| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 447 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheat | RANT | catenabler | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:45 AM |
| 193 | Sick of scrotes from high school trying to talk to me | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | catenabler | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:29 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 900 | “If Beyoncé can get cheated on, then there’s no hope for us” is a cope, not the standard.I will say another view of this. Back when I was a pickme, I told myself that the reason I was cheated on was because I wasn’t pretty enough or cool enough or whatever. Basically, I put myself down. At some point, I realized, Beyoncé and all these other pretty celebrities get cheated on too. I realized, it had nothing to do with looks or coolness…and just that a lot of men are shitty. You can be the prettiest, coolest woman, and still get cheated on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 11:22 PM |
| 112 | It Took One MinuteI went to the mall a few days ago alone just to clear my mind. I felt these three guys creeping behind me, so I crossed over to the other side of the mall and began walking at a snail pace to avoid them. Of course they also moved over to the other side also. At this point, they were in front of me and kept looking back at me. I made zero eye contact and maintained a resting bitch face. They walked past forever 21 with clearly no intention of going in, so I went in for another attempt to get away… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 01:48 AM |
| 25 | The Scrotation PlaylistYup. Reminds me of this YouTube video which reallllly emphasizes it. https://youtu.be/N7ZDbBsjMt8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 12:28 AM |
| 27 | The Scrotation PlaylistHow long by Charlie puth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 12:27 AM |
| 16 | Ladies who have taken back an ex, did he change and what made you take him back?I did take back an ex, because I was sad and lonely and didn’t realize I deserve better. And yes he did change, but not in the way you’re asking. He got worse. He realized if I forgave him for that, he could get away with anything. And the violence came out. Never take back an ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 12:53 AM |
| 100 | The unfair reality of being "submissive"Yes I saw that. This mini show on Snapchat is the worst thing, it’s called “love don’t judge” and features this type of relationship along with a bunch of HUGE age gap relationships (I’m talking 20 year olds dating 70 year olds). I don’t watch them. I’ve hidden the tile. And yes, I am going to judge a relationship that has a clear power imbalance, and I know that is not real love. So yes, I will fucking judge it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:29 AM |
| 9 | "I just don't want to hurt you"I've gotten "I don't want you to hate me" in my pickme days. And that is exactly what happened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 02:42 AM |
| 38 | Straight factsWhy do I feel like some men would consider that a compliment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Topanga is a real queen here 🥰Yeah I was disappointed in it too. I commented more about it on another reply to my comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:44 AM |
| 45 | Topanga is a real queen here 🥰Yup! So, the actress who played Angela, Trina McGee, talked about racism she experienced while working on the show. Apparently, she received some racist comments from both will friedle and Danielle fishel. From what I've heard, will friedle has apologized to her and attempted to make things right, whereas Danielle fishel never mentioned it. Now, the pickme supporting her abusive husband part is a different story. A year or so ago, some dude, Jenson, went viral on Twitter because he found shrimp … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:43 AM |
| 127 | Topanga is a real queen here 🥰Love this!! It's unfortunate that the actress is a racist pickme who knowingly supports her NV abuser husband | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 09:53 PM |
| 31 | What is so hard about respecting people’s time?Now I will admit, I am not always the best at time management. However, I will always text "hey sorry I'm going to be 2 minutes late." I keep people updated on my status, even when it's 1 minute late or 10 minutes late. Anything more than 10 minutes late is unacceptable. But, I've had people texting me right up until the time we were meant to meet, then radio silence, with no mention of being late. This pickme ex-friend did this to me recently. I had no clue how late she intended to be, so I did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 07:24 PM |
| 297 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.Remember that video of Justin screaming very aggressively at Hailey? Yeah, that was him in public. Imagine how this public figure, who very much cares about his public persona, would act behind closed doors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 07:11 PM |
| 55 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.Lol as an Arab woman, I can assure everyone that misogyny is everywhere. And it's fucking bad. When men get a bad grade, they punch a hole in the wall. When men get caught cheating, they attack you. When men get rejected, they murder and/or rape. Men are the sensitive ones. But for some reason, violence is a socially acceptable way to deal with emotions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 07:06 PM |
| 41 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.So many of the comments on that post are defending this awful behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 05:46 PM |
| 382 | Men actually do know how dangerous other men can beMen are like "not all men" but also, if I have a daughter, I will protect her..... Protect her from what???? Men???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 32 | Pickme regrets sending nudes to guy she barely knows but still tries very hard to validate her decision in comments with LVM encouraging her...Show a man you're confident by sending him nudes 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:38 AM |
