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Also, she should report him for assault, lol. Not sure if it would stick, but it'd be some revenge for the humiliation at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:04 AM
63

This is a horrible situation for her, but could be such a comedy. Him smugly going to the bakery planning it. Her leaving him, and his dumb surprised Pikachu face at the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:00 AM
106

I think unfortunately people have the opinion that this is "just one thing". Ie, you can't leave him over "just one mistake". The problem with that, is that it's actually a marker of the guys thought patterns. She explicitly told him it was a deal breaker and he thought/knew, he could pressure her into accepting it, because he predicted the support of friends/family. He knew she wouldn't like it and did it anyway. That's a pure asshole there. That's not normal behavior and noone should be defend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:57 AM
28

Lol. I loved that bit! Also the end bit where he says his daughters will understand him being a lying cheating scumbag better when they get some life experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:07 AM
331

Trying to quickly find some poor young girl to marry him before he barrels into that wall at a hundred miles an hour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:45 PM
32

Yup. "staying friends" just means they want to keep wasting your time trying to get back together. Leant that the hard way 😣 why do they lie so much??!? It's so annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 01:55 PM
23

Exactly. Him "changing her mind" also meant that she had clearly expressed him that it wasn't what she wanted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:00 AM
230

Made the dumb mistake recently of having what I thought was just casual conversation with a guy who came to pest spray my house for roaches. Nope, he started asking if I lived here with my boyfriend etc, just wanted to ask me out. And he had my address, was literally standing in my kitchen! Next time I need anything done, I'm going to request a woman. I feel like everyone who lives alone should do this, just can't be careful enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:08 AM
294

Lol, yup. All those times when I organised stuff for us to do together on the weekend, while he was gaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:01 AM
7

Sorry he wrecked your self esteem. I've had that happen to me before as well. I think it's commonly used as a tactic when men realise you're waaay better than them. They think the only way you'll stay with them is if you feel terrible about yourself and "need" them. For my ex and obviously for yours too, it backfired as the person they are trying to control realizes "it's not me, it's him". But yeah, it takes a long time to rebuild, especially when it was going on for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:00 PM
58

I'm intrigued by his "men should all drop dead" comment. Is this a valid choice? 😲🤔 Yes please 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:56 AM
59

He should be asking himself why she's resorted to attempting strategies used on children in order to solve his selfish behavior problem he's refusing to address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:17 AM
25

Plus there's lots of other causes to this. Women get too much bad press for "low libido" when many are just on the pill, exhausted from emotional labor or physically exhausted with kids/housework all day or dealing with unattractive partner behavior. Men really need to stop blaming women and start asking themselves why their partner is unattracted by them or how they can help her stay in a happy, confident mood and I bet the sex would improve dramatically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:15 AM
40

I feel like he said it on purpose to make her insecure. This is just the type of 'small' comment that she can't break up with him about because it's small and she just 'misunderstood' him, but she will automatically incorporate the comment and it will damage her self-worth. Perfect scenario for the manipulator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:51 PM
142

I get this quite a lot at my new house unfortunately. I can't walk the dog outside at nighttime because I'm near a kinda dodgy pub and half the time some random guy will yell at me across the carpark. Sort of annoying to feel like I have a curfew and can't go out after dark.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:44 PM
43

Hahaha, yeah. What he's probably actually saying to her is "please stop doing things like that, it makes me feel unskilled and inadequate"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:11 PM
44

Yeah, that's so disappointing. Anyone who is a real friend would be so excited and happy at her achievement. Not talking about how she won't be able to attract a man being successful like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:06 PM
6

I was never into the idea of getting something like that implanted, just makes me feel uncomfortable thinking about it. Then I watched that documentary called 'the bleeding edge' and was absolutely terrified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:59 AM
46

Yeah, it's always women that need to sacrifice for their husband and family. If a man even slightly compromises, he's teased for being 'whipped'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:07 AM
34

I always hated his songs because of this, they just sound a bit self-centered and off somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:25 PM
40

Urgghhh. My ex would tell me how weak I was and tell me which exercises I "needed" to do. Needless to say, I grew to dislike the gym and feel discouraged at my lack of progress, because I wasn't actually into doing any of the exercises, so would do them half-heartedly just wanting it to be over with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:39 AM
64

