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Studies show that women sexual gratify other women more in bed. That's because they actually care about getting their partner off and it turns them on.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 04:28 PM
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Some women like casual sex and they shouldn't feel ashamed of that. They might lie because society calls them a whore or a slut. That being said, most women aren't into it and want love and a relationship. I'm that way. I've never had casual sex because the idea sounds really boring and mechanical because I'm demisexual. Men don't look attractive to me unless there's an emotional bond already there.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 04:26 PM
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Yeah
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 11:38 AM
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I never heard of dick pill and had to look it up. Here's the thing. It's impossible for woman to know how big you are until you get intimate with them. By the time you get intimate with them, they already decided that they are into you and are attracted to you. Your size really isn't going to matter at that point unless you have a micro penis then some women might get a bit turned off by that. But even then I've seen guys with a micropenis and still have a girlfriend. Your size really is not tha…
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 11:29 AM
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There are 1.4 billion Indians so yeah they are probably going to get a lot of views.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 09:18 AM
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I don't think I would trust a study from Okcupid
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 08:50 AM
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I've been rejected by guys too and later on they gain a lot of weight or whatever, but I don't really care. I'm demisexual so looks don't matter to me, I just developed an emotional attachment to them and then developed feelings. Many of these guys were either average looking or they were below my league as far as looks go and they still turned me down. Personality has a lot to do with things more than you realize. Looks might get your foot in the door, but if someone doesn't think you're compat…
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 08:24 AM
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You seriously referring to women as "creatures"? Seems like you're problem stems from not being able to see women as human beings.
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 08:15 AM
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I'm the same way, we are bicurious or bisexual but heteromantic, meaning we prefer relationships with men and not with women.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 02:45 AM
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You're not straight if you're physically attracted to the same gender. That would make you bisexual.
/r/AllPillDebate09/07/23 02:43 AM
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Please reread what I just wrote, you missed where I mentioned there size, most men were 8 inches
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 08:08 PM
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Most likely a troll or a joke or some guy posting as a woman to make women look bad orbsome shit
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 08:06 PM
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I'm a woman. I can count only two times in my life I've orgasmed through vaginal alone and that's because they were hitting close to my clit. No woman I know has orgasmed much from just vaginal alone. There are just not that many nerves inside the vagina to be able to reach a climax or to really feel much. If we did, childbirth would be 1000 worse than it already is. We wouldn't have survived as a species if it were the case. Also most men I've been with had 8 inch, large dicks. I didn't like it…
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 07:59 PM
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You don't have to have single moments of madness to have a mental illness, personality disorder or some other mental health issue
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 07:55 PM
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She obviously has mental health issues.
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 07:53 PM
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I'm a woman but I tend to like long black hair on men, but at the end of the day it doesn't really matter Why aren't other hair colors an option?
/r/AllPillDebate07/07/23 04:03 PM
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It was a joke
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 08:31 PM
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You just want more women in the world so that your chances of having a girlfriend improve lol.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:38 PM
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Lol ok
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 05:34 PM
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I was pretty attractive before I put on weight recently, not to brag or anything but I was not able to find a guy who wanted a relationship. Sure lots of dudes are open to sleeping with an attractive woman, but not so much having a serious relationship. I believe this is because I'm a single mom of a disabled child. No guy wants to deal with that. I'm 40 now and never married. The last "relationship" I was in the guy was really abusive to me. All other relationships I was strung along and used f…
/r/AllPillDebate05/07/23 05:10 PM
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I feel like Asian men glorify the child like body way too much. It probably makes the women look more innocent and easier to control. I personally don't like the really skinny look. It just goes to show how much society and media can influence what men find attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 06:00 PM
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I don't think so, if anything, getting a good career and being financially independent makes a guy look more attractive. If they are struggling to get a girlfriend then they should focus on things like that.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 05:50 PM
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I'm a woman and I agree. This shit pisses me off and it's manipulative. It also hurts other women because the guy doesn't know how to please a woman if his previous girlfriends faked it. I've heard from other women who say that their bf complains about how long it takes them to orgasm because their previous girlfriends orgasmed in like two minutes everytime and it's obvious to us these girls were faking it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 03:53 PM
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Women have better orgasms with attractive men, who would have thunk it? 🙄
/r/AllPillDebate04/07/23 02:25 PM
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I don't have a boyfriend
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 12:40 PM
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You mean internalized misogyny from women? Yes
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 06:26 PM
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I highly suggest you stop talking about feminism then since you clearly don't understand what it is and don't seem to even want to understand. I have never once said you were an incel either.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 03:39 PM
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Yes obviously your comprehension skills are low, I suggest you watch some YouTube videos then on what feminism is.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 03:36 PM
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Please read my other response, feminism is an idea or movement based on women wanting equal rights. It doesn't include understanding incels. I think you mean women in general, not an idea or movement like feminism
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 03:32 PM
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Feminism is women wanting equal rights and to be treated like human beings. That includes not being discriminated against, having access to things like birth control and abortions. Just say women, not feminism. Feminism is an idea or movement.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 03:31 PM
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It bothers me that so many young guys just don't understand what feminism is
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 02:55 PM
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What do you mean, how does feminism play into this at all? How do women wanting equal rights and to be treated like human beings fit into you being autistic. I'm very confused. Also I have ADHD myself and may even be autistic as well because I have many of the same issues.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 02:54 PM
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She sees she can get money from gullible men who just want a woman to tell them what they want to hear women say. I'm pretty sure there are very few women who want to listen to a PickMeisha
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 10:44 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about all that, but it's quit typical that those of us who were raised in abusive homes or in a cult to seek out that type of mindset or find ourselves in it again in the future because that's what we are used to. We are not very good at spotting red flags and are used to placating the abuser and are way too dismissive about their bad behaviors. Cults and abusers think of everything in black and white and that can be really appealing to others who have a personality disorders w…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 10:29 PM
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OMG, I'm really sorry to hear that. It makes it scary to be in a relationship anymore. I've dealt with abusive men in my past, now we have this bullshit to deal with. I'm just glad I've decided to quit dating and remain celibate for the rest of my life.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 08:22 AM
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Was it you or your husband who got sucked into it? If so why if you two were already married?
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 03:16 AM
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Lol true
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 05:22 PM
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Women can make their own money these days, so marrying someone who is a good provider isn't necessary. Now women can marry for love instead of worrying about being able to eat and have a roof over their head when they get married.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 07:17 AM
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You can either waste your life whining about how girls don't want you in high school, or you can suck it up, get over yourself and accept you have no game and work on it or just move on with your life. Many people don't lose their virginity in high school, seriously, stop comparing yourself to other people.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 02:49 PM
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Who cares? You're still a teenager, you've got like 80 years of life left.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 02:42 PM
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There's no such thing as sexually inferior. Don't give up hope just because you might be later than others when it comes to sex and relationships.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 09:43 AM
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Most people lose their virginity at around 18, look it up. High school is high school, kids brag, they bully, etc.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 08:35 AM
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I would recommend this too and most toxic and abusive people have a personality disorder and learning more about it and the red flags can help one avoid abusive or toxic people
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 01:22 AM
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You should get a book on spotting red flags and how to avoid people that display them.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 01:20 AM
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I've been with several abusive men in my life, I don't blame men as a gender for it. Anyone can be an abusive asshole no matter what gender or race. We are all human. It's easier to shift blame on women than it is to admit fault with yourself. Whenever I tell guys about my past with abusive boyfriends they always tell me "you should have chosen better". But the problem is when you grow up in an abusive environment, you are used to that and pass off red flags as no big deal. I think learning abou…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 10:04 AM
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I have PTSD, depression, OCD, anxiety and ADHD and I suspect I might be a little autistic as well. Medication has helped a lot, but I had to go through a bunch to find ones that worked. I'm currently on an antidepressant and two anti-anxiety meds. I'm sorry you were in an abusive relationship, I've been there myself. Unfortunately abusers look for vulnerable people that they can control and abuse easily. There is more to life than getting married or having a relationship. I know it sucks to be l…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 02:50 AM
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Men typically don't listen to women when we call out their toxic masculinity. They only listen to other men because they respect them more than women unfortunately.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 02:24 AM
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Good for you for calling out toxic and harmful masculinity expectations. More guys need to do this, I think it would help a lot.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 02:09 AM
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I think you should block this douche and move on. This guy is very toxic and he's just stringing you along.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 04:28 AM
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And it's all speculation too. Unless you have time machines, you can't say for certain how the dynamic was between men and women in that period
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 01:09 PM
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I don't look like my weight either, I think it's best to not mention your weight to people who haven't seen you. My sister and I are the same way, just naturally muscular.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 11:57 PM
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🚩🚩🚩 Huge red flags, get out now before it gets worse
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 11:45 PM
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When you feel insecure, it can make you feel better to displace that insecurity onto other people and to look down on others. That's pretty much the whole premise of sexism and racism, to make people feel better about themselves by looking down on others. I suggest focusing on the good qualities you have instead in worrying about how attractive you might be to women.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 03:00 PM
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If hating on women makes you happy, there is something fundamentally wrong with you.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 10:01 AM
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That's a really long word 🥗 you wrote there
/r/MensRights24/07/22 06:45 PM
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Yes totally this
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 03:18 PM
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Remember Quality over Quantity. Even if you were to attract more woman as they say (even though it sounds like the opposite was happening), it's not like you're going to be attracting more women you'd be interested in or attracted to, you're just attracting more women in general. I guess that's good for Narcissists because of extra attention, but if you want a real, genuine relationship, it's not something you should be striving for. And the "masculine frame" sounds like it was putting women off…
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 02:16 AM
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Yes, this 💯
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 10:50 PM
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I've experienced both unrequited love and rape, I'd rather not be raped.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 08:01 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:44 PM
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Yeah, that's good actually, the G-spot is not that far in, like 3 or 4 inches anyway for most women
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:37 PM
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I feel sad that we have to have this conversation and nobody taught you about female anatomy and how to please a woman
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:28 PM
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No, not at all
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:27 PM
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Because we still enjoy the feeling, the intimacy, if you hit out g-spots then it feels really good, that's why size is not important. Penetration coupled with clitoris stimulation is the best of both worlds. That's why foreplay with women is so important, most of us can only get an orgasm through clitoral stimulation alone and not penetration. Plus, having babies would be an even more painful experience if we had a bunch of nerve endings in our vaginas. That's why our clits our on the outside.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 07:12 PM
