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Classic😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:22 AM
1

This guy has some growing up to do. Yelling to your girlfriend to leave you alone? It sounds like you’re looking for a mom, not a partner. It’s a shame this woman who has a successful career, already does most of the housework/chores continues to put up with his shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:03 AM
4

Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:54 AM
6

Lol. Yes, I’ve been told I’m too picky numerous times. It’s fine by me. If preferring to spend my time with someone worthy of it makes me picky, then heck yeah, I’m picky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:37 AM
27

Wonder what he brings to the table himself to feel this entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:34 AM
2

I get where you’re coming from and I’m glad you were able to turn this negativity into something powerful for yourself. I personally disagree and feel that without maturity, you are a child/girl. I personally don’t think we as women should put even more barriers up for ourselves to even “deserve” being called what we are by biology; women. Society puts enough on us as it is simply for existing in this world as women. However, I do see the power in what you’re saying and I’m glad you found a way …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:33 AM
3

I hope they find a way to get rid of the hate in their hearts. It’s sad to see this. They probably have no idea how hurtful they’re actually being in commenting this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:29 AM
2

It’s extremely dehumanizing. I wonder when/how this started..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:26 AM
2

I follow the same rule! Thank you for speaking up about this, sis. I’m sorry some people see this as a reason to bother you with their negativity. Keep fighting the good fight🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:24 AM
3

I get your point and frustration, I really do. But I’m afraid treating others as bad as they do us will probably not help our case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:23 AM
5

I agree with you. It’s sad to me, however, that we now need to spell this out? Have you ever heard someone say something about “males” to specify men in general? It’s so strange that yet again, this is only being done to women. Are we not being dehumanized enough already?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:21 AM
2

“Oh she blocked me. Surely she will love that I am ignoring her boundaries by contacting her elsewhere”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:06 AM
2

Yes, you’re so very right!! I’m so sorry he did that to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:05 AM
2

What a horrible excuse for a man. He just told her he’s a rapist and she’s thinking “but he’s NICE to me”. I hope she leaves him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:04 AM
2

You just say no thanks, I’m not interested. Preferably immediately walk away. The ones with fragile ego syndrome will get upset no matter what you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:03 AM
1

Because they don’t care about you as a person and do not see you as one. They are used to the entire world catering to them and feel the world should revolve around them and their point of view. They’re programmed to behave this way from an early age. It’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:02 AM
1

Disrespectful guy. Block, then delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:55 AM
3

Don’t go to see him. Tell him you’re no longer interested. Block everywhere. Continue your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:54 AM
1

Nope. Let’s normalize women making equal pay and paying equal amounts for the same products as men, without a pink tax, instead. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:53 AM
1

If another woman wants to do this, I have no problem with it. Live and let live. I personally have no desire to get married though, so I wouldn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:51 AM
2

Girls are not supposed to be with men anyway, women should (if that is their sexual orientation and they want to). Men wasting time on videogames, drinking beer and talking sh*t about women. What do you bring to the table?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:26 AM
6

Lol, no. Women should speak up more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:24 AM
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Seriously what’s up with everyone calling women “females” online lately? The rest is pretty damn accurate though, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:20 AM
2

So glad that girls and young women now have a new role model like her to look up to and can aspire to make a difference, just like her ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:53 PM
13

This is just sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:38 PM
1

EWW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:30 PM
3

FOR REAL. If you’re a grown-up who is allowed to vote, drive, drink and what not, you should at the very least be able to keep yourself fed and your surroundings somewhat clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:29 PM
7

How about just block the idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:28 PM
3

If men could just keep their hands and other bodyparts to themselves unless requested to do otherwise by the person they’re touching, that’d be great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:27 PM
17

I’m so happy for you, sis! Keep it up🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:28 AM
1

