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44

Lol. I don’t know what I just read. What advice was he looking for and what was he expecting?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:48 PM
51

LOL I would hope his mom is right, at least if I was in her shoes, I wouldn’t want to be seen as a good housewife, maybe an amazing mom but a good housewife isn’t a title I’d like to acquire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:14 PM
7

Lol. I didn’t know being comfortable equates to depression, you learn something new everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:58 PM
7

I was rolllllling my eyes. I couldn’t get through the whole thing. Cool girl right there. Insert eye roll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:00 PM
61

Yeah he’s a terrible human. He’s hung up on the fight that SHE OVERREACTED!!! She is hung up on the PURE DISRESPECT to her! I’m triggered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:27 PM
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He dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 03:24 PM
10

Sooo I’ll be honest, I didn’t read the whole post but skimmed it. First I’m so sorry OP has endo because I know plenty of women who had it/has it and it sucks but I am glad it’s being diagnosed now as opposed to being gaslit about period pains and the assumption that women who suffer from these said pains are eXaGGeraTinG. It’s really sad how the medical care for men vs women can be so different. We’re treated like we’re the ones exaggerating our pains and treated as if we are weak or being dram…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:01 PM
98

I really hope everyone reads this because this is great advice. No one likes or wants to nag. Society normalized women nagging - whether it’s from the media or from hearing our moms nag but nagging comes from frustration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:31 AM
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LOL I couldn’t tell if the article is for or against FDS. The title makes me think against it but the bullet points is making me think their for FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:00 PM
4

That is fucking disgusting. I saw the trigger warning but I’m still very very trigger. Fucking trash human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 03:42 PM
18

Didn’t he and Phoebe break up cause he didn’t want to get remarried or something but then proposed to Phoebe when her ex scientist was about to propose to her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 03:07 PM
9

But at least “I’m honest”. I can already hear the excuses and replies to his victims. “Hey you knew what you were getting into.” “What did you expect?!” “What can I say, I’m an asshole.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:32 AM
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“Whoa whoa whoa, when was this ever about the safety of women? I only care about how I’m getting sex with the least amount of effort I can get by with.” I’m pretty sure I’ve been banned by r / dating a longgg time ago for “spreading FDS ideals” or something like that but it seems like they removed FDS in their comments/reasons probably cause they realized that by doing so they are promoting our sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:23 PM
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Wow. What happened to our society or is it the fact that we have the internet to share how f’d our society is. The man is obviously trashhhhh - triggered and butt hurt for the fact that there’s no vitamin water for him to buy. Get a grip, it’s sold out, it will be restocked. The audacity of him attacking a woman just so that he can’t buy vitamin water is just DISGUSTING. It’s f’ing vitamin water. He is definitely sick in the head. His mother defending him instead of teaching his son and realizin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:13 AM
1

Yeah if someone were to criticize me while I cook, I’ll just stop and have them do it. This includes my parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:45 PM
54

*I love cooking for myself only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:11 AM
21

Yes! Block! Bye means end of convo, I never understand when someone says bye but still wants to keep going at it. Also yeah, the fact that he lives in the same apartment complex is super unsafe, I’m glad she’s calling him out but I hope she is protecting herself. This guy is triggered just by “dog mom”, her making their convo viral could trigger him further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:50 PM
14

It’s going to be hard to find a jury that hasn’t heard of this case. I doubt they will use sex as a defense but they will probably try to convince the jury that he wasn’t with her at the time of death. But who knows until he is found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:14 PM
457

He was afraid to propose not cause he was afraid she wouldn’t say yes buttttt that he is afraid he can’t commit. Ummmmm why propose then?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:44 PM
23

Yes. To all of it. Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:04 PM
268

…Yet we are considered a hate group and are compared to incels. Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:57 AM
1114

LOL the aggressiveness of his swipes had me dying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:32 AM
182

Pretty much anything that I learned for someone else’s benefit. I don’t cook but when I was living with an ex I learned to cook/bake things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:25 AM
73

It makes me LOL when they compare us to incels. Likeeeeeee no - we aren’t here trying to abuse men or spew hate on men. We’re here learning/educating each other on how to not get verbally, mentally, physically, and emotionally abused by men and trying to help one another be better and not get scammed by the lies we’ve been told.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:02 PM
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I think you did a wonderful job! You didn’t break anything and you’re truly awesome with your self control. Keep it up! The only person who can give you closure is yourself - not him. A lie we were all told was that we should get closure from the other person but the truth is, you can only find it in yourself. You, yourself needs to understand that it’s over, whatever he says or does means nothing. Contacting him and asking him for anything won’t give you closure, instead it might give you hope …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:49 PM
116

As disgusting as it was to read, I was not surprised by their answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:39 PM
130

Yeppp that’s why it’s extra cringe. Everyone was super awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:23 PM
2

LVM for sure - my first question is what he’s done to need to put up a billboard apology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:33 PM
101

