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A woman’s number one need is a sense of security. A man’s is sex. Men want their needs without meeting ours. Imagine if we put ads saying pay by bills, nsa. Casual sex only benefits a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/22 06:26 PM
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It means he controls you and your life revolves around him. You can’t be yourself and thrive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/22 07:42 PM
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Never move in with a man. They get free sex and all you get is disrespect and abuse. Even your peaceful sleep will be taken from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:00 PM
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That first one…$400 a month…is he going to pay her only $400 a month to be a slave, or does he want her to pay him $400 a month for the privilege of being a slave? Imagine paying a man to use and abuse you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:54 PM
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Meanwhile he’s paying for onlyfans and hookers that just want his money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:26 AM
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Because they desperately want our attention! Good or bad, they will take any crumbs they can get. Losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 01:09 AM
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Betraying her trust is cheating. Being a disgusting pedophile doesn’t give him a cheat-pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:12 PM
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He’s not “potentially” cheating, he is already cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:15 AM
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“I need you to subsidize my bills, plus I want to use your body for free (hookers are expensive). Also my precious car comes before you, aren’t I a catch?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:15 PM
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Why doesn’t he just man up and get a vasectomy if he is so worried about it. Too chicken shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:34 AM
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As if we “try to date men”. Men don’t even know how to properly ask for a date. We play defense! Men chase, men disrespect, we avoid/block. Men are so mad that we don’t want their attention like they want ours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:42 PM
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No man is a prize. Men need women, we don’t need them. We are the prize. They want us to think that their attention is valuable, it’s not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:30 AM
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Because they want sex for free. They will manipulate a woman’s emotions to get free sex. Also men feel an ego boost getting it for free from their date/ girlfriend. “Why should I have to pay? Aren’t I a prize?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:21 AM
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We have to compete with robots? The robots can have his worthless dick! Let the robots be used and disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:59 PM
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Yes they are very sweet. I had two boys myself. Sympathy and kindness is not really the same as empathy. I think I read in a psychology book that around 6 is when people develop empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:15 PM
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Yeah and I guess we are supposed to be doe eyed and grateful that a boy “likes” us. Some men never grow out of the “throw pebbles at the girl at recess” stage. They will grow old but inside they are a six year old moron. They want attention from you because they want to screw you (oh wow!! Lucky us!!!) . So instead of getting your attention respectfully, they will neg you. These types are the most dangerous, imo. Six year old boys are incapable of empathy, and so is that grown man with an ego co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:06 PM
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An Asian Lyft driver asked me who I live with, too. How predatory. Always say you live with your husband. A loser man yesterday (complete stranger) asked me if I “live close by”. While I had AirPods in. Then he offered his hand for me to shake. A gentleman will never offer his hand first, because he’s putting a woman on the spot to touch him. I am forty and am harassed by men every day of my life. Jeez I can’t imagine what’s it’s like for the teens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:49 PM
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Lots of women will die FROM having a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:59 PM
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You are not safe in this world unfortunately. Stay close to women, try not to go places alone, because you are prey amongst a world of predators. Men that bother you don’t want to provide for you, they don’t want to add value to your life. They just want to use you for their selfish desires. They have no empathy, they don’t care how they will damage you. Men work for the devil. God put enmity between the devil and women, that’s why men hate us so much. When you take Lyft’s, be antisocial when it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:50 PM
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I am forty and I have my pick. Here’s the thing- I don’t want none of em. Men is this world do not have any respect for women. It’s a spectrum,sure, some are worse than others. Right this moment I am on my way to poker freely, unleashed. No controlling jealous man to pout that I will have a good time without him. I will take money from a bunch of dumb men, and reject their disrespectful advances. Then I will have a bounce in my step in my way home, too. Freedom 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 07:14 PM
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Yes let’s try and keep our oppressor . We just thrive on a mans leash 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:59 PM
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He spends time in casinos also for the hookers. A lot of degenerate men gamblers started gambling because of their hooker finding. The want for hookers came first, then the gambling addiction. (I spend a lot of time in casinos, know a lot of pigs)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:57 PM
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You deserve platinum gold for this! Thank you for saying it! Having kids holds you back. So a woman can have a child and have either : a future victim of men, OR a future oppressor of women. That’s all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:57 AM
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This sub is not about us hating men, it’s about us loving ourselves enough to protect us from them! I guess simply not letting them use and abuse us for no compensation is man-hate. We are the ones playing defense, not them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:32 PM
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How sad that this woman doesn’t realize he is creating porn with her for other pigs! He doesn’t respect her at all. Women have been brainwashed that men are good for us regardless of their disrespectful behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:17 PM
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They don’t need a reason. All the men that strangled me had no reason. I didn’t strangle them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:06 PM
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It’s not the men’s fault for abusing us, is it? Why would anything be their fault, even though they choose to do it? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:11 PM
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I found FDS on the sub for men with small dicks! I love reading their misery for laughs, it’s hilarious. This sub is really popular with those losers, why? Because we have high standards and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:56 PM
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They already have been using and abusing us. They are just mad because we are aware they are useless. Dick is low value. P***y makes the world go round. They know it. We have it and they don’t. 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:28 PM
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We don’t look for men, we look for escape routes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:58 PM
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Only a pickme could possibly reply to this garbage. Apparently we have nothing to offer (just what he needs and wants) so what is his goal anyways? To be pursued? Men don’t even wanna be men anymore, they want to roleplay they’re the girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:12 PM
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The comment under it “if he doesn’t care for her, there should be no problem” 🙄 Since when do men care about the women they cheat with? Do men care for hookers ? No but they will still cheat on you with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:17 PM
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You don’t have to bring anything because you are the prize. We do not “meet men halfway”. We play defense for self preservation. They better really impress us to disrupt our peace at our table they want a seat at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:04 PM
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Imagine how many women are going to be rescued here because of that post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:58 PM
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I have never seen a happy woman under a mans thumb. Never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:59 PM
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Hike date - “I don’t value you and won’t spend my precious money on you. But I want free sex so we should hangout in some way”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:52 PM
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Men have no accountability whatsoever. Nothing is their fault. A casino banned me for life because I happened to be with a man that tried to fight another man. The casinos message? “Women are responsible for men’s behavior”. Also I received no apology from the dipshit that caused it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:33 PM
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Yes, and they will also say “look what you made me do”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:51 PM
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They can control themselves when other people are around. But behind closed doors watch out. They will go full attack like no ones watching because no one is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:36 PM
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He got an ego boost just from you talking to him. Your ego didn’t get boosted, did it? This is why we should never give men attention. A man called me rude on the bus because I wouldn’t look down from my movie on my phone and give him attention. I’m the rude one, sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:46 PM