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Lol ikr
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 05:55 PM
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Looks aren't everything. Yes, women are picky for those reasons but personality actually goes a long way. Looks can get you into the door, but if you have social problems or an asshat, you're not going to get any farther than that. And 6'6? Are you joking lol? Nobody wants a giant and that height doesn't exist for most men. Women typically like taller men, but not to extremes like that. Also when they get a little older and more mature, like in their 20s, they realize that a guy being taller is …
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 05:46 PM
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We seriously don't care unless it's a micropenis and there are women who don't care about that either. The size doesn't make much of a difference during sex and if it's really big it can actually be painful for us
/r/ExRedPill21/07/22 03:34 AM
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Ask her or for coffee or drinks after a work day.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/22 11:24 PM
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You're only 17, you're not an incel
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 05:30 AM
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YouTube's algorithms really suck sometimes and they push more popular channels that they think you'll be interested in. I even get recommendations similar to that and when I click on the video, I'm disgusted with the sexist bullshit they are spewing and have to select the option to never see that channel recommended again. Sometimes I'll watch videos about relationships which is why I guess
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 11:47 PM
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Oh, most definitely
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 03:01 AM
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You sound delusional and Narcissistic
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:57 AM
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That's good to hear, I'm glad your were about to do some self reflection, better yourself and work things out with your family.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:56 AM
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Speak for yourself! You don't speak for all men 🙄
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:54 AM
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What the hell are you talking about, have you even seen black woman or been around them? 🤦‍♀️
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:51 AM
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I'm sorry to hear about your trauma, I hope you can get the healing you need 🫂
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 01:59 AM
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She probably thinks you're messing around with her
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 01:46 AM
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Women cheat for the following reasons: they feel neglected and unhappy in their relationship and are unsure about leaving, they are in an abusive relationship and are looking for an escape, there is a lack of passion/romance in the relationship and the woman gets really bored and feel like they are just with a roommate, revenge for being cheated on it suspecting as much, or they just want attention and feel good about themselves. Men cheat more than women, there are plenty of statistics to prove…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 01:27 AM
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I think people are confused here, you are 20, female and a virgin, right?
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 01:02 PM
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Pick up artists are a scam though. I mean, yeah you're going to get more looks and interest if you are good looking, that goes for both men and women, but personality actually goes a long way.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 02:02 AM
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Yeah when I come across a 17 or 18 year old "incel", I roll my eyes so hard. Like dude you are just a kid, lol. And the average age most lose their virginity for both males and females is 18.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 01:56 AM
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Yeah it's not true at all, plenty of women turn down marriage proposals from guys they are seeing. I was engaged at one point but decided not to go through with the marriage because of issues in our relationship, he was immature and threw tantrums, etc. So just because I could marry him, it didn't mean I wanted to.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 04:06 AM
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This guy sounds like Gilbert Gottfried, but online dating sucks for both men and women and I don't recommend it for anybody. Best to meet people in the wild, through friends or family, etc. Women may get a lot of interest but most of the time those guys are just wanting to sleep around or they are Narcissists, etc. They'll be shitty right off the bat and start asking for nudes, etc. So women have to wade through a ton of creeps just to find someone decent but even then they're taking a risk, lik…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 02:37 AM
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Qanon conspiracist, I'm not surprised 🤣
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 01:52 AM
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That's good, more men should do that who don't want kids
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/22 06:06 PM
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Doubt it, there's no time context here, he just looks annoyed with having to watch his own children, which points back to the fact that he shouldn't just go along with something he might not want it be ready for
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/22 06:03 PM
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Totally, and people are down voting me though lol. If you don't want kids, you should communicate that. Don't just go along with whatever you partner says if you're not ready for it or don't want it.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/22 05:34 PM
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His terrible personality probably repels women and he's too much of a narcissist to admit that
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 04:22 PM
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I would also like to point out that most Redpill content is actually projection. The men saying these things, or started it, are usually Narcissists. They are the ones who seek relationships based on opportunities. They are the ones who are not romantic. They are they ones who are incapable of love, etc.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 02:00 PM
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Yes, exactly, women tend to be more of the romantics. Most of the guys in my life were not romantic, it was always me trying to make things romantic while most of them were just trying to get into my pants. Most men know that women like romance and sometimes they'll use this to get sex from them or to manipulate them in some way, but in reality these guys are not romantic at all. This is my sister's current issue right now with her boyfriend, he's not romantic or expressive with his feelings at …
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 01:54 PM
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If spending time with your children seems like such a terrible burden to you, then don't have kids and be honest with your SO about it. Both parents should be involved in their children's lives. Also, the mother getting full custody here makes sense because the father seemed annoyed just by spending time with them. I seriously doubt he would have taken any care of them if he had full custody.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/22 12:52 PM
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No problem 🙂
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 12:31 PM
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You could probably say how the redpill really messed you up when it comes to relationships and how you view women and that the redpill is just an echo chamber for men to take out their resentments towards women. Or you can just ignore those comments and fucus on self improvement or whatever you talk about on your channel
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 04:24 AM
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Work on your social skills, take care of your health, dress decent, smell nice, have good hygiene. Have something unique that you like that could be a conversation starter. For example, I like unique watches, so when I see a guy with a large, cool watch, I'll ask them about it. But it could be anything that is something you like, like shirts, shoes, other jewelry, etc. I think guys get too hung up on trying to attract as many women as possible and miss the forest through the trees. The idea is t…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 03:49 AM
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This is a good example of how even women can be sucked into this, in hopes of being a desirable woman. To be honest with you, most guys I know don't even care about women's hips. The "perfect female figure" is constantly changing mostly due to the influence of media too. When a guy truly loves his partner, he is not going to care if she gains some weight. Guys in the red pill are way too focused on appearances to a nauseating degree for both women and themselves. Also, for most men as they age, …
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 03:46 AM
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I've never even heard of Hamza, but it's generally not a good thing to be in a cult. This guy is laughing and smiling about it, and that's disturbing.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 10:04 PM
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I typically end up with these supposed nice guys. They are sweet and kind in the beginning and that's what attracts me actually, then the mask slips and they start treating me like garbage. Then other men have the nerve to say "yOU shOULd cHoOse BeTter, mAYbe sTOp dATing aSShoLEs" 🙄 but the reality is, it was mirroring. They were mirroring my personality traits, which made me feel more comfortable around them. But it's not who they really are. I agree with you about them seeing being nice as tra…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 05:33 PM
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Do you have autism, maybe you can join a group of other autistic or socially awkward people who will understand you
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:55 PM
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It's good you are aware of your issues, but just like someone can work on their physical appearance, you too can work on your social skills. Don't see it as you or your personality that needs to change, just your behavior and communication style.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:41 PM
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Yeah that's because physical appearance is not as big of a deal as redpill makes it out to be. If you're socially awkward, women are going to be turned off by that. If you have other personality issues, women are going to be turned off by that too. If that's the case, only therapy or dating coaching can help with that. Women can pick up on things that you may not even realize. You need someone to give you an honest opinion about how you are around them.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:28 PM
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Just looking at a couple of these, for instance, women having fantasies of rape. That's just a fantasy, it doesn't mean we want it in real life. After having been raped myself, I used to have fantasies like that too, but I don't after it actually happened to me. But these fantasies usually involved men I would find attractive and wasn't really technically rape if you think about it. And what do rape fantasies have to do with anything other than incels hoping to justify raping women? Women being …
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 08:22 AM
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Narcissists well definitely affect you like this
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 02:23 PM
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Physically? No, lol
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 02:21 PM
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I grew up in an abusive home. Whenever I cried, I was beaten. It's a bit extreme, but I lost touch with my own emotions and my ability to understand why I feel a certain way when I do, especially when I was sad. Parents do this to their sons too but in a more benign fashion, yet it's still harmful. That being said, I don't think it contributes to arrested development as it seems like you dated immature Narcissists. I had an abusive ex that accused me of trying to manipulate him when I cried. But…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 09:12 PM
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You can try seeing girls as guys to start with. We're not really hard to talk to. I have social anxiety too so I just avoid strangers in general, but if I'm at a party and I can't stick with the people I already know, I'll walk around and just randomly say hello and ask people questions about themselves and their lives, like what do they do, where are they from, etc. Or I pay them complements on something they are wearing, that's usually a good ice breaker
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 08:47 PM
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It's up to you as to whether you want to have her as a friend or not, but if she's not into you like that, then you should just respect that and move on and find someone who is. You can still have her as a friend and date other women too if you want. It's not rocket science, man. Just think of her the same way you would see a fellow man at that point.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 01:03 AM
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Yes that too lol! 🤣
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 11:11 PM
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Men peaking in their 50s, lol. Most guys I know in their 50s didn't age so gracefully as they like to think. One guy was a body builder, but he had skin tags, balding, wrinkles, etc. He even tried to lie to me about his age, but it was pretty obvious just looking at him that he was a lot older 🙄 other guys have a beer gut and probably diabetes, heart disease, etc. Both men and women age the same.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 10:12 PM
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Do they have to be real women? Sex dolls are cheaper and can look pretty realistic. If you do get a girlfriend you can hide it away or get rid of it
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 01:38 AM
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Not in the beginning because they could see it as a pity play from a narcissist so they could see it at a red flag. Best to wait a little while and just say that they weren't honest or faithful and it was unfortunate and just leave it at that. Can't begin to tell you the number of times men just lie about their "crazy exes" but it just turns out to be the other way around and they were the ones lying and cheating
/r/ExRedPill27/06/22 01:04 AM
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Why are you here if you still believe in redpill crap. Are you just trolling?
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:17 AM
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You are jealous that women are having sex with other men and not you. I think you're putting too much value on sex. I'm not sure if you're a virgin, but when I was I thought sex was going to be this big deal, but it wasn't. Every woman is different just like men. We are individuals with different personalities and different backgrounds. We are deserving of empathy just as much as men. But in my opinion, all sentient beings deserve respect and empathy, which is why I'm vegan. When you have severa…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 01:40 PM
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You can overcome social awkwardness with some counseling or therapy or just being more mindful about your words and actions and learning from mistakes. I'm a bit socially awkward myself due to ADHD and social anxiety but I have gotten much better over the years. I'm currently on medication too for my anxiety so that helps.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 05:03 AM
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I hate typical romance movies and even romantic comedies because of just how unrealistic they are too. I don't have any recommendations on horror books, but I really do like horror myself. I watch and play horror games, movies and shows. Most of the things I've watched I haven't really noticed this sort of thing as the focus is not on relationships but on the actual horror. Have you seen the backrooms videos on YouTube? It's a good series, although short. Maybe less horror and more scary and biz…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 08:20 PM
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I only hear religious women who want to be stay at home mothers say that. Also, since a man is naturally stronger than women, then obviously we would like them to protect us to some degree.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 09:03 AM
0