Yea. I can’t imagine a woman taking the bait - sounds more like a woman doing it to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 11:03 PM
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First off, protect yourself. Be by friends and family. Make sure you let them know how he is and how he treats you. Something I realized during my tough times with my ex, I didn’t let anyone who actually cares/loves me know what’s going on which is very dangerous - we all need support and although you have ours, we can only provide it virtually. Through my tough times, my family and friends were always here to help whenever I needed it but keep in mind they need to know how to help you. Once you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:45 PM
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Lol what. If it’s a massive red flag thennn why is he asking for advice and just stop asking her out. She has standards - stop bothering her/wasting her time :insert eye roll:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:52 PM
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They believed a mans word. They believed that woman are crazy, emotional and have breakdowns for no reason. They believed that a simple separation will calm the woman down and fix things. Their beliefs killed a woman. Witnesses saw him abuse her and called the police to protect her, instead they gaslit her further and cost her, her life. When this man went back to his family without her, he was protected and was able to keep silent on her whereabouts. Instead of contacting the police, his parent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:11 AM
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None of this makes sense to me. What a bunch of enablers on the husband’s side - all low value and their the ones who are entitled thinking that any of it is okay. She should drop the whole family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 08:29 PM
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You are not a disgrace. You live and you learn - we all understand. If you ever feel like another moment of weakness is bubbling, just stop by this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:47 PM
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“I’m sorry you feel that way.” Every lvm/nvm favorite apology. Don’t waste your time or breath with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 10:44 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:25 AM
62

In my younger years, I would think I was in the wrong. I always had a habit of locking the door while I did my business, whether is was showering or relieving myself and when I first moved in with an ex, he got super angry when I locked the door - I remember feeling really bad and apologizing profusely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:51 PM
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This person deserves a No. then block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 07:26 PM
33

Oh god! Thank goodness you dodged that so well!! I would be so uncomfortable if I noticed my date expressed rage even for a second - so disgusting/sinister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:16 PM
40

Maybe I’ve been sheltering in for wayyy too long but what is zoomer fashion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:05 PM
87

Yesss to this reminder! Whenever our minds/guts give us the “oh maybe he’s…” or us second guessing means something ain’t right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:45 AM
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Agreed! I feel like love bombing is the issue in question. There’s a difference between doing things just to manipulate someone into a relationship versus doing something he genuine wants to do for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:46 PM
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“If he wanted to, he would” “Block o’clock” Two of my favorite quotes here. I’m sure there’s more but I can’t remember atm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:46 PM
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Omg talking about OLD, I use it cause of my lifestyle - no time to meet people via hobbies or etc. BUT I recently went on a date with a guy from OLD (after a longgg break) and LOL - the audacity of this man is replusive. It wasn’t very FDS of me to go on this date but I went anyway cause he chose my favorite cocktail bar without me mentioning it. When I met him, it wasn’t an awful date but it was blatant that there wasn’t any spark for me. After we parted ways, this man had the audacity to text …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:10 PM
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That’s too adorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:39 PM
148

“Come out come out wherever you are” means he’s a serial killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:55 PM
38

Yup but I’m also thinking he should put free instead of $900. Why would anyone pay if she is expected to clean and etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:00 PM
115

Yup. Please go be free without me for the rest of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:33 PM
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I disagree with this post for that as well as don’t date someone who is that much older than you, no matter what is said or done - he is manipulating you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:34 PM
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Who would want that kind of information? The only kind of people I can think of is Serial Killers, Murderers, Rapists, and/or Stalkers. I can’t think of any normal/non-insidious human would want that kind of information of a stranger on the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:07 PM
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This breaks my heart. It’s so sad to know what she went through but I’m glad she’s exposing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:05 AM
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What the fuck. The man needs to be trashed with the dirty diapers. Petty and cheap - I don’t even have friends who are like that (but that’s also because I wouldn’t want friends like that).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:43 PM
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Yup. Like what the F. The audacity is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 04:30 AM
18

How do you tell me you’ve been manipulated, negged, gaslit and/or open to be cheated on without telling me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:39 AM
48

WTF. She needs to report their asses to the police and say that they are harassing her and since it’s cyber crimes contact the FBI as well. She should cut contact and not take that trash back. He has a tumor he won’t treat? Welp not her problem. She is out of her mind if she allows them to do that to her and then also plan on taking him back. He obviously doesn’t give a shit about her and has no plans on going back to her until he is on his deathbed when that tumor is too far along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 05:56 PM
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Thank you! I hate reality tv and etc but you’ve convinced me to give this one a chance. Also what happened to our society where men are proud of being labeled as FBoys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:57 PM
443

Hahha right!!!!! Love the wife for taking her stance and not follow the actions of the other two wives. She didn’t marry a child - she’s doesn’t have to fix him a plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:54 PM
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What in the world. That’s so disgusting. They all think it’s fine?!?! Wtf!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:52 PM
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I don’t think she’s serious at all but she’s calling out men for hooters and trying to get them to understand how inappropriate their actions are. She’s pretty much saying how sleazy they are when they go their during lunch or bring their sons there which in turn teaches their sons to be sleazy as well/thinking it’s okay to treat woman like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:49 PM
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Agreed. Had to begrudgingly look the account up too see what he’s about. Disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:35 PM
37

I literally responded to this post with a run. That’s what she needs to do. There’s no changing his view, there’s no oh he’s only kidding, there’s nothing other then his deprived thoughts. She needs to gtfo. He legit told her he would rather her be a slave than a wife, he doesn’t want an equal he wants to have ownership over someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:24 AM
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👏🏻thank you doc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:46 PM
54

I love this idea!!!! Looking forward to seeing red flag cards in the wild!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:53 PM
182