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It’s more like 1% of men are dateable, where’s this clown getting 25% from? And we don’t have to settle because we are much much better off without a man in the first place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:02 PM
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I’m looking for his absence from my life so I can thrive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:43 PM
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I think she means the movie “misery”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:11 PM
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“you probably should not have seen those” is proof of his guilty conscience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:11 PM
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You mean I will forever be not used and disrespected by a parasitic man without compensation? ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 11:46 PM
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Omg what has this world come to. Wtf is his purpose in her life? This is no marriage. This is a roommate situation where the man gets free sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:57 PM
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Lmao I remember my nvm “dad” telling me “I’ll throw you through that fucking window”. I remember thinking “but there’s a screen”. I could only think it and not speak it because expressing myself was “backtalk”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 07:35 PM
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Amen!!! As if we are approaching them at a table! We are sitting at our table content and minding our business. They are coming to OUR table and better bring something good because they are competing with our peace and contentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:49 PM
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She is the only light in his life, but that’s not what he means. He is so controlling he has to know what she is up to at all times. Classic controlling narc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:36 PM
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I’m the New Testament, Christ Jesus went out of his way to help a pickme. He didn’t tell her to forgive her current abuser, he set her free from him! He told her all she needs is Him and no man. She went away with a bounce in her step and she left her mans water pot there, to carry his damn self. Why should she carry water for a man? Also don’t forgive men because really, would they forgive us for a fraction of the shit they put on us? Absolutely not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:46 PM
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Because if they don’t see you as a sexual object to own, they won’t be as controlling and abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:49 PM
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Yeah men never make us feel worthless! 🙄We are disrespected, invalidated, insulted and abused just because we’re born the superior gender. My whole life I was made to feel worthless by men. If you’re a porn star you might have worth in a mans eyes, but only for a few minutes, then worthless again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:49 AM
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They won’t bond anyway because they have no empathy. Your emotions are the last thing a man cares about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:43 PM
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Because their main goal is to get sex at the lowest price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:58 PM
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So I guess he doesn’t do them for her, he just “doesn’t mind” dirty dishes in the sink. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:07 AM
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Unfortunately he will probably enjoy you peeing on him. Men’s depravity knows no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:32 PM
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He wants her out of the house so he can indulge his porn addiction/ cheat. Also he doesn’t love her if he resents providing for her. Love gives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:58 AM
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I was also misguided and thought I wanted to have kids. It’s hormonally driven. I am a mother. I’m sorry I rained on your dream of playing house, but motherhood oppresses women. Guess what? Men’s sperm is impregnating lesbians, not women’s . My purpose on this planet is to help women, whether it hurts your dreams of having a mini-me or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:14 PM
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The seeds that grow into another human! Men plant those seeds. Imagine if we planted seeds in them that would grow and cause physical ailments and suffering (some women die) do you think men would stand for it? Men orgasm, women suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:49 PM
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I’m speaking from life experience though. What’s the point of surviving suffering if you don’t use your wisdom to help the younger generation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:56 PM
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Who plants the seeds in women? Men do! Not other women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:54 PM
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He should take you to the abortion clinic, pay for it, and take care of you afterwards. Do not ruin your life and body by reproducing. You are enough! Love yourself first. If you don’t love yourself you can’t love anyone else anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:12 AM
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Good for you for escaping that situation! Society is full of jealous stone-throwers who want women miserable because they are miserable. Abortion liberates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:01 AM
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Men love to victim blame, and that’s exactly what is happening when he says “take responsibility for my cheating”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:11 AM
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All you will get from male attention is disrespect at best, and abused at worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:14 AM
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Divorce set you free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:22 PM
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I know but I unblocked to send photo then blocked again. That was the last time I will ever contact him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:11 AM
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Because the girl can’t possibly know how bad he is in bed. Men hate competition. That’s why they even marry at all - so you can’t have any more partners. It’s not because they don’t want any more partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:27 PM
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Make yourself a steak and eat in front of him while watching chippendales. I made myself a ribeye and sent the pic to my recent ex and said “look what else you can’t have! Haha”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:04 PM
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Your father set you up to be abused by men later in life. Mine did too. It’s amazing I can still put sentences together after the abuse I suffered my whole life - by men. I walked with my head down for years because of the abuse. I found this scripture (psalm 3:3 You Lord are the lifter of my head. ) Keep reading FdS and know that men do not determine your worth. Do zebras go “I need a lion to approve me “ ? No. They run from predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:55 PM
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As if they are entitled to even look at women’s bodies that aren’t their wives 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:23 PM
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The first thing men buy when they get a huge windfall is a high priced escort. They love gold diggers! Look at all the rich men with women way out of their league. The only men that hate women with high financial standards are broke ass losers. They can’t afford them so they hate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 05:02 PM
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Prince William has high price hookers brought to him as all men of power do, and she’s supposed to accept it. She ruined her life marrying him. Money doesn’t bring joy and peace. All the fancy clothes and palaces in the world won’t appease a woman’s broken heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:19 PM
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You can pay for your own food anyway! Why does a man get to be in your presence while you eat if he is not treating you? Women can eat by themselves if they are going to pay anyway! We do not need a man to hold our hand to eat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:19 PM
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Megan should be able to live her life without being controlled by an outdated, useless monarchy. Kate Middleton has lost the light in her eyes. Why? Being controlled. Thats what happens to women living under a mans thumb. Kate has to live under a whole monarchy’s thumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:14 PM
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I guess he doesn’t eat pee or shit! He wants one of those life size sex dolls, but he can’t afford it because he’s worthless. So he will just use a real live woman instead. 🤮 He probably really is gay, he has just not come to terms with it. Cause apparently men don’t eat or pee! At least we wipe ourselves after we pee. Men just go “I will put my pee covered dick tip back in my pants!” Imagine if we did that ladies! Would they go down on us like they expect us to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:00 PM
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She was a desperate pickme. We can get better sex from a microwaved pickle than we can from most pornsick men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:37 PM
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It would change the world if we took our power. We own the commodity they want. Dick is a dime a dozen. We are the ones with the power, but we have been giving it away because the patriarchy they created.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:23 PM
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Men want husband benefits without giving you wife benefits. And they are getting away with it! I wish all women collectively will stop giving men sex they don’t deserve. They have become so bold they expect sex just for buying you dinner 🙄. Like motherfucker you were privileged to have my company. That’s it and you’re welcome 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:01 PM
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It’s only good for the man. A woman hanging out and giving sex to a friend is blocking potential suitors from pursuing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:07 PM
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He is threatened by her sexiness, he knows she is too good for him and will eventually dump him. So he wants to dump her as a girlfriend first, to spare his precious ego. But he still wants to use her for sex, of course!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:02 PM
