Letting men off the hook

Averyhvw · 2021-08-30T21:30:28+00:00

I had to tell a guy friend, “Other people also survived the Holocaust and even concentration camps and they didn’t go on to drug and rape 13-year old children.” 😒

Superb-Cancel9071 · 2021-08-30T21:11:39+00:00

Ew I used to watch that show and I recognize the name but can't put a face to it at the moment. Anyway totally agree. Predators deserve to be shunned and outcast, not celebrated.

SeaNegotiation8 · 2021-08-30T22:15:16+00:00

Some of the greatest minds in all of documented history have been men that did horrible things to women and children.

From celebrated philosophers that believed women were inferior, to civil rights leaders that molested children, to national heroes that raped their slaves, men have proven throughout history that even the very best of them are objectively horrible human beings.

And that’s the very best of them! The heroes, the leaders, the prophets, etc. That’s to say nothing of the average man who can’t wipe his ass properly but thinks a blowjob should be a “service” provided to them by impoverished women.

I’ve learned to save my admiration for women only. It’s sounds drastic, but I don’t want to risk supporting a shitty, perverted scrote. Even the most average woman possesses enough moral fiber to not molest children or commit rape. Which makes even the most average woman more worthy of my admiration than the greatest men in history.

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-08-30T21:51:22+00:00

Don’t forget Chris D’elia, Jeff Toobin

throwaway-fds · 2021-08-30T22:49:00+00:00

Woooo I hate this shit too. Any crystal castles fans know what happened, but despite multiple women saying the dude groomed, raped, and abused them in multiple ways speaking up...He still has rabid fanboys begging for a new album. The guy himself said he thinks the fans are idiots and cashcows, and for the ones begging him back, he isn't wrong.

PessimisticAna · 2021-08-31T03:02:36+00:00

Women are never given this chance. I noticed when an indie pop singer Melanie Martinez was falsely accused of sexual assault, people ripped into her pretty harshly. But there are plenty of famous men out there that had committed sa and still had many fans and people defending them.

onceuponasea · 2021-08-31T02:48:43+00:00

This remind of when DMX died and everyone praised him for being such an upstanding dude. Wtf?!?🤢

throwawaynevermindit · 2021-08-31T14:25:58+00:00

How men treat women is the crucible of their value as human beings.

It's not debatable. Excellent behavior toward women, particularly where sex is involved, is a requisite for a man to have any value. If he fucks that up, it doesn't matter how good he is at anything, especially if his talent is something totally low-stakes like music, art, media or sports - he's trash and should be regarded as such socially.

Even if he has valuable skills in say, science or medicine... I guarantee you there are women out there who are just as good, or could be with the right training. Replace his ass.

tiavarga · 2021-08-30T23:26:46+00:00

Preach! I am a music nerd that loves pop, rock and punk music from the 70s to 90s and the sheer number of LV-mouth breathers that want to practically fight me because I tell the truth about what abusers and predators their faves are is ridiculous!

Like sorry, John Lennon was a wife-beater and shitty father and Jimmy Page statutorily raped a 14 year old girl in his late 20’s.

bubblegumsparkles · 2021-08-31T04:22:44+00:00

Don’t apologize you are 100% right. It’s devastating to victims when monsters are celebrated. This behavior makes it more difficult for victims to speak up.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-08-30T22:50:54+00:00

And women get the book thrown at them. Roseanne can’t work again. Paula Poundstone ruined her career. The Dixie Chicks. Vanessa Williams and Janet Jackson both suffered huge losses because of nudity and remained the butts of jokes for years.

Lol I’m showing my age.

Women banned from Twitter, Reddit and other platforms while incels/RP flourishes. Amber Heard gets twice the hate that Johnny Depp gets even though they are both abusive, (and sorry, he’s worse because of the male power differential; he could put her in the hospital with just his hands whereas she’d need a weapon so all things being equal, a man isn’t going to get more of a pass in my book.)

A woman needs an insane amount of “fuck you money” to be even close to the level of untouchability of the average male celebrity.

Disclaimer: I’m in no way condoning the behavior of the above women, only pointing out the double standards. You’d think I wouldn’t have to state the obvious but it’s Reddit.

katiekat0214 · 2021-08-31T01:15:00+00:00

Damn, I love ANW and am sorry to hear this. I hadn't heard. When did this happen? Super wholesome show, glad they washed their hands of him.

anthooon6815 · 2021-08-31T12:39:50+00:00

And honestly, why shouldn’t predators be stripped of all things they hold dear? That’s exactly what they do to their victims. That’s the least you can give back to the victims - a shred of fairness.

BelleCervelle · 2021-08-31T18:52:39+00:00

I remember reading that Eli Wiesel would sexually harass/sexually assault women at his book events, a book about the Holocaust and it ruined it for me.

How many more men out there who rape, sexually assault, sexually harass, cheat, etc…

It’s disgusting…

A lot of the men I looked up to as a kid, turned out to be villains in real life.

Technusgirl · 2021-08-30T21:14:45+00:00

I saw that documentary of Woody Allen and I was disgusted. I never knew about any of that stuff, probably because it was before my time. It makes sense now why some of his movies were about an old man creeping on a teenager.

pompommom31 · 2021-08-30T22:27:15+00:00

Don’t forget we elect disgusting predators to be in the fucking White House. And it’s not just Trump (looking at you JFK). I get so nauseous when people celebrate these people. And it’s everywhere. All I see is one giant middle finger to women when this happens. Fuck men in power and the sense of entitlement that comes with it. So sick of it.

Title	Letting men off the hook
Author	GoldenWaterfallFleur
Upvotes	540
Comments	47
Date	August 30, 2021 9:02 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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I’ve learned to save my admiration for women only.

How men treat women is the crucible of their value as human beings.