Right!!!! So glad she already picked up the red flags on her own but she also had an angel next to her! Props to that man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:12 PM
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I truly hope that each person who comes to reddit for advice re-reads their post before posting it. I understand that there are many people who have been negged, manipulated, gaslit and abused to a certain point where they need the support and which I’m sure we are all happy to give/help but I feel like the first step of them writing it all down and rereading will give them some preliminary insight. For example, OP wrote how her husband is a very kind man - rereading it might give her some insig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:07 PM
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Right!! I’ve learned at a young age that anything followed with just kidding or it was only a joke means you’re speaking your mind but you’re also a coward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:57 PM
12

Right!! Where did these POSs spawn from/how could any human want to be near them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:43 PM
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We will never understand. That’s why I always wonder if they are just trolling because it’s so blatantly dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:55 PM
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I’m glad you found out early and dropped that! Before FDS I would have been like your friends making excuses/maybes for these men but thanks to FDS - nope. The first sign of a pink/red flag - we nope right out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:00 AM
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🤦🏻‍♀️that comment deserves this emoji. Somehow it’s our fault?! And we need to go out of our way to treat POS well?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:53 AM
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Although I don’t use Twitter, I do enjoy LVM/NVM exposing themselves to the world - like please let us know your inner thoughts/opinions so we know to stay the f away since most of these men use their real names and pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:30 PM
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Hold up. I recently saw someone ask somewhere whether a gym date is a good idea. It might be the same guy!!! I remember this/mention this because I’ve never heard of a gym date as a date. Like ever. Who in the world would offer to go on a gym date (apparently LVMs).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:29 PM
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I once went on a date where this man decided to bring up the chivalrous act of walking a woman home. I remember this vaguely but he believes it’s such a nice attempt and that it’s a damn shame that woman on the streets find is horrifying and creepy when a stranger offers to walk them home. I in turn told him is it creepy AF and why would a woman let a stranger know where she lives/what makes him think that she should let her guard down around him? Because he looks nice? Because he is trying to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:56 PM
27

Don’t ask someone out if you aren’t expecting to pay for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:31 PM
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LOL. Right. We are the problem. Apparently it’s cause of the “1 douche” that we group “99% of men” to being rapist/pedophiles but not the fact that, that “1 douche” is being applauded and backed up by the men on reddit. And that 80% of relationship advice/AITA/confessions posts (throwing a high % since I’m not going to actually fact check but using it based on experience) are literally how a man is emotionally, financially, physically or all of the above abusive towards a woman/how a man has ped…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:24 PM
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LOL right!!! If I were her, I would have just walked out right there and then. Who in the world goes through their trash like that?!?! Like what did he think the wrapped toilet paper is?! If it wasn’t a pad, it could be gum or snot or anything!!!!! Did he think she threw away money or gold?! If anyone (including myself) threw trash in my trash can (doesn’t matter where it’s located), I wouldn’t be touching it unless I believe I accidentally threw something important out. Also what SCUM tells the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:02 PM
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Omfg. Yes!!! Don’t send nudes to ANYONE. I trust no one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:32 PM
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I’m battling between wanting to laugh and feeling bad for her cause like WHAT. Married to 6 years and sex is just penetration?! Was the marriage arranged or something? I feel like there’s no attraction or love - sex seems more like a chore than an expression of love between them. GTFO sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:03 AM
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No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:06 PM
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I hope all these men get exposed to their family/friends. If they think it’s okay - they should openly share it with those around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:59 PM
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I came to say this and love that you already did!!!! Love her reaction and her laugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:32 PM
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Trash trash trash trash trash trashhhhh! What the fuck. Why did he even marry his wife?!?! Can’t concentrate on his wife during their wedding cause of the friend - their goddam wedding when it should be their day and his wife should be the most drop dead gorgeous person in his goddam eyes. I’m pissed for his wife. Although it sucks but I truly hope his wife finds out the type of trash he is and divorces his ass - no give it a chance crap. I also hope this friend finds out and drops him completel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:22 PM
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I don’t understand dick pics. Who wants to see their itty bitty wee wee? Do they want us to send it to their mothers/family? Do they think we’ll suddenly find them attractive if they expose themselves and want to sleep with them? Disgusting and delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:46 PM
12

Initially I rolled my eyes and then I laughed. Please keep your child. We don’t want him and we don’t want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:23 AM
10

Oh my god. I completely understand. I had a couple of times people tried to set me up with someone they know. A coworker tried and bought it up two times - I obviously said no both times - without even asking about the guy and etc. The third time my coworker bought this friend up again - finally admitted I was wayyyyyyyyyyyy too good for this said friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 07:39 PM
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Exactly. This is so fucked. If they want to practice pelvic exams, they should 1. Ask for permission and 2. After consenting, pay the people. Them justifying this kind of action is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 12:28 AM
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Preach!!!! I feel like everyone on this sub thinks the same way so we should all be good. We all prob had to deal with the “why are you still single?” “Don’t be so picky.” “Give him a chance, he’s such a good person.” Nah. I refuse to force attraction and be with someone I am not physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to. Just cause he checks most of the items means nothing to me - it’s all or nothing. How happy will we be if we just settle?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:39 PM
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This is disgusting, I want to throw up when I was reading this. Hard no for me. How did she not throw him out the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:40 AM
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Hahahhahaha thank you for sharing these!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:20 AM
10

