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RANTSuperb-Cancel9071/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:13 AM
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Marketing bros 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:36 AM
153

Where people go fOr ThE WiNgS 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:21 PM
160

Breastaurant 😂 Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:16 PM
234

Doesn't Bancroft talk at length about how the root of DV/abuse is entitlement rather than mental illness? Women experience mental illness at the same rates but don't go killing other people anywhere near as often. I'm not saying that these men aren't also mentally ill but I question that being the reason for killing their families in addition to themselves. Maybe paranoid schizophrenia and psychosis would be an exception. But I think by and large men are much more likely to be FA simply because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:34 AM
25

Men are bad at math
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 11:37 PM
85

They are SO. CHEAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:32 AM
34

So many of us have had to learn this the hard way, and literally escaped with our lives, which is why this community is so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:59 PM
73

This is textbook abuse cycle and trauma bonding. It will never make sense and the purpose IS to break you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:05 PM
27

Leave him immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:57 PM
10

5 straight weeks of vacation???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:33 PM
18

They're so entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:24 AM
133

My gay roommate has passive aggressively cooked after midnight during the week making a bunch of noise after I dared to do some laundry at 3pm while he was napping I guess. We both work first shift, or rather he claims to but weirdly lies about everything? I'm looking for a place to live alone. Point is, it's all men. Doesn't have to be a romantic partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:26 PM
116

He said he needs to be mean 😂😂😂 Nobody ASKED you, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:24 AM
49

That would be a huge turn off for me, too. There's a middle ground between being controlling/selfish and...whatever this is that seems to be really hard to find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:21 AM
49

Single moms doing the same thing get draaaaaagged. Always double standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 09:43 PM
10

When they say they're body shamed, it's 100% referring to some womens' preference for tall men with above average penis size. That's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:57 PM
10

This is one of those "8 damn that's crazy" stories except I believe you and just, wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:00 AM
3

DUN-DUN! I'm so happy for you having gotten this outcome you worked so hard towards. They are so pathetic the way they can literally break someone else's body and mind and then publicly cry victim. My ex did this as well (luckily without permanent physical damage, I think) There needs to be MUCH stronger justice for their violent antisocial asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:18 AM
120

Lol, they always get mad when they get caught. Like how dare anyone question the lie that they're a good person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:02 AM
142

Just leave him, this is embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:31 AM
17

Yep. Then she got shitty with me when I called it out and I blocked her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:15 PM
50

32 and 49 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:50 AM
15

Nothing is gaslight-proof. You leave. That's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:19 AM
2

I thought this had already happened years ago? But good news regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 05:15 AM
6

We're here for you, OP. Thanks for sharing your (horror) story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:56 AM
8

Yep that's their playbook. My ex did the same thing except it was a "back injury" and after I tried to leave him for assaulting me, he accused me of throwing a cripple out on the streets. I'm sure that's what he tells everyone except he left me broke and broken when I finally escaped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:39 AM
5

A guy at work did this to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:23 AM
17

"Their charisma is diseased" That's it right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:13 AM
3

100% a narc abuser. I don't even need to read the comments it's just fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:04 AM
12

"couch" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:58 AM
56

I hope so. But I was just thinking why is he protected?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:38 AM
167

His identity is protected fOr LeGaL rEaSoNs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 03:11 AM
76

They never stopped
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:58 AM
12

Don't you just love getting monologued at by scrotes with their dusty opinions nobody asked for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 10:42 PM
19

But you probably don't have a tone of disdain every time you say females
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 09:12 PM
5

...and?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:03 AM
3

When Jodie was announced as The Doctor, I as a woman could finally quit my life of crime. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 07:08 PM
1

My favorite thing recently is people describing memes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 06:53 AM
19

It's them projecting the fact that they want to cheat with any and all women they encounter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:38 AM
68

Only thing changed were his perception of his options in that very moment 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:29 AM
9

My nv roommate claims to do this but he's also a compulsive liar, unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:44 AM
6

He continued his NPC scripted dialogue without taking into account your response? Why am I not surprised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:26 AM
13

The Too-Nice Overwrite is too relatable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:19 AM
53

They always specifically break our stuff when they "lose control"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:00 PM
26

My NVX told me on multiple occasions that I wasn't woman enough because I didn't want to have sex with his abusive ass The implication was that femininity = sexual servitude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 03:30 PM
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Only 500?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:25 PM
3

