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| 159 | Women have it way harder then men in almost everything.In my culture, the child gets both last names and my bf is American and he understands that it's something I won't give up. My abusive ex on the other hand was very firm on not doing that but also had chosen the names based on his father and grandmother, and I had agreed to it all. According to him, all I was allowed was choose their middle names. He's the biggest clown for not only trying to negate me any choice in hypothetical children that I would carry and birth but also for wanting to erase… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:30 PM |
| 10 | Women who have high body counts because they want to, or because of the amount of promiscuous men who lie about their intentions?It's both, but also, when I had sex with someone and it was not great, I just moved on to someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 09:18 PM |
| 6 | If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you.My ex would say that all the time, and then he would try to insinuate that I was also an asshole for minor flaws related to my ADHD and things of the sort. Real fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:31 AM |
| 160 | WOC be careful fetishization is real....When I was dating, men would send me the most disgusting filth while I was a teenager and a virgin but apparently i wasn't bc Brazilian girls are "kinky." Porn really destroys their brain entirely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 55 | You don’t need to have experience to know he will suck in bedThe first guy I had any sexual stuff with, did the "let me go down on you" and then made me give him a bj. And then I met him a few times after but I was a virgin so I didn't want to straight up have penetration. The last time I went, I didn't do anything and just wanted to cuddle with him, I slept over and the next day he told me to not contact him again. Also he would order food just for him while I was at his house. Like he sucked from the get go but I was so needy and inexperienced that I to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:40 AM |
| 144 | Perfect example of a lovebomb - Dr WendyMy ex bought me a sneakers and introduce me to his mom within two weeks of knowing each other and he would drive 40 minutes to see me like every day and I was head over heels bc I thought someone finally had thought of me as worthy. All of that to then making me his bangmaid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:20 PM |
| 32 | If he wanted to he wouldI got myself a ring bc I broke up with my ex and he would always say that he would only marry me after I got a degree and that was years down the line. Not that weird of a requirement but it's the fact that he pissed all over my initial ambitions and didn't understand my mental illness and traumas and just didn't add anything to my life. just took took took. Also he started dating me on my senior year of HS and he was a Junior in college who had his life together bc his dad passed and left him e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:46 PM |
| 42 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌Honestly she can like whatever and whoever she wants, but the fact that she made a whole post and called other men "tall jerk." Like very clearly looking for male attention and for guys to message about how she's so diffferent ans special and a cool girl.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:33 PM |
| 32 | When in doubt, do withoutI made bullet points of all the fucked up shit he had done to me, it went over 50 points bc I kept remembering old things that my brain became numb too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 07:54 PM |
| 6 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)I'm out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:46 PM |
| 20 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimMy abusive ex tried to convince me that his ex, a tiny 5'6 girl was hitting him, all the while they both lived with his dad. First off he's a buff 6'1 guy that carries a gun on him at all times. Two, no way in hell that this woman would hit him and his dad would just accept it. I could possibly entertain the idea of that happening if he wasn't an abuser but even if it was true, his life was never at any risk, and he still has her contact saved on his phone. I don't believe someone that was physi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 12:05 AM |
| 4 | My brother is becoming more and more low value and I'm so disappointedIt's not that he wouldn't take my comments seriously, we are very close, I just didn't know how to word to him that he was being a dick. I try to stay impartial in what they tell me. But they have talked it out their issues and they are going to go to therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:58 AM |
| 35 | Can we talk about how being with a porn addict seriously impacts a woman’s psyche, body, and life?My ex was a porn addict and it was awful. One time he put on porn literally during the act. I confronted him years later and he said it was bc we had sex many times the day so it was hard for him to get up. So instead of telling me he wasn't feeling like having sex, he humiliated me and made me feel disgusting. Also he had many photos of random women on his phone that I asked him to get rid of but he would say that he didn't trust me, more than 2 yrs in the relationship. He said we were always a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:53 PM |
| 199 | I must eat my words, he is not a HVM now that I see clearlyDo not talk to other men. That's not going to help you in any way. You will just jump into something else that will not work. You need to deal with the end of this relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 01:48 AM |
