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I've always had the impression that Zayn was NVM. He broke up with his fiancé by message and ghosted her. Started dating Gigi on and off and never proposed to her. Clearly she was much more invested in the relationship than he was. He seemed an obvious deadbeat man. Not long ago he got into a fight in a bar in NY. So this comes as no surprise to me. Gigi showed staggering pick me behaviour and it's very unfortunate, but the result will never be different when you're dealing with a LVM. I feel fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 02:04 AM
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Yes, I was asking a man these days about his favorite films and tv shows and he straight up told me that he loved The Wolf of Wall Street 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:10 PM
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Oh, it's because white women's body hair is celebrated and no one minds when we have it. It's only non-white women who are ever berated for having body hair and pressured to remove it. I was never personally celebrated for having armpit hair or hairy legs. On the contrary. I've been approached by women who told me that I should hide my armpits until I had shaved them. Others had the audacity to say that my hairy legs looked like men's legs. Well, one can successfully argue that black women have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 06:25 PM
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He's not wrong about this particular subject. But most of his ideas have plenty of misogyny underneath them, and have the purpose of pleasing his target audience- men. Some of them might be valuable but are problematic for the said reason. One example: how he sees the increase in violence and mass shootings, etc. He gives the men responsible for those issues a pat on the head and says they do all of this because whey want a girlfriend and feel lonely, lol. (Notice how he paints the murderers as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:29 AM
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Yeah being a male OB GYN is like a big red flag. Wonder why there are so many of them and so few women andrologists or urologists 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:06 PM
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He actually did propose after 2 years with Olivia. After they had welcomed a son. Then managed to have a daughter and a 5 year engagement that ended last year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:46 AM
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If a woman attempts to tell him how it's not going to work, he takes it as a personal attack and interrogates her for an hour to get her to explain how she came to that decision. Yes! Or tell her to STFU straight away. Most men don't even ask for an explanation. If she was right that would have been too much of a blow for his fragile ego. Even if he makes a serious mistake, he wants to persist in being wrong. They literally don't want the help of a woman, if she's not granting him money. Which s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:18 AM
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Yes, absolutely. When i was attracted to LVM my intuition always set off the "alarm". So I knew I was getting into trouble before I got into trouble. The thing is that the world is full of LVM and your intuition says "stay away" so much that you start to doubt it. The antidote to this is to know that it is better to be alone than to be in awful company. You're at peace and your intuition stops going full "run! this is dangerous!" mode. When meeting the right guy the intuition goes "this is inter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:11 PM
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For me "I love you's" are not that important. The way someone express love and affection through actions is much more important. To say something is easy. To act accordingly? It takes effort and commitment. I will not love a guy after just 3 months we've know each other. It could take years. "I love you's" are meant to be very costly and he should earn it in first place. Though I wouldn't say it at all if I didn't mean it. "I love you" means to me that I would do anything for that person, or alm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:46 PM
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Thank you so much for this information! It made me rethink some misconceptions I had about the pill and other BC methods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:12 AM
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"Money cannot buy happiness, but the lack of it certainly grants you misery." There are researches that conclude that growing up in poverty affects the brain. It leads to more stress, negative feedback and to bad development of the brain's functions. Money is necessary for survival and for mental well being. Love does not put food on the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:25 PM
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women surely don’t find genuine happiness from it... Far from it. I have a cousin who did hook ups for decades. On the exterior, it seemed like she didn't care at all and was just having fun. Later it surfaced that she has had an abortion when she was very young and was traumatized ever since. She can't get true intimacy with anyone, have panic attacks, constant nightmares and can't stand to be alone. I saw through her facade. She was empty inside and the hookups were an attempt to fill that voi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:02 PM
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Knowing how to carry a conversation is a must. Being articulate and bringing interesting subjects and ideas to the table is a must. For long term commitment, that is. If they are not "natural confident conversationalists", they can always learn some soft skills. There are tons of content on the internet, even courses to become more charming and confident. Therefore, if they choose to stay social awkward is because they don't care enough to change = low effort. This is personally one of the most …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:07 PM
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Work and stress can take a tool on both your mental health and overall health. In all situations put yourself first. EVERY. TIME. Things that are stressing you out today may not even matter in a year, so it's not worth it to suffer in anticipation or to put so much pressure in yourself. Not a single job is worth more than your well being. Sometimes life is not supposed to be taken that seriously. Learn from your failures and move on. Laugh in the process. This is part of the level up mentality, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:26 PM
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One guy that was hitting on me once showed me all the p*rn accounts he followed on Instagram intending to make me think how "macho" he was. 🤢 Needless to say that it had the exact opposite effect and left me SO disgusted. Like how can you display this type of behavior with pride like it's not the most sickening thing in the world?!!! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:04 PM
