You don't have to be the type of woman who recognizes all the red flags without even trying

You can date men and then realise it was a mistake

You can change your mind

You can feel bad sometimes

You don't have to figure it all out now, take your time You can re-invent yourself

You don't have to date someone just because you feel lonely

You don't have to accept their "compliments" if they make you feel uncomfortable

You can forgive yourself

You are never alone

It's okay if the people you trusted are actually toxic

It's okay if you are not ready for something

It's okay if you're confused

It's okay to cry

It's okay to feel angry

It's okay to be ambitious, don't let people say you can't get what you want and need

It's okay if you haven't learned to love yourself yet

You are still learning, be gentle to yourself