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My nickname growing up was “punching bag”. It’s like gee, if you are aware of it put a stop to it!! My brother was my second abuser , my dad the first. I hope I can use the abuse I suffered for good in this world. I really hope God makes me a rich woman so I can rescue women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:03 PM
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Currently I just play poker. My dream is to own property, like condo buildings where women can come live for free to escape their abusers. So many women are suffering and they need these places to exist. I stayed with my abusers because I had nowhere to go. Abusers make it where you are dependent on them, just so you can’t escape. As a child also, I spent some summers in shitty battered women’s shelters. One was haunted, another had a man working there that wanted to take my 10 year old sister o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:30 AM
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My cruel ex blamed me for my broken finger because I pissed him off. He chose to purposely break it, but magically it’s my fault. So not only did he malform my finger for life, but gaslit me too. He never said he was sorry. Men are capable of much cruelty. They are not emotional, empathetic beings like us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:21 AM
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Holy shit what a loser. He was privileged to have her company, plain and simple. Can she get her time back that she wasted with this loser?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:59 AM
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My favorite is psalm 140:1 “Lord protect me from evil men”. I pray it every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:22 PM
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Adam was accountable for Eve. The fall of mankind (the curse) didn’t happen until Adam ate the apple. Eve was a gift to Adam. Where was he while satan was tempting Eve? Being a dumbass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:29 PM
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Men blame women for their depravity. I was in Vegas a few weeks ago and I stopped to talk to a “christian “ man that was handing out bibles. I told him about the ministry God has placed in my heart to rescue women. And he goes “I just saw some scantily dressed girls, enticing men to sin” My jaw dropped. I said “these girls are victims, and Jesus loves them so much” If he didn’t view them as sex objects, he wouldn’t be “enticed to sin”. Beware of men in the church. They are controlling and abusiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:04 PM
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It’s not even a marriage. It’s a single mom adopting a grown man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:45 AM
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Wtf is his purpose then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:42 AM
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Bathsheba was the woman who birthed King Solomon, most importantly she is included in the lineage of Jesus Christ. Please read John 4:4 about the woman at the well whom Jesus set free from men! She was a pickme and dependent on men and mistreated, of course. After her encounter with the Lord she became confident and bold! That woman is like me. Jesus is my Lord now, no fucking man. No man will ever take his place. The only way a man will ever get the privilege of being in my life is if he loves …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:56 PM
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This woman needs to hire a chippendale to come to her house and strip all sexy like. Also the chippendale can serve the cheating NVM the divorce papers. If I was a rich woman I would send him for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:11 PM
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The opposite is true. The fatter, uglier the man, the most abusive he is. The ugliest man I ever gave the time of day was by far the most verbally abusive. He put me down constantly. Men that know they are fat, old or ugly, or all three, will try to convince a woman that’s waaaay out of his league that he’s good enough for her. So he will put her down until she believes it. Never believe it ladies! You are God’s daughter and you’re worth gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:06 PM
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Joseph Prince! I love him! He loves Jesus with all his heart. He is my pastor even though he is based in Singapore. (I’m in USA) I also can’t find a local church that doesn’t stone throw. USA churches mix law and grace. We need pure grace, like the apostle Paul preached. Joseph Prince is a grace teacher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:29 PM
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Actually he didn’t write on sand. The outside of the temple was stone ground. He was writing on stone, to symbolize the stone writings of the ten commandments. Jesus was essentially saying ‘you presume to tell me about the ten commandments? I Am the One who wrote them’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:02 PM
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Knowing men like I do, (and knowing how satan operates) the men that wanted to stone her to death are the very men that used her as a fleshlight! 2000 years later, this is still happening. There are undercover cops that arrest women for prostitution after they fuck them! They use them, then condemn them! Men are a tool of the devil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:52 PM
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Please run from the catholic church. Just talk to Jesus. He is your savior, he is the most high. You don’t need man made religious false teachings. It’s a personal relationship with our savior. He loves you so much. The Bible says he knows how many hairs we have on our heads, personally. That’s how intimately he knows us, and loves us, with no condemnation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:49 PM
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Jesus said that he came that we might have life , and life more abundantly! He paid the ultimate price. All my sins are covered by his blood. (In the Old Testament, to cause a woman’s miscarriage was like a murder) . Thank God for Jesus! We can live child-free!! Pregnancy-free! (I was a mommy for 8 years) being a mother is oppression, plain and simple. Be free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:25 PM
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I am also a Christian woman. Knowing Jesus bore all my sins on the cross is what gave me the courage to have my abortions. Jesus is on our side. If abortion is wrong, well, Jesus paid my price. If we choose to suffer ourselves, then he suffered in vain. The cross trumps abortion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:13 PM
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A man won’t give a woman the time of day unless he wants to fuck her. They project that onto us, that’s why they think we want to fuck em. It doesn’t occur to these morons that we are just friendly normal people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:57 PM
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We already attract men by nature. They pursue us, we play defense. Do these dumb men think we want them? Why? Why would we want them? Why would we care about their desires? We fucking don’t, that’s the point. They need us and hurt us to get what they want. Men aren’t commodities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:31 PM
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Men can’t be a friend. They just want to use and abuse. If you were unattractive do you think they would want to hang out? Hell no. Men are predatory by nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:59 PM
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A high earning woman has zero use for a man! Oh Lord if I had my own money... the suffering I would have avoided... good Lord. If a zebra had her own sanctuary, would she still run thru lion territory? No No No No!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:48 AM
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They will call us a bitch simply for setting boundaries, so we might as well be a smart ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:33 AM
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He has a tiny dick, so this is him rejecting her before she can reject him. She dodged a BB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:00 AM
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Yes, let's all play mommy to the men in our lives. That will make us feel sexy. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:19 PM
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I know right. I said "in 25 years you couldn't get a clean girl?" Like what an idiot! And to actually tell me that, like I'd really be turned on by that. He is a pot bellied pig that no woman will look at twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:44 PM
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A man actually said to me "I didn't lick pussy for 25 years". I said "why not??" His answer " they were dirty and stinky". So by his stupid mouth he informed me that he hates women and thinks we're gross. This idiot wanted to marry me. ( Domestic slave/bangmaid) Any man that doesn't love licking pussy is worthless at best, abusive at worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:18 AM
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The only reason a man befriends a woman is to get in her pants. I can't believe there's women that don't know this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:46 PM
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I agree totally. I never ever would have had sex for money if not for the narcissist abuse I suffered from my ex. He used hookers behind my back, and damn it they had it better than me! He broke my finger, not theirs. I realized the hooker had all the freedom , I didn't, I had to walk on eggshells. I couldn't even talk to other men, but these girls who got paid, were allowed to even fuck other men!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:04 PM
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They spend more money on their hookers than on the woman they "love". They are also much nicer to them. I unfortunately have had sex with men for money, and let me tell you, they were much nicer to me than my serious boyfriends were. They didn't strangle me and put me down. Because I didn't love them. It's like men want to punish you for loving them. The worst abuses in my life came from men I loved and were supposed to love me. My dad, my brother, and my exes abused me horribly. Not the johns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:26 PM
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Omg the sheer stupidity. Why even save a porn video?? I don't get it. They masturbate to their 2 dimensional victims then it's over. It's done. Why save it? There's thousands of videos just like the one they just masturbated to. It just makes no fucking sense. You would think their shame would make them delete their browsing history, not save the filth. Ugh what a world we have to live in because of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:13 AM
508