| 619 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.I'm so disappointed in him. Like I thought he was so cool and had a stable marriage and then this shit. His midlife crisis is going a little too soon for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Scrote wanted to waste my timeWe had never spoken a word to before, he was just in some of my classes. Truly bizarre this entitlement he has. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 01:02 PM |
| 39 | Scrote wanted to waste my timeThat's a great idea! Imma do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:39 PM |
| 3 | I finally left.I have gone through similar things with my ex and I hope you are getting therapy and help to deal with it. Just being physically away from my ex basically stopped my extreme anxiety all together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 92 | I am so uninterested in relationships nowMy ex told me multiple times that "he couldn't take it much longer" usually when I "fucked up" bc of my adhd, but the second I dumped his ass, he was soo confused and suddenly I mattered so much too him. A fucking joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 11:20 AM |
| 268 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.Everytime I went on one of this "dates" my personal space and boundaries where stepped on. I was young and naive and broke and I would do the most. Neediness is a plague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:57 PM |
| 76 | What I've learned from dating a HVWThis is goals. Being bi is truly a blessing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 11:01 PM |
| 95 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.I went to a therapist that told me I have to work on forgiving my dad, who is a wife beater and I'm not sure sexually assaulted me and my older sister, but sure I can fOrgIVe HiM and we will all be a happy family again. Like what the fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:25 AM |
| 25 | Does it ever just make you sad how much women will put up with?Jesus this was exactly my relationship. Until I finally had enough and my mom gave me support to leave. He couldn't even give me any sympathy when my only grandma died, my favorite person. Fuck him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 09:55 PM |
| 59 | Times you need confort are good for vetting...My grandma passed when I was at my ex's house. I was screaming and crying. He gave me a hug and then went to work like nothing happened. Couldn't spend one of his sick days with me, it was too much of a bother I guess. Then I spent weeks crying and wherever he was with in public, he would tell me to stop crying, bc it was embarrassing to him. I will never forget that. My pain was embarrassing to him. Garbage ass motherfucker. That should've been the end of our relationship but I was so in love a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 12:44 PM |
| 61 | Watching children’s cartoons with my cousin and realized somethingTrue. My ex constantly berated me and screamed at me for my adhd symptoms and would tell me to just "try to change." There's no change to be made. It's how my brain works. Whereas his behavior was completely intentional and he finally admitted he did it bc he resented me. He knew all along what he was doing. He knew how he was making me feel, it was just all justified to him. His revenge for me not "trying enough." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 46 | Holy shit. I finally did it.My ex used to do this whenever I did anything that he didn't like for whatever reason. It was sick and humiliating. You are better now away from this behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 10:30 AM |
| 62 | Horrified at the scrotes in the comments defending this POS, and the pickmes trying to make him feel better about doing a runner, leaving his girlfriend and her 7yo nephew at the site during an active shooter attack.Imagine being so shitty that you save yourself over a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:11 AM |
| 55 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyMy SILs grandma passed away from neglect bc of the fact that she was an old lady. They brushed her heart attack as simply a tensed muscle while she was throwing up and have to go in an ambulance 3 days in a row. This is the expected treatment for us women. They couldn't just done an EKG and she would still be here today. Even when women advocate for themselves, we are brushed off as dramatic. I have been advocating for my adhd my entire life and after being neglected by my extremely religious mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:03 AM |
| 24 | I blocked and deleted ...You will be better without him dragging your spirit down. I feel much better since blocking him 2 yrs ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:48 AM |
| 62 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnGood for you! Respect yourself first! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 42 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboyYes, they're all fantastic women too, extremely humble considering their obvious success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:37 PM |
| 71 | I don't like women with stretchmarks!I am in complete favor. I dislike body hair in myself and my partner bc it's just 🤮 to me. Obviously I don't police what other people do with their own hair but I prefer completely hairless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 58 | I'm constantly sexualizedI come from Brazil where people are always referencing and talking about other people's bodies, and as a child I remember people talking about my butt and talking about my legs bc I was a swimmer. It's so gross. I didn't realize how disturbing this was until I moved to the US. I thought I an attractive, people always talk about my butt, in a positive way, not in the I am a child and this conversation shouldn't exist in the first place. Now that I have boobs too and again I am brazilian, I am con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 33 | I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮This is legit my mom, she sees her life as great when she can't even go anywhere without her hubby 🤮 no longer exercises (her favorite thing to do throughout my whole life), only helps his own grown children, not me or my brother, because we're "adults" (I've been by myself since senior year of high school, when she married this trash.) I have only recently found out that my dad used to beat her, so I think this is an upgrade in her eyes. Both men are extremely abusive and controlling, but my da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:56 PM |
