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| 14 | What is so hard about respecting people’s time?Yeah flakiness does seem normal to a lot of ppl but you don’t have to deal with those ppl . phased out multiple friends for excessive flakiness and I have no regrets at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 11:43 PM |
| 17 | Just because you are both HV doesn't mean you will be compatible.Yeah I could tell I was leveling up in my self worth when my bad dates shifted from , my date turned out to be a hot mess no one should date to my date was HV but we lacked chemistry or compatibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 11:41 PM |
| 50 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysTHIS if I could tell young girls one thing it’s that you shouldn’t date older men not because there aren’t any older HVM but because all the ones who would seek out a much younger woman will be hot garbage women their own age wouldn’t touch with. Ten foot pole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 42 | That’s all women are good for, porn genreI remember Supreme Court justice sotomayor being put on the bench .when I was a teen . I was really excited I read an article about it and all the comments under it were extremely gross and sexual. In this case complaining she wasn’t sexy enough . It’s a moment I remember really vividly in terms of realizing how men view women and their accomplishments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:02 PM |
| 32 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?Not just end the date immediately if they said something rude and i wasn’t interested anymore. I would sit through the whole date knowing there wouldn’t be a second one and sometimes let them kiss me 🤢. Also offering a shoulder to cry on and being very giving to ppl who I knew wouldn’t do the same for me . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Bi & wlw gals, how have your experiences compared in hetero dating versus wlw?Yeah the first thing i did was just not date for a while and focused on loving myself no regrets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:45 PM |
| 44 | Bi & wlw gals, how have your experiences compared in hetero dating versus wlw?I’m biased as I’m not attracted to men but I used to date them before I figured that out -they are more sexually forward/pushy - they talked over me more -projected their idea of the ideal partner onto me /thought they could mold me into that (not a thing with women thus far ) - were less interested in emotional commitment -only men attempted to neg me , insult my hobbies or get weirdly competitive in conversations That said wlw dating isn’t a paradise . A lot of the same things in my experience… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Nicki Minaj's Husband Pleads Guilty for Failing to Register as a Sex OffenderAnd Also worked with tekashi 69 who also committed statutory rape . Not that it at all excuses her behavior but I wonder if she’s trying to justify shit that happened to her cuz she goes hard for those who prey on children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-inI was listening to perhaps, perhaps , perhaps by Doris day and wow bread crumbing has truly been around forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Leveling up this weekMenu planning for the week so I have more nutritious meals , also hopefully learning the basics of using a sewing machine from a friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 9 | When men withhold feelings/emotions: do they have them or do they just not care?I think some truly lack the emotional intelligence to even know what they feel let alone articulate it . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:24 PM |
| 153 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?My whole life is a pickmiesha hall of shame but one that sticks out atm is I bought my ex diamond earrings . First they complained the diamonds were too small then proceeded to freak out that this gift meant I “expected too much from them “ and I had to reassure them I didn’t expect anything in return 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.I saw a video making fun of guys like this I think the title was something like how to be a spiritual pick up artist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 20 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterIn my experience all the poly ppl I’ve known in real life have been pretty toxic . There was a trouple of a dude abusing two women , a butch woman with seven femme gfs that she treated like trash but then she got jealous of if they dated anyone else . And in my dating life as a queer woman I come across many women who were poly because their boyfriends wanted to be first but seemed pretty unhappy about it . I think it’s an interesting concept but as soon as straight men (and certain sexist lesbi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:13 PM |
| 14 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterIf scrotes had there way they would all be “poly” on their end only ofc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:06 PM |
| 36 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterYeah I see this coming down the pike with my friends boyfriend he can tell I don’t like him and it’s only a matter of time before he makes up something so we can’t hang out anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:04 PM |
| 45 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterYeah I was thinking based on the post her sister might react similarly , cutting her off . Because If this dude is better then her past guys her pick me levels must be off the charts . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:13 PM |
| 121 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterIn theory yeah but I’ve met way too many ppl where basically he just wanted a side chick and bullied her into accepting it because his “orientation “ means he must be with multiple women 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:31 PM |
| 131 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterMy favorite thing about this is it really is mask off about what poly really is 99% of the time in practice . Just a way to manipulate women into thinking they’re bigots for not allowing their partners to cheat on them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 301 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterI know right the bar is so low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 26 | Get some real powerIn general i notice a lot of social and political movements have become about the self instead of building collective power. in the 70s and 80s feminism was about sisterhood i word I pretty much never today . It was understood women needed to work together it’s sad ppl have gotten so lost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 11:20 PM |
| 13 | It was too good to be true.How does anyone type this woke washed drivel with a straight face . Glad onlyscams is an equal opportunity exploiter🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-inso i have a good friend whose boyfriend seemed high value at first , he's handsome, he has a good job, he's committed but after getting to know him better I realize he's terrible. he constantly puts down my friends choices in clothing and insists on picking out all her clothes. He shared deeply personal information to me about his female friend right after I just met her, things I'm sure she wouldn't want me to know. And the absolute kicker when my friend was in the bathroom at a party he said t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:15 PM |
| 20 | Texas has an anonymous tip line for reporting abortions.Done for doctor I put dr. No uterus no opinion lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Question about a new beauty standard I noticedTiny WAT . I don’t have Instagram what is tiny head??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Question about a new beauty standard I noticedOooh that makes sense. Maybe that will help me reassure them ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 8 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.I like how for black pill he lists what requirements he’s talking about(height , looks) but for FDS he mysteriously doesn’t. Probably because saying I don’t like women requiring basic respect and commitment doesn’t sound as good on paper | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 55 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄Homeboy looks like cursed ventriloquists dummy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 03:00 PM |
