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NICE FOR WHAT?vbych76/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:41 PM
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When they wrote CoMmuNiCate I imagined those snake charmers from India. You know, the ones with a flute and a bag and when the snake charmer plays the snake rises from the bag. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:21 PM
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I think something clicked in my mind. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:59 PM
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I see that it hasn't been mentioned : Someone here noticed that even though you clearly state in the filter the age range you prefer to date, the app constantly tries to push you matches outside of that age group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:44 PM
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Try A Fine Balance by Mistry Rohinton and Midnight's children. They are fiction though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:02 PM
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Check out Erotic stories for Punjabi widows by Balli Kaur Jaswal if you have the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:52 PM
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Read it a long time ago, but it's still on my kindle and I try to recommend it whenever I can. It's not a topic widely discussed, but it should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:28 PM
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If you want to know more on the topic, I recommend Unnatural Selection: Choosing Boys Over Girls, and the Consequences of a World Full of Men by Mara Hvistendahl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:54 PM
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Excuse me, if I am being too intrusive (and disregard if you think so), I have a question.Was he doing it to avoid domestic responsibilities, BUT also to keep you from work and distract you from your daily tasks there? Did that have a financial effect in the long run?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:21 PM
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Just to be sure check both 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:39 AM
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It seems like an elitist statement, but it is actually not. What's broken is the system. Let me elaborate a little on this. Yes, people want to have children.Yes, children nowadays are madly expensive ( I could go even as far as to say, that they are luxury). In the past, families had many children ( due to child death rates, due to other economic reasons like free child labour for example). In the past, raising a child was done by many people - grandparents, parents, extended families, the neig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:30 PM
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Make it make sense ...a parent usually thinks how to make the world a better place for their children. Not : let's spread some semen and see what happens. Or is this like some f*cked up version of Survivor??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:32 PM
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Let's not forget the latest trend - giving them compliments 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:55 AM
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Please, don't say this, maybe if all men are mandated to perform both of those specific tasks, they would join efforts to create a robot to do them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:35 AM
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Tell me, you can cook and I'm sending the ring 💍 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:30 AM
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It generates views and money. So apparently, nothing is off limits ( ShE's DoINg It FoR tHe FaMiLy, YoU dOn'T UnDeRStaNd/s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:28 AM
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Why bother, he probably changes behavior for a week or two and there she's yet again having to over-explain her feelings and back to playing petty games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:31 AM
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Yeah, you can't even share your experience, because it makes them feel sad and resentful towards you even if they will never admit it. It's not jealousy, it's just their own bitterness, that overflows into every aspect of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:11 AM
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I think you're the most patient person I've heard of and your level of BS tolerance is off the charts. Unfortunately, those qualities lead to whole new set of problems. The first red flag was when she tried to diminish your achievements, but I understand that, you wanted to be a good friend and support her. However, calling you a b!tch is the cherry on top. In my personal opinion, it's not acting salty if you decide to keep away from her and withdraw from the wedding altogether ( and this includ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:59 AM
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Exactly this. The item could vary on prize (food/drink, plant, clothes, item for your home), but that numbing feeling afterwards is always telling. He doesn't care enough to make you happy in any way. Like if you were living together and he goes to the store, but buys groceries only for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:37 AM
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I would also like to add major factors like alcohol consumption and self medicating, that ramp up when the age for retirement comes and they lose purpose. As you have indicated, many people have no idea how to handle stress in a healthy way and how to cope with the new life stage they're in. Even without having to deal with domestic abuse, most elderly people (women) are confined with a partner, that now has a new addiction, starts having unpredictable behavior ( and new spending habits) or unlo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:02 AM
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I absolutely agree with you. Just saying, that's not something unexpected from him, if we try to predict what could have happen based on his previous scandals. I'm not victim blaming, he is 🗑️. We can describe his behavior from start to finish as despicable. The only reason I even heard of them is because I like a YouTube channel (For Harriet), that discussed her. publication 1 publication 2. Edit: Actually, I don't think she is stupid, she is just one of those women, that have internalized, tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:37 PM
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That one again? Nah.. Edit: Actually, come to think of it, they are both very controversial, crave for media attention and stir up scandals. He had a beef with the LGBTQIA community ( homophobic comments), she said some colorist stuff in her lyrics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:39 PM
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Maybe her mother is asking him to take care of her, because she knows the woman needs help and is worried, but can't even fathom, the type of scrote her daughter is dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:29 PM
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Had that experience unfortunately and I still cringe every time I remember something about it. Emergency abdominal surgery, not a laparoscopic one, 1 week hospital stay after that. He didn't take me to the ER, when the pain started to be unbearable (called a taxi company). When was time to leave, after taking care of all the administrative stuff at the hospital, packed my bag, barely moving, called another cab to come and get me. Let me underline, that at the time, we were living together ( he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:22 PM
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The coward probably wants out, but he knows he will need to pay a full rent or return back home (maybe this was the reason he went away?). But whatever the case might be, he should have informed her, that she needs to make other arrangements with someone else to be present when needed. So my conclusion is : Not only he didn't love her, he wouldn't care even if she died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:25 PM
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And yet, when a woman feels and looks comfortable without wearing a bra, the policing starts again. An example from Instagram : Padma Lakshmi was cooking in her own home with her daughter, having something like a sports top without a bra underneath it, making a video about the recipe and some scrote just had to INTERVENE and tell her not to show her nipples. Just a random person, telling a grown woman, what she should wear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:39 AM
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She let him choose the date, was considered of his work schedule, even though it probably caused her pain and inconvenience while she waited for the time to come She said nothing when he left her prior the planned operation ( to SURPRISE his family - mature people don't surprise, they schedule) He damned well knew, she would be in pain and alone He just HAD to involve everyone around them ( on both sides) in the situation to prove she LiEs, so they can gaslight her too He made fun of her pain, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 09:21 AM
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By all means, let's over explain ourselves to every rando pushing their agenda and trying to push our boundaries. We don't want to come across as rude, to every inconsiderate and ill- mannered "player". Now I know where all my time goes: coddling fragile egos.There should be a time tracking app for that. /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:03 AM
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Situationship. Not a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:34 PM
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But, but he isn't living with his mother at 22...who would take care of him 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:24 PM
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Definitely, a 22 yr old "boy" is dating for the conversation 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:23 PM
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Or ( a wild guess) someone found them out and they are lying through their teeth about those transactions..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:32 AM
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Candles? He just had to make it even worse 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:28 AM
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Exactly 💯.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:25 AM
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Another example :Drake and that awful thing that happened not too Long ago 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:16 PM
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Are we gonna ignore the fact that he literally has a song about wanting to end her and that was in 2018.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:31 AM
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That was very informative. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:10 AM
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What happened to shaving? What happened to a clean face, where you actually see all of his features? Where there are no burns on your face after kissing (🤢) or even worse you have to watch and touch his ungroomed facial (pubic) hair? So he can shave for an interview, but not for a date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:49 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:36 PM
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No, no, just checked and there's an update. Y'all She got him a MacBook Pro and some other things. He humiliates her in front of 200k of his followers and she does this. Noooooo, I just CAN'T anymore. I'm out. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:28 PM
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Jeez 🙄 If this was me, I would propose to make him a special Vday dinner, spit in all the food, leave it on the table for him to find it, pack everything ( and I mean EVERY LITTLE THING) and leave. Never to return. But that's just me. You want to be petty, I'll give you petty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:51 PM
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She's phenomenal. A force of nature. 💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:25 PM
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No. Definitely, hard, 100%, screamed from the rooftops NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:22 PM
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Devastating. This is the first time I hear about this ( I don't doubt it's true at all) and I really need to wrap my head around it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:24 PM
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Thank you ❤️ your last sentence is the exact thing we all need to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:57 PM
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Yep, I see it as "the re-training has started". Maybe OP showed how good she feels about their relationship and he decided to take off the mask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:51 PM
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I mean, i guess if you need a book to tell you to clean your room and wash your ass Damn, I knew something was missing from my library 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:10 PM
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😂😂😂 now that's a sane advice 😸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:42 AM
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But you don't understand, he is actively trying to find a job, sending CVs takes soooo much time. I'm sure, he will be able to somehow pencil a little time off in his busy schedule to whip up a batch of pancake batter between this and the next Pancake day. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:06 AM
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"Relationships are give and take" This kind of propaganda needs to stop. I refuse to believe, that both people in the above example, participate in this relationship from the standpoint of good intentions. What's mostly sad, is that when one person is lacking genuine empathy and care towards their partner, we logically have to assume , that there is no love either. And of course " the giving" should stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:41 AM
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I love the silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:27 AM
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No, no, the dog ate the gift he had prepared.. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:00 AM
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Let me reveal the secret: You never speak with them about anything of importance to you. And to be honest, any person, ANY, that reads on regular basis, no matter what type of literature, develops certain emotional intelligence, that is unobtainable for a person, that plays video games all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:23 AM
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No, not a yoni egg, but a "in the mail yoni egg"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:15 AM
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I pissed my pants a little at "she never makes me feel dumb, which was an issue in my previous relationships". 😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:56 AM
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This is a disguised attempt to push more younger women to persue marriage and children with older men. The "modern Boogeyman" ( and I'm not referring to JP, he's a 🤡) - If you don't partner until your 30s, noone would want you aka you won't be picked. Now, that many women before 30 opt out of marriage/ children and prefer to have career or at least a stable living situation and a stable income first, this is used as a scare tactic. As you correctly mentioned, no man in his right mind, would part…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:40 AM
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Maybe 🤔 love bombing, but on a different level...he introduced her to circles, that were closed for her before, like haute couture designers, first row in Paris. A song, made for her. A Met Gala. Vogue cover. Also their wedding for about $3 millions - lunch at Valentino's chateau in France and a rehearsal dinner in Versailles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 01:37 AM
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Why always when a man says "I'm working on myself", he means having more defined abs (facepalm)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:51 AM
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The short answer is No. The long answer - if you two have met when you were far away, you are losing the best times ( in regards to feelings) at the start, but also valuable time to assess the relationship properly. Even if noone is cheating and both of you take the time and make the effort to get to know each other, there is super slim chance to work anyway. Pretty much all LDRs are sunk cost fallacy type of relationships, in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:43 AM
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If you have to ask more than once ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:35 AM
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The only cleaning equipment I would accept as a gift is a professional cleaning mashine (with cost approx $3000), so I could start a cleaning side business. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:33 AM
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Love as in "I love how you vacuum the house". Or " I would love if you vacuumed the house more often." 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:29 AM
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They already do it, but in a different scenarios: they can't be bothered to drive you to the abortion clinic, they are too bUsY to go to doctor's appointments with you, they are too tIrEd to interact/speak or play with their children...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:41 AM
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The hair thing 😂😂😂. Absolutely delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:46 PM
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Unfortunately this never works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 06:50 AM
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The ending was not what I expected. 😃 Not sure If it's your kind of music, but I have a song for you ...This is how we do it - Montell Jordan Hope your crown 👑 doesn't fall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:06 PM
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I'm sure being inconsiderate is a heavy burden. Thus, him being too tired and all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:17 PM
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A real big spender 😉 And with a personal shopper. Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:58 PM
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This man is a disappoinment from start to finish. I hate it, when they can't even do one thing right...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:50 PM
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What's there to believe? Yeah, it's made up, but most traditions are. They are just a pretext to bring people together. Congrats on leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:46 PM
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I'm sorry you had to experience this type of neglect. I'm sure you deserve the best. Please do something nice for yourself this year. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:40 PM
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Your story reminded me of the meme with the smiling girl in front of a burning house... 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:37 PM
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Bon appetit. Chocolate is the food of gods. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:27 PM
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I really like Valentine's day. More than Christmas, even my birthday. And I'm not even romantic. It's so easy to make someone happy, cherished and loved, but at the same time to make them feel lonely, small and insignificant. I think the reasoning behind the phenomenon you are mentioning is 50% " I don't wanna do it", 45% "you can't make me" and 5% " f*CK you on this particular day of the year", specifically designed to declare your love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:25 PM
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From now on, I fully intend to respond to any "concerned" party, that asks why am I single with 'Ma'am/ Sir, I cannot afford to get one (bf, husband) in that economy. Do you know how many hobbies they have? Don't shame me on my inability to financially support a SAHM(an) ".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:56 AM
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What gifts? He's unemployed. Those are "presents", he bought with her own money. DAMN, it's expensive having a boyfriend these days, ain't it? Support a "gamer's lifestyle", while they have delusions, that they could make money out of this. Support him financially, while he thinks he's an "investment broker". Buy expensive gifts - consoles, shoes and clothing, sporting goods and equipment, vintage or sports cars/ motors. Take those mfs on trips to exotic islands or around the world trips. Pay an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:51 AM
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Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:16 AM
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Exactly why, we should let evolution do its magic. Can't function like an adult - starve. Stop facilitating their lives, ladies. Stop micromanaging grown people. Stop cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, grocery shopping for them. Stop booking doctor's appointments. If they want to live, they will have to learn to manage by themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:15 AM
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They're yet again victim blaming! Implying, that it's her fault, that she had a "party" lifestyle and that she took recreational dr#gs. Taking into account only his testimonials and ignoring evidence. It's nauseating to read again and again the same story. We should never, even for a moment forget, that men are dangerous. Stay off OLD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:05 AM
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That last sentence ⬆️!!! If a person has this kind of lifestyle, it would be expected from you ( as a gf/ wife/ even friend) or anyone around him for that matter, to build your schedule around his non-existent one. To hold the fort, so to speak. Also the entitlement, that you are considered so invaluable and irreplaceable, that you wouldn't be tossed at the unemployment market after the second week AOL. Also resources - this type of travel ( without planning), requires either you have vast amoun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:44 AM
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Recently on Instagram, I saw a semi-ad for a sheet, with what looked like emojis - bread, milk, cheese, etc. It was a grocery list, where you circle the ones you need. So apparently, we are not doing words anymore. Only visual aids. You know, like for toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:54 AM
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With that comment solely, you cemented my decision to be super extra difficult with men. Thank you ☺️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:11 PM
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What 😮"leave the child with them"? A child is not a luggage. Those people are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:27 AM
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The first would be no OLD. Next step - physical training for endurance and martial arts/boxing clases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:52 AM
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"The First Wife Club" will be a mandatory movie, along with every movie, that depicts abusive relationships. We'll combine this with - "Dangerous Intentions", "Sleeping with the Enemy", "Room", "Enough", Maid", "A Vigilante". Also self defense classes for all and a course in forensics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:47 AM
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Beware of people that like "comedy" and say they are looking for a woman that "can take a joke/has a sense of humor".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:18 AM
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Because a man would beat him to a pulp, that's why..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:15 AM
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Right? His response sounds like something he would say to his mother. 🙄 And they expect praises and pats on the head for doing the basics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:09 AM
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This channel has some gems. 💎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:04 AM
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A burned CD? PleaaZee 😂. He could have sent a flash drive at least..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:55 AM
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Wanted to comment on "materialistic and demanding" aspect of gift giving. I am both. I like only the things I like and want only the things I want, when it comes to receiving gifts.I'm super particular. Also I like to live minimalistic and highly prefer not to clutter my place. Be that luxury items, cosmetics, products from specific brands or even tools, equipment or kitchen appliances. Everything else, that I don't like, I give away. I spend small fortunes every year ( and a lot of time) to buy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:51 AM
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I had to check the website ( to see what they're selling) and those cookies are not even pretty, Childish looking, to say the least. I have sent things like these (baskets and arrangements) in the past, but I usually send ones, that are vegan ( a lot of options like that are available) or contain fruits, expensive cheese, pate, wine etc. BUT I've sent them to women friends, colleague, a doctor and a child. Do you see the difference? It is not something you usually send to a love interest, becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:28 AM
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So basically a Hallmark movie? 😊 Just kidding, good for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:48 PM
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I think it's for the farts 😂 why wash your clothes and air your place and ACTUALLY clean something, when you can just spray it 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:26 AM
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She a producer of Malcolm and Marie. One if 14 as per IMDB, but a producer no less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:41 PM
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Someone please link that picture of the room of the alcoholic hoarder from few weeks ago. Definitely more like it. Also Budweiser? Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:19 PM
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I call them weekend dads - their natural habitat is the mall ( pre COVID), because they have no idea how to interact with their own child and need assistance from an animator/ leave them playing laser tag/ going to the cinema ( because they don't have to talk) or buy them the latest toy ( to stick it to their mother about who's the better parent). All fun, no discipline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:58 PM
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😂 anyway.. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:44 PM
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Could someone pin that, because I would hate to see all of those heart breaking stories around Valentine's day. NO, he is not quiet and unresponsive, because he is planning a surprise for you. NO, he is not too busy with his work, trying to get ahead, so he could spend the day with you. NO, you are not too hard on him, if you are in a relationship, he should know what you like. He is not a clueless bufoon, he just doesn't care. If he doesn't want to be with you on this or any other holiday, he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:31 PM
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Don't want to offend anyone BUT having a carpet, some decorations and a sofa is gay? I think you incidentally encountered the truth behind why they all don't own a headboard or an actual bed. They don't want to be perceived as gay. 🙄 And not to be a spam - in the past I had a casual acquaintance, that was super eager to start buying furniture for his children bedroom no less. Let me say that again - a man with no girlfriend or wife, no relationship whatsoever, beside casual sex, with no child on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:08 PM
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I suppose not PAY pay, but at least use your discounts for whatever and your connections in the industy.That boy is a clever one! When he wants a new car, would he be dating a car saleswoman next?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:56 PM
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We damn well know, that it's all about THEIR money (alimony/child support), THEIR legacy and THEIR needs, not being met. But God forbid HIS child has its own needs, needs money ( news alert : they don't grow on trees) or even a stable father figure... And a single mom buying a luxury item just proves (only in his empty head), that the mom was a wh*re, sleeping with other men for money or a GoLdDiGgEr for let me underline this CHILD support. Ridiculous. People like this never really wanted a fami…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:18 PM
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You are mentioning that "Single mother is used as an insult", but more and more I start to think, that is a threat. Because women have to be threaten to stay where they are and"know their place". Be pushed into a corner and act from a place of fear. We all have heard those: how no one would want them, they would fail to provide for their children by themselves, how their husbands have left them ( used them and tossed them, replaced them for a younger model, have low value as women to begin with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:26 PM
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A heart? What heart? I think you spelled pen*s wrong. Do they have one when they string us along for tenths of years, benefiting from free domestic labour and 50/50 rent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:38 AM
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The thing with "settling" is that you ALWAYS lose. And I don't mean losing one scrote or the other. In most cases they're interchangeable. I mean losing yourself. If you settle for someone with poor hygiene and no domestic habits, your life becomes a smelly pile of trash, contaminating every room with their touch. It's either that or overtaking the role of a full time cleaner. If you settle for a person with no goals, who prefers pissing his life away with video games, you doom yourself from the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:20 AM
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What "generosity"? He obviously even can't buy himself a proper shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:22 AM
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I feel sorry for the mother. I know, I know, but I can't help it being sympathetic towards her. Not all MILs are guilty for raising sons that are lazy, with addictions or with sociopathic tendencies, nor the personal example and the efforts they've put always raises stellar people. We have to stop blaming nurture (and especially the mothers) for every failure or bad turn in their sons lifes. Especially in this story. Both his mother and his girlfriend had him around for about 20 yrs, but what go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:15 AM
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I really hope they divorce. And soon. Have been thinking this during reading WHoLe three pages of him trying to justify why AnAl and bLoWjoBs are owned to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:54 PM
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I'm sure the mother is there to help, because he isn't lifting a finger. Probably afraid to leave, that poor woman alone, or the wife herself asked her mother to stay and help. Also -50% unemployed means 50% employed too, but he hates to state that and is changing the narrative.I firmly believe, that if a babysitter is hired, he will hate that too, because it's expected, that his wife takes care of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:51 PM
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Probably accused her of "flirting" with their boyfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:28 AM
4

