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ADVICEPessimisticAna/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 02:13 AM
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He's just displayed how he will treat you if you two move in/get married. I'd say if you really like him talk to him about it, if he changes his behaviour then that's good. But men like that typically don't see an issue in not helping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:08 PM
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I'd say it's a red flag, shows how shallow he is. If he was truly interested in you as a person he would've taken the chance to get to know you prior to any physical changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:38 AM
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Yeah the amount of egos I hurt without realising...I mean how am I supposed to fake one if I haven't had it??? And they'd all be so shocked, wish their previous partners hadn't lied to them about their so called skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:28 PM
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That's absolutely disgusting, and I'm sorry that happened. I feel like there aren't really any consequences for men that are outwardly antisemitic and there should be cause often times they are violent. I'm glad you was able to leave safely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:59 PM
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God he sounds pathetic. You didn't even ask him to cook the soup just buy a tin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:51 PM
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As a young 18 yr old I stupidly believed it was empowering and used to think there was something wrong with me for being so sensitive. And nah it just isn't as empowering as certain people made it out to be, it's time wasting and degrading when the men get mad about you asking for them to use protection.. the bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 03:16 PM
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It's not her he can't get over, it's his idea of her. I bet if he'd actually talked to her and got close he'd realise she's just human. I feel sorry for his ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:51 PM
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Women are never given this chance. I noticed when an indie pop singer Melanie Martinez was falsely accused of sexual assault, people ripped into her pretty harshly. But there are plenty of famous men out there that had committed sa and still had many fans and people defending them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:02 AM
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My god, people really have normalised shaming women for having the bare minimum standards and accepting nothing and wanting other women to accept nothing too! I don't see what's wrong in wanting a nicely thought proposal, it gives a slight indication to how he will treat her in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:39 PM
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And someone has reported me to the reddit care centre for this! How charming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:04 PM
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It's quite scary now dangerous incels and mysognists are. I read that a female south Korean Olympic medallist was harassed online for looking feminist, the misogynist's wanted her medals revoked. I am yet to see a woman or a group of women tear down an athlete for looking different and demand their medals be revoked. FDS does not encourage violence against men and that's what sets us far apart from their incel groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:56 PM
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Slightly off topic but I think it's awful how they'll give a slight bit of respect to a woman that excels, they can't accept those that are on par to their skill level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:33 PM
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Its definitely frustrating and I feel like the women almost always settle. Stick to your standards, nothing worse than being stuck in an unhappy relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:46 AM
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Yeah....I thought I could look past such differences but I ended up resenting for all those things. Stick to looking for someone with similar standards and routines to you, makes things alot easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:37 PM
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Currently studying and part timer so I'm hoping to save like you, unfortunately I also live in a high cost city so I worry about if I can afford a place in the future. Good for you though, I don't know many women that buy property for their own sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:16 PM
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Oh this is my goal. I want to be financially stable and secure hopefully before I date again so that it doesn't become an issue whilst dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:10 PM
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Was single and tried dating last year. Not for me, prior to him all I knew was myself and fam and friends. When he left, I still had those 3 groups in my life, and I doubt I'll try dating again for a while. I got tired of chasing and making our relationship work .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 10:41 PM
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That they know despite being shit, they can get someone heaps outta their league and instead of treating her with respect and like the bare minimum they fumble her up too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:57 PM
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They really want us to give give give and have no issue doing nothing but damage in return. Since when did we normalise men being abusive in casual sex? Why the hell have they collectively allowed such behaviour?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 06:07 PM
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Oh fruits basket holds a soft spot in my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:59 PM
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Not all anime is what you've described, that's typical in ecchi, harem themed and shounen anime. I personally like shoujo which is more aimed at young women, it's more romance themed and the characters are typically conventionally attractive (I won't deny that)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:58 PM
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Oh I remember my ex doing this Made me feel so so angry for ever relying on them And I rarely ever did hence why they're an ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:45 AM
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Respect is deemed fantasy material? Oh my god the bar is in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:40 PM
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This year I realised i dress way too "straight". I did however briefly date a lady and fds still applies...people can be trash if they expect intimacy after a dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:16 PM
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Haha we are lucky....unfortunately tho idk how to flirt w women so for now just focusing on improving myself and hoping it'll impress someone somehow haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:38 PM
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I'm bi and funnily my attraction to the opposite sex repulses me at times. Like I hate that I find men attractive...they never bring anything good to the table
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:59 AM
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Do you think your husband could teach the younger generation of men basic manners?? Losing hope lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:58 AM
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You're not a fool for that. It shows you have a big kind heart, and that you may have to put some steel around the borders but don't. You were kind and it's his fck up for ruining that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:13 AM
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Damned if you do Damned if you don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:04 PM
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Anger is an emotion. When a man displays it they're seen as logical. But when a woman does we're called over emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:51 PM
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As a woman, I don't name drop male friends to make you jealous. I don't need to make a person jealous, I'm pretty and kind enough to have their attention. If I name drop its probably linked to our convo and I'm relating to it.
