| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 540 | Letting men off the hook | RANT | GoldenWaterfallFleur | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:02 PM |
| 144 | Interview with 2 men in the "Men's Improvement Space" | THINGS SCROTES SAY | GoldenWaterfallFleur | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 10:56 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 74 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?Wtf is up with these dudes and their childish food issues. I went to a hibachi restaurant with a guy (he had never been to one) and he was so freaked out bc he only eats “Normal American Food”….like chicken and steak and….OH WAIT 💀🙄 I wanted to punch him in the face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:07 AM |
| 37 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?IKR!! Only children think that all the menus cater to them 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:59 AM |
| 36 | Funniest/smallest/strangest Seinfeld-like red flag 🚩 you personally had with an ex?I 👏🏽 will 👏🏽 not 👏🏽 allow 👏🏽 it. Be a grownup and treat others with respect you heathen. Put your damn cart away!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:57 AM |
| 11 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.What in the porn fantasy nonsense did I just read 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 09:57 AM |
| 7 | What do you bring to the table?Y’all remember that loser who literally had a bed sheet taped to his window in his dirty poorly decorated bedroom (no doubt in his mamas home) while insulting us and asking what we brought to the table? This made me think of that. He is exactly the type of loser this woman is describing….expecting the world but contributing the bare minimum and thinking that is enough while calling himself a king. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 10:37 AM |
| 8 | FDS Success - Thank you!Yesss!! Congratulations!! This is so wonderful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.You can do it!! 💪🏽 Don’t let anyone or anything hold you back from doing what you want or need in life!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 08:29 AM |
| 20 | My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.You deserve better than this subhuman trash. The only reason he brings up tour acne is specifically to HURT you. People who do that are disgusting and go straight for our weak spots. We, on the other hand, wouldn’t do that because we understand how hurtful that is. People like him don’t care about the damage they do and only care about what they can get out of the relationships they have with others. Go live YOUR best life with someone who treats you right. ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:15 AM |
| 46 | Don’t tell a man about your past sex life ever…17 years and he’s worrying about something that happened when they weren’t together. Why does it matter? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:31 AM |
| 3 | FDS is BACK!🥳🥳🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 10:35 AM |
| 6 | Pervert pretends to film wife at the beach but is actually recording woman in bikini behind her. Trash. Things like this are why I thank my lucky stars everyday that I never married or reproduced with a scroteShe’s so pretty and he is a hideous troll. He should be kissing the ground she walks on and thanking God she lets him be with her not ogling other women. I scrolled through her tik tok and the audacity of that guy. 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:44 AM |
| 6 | Pervert pretends to film wife at the beach but is actually recording woman in bikini behind her. Trash. Things like this are why I thank my lucky stars everyday that I never married or reproduced with a scroteTeenage girls….how can men live with themselves. Those are minors…..those are children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:43 AM |
| 32 | Ah, the classic “Passive Reciprocation”I definitely agree that he should make you feel wanted. I cringe when I think about the times I went out of my way for a guy who was putting in little to no effort. Thankfully those were short lived and I got irritated quickly and dropped them fools. And when I met my partner it was like night and day to meet a man who actually pursued me, called me and texted me frequently, drove way out of his way every day just to spend time with me, cooked for me…I was like…yea those other dudes were not it!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:29 AM |
| 11 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsI hope so! Perhaps they deny at first but the tiny issues and problems start to pop up in their minds as time goes in. I guess old habits die hard and it takes time to disentangle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:33 AM |
| 40 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsI’ve tried to suggest the community to some of the women I see in very clearly abusive relationships but haven’t heard responses 😞 I’m hoping at LEAST it’s a start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 05:33 AM |
| 53 | If he needs space from the relationship, it's a no.I’m sorry 😞 that really sucks! Take time to treat yourself and take care of yourself! You deserve to be treated better 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Letting men off the hookI believe a year or 2 ago. I remember reading he threw the girl a 15th birthday party. F**king sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Letting men off the hookWe actually didn’t care much for him. He was always a bit of an arrogant a**hole do we weren’t surprised by the news. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Letting men off the hookThey just don’t care. It’s easier for them to just ignore so they can continue to idolize or at worst they want to do the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Letting men off the hookIt’s not hard to be moral!! It’s just not!! Men make it seem so difficult 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Letting men off the hookGod I just saw a post about D’elia 🤬🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:36 PM |
| 14 | Letting men off the hookUrgh and can you believe that damn petition that was going around for a while??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 03:35 PM |