😆 This is hilarious, good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:10 AM
5

"Re-frame, do some introspective work" - what is this crap? I bet he is high on the corporate ladder 🪜. Who even speaks like that? In a private conversation at that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:08 AM
10

And definitely smell better and have nicer skin. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:19 PM
35

I'm super disappointed in her, to be honest. I thought, that after her previous marriage, she learned her lesson with the scrotes and I was waiting for her to take some big acting roles. Not that 🐂 crap. I really don't care about their relationship, about that nonsense, blasting from everywhere. People think it is edgy, I just find it dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:58 PM
132

The moment I pick a vacuum cleaner for a man, I literally know, that this will be the last time I see him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:53 PM
32

Some guys buy muscle cars, some buy super yachts, some buy rockets as an extension to their phalluses. Just think what's his size, to need an extension that big.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:31 AM
150

Aren't we forgetting someone on that list, a certain someone, that is bald and so rich, that he recently funded his flight in space, instead of eliminating world hunger? On a side note, I recommend re-reading Germinal by Emile Zola. History usually repeats itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:58 AM
104

Well I find it funny though, he probably could barely walk now, but even at that age, he is presented in the article like some love guru, a don Juan, if you will. At that age he has a flock of "girls", not women, girls. Also a bummer, she probably thinks he's a catch, after all she gave up her career...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:35 PM
247

I bet this is an age gap relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:03 PM
7

I think some of the ones designed for children have softer bristles, also they're less expensive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:58 AM
44

Well, I use both a regular one and an electric one, but in my opinion is pretty good for stains and also massages the gums ( that makes the blood circulation in the area better), which helps if you have gingivitis (periodontitis). It takes some time to unlearn the way you brush with a regular one, while you use the electric toothbrush. I've tried few models, but finally got one that has a timer and OFC if you have sensitive teeth, ask your dentist first. Edit: I bring a regular one when I travel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:43 AM
5

Definitely the supplements part - only in the past year I suggested to three separate male individuals in their 30s, that it's time to start taking some. Unbalanced diet/fast food, lack of fresh air, water and natural light can wreck you inside and outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:05 AM
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I assume their student debt is different too. Doctors spend more years in training and probably start actually making real money at a later date. From what I hear - career in radiography is the new trend, that pays a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 10:38 AM
130

Younger men now have skin routines and still have their own hair and teeth, because they've stopped using 7 in 1 shampoo and started using an electric toothbrush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 10:27 AM
14

I am sure, that if he spends the money in therapy would be better investment, but what do I know anyway..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:20 PM
8

Oh, you are good!!! Saving for reference in the future. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:01 AM
43

OLD is like fast food. Unhealthy and unfulfilling. Have you ever wondered why so many men refer to those apps as " free sex"? I'm sure you hear successful stories too - a friend of a friend got married to his tinder match. But the truth is, all men there (ALL), choose this way as a shortcut, to get "something" fast, to "order" an ego boost and hopefully some sex, they can't get outside in the real world. Do you really want to have a relationship with a man, that prefers to have it on easy mode, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:53 AM
92

Read the first sentence like "if you're asking for the teenagers' perspective on your relationship" and I thought to myself "yep, sounds like Reddit"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:20 PM
189

I've always wondered... How can you find your soulmate if you don't have a soul in the first place.. And also, some women might say - oh the poor guy, he was lied and cheated on by his ex and give him the benefit of a doubt 🧐.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:08 AM
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It's such a loaded topic, that in my opinion, doesn't receive enough attention. Basically men, that refuse to make their own appointments or actually have them are lazy and manipulative. It doesn't matter if it's about something physical or related to mental health. They are demanding this service as an act of care towards them, but if the roles were reversed, we all know, they will never do it. An example : you care about someone and they're in your life: 1/ they make you worry non stop, so you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:04 AM
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Hmm, I hate the "gained weight" part. Hypothetically - probably he either body shamed her during the relationship( demanded she weights a certain number) or stressed her all the time and she used to be underweight, but now she is healthy and calm and happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:02 AM
70

Hm, interesting question ❓ Maybe 🤔 they are so greasy, that only a soap, that has been specifically made to remove "all that" is able to make them clean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 09:31 AM
4

That's the dumbest thing ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:42 AM
45

We, as a society, failed our children. Failed to protect them. And yet, we continue to normalize the sexualization of young women and children in any media available, to somehow twist it and push the notion, that the topic is ambiguous. That ogling at a child's body and features is biology. It is not. It is a perversion and those people are predators, that want to hurt in any way possible the most vulnerable. IT IS NOT NORMAL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:37 AM
19

Not only making fun of, but proactively chosing it as a strategy to take advantage of you..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 08:12 PM
50

I think, that we've given them too much benefit of a doubt ( when it comes to their good intentions) and put ourselves in a mess by doing too much in general. Just imagine if we didn't have the opportunity to support ourselves or provide for our families and close ones, would we, as women, date broke and hobosexual men? Would we pay 50/50, organize dates (or even ask them on ones for that matter)? Would we buy expensive gifts, pay for vacations abroad? Would we allow some man to live in our home…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:16 AM
4

Personal favorite. If you want to see a good trashing in a video, I also recommend Zero 7 / Distractions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 04:28 AM
21

I am not sure if you watched the last season of Handmaid's tale. This is what happened, they reversed the script and there was a big outrage (from men) about it. In the series, she acted like that because of trauma, but nevertheless, if they are the ones being humiliated, it's not okay somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:29 AM
25

Or want to be babied and "receive compliments". I would, but there's literally nothing I can compliment them on and my mom taught me not to lie. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:35 AM
23

The funny thing is, that I have a few straight, male acquaintances, in their early and mid 40s, who whine about being disadvantaged in that specific area. They want to have children, but they've never tried to find a partner and work on having a stable relationship with one (and don't intent to in the future). So suddenly now, they've decided, that they want to have "a baby" all by themselves. And here comes the amusing part: They think having a relationship is " too much work", but in my countr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:17 AM
22

And another quote from her :"boys only want love if it's torture". 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:58 AM
26

You know, that even if, hypothetically, they could carry a baby, they would outsource it somehow..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:55 AM
48

Exactly what I've been thinking lately - in this day and age, if a middle aged man can't find a partner, it's either because he doesn't want to ( his own choice to f around) or he's so damaged, noone wants him. There are so many nice ( and beautiful😍) women, having all the prerequisites for a relationship ( both emotionally and financially), expecting little to nothing and yet, men whine they can't "find" their match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:28 AM
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As the saying goes - if you play in the pig sty, you'll get dirty. The people, that you surround yourself with, represent you. If they are unkempt, they smell or are just generally lazy with their appearance, this is the assumption for you as well. You might be nice, funny and smart , but all people will see is that your boyfriend is picking his nose with his dirty fingers and you tolerate that $hit in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:23 AM
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He is going to regular check ups and has his teeth done.WOW. Such a good boy. Have a snack. And a side note: Can you even imagine that almost ALL men in their 30s and 40s are not aware of their fertility status even if they have plans for a family in their future.?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:41 AM
33

They are fighting over him and each one of them says -" You take him, I don't want him." ; " No, you're take him, I don't want him either." 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:52 PM
9

Exactly, if it was a Venn diagram, the overlapping will be the moment, when " the boys " start to feel secure in their relationship ( be that marriage or else), but also start forgetting their obligations or embrace participation in the social experiment called "strategic incompetence"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:33 PM
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Oh my, oh my, a "visitor". No woman would miss the opportunity of having meaningless $ex with someone, she doesn't know or care about, that could also be potentially dangerous or be ridden with STDs. And ofc no orgasms either. What are we, I dare to ask? Men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:46 PM
86

Let's put the countdown timer - someone save his username and check if in 6 months from now, they are still together. Maybe she hates him and have found someone else. probably she wants to get rid of him, while he is distracted, playing like a child in his basement. Or maybe he is bothering her, not allowing her to live her grown up life( working, studying, travelling, etc.), that's why she pushes him the "pacifier. Those women, I can't even. There are faster ( and cheaper!) ways to be dumped or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:09 PM
23

I love how you've made a plan and sticked to it. Made a list with the reasons to leave and checked it during hard times.How you handled getting a better pay, finding a house, moving out, gray rocking and making him leave you. You seem so strong and determined. In someone's eyes some of the steps you took may seem strange, but in such situations, when the abuse lasted so many years, we do what we need to do in the ways we see possible. And yes, your mental health and peace are the most important.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:09 PM
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Ofc he should choose and pay for the gift. As it's listed - you are just his +1. If both of you should go to a certain wedding location and the organization requires, that you sleep there, he should pay for that too, along with the transportation costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:39 AM
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If you don't feel great in his presence and he inadvertently makes you act in a certain way, that you don't feel comfortable with or pushes you with his behavior to act "bossy" with him, play his "mommy" and you don't like it - just drop him. Being nice is just one aspect of a character. You don't need a reason to continue. If you're just not feeling it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:34 AM
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😆😆 and it suddenly turns out that actually all of her jewelry is not silver, but 95% platinum, because of her allergies and the rashes she gets from silver and gold. Someone give that man a 🥇 for participation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:03 AM
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They buy such trinkets, because they can. Because we allow them to. Because they have pushed three standards upon us about gift giving : Men are bad at gift giving, clueless who wants what. The real explanation is, that they don't care about anyone else's needs and wants. They don't listen and they definitely are not paying attention. The assumption is, that if you are not appreciative of this garbage, you are a gold digger. But as with everything, quality and uniqueness is expensive and it cost…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:22 AM
15

Just look how all of them are dressed in the same style - jeans and a dark loose jacket, dark shoes. Have no haircuts whatsoever too. Those unimaginative, unoriginal, ditiful husbands are the exact same ones that browse p0rn in the toilet until they can't feel their feet no more, while the wife is trying to do 5 things at once. The same ones, that appear on any OLD platform, when they are well into their 40s, sulking how their ex-wife was no longer appreciating their "efforts".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:04 AM
12

Ugh, I wonder how you are not appreciating this considerate and sensible person. I bet he was saving to surpise you with a trip to Honolulu. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:47 AM
5

As they say - New year, new me 😉 Congrats 🎉 I am sure 2022 will be the best one so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:34 AM
9

I am against the idea of hiring a personal house cleaner ( not the service per se, when they have profesional mashines, and you pay for the mashine, that is operated by someone ) to do something, that two able grown ups can do together for no more than 3 hrs a week, even if it's a big house. It is all in the time management and the organization of the tasks. First of all, if a partner proposes this, I would really re-consider his future involvement in my life. This means letting a stranger in my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:21 PM
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Do not forget to book in your schedule at least 3 days/evenings of the week just for yourself. Non negotiable days your use to see friends or family, work on something, a hobby, go to the gym or just go to sleep early. I made the mistake to allocate all my weekends for a boyfriend and I don't want that anymore. It's cute at the start of the relationship, but the hype wears off fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:13 AM
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Because the opinions and the feelings of the wife/gf don't matter. Until it's kept private, they can do whatever the f#ck they want to, challenging you, trying to see when the "sink" will overflow from the garbage they've left there. Unless they are exposed. To a lawyer, to their family, a third party, that will validate what's happening behind closed doors and can impose some kind of consequences. Like divorce, taking away their assets and/or the comfort, living with a woman brings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:24 AM
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Yep, I unsubscribed from some for that exact reason. I downvote as well. I don't care, learn to draw something else besides t1ties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:09 AM
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This! Unfortunately the latest trend in p0rn seems to be having an "amateur" porn channel with your girlfriend/boyfriend. I just can't imagine the mental gymnastics to convince someone( or yourself), that they should expose themselves during private sexual acts on the internet for "love"( and money). Now, it is not just reenactment of their fantasies privately, but degrading women publicly (with or without showing not their faces) by uploading $exual content for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:06 AM
9

Painting materials like canvas and oil paint 🎨.Put frames on some art pieces I already have. I'm going to buy appropriate lighting for the paintings as well and will set up a small gallery at home. Treating myself with a vacation abroad too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:17 AM
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Absolute piece of 🗑️. At least the children are small and won't have him as an example. And we all know very well, that SHE will be the one explaining the reason for the divorce, taking care of their emotional needs after the fact. Not him. God forbid he takes responsibility for his actions (or inactions in this case) and is of any help to someone besides himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:06 AM
13

Check the term operant conditioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:13 AM
68

My opinion is that any man that leaves his children after a divorce ( sometimes even before they were born) should be shamed to a ridiculously high level from friends, employers and family members. No free pass whatsoever. No understanding, not giving them a benefit of a doubt, lending an ear. We as a society should kick them to the curb - turning them into pariahs, persona non grata at any workplace, social circle or family. You don't pay sufficient amount of child support -shamed. You see your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:54 AM
139

Yeah, he already hates her and it shows. He hates, that now that she is pregnant, he is not the priority. A$$hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:27 AM
68

Continuous vetting throughout the relationship! The initial effort is slowly replaced by "can't be bothered". And ofc the poor woman tries to "win" him back and get that same level of attention and intimacy she received in the beginning, by giving him the benefit of a doubt and putting even more. It's a trap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:48 AM
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For me those men are pimps. I've seen it in homosexual relationships as well. Pimping your "partner" to gain access to other ( more attractive/young) people. The one that wants to indulge in open relationships uses their "partners" as decoy, to pose as "socially acceptable" and try to normalize their abhorrent behavior in the eyes of their future victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:29 AM
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That's one fine example 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:22 AM
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I loved spending time in exactly 1 (one) apartment, owned by an ex. Surprise, surprise, it was decorated by his mom. She thought of every detail and just used his card. And he wasn't even ashamed by the fact. A grown a$$ man. It isn't even a money issue. They just can't be bothered. I know number of guys that own property, but don't own basic necessities like decent towels and cutlery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:42 AM
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Oh, I know what happens around the holidays ( pestering for attention and validation), so I started early with the blocking this year - mid November. I want my peace.I am not letting anyone ruin yet another Christmas for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:12 AM
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When a person reads in general and sees a stacked library, would look at the titles, give opinion, if they've read some of them/make suggestions for something in the similar genre or would just state their preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:56 AM
21

Well, you know the old saying "I can lose weight and start lasering, but you'll be the same old scrote tomorrow when you wake up". Where are we, the f*cking kindergarten?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:46 AM
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"Wow, you have a lot of books. Have you read them all?" - It is a real vetting strategy. Only the ones, that never read, comment on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:25 AM
7

Glad you decided to do what's best for you. Once a change occurs on the inside, every aspect of your life changes on the outside too. You are a ⭐.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:03 AM
3

Didn't he date Ana de Armas for some time? And about him dating JLo again- I really think she's doing it for the PR after her last engagement.Now that the narrative has changed and he's no longer a beloved A list celebrity, she will drop him like a hot potato.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 12:05 AM
12

Your last sentence reminds me about the the plot of Malcolm and Marie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:10 PM
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Those perverts!!! Who in his right mind would do that on a busy street?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:53 AM
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Needed the reminder today. Thanks 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 11:54 AM
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You can bet she agreed to have sex with him, only because they are boyfriend/girlfriend. And probably, that is why he despises her. On one hand he is lying and using her for sex under a false pretense and on the other hand, he hates her, thinks she is obnoxious, but he wants to continue using her and the fact that she is "giving" 🤢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:34 AM
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Haha , loved point number 5, because it's absolutely true. The prettiest men I've seen are homosexual. Good for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:53 PM
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As another user here put it in a different post - " actions and sacrifice" are the two main indicators. We should participate in a relationship, only when those have been shown. Otherwise we are placing ourselves in a situation, where they love bomb us or are future faking it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:16 PM
23