| 106 | ..did anybody see this?Lol imagine as if incel subreddits didn’t used to frequently make the front page back in the day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | A supportive motherI live for this woman put her on money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Left-wing men are just as misogynistic as right-wing menSomeone else on FDS (can’t remember who ) commented once right wing men think women are private property left wing men think women are public property | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:48 PM |
| 11 | PiCk Me. I don’t require any effort or standards.Chrissy teigen is terrible but also a bad example for this meme she literally married into wealth lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Targeted advice from FDS “older sisters” needed for “younger sisters” (adolescent and early 20’s) 👩👧I’m late 20s but I always try to mentor teens and college age women especially because a lot of men my age go after them because they have less experience with red flags and are still discovering themselves. I’ve been there done that let me save you the trouble | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:01 PM |
| 34 | Was advertised the ultimate pickmiesha shirt today 🤢LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 37 | Was advertised the ultimate pickmiesha shirt today 🤢I once at a children’s carnival saw a lady wearing a shirt that said fetish across the front ….Just fetish. Why ???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 02:01 PM |
| 53 | Was advertised the ultimate pickmiesha shirt today 🤢Holy shit I didn’t know they made those. Omg they must be like ooooh situationship material and then they get closer 😂 I’d pay to see the look on their face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 87 | Was advertised the ultimate pickmiesha shirt today 🤢Yeah it was priced at like five bucks so it’s probably made by literal slaves most likely women toiling in a sweat shop somewhere but it’s so empowering ladiessss yasss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 37 | Was advertised the ultimate pickmiesha shirt today 🤢Ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 164 | Was advertised the ultimate pickmiesha shirt today 🤢At least they are kind enough to alert women to stay away from them . I once was in line behind a dude who had a shirt that said number one wife and under that was a photo of a fully nude super young model ironing a mans shirt. This was like in broad daylight.My sister and I proceeded to roast this man the entire time we were in line 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:34 PM |
| 15 | Was advertised the ultimate pickmiesha shirt today 🤢Yes please make that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 12:04 PM |
| 50 | Was advertised the ultimate pickmiesha shirt today 🤢You should there’s websites where you can design your own graphic tee shirts online ! Let me know when you do so I can scare off even more ppl lol. Also username A1👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:50 AM |
| 202 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteYou know I think I’m pretty jaded about sexism and yet somehow it always manages to top itself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:13 AM |
| 27 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cute😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 11:10 AM |
| 20 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayBreaking news man learns you cannot parent your adult girlfriend 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 04:33 PM |
| 11 | Men and their hypocrisy🙄 notice how he expects women to build men but doesn’t expect men to do the same. And of course pickmeishas will try to do it every time EVEN THOUGH he admitted men think pickmes are dumb for building them up🤦🏾♀️I built my ex up for years . Supported them through numerous tragedies and mental health crises but then one time I had a near death experience that left me with ptsd like symptoms temporarily. I asked for support and got lectured on being irrational then they ended the relationship cuz they were overwhelmed 🤡, never again will I be bob the builder I’m only building up my dam self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:28 PM |
| 8 | Men and their hypocrisy🙄 notice how he expects women to build men but doesn’t expect men to do the same. And of course pickmeishas will try to do it every time EVEN THOUGH he admitted men think pickmes are dumb for building them up🤦🏾♀️Lol I built my ex up suc years . Supported them through numerous tragedies and crisis situations and was happy to do it because I loved them . Stayed up all night with them numerous times . then unfortunately I ended up experiencing something that let’s just say almost ended my life and left me with ptsd like symptoms . I asked did their support and they first lectured me for being irrational then they were “overwhelmed “ and ended the relationship 🤡. Never again will I be bob the builder . I’m … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:22 PM |
| 13 | Men and their hypocrisy🙄 notice how he expects women to build men but doesn’t expect men to do the same. And of course pickmeishas will try to do it every time EVEN THOUGH he admitted men think pickmes are dumb for building them up🤦🏾♀️Yup helped my ex through their lowest moments for years family deaths , mental health , etc they left me partially because I was “too much “ after I almost got shot 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 02:12 PM |
| 6 | LOL. This one clearly has never been with an actual woman, to the point that he's convinced himself he needs to "pick out the red flags" to spot FDS members. What besides "trying to manipulate women into sex" would he be avoiding, with these "red flags"?Didn’t you know not catering to a mans every whims and expecting them to meet basic expectations for a relationship is aBuSive. I actually unfortunately know several women who were in emotionally abusive or garbage relationships where the scrote gaslight them into believing they were abusing them . Favorite example married scrote meets a woman at a bar that propositions him. He goes home and demands his wife open the relationship because his sexual orientation is poly and if she won’t let him be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:08 PM |
| 4 | LOL. This one clearly has never been with an actual woman, to the point that he's convinced himself he needs to "pick out the red flags" to spot FDS members. What besides "trying to manipulate women into sex" would he be avoiding, with these "red flags"?Yeah I think he fails to grasp the point of this . Someone not wanting his peepee is too confusing for him to understand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:03 PM |
| 3 | LOL. This one clearly has never been with an actual woman, to the point that he's convinced himself he needs to "pick out the red flags" to spot FDS members. What besides "trying to manipulate women into sex" would he be avoiding, with these "red flags"?That was the laugh I needed this morning thanks 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:02 PM |
| 8 | The date isn't happening until he contacts you ahead of time to confirmYeah it’s become so normal that and being flaky as hell I’ve dropped many friends for similar reasons maybe I’m just old fashioned lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InMy 75 year old next door neighbor just hit on me . I feel so angry and gross. My grandfather died recently and I saw him as a grandad like figure in my life I’ve helped him put out his trash cans in the past and he’s been nothing but respectful to me for an entire year up to this point . I want to cry I try to not have a negative opinion of men but stuff like this hurts me deeply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:00 PM |
| 68 | The date isn't happening until he contacts you ahead of time to confirmYuppp this was when I just joined FDS So I had some residual pickmiesha ways. I thought I was such a bad bitch for making them reschedule and not dropping everything like I used to 😬. Inconsistency is never a sign of a man of quality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:44 PM |
| 4 | "Dress to the Nines Everyday Because You Never Know When You Might Meet Your Soulmate" 🤡That sucks though do ppl have nothing better to do then police the things we like . If I had a nickel for every time ppl accused of being white for liking things i would have paid off my student loans by now . And yet I still look pretty darn black to me . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:59 PM |