Same!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:18 AM
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What the hell. People can legit sue for ANYTHING. She should sue him for causing distress and every-time he looks at her when they meet in person for the trial or whatever she should sue him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:53 AM
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This is so so so so wrong and disgusting. Even he knows it’s wrong when he said “you shouldn’t have seen those” because he shouldn’t have pictures and why is she even topless around him?! Maybe it’s been too long since I was a child and I’ve not been around children but isn’t she old enough to dress herself and etc?! I’m worried for the daughters, he has child pornography on his phone - even if that’s his daughter, it doesn’t matter - there’s no gray line when it comes to this. Call the cops!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:36 PM
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There’s a reason why gone girl is such a good book/movie. My ex didn’t like it but I loved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:48 PM
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The answer is “you’ll never have the pleasure to find out the answer to that.” There are a handful of seemingly harmless questions people ask that are a complete turn off on the first date. That’s 1 of them, so is “so why are you still single?”, “why did your last relationship end? (Or anything about your past relationships)”. Those are the ones that come to mind but they are low effort questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:30 PM
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Reading this makes me want to rewatch it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:51 PM
12

Yupppp! Completely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:58 AM
7

Hahah same!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:54 AM
7

Or this. Either way it’s a win for her! Good for him to let her find true happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:06 PM
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Um someone needs to tell this person that he is obviously giving these women the creep feeling. I move away when I’m creeped out by someone and feel uncomfortable around them. He is aware that he is being avoided but not aware enough to know that he is obviously a creep. How many times can I say creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:42 PM
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It’s block o’clock. Glad you saw through all his shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:33 PM
124

I’ll take the bet with you. She’s been with him for 13 years, 100% he’s delusional thinking he can do better. He’s gonna break up with her and break her heart, she’s gonna move on and find someone who will actually love her and treat her like a queen and he will sulk and cry and ask for her back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 02:47 PM
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LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 10:48 PM
57

Yes!!! He is jealous that everything works out for her. That’s the bottom line. He wants to make himself seem like he’s sooooooooo stable and think of everything but nah. Jealous. I hope everyone tells him that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:31 PM
12

This is so true hahahahahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:01 AM
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My thoughts exactly. I’m surprised these people even bother posting it after reading what they wrote. You’d think they’d realize “well yes, I am a huge asshole”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:24 AM
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Thankfully I haven’t heard anyone use white knight. Honestly, not sure what reaction I’ll have if a lvm/nvm say it but I hope to believe I’ll laugh in his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 05:29 AM
19

WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:47 PM
24

When the term “simp” comes out of a guy’s mouth makes me cringe - pure lvm/nvm vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:29 PM
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They find out real quick I don’t like to take pics and it’s all of my dog :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:35 PM
15

Creepy af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:27 AM
50

Snapchat and Instagram are where convos go to die for me. Initially I thought yea I’ll bite and add but I realized REAL quick I had no interest in snapping back or replying in Instagram.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:24 AM
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I think I only liked “just the way you are”. I also liked “Grenade” but thinking about it, it’s lv vibes since he is only thinking about her cause he lost her and is reflecting on all the things he did wrong after the fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:02 PM
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I’m pretty sure most of his songs are lv vibes to the point where I stopped listening to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 01:34 PM
7

One ex’s mom still bought most of his clothes. No man over the age of 21 should let his mom buy most of his clothes. If you have a full time job, you should be able to buy your own clothes. Btw my ex was in his late 20s, early 30s when we were dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:31 PM
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This is exactly how I see it. He’s telling her these things in a way manipulates her as well. He’s saying all these people are saying these things but he doesn’t believe them (yeah right) so that she thinks he has her back when really he is just putting it out there and when shit hits the fan he’s gonna throw those things back in her face. The person who said “women who make that much money isn’t marriage material” is a pure lvm/nvm who is completely right, women who make that much money isn’t m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:45 PM
9

Yup. I’m glad I found FDS and I hope our past experiences will help others that may need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:58 PM
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I never calculated the debt but I did stupidly spend around a grand because my ex gaslit me to the point where I thought I needed these one on one sessions to overcome neediness. If I learned about FDS sooner, I would’ve saved myself that mess - captain hindsight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:48 PM
79

This. Blatantly obvious he dgaf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:59 PM
37

Or or or…it’s a man trolling. The life is good part sounds odd to put in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:24 PM
5

Oh honey is the perfect response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:49 PM
28

LOL I remember all these. Thank you for the reminder of all the trash that has been (I hope) thrown away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:14 PM
12

Right!!! Take responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:29 PM
61

Yup. I didn’t even bother reading the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:43 PM
21

I puked a bit when I read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:04 PM
19

She’s defending the piece of trash. He’s definitely much older and sex with him is most definitely a chore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:44 PM
23

Same. There’s so many posts where I feel this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:30 AM
17

I got goosebumps! She’s amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:45 PM
5

Yup. Always a red flag. Also the fact that she was able to get into his phone still..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:26 PM
20

He is straight trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:52 AM
10

This is so true. One of my exes did a great job in manipulating me and driving me to insanity. If any guy says their ex is crazy, it’s also a huge red flag. What got them to that point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:17 AM
3

My thoughts exactly! I LOL’d.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:54 PM
4

I legit thought this article was a joke and not actual advice. How is anything written on their okay and how could any sane person follow this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:39 PM
35

Wow this is sad yet beautiful. I teared up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:57 PM
21

LOL I’m dying. What in the world. Oh my god. The f-ing audacity is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:06 PM
5

Yessssssssss!!! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:51 PM
8

Ughhhhh nice guy syndrome. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:48 AM
140

HAHA damn now I want Wendy’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:44 AM
3

I’m so glad that his child will be able to see this when they are old enough and they can throw this back in his face when he is in need of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:42 AM
16