Wow, I can't even imagine how difficult it was for you. The non stop sleep deprivation, being pregnant on top of that. You are truly one strong woman. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:09 AM
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Right?! Like all those photos of dead fish and muscle cars on social media...Women rarely care about that, so it must be for the male approval. But just imagine - if they are attracted to each other, who will they use for emotional support, who will be the maid at home?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:59 AM
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Oh, oh, they do pretend to "help" around the house for a month or two, even if they know how to and did it in the past, but as soon as a Woman is there to do it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:16 PM
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There's no scarcity of men. LVM are like the sand on any beach.There's however shortage of men, that are not emotionally stunned, are caring and loving, have good morals and stable character. Men, that are not lazy and don't have pornographic inclinations. So the real question is not why you can't get a man, but why would you want one, taking into account, that he is useless and only makes you suffer and struggle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:35 PM
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This queen 👑 💕 Before you spend your hard-earned money on presents for people, that will not be with you next year and haven't done jack sh*t for you this year, think twice and make sure all of your needs are met. Treat yourself to the things you don't need, but want anyway. Well deserved vacation ✅ Beautiful clothes, parfumes and cosmetics ✅ Expensive jewelry ✅ Whatever you need to make your home more comfortable and beautiful, just for yourself - appliances, decorations, candles, fresh flowers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:21 AM
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To be honest, my comment seems selfish. And I hesitated writing it. I know women far more gracious and loving than me. But my experience showed me, that no matter what I do or how much I give, there would never be a favourable outcome for me.The reality is, that I loved the kid, loved the man, did what I could, but bare in mind, that I never ( even at the start) had any bad notions about the mother of the child, nor I wanted to overstep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:33 AM
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Let's not forget, that they might love you or respect you (which is not always the case), but sure as hell will always love their own mother more, even if she has real issues like being an alcoholic or an addict. So at middle age you deal with their resentment towards the one that broke their family (in their heads) and at old age you are just the caretaker of their father in worst case scenario. In the best, well, you are someone, that should figure out on their own who will take care of you if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:02 PM
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I suppose not, but they would definitely milk the situation - just casually celebrating by doing even less in the household, playing more video games and indulging in porn and kinks. And ofc let's not forget asking to receive more compliments and patting on back from women for just existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:24 PM
34

😲 just wow, that's a new level of entitlement and general bullsh*t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:18 PM
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I did it, but personally, with my current experience and being a childless woman myself, I wouldn't do that again. Maybe if I was divorced and had children, I would think otherwise, BUT ( and that's a big one) I wouldn't live with him and wouldn't want to meet his children or him to meet mine. It's the unwritten expectation for the "new" woman to step in the role of a "mother", get all the hate for being the "second wife", with some of the responsibilities, but none of the benefits. To me it alw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 02:02 PM
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Or how a LVM put it once " If you're not going to trust every word I say from the beginning, I don't want to speak with you". I am not the one with the trust issues here, mister, I am the one, that says it like it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 09:00 AM
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Oh,so probably the same is valid for the alcoholic part - pour him drinks, because he will find them somewhere else /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:20 AM
3

Somehow this reminded me of a scenario I have seen time and time again, where the ex wife takes care of her ill/alcoholic/drug addict or suddenly left unemployed husband for the sake of her children.So even after divorce, where he usually has shown nothing, but hatred and disdain, the ex wife should "help" him out? Nah... Believe me, it's much more common than you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:22 AM
6

You just cemented my decision to get a female dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:10 AM
6

Buy gifts only for girlfriends and parents/children. And yourself. That's what I call money well spent ☺️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:00 AM
11

Men, who really don't want to be with anyone, but really, really want YOU to convince them otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:56 AM
11

And ofc fetishes - met "collectors" - they want to sleep with a woman from every race and color (one even was trying to sleep with a woman from every country 🤮) . And obviously brag about this afterwards too. In their porn sick brain, they think , they have unlocked another level on sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:53 AM
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And how they push and push to find a baby momma for their "legacies", but don't you dare not match the beauty/ stable career/ money aside/obedient criteria.And don't even think, being an actual human with a personality and past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:30 AM
43

I hate your ex. Those know it alls don't deserve the slightest compassion. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:38 AM
18

You are saying more beautiful cities, I am saying cleaner ones and with better infrastructure. I have yet to see a woman, that spits on the streets, throws her trash everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 09:38 PM
2

About the ageist part - they out themselves with that. Meaning that, they either have p**ofilic inclinations or they just seem incompetent and unattractive in the eyes of the women their own age and probably prefer younger women, that in general are more naive and easier to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 08:45 AM
1

And vice versa- " I knew from the start that a relationship with a woman in her 30s to 40s is doomed" - Well, why did you even approach me, are you lying to me or to yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 07:57 AM
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Had the neg about the house too. First he was trying to prove to me how valuable he would be during the remodeling, but when he saw I' m pretty serious on doing it all by myself, the neg started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 07:55 AM
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FFS, cooking also means planing ahead, shopping and budgeting. On top of having 2 ( my guess is small) children to handle during the day.Noone is buying food and cooking by casually having 6 extra (grown) people in mind at all times. And the serving part.. don't get me started on that. When she finally gets to have some peace and quiet at the end of the day, her second shift at the "restaurant" starts. Ofc she has to clean afterwards and put the dishes away. That man is living in the 50s and is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:52 AM
8

At my age I am DONE explaining how anyone should treat me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:29 AM
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Men, who have infinite time to chat and call you non stop at different times of the day/ evening. Men, who want you to meet their family too soon (or want to meet yours, under the disguise of doing you/them a household favor - fixing something, driving you there, etc). Men, who give you pet names, even endearing ones in the first month of your "relationship". Men, who encourage you to speak about your job, friends or finances. They have an agenda, be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:06 PM
21

If they use " Trust me" on multiple occasions and multiple times- they are lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:31 PM
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The more I learn about the world, the more I see that no matter who you are and what you've achieved and accomplished as a woman, awful men will try to abuse you, take every ounce of soul you have, take advantage of you emotionally, financially, physically and discard you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:33 AM
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And if you Do hook up with someone you rarely go to a hotel. So the options are - your place, where you jeopardize your safety (he knows your address now, if you live alone, etc.), could be r*ped or robbed too or you go to his place and he could lock you in there, beat you or film you without your knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:21 AM
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Just don't. From experience - they turn out to be creepers, have severe mental issues etc.Just stay away, don't give him a chance or feel sorry for him. Block , delete,stay safe. Also it reeks manipulation from what you've written - "poor ole me, be a good woman and f*ck me, while feeling sorry for me, being inadequate in everything - from kissing to sex, be my teacher/mommy". I think you realize, as someone mentioned above, that there are just no good outcomes for you in all possible cases in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:16 AM
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You pretty much summed up everything. F*CK bad sex, if the sex ain't good, nothing else works in the relationship too. This doesn't mean only sex constitutes as grounds for a good relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 08:43 AM
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Let's discuss size more - the size is important and don't let anyone tell you anything different. You are subscribing to a lifetime of unfulfilling sex.It's also important you orgasm. Either he gives you one or you do it, but it should be a must and non negotiable during intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 09:08 AM
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Right, absolutely disgusting piece of trash. What about his other kid, what about the ex wife's feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:07 PM
20

In my opinion, most important traits you need to see are: self-sacrifice and empathy. And by this, I mean in everything that happens between you two. Examples could be: - Is he proactively taking time to organize trips, dates, get togethers? When he does that, does he expect to be treated like the hero of the day, receive a "prize" from you, bragging to anyone, that would listen of his "achievement", is he sulking/expressing anger or frustration, if something is not going according to plan, blam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:35 AM
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In my country, when a man goes missing, most times, it's because of his own stupidity. I'm sorry for being so harsh, but it's usually someone, that decided to climb/hike alone in the worst weather conditions possible. And of course the media is covering the search for days, first page no less. And when a woman goes missing it's always, always the boyfriend/husband and by the time the police does the arrests, her name is tarnished and dragged through the mud, blamed for her own demise. They are n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:57 AM
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Building me a winter garden and filling it with different /per season/flowers and plants. Same goes for a rose arch. Just because he heard me dreaming of one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:10 PM
3

Oh, I like your way of thinking, you are giving me ideas ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:50 PM
2

I read " you never know the future"line like that : The moment I don't find you attractive anymore/ the moment you don't give me all the sex I want/ agree to the kinks I like/ meet another person I lust over .. I will cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:28 AM
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I have a clue what is this - a David Goggins fan. He has two books called "Can't hurt me" and "Build not born". Describing the books - he proclaims, that by challenging himself with physical tasks all throughout his entire life, he was able to become some kind of superhuman and erase all the pain from his very abusive childhood, the racism he experienced, etc. And yes, military of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 04:24 AM
12

Exactly, we are mirrors for our partners. And what they see in the reflection is the sad losers they really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:38 PM
13

This enlightened me about something- they do that (going to sex workers), right before the wedding, because they think you will shut up about it, given you have much on the line, calling a wedding off, telling all your friends and relatives about it, money matters etc. And even if you have the courage to do so, the society is so messed up, that most likely, even the ones closest to you will gaslight you that "is not that big of a deal, he loves you, he decided to marry you, etc.". I second that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:00 AM
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-"Bombarding" you with texts and calls * I recently made a rule for myself that I am not responding before 9.00am and after 9.00 pm and also muted notifications on some of the instant messaging apps I use unexpected visits to your work place or home, sometimes under the pretences of bringing you flowers or some gift, so you can't kick him out immediately out of politeness( he is sneaking to find out who you interact with too) demanding weekend getaways early on ofc the evergreen " do you want ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:29 AM
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Again with that 'woo is me', I can't stand it, this time coming from a woman.. I call bulbsht! Tell me a single era, when this patriarchal society didn't allow men (and I mean white men with money and power) to do whatever they fck want and get whatever the f*CK they need to proceed with receiving it all , because someone else did the job for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:53 PM
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CSI Las Vegas ( S15E17) a man kidnaps 13 year old girl, as she looks a lot like a girl, that he liked a lot, but rejected him previously. The cops try to explain to him that this is a child, yet he doesn't understand that this is a different person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:39 PM
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Let's not forget the expectations most of them have regarding the woman's elder relatives. All parents grow old, but they expect from the woman to leave her mother and/or father and not care for them in old age. I am referring to the everyday needs they might have, doctor's appointments, or financial support, that could be required.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:19 PM
3

Jackman endorses the new business venture Blake Lively has, so I absolutely doubt they are "arch enemies" with her husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:37 PM
9

I don't hate it, don't find it gross in any way either, but for me it's super boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:29 PM
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Reminds me of an ex. He was so sexually repressed, that was emotionally painful for me participate and watch him struggle Was yours in the army?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:27 PM
25

Absolutely, their actions always tell you the story - he just doesn't care enough to treat you right. Even if this means losing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:15 PM
55

He's a looker, isn't he 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:44 AM
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I like art, so for me galleries and art museums seem like a nice date idea. Also there are those painting/ sculpture workshops (I think they allow only a limited number of people now, during the pandemic). What I mean is, that if you go out with someone, you have to have at least some things in common. Music appreciation, history, art, physical activities, dog shows - whatever you like could be fun with a company too. Also I like the idea of those guided city tours, even if you've lived there fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:13 AM
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I try not to look at it at all, those and the toenails .. disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:10 PM
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😂😂You reminded me of Ciara and Bow Wow, the thing is, that at the time, he was not only shorter than her, but she looked like she was babysitting him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:21 PM
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But, but mommy is not there to remind them to do it and also who will praise them for the good job afterwards/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:34 AM
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Keep her winded and burned out from all the responsibilities and the mental load she bares on her shoulders at all times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:31 AM
5

Very insightful read. Thanks for mentioning it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:24 AM
10

Maybe I call this instinct for survival.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:06 AM
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Why bother explaining myself? Don't see the point anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:43 PM
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Never disclose you have money in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:01 AM
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Backing this up with : they will try to take every legal advantage during a divorce, child support cases, guardianship situations etc. Basically, if you let a snake in your life, a snake, that knows all your weaknesses, you will eventually be bitten. Don't make that mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:18 PM
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Just because he did them while he was single, doesn't mean he will do them, if there is someone else to do them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 04:04 PM
25

This is super important comment and I hope more people read it. Especially young and still naive women in their early 20s, who believe in "love" and "soulmates"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:57 PM
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You are correct, in most countries contribution is proven - in this case the flat sold previously shows her contribution ( only imagine it went via bank transfer), the money her parents gave, could probably be tracked too. This post is more of an example of what the other side thinks - she provides for her family, while he wants to take advantage of what was never his to begin with. Of course the roles could be reversed and the provider could be male. That is why we should never get into arrange…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:48 PM
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This is what happens if you marry in good faith (and have forever in mind, without preparing for the worst case scenario). Just do some basic calculations - men live around 70 yrs, if they change partners every 6 yrs approximately, they would have millions by that age, just because of leeching from vulnerable women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:39 PM
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Oh, so he will be willing to make his own child homeless, because greed. Cool, cool, such an unexpected turn of events/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:26 AM
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Comment on the furnishings, appliances and such : I have bought way too many things in this life to make someone else's houses habitable, so not that long ago I started putting my name on all the documents, warranties and such. Call me petty, but those add up pretty quickly (when you have to start yet again in a new place) and I am not gonna be fooled anymore, making involuntary "presents" to exes. Now I will be taking everything with me, whether he likes it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:24 AM
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What? Empty handed??? The audacity! The house is hers and her parents. Consider the 14 k as rent for those years and child support we damn well know you ain't going to pay in the future and gtfk out. To OP: buy that property, but never let a man live in it. If you find a HVM, rent yours and live with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:06 AM
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I don't like her at all ( like every pick me I've met she is mean to other people in her life), but I was surprised her parents gave an OK to that marriage. Especially because I think he was in and out if rehab at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:54 AM
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"I want an independent woman like you" Translation: I want someone, that will not bother me with everyday things or their struggles , because she can manage her life all by herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:41 AM
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Let me top that with a response from an ex "I am here, ain't I?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:37 AM
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Oh I hate "you are pretty" even more. Beautiful has much more nuance and depth. Also "cute". What am I, a puppy? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:25 AM
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Most "interrogation" types I've met , work or have worked in police departments, if not worse. In my personal experience,this is a tactic to put you in a position, where you try to gain their approval, compete for the position of a "girlfriend" and disclose personal information, you didn't want to share initially. I've noticed that they make you list what you bring to the "table" in a more subtle way, but we all absolutely should choose not to engage, whenever we catch ourselves doing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:13 AM
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I bet if this is even real, that those other kids are not even hers. So basically she's supporting a man and his other children. And "he decided to stay home with me" 😯??? , he got envious she's working from home I suppose..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 01:24 AM
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Amazing.Thank you for sharing such a personal experience so eloquently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:18 PM
9

Good job! Enjoy your trip 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:19 PM
7