| 10 | "Dress to the Nines Everyday Because You Never Know When You Might Meet Your Soulmate" 🤡Oh man even better 😂. Hey you like full skirts you know what else you might like ✨segregation ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 320 | The date isn't happening until he contacts you ahead of time to confirmYeah I once allegedly had a date . Except I had asked the person a direct question three days ago and they had never responded. So I assumed they ghosted me date was off and hung out with my friends instead . I’m chilling with my friend and get a call from them clearly while they are driving. They start shooting the shit not addressing we had plans mind you this is 1 hour before we were supposed to meet up . I’m like look you never confirmed anything so I made other plans and I’m busy rn . They … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:49 PM |
| 7 | "Dress to the Nines Everyday Because You Never Know When You Might Meet Your Soulmate" 🤡Considering they can’t tell porn form real life they probably also can’t tell the difference between the past and present 😝 . Also yeah same they should see what I wear to go out lol . Also it’s especially weird they think I’d be pro 1950s values cuz ….uhhhhh I’m black yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:22 PM |
| 7 | "Dress to the Nines Everyday Because You Never Know When You Might Meet Your Soulmate" 🤡I also love men who when they see me in 1950s vintage try to put down other women for showing too not having self respect 🤢 etc like that’s gonna make me hop on their dick lol nope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:11 PM |
| 10 | "Dress to the Nines Everyday Because You Never Know When You Might Meet Your Soulmate" 🤡It really does ! It’s funny because pretty much every one I met in the vintage community is like that often leftists , feminists , gay or all three . If you don’t conform to how ppl think you should dress you tend to … not conform to societal expectations in general idk why that’s shocking news to men lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Myth: Women are “naturally” more monogamous. Men cheat because of “biology” and their “natural” desire for variety.Men really are the biggest misandrists of all. What are you telling me your biologically hardwired to cheat ?? So you’re biologically inferior ? 🤔 why is that other guy a loving husband though hmmmmm guess he’s exempt from “biology” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Getting hit on by gross old men is so bewildering to me. Do they really think I'd ever f*ck them?Holy shit your a fucking legend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Getting hit on by gross old men is so bewildering to me. Do they really think I'd ever f*ck them?YUP no one ever tells them to their face they are old and ugly since we protect men’s egos so they could have one foot in the grave and think a 18 year old super model would go for them 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 01:13 PM |
| 8 | Don't feel pressured to date when you're young just because scrotes tell you "the clock is ticking"Facts having kids with the wrong man should scare women way more then not having kids at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Wow I knew he was gross but what the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Withholding as a Form of AbuseReminds me of my ex can you go back in time and give me this advice seven years ago thanks 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 01:01 PM |
| 10 | "Dress to the Nines Everyday Because You Never Know When You Might Meet Your Soulmate" 🤡I love dressing up in 1950s clothes. I also love dressing in men’s wear and a bunch of other styles . This seemed to really distress scrotes who thought I was a potential trad wife only to have their doormat dreams shattered back when I dealt with such idiots lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 7 | “Soft” sex-work…?Yeah a great example of this is modeling . Ppl see it as glamorous but it is soft sex work 100% . And for a lot of agencies a cover for trafficking or full service . I used to not even model professionally just for local FEMALE artists I was friends with and I stopped cuz once they were behind the camera they no longer treated me like a human being. For example one shoot she hands me heels a shirt and no pants , for a fashion shoot we were shooting in public. Was not told this ahead of time this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Say NO to bonding over past traumastrugglelove 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:16 PM |
| 36 | Say NO to bonding over past traumaYeah I’m most cases it’s men who traumatize women and then we are somehow worth less as potential partners for being traumatized by them . But meanwhile men who actively refuse to work in their issues and hurt other ppl are deep and complicated 🙄 and the protagonists of like 80% of emmy award winning tv shows. Ok sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:32 AM |
| 1 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Yeah weird how that works. It’s almost like … women don’t dodge their responsibilities when they are hard 🤔like where’s all the single mothers cracking under the pressure and abandoning their kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 04:47 AM |
| 35 | Say NO to bonding over past traumaI have 2/3 of those problems and then some and it’s why I’m so against over sharing . I did it when I was younger and Sometimes it did work out for me but 99% of the time it really did not and i ended up on dangerous situations. Also I don’t really have the capacity to take on other ppls burdens I don’t know well and haven’t built a deep relationship with because I’m already working so hard to heal myself and their issues may trigger me to relive things I’d rather not . So they shouldn’t assume … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 04:04 AM |
| 92 | Say NO to bonding over past traumaGod why is so true . Every time one of my friends disclosed their trauma to a scrote they were dating he topped the last guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:47 AM |
| 110 | Say NO to bonding over past traumaStraight facts. I date women and this happens all the time , I always decline a second date . I have many wonderful friends who disclose their trauma on like date one or two scaring away stable partners and making them targets for abusers looking for fragile women to exploit . It’s a vicious cycle that leaves them even more traumatized then before. I often wondered why they would do this until one time a good friend of mine was dating someone, beginning stages . It was going really well but she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InYupppp one skill I try to pass on to my white sisters is assertiveness/ being comfortable with confrontation because white dudes don’t actually protect them anyway they just pretend they might | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 10:53 PM |
| 12 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Yup pretty much what that Uber driver said . He was like idk why she won’t just send them to [3rd world country] it would be 100 bucks a month and I said maybe she wants to raise her own kids … because she loves them yeah he didn’t take that well . Imagine hating your own children that much couldn’t be me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 04:54 PM |
| 12 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Oh absolutely him not marrying you is just shit test number one . Like if he fails that definitely don’t have kids with him but your vetting is not done . A good man is good to you every day not just on your wedding day and there no fool proof way to know you have a good man . I personally am attracted to women and do not date men at all . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:53 PM |
| 18 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"So far this isn’t in my country but if there was I’d be so happy maybe they can’t do it so perverted scrotes can’t request female drivers. I know in India they have female only cab services | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:54 PM |
| 24 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Thank you so much 🙏. He started implying I was a slut and being cold to me when I stopped being a little girl so I had kind of gone low contact anyway but this was the final straw he is indeed poison. I’m hoping to find a way to reach our to his ex girlfriend and stay in my baby cousins life /be supportive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:53 PM |