| 16 | Just facts ❤️I have tried leaving multiple times but I didn't have any support or where to go since we lived together. Thank for your encouragement!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:47 PM |
| 93 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboyYup, one of the highest paid model multiple years in rows. As a fellow Brazilian, she's a reason for great pride for us all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:28 PM |
| 121 | Just facts ❤️I broke up with my bf finally and he was whinning about how he has changed so much, I asked him what exactly has the done and he said "i have stopped yelling at you." Literally nothing. The audacity these scrotes have. After 2 and a half years, his change is that he stopped yelling this past month. Idk who is the biggest clown, him or me that accepted this behavior for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:13 PM |
| 132 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboySomeone told me that men in their 40s are at their prime, she was 3 yrs older but felt insecure for holding back her husband from "prime age." We keep this delusion in society for the sake of crusty men's egos and it's sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:06 PM |
| 96 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboyIt's the holywood bs that men only get serious at around 30. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 12:04 PM |
| 187 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboyFor me 5 is already too much but I'm in my early 20s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:57 AM |
| 348 | The eternal Hollywood fuckboyIt's giselle, she's literally one of the most beautiful women in the planet. It's not shocker that she dumped him after he wanted to have her as a forever gf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 11:56 AM |
| 93 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!Because we live together, in 5 days I'm going on a place across the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 02:01 PM |
| 94 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!I am bi and I caught my soon to be ex, tlaking to his friend about how he "groomed me into it, and how he will get away with having a threesome with me" little does he know, I'm dumping him in 5 days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 22 | But he’s got a 2k PC set up for gaming, complete with a $200 chair, spends $300-500 a month on weed/alcohol/fast food…but you should settle for this Cracker Jack ring because he shouldn’t have to prove he loves you. The pick me’s in the comments were just sad…Bruh my soon to be ex bf used to spend easily $2000 on his gaming and weed/ alcohol things but going out to dinner once a week and buying groceries would break the bank apparently. This relationship is over from my end for a number of reasons but while I am still here, I will not by taken advantage of any longer. This man doesn't even throw this own trash in the trach container. He even made me get lasered on my coochie and would conviniently forget about the payments we agreed on. Not like I co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 06:41 PM |
| 321 | Facts. Straight up facts.And then men will blame us for their inadequacy. It's the biggest joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 3 | I forgot that I had salmon and accidentally left it in my fridge for too long. It expired. I was upset about it since I hate wasting food (and also because salmon is delicious), and lamented to my BF about it. Next time I saw him, he had a piece of salmon in the fridge waiting for me to take homeI have never experienced that wow 😔 it isn't even a big deal, jesus men really give us less than nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 10:27 AM |
| 2 | No, an abuser does not "lose control." He is perfectly in control of his faculties when he is abusing women. He knows exactly what he's doing. The first time an incident like this happens, walk away, block and delete, and never look back.I know all of that, Im currently reading the book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | No, an abuser does not "lose control." He is perfectly in control of his faculties when he is abusing women. He knows exactly what he's doing. The first time an incident like this happens, walk away, block and delete, and never look back.He does this even right before his friends come over and when they do, he's perfectly normal while I'm crying. Would it be because he spent the last hour yelling at my for something ridiculous? 🧐🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 26 | Anyone who is actually high libido who is now low libido because of disapppointing experiences with men... that thinking about having to deal with their BS in order to have sex is just too unappealing?You can get out of this world orgasms when youre high on edibles bc the dosable is higher than smoking. It's the best orgasm in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:47 PM |