It can really help just to get out of your standard surroundings and patterns for a bit. Taking a trip to some beautiful place where you can experience new things can really help put things in perspective sometimes! I hope it helps :) Maybe being back home also brought up some stuff from you which has put a spotlight on this feeling you’re having now? I don’t know the full story of course. But perhaps worth talking to someone about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:25 AM
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I’m so sorry to read that you feel this way, sis. I can relate to the things feeling pointless with regard to trying to find a suitable partner. However, even though it may not feel like that to you now, there are so many other things in life that are worth living for. I read your other comments and see that you have worked hard on focussing on yourself and the other relationships in life, good on you! I’m wondering if maybe it could be good for you to get out of your usual surroundings for a wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:19 AM
1

He is not her child, wtf. What does he do for her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:50 AM
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You have set your boundaries and he said “no baby”. Really? Also. This guy does not want to make a commitment and yet wants you to sit around and wait for him, whilst he has no obligation to you. You know what to do, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:48 AM
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Nah, sis. He should be putting in the effort to see you and come up with a time, place and plan. He’s already transferring the basic effort to you now. I’d skip him entirely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:45 AM
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Oh no, so he means she will actually grow older instead of remain the same age forever? Whoa, she surely did not know this. She must be devestated now. How will she ever cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:41 AM
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Compliments by men translate to: “Hello, I’d like to fuck you now, or am at least doing this to have better chances of doing so/using you to stimulate my fragile ego” Compliments by women: the actual fucking compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:40 AM
12

They’re not even trying to hide it anymore, lol wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:37 AM
1

Yes. When your intuition is telling you things it’s basically always right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:43 AM
2

More demanding? Lol. He’s older, uglier, likely has ED and he wants to demand things from a beautiful woman who has her shit together? Nopeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:41 AM
1

Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:39 AM
3

This dude is a disrespectful asshole who doesn’t deserve any woman’s attention, let alone love. How the fuck does he think treating his partner like this is okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:38 AM
2

If the husband doesn’t like the way his wife is, how about he, I don’t know, doesn’t marry her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:35 AM
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I’ll bet he suggested picking this couple because he thought the woman was “hot” and the other scrote was ugly, so he could enjoy himself with another woman whilst he thought his wife wouldn’t with this other man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:10 AM
3

Lol, exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:52 AM
10

They’re only “kidding” when you say no and set boundaries. Watch him try to cross your boundaries again if you let this go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:42 AM
4

I think he has you confused for a prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:15 PM
9

Because they’re beneficial to men, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:09 PM
4

Amen, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:09 PM
2

They do it every fucking time. They’re clueless to their insecurities becoming clearer with every word. It’s quite funny when you look at it like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:06 PM
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It’s kind of sad how legit this one is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:03 PM
2

Amen🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:49 AM
14

This is great! Thank you for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:01 PM
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That is amazing ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 07:12 AM
5

That’s great news
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:44 AM
4

I’m kind of wondering, has anyone here actually watched porn and thought “Hey, this guy is hot. What he’s doing is hot” etc.? I legitimately never have (and also don’t support the porn industry at all, so won’t be looking for these guys), but I’m just wondering if it’s me, or porn, or both? Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:27 PM
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That’s it, I’m out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:25 PM
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I know, right? I’m considering this as a profession and am just appalled by this counselor’s behaviour. How dare they reduce someone’s boundaries like that. It’s ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:49 AM
3

Yes, you’re right. More proof I’m bad with kids 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:43 PM
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No need to imagine anything here, this is reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:51 PM
9

How about have a mature discussion with your partner about your sexual relationship and value their pleasure as much as your own or, gee, I don’t know... Control your urges? This behaviour grosses me out. What is he, 12? (Tantrum-wise, not suggesting 12y olds should be watching porn or having sex, of course)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:48 PM
8

You’re right. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:39 PM
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This dude seriously needs to work on himself, by himself. Wtf. Scabs? Sandpaper-like? Dicks are disgusting to look at even when they are cleaned etc. properly, imagine how gross and traumatic this must be to look at. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 02:38 PM
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I was very happy to see her getting such praise for the way she has dealt with the pandemic. I live in Europe but everyone in my country seems to know who she is and to be aware of how she has kicked ass in recent times. It’s great to see such a role model getting the recognition she deserves imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:12 AM
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And rightfully so, it’s ridiculous and gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:08 AM
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That’s just sad.. Also, how does this work? He “talks to” women for a few years and then immediately stops on their 25th birthday? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:46 AM
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😂😂😂😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:44 AM
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Definitely using this too, pure gold hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:35 AM
14