Yes!! There is no such thing as a “petty” deal breaker. Anything that stops you from living your life the way you want isn’t petty. Relationships do require some work (like getting your schedules to sync up and etc) but it doesn’t mean it should inconvenience you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:51 PM
4

Hahahahahahahahahhah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:26 PM
2

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 10:00 PM
3

Congratulations!!!!!! To both the house and dodging that bullet!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:43 PM
9

Best analogy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:16 PM
3

Sometimes we need this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:19 PM
30

Hahahahahahahahhahhahhaahhahah I love this. Omg the basic, oh I haven’t updated my profile!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:54 AM
10

Omg the shit some people say! This guy speaks and shits from the same hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:52 AM
3

Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:16 PM
2

Omggg I saw this post and immediately thought, why in the world would you want to buy a house with your boyfriend!!! And second thought was that’s an animal marking his territory and not cleaning up. He is using bad aim as an excuse. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:23 PM
29

That’s just disgusting. Welp glad you found out and dropped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:17 AM
61

I don’t think she is saying she wants to walk all over men, she just doesn’t want them to waste her time. She is basically saying actions speak louder than words and there are a lot of instances where you’re seeing a guy and start wanting something serious, the guy pulls a “hold up I’m still trying to get to know you” which basically wasted your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:15 AM
107

Oh queeeeen. Radiate! She hit it all spot on. Don’t waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:07 AM
20

I understand where you are coming from and yes sometimes you want to feel heard especially when you’ve been in a relationship where you feel like you have no voice or everything you say seems to be in vain. Sadly for me, that’s exactly how I felt and I’ve learned. They really don’t care, don’t waste your time. You’ll just feel like a fool after. I don’t see it as the cool girl move but the moving on move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 02:30 AM
36

Right!!! That and she’s questioning herself and her body!!! That man is straight trash. 40 year old man sleeping with a 20 year old!! How disgusting. She’s a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:59 PM
5

My aunt. She gets corrected by my a lot. She loves me and my cousins (they are males) equally but she can’t help herself sometimes. Breaks my heart, thank god one of my cousins is a HVM and defends us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:35 AM
17

I completely agree with you. I hope that she sees through him and leaves because if they get married or if she stays with him any longer, he will inevitably cheat on her or leave her for someone else once a real opportunity presents itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:53 PM
4

Um what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:05 PM
3

This isn’t true. It can’t be. What the f is wrong with people!!! Just f-ing 2 years?!!!! What in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:29 PM
13

Hahhahahahhahhaha right!!! I’m like what. Also the fact that anyone calls themselves a 10/10 (especially online) are delusional or is lying. I also love when guys call themselves “jacked”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:21 PM
4

I’m glad he walked himself out. Basic LVM. After the third date, I would’ve blocked him for his passive aggressive comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:09 AM
17

I can imagine and I almost threw up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:49 PM
153

Yuppppppppp! I love how fds keeps surprising me with tidbits of how I dated lvm and how ridiculous I was to cry over them. I’m not perfect but they were definitely all cause and effect situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:55 PM
42

Love this!!! I on the other hand just don’t respond/delete cause ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:14 AM
52

Yup. To this day my exes probably still think I’m crazy for refusing to be disrespected and “acting out” when I felt like I was. Looking back though, I really was crazy for staying in those relationships and crying over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:44 AM
40

It doesn’t sit right with me when a man calls himself a feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:13 AM
30

Hahahahahaha this made me LOL. It’s so sad but so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:05 AM
26

Ew what the f.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:53 PM
6

Hahhahahhha yesssssssssssss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:46 PM
20

I really think it’s a prank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:48 PM
3

I’ve heard of Joe Rogan but who is Jordan Peterson?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:35 PM
1

Yessss!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:25 PM
5

You’re not losing your mind but obviously someone has. Not sure why her immediate reaction wasn’t throw out the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:21 AM
3

Yup. I mean skip Reddit and immediately throw out the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:20 AM
7

Daughter is in sweats and he is still looking at her!!! What kind of trash is that?! He wants his wife to kick her out because he is a POS and is attracted to his wife’s daughter. He has the audacity to trash talk his wife because she isn’t as young as her daughter!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:49 AM
3

Who the f is this guy. What is wrong with him. This is ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:44 PM
53

They do this because they are hedging on how a lot of us were brought up as the caretakers and want to help others. Little do they know how we know better now. I’m pretty sure back in the day I would’ve felt bad but now if I read that, unmatch. One guy had it on his OLD saying he wanted someone who “likes to take care of herself and others”, I unmatched immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:15 PM
5

I couldn’t stop laughing. Some points cringe laugh but still laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:28 PM
13

I love this!! But I think it should be know your worth, multiplied by a premium and then add tax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:08 AM
6

In another post someone mentioned adding a flair called “incel fanfiction”, I believe this applies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:10 AM
27

I would love to upvote this multiple times so that everyone can see this. I’ve been love bombed twice. The first time I was naive and it was subtle so it worked and I felt each and every one of the stages. The second time was on a first date. The date went well at first until the love bombing started and my subconscious was calling him out on it. By the end of the date, I was repulsed by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:06 AM
16

Yessss to this!!!! So many red flags. I do believe emotions are fine but from the way OP wrote it, it’s just a way to manipulate OP. A man can cry all he wants but OP has a live in man child. Calling periods disgusting makes him a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:51 AM
17