| 10 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"I didn’t at the time cuz I was much younger /pre FDS and I was worried if he lost his job his kids wouldn’t get child support wish I had though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:49 PM |
| 34 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Yeah and the weird thing is when he was younger he was such a loving doting uncle I never could have imagined he’d be a shitty dad. idk wtf happened I guess a man can decide to go down the LV road at any point in his life . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:48 PM |
| 21 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Seriously if they believed in commitment or responsibility of any kind the idea of marriage wouldn’t trigger them so hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 93 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Another story about why you should never ever have kids with a dude who won’t propose. My uncle is FORTY, had no kids , owns his own home , runs his own business. His long term girlfriend also 40 got unexpectedly pregnant. He acted so happy , the perfect dad etc but never proposed which my family thought was a little weird . In our culture if you get pregnant you get married . well cut to like a year later he decided the relationship was” too much pressure” and dumped his baby mother like three … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:16 PM |
| 67 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Lol yeah he went off about how you don’t have to be married to be committed to a woman then called the mother of his children a bitch then raged about how his dad (who wasn’t married to his mom ) never visited him like sir way to prove my point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 12:06 PM |
| 20 | Glorifying toxic codependent pick-me relationships under the disguise of "Twin Flames"My ex partner convinced me we were twin flames . A lot of therapy later turns out we were both just co dependent victims of child abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:58 AM |
| 24 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:54 AM |
| 36 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"Yeah that’s real in my area very few women have kids by choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:53 AM |
| 138 | "Why haven't you had kids yet?"An Uber driver once asked me why I didn’t have kids and I innocently said because I’m not married yet (in my culture unmarried men and women do not have kids ) . He lost his absolute shit I legit was worried he was gonna crash the car because turns out he was a unmarried dead beat dad to two young babies and he was trying to pressure the mother of his children to ship them to the third world country he was from to be raised by HIS mother so he wouldn’t have to pay child support 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:51 AM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InSo I first joined this sub due to allowing myself to get treated like shit by romantic partners .But over time I’ve realized I had LV ppl in other areas of my life I allowed to walk all over me . I cut off bad friends, I asserted myself at work and this weekend I took the final step and cut off my abusive family after they called me out of the blue to scream at me . I realized the root of me accepting LVM all along was being trained to have low self worth by my mom . I finally feel free thanks l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:29 AM |
| 7 | Yep. Never be a Bob the Builder.Lolll yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:47 PM |
| 3 | How Media Grooms Women Into Hookup CultureYeah I grew up without internet or non educational television or movies till I was close to high school aged and I often wonder if that’s why I didn’t internalize as much sexism as some of my peers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | To the women here who are childfree: how do you define “childfree”?I’m child free in that I do not biologically have my own kids but I go out of my way to help parent and nurture kids in my community especially those with LV dads or moms . Because it takes a village . I find jeering at women who got suckered into having kids by LVM mean spirited and sexist because they got lied to 99% of the time . And hating children is just …. Wat . So I’m not free from children just not tied to a man through children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:36 PM |
| 29 | 😂😂Men have come up with a new excuse for cheating. It’s not about the “female” it’s fighting “his own demons”🙄His “demon “ probably small af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:29 PM |
| 49 | “She’s stressing me out”I know right she came for his whole life lolll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:24 PM |
| 131 | “She’s stressing me out”Low value Black men live to tell me this garbage I’m like really did you sue for custody then ? Did you pay child support ? Do you live near your kid ? When was the last time you tried to go visit? Yeah they shut up real fast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:24 PM |
| 24 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..Hey that’s an insult to pizza . 😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:20 PM |
| 13 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..My abusive family loves telling me I’m going to end up forever alone like my 55 year old aunt if I don’t bend to their will. My aunt who looks 35 , has traveled the world , owns property has multiple degrees and has no time for their bullshit I can only hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:14 PM |
| 186 | Ohio man charged in 'Incel' plot to kill women in OSU campus mass shooting. (Funny that this sub is often labeled misandrist, yet when has a woman ever decided to wipe out 3,000 men because she was unhappy with her sex life?)Women who “hate” men know there are way too many shitty ones out there to make killing any number of them worth the effort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:11 PM |
| 21 | Yep. Never be a Bob the Builder.But when are they not at their worst 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:09 PM |
| 47 | Every one of my exes, though.Ah so you’ve met my family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Yet another LV take: “Ryan Reynolds Revealed He ‘Begged’ Blake Lively To Sleep With Him When They First Started Dating And Admitted She’s A ‘Much Better’ Parent Than He Is”How could he say something so controversial yet so brave 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | No more friends in abusive relationshipsAs I like to say some ppl are a train wreck and you gotta hop off that train . I’ve lost so many wonderful female friends to abusive men it’s heartbreaking . One friend I’m so proud of I did stick around through her many abusive relationships because she wasn’t defensive or rude to me and now she’s thriving . So I think it depends on what you emotionally are able to handle and if they are still able to actually be a good friend to you but 99% of the time I would be like nope bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:13 PM |
| 5 | How Media Grooms Women Into Hookup CultureAlso as I told my younger sister a way to a mans heart isn’t through his penis . A lot of young girls think if they have sex with a guy x number of times he’ll naturally get attached the way they are attached to to him . But men can have casual sex with the same woman indefinitely and feel nothing for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:04 PM |
| 5 | How Media Grooms Women Into Hookup CultureYeah I watched friends when I was a kid and Ross was such a dysfunctional pos yet he ends up with Rachel after almost, being a terrible single dad , almost marrying another woman , cheating , breaking up, getting her pregnant when they are hooking up post break up and even hitting on another woman while they are shopping for their new baby yet somehow it’s a love story 🤡. I feel like 90s shows and movies aggressively pushed hook up culture to the public as the trendy new way to find love sex in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 11:59 AM |
