Rando from hs recently added me on fb and started messaging me. This was after I changed my fb status to single and changed my pfp since I got out of an abusive relationship. I'm obviously not interested in men and specially not him, he isn't even remotely my type. I didn't have anything to do and he didn't ask me questions that were romantic or sexual so I kept talking to him. Then he says "oh you should teach me your native language - which is code for give me your time so I can flirt with you. I pointed out that he has friends from the same place I am from that could teach him, and he straight up said that "you really think they would give their time to do that?" So basically his friend's time is valuable but mine isn't. I told him my time is precious. He replies that he can teach me his native language (which I have not expressed any interest in it, because I don't have any interest in it.) I just ghosted him since. He straight told me that he just wanted to waste my time and didn't respect me as much as his friends lmao. In my pickmeisha times, I would try and help bc I love sharing my culture but he clearly has ulterior motives so no thanks.