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| 4 | "Is she intimidating or are you intimidated?" Old me used to bite my tongue, when talking about my achievements on a date. Now, I'm proud to talk about what I've accomplished. If he's intimidated, he's not for me.I wear my intimidation as a badge of honor. If you scared, call that reverend... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | I literally posted a book about myself on another dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.BTW that dating sub r4r30plus PERMA BANNED me for calling this scrote out. So, that sub is anti-women just FYI. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Male Redditor tells women we shouldn’t be insecure with our bodies because men FaNtAsIzE about sleeping with us 🙄 Women drag him in the commentsY’all are making me nauseous frfr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 05:41 AM |
| 8 | I literally posted a book about myself on another dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.The audacity of scrotes ☝🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 09:14 PM |
| 5 | I’m off the blame game.When you know better, you do better. It’s just like that. 👍🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:54 PM |
| 5 | I’m off the blame game.You’re very welcome, sis. Be your beautiful self. Always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:53 PM |
| 6 | The number of LVM continues to shock meHoneyyyyy, there are too many misguided women out here. It’s getting more toxic in the younger generations from what I can see, too. I just- lately I have just been having deep, heaving sighs of sorrow for humanity at large... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 28 | Husband is sexually attracted to teenage babysitter and is jealous of his own son for having her attention. “My husband hates our neighbour’s daughter (16F) playing with our son (7M)”She spelled “EX-husband” wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:50 PM |
| 6 | The number of LVM continues to shock meIt is working somewhere. Maybe with pickmeishas. Maybe with his friends who say they do the same or egg him on. In any event, none of it is your fault. Post what you want to post and strengthen your block hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:49 PM |
| 10 | The number of LVM continues to shock meSeriously was about to comment, drop your Venmo on him and make him prove it. Then block with the mightiest block ever bestowed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:48 PM |
| 7 | Woman goes on hunger strike for 10 days to get increasingly sick husband to go to the hospital.Sacrifice food over a man? I could never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:46 PM |
| 26 | Y’all this guy is mansplaining my job to me. I’ve only done it for 15 years, but thank you Bumble man for telling me how to do it.This illuminated something it took me a while to learn about not just mansplaining but people in general. If you’re not careful, a lot of people will get to you believe them just by being authoritative and confident in the way they say something. The way he matter-of-factly said “the steps are methodical” was just an assertion of authority he actually has no real claim to against your experience. But this is how people, I think particularly men but women do it, too, try to progress in life. How … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 12 | Choose consistency and commitment over momentary validation every time. One is high value, and the other is low value, and I don't have to tell you which one is more readily available in our culture today.And this goes for men, friends, and family. Everyone. If they can’t be consistent, fall back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Don't explain, don't justify, don't reason. Give the gift of your absence to those who do not respect or appreciate your presence.Hell yes. Let your block hand be strong, ladies. For all people, not just scrotes. Toxic friends and family get the same energy. None. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 6 | I’m off the blame game.Nah, throw the whole pool away and look elsewhere. Don’t put any work into any man not putting work into himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:29 PM |
| 4 | I literally posted a book about myself on another dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.See, that’s maybe a problem I have always had and not really known how to rectify. I’ve never had friends that recommended good guys to me. Either all the good guys they know are already taken or idk. The one time I had a friend set me up on a blind double with her cousin (who lives out of state, mind you, so it probably wouldn’t have worked anyway), she proceeded to cockblock me the very next day when he wanted to see me again but she was “too tired.” All she would’ve had to have done was invit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:21 PM |