| 1 | You are allowed to eat.Yeah I’m very physically active and pickmieshas always have something to say about how much I eat . I have had to drop more then one friend over it. At work it’s so bad I eat alone to avoid listening to their shitty comments. One time at work we had a party and so I ate an ice cream sundae one pickmiesha I work with was like personally insulted by this because I apparently ate it standing too close to her . At least it’s useful as a red flag device any woman who makes a bitter comment about how … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 11:43 AM |
| 18 | If he wanted to he wouldMy grandparents were married 50 years . When my grandad was straight up on his death bed he was still singing my grandma her favorite songs and telling her he loved her most HVM I’ve ever met . They married in the 1950s when it was common for successful men in their 30s to marry 19 year olds 🤢 he said “what would I do with some young girl “ and insisted on courting my grandma and not her younger sisters he was introduced to . Even though because she was his age was considered an old maid . He bo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:00 PM |
| 6 | Eye-OpeneningOne of the hardest things to do in life is have an unflattering realization about yourself. There are many ppl who will avoid growth and dig themselves in deeper to behaviors and patterns that aren’t serving them just to avoid having to confront themselves. So congratulations! The hardest part is behind you you got this girl ❤️. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:54 PM |
| 5 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InYeah I was already all dressed up and excited ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:21 PM |
| 10 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InI’m gay and get unicorn fished all the time. Unfortunately it’s very common. Sometimes they wait till I’m on the actual date to spring on me they have male partners. In my experience there’s a lot of reasons to avoid . Often I’m the past when I did hook up I found there was dysfunction in their primary relationship and they are seeking an outlet / free therapy or they engage in some form of high risk behavior. Ive noticed more then once they tend to inflict the same LV behavior on me they probab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 07:01 PM |
| 29 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InYeah I wonder if that was the plan all along and dinner was just a ploy to get me to meet up . In my pre FDS days more then once I’d get asked out and then day off they’d suddenly ask to meet later at night or otherwise downgrade the initial plans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 06:53 PM |
| 4 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InI think so far it sounds like a lovely date ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InGood for you for dumping them . If you don’t feel it benefits you to reach out don’t feel bad about just blocking them and moving on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:34 PM |
| 75 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InI know I thought walk date was the lowest effort imaginable but drunk walk date 😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:55 PM |
| 170 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InSo this week I met someone had a friends birthday party. We hit if off and exchanged numbers . They suggested we go out for dinner at 7 . Day of like an hour before I’m supposed to meet them they say oh actually instead of dinner can we have a walk date at ten pm I’ll bring a bottle of tequila😑. I told them it seems like they don’t value my time so Im going to have to cancel and then I treated myself to dinner . They then blow up my phone call multiple times and text to tell me they “miscommunic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 01:03 PM |
| 1 | 📢🤏🤏Staying a Spinster >>Marrying a NVM/LVM🤏🤏📢 But society teaches girls they'll die alone/ no one will marry if they are too picky/all "good" men will be gone since birthday 0. They feed on our fear and ruin our lives. When are men taught manners? NEVER. Get rid of these parasites 💣⚔️👑👠💋I wish I had been smart enough to do that they moved out after I experienced a personal tragedy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:07 PM |
| 3 | 📢🤏🤏Staying a Spinster >>Marrying a NVM/LVM🤏🤏📢 But society teaches girls they'll die alone/ no one will marry if they are too picky/all "good" men will be gone since birthday 0. They feed on our fear and ruin our lives. When are men taught manners? NEVER. Get rid of these parasites 💣⚔️👑👠💋I’m living alone for the first time this year and being a spinster is underrated. I remember my previous partner would get mad if i bought anything nice for the house (even though I paid for all of it and never even asked them to even help decorate) because it was “ a waste of money” but would also complain that our apt looked bad . now that I live alone I get to decorate how I want now I get compliments on how nice my home is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:37 AM |
| 6 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWI’m happy with the friends and social life I have but the fact I don’t put up with male bullshit I’m expected to definitely means I’ve lost some friends . I cut off contact with most of the group of ppl I socialized with in college after they defended a rapist . I lost an old friend of ten years after his friend had to be held back from punching a woman in the face because he felt emasculated and he continued to hang out with him. And at work because I speak up and I don’t take part in bashing m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:32 PM |
| 8 | Sadly trueYup joined a so called feminist group in college they did exactly this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | On being pedanticUgh sorry to hear that their are female fashion subreddits I am in that are well moderated I post in i also don’t touch Instagram with a ten foot pole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 6 | On being pedanticOh my god I was on the streetwear sub a young woman posted a cute outfit and I think said in the title not sure if streetwear but ... cue scrotes in the comments being like UM AKshulLy that’s not streetwear they will question and tear down women over absolutely anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 14 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Congratulations!!🎉🎊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:59 AM |
| 8 | She speaks our gospelI don't get where this closure thing came from I had never heard of it until I was well into college and then all of the sudden it was everywhere. Same with being friends with your ex/keeping in contact with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:40 PM |
| 36 | It's only okay when males practice seperatism bit lord forbid FDS is females only (2 slides)Celibacy is threatened by Female animals 😬 excuse me what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:19 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Check-inYeah I told her she deserves better then this he also has no car a dead end job and thinks she should cook every meal for him I don’t get it at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 43 | Weekly FDS Check-inA very sweet co-worker of mine has a boyfriend who said he doesn’t believe in marriage . I always felt like he wasn’t shit well yesterday he topped himself and says he no longer wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend he wants to be “existence partners “ which is a thing he made up 🙄 he says it’s the same as being boyfriend and girlfriend but without the title they’ve been dating for over two years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inI had friends like this in college not sure how normal it was but it was the norm in my social circle . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:19 PM |
