-wing menShe’s so right. For the longest time I was confused as to how progressive men could tout feminist language and still act in sexist ways. It turns out that misogyny is so much more deeply ingrained into us than we thought. They quite literally don’t see us as people and only talk about feminism when they are talking about supporting sex workers. Other than that, they’ll stay silent about the plights women face. Their feminism is very surface level. It’s only enough so that women will praise them … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:37 PM |
| 8 | "WoMeN WeRe hAPpY JuSt In ThE 1950's WhEn ThEy WeRe MoThErS AnD WiVeS"A lot of women never liked their husbands. They just didn’t have a choice because of societal pressure and financial constraints. Sadly these limitations still exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:02 PM |
| 18 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsThat’s so sad. You deserve someone on your same level or higher | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:14 PM |
| 14 | CALL 👏 PORN ADDICTS 👏 OUT👏 I was so happily surprised to see this on Zara Larson’s Instagram storyI love that she’s using her platform to speak out about this! I’m seeing more people start to become aware of how harmful the porn industry is, hopefully things will change for the better in the coming years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 12:04 PM |
| 19 | Anyone else absolutely hate posts like these? There's just so much to unpack here.He'll feel bad for us and then proceed to do absolutely nothing tangible to help women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 05:01 PM |
| -17 | Why DO modern mums hate motherhood? From BBC's Motherland to memoirs on the misery of parentingHistory shapes the present | /r/MensRights | 15/07/21 09:19 PM |
| -21 | Why DO modern mums hate motherhood? From BBC's Motherland to memoirs on the misery of parentingDid you just say white people exist in a world they have no control over? Looks like someone failed their history lesson | /r/MensRights | 15/07/21 07:31 PM |
| 24 | “New phone, who dis”-ed a guy who ghosted me for 3 weeks after a first dateIt’s always gotta be a guy named sean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 12:48 AM |
| 32 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???Wait a second. Why does it say "we are not currently interested in your services" at the bottom in small font? Who is we?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Eye-OpeneningWe all grow at our own pace. Welcome! I too found this sub because of men shitting on it, and it's honestly the best sub I've ever found. It's just good vibes and lots of support in here :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 240 | God help the woman married to this manI hope that child goes to a concert on the day of his funeral just to be petty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:42 PM |
| 15 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢That's so incredibly sad. He's extremely selfish and irrational. Age indeed does not bring automatic wisdom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 11 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒I think you shouldn't post this because honestly that video is pretty irrelevant and shouldn't get exposure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:13 PM |
| 176 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)This makes me so sad. Imagine how many brilliant women could never make their mark in the world because of the burdens they faced as wives and mothers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 64 | Please, sign this petition!! https://t.co/vtYfrSVCGT?amp=1If they rule against her, I better see all of France protest in their usual fashion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:44 PM |
| 17 | Just started talking to this guy on Hinge (28M) and he's already tryna make me (22F) his motherI- is he trying to scare you away? At least they tell on themselves but come on, they really lack that much self awareness? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:08 PM |
| 21 | Women are getting it now. Slowly but surely.I genuinely love kids. They make me happier with their sweet innocence and I feel like I have a connection with them. But being realistic, it just doesn’t help me to have kids. I get no large benefit out of it, and it’ll just cost me time, energy, and money that I don’t have. At this rate, not having kids isn’t even a choice anymore but a necessity for us to survive. The economy is collapsing, climate change is getting worse, women’s rights aren’t getting anywhere, etc. so I think it would be se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 12:03 PM |
| 25 | LOCK THEM ALL AWAY! Time to celebrate this success!Did you post it in more popular subreddits? This is huge and I remember reading about this case a while ago. I hope more people are exposed to the realities young women face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:37 PM |
| 21 | LOCK THEM ALL AWAY! Time to celebrate this success!Should've been longer. 20 years is nothing compared to the lives he ruined. But still a success. Hooray! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:32 PM |
| 6 | On porn and sex workIn general, I don't even trust men who claim to be allies to women. I look at their actions to determine that. I've known way too many men proudly exclaim that they are a feminist just to get with women and manipulate them by playing the nice guy act | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:18 PM |
| 20 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.I'm the same age as Billie and always idolized her for standing up to the media and speaking out against people sexualizing women. Seeing this happen and her recent 180 makes me feel sad and worried for her and other girls who see this as normal. The industry is run by pedophiles, and I hope she makes it out okay. What a sad world we live in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 14 | I just love everything about this absolute Queen!!“That’s what they do with demons” LMAO sis isn’t playing around and I love that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 02:27 AM |
| 12 | I have no wordsMy blood pressure skyrocketed from reading this. Thank god I don't have a stupid man like this in my life, because I just know I would've ended up in jail. How insensitive of him to mock her during a painful experience. I can already see this ending in a divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:28 PM |