I hate this kind of post as well. Why would anyone post this on Facebook? Just to seem enlightened now and get points for acknowledging things and 'helping' out others? And the "I didn't realize/know" is getting to be such a boring old excuse. He shouldn't have consistently ignored and neglected his wife (obviously never thought she would leave and thought he was on to a winner, just kick back and do whatever he likes for the rest of his life, letting her pick up after him and not providing anyt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:13 AM
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I think part of the problem is women being seen as having no power. So if a woman is angry, it's kinda just like an annoying fly men want to swat away. Their emotions and opinions are not seen as legitimate or having any value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:33 PM
115

And if women want someone remotely as good-looking as they are, they're shallow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:56 PM
22

This is pretty much the sole reason why I prefer circumcised, I don't trust men to actually have good hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:04 AM
34

I wonder if it was him making the choice to get a new younger gf, or them outgrowing him, or the idolization because of his fame having worn off or them demanding from him what they actually deserve in a relationship and him not being able to provide or deciding it was too hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:37 AM
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Oh, this does make a lot of sense with my ex. He was pretty arrogant, I do think he thought he was much much smarter than me. And he was one of those people who thought women were totally different to men and not in a good way.. in a "they are foreign creatures who make no sense and rather than communicating and listening to what they say, I'll ignore that". He literally ignored me when I said what was wrong with the relationship and what I didn't like and went and read a whole bunch of books li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:18 AM
23

I was discussing with a work colleague the other day and we both came to the same conclusion independently, that if we had children, we would do it by ourselves, not with men. Just can't risk it and it's better to have all the control than to hand it over to someone you think you know. I think this will become far far more common in future and soon it'll be men who are the 'desperate 30-something's', trying to find someone to have kids with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:37 AM
32

I sort of understand why guys do this to try to control women, but don't they understand how horribly it can backfire? My ex made a lot of comments about my weight and I felt horrible, my self esteem tanked. But then I realized that noone else has ever done that to me. He was the only one that ever insulted me like that and other men seemed to still find me fairly attractive. Maybe he just picked the wrong person when he picked me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:29 AM
7

Since when did it become automatic that less clothes= more empowerment? Why can't she be empowered on the cover by being an individual, in her own unique style of dress?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:06 AM
2

Maybe you should casually introduce her to poker and get her used to the concept of cutting her losses and not chasing the pot. Maybe she'll make the connection one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:42 AM
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Throwing away a 5yr relationship is far better than throwing away a 10yr relationship, especially when you've known for years that you're unhappy and it's not working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:43 AM
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Thanks. I try to think on the bright side, that I am away from him now and it would suck way more to be him, having completely blown the chance to be in the life of someone fabulous (me of course 😋)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:30 AM
7

Yes, reported. Even though he had keys, that's still classed as break and enter, as he entered without my permission or knowledge. Basically cops couldn't do anything. Not enough evidence that it was him to force him to give DNA for matching. Even if he gave voluntarily and it matched, he can just say he didn't know how it got there, they would never get a conviction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:50 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately I wasn't aware he had keys, I moved into my brothers house and they were friends, so he must have picked up a copy from him at some point. No clue that he would do this, only sign was that he wasnt taking the mutual breakup well and had been leaving presents at my door the first 3mths and trying to get back together. The break-in (or at least the one I know about, I suspect he'd been doing it for a while to get so complacent to not dispose of the condom properly) happened 6mt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:44 AM
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Gotta love flicking through dozens of OLD profiles in a row ... 5'10" ... How is everyone on here 5'10"? Pity for them, that's exactly my height, so pretty easy to spot the liars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:17 PM
11

Yup, ex somehow got spare keys to my house and left a used condom on my toilet floor, they're such weirdos. Block block block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:34 PM
58

Woman: I like ... Man: what a coincidence, me too Woman: I believe in ... Man: what a coincidence, me too *Woman acts according to likes and beliefs Man: what?? I'm offended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:21 PM
75

Yeah, had to choose a female child as well, not a male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:18 PM
49

Only comments I have on the quote are that I don't think you should strive to be more likeable. I think women do that too much already. Also being "ballsier" should be banned from being used as a metaphor for strength and courage. Balls are weak and can't take a small hit, while a uterus can literally grow a new human being. Although I guess uterus-ier doesn't really have the same ring to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:10 AM
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Do women actually fake it? Or are guys just plain lying to make the woman the problem not them? I admittedly don't have many female friends and have never questioned them, but I've only ever heard 'talk' of women faking, never actually heard someone admit they've done it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:30 PM
23

Lol. This is the real reason they made up that lie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:48 PM
19