So are we just going to ignore facts now and claim "culture", you asked about society and other countries have society
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 01:27 AM
-2

Um, in most countries there are more men running things that women. Patriarchy is still alive and well.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 01:12 AM
1

Cool story bro 🙄
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 02:40 AM
17

They are never even right about the biology too or are angry about it. I mean, like what can you do, that's just life man.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/22 07:35 PM
1

No problem, hope it helps, good luck 🙂👍
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 11:05 PM
3

Romance is fine, but not in a too serious way. Keep things casual in the beginning, but if she brings up what you are looking for you can just tell her you're looking for a serious relationship, hopefully, we'll see (because you're both wanting to give it time to get to know each other but are ultimately looking for something serious). You can ask her about what sort of hobbies or talents she has and life goals she has for her future. Also talk about your hobbies and see if she has any interest …
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 11:03 PM
3

Companies are desperate for workers right now, so don't let that get you down. Especially in the IT sector, we can't seem to find enough qualified people. Also, many women like dark men, I see white women with black men here a lot in Florida for example
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 01:49 AM
1

Not true, demisexual people exist. But really, you can work on your physical appearance to some degree. But you need to be realistic about your expectations from women too.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 03:08 AM
1

Looks like you need to focus on raising your self esteem and loving yourself. How about writing a list of all of your good and positive qualities to start with.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 02:57 AM
3

There are going to be women out there that don't care or still find you attractive, that's what you would want anyway. I found that just being attractive doesn't get you the most ideal partner. Sometimes you can end up with a bunch of toxic partners, or ones that care more about appearance than anything else. And you end up getting hurt over and over again because the people that are attracted to you are shallow and flakey, toxic or abusive.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 01:12 AM
2

The first step is acknowledging the issue which is what you have done which is great. The only thing I can recommend it trying to be more mindful in social situations. Try your best to practice self control over those things, even if it means being quiet, at least in the beginning. I used to do socially awkward things too because of my ADHD and childhood trauma, but over the years I worked on it, got therapy and got better in social situations.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/22 12:27 AM
3

Lol
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 01:51 PM
6

0%
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 01:50 PM
5

If someone is abusive to you, they are not a friend and you should stop talking to them or interacting with them. This isn't a gender thing, but a common sense thing. I would never be friends with an abusive person. If you think the goal of having a female friend is getting sex, then you still have the wrong view about sex and women. Sex is not a transactional thing unless you're hiring a prostitute. What's wrong with just having female friends for the sake of just having friends? You can have f…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/22 03:39 AM
2

If you had a higher chance of getting highly attractive women, would you pursue less attractive women? I think you need to be honest with yourself on this if the positions were reversed. Yeah there's a chance these guys are stringing them along, but who can really fault them for dating high value men? Seriously.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 02:41 PM
2

No, most women are really not that into cars. I think guys are way more into cars than we women are. If you don't need I one, then don't get one, women will understand and they probably will respect your decision as it's probably good for the environment too.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 03:30 AM
2

Having a woman chase your validation will eventually lead you to losing that woman. I've had guys do this too me, it makes feel like they are just not into me and I'm not in any way a priority to them so I break things off.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 03:13 AM
0

I have a tendency to date older men, but most women I know prefer to date men around their own age. I ran into a lot of issues with older men and realized just because someone is older, it doesn't mean that are more mature or even have their shit together. It's not really so much about looks, but just having things in common. I find I have more in common, and a general sense of understanding from guys my age compared to the older ones.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 02:54 AM
2

I wouldn't hold that against, I don't think most women are going to look down on you for that.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 06:13 PM
4

It's only works for so long until the women get fed up with them and leave. I don't see any love here, do they even love their wives? I don't think men understand that our love fades over time from being ignored, not respected, not helped, not being shown love and appreciation, calling us names, making us feel bad for how we look, etc.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 05:45 PM
3

I feel bad for their wives.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 04:59 PM
17

Lol ikr, they don't know wtf they want
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 11:18 PM
21

I believe as far as red pill is concerned, it's a woman who is a stay at home mom, does all the cooking and cleaning and most of the child rearing. Forgot to add, they are also "submissive" and do whatever their husbands tell them. Unfortunately this leads to men abusing their wives a lot of the time. Both partners should be submissive to a point to each other and listen and respect each other's opinions.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 11:15 PM
11

I'm not entirely sure as I don't think many if any married men are red pill. I did date a guy who said some redpillish sorts of things. He ignored me a lot, didn't respond to my texts until after a day or so, but expected me to text back ASAP, never fully committed to the relationship after two years. The day my father passed away and he again just ignored my texts, I realized I deserved better than this shit and broke things off. He tried to text me a couple months later but I ignored it. Serio…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 11:10 PM
6

Women are more selective instinctually and we are also apprehensive about strange men because they are physically stronger and can attack us and subdue us more easily. Our instinctual drive to be choosy is why we have gotten to where we are as a species, it's why we have survived millions of years and it's why most other species on this planet have survived too. Women are the gatekeepers to our future as a species. I'm going to speak biology for a moment. The female takes on quite a burden when …
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:42 PM
1

Also, what the heck are you talking about in the first part? Getting a good and healthy relationship not based on just getting women into bed and without the head games and misogyny is actually something this sub promotes. Nobody has ever said to just avoid relationships altogether, that would be MGTOW. MGTOW tells you to avoid serious relationships with women and all they are good for is sex, so just pump and dump them. Repill is pretty much the same way. So what you are saying is backwards.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:20 PM
2

There are plenty of women in trades that are doing just fine. I'm pretty sure men would have the same opinion about women working in IT back in the day, but I and many women work in IT and are doing really well in this field. There was actually some studies done when during world war, when women were introduced to some of the same working environments as men, they actually did a better job and were harder workers. When the war ended and men were being hired again, they noticed that they were mor…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 10:13 PM
3

He was abusive
/r/ExRedPill02/05/22 08:24 AM
8

I think many guys actually like hearing that this hurts us because they are "getting back at women" for rejecting them or being hurt by women at some point. But in the end, they are hurting themselves and denying themselves a truly loving and fulfilling relationship. Also, we are not a hive mind, we are individuals with our own personalities and lives and hurting one woman is not getting back at the women who rejected them or hurt them in the past. They are just hurting someone who didn't deserv…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 03:09 PM
4

No, I feel like shit because I'm already emotionally attached. I'm demisexual so I develope feelings for men that I've known for a long time or I really like their personality. So I already have feelings for them before jumping into bed and then after that I'm even more attached so it's really hurtful when the guy just says he doesn't want anything serious after using me for sex. It's the same way for most women, it's natural for us to develop feelings after sex. Guys should be upfront about wha…
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 03:03 PM
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It may be easier for a woman to get the attention of a man, but not his love or commitment. Often times as a woman I feel disposable too and just used for sex and to stroke a man's ego.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/22 03:35 AM
11

I went to History.com, last I checked, that was not a feminist website
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 10:02 AM
25

I looked it up and basically it started in the 90s with a focus on helping women with sexual harassment in the workplace, gender discrimination in the workplace, expressing sexuality without being seen as whores or sluts (trying to tackle the Madonna/Whore complex where many men see women as either saints who weren't very sexual or sluts if they were, basically saying yes, women have sexual desires and that's totally normal). Also, going against sexism in the media as well including music, movie…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 09:35 AM
12

I'm not sure what third wave feminists mean, do you mean radical feminists who hate men in general? If so, then I can agree.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 09:21 AM
15

Rallies?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 09:20 AM
3

A sense of entitlement imo. They feel entitled to have a girlfriend and get angry and lash out at women when they don't get what they want. It's also black and white thinking. I think many of these guys either have a personality disorder or many of the traits of a personality disorder. I see it a lot on the subreddit where guys just can't seem to break out of the "women bad" mindset when trying to overcome the red pill brainwashing.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 09:17 AM
2

Dude, you are only 17.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 02:20 AM
6

That's true too
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 12:25 AM
26

Unfortunately having any expectations that a relationship will make you happy can lead to you ending up in an abusive relationship or in an unhappy one, just there for validation. Nobody can make you feel like you are worthy of a relationship, only you can do that by finding your own self worth. If you suffer from depression, then medication should help with that.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/22 12:18 AM
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When people talk about personality, it's usually in regards to compatible personalities. You don't have to change who you are. But there are good qualities over bad qualities that people look out for. Good personality traits: Altruism, good manners, respectful, considerate, nice, easy going. Bad personality traits: Arrogant, self absorbed, no empathy, rude, disrespectful, talks over you, doesn't care about boundaries, uptight, etc. Also people can pick up on social ineptitude and it could be a t…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/22 09:36 AM
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Totally agree, I'm 39 and started wearing a wedding ring to fend guys off, even though I'm not technically married lol. Guys try to slide into my DMs and ask me out and stuff 🤦‍♀️ These guys fail to realize that as they age, what they find attractive ages along with them. Also, many of them really don't want to be with someone with less life experience and who is immature compared to them either. It's why I don't want to date younger guys myself. I'd like to be with someone who is understanding …
/r/ExRedPill22/04/22 06:23 PM
2

I agree, plus I know plenty of short men who make really good money. My ex was only 5'4" and was an aircraft inspector making really good money. And I know many coworkers at work who are short guys who make good money too. Nobody really cares that much about height when it comes to employment, they just want someone who can do their job competently.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/22 01:31 PM
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Stop watching porn for a while and start thinking of women as human beings. Don't think about hooking up with every woman you come across. Always go in with the mindset of just being friendly. What you probably want is a genuine relationship and love and not just sex. Porn can really warp your reality of sex and how women should look and behave.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 01:53 AM
4