Superior in audacity, entitlement and arrogance is what they are ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:46 AM
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I am not good good by any means at baking, but learned a few recipes I liked, that turn out pretty great most times. One of these recipes is about bread. So now apparently, after I've mentioned this to a scrote, we will be having a bakery (future faking) in some remote village in the mountains and I will bake, while he delivers the bread. Excuse me, but first of all, I know how, which doesn't mean I like cooking in general, especially not enough to do it on professional level, starting every day…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:41 AM
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Speed dating in my country is a scam. As stated above, separated by age groups, all men were at the upper end. They were either extremely socially awkward - not able to speak about any of their favorite topics or hobbies , trying to make you support some side venture they have, divorced (AS IF) or just plain ugly. Let me also mention, that the women were all beautiful and/ or accomplished in some area (spoke with some of them before the event). So once again you are paying money to do all the wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:18 AM
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I used to watch them, but at some point it got unbearable. Basically, she is doing all the work.I used to think she was awesome , because of the strength she has, to build such a business ( tv, books etc.)and also raise children. But he always appeared too relaxed, too childish and useless in general. Like Matthew McConaughey, but with a different face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:02 AM
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Another translation: I can't be bothered, so you should try even harder... Oh the times we live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:29 AM
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I am not a free sex educator. I am not gonna waste even a minute to teach a grown man about women's anatomy, be that sexual safety, our reproductive organs, menstrual cycles, clitoris or g spot. Especially in bed, when we are naked. My body is not a learning ground for adult men I am not showing, telling, explaining or faking anything.Sex should be relaxing, passionate, fun and bringing pleasure to me, as much as it's for him. Period. If he doesn't know what he is doing, kick him out or get out.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:25 AM
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When I placate myself, that all is good in my little safe bubble, I come hear to remind myself, what reality actually looks like for women. And that I need to stay vigilant at all times, always with one eye open on the next scrotery that may become a trend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:54 AM
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There were multiple periods in human history, all around the globe, where not many people owned their houses. Some were farmers and all the land they worked on and the houses they've lived in was owned by one person. Some were servants or teachers, or tutors and lived in their employer's houses. Even now many rent their whole life. Housing has never been the problem. If a couple wants to have a family or to procreate they want security, but in most cases they are building their future together a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:37 AM
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😂😂😂 love you, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:57 PM
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😂 well, if those ain't the modern Shakespeare plays..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:48 PM
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Sorry to point this out, but some ladies never learned to enjoy their own company and at a certain point, when they are without a partner, they try to treat their "friends" like one. What I mean by that is: they become controlling of your time and efforts, as if you own them something else, rather than just basic courtesy. I see this especially now, when most middle aged people are "coupled". I have one particular friend, that just last month expected from me to take a pto for couple of days, pi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:15 AM
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I only consider being in a relationship, if I am clearly asked (with actual words) being in one and I agree explicitly, stating I want to be long-term ,with that specific person. Until then, I consider myself single and I do as I please, this includes flirting, dating other men from the rotation, not sharing future plans, giving personal information like phone/address.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:24 AM
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He wants all the fun and no responsibility. fwb, encouraging you to date other people, he just wants to use you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:31 AM
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An absolute 🐷, that's who. No offense to them 🐖 s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:28 AM
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Right. And a picture of her too. Absolutely disgusting putting someone's face on a billboard without their consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:23 AM
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Yay, good for her (facepalm). Now, go convince him to marry you, have children with you and along the way convince him to pick up after himself, clean his room, help with small chores,, etc. You know, all the things mommies do for their teenage sons...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:54 AM
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In this day and age it's rare to have all your information hidden. Never forget it goes both ways - make sure you use google number/disposable whatever for your dates, do not disclose address, work place etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 05:50 AM
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You are right, but let's not forget , that a man who never went to college, might not understand all the work you put in your Master's degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:50 PM
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I really hope more women go into home and auto repairs.I would always prefer to hire a woman instead of a man to come into my home or fix my car. Men usually try hitting on you and it gets awkward on top of messing up the power dynamic, because you pay them, they are not doing you a favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:42 PM
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And even if she stays and they have children together- will he stop them from getting any kind of vaccines too? He is putting her life at risk and she is allowing him, because she is too old at 30? Pleeeeasee..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:19 PM
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Dear reddit, please tell her that I shouldn't be paying, so I can prove her, she's a gOlDdiGGer ( as per the internet).If you don't want to pay for dates, just don't go on dates. Don't waste her time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:24 AM
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You see, the problem here is not that they don't actually care, because they Do care. It's the entitlement. Like, we lay out a clear step by step program, what they should do to be desirable, but NOW it's too much.. and on top of doing all that performative femininity/ plastic surgeries/starving ourselves with diets and spending billions of dollars in the fashion industry, WE have to accept to "like" and be attracted to some neckbeards, that never learned to properly wash their b#tts... I think …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:22 PM
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Absolutely agree with you on this one - it's usually bad/ super crooked teeth, bad breath, rashes and acne skin, overweight, to a point where it's super unhealthy. Also dirty skin, ungroomed face and hair, smell, super worn out clothes, dirty at that. When you spend 20 hrs a week to groom yourself at minimum ( not even counting the money for gym, cosmetics and clothes here), you don't want to go to bed with a smelly and dirty rat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:13 PM
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Cool, cool, waste another 6 years for that piece of sh#t. ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:06 PM
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😂 she is absurd, hugging those shorts, in which he farted his life away..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:19 AM
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You know the old joke where a man starts the dishwasher just when the wife/girlfriend is coming through the door. And the moral they take from it - if she is not seeing me cleaning, that never happened. So they clean for praise or as you correctly stated, just making a performance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:16 AM
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Vacation for a few days/week, solo trip to the seaside,high end hotel accomodations, eating out every night there in a new and different restaurant. Buying some new clothes outside of my comfort zone, hopping in a new dress, doing my makeup and just enjoying the food. A couple of sunrises on the beach with a cup of coffee, reading all day and just generally relaxing, not responding to calls and messages. If I am feeling adventurous - a camping trip, paragliding, kayaking, horse back riding, sail…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:24 AM
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If a man asks.you if you speak the country's language or English, never respond. Make the shoulder gesture of I don't understand and walk away ot look away from them from the beginning of the interaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:05 PM
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Good job. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:05 PM
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😲 wow, thank you, that is so insightful. I never really thought about it that way. Will try asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:56 AM
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Let me put that quote here " Because I am female I am expected to aspire to marriage I am expected to make my life choices Always keeping in mind that Marriage is the most important Now marriage can be a source of Joy and love and mutual support But why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage And we don't teach boys the same?" Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:03 PM
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You see, there is a difference. If a woman is homeless, she knows, that she could chat up men for roof over her head. They might take her in, but in 99% of the time she will be r*ped, beaten and abused. However if a man secures a place to stay that way, it's usually because of the kindness of a woman's heart. Or because she doesn't know any better and has her own traumas to work on. What a woman could hipotetically do to a man in this situation? She would probably feed him, listen to him, suppor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:48 PM
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If I had a house with a barn and pigs/cattle, I could take one or two, so I could make them work and feed the animals in return for housing, otherwise why do I need a "man to help around the house", when there are perfectly good robots, that clean, swipe and mop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:51 PM
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You are a real savage 😂 you know you ain't going back to a man after you tell him that he sucks in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:44 PM
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The thing is, that once again, they expect us to act like grown ups or just be polite enough (conditioned by society), not to make a giant bonfire in the backyard for viewing pleasure of neighbors, friends and family 😂. Like some personal 4th of July. On a more serious note, I prefer couriers, as I don't want to risk being accused of stealing or damaging personal property. Detail everything you send or put in storage with the courier/ pickup/storage company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:32 PM
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"work things through" as in "she does what I say/ she's mine to do whatever I please with (now that she totally relies on me for her and her children's survival...")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:26 PM
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I am not sure how you show this and explain it to your children and grandchildren. Something along the lines of "I loved him, but he loved gaming more. Nevertheless, I thought he will change after I show home how much I love him, but you know him, son/grandson, he can't be bothered to get up from his gaming chair to play with you (or wipe his @$$)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:21 PM
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Thank you, this is the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:29 PM
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I understand and respect your point of view. You are correct. Having children is elitist nowadays and it's a luxury. Especially if you strive to educate them. Being a SAHM for me is not an option, but for entirely different reasons. Like the one, that I could never trust a man to support me financially, but everyone has their own battles to fight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:17 PM
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Like I don't get it, is he the virgin and if so, what does he even know about relationships, let alone the pubic hair of the opposite sex? 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:04 PM
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Let's not forget the situation, where you kick him out of your place, but he purposely left stuff to stay there (like a f#cking free storage space), so he can "discuss", over the phone or chat, the pickup for months, along with other sh*t, in attempt to lure you back. He is not allowing you to continue, jamming your space with his garbage. Call a delivery guy and send him all the boxes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:57 PM
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I was just explaining this and won't stop until I get foam on my month. There is a reason why most countries and governments made laws to protect financially the young mothers.The money it's not only for the baby, but for the mother too. And they are not nearly enough. The pregnancy risks are far too high and the birth of a new child, could cause enormous disbalance in any family, opening the door for emotional, physical and financial abuse, when the mother is at her weakest, during her most vul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:42 PM
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It's hilarious to be called a golddigger, if you want to have a meal on the table and the bills paid for your family.And for only a few years too. And let's be honest, we are talking about what? Some couple of hundreds, a thousand, two thousand at most? I have yet to see a wife, dressed in Channel from top to bottom, with her new 1500$ shoes in her new Mercedes Benz and her husband whining about her, being a SAHM. It's always the poor ones, also the ones that expect you to earn money, do all the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:31 PM
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..Also she "upgraded" him alright, kept her part of the deal,but what he did for her? Cheated on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:59 AM
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I am far from feeling sorry for some billionaires. My point was, that she is now parading him to the world, like some dog, a special breed no less, that has been neutered, making couples albums and wearing matching outfits. I think she is in it for the revenge 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:14 AM
21

Omg, the clowns are working overtime. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:35 AM
11

Drinking and driving is a mayor red flag for me. Even for friends or acquaintances. I don't want to have anything to do with people, that are future killers. It also means to me, that they can't abstain from drinking, even for one night and for me it's a clear sign, that they have a dormant alcohol addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:34 AM
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If there is anything that I've learned from hiking it's that, I should never count on anyone to have what I might need in their backpack. Be that a medicine/bandage, a knife, water, food, charger or even spare socks. My point here is, you should prepare and should prepare well, thinking two or more steps ahead and the biggest mistake you could make is trust, that someone will have your safety or comfort as their priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 06:17 AM
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And just forget to have any flaws, have bad days or to be sick. You should be that pretty doll, that everyone wants, all the time, whether you like it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:45 AM
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Hear me out, she had that song called "Why don't you love me", long before any cheating rumors.There she lists all that she brings to the relationship. We all know, that if you have to say it out loud, things are going down the drain, because who you are and what you do are going unnoticed and someone is not paying attention.Same with the lyrics from "Love on top", where she begs him to finally put their love, before his other priorities. Also lately, in most of their pictures, including the mag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:13 AM
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In my country men can legally take paternity leave for a certain amount of time. A couple in my circle did that, on top of some of the maternity leave she had. BUT the man in that relationship wanted it, because he hates his job and on top of that, the woman earned twice or more his monthly salary, before she got pregnant. So basically, he viewed that leave as a time off work. Not as a time with the child, where he can be useful to his family, but going on fishing trips and smoking pot half the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:42 AM
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Let's not forget the ones that do "have" female friends usually use them for emotional support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:28 AM
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Make sure to train it and also have in mind that most dogs usually keep wild animals away from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 11:00 PM
37

Didn't you get the memo- logic is transferred through sex /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:58 AM
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👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:34 PM
8

Go check the sub for parents that have no partner. It's ugly there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 03:52 PM
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It's extremely toxic to think, that just because YOU are willing to sacrifice and compromise in a relationship, the other person will do that too, just because HE loves you. This is not how most people/men/ are raised. This is like a never ending race, where you try to gain enough love/make him love you enough, so that he has your best interest at heart. It's the ride or die/ the unconditional love mindset and will always get you into trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:21 AM
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Definitely earn more. And also he should be always looking at other opportunities like passive incomes, side business, second job or studying for certificates, upgrading education etc. It is not even about money. It's about security and a state of mind.It's important to be curious, flexible and hardworking. I measure them with the same standard I measure myself. And don't tell me they can't find the time for a relationship, they always do for the things that matter to them. It's just that usuall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:53 AM
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Check out the self defence sub.I think the topic about legality was raised at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:35 PM
12

This! If it was rare to have serious health complications why a certain company decided to pay 1.6 billion in 2020, this equals to 39000 claims only in US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:04 AM
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Absolutely, like "hello, don't you know I can pack in 10 minutes and block you on the way out?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:48 AM
10