The problem with having kids WITH someone is that they are always in your life. I couldn't stand being tied permanently to any of my exes. If I had a baby on my own, I have all the control. I don't gain anything by getting some (most likely deadbeat) guy involved, except complications. I think there's a misconception that women try to trap men by having babies, but I argue it's the opposite. Men trap women and once she has that baby, he can kick back and get away with whatever he likes, taking a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:14 PM
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Only asked men? Sorry, does another gender exist? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:52 PM
62

Annoyed that men have good experiences in relationships and all we get is abused and taken advantage of. After every relationship, I feel like I need counseling or time off to heal, it takes a lot of strength to reset and try again. While they have great memories I'm sure and go right back to dating. It's not fair that we get all the negative experiences in life and they can enjoy themselves and be constantly catered to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:17 AM
15

But... "Women are golddiggers", right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:17 PM
20

Haha, reminds me of Dirty John on Netflix. That guy just scammed his way into living with that woman, on her money. That's some kind of evil talent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:16 PM
14

Umm... That is a joke advice column right??!? This is the worst advice I've ever seen, it's like a kid wrote it. Is it supposed to be taken in a sarcastic/funny way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:35 PM
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At least the way I see it. You realised, got out of the situation, learnt and moved on. That takes guts. You're the strong one. (Not that they deserve any sympathy at all) but imagine what it's like to be those guys or your ex. They go through life feeling so insecure they need to do that. It must be exhausting to think like them. To always be thinking and trying to manipulate to get what you want and not able to feel a real connection or actually genuinely be able to care for someone. Such a wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:28 PM
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Cos the other men know deep down how unattractive they are, and their only hope is to try to undermine women's self esteem to make themselves feel better 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:23 PM
14

Why do I feel like most women have experienced at least the lower 3 tiers? 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:32 PM
10

This is great that it prompted conversations. I found it a bit emotional and it angered me because I recognized how familiar all these guys behavior was to me. It did also leave me kinda depressed, especially about how what she was doing to scare these guys was probably completely pointless, since they would just write her off as "crazy" and it wouldn't stop them from doing it again anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:46 PM
4

That look on her face!! Like "do I have to touch him?" 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:48 PM
40

How? And why are you still with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:40 PM
8

"The next day he asks if he can call me quickly. I worried he was going to ask for a second date." This is when you immediately bail. When you're not excited and hoping he'll call. When you're thoughts are more along the line of... This is going to be awkward, how do I wiggle out of this graciously 🤣 Also, you shouldn't worry, he should worry cos he majorly messed up and he's so clueless! How hilarious! How does someone so clueless manage to navigate life? Science should study him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:27 PM
120

I think because that are more selfish, pleasure driven. I've noticed they rarely consider the consequences of their actions either, it's all about the instant gratification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:49 PM
108

I had the exact same experience as well a few years ago. Things seemed fine until I moved in, then I really saw how much he played. It was constant. I'm so so so glad I left. I liked him, but I was so hurt by being constantly ignored. I thought of it as being smothered and ignored at the same time. At home, he would ignore and go in the other room, his priority was gaming. When we were out, that's when he'd be always at my side and taking to me, when I actually wanted to chat to other people!! H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:46 PM
6

Literally the best flowers I've ever received, thanks 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:40 PM
106

Ironic isn't it. A lot of men want "no strings attached", but they suck at it. What they really want is "what they want, when they want it" like toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:24 PM
67

Yeah, I'm so glad she hasn't gone for the "pillow face" look from too many fillers, I really hate that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:59 AM
9

Not really. The best I've found is to pick something and make a deal with myself. Finish that and then I can do something fun. But it also prevents me a bit from hanging out with friends etc because I have "so much to do". So I really need to find a solution. I'm hoping in around 5-7yrs to have paid off my mortgage and then I might consider dropping down to working 4 days a week to make more time for actual life. Or pay a cleaner (I hate dishes and house cleaning with a passion).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:44 AM
28

Yeah, I do something really stupid and have a list of jobs I need to do. Then don't feel like I should do anything fun until the list is finished, but then I procrastinate doing them because they are jobs, so I'm stuck in limbo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 12:39 AM
15

Yeah, this phrase is basically just so they can force higher standards on women, while they sit happily gaming/watching porn for 6hr straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:06 PM
10

Oh, burn!! I think I might need to steal this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:04 PM
2

It annoys me so much that women are always blamed for "choosing" worthless guys. I'm pretty sure that wasn't their intention, they were almost certainly manipulated or coerced into thinking this guy was a good fit for them. It's such a victim-blaming mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:45 AM
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If someone did this to me, he would be getting a call pretty soon from the police about a reported assault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:11 AM
11

