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1

It’s not a tragedy lmao
/r/seduction21/06/26 01:37 PM
-3

If you want to make her feel better, say no lol. If you want her insecure, say yes. Are men this dense
/r/seduction16/06/26 09:07 PM
2

Yea tell the girls you’re “playing the field”. Women love that.
/r/seduction15/06/26 04:30 PM
121

3rd or 4th date, yea we do lol
/r/seduction20/05/26 12:52 PM
6

The cooliest
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:24 PM
24

Can’t use “very cool” but “pretty cool” is ok lol
/r/seduction13/05/26 12:39 PM
1

She’s not into you, oh well. Don’t message her
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:13 PM
3

ugh
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:22 AM
6

Or he’ll just rape her after she says no again and then gaslight her into believing she did it to herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:26 PM
9

Please warn any woman who does end up dating him! Show her FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:48 PM
32

It’s sooo attractive to find out a guy can like, fix your car, or build a shelf lmao. That stuff has never interested me, so it would be great to be able to turn over those projects that need to be done t someone who actually enjoys it. Plus I would much rather date someone who hangs out in a garage looking at engines then someone who stands in a gym looking at girls or themselves lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:47 PM
24

Let me guess, shes 20 and hes 38 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 06:47 PM
102

Why do zoomers seem to think if you’re forty you’re dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:44 PM
39

Billie literally sings about being on her knees “for you”. She’s not protected like she should be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:34 PM
55

For real that is some true artwork right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:44 PM
74

I know!! I lost my mind when I was an adult re watching it with a friend. I couldn’t believe this movie was supposed to be about bravery or some shit. Ariel, you don’t know him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 02:15 AM
36

I doubt he cleans or cooks for her either. He’s just a leech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:07 PM
34

Yes!! My ex boyfriend threw his own goddamn phone at the wall after we had an argument. The hole was patched up shortly after cause he realized how stupid is was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:42 AM
112

I need this tattooed to my hand so can look at it every time I doubt myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:16 AM
111

I honestly can’t believe that song is so popular on the radio. Like it’s so clearly misogynistic ?? Society continues to show me how low it really is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:09 AM
43

If he uses social media a lot (enough for you to suspect he may follow porn girls) and you don’t use it at all, I don’t think that would be a good match tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:41 AM
25

somehow it’s no longer a hate crime because it’s ok that he was just targeting women in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:27 AM
21

Literally if you dont want us then I promise you we don’t want you! Keep it moving we are all good here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:48 PM
25

The only reason he has money is because of his mother’s family. Otherwise he’d be giving up a lot more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:37 PM
43

They never take five seconds to actually research. Thanks for the free publicity vice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:34 AM
34

Same here!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:32 AM
2

The hairline sends me. You’d think they’d have done something about that when he was younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:55 PM
5

He literally abandoned his family for his wife’s well being, that’s a pretty big start as far as actions go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:05 PM
9

Kate might be a pick me but she doesn’t deserved to be cheated on because she waited around a little while. She might have been waiting for someone who has more to offer then a prince to show up, which is kind of hard to beat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:49 PM
12

I think the man in the Oprah interview was high value. I fully believe in change of people choose to do the work, and I think Harry is doing the work. I’m not sure about the racism but considering his family I’m sure that shit was normalized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:46 PM
133

Harry suffered without his mother. It showed in his early twenties. I think once he finally “grew up” he was able to connect the dots. there was a definite shift in Harry. Like he decided one day to be high value and live up to his mothers name— not his royalty It makes me sick when I heard that William has/had side chicks. Kate is a smart and gorgeous woman who has sacrificed her whole life for William. instead of being a good husband to her he decided to do the typical royal bullshit and fuck …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:29 PM
79

It shows his views so precisely. Blegh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 09:23 AM
14

Welcome to this sub lmao
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:51 PM
36

That’s wild. My father was adopted and pretty much half my family is too on his side. If a man actually said or implied this there’s no way I could continue a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:01 AM
207

So true. My ex hit 28 and literally flipped out randomly saying he wanted to have kids in the next two years. I was 24, and we hadn’t even had a conversation about getting married. I just cried and told him we were breaking up cause there was no way I was having kids by 26. The next day he calmed down and was much more logical (discussing marriage, understanding children would be a joint decision when were both ready) but that initial break down was so wild and out of character from my point of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 01:38 AM
35

