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MINDSET SHIFTchunktopia/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:11 AM
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report him no fucking joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 03:15 AM
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god reading this made me feel so uncomfortable lol ​ dude I'm sure she knows about your "sexual animal lurking" she just doesn't want any part of it lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:43 PM
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It's okay I do the exact same. I used to eat lunch in our breakroom but I don't want to each lunch with almost anyone who eats lunch in the breakroom. The only person I have noticed look a little offended that I was taking my lunch elsewhere is someone I don't like at all lmao. I wouldn't worry what people think about it. Misery loves company and you don't need to spend your lunchbreak listening to people you don't want to listen to. If anyone makes a comment, you can always remark that you spen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:29 PM
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Ugh no mention anywhere about her possibly being coerced into making porn or any empathy for her. The cognitive dissonance of these men supporting the porn industry is incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 05:03 AM
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I think it’s definitely useful to look at someone’s family, but degrees and lack divorce of divorce don’t make a family good the same way lack of degrees and divorce don’t make a family bad IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:25 PM
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I can report that most wealthy people are not HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 03:55 PM
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Hey friend, I live with roommates right now (just left a 5 year relationship) and I love it! I get my own space but I have people around me who I can talk to and they can talk to me too. I’ve gotten really lucky with who my roommates are but this is another option to consider. A lot of people don’t like living alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:44 AM
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This is the cutest thing I’ve read all week I love your dog
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:25 AM
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No good advice but solidarity. I felt uncomfortable even in baggy sweatpants. I considered a women-only gym, but they were either expensive, too far away, or had weird hours. My favorite gym I ever went to was a small weightlifting gym, and the owner was great and even trained a woman in her seventies. The atmosphere was great when he was there, but there were times I felt uncomfortable doing certain exercises because of other patrons. Some of it is just me feeling discomfort doing exercises lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:06 AM
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I was 20 when my professor hit on me. I was naive and thought he thought I was special. Idk if it counts as grooming when you’re that old. I ended up being his obedient secret for 3 years. I could go into more details, but man what a waste of my precious time. My roommate struggled with something similar: her mentor in art school, who she deeply admired and trusted, hit on her one night pretty egregiously. It shook her identity because she questioned her ability and her talent after that and won…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 08:09 AM
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Same. RIP Mia. She was so young 😔 tired of seeing precious precious women horrifically MURDERED for the most inane reasons. What a terrible death to have. Sometimes I question why I have a hard time saying a hard no or setting boundaries with men when they are hitting on me or making me uncomfortable, then I read about murders like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:53 PM
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So for me, it mostly has to do with the quality of media and how typically misogynistic it is and how much it encourages and reinforces the cultural and societal scaffolding that hurts women, “minority” races, lbgtq+, etc. I think the push in movies for sTrOnG fEmALe protagonists is shallow and tokenized. Like captain marvel or Wonder Woman. I hope I don’t offend anyone here, but I am consistently disappointed by movies and find the vast majority of popular movies being shit out by Hollywood are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:39 PM
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Lmaooo. For real though. I hope she wakes up and leaves him: this is only gonna end badly for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:02 AM
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I avoid professors or teachers if they give me a weird vibe, but this might be because I was groomed by one and academics are often just too out of touch or narcissistic. I would be more open to a teacher of younger students though, so we are opposites lol. Men who work in the film industry. So many reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:55 AM
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and this is literally the only safe subreddit we can do it in. I just wasted so much time arguing with pornsick scrotes on the dumb advice subreddit who were defending a man who cheated on his partner after she had his kid and came for advice because he won't have sex with her and only watches porn. I got the comments locked oops. why do I do this to myself lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:19 PM
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It’s called disrespect 😤 sick of all the pickmes defending these asshats. AdULtS don’t covertly film people to jerk off to later 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:43 AM
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Omg that’s basically all I ever said to my nex 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:35 AM
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Hard agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:28 AM
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On a more hopeful note, who is excited for the Culture Reframed conference?? I think most older men are irredeemable at this point, so here’s hoping the future generations have more of a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:22 AM
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THIS. This is so important. She needs to be insanely strategic about how she handles this. DO NOT CONFRONT IF THIS HAPPENS TO YOU. You must document everything and speak to a competent lawyer before he has a chance to hide anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:20 AM
