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| 15 | Is anyone else sick of seeing YouTube recommend these types of videos to you?Starting to realize "sigma male" is just a euphemism for socially incapable misanthropes who have nothing of value to offer women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:17 PM |
| 35 | FDS opinion on casual sex with other women (as a wlw)?As a febfem (female exclusive bisexual female) I agree with other commenters that women still need to be vetted just like you would a female friend or male sexual partner. Other than that, I don't think there's anything wrong with causal sex with other women, but in my experience the sort of people who are actually worth dating tend to also be looking for long term relationships. The wlw casual sex pool consists of: • poly unicorn hunters • bicurious straight girls who string you along while she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 08:04 AM |
| 30 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 37 - Body Shaming Men For Their Own GoodUs not bodyshaming men isn't going to make them stop bodyshaming us. Men are so lacking in empathy for women, they don't see a problem with the way they treat us until we start treating them the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:26 AM |
| 309 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Never clean a toilet for a man. And if you do, make sure to use his toothbrush | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 10:39 AM |
| 33 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 36 -Barstool Sport‘s Dave Portnoy: Let‘s Roast This (Alleged) RapistYou are a good person ❤ I'm happy that as a nurse you are so kind and caring to your patients | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:33 PM |
| 5 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit."Not that difficult" oh yeah it's not that hard to please a man, all you have to do is completely renounce your personhood and suppress your self preservation instincts and devote your entire life to serving his penis wants instead! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:20 PM |
| 9 | Everyone please be aware! They're not only spiking drinks but now they're using needles to spike women! It seems to be happening very frequently in the UK so stay safe if you're from there.You need an angle grinder to cut Kevlar but yeah it's totally doable. They put Kevlar in motorcycle gear so it's very wearable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:45 PM |
| 3 | FDS is BACK!You underestimate how much the scrotes are invested in interfering with FDS 😂 They'll literally spend months building up a post history on makeup or skincare subreddits just to get a flair: example Adding a few clicks wouldn't do much when so many of them are playing the long game | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | FDS is BACK!Well you have one now :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:49 PM |
| 26 | FDS is BACK!Comments from unflaired reddit users are only visible to mods. So non-mods can't see a pile on, but we can. A post complaining about FDS hit the front page and there was a post about FDS on subredditdrama with 13k upvotes. We've been through this before, it always results in a scrote pile-on gleefully trying to "cancel" FDS (they never succeed but in the meantime it creates a ton of work for us). The shutdown was to reduce our workload and give us a much-needed break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:42 PM |
| 7 | Jewish Women- Please Be Careful Out ThereMy jaw dropped reading this story. Men and their "edgy" internet humor has caused them to become social imbeciles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 81 | Thinking about being married to any of my exes fuels my single hood🤢Because when women are done, they are DONE. That door is shut. Whereas there aren't any men who "got away" because men are like boomerangs and keep crawling back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:56 PM |
| 10 | Here’s a small compilation of TikTok comments from women waiting for a ring- never settle your standards for a LVM.If you want a ring, that's when you imply that you're looking for marriage and that if he's not going to do that for you, then you'll find someone who will. If he's fine with breaking up, then you have your answer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:52 PM |
| 24 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!Honestly, I don't hate this. The Left has managed to successfully push an anti-female agenda by wrapping it up in some girlboss "empowerment" faux feminism. It's like when you need to give your dog a pill so you wrap it in cheese. Why not do the inverse, in conservative circles? Entice tradcon women into the fold of feminism by wrapping it in the trappings of conservatism. Genius, if you can manage to pull it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 04:34 AM |
| 104 | This is what breeding with a LVM will do to youHonestly... I hate to say this... but most of the time when a man "shows his true colors" during pregnancy or after birth, he was almost always waving red flags beforehand, that the woman either didn't notice or didn't think were big enough of a deal to break up with him. I don't blame the woman though, there's all sorts of cultural factors that lead women to tolerate poor behavior from men and forgive, cOmMuNiCaTe, give him multiple chances, etc. Or even just be totally blind and accepting of m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:00 PM |
| 30 | And then everyone clapped! Do they seriously spend time and energy roleplaying and making accounts so they make us look bad?? 😂Reminds me of that meme with a kid holding a boot over his own head. Self-inflicted "oppression" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:00 PM |
| 61 | Reminder: LVM will pick at absolutely anything to make you feel less than. See it for what it is."Why do you ask me so many fucking stupid questions?" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 47 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to constant male rejection.”I was gonna say, you can get all the same benefits by working in commission-based sales for a few months. That'll get you used to rejection for sure 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 08:54 AM |
| 3 | Britney Spears and Why We Shouldn’t Use the Terms “Crazy”/ “Psycho” or Mental Health issues in General, to Describe, Discredit or Label Other WomenI definitely agree that women are often over-diagnosed with BPD, and that people diagnosed with BPD are the way that they are often because of trauma, and that it is dangerous to diagnose a woman with BPD while she is still living with the family that traumatized her, and that even if she is living alone, the diagnosis is often used to dismiss and oppress women. All of this I agree with. However, there absolutely are people who display the patterns of behavior associated with BPD, and the aforem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 07:29 PM |
| 41 | Britney Spears and Why We Shouldn’t Use the Terms “Crazy”/ “Psycho” or Mental Health issues in General, to Describe, Discredit or Label Other WomenI've noticed the "women labeling other women crazy in response to perceived social rejection" a loooot over the course of my life. Especially the past few days from women who got banned for not following subreddit rules or just being disrespectful to mods. Some of them responded calling us crazy, unhinged, toxic, narcissists, psychopaths, etc. The wild thing is that they'll go on these extensive smear campaigns, even creating entire new subreddits for the sole purpose of bashing FDS. I used to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:33 PM |
| 61 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.If a man thinks he is entitled to sex, those attitudes are going to continue to exist whether you pay for dinner or not. I refuse to buy into this idea that we have to pay men to not rape us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 03:18 AM |
| 4 | A woman got sued by her Tinder match for not hooking up with himWhere did you even get $200? You mentioned it in 2 comments now, which is bizarre, because FDS has never set a dollar amount for how much he should spend. You sound like a scrote who spent $200 on a date and you're bitter she didn't fuck you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:34 AM |
| 90 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.If the guy is acting like a psycho or even if he directly asks you to pay, then yeah, just pay your bill and go. What I'm talking about are women who habitually pull out their wallet with every man because they think it's somehow more feminist. Just because a lot of men think that paying = sex doesn't mean that it's actually true. A lot of men think that they are entitled to rape their wife, but that isn't true either. It's a matter of boundary-setting. A lot of women are uncomfortable with sayi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common.Yeah the beef isn't with the websites themselves, it's with the users who want FDS to become a general-purpose subreddit to discuss all issues pertaining to women, and we'd just rather stay on-topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common.I have nothing against Ovarit or Spinster, I use both of these actually. The difference is that FDS is for one specific topic/value system whereas Ovarit and Spinster are for all women to discuss a variety of different topics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:48 PM |
| 49 | Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common.Not just men, women too apparently. It's very weird. They say "anyone who automatically bans anyone is toxic" It's lowkey narcissistic. It doesn't even occur to them that other people might be doing these things for a valid reason, completely unrelated to them personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 27 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.Yeah her "you should date" comment was in response to a growing subset of users who are female separatists who tell other women not to date at all. It's okay if you personally don't want to date (she said something along those lines in her OP), our problem is with users who tell other women that they shouldn't date either. Think of it like this: it's okay to be religious, but we don't allow people to evangelize their religion here. It's okay to be vegan, just don't go around yelling at other mem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 12:32 AM |
| 20 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.Banned Edit: this is the exact sort of entitlement and demanding attitude that we want to prune from this sub. "iF yOu dOnt GiVe mE wHaT i wAnT yOuRe ToXiC" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 08:55 PM |