Not sure why this got downvoted. Waiting to have sex as a safety strategy even though you want to vs waiting to have sex because you're not attracted to someone until you form that bond are two different things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:04 PM
6

Lmaooooo chicharron
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:57 PM
16

I feel the same way! Also highly suspect I'm on the spectrum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:41 AM
1

Loooool I got reported by the same scrotes that commit these atrocities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:41 AM
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The bar is so low they'd find the clit first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:31 AM
15

They say you get banned for being redpilled but clearly that's not true or else reddit would just be a singularity already Edit: autocorrect 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:27 AM
209

Ew, wtf is all this garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:38 AM
3

The inverse of this is them doing things like accusing us of crying for attention or to manipulate because that's what they would do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:51 PM
14

I told my ex to get one when he was pissed I didn't like to be fondled in the middle of the night while trying to sleep and he NEVER LET IT GO. But also didn't let me go. I had to escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:20 PM
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Those pickle jars do be hard to open sometimes 😭 but never worth the scrotey bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:50 AM
15

Mmm, future tea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:24 AM
29

You know he does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:13 AM
29

This is a GIANT red flag and no man will ever live to tell the tale tryna pull that shit on me ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 05:27 AM
45

I almost kneed myself in the face I cringed so hard at the condom bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 05:16 AM
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Shame energy! I never had a good word for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 03:01 AM
57

It took me way too long to figure this out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 07:08 AM
38

I'm autistic and ADHD as well and relate super hard to men describing me in those ways as well. Any tips on repelling the "I must guide you" types?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:38 AM
5

THE OWL I'M HOLLERING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:17 AM
4

Me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:35 AM
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This is also terrible from a graphic design standpoint
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:57 AM
3

Yussss I love playing chase with my cat. She does the head wobble to let me know it's play time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:50 PM
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I am here for the tea as well 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 03:51 AM
19

Lol same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:58 AM
208

This is yet another reason I give devil's advocate ass men the side eye. Either they're so privileged that everything is a hypothetical, or they really believe what they're saying as the devil's advocate but are of course cowards trying to hide behind "intellectual discourse" VOM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:07 AM
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Word salad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:49 AM
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😂😂 your formatting sent me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:14 AM
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What bothers me most about this kind of coopting of "my body my choice" to defend men who don't want to wear condoms is that "my body my choice" STILL ISN"T EVEN TRUE YET FOR WOMEN. Sit the fuck down with your shitty priorities and wait your turn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:50 AM
4

Burger Kings give Onion Rings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:01 AM
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Save the mean mug. That shit 👏 AIN'T 👏 YOUR 👏 BUSINESS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:22 AM
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:( onion rings tho :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:17 AM
4

It me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:12 AM
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I'm an NF and for me it was the breakdowns other people provided of patterns I couldn't quite articulate but had always felt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:11 AM
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Me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:04 AM
3

Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:02 AM
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Concerts, hiking/camping, art supplies, a nice meal, buying myself stuff from my online wishlist, maybe a new haircut or outfit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:44 AM
188

He's 100% using her increased efforts while 100% cheating on her anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:35 AM
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I'm not a WOC but the "last straw" bit is exactly why I never called the cops on my (white) ex. I can't imagine the additional pressure and isolation of having the whole community behind it as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:05 AM
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And "that pretty white girl won't fulfill her personal obligation to me, a white man, of breeding more white people"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:47 AM
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Thank you so much for taking the time and energy to share your thoughts with us! This is why I love this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:34 AM
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Just because this is the opposite of eugenics doesn't mean it's a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:27 AM
5

Hahahaha I just pictured a facebook marketplace post that's "the bar" with a comment "is this item still available?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:23 AM
3

Because they're doing the murdering? That's what abusers do, blame their victims for their own abuse. Is this performance art?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:00 AM
3

I'm only like 1/4 to 1/3 through so far but had to stop to comment that I LOVE your writing style and am excited to read the rest!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:31 AM
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Remember, as long as one man has endured one instance of whatever happens to women continually, then men are more oppressed. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:49 AM
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They're not blind, they're manipulating on purpose to look like the victim of a cRaZy eX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:21 AM
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😂 looking over my shoulder like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:14 AM
300

The most dangerous time for a woman is when she tries to leave an abusive relationship. What if that's what happened? 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:08 AM
176