It's acceptable on dating sites "want sex nsa" But I have never , ever, seen a woman's ad that says "pay my rent nsa". I guess it doesn't go both ways for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:48 PM
65

A man will waste years of your life and not give it a second thought. All that sentimental stuff means nothing to them. I don't think they have emotional attachments. If you serve his needs he will keep you around, like a car that runs good, they keep that too. Until they get a newer model with less milage that doesn't yet know he's an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:52 PM
45

So he couldn't get his real mommy to buy him one so he got his pseudo-mommy to buy it. This is sickening. Men have no respect for women anymore, and they also have no self respect. Men used to be ashamed of being the girl in a relationship. Where's the masculinity at? We might as well all be lesbians because masculinity is a thing of the past. We will all be much happier. Women are better in every possible aspect anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:01 PM
131

Being murdered by a raging narc man is the worse case scenario. Also being a shadow of your former self, being miserable in a constant state of cognitive dissonance because of the gaslighting narc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:00 AM
27

A man begged me for money at the casino and I asked him "does it make your balls shrink to ask a woman for money?" We should always respond that way. Not only will they not ask again, but they will hate you, which is good because they're useless anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:32 PM
18

No man deserves love unless he loves you first. It's biblical. Ephesians 5:25 "husbands love your wives". God did not design us to chase a man and love a man first. That's why it won't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:40 AM
30

If you tell a man that you have been mistreated in past relationships, they will be like "oh good, the bar is set low" , and they will also mistreat you. They will not step up and treat you right. Some men specifically look for abused women, we are easy prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:04 PM
38

Kings don't need a woman to buy them dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:46 AM
59

Asshole is calling you cold and dead inside. All that bullshit was just to insult you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:45 PM
5

Yes I have. He stalked me for a while. The other day at poker I caught him watching me. I hate him so much. He is not entitled to look at me. He is such a piece of shit. He has a huge ego for no reason. When I told him to fuck off out of my life I said "the next time you are masturbating to teens look in the fucking mirror. Do those girls have pot bellies like you? Are they ancient like you? How do you have an ego so big when you have never been attractive to women?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:26 PM
8

this abusive man invited me over for Thanksgiving last year. I went because I had nowhere else to go. I was trying to be helpful and asked "should I drain this cauliflower" and he goes "well you are the woman". When everything was done (his stepdaughter cooked but wasn't joining us) he handed me his plate to serve him. He didn't serve me. I was his GUEST. He wanted me desperately to move in with him, because he wanted a slave girl. He wanted a subservient pet. I used to be real abusable, and tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:38 PM
124

Abusive men look for low self esteem women who are used to abuse. A NVM told me last year that I "would have been a great woman back when I didn't have a backbone." I'm a great woman now, you piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:07 AM
23

A man that doesn't eat pussy really IS gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:59 AM
208

A man can't decipher facial expressions. "oh water is coming out of your eyes because I betrayed you? Maybe it means you're not horny? Why aren't you horny, don't you know your purpose?" Also if you say something true with boldness, they will accuse you of "screaming at them". Even though you just spoke at normal volume, they just didn't like your assertiveness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:20 PM
77

You are not cynical, you just see the truth with absolute clarity. You need a man like you need a headache. You are a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:41 AM
48

She will. This pig equates breaking his wifes heart, with a womans choice to be, or not to be, an incubator for a man. How is that even comparable? He made a commitment to her and broke it; women do not make commitments to sperm that knocks us up. Its not even remotely comparable. Its ok though, she will get the house and he will pay alimony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:26 AM
9

I saw this too! This can't be real though. I think maybe someone is using her photo. She is so beautiful to degrade herself like that. All for attention from men. For what? What do we get from them anyway? Hurt, disrespect, headaches. I hope that beautiful woman can love herself because thats so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:05 PM
35

A dated a guy last year, that would leave my toilet seat up in my apartment. I put a huge sign on the wall, that said "put the seat down." He still did not put it down. He is a disrespectful pig. He had a tiny dick too, so you would think he would be extra nice. Nope. He couldn't even respect my rules in my own apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:03 PM
174

Well she can show that admission of adultery to her attorney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:00 PM
17

no I did not call police unfortunately, that time. He gets away with everything, as narcissists usually do. He does have Parkinson's disease though. Thats small consolation. Hopefully he has broke some bones with his falls. He was just pure evil. I said "how come you don't feel anything when I cry?" he goes "I dont know, I just dont" . All a narcissistic can feel is anger. They have no other emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:51 PM
39

Don't allow him back in your life. You are not a sex doll. You are a human being with feelings and he doesn't give a shit. He's telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Thats all. So he can get some sex. Block him and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:08 PM
35

My ex narc abuser called me a gold digger, after I gave him sex and love for two freaking years before he ever took me out. By take me out, I mean anywhere. Not one lunch, not one breakfast, nothing. My birthday was just another day. It took two years to be taken out, but yet I was a gold digger. Also he was 32 yrs older than me. When I finally left him, he came after me and broke my finger. He stole my phone and my cash too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 05:19 PM
8

If a woman is divorced, it means she has been liberated from a loser. She is not the failure, the man is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:38 PM
164

But yet his sexual needs are her responsibility, right? I'm so sick of men thinking their precious money is more valuable than a womans body. Its not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:34 PM
-6

The silent treatment is a narcissistic abuse tactic. "I'm banishing you from my divine presence." If his mother is abusive and he doesn't want her in his adult life, she would be out of it. He is pouting because they "had a fight". Thats ridiculous. Thats his mother not his girlfriend or friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:29 AM
-10

If he's pouting and giving his mother the silent treatment, he will do the same to you. A HVM will love his mother, and have a healthy mother/son dynamic. This guy fought with his mother, and now they are not speaking? Ugh. That doesn't sound like a functional mother/son relationship to me. Huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:53 AM
51

Yeah, what woman wants a relationship with a man with 5 kids and a wife! And I bet he's searching for a woman with no kids or a husband to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:32 AM
24

Men are jealous that we can get sex all day every day if we choose. They don't have this option. I've heard men say "if I was a woman I'd be a whore". They are jealous because deep down they absolutely would fuck a different woman every day if they could. They can't, so they hate us because we can do that. We don't do that because we don't think like men. We want love, honor, commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:07 PM
140

They don't even have to date you to see you naked! You know, because technology. Imagine 20 yrs ago a man asking to see polaroids of you naked after one date, or even before. No woman would accept that pig behavior. But yet today, this is happening, and men are getting away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:20 PM
12

He wants free sex and whatever else you give him. He is taking advantage of you, because you do have a heart for him. He doesn't have a heart for you, just a dick. Dicks are a dime a dozen. He is going to keep hurting you if you let him in your life. Cut your losses with him. You deserve so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:15 PM
25

OMG. He gets to fuck her but can't buy her shampoo?? He should offer to pay in the first place. Women are worth gold and men treat us like garbage. Then they gaslight is into thinking we are not worth gold, but we are. They are the worthless ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:28 PM
36

Because hes a disrespectful user of women. I have more respect for a man panhandling than begging from a woman. My mother actually worked and supported a man for a few years, and get this - she would babysit his kids when she got home from an 8hr shift on her feet! He didn't respect her at all. He would see other women while she was working. I will never ever be that damn stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:02 PM
80

Never ever send a man nudes. Men used to have to woo you, date you, impress you, love you, to finally get the privilege of seeing you nude in person. This is the way it should be. Men are idiots. They ruin the whole dating experience. As technology increases, respect for women decreases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:25 PM
93

She adopted a grown child. Ladies, never ever support a man. They know its unnatural. They know they are taking advantage of you. A man will not respect a woman who supports him. Can you imagine supporting a man that fucks you?? They get to have their cake and eat it too!! I would let a man die in the streets before I let him move in with me. I'm not playing mommy to a grown man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:12 PM
20

Why is this woman putting up with this emotional abuse? He's blatantly cheating on her, and then tries to justify it because "all males like younger girls". What about her feelings? Like she really feels special to him, after he lusts after other women. Men do not grow out of this. A 74 yr old pig who stalked and emotionally abused me told me he watches young girls with their dirty old grandpa (in porn). If a man is masturbating to teenagers when he's 27, he's going to be masturbating to teenage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:08 AM
17