| 66 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.There are some women who literally call themselves femcels though, and that was the name of a real subreddit that got banned. Obviously, not everyone who isn't actively dating is a femcel. I'm talking about a very specific community, who generally self-identify as femcels. Most FDS users are not femcels, it's just the rest of reddit that calls us that because they are intellectually lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 17 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.So far, 100% of your recent comments on FDS have been complaining about not having flair yet. Keep commenting, normally, so that we can get a sense of what type of user you are and see if these are consistent with our values. Mods can still see comments from unflaired users and "why has no one responded to me yet" doesn't tell us much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 08:24 PM |
| 9 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.I am well-aware of the basis of radical feminism. That's why I am still a radical feminist even though I don't always agree with other (individual) radical feminists. Radical feminism calls for structural change in order to liberate women from oppression. Different radfems have different ideas on how to actually achieve this. Some, like Gail Dines, believe in educating men and women to be more aware of systems of oppression so that we can create a more equitable world (I share this view). Other … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 11 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.A lot of radical feminists DO tell women to be celibate. In South Korea they have the 4B movement which literally means "no dating, no sex, no marriage, and no child-rearing" Edit: also, I never said it was a "tenet" of radical feminism. I said, in the the sentence you quoted, "certain aspects of certain veins" of radfem. Meaning some, not all. We aren't even disagreeing rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 39 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.Laughing so hard rn at all the newbies telling JAMMIES "this is not what FDS is about" Fucking LOL. I get it ladies, HVM are rare. If you personally don't want to date, that's perfectly fine. You are welcome to still participate here so long as you don't derail and don't attack other women who still date men & perform femininity. As a mod I'm tired of having to remove all these "femcel" posts that just end up hurting FDS as a whole. These are the same women who go on FDS success posts or tell ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:05 PM |
| 12 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.I don't understand why this comment is being downvoted. As a mod, I endorse this comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???Just because some people lie about allergies doesn't mean that allergies don't exist. If someone said they are allergic to gluten for example, and then ate some bread because "oh well I can eat a little gluten" yeah it's annoying and I'd probably avoid them, but they aren't really hurting anybody. Giving someone an allergen to "test" if they are telling the truth is far more harmful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:09 AM |
| 51 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???Exactly! This is straight up abuse. If you put something in a woman's food that makes her violently ill, I don't see that as any morally different than actually hitting a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:20 PM |
| 113 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???"Prove to me you're allergic by eating this food" is the same logic as "prove to me that you're not a witch by drowning or burning at the stake" If you die, congratulations, you're not a witch! If you live, you're a witch, and should be put to death. You're fucked either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 64 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???Oh for sure, I was thinking about the time that I baked a cake for my celiac vegan friend, it was a challenge but the result was also DELICIOUS. It's fun to experiment with different substitutes! I don't understand people who act like it's this huge burden, it's not that hard, and if you can enjoy the process, even better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 159 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???Right?? I was shocked by some of the things my date said. That conversation made her very emotional. I thought it was just normal to want to accommodate other people's diets. Also I love cooking and baking so I lowkey enjoy the challenge 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 34 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Not really much users can do. We have already done everything we can reporting problem users and subreddits, meanwhile Reddit does nothing, because they actually make money from our harassment in terms of page views. They are financially incentivized to allow the harassment to continue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:43 PM |
| 78 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Tbh I have been having similar thoughts recently. Every time I use Reddit it leaves me feeling lowkey depressed. I have to take frequent breaks from Reddit whenever I feel like all the negativity and harassment is warping my perception of humanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 10 | FDS is okay with double standards because 1) men are never going to stop exacting double standards against us, and 2) in an unequal world, sometimes you need to have double standards to achieve equity.Men hate our "double standards" because men have grown accustomed to being able to use a woman's value system against her (values that he personally does not share) "Be a good Christian woman and forgive me" "Wait, I thought you wanted equality? If you want to be paid the same as a man then you should pay for dates" "Give broke guys a chance, they deserve love too, don't be cLaSsiST" (as you pointed out in your last post) When women put ourselves first, there is no opening for men to manipulate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:52 PM |
| 74 | Have any of you experienced worse street harassment since lockdown?Ugh YES especially since I lost some more weight during quarantine. Some examples of public harassment that I experienced in the past WEEK (yes, week) •Yesterday I was having drinks on the beach with a couple friends (all female) and a group of guys came up to us and asked if they could join us and we said NO. They got all huffy and sat down RIGHT next to us and started playing loud music so we couldn't even hear each other speak. There was tons of space, they were obviously just antagonizing us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:12 PM |
| 12 | More leftist pussy policing & anti-reproductive choice rhetoric. Nice try Scrotes, but you can’t use Pride month to shame or bully women into sex with you. OUR VAGINAS, OUR CHOICE.This user in particular is an incel, anti-feminist misogynist who claims to be "documenting hate speech" but lets the mask slip every now and then, and the anti-choice, anti-woman agenda is laid bare, as in this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:51 PM |
| 440 | Shitty dudes will even neg your family membersSounds like the husband wants to fuck the sister and he's just bitter that she's out of his league. What an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:01 PM |
| 44 | Reddit admins and powermods having a staff meeting to discuss r/abortionIf you have ever seen a child's reaction to seeing a furry, I can totally see why pedophiles would be attracted to this community. Little kids are innocent so they don't understand the sexual connotations. They just see someone wearing an anthropomorphic animal costume and think "wow! So cool!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 15 | Reddit admins and powermods having a staff meeting to discuss r/abortionLol, it's a pic from a furry convention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:42 PM |
| 47 | The Abortion Sub is being held hostage by a power tripping person without a uterus, Furry Porn Enthusiast, and *checks notes* Aimee Challenor supporterI agree that in this specific scenario, people are looking at it like it's insanity, and for that I am glad. However, there are plenty of examples of everyday misogyny online that people don't seem to recognize or care about. Female journalist gets rape and death threats? "Have you considered not using the internet?" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 65 | Netflix’s Dirty John s2Betty Broderick is a prime example of why you should NEVER build a man. You can support him while he goes to law and med school and the moment he becomes successful he will leave you for his 20-something secretary. No more struggle love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:06 PM |
| 126 | The Abortion Sub is being held hostage by a power tripping person without a uterus, Furry Porn Enthusiast, and *checks notes* Aimee Challenor supporterJudging by the fact that abortion is under constant attack, both online and in real life, am I skeptical of claims like "Reddit isn't real life" The people trying to shut down female only subreddits are real people. They are walking around in real life, interacting with women. Reddit just happens to be where all the misogynists go to organize amongst themselves to shit all over women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:01 PM |
| 116 | Reddit admins and powermods having a staff meeting to discuss r/abortionOh just another pervert fetishist taking over a subreddit dedicated to women's health. The usual (for reddit) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 08:19 PM |
| 46 | Getting dragged by a mediocre news source because you don't want to date a couch creatureThe answer is misogyny YUP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 136 | SEX POZZY MYTHS BUSTED : Why women struggle to emotionally detach from casual sex despite their best efforts. Male semen contains a concoction of chemicals designed to enslave her to the man she had sex with.What the fuck. Yet another reason not to go bareback. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 39 | Qualities of Queendom: not giving a fuck about other people being mad at you 👸Of course, if you are in imminent danger, then do whatever you need to do to keep yourself safe. I'm talking about more day-to-day interactions like you setting a standard/boundary and he gets all pissy about it. A Queen would not give a fuck that he's pissed off about it and move on. Some women would cave and lower her standards or let him violate her boundaries. Or would be too afraid to set a boundary to begin with. The fear of male violence is what men use to control women. I see on the subr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Qualities of Queendom: not giving a fuck about other people being mad at you 👸Yes! I love Patrick Teahan too. He's so underrated. Dr. Ramani is great of course but she has a much greater following than Teahan, and he produces quality content too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 04:40 AM |