My ex did this. TW: He would get in my face screaming at me, back me into a corner, even choke me up against the wall, but if I so much as touched him, he would just repeat "you put your hands on me." I never called the police because he threatened me over it. My last straw was about 2 years after leaving him, he sent me the court transcript from his DV case with his next girlfriend, wherein I could see his same gaslighting tactics playing out. It triggered me so badly. It was like he was taunti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:45 PM
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🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:20 PM
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I'm glad you survived. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:46 AM
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I have seen so many pick mes latch onto the police perspective about her being "unstable" and "the perp" when it's so clear she was a victim of DV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:59 PM
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I don't understand how someone can drink that much and still be conscious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:45 PM
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Actually this reminded me, I had a guy at work walk into my office, sit down, and ask if I wanted to make more money (not something he is in a position to affect) and I immediately responded "no". The look on his face!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:36 PM
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Mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:35 PM
4

I had no idea that it was possible for wine to not be vegan, but learned about the fish bladders recently (not in a lecturing way at least)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:35 PM
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Omggg I want those LENTILS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:33 PM
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Even if 2 people have no interests in common, it's possible to have a balanced conversation and learn some things about each others' interests, or find common ground somehow. There's no redeeming side to someone who only goes on about their own interests -- usually men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:26 PM
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Cotton fluff baby smell kitty 😍😍😍😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:55 AM
14

I'm delightfully surprised to see that the ages are younger than I assumed. I'm in my mid 30s (of course wishing I'd known this stuff in my teens and 20s but it's never too late) and this gives me hope for the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:44 AM
133

This has to be one of the worst things I have ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:18 AM
33

If this is even remotely true, he might have touched her and she inhaled sharply out of shock or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:38 PM
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Such a double standard, because a man doing the same would be considered assertive and tHaT's wHy MeN aRe PaiD mOre, but the wage gap "doesn't exist"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 11:46 AM
108

Fuck off fund! 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:29 AM
4

2 weeks? Wtffff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:04 PM
49

Ugh my ex did that to me more than once. So sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:40 AM
1

Please tell me she made him clean it himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:31 PM
2

The assets ARE the doritos :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:22 PM
3

The narc stare?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:03 AM
15

My narc ex also immediately replaced me with a girlfriend that looked just like me after I finally escaped. SO CREEPY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:52 AM
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Sorry I know this is an old post but I just HAD to say something about the rabid squirrel. Know EXACTLY what you mean and this will make it so much easier for me to figure things out more quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:28 AM
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When insulting you didn't make him taller 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:47 AM
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I need a tetanus shot after watching this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:26 PM
24

This is goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:27 PM
67

Light a WHAT on WHAT? The LoGiCaL sEx strikes again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:20 PM
64

Looked him up to refresh my memory and EEEWWWWWW he was mentoring kids the last I watched (years ago). Honestly I bet there are a lot more sus men from that group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:13 PM
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Ew I used to watch that show and I recognize the name but can't put a face to it at the moment. Anyway totally agree. Predators deserve to be shunned and outcast, not celebrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:11 PM
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Scrotes mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 09:06 PM
40

I hadn't realized how rare it was until how jarring it was to meet someone with an actual jaw recently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:47 PM
50

I had no idea the timeline was that soon! Why isn't more being said about this? In fact I have seen a slew of articles lately about how the birthrate is falling, but it's of course being framed as caused by women's actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:45 PM
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There are a lot of men who will say things like that but privately beg BBW for attention. How do I know? LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:30 PM
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This right here. If you don't tell her right away, he can accuse you of being in on it or encouraging it. (He might do that anyway, but that gives him more ammo)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:14 PM
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Haha oh no it autocorrected to pickle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:09 PM
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It's a still from an Eminem music video, Stan. Stan = stalker fan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:47 PM
149

"I expect"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:02 PM
10

🤮🤮🤮🤮 everything about this is nauseating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:12 AM
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Men are such cringey nags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:50 PM
77

It's like when women speak during more than 20% of meetings and the men perceive that they're dominating the conversation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:32 PM
128

This didn't happen so hard it unhappened things that had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:06 AM
2

YOUR LAST SENTENCE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:07 AM
28

IT'S NOT JUST ME 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:58 AM
315

Men cockblocking themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:18 AM
13

It's definitely this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:02 AM
58