If you have a history of being abused then you seem to keep falling into the trap of Narcissists. I'm the same way. Most of my ex boyfriends were abusive. I suggest reading up on narcissism and learning to spot red flags sooner. Check out HG Tudor on YouTube.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 04:10 PM
3

Seems like he wants people to confirm his own thoughts and feelings, gets upset when they don't and keeps trying.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 04:08 PM
1

Average is fine, personality goes a long way and in the end, most women are looking for long term partners so they are going to be seeing if you are compatible with them or if they like your personality.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 04:05 PM
7

I rarely see extreme feminists, but I see misogyny fucking everywhere
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 01:33 PM
4

Now she's hot and you think now she's wife material? That's sounds very shallow man. Leave her alone, you already blew it with her. Move on and maybe learn to not be so shallow about what you consider "wife material". A wife is someone who's going to be your partner in life, not just a fuck buddy.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 01:30 PM
1

I don't think pretending to be someone you're not is a good solution either. But if you have emotional issues, medication or supplements can help with that. I have ADHD so emotional regulation is something I struggle with. It wouldn't hurt to get a diagnosis and to look into things like that. Sometimes long distance relationships can work out, so don't give up just yet. You may need to try more to go out and see them and vice versa. At some point one or the other will need to move also.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/22 01:28 PM
1

Are these relationships long distance? Because if they are, cheating is much higher in those cases due to a lack of being around each other. Also, it's fine to have preferences so don't worry about that, but if you're finding women online who live in another country you have to keep in mind the higher likelihood of cheating. If you're struggling with emotional issues, I suggest seeing a psychiatrist or psychologist. Most women would prefer that you express your feelings, but if they are too much…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/22 12:52 PM
1

Dating apps are horrible and you'll find way more Narcissists than decent people. I'm speaking from experience as the last time I found someone online he ended up being very abusive. It's better to try to meet women in other ways, like through mutual friends, family, etc. Maybe go and take some classes on something you have an interest in (like painting, basket weaving, writing, etc) and just mingle and make friends to start.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 02:13 AM
2

It could be anything really, it doesn't have to pertain to work, it could be in a hobby for example
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 02:01 AM
2

Every woman is different when it comes to physical or personality preferences. Find a woman who likes you for you and don't pretend to be something or someone you're not. We also like someone who shares similar interests, beliefs, hobbies, etc. Women don't actually care about money or status because we can get that on our own. Only narcissists care about that sort of thing and most women are not Narcissists. But for women in general, they tend to like a guy to look healthy, be taller than them, …
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 01:58 AM
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That's sad to hear about your brothers and your mother. You'd think after your father lost his job, she'd want to step up and become more independent, just goes to show the unfortunate mindset of that generation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:53 PM
57

I can't stand immature jokes either, it's such a huge turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:50 AM
45

Women shouldn't have to go into sex work to pay for college and life expenses, this is why higher education should be free for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:43 AM
10

Starting your own business is extremely difficult and most new businesses fail. Plus you need money to invest up front too. I lived with my father until after I graduated College. I was able to get my education paid for through grants and scholarships and worked part time during college. I got a full time job after college, unfortunately that was during the market crash in 2008, so finding a decent paying job was difficult. But after a few years of working my way up, I bought a house. You can bu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:35 AM
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I think it's weird that society pushes women to be demisexual when that's not the norm at all. Females of every species are very choosy about their male partners and for good reasons, we have to raise and care for these children and the future of the species depends on bringing healthy, strong, attractive babies into the world. We have way more to lose than men when it comes to sex and reproduction. It shouldn't be the other way around when it comes to being picky. I personally don't understand …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:21 AM
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This is why I went to college and wanted to be financially independent. I grew up with my mother who was dependent on her abusive husband and I never wanted to end up in the situation. Usually the women end up staying in abusive relationships because they don't really have a choice. Never put yourself in that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:49 AM
39

I swear Facebook groups are the worst. But yeah, that's ridiculous, there shouldn't be male mods in a female group 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:22 PM
88

He's a narcissist and it sounds like he did quite a bit of gaslighting during their relationship for her to question if she was really a downer or not. It pains me that she even thought she was in the wrong but on that first slide I knew she was with a narc and the rest of the slides sealed it in. He wants to paint himself as the good guy and wants women to think he's available to date. Never date a guy who's "in the process of divorce", often times they are lying or you're going to end up waiti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:45 PM
77

That's disturbing, I can't believe people are awarding that sociopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:38 AM
28

Yeesh that's sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:31 AM
164

Narcissists are incapable of love. If anyone says they've never been in love before, that's a huge red flag. They'll most likely be abusive and treat you like a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:26 AM
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If there's a way to send her a screenshot, you should do it, find her on Facebook or whatever you can do, she deserves to know before she breeds with this low life. Also, many men lie about their age on aps, you might want to bring the age range down a bit and stay a bit closer to your age. I'm speaking from personal experience as one guy I dated put himself as 35 when he was really 45. Plus older men have a tendancy to father you, control you, look down on you, not take you seriously, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 10:34 PM
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Men will always try to get easy, cheap sex where they have to put in little to no effort. I had a guy try to do this to me too, he made a lot more money than I did but wanted me to come see him but didn't offer to pay for a plane ticket. Nor did he want to come to see me. I never went because I couldn't afford it, it was for the best in retrospect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:13 PM
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Learned this the hard way. If a guy doesn't want to travel to see you, he's just using you for easy, cheap sex. They'll keep stringing you along and will never commit. If guys want to piss and moan over the fact that they have to travel to see the woman, they don't realize how often we put up with men using us like this. Men are the ones who need to prove that they want a serious commitment and not just easy sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:09 PM
6

The planets in each house can indicate physical features as well and they can also indicate health issues in the area of the body that that house represents, especially if they are retrograde. The 11th house represents the lower legs, which is where my daughter's legs are really skinny. The first house is the head as well as the body. Saturn can make areas of the body skinny or the whole body skinny if placed in the first house. Jupiter in the first house can lead to obesity which is what my dau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:01 PM
2

Because Saturn is a planet of restrictions as well and her lower legs are underdeveloped and really skinny. She also has Jupiter in Retrograde in the first house and happens to have hydrocephalus. Jupiter is a planet of expansion and hydrocephalus causes the brain to expand and swell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:35 PM
26

There are different forms of astrology, there is Western and eastern. I was taught eastern vedic astrology because that's what my boyfriend at the time knew and practiced for many years. He spent much of his life in a Hindu monastery and taught me a lot about the vedas and Hinduism as well. Anyone can learn vedic astrology just like anyone can learn Western astrology, they are both very similar except for a couple of planets. I also became Hindu myself and even after we broke up, I continued lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:42 AM
85

They see women like objects and what's sad is that so many men have this view towards women and young and inexperienced men are being sucked into this. They want women to cook and clean for them, have they not stopped to think about the fact most women work full time too? I'm sure they do, they don't care about equality in a relationship, they just want bangmaids. They want slave women who are going to worship their cock. That's just fucking delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:23 AM
11

Oh wow, that's even worse, yeah I guess I misheard that 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:00 AM
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He looked at my daughter and said she had Saturn in the 11th house because of a medical condition that affected her legs. We then did her chart and he was totally correct. I was hooked after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:34 PM
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Also, guys who say this don't even know much about astrology, they think it's all about the sun sign like you usually see in tabloids. But real astrology is based on your birth time and location as well and includes the placement of 9 or more planets within 12 houses. I actually didn't care much for it for a long time until an ex of mine taught me vedic astrology. I was actually blown away with how accurate he was which is why I became curious to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:28 PM
110

Women who post that are just fishing for compliments. But yeah, dude needs to put his laundry away. I would not sleep in a bed that was covered in cloths with someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:06 PM
84

I cringe so hard when I hear "men's rights". These men seriously want to play the victim so hard as if we women didn't fight tooth and nail just to be able to support ourselves and live independently for so many years. Usually they are just angry they can't control us anymore. They don't want to pay child support because they don't have direct control over how that money is spent. They don't want to pay alimony to a woman who has no job experience because she was a single mother for so many year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 09:53 PM
183

I'm busy with work is always bullshit. The reality is is that he's seeing another or multiple other women. Unbelievable he thought you'd be fine with just being exclusive without an actual relationship, which most likely means he wants you to only sleep with him while he gets to sleep around with other women and then lie to your face about it. He's just a fuckboy at the end of the day. Good for you for not putting up with that shit for too long. Stupid me dealt with this for 2 years in my last s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:15 PM
167

I hope you told his girlfriend and sent her these screenshots. That was no accident and "freebe?", are you kidding me!? More like, ew, wtf!? Why are men so delusional over their penises? How is it 2021 and they still think we want to see that shit, even from our partners. They'll never understand that we do not objectify them like they do us and break them down into body parts. We 👏 don't 👏 want 👏 dick 👏 pics👏 ever 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:02 PM
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Yeah, I stopped thanking people for awards because I felt I'd probably forget to turn it back off too, it sucks that we have to do that. I was being harassed by men long before joining FDS too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:37 PM
110

I'm sorry you had to read that, this is why I have chat and messaging turned off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:21 PM
85

Omg he cheated on her and is trying to play victim with a pity party as well as trying to gaslight her, probably a narcissist. I think what she did is hilarious too, lol. We should be doing this too when guys pull shit like this on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 02:16 PM
56

What is the sub, is it relationshipadvice? I'm pretty sure it's mostly young dudes anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:10 AM
108

Don't waste your time with low effort men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:08 AM
137

Good job 👍👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 02:52 AM
237

Words are just words, he has to prove how he feels about you through how he treats you and what he does for you, always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:08 AM
47

I have a serious boundary when it comes to laundry, I will NOT do his laundry. I'm not his mom and he's and adult and we can do our own laundry. The thing about this is that it's something they have to wear, so it's not like dishes or trash, they can't just let their clothes go unwashed and go to work in smelly, dirty cloths. But they are more than willing to leave dishes in the sink or trash all around until you get so disgusted in it you do it yourself, even though it's their trash and they we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:49 AM
166