| 27 | They're only feminists when they have to pay the bill 🥴Like they don’t already do that 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Internalized misogyny starts early in a girl's life and trains her to value the opinions of others always over her own. It takes time and unlearning to overcome this - be patient with yourself!Yeah I work with a pickme and all around unpleasant lady . I started to dress up for work recently and she always makes it a point to say something negative about it every day . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the cognitive dissonance?I focus my generosity and kindness on family and friends as well as other women and their children. I try not to think about what gross men do or why they think it because it’s not serving me to do so . They are like annoying mosquitoes who aren’t worth my energy or time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Wedged In My Windshield Wiper: A Note From A ScroteCan you imagine if a woman wrote I’m pretty awesome on a note she left on a dudes car . Everyone would think she was crazy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Toxic polyamory and its insufferable, holier-than-thou BSYeah both dates I had where the woman sprung on me they were poly they also overshared about how they were working through stuff in their primary relationship. It seemed to me like poly was just their way of putting a bad relationship on life support | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Toxic polyamory and its insufferable, holier-than-thou BSJust had a first date where the person wasted my time by springing on me they were poly and had a girlfriend already. I politely declined a second date and they sent me a text about how I was limiting myself and how poly is only overwhelming at first . A lot of poly ppl act like Jehovah’s Witnesses and aren’t satisfied unless they convert everyone to their gospel (so they can use them for sex ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | The Utility of Gaslighting and How It Covers Up Weak CharacterYeah that happened a lot in my last relationship and it was exhausting the crazy thing I think sometimes they actually half believed their own lies because it was easier then ever examining their behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 2 | They hit on you when you look like crapAs a teenager I had to walk to work in a creep filled area. I would try to look as bad as possible baggy clothes , messy hair my taped together glasses on but I made a weird discovery the shittier I looked the more creep attention from adult men I got . When I said fuck it and decided to look put together I got way less comments . I really believe it’s a vulnerability thing they aren’t genuinely hitting on women and girl children as they just get gratification from frightening them . Obviously n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Did you hear about John Mulaney's divorce? I'm shocked.Wow I really liked him and thought he had good character so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 12:59 PM |
| 5 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaYeah I agree My job had a training where they introduced something called languishing and basically said if you weren’t a peak performance at all times your languishing and something wrong with you even if your neurotypical 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaAmen and I think this goes beyond mental health awareness I notice this in social justice politics too sometimes. (Personal favorite moment at a diversity training I got accused of being racist against black ppl I am black and the person accusing me was white ) There’s no cause or space no matter how well intentioned narcissists especially men won’t stoop to infiltrating and bending to their own purposes namely bullying ppl and avoiding accountability and personal growth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:00 PM |
| 19 | Melinda actually initiated the Divorce against Bill because he decided to be friends with Jeffrey Epstein AFTER he was convicted. Disgusting.And I saw all these Reddit dudes posting saying if the richEst mAN in the w0rLD can,T keEp a b*tCH HAppY Wh0 CAn. 🙄 I don’t know maybe a guy who has actual morals I know that’s a challenging concept for them to grasp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 04:58 PM |
| 32 | Love her certainty and confidence.Barney is literally a character played by a gay man who has made a character out of parodying asshole straight dudes and he gets dumped in the show but they still miss the point somehow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:50 PM |
| 86 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.True story My little sisters boyfriend recently got mad at her for paying for all his meals because he felt “emasculated “ he didn’t offer to pay he wanted her to give him HER card before they went to go eat so his friends would think he paid . I pray she dumps this loser every day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 7 | I am dating again and I want to share my feelings with you allAs a lesbian this gives me hope congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI went on a date first thing they say to me is to ask my height then they inform me I “just made it “ because they don’t date girls shorter than me.🙄 should have left then but they showered me with compliments for the rest of dinner so I didn’t really think about it untill I went home . I’m wondering if I’m still not ready to date yet if I put up with such bs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:06 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with mentally challenged LVMsI agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 20 | How to deal with mentally challenged LVMsPeople on the spectrum need firm communication about boundaries. They tend not to pick up on social cues and more evasive “tactful “ approaches as easily . It’s not rude and in fact helpful to be direct | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 5 | And hobbies you’ve picked up as you’ve leveled up?Sounds like he wanted to drag you down to his level boy bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:58 AM |
| 8 | Imperfection vs. Red FlagsI second HOW they respond when they do make a mistake is key . Do they listen to what toy have to say or do they say your being sensitive, say your causing drama, act cold or escalate into yelling . Do they learn from their mistakes or do they make the same ones over and over . People that don’t ever admit they are in the wrong in my experience don’t learn from their mistakes and thus they repeat them . Young men who are worthy of your time will comfort you if they’ve hurt your feelings not puni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:49 PM |
| 8 | And hobbies you’ve picked up as you’ve leveled up?I love mending too . I would love to read your story! Lesbians don’t get a lot of non porn representation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:39 PM |
| 60 | 3/14, Steak and BJ DayWeird how women don’t have a “holiday “ where we demand sex from ppl 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 124 | Message to all LVM/NVM 🤬Why were the NV camera angles so accurate though 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 11 | Having a HV father doesn’t automatically prepare you to gravitate towards HVM.BIG FACTS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:26 PM |
| 2 | "Twin flames" and "Soulmates" are psychopaths and narcissists mirroring and grooming youMy ex told me we were twin flames they also proposed to me talked about having kids and then told me I made up that that happened and was pressuring them into making this a relationship 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:10 PM |
| 6 | Is anyone feeling particularly sad for their pick-me mom after finding this subreddit?Yeah I love my dad and he’s better then a lot of men in terms of household chores and childcare like he gets compliments for it but it’s still probably 70/40. My mom earns more then him she does all the cleaning , all the decorating,she did all the holiday planning, all the doctors appointments , all the school projects, reminds him to call his own mother on Mother’s Day etc. I remember once she had to work on Christmas Eve and so she asked him to plan Christmas dinner and decorate and he litera… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inUPDATE: got a different version of the same bumble ad and it said maybe these conversations (about mental illness etc) should happen before you even meet in person nope nope nope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 29 | It's Not Rocket Science.It’s totally within men’s control to fix this too if they stopped making excuses for and defending predators and abusers . If whenever they came across one they cut him off/warned women / called the police. If they held each other accountable Women would be able to trust men. But they won’t I haven’t had one “ good “male friend yet who didn’t have that one friend they knew hated women and they didn’t care . So not only do they actively shield abusers they then have the audacity to be upset we do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 16 | They will never skip on opportunity to waste your time, even if it costs themI have a friend who is an assistant doula husbands/bfs of her patients will hit on her while their partner is in labor frequently. One father to be asked her what are you doing after this . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 10:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm tired of being angry all the time and pretending I'm notI work out, do my hobbies and try to think of ways I can support and uplift other women in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 17 | MeNs InFiDeLiTy Is DiFfErEnTI swear no ones a bigger misandrist then a shitty dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 32 | Davina McCall everyone - Pickmeisha supremeWomen’s lives > Men’s feelings 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYeah wonder if he was trying to trauma bond with you . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:38 PM |