I find financial independence really important. It really makes you feel like you can do anything yourself and don't need a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:45 AM
7

Ah, right, that makes sense. I'm supremely lazy. My 'no makeup' look (which I wear 99% of the time) literally is zero makeup 🤣 although I'm considering doing a bit more, now that I'm almost 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:04 PM
6

Just a question, you mention "clear mascara". What is the purpose of that? I don't think I've seen that in stores before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:51 PM
26

Yup exactly. You know your wife doesn't like you going to strip clubs You (supposedly) don't even care about the strip club, you only want a drink You somehow still end up going to a strip club anyway? He was there because he wanted to be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:43 PM
24

Unfortunately no data related to the effects of "Dadom"s (single dad raising kids and acting as both parents) is available, because they are so rare that any studies on them are not statistically reliable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:35 PM
28

Oh god. These people always get me so angry-confused. What's wrong with them? We had a training at work on unconscious bias, trying to be aware of it etc. Some guy brings up that guys are already "walking on eggshells" at work, worrying about saying the wrong thing all the time etc. Like wtf are you talking about??!? What world do you live in?!? This really isn't rocket science.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:10 PM
8

Yup. Domestic violence evidence also never used to be heard in court. So all they would hear is the woman murdered her husband, not that she'd been intimidated and beaten for years and finally snapped. There's still some women in jail with huge sentences as a result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:55 PM
4

"He asked out another girl while he was out of town, said he'd been contemplating it for days. She turned him down. Telling me this on the day I bought my house was not a coincidence. This was a power move." Lol. Dudes only power move is telling you another woman rejected him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:14 AM
34

I've actually had to pull myself up on this and change the way I speak. No idea where I learnt to talk like this, but I have on occasion said something like "this girl at work..." When the woman is in her 20s-40s. Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:53 AM
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Great work!! 🥳 I think women are taught to be more cautious and not do something unless they 100% know what they are doing, which holds you back in life. I like the quote "have the confidence of a mediocre white man". You can do anything you want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:39 AM
38

They don't need a gf, they need a carer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:25 PM
59

That's the key part "if it's good". And it's usually better for men because they tend to be selfish and are perfectly happy to just receive and never give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:18 PM
2

But "women enjoy planning" right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:06 AM
37

Such a low bar. New rule - make me a cooked breakfast every morning or I cheat 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:56 AM
11

But "sex takes effort and sometimes it's easier just to watch porn" -my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:53 AM
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When the real reason "women mature faster" is the huge level of responsibility pushed on them at an early age to be wary of men, try to avoid being victimised/murdered/raped and all the burden of ensuring they don't fall pregnant (cos zero percent responsibility falls on young boys for that). Boys responsibilities at the same age are to...? have fun?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:41 AM
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"These girls look like they're having fun, I think I'll hit on them while their guard is down." On their birthday too 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:36 AM
9

Was also reposted on r/wholesomememes ... Like, what???!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:22 PM
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What gets me is the "rollercoaster for us", "stressful for us" parts. What's stressful for the husband? He selfishly decided he wanted something for himself and is now trying to convince her to it's a good idea, while she struggles alone with confidence issues and turns to reddit for help. I don't think he gave it/her a second thought. This isn't a relationship, it's a one-way street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:56 PM
3

They could prevent this whole debate by taking the pill themselves and removing the risk of unwanted consequences. But that would require dealing with around half the annoying side effects women on the pill usually deal with, so it's too hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:06 PM
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I've just learnt to not believe any excuse ever. If probability points to a certain answer, then that is the truth for me and nothing you can say will change it. It's possible this attitude may lead to some unfair judgements in certain situations, but it's better than the alternative of believing and staying with a liar. Too many people have taken advantage of my understanding nature before, now I deal with facts and probabilities only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:16 PM
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I'm 34 and I love my cute emojis. Noone can stop me, muahahaha 😋🥰☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 02:35 PM
7