Love Colors, found so many great artists from there. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:21 AM
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Definitely, I always assume they masturbate later on the interaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:43 AM
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Teaser is what you need or a pepper spray, or actually both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:42 AM
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Love your comment. And even in the rare cases, when their advises are well intended, all we should do is listen to our intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:38 AM
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Just think about that -in case something happens to you, (you get terminally ill or you die) the"male friend"would be the next in line to raise your child and no contract can change that, unless is mandated by court, as opposed to the IV option, where you can select the person/people that will raise your child in this occasion. This means their future will be in the hands of someone they probably don't know. Also all the assets you have, that your child will eventually inherit from you, would go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:06 AM
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The moment you have to find/ look for excuses for his "actions", is the moment you should drop him. He obviously knows how to do better. He just doesn't want to anymore. Stop gaslighting yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 03:27 AM
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Right, he is not even looking at her. "I can MAKE this work". 😂 Probably not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:46 AM
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Reminds me of the 18 pages long letter Rachel from Friends wrote to Ross, explaining him, how he hurt her, while he couldn't be even bothered to read it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:39 AM
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My take on this is, that he is also using her to polish his image on top of all the rehab drama, now being a new father /boyfriend. And that Olivia will stay with him long after the addiction shows up again ( and it probably will sooner rather than later), because now she already paraded him to the world ( because she got picked, yay for her 🤢)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:45 AM
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Haha, I've seen the exact same wording. Well, the guy was tall alright. But oh boy, was he shallow..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:19 AM
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Spend all their time in forests, lakes and mountains and yet every time I join an organized hike to an unfamiliar route, the group consists of 90% women. And yes, the other 10% are clearly there because their girlfriends or wives drag them along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:16 AM
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You reminded me of an ex that posted the "tiger" pic everywhere ( yep, even on his secret OLD profile). It is disgusting. It's not making them seem interesting, just proving that they are awful people and animal abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:09 AM
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I don't know about the usual, but it deeply bothers me when anyone ( a man or a woman) posts a child on OLD. Even if it's theirs. Children's faces have no place there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:53 AM
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When people spoke behind my back and informed him maliciously in order to hurt me even more on something that happened and he didn't try to defend me. He also tried to shame me too and make me feel even smaller, when he told me about the conversation afterwards. That moment I knew he can't be trusted and he was not my closest person in the world, but an enemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:30 PM
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Let the triangulation begins now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:08 AM
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Ok, so basically she can't get a second job or have a side business, because she needs to do unpaid labor in her free time , but also no money from his overtime is coming in her pocket. Thanks, but no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:55 PM
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Had one of those when I tried speed dating. Some kind of a public speaker/ motivator or similar. Definitely sleazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:14 AM
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I suspect that this is because most of these women witnessed the opposite in their families at young age (mothers being chained to the fathers income) and now want careers and money for themselves. However being women they fall in the trap to be empathetic towards the weak ones ( LVM), but also were conditioned to be of service to their man/family at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:05 AM
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Would you mind sharing how you explain boundaries to them. I know it is a broad topic, but how do you describe it to children aged from 4 to 6, do you give specific examples?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:00 AM
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Witnessed that as well. Mom, bringing the CV and trying to get an interview for her baby boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 08:54 AM
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Most of them are emotionally undeveloped (due to their lack of interactions with real people in real life and during real situations) in their developing years. Also are babied by the companies they work for, throwing them money and children's games, so they always stay working in the office non stop.Usually porn addicts, videogame addicts or just basic mama's boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 01:12 PM
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And yet we do our jobs, take care of ourselves and our families during the pain every month, make important decisions and continue business as usual during that time.But yeah, " the hormones" ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:46 AM
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I like to take it slow. I want to get to know you holistically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:36 AM
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Also I would like to add - if you are dreading inside to ask questions about the status of the relationship or his feelings, your intuition is telling you that "this ain't It". We choose them, they don't get to decide whether they choose us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:34 AM
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Because of the audacity and because they are cowards and/or users. Let's call it what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:29 AM
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Couldn't agree more on the first and also the second point. The pick mes they are, they think that their own personal sofafarter is a big catch for us, with his weak angels, salivating over every single woman that is within 200 meters radius. Like it's what I always wanted for myself - affair with someone's husband. About whom you've been informed firsthand from the wife, that he never does any housework, never takes care of his own children, is stingy with money and to top all that- he has a be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:20 AM
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This reminds me of a guy, that claimed he loved me and said since day one, that we will be working towards building a family together , yet at some point he got scared and it took him 2( TWO) additional months to grace me with the " revelation", that he is just not ready for children and doesn't wont them at this point in life. Future faking big time. And yes, I cringe a lot when I remember about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:03 AM
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The stress here should be on "people". People as in men, not women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:53 AM
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At least he is not an the streets, am I right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:16 PM
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Nice voice 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:50 AM
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I am appalled to see how many men lately have that mindset. They purposely look for woman with money, high social status, family and/or work connections.Which to a point I understand, however even when they get one, they continue to have extramarital affairs and try to smash any confidence that woman has. Basically they don't date, they interview you for a job and try to calculate your earning potential. Prenup is a must, at least could minimize the financial damages to a point, unfortunately ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:21 AM
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Is he a new species from Star Trek? Maybe on his planet, he is considered handsome.. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:26 PM
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But WHY? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:13 PM
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I think I'm a thoughtful girlfriend when I say " I respect your needs for space to work on your things and will do exactly that. Give you back all the time and space I've taken so far, but for good. " If they aren't there for everything, if they aren't letting me in too, it's not gonna work.Why would I want to waste my time, surrounding myself with temporary and good weather people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:32 AM
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Or my personal favorite "I am here now, ain't I? Trying to fix the mistakes I've made in the past." Nope, nope, nope. I prefer you not making them in the first place actually, so leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:24 AM
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Yes, unfortunately as someone said around here recently, we all want that person that will be there for us, when we need them. And we invest our hopes, that they will do the right thing when the time comes. The very reason, we invest in people our time and emotions. However, the only way to have actual proof, that they have our backs in time of need, is when we are struggling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:21 AM
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You are very strong. And a better person, than I would ever be in that situation. Towards him, towards his friends and towards that girl. I acknowledge and have seen firsthand all those forgive and forget expectations, that society has on us, but it's just not sitting right with me. It's not logical, it's not just. Actions have consequences. Why should we move on silently? We should be angry and furious and revengeful. For me, it's part of the coping process and not brushing the trauma under the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:45 AM
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Thank you for this post. Really needed to see that today, as a reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:27 AM
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I don't ask. Sorry, I know it's not recommended, but I really don't ask. There are so many tales and signs you can see even when they just speak, sit, what topics they discuss and what not. I treat them like everything they say is a lie, so why bother asking and be lied to. Also it sweats them additionally, because they don't know how to keep the conversation going naturally and they start saying things, they haven't intended to say, filling the silence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:18 AM
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It infuriates me. Really does. For me it's not low effort. It's this cowardice approach to life and love ( or just sex). To have someone else do your job for you and leave you, because they are too scared. To have that safety net of options, just in case, If you want to have sex with them, at some point in time. Time wasters. Hate indecisive people. As they say - either shit ot get off the pot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:12 PM
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Well, I wonder if this is actually working. I have yet to meet a woman that will sleep with a guy just because he gave her a tampon or a pad. But maybe I am just too blind to reality.. and there are women, that automatically put him on the Nice guy shelf because of a tampon box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:22 AM
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😂😂😂 "unstoppable rolling of retina" , you know it..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:38 AM
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It deserves to be mentioned, that most of them also harassed the few women that actually worked in the same workplaces as them, treating them like they are either stupid/sexual objects or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:08 AM
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Definitely. I've noticed, that men that have conventional attractiveness are way more secure in themselves and tend to cause way less problems (like the ones you've mentioned) and less drama during the relationship and the break up phase too. Because they know they have options and will only date you if they like you, won't waste their time with someone they don't want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:50 AM
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It's interesting trend lately, that many men want a "relationship", but haven't matured enough to grasp what this entails. I'm not sure if it is related to lockdowns, where many people felt lonely and undesirable, if it's just an age thing, because they see their friends coupled/married or yet again opportunistically they want to waste our time ( what do they have to lose being with someone who has their own money, has her life together).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:12 AM
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Indeed, I see great compatibility. This will resolve it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:27 AM
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The scrotes that crack me up 😂 are the ones that say : "wah,wah, another woman that doesn't know what she wants". B*ttface, deary, I know what I want and you ain't It.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:24 AM
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It is usually to make you compete with them, tangled in some strange correlation with putting you at your place ( you guessed it right - they should always feel superior to you). This tactic corners you in a position, where you try to prove your value to them. Do not engage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:17 AM
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Second that. It's a multifaceted situation- on one hand, he might always connect the tragedy of her illness with you too, as a person present around him at that moment. On other, he might blame you, that you took his time, a time he might have spent being with her and taking care of her. Also, if you are not already in a relationship, you are an outsider to extremely personal experience for him and his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:59 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:12 PM
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Oh, so you' ve met about 75 percent of the " males" using OLD 😂 and yes, the other 24 percent are cheaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 09:01 PM
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I remember when that kid was born and how all the celebrities were praising him on every page. Like wtf, he obviously could have had a child, if he wanted to, tens of years ago. Such a " great dad" . Just NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:15 AM
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Oh I forgot about that one, doing it today to see reaction.Thank you, very helpful, came just at the right time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:07 AM
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BuT, BuT sHe WoN, ShE got PiCkeD../s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:58 AM
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I love that the story unfolds and shows both the beginning and the inevitable end.. it shows step by step what you get in those situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:56 AM
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Good as gold 🪙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:30 PM
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I hate to quote a male comedian, but " men won't go backward sexually". Once you introduce him to the lifestyle of threesomes in your relationship, next thing is swingers parties ( not the dancing kind) with the friendly neighbors or the married colleague and her husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:57 AM
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Oh the horror, those people on solely carnivore diets...I can't even believe, it's considered manly to be afraid of a carrot and some broccoli.The picture that always pops in my head is his mommy ,"making " him eat his veggies and he throws a tantrum..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 03:45 AM
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Yes, but you will postpone until it burst in flames too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:55 PM
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I ain't trying to be a man, this is such a low bar to overcome. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:52 AM
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I think I am currently in a similar position. For me: He should prove to me that he is of value, not the other way around. Be that with consideration of my time, my needs or boundaries. If something doesn't sit right with me - I say it once and expect change. Never overexplain myself, never repeat it. If I have a question, I just ask it. Don't overthink what might be the outcome or how he might react. If I don't receive the same energy, I immediately stop giving it too. No further explanation. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:22 AM
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"Aren't attending college" Who stops them? Who is preventing them to obtain a degree? To do something with their lives? He just wants no competition whatsoever, because he is a pathetic sad scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:05 AM
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I just can't with the double standard ... I am sorry if I am out of place writing this. First :Super inappropriate to say something like that in a professional setting. Even if it was during an evaluation.You are there, because they pay you to do a good job. Therefore, you aim to meet a certain standard and not just half-a$$ your tasks. It is only logical to expect the same type of self motivation and results from your colleagues, when you put so much of yourself in your position. Second: Am I r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:45 AM
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No, no, she can ChANge him... 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:10 AM
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Cool, cool. So now she has three of those, that never listen or pay attention, zombies. I bet she cleaned the house, bath them all, fed them and dressed them before she made the video and now they scream at her every hour " Mommy, only half an hour more" like some f*cked up version of a coucou clock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 01:01 AM
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Along the lines of -if it bothers you, you must have recognized yourself in it..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:47 PM
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Yeah, but does it prove it, really? He could be bi, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:14 PM
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Read it and re-read it and all of these are true. Any signs of vulnerability, showing weakness should be hidden until he shows through his actions that you can trust him. Even after that sleep with one eye open. Says no from time to time- to dates, to favours. Stick to your boundaries. They will be tested with different things -changing plans last minute, changing meeting place, contact becoming more and more rare after the initial interest he has shown. And most importantly-do not leave an open…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:23 AM
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Somehow always when a man complains in a mixed company about that topic, it is a hidden bragging along the lines of "yeah, I am tall/big, but make sure to note I am a nice guy/ I'm sensitive" whatever. An opening line or a conversation starter if you will, so he could be praised by his bros and pickmes about what a decent guy he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 12:15 AM
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Probably is some kind of dumb fantasy thing where other guys will see him with a woman there and also the other women going to that gym will think" Oh, he is not an absolute creep ". Or he wants to check out your body in gym wear and with no makeup. Or he wants to compete in some way. Anyway who wants to have an entire first date sweating 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:43 PM
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Of course, let's push women's opinions in some corner of the internet, where no one can see them or hear them, god forbid, the statements and opinions of thousands of women appear on the front page, to soil the good natured "not all men" auditory of reddit. The audacity of those"females" to have experiences different than his own and articulate their concerns and grievances. Edit : mUh fEeliNgs hUrT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:24 AM
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👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:18 AM
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Or we could finally accept, that they are unable to use their fine motoric and noone should ever hire or give a man, any job, that requires connection between hands and brains. Also I suspect no brain mapping whatsoever, undeveloped peripheral nervous system, underdeveloped brain and spine...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:10 AM
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No, this is too much. I am going to 🤮. It infuriates me too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:49 AM
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Before reading the comments I want to say that THIS is the real advice, that should be given to any girl or a woman when she starts dating at any stage of her life. This should be in every magazine, every book and movie, the lesson every mother should teach her daughters. Making a screenshot so I read it and re-read it until I fully grasp it. THANK YOU ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:32 AM
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I have missed that one, it's very insightful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:12 AM
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But only if they don't make noise 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:08 AM
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Made me chuckle 😂. That was a surprise search for you..oh the internet..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:05 AM
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I have noticed this in gay couples too ( male ones ) where usually the older/more experienced one is pimping the younger/hotter partner, hoping he will attract other partners for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:03 AM
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My thoughts exactly. So if the concept of a marriage just means business transaction, let's all make it a legal biding, contract without the emotional complications(for example list of child rearing activities, or domestic duties, or whatever floats your boat and you deem necessary). And yes, you can't be everything to that one person and he shouldn't be your everything too. As you correctly indicated we have family, friends, children, colleagues, aquntancies, etc.All of those are roles we have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:59 AM
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In my view, I was always too good at gaslighting myself about how much I liked a guy. And it wasn't always because they've love bombed me or exhibited attraction towards me. More like -hm, he has that X,Y, Z interesting thing about him, I wonder what makes him tick and where that came from.. genuinely interested in that specific person, that I amplify to hell and back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:40 AM
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I don't get that concept-you want a marriage, but yet you want sex with other people. It's like wanting a hard boiled egg, but at the same time you prepare scrambled eggs. Choose one and stick to it. As for the unattractive part - let's face it, being unattractive your whole life, comes with a lot of emotional baggage and underlying issues. I am not saying it's right how's society treats people that are lacking symmetry, just that they obviously, for the most part, are trying to overcompensate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 02:29 AM
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😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:39 PM
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Let's face the music. Every time we like a man more than he likes us, they opportunistically try to push us around. Be that with dates or the lack thereof with money, with domestic labour, with sexual or professional favours. And on top of that we try to shield his ego and his reputation in front of our friends and family when he's being a schmuck or a loser. It's always give, give, give with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:06 AM
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In my book it's the same as screaming and throwing things around. Blatantly manipulative. Either on purpose or not, this is a behavior, learned in the development years to cope and cannot be unlearned.. and on top of that you are put in a place where you have to forgive/ forget and say it'll be alright. They want no repercusiones for their actions/inactions, creating their little safe space, pushing empathetic people's boundaries.A victim mentality, that could only be cured with no mercy given.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:54 AM
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Oh girl, my last ex's tears. When he didn't want to do something, he played the victim and every time I pointed that out, he usually started crying. Little child tears on the face of a man. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:23 AM
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You did the right thing. Someone is paying them to do a job and if they don't know how to be respectful and professional they shouldn't have a job. Period. If they want your money, they should at the very least keep their stinking mouths shut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:57 AM
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Their logic is faulty. But it was purposely pushed in order to have women gaslight themselves and "fix" themselves. Because every time a woman internalizes this message, she starts lowering her boundaries, starts second guessing herself, not listening to her intuition and starts re-inventing herself and seeking validation, but in all the wrong places. When a man chooses trash, he claims his "ex was CrAzY", when a woman chooses trash, in the eyes of everyone, she deserves what she gets -be that r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:21 AM
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You should post more, that is brilliant. From the " award ceremony" to the "4 men and 1 shovel" part. I hate when some 🤡 says : You do it so much better and efficiently". Yeah I do, because society expected me do all chores from young age. If you want something done, do it yourself and I ain't showing you how nor I'm doing it instead of you for 🆓.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:02 AM
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😂😂😂 that's what we've been missing - their anatomy is different now. This is what happens when we GiVe tHEm a ChAnCe...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:47 PM
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So he tried to assign you a new position "picker of the litter" . He knows the garbage truck ain't riding itself 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:40 PM
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Oh the tears of the clowns 🤡 🤡 A clown pretends cause he has nothing to give and he knows he's useless - for himself, for his family, for the society. So they shoot their shots , but it's so obvious they have nothing, so much that we are cringing on every interaction and having to GiVe tHem A cHaNce is an act of mercy, sparing their feelings, so much that they are not butthurt and CoMMuniNatING along the way like they are these 3 yr olds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 11:33 PM
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Even the dumb shirt was and attempt to pull the string. So he got jealous she landed a date and proceeded with her life and tried to bring her down. For me the phrase "the trust was gone" should have been the end of it all, but apparently she can be in a relationship with a guy she doesn't trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:28 PM
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To be honest these eras are my favorite when it comes to movies and glam, dresses, especially the musicals. But everything behind the scenes was such a mess. Starting with Judy Garland, Ava Garland, Rita Hayworth, Marilyn Monroe as opposed to Doris Day, Audrey Hepburn, Grace Kelly, Katherine Hepburn. They are always represented through the wh*re/madonna " lens and before was even worse, I am sure. Whatever she received in terms of payment, I am sure she got less than the male counterparts. The h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:22 AM
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I agree with you and I know it was definitely tailored, but to me the message is still powerful - I see it like this: when someone tries to push you down and shame you, you push back and never hide. If you do it in a way that makes you even more liked, well bravo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:07 AM
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Oh yeah, the "she's my b*tch" move with an undertone of "I hate to see you happy and content", sprinkled with "pay attention only to me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:59 AM
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OMG 🤯 " MMM, how good you do dishes, so sexy/ you are the epitome of a best husband for taking out the trash and playing with YOUR children/ well, if this isn't the most wonderful laundry I have ever seen, you are Superman" fck this bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:16 AM
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And they are usually fetishists..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:07 AM
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Well, some women definitely never get out without makeup and that's ok. Some women have bad case of acne or freckles or whatever it's considered ugly these days and people should stop the makeup policing. Their face, their decision and we just can't ask another woman to feel insecure or experience anxiety whole evening, because we are not sure of some scrote's affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:21 AM
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Have a husband of a friend that always complains that we see each other when he's out of town. Well, yes we are, because she's always busy when he's there and I want to see only her, not the whole family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:12 AM
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Remember the photo of Marilyn Monroe with the potato sack after a backlash in the press, that she is beautiful, only because of the gowns she wears? Some women are just gorgeous and beautiful in everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:09 AM
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Oh you know it, he would have left you in the woods if he had the chance. And the audacity he had to send memes? Like who the f*CK he thinks he is, some marathon runner or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:20 PM
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But how can they break up? They are not in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:14 PM
34

"not on the streets", alright. I know his next destination-his mother's basement..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:10 PM
109

I just can't with the bacon 🥓🥓 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:07 PM
6

I definitely agree withe you, all money related question from people that are not close friends for me are crossing boundaries.Also show a lack of basic manners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:44 PM
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Great book on the topic is Unnatural selection by Mara Hvistendahl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:36 AM
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No, they are not- most of them are triangulating and for the ones that are not - God forbid they try to process any feeling whatsoever or make an attempt to revise their mistakes in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:53 AM
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This should be printed and someone should use a highlighter to cross every time he says the word FRIEND. After that, this should be given to highschool girls as a pamphlet on a a Why men can't be friends with women. They always sexualize every little interaction and are oblivious what a true friendship entails and what is sexual attraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:09 AM
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I would love to learn climbing, but where I live it only got popular recently and most of the teachers (the more experienced climbers) are using the lessons to pickup women. There were a few that were older and very experienced,but they hate taking women in their courses -hence the boys club stays unprovoked and unchallenged in their ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:02 AM
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Super good advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:55 AM
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I want to be you when I grow up 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:54 AM
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Oh, with that again- he is a horny animal, but women should do everything to satisfy his needs. I want to know when men will be held accountable for their actions and/or inactions. Why be alone in a relationship and carry every responsibility?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:51 AM
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After I' ve used OLD in the past, I think my eyes opened. I was too naive for my own good Now when someone is telling me about their happy marriage, I am always suspecting her husband is swiping, because I've seen it time and time again. They have a relationship, they are present in the family home, but are always on the lookout for something new, hiding in the bathroom, trying to f*CK something new. And those wives/girlfriends are feeling secure in their little bubbles, trusting their men with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:30 AM
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I've been asked about owning/renting before. And let me tell you that question always makes me uneasy. I usually lie the first few months - I say : renting and avoid all other subsequent questions. I don't feel ok about it, but a girl's gotta do, what a girl's gotta do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:10 AM
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OMG so now "their friends" are also helping them to trap a woman. Basically they cleaned, so you are not too disgusted or scared and leave screaming and so you overtake from there. Just 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 02:06 AM
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Well, when OP said "special diet" I thought - he's one of those people eating dirt or pebbles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:47 AM
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I am surprised that someone else is recognizing the grocery shopping as future faking as well. I've experienced that during a situationship I've had a while back. In your head you are thinking - oh, we are a couple now, nesting and all that shit, but the truth is that this is just a simple daily act with no meaning whatsoever and should be considered as such.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:17 AM
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So in this case vulnerable are the tea drinkers, right? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:15 AM
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This topic could be discussed at great lengths, however I find it's important to mention that we need to get rid of that victim mentality, we shouldn't be allowing ourselves to succumb to any influence, even if it's well intended. We were conditioned to prioritize everyone else, to shut down our intuition whatever the consequences for us might be. That's why, for me it's absolutely necessary to have people that inspire us and cheer us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:00 AM
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Haha, my thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:32 AM
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Ah the old "high functioning alcoholic" trap. I can't agree more on the advises the others gave you. Start planning on the move. The sooner, the better. There are a lot of suggestions on this sub in particular. No communication is required before/during and after the break up - he will only listen in order to manipulate you afterwards. You don't really need closure, you need to be away. When you are out, don't pick up your phone, block/remove everywhere, as the pressuring will start and he will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:26 AM
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Thank you, so it's even worse than what I suspected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:50 PM
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The audacity.. you should have reported her somewhere..who knows who is supervising those kind of services.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:04 AM
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So he is looking for a maid that provides sex? With those two "grown children"at home I can only imagine the workload she will be expected to handle on top of f*cking with a man, 20+ yrs her senior. Well, if he was 80+ I would consider it, hoping he will die sooner rather than later, but nah..and "masculine energy" excuse me? When that became a thing for women in their 50s. If anything, they would be exactly the opposite. He is looking actually for a white, work horse, not a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:00 AM
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Since I bought reflective sunglasses and I am always wearing my headphones I am feeling reborn.Idon't even reply. F*CK them. No answering to dumb questions, nothing. I pretend that they are not there altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 09:41 AM
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Every Hallmark movie - she is successful lawyer/journalist, has her own life, but she meets the good for nothing "cowboy" ex she had in highschool, while visiting for the holidays and her whole family gaslights her into giving him a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:48 AM
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Give him that sticker on the forehead, "mommy"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:42 AM
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Thank you, so basically closeted homosexuals or covert narcissists?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:38 PM
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Yes, it's very sad. And you can't even show her that it's not "normal". That situation is already beyond control and she should be at home resting, while the excuse of a man she has earns a living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:08 PM
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So basically -" I don't want to be responsible for nobody/ I don't want to pay for sh*t/my actions will never align with my words". This is hilarious, they're envious of a party and a dress. By all means, let them marry in a strip club or during D&D adventure or whatever it's trendy of lately, wearing their underwear and neck beard. Of course marriage is not about them, it's about 2 people, not just one, but I guess that's too much to ask - to be considered of someone else's stability, security …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:58 AM
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Ugh, those stories enrage me so so much. Of course you are not mean. You are absolutely right. So what if she just births right there on the floor. Most women are gaslighted into hell, sacrificing their own health and health of their own children, just because some scrote is lazy and evil. Dumb people everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:23 AM
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Think about something else - in OLD, those people don't care to lie to you. You are a stranger. In their minds no lie is off limits- age, civil status, location, profession. They will feel no guilt after they blatantly lie to you, telling some imagined narrative.No repercusiones whatsoever.Just by being there you are putting yourself in danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:14 AM
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Well, those are my exact thoughts . " Platonic cockblockers" is a real thing. They want you to be the same, never to grow or be in relationships, to be "there" , just existing, providing them support. Don't believe in male/female friendships. Never will. At some point they always show LVM behavior and want to sleep with you, but not to commit to you. And think about all the time you are waisting, building them up for another woman. They all know they should be doing the emotional work themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:59 AM
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I am just wondering here about"Men don't get anything out of marriage". What specifically they want get? A new TV, a new car, a new video game? Are we in some kind of competition with prizes? So, you get children, person that treats you with respect on daily bases, you get someone who actually cares if you live or die. Isn't that enough?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:34 AM
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Because she is more compliant with his BS.That's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 07:46 PM
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It's so cringey even to watch. And the goatee 🤮 Edit:Let me rephrase that: those face pubes that wanted to be a beard so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:33 PM
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Now that's an advice I like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:19 PM
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I like that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:44 PM
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My thoughts exactly. I love money, don't get me wrong, but why be with someone if they honestly can't make time and space for you in their lives. They are obviously not ready to have a relationship. And I am not spending my life waiting in the sidelines, being the one that holds the fort until someone scratches their itch at something else - work, women or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:55 PM
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So where are we? In the 50s again or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:44 PM
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Do you think the wives are actually always clueless? Nope, they prefer not to know, because once they know know, they have to make a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:36 PM
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I personally find it off-putting. Tired of seeing grown men playing with toys. High value or not, it just turns me off. The toy is a construct that should develop your mind and there are not that many action figures that can do that for a 35 yr old man. And yes, they use it to show just what they can buy with the money they make. But to whom? To other men children that have the same desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:25 PM
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Let's not forget the long term complications as well. With a simple google search you will find million dollars in settlements after lawsuits .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:37 PM
72