The entitlement is strong in this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:33 AM
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Wait, what? So when our brains are fully developed and we start really getting our shit together, we’re devalued? Okay then😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:25 AM
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Right? It’s great to see we as women are finding our own purpose and goals in life again, instead of just living in service to others. As for marriage nowadays, I personally do feel there are still people that take it seriously, but may not consider it “worth it”, if that makes sense. Very interested to see where this will lead us in 20-50 years tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:22 AM
1

Hahaha lol, probably double of that. He also has this veeeeeeery creepy look, ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:48 PM
1

I’m happy for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:44 PM
1

This is so true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:43 PM
1

Barf material. Wtf. “Pounding” AND “daddy”. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:42 PM
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I think so, yes. I believe this is due to the cultural shift that is going on in certain countries, where women have realized that they do not need a man or a marriage to live happy and fulfilled lives. As a result, they have higher standards and focus on their own goals and careers more (yay!). Seeing as this is a more recent trend, the men have not yet adapted in such a manner that they can make the pieces fit together in a good way with the women they see as marriage material. This on one end…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:39 PM
1

YES. Thank you❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:14 PM
1

Why do people insist on calling women girls? Ffs, we are women. Unless they are insinuating you want us to be okay with the fact that men are getting off on children (which they are btw, but that’s another discussion)??? Call “those girls” women ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:13 PM
5

This was posted as a joke, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:35 PM
5

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:05 PM
2

Oh, that’s perfect! Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:45 PM
3

Are these sticks just put into place to add some resistance when someone tries to break in? This might be a good one to use in my home too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:24 AM
2

Aaaaaand this is why I will now consider adding some sort of legal weapon to my habits for keeping myself safe (basic locking doors, windows, etc.). How do other women in Europe do this? I’m focussing on getting stronger but I feel I need something I can keep in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:21 AM
1

Translation: “your partner should not take your feelings into account and be able to use other women for his gratification, whilst you feel horrible about it. But that you feel so badly about it is your fault, not his. You should not set boundaries because you don’t like behaviour, you should make yourself like this behaviour” ???????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:14 AM
1

Dude just got off on raping his girlfriend. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:05 AM
18

Ok, so from now on every time a married man accomplishes anything we are going to applaud his wife for doing the bare minimum too then? Oh... How the world will get to know and love women!! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:07 PM
10

Surely this person is trolling, right? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:33 AM
38

I agree. He actually sounds very creepy and I’m very worried for both the girl and the boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:47 PM
50

Ugh I hate when they do this. Like, dude. Come on. We specialize in our respective fields, f*ck off with your “opinion” and stop trying to make us seem smaller
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 03:59 PM
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That reply omfg. So, we as women by that logic should all go cheating on our husbands and beat the sh*t out of them, because it’s just part of the ups and downs of a relationship and therefore the husband accepts it? “Yeah physical abuse is just part of a relationship. Love is hard ya’know” Suuuure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:48 PM
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I hope she does this for herself instead of her manchild soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:01 AM
4

I’m sorry that this guy is behaving like such a dick to you. I would really stand my ground here and tell him you are not attracted to him and he is making you uncomfortable. I would also tell him that if he continues to behave in such an unprofessional manner and trying to cross your boundaries, you will need to report to HR. Might be worth already reporting anyway, because he is making you feel unsafe in your place of work (plus he might consider this mention of HR a threat to his job and tell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:38 AM
6