| 4 | I’m off the blame game.All of this, ma’am. All of it. 👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 7 | I’m off the blame game.How? Change the narrative. It’s a narrative out there between men that you need to have sex ASAP, get your body count up, not be a virgin for long, women are just pieces of ass, sow your wild oats etc. etc. Even “good” men have brothers, uncles, friends they know treat women like garbage and THEY DON’T CHECK OR CORRECT THEM. They just shrug it off with a boys will be boys. I don’t agree that HVM can’t help guide LVM. LVM are not born that way, they are taught their shit values. There is absolute… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 6 | I’m off the blame game.Yes, that’s the nuance. I’m just trying to tackle this outset attack on women for just existing as themselves and that somehow being an attractant for garbage. I’ve just seen too many times people blaming the victim’s personhood and that’s what needs to stop. “You come off as generous and optimistic and men look for women like that to take advantage of.” So get men to stop looking for women to take advantage of! Don’t blame women for being kind as a general personality trait. Ignoring red flags … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:09 PM |
| 8 | I’m off the blame game.What you think and what I’m talking about are two different things, though. There are people out here telling people that just the person they are is somehow attracting bad men. Call them spiritualists, people who always have something to say about “energy,” whatever. They try to make women feel like they are not good enough for good men so bad men come in droves. It’s not okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 04:59 PM |
| 3 | I’m off the blame game.My post is about pre-red flags. Keyword: attract. I get your point and agree, but it’s not pertinent to my post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 7 | I literally posted a book about myself on another dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.Yeah that’s why I took my original post down. I was just like sigh nevermind... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:29 PM |
| 14 | I’m off the blame game.True. I’ve had women say this to me though, not just men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:20 PM |
| 6 | I’m off the blame game.Let me turn my fucktard frequency down 3 levels and turn up my successful professional frequency 4 levels. begins to hum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:12 PM |
| 13 | Male Redditor tells women we shouldn’t be insecure with our bodies because men FaNtAsIzE about sleeping with us 🙄 Women drag him in the commentsWord taken. Yeesh 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:06 PM |
| 60 | Male Redditor tells women we shouldn’t be insecure with our bodies because men FaNtAsIzE about sleeping with us 🙄 Women drag him in the commentsNot rancid coconuts sis 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 09:17 AM |
| 9 | I’m off the blame game.All we can do is try to see the red flags and take action when we do. But we are not to blame for scrotes shooting their shot at anything with a pulse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:54 AM |
| 31 | I literally posted a book about myself on another dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.Would still not know what we have in common after years and years...will buy you a vacuum for your birthday, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:45 AM |
| 134 | Male Redditor tells women we shouldn’t be insecure with our bodies because men FaNtAsIzE about sleeping with us 🙄 Women drag him in the commentsThat opening question. Like we don’t know dick is free and plentiful. It’s the love and commitment we’re after, dork! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:43 AM |
| 20 | HVM will not waste your time and know when games are gamesThe levels these scrotes go to for likes, comments, and retweets istg 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:35 AM |
| 12 | I’m off the blame game.Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:00 AM |
| 34 | I’m off the blame game.Totally agree. My point is about the attraction part. Once you accept BS it’s on you to get out, absolutely. But people make it like if a woman was just a better person she’d attract better people and that’s not at all the case. I’ve even heard “you are what you attract.” It’s just BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:55 AM |
| 40 | What FDS lesson was hard to "unsee" now that FDS made you aware of it?Not judging a man on potential is GIGANTIC for me. I married the wrong man once upon a time doing that. I thought my love would make him better. That i could upgrade him like Beyoncé said...The word of advice I was given far too late: Ask yourself, if from today forward things only got worse...his behavior, his income, whatever...would you still want to be with him forever? If the answer is no, do NOT proceed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:49 AM |
| 32 | What FDS lesson was hard to "unsee" now that FDS made you aware of it?THISSSS. I have literally curved dudes for not taking the initiative in planning a date. It’s not a hard thing to do. If they treat it like a chore up front, don’t expect any less for the rest of your lives together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 22 | Significant age gap relationships. Why I dont like them.I think if women said no to grown ass men who still live with their mommy, men would maybe start to panic about leveling up in life earlier... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:39 AM |
| 65 | This was painful to watchAww damn you just broke my heart. I really thought it was a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:17 AM |