| 437 | Why do men feel entitled to participate in spaces made for women?Men don’t like taking no for an answer. I posted in a lesbian sub for the first time and two dudes immediately sent me lewd messages | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:49 PM |
| 37 | How To Interpret Compliments From Men“Your exotic “ translation: I am racist also I view relationships with women like collecting varieties of Pokémon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inIt was on YouTube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenLmao when did we support forced vasectomies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inI just saw an ad for bumble encouraging women to disclose if they have mental illness or debt early into the relationship and it made me mad . Maybe I’m out of line but I’ve watched friends who were open about having mental illness or trauma get preyed upon by abusers who used that information against them . Maybe there’s just no way to avoid those type of dudes but I feel like this OLD site is giving potentially dangerous advice. What do you ladies think ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 8 | One mans "thats too much" is another man's "thats all?"That sounds lovely ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:41 PM |
| 40 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceBoth those men better be single 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:13 AM |
| 30 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceAlso fun fact the biggest pick me I knew in college used to contribute to them (not sure if she does now ) and i recall her trying to seduce another girl’s LV boyfriend when said girl was in the hospital among many other things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:08 AM |
| 71 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceCalling Vice journalism a a stretch they are owned by Disney and once published an article about what happens when you drink a bottle of lube. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:06 AM |
| 56 | That update tho 🙌That’s fucking horrific and my little pony and Nintendo is very cute . Way classier then his “interests” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:42 PM |
| 305 | That update tho 🙌Ugh I don’t understand the motivation for this type of behavior. I remember this one post where this girl liked to make infused water in mason jars and then her boyfriend threw out all her mason jars because he thought that was stupid . Like bruh why do you care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 8 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Weird how no one accuses ask men of being homophobic even though almost all their questions are about dating women 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 03:30 PM |
| 8 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?That’s so sweet ! I love hearing about the great relationships on this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:36 PM |
| 4 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?Sameeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 6 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?This is too real I almost wish I could unsee FDS because the stuff I hear hurts my heart sometimes. One lady at work has a bf that hasn’t proposed yet thinks she should do all the cooking and pack him lunch everyday she’s getting him a very expensive gift for his birthday. Another lady got back with her gambling addict , wont commit semi homeless bf who calls her an old lady trying to look young despite him being older than her . I just nod politely and if they do directly ask me if it’s reasona… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 6 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?I’m general I’m more confident in myself and I don’t view being alone as some kind of failure. I was a extrovert to an extreme degree if I didn’t have plans with someone or plans fell through I would feel like I was a loser . Now I actually enjoy time spent alone enjoying my hobbies . My attachment to my friends is a lot less anxious. I don’t feel embarrassed if they don’t text back right away . I don’t take it personally if plans fall through. I also don’t go out my my way for anyone that won’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 6 | How has FDS affected your live otherwise than dating?I’m currently selling Something online I’m usually really apologetic about not meeting ppls ridiculous demands and will cave when given any offer because what if there isn’t a better one . But I’m kind of using the thing as a way to learn to have standards . I rejected low ball offers and I’m not apologetic when I do. The same (unsurprisingly men ) making the same low ball offers keep pestering with me with messages which I ignore . And low and behold it took a while but got a good offer on the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 10:01 PM |
| 15 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeLesbian here men wouldn’t know heteronormativity if it slapped them upside the head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 09:01 PM |
| 11 | One for the ages (2 parts).I saw this movie called babies where they showed how kids are raised around the world . In one village all the moms just hang out together and communally raise all the kids. It seemed like a much better system not gonna lie . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 229 | Leave him Rachel!The age gap in Reddit relationships is real I’m always doing math like wait WAT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:15 PM |
| 10 | Pro-Kink Author gets ripped to shreds in the comment section of her article; blocks FDS for asking why The Cut didn’t interview straight men who were into “Dominating” women on the podcast about her book.Amen so many gross ppl try to use our decades of work do get basic human rights to pressure their wives into whatever they are into because it’s their “orientation “ . Like we are not the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:14 PM |
| 129 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMalso I once saw a father yell at his toddler for walking too slow ... in the snow . this kid must have been like three . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 640 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMOh I wish I had seen this five years ago . Cuz my ex did this all the time . I remember once i was going to dinner with then I was wearing heels it was dark out and I asked them if they could slow down . They said it was my fault for “ choosing to disable myself “ . And just kept walking ahead . Spoiler alert that relationship didn’t end well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inYeah the post she found was about him planing an expensive trip with his gf 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 12:19 PM |
| 19 | Applying this strategy to dating women as a woman?Im a lesbian and I use FDS (well I will taking a break from dating ) to remind myself I deserve to be treated with respect (taken out on real dates etc) I dont need to settle and that if she wanted to to she would . I do use OLD because it’s impossible otherwise to meet women and I alternate paying on dates , being generous etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 17 | Why are men so disrespectful when it comes to women that don’t “meet their standards”?Because these type of scrotes don’t actually have standards of any kind they would bang a trash bag if it had a hole in it and they know it. it’s just a way to make the women they sleep with feel like they are doing them a favor because they don’t meet their mythical standard .It’s why black men talk down on black women it’s why dudes will sleep with curvy girls while saying to said girls their REAL type is skinny girls . It keeps women’s self esteem low which benefits them because they can keep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 11 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectThat’s amazing I stan. I’ve sat though so many uncomfortable dates after being disrespected because leaving would be “mean “ definitely bringing this energy when I’m ready to date again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:06 PM |