| 61 | FDS is anti-redpill. We protect women from abusive men, including redpillers. Saying that FDS is "redpill for women" is literally victim blaming.That's exactly it, they see women speaking frankly and they think she's talking like a man. They're so used to women sugar coating everything and tiptoeing around the male ego, when they see women not doing it, they see it as wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:07 AM |
| 37 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.I see these comments scattered throughout reddit and weirdly enough they come from both straight men and members of the LGBT community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 40 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.And yet here they are camping out on FDS with a magnifying glass looking for anything they can take out of context and twist to suit their "FDS is a hate group and should be banned" narrative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:21 PM |
| 107 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.I mean I'm sure there are homophobes who have a problem with men liking penises, but yeah, in liberal circles I've noticed this massive double standard where it's fine for men (gay or straight) to talk about their sexual preferences but if a woman (lesbian or straight) has a specific sexual desire she is called a literal fascist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:14 PM |
| 243 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.I've legit seen comments saying how it's "disgusting and gross" to see "straight women talking about how much they love big penises" Just seems like yet another way to police women's sexuality. People are allowed to have sexual desires, including straight women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 07:34 PM |
| 14 | "Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre."iM NoT LiKe tHe oThEr gUyS" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:02 PM |
| 116 | "Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre.Oh they already make porn about "banging feminists" and "forcing anti porn activists to make porn" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 225 | "Men don't like women who..." is a complete lie. The more of a "man hater" I've become, the more men seem to chase me. It's actually very bizarre.Exactly, that's why I don't really see it as a compliment to me personally, it's just men being weird. It's like deep down they know that most men are trash so if a woman says she loves men then it means she has bad taste. A woman who generally doesn't like men is seen as more of a "challenge" 🤦♀️ Like... I'm actually mad that men sexualize everything even "hating" men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:23 PM |
| 179 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers""I make more money in a week sucking dick than you make in 4 years" is such a bizarre statement. The median US income is 30k/year. Is this SW literally claiming she makes 120k per week? That's over 6 million per year. I honestly can't think of a single sex worker who makes that much money (except for the pimps and the owners of the actual porn sites) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 432 | What even is this logic???Why do men emasculate themselves like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:55 AM |
| 56 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieCan't wait to see our favorite stalker cry for 3 weeks and make 10 posts about this 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:21 AM |
| 170 | As a single woman, at any given time you should be either dating multiple people at once, or not dating at all.Ideally, you'll already have a pool of connections that you built during the time that you were in leveling up mode. If you don't already have that then you gotta work on developing your social network. But let's say you happen to meet someone IRL and you don't have anyone else in the picture. Download an online dating app and swipe for 15 minutes a day just as a daily reminder dick is abundant and low value 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 18 | Polyamory only favors men and when it DOES favor women it is generally frowned uponExactly. Men lie about their sexual escapades all the time, people only think it's wrong when a woman does it. Fuuuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 171 | Men struggle to give the right amount of attention because they struggle with valuing the emotional needs of a womanThis is sooo true and explains a lot. Men don't give attention to the woman for the woman's benefit, they only give attention to a woman when they think it'll give them (men) what they want. Meanwhile, women are expected to give a man attention also for the man's benefit. Patriarchy is about maximizing male benefit at the expense of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:57 PM |
| 57 | Polyamory only favors men and when it DOES favor women it is generally frowned uponExcellent post, and very true. For any bisexual women reading this who are thinking that you want to have a bf and a gf at the same time, I recommend just dating multiple people at the same time and just keeping it to yourself. That's what I do. (reminder: dating multiple people at the same time doesn't mean you're having sex with all of them simultaneously, and even if you are having sex with them you should be using protection anyways.) "Ethically non monogamous" people will probably balk at t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 68 | This is the document that helped pull me out of a terrible, abusive relationship: Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser, by Joseph M. Carver, Ph.DThis just seems like regular narcissistic emotional abuse. Although I definitely do like the idea of calling them "losers" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:43 AM |
| 155 | Women with children are shamed for moving on after a failed relationship/divorce. (ie. Kourtney Kardashian and Megan Fox)It's a super toxic narrative that keeps women coming back to their abuser, and when kids are in the mix, it's just not fair to keep exposing children to toxic parental dynamics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 57 | Opinions on surrogacy?I agree, I think surrogacy is immoral for the reasons stated in that paragraph. If you want kids but can't give birth, you can adopt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:36 AM |
| 19 | Using "political lesbian" as an insult is a homophobic and misogynist slur.My guess is that the phrase itself just has too much of a negative connotation, on both the left and the right. Human sexuality was not as well-understood in the 60s and 70s as it is today. I'm sure that the feminists who advocated for political lesbianism were legitimately lesbian or bisexual and assumed that if they could be with a woman, any woman could. Nowadays, any implication that "people choose to be gay" (and can therefore choose not to be) is considered homophobic because it's associat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:45 AM |
| 11 | Using "political lesbian" as an insult is a homophobic and misogynist slur.I never said that political lesbianism doesn't exist, I'm saying that it's homophobic to use it as a slur to insult women who avoid men and prefer female companionship. FDS isn't telling women to become lesbians. By definition, we are not political lesbians. But we get called "political lesbians" by woke misogynists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 47 | Using "political lesbian" as an insult is a homophobic and misogynist slur.I don't know why but I laughed so hard at the mental imagery of "OooOoOoOoo SCARY lesbians" 😂 It's just yet another example of homophobes projecting their own homophobia onto others in a weird attempt to control them. Reminds me of the Onion's parody anti-smoking ad: "don't smoke or else people will think you're GAY!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 6 - BDSM. Kink. Sex Work. Polyamory. ENDGAME: CANNIBALISM.Euuuughh I'm so sorry that happened to you. What a disgusting scrote and awful pickmeisha. I'm glad you moved out. I hate the phrase "third", "primary/secondary" it just seems like a cruel hierarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:10 PM |
| 42 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!Same. I wish Dworkin was still alive. I think she'd be proud to see the revival in her work that's going on nowadays | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:19 PM |
| 11 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!Yeah I heard he's an anti vaxxer too. Oh well, another man in the trash 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:19 PM |
| 121 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!First 2 names that come to mind are Gail Dines and Lundy Bancroft | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 09:24 PM |
| 17 | My fellow Bisexual ladies, how many of you are strongly considering starting to only date and pursue relationships with women?Febfem is the way to go, in my experience. The average woman is higher quality than the average man, by a long shot. If you're lucky enough to be sexually attracted to women, I say go for it. Dating women certainly comes with it's own unique set of challenges (homophobia, smaller dating pool, weird dynamics from internalized misogyny/gender roles, etc.), it's totally worth it IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:32 AM |
| 25 | Andrea Dworkin documentary is in the works.She was controversial because she spoke the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:59 AM |
| 28 | I’m pissed. Had to scroll a long way down to find some sanity in this thread. “MeN gEt AbUsEd ToO!” Newsflash, women don’t get taken seriously, either.Rule 11 of misogyny: whatever women suffer from, it's worse when it happens to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 74 | Just scrotes being scrotes 🤷♀️They think "block and delete" is a declaration of war against all of mankind 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:49 PM |
| 74 | Just scrotes being scrotes 🤷♀️Supposedly being an incel nowadays has nothing to do with involuntary celibacy /s The scrotes who weaponize this term against women now claim that anyone can be an incel if they're "bioessentialist", and "hostile against the opposite gender" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 05:42 PM |
| 39 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Men who say shit like that are lying. They're the same men who invented phrases like "if you want to catch a fish, do you ask the fisherman or the fish? Don't listen to what women say they want!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:32 PM |
| 102 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Hahaha right??? Male opinions are everywhere and are a dime a dozen. Time for them to move aside and let others speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:30 PM |