And hid your pictures and existence from the mistress ? Like the wife makes sense but why hid the child ? You’re already lying just say your ex wife is dead or something. Why completely erase the children too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:19 AM
61

My ex bf lived with his aunt, cousin and mother for a couple of years in apartments right next to each other. I think for two divorced women that’s a great set up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:14 AM
142

I love this sentiment. Let simping be normal!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:36 AM
21

I have to agree. Like girl get some self respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:47 AM
30

We stan a queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:09 AM
1

I think the level of comfort a woman requires is different for each woman. Some don’t need much to feel comfortable behind a dumpster, some will never feel comfortable ever doing that. It’s important to make sure your partner is comfortable and feels ok
/r/seduction19/02/21 01:16 PM
73

I propose all women get this tiara and we crown ourselves when we say or do something brave lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:12 AM
4

The mechanic is in a doc that just came out on Hulu. It really didn’t show any negatives to OF tho, literally just showed people who are making tons of money from it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:28 AM
106

Exactly!! I’ve been on both sides. I’ll wait until I’m the dream girl and he’s my dream man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:36 AM
1

I just kind of figured both were old wives tales tbh 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction11/02/21 03:16 PM
1

I’ve heard the opposite...
/r/seduction11/02/21 02:34 PM
0

I literally stopped going to a gym cause a guy who worked there would not leave me alone. He would just come up to me and chat about nothing all the time. One day he tells me saw me In town and asked if I worked in building I went into (which was weird imo). I never initiated conversation. I have to shower and get to my own job
/r/seduction09/02/21 07:08 AM
1

It’s annoying to me. I’m at the gym for a finite amount of time, I’m not there to socialize. Plus I’m sweaty
/r/seduction09/02/21 07:05 AM
14

That’s such a good way to phrase it. I will keep that I mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:04 AM
8

Same ! I tried to be like “she can wear what she wants” but I kept coming back to “why does she want to wear that?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:59 PM
14

Oh lord. I deleted Twitter during the election to prevent doom scrolling. Her style is so desperate to appear cool and aloof, it really shouldn’t be a surprise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:24 AM
104

God there is something so cringy seeing young girls act like they’re owning their bodies when exposing them. I’m all about comfort and wearing what you want, but don’t tell me you hang out in your living room In lingerie and a choker for your own sake. I’m specifically thinking about the astrology tik tok girl. She seems smart but I can’t enjoy her videos without thinking about her body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:23 AM
15

Yes yes yes we love to see a queen replace her crown!! You’re amazing !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:42 PM
1

LMAOOOOO wtf this thread is literally a 100 days old get a fucking life
/r/seduction31/01/21 06:23 PM
21

I bought a coffee and I thanked the cashier and smiled, but I was wearing a mask so it’s not like it matter. as I was waiting for it this rando guy is like “you have a beautiful smile.” I laughed like haha good one you can’t see my face. He laughed lightly and I thought that was gonna be it. Then he connected the dots and he said panicky “no really, I can tell you have a beautiful smile, even with your mask.” And I was like “oh? Haha thanks?” Men literally just say anything if they think it’ll g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:53 AM
141

I started seeing some of the stuff on Instagram. Love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:07 PM
13

Same. He told me they were living apart. I just thought he was shy about inviting me over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:36 AM
63

For real. I work as a dispatcher. I can’t stand when I ask people to describe the subjects and they’re like “2 guys and a female” or something. People don’t even realize what they’re saying !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 12:34 AM
116

I’ll never forget when my ex said to me (in front of his friends, no less) that I better not be using him for his money.I literally said “you don’t have any money.” Cause honestly the man drove a Toyota. He wasn’t dirt poor but it’s not he was rolling in it either. We split EVERYTHING. Like so much his friends comment on it. The whole thing was baffling and i still can’t believe he thought it was a good thing to say out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 04:00 AM
1

Lmaooooooooooooo y’all are so annoying and in denial. Do better for yourselves
/r/seduction12/11/20 11:27 PM
-1

it’s not normal
/r/seduction12/11/20 10:56 PM
1

Normal = average
/r/seduction11/11/20 03:53 AM
1

I’m telling you the trends you think you see aren’t happening amongst normal and high value women
/r/seduction11/11/20 03:21 AM
0