| 23 | Porn teaches men to derive pleasure from causing women pain. This blatant misogyny is in full view and being promoted by lvm and libfems with internalized misogynyMy soon to be ex doesn't understand how my desire to have sex changed so much even after I explicitly said many times how I want to orgasm too when we have sex, and how I will no longer have sex with him if he doesn't shower before and clean his dick. Literally basics. I was selling myself soo short at the hope of being seen as this always horny girlfriend, when in reality I wanted to have sex so much because I wasn't getting anything out of it. I had convinced myself that I was unable to really… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 03:00 AM |
| 22 | Avoid chasing after low effort men and wasting your energy on a one-sided relationshipMy constant need to be liked and neediness makes this so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:13 PM |
| 11 | Another Reason to Never Reveal Trauma, You May Not Have Thought OfI have learned since I was raped that people don't need to know. They will give you shitty advice and look for "the most logical" thing except trauma isn't logical. My level of comfort on the matter is way more important that "logic." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:22 AM |
| 7 | «If you think the current conversations about women’s safety don’t affect you...» I thought a lot about this, and its trueI was a child, probably 8,9 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 03:30 AM |
| 34 | Pregnant feminist who makes way less than bf will "pay for herself" in the name of equalityI posted it before but I had forgotten to edit the photo. Let me know if it's okay to repost it since I deleted the other post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 01:17 PM |
| 10 | Told my, soon to be LVX husband, that I am considering divorce because he’s unable to/does not care for me and my mental health…he said I was being mean and lazy.Ohhhh thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 31 | The perfect response for scrotes whataboutismOmg the girl from true blood, thats why she looks so familiar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:15 PM |
| 73 | The perfect response for scrotes whataboutismWhat is this from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:03 PM |
| 14 | Told my, soon to be LVX husband, that I am considering divorce because he’s unable to/does not care for me and my mental health…he said I was being mean and lazy.Whats pied? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 19 | She has his children and made her entire identity about him. SadI can see both of them being true. I thought it was weird she said friendzone as well. And yeah since when are men so great at sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 32 | She has his children and made her entire identity about him. SadIts because of the constant praise for him, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 138 | Remember the Chris Watts family murder? There is a subreddit dedicated to blaming the wife and people who wish they could have murdered her too. 137 women are murdered everyday by their partner. Be safe ladies, these men are everywhere.I saw a comment not too long ago about a woman that murdered her abusive husband and the court and psychologists sided with her. Everyone replying was saying how "she probably made it all up" and "women have it easy." Men will break us down into insanity and then blame us for it. Fucked up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:41 PM |
| 18 | She has his children and made her entire identity about him. SadTheir relationship seems very one sided | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:14 PM |
| 41 | Lundy Bancroft's book "Why does he do that" is an eye opener.It really forces you to face reality! Made me unable to look at my bf the same again. Before I would constantly just forget his abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 45 | She has his children and made her entire identity about him. SadDisturbing really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:28 PM |
| 116 | She has his children and made her entire identity about him. SadYesss! The fact that she's "out of shape" isn't crazy considering she popped 3 babies in 5 years. And I bet her "amazing inteligent husband who she loves more than her children (WTF???)" doesn't help around the house, doesn't help with the kids. She's doing all this work, mentally and physically and still blaming herself. So sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:29 PM |
| 14 | Idk what she was trying to accomplish here, it gives a pick me vibeTruly lol I got a sense of saltiness from her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Idk what she was trying to accomplish here, it gives a pick me vibeYes, I agree with everything you said. Firstly is annoying as they dont live in my relationship and know all the details of it. I told someone and they would tell me it's just COmuNiCATioN IssUeS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Those that you have close relationships with can be causing your mental health issuesDamn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:24 PM |
| 29 | Those that you have close relationships with can be causing your mental health issuesOmg I have started the teeth grinding thing after I moved in with my bf and I had never had this before. Coincidence??? I think the fuck not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeIuds are only painful during insertion. For the past 2 years I haven't really gotten a period or cramps at all. Condoms are less effective than an iud. Iud gives me the security that some guy wont just take off his condom without my consent and rape me. Also I am pro choice, but I do not want to get an abortion. If I get pregnant and the guy skips town, if I get an abortion, I will be the one paying for it. What guarantee do I have I won't have multiple abortions in a 7 year period (the length m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeI was assaulted as well and I feel the same way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:25 PM |