Yea I thought about that. God I hope she doesn’t need to. It depends on the state they live in. But I’m sure she has a case cause why does she need to support that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:19 PM
87

100% I truly hope she doesn’t agree to this f’d up situation. Dump them both. Lawyer up, transfer all money/assets to a personal account, speak to the landlord to break lease if possible (assuming rented) and get the f out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:18 PM
25

I second/third this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:01 PM
27

How is that a LPT, that should be removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:00 PM
85

Where in the world do these boys spring out from?! Who kicks someone under the table cause their date wants to order a drink. Wtf. I’m sooooo glad your sister has found her husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:53 PM
20

Umm 10000% the asshole and also a trash human being. At least she knew she was being disrespected and told him as it is. What in the world was he thinking. He 100% shouldn’t be dating and I get people fall on hard times and can’t afford luxuries and if he was a decent human being he would date, be upfront, wait and wouldn’t pull sleazy crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:37 PM
3

What the fuck. I didn’t even know what that meant until now. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:20 PM
3

HAHA. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:02 PM
1

What in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:55 PM
1

Yes! Thank you! Sometimes you need this kind of reminder because people can really press your buttons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:32 PM
17

I love when men post shit like this so that they can show their true colors and you can avoid that mess of a situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:02 PM
5

I love this. Thank you. I also noticed that many of us are voicing out how this happens at work often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:14 PM
13

Yes. Exactly. I’ve always trusted my gut but after being hurt and gaslit by my ex I developed trust issues but not just in other people but myself as well. If I can’t trust myself, how can I trust others. I was broken by it but slowly I’m learning to trust myself again. This sub has taught me the importance of trusting and loving myself since it is the key to our own happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:07 AM
16

Yup. Also I honestly believe everyone who is on this sub knows this but for those who are new, men lie. Whether they say they are “separated”, “newly single”, “staying in a relationship out of obligation”, or “the relationship is practically over” these are all lies. They want to either cheat, is bored of their current relationship but doesn’t have the guts to leave, or is just bored. Don’t be fooled no matter how charming they could be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:40 PM
19

Yesss. This sub has taught me so much and changed the way I read/observe everything. It’s to a point where I’m re-watching old shows and I just can’t handle the Pickmes and LVM/NVMs, it also showed me how the media has conditioned females to accept LVM/NVM as comedy or a quirk when it’s completely unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:52 AM
5

I agree with you. I’ve been gaslit and felt like I was the psychotic one. I do empathize and will always offer my support, it’s just that it breaks my heart to see the amount of posts on these issues. I want to see more where people want to detach from their trash as opposed to asking how to make it work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:07 PM
13

Ew. I hate it when guys approach me at the gym. It’s my way of relieving stress and when they come and bother me while I’m in the zone, what do they expect?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:02 PM
5

Wow. I had no idea that every time a guy decides to talk to me when I’m wearing my headphones and minding my own business that it’s not because I don’t want to be disturbed and have no interest in them, it’s just that they were not confident enough in their approach /s 🙄🙄🙄 No but seriously I hate when guys talk to me when I’m clearly not interested. I wear headphones everywhere I go and many times there’s nothing playing, I’m wearing it just so people don’t bother me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:58 PM
8

I actually said the same thing, word for word when I read this shit. “What in the actual fuck.” He was going to fucking cut her. He is legit psycho. Imagine if her meds were stronger and she wakes up bleeding uncontrollably because he isn’t a goddamn doctor. I’m beyond triggered right now reading how horrid and stupid that man is. She needs to completely cut that man out of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:21 AM
49

Wow how rude of her. And damnnn right he ain’t marrying her to do his laundry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:39 PM
3

I never understood why I should be embarrassed for buying tampons or pads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:07 AM
15

I remember back in high school one of my teachers said his wife gives him an allowance since she handles the finances. I remember some of the kids were laughing when he said it but it made sense to me and it obviously left an impression on me since I still remember it all these years. It makes me sad that this is considered a “traditional marriage” idea instead of what actually makes sense. In a perfect world both parties agreeing to marry each other means they love each other, trust each other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:35 PM
19

HAHAHAHAH. Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:12 PM
275

This has got to be fake. It sounds like a troll whose trying to scare females away from FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:33 AM
2

Ew. This is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:18 PM
9

Ew what the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:52 PM
117

Yup. You can tell immediately when someone is interested or not. It’s the amount of effort. Yes people have lives and get busy but you can still tell so don’t let them use that as an excuse. No one is that busy, even when I work 90+ hours a week, I still have time to respond to texts. Though I do forget to respond sometimes but if I care enough, I’ll respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:19 AM
15

I LOL’d Hahahahhahahha and yes. Putting a lid on my drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:27 PM
10

My eyes are rolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:59 PM
4

Omg I went on a date with a guy who tried to pull this shit. I ran away so fast. The amount of red flags I saw on 1 date was enough. This was before fds and I just started to date again after a toxic 3 year relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:58 PM
1

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:53 AM
30

If someone is sending you your boyfriend’s profile from tinder, he isn’t your boyfriend, he is your trash. Throw it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:01 PM
3

Thank god they never do! I always start with heyyyy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:35 AM
28

Hahah same! It’s actually not great when I don’t even know the name of the guy I’m on the date with since it’s never saved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:27 PM
6

I always loved him but now I have a reason to love him more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:12 AM
3

What. Can’t be real. Has to be a man who wrote that. Anyone woman who writes that out and posts it must be delusional. How is she not embarrassed by what she wrote or wake up from her delusional?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:52 AM
2