They're like roaches, ugh. So anyway, I want to hear more about being a pizza connoisseur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:58 AM
41

Nail tryna get away from that ring's energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 03:15 AM
10

Way too much effort. Stash the TP, yes, but yeet the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:07 AM
59

LOL your nameeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:15 AM
109

Looks like they're in prime stubbing your toe territory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:38 AM
8

Pretty sure "white feminism" is actually being privledged enough to be able to pretend sex work isn't misogynistic and disproportionately more dangerous for women of color. Soooo, they have it backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:44 PM
32

Oh no, I hope she's able to get out of that mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:17 PM
6

Another tell tale sign is accusing YOU of cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 02:41 PM
9

Sheeeit, I hope he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:33 AM
13

One.... .....hundred percent of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:49 AM
175

He can't even be arsed to follow back the mother of his child who he's CURRENTLY in a relationship with? I can't be bothered to look but how much you wanna bet he follows other young beautiful wealthy women? It's deliberate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:05 PM
72

I'm so confused why "lack of financial stability" is used as a reason not to marry, and yet they have children? Makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:04 PM
33

This ain't it. He's not defending her in the moment. It's premeditated. Any show of violence that's not a defensive response to an immediate threat is a MASSIVE red flag and you need to block and delete immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:59 PM
2

As an autistic FDSer, I wish I could upvote this more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:41 PM
1

Whenever someone says "both sides", they're telling on themselves that they don't understand nuance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:21 PM
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Oooh yep that's definitely the vibe. I haven't seen that movie but used to watch lots of Law and Order and Criminal Minds, etc type shows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:54 PM
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Same here. Maybe because people usually say "favorite" in terms of preferences for objects/food. You only say "so and so is my favorite person" because of personality traits and a deep friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:43 PM
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It is a really sick way to shift blame to the victim, like "you could have prevented him hitting you if you had just let him use your body whenever he wanted" Which is what my ex's accusations of ME ab.using HIM boils down to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:49 AM
12

I'm like your coworker :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:31 AM
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Someone else had said this in a comment on another post, but also don't bring FDS vocabulary irl. Things like "scrotes", etc. This might tip off a dangerous LVM or pickme to your being a member of FDS. Edit: it was /u/vmchik Also be careful about people looking over your shoulder if you're using your device to participate in this sub in public spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:05 PM
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It's always the biggest pick-mes who advocate REALLY LOUDLY about mens' mental health, or men being abuse victims too! Like sis, you're making it so they don't even have to fight their own "battles", or even do the work to sabotage ours, because you're doing it for them. Absolute clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:25 PM
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See, they DO understand how empathy works. They just only want it for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:21 PM
2

NERVOUS SYSTEM RESERVES I hadn't heard it described that way but it's *chef kiss*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:05 PM
2

I can hardly remember the last time I went on a first date. It was April 1, 2010 (LOL) with a guy I met online. Turned into a 3-year relationship. Wasn't bad, but wasn't great. Then I got to learn first hand what a malignant narcissist can do to wreck your life, when I moved on to my next relationship. Aaaaand I'm kinda done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:48 PM
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Grudgingly pulling himself away from video games to spend special holiday time together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:06 PM
1

TIL a new thing about my anatomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:27 PM
1

Spill the tea, please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:49 AM
22

Love me some Enya sometimes. Also doesn't she live in a castle with her cats?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:33 AM
15

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:21 AM
193

Animals get put down for less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:09 AM
19

LOL oh no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:16 PM
24

Spaghetti? Do I even want to know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:00 PM
2

Especially when they bring up male suicide rates every time someone mentions feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:14 AM
2

Wait what? Pity...for...that's not how any of that works. And unfortunately I think I know what rabbity is like :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:44 AM
318

It's literally just whichever one puts the blame on women. It's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:17 AM
265

"Not all men" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:48 AM
34

I try to think about it as a tool for self reflection. Like how do I express love, and like to receive it. But getting too rigid about it rather than just it being a starting point for getting to know yourself better is where it goes wrong, just like with so many other things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:35 AM
5

Every time. I've stopped telling them anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:57 AM
30

Giving head SUCKS (pun intended) The only times I have enjoyed it were when I was in complete control, and felt respected and reciprocated by my partner. So like....once?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:24 AM
28