| 7 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeI hear that isn't that common and I'm so glad it didn't happen to me cuz I would've been pissed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:18 AM |
| 6 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeAgreed!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:00 AM |
| 301 | If he can hold down a job, he is capable of doing tasks at home without asking, and remembering important dates.Very well said. It appears that relationships are jobs to women while men view it as vacation, there's always a servant cleaning, hand feeding him and then after she even fucks him. Why would he ever try to change this dynamic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 20 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeI didn't know that was an option 🌝😔 def better than being aware 10000% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:10 PM |
| 28 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeOh I heard the second one is worse, this gives me hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:03 PM |
| 112 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeThe pain of insertion was hands down the worst pain of my life, but the freedom it gives me makes it so worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 405 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeHow glad I am for my IUD. Specially since it was free. If there's any teenagers here, please go and see your school nurse or whatever health is offered at your school. Birth control is so expensive and being able to live 5 more years without worrying about being trapped to some pos is sooo worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexHe used to go to strip clubs a lot before we met, like he has stories of all kinds of strippers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 6 | Yes, all women. But, of course, NoT aLl MeN. Stay safe out there, sisters.Thank you 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:00 PM |
| 16 | Yes, all women. But, of course, NoT aLl MeN. Stay safe out there, sisters.I'm taking the steps to leave my relationship and to seek therapy. It's hard being an immigrant and have to fetch for myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:41 PM |
| 12 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexI have never been to a strip club so I didn't know this at all. This makes it so much worse ewww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:02 PM |
| 42 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexMy soon to be ex, has had sex with strippers and claim that it is somehow a compliment that "they chose him", he paid them too 🤮🤮🤮 And he had the audacity of shaming me for giving head to a few guys before I met him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 72 | Yes, all women. But, of course, NoT aLl MeN. Stay safe out there, sisters.I was raped at 19, I know a girl that was 17, and probably more people that just aren't okay with telling others. They can't even wait until we become a person to ruin our lives forever. In 2 years, I have stopped going on walks, riding my bike, going to the movie theater by myself (I used to be an avid movie person), going anywhere at night or early morning by myself without a pepper spray. Going anywhere, night or day without having my car doors locked immediately and at all times. But yeah Ra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:15 PM |
| 145 | YepI was talking to an uber driver today and he told me he gets the same type of advances from gay men. The common denominator here is MEN. To no one's surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 148 | There is no obligation for you to stay with an unaffectionate man.I am learning this little by little. It is just soul crushing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:14 AM |
| 5 | FDS is, in and of itself, a revolution; and we need to be cognizant of that.Yay!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 5 | FDS is, in and of itself, a revolution; and we need to be cognizant of that.How long does it usually take to get accepted as a member? I've been in this sub for a month now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:09 PM |
| 7 | Chrystul Kizer, sex trafficking victim accused of killing alleged 34 year old abuser when she was 17, wins appealThe fact thay she winning isn't the norm for this kinda situation is so depressing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Dating a woman and ignoring the men who want me has been the best dating decision I’ve ever made.I wish to explore my bi side and be free from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:46 PM |
| 13 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈Even if he gets another woman pregnant 🌝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 1 | "My Ex accused me of rape"He's trying to get pity point from you while being a fucking rapist?!!? Grosss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 7 | A report on the consequences of OnlyFans by a member of the websiteThis makes me really sad. Even more bc I was sold the same lies and even considered it before finding fds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:18 AM |
| 67 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.I stopped having sex with my trashy bf because I can't cum anyways and he responded that it's normal for woman to not cum a lot, it's just a mans thing. Imagine being this proud of being a shitty lover. I have brought thid up multiple times and his response is that l should take responsibility for my own pleasure. EXCUSE ME??!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:11 PM |