| 60 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Lmao right?? Our WHOLE LIVES we've gotten our dating advice from men and male mouthpieces (pickmes) and you can see where that's gotten women... nowhere. We KNOW what men want, and what they want is a mommy bangmaid, and WE. DONT. WANT. TO. DO. THAT. ANYMORE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 74 | I'm seeing a lot of comments like "I hate that FDS thinks they're feminist"FDS itself is neither left nor right. Our users and mods range from radical marxist feminists, to politically conservative and/or religious. And anything in between. We are about maximizing female benefit above all else. We believe that mainstream politics, both left and right, are anti-woman, but in different ways. When we criticize libfems, we are criticizing "left wing patriarchy" vs. when we criticize redpillers/incels/Republicans we are criticizing right wing patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:34 AM |
| 93 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM soOMG THE GROUND TURKEY 🤮🤮🤮 And they would all argue with me because I prefer chicken thighs/drumsticks over chicken breast. Him: but dark meat has more fat than white meat Me: I know, but I prefer dark meat because it's cheaper Him: but it has more calories Me: I know, and I'm okay with that. It just tastes better Him: b- b- but! CaLoRiEs!!! 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:56 AM |
| 167 | Low effort meme but it's for LVM soThis image gave me PTSD flashbacks. I used to date a lot of bodybuilder types. Their "I know how to cook" is literally just a boiled chicken breast with a side of steamed broccoli (if cutting). When they were in bulking mode, they'd add a cup of white rice. No seasonings or oil, BeCaUsE CaLoRiEs. Even salt was limited because bLoATiNg despite salt being 0 calorie. At the absolute MOST they'd douse everything with sriracha or Frank's red hot sauce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:47 AM |
| 121 | I'm seeing a lot of comments like "I hate that FDS thinks they're feminist"I think feminism absolutely SHOULD be at the expense of other people if those people are male. Men stand to lose a lot of privileges if women succeed in liberating ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:36 AM |
| 10 | I'm seeing a lot of comments like "I hate that FDS thinks they're feminist"that's okay we'll be mean 😘🥰 Lmaoooo I love it. Love your username too 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:26 AM |
| 173 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments)."I could go on and on about industry plants, labels and their shady practices, preying on listeners with certain themes..." Holy shit is he literally suggesting that those 3 women are making corporate propaganda to... checks notes ...brainwash women into not hooking up with white guys? Why is it whenever a woman is unhappy about some kind of injustice, people (men) always try to make it seem like there's something inherently sinister about it. I've seen powermods of other subreddits say that FDS… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:05 AM |
| 38 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 6 - BDSM. Kink. Sex Work. Polyamory. ENDGAME: CANNIBALISM.And they're never looking for a bisexual man! It's always a woman they want to sexually objectify. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:04 PM |
| 19 | Found this on Facebook...They can elevate themselves. None of this pickme-ass bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 74 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 6 - BDSM. Kink. Sex Work. Polyamory. ENDGAME: CANNIBALISM.I'm glad you brought up bisexuality in the context of polyamory. Some poly women are literally just wlw with internalized homophobia and internalized misogyny, who seem to think the only socially acceptable way to explore their desire for women is if it's for a MAN's sexual pleasure. I'm just imagining a beautiful intimate moment between 2 women while a pornsick scrote watches and masturbates to it. Gross. I hate that we live in a world where even lesbianism gets repackaged for the male gaze. Al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:56 PM |
| 46 | I always wondered why the rest of reddit demonized this subredditI absolutely love this comparison! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:45 PM |
| 11 | For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solutionDressing for the female gaze is SO GOOD. I really like wlw tiktok for this exact reason. Femmes don't dress to impress men, they dress to impress other women (or to make themselves happy) which I find so much more interesting and beautiful. Their fashion sense isn't about looking like a hyper sexualized child, which is what men want. They're dark (or colorful), mysterious, artistic, witchy, beautiful, modest yet expressive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 4 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁Fine. If it takes dragging men down to create equity between genders, then ok. Same. Women have been trying for decades to create equality by lifting women up, but men as a class have been fighting us every step of the way. Fine. If you won't play nice, then we won't either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 5 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁Oh and you wanna know the funniest thing? The mod who said the "eugenics" comment is so spineless, they didn't even take down the post after asking the OP to blur usernames. Their mods are weakkkkk 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 12 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁Unlike the vast majority of men who have pedophilic tendencies, most women are exclusively sexually attracted to genitals that look like they belong to an adult. Most straight men seem to want a vulva that looks like a prepubescent child (hairless and tiny labia). In contrast, straight women want a larger dick and balls because it indicates sexual maturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 14 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁It's simple: women are not allowed to have any standards or preferences of our own. Women are expected to just go with any man who "picks" her. Under patriarchy, only men's sexual desires matter, and women are expected to selflessly serve male sexual interests. Female pleasure does not matter to them. Having a pickme bangmaid to mindlessly serve their every whim is what they consider having a "deep connection" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 17 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁I refuse to resign myself to a relationship where I'm not sexually attracted to my partner. Women are allowed to be with someone who turns them on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 25 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁Right?? Like she's literally just admitting that she thinks all sex is jackhammering and that the only way to prevent getting "punched in the cervix" is being with a man whose penis is too short to reach her cervix. If you prefer smaller penises because they feel better or less painful to you, that's totally cool. But don't shame women for wanting bigger ones with men who don't jackhammer our poor vag to death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 33 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁They literally perceive women's standards and preferences as aggression towards men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 42 | Polyamorous, Every bi woman on dating apps feel this video I am certain.One of my favorite videos of all time 😂 Chris Fleming's humor is always so spot-on. Another one of my favorites is "I'm afraid to talk to men" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 92 | Being groomed by an older man is not “empowering” (translation in comments)Foreign languages are welcome because FDS is an international movement! In fact I'd love to see more feminist content from non-English speaking countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 14 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁"LITERALLY GENOCIDE" 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 04:42 PM |
| 113 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁The male gaze follows us everywhere, even here. One of the things that I hate the most about the female experience is that 24/7 feeling at the back of your mind that men are watching your every move, because they're always looking for an opportunity to shit all over women. This deserves its own post, tbh. That's AHS and exfds in a nutshell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:04 AM |
| 455 | To all the scrotes who claim "WoMeN BoDy ShAmE MoRe ThAn MeN" - This famous tweet- written by a man about a young girl's body. So check yourself, sit down and shut up! Your lack of self-reflection is astounding. Women are PEOPLE, not objects.LOL I have so much respect for Billie Eilish. All of these scrotes were counting down to her 18th birthday and sexualizing her when she was still a minor. Now, they complain that her body that they've been sexualizing this whole time isn't meeting their expectations. Die mad, scrotes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Guys who say "FDS helped me understand and respect my wife" okay but why didn't you listen to your wife before you found FDS?That's exactly what I'm getting at with this comment. Men who browse FDS to learn about women are doing the exact same thing as a hunter. Observing your prey in their "natural habitat" fits within the "hunter" mentality: a predator stalking their prey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:45 AM |
| 103 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁Reminds me of that video clip of a German guy arguing with his mom because she wouldn't let him bring his My Little Pony fleshlight on their family vacation. He referred to the fleshlight as "everything that matters to me" Men will literally admit that penis size and porn is "everything" to them and then cry when women make fun of them for thinking that way 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:37 AM |
| 125 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁Don't forget the handful of pickmes who enjoy being showered with those 3 dudes' affection 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️Holy shit. That's horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:30 AM |
| 27 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️Agreed. Whenever I see people refer to themselves as "queer" I wince. I feel the same way about women who unironically call themselves "bitches" "cunts" "sluts" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Sorry but no, withholding sex isn’t a real thing because nobody’s entitled to your body under any circumstances. In her BIO she calls herself a psychologist. 🤡This made me cackle audibly 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:40 AM |
| 12 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 5 - Vice Media Comes For The QueensSeriously, they should be tagging it as "comedy" because every week has me dying laughing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:27 AM |