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PROUD OF YOU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:32 AM
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Kay I’m gonna be annoying for a second here: why not just post the original creator’s (Linda Dong) content? She adds nothing by mouthing the words. Sorry I know this is nitpicky but this is so lame to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:22 AM
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Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:13 PM
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Uuuuh no tf not to “the police did everything right in this situation” did we watch the same body cam video lady??? Fuck that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 03:28 PM
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I don't want to diminish from the horror and tragedy of what happened to Gabby Petito. I would, however, like to point out the inconsistency of the media's reaction to her murder (although I understand she had a larger social media presence and that the body cam video of the police completely failing her fueled a lot of attention) and the lack of support in terms of search parties, media coverage, etc. for finding MMIW. I'm sorry I messed up the posting and lost the title of the article, but I t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:56 AM
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this is exactly what I'm trying NOT to see lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:58 AM
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Wow especially now that the 911 call has been released!!! They have witnesses saying they saw him slapping her???! No way they didn’t know why they were dispatched? These cops need to be on death row no joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:22 AM
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While also belittling her by acting what she cares about is “petty”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:18 AM
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also men like this always say shit like they will gladly put the glass away when they are done with it BUT THEY NEVER DO. I swear they have some sort of amnesia. My ex had this same exact behavior or would leave recycling or cans on the counter or wherever, and, if I left them there, they would be there for several days before I just couldn't stand it anymore and cleaned it up. I would ask him about it and he would insist how clean and tidy he is and how much work he does around the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:15 AM
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Fuck Laundrie and I hope he dies a painful death, but I also think those cops need to be taking a lot of heat right now. They missed INCREDIBLY obvious signs of abuse. They had the opportunity to save her, but they, being abusive narcissistic misogynists themselves, sided with one of their own. They all need to go down for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:52 AM
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You're incredible!! I am so proud of you too! I'm taking notes from you, but have a long way to go to get rid of my cowing and people-pleasing instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:29 PM
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lmao this is a great take. The tribe would've left him to die in the cave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:18 PM
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I remember a woman commenting here at some point saying how men in the '70s she had been with always got rock-hard erections back then and didn't need porn or any of the 'kink' (abusive) bullshit men claim to need now. It's just so disgusting how dependent these idiots are and they could not care less about the trafficking and coercion and abuse that goes on. I think they are aware and it turns them on even more because they are losers who want power and the easiest way for them to feel powerful…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:17 PM
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the only thing she can do to help him is dump him. if he volunteered he watches too much porn and uses the death grip, imagine what he is not admitting to. It's sad how it doesn't seem he volunteered to stop watching porn or do anything to remedy his problem; instead, he let's her believe she needs to try harder to stimulate him. Girl, RUN!!! It is NOT you. Guy is sick af and needs to be out of your life. Porn culture is absolutely ruining men, giving them ED, yet they will defend their RiGhT to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 05:04 PM
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This is true. Also the age gaps in movies reinforce this. I didn’t notice for a long time, but they will put a 55 yr old leading man with a 20 yr old love interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 04:03 PM
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I’m so glad you made it 🥺 omg I just want to hug you that sounds so terrifying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:00 AM
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I thought it was gonna go so much differently because I didn’t know the back story. I assumed he was asking about the scratches because he was trying to expose her abuser that they were made in self-defense but boy was I wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:54 AM
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Saaaaame. I was so apologetic all the time. It was heartbreaking to see her apologize so quickly and completely blame herself. I started watching the video before I saw she was murdered and wow I don’t know what to say. I just feel sad and angry. I really thought this was gonna be a video of the cops helping her, but shows how naive I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:52 AM
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Yes I agree. I just wanted to point out that he has had to do some procedures to keep his looks up as well. Women have it 100x worse though no doubt. Like I was pretty sad to see JLo and Madonna on stage recently dressed basically in skimpy leotards - like is that what it takes to stay “relevant” 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:21 AM
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I agree with you but just want to point out that Clooney has at least gotten his eyelids done and likely minimally invasive work done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:24 AM