EXACTLY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:15 PM
3

Block block block block block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 12:36 PM
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Now, let’s call us women instead of “females” and I can 100% agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:39 AM
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I try to ignore it because they’re trying to get my attention and I have better things to spend my valuable time and thoughts on. If they do start to interfere with my day to day stuff (for instance when I’m really creeped out by them and it pops up in my mind more often), I block them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:38 AM
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Probably, yes. I guess I just have a hard time imagining a woman practically begging a man to allow her to give him a blowjob (outside of porn settings) for any duration of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:42 AM
10

This is just ridiculous. The audacity😂 And, suuuuure. You can be smart enough to be a rocket scientist and have no clue how to feed yourself, even when you’re shown how to. He’s just a lazy asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:22 PM
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Hahahaha I don’t really believe a woman wrote this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:07 PM
2

Loved this idea too. However, men on reddit have shown us that they will finish first and later on check if we’re even alive. This means they wouldn’t even notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:56 AM
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NOPE. Anyone who dares to wake me up at 3AM for a non-emergency will be kicked out of the house permanently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:32 AM
6

Want to be more balanced? Balanced in his book appearantly is dropping everything you’re doing when he pays attention to you and wants you to pay attention to him. You should also consider not doing menial activities such as focussing on your future by educating yourself, because this man deemed you worthy of his attention. /s, obviously. Sis, this guy was horrible to you. Don’t listen to him. You are doing great. Focus on you. Edit: forgot to add: What you were doing was actually showing balanc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:35 PM
3

Isn’t enjoying animals being hurt by you or someone else an indicator of being a serial killer, or is that only if you do it yourself? Not sure. Creepy as f either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:13 PM
10

What the fuck. “I want to hurt and torture you”. “Oh, okay. Fun??!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 07:52 PM
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Was thinking the exact same thing about this physical response!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:34 PM
4

I’ve been her, two years ago. Yesterday, this guy I had a “fwb” type of situation with about two years ago asked me if I was free to meet. Told him I had other plans. He asked me “not even briefly?” and also mentioned he had received his “new bdsm set”??????? Lol. Told him I had other plans and that I hadn’t seen him in years, so I thought it was weird for him to propose this and especially bdsm stuff. His reply “Ahh :(“. It made me angry and I’ve blocked him without reply. So glad I’m not that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:54 AM
9

Dude has misspelled horny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:42 AM
9

Disrespectful ánd racist, what a gem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:40 AM
1

Insecure and no friends = bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:11 PM
6

YES ❤️🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:02 PM
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Good thing you got rid of him. Sorry he lied to you, but please be proud of yourself for not settling for someone showing this behaviour!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:19 PM
2

Imagine being this worthless and still finding women to date????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:30 PM
6

What the actual f. Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:30 PM
4

Hahahaha amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:29 PM
2

Lol, good to know😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:25 PM
3

I would suggest feeling like kicking him to the curb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:23 PM
9

All the more reason to not have kids and binding my life to that of a man’s. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:21 PM
16

Sigh. Do they actually believe this shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:18 PM
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Translation: Hey, something better came along so I’ll just go and prioritize that over you. Hope you’re ok with that and will want to wait for me and reschedule to a moment where I have absolutely nothing else to do? Great, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:16 PM
2

Exactly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:28 AM
11

Oh, hell no. When will we finally stop applauding men for not being abusive criminals? Geez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:17 PM
65

“BuT hE iS nIcE aNd He LoVeS mE”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:01 PM
3

Yes, and nobody’s telling us that this is bullshit either. I really do hope she finds a way to see her true value again and that she’ll have/find the support system she needs to work through the horrible things she has been put through by this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:40 PM
3

So, translation: be a disrespectful asshole and don’t value a woman AT ALL and she will magically want and respect you??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:19 PM
3

Wtf, it makes me sad that she would even think that for a second
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:17 PM
1

Amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:16 PM
3

Seriously, where other people see a reason to be sad about the amount of marriages ending in divorce, I see a reason to celebrate more women not dealing with a man’s bullshit anymore. Because I truly believe the high divorce rate is a result of women being able to take care of themselves and not having to tolerate LV/NV shit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:10 PM
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Remind yourself that these men can all be easily replaced by other men that might even treat you better. Remind yourself just how sad it is to have your entire life revolve around some guy who is probably not even thinking of you half as much as you are currently of him. Remind yourself you are a whole and rounded person who does not need validation from men in her life. Remind yourself you are an incredible woman, trying to live her best possible life. Now really think about if you want this in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:39 AM
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I love karma ❤️🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:15 PM
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YES! You go sis🙏 Being “rude” (assertive) has also gotten me out of some very uncomfortable situations recently. Still find it difficult, but it’s definitely better than accepting my boundaries being crossed. Also, wtf was this guy thinking treating you like this. Even more so during a global pandemic??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:15 PM
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❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:11 PM
5

Not sure if I should be laughing or crying hahaha, but it’s 100% spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:10 PM
2

Ahahahaha yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:30 PM
2

You’re welcome sis🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:21 PM
22

What the hell. I really hope she leaves him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:37 PM
17

Someone once shared a quote with me that I feel applies here: “Those who matter know, those who don’t know don’t matter”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:57 AM
3

Hahaha accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:39 AM
6

Yes, I’ve read about that. I cannot imagine what an insane nightmare life must have been like for these women. It’s insane the lengths men will go to to make their pp and little ego feel good, no matter how degrading it is towards other people. It’s just ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:38 AM
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Such expectations, what does HE have to offer? Being willing to receive a massage you’ll totally like giving him?😂 The fuck hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:30 AM
15

😂😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:26 AM
7

I’m so sorry someone did that to you, must have been a horrrific experience. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:11 AM
19

Yeah, exactly. He assumes basic human decency, unfortunately we don’t have that luxury.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:26 PM
5

Stopped reading at “your unsure”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:57 PM
72

Instant flashback to the woman whose boyfriend or whatever strangled her, leaving her unable to speak and tell him she was in immediate danger, passing out and him waiting until after he finished to check up on her. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:56 PM
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Ahahahaha and he thought the issue was you were afraid of having to see her. How can they be this clueless 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:54 PM
6

WHAT?! They really are hopeless. How dare he, what the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:31 PM
11

Lol, OP you’re absolutely right. What an idiot this scrote. Mansplaining what women like and need as well lol. Also: EW! So she was sleeping and he was grabbing her and stating he wanted to fuck her? Big nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:13 PM
12

Been there, done that. Never again tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:05 PM
6

Thank you for sharing this! He usually delivers high quality material. Going to read this today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:32 AM
3

Oh yes, indeed. She’d better lower her standards because god forbid she doesn’t settle with (for) a man and actually prioritizes her own happiness. /s obviously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:26 AM
99

How dare she have different types of clothing?!?!?! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:41 PM
6

Has been on repeat here since the album dropped, I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:18 AM
125

That makes me so sad. Girls and women are amazing human beings. We should all support our sisters and stop falling into society’s traps that pit us against each other!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:15 AM
7

Boy, bye. 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:13 AM
6

Congratulations sis! Keep up the good work🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:12 AM
6

Gross🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:11 AM
16

If he doesn’t prioritize your pleasure and wishes by providing oral stimulation but still expects you to do so, he’s trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:11 AM
9

Wait, so he doesn’t want HER to eat as she wishes because HE doesn’t like to eat what SHE eats and therefore expects HER to cook HIS meals and calls HER lazy for not doing so and even calls her “not accommodating to HIM” and “hysteric” for being angry HE canceled HER daily meals? I hope she leaves him in her “hysterics” and never looks back. What the actual..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:57 AM
14

Quelle surprise lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:00 PM
27

Would classify this as abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:54 PM
23

Couldn’t agree more. If you do try again after a very, very clear no, you’re disrespecting the other person and their boundaries. I personally think we have all of those lovely “romantic” movies and shows to thank for this, because this crap works there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:57 PM
36

Everytime I’d ask a guy out, they would assume I was dtf immediately and they made absolutely zero effort yet expected so much. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:20 PM
8