| 1 | I literally posted a book about myself on this dating sub. All my likes and “seeking”s. Like no less than 6 *paragraphs* He could not be bothered to read any of it and then flew off the handle when he got called on it. I fear for his twins tbh. This is now my early weed-out question.And by “this dating sub” I meant r4r30plus. Not FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:10 AM |
| 31 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.I mean, I agree. But also, I love chili dogs that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:55 PM |
| 20 | Why do men's pants have such big pockets? To hold the audacity...I would’ve blocked him right after I read “Don’t be a brat!” Wouldn’t have even finished the bubble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:51 PM |
| 6 | I enjoy making them squirm before unmatching. My dear ladies, meet the king of Backpedal City 🤡. FYI, I wasn’t confused, I was fully aware. #CallThemOut2020!Is he foreign? This is so stupid I almost feel like he’s just losing something in translation? Or maybe trying to be like an “non-creep” by inviting for a drink instead of a “date” like “date” has a negative connotation? He makes my head hurt I just- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:46 PM |
| 11 | There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time.I don’t explain and I don’t repeat myself. Periodt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:16 PM |
| 23 | There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time.THIS. RIGHT. HERE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I can't help but laugh, look at her contact name though.I am screaming in my head rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 9 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.Africa. A whole continent. It has ACTUAL royal families. America has never had royalty. It’s literally anti-monarchy. Why does the ONLY black Disney princess have to literally not be a real one? Miss me with the bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:53 PM |
| 21 | I don’t rock up to a conversation saying “hey baldy”, why tf do stupid men think this is okay with someone you barely know? 👎🏽I hate this shit and pet names too early. I’m not your sweetheart/babygirl/love/sugar etc. And I will not hesitate to check you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 11:48 PM |
| 11 | Does anybody else smell faux humility here? These are the types of LVM that trip me up. Looks great, sounds OK (hello, “I Live with friends...” no mention of an actual JOB)Because when a woman doesn’t know her beauty and value she’s more maleable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:15 AM |
| 22 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitEven if she is, is he worth dealing with it and being robbed of your peace? No ma’am. Anyone who wants someone to stop contacting them has legal means of making that happen. If he’s not taking that effort, he doesn’t really want it to stop and if he doesn’t really want it to stop he doesn’t really want you. You are wasting your essence on a shitty scrote when they come a dime a dozen. Leave with your safety and sanity before it’s too late. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 12 | Does anybody else smell faux humility here? These are the types of LVM that trip me up. Looks great, sounds OK (hello, “I Live with friends...” no mention of an actual JOB)Right? They all “prefer women without makeup” amirite? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:00 PM |
| 12 | Does anybody else smell faux humility here? These are the types of LVM that trip me up. Looks great, sounds OK (hello, “I Live with friends...” no mention of an actual JOB)Me. I was that friend. 6 mos no rent for what I thought was my bff. I’ll see myself out... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:22 PM |
| 21 | Does anybody else smell faux humility here? These are the types of LVM that trip me up. Looks great, sounds OK (hello, “I Live with friends...” no mention of an actual JOB)Lol I found this gem “Fucking my neighbor has always been a bucket list thing for me. I say go for it” Yargh. Also, the intorvert/extrovert thing, the correct term is ambivert. It is a thing. A thing I have, in fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 22 | Does anybody else smell faux humility here? These are the types of LVM that trip me up. Looks great, sounds OK (hello, “I Live with friends...” no mention of an actual JOB)Yes, come through with detective work! 👏🏾 👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:53 PM |
| 7 | Cannot be clearer.1000xs YES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 26 | Be careful out there ladies! This guy was acting creepy on tinder so I unmatched. Despite me having different versions of my name on Tinder and FB, and living in a big city, he found me on Facebook and messaged me.Wow, stalker much? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 9 | Stands me up with 24 hours of no response after a “fender bender”. Then comes clean about apparent anger issues. Boy bye. Most mad I had already done my hair and makeup 🙄Oh lol idk about all that. I was just being an Apple elitist 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:53 AM |