She grew up watching her mom be abused by her dad. I grew up watching my mom put men before her children. She taught me to be a pickme. This woman suffered the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:57 PM
49

He doesn't want to know you as a lady. He sees you as a sexual object, nothing more. He is worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:44 PM
10

Thank you so much for caring. Yes this is the husband who was homosexual. So yes I got to endure the best of both worlds! Cheating on me with men and women! The man that broke my finger is the man I left him for. Ugh I am currently a single woman, living alone, and I always have to be defensive when it comes to men. Just this am, I went to play my favorite slot machine at casino, alone in peace, and some dude sits next to me, but doesn't gamble. I had to be a bitch (you really have to be) and sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:58 AM
34

I know! What a cruel bitch. She brought gifts for my son but I threw them away. I didn't want to see him in clothes from her. I just couldn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 07:30 PM
42

Thank you. I am not ruined, just wiser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:32 PM
125

I had such low self esteem I stayed with him and got knocked up again 7 months later, but didn't abort because of religious oppression. I ruined my life because I was so desperate for a man's love. I never got that love. Now I get love from God. A man certainly isn't capable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:11 PM
214

I guess she wanted to see his son, or wanted me to know she existed. My memory of giving birth will always be tainted by that. Men will ruin you inside and out given the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:57 AM
232

My husband's mistress from work, who I didn't know existed, came to see our baby who I just birthed. My body was freshly destroyed, and then my heart was too. His explanation to me about his infidelity was this gem : "I like ass, ok?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:43 AM
30

He's not exactly trying to impress you. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:13 AM
154

ugh how can a woman have sex with that thing? You can close your eyes and picture someone normal but how do you unfeel his hideous pig body on you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:15 PM
48

Why in the world would a woman have to pay for her uber to get to a date with a man? He is the privileged one to have her company, she isn't privileged! He's going to use her for sex but yet she has to pay to be used?? Men see 2 types of women : "sex workers" (have to pay to use their body) and "nice girls" (you get to use their body for FREE!) I'll gladly be a sex worker before I'm a doormat pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:52 PM
137

On Saturdays she can be with her side dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:12 PM
6

Yes it is a power trip. In nature, the male species are driven to mate and compete with other males to do so. Men feel like a big man to plant their seed in that woman. They feel less of a man if they aren't capable of impregnating a woman. Of course, they will bitch about her changed body after they accomplish the knock-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:23 PM
8

I had a boyfriend who had a vasectomy who told me his sex drive was never the same after. It turns them off to not have that power anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:29 AM
322

Men view us like an appliance. When we do what they bought us for, we are good to have around. When we stop functioning like we used to, they throw us out. They have no emotional attachment, like a woman does. We have empathy and feelings. When we love a man, we would push him around in his wheelchair if we had to. The only way a man could ever do that, is if he had some sick paraplegic fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:43 PM
14

He should pay for everything. He is privileged to have your company, he should pay. Men give, women receive. When he takes you to bed, he wants you to be the reciever, doesn't he? He doesn't get to to recieve from you all day then be the giver in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:36 PM
39

Men don't want to do it because they like the fact they can plant seeds in us to ruin us. Like they really accomplished something by orgasming. Idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:03 PM
23

The fact that he let you pay half the bill is a sign he is a LVM. And for him to say thats why he likes you? He's getting the affection of a beautiful woman essentially for free. He's taking advantage of you. If you are paying for your own meal, what is he there for? To block other potentially HVM from talking to you? If you are paying for your own meal, eat alone. Its very liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:56 PM
10

A womans greatest need is a sense of security, a mans greatest need is sex. They get their needs met by women, but our needs are neglected. How many times have you seen an online dating ad that said "woman looking for a man to pay my rent and leave. NSA". But yet I've seen a million of these "man seeking woman for a good time. NSA" They get sex and we get nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:18 PM
32

They can't live without us. We thrive without them because they are ball-and-chains strapped to women's ankles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:35 PM
3

Why would she want to have sex with a man that's been lusting after other women?! Of course she doesn't want him. Its still early enough for her to abort him and his spawn and be set free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:31 PM
102

When a man calls a woman a gold digger", it means "she wont let me use her for nothing."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:29 PM
195

She is saying that your boyfriend is allowed to disregard your feelings. She has been hurt by men, you can see it in her eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:59 AM
7

Notice how he uses a pic with his beer gut covered by his guitar. What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:31 PM
22

Damn, imagine being so desperate for male validation that you would degrade yourself like that. That poor woman needs serious therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:29 PM
6

They don't think of anything but their dicks. And they aren't going "shes 13 so should be having sex with a 13yr old boy." They think she should be with a grown man! Like a young girl needs a divorced, pot bellied, balding, alcoholic piece of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:36 PM
36

Remember the hurt always gets worse. They see what they can get away with. A LVM is a child in a man's body. When you forgive them of their abuse, they don't go "she's a special woman to forgive me. I will treat her like a queen". Instead they go "well if she forgave me for a slap, she will forgive me for a punch." This is how their depraved minds work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 09:58 PM
82

I did that for years. I forgave physical and emotional abuse over and over and over. For what? ptsd, depression. Forgive him for the first fuck up, then leave. Never ever let him hurt you again. He's not worth it, trust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:55 PM
18

Men ruin us then bitch we are ruined. All men should be sterilized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:22 PM
55

I've heard men say that as long as she's bleeding, she is old enough for sex. When are we old enough for respect? Men don't respect older women, youger women, it doesn't matter. I've had men tell me that a woman is done when she stops bleeding. As if her purpose is to breed. Men think like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:17 PM
6

This is so accurate! We thrive without men. They crumble without us because they need us, we don't need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:56 PM
23

Men in their 20's abuse women. Men in their 30's abuse women. Does it matter our ages? If a man doesn't appreciate a beautiful intelligent woman who is 40plus, 50plus, then he is worthless anyway! Men's validation is worthless. If only they knew how worthless they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:06 PM
15

When he says negative stuff to you about yourself, look him in the eye and say the opposite. Correct him. If he says you have low confidence, boldly say "I have a lot of confidence". One time at poker a man said some dumb shit to me about being an airhead, and I looked him in the eye and said "I am a brilliant woman."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:59 PM
30

Child molesters will adopt children just to have a victim. Lots of these men will go after single moms. I've seen men on dating sites say "looking for a family". Now why in the world would a healthy minded man, with no kids, look specifically for a woman with kids who aren't his? They don't. Men want to get to the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:52 PM
22

If all men punched their wives , would we be expected to put up with that too? He is a pig with no self control or integrity. And there are men who do not watch porn. They are rare, but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:18 AM
2

A woman with borderline personality is a pickmeisha to the extreme. I have borderline personality, and I have been a target for abusive men my whole life because of it. All that mattered to me was a man's validation. It is mental illness. Thank God I no longer care about men. Their "validation" is worthless anyway. All I have to show for putting men first is a broken finger, stretch marks, and a lot of p.t s.d.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:19 PM
30