Someone got butt hurt by the term man child LOL. How I see it is, it hit too close to home. Whenever I see people complaining about FDS or get hurt by the terminology we use, it means they realize that they fit the definition. Any real man will agree when we call someone out as a man child. The males hating on us are the ones who fit the “LVM” or “NVM” definition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:16 PM
3

Response should be. “My kind of guy isn’t an insecure manipulative piece of trash. I guess we are both wrong for each other.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:29 PM
22

She is obviously dating an idiot man child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:19 PM
15

When I come across these profiles I either think they are trolls/fake profiles or they are legit delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:59 AM
2

🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:49 PM
1

I am the same way. I do not find other men attractive when I’m in a committed relationship. I had a really good looking co-worker, everyone and their mother was attracted to him but I straight up did not find him attractive at all. I was only interested in my bf at the time. Looking back though, I might’ve put my ex on a pedestal back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:09 AM
120

Yep. One of my exes used to say “but I did this for you, isn’t it enough?!” And try to make me feel bad or gaslight me. Well, if any future SO pulls that’s shit, I will throw this at him as he joins my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:59 AM
3

Wow. Is there something lower than LVM or NVM?! Like trash male or something?! He expected her to pay for him as well?! I feel like you should always have the expectation to pay for yourself because you never know how the date plays out but to say you expect the other person to pay because they make more is outright rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:04 AM
55

Lol I would’ve replied “I charge $500 an hr.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:48 PM
37

Omg yes. I never appreciated men approaching me at the gym or even on the streets. If you see a lady walking fast, it means she has somewhere to be, please don’t stop her from getting where she needs to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 09:46 PM
17

I love this idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:43 PM
7

I really think there’s just a lot of trolls. There’s no way people like that exist (people whose first response isn’t I’m going to call the police).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:34 AM
14

If only you can hear me applaud you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:04 AM
1

Hahah I will use this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:50 PM
25

This made me cry for all of them. The man is a psychopath. He has his wife helping him?! Is she doing it so that she doesn’t have to deal with his abuse?! The agents who know his abuse and still send THEIR CLIENTS to him are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:24 PM
11

Lol seriously! How in the world can you hold in your period?! Butttt imagine if we ever have the audacity to ask them to hold their cum in during sex?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:48 PM
19

Yup. That last line though. If she has enough drinks in her and she doesn’t actually want it, it’s rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:38 PM
48

This completely triggered me. Complete trash human. He has the audacity to ask if he is the AH?! Obviously he is. How could he do that to his ex and his kids?! His kids will hate him even if he ends up with custody. In addition, 21 year old?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:08 AM
7

Yup. This. All of this. Thank you for writing it all out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:24 AM
68

Dodged a bullet. 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:10 AM
1

The word nice makes me cringe nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:20 PM
5

Love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:04 PM
17

I’ve been living alone for a while but don’t talk to me when I wake up in the morning before I had my coffee. Don’t talk to me after my naps until maybe 10 mins or when I speak to you. Not sure if I want anyone talking to me after a commute back from work but it should be similar to my naps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:56 PM
6

Wowwwww. Truth! Number 3 hit me hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:15 AM
2

Lol I’m a sarcastic person so in my mind I read it with sarcastic tone cause that can’t be real. “Gently ask” to buy a vacuum so that she can quietly clean up after him. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:24 AM
11

“Harry Potter and the audacity of this trash”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:40 AM
24

Haaa thought the same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:49 AM
8

Lol. I guess it’s easier to make assumptions about people just by looking at pictures than to just have a normal conversation and actually getting to know someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:04 PM
44

What makes me sad is not enough women see it this way vs the men that do. I don’t hate men but I do hate the fact that this is allowed and when this issue is brought up, people seem to just accept it and say “it is what it is”. Which in other words, they either gave up or just accept what is obviously an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:06 AM
20

I’m glad the 16 year old girl knows better and called him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:07 AM
3

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:28 PM
10

Wow. She needs to break up with him ASAP. He’s 30 and would sell his girlfriend beer. Who does that?! How does someone get that petty?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:25 PM
4

Omg same! I saw this and started tearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:21 PM
7

I hope your mother gets better!! I’m sorry about your father. I’m just happy to hear that you and your sisters are there for her and taking care of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:18 PM
28

Since I’m single, my coworkers have been very interested in my dating life, always checking in to see if I go on any dates and etc. I’ve had one coworker call me picky, in which I replied “I’m not sure how choosing happiness makes me picky?”. Mind you, most of my coworkers are married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:44 AM
94

Thank you for sharing this story. I’m sorry about Elena.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:03 AM
19

WTF. What the hell is wrong with those men?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:10 AM
33

I completely agreed. That man is trash. I hope she realizes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:48 AM
12

Lol. He posted this for what reason? To show his wife being angry at him when it ultimately shows how he is a lazy sack of sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:14 AM
14

He saw a pattern because he caused it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:09 AM
21

This. I just wish we all saw this at a young age. The things we do just to be kind and thoughtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:30 AM
6

WOW! Not harsh at all, good job! You reached out to confirm and he does not reply until 15 mins after the plan. Efff that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 12:50 AM
17

I am so happy for you!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:05 AM
3

Be yourself, you don’t need to hide yourself just to appease other people. If they have a problem with it, it’s not your issue. Also you don’t need to deal with guys who don’t respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:18 PM
124