In the Before Times (so both before I found FDS and before covid), it was the norm for guys to go pretty much straight from making out to hair pulling and/or spanking and/or choking. Somehow I don't think I was as scared as I should have been at the time (was also fairly fresh out of a really abusive relationship, like 6 months or so) Thinking back on it, that is TERRIFYING. There was one guy who asked for everything, which I thought was great, but then he turned out to be LV for other reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:20 AM
111

It's comorbid with "doms" and kinkmeishas. So, a dumpster fire of manipulation and low self esteem and misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:05 AM
80

No wonder he can't find a job if he can't even write his own emails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:00 AM
320

And those same pickmes will gaslight you to have sex with him "even when you don't want to" (YIKES) to "keep him happy" or because pHySiCaL tOuCh is his love language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:57 PM
13

And I oop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:05 AM
1

100% he nearly gets arrested at least 2x per week because someone looked at his girlfriend or he didn't like how they drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:22 AM
24

A male work superior with a very pregnant wife (who he referred to as "Preggers") got generic raffle prizes for the company bbq EXCEPT FOR ONE that he announced was for me specifically. Pickme me woulda been like 😍 but FDS me is like 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:51 AM
2

I called a guy on that shit and next thing you know he's engaged 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:29 AM
1

They're simple alright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:24 AM
6

CHORE CHICKEN omg thank you. That is exactly what it is. Even my male roommate has been pulling that crap. Leaving the clean dishwasher load for days in there, leaving the living room rug bunched up for weeks (until his parents visited of course), because he apparently expects me to do it all and gets pissy and resentful when I didn't. Oh and all the dishes were his. What an embarrassing baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:22 AM
38

Can't argue with the gross J name energy, but I'm a J name 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:46 AM
13

SICK. JUST SICK. DISINFECT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:11 AM
21

Threaten my pets and you'll basically be committing unalive with extra steps. Only scrotes do this, btw. Because they are actually the most extreme cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:07 AM
184

Yeah this isn't the statement he apparently thinks it is. "But what if other men harm my property and the extension of my ego?" Instead of viewing women as autonomous human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:04 AM
874

She went OUT OF HER WAY to cushion his ego and he still gestures vaguely at this post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:02 AM
141

They have it so backwards. All of it. Always telling on themselves, always 100% projection and 0% introspection. It's predictable. We could write an AI to spew their "musings" that they always think are sO pRoFoUnd. But that would be a waste of our time and energy. So if they're so oppressed, why is it this is the ONE PLACE ON THE INTERNET I can speak the way I did in this comment? YESSSS, LET THE DOWNVOTES FLOW THROUGH YOU. Scrotes 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:59 AM
11

A certain new agey substance 😂 But uh, that guy is 110% trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:50 AM
44

She's so controlling. Men get abused too. /SARCASM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:47 AM
8

It's not satire if it's actually how it be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:45 AM
10

NASTY who wants to have sex with that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:37 PM
30

Just some things to add, from experience: Leave the keys with the landlord, not him. And tell him AFTER you have secured your things. Have a third party with you when you move. Take inventory of what you're taking with you and have your third party be witness, or even have cops present. Get a P.O. box as your forwarding address. Change your passwords. Block and delete him AND any mutuals who might be sympathetic to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:17 AM
360

The standards are in the toilet. ... I'll see myself out lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:03 AM
2

This gives me the creepy crawlies because it's so accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:15 AM
1

What a disgraceful coward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:56 AM
6

These comments are reminding me why I refuse to share a bed ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:47 AM
4

Yep. I had a NVX do that, and yell at me if I was successful, and yell at me for not wanting to be punched in the head in the middle of the night, and yell at me just to keep me from sleeping, and yell at me for being tired, and and and. They do it on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:43 AM
6

This right here. There's 100% chance he's out there r.ping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:09 AM
5

I know that song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 10:34 PM
38

I love the energy of getting a graphing calculator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:34 PM
28

But that basically means you could be fired for having your period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:31 PM
26

Pickmes claim to love going there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:29 PM
51

That's so disrespectful and unattractive. Reminds me of the excuses teenagers try to make for why they didn't even start a paper that was assigned months ago and due yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:17 PM
169

I bet this same guy would call his SO controlling if she said anything about him going out without her all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:09 PM
245

Am I understanding this correctly, that the SO is THE BACKUP FOR A FAILED NIGHT OUT??? Who tf would sign up for that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:46 PM
11