They think they are entitled to your attention just because they want it. How dare he think he can get your pic for no reason whatsoever. Just yesterday a man on a bench started talking to me as I walked by, about my shirt, and I didn't stop. I said "uh huh" and kept going then he kept talking to me louder and louder, I think he was mad I ignored him. Like I have to stop my stride because some loser wants my attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:52 PM
18

I agree that we should try for the most compassionate outcome. Compassion on the woman. I thank God I didn't have to bear my narcissistic abusers child! Can you imagine? He probably would have killed me. The most dangerous times for a woman in an abusive relationship are when she is pregnant, and when she leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:19 AM
15

For some of us, it's because we didn't get it from our fathers. They were the first NVM in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:09 AM
4

At the school for the blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:06 AM
18

A man is expected to do all those things because they are the pursuer. They penetrate us, we don't penetrate them. Men give, women receive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:02 PM
93

A man actually said to me that Roe V Wade should be overturned! No man has any right to even have an opinion about abortion! They can keep it to themselves. We don't plant seeds in them and say you better be a walking incubator for me. The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:47 PM
5

a gay man doesn't have the love of pussy that a straight man does. plain and simple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:47 PM
118

WTF is he offering this potential slave to compensate for her servitude?? Let me guess: absolutely nothing. Disgusting pig. "must be attractive". He is not attractive, but I guess that's ok. How is this poor woman supposed to be turned on enough to go to bed with this freak? Oh thats right, we are mystical creatures that are horny 24/7 for no reason, and looking at a hideous pig as old as our dads really makes us wet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:18 PM
20

I guess to open jars that are too tight. But I have discovered a trick that makes men even more useless: Poke a tiny hole in the lid of the jar, with a needle. It will release air pressure, and you can open your own jar!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:01 AM
51

"I like a girl who takes care or herself" means he doesn't want to be there for you in the way a man is supposed to be there for a woman. Are you scared to walk thru that parking lot at night alone? Tough shit, he doesn't want to protect you. Are you short on paying a bill? Tough shit, he won't help you. Do you need help with your car? It won't start? Tough shit, he doesnt want to be a man and rescue you. If you can rescue yourself, what the fuck do you need him for in the first place??? He want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:09 PM
15

Good for you for being strong! I wish I was when i was younger. And I get plenty of attention at 39 yrs old. Most of it is unwanted of course. A few months ago I had a 74 yr old pig ask me to marry him cause he wants a son!!! I said "I wont do it, not even for 100 million dollars" And I absolutely mean that. Theres nothing in the world that could compensate me for that misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:59 PM
79

If "hitting a wall" means my body is no longer wanted as an incubator so a man can breed, then thank God for that wall! The same men that tell us our value goes down as our fertility goes down, are the same pigs that say having kids ruins a womans body. I have had more than one man admit this to me! The father of my kids did too! So they want us perfect and fertile, so their seed can grow in us and "ruin" us. I had a boyfriend admit he would never ever suffer a pregnancy, if men had to do it. So…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:53 PM
67

You also don't owe a man anything, no matter how much money he spent on you or how much time he spent with you. If you just realize you don't have peace in your heart about him, you can just say goodbye. Wipe the very dust from him off your feet and go. You don't even have to explain yourself. He was privileged to spend his money on you and be with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:42 PM
211

They will absolutely know you deserve better, but are too selfish to let you go. They would rather tear your confidence down than see you thrive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:07 AM
45

I went back to my abuser a bunch of times seeking that apology. I never got it. The closest I ever got was "I'm sorry you feel that way." That is not an apology. Its a narcissistic fake apology. I cried and pleaded with him, I said "I have to have surgery to fix my finger because of you! Look at it!!" ( he had broken it in a fit of rage) and he goes "I don't care!!!" For once he told the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:41 PM
104

Always have your own money and don't let him know about it. He doesn't want you to know about his 2 dimensional girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:10 PM
37

A man absolutely can disturb your spiritual peace. Especially the more abusive he is. That positive aura and confidence you have is the very thing they want to take from you. They want you to lose that light in your eyes. Why? Because the more broken the woman, the easier he can control and make her subservient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:37 PM
44

LVM want it to hurt, thats the turn on for them. It makes them strong and powerful to inflict pain with their dicks. It makes them feel their dick is bigger than it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:29 PM
2

Suicide is not always due to mental illness. Sometimes people choose suicide because of a terminal illness. To end their suffering. I have struggled with suicidal thoughts all my life. When you have things to live for, and you're thinking about suicide, yes thats mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:11 PM
8

really though thats why he hates women. Reject her before she can reject his depressing dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:31 AM
29

We don't force them to suicide, that's just the end result of worthlessness. If I was a man and no woman desired me, I would absolutely kill myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:36 AM
78

If we are causing their mental issues, then they can just leave us alone. They don't have to have a woman. We don't have to have a man. We can be happy without the headache. They have to impress us, not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:20 AM
42

This dumb motherfucker has more hair on his shoulders than on his head! He has no pectoral muscles at all. His dick dosen't stick out the other end when its in his hand. But he probably doesn't know cause he hasn't seen it in years cause he's a lazy slob. Unfuckable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 01:10 AM
36

A man won't forgive cheating even if he drove her to it by years of neglect. He will call her a whore, smear her reputation, or worse. Like beat her. My ex husband, on his panhandling sign, writes shit like "my wife left me for an old man" He doesn't say anything about his years of adultery. He planted the seed of adultery and he reaped his harvest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:25 AM
126

Yes we do see them as a tool. A tool of oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:12 AM
22

We are not the entitled ones, they are! We are not the pursuers, they are. Since we are being pursued, we get to be the scrutinizers, not them. It doesn't matter how high are standards are, we get to set them. They think they are entitled to sex and whatever else they can take from you, just because they were born male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:33 AM
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Ok, but you must look like a chippendale, make seven figures, have a big dick, and pass a class on how to respect women. Write an essay on how porn degrades women. If you meet all these requirements, you may get a girlfriend who may or may not reject you right out the gate. Theres always red tape with the government. Sorry incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:40 PM
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"the world needs girls....." Who needs broken girls? Disgusting pig men that need a human woman to use and abuse. Men do need women, but they are NOT entitled to one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:49 PM
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This poor woman is used to his disrespect. You can see it in her sad eyes. Also she was too doormat, with the "thats not nice." She should have said "you're not good at fucking but you still attempt it"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:38 PM
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"I'll just do it for him while goes and watches porn! But I need male validation, no matter how worthless the man!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:59 AM
83

She's looking up at God, and God's saying "Get away from that filthy, evil man! You deserve so much more, you are precious"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:12 AM
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I was skeptical from the start. For one thing, he's in debt and a cheap bastard. Also when I breathed on it, the fog stayed for 2 seconds. On a real diamond, the fog instantly evaporates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:11 AM
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yes. I had a jeweler look at it. They couldn't believe it said Tiffany & Co 2.00 ct. Its fake. fake diamond shackle Edit - He told me he bought it on sale on Tiffany's website. He said he was super lucky they only had one left in my size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:04 AM
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She's a doctor! She can take care of herself. She can afford her own vibrator. If a man isn't going to improve her life, he has no business in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:35 PM
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Its a bigger ego boost for them to convince a girl he loves her, and get sex that way. Why should he spend his precious money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:30 PM
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I know! And he specifically told people he paid $10,000 for it! Its was probably $10. He presented it to me in a brand new tiffany box and everything. His credit card was declined at the casino and he blamed it on the ring! And now I'm being stalked by that pig. Wow the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:32 PM
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It can also be a way of a LVM to put ownership on you. My stalker gave me a FAKE tiffany diamond, so the men at the casino would think I am already someone else's property. I did not wear it. I said "I'm not going to wear your shackle."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:08 PM
87