| 10 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsI have hope for the OOP though. I’ve read through her comments and it sounds like she’s seeing this man in a new light and really might take the advice to annul the marriage. I truly don’t believe there is any coming back from this. He tried to trap her and this is FRAUD full stop. Let’s pray for her that she gets out 💪🏽💪🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:02 AM |
| 251 | Remember ladies, any man who makes being liberal or a feminist part of his dating persona is a wolf in sheep’s clothingA few years ago I went on a date with this guy. He had this whole spiel on his profile that said BLM he was a feminist and supported women. I was naive and thought "wow that sounds great!" We went out for drinks and he spent the ENTIRE TIME TALKING OVER ME. I am mixed and he knew that and yet he felt the need to f***kin mansplain racism to me. He felt the need f***kin mansplain SEXISM to me. He even tried to make me feel bad about not doing more when it comes to "fighting the good fight"...ya'll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:34 PM |
| 12 | There's everything wrong with society if having the locks changed and being locked out isn't grounds for divorceHoly crap the absolute audacity 🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:05 PM |
| 293 | TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!!Yup. I commented and told her that he basically told her he’d rather have her as property. That’s her answer. She should not want to be with someone who clearly doesn’t care about or respect her and would abuse her at the first opportunity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 06:49 AM |
| 23 | “… way more benefits from you being my slave.” 🤬Omfg can someone tell this girl to run from this sociopath 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 90 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outSometimes I see posts like these and think they can’t possibly be serious 🙄🙄 But then I realize they are and I just get so tired of these 🤡🤡 Why YES! The women on this sub who just want a loving, mutually respectful and valuable relationship with a good partner are worthless evil b**ches compared to this narcissistic child who actively wants to tear our self-worth apart…sure… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:11 AM |
| 66 | The edit is hilarious. Why do they make it so easy for us? Keep telling on yourselves scrotesThat edit is gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 48 | When scrotes ask what women bring to the table 🤡 block & deleteThe check so we can gtf away from you losers ✌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:40 AM |
| 50 | I feel like more of our message is getting out there!!Total financial abuser 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:39 AM |
| 87 | This is what reproducing with a LVM looks like. She says she paid for everything her last pregnancy (getting by on her savings) and that he won't let her be a SAHM even though her whole salary goes towards childcare.I’ve been reading the thread….y’all she had to pay for her ENTIRE hospital bill the last time they had a baby!! What a completely useless man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 06:16 AM |
| 10 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsDon’t remind me 😖😖🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:33 AM |
| 36 | In a post asking reddit to ban incel subs after an incel shooting in the UK, comments that FDS needs to be bannedEven the most intense comments on here that I might say “hmmm” to aren’t anywhere NEAR the toxicity and insanity of the incel subs. Those men often drool over CHILDREN and then scream about how they want to murder women because we won’t shut up and be their Lolita sex slaves. But go off of FDS when we call a man abusing his wife a scrote 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 9 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄So true!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 sorry for the vent it can be a sore spot for me 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:02 PM |
| 13 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Yes honestly dealing with family members who didn’t care about my health issues and pretty much abandoned me while I was sick even though I was there and took them to their doctor visits and help pay for their meds was just really upsetting. Having them scream at me for not having the stamina or extra funds (bc they we’re going to MY medical bills this time instead of their drug habits) to help them out was horrible. Now they want to put it all past us like it never happened and don’t understand… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:34 PM |
| 32 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Wow this is incredibly disheartening 😱. I am lucky that my partner was there for me when I got really sick and was a shoulder to cry on when most of my family just disappeared or became selfish and difficult to deal with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 19 | ..did anybody see this?Same!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:01 AM |
| 52 | Imagine needing pixels to get in the mood..I feel so bad for her, I hope she builds up her courage soon to leave him and finds true intimacy if that is what she’s looking for 🙏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:55 AM |
| 643 | He absolutely despises her.My friends ex-husband (thank GOD ex he was trash) would berate her if she needed money for gas or groceries or anything like that. She was a stay at home mom taking care of their children. She kept the house IMMACULATE (like Martha Stewart organized and clean), cooked daily, took care of the bills, EVERYTHING. He Ofc called her lazy bc she didn’t have a job and he would b**ch about her ever spending money on anything like the stuff in their home was supposed to just magically appear. How the hel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:21 AM |
| 16 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”Yea just horrible and selfish!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:52 AM |
| 60 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”Even worse who does that to their brother????!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:45 AM |