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okay this is a really stupid product for many reasons, but do we really need a medical grade sponge and plastic handle let alone the packaging it comes in? this is so wasteful and ridiculous. definitely marketed to inexperience women IMO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:52 AM
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This is terrible. I have experienced terrible therapists who claim to have expertise in working with sex addicts and all they do is enable them and encourage them to continue abusing and lying to their partner while focusing on their own needs. The woman giving advice in the article is no friend to women. It’s not about shaming people for being sexual when their sexuality is based on the degradation and abuse of people. I can’t wait for the Taking on Porn conference and I think the therapist “wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:16 PM
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Dogs are incredible and so worthy of our time and love 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:27 PM
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I love this idea!! I’m gonna copy you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:24 PM
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This is not a date as much as a series of little dates, but I booked a stay in a nice hotel downtown in the city my sister lives in to sort of celebrate my independence and challenge myself after leaving a psychologically abusive narcissist. The first night, I walked around until I found a nice seafood restaurant where many of the patrons were dressed up and on dates. I was dressed very casually yet I felt so confident and free. I got a table on the sidewalk and had a very pleasant meal to mysel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:23 PM
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Holy shit I just have zero hope anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:53 PM
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I was thinking of changing mine to my grandmother’s name because my mom’s dad was a lvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:04 AM
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Omgggg I HATE when people lie to you, then come clean (or more likely are caught), then want praise for “being honest” WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 10:22 PM
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Why do these desperate pedos have to ruin everything 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 03:26 PM
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Yeah this is like the opposite of intimacy to me. You make a great point. Also it makes me sad that it’s like making women predatory or objectify other women as a way to satisfy their abusive partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:36 AM
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Omg that is like violating as hell 😣 honestly disgusting predatory behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:29 AM
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I loved Lucky Star when I was 19, 20 it was so cute and funny. It was so unlike anything I had seen because it just focused on four girls who were friends and NO romantic plots or boys at all iirc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 07:18 AM
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During my undergrad, I took a mythologies course and I really struggled reading Ovid’s metamorphoses because of all the rape. I think it was hard for me to take any lessons from the myths because there was so much pain and tragedy for the women and it feels like not much has changed and rape is an inevitability. I also worried that (Western) men look back to these myths to justify their violent behavior. I also hated the reinforcement of the “virtue” of the women who resisted temptations (or the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:37 PM
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It’s pretty situational for me. If they play every day, I have to wonder if they are using it as escapism. Even if not, it’s totally okay to not want to date someone who would rather play games. I want to go out, explore, try new foods, be out in nature, and I think guys who play a lot of games won’t want to do that kind of thing and will want to stay home instead. It’s kind of like anything done in small doses can be okay, but like I’ve had problems with men addicted to scrolling Twitter or bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:21 PM
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If it’s a possibility for you, I highly recommend working with a CSAT. They specialize in this addiction but also in betrayal trauma. Through working with a CSAT, I finally was able to rebuild my self-esteem and stop having flashbacks or retraumatizing myself. She has taught me so much and she gets it: I don’t have to endlessly defend why his statements are objectifying or whatever. I struggled a lot with intrusive thoughts like you. I just want you to know that it gets better!! The reason I rec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:03 PM
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I can’t stand it. I hate that they feel they have a right to stare or interact with us. At least if they approach you can tell them to fuck off but the staring KILLS ME. One time, I finished setting up my squat rack and this dude pulled a bench up behind and fucking sat there facing me! I was like no the fuck you don’t and moved, but he still watched me. It started ruining my workouts because I didn’t want to do deadlifts or lying hamstring curls. I started seeing myself and my movements through…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:12 PM
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It’s not even an animal instinct. They just convince themselves it’s “biology” to excuse their predatory behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:27 AM
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I stopped going to the gym because I felt so creeped on even when I wore baggy sweatpants. I would like to go back and face this fear. Or maybe I will buy a squat rack ugh going to the gym sounds way too scary still
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:47 AM
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Men need consequences to their actions! I am so tired of society collectively enabling terrible behavior at women’s expense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 06:14 AM
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omg I was living in LA when Kobe died and I almost got jumped for bringing up his rape charges and saying maybe he shouldn't be so celebrated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:17 AM
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