| 29 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️I have similar feelings. I'm bi and have never felt comfortable using the phrase "queer" to describe myself, because it used to be a homophobic slur. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:19 AM |
| 101 | Stop sending men paragraphs. There are only TWO things that are worth saying to a guy before you block and delete... and even then, it's not recommended.I use this phrase a lot, not just in dating, and it always provokes a very defensive (often angry) reaction from men. So be prepared. Sometimes I use it when the guy is in "overcoming last minute resistance" mode aka trying to convince me to have sex on the 1st, 2nd, 3rd date (or before having a date at all). They pretend to act all surprised like they've NEVER had a woman bluntly express a boundary before, and like I'm the one who is unusual and wrong. Then he usually tries lecturing me with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:24 PM |
| 117 | Guys who say "FDS helped me understand and respect my wife" okay but why didn't you listen to your wife before you found FDS?It's so strange to me that men openly refuse to receive instruction from women unless they're being sneaky about it in some way. When I see guys talking about being a male lurker on FDS, they talk like spies gathering intelligence from behind enemy lines. Same reason why predators stalk their prey. You ever see those videos where a guy turns his back on a lion, the lion then immediately tries sneaking up on them, but then plays it cool when the human turns their head? Yeah. Men think it's emascu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:46 PM |
| 49 | Tell me about the time you were the “dream girl”LMAO that's so true 😂 2 minutes after "confessing" their "love" to me, they're right back on Tinder trying to woo some other woman who is more easily impressed. All because I didn't allow their lovebombing routine to sweep me off my feet. The whole "dreamgirl" schtick is so phony. Motorcycle dudes are thirsty as fuck and will gladly lap up any morsels of female attention thrown in their general direction 😂 Edit: this must have gotten crossposted to one of the moto subs because this comment has m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:26 PM |
| 57 | Vetting Pedophiles: A Response from ExperienceQuality post, thank you for sharing. I'm so sorry what happened to you. One thing I've noticed is that they tend to go after kids with "issues" (abused, behavioral problems, etc.). It's so insidious because 1) these kids are usually so desperate for love and attention from adults which makes them more vulnerable to grooming, 2) if the child ever does make an allegation, they are much less likely to be believed. Reminds me of one of my high school teachers. He was very popular with students becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 33 | Men are capable of identifying "sexism" when it's MEN who are being treated badly, but remain silent when women suffer.Oh yeah I love telling guys "you're being too emotional, calm down" and watch their heads explode because they can't handle being treated like a woman even for 1 second 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:37 PM |
| 122 | Tell me about the time you were the “dream girl”I am wary of the concept of a "dream girl" I hear it all the time from motorcycle dudebros. A lot of male riders seem to have this manic pixie biker dreamgirl fantasy, but since there are way fewer female riders, they swarm around any reasonably attractive/feminine looking woman who likes bikes. Anyways. These men usually come on way too strong with intense lovebombing. Some of them play it cool and will wait months or even years before making their move. Either way, when they finally do end up … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:28 PM |
| 51 | Men are capable of identifying "sexism" when it's MEN who are being treated badly, but remain silent when women suffer.They are deliberately trying to invert the meaning of these words to suit their own agenda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:05 PM |
| 97 | VICE Media Darling Cat Marnell Takes Issue With Our Characterization of Her.She tries pulling "I'm a successful professional writer" card then struggles to string enough words together to put together a coherent argument. Sis was probably coked out of her mind when she wrote this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:38 AM |
| 103 | Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute.All of these redpillers are talking big game online, hyping each other up, thinking they're so clever when in real life, women laugh behind their backs. I swear, all they have is the audacity 😂🤣💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 48 | I’m bi but following FDS is completely killing my attraction to menSAME sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:51 PM |
| – | Please help me break up with my LVM bfThis is more appropriate for r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:49 PM |
| 27 | No truer words have been said about LVMI felt this in my bones. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:48 PM |
| 182 | Gaslighting me by telling me not being comfortable with sex talk with a stranger is “unhealthy” 🤢 Analysis in the commentsHUGE RED FLAG 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Respecting someone's boundaries and having basic social skills is NOT the same as "walking on eggshells" This man is almost certainly a narcissistic abuser who has heard that phrase from one of his past victims and is now inverting the meaning of it to manipulate and gaslight potential future victims. The CORRECT meaning of "walking on eggshells" is "being overly cautious about one's words and actions around someone who is easily offended and prone to react with explosive ang… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 73 | If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play.IF HE WALKS FASTER THAN YOU, DUMP HIM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 195 | Just finished FLEABAG, it made me depressedPersonally I really enjoyed watching Fleabag. It's cringe comedy, the main characters are not supposed to be role models. A lot of it is satirical. My favorite episode was the Retreat. On the woman's side, it was a "silent retreat" where they clean and do menial tasks quietly, and on the man's side they're screaming "WHORE" and "SLUT" at a blowup doll. It's making fun of what society considers "therapeutic" for men vs women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 07:11 AM |
| 59 | I wrote the "80% of women are equal in value to 20% of men" post that was mentioned in the podcast.AEO is Reddit's Anti-Evil Operations which in theory is supposed to counter racism, misogyny, homophobia, etc. but in practice is used to silence women, especially radical feminists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 153 | I wrote the "80% of women are equal in value to 20% of men" post that was mentioned in the podcast.Of my own posts, the one that got the MOST reports was "dear men, FDS is coming for your girlfriends" basically saying that once their GF finds FDS she's gonna increase her standards and dump their LV sorry asses. That one got over 100 reports, AEO actually removed it, and it got me a 3-day ban for "harassment" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 519 | I wrote the "80% of women are equal in value to 20% of men" post that was mentioned in the podcast.Annnnd the reports are already rolling in. Being an unattractive man is NOT a vulnerable identity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 05:19 PM |
| 121 | Thoughts on weird and minimalist tech guy?Check his attic for piss bottles and cum rags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:04 AM |
| 6 | It's so sad that sexism is so prevalent throughout the world. How is promoting and inspiring a positive independent attitude amongst young women in Russia in 2021 illegal? 😔 This genuinely makes me sadThanks! This is the feminist anthem I didn't know I needed 😂 Although I don't see ANYTHING WRONG OR ILLEGAL about these lyrics, just talking about strong Russian women: Fields, fields, fields I’m so small Fields, fields, fields I’m too small How do you cross a field through the fire? How do you cross the field when you’re alone? Heeeey? Should I wait for a helpful hand? What? Who will reach out for me, girls? For ages now From night till dawn From the deepest of the night We are waiting for a sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 09:15 PM |
| 15 | It's so sad that sexism is so prevalent throughout the world. How is promoting and inspiring a positive independent attitude amongst young women in Russia in 2021 illegal? 😔 This genuinely makes me sadI WANNA READ THE LYRICS WHY CAN'T I FIND THE LYRICS ANYWHERE Edit: I don't understand Russian and plugging it into google translate is not giving me a good translation. Can someone who knows Russian please explain?? 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:00 AM |
| 33 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits never denounced Aimee Challenor, and never denounced pedophilia. Currently, their top post is bashing FDS for wanting female-only spaces which they consider "hateful" (notice how they don't have anything bad to say about pedophilia)I mostly agree with this statement except the part that echoes NAMALT which is just propaganda that gaslights women to lower their guard. We still need to be careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:37 PM |
| 6 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits never denounced Aimee Challenor, and never denounced pedophilia. Currently, their top post is bashing FDS for wanting female-only spaces which they consider "hateful" (notice how they don't have anything bad to say about pedophilia)At the time that I wrote that post, they had not yet said anything about Aimee Challenor. See my edit in my pinned comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:04 PM |
| 23 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits never denounced Aimee Challenor, and never denounced pedophilia. Currently, their top post is bashing FDS for wanting female-only spaces which they consider "hateful" (notice how they don't have anything bad to say about pedophilia)"They're just snowflakes who want safe spaces" is alt right/incel speak. They just let the mask slip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 46 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits never denounced Aimee Challenor, and never denounced pedophilia. Currently, their top post is bashing FDS for wanting female-only spaces which they consider "hateful" (notice how they don't have anything bad to say about pedophilia)Lmao right? Aimee Challenor was one of their own. Why would they denounce one of their own users 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:27 PM |
| 18 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits never denounced Aimee Challenor, and never denounced pedophilia. Currently, their top post is bashing FDS for wanting female-only spaces which they consider "hateful" (notice how they don't have anything bad to say about pedophilia)I don't even care if they didn't address the pedophilia in the actual post about us, my problem is that they didn't make a statement about Aimee Challenor at all Also they have a history of spamming child porn so I take anything they say with a grain of salt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:57 PM |