Seems like negging and triangulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:39 AM
10

Frankenscrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:33 AM
90

Because he's not actually waiting for pay day. It's just an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:10 AM
2

Self reflection is LAVA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:36 AM
6

My weakass threw a dollar store flip flop at a guy over a foot taller and 7ish years older because he was physically and verbally threatening me and he called me abusive and said he would be justified in actually hitting (and badly injuring) me. Edit: Not sure why it saved TWICE before I was done commenting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:12 AM
6

Wooooowwwwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:49 AM
1

Oh definitely, I think I was unclear about the timeline there. I did ponder it for a few weeks and he and I talked more about it a couple of times before deciding to move forward. At the time there weren't red flags screaming at me, for reasons I should probably try to figure out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:45 AM
12

The demons definitely aren't inner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:52 PM
3

I'm trying to think of an example that makes sense here, but all I can think of is just really overexaggerated things like joking about telling your boss that they're fired. Like nobody in their right mind would actually do that but sometimes I find things like that funny to joke about? But that's almost his whole sense of humor so I know he's probably said some things that are red flags I just remember specifically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:49 PM
5

That's a great rule of thumb, and makes it even more clear he's being a scrote because he has gone out of his way in the past to verbalize that sort of thought process out loud (like "oh I would never do x y and z that would be so rude") Or joking about what ifs. Ok there it is. The "joking" about what ifs is the telling on himself that I didn't realize for what it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:23 PM
3

Yeah I was with a 31 year old guy when I was 23 (YIKES) who used to get mad at me for not wanting "make up sex" and this comment reminds me of that. He hadn't hit me (yet), but I left when he threatened to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:08 PM
8

I'm suddenly realizing WHY I have preferred dancing to sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:59 PM
6

HONEY BADGER DON'T PLAY! Yeah, so I looked up the signs of a covert narc, and it was mind blowing to see how exactly he matched all the signs listed. This makes me glad I hadn't confronted him about anything yet. My instincts were telling me not to. I'm having a hard time telling if he's DARVO'd anything, but that could be because I've only really spent time with him one on one since the college days. So ANY story he's told me about someone else could be him doing it to them. So far I don't beli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:53 PM
6

Not even. "Bad with money" = spends a nonzero amount on anything for herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:37 PM
2

Also the formatting looked way better on my desktop browser than it does on mobile. Apologies for poor readability. I have to work soon so I'm not able to look into fixing that right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:19 PM
6

I was reflecting last night and this morning as well (couldn't really sleep lol surprise surprise) and recognized that I am perfectly comfortable confronting people in a calm and respectful way when a) I feel safe to do so and b) or maybe this falls under category a, but they have demonstrated that they will reciprocate But when someone stonewalls or runs hot/cold, or withdraws affection/communication as punishment (I'm not sure what the terms I'm looking for are exactly), I got into "freeze" mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:10 PM
4

I didn't confront him because I've only just put the bigger picture together and I want to strategize carefully from here on out. I'm not sure yet whether I believe confronting him or playing dumb would escalate things faster/worse. I'm also going out of town next weekend (haven't told him) and don't want to risk some kind of retaliation while I'm gone. I've just discovered I'm not able to lock my bedroom door. Plus it really wasn't that much noise compared to a normal person (like he wasn't sla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:06 PM
22

"that I wouldn't tolerate from someone else" -- the truthiness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:26 PM
3

UGH I KEEP REMEMBERING STUFF. He was asking me suspiciously a lot about my work schedule, back when he was talking to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:42 PM
6

Y'all, I woke up this morning to him having turned down the thermostat for his parents arriving today. Also last night he bought a bunch of food (his parents are well off btw), so it's like he was trying to present this penny pinching barely scraping by side to me once we moved in together, but present a whole other story to his parents. How cliche is it as well that he thinks he's the master of the thermostat because he's a man? I'm just pretty disgusted right now that impressing his parents is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:25 PM
13

Thank you. That nagging voice in my head knew something (okay a lot of things) weren't right but also kept telling me I was imagining things and/or if they were real that it's my fault. Even with a friend of mine telling me otherwise, it's like I wanted to rationalize that she's just biased in my favor or something. Thought patterns can be so hard to break. I really think I will need to write some things where I can see them OFTEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:37 PM
7