He tried to gaslight you because he was mad you have boundaries, the nerve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:03 AM
241

Ew, these guys are sick, I'm glad you came to your senses. It makes you wonder why these guys just don't go and get a sex doll (they look and feel pretty real these days), but I've come to realize that they just get off on having power over women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:54 AM
121

I've never in my life been called this, maybe that's a good thing, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:31 PM
3

Right! He's filthy rich, he can pay a professional for that! He probably gets off on her doing it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:18 PM
12

I'm so glad others agree with how much Chris Pratt sucks. I hate this guy and this comment from him is just not funny when he says "another 2-3" years. And why is she clipping his toenails? That's just gross! I remember when he said that when he killed/slaughtered a pig he said it was like unplugging a TV and he felt closer to God. He's a sociopath! I'm sorry, but does your television scream out in pain and bleed all over the place when you turn it off!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:08 PM
27

So this guy decided to post his delusional fantasy as if this is going to happen to a lot men in their 40s? I'm sorry, but no, most women are not interested in men that are 20 years older than them. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 02:08 AM
41

Nothing like having people over to motivate one to make everything spotless, that is relatable lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:06 AM
102

I noticed that when I lived with a guy, most of the time they end up doing absolutely no chores and will literally leave their cloths, trash and dirty dishes around until you get so disgusted with it, you clean it up. I remember talking to my dad about it and he said, well maybe they just have a higher tolerance to mess, but now that I'm older and kept running into this, I realized that they were lazy and entitled and expected me to do all of the cleaning, even if I was working full time. Many g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:02 AM
21

Oh man I'm really sorry to hear about that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:44 PM
53

Yep, exactly, people don't realize just how much you'll be ostracized in these societies if you're a woman and get a divorce. Their family can even abandon them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 07:01 PM
27

Yes the genetic issues is a really good example
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 05:21 PM
31

It wasn't a skit, I looked it up and apparently they were supposed to walk away at some point but they walked away too quickly and it came across as very rude, which it was. They are trying to downplay it by making that excuse but I really think they just didn't care enough to stay even for a few seconds before walking off. She made light of it later by doing the same thing to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 04:06 PM
32

I saw that on 90 fiance, it's sad that people would judge so harshly on someone else's marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 04:04 PM
253

I agree, arranged marriages where pretty much set up to take away a woman's ability to choose and this is detrimental to us as an entire species. Men don't typically care about that far into the future, it's all about them getting what they want right now. I know in some countries and places the women can still choose whether or not she wants to marry someone their parents picked out, but still there is a lot of pressure from family and society to go through with the marriage, even if they are n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 12:50 PM
71

Wow WTF, they just walked away and ignored her while answering her question to each other?? What a couple of sexist douchebags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:52 AM
74

The last guy I dated said he was into BDSM. I wasn't really comfortable with the idea but I said I was willing to try a couple of things that didn't involve being hurt or anything. On my birthday he got me a facemask to wear during sex. It was the shittiest gift I have ever received. He made my birthday about his own sexual gratification as well as giving me a cheap gift he probably got at the dollar tree. At that moment he told me my worth. I should have stopped seeing him after that. One time …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 09:46 AM
59

You did the right thing, and yeesh, that guy is certainly delusional if he thinks the prostitute enjoyed having sex with him. He is paying them to have sex and to pretend that they like it, what a moron 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:31 PM
55

Nobody should ask to be invited, that's just rude, I totally agree. And it's lazy. If you wanted them to go, you would have asked them. Just tell them you didn't plan on them coming, maybe next time you two can do something, and ask them to let you know when they want to do something together with you. That way the ball is back in their court
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:38 PM
12

He passed over genuine love and connection for the sake of his ego for most of his life. God only knows how many women he used or hurt along the way due to a lack of empathy too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:41 AM
34

I've been lied to my whole life 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:37 AM
34

Ahahaha, yes! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:36 AM
35

I remember that! And he's still with her and even sticks up for her. Like dude, she lied about being Spanish, what else is she lying about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:33 AM
96

My daughter loves Fluffy so for her birthday one year I took her to see him live and man was I disappointed! This guy went on and on about his breakup with his girlfriend and his life problems. He's usually pretty funny when I watched his YouTube videos, but when we went to see him, that was not the case. He was bringing his personal baggage onto stage with him that night. A guy in the audience got up and immediately Fluffy started attacking him, accusing him of not liking the show. The guy just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:27 AM
37

I would feel uncomfortable about this too. Casually communicating once in a while is one thing, but close friends who they talk to frequently, no way. You were right to next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:46 AM
27

That's a good attitude to have. Sad but true they suddenly get interested when you brush them off like they did you. I hate that women get shamed though for sleeping around, so when things like this happen we feel even worse about ourselves. We really need to not let it get to us, shrug and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 11:27 PM
30

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:59 PM
5

Play videos games, oof, no wonder he's an ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:30 PM
8

You're grandfather was a good human being ❤️ that's nice to hear when most other stories involve men abandoning their wives the moment they become ill or disabled in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:25 PM
5

A man would see it and be grossed out and not once think about how her health could be in danger. He might tell her to get it cut off, maybe, if anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:24 PM
7

Leaving them is usually when they become violent and murderous. I agree, it's the sons who need teaching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:23 PM
21

If a guy is balding, he should just shave it all off, it looks much better that way instead of a receding hairline. But some men are so up on their feelings about it, they don't want to lose the little hair they have. As we women age, it doesn't bother us that much, and at 39 I'm ok with it, but I still prefer total shaved head over remaining small amounts of hair. Men panic because they are not attractive to 20 year olds anymore when they hit their 40s and 50s and start losing their hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:07 PM
21

He was also fishing for information which is dangerous! He was asking her where she was going after that, etc. Sounds like a stalker. Never tell a strange man where you are going and what your plans are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:03 PM
8

Congrats! I've been using this mantra myself! "If he wanted to, he would!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:44 PM
21

I'm sorry you had to deal with this, but you did the right thing. There's only do much you can do for someone and if they aren't going to listen to your advice, then they are never going to learn. I would say this woman needs a therapist but I doubt she'd listen to her therapist either. She needs to get real, she needs to come to this subreddit and realize her mistakes. I had a cousin who was always overly dramatic, blamed all of her problems on her boyfriends, etc, she never listened to me or t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:37 PM
8

ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 10:56 PM
57

And men say we women are too picky 🙄 Good luck finding a woman at that age with a high fico score too. Many women that age have student loans to pay too, which I'm sure would be more than 8K
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:25 PM
284

I don't know why so many people have the wrong idea about this sub. Like God forbid we are trying to avoid toxic, lazy, emotionally unavailable, fuckboy losers by sharing red flags and advice as well as advice for how we should behave and what to look for to find a decent and worthy guy. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:14 PM
21

Nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:26 PM
189

I feel really bad for her. Wanting a divorce simply because your partner just wants you to help a little around the house without being a total entitled douche about it seems extremely childish. I think she should go for the divorce and stop feeling sorry for herself. Sure, he can probably get a pick me girl, but even the pick me girls get fed up with their BS after a while. Who knows, maybe he'll learn what a raging, entitled child he was after she leaves his sorry ass. This type of behavior I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:12 PM
172

Yep, I learned that lesson the hard way back in my pick me days. They'll never travel to you and then they complain the whole time the one time they do. Plus they never take you seriously as a girlfriend. Let them come to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:03 PM
172

Good job on double checking the site! He was trying to weasel his way out of paying for dinner. Him sending screenshots of the buses sounds like a red flag to me too, even if trivial, it's like saying you are not capable of figuring out public transportation and it seems a bit controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 01:01 PM
30

Oh that's true, I was thinking about not cheating or defending your so when needed, but you make a good point too. Loyal to the point of not being a doormat or tolerating abuse or cheating too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:33 AM
190

You can't tell if someone is loyal to you in the beginning, that's not even a type, that's just something you'd expect in a relationship, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 12:19 AM
469

Every narcissist I know hates cats. I think his explanation is spot on and why narcs hate cats too. Cats have boundaries and narcissists hate that. Cats just don't go running up to blindly, automatically trusting you. Cats are awesome. It's a red flag for me, plus I have 3 cats, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:55 AM
34

If he won't call you his girlfriend after a reasonable period of time, stop dating him or having "sessions" with him, totally agree because at that point he's just using you. I learned that from experience, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:57 PM
133

interesting he doesn't list examples of how she was dissing men. Did she talk about the constant catcalling and sexual harassment we deal with? How about the statistics on rape and sexual assault? Or how so many men ask us to smile as if we exist only to please their eyeballs. Or how about the fact that we can't go take a walk when the sun isn't out. Or how we live our lives in constant fear or being raped, assaulted, kidnapped, murdered by men, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:38 AM
8

Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:05 PM
79

I'm confused, how is he doing husband things if they are not living together, isn't he just cleaning his own mess and taking care of her mother's cat, not his girlfriend's? The only thing I see him doing for his gf is her laundry, but it's not like he has to do that, she can do her own laundry. And the lunch thing, he doesn't need to do that either and he said "at times"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:25 PM
27

If you live in an apartment, always make sure there are additional locks that can't be accessed by a key and make sure to always lock those when you are at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 09:10 AM
32

Another example of how so many guys will just sleep with anyone because it's all about ego to them. As long as they got sex 🙄 Sounds like he's using these women too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:57 PM
417

Yep, this has happened to me and other women I know too. Now when a guy says his ex was crazy, my first thought is "what was he doing that was making her crazy?" It's almost always a red flag and later I find out that he's a cheater, abusive, controlling, etc and it's like, no wonder. The last guy I dated constantly talked about the crazy things his wife did but I think he most likely was probably behind it. The guy seemed Narcissistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:40 AM
5

I first thought this was a cosplay for an alternate Mario character or something, lol. Wtf is with that face? 😆😆 did he seriously look at that and say, ah yeah, this is going to get all the chicks! 😆🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:33 AM
80

Sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:38 PM
-21

SMDH, that's an extremely ignorant comment. That's not what demisexual means
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:59 PM
7