No, this is something childish people do and seek out. The bad boy thing hasn’t been hot since 1980. Again, stop accepting and perpetuating this as normal. It’s not
/r/seduction10/11/20 09:24 PM
0

Mayb in extremely rare circumstances but no normal or high value woman actually does this. Like everyone here has to do better and not accept this to be normal.
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:11 PM
0

I assure you that isn’t normal. Most of my single female friends have gone or are going longer. Whether the chose to do it that way or not it’s not relevant. But most women aren’t dick hungry like this post is implying. I honestly think this is a work of fiction, it’s just so bizarre and off base
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:46 PM
4

Yeah I’m sorry this girl does not speak for all. It honestly sounds like fan fiction.
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:02 PM
9

Holy crap. Was he saying this as a way to justify not walking you home? Like that’s LVM shit plain and simple. But then victim blaming to boot ? Ugh. Lower then low value. Completely disgusting. I’m sorry you had to find out this way but good for you for standing up and getting the fuck out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:48 AM
91

In a fucking thong. Like I’m team no pants in your own home, but fuck chilling in a thong. That really makes me angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:15 AM
1

Sure bud. Even if this is true it doesn’t make it remotely standard
/r/seduction06/11/20 11:23 PM
3

Welcome to sexism lol
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:12 PM
5

No lol
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:58 AM
2

she was working so she would have probably rejected him anyway
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:58 AM
34

Almost definitely. What is she supposed to say, fuck off ?
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:56 AM
44

I work in law enforcement (not a cop, am a civilian who works with them), the women I know would never get picked up on the job. Not because they don’t want to, but because then male officers would be so indignant about it. Hell I’m a civilian and if they see me talk to long to someone they’ll start shit. Cops are real gossips lemme tell you
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:07 AM
3

Yeah dude it’s a literal fact that for many women it will take more then a penis to get them off. If you don’t care if your partner gets off, I pity anyone you bone
/r/seduction04/11/20 12:08 PM
51

Exactly. It’s not enough to see it, or just understand. You have to be anti sexist, anti racist, actively call it out as it happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:56 AM
8

Yep!! But you know when my mother was most miserable ? When she was a stay at home mom !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:24 PM
5

So true. So so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:28 AM
19

One of my favorite quotes is from her husband. He’s speaking about terrorism but It applies. “Your people will judge you by what you can build, not by what you can destroy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 08:24 PM
87

So many dudes don’t get that I don’t care they’re attracted to me. Like men’s standards are so low it’s not impressive. You don’t get bonus points for having eyeballs lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:19 PM
42

Really tho! How you think women get “used”? You think women want to be treated badly ? Like what in gods name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 12:54 AM
13

The lengths people go to omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:55 AM
0

That’s still 200k plus, which is way too many in case you lack empathy. If you feel guilty that’s on you. You can get us out faster if you just chill. I promise you no pussy is worse accidentally killing someone or getting sick yourself
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:09 PM
1

Unfortunately I have to work, so I can’t. I also take care of my grandmother and I am legitimately scared of killing her because someone like you can’t just chill and do your part
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:03 PM
1

I legitimately cannot imagine being so selfish
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:00 PM
0

I get you’re lonely but things are shut down for a reason dude. Don’t make the pandemic worse
/r/seduction15/10/20 05:28 PM
0

Women: respect our boundaries please This guy: women are ruining this sub!!
/r/seduction07/10/20 01:04 AM
0

Lmaoooooo
/r/seduction07/10/20 12:16 AM
1

He’s definitely being purposefully obtuse. One of those people who want to be seen as a victim of the mean women
/r/seduction06/10/20 08:37 PM
1

You’re making extreme leaps. It’s a hug. Go see a therapist
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:43 PM
2

So you think when you’re married, that you should be able to get any kind of physical affection you want right? That’s why you said “she took a vow”? You brought it to that level. I have issue with your use of the phrase “she took a vow.”
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:39 PM
1

But if my options were, marry someone with your opinion on marriage (she took a vow I should be able to use her like a fuck doll) or never get married, I would chose the latter
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:35 PM
1

This whole thing is about boundaries. Both parties can say no to their partners if they don’t want to fuck. Its not “woman bad woman no fuck man EVER”
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:33 PM
1

Do me a solid and don’t trap a women in one of those, ok? I think everyone on earth will be happier that way
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:25 PM
2