Unfortunately this is ringing true to me. It occurred to me after posting that he was in fact the one to even suggest living together. I was skeptical at first, but he brought up a bunch of ways it would be "a good idea." Men are only interested in their own outcomes. Now I just need to stop trying to understand the "why" behind his behavior changes because based on previous experience and reading FDS, there just aren't answers that make any sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:25 PM
10

Absolutely. The mask is so off, I don't even recognize who this person is. And, after posting, I remembered a few more ways he had completely failed to empathize with me (all after moving in, of course, but I'm trying to see if I can think further back because there HAD to have been signs....right? Right? lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:20 PM
5

Thank you, I needed to hear that being unhappy is reason enough. My friend was telling me that I need to stop framing it like what did I do wrong to "cause" his behavior, because that's my trauma response kicking in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:16 PM
13

Huge mistake on my part to think that because I wasn't a sexual object to him and he (at least used to pretend to be) pretty leftist and gave lip service to feminism that he would be a safe person to live with. I hate to say this but even single women aren't necessarily safe. I lived with one many years ago who would bring strange men around all the time. I just need to find a way to live alone I think. And I think you're absolutely right about him getting petty and passive aggressive about his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:14 PM
3

Thank you for your perspective, I think you're spot on. I remembered after posting that he seemed mad that I had gone to a big box store without offering to take him along (he asked where I bought some items that I got for BOTH of us to use) He also suggested restaurants not walking distance at least once. I alone pay for my parking space here, and it's his choice to live a car free lifestyle, so I refuse to feel guilty about not allowing him to use me for my car. Also just now remembering about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 12:07 PM
8

Thanks for responding. I think my best path forward after acknowledging and processing that this is happening is to keep in integrity with my values and definitely grey rock like I think another commentator suggested. It's hard not to be mad at myself for putting myself in this situation, because it feels like such a step backwards. But it might be a long 10 more months. The prospect of trying to either sublet or break the lease or find a new roommate is extremely daunting. There hasn't been muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:58 AM
23

Perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:03 AM
46

I feel like this is how far they go with embellishing their resumes too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:17 AM
36

WOW. Men have serious hangups about money (actually, everything) and need to get therapy. But they're too fucked up (cheap, egotistical) to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:15 AM
24

My ex "going for his electrician apprenticeship" for gosh it's gotta be 8 years now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:50 AM
6

And Crumbs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 02:09 AM
64

100% he was jerking off every time, unless he couldn't get it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:24 AM
1

And the worst that happens to them is they pay for some meals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:57 AM
2

Hoping to get to this level someday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:17 AM
3

OT but I love your handle, OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:15 AM
54

Looooool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:26 AM
19

I hope they get To Catch A Predator'd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:06 AM
3

I had forgotten about that sculpture 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:42 AM
10

Girl's road trips are PRETTY GREAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:32 AM
2

Steal your identity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:36 PM
5

Same. My ex hated me reading and I thought he must just be some awful anomaly but nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:41 PM
12

They never see the double standard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:16 PM
9

They cry misandry about any accountability for their garbage behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:46 AM
7

Rules 10-16 should be the top ones? IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:21 AM
38

Solar, a timeshare, cruises galore, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:30 AM
42

The same men use the opposite LoGiC to defend their racism: "if you had 100 skittles in a bowl but couldn't tell which one was in ISIS, I mean, poisoned...." Except it's like 93% of them that are poison. I'm feeling generous today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:56 AM
119

"But what happened before the video?" You could start recording during the big bang and they'd still ask that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:49 AM
21

What is left?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:16 PM
6

SILENT laugh? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:28 AM
9

A dick in a box
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:01 AM
85

Also men: women choose lower paying jobs so the wage gap is their own fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:06 AM
17

Wow bullet super dodged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:47 AM
12

My ex does all kinds of organizing free community events, volunteering for charity, offering to help people with handyman type stuff. But like, he abused me horribly for years. And nobody knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:43 PM
18

My ex does this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:40 PM
29

CRUNCHY SOCK FUMES ended me 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 01:49 AM
11

Hell nah, getting him out of your space by any means necessary will never be an overreaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:56 AM
9

Describes my nvx perfectly. Edit: he was on OLD cheating on me with those dumb "good morning" texts to e v e r y o n e
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 12:42 AM
40