I have kicked negative people out of my life without regrets. I have made myself less available to people I interact with on a daily basis, learned to say ‘no’ without an explanation and used this a lot, and have gone ‘back to basics’ in a way in hopes of finding my own power and voice again, so I can level up in a true way, from within (yeah cringe, I know). This, for me, means: - fixing up my house (I have dealt with some issues for a while and had really let the whole thing go); - excercising…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:16 PM
3

Hahaha this is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:25 PM
31

Absolutely ridiculous. Society should stop trying to hold women accountable for male depravity. Makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:48 AM
43

Hahahahahahahaha WHAT? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:25 AM
16

Lol. And with “Balance” he means his power over you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:26 AM
6

Why the f become a parent if you are “unable to” care for your child for three days. If you’re going to be that useless, perhaps it’s not the best idea to procreate. Also, how dare anyone expect this of a woman. What a “partner”, this guy. I hope she dumps him and focuses on her business and indepence instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:20 AM
7

Congratulations and thank you for sharing this inspiring story. Your hard work is paying off 🙏 Keep it up sis👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:09 AM
3

YES🙏 I hope this message reaches a lot of young women and helps them progress in life the way THEY see fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:08 PM
1

This just makes me sick 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:26 AM
3

Hahaha this one’s great. I always love her work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:24 AM
7

One of the first things my mother told me when I started my first job as a teenager, was “Make sure you are financially independent before you allow a man into your life, and stay that way afterwards”. She learned this the hard way. I didn’t think much of it back then, but I’m now so thankful that she has taught me this lesson early on so that I will never, ever have to depend on anyone but myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:23 AM
3

That’s an amazing list, thank you for sharing it! Self Made: Inspired by the Life of Madam C.J. Walker (2020) (Limited Series) is one of the best series I’ve seen to date. Would highly recommend!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:13 AM
3

Sign me up, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:09 AM
3

I completely agree. Honestly, it makes me not want to even try to filter out the good people, because everyone just turns out to be partially ‘brainwashed’ in their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:08 AM
4

Pff that can be so annoying! To be honest, I think the nice way won’t work, the angry way won’t work, going away yourself might make them follow you (plus don’t give up your space to these idiots)... Lol, the only thing I can come up with that might actually make them leave on their own: just start talking about menstruating and cramps and all of the blood that “just goes everywhere” and female “hygiene products” and what not. They think it’s gross and they might leave you alone after commenting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:05 AM
20

Yeah sure, let’s value your orgasm over your partner’s life. Go men!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:57 AM
1

Sounds like a real gem, that boyfriend. Feel really bad for her, though. This must be horrible to go through! Friendly reminder to all of us: no nudes, ever. Not to long term partners you believe to be HVM, never. Most men act like idiots and cannot be trusted with them. There is no way to know the difference tbh. Just ask yourself: in what world is the simple act of sending a picture worth the giant risk that comes with it? To me, it’s not. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:55 AM
1

Thank you for sharing this, was a helpful reminder for me :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:55 AM
10

Imagine being so desperate that you are having to hope for standards to be lowered, so that you can finally “get some”. This guy must be very proud of himself. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:53 AM
18

Imagine living like this and actually being so proud of it that you created a meme. What the actual..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:09 PM
3

Congratulations, this is a great accomplishment and it sounds like you have worked hard for it! I hope you are very proud of yourself, because I personally believe you should be :) Thank you for sharing your beautiful story!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 08:07 PM
3

Needed to hear this today, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:08 PM
2

Congrats!! Good for you🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:07 PM
2

Exactly!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:06 PM
1

That’s ridiculous. If a man can love an object more than you as a human, he either didn’t love you to begin with or may need professional help lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:19 PM
2

This happens to me all the time, even my closest friends are still shocked for whatever reason when I state that I’m proud of a goal I have achieved (careerwise), that I did well during a challenging time at work or even when I let them know I’m happy w/ my appearance. They typically joke “Haha and you’re also so humble”. I usually respond with something like “Well situation X was quite difficult to handle and yet I was able to achieve result Y, so I think I have the right to be proud of myself”…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:31 PM
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