There’s a balance to it. If someone tries to force a hug on me (or kiss me or anything) and I have made it very clear that I don’t want it you can bet your ass they’re never going to touch me with my consent.
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:27 AM
-3

Grow up? Dude come out of the 18th century. Consent is cool
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:25 AM
5

You can’t seduce your partner in a relationship? I wouldn’t want to sleep with a man who doesn’t respect my boundaries. I’ve ghosted sooner if there’s even a hint of disrespect in that way
/r/seduction06/10/20 10:23 AM
4

Actions speak louder then words
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:14 PM
3

Absolutely. Someone who is always talking shit is going to talk about you. I’m all for venting about an annoying co worker but it’s not a first date topic
/r/seduction05/10/20 03:21 AM
2

I have had a man apologize for taking an hour to reply to me, meanwhile I’m not answering for four hours just because I got busy. That’s what I want (didn’t work out tho, he was always really defensive And called me pretentious)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:13 PM
23

The whole post i was hoping he’d have a magic turn around. But lord almighty. A 16 year old ? What a disgusting thing. There are so many victims here. He deserves to rot in jail. I am so so sorry you are being out thru this. Stay strong ! We got you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:54 AM
3

Girl you are so better off. That meal looks so good. You don’t have to work that hard for a good man. They show up early
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:14 AM
63

Nothing kills a lvm more then being told their actions count more then their words. In my experience they quickly pale
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:19 AM
99

Exactly. Ripping off implies that she doesn’t deserve it or it’s being fraudulently taken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:53 PM
3

Stay mad. No one cares.
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:26 AM
2

If thinking like that makes you happy, sure buddy.
/r/seduction15/09/20 04:20 AM
1

This isn’t the place to bring it up tho. You’re coming off as salty and all it’s going to do is discourage others.
/r/seduction14/09/20 11:09 PM
3

I’m sorry— you’re right. You made it about hard it is for men, when again, it’s simply to encourage women to make it easier for you.
/r/seduction14/09/20 10:52 AM
2

The post is to encourage more women to try the cold approach, not lament about how bad it is for women. Don’t you want that ?
/r/seduction14/09/20 01:19 AM
9

This post is literally for the ladies idk why you guys keep acting salty
/r/seduction13/09/20 11:31 PM
7

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:42 PM
8

These guys cannot wrap their noodles around the fact that the prostitutes they hire are almost definitely children/victims of sex trafficking. They can’t afford the women who voluntarily do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:03 PM
25

Seriously. He took that paragraph which I’m assuming is about a random third party very personally. if you have to say “technically, it’s legal” you know it’s wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:12 AM
2

this is how its done!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:07 AM
54

Same. I found it thinking I would lurk but not subscribe. after a few posts I realized that this was the philosophy I was trying to hold to myself anyway, and to know I wasn’t alone was so powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:23 AM
1

I get what you’re saying, but it’s less keeping it simple and more keeping it light after the initial interaction.
/r/seduction09/09/20 09:34 PM
1

I’d go with, how are you today, man these buses are terrible, (for whatever reason) what do you think ? End the conversation by introducing yourself and giving your number
/r/seduction09/09/20 08:55 PM
5

It is nasty, like why would you want your body exposed to the elements like that?? If I have a son he will hold it and use a toilet !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:23 PM
3

So true !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:22 PM
8

That’s what made me think about it ! whenever I’m hanging with men, they go twice as often as women do. ESPECIALLY if we’re hanging outside. I was like, how come the woman seem to have “strong bladders” but the men don’t? Cause we were forced to hold it as children !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:19 PM
189

Men also CANNOT hold their piss for anything. I think it’s because they were potty trained and told you can pee outside if you have got to go, while little girls are told to hold it and to wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:50 AM
9

Really the only odd thing for me is the foot rub. I do not want anyone touching my feet anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:13 AM
37

How else would he come to the conclusion unless he was thinking like a criminal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:36 AM
12

I saw my ex oogle this bartender once with me there. I felt so bad... like don’t you know what she thinks of you? Ugh. I can only imagine what he was like without me smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:22 PM
10

It’s literally insane what men will say and do for a lay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:20 PM
39

I love this. I can’t help but be jealous of other people’s cultures when I see this. My family’s traditional clothing is not my fav tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:58 PM
1