"I do not want to be expected to regard your feelings, or meet any of your needs, I just want to use you for sex"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 04:19 PM
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They are only worth it if the man puts you first like he is supposed to. But men are incredibly selfish. Love yourself, he won't. His love is conditional. We love ourselves whether we are horny or not! We love ourselves if we are wearing makeup or not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:54 PM
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I didn't claim that all nazis are gay. In that movie, the nazi hated homosexuals. Its the spirit of hate that is the common factor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 02:08 AM
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Yes so do I. I was married to a closeted, gay guy hating l, homosexual. For 7 years. Read my comment history before you judge me. This sub isn't about arguing over movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:55 AM
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Good for you for living such a sheltered life that you haven't acquired this wisdom like I have. Did it ever occur to you that authors write characters based on real life personality types?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:56 PM
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Because a man's number one goal in life is to get good, on demand vagina for the lowest possible price. Why should he pay all her debt, when he can possibly get another vagina/slave for free? If he is really bold, he might go for a woman who pays HIS debt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:03 PM
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He wants a woman roommate so he doesn't have to wine and dine the vagina. The vagina is already in his house!! Very low effort attempt to use a woman as a toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:48 PM
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I am even more sorry that men made choices to hurt me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:42 PM
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people know about him. I haven't gone to the police because I don't want to be interrogated. Police do not have a compassionate attitude. They are paid stone throwers. Yesterday the convenience store I go to everyday burned down by arson. The owner liked me, the owner slept there like Apu, and my stalker knew it. Hes got me so paranoid, I think it was him! I catch him following weeks after I told him to leave me alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 06:33 PM
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men hate women who are out of their league. Because their precious dick is rejected. Worst example of this, is serial killers who target hookers. They hate them because all through high school (and life) girls rejected them. They could never get attention from a woman without paying for it. I am currently being stalked by a guy just like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:27 PM
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A man actually said "can IT act". fucking pig. As if she loses her humanity just because she is waaay out of his league. 99% chance the man that said that has a beer gut and a tiny useless dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:24 PM
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Most of these losers are gay anyway. Nazis say shit like "God hates fags". They themselves like dick. Like in that movie, American Beauty. The nazi was a closeted gay man, thats where all the hate came from. Pent-up self loathing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:40 PM
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no he does not feel any guilt at all. There was this one occasion when some man came to the door for my husband, and my husband said he was going to go " work" for him. I stood there crying, just sobbing, with our baby, begging him not to go. I knew it wasn't legitimate work. He left anyway. I can't remember how long he was gone. Sometimes up to 2 weeks, without a phone call. He has zero empathy. He did not give one single fuck what I was going through. He blamed me for leaving him for an old ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:33 PM
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Homophobes are definitely closeted. And there are a lot of women married to guys like this. This is very common in churches. I am free ! ( he blamed me for divorce LOL )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:53 AM
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yes. When I first met him, he made a few remarks about gay guys, that he "hated them". He would bring up the subject, not me. Why were they are on his mind? Why did he hate them? I was working at store 6 months into our relationship. He stopped by the store to visit me. He was dropped off by guys, I never seen. He hitchhiked all the time. These guys came back the next day, and asked if I "have seen that hot guy that was dropped off yesterday afternoon " I was like , are you talking about my boyf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:37 AM
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thank you. I did. Headache over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:52 AM
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The thing is, I don't want to text him either. I don't text him, he texts me. If a man is bothering you, its more invasive for him to bother you through a phone call than a text. I should have put this in better context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:05 AM
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I don't want to talk on the phone with a man I am not interested in. I have much experience with men, and especially narcissistic abusers. I have much wisdom in this area. Deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:57 AM
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I am not delusional. This is someone I do not want to see again. This is not a man I have been seeing and I like. In that case, I would prefer phone calls. I suggest you read my comment history before you judge me. We are supposed to support each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:30 AM
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This man had the privilege of buying me lunch on Wednesday. (We just met) So he asked if he can call me, I say no, and he calls anyway. I did not answer. A man that wants to call you instead of texting you is probably a controlling narcissist. When you're on the phone, it gives them a sense of control. They know you are not with any other men, and they can also tell if you're home or not. When I text, I can reply on MY time. I can take 5 seconds or 5 hours to reply. If he calls me, I have to giv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:14 AM
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I'm sorry you are also a victim. We didn't deserve that abuse. My ex husband is not the same as my ex narc (finger breaker). My ex husband treated me so shitty, for 8 years, that I became a prime target for a narcissist. That abuser saw me from a mile away. Wonded gazelles are easy prey for the predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:15 AM
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All we are advocating for is the respect we deserve!! We are not advocating male genocide! We are not, God forbid, subjecting them to the thousands of years of mistreatment and oppression THEY HAVE DONE TO US. If any man has any negative thing to say about FDS, he is garbage. Like really, you don't want a woman that desires to not be abused? These men were born of a woman, but they still think we don't deserve respect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:40 PM
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This is gold. This is the attitude we all need ladies!! Remember , a mans attention is not valuable, they are a dime a dozen. Our attention is valuable. Do not give them attention unless they are worthy of your attention. They have to prove themselves, you don't have to prove anything. You are being pursued, you get to scrutinize them, they don't get to scrutinize you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:07 PM
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yes dont waste a womans time. A man will even marry a woman to hide his homosexuality. Because he doesn't want to come to terms with it, or he just doesn't want society to know. Men are that incredibly selfish. I know this it happened to me. My ex husband was a practicing homosexual during our marriage. I guess 22yr old me didn't deserve to marry a straight man. My ex husband was completely ok with ruining my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:09 PM
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Yes! Of course its easy for him! He wasn't the one who was betrayed. Imagine if it had been her that cheated? Would he still have this passion for saving a broken marriage? Fuck no. Everytime he looked at his wife he would see her with a another dudes cock in her mouth. But its ok for us to be the betrayed ones, its up to us to forgive an unforgivable betrayal. Men are so fucked in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:50 PM
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not only will it tank your self esteem, it will destroy your love for yourself over time. My ex narc did that to me for years. I would sit there and cry and pour my heart out about a hurt HE caused, and he would run upstairs. Or he turned it around on me, that I was the bad guy, for "accusing him" . Then I ended up apologizing to him!! And after I was left with a giant gaping wound in my heart. A man that does this is ice cold, sociopathic. He abused me so much. He broke my beautiful ring finger…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:19 PM
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my ex did that to. If I expressed my feelings, he would say "lets not argue , ok?" Its emotional abuse. A man that loves you has regard for your feelings, plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:03 PM
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I bet he wasn't shy when it came time to penetrate her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:42 PM
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I know right! "sounds like you've experienced this" fucking clown. He is the one who experienced it, not me! Subtle gaslighting but still gaslighting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:24 PM
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Malignant narcissist right there. When a man says "no one will ever love you like me" , he is not exalting his great love, he is degrading your lovability. As if no one can love you. Men want you to have to depend on them to live. They hate a strong woman. They find it a personal insult if you stand on your own two feet. Ladies you are precious and lovable. Most men are ice cold, what do they know about love anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:10 PM