| 23 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayThis is the male technique, which I too have been told about by men in my life. They just swipe all photos right. If a match comes up and they don’t like the girl, they just unmatch or ignore or whatever else. But this is just exactly what men do. They don’t read profiles. They swipe right on the pretty pictures and hope someone good enough for tonight matches. I was so confused and stupid. Here I was, paying for Tinder Gold and wondering why guys so BLATANTLY antithetical to what I was seeking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:28 AM |
| 12 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayThis is the ugliest truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:24 AM |
| 19 | Stands me up with 24 hours of no response after a “fender bender”. Then comes clean about apparent anger issues. Boy bye. Most mad I had already done my hair and makeup 🙄Be proud to be this girl. We are this girl. #GreenBoxesSuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:18 AM |
| 23 | I love all the newbiesThis gives me the warm fuzzies. I don’t know y’all, but I love y’all 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:15 AM |
| 24 | And also from laughing with your girlfriends until you can’t breatheWhere does one get these girlfriends of which you speak? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:16 AM |
| 30 | Dear teenage girls: Stop idolizing these average-looking Tik Tok famous dweebs. Apparently these are the top of the top. They have inflated egos and think they are gods due to their high follower counts. You could find cuter boys at your local vape shopAll together now: EEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:15 AM |
| 32 | They really do think we're that stupidMaybe I’m just a terrible visual judge of height but if Phelps is 6’4 and he says he’s 6’1...idk they look 3 inches apart to me 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:16 PM |
| 11 | They really do think we're that stupidLol I never thought to check this way. Good looking out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Anybody else? I recognize not every child of divorce will develop attachment problems but I’d like to minimize the chanceHonestly, humans are exhausting. Very hard to find people who put in as much effort as I do, so I’m just gonna keep my efforts for myself for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 15 | "Hey beautiful, what you up to? :)"Can we talk about what kind of mental incapacity you have to have to even go through the trouble of creating multiple accounts and not see anything wrong with that effort? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:26 AM |
| 9 | Anybody else? I recognize not every child of divorce will develop attachment problems but I’d like to minimize the chanceTangential, but that Phoebe response is my eternal mood toward people this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do guys call you ugly? And then compliment you afterwards? I blocked him after my reply and reported him he looks 16 😂 I also should delete tinder I feel like it makes my self esteem worse these scrotes don’t know how to behave they’re like caged animals being released into the wildI wouldn’t have even had the energy to send the “what?” Instablock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:22 AM |
| 21 | Imagine if she said this to him. Men are so insecure that most can’t even tolerate their partner talking to another man, but they get to do and say this and tell us it’s “normal”.The power of slap just came all over me. Where he at? It’s on SIGHT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:20 AM |
| 18 | I'm loving myself more these days nglIt me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:12 AM |
| 2 | It is emotionally and mentally draining. Never again.Also a great point. People swear they’re busy but stay posting on social media. It takes exactly 5 seconds to send a quick text. If you don’t have 5 seconds for me, I have no more anything for you. Periodt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:49 PM |
| 2 | It is emotionally and mentally draining. Never again.See that’s the thing. I’m not being paid to train. At this point in my life, if we’re not compatible in communication style and general understanding of how to treat a friend/lover, I just do not have the time. I’d rather be literally alone than waste as much energy as I have in the past on people who barely lift a finger for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:46 PM |
| 76 | A hilariously accurate live illustration of how pickmeishas interpret communication from LVMJEEZ that hurt MY feelings lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:11 PM |
| 11 | You don't have to be perfectThank you for this. Beautiful reminder there is always the newness of tomorrow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:10 PM |
| 39 | Absolutely worthless 🤷♀️Wow just drag me to hell when I’ve only just arrived 🤦🏾♀️ but NEVER AGAIN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | AITA? Non-single guy out trying to strike up friendships with single women...Exacty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | AITA? Non-single guy out trying to strike up friendships with single women...Not necessarily, no. But to my point my thoughts were with his SO and the fact that he shined that off in his response was a little red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:57 PM |