You too love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:19 PM
8

My mom said the something similar. At least he doesn’t hit you. Thanks mom, The bar is below the ground
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:22 PM
10

It is so true. Me and My college bf were like I power couple to me. But he dumped me cause I was desperate and needy. I steam rolled him all the time. I was crushed. I’m not perfect now but definitely not that girl anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 06:22 PM
8

Look up in the mirror like damn she the one !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:18 AM
10

Idk my ex told me his friend saw my profile on tinder like a couple of months in. I didn’t see the screen shot ever but I still had the app so I went back in and actually deleted my profile then the whole app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:02 PM
11

Yeah it was always like, ok fine if you insist or if it will make you happy when I caved. it kind kills your drive if you’re always doing it when you don’t really want to. Once a man shows that now I usually bail out cause I’m really tired of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:38 PM
92

I remember having a fight with my ex and he said something like, you don’t respect me. I immediately hit him back with the fact that everytime I said no for sex or try to pull back, he would continue doing it anyway, and I always caved. He didn’t respect my no. He got quiet, but then said he didn’t realize that. After that he would actually stop when I would say no or not tonight. I was 23 and I think he was like 26 at the time, and maybe he was still learning which is kind of horrifying thinkin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:52 PM
35

this is a conversation to have with her. our opinions mean shit here. We are all different people and on different timelines. But Engagement shouldn’t a huge surprise. Make it clear you have intentions of being with her forever if she’ll have you and take it from there. Talk about what you want. Ask what she wants. If you’re both down to get married tomorrow, or want to wait 7 years, whatever. Just make sure you’re on the same page
/r/askFDS23/07/20 07:02 AM
63

I’m skinny, and taller then average. I’ve got a flat ass and smaller boobs. I had a guy tell me I was thick... I was like I’m not ? That’s just a lie. So I was mad, if you want to compliment me, say something true,not something you think I want to hear. And I told him as much. Got the classic “aright bitch just accept the compliment”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:35 AM
6

Do I have to have my email set up ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:58 PM
30

I hate when guys call me on the spot. What would they do if I gave a fake one ? Now I’m never gonna block it cause you’re so hostile towards women that you felt the need to check I gave you the real one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:23 PM
24

I have “followers” on Reddit. I don’t get it, how can I see who follows me ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:21 PM
47

Honestly I’ve had the opposite experience. I dated one man who took his time and really respected my boundaries. But that blew up for unrelated reasons. I’m honestly thankful for him because he showed me there are men who I want that can respect the lines. But every guy after him, when I lay down a boundary they either push it or are turned off. Not even crazy ones, like use a condom and not fucking on a first date. I know I will be happiest if I can find another respectful guy, but it still fee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:01 PM
8

You edited your comment but ok. Phrase it correctly to first time or make a note that it’s been edited, instead of telling me I’m “silly”
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:44 PM
9

Hm, as a woman you’re kind of on the money. I’m mostly looking for red flags at first. If I see one I’m out, but if nothing is obvious I’m still in. Gonna disagree with “use force” part tho. That’s kind of rape-y. You shouldn’t have to force the conversation. If she’s not feeling it, keep it moving
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:32 PM
80

Seriously. If I can’t hold a conversation with them or I’m just asking them lots of questions... it’s a turn off
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:16 PM
6

My 30 year old ex trying to one up me when I was telling him I felt like wanting to die most days. He brought up his parents separating when he was 5 years old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:59 AM
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Commenting so I can check this later since I’m out of the loop too 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:35 AM
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But you are talking about this kind of woman. Her post is that she unknowingly dated a bad guy. It’s not like women see red flags and keep dating bad guys on purpose, most of the time they’re just unseen
/r/askFDS12/07/20 04:44 PM
42

Virginity is a social construct, and in order to “lose” it you have to chose to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:38 PM
3

I guess I kind of viewed it as some men dont want women to love themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:47 PM
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I’m really shocked, that’s what I like about this sub. It’s not man hate. It’s women self love... I had no idea so many people viewed it negatively
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:21 AM
52

Definitely. I’m not gonna convince a man to want to date me. If he wants me, he’ll act like it. It’s so sad that I have to actively learn not to do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:07 PM
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When my ex and I broke up I was pretty much over it before it happened. I cried in the moment and that was it. Now a year later I get so angry. He really didn’t love me. He rarely said anything positive to me. His complete lack of affection could almost be excused if he acted like he gave a shit. I couldn’t imagine being in relationship for as long as we were and not loving someone. But he can’t be alone, so he just kept me down and on hand for when he needed attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:25 PM
34