| 12 | LVM’s idea of a first date is going to her residence, expect a home cooked meal and most likely sex.Lmao this is wonderful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 9 | 💩Omg OF FYCKING COURSE she should be concerned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m so angry!! How can she turn a blind eye to this????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:32 PM |
| 42 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..As much as I love my partner I really enjoyed being single! Idky people act like it’s so sad for women to be single 🙄🙄🙄 They need to get a life and stop worrying about everyone else’s!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 11:15 PM |
| 5 | This popped up in my memories. This is HV.That’s wonderful 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 22 | This popped up in my memories. This is HV.That mother f***ker. I’m so sorry! What a piece of TRASH!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseSociety really does make things hard and uncomfortable for women. Long before I met my partner, I had a larger apartment that I was just renting that had more than one bedroom and one bathroom and people questioned why…Because CLEARLY a single female should just take the L and be as cramped as possible until she’s ready to sTaRt HeR fAmILy. Then she is granted permission to expand her premises (with her man by her side Ofc!!). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 08:32 AM |
| 45 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseMy friend has a gorgeous huge 3 or 4 bedroom house with a huge closet that she is constantly apologizing for 😓 I wish she didn’t feel the need. She works her butt off and is a lovely human who deserves every bit of that house!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:23 AM |
| 12 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseNowadays they are no longer legal from what I understand because they can be used to discriminate. So I do believe that sounds really iffy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:18 AM |
| 6 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".I wouldn't put down someone for caring what others/men think because society really does condition us to think feel this way. That's what sucks so much. I mostly feel sorry for them and I hope that there is a way to provide enough guidance to help women realize that there is no need to care what these men think. But it isn't easy especially since we spend most of our lives dealing with society's expectations and pressures. It really does condition a sort of sacrificial mentality in women and it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 02:14 PM |
| 131 | DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional".And then they complain when women pursue “masculine careers” and aren’t traditional homemakers...we literally can’t win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Why do men LIE like this? REALLY? You've NEVER heard of any sex based slurs for women? "Scrotes" is BY FAR THE WORST? This is why I cannot take Redditor critics of FDS seriously.It’s the victim mentality that they have now that things aren’t always in their favor and that “when I call other ppl names it’s fine but when they’re mean back 😭😭😭” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Interview with 2 men in the "Men's Improvement Space"I like how they pretend like they don't value money LMAO. That is some HUGE BS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 10 | Interview with 2 men in the "Men's Improvement Space"You are honestly SPOT ON!!! We spend SO MUCH to improve and better ourselves. But to them that’s not the kind of so-called “improvement” they’re looking for. They only care if it benefits THEM. And meanwhile they’re sitting around boiling rage monsters who probably need therapy way more than we do bc they commit so many acts of violence against us it’s insanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 20 | Interview with 2 men in the "Men's Improvement Space"And they're trying sooooo hard to sound smart tooo haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 41 | Interview with 2 men in the "Men's Improvement Space"The woman interviewing them talks about how it can be hurtful that it clearly doesn't matter to these men that the women have achieved so much or worked very hard and ofc the men bring it back to relationships and that their achievements don't mean anything outside of that. That they don't care at all about anything but how everything the woman does benefits the man. I'm disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 14 | Interview with 2 men in the "Men's Improvement Space"Just scrolling through instagram lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 59 | Interview with 2 men in the "Men's Improvement Space"When women talk about things we want in a man we say we want someone ON OUR LEVEL so we can lift each other up. When men talk about things they want in a women they want someone BELOW THEIR LEVEL so they can feel good about themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 22 | Interview with 2 men in the "Men's Improvement Space"They're so intimidated by women it's hilarious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 11 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseI have a friend who has a BEAUTIFUL large 3/4 bedroom home and she always apologizes for it explaining that she fell in love with it and thinks maybe she’ll raise a family in it one day. It’s bc people question her about it! She’s a strong hard working woman who is perfectly happy being single in a gorgeous home she works hard for yet people make her feel bad about it 😒😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.Exactly! So creepy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.Y’all I HATE the use of the term “daddy” in a sexual way. It is gross. He’s the weirdo not her 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | I hate this argument exactly for this reason...Omg...someone needs to help this child. Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:55 PM |
| 11 | All it takes is attention to detailThis is fantastic!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:14 PM |
| 21 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.Wtf?? That is so creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:55 PM |
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