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They learn it from porn. Written and directed by men. And consumed by men. The only reason the girls are even there in the first place is because of abusive men (their fathers).They are looking for validation in the wrong places, and they need to make a living in this patriarchal society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:02 PM
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On a church show on TV, I saw this married couple who had "recovered from adultery". Not her affair, his! He spoke the whole time, about forgiveness, and how it doesn't have to end the marriage. And the whole time his wife sat there with a defeated look, with no joy whatsoever. No sis, run away!! He tainted your marriage, its unrecoverable!! How do you sleep with your husband when in the back of your mind its "was he like this with her? how was the other woman with him?" Ugh. Marriage OVER Edit:…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:51 PM
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not only are you not allowed to shit normally, you are also not allowed to have feelings. "The girls in porn don't cry and bitch when he forgets her birthday, why are you nagging me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:30 PM
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yeah he was so turned off, but yet still used her for sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:28 PM
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its not sexy at all. its such a turn off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:26 PM
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lol I know right?? They don't even clean under their nails anyway. They will walk around with motor oil under their nails for a week, but they don't lose respect for their precious car, do they? How dare a woman not be an animated sex doll! How dare she be human!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:23 PM
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I think its a childish mentality, like when children put crayons up their nose. Just cause its a hole. Men are obsessed with holes. They don't even care if it's filled with shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:10 PM
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Ok ladies! We are supposed to have an enema and wash out the inside of our asses everyday, or else a man will lose interest! All because he was being a curious man-child, and not actually using that opportunity to please the woman!! Wow Edit: Wow my first reddit gold in my life!! And its about mens stupidity, my specialty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:11 AM
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omg I hope she dumps him before she gives up her virginity to this pig! He just wants to use her like a sex toy. He is a much older man taking advantage of a naive girl with self esteem issues. He doesn't care about her at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:23 AM
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yes, it is also very childish behavior. Narcissists are deep down inside 6 yr olds. This is why they don't have empathy. They never developed it. Children can only think of their own needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:25 AM
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She chose to be a mother to TWO children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:46 AM
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also because he has no chance with her, so he has to criticize her, as if he is rejecting her. Men do this all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:40 AM
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omg this woman has no self respect. She has taken on the role of the man because he is not a man. How much do you ladies wanna bet she supports him? I bet when they first started dating, she paid for some or all of the date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:34 AM
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Unless a man is a chippendale , he needs to shut his face about women's looks. Even a chippendale better have respect though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:30 AM
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I mean really. Back in the day women used to have a lot of help. A bunch of women together were raising the children. It is a different world today. Women are oppressed staying in mom jail. Do not have kids in this world , ladies!! Unless you are super wealthy Like live-in nannies 24/7, drivers, maids, chefs, etc. If you cannot afford all this, do not have children. Seriously save yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:29 AM
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Them that means you have been mistreated much. My condolences. All we can do is learn from it and refuse to be mistreated again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:26 PM
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A man - "the hug wasn't good enough and I don't love you anymore". queens reply - "your dick isnt good enough. remove yourself from my presence "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:15 PM
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Thank you so much. That vibrancy you speak of, is what men want to take from us. Its negging. They want to destroy your self confidence so you won't know he is not good enough for you. My narc abuser told me at the end, regarding my sexiness and vibrancy, that I "lost it". I said "I didn't lose it, you took it from me!" Do not let men take your joy and confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:44 PM
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yes I am still healing from it. I can be myself! I don't have to walk on eggshells anymore. I can talk to people at poker all I want and not get abused for it. The light in my eyes is coming back. The love for myself is coming back. Since I left him I have been a target from other predators, just because I am a woman alone. But I am so much wiser now, I see the red flags from a mile away. I feel like i should have a PhD in narcissistic men, just because I've experienced it first hand. First my f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:27 PM
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the first red flag I saw was the silent treatment. Thats emotional abuse, if a man does that to you, RUN disrespectful to women - he made this comment - "my friend says if women didnt have pussies there would be a warrant out for them" Holy shit thats how pickme I was that I didnt run away then and there He isolated me from every one. If I talked to another man I would get the silent treatment. He would punish me by holding back love. He never once asked me what I wanted to do. heres a huge red …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:13 PM
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Yes I am in therapy. That occasion unfortunately I did not report it. (the finger breaking) but two years prior he went to jail for strangling me in the car on the side of the highway. It was one of the worst man abuse experiences in my life. His son is wealthy, bought him a good attorney, all he got was anger management classes. And get this- he convinced the therapist that I strangled myself, and he didn't need anger management! That is psycho level narcissism(see Ted Bundy. Smart charming, a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:50 PM
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I have ptsd from a relationship with a narcissist. He loved bomed me in the beginning and "swept me off my feet". That sounds romantic but really to be off your feet is to lose your stability. It wasn't just boom one day he was cold, is was over time. When I would leave him, he was very dangerous. He broke my ring finger to watch me cry. It is still disfigured to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:32 PM
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keep in mind that the most dangerous men out there know how to pretend to be a nice guy. So this guy not mentioning sex could be he is actually respecting you, or it could be he knows how to play the part of a nice guy. A narcissist abuser is a pretender extraordinaire! Keep watch for the red flags. Don't let him think for you and push your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:16 PM
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How many men have said " I got used for money. And I'm ok with that"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:52 PM
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This girl is young and naive. She still has that faith in men that will cause her much grief. Her man isn't treating her right, she just doesn't know it yet. Her codependent attitude is a set up for abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:00 PM
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see this is why a woman becomes a slave to a man if she has kids. Here this womans life is ruined and centered around raising the next generation of disrespectful men and women victims of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:57 PM
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"Hey Women, Buy and wear this helmet and suit of armour if your man refuses to stop assaulting you. what else could you do?" ugh so frustrating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:42 PM
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tell him "don't let the door hit you in the ass" Let him go! You are the prize, not him. You have options, he doesn't. Tell him he can be replaced quickly because you are a beautiful special lady. If he doesn't agree to that, well, then there you have it. He's garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:34 PM
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These married men are still having sex with thier wives, but its not enough. They want to find a single (not also married, cause he doesn't want to compete) woman to use for sex. They want new pussy. It does not matter to them how loyal their wife is. They are not thinking about their wives at all. They think we want meaningless sex with no compensation, because they are projecting their desires on us. "duuhhhh, you mean you girls dont think of sex and playing with yourself 24/7 like us guys????…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 01:14 AM
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What a turn off for a man to act like a girl. We are the prize, they need to chase us! We need to play defense not offense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 01:07 AM
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my "dad" called me a whore while I was a virgin. Just a kid. Hes a narcissistic women hater. Men that call women whores hate women and most likely hate their mother. They also are the type to buy sex so they can degrade and control a women. If a man is calling you a whore he also is going to physically abuse you. Verbal abuse leads to physical abuse. My dad strangled me, and I have been strangled by two more men in my life who were just like him, thinking women are subhuman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 01:01 AM
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