Yeah you're right but mostly because people just don't take time to really look into what it means which is why I'm sure many think they are but aren't. Unfortunately that can cause our sexuality being invalidated and make us feel like we are just normal when we are not. I've always known my sexuality was different when I was young and my friends would gush over "hot" celebrities and I just didn't understand what they saw and would just shrug when they said "don't you think he's cute, or isn't h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:58 PM
10

That's not it at all. I don't find men physically attractive unless I already have feelings for them usually based on their personality, I've known them for a while, there is an emotional bond, etc. Please don't invalidate my sexuality simply because you don't understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:31 PM
33

I don't find men attractive physically, I have to have an emotional bond or like their Personality first. Looking at a "hot" guy doesn't do anything for me. Too many people are confused about what demisexual means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:28 PM
121

I have no interest in hook ups at all, and am demisexual. But honestly I think most men want to sleep around to boost their egos more than anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:05 PM
62

Idk it was assigned to me by the mods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 12:05 PM
1027

Oh no.. anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:34 AM
187

Did she report him, he should be fired! I think your friend overreacted to your instincts, but hopefully she sees now why you said that. Men can be such creeps and they will often use their authority to manipulate, and in this case, sexually assault women under them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:15 PM
34

I die from cuteness overload everytime I see this. It also reminds me that there are animals out there that are more hygienic than some of my exes and that's just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:44 PM
51

Marriage should not be hard, if it is, why is she married? What's the point spending your life in constant stress like that? 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:32 PM
32

You are totally correct. Not having any guards up towards any man we encounter puts us in serious danger. I've been raped twice in my life. One was from an ex and another one was a guy I had just started dating. My sister has been raped too. So many women are victims of rape, it is a serious and huge issue in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:56 PM
10

I agree, the world would be much better off if we just shipped them all to the moon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:53 PM
61

Narcissists are incapable of feeling love, which includes real self love, empathy, compassion, happiness and joy. All they want is attention that reminds them that they are alive and maybe worth something and they want control over someone because it makes them feel powerful. They feed off of power and attention. Everything they say or do is a manipulative ploy to gain control over you. They say the love you so they can get a free place to stay. They buy you a present so will expect you to do so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:51 PM
37

They know they are shitty, that's why they are angry lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:54 PM
119

Because God forbid we try to help women avoid shitty, flaky or even abusive men. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:02 PM
125

I didn't know that about true crime, I used to watch a lot of that stuff but have since stopped. Probably good that I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:56 PM
7

I wonder if he's doing it so he doesn't have to spend a few extra minutes feeding the baby. Either way the man is sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:37 AM
30

I realized that after getting out of an abusive relationship with an ex. All the times he said he loved me was just all a lie to manipulate me. Narcissists are incapable of love. They are with you for benefits like a place to stay, having a servant to take care of them, sex, and to get off on controlling and manipulating you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:30 AM
69

What platform is this on? I want to find it so I can laugh at him directly. Edit: Found it on Gab LMFAO! Sweet sweet irony and karma! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:58 PM
32

OMG this is so sad, poor girl 😓 Men don't understand just how dangerous anal sex can be. Plus it's very painful and uncomfortable. I've heard the same thing happening to gay men too who are typically the "bottoms". I'll never in my life ever do this again. I feel bad enough letting men pressure me into it before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:22 AM
35

Relatable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:31 PM
539

Lol, if you mess things up so bad you need a billboard, you're a LVM for sure, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:26 AM
22

I think it's only an issue when they use it as an excuse to do shitty things or to excuse their bad behavior..I like it because it helps me know who I'm more compatible with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:04 AM
20

That's just embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:21 AM
20

He sounds like a narcissist, narcissists hate being told no and will say manipulative things like that to try to guilt you into doing what they want. Good thing you spotted that red flag and really looked into this jerk. Background checks should be the norm when it comes to dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:20 AM
142

She got a boob job to compete with her husband's porn addiction!? Am I reading that right 😳 wtf, no lady. She ruined her breasts over a porn sick loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:16 AM
116

Holy crap! No way I'd pay someone to tell me to basically be a slave and not have any life of my own or any down time while my partner contributes zero to domestic chores and parenting and gets to go out and have fun and laze about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 10:11 PM
497

Yeah that's a good thing to keep in mind and you're right, why would he continue in these group chats if he felt uncomfortable about it in the first place? I did have some boyfriends in the past who weren't into porn, but that was a topic that came up much later down the road. With all the antifap stuff I see, you'd think more men would start to realize that porn can be harmful and addictive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:06 PM
282

Should have stayed = 0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:30 PM
23

I totally agree with you, your children's safety is what is important and unfortunately it's true about the statistics with stepfathers. I was abused by my stepfather growing up and my sister was molested. You just never know. Sometimes you think you can really trust a guy and then they go a do something heinous and unfortunately the poor child is traumatized for life. It's best not to live with someone unless you are married when you have children involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:03 PM
119

She should have not started a pattern of paying for dates, even if she makes more money. Now that's what he expects so obviously he's not just suddenly start paying for things. Plus it sounds like he's really not into her if she's initiating everything. She needs to take this as a lesson and leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:59 AM
90

Lol, that reminds me of a date where a guy just started wondering off. That was the first and last date.. Luckily it wasn't too bad because I wanted to pop in this local club and see my cousin who played base guitar and see some of his show. Apparently he was jealous and didn't like that. Weird, it was my cousin dude, get over it.. So I ended up just talking to my cousin while he wondered off and my cousin was like, is there something wrong with that guy? I just rolled my eyes and felt embarrass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:10 AM
97

I'm 38 and feel that way. Just too much bs to deal with from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:00 AM
146

Her father has no empathy and it makes me wonder if he did that on purpose just to rub it in more. What an absolute asshole for saying that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:26 PM
215

Ikr like all around cringe lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:57 PM
165

Lol same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:47 PM
121

That is so true, there have been relationships where I felt single and lonely in because of the reasons she mentioned and also from emotional abuse. It was so much better just living by myself than dealing with being in a one sided relationship. I'm perfectly fine with my own company too and being single, I'm not afraid of living alone, there are times were I've been single for several years and didn't feel lonely at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:37 PM
3

Lol omg oof 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:15 PM
6

Lol wow, he was dumb as fuck 🤣 that's hilarious too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 08:02 AM
167

WTF. They got married, he bought her a car and paid for dates, so therefore she scammed him! wtf is wrong with men, sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:04 PM
98

Good for you, just focus on your and what you want, never look back. Once you get out, you stay out. And if he comes crawling back, you block, don't respond at all! One of my exes kept calling from different numbers. I would just hang up and black that number. Didn't say shit to him. That hurts their ego the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:10 PM
28

I was thinking the same thing, honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:42 AM
101

Poor pick-meisha, as soon as a guy gets successful in life he suddenly feels like he can do better and completely forgets about the woman who helped him get there and ditches her for another woman. I see it, every single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:31 AM
58

Yeah that too though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:48 PM
171

I took a break for a while for 3 years because I was afraid of ending up in another abusive relationship, but then ended up dating yet another Narcissist. Then I dated a guy who was really emotionally unavailable and noncommittal. I just gave up.. I'm 38 and I really don't want to date anymore. I'm totally fine on my own. Don't stress it, you do you and don't let anyone pressure into dating when you're not ready or don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:44 PM
84

He's either gay or bi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:35 PM
170

When I was in an abusive relationship, I was never in the mood for HIM. I would sneak off with the vibrator when he'd be in the garage or something. Extremely hard to get in the mood for someone when they are constantly putting you down and making you feel like shit about yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:54 AM
23

Lol ikr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:15 AM
38

Wow, I read through all that, unbelievable. This guy is still married and trying to hit up on girls on Instagram and Facebook!? And then he goes and throws a pity party on Facebook about how girls don't respond to him sending them DMs? 🤦‍♀️ WTF Never wait 10 years for a guy to decide to marry you, either. Sheesh, all that time she wasted on this entitled douche.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:39 AM
135

Lol, I'm glad to hear the son sided with his mom on this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 10:08 AM
60

yeesh, that is not cute at all, what's wrong with these women. I would honestly be offended if a guy did that to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:59 PM
98

What is she talking about? Isn't she showing what men think women should look like and be like.. that is to be really hot and heavily sexualized? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:28 PM
27

Did you diagnose him as being an entitled douche?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:25 PM
67

Wow, so many intuitives, I'm at home here :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:18 PM
25

The article beats around the bush over the fact that he was arguing with one of the girls he killed that he was seeing about how he has 6 kids and all. It's possible she got pregnant and he got mad about it, but I can't say for sure. Be safe out there ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:26 PM
23

I'm the same way, I grew up in an abusive household with a neglectful mother. My dad eventually got custody but the damage was done. I constantly find myself with either Narcissists, sociopaths or emotionally unavailable men. I'm also demisexual so I end up falling for a guy's personality more than anything. But unfortunately this personality is always fake. They come off as sweet and nice so I think they are genuinely good, kind and nonthreatening. But later I realized that I fell for an idea o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:34 PM
51

Oh my goodness, how lame! I think I know which one you are talking about too. I'm surprised they haven't banned me yet lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:04 PM
37

Lol, never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:55 PM
52

Totally agree, protect your fertility at all costs! Never rely on a man for that, they will stealth or straight up lie about pulling out and stuff. This guy reminds me of my daughter's father. He never called, never sent letters or cards or presents and constantly blamed me for not letting him see his daughter. He would pull all kinds of shit like this to make himself look good to his friends and family. He had his now ex wife convinced that I was crazy and wouldn't let him see his daughter. She…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:24 PM
6

Yeah I totally agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:16 PM
56

My dad was a single father, he raised two very independent ladies, my sister and myself. But he acted really weird about me moving out. I had a daughter and he threatened that he wouldn't come take her for the weekends when I decided to move 30 mins away. It was a house that was close to work and in an affordable price range. I was really confused but I think he just didn't want to be alone. He never remarried and was a social recluse, very introverted. I'm guessing some of these men just don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:04 PM
319

This is why they use us for sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:23 PM
57

Wow, I'm really sorry, the last thing someone should do in the throws of depression is to start dating. That's unfair to the other person and it's not even going to help with the depression and could even make it worse. There are so many people in relationships that are severely depressed. I have a male psychiatrist though and he never asked me that. I also told him freely that I broke up with my boyfriend and he had no comment about that. He knows I want to focus on my mental health and getting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:56 PM
176