| 2 | AITA? Non-single guy out trying to strike up friendships with single women...Here on Reddit. I just posted looking for text conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | AITA? Non-single guy out trying to strike up friendships with single women...I wouldn’t assume that far; I think he mentioned that because I make it clear on my posts that I’m CF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Let's count all the red flagsOh yeah the whole oblivious tone of the post speaks volumes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:49 PM |
| 22 | Ladies, how to react to this? Details in comments.I agree with this, especially the last bit. It’s fine but don’t expect me to reach out to you. He’ll have to do mad work if he wants to meet. Also, look very intently at his request to reschedule to “during the week.” Have you guys talked about your schedules and whether or not that’s convenient for you? I personally find it odd he’s not offering a weekend. Sounds like he’s already booked or you’re not important enough for a possibly longer more involved date. But that’s just a thought... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:44 AM |
| 72 | Let's count all the red flagsHe lost me at flirting being an uncontrollable habit. Any man without self-control is no man at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:39 AM |
| 1 | When ever a guy age 30+ says “Ive never been in love” it is a huge red flag (for me). Usually he has commitment issues or has created a fantasy relationship in his mind that reality will never match up to. NEXTAnd he will do it again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:36 AM |
| 4 | Guys who half ass 1st meetingI set a standard a few years back that if he can’t pick a place and time he can’t have my time. These are not hard tasks and if he’s already incapable of simple responsibilities it’s a sign of what’s to come. I’m off planning everything. My biggest goal is to find a man who can show/teach me some shit I don’t know. And that includes taking me places I’ve never been on his own effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Girl has sex with her “boyfriend” on his flea ridden mattress. Shit makes me sadI’m sorry, I noped out of the story when she asked her mom if she could stay with him and she said yes. Everything is already wrong with this situation. I bid it good day. I SAID GOOD DAY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:28 AM |
| 5 | 'Reading' Men's Profile Pictures: How to Vet?Guys flipping the bird in their photo. Who told them women want to be flipped off on a dating website? Who told them flipping off for a photo was cool in any context? Hard fast pass. Guys with only group photos and maybe one selfie just so you can take that selfie and play where’s Waldo with his other photos. Too much work. Usually his photo mates are all better looking anyway. Hard pass. Guys with no text or who incorrectly/incoherently answer prompts. Guys who refer to women as “females”. Guys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | 'Reading' Men's Profile Pictures: How to Vet?Oh, they do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:07 AM |
| 5 | His lives with his parents and has for years.Not fully played, but entertained this loser for about 2.5 weeks of online discussion. Actually had a good job (psychology) but still lived with parents and didn’t have a car. And here I go rationalizing on his behalf, “well student loan debt is a thing; I’m sure he’s just trying to frugally save for his future” and whatnot. But what threw me was that he asked, not once but twice, if I was going to kiss him on the first date. He needed to know if it was ok because he “wanted to make sure he had … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:58 AM |
| 8 | Do you think mean have it easier in dating world?Ugh I can’t stand these lying about their age ass men on these apps. Then when you confront them about it they play dumb like they don’t know how it happened or how to fix it. If you don’t- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:46 AM |
| 11 | It is emotionally and mentally draining. Never again.Yeah #2 is a big one for me. I dismissed a best friend for ignoring my texts for over a week. If I’m not important to you, you will no longer be important to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:16 AM |
| 15 | AITA? Non-single guy out trying to strike up friendships with single women...Ok, I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t overreacting. I just can’t formulate a reason in my mind for someone with a sig oth to befriend a single member of the opposite sex. There’s so many men in the world you could befriend...and why aren’t you talking to your partner...just questions I have... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:33 AM |
| 42 | Good luck, sis.I knew my marriage was over when, after multiple times of asking my husband to do a simple task (take the car in for a repair), I broke down and just asked why he never seemed to be able to do the things I asked him to do. His answer? “The things you ask me to do are not really a priority for me.” I served him paperwork about a week later. He filled them out by the next day. Fastest he’d ever done anything I’d asked him to. Asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Listen to your pets!!!I just don’t trust anyone who doesn’t like dogs tbh shrug 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:08 PM |
| 9 | How many red flags can you spot in this 1 tinder bio? From start to finish, all sorts of wrong, yuck🤮You’re my hero | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 02:06 AM |
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