| – | r/AgainstHateSubreddits never denounced Aimee Challenor, and never denounced pedophilia. Currently, their top post is bashing FDS for wanting female-only spaces which they consider "hateful" (notice how they don't have anything bad to say about pedophilia)I am making an exception to rule 6 because protecting women and opposing pedophilia is more important to me than protecting the anonymity of pedophile advocacy groups. I don't want the internet to forget that when the rest of reddit was united in opposing a pedophile apologist, AHS went RADIO. SILENT. They didn't go private, they didn't even issue a statement of support. But no, the FIRST thing they do once FDS goes public again is call us "hateful" for acknowledging reality and for wanting fema… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 8 | Oh look, another libfem pickme "journalist" spreading lies about FDS. This was the author of the Verge article 🤡There was a SW replying to her tweet saying "I was banned as soon as I mentioned I'm a sex worker!" um yeah we ban sex workers all the time for promoting sex work. We even get women who share the links to their onlyfans and encourage women to join OF using their promo code (so that they can get a cut of their future earnings). These women throw a fit when we ban them for solicitation like "I am a sex worker! Where is my voice! You MUST allow me to participate!" and then accuse us of being "whore… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:10 PM |
| – | Oh look, another libfem pickme "journalist" spreading lies about FDS. This was the author of the Verge article 🤡We talk all the time about why it's dangerous to suggest that sex workers should be responsible for curbing incel violence. Oh yeah and when called out for lying, Erin Taylor blocked us 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 81 | Let's show a little love to the aspiring HVM who lurk on FDS. These messages were in response to my post "HVM are not offended by FDS"Yeah. I was mildly conflicted posting this because I also have a problem with men being praised for what should be the bare minimum. The existence of predatory abusive men means that ordinary men get to look like saints in comparison. That being said, I personally think it's worthwhile to celebrate small victories/improvement when they happen, while simultaneously keeping our eyes on the ultimate goal of female empowerment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 55 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Haha oh no you went to Ban Appeals didn't you? 😂 definitely the worst, darkest, most psychologically taxing corner of modmail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 45 | Uh-oh, the scrotes found our podcast Patreon and are BIG MAD. "How DARE those evil bitches monetize their own podcast!!!" Misogynists don't see any value in anything a woman does, so when women receive money in any way shape or form, they freak out and call it "scamming" "grifting" "a cult" etc.Lol, "sign up for our patreon and get exclusive access to PISSING OFF THE SCROTES" haaaa I'm gonna go sign up just to spite those assholes 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 84 | Apparently the manosphere thinks that women are "sexually harassing" men by wearing makeup and revealing clothes. Female beauty is seen as aggression against men, which in their mind justifies male violence against women. I wonder if the Atlanta shooter spent any time on Reddit incel forums 🤔I was one of those girls :( imagine being called a slut at ten years old and you don't even know what sex is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 119 | Women are under no obligation to be inclusive towards people who are hostile to us. Calling us an "echo chamber" and whining that we "don't include opposing opinions" isn't going to shame us into changing our mind.This is such a good comparison. Saying "why don't you allow men??" in a female only sub is like going to a vegan sub and going "why don't you allow carnivores??" Because it's not FOR you, asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:43 AM |
| 38 | NEVER hire a male personal trainerI definitely agree with this. Vetting all of the men in your life is so important. I think OP is mostly referring to big box gyms where their PTs are basically just professional Hot People and whose main objective is hitting sales targets. Strength coaches are a little different, they often have their own business and aren't beholden to the whims of a corporate fitness chain. They tend to have more education/credentials/experience and have competed professionally. They'll turn down clients if th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:11 AM |
| 94 | Seeing how some men treat their aging wives sickens memen are keeping a running performance review of their wives when they can't get their rocks off... he starts acting like a resentful employer who really wants to fire a bad employee but can't I C O N I C 🔥🔥🔥 And so true! "Resentful husband who wants to divorce sick wife but doesn't want to lose half of his income in the divorce" and "resentful employer who wants to fire sick employee but doesn't want to get sued" have the EXACT. SAME. ENERGY. They also use the exact same tactics. Being passive a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 102 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.I struggled to lose weight all my life because I was constantly in back-to-back LTRs with men who stressed me the fuck out. I also had anxiety, depression, low self esteem. After dumping my narc ex I stayed single for a year to work on myself and lost just over 50 lbs, went to therapy, and my mental health has never been greater 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡Oh definitely, Murdoch-style editorial journalism is far, FAR more ruthless and amoral than FDS by several orders of magnitude. I don't think her "playing the victim" routine is even genuine, it's just an act to feed the narrative that FDSers are evil and must be stopped. The next piece about FDS is gonna be something like "FDS are toxic cyberbullies" and as usual will cherry pick facts to paint us in the worst possible light, while completely ignoring the chronic manosphere toxicity that we rec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 85 | NEVER hire a male personal trainer[TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ASSAULT] One of my close friends was date raped by her personal trainer. He love bombed her until she agreed to a date, and they had a few drinks. Even though she only had 2 drinks she got extremely blackout drunk, so she suspected he probably drugged her. She doesn't even remember how she got home, all she remembered is waking up the next morning covered in bruises. She reported it to the police, but the charges were dropped. Dude didn't even get fired from his job, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 24 | HVM are not offended by FDSRight?? I remember even 5 years ago if you criticized porn on reddit you'd get downvoted to oblivion. Anyone who criticized porn was seen as a prudish christian fundamentalist or feminazi. Amazing how anti-porn sentiments are mainstream now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/m2efa8/5_lies_about_fds_in_vices_latest_hit_piece/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡She set her twitter to private because she can't handle criticism for the toxic ideas she puts out into the world. Her next piece is definitely going to be "see! I told you FDS were big meanies!" basically playing the victim 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 19 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡This is EXACTLY what pissed me off about the whole Vice drama. The author wrote a piece slandering and straight up lying about FDS because we're "mean" to men but she has a whole piece sympathetic to incels??? What the fuck? And then she has the audacity to play the victim when called out for it. What a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 06:07 AM |
| 34 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡Yeah and you don't see women going on mass shootings because of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 57 | Isn't it funny how men used to say that women can never be incels until they realized that the "incel" label could be used to insult, discredit, and ban feminists 🤔These guys are so lacking in empathy for women that they literally cannot comprehend why being used for sex might not be a positive experience for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 91 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡If he went to Finland he would probably get the same rude awakening as when RooshV went to Denmark and was SO MAD that the women there weren't falling for his PUA tactics, that he wrote an entire book called "Don't Bang Denmark" basically complaining that he got cockblocked by radical feminism 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 01:16 AM |
| 99 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡Right? Honestly I would have no problem whatsoever if men's rights activists were raising money to donate sex dolls to low income incels. I mean I'd probably laugh at them but I wouldn't be opposed to it. But no, pretty much all of their "activism" involves controlling women and silencing feminists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 01:01 AM |
| 123 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡"White men sad because can no longer own women and black people as property" Cry me a fucking river. When women and POC couldn't own property you didn't see them going on mass shootings. Incels are the embodiment of "when you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:37 AM |
| 191 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡She did include a couple sentences from "an FDS spokesperson" (from the messages mods sent to her in response to her request for comment) ...but only the part that fit in her narrative ("we don't care if other people don't like us") | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:35 AM |
| 70 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡Incels write all the time that they think the government should pay for them to see prostitutes. Or that the government should assign each man a state-sponsored sex slave "girlfriend" "Not all incels hate women!" is such a lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 12:31 AM |
| 38 | ‘Not all men’ is a Trojan horse, here’s why:Quality post 🏅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐I've had people accuse me of "gatekeeping" FDS. Yes, me. A literal mod. Duh, that's my whole job as a moderator, is to be a gatekeeper here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:59 AM |