🤢 the complete. and utter. Audacity. Can't say it surprises me, though. 🙄😡 I hope you're able to spend the rest of the day the way you want and need to, despite the grossness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:43 PM
30

More women are comfortable reporting that they are attracted to more than just men, because it has become more socially acceptable in the past decade, was my takeaway. Because if sexuality were a choice, nobody would be attracted to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:17 PM
2

Leave it to scrotes though to always find that one example from 17 years ago to prove that wOmEn dO iT tOo and then never stfu about that one instance. So logical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:58 AM
10

I'm so creeped out because my narc ex was always pointing out 11:11 and I had no idea about twin flame stuff at the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:48 AM
3

That sounds so good!! Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:04 PM
9

It's a control thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:34 PM
5

Do you still have the recipe? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:33 PM
7

Lots of this is really relatable, thanks for sharing. Especially the thousand yard stare part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:16 PM
31

Oh no, is that when they "accidentally" go in the other hole?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:02 PM
65

Oh my goodness, I had a similar experience with my ex not believing I was on my period. TRIGGER WARNING We had been at a weekend camping festival and I DiDnT hAvE sEx with him but he didn't believe I had my period. As we go to leave, I reached down as if to pull out my tampon to show him, and he starts driving like a maniac (as he was prone to do), stops on the side of the road in the middle of nowhere, throws me out of his truck, knocking my glasses off, and threatened to leave me there blind a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:29 PM
114

This is nothing but red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:58 AM
8

Thanks for asking. It's been a long and bumpy road, but I'm doing much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:41 AM
7

Or clingy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:12 AM
53

Wait so he wrote whole-ass paragraphs to some guy he's never met, to try to preserve his ego/reputation, but let me guess, he never gave you any apologies even 1/10 as sincere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:01 AM
24

What makes it worse for me is that while having indecision about something is okay for no reason at all, being unable to decide was a huge side effect for me after being abused. Like if you make the "wrong" choice about anything, and I mean ANYTHING, you would face scrotey wrath. It leads to terrible anxiety around making any sort of decision. Then to be further dehumanized for having that happen....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:55 PM
15

I would also like to know. It seems like love-bombing and crash & burn is at one end of the spectrum, but if one or both parties feel lukewarm, then that's not it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:41 PM
73

Oh I left him almost 3 years ago. He was extremely abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:40 AM
112

Oh yes, I used to get thoughtful and not necessarily inexpensive gifts for my NVX. He would get me nothing. He even gaslighted me into thinking he had gotten me something I got for myself. Eventually I stopped getting him things and GUESS WHAT. Yep he whined and got mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:26 AM
9

To the deleted mancomment who asked why I'm so sexist, it's not sexist to point out men use 2 pieces of TP to wipe their ass and expect everyone else to too. It's cheap AND disgusting. End of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:02 PM
5

My nvx was always in a beef with SOMEONE at all times. It was so exhausting and it was scary to see what he said about and did to them. Definitely made it harder to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:13 PM
44

Why are men so cheap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:53 PM
19

I am only just getting back to "before times" levels of thought capability and speech patterns. Almost 3 years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:00 AM
25

Men constantly take credit for women's work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:24 AM
17

Seriously I would bet many monies he is cheap af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:13 AM
70

Wow the audacity is truly a bottomless pit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:06 AM
19

mEn ArE pRoVidErS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:03 AM
14

Powerful imagery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:47 AM
11

Unfortunately this is really dangerous. I learned the hard way that matching energy with these nutcases is a good way to get assaulted. They only escalate and never see the hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:13 AM
33

Yes. My first week out, I didn't know what food to buy myself at the grocery store. Aged 33.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:06 AM
7

This is 100% the kind of thing my ex would do. There is no hope besides leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:00 AM
6

That is part of why I try to keep a poker face sometimes. They tend to tell on themselves a bit more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:46 AM
9

Oof, I was blindsided by my own anger in the months after leaving an abusive relationship. I had had to suppress it for so long, that I didn't know what to do with it when I didn't have to anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:07 AM
40

This has been me over the past year and it's honestly been the best thing. I have more time and energy for what I really want, and so much less anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:56 AM
6

My experience is that men don't care or listen to what I want, and are unable to handle any kind of constructive criticism, then wonder why I don't want to sleep with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:53 AM
80

Re: the delaying the heartbreak comment--imagine telling on yourself like that. He's admitting to already having planned the outcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:16 AM
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