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It can be a good vetting strategy to purposefully disagree about certain topics before meeting in person and this is why. The way he responds to a "no" tells so much about his character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:44 AM
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You don't have to know for sure that they are narcissistic. One of these patterns of behavior is more than enough to quietly seek the path of freedom and cut the BS. Leave him and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 11:58 PM
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Yeah most guys I don't even have to look twice to know that they are lnc*Is, they just creep me out. To even talk to them feels degrading and like I'm "dirtying" myself. If even 5 min in their presence can have this awful effect, imagine the permanent damage it can do to one's self worth to spend more time with them. Ugh. The best thing to do is get away from them ASAP, even if it means to be rude. It's a matter of self preservation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 05:07 PM
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Thank god it's not just me. "some of the guys that thought I'd be interested in them has got me feeling insulted" and as if there was something wrong with my appearance, exactly. Like, do I look too approachable or overly nice? Sometimes I feel it's not that they overestimate themselves, they overestimate women's capacity for feeling pity for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:40 PM
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Porn and prostitution don't treat women as human beings, but as objects. Since prostitution exists, men go to prostitutes and bring STDs to their wives. It's bad for public health and for society and has always been. And it's one of the reasons that we haven't made more progress to grant women a better experience in society to this day. There is no arguing against facts. So if they do defend this is because they enjoy it and couldn't care less about the consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:15 PM
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I've never been to Australia, but women that I know that actually have, say that the men are respectful. They say that men take a long time dating before the first kiss and it's considered rather inappropriate to kiss in public. And in public spaces is considered "strange" for a man to touch a woman that he doesn't know, etc. That doesn't mean that they are not LVM, it's a cultural thing there. Definitely better than the US. Anyway, that's what was presented to me, maybe it's just their limited …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:33 PM
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It really starts at 11:11. The fact that it was made in Australia, one of the best places for women to live in the world, adds an aggravating layer of complexity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:18 AM
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On Hollywood, the one who always gets so much praise for just existing is Meryl Streep. She was kind of friends with Weinstein, called him "god" in an acceptance speech and got minimum hate after he fell from the pedestal. She has immaculate reputation. Some people can see that she's overrated, but most are always saying how incredible, spectacular she is. It's not like she doesn't know how to act, but simply that she's not all that. She's definitely not "the best actress of all time".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:15 AM
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"Alpha" maybe after he got all the money. His ego clearly got a boost. Before that he behaved quite beta, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:03 AM
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He also said that women are "chaos" and the men are supposed to bring order to the "chaos". The way that the women who contradict him become ridiculed on youtube is disheartening. They say that everyone who doesn't agree with him is stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:43 PM
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Well, if they meet full criteria or not is a question of observation and it might take years to diagnose an individual. My point is: if they meet most criteria, enough to raise doubts, they should be treated as such - not from the institutional perspective, but from red flag perspective. I know about the "innocent until proved guilty" thing, but if someone is remotely NPD, IMO, they are not healthy. And they probably won't change. What if the difference between a true NPD and a person with NPD t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:38 PM
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She literally talked so many times about the process of writing her songs. Once I remember she mentioned writing "drunk in love" in the studio with Jay Z while being literally drunk. Then this plus the credits are deliberate lies. Evidence points out that she writes them with several other songwriters, but that she contributes to something. And she always approve of the songs' content, otherwise she wouldn't have released them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:36 PM
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This is the description of a covert narcissist. It's a personality disorder and it has no known cure. It can be described as a more subtle type of narcissism but it's just as dangerous as the other types. They're known for their "emotional black hole" and for making those around them utterly miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:20 PM
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Her name's on both songs' lyrics credits, so apparently she does 🤷‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:53 PM
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Yes, the fact she wrote about how she could dump him and live a good life with her daughter, regretted that she married him (in "Sorry") but didn't leave and didn't divorce. Also, the song "Partition" is a 100% pickmeisha anthem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:17 PM
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This. Last night of freedom is BS. Beyoncé took Jay Z to a stripclub for his birthday. He ended up cheating on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:37 PM
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Hey, could I get a flair? I don't know if there's any minimum number of comments before a flair, but I'm interested in contributing to the community as best as I can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:54 PM
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I just did the same last month. My dad left me and my mom when I was about 3 months old and got himself a divorce. She had a mental breakdown because all of a sudden she became a single mom in a town that she had no acquaintances. Throughout the years, we had scattered communication. In my early teens, despite knowing full well what kind of person he was, I decided to give him "a true chance" to be a real father. I did my best to forgive him, create a relationship with him and ignore A LOT of be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:22 AM
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