"it started during the pandemic"... AS IF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:53 AM
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Just see how fast they disappear when they see you ain't cracking under their demands- No, you can't live with me./ No, I am not going to give you any money (under any circumstances)/No, I am not moving to some town in the middle of nowhere, with no job and being dependant solely on you/ No, I am not going to cook for you/ clean your house/ give you my car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:37 AM
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Well, obviously even if you water him, his hair ain't growing back, that's for sure 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:17 AM
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You can unfriend on FB and still write in Messenger. Check the settings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:49 PM
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Don't know where FDS stands on this, but in my opinion if I feel like I should do it, the relationship is already down the drain and I don't want to be part of this sh*t. Because the second I decide to do it, and let me tell you, I comb thoroughly, through everything, I always find something. May that be a drug stash or receipts from hotels/restaurants, texts, accounts in OLD or in a cloud, second phones/bank accounts, hidden files/folders, history in browsers...The thing is that I don't want to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:48 PM
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Rowing professionally - ✅ Fluent in French - ✅ Lived abroad -✅ Good at planning and organizing - ✅ Great taste - ✅ Fit, being in good shape and having a lot of physical stamina ✅ Having values ✅ Broad world view ✅ From where I stand you seem pretty amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:39 PM
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I've seen cuter worms, while fishing. And alive at that. So this one was popped and the black thingy are the guts right? Edit: I was wondering.. if the engagement is off, will he ask for the "ring" back or can she just throw it in the trash?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:18 PM
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1985 for the Handmaid's tale and the trilogy Oryx and Crake from 2003 to 2013, when the last book MaddAddam was published. The Testaments, which is the second book for the Handmaid's tale has been published last and most recently, when the series became popular, in 2019. I haven't read that one yet, I have bought it, but I am saving it for a special occasion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:13 PM
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No communication skills - bad in bed Late for dates or events - bad in bed - punctuality is the pinnacle of civilization, although Google says it's the soap. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:06 AM
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Oh, he probably continues swiping.Who knows, maybe the next woman will have an apartment with better view and bigger TV..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:52 AM
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I stopped frequenting those subs because I get the urge to downvote so bad. Just a few days ago someone was sharing that all of her dates were with people that don't shower properly and some 🤡 in the comments was advising women to teach their dates how not to smell. Edit: If a woman has to buy a soap bar to gift to all the guys she meets it's called charity, not dating and in case she is so inclined to do it, she'd better ask for some discounts due to the great amounts she'll be buying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:39 AM
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I came here to say that, farting away on the couch doesn't constitute as a great dating experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:33 AM
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Women should stop faking orgasms. Every time a woman does it, she is accepting that she will live a life, where her pleasure amounts to nothing in this relationship. He will never learn how to pleasure you too, because you are coddling his ego rather than demanding to be satisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:22 AM
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Yeah, other things like doing the laundry and sorting socks probably. Now that is out of earth experience to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:17 AM
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I am sure you've seen those futuristic music videos/movies where an obese man is sitting on a chair, fed fast food through a tube , with VR glasses or watching a screen/playing videogames. This is all they aspire to be. Some new kind of zombies. At this point I am surprised they haven't invented a game chair that has toilet attached and also wipes their butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:04 AM
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I love how brilliant Margaret Atwood is. In Oryx and Crake, the entire world population is wiped out through a sex drug. That woman deserved all the awards.And when you find out when she wrote those books and had those ideas - mind-blowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:26 PM
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This was my first thought 😂, well good for them. Finally they're have found what they were looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:58 PM
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Can you visit a friend or a relative for a couple of days? Please do that if possible. The f*cking audacity those people have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:43 PM
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I have no scientific proof, but I am fairly certain that his hair will fall out at some point from that nasty hair gel and he will be as bald as a boiled egg sooner rather than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:50 AM
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Yep, the scratching is REAL REAL. If I know the guy I make sure to ask : so you have pubic lice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:46 AM
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Cool, cool 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:16 AM
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Pandora is for teens. Even worse, I think someone created that brand, so they could passive -aggressively torture women, because their good for nothing husband are too lost in this big scary world of consumerism to have a original thought in their head, to go and buy something meaningful that has actual value, both financial and emotional. Pandora is the equivalent of flowers from the gas station.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:15 AM
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That was hilarious 😆😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:08 AM
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The dance one seems strange to me, I have yet to meet a man that enjoys dancing as a stress relief or to stay fit. Maybe it's the culture in my country, but here, the average man dances only when he is made to. Like on his 30th anniversary or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:52 AM
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Maybe it's just me, but at 28 a person should be buying gifts for his/her parents, not the other way around. As you said, she has two homes, multiple streams of income, but I am sure she knows those 300$ are the only money he still has aside and haven't spent them yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:40 AM
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buT, BUt he iS a sTudeNt, he only gets allowance from his parents😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:26 AM
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No, no, 300$ from his parents for his birthday. 😂 He makes it sound like he's in highschool and she is bulling him for lunch money. I can't even..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:19 AM
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Oh wow, wow, what did you just do. Read the whole thing and I haven't even watched the song, but it was so good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 04:00 AM
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Believe me, I sometimes forget that too. That not everyone has/had a family that loves/ed them. And I still don't understand it completely, but I try to respect that some people decided to free themselves from a family that tortures them. And it's even more difficult to refuse to follow the pattern, because we all were programmed to base our interactions with the opposite sex on what we've learned in our developing years. That's why is so important to have forums like FDS in order to see the dif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:43 PM
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In my personal opinion with parents it's even more complicated -in a child's mind a parent can't do no wrong. Because their survival depends on this. On one side you have the neglect and on the other side you have the fear most narcissistic parents have, that the child will become independent. And the child, the child is usually the scapegoat when it voices an opinion, different than what the " family" has agreed upon, even discarded/excluded from the family unit or punished physically, with sil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 10:48 AM
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I think it should be mentioned that most ZVM don't take care of their parents, even if they are in a good relationship with them. I can count on both my hands men that never bothered to support ( scheduling medical appointments, going to the pharmacy, hiring a nurse if needed, visiting the retirement facility) their fathers and/or mothers during a serious illness, terminal disease or chronic condition. And it's not money issues, nor bad time management. So every woman should think twice before p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:23 AM
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Maybe his twitch buddies will call 911 if he chokes on chicken wing, but probably nah..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 07:10 AM
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What? As if..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:50 AM
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My guess would be substances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:24 AM
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The thing is that they think they own the pet. That is a property, a plaything. Even if they don't take care of them or straight forward abuse them, they want it and think that a living breathing creature is their belonging, like a pair of socks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:20 AM
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Yep, they took a girl to a movie in highschool, maybe even some 🍿and HAD to pay, so now all women want him for his money. A girl got tired of his BS ways in college and have chosen to leave him for his much better looking friend, that was actually paying some attention to her and now all women are wh*res. Pleasee scrote, grow up and resolve your"issues" like a grown up. The same old "woe is me" victim mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:05 AM
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For me it clicked when I saw that there were so many women experiencing the same, women from all over the world, different backgrounds and characters,were having problems similar to mine. That no matter what we do or sacrifice, how we act or even who we are as people, if a scrote gets a chance to scrote, he will scrote away.It is like reading the cheat sheet. So thank you all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:44 AM
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I have yet to meet a guy that doesn't want or try to take advantage of my good nature. The moment I let my guard down and show compassion, understanding or patience they try to sneak in and dominate my life and my decisions. It's a f*cked up power play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:26 AM
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Women's peripheral vision is effective up to 180 degrees. We see when they watch us and they think they are so sleek and it's happening unnoticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:16 AM
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I've had to organize storages, couriers, deliveries, paid by me, for a NVM in the past, so I can get rid of his junk, cluttering my space. But you know- I am the "passive- agressive" one if he is too drunk all the time to take care of his possessions and belongings.Take a sh*tbag home and all you get is more problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:13 AM
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I think you rightfully notice everything and it triggers you because you are absolutely correct, that person is a NV. Especially if you lived and had previous experience with similar people, the likenesses of the traits pops up so much more and you can't avoid getting angry and resenting the situation. I guess this drains you immensely. Fight back -grayrock, find a new roommate, make his life miserable, whatever you decide is best for you and your mental health because it's obvious he is trying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:06 AM
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I think that it is because of the social gaslighting, because women are judged non stop and they list any good or imagined qualities they could think of in a failed attempt to be FAIR. Because it is unthinkable for a woman to criticize man's character and actions/wrongdoings. So in order for women to state their pain or concerns in front of a mixed society, they have to dim or excuse the bad, give reasons to themselves and the others why they've chosen the scum bag and catalogue all the efforts …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:51 AM
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There are these "hipster/trendy" guys around that learn how to make something super elaborate and difficult for dates in order to impress women with their skills, but the daily grind around the cooking, when you actually have a family to feed.. well of course it falls on the woman and they can't lift a finger to help in planning and preparing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:35 PM
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That's super environmentally unfriendly. So the gas, the plastic boxes and the oily cardboards. We will be facing the repercusiones from their irresponsible behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:16 PM
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I know a LVM that doesn't want a kitchen in his apartment, because he never wants to cook. Let them starve or be obese and poor from all that junk food! Never cook for a man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:11 PM
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Sounds like a writing that should be on a t-shirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:06 PM
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I think a man being quiet at sex, especially oral, is a pretty good indication that he hid himself jerking off in his parents' house too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:03 PM
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And what about actual dates? Forget all the domestic responsibilities, forget the kids. What are these husbands doing to make her feel wanted, sexy, cherished? To love the life she has with that specific man? Of course this again falls on her, if she decides that she should eventually be bothered to save that useless cohabitation called marriage - any outing, any going to the movies or reservations for a restaurant, picnic, vacation, any candle or bath, you name it. I am sorry, maybe it's just m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:05 PM
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And the potatoes, don't forget about them. Yum. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:52 AM
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That is usually the main difference - when most women lose job or don't have an income (disability, sahm) they make sure they are as useful as possible - doing twice as much in order to contribute to a family/relationship, becoming more attentive to everyone's needs etc. When most men become unemployed, they see this as their personal holiday, where no rules apply, an excuse to be depressed, to "relax" and to have no responsibilities in regards to money, home and/or children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 09:14 AM
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I can't underline enough how important this message is. Never forget what you will eventually get in return, which usually amounts to nothing. Consider all scenarios beforehand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:04 AM
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The way I see it, he and his friends gathered in the garage to discuss what he should put in that thing. So,do we have a slave situation, because it sure gives those vibes? He obviously thinks that a family is a free labor plus sex. Or a robot that you switch on and off when you want to. The soap? Wtf!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:55 AM
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The garbage person he is.. I envy your kindness, you are the better person in this story and hopefully the time heals all wounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:35 AM
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Having a relationship with an addict is the way to go if you want to break your own heart. Don't ask me how I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:20 AM
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Making a screenshot to check from time to time and remind myself my value. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:15 AM
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I have still to grasp that concept fully. Sometimes I feel sad about the fact, like I am missing on something big , like real connections, real friendships, but unfortunately it's what it is and disclosing too much information always puts me in an unfavorable position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:02 AM
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I bought a car, my first one at that and everyone seems to have an opinion - about the brand, the price, even what engine the car should have had.They just can't be happy for me. Yesterday I had to say, in this exact words, to a long time friend that it is my decision, my money and if they don't have nothing positive to say I am done. But it's a lesson learned- this is what you get when you ask for small advice. The subtle gaslighting- they want to have the last words in things that doesn't even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:45 AM
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Omg, taken care of, like a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:23 AM
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This is so infuriating. Just tell me the Karma hit him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:18 AM
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The delivery "men" are the absolute worst. Never let anyone inside and preferably get a door cam/dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 01:37 PM
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And this can be applied not only to domestic responsibilities, but to anything related to the relationship. It goes beyond future faking. They say that could make you come and satisfy you sexually, but they can't so they pout and play the victim. They say they will provide for you and your family, but they can't and we have to reassure them and praise them on the mediocre job they do. They say that they will be honest and loyal, but they absolutely can't. They say that you will be promoted after…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:57 AM
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I've seen a person, famous in internet, that has this look and dresses fashionably and always wears a helmet Can't remember the account name now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:49 PM
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No, no,this is unacceptable. If I do that, I won't be able to trash men during brunches and they will ruin going out for me. Those f*cking losers want to take every bit of fun from me, by being everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:33 PM
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So this is similar pick up line (with the daughter) to how pedofiles use dogs?! I mean he says " I am a father, I should have something good in me at least, trust me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:07 PM
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I hate it 😂😂 there is a saying - if you whistle, you have too much air in your head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:47 AM
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That made me laugh - I imagined a box 🎁 , you open that box and you don't know what you are getting - an a$$hole or a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:35 AM
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I came to that conclusion (your first sentence) when I learned the difference between man and women on the autistic spectrum. The pressure and the expectations, that are placed upon the girls, mask the signs much more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:31 AM
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Basically the whole romantic genre on TV explained in a sentence. Two dudes fighting/playing dirty/gaslighting a woman so they can win. Meh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:26 AM
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You have a point. I love them both, they are genuinely talented and good artists. Their art is not controversial, also the projects they have/had are well thought and it is visible Frome space that they are gifted in what they do..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:20 AM
1

I always thought Rick Astley is gay? Jason Donovan as well..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:21 PM
21

I will tell you what- the standard for women is so screwed that a man having what I have (financially and physically) with the same personal qualities, qualifications and standards with be a highly sought after bachelor and here I am scrolling in reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:36 PM
6

Tom Hanks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:07 PM
15

Exactly, they try to use your good manners and being agreeable as a weapon against you. So they take every ounce of acknowledgment they can. I was in the park the other day, chilling, after riding a bike, by myself on a bench, and some old scrote approached me. Asked me if I want ride bike with him. 😂 On what world, I would want to ride with someone I don't know, that is obviously creepy and old. He thought I was an easy pray, as I was by myself. Just said No and stared at him with no more expla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:58 AM
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I really need the answer to that question.Laundry is easy- you organize, click a button, organize again. It is not a dirty job like cleaning the oven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:14 PM
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They use a phrase similar to " I have a mother/sister etc. ," implying that they would never behave in a certain way and yet here we are. They just don't recognize why certain behaviors towards women are inappropriate, because we are not humans to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:30 PM
4

A warning? I am sure you gave many warnings ( signs that the relationship is going nowhere) but he tried to play the blame and dare game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:24 PM
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Absolutely agree with you on all points. We should highly encourage and support any woman that provides car and home repair services/maintenance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:20 PM
25

No farters 😂😂😂😂😂😂 the bar is so low..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:34 PM
21

And yet a lot of them are absolutely useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:30 PM
7

The story of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:29 PM
20

Ah, so something like the crazy/ sexy scale. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:49 AM
3

They sell something like a box that shoots darts when you click a button. At least it can be used from a distance, but it's dangerous too if you have children in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:59 AM
8

The very reason I hated retail. You are actually paid to be nice and all those creeps take it as if we are hitting on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:20 PM
10

That is indeed scary. Get a dog and a gun, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:15 PM
11

Unfortunately the spanish subs around here are filled with the same old twisted minds spewing poison about what feminism actually is ( in their macho mind)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:12 PM
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I am sorry, I missed the memo. How exactly? I don't see anything resembling to a logic here. A compliment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:39 PM
2

You can write Series Turcas , a channel in YouTube. Many more others.. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:42 AM
2