| 45 | Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐It's Vice, they are in the business of misinformation. If anything, they would promote her for this article 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:46 PM |
| 103 | Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐A female Men's Rights Activist who wrote that FDS promotes neutering and raping men, and wrote in another article that incels are poor misunderstood victims of feminism 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:55 PM |
| 115 | Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐Yuuup she seems extremely narcissistic. The whole article read like a smear campaign as a response to narcissistic ego injury. Even her profile picture has that creepy narcissistic smirk. And now that she's being criticized she's flipping the script and playing the victim, another one of the narcissist's Greatest Hits. She's gonna milk the attention for as long as she can 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:37 PM |
| 37 | Desperate Pickmeisha LITERALLY screaming for guys to look at herThe homophobia had me cringing HARD. Like sis, just because a group of guys aren't staring at your boob job doesn't mean they're gay. Chill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 149 | Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐Right like she gets what? 2 or 3 critical comments on her Instagram and now she's crying harassment? Bitch, please. You don't even get as much harassment as even a regular user of FDS. Welcome to our world. Edit: she says she's getting abusive DMs and when asked for receipts she says "no, go look at the reddit thread about me!" Soooo she's probably lying about the DMs too. Also, if you don't want people to criticize you for being a liar then you probably shouldn't lie 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 174 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piecenarcissistic smear campaign The whole time I was reading it, I had that same uneasy feeling from each time I caught my narc mom telling ridiculous lies about me to isolate me from the rest of the family. Or when one of my narc exes tried ruining my reputation at work after we broke up (NEVER date coworkers). Narcissistic smear campaign is exactly what this article is. The author probably got banned from FDS or some shit and decided to write a whole article smearing us because she can't mentally … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 84 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceI'd wager that the only reason she reached out to us at all was because she submitted her piece and her editor was like, "did you reach out to them for comment?" 🧐 "No" 😐 "well... you probably should, or at least attempt to, because that's what good journalism is" 🤨 and she was like "ugh fine" 😒 She was just soooo excited to show off her clown makeup to the world that she didn't even do her due diligence, what a joke 🤡😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:02 AM |
| 156 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceYeah the whole article just reeeeked of pickmeisha projection. She probably found FDS and felt really personally attacked by it and rather than give a harsh look at her own life she decided to externalize it like "FDS bad" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:43 AM |
| 7 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.It's wild how so many men literally just seem to lack object permanence and think that if something isn't happening to them, then it must not exist. Reminds me of all those Republicans who deny that certain issues are a problem until it personally affects them. Privilege makes people selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 08:00 AM |
| 25 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.I watch a lot of historical dramas and one thing I've noticed is that a lot of aristocratic women latched onto their sons as a source of power. When a queen/noble lady has a son ("an heir!!") her position at court is strengthened, compared to having a daughter where her status is weakened. The shows always makes it seem like these female historical figures were just crazy, evil, controlling, manipulative, "scheming women". But can you really blame them, given the world that they live in? For a l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 10:54 PM |
| 71 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.My mom was badly abused by my grandfather and for years I excused her own abusive behavior towards me because of that. I don't make excuses for her anymore, because from my perspective it ultimately doesn't matter to me why she is abusive, the simple reality is that she is abusive to her kids and that is harmful to us. Not everyone who is abused goes on to be abusive. Ultimately, it was her fault for choosing to take out her anger on her kids instead of going to therapy or working on herself (ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 165 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.I agree. People will think this is extreme but we don't mince words at FDS: When a hardcore pickme becomes a mother, she becomes a child abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 08:32 PM |
| 6 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesBanned ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:50 PM |
| 4 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesWould you refuse? Yes ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:26 PM |
| 12 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesRight? I was imagining some kind of magpie stash full of hair pins and hair elastics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 3 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesThey already have plenty of sites like that for bashing women. Men just don't want women to be able to protect themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Wrath of a man scornedI felt this in my bones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 10:03 PM |
| 7 | The Old Trope of "Marriage is Hard"I agree, "marriage is hard" is the anthem of toxic people. Hardships such as family death, trauma, injuries, job loss, etc. will actually be easier to overcome when you are surrounded by loving and supportive people. These same hardships will be 10x harder if you're shackled to a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 9 | Donna Meagle and Leslie Knope from Parks and RecreationDonna is my favorite character on Parks & Rec. Every scene she's in is comedy gold. Everyone should go watch all the Donna Meagle compilation videos on YouTube. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:39 PM |
| 6 | This is good for a laugh. For "educational purposes" I've made comparison of FDS rules against some incel rules for women. ABSURD COMPARISON. Do not scroll to third image if you find extreme misogynistic language upsetting.[Meme of Pam from the Office] "Both of these pictures are exactly the same" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there a discord server for this?Yes, check the sidebar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | What is actually up with boomer mothers coddling sons and then putting down their daughters? Where did that even come from?YES and I've noticed that a lot of FDS users have bad relationships with our mothers, myself included. The short answer is patriarchy, and internalized misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Can we please talk about how Woody Allen has been flying through the radar for decades?Woody Allen needs to get cancelled ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:53 PM |
| 7 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Oh yeah, the whole, "everything I don't like is a TERF dogwhistle!" Bahahaha what a joke 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:24 PM |
| 181 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"So many racists fetishize Scandinavian women. Ya know, the ones who say "I'm part Viking". They think Scandinavian women are more "pure" and "more white" 🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮 Then they actually go to Scandinavia and are shocked when they aren't greeted by submissive blue-eyed blonde tradwives. For example, when RooshV went to Denmark he wrote an entire book called "Don't Bang Denmark" whining that he got cockblocked by radical feminism 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 85 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"Such a cope 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:12 PM |
| 31 | Governments should pay women to be single mothers 💅The comment section on the Denmark video 🤮🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 6 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.My favorite line is "damage management" 😂 any and all moderator work we do is "damage management" according to this psycho. Even the stuff that is aligned with their purported values, such as removing hate speech, "oh they don't actually believe that, they're nazis, it's just damage management" Although I'm sure he's literally physically orgasming at all the attention he's getting from mods. That's the thing, he can lie about us all he wants and if we don't respond, the lie perpetuates unchallen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 105 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menThe funny thing is that other subreddits will ban us for participating here, and then point to the fact that we don't participate anywhere else but here as evidence of us being a "cult" and "echo chamber" Like bro, not our fault the rest of reddit chooses to exclude us 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:23 PM |
| 13 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Literally 😂 Even removed comments and posts make it to the "evidence" pile. Seriously, removing content is part of our job as moderators. The fact that they freak out over everything even stuff that doesn't get approved or gets removed, shows they're not acting in good faith. They just want to silence women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:01 PM |
| 49 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.The funny thing is that men will DM us all the time saying FDS makes them want to commit suicide and if we respond with anything other than "oh you poor baby, let me comfort you" they then make a whole post about how we're encouraging them to off themselves. Like bro, you messaged me. We've all had toxic boyfriends who would threaten suicide as emotional blackmail whenever we tried to break up with them or call them out on their shitty behavior. "Oh you want me to empty the dishwasher? Fine I gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 42 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"80% of the people who call us TERFs are literally just cis men. As in, their recent comment history is full of "as a man..." type comments. The same people who, 5 years ago, would have called us feminazis, now have a socially acceptable Woke™️ term that morally justifies all the misogynistic abuse they hurl at us. Not only does it absolve them of guilt, they actually get cheered on and celebrated for it. That's the world we live in, now 🙄 Of course, the "real" social justice warriors feel zero c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:53 AM |