| 67 | Men & “the wall”This guy tried to "ask me for brunch as friends" on a website about finding roommates, after I already told him I don't want to live with a man, it even says so on my profile. I am 21 and he is 33, he says it's because I "seem like a cool chic" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Yet another reason why you should NOT be "friends with benefits": CRIMINAL LIABILITY from scummy dudesFwb is such a scam. One of the reasons many woman even consider it is because they don't want their number to go up when they crave sex. Only benefits men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:46 PM |
| 6 | "Sit down with him and have a conversation"He would tell me repeatedly that even though he promised to delete snapchat naked pages and didn't, it was all because he couldn't trust me. That he would do it when he felt like he could TRUST ME. That I hurt him by brEAkInG His TrUsT but it was okay that I felt unworthy since I deserved it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 03:20 PM |
| 31 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.Love how day dreaming and over excitement are considered suffering in his view. And yes plus if you send me photos but if you did for anyone else, you're disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:45 PM |
| 122 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)Thank you for posting it here. I wouldn't have seen it otherwise and I am currently saving up to leave an abusive relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 45 | ATTENTION BLACK WOMEN -YOU ARE IN DANGER- TRIGGER WARNING!!!After listening to that, I need some cleanse because it was disturbing to say the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 5 | Ghosted? Supreme Pickme Has a Solution 🤡I just don't believe her celebrity stories at all, so I don't watch her content. Her character is questionable so I side eye her. And she talks about cheating on her partners and acting like is fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 77 | It’s 2021- no more getting scammed for straight women.🌺 Reject casual sex and normalize sex as an extension of a loving relationship for our youth.This idea that we should sleep around even though women don't like it needs to stop. Yes, I would like to not be called a slut for sleeping with someone but st the same time, I don't want to treat my body like a disposable object. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | 3 minutes and 30 seconds of women lying about penis size not mattering.We keep saying it doesn't matter as young women because that's what other people throw at us. After having contact with very small or too big, you realize that it does matter. It literally does inside you, how could it not?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 5 | Ghosted? Supreme Pickme Has a Solution 🤡I was really into it all until you said Shallon Lester🌝🌝🌝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 10 | As a woman with a PhD in a hard science, who was told too many times that I act too masculine and "I'm not a real girl" by my own family, all I will say is this: DO IT ANYWAY.When I took classes in AP or honors, the majority where female. I had ap english where there was a single man to 15 woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 24 | If he gets a boner when you cry, RUN. That is a Pavlovian response from watching too much violent abuse porn. He has literally trained his brain to be sexually aroused by women's pain.This is so fucked up jfc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:17 PM |
| 17 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEJesus christ this bring back so much pain Ive felt. And to be told that is because "I couldn't leave him alone or understand that he was angry." An abuser will find even insignificant things and make it a problem. I have had discussions about a hair comb before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 7 | YEP👏🏼Damn! I agreed to everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:32 PM |
| 21 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieThat sounds amazing! I'm going to have that one day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 9 | Imagine wanting to take multiple girls for coffee and not even being able to pay for it and then complaining about women using men in the comments. What a scrote. The pickmeishas in the comments are even woseI had told my boyfriend at the time I didn't like flowers if not in a vase. After a year of dating, I told him I wanted a vase of my favorite flower, which was maximum $30. He instead bought me an airfryer. A shitty one too. No flowers or anything. I had told him EXPLICITLY THAT I WANTED FLOWERS. That's the only thing I asked. And he couldn't bother to pay attention. And then it's WOmeN ArE a MYsTerY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 34 | Beware The "Momma's Boy."And just because he only has sisters or whatever, it doesn't mean he isn't misogynistic and/or narcissistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | They suddenly want to prove their worth when you are no longer falling for their shitWhen I was 19, I went on a few dates with this nvm all of which ended up being at McDonalds or his car and I had to pay for myself. Idk how I met him 3 times tbh. I was a virgin at the time and he kept saying things like "you would be my girlfriend if we slept together"🤮🤮🤮Anyways when he texted me, I told my bf at the time so we could laugh at him and bf went batshit crazy. He said I was "encouraging" the guy to text me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | My amazing great-aunt (and how she helped me level-up)Im jealous I don't have a family member like that. When I have told aunts and even my mom of things I viewed as abusive, they told me it was normal and all men are like that. I don't blame them because they are in abusive relationships themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:06 PM |
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