| 148 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inA friend of mine was seeing a guy who then said Valentine’s Day was a fake holiday and he’d make his girl feel special every day . I remember FDS talking about this and told her he was just being cheap and it was a red flag . Well sure enough she found out today he has a whole ass girlfriend 🙃. Never doubting FDS’s wisdom again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:02 PM |
| 6 | A message for the female lurkersWelcome :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InThat sounds great ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 7 | tales of a HVM and LVM on Valentine’s DayYay!!! loving all the sweet valentines day stories today you go girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:58 PM |
| 7 | This is how it's supposed to be?!congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Happy Galentines! Decorated for MYSELF and my HVW housemates, then had lovely afternoon tea! Giving ourselves the treatment we deserve 🌹💃🏼🍒I love the streamers ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )Yup They really think they can have our full attention anytime they sort of want it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 33 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮Thanks! yeah since joining FDS i don't mince words lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 33 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮ugh that's disgusting some dudes really have no boundaries. Happy Valentines day to you too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 2 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )Yeah that wasn't smart i signed up for a charity thing yesterday so I thought this was them never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 39 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮thank you ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 3 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )Yeah it’s the most low effort text imaginable scrotes really tell on themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )Not that I’ve been able to find | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )I was pretty young at the time so thought she’d be mad at me if I told her /it my fault somehow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 6 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )No she didn’t but I no longer have her number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:29 PM |
| 40 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮Thanks I was too polite to tell him off at the time so it feels good in a way to be able tell him off now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:16 PM |
| 51 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮Unfortunately no I tried | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 144 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮He’s way to broke for that he’d often pay me less then we agreed claiming that’s all he had on him and I charged like 15 bucks an hour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 168 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮Which is why I don’t work for them anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:27 PM |
| 233 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮He used to sexually harrass me while I was trying to tutor his kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:26 PM |
| 341 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮His wife was/is a SAHM who raises his FIVE kids and would always have hot food for me when I tutored for them . If I knew her number I would show her this text because she deserves better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:24 PM |
| 41 | PSA: Please DO NOT reply to the random “Happy Valentine’s day 🥰❤️” texts from LVM or NVM from your past today!Same got mine at 8:41 nopppe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:16 PM |
| 29 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )His wife was the sweetest woman and would cook me dinner when I tutored for them. I felt terrible for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:50 PM |
| 33 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )I wasn’t but he was at least 20 years older than me. And I had to stop tutoring his son partially because he sexually harassed me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 80 | The scrotes are starting early today (I have no idea who this man is or how he got my number )So follow up I asked who it was. And its the MARRIED father of a kid I tutored five years ago. 🤮🤮🤮. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:35 PM |
| 19 | You know fds is working when other platforms are noticing (and hating ofc) us.My friend told me they heard about FDS on their favorite podcast recently! So it’s even going beyond apps! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:02 PM |
| 81 | Ever since I was a little girl, it was drilled into my brain that the Male Gaze is dangerous. Now that I'm an adult woman, I'm supposed to just "get over it"?Ugh I feel you girl . Puberty hit me like a dump truck as a kid and suddenly my mom was telling me I couldn’t bend down to tie my shoes in public , that I couldn’t jump up and down or skip or run . Despite all those precautions I got catcalled and sometimes followed anyway 🤷🏽♀️ Starting at age 11. It was miserable . I don’t know how old you are but from 11-22 fear of men and the male gaze consumed my life I was constantly making mental calculations is this safe ? Is this skirt long enough I can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:04 PM |
| 45 | Have LVM ever been able to see their hypocrisy when you use ‘tHeiR LoGic’ on them?That and similar moments with other close male friends and once even my own dad made me realize even a lot of “safe” men’s gut reaction Is to defend or make excuses for the behavior of another man no matter what . They will empathize with him first they will trust him first and they will believe him first . Every time . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:26 AM |
| 35 | Have LVM ever been able to see their hypocrisy when you use ‘tHeiR LoGic’ on them?His justification was the guy told him his side of the story 🤮🤮🤮. (Even though he admitted he had literally witnessed him try to hit a women in front of him at a a party a different time ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:22 AM |
| 191 | Have LVM ever been able to see their hypocrisy when you use ‘tHeiR LoGic’ on them?Lost a close male friend of over a decade over this . Thought he was a HVM but he hid from me he was friends with a rapist and a wife beater . Claimed he dropped them after I confronted them and Thanked me for “educating him “ . Caught him in a lie about seeing said wife beater a week later . Then he dropped ME as a friend . He still sees himself as woke and a feminist though 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:59 AM |
| 52 | Pickme BRANDS herself with degrading tattoo ahead of marriage to LVM.Girl no he looks like megamind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 05:19 PM |
| 14 | Just a reminder: if a man is rude or stereotypes women from his own race, bet he will also mistreat you.FACTS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:05 AM |
| 29 | Just a reminder: if a man is rude or stereotypes women from his own race, bet he will also mistreat you.Same and it’s always so gross. White men will talk to me like I’m some kind of rare breed of dog . black men have trashed black women to my face like that’s a compliment to me somehow . Nope begone scrotes . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:02 AM |
| 40 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:39 AM |
| 281 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂FDS is such a moderate subreddit too ! I never see posts of anyone wishing harm on men. The fact the response to a sub simply encouraging women to see themselves as worthy of respect is so overblown really shows how bad sexism is . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:14 PM |
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