Yeah, same here. I can't remember a time I ever flirted with a guy, because I knew if I didn't jump straight into bed with him after, I'd be branded a bitch for leading him on 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:07 PM
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I think this is why I feel like I've had bad luck in the past, I've had low self esteem and never even thought about who I wanted to date, what boundaries and standards I should have. If someone asked me out, then it's decide yes or no and often times, gave them the benefit of the doubt, when I should have held higher standards and put myself in a position to meet more HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:42 PM
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Yeah, it's not just gaming. It's been my theory for a while now that everyone has known all along that women were the superior sex. Men's only chance was to attempt to gaslight, manipulate and suppress us from the beginning, otherwise we'd be ruling the world centuries ago, hahaha. Oh, the Dunning-Kruger effect plays a massive role in a lot of men's behaviour as well. I've never really seen that play out as much in women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:59 PM
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I'm less lonely without my ex too. Or at least, if I am lonely, it's because I live alone so it makes sense and I can decide to go out, call someone etc. The loneliness of being ignored by your SO is much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:20 PM
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"women are so emotional" Family wipeouts (murdering your whole family... Wife, kids etc) are overwhelmingly statistically committed by men (way over 90%). Men are literally so bad at handling emotions (particularly rejection) that their reaction is to murder everyone they are supposed to care about. Not to mention all the women who are hurt in post-breakup revenge, not just through violence, but also revenge porn etc. Men are only seen as "less" emotional because they suppress all emotion until …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:12 AM
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A lot of women need to be more helpful and supportive to their friends as well. The number of times someone says " my bf said this" or "I think he might be cheating" and friends will pipe up, trying to be supportive and reassuring and say, "oh no, I'm sure he didn't mean it/I'm sure he'd never do that". That's really not helpful and is invalidating. That makes it 10 times harder to trust your gut, when everyones automatic response to all your concerns is that you're over-reacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:02 AM
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Never exactly did this, but when I was young I used to put on makeup etc for dates, now I don't bother. I don't want someone to expect me to wear makeup every time we go out, plus I was getting way too much positive reaction on first impressions, when I was still on the fence about someone. Looking back I was never actively really excited or into dating someone, it was just that they "seemed" so into me, so I gave it a go, to "see where it went". No more, what a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:34 PM
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This is so true. I think they use 'threatening' to leave or 'wanting' to leave as a way to control. But when women leave "without warning" (ie plenty of warning that the woman is unhappy, that they conveniently ignored) they don't take it seriously and are all surprised Pikachu and think they can win her back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:01 AM
29

"you can't communicate" = "I don't listen to you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:19 PM
143

Literally exactly why I broke up with my ex. There was no relationship anymore. He used to say to come grab him if I want to talk or something, like hell no, I'm not going to interrupt your precious gaming to beg you to spend time with me, I'd rather date someone who actually chooses to spend time in my company. He actually tried to argue that he genuinely does enjoy spending time with me and tried to guilt me into feeling bad for not communicating enough and not giving him a chance to fix it be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:57 AM
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What I love about her is that I'm an Aussie and people here know her and know that she's an awesome leader. I feel like her reputation around the world is changing people's perceptions of women's capabilities. It's nice to have a strong female leader using compassion and empathy and showing that it isn't actually a weakness (like it's commonly written off as), it's a massive strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:04 PM
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I'm also super introverted. It can just take a bit more time to find someone. I've tried OkCupid and hinge, found tinder a complete waste. Don't rush and make a wrong decision, we all know that's far worse than being alone and you could miss a great guy who could be just round the next corner. Making friends with other women with larger/different social groups involving men can work. This can also help you gather some background info on them before investing too much time. Don't do anything you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:30 PM
7

First time I ever got flowers from my ex, who I dated for 3yrs was last year on Valentine's day. 3 months after we broke up 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:56 AM
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Yeah, my ex started off by saying he had no issues, it was fine for me to wear heels etc. (I generally don't like wearing them anyway) but it pretty soon changed to, we would look weird together, with such a height difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:34 PM
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Depending on how bad your work culture/pay is, it may be worth starting over. Psychologically a lot of people don't like the idea that they 'wasted' years in the wrong job, but any experience is valuable and chances are you won't start a new career at the very bottom or at least would be able to progress quicker due to your previous experience. 40 is still very young, you may only be less than halfway through your working life. 25-ish more years would seem a very long time in an unsatisfying job…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 04:14 AM
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I think you're thinking about it in the wrong way. If this guy really is a HVM, this isn't a once in a lifetime opportunity/gift that he's bestowed on you and everything is going to turn negative and collapse if you don't go. Go if you want to and feel comfortable. If you don't, confirm that you really are interested in long term relationship and love the fact that he invited you, but you don't want to rush and would like to spend more time together getting to know each other first (or even find…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:05 AM
5

On the safety side... I personally don't go to guys houses anymore until I'm 100% sure of their character (did when I was younger, thankfully nothing bad happened). If you do plan to catch up privately, screen shot convos and profile pics and keep them on your phone, send them to mates etc. A friend of a friend was raped by a guy she met online. He immediately deleted his profile and there was nothing cops could do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:52 AM
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