I agree, speaking from personal experience and what I've seen from other men, they do not listen to women at all. They think we just whine too much and are being dramatic. Men only ever listen to other men. We ladies need to look out and stick up for each other and help each other spot red flags when we see them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:48 PM
47

I'm sorry that would scare off anybody and your dad sounds entitled ass to even ask for someone's last name on a second date. I don't think a guy has ever asked me that on a second date, like wtf!? Girl has to know the guy is not a psycho stalker who might break into her house and rape and hurt her before we divulge private information. He just proving that he doesn't care about the women's feelings about her own safety. He sounds like a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:13 PM
305

My ex was this, he had a good job when we first started dating, then he lost his job and spent 3 years mooching off of me pretending to be looking for work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:58 PM
53

Yeah it's the looks and the feelings too because everyone in my family is married except for my dad and one uncle who were divorced and so are all of my friends and co-workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:55 PM
108

I always feel judged by my family and friends for never being married. I don't really care anymore, I'm 38. I'm happy, so I don't know why I ever felt sorry for myself about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:50 PM
9

Block him on WhatsApp. If he calls, keep the number, hang up immediately, don't talk to him at all, so you can block it. Don't respond to anything!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:53 PM
2

Oh ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:41 PM
1

The writing things down part, does he have a hard time remembering things?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:37 PM
1

Idk that sounds weird (the writing things down part)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:34 PM
66

I hope she pressed charges! Wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:09 PM
108

I wish we could do this and get away with it. I read an article once where long hair pins where in style and women used them to jab men who would sexually harass or assault them and do you know what the patriarchy did? They banned hairpins 😡 Because God forbid women actually defend themselves 🙄😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:11 PM
457

If he's depressed he shouldn't be dating, he should be looking for therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:58 AM
58

I'm really sorry you had to endure this, my mom was very similar to yours. Unfortunately for many stepfathers, they almost hate their stepkids because they are just simply not their own offspring. My stepfather hated me and my sister and was very abusive to us. He seriously wanted to kill us, but he knew he couldn't get away with it, but I know he would if he could because he's a sadistic sociopath. You're mom is codependent and sounds a bit Narcissistic because she's always putting you down ins…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:12 PM
14

Me too, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:03 PM
11

Yeah it makes absolutely no sense, she'll probably realize that pretty quickly though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:43 PM
52

I had a guy blocked on my phone with the name of "Douchebag". Guy lied to me about being married and used me for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:39 PM
28

He's gotta stroke his ego somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:32 AM
21

Yeah that was probably it, I guess that's a no no, that was back in the day though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:45 PM
47

I don't know why I have a pickmeisha flair as I'm celibate and not interested in dating. I live on my own, have my own house and have always been independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:03 PM
81

Yes, I couldn't agree with you more! It's so important to know how to live on your own and be independent, you just never know what could happen! I knew a woman like this too, she stayed in an abusive relationship and then when she tried to move out she said she couldn't afford to feed herself, even though she had a good job. She was just making excuses to be dependant. She immediately got remarried after divorcing her husband. I don't know what happened to her though as I transferred to another…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 06:02 PM
9

Idk, it's a part of life, try not to take it personal and move on to someone who will love you the way you are. I remember I liked this guy a work one time and asked him out, he turned me down and later I realized he was into super skinny girls, like anorexic looking girls. I don't think I would want to be with someone who finds that attractive because it's just not healthy. He ended up marrying a super skinny girl, but she died a few years later, turns out she was really skinny from cancer. The…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:25 AM
94

Wow, what a psycho and he was gaslighting her that whole time too, yeesh! What's funny is that he asked her not to put it on TikTok, he knew exactly what he was doing and realized that things like TikTok exist and he could be humiliated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:05 PM
94

Omg, I'm so sorry and men keep accusing women of lying about rape and shit..I hope you get out, that's ridiculous and unfair since it doesn't show all of the footage. And bruises are not going to show immediately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 08:26 PM
44

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:12 PM
60

One of my co-workers was fired because he decided to randomly choke his wife during sex. She filled a police report and got a divorce. She was a co-worker of mine too. Much respect for her after that, but it was incredibly sad and unnerving to hear about. I also heard he was cheating on her too. What a waste of air that guy was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:23 PM
13

That would be the end of our relationship if a guy did that to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:19 PM
172

Don't let the internet gaslight you into thinking it's ok to wait a year or more for a guy to say "I love you". A guy usually knows within 3 months. If he doesn't love you by then, then he never will. I was with a guy for two years and the only time he said he loved me was when he was drunk. He never expressed and feelings towards me and made me feel guilty for expressing mine towards him. It was obvious by the end I was just a free prostitute to him so I ended things. Never again. Within 2 to 3…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:15 PM
11

I seem to be a narc magnet too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:02 AM
7

They are, it makes one lose hope for humanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:25 PM
103

Jesus, WTF. This is why I wear headphones everywhere I go. I would have given him the nastiest look if he said that to me and would have told him to fuck off, I'm trying to shop in peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:26 PM
17

Yeesh, the nerve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:18 PM
68

Wow, that's incredibly insulting that he asked you to cook for him, even if he was trying to be playful, like where tf does he get off? I would have been so disgusted with that comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:15 PM
35

Sounds like he was probably seeing her while you two were together. I hope you blocked him. She'll eventually catch wind of his bullcrap, don't worry. I once dated a guy who was actually still seeing his "ex" while we were together. He ghosted me and then told me he was getting back with his ex, but she had already told me they had been seeing each other that whole time. They got married a few weeks after that. I realized at that point he was a narcissist. He tried to Hoover me a year later, I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:37 PM
74

Threatening violence on a woman is never funny. Unbelievable that this made up scenario in this guy's mind got so many likes. Wtf is wrong with people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:50 PM
12

Yeah don't feel bad if you have to start ignoring her, your mental health and your life is important too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:32 PM
43

Wow, the girl has issues. I'd suggest to her to take some time off with the dating and sleeping around stuff and learn to love herself and focus on hobbies or something. She needs to stop looking for a relationship, at least for a while. Counseling could help her with her impulses. If she doesn't take any of your advice or at least considers it, I think you need to just stop talking to her. I had to do that to one of my relatives. She was a lot worse though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:23 PM
3

Ah ok, well I'm glad to hear they are doing something about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:50 PM
17

I honestly don't know why this guy is still working there, he needs therapy. Sounds like he had an issue with maladaptive daydreaming too. I used to have this problem, I went to therapy and was put on antidepressants. No more daydreaming for me. The meds he's on didn't seem to be helping him with that particular issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:01 PM
120

Lol, I have literally seen this happen. It never works out like the guy thinks it will 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:55 PM
165

"I would make adult films on my terms while having a primary relationship as well where we were both free to explore together and independently" Yeah good luck with that dude, when you catch feelings and then suddenly you don't want her sleeping with other men while you're out banging a bunch of women, don't go crying to your ex wife when you can't find a woman who will put up with that shit. The person that answered was right about porn being a job though and he might not find it as fun as he t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:52 PM
27

I was fascinated with the mythology too but there was alot of misogyny in it. I prefer Hinduism. The Goddesses are more respected, fierce and powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:44 PM
34

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:54 AM
171

By sending her money probably, lol, how much you want to bet he got scammed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:12 PM
316

"The more I cried, the more sadistic he became." Sorry you married a sadistic Narcissist, lady. Also, he was probably catfished and was sending her money too. For all we know he was talking to some guy in Nigeria, the moron. No 19 year old woman is going to be interested in an elderly man, bleh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:11 PM
323

Someone else added: "It normalizes the idea that single men are predatory, or worse, suggests that such men are meant to be predatory in situations where they can get away with it." Yes, that is exactly it and it's true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:08 PM
732

Lol, I'm glad they are punishing the men this time instead of telling women they can't stay alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:04 PM
36

True, dating at many colleges is down right impossible for many women because there are way more women there than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:49 PM
109

I noticed men who lie about the height or age or other things are almost always Narcissists. Don't trust them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:14 PM
344

I think it depends, I enjoy playing video games, but it's not a compulsion or addiction. I don't neglect parts of my life to play games. So many men are addicted to them though and they seem to have less restraint than women when it comes to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:28 PM
116

Only 4 years for killing someone!? He should be in there for life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:04 PM
73

I'm sorry, it seems like as females we can't be sociable or polite and if we're not, we get yelled at and called bitches. I always avoid eye contact with men for this very reason but I also have social anxiety which is another reason I do that. I feel violated if someone I don't know looks me in the eyes, but that's just me. Don't look at strange men, don't smile at them, don't talk to them unless you are a co-worker, asking for help, or something along those lines. Even when a guy says hello to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:30 PM
68

I hope you didn't send him the pictures, fuck that shit. He just wanted to rub in your face how good he's doing, what an ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:56 PM
31

Why would you not work? Being financially dependant on someone can be dangerous. I can understand if you have kids and all, but just not working entirely seems strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:18 PM
34

If you're not attracted, your not attracted, don't push it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:34 PM
29

It's their huge egos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:31 PM
6

Sounds like one of my exes, good for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:38 AM
26

Why men? 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:19 AM
43

Sounds like he's not interested in anything serious, move along before he continues to waste your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:18 AM
1

6 months, if he's not serious about you, not talking about your future together, isn't saying he loves you at this point, then move on. Guys know pretty soon if they think they want to marry you or not. If they don't, they hope to string you along as long as possible for sex, attention, other benefits until you get fed up and leave. Men think they have all the time in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:12 AM
14

Why would you invite your gf out for dinner and then expect HER to pay??? At least be upfront about it. It's unbelievable how many people are praising her and calling her a "queen".. that's not queen behavior. Also if this is a prank, it's not funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:40 PM
1

That guy was emotionally unavailable, his thing he's had someone you used to date and are not still with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:24 PM
37

I'm already there and I don't live in Texas, lol. But I live in Florida and DeStupid is most likely going to try the same thing here 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:17 PM
1

Move along
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:45 PM
3

Omg I'm so sorry, as if yelling at you is going to make you cum faster, if anything that's a complete turn off! Glad he's your ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:23 PM
2

