When in doubt, do without

Technusgirl · 2021-09-27T15:30:50+00:00

Should have stayed = 0

Breesasha · 2021-09-27T15:42:26+00:00

Yeah there's no reason to stay. If it's not a resounding yes and you know that this situation is healthy and happy. I wish I would have left sooner in 99% of situations I was on the fence. I'm even talking about friendships, I had some shitty pick-me female and male friends.

NotMyRealName814 · 2021-09-27T17:56:42+00:00

I severed contact with a very toxic immediate family member years ago and my only regret is that I didn't cut contact sooner. Much sooner.

karabnp · 2021-09-27T18:44:34+00:00

Oh my... do I SO feel this one!!🤦🏼‍♀️

Now, I immediately trust my gut/feelings, rather than question or dismiss them. You have those gut feelings FOR A REASON.

Montanegro · 2021-09-27T18:40:19+00:00

This applies to everything friendships, work, family, and romantic relationships. If it’s not serving you then leave.

LiquidSapphire · 2021-09-27T23:45:46+00:00

More like -- should have stayed -- 0 should have left - 100

cookiemonstergirls · 2021-09-28T03:31:44+00:00

This is the mentality I had when I was still with my abuser. I thought that I could not find a better man or that there were no better men than him. I figured out that I was wrong so I dumped that loser. Now I have a way better relationship with a man who respects me.

Dnotchtiebd · 2021-09-27T19:54:41+00:00

I made bullet points of all the fucked up shit he had done to me, it went over 50 points bc I kept remembering old things that my brain became numb too.

pumpkin-pied · 2021-09-27T18:15:50+00:00

I kept a counter of all the times I hate this relationship so much I wanted to cry. There were 37 lines.

Healingirl · 2021-09-28T15:13:22+00:00

lol I wish I had 2 should have stayed

thethirdflowrisgreen · 2021-09-28T23:16:15+00:00

Should have left sooner. ✋

Title	When in doubt, do without
Author	sexualfoodpantry
Upvotes	1813
Comments	17
Date	September 27, 2021 3:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pwja0l/when_in_doubt_do_without/
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