I have noticed that sometimes there is no kiss at the end, even at their wedding day or when the protagonists are getting engaged. I've noticed they scramble any signs of blood or knifes as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:30 AM
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I started following some Turkish series recently- I need the screaming and the drama sometimes, but outside of my real life 😂 - however I've noticed a middle ground there - the guy has some HV qualities, but is super jealous and can stone wall the woman a lot. Never sharing feelings.I guess the quiet and stoic protagonist is considered masculine and upstanding citizen. I am not sure if you are aware,but Turkish series are well like in South America. I think even though the religion is different …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 03:26 AM
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I would sue him for everything. Every last penny he has, in hope, that he has enough to reimburse me for my time, while using his money to prepare for the new exam, living off the settlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:08 AM
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Copied and pasted from the search engine randomly the first I found : "The cave drawings are additional proof that the Engineers have been to our planet multiple times over the years. As the opening scenes of Prometheus show us, the Engineers spread their DNA all over the galaxy, creating life on various planets. We happen to be an offshoot of that DNA."Basically we are the offspring of aliens that are experimenting with their DNA on different planets throughout the Galaxy. The name of the theor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:01 AM
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Let me elaborate on that.I didn't want to offend you or any person on the spectrum, not in the least. I can't make myself do it sometimes too if the place has a lot of people, like supermarkets, restaurants with a lot of people, festivals, fairs, company and group meetings, etc. But the question here was specifically about a partner, someone you should feel close and comfortable with. Looking away might also be one of the signs that indicate guilt, hiding or trying to lie about something, nervou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:30 AM
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I think I 💜 you. You put it so well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:43 AM
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Oh, you reminded me of the "Prometheus" theory guys. Just 🤢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:39 AM
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But why make any actual effort when they have a woman to try instead of them - book appointments, read articles, try to change their environment,make sure to change her behavior around him, all this while the same women take care of the things that are "too much" like taking care of the children, the parents, the house and of course last, but not least earning money, so the family doesn't hit the bottom of the pit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:09 AM
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The critical thinking part - The authority that purposely trains them to succumb to orders, execute without hesitation and relieve their mind from the blame if atrocities are committed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:55 AM
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Oh wow 😳😳😳, just WHO are these people? Did they grow up under a rock?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:46 AM
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Have you seen that German man that rocks skirts and shoes? I think he's called markbryan911 in Instagram, he has fine legs, I will tell you that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:32 AM
2

I thought that I got extremely cynical after many failed "attempts", but maybe it was just that I've matured. I love to use the infatuation for my own purposes though- for example: being very creative; speaking with people I have to speak to, but that usually wear me out; organize a trip to some new city, start a new activity that levels me up. Basically things I postpone for lack of inspiration or being too pessimistic in general. Just started using the "sugar" rush to benefit me. But it's a da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:06 AM
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I was thinking lately that I need someone to wash dishes for me. I won't mind watching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:43 AM
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Via con me Paolo Conte, the vídeo with Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers, as it is a bit speeded Satisfy my soul Bob Marley The Beautiful South I will sail this ship alone and also Good as gold Simple Minds Alive and Kicking Barbra Streisand Just leave everything to me from Hello Dolly La foule Edith Piaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:39 AM
2

I love her The Boss album, especially It's my house. She is a fenomenal woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:31 AM
2

Do you think sending a screenshot to his company will work? Or he was one of those 'looking for new opportunities" types?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:03 AM
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Yep, no more of this. All that time texting, speaking, video calls..when I was younger I specifically wanted a person to talk to, but nowadays it's just too overwhelming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:41 AM
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Ok, I know it will sound weird, but I purposely stopped myself from being ticklish for that exact reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:19 AM
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And he has abs. So happy for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:15 PM
26

Very good and thought provoking.Extremely insightful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:07 PM
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Haven't had a nice holiday in .. 6 years. They (all of them) managed to just ruin every celebration and holiday for me. Let's hope for better times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:53 PM
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Not looking you in the eyes while you speak, looking you straight in the eyes with a smirk, interrupting you, mansplaining, lecturing you, not being on time or setting an exact time/date for a meeting. What I like to do is ask a difficult question, even I might come off as rude, something unexpected to see how they will react - will they get angry, will they laugh it off, will they respond truthfully, will they try to give an unclear answer..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:47 PM
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Reading a book that was recommended around here somewhere- it's called The Sociopath next door. Very interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:33 PM
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Well I am not sure you considered that they will have cute costumes on, like in some school play 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:14 PM
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Playing the victim is a more subtle one, but usually it's what gets most sociopaths off. They are checking out how you will react and are trying to determine what help they can get from you while you're gullible and treat them with empathy and understanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:06 PM
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For me what was most off-putting was the constant crave for something new, that excited them to a new level. I can't compete with a jump from a plane or a new peak that they want to climb and I shouldn't have to compete. Don't get me wrong, I am all for new experiences, but at one point they get that dead stare and become extremely numb from anything ordinary.Of course, not to generalize too much, but many also sleep around or drink heavily when they can't get their new adrenaline dose at that v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:43 PM
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I say why enter in a game you can't compete in. If you are not playing for the win, get the f*CK out and don't waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:31 PM
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It's an insurance. Because when he meets someone else, he will say "she is just a friend" and that he warned you beforehand that he has many. Also a bonus point for " you are smothering me, I need space''.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:29 PM
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You have to wonder why they don't like their mothers, who taught them the same things.. 💭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:25 PM
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Thankfully not. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:21 PM
26

Remember the movie American beauty with Kevin Spacey?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:13 PM
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Would you invite over your future/current lover to meet the husband and the children at your house? Of course not. For that woman he is just a friendly colleague, while for him, she epitomizes all that he has lost while being married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:10 PM
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I swear the moment they turn 50 they lose their mind. Prove me wrong. They start sulking, wanting to be free, buying motorcycles, sport's cars, starting to pick up younger women, risk investing, gambling, doing drugs, clubbing etc. Half of our lives we wait for them to grow up, be stable to settle down and adult along with us and with a magic wand overnight, on their 50th birthday they turn into the awful little brats they were when they were 17.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:07 PM
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Let me quote the legend Zsa Zsa Gabor: "I am a marvelous housekeeper. Every time I leave a man, I keep his house." and also "I never hated a man enough to give him his diamonds back."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:29 PM
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Agree with you on the lawyers, they always turn out to be the meanest.Also no profesional adrenaline junkies like pilots and mountain climbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:00 PM
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Aren't you a real savage... You owe these people some therapy money. 😂 😂 That name is very common in many Slavic countries, but also in South American countries like Brasil and Perú. Same with Igor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:55 PM
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I love how disgusted she looks on the thumbnail. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:49 PM
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No guys called Ivan. Immediate ban. Had not one, but three guys to prove the rule. I learn slow sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:32 PM
8

Well you are lucky. You ended up with someone that loves you at least. 🐕 are the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:28 PM
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While his wife has 3 new boyfriends in rotation, 10 years younger than him, traveling abroad and going to gym, doing bookclubs and having dinner and BBQs with their family friends, while none of them are picking their phones when he calls them. Edit: and of course his own children think he's a creep and a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:00 PM
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I am sorry about that if that was the case. Maybe I am projecting from previous relationship I had with a similar person, putting me in similar position. Excuse me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:00 AM
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Type female in the search 🔍 and you will see it as one of the suggestions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:29 AM
2

Was talking to a friend recently about lip size. I'm super glad big lips are now trendy, because I've been negged about how big are mine almost my entire life. But also for me it's a clear sign that someone is sh*t, when they try to open a conversation with this or "compliment" me, I know they're porn sick, block and delete straight away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:21 AM
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Haha, I've done it, highly recommend. Also you can roll your eyes as well a bit. But yes, beware of the violent part. One of the reasons I bought glasses with mirror lens. I do it in public most of the time, not on purpose, but because.. well, most of them are pretty arrogant and obnoxious. It was studied and proven that women have better peripheral vision, so yeah you can say we notice their lusty and dirty looks...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:05 AM
7

Love galleries and museums. And when you dress for an opening - you are the art there, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:51 AM
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I hate takeout, it's either home cooked or a restaurant for me. It's super unhealthy, with all the sugar most fast food companies put in the food.And to have that every day/date? It's a No from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:49 AM
2

Wow, smoothies. And he offered? That logic is broken and that man was broken too. Sorry you went through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:44 AM
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You know it. Crush them like the bugs they are whene you have a chance. The only reason why so many men want to work jobs in IT, is because of the money. They demand higher salaries for even starting level positions, just because they've heard some numbers from a friend. That is why I hate the " nerd, working in IT" cliche. Immature and incompetent losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:38 AM
1

Would you mind sharing what were the tests?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:32 AM
1

You know he thought that you're not good enough for him too, just like the person from the post, right? But he thought, that you are good enough to present some kind of normalcy to his parents (because he has a girlfriend) and use you for sex after the yacht trip. I can't even..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:30 AM
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I had 2 ex boyfriends that stopped me from taking a second job, whining and gaslighting me to think that I'll be to blame if those relationships fail and I quote " because we'll have no time together" and the stupid old me agreed at the time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:25 AM
2

I've heard it with my own ears multiple times. They DO think that they're the most hard working people on the planet. Not taking into account any privilege they've had, multiple opportunities, schools, private lessons, exposure to different cultures, their parents' wealth, personal relationships with people from the same class..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:11 AM
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Well, this is what many men in the field think about people with lower salaries and with any other profession, different than coding/PM. You know it, they think they're on top of the food chain. And that is why they should be left to their monitors and their porn. Always support women in IT and STEM!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:06 AM
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"That's on you, you wanted it" is also used for holidays, celebrations with family and friends, gifts and even children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:56 AM
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Funny you've mentioned the living space subs. I love the female version, women are posting incredible, well thought decorations, where they put carefully together every little detail like lamps, rugs and even art while the male one is absolute abomination. And it's not even about how much money you have, it's about personal style and being organized, that's how you make any house a home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:55 AM
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Had a guy recently tell me that he paid when we were out. You know what he paid? A beer. A f*cking beer. In a park. And in his destorted mind and memories he is being a gentlemen, paying bills left and right. The audacity of the cheap scrote.I can't even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:48 AM
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In my country there is that type of "vacation", where you go with your boyfriend and other couples to a country/ mountain/ seaside cabin and there is expected that women do the cooking/cleaning for all meals, while the "boys" do the grill. I have been a pickmeisha for many things in my life, but I will never take days off anymore to go to cook and clean after 10 people under the disguise of resting and vacationing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:34 AM
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And that is exactly why you are Ruthless strategist. I totally think that this type of white lies should be the norm - No, I can't cook; No, I don't clean/ I pay to a company to do it for me.; No, I don't know how to use Excel/AI/Photoshop.; No, I can't help you with your presentation/CV, it's beyond my abilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:12 AM
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Yeah, so she would have to watch the sour faces of the whole group. And that person and his family are garbage. Rich or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:41 AM
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That phrase "he thought he had more time" absolutely triggers me and disgusts me. The F*cking scrotes' understanding about time and work. "Time" is always tomorrow or in the next 5 yrs and "work" is always to be done by someone else, for them and instead of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 10:38 AM
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Is someone (other men) giving him cookies and milk to write that or is he personally benefitting from the gaslighting? I bet it is the latter. So basically he is saying - "I am ugly" /"nice guy", but stretched to couple paragraphs. Sit down, little boy. You have nothing to say to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:15 PM
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Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:05 PM
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I love all versions, but I also think they made a pretty good job on this video.If there ever was a strong woman, this is her. And her talent is inexhaustible, every time I find some new chord or word that impresses me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:07 PM
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That's how it is done You do what feels good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:58 AM
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Dating could be great, fun and exciting. But only when you do it right and both people take into consideration the other person's preferences and there is a mutual respect. Unfortunately too many men don't really want to get to know you, have a genuine conversation or have a new pleasant experience. They just want to mask their objectification towards you with cliches and never use imagination to try to impress you. To me that just goes to show the following: If they can't make an effort- they a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:32 AM
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What if he pays and says that you own him? In my view the trash just took himself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:59 PM
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So this is the new tattoo I'll get, I suppose 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:32 PM
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I don't care how old is she, but that woman has STYLE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:30 PM
2

And if you have a premium account you see all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:57 PM
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Yep, they will say it's kink shaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:25 PM
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Do you mean the clitoris? I bet that is the boy/girl switch in the women's bodies. You give a woman orgasm and you get a boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 04:17 PM
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Unfortunately there is a catch here too. You just can't get them out once they move in. And of course after you kick them out, you have to change locks and be vigilant that they won't stalk you.We think that by inviting them, they will respect us, but this just opens the door for different kind of scrotish behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:37 PM
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Right? At one point you just get exhausted from all this explaining to all grown men how to do laundry, load a dishwasher or just make his own bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:53 PM
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The amount of kitchen appliances, vacuums, towels I bought in this life for someone else's place... i could have used the money so much better. Lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 01:47 PM
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I absolutely love how you put it -“I like you. I would like to take you out to dinner if you like me, too.” So simple, yet respectful. With acknowledgement of his feelings for you and your feelings for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:52 PM
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You know that many men don't care about that either, if they are given the chance to waste a woman's time so..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:23 PM
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I like to say that by refusing to discuss problems and avoiding conversation, these people are helping us and learning us to live without them, model our existence without their presence. And yes, the end is inevitable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:39 AM
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So happy for you. You've dealt with so much and you know, that no human being should be put in that position to tolerate all that 🐂 shit. I think you need to get another phone number for your peace of mind, but also store all messages you receive from him on your other card, so you can get a restraining order at some point. Really think about moving/disappearing to a place he doesn't know. Don't want to scare you, but unfortunately he knows your weaknesses- alone, with disability and with limite…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:32 AM
4

I always recommend Leslie Bennetts- The Feminine Mistake : Are we giving up too much ? The book is very thorough in all aspects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:51 AM
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The thing is, that even when you lay your trust upon them, they usually disappoint ( not able to provide sufficiently) and always find some sneaky way to use it as a way to put you down or disappoint you altogether. It is a control thing, an unwritten contract, that they will make decisions for you and your babies because they provide for you. We should never forget, that in the world we live in, there's no greater leverage than money and leads to power imbalance in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:48 AM
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Hear me out - there's this thing called Calendar and is installed on everyone's phones and laptops and we can all use it to like remind us of things and is coming with an alarm too. Just a click away. Groundbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:38 AM
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You made me think, I wonder if someone invented something solar powered or with a crank. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 09:00 AM
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My time is very important to me too. It triggers me immensely when I sense even the smallest inconsideration when it comes to it. Nothing shows lack of civility and common manners more. If I waste time, I am the one that decides to do so, not someone else. If he is late to meetings, doesn't have solid plans and make me run around or re-schedule without solid reason -he is out. This includes video calls, phone calls or meetings irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:56 AM
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As stated above date can be the experience you share with another person. Usually is a restaurant, just because all people need nutrition and eat. It is the effort and the consideration, even the adventure and the excitement of finding something new in your companion. A chance to show and see a side you haven't seen yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:07 PM
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Freckles are the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:58 PM
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Since when a date is a promise for being fateful. Dating around doesn't mean you sleep with all men you meet or date. Also I don't see why friend you have would oppose to introduce you to someone like minded. Your friends are not pimping you and you are not betraying their trust by trying to find the best partner for yourself. Having a meal is just an opportunity to have a conversation with someone in a pleasant surroundings, where both of you are relaxed and are happy to get to know each other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:50 PM
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Icon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:45 PM
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I get the scene that was implied, where the sex was a celebration for all sences. I get it. However I see it a bit cliche. I really hope that was not the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:57 AM
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I am sitting here on a bench by the sea by myself and I am laughing so hard. I want a t-shirt with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:35 AM
5

I adore this woman. I hope she is here on this planet many more years to bless us with her presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 04:27 AM
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Yes, I came to say that. In her e-mail offering her services to that abominable meatbag, she clearly states that all her previous cases were the exact reason she would best know how to represent him and that she knows all the strategies on how to undermine the testimonies from the survivers. I get it, she likes money big time, but how can anyone look themselves in the mirror after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:02 AM
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Ohh, that poor scrote, he was looking for money, roof and a washer/dryer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:55 AM
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Maybe I am still too naive for this world, but every time I saw in OLD someone I know, that is definitely married, just burns me to my core. I just don't get that concept - you are either with a partner or you are single. If you really want a family, you concentrate there. If you want to whore around, you try your chances. Can you imagine someone sitting next to you, sharing a roof and a life with you, but at the same time lying to your face, about who he is and going to secretly chat in the bat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:51 AM
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So basically they want to be set up by their mom and once again make zero effort?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:19 AM
12

I think in this case the dog was a bargaining chip. He probably threatened her, that he will hurt the dog if she leaves ( in such situations they also threaten the woman's parents, relatives, friends with murder).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:35 AM
13

This. You hit the nail on the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:30 AM
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I usually just put on silent my personal phone, when I don't want to communicate- work, time for me, etc. I have removed light and sound notifications as well for all apps. Works like a charm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:23 AM
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In my personal experience people, that behave in such manner usually have an underlying trauma. All more the reason why should they seek therapy, work on issues and not date/be in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:05 AM
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Really? You liked that? I am still traumatized from my first boyfriend that loooved making sex while we listened to Kenny G. I still shiver when I hear a saxophone. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:24 PM
19

Best comment ever. The "can hurt, but won't" kept me awake many nights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:11 PM
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I loved the "stop manspreading"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:15 AM
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Samesies. I will be damned first, before I let a man just put on his slippers in MY home and move in. The one I renovated and decorated and paid. Even if my situation changes one day, we will definitely not live in my house. Ever. He should be able to provide. He should give you a home. The hobosexuals are always on the lookout, trying to take advantage from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:54 PM
8

Very interesting, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:51 PM
17

If it was in another genre there would be a point from where things get better. But in reality things only get worse- less money and no job opportunities with aging, ungrateful children, a man that leaves you and trades you for a new model or choose to get up and go when you're having chemotherapy or other treatments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:48 PM
67

Off, with those money, she could buy 3 "companions" to see on rotation if she wants to, pay for the babysitters, plus the cost of the donor insemination. See? I fixed it. Those men are absolutely useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:58 PM
12

I want to gauge my 👀 out. What the actual fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:52 PM
1

Even worse - every privileged person thinks he/she is that perfect little snowflake and the others are just lazy, stupid, without taking into account the upbringing they have, the opportunities someone gave them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:47 PM
106