I didn't even know this was a thing. I live in Florida, so maybe that's why, lol 😆 no way in hell I'm walking around with some dude I barely know in this heat. Unless the weather is good and it's a Garden park or artsy park where you can look at stuff, no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:56 AM
27

My ex was into BDSM. I now see it as a red flag. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I told him I'm not really into it, so we never really did any of it, thank goodness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:36 AM
1

I have messaging turned off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 01:48 AM
66

Jesus, smdh, the lengths these guys go to 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:28 PM
2

Yeah, I like the part where the woman comes in as is like "remember all the times you screwed me over", like gee, I wonder why she blocked you dude 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 02:44 PM
1

I'm glad to hear that about your dad, it always pains me to read stuff about how companies are always trying to get their employees to be slave laborers just so they can save a few bucks. Good for him for standing up for himself, I think everyone, including us women should be like this. I remember hearing a story on YouTube about how this woman back in her day stood up for herself and didn't work overtime for no pay. Basically the company pushed it's employees to work extra time by making it see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 01:25 PM
1

They are just so many men out there that are very entitled and egotistical. It seems everything they do stems from feeding their fragile egos. They make women pay for half of stuff even though they make more because that feeds their ego that they can get her to do that. They sleep with as many women as possible because it feeds their egos.. They treat women like crap because it feeds their ego. They only want you to serve them sexually because they are selfish and it feeds their ego. They want y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:29 PM
1

I saw that documentary of Woody Allen and I was disgusted. I never knew about any of that stuff, probably because it was before my time. It makes sense now why some of his movies were about an old man creeping on a teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:14 PM
1

Yep. My daughter's father told his new wife all kinds of horrible things about me. He claimed that I was crazy and refused to let him see his daughter when it was really the exact opposite. When she finally pushed him into getting him to see his daughter I was all for it because I really wanted her to have her father in her life. She realized I was actually a nice person and started to realize that he was lying to her about me that whole time. Not too long after that she found out he was cheatin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:02 PM
1

How is tone the same as punching someone in the face? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:40 PM
1

Maybe waiting for it to be official led her to cheating. I'll never understand why guys string women along like this. I remember a co-worker who was with his gf for 7 years and she kept begging him to get married, I think she gave him an ultimatum before they finally did. If you don't think they are someone you'd want to marry and spend your life with, why do you waste their time and yours? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:31 PM
2

WTF WHY WOULD THEY DO THIS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:58 PM
2

I'm Demisexual, I used to get made fun of for dating "unattractive" men, but I end up developing feelings for friends or coworkers and whatnot and it doesn't matter what they look like to me. Screw what people think, date who you want to date and who you find attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:54 PM
9

I dated a guy once who preferred to sleep with his arm around his dog than me. The dog took up so much space on the bed, it was uncomfortable. Like, yeesh. Add of course he was the noncommittal type. Right after he slept with me, the very next day he said he didn't want anything serious 🙄 I was really hurt because he never told me that before. We had been talking for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:15 PM
2

Yeesh, this made me laugh, the entitlement of this guy. I guess he thought making you feel sorry for him would get you interested or something? Oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:53 PM
12

I'm glad you had a wake up call, that marriage sounds totally one sided. Sounds like the porn was just the star e on the camels back of bs you had to put up with from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:18 AM
13

Her husband lied about his salary that whole time!? Why do men do this shit, seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:31 PM
1

My vagina looks pretty much the same after a kid, I have no idea what he is even talking about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:00 PM
2

I remember telling my sister I felt like a loser because I never got married. I was really depressed about it. I really do think it's because society looks down on you as a woman if you are single, but not to men. I got over it and stopped caring. Better to be alone than in a miserable or abusive relationship. After I broke things off with my recent ex, I've decided never to date again. I'm 38 and perfectly happy on my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:41 PM
22

Wow, wtf, what an entitled douche, the nerve of the guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:54 AM
1

Yeesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:02 PM
1

My ex was convinced that a woman at a store wanted to marry him, yes marry him, because she was being nice. 🙄 I was like, dude, you are fucking delusional, it's her job to be nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:56 PM
1

Just throw the whole man away. And sticking a random objects in your vagina can cause all kinds of problems and it's very unhygienic, wtf. I guess when you don't have a vagina you don't think that's anything wrong with that 🙄. This was also a really sneaky way of trying to force a threesome on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:45 PM
243

Good for you, you know exactly how he was going to manipulate you with this bs. 3 years, are you kidding me? 🙄 He should be over that shit by now and I think we all know he's going to try to get you to sleep with him and then keep dangling that carrot of commitment while whining and crying about "how his ex hurt him"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:55 PM
35

I am one of those women. I have decided to devote myself to my personal God and spirituality rather than bother with men. I have given up on men for the rest of my life. I'm not recommending others do that, but that's just my choice. I have been in so many abusive relationships, emotionally unavailable men or f-boys that I'm just fed up with it all. I knew before ending things with my recent ex the he was going to be the last man I would ever date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:10 PM
2

Holy crap, she has a point! 😯👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:06 PM
1

Yes, we really need to stop worrying about how we look when trying to protect ourselves. This guy knows her birthday, that's stalking and her first instinct should have been to speak to management about it and find another gym until he's kicked out of that one and not worrying about looking like a Karen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:03 PM
1

I feel you, I had an abusive ex who would flip out if i had even the smallest of accidents like knock over a glass of water. He was a narcissist, that's what Narcissists do, they love to look for any and all reasons to make you feel like shit about yourself and to kick you when your down or when your vulnerable because you are easy prey. It's all a control thing. I suspect your dad was a narcissist. Normal people behave the way that dinosaur did, it was an accident, shit happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:22 PM
1

I agree actually. Looking back none of those relationships worked out when I was asking other people for advice and their opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 05:14 PM
1

There is no cure or help for NPD, I'm sorry. But it's possible you could just be dealing with CPTSD and narc traits and maybe full blown NPD is not what you really have, which can be worked on, but you have to be the one who wants to change and improve yourself and that starts with self awareness as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:54 PM
1

He just means he was hoping you wouldn't find out, that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:16 PM
26

Get a bidet, problem solved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:58 PM
12

We are definitely regressing. The redpill/manosphere community appeals to men's tribalistic nature and their egos. It's much easier to deflect blame too. Much of the ideology is Narcissistic and almost all of the gurus there are Narcissists. Cults are always led by Narcissists too. It's a cult in my mind, just like Q anon is right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:49 PM
1

I always wondered if I was autistic too, but I don't fit all of the traits like the social awkwardness. I think I might be high functioning, but I don't really have the time or the money to get an official test. I'm almost 40 myself. This really needs to be explored more in psychology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 01:08 PM
23

Good for you, what he did was abusive. Normal people don't throw a tantrum and withdraw just because you briefly check your phone when you are making out with them. People who actually love you aren't going to do that. He was being controlling and manipulative. I had an ex who would pull similar shit like this and he was a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:32 PM
1

And the redpill men complain about female hypergamy 🙄 I can't begin to tell you how often I read stories like this, where a man has a super loving and supportive girlfriend and goes from nothing to successful and suddenly he dumps her like trash because now he can get a more attractive women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:16 PM
2

I'm always saying that men and women should keep their finances separate in their marriage and only have a joint account for bills and that's it. My daughter's father was the same way..I didn't get any child support for 4 years and it was really hard. I was on government assistance and Medicaid because she was disabled. He has barely been in her life and makes little to no effort to be, but then he has the nerve to spread all kinds of lies about me to his family saying that I won't let him see h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:55 PM
4

I had an ex who constantly tried to get me to quit my job. That was never going to happen. He also told me I was too independent and that's why I never married 🙄 I grew up in an abusive household where my mother was trapped in her marriage with a guy who wouldn't let her work and when she did get a job because we were really poor and needed the money, he would sabotage the job in every way he could. This scared me. I knew that no matter what I needed to be able to provide for myself. This was my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:51 PM
1

I had a guy tell me #1. He also told me that I was darker than he preferred (he was black and I'm white) 🙄 I'm perfectly happy with my own skin tone. That should have been a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:45 PM
1

Sounds like a serious red flag. He threw a temper tantrum because he couldn't pull on your curls? What a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:38 PM
1

Thanks, I didn't know this show existed but I'll definitely check it out. I've been looking for something to watch lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:07 PM
282

That is not cute. So he just settled for her because he felt like he didn't have many other options? He was only 21 and felt that way? Wtf, something is wrong with that guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:05 PM
11

I don't have most of those things on that list besides being an introvert and having anxiety and yet I constantly end up with narcs. I am, however, highly emphatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 02:41 AM
3

Wow, such loser and victim mentality 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:59 AM
3

My sister saw a movie that referenced this and she was quite disgusted when the guy said that they could only ever really love other men or something like that. She told me not to watch it. I feel really bad for women during those times, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:39 AM
3

It gives them an excuse to approach you, I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with this. I've never gotten a tattoo and I'm starting to think maybe the was for the best now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:42 AM
1

I remember arguing with my psychology professor, who was a man btw that sex is not a need, it's a desire and want. You're not going to die without it. They seriously had it listed with things like food, water and sleep in the hierarchy of needs 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:14 AM
62

These redpill and incel men are everywhere now. YouTube is also full of them. It's a cult and it's sucking a lot of men into it. Young men too, who have never even had a relationship and they are just teens and are being radicalized to hate women. They are creating this great divide between the genders and seeing women as an enemy, because idk, tribalism, narcissism, victim mentality, etc? I just gave up on men entirely, but there are spiritual reasons why I gave up on relationships too though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:36 PM
25

That's true, he was also cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:22 AM
72

My abusive ex did this, kept trying to get me to stop talking to my only two friends I had for years and I'm like, that ain't happening. I'm so glad I put my foot down on that and didn't lose any friendships over it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:20 AM
1

I don't understand the fixing a man's plate thing, he's not a two year old. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:50 PM
87

Never do threesomes, like ever, it ruins pretty much every relationship. The woman and/or the man end up wanting more from the third party, almost always and they get attached. I was involved in one before and that's what happened to me. Just don't do it and don't participate in them. You can also ruin friendships that way too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:04 PM
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