Omg yes. I’ve had so many conversations with men and how they don’t want a daughter since they are afraid of what may happen to them. Their reasoning is always because they are afraid of what men might do to their future daughters since they know the thoughts they’ve had towards women and what they’ve done to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:01 AM
7

I agree that all women should watch this. I’m just disgusted at the amount of men that actually go to their classes in those videos. I couldn’t watch the whole thing but it’s really sad that men paid to listen to them. I’ve also came to the conclusion that the men who were teaching and the men who actually agrees to what they teach all hate and disrespect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:55 PM
56

Yupppppppp! And if you have the audacity to call them out, they would say something along the lines of “oh I have no recollection of that”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:07 PM
36

I’m so sorry to hear about your mom but I am also glad to hear that you are able to have two male friends who you are comfortable with. I feel that as long as they are genuine HVMs then they can be good male friends as well because they know their boundaries and will not cross them even if there is an opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:43 PM
195

OMG. Tell me about it. My favorite is when there’s an issue and you come up with the solution and they truly believe it was their idea all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:23 PM
22

I am outraged and disgusted but I also feel kind of sad that this is the attention and approval she seeks. Although I don’t know her background, I want to believe that her parents didn’t have her/raise her to treat herself like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:09 PM
20

And that “man” is single. Which btw is a good thing because with thoughts like that, he should stay single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:08 PM
9

Truth. I wish I understood this in my last relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:23 PM
38

"Ridiculous to end our relationship because of one event." The "event" is marriage which represents commitment. I don't find it ridiculous to end a relationship if the other person does not want to commit. I hope his girlfriend sees that and leaves him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:18 PM
119

LOL this has got to be fake. A LVM trying to give hope to other LVMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:47 AM
8

I LOL’d. Not sure where these oblivious men sprouted from. 🤡🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:23 PM
10

That’s disgusting. WTF. The audacity of that couple. Harassing a minor and blaming the minor when the man was being trash. It’s just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:07 AM
5

I’m just glad he revealed himself before your first date. I hope you didn’t even bother with him. Trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:05 PM
16

I had a seizure trying to read the post. A few of my brain cells died. RIP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:06 PM
26

He’s 8 years older and was probably hoping to condition her but thank god she isn’t falling it. What a piece of sht. If she doesn’t leave him after seeing how shtty he is, he should do her a favor and end it cause she doesn’t need that kind of trash in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:20 PM
59

“He was a lot more gentle than usual and it wasn’t that painful for me”. What the f*ck. He was a lot more gentle and it wasn’t that painful?!!!! So what is it usually?!?! This is all sorts of wrong. She needs to leave immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:15 PM
72

Lol. Uhhh why is she telling him? They aren’t even married, why is her money going to a joint account?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:26 PM
1

He is trashhhhhhhhhhh. I hope she breaks up with him and cuts contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:22 PM
12

I completely agree! Make sure to have your friends track your location and send a pic of the guy’s contact and picture if possible. I’ve been doing this prior to covid-19. I don’t trust strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:16 PM
2

lol buddy. What a fool. Glad he slipped up, you do deserve better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:45 AM
11

Wow he is garbage. I hope she ended up dumping his ass. He taught her what a man shouldn’t be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:30 PM
11

W.T.F.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:23 PM
5

I feel so bad for her. Trusting him and realizing he’s actually just another piece of shit. It’s a lesson learned for her. I really hope that these messages get to females at a younger age so that they know how horrible males can be and can avoid these situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:09 PM
1

I saw that post and my blood boiled. I hope it’s another troll post but if it’s not. How ridiculous is he?! “Unuseful” at home so she’s probably the same at work?! Like WTF. Dis-f*ckin-gusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:30 AM
5

Yessssss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:03 PM
33

I used to love watching this show cause I found it entertaining and funny but I can’t rewatch it now since Ted annoys me. I had a friend like him. Always the “good” guy but when he does something to show that he is “nice”, he expects you to praise him and will use the nice thing he did against you. He would talk about his dates and expect them to like him cause he is a good guy and when they don’t he acts like a child about it. I couldn’t stand it anymore and cut him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:30 AM
12

Ew. No. Not married and expects her to act like they are?! Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:16 AM
99

You’re not overreacting. He told you to get out and so you did. He was manipulating you to have sex with him. That’s not a HVM. A HVM would respect you and when you tell him you want to take it easy tonight, he would take it easy and not pull any funny shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:57 PM
23

I wish I could upvote this a few more times! The article gave me a great laugh. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:32 AM
5

🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️he thinks he’s funny but he just looks/sounds like a fool. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:39 AM
12

I don’t believe that is always true but there are some cases where the mother either promotes or turns a blind eye to their son’s behavior. It’s quite sad. Not sure if this was a troll or an actual post but either way. Example on AITA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:34 PM
16

I hope all fathers are like this. The brother on the other hand is a disgrace. When he saw this kind of behavior in his friends he should have disapproved and made sure none of his friends would go near his sister. Doesn’t matter if she is younger or older. And if he wanted to keep them as friends, go to their houses instead of inviting them over to his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:15 PM
8

Why are men this disgusting and stupid? I don’t understand why they would demand favors in exchange for being a basic human?! It really blows my mind when I hear/read these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 07:21 AM
5

He is awful/disgusting. How does he think it’s alright and also he has the audacity to call them sensitive. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 07:23 PM
1

LOL. Who would want to date a fool like that?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:06 PM
1

This is terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 07:07 PM
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