Oof so fucking real. I hate it here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:22 PM
6

So true tho. It’s when I’m single and focused on work or school or whatever project I got going on that I feel happiest. If I don’t have anything to focus on I realized I equate being single with being unhappy. I’m going back to school now and I’m not worried about a man 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:51 PM
124

Ugh I had an ex that would wear my hair tie on his wrist. It was so so so cute and made me melt everytime I saw it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:46 AM
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If he’s so active with his ‘daughter’ how in gods name did he manage to hide if for four months ? Yeah I’d be uncomfortable too. I was talking to a guy for like two weeks when I saw the background of his phone was a little girl. I let it go a couple of days and then I asked him if he had a kid. He said yes and how did I know? Like it was weird to see someone’s phone background. At the time it wasn’t a complete deal breaker but I told him I thought it was weird he wouldn’t bring her up because pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:38 PM
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Lol girl I’m trying 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:23 PM
7

My co worker told us he’s trying to push his gf into buy him a PlayStation and even made a joke like “she thinks we’re gonna play together.” I wanted to throw up. She apparently makes way more then we do but I couldn’t imagine not sharing and being happy to with someone that bought me an $800 toy ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:16 PM
21

Yeah really classy saving the company a potential lawsuit
/r/seduction07/06/20 11:06 PM
24

Yes, like I caught my boss checking me out once. He was objectively hot but also my boss, so it was uncomfortable to be seen that way by him. When I left that company he asked me out smh
/r/seduction07/06/20 07:35 PM
5

Yes, violence, especially against women is very real and not exaggerated.
/r/seduction05/06/20 03:35 AM
6

If someone doesn’t give you the right number it’s most likely out of fear. the woman doesn’t know how you’re going to react to a rejection. You could flip out and hurt them, or wait for her to leave and try to follow her home. Who cares if it’s a lie, she’s protecting herself.
/r/seduction05/06/20 01:08 AM
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if you look at women as more then an opportunity to get laid, you might find they have interesting thoughts, or points of view, or are just human beings like you are !
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:26 AM
4

Definitely learn to keep it moving. Once I was sitting on the floor drunk waiting for my boyfriend. Some guy came to “check on me.” Once he found out I had a boyfriend he was all pissy. I didn’t even realize it was like an attempt to pick me up. I thought he was genuinely being nice...
/r/seduction03/06/20 09:05 AM
1

Exactly, like if I’m picking up the guy isn’t really responsive and not answering me in a reasonable time frame I’m gonna move on. I’d rather text a guy who wants to text me
/r/seduction14/05/20 06:49 PM
23

It’s just rape. Someone who’s “practically unconscious” definitely can’t consent
/r/seduction11/05/20 04:00 AM
3

If you’re actually busy like dealing with an emergency or something else mentally exhausting... just let the person know you’re busy but still interested and you’ll talk when you can. If you’re still just talking or only had a few dates you definitely don’t need to explain
/r/seduction04/05/20 08:55 PM
8

2-3 days? That’s a long time imo. Like i can understand being busy for a day but there has to be 30 seconds available to you at some point to say “hey I’m sorry I’ve been busy, I’ll get back to you when I can” if you are actually busy with something. If not I’m gonna assume you’re not that interested
/r/seduction04/05/20 04:32 PM
3

Everyone is finding success that way tho. What should they be saying ?
/r/seduction26/04/20 10:24 PM
17

I was under the impression that this subreddit is for all. Not for men only
/r/seduction17/04/20 02:19 AM
2

if you’re specifically targeting women I don’t see why you would tell women not to comment. Don’t you want to hear what a woman thinks about the potential of a technique or situation? If you don’t agree with her point of view, whatever no harm no foul keep scrolling. No reason to get butthurt cause someone doesn’t agree
/r/seduction23/03/20 01:25 PM
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Is this sub for men only and I just didn’t realize ? Take the opinions of real women who have nothing to gain from commenting. They’re sharing valid viewpoints. If you don’t like it, you don’t have to do anything. Just keep scrolling.
/r/seduction23/03/20 12:24 PM
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