| 137 | My friend's mom just told me, "the only anti-aging skincare you need is sunscreen and staying away from men who give you stress"I remember seeing that too! I believe she was a European woman, and I vividly remember her being quoted saying the secret was to stay away from men. Haven't forgotten that since | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 160 | Thought this belonged here. Do you know the difference, lurkers? 🙃Makes me wonder how many people actually have healthy sex Not sure if it's just me but it seems so rare for that to happen these days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:57 PM |
| 49 | Why age gap relationships ain’t no good 😀👎🏼I saw that TikTok too. So many comments defending the relationship even though many pointed out that it was wrong. That girl and anyone else believing that’s normal are in for a rude awakening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 01:58 AM |
| 12 | UNICEF Report Says Pornography Not Always Harmful to ChildrenUNICEF is literally the most useless organization ever They sit on their asses during any crisis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Worst proposal ideas 💀My favorite TikToker! I love her and her witty humor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 09:42 PM |
| 5 | It's ALL men.You should write a book. This really hit me hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:35 PM |
| 7 | Wish I found this sub before being baby trapped.It breaks my heart when so many women are clearly in need of the advice FDS gives and aren't able to see what is happening to them until it's too late. Women on TikTok, women on Reddit, everywhere. I can't help but think how their lives could be different had they found this sub before getting into a relationship. What you're going through is difficult, and it's not your fault this is happening. It's entirely his fault, and I really hope you find the peace and safety you need soon. Stay strong, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 60 | Am I surprised ?Currently reading Caliban and the Witch, and it does a superb job of highlighting Europe’s transition to capitalism and it’s ties to devaluing women’s work for the sake of cheap labor (so essentially slavery). We got absolutely no compensation for the domestic labor we were required to do, including the work of reproducing and raising future laborers to fuel the economy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 12:09 AM |
| 23 | TIL anything about a woman can be sexualized, even her periodPoor girl. Her pain was dismissed because all the boy wanted out of her was pleasure. Completely dehumanized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 39 | Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!!Holy shit. I’m baffled at how men don’t even try to hide what pieces of shit they are. I have heard so many stories of women dating men for multiple years and then one day they ghost them or start seeing other women. Like how?? You feel no connection to your significant other? No guilt?? You’re that brainwashed to see women as products? It’s insane and makes me feel so hopeless and sad for the state of the world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:22 PM |
| 4 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.Great now how do I make sure every male in the world sees this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 21 | lol 💀💀Never met an attractive man. When I get closer I see the scruffy body hair, the greasy hair, smell their body odor, see their grimy skin, and I can’t fathom ever touching him I’ve only ever been attracted to men who are celebrities and have to take care of themselves, but that’s literally it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 48 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.Second this. It’s the only space on reddit I feel so comfortable and safe in. Women supporting women is beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 12:28 AM |
| 4 | FDS changed my life at 23. Thank you infinitely ♥️As another brown sister currently in university, this is really inspiring! You’re killing it and I hope to follow in your footsteps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:17 PM |
| 16 | Including men in feminism is how liberal feminism happenedSaved this comment because you explained the problem so eloquently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:59 AM |
| 9 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseI just wanna live in a big house with a few of my close friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 11:22 PM |
| 16 | I left yesterday- this sub gave me the last push of strength!Congratulations, and cheers to a future filled with peace! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:06 PM |
| 3 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’He wouldn’t be saying that if he intended to actually take care of his kids. Not surprised though. Society is filled with failed, neglectful fathers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:31 AM |
| 6 | How to talk to menAll her posts are hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:02 AM |
| 6 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutionThis something I’ve noticed as well. I like dressing nice and presenting myself as beautiful because it’s easier to make friends and interact with the world, but I don’t want male’s to enjoy the sight of me. Dressing cottagecore and catering to soft feminine styles has really helped me with this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 22 | Scrotes Are Mad 🗣😂This entire post has me wheezing. Explains a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.That poor woman. I feel so hopeless and sad reading this. This man ruined her entire life and everything she worked for. Pregnancy is no joke, and fuck that bastard for playing the victim here. He did this to himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:41 AM |
| 28 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menCan I join? I’m dead serious. I want to live in a secluded part of the world without men in it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 107 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)I read one of his books, Kite Runner, over the summer and was blown away. I remember distinctly when he pointed out the double standards between men and women and how women are always scrutinized for their societal interactions but men aren’t. That never left me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Hi ladies, I just got accepted to pursue my doctorate in occupational therapy. I am going to be a doctor. The first one of my family. I am so proud of my work paying off.That’s amazing girlfriend! So proud of you, keeping working to make yourself and your family proud!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 97 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.I found FDS because some guy commented this as one of the subs he dislikes. Checked it out, and now I have to thank that asshole. This is the best subreddit I have ever joined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:06 PM |
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