Because they can. Because it's easy. Because they're allowed to. Because the society and the laws don't punish them enough. Because we all like to think how fair, supportive and evolved as a species we are , yet the moment someone is weak and disadvantaged, we leave and disappoint the members of that same society. When they're in every vulnerable situation- ill, disabled, poor, jobless, homeless, etc. Just like in most animal herds. Because it's expensive, hard, it's also time consuming, require…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:03 AM
2

Men cannot expose themselves as weak in their male friendships and drop all the burden on us. Because we listen, however we are the first ones to be dropped, when a romantic partner appears on the horizon. Not friends, free therapists is the expectation and the reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:56 AM
8

Because you think they see you and know you, what is generally speaking the reason a person has relationships with anyone. But a human doesn't think why they like their vacuum or toaster. They serve them, so he loves their purpose in his everyday life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:28 AM
27

You know it. Only children don't have boundaries hence the infantilization. With age and with more social experience and interactions, you build and add to the list of boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:19 AM
43

IF YOU CHOOSE TO BE WITH AND OLD MAN, YOU CHOOSE TO BE HIS NURSE (in your prime years at that), A WIDOW AND A SINGLE PARENT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:14 AM
22

"But, but that was a compliment" . A man told me, he would have more money, if he wasn't ordering food non-stop, so I'd better learn how to cook if we are going to be together. Not in a million years. I hate cooking and I don't eat junk food. But yet I am alive and healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:09 AM
9

One of the reasons I like that subreddit so much. It validates that what I see and how I feel is real. It recognizes that a woman can be different from what surrounds her, without being constantly striving for approval from outer sources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:15 AM
12

Walking, hiking, running, yoga, swimming, kayaking. I think those helped me most when I had nothing, when I lost everything- job, love, parent, friends, money and found myself again. Because I am more of these, they don't describe me and make me who I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:10 AM
8

I thought only I was doing that. Sorry, not sorry. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:33 AM
17

Not sure what you describe is intense or eccentric. I have been like that all my life. If something is on my mind a lot, of course, that would be the topic I want to discuss with people closer to me. Just an example: I am not interested in speaking about the weather, but about the climate change. I am not interested in the small, generic things we all do, but the big and important issues and ideas, as well as how we can do better and take action. If people are scared of the hard conversations, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:28 AM
15

Just yesterday I got that quote from Ch.Bukowski, who is, of course, the epitome of a LVM "and when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. What do you call it, freedom or loneliness?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:19 AM
26

It is rotten. All of it. You know what happens - now we are being sold the "dream", that if we want to procreate, which is evolutionary in its roots, we have to continue to burden ourselves with everything around this process, from conceiving to college.To not only coddle the man's ego, but actively overachieve ( with a smile at that) in every aspect of our lives- physically, academically, emotionally, professionally, financially etc, so we can "provide" comfort and financial stability for the f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:13 AM
18

Thank you for pointing that. It is really helpful, gave me different perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:54 AM
10

When I was younger and more naive I thought, that having a good relationship with your family was an indication for the emotional maturity in a man. That how they treat their mother, sister shows, how they would treat women in general. But nah. The role of a boyfriend/husband requires something far more different. When they're no longer told what to do, what is expected of them at any moment, as a member of their immediate family, given instructions how to do it, while loved "unconditionally" , …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:51 AM
41

Actually, I prefer the app exactly for this option. I don't want them to have stored in their phone any interaction with me, so I go ahead and delete conversations altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:32 AM
106

Unfortunately, the myth that romantic love comes after suffering, compromising and sacrifices (especially for women) has ruined it for me. We could agree that happiness is not a constant state, but moments, however I prefer practicing just regular joy and being thankful. In order to be intimate with someone, you have to be honest to yourself and the others you interact with, but also have to receive the same from the other person. I no longer believe that men, in this society, are capable of thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:28 AM
73

I think about these things a lot lately. And not even for interactions with men, but I am trying to apply in all other relationships as well. I am so tired/done with anything less than that. My soul cringes at the very thought. If these people demand my time, my love and affections, they better leave their ego at home and cheer me up on my journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:19 AM
6

Hahah, savage. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:07 AM
65

Btw now it's fashionable to date older women. Tell them you wouldn't even look at a man over 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:35 PM
272

Ask "Why, are you offering a senior's discounts?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:27 PM
12

I have watched some of her content in ig. Nothing that controversial or that other women are not saying in their reels as well. Basically explaining that 2 and 2 makes 4, not 5 . I really like how more and more women have similar material on yt and ig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:24 AM
6

I don't like to be sad, I prefer dancing. 😘 Thanks for the award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:51 PM
19

You are so strong, you are wonderful. One day at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:14 PM
29

Greek god, probably. With the small peepee and his head so far up his a$$, that he can't see his wife very likely has a ppd. But of course she isn't even allowed to rest, not she can express her concerns, because he is such a "great" husband and father. Round of applause for the husband of the year. "The one and only".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:05 PM
7

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:50 PM
34

Uhm, can someone correct me if I am wrong, but aren't paternity tests made after the baby is born?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:48 PM
10

Actions speak louder than words. And mistreating quickly becomes a habit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:42 PM
34

Every time I dated a guy younger than me was a complete waste of time. I agree they have more stamina sexually, but their worldview is very narrow and I don't have the patience to play the teacher in the relationship. No matter how mature they think they are, there are some things that come with experience. And purposely seeking a big age difference speaks to me, that they should be seeking therapist instead to work on childhood traumas. Sometimes women allow to be taken advantage of financially…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:01 PM
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I love how they used the word dad in the headline. Obviously he doesn't want to be one. Edit: found the article. So they donated to domestic abuse shelter, no wondering why.He just feels sorry people found out about his abuse and that he is in many headlines. The daughter hasn't been speaking with him for years. You know what's been happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:48 PM
26

Yeah, they don't and even if they had one, they would use the same one to shave their balls and you know it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:21 PM
69

Beards disgust me. A man should know how to shave. The hairs look like pubic hair. Pubic hair, but on his face. And smell disgusting from poor hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:59 PM
9

Take everything you can and leave that life and those people behind you. Good riddance. Scream, cry, shout and punch, if you have to. You are feeling guilty because deep down you know he is going only down from this point on. And his "coin collection"? He can take it and shove it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:54 PM
45

Of course, but this constitutes as domestic abuse. Toilet paper, sanitary products, medicaments etc. They just can't get in their heads that we have different biology and therefore needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:02 PM
81

Read some posts how bfs/husbands limit the toilet paper use in their families for women by 2 pieces..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:21 AM
24

And the faces of the people when a dog comes to your desk? Instantly uplifts your day and mood.Heaven. I think all corporate offices should be pet friendly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:55 AM
11

For that very reason I avoid school reunions like wild fire. In a small frame of time someone tries to put you down and scratch his ego, but fails to see your victories. Believe me, I still struggle to see the bigger picture.For me, it was important to answer this question -"Why am I still single?" To find the reasons behind the why. But without any fear and self blame, to get to know my soul, recognize my mistakes and my emotional baggage, also the traumas I have. Don't want to continue with ey…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:00 PM
6

Oh, I love keeping secrets about the smallest things.Probably it is because of my rising sign or something. 😂 And I've had full blown relationships in the past, also people I have lived with and noone knew. Private life is private for a reason.At some point I got tired of hearing anyone's opinion about what I should do and who I should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:41 PM
33

A bulldozer! To get that trash and throw it in a vulcano. All of them.Every single bad father, bad husband, bad son and bad grandson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:27 PM
236

She's gorgeous.And that smooth skin from "no men problems"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:28 AM
170

Basic pick me culture. F*CK them. You are not a ripe fruit to be picked. You choose, you decide. Funny enough, someone asked me the other day. I responded- " because men are useless". And ain't that the true. BUT: -If they want to know about your fertility, get in great detail about the count of your eggs. Describe your last visit to the gynecologist. -If they imply there is something wrong with you- ask them how their marriages/engagements turned out. The best option would be to learn to be unf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 05:26 AM
14

I just had an epiphany. Now I know why I am single. I don't do blowjobs. Oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:58 PM
13

Girl, did you have a relationship with Shakespeare or what? I bet the list would be at least several pages if printed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:48 PM
4

Of course they do. The pathetic losers they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:44 PM
172

Not if she is not there..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:37 PM
43

Or maybe it is? Some kind of magic words in their realm? Who knows..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:33 PM
393

I would leave the blood to flow everywhere! On the sheets, on the floor, on the bathroom tiles. Fucking everywhere. After that will make a video, pack my suitcases and send it to all his female relatives with several sentences about what he did.But that's just me.She, on the other hand is not confrontational...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:29 PM
146

I think there should be mandatory classes on women's biology for men. Most men can't differentiate the clitoris from an ingrown hair. The same goes with orgasms.And to think they know nothing after watching thousands of hours of porn... I haven't faked a single one and I don't intend to - it is not educational.Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:01 PM
159

Just wait for the divorces in their mid 30s, early 40s. Basically these people want to be in a relationship/ engaged and married, not because they have found someone, that is actually complimenting their life, but for the sake of it. You do what is best for you and don't fuel further discussions by providing them information about your personal life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:19 AM
33

Awful.Not saying she should have not "recognized"the signs for the stroke, but probably should have taken the long road to the hospital. So useful having someone ( a woman) who actually cares for you to use and abuse, but to date her out of pity, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:50 AM
58

I am not saying that we, as people, should always be polite, but they can't even imagine that there is a third option - like keeping your opinion to yourself. Being polite requires emotional intelligence, beyond kindergarten level, where you blurb out every word that comes to your mind, being aware of societal norms and some basic compassion. Nowadays, on the internet and IRL, where the opinions are like the a$$es(everyone has one), the little boys refuse to grow up and the society lets them beh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:44 AM
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These types are actually 🤡 s. Thousands of years of different civilizations, linguistic rules, ancient philosophers and we get a MAN that just likes to be rude to people, be purposely hurtful, hiding behind"You have no sence of humor".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:59 AM
78

From day one, when a baby girl is born into this world, everyone wishes to the parents, that she is beautiful, rather than clever. Also the color segregation -pink for girls, blue for boys, like wearing any color could move your sexuality on the spectrum and it could make the baby boy somehow weaker..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:13 PM
51

I effing hate that, dropped many friendships as well in the past few years. They can't seem to remember that my work schedule is different. If you wake me up and I have been pulling 16 to 18 hrs the whole week, you'd better believe I will chew your head off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:53 PM
44

For 13 euros you can buy a portable horn, because the occasions, when you'd have to do this, might be more than a few.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:28 AM
10

Legend 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:24 AM
9

Maybe I'm a bit harsh, but what helped me was to think that person died. A dead man can't speak, can't call you or text you, can't come to meet you and definitely can't convince you to be with him. Cry a bit, mourn for some time, but speak about him in past tense and do so by limiting his access to you at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:53 PM
38

I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:24 AM
63

So it seems pretty expensive to have a boyfriend these days. Pay 50/50, pay epi pens, pay for an ambulance, pay in the ER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:22 AM
55

Btw how much is an epi pen these days. She should definitely sue for money, if not a criminal charge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:57 AM
3

Haha, where did that syringe go? Throwing things around like a pro. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:01 AM
18

The policing is real, not only that scrote thinks he owns his wife, but all her family members as well, if they happen to be female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:57 AM
21

Perfect, right? He stays in his lane, doing nothing, expecting to be treated like he's the last man on earth, but sorry 🤡, you have only one mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:38 PM
29

The only response for that would be -" yeah, I am spending time on my phone, actively searching for your replacement."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:37 PM
37

Peace of furniture? More likely one of those vacuum robots - they too do their own thing as well while you sit. And it isn't even a vacuum sex robot, because after gaming for 8 hrs straight, they don't want even that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:35 PM
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But you know there is an important lesson from that story, they don't get find out, because they move on to the next-changing partners non stop, so they don't get hit in the head by the realization that they're the scum and bruise their egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:01 PM
7

There is now a movie by Kevjn Hart where he imitates ( acting would be a strong word) his devotion to a baby, after the lost of his mother, while in real life he works/ travels/ cheats. But building the image I suppose. And we should now praise him or what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:54 PM
24

Unfortunately I learned it the hard way, having to explain that I am a person, not a 2D character, that I exist all the time, not only when it is convenient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:47 PM
75

The cardboard cutout of a woman, the billboard that never responds, the picture in Instagram, the poster on the wall, the magazine cover - where she doesn't respond, cannot argue, has no ideas of her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:39 PM
23

We forget to mention the propaganda that is literally everywhere- that the parenthood changes men for the better. That makes them more mature, damn they even start to receive a bigger paycheck as a consequence. It doesn't work like that.If he was a shit on a stick before, better believe it, he will show you all his bad behaviors, everything he hid and didn't dare to do before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:22 PM
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Let's not forget kidney failure, gestational diabetes, anemia, high blood pressure, dental problems, ocular changes, just to name the most common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:11 AM
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If you ask a man he will say that we, women, wanted the child more. So be aware of the signs, if a man is not with you on all appointments, without having to ask him, if he is not proactively researching doctors, assisting you with injections, testing himself, he is not a father, but a sperm donor. Also if he's not reading the literature, feeding you at all times, doing housework or hire a person/company, encouraging you to go to pre birth courses and is not allowing you to discuss your discomfo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:48 AM
16

And this is how someone usually starts abusing alcohol and drugs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:25 AM
39

The second someone raises a voice at me we are done. Block and delete. The discussion ends right there, because obviously only one of us wants to hear what the other side has to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:23 AM
14

I was referring to him, once they are at home, he says that she made him hate the memory of his son's birth by voicing her disagreement in front of his friends.No shaming on my end for her- it is her personal experience to decide how she feels about it and to who to disclose it or not. Not his. If anything, he is a just bystander and a donor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:51 PM
40

I can't decide who I hate most in the story. How a sane person could even say, that they will hate the memory of the birth of their baby, because of a bruised ego. And of course his momma wants her to apologize , she knows that her little boy is coming her way with 200 miles an hour if the wife kicks him out to suck the life out of her as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:14 PM
77

Truer words have never been spoken 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:27 PM
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A baby is like a magnifying glass for the relationship. If the things were bad, they will get even worse and all the details are more visible than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:07 PM
16

And let's not forget that many people that live on the streets have severe mental health problems. I am all for charity and also I am supporting financially organizations that focus on that marginalized group, however a person is not a stray cat or dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:18 AM
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Definitely NOT how it is done. What a roller coaster of a life. And just like that the theory of soulmates, of compatibility, common interests goes down the drain. So as per her you just pick some rando and build a husband. I would love to hear what she will say to her son/daughter about how they met . And by the way, sperm donors are way cheaper and get tested before they collect material. Also there is no need to buy them a car and house them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:12 AM
36

Go to Milan and Rome, the boys from the magazines are there ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:43 AM
40

Definitely agree on this . An ex of mine tried to withold a spare key for my place during our break up, even though he had zero belongings at that place at the time. It appeared that he has hid it even before the break up and I had to look for it during the fight and before I leave. But the peace afterwards was totally worth it. You have to be paranoid in order to be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:21 PM
3

I hate how she has to explain to him and justify. That's why block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:45 PM
33

Probably why she doesn't want to contribute, she knows he is a big douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:37 PM
52

I have been repeating this for years to anyone who cares to listen. Probably I am generalizing, but it is unhealthy for the society to give a pile of money to people,that in the most part have less than the basic emotional intelligence. Now because of the value the market places on them, they think of themselves as the new gods. Maybe it is all in my head, but we are giving pennies to the employees, that take care of human life -like teachers, nurses, and on the other side, we give to 20 year ol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:34 PM
52

The lie here is that he probably puts the money in HIS savings. The resentment is written all over this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:25 PM
4

Don't get me started on the YA novels. At first I thought the storylines would be chill, because I assumed -no sex scenes . But the blatant abusive relationships described as love and affection.. people screaming at each other, instead of talking. Mistrust, verbal abuse, gaslighting, girls betrayed by other girls, there is no end of the toxic behaviors pictured as "normal" for young people . And the majority of the readers are women, so why the authors (again mostly women) want that awful propag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:19 PM
6

There was a post about anti perspirant on one of the women's subs and at least half of them stated that they buy a famous man brand. So it seems many women have woken up and refuse to buy "pink".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:45 PM
10

Despicable human trash 🗑️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:35 PM
51

Yeah, like you should have noticed him anyway. So he parked, next to you- WOW, kudos to him. Give that scrote a medal. And the mentioning of your pink hair -fetishist something, something, I am sure of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:24 AM
45

I puked a little. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:17 AM
9

I think it will happen something similar, but unfortunately in a negative form. There was and always will be a power struggle and we all know that if this happens, usually the stronger opponent wins.Not to say we are weak, but women were never power hungry in human history, with few exceptions of course. Also we were conditioned not to fight back. That is why we are in this mess now -accepting whatever from some regular Joe Scrotes. Giving up power is not an option anymore if we want to live in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:42 PM
21

There is a book I have read some years ago on the topic and I would like to recommend it.Unnatural Selection: Choosing Boys Over Girls, and the Consequences of a World Full of Men by Mara Hvistendahl. She is giving examples as well as the consequences of these decision internationally as well. So now the men from poorer countries apparently kidnap or buy themselves women. And not for one second think that they appreciate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:31 PM
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Always check for female doctors gynecologists psychiatrists or just GPs. Buy from female owned businesses, associate yourself with NGOs that protect women and children.Find female mentors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:21 PM
18

There is a book that I loved in the topic Leslie Bennetts The Feminine Mistake: Are We Giving Up Too Much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:06 AM
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!!! This is exactly IT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:40 AM
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Love that one, will use it in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:12 AM
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