| 38 | This whole sub has so many posts like this...The same man who wrote this post is also the same man who says "wow she trusted him? She deserves 'it'" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 10:52 PM |
| 19 | Tired of getting ads for cheap engagement rings and society telling me I have to lower my standards for essentially costume jewelryWhen I get married, I intend to stay married for the rest of my life. I don't want something cheap that won't last years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 01:49 AM |
| 17 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?"I tried anal and I lovedddd it. My boyfriend has been bugging me forever to try it. So I got super drunk. Oh and hes stone cold sober. But I lovedddd it" Honey, that's called rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 07:01 PM |
| 43 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)Basically-- since I'm not fat, I expect a beautiful woman to want me and do all the BDSM I demand Notice he literally only says that he's not fat...like, that's his only redeeming quality. Let's not forget, you can be ugly and still maintain a normal weight 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:58 PM |
| 68 | 🤡: “But what if she is just trying to use me for a free dinner?”Yeah, I'm gonna waste time doing hair, doing makeup, getting dressed nicely along with risking my safety when meeting a stranger all for a $10-20 meal? Hell, my mascara alone costs more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:52 PM |
| 531 | ..did anybody see this?interesting. so we are a toxic sub reddit for saying how disgusting it is that all these men in that thread are openly admitting to being attracted to underage girls. scrote logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 24 | SNOOPING 101Everyone (pickmes, scrotes) always talks about how bad it is to snoop. I've only snooped when I had a bad feeling, and that feeling has always been correct. They were trying to gaslight me by telling me I'm being crazy, but the phone always proved me right. So, yes, I encourage snooping. Although, from now on, if I get a bad feeling, I am immediately blocking them to avoid gaslighting. No more chances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:35 PM |
| 209 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.I made the mistake of finding this thread. I have the strong urge to puke. For most of my life, I thought I wanted kids. But, I keep coming across more and more reasons not to have any. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 259 | Scrote goes to brothel and gets serviced by his obviously miserable friend. Reports on reddit for awards and mostly pats on the back.I saw this and saw many comments saying "it's technically consensual" But it's not.... it clearly states she was desperate for money, she was frightened, miserable, tired, and confused. She had no choice. It's not consensual just because he gave her money. How is that not obvious??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 12:20 AM |
| 151 | When a man catcalls you and if you feel safe to do so, take a picture of him. Most end up looking embarrassed because they know what they did was wrongI've done this before. Totally works. It was a group of them, and they scattered like cowards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 02:48 AM |
| 72 | Every time I start to have 2nd thoughts about OLD, I find a post that reminds me that a large majority of the men on there are scumbag LVM & Queens can do better. I'm sure he will NEVER ask for sex and those wee blue pills he has are just "vitamins.'At work (doctorate degree level too), I had a divorced 65 yr old, who can't even cook for himself, ask me on a date. I'm 26, and I even look young for my age. The audacity of scotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 10:59 PM |
| 35 | What are your favorite quotes from Lundy Bancroft’s “Why Does He Do That?”I dont know the exact words. But basically, he said that those who decide to not take any sides are actually taking the abusers side. That opened my eyes, anyone that still talks to my ex abuser needs to be cut from my life. There's no reason they should be casually talking to someone who tried to murder me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 10:03 PM |
| 92 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatI see how this can be beneficial for women too. However, tinder as a company has made it obvious that they don't care about women's safety. So, I really think this feature was intended for men to cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:56 AM |
| 52 | Another reason OLD is toxic. Tinder helping men cheatI guess so. It only popped up on my screen today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:47 AM |
| 407 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’Men always want millions of kids but never want to actually take care of them 🤔 Most of my life, I thought I wanted kids. But after the last abusive NVM I dated, I realized that I don't want to put a kid through a man's abuse. And, I don't want to raise a kid alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 17 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!"Sensitive" Much better than being an insensitive asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 22 | People respond poorly to Gigi Engle’s newest Pro-Kink article on Instagram, and rather than self reflect, she comes for Redditors. Gets told about herself by some infamous Redditors. 💅First cosmo encouraging cannibalism as a kink and now teen vogue encouraging anal... These articles are directed at teens/underaged girls. This is disturbing. Isn't this basically grooming???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:20 AM |
| 20 | A guy I’m talking to just joked about being a psychopathPsychopaths always seem like good men, ted bundy is the best example of this. Even if it was "just a joke," he thinks psychopaths are humorous rather than scary and awful. Id run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:14 PM |
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