/r/seduction04/11/20 10:38 AM
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Don't approach her out in the street. That will give off creep vibes, go somewhere people are known to socialise and that way a person will be more willing to talk. I avoid men that outright approach me as I've had very unpleasant encounters.
/r/seduction04/11/20 10:34 AM
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Oh I hve vaginimus which is probably the main issue, I've found men aren't too understanding of issues that come in the way of their pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:52 AM
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Jokes aside this is an actual issue for me, I always thought it was my fault but I'm beginning to wonder if I'm not even actually attracted to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:42 AM
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Next time? My man you thought I was gonna give u another chance? My man you truly believed I wasn't gonna block your ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:57 PM
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Oh my bad, I was misinformed a few years ago it was how I imagined. Well I'm not entirely surprised it's a lot more difficult than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:20 AM
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Jesus that's awful. I can't imagine how many men have managed to abuse women that didn't think they had to take this extra step. I know in the UK, you can go to the police and give a potential dates name to ask If he's in the database
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:40 PM
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Lol the audacity men have with women they're trying to court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:18 AM
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You put into words what I and many women haven't been able to. Quite concisely too. A bit drunk but I agree whole heartedly The men that refuse to read and that sorely lack in reading comprehension can go suck a brick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:23 AM
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I comment on a tumblr inaction post recently and a girl defended the mens reaction...so I called her out and cue the downvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:22 PM
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Men are allowed to be openly judgemental online and offline, in the locker room and on tv. Why can't we have this one safe space?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:51 PM
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Stopped smiling In public when I was a young teen and a neighbourhood man started harassing me about my dress and why I was alone with my little brother. Don't smile, don't make eye contact, RBF all day. When they speak ignore them completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:55 AM
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Well that's nit very encouraging is it haha... Nah I am stubborn and once something makes me fee uncomfortable it doesn't go away until I either cut said problem looses or am convinced by said person otherwise. And he's not convinced me. I have my family and friends so I'm not completely alone, although they don't know about him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 04:08 AM
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To tell him plainly that I don't want to be with him..? And then slowly cut contact with him...?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:58 AM
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Well it's a bit more complicated..in the sense that I have random fainting episodes and I met him in the hospital after one of my episodes and so he's known from the beginning I'm prone to passing out. And he's already taken advantage...in the sense that..we've been intimate
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:56 AM
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Holy shit. I. That. Sounds like. My situation with him and now I'm panicking. Even though I'm cities away from him I still have things at his. He said to. Well kind of got annoyed when I said I'd take stuff back to home and said to me "no. This is your home now, or I mean..if you want it to be your home..that is"
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:52 AM
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Thank you for your advice, but I...didn't even see this as an opportunity. I honestly had no clue and still have no clue what I have dragged myself into. And it scares me. Because I don't think a relationship would help me. Not right now whilst I fear men. Also I am unfamiliar with the rp..what is RMV? I don't think all of me is unattractive...I simply have self esteem issues I've tried to tackle. I am well aware that Boys my age and men have looked at me. And I hate that attention. I don't want…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:49 AM
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I don't know what I would say to a friend because I'm still so unsure myself. He says he is a kind good man and his friends say the same and I believe him. But I barely know him and he's already claimed me as his woman and that's freaked me out. He wants to declare to the world I am his and that's not something I'm wanting because I.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:46 AM
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Well his exes daughter is besties with a good friend and I causally mentioned him to my good friend and she straightaway called me and said "Look it's nice he's helped you out but. Please leave ASAP. He has a bad past. ana you're sweet and naive and please leave soon." And that's when I started questioning what he had been telling me. Also I' left Sunday night to visit my family
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:35 AM
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Well. Oh. I see. I'm currently visiting an uncle for this week but now I. Well. I was gonna go back to his for the weekends but now I. You have a point. Could you maybe...give detail on this whole sociopath thing.? I don't get how a nice person can be bad..?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:32 AM
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...really..? But but psychopaths are.. I mean they're mean bad people right? And and he's been nothing but kind to me..
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:10 AM
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