| 67 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"Something I've noticed about these people is that they act extremely entitled towards bisexual women. I mean, straight men already act entitled to bi chicks because they think we are obligated to give them threesomes, so no surprises there. But there are others who (for reasons I won't mention) have a very limited dating pool, so they think bisexual women have to date them because no one else will. As though we are some commodity to be rationed out according to the greatest "need" Hooo boy I can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 19 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"I genuinely wonder how many of these accounts are actually bots. The ones who type paragraphs are probably humans, but the shitty one liners just seem like some kind of scrotish AI | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:47 AM |
| 49 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"Saying anything positive about a gay person = "fetishizing" apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:36 AM |
| 29 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"Holy shit 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:22 AM |
| 79 | Misogynistic men are misogynistic because 1) they are male, and raised in a culture that is male supremacist, and 2) they benefit from the oppression of women. Not because they are "all secretly gay"Seriously. Gay men are by definition not in our dating pool. We mention gay men in probably 0.001% of our content yet these stalkers have written multiple posts claiming that homophobia is literally the cornerstone of our entire worldview. They're liars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:26 AM |
| 55 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.This person literally wrote that being straight is inherently homophobic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:43 AM |
| 66 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.We've actually uncovered that this person uses multiple alts to harass us, and each one has a different "identity" depending on what they're pretending to be offended about in the moment. But they all participate in the same subreddits and have the same "tells" So when they say "FDS is using lesbian alts!" and "she's just playing the bi card!" it's 100% projection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 21 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll."Being opposed to homophobia is homophobic!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:37 AM |
| 44 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.That person is a narc who is at that stage of narcissistic ego injury where "people are starting to see through my false narrative!"/"I'm not getting what I want, so instead I'll just scream incoherently" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:19 AM |
| 43 | This is an important, straight-forward explanation that anyone who may be new here needs to listen to. It may be a hard pill to swallow at first, but really you should recognize this realization as your own freedom from a system designed to oppress you.I think a lot of women know this deep down which is why there are so many pickme's trying to keep a man's interest by showing how USEFUL she can be to him. Cooking, cleaning, fucking like a porn star. Trying to show she's "wifey material" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:24 PM |
| 30 | Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy.Which, as we all know, men think is LiTeRaL VioLeNcE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:54 PM |
| 15 | Why can’t men quietly enjoy things?It's so funny because if we showed any discretion over who we hung out with and started cutting shitty men out of our lives, they would get mad at us for being judgemental and not "giving them a chance" Can't win with these assholes 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativei was always uncomfortable with other people's naked bodies OMG are you me??? I'm the exact same way. My relatives were always so gross and had no boundaries about nudity. Uncles, aunts, cousins, parents, everyone had no qualms about changing or being randomly naked in front of each other. I had a cousin once whip out his dick when I was like 11 and ask me "does this look weird to you?" Me and my siblings were the "weird ones" and got teased for not being comfortable with that and wanting to cha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 09:34 AM |
| 421 | Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy.For the record, I think she slapped him in self defense. He likely got physical trying to "confiscate her car keys" and she defended herself when he put his hands on her. He only said it like "she slapped me" to make her seem like the bad person. It sounds like he is an abuser. No woman makes those kinds of preparations, for that amount of time, in secret, unless she is seriously afraid of what he might do to her. He sounds extremely controlling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeThis is by far my favorite comment on this post 🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:52 AM |
| 556 | Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy.I tried to confiscate her car keys in the heat of the argument and she literally slapped me Can't wait to see all the misogynists mass reporting this for "advocating violence" 😑 For real though, the woman in this story is a total queen. "Oh she didn't attend the meeting so we decided for her that she would quit her job and be a housewife!" TALK SHIT? GET HIT 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 08:42 AM |
| – | Why can’t men quietly enjoy things?Lol @ all the men trying to respond to this question 😂 Predictably, they all fall into the following categories: "Not all men are like that"/"You're generalizing" "All men are like that, iTs BiOLoGy" "Women do that too" "Your fault for choosing the wrong men to hang out with" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 06:33 AM |
| 10 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeIt's so funny you mention that because we do get a lot of hetero women who hate on FDS. I think it's because a lot of them are insecure or have low self esteem, and feel like they don't have the "right" to ask men for better treatment. We had to add the rule "no standard shaming" because of how many hetero women going "not MY Nigel!" and talking about how SUPER HAPPY AND IN LOVE they are with their low value scrote who gave them a card and a box of dog shit on Valentine's Day. Ya know, the types… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:34 AM |
| 9 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeI feel you. I had a similar thing going on in my brain, I was having that constant bi inner monologue like "I have a crush on a girl, am I lesbian? No wait, I like that one boy. Definitely straight. Oooh look, another pretty girl. Maybe I'm gay after all? Nope, wait..." It didn't help that I was a bit of a tomboy and poorly socialized due to shitty narc parents, so I was definitely the "weird kid" hence why those girls targeted me. Kids can be so mean. Mentally scarring 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 7 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeI absolutely love this comment. Recently I've been seeing a lot of meme/hottakes on bi subreddits like "bi women who date men are still valid!" and "bi women who only date other women are biphobic!" Due to the fact that reddit skews heavily male, it doesn't surprise me one bit that these would get so many upvotes. They're just promoting a promale agenda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:10 AM |
| 10 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeOh definitely, and I have to admit I'm not really active in lesbian circles, so I'm by no means an expert. A lot of lesbians seem to dislike bi women, unfortunately. So most of the women I have dated are also bi. I'm femme and I mostly date other femmes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:45 PM |
| 24 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeThis is a fair point, and I agree that we don't escape patriarchy by being wlw. We still have to deal with the world around us. What I mean is that when I look at a woman, even a butch woman, I think "safe". When I look at a man, my brain goes "danger" In my personal (and limited) experience dating women, I just feel a greater sense of intimacy and connection. With men, I hate that I have to always have my guard up. I'm more comfortable being vulnerable and loving with women. Being with a woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:36 PM |
| 29 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeVery well put! I agree 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:32 PM |
| 10 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeAll good! It's approved now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 36 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativePlease do not link directly to that sub. I removed your comment for now, please edit so there's no direct link and I'll approve it. And don't worry, we are working on a contingency plan other than the website ;) stay tuned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:08 PM |
| 305 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeYou wanna know something funny? We have a few male stalkers who say contradictory shit like "FDS is heteronormative and promotes political lesbianism" So which is it? Are we forcing people to be gay or are we forcing people to be straight? It can't be both! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:28 PM |
| 54 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeI got bullied by other girls when I was younger. In school whenever we had PE, if I ever accidentally made eye contact with another girl, cue the "EWWW WHAT ARE YOU SOME KIND OF FUCKING LESBIAN!!!" so I kept my eyes glued to the floor. Hoooo boy did that ever fuck me up mentally for a long time 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:24 PM |
| 108 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeThe funny thing is whenever we point that out we get called homophobic. Even though there have been multiple studies suggesting that men with extreme misogyny/homophobia get more sexually aroused watching gay porn than straight porn. Which suggests they have unacknowledged feelings that they mask and externalize via hostility to women and gay people. I honestly, from the bottom of my heart, wished that we lived in a world where being gay is more accepted. I genuinely wish more men could be hones… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 64 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeLove your username 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 160 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.These kinds of posts always make me sad because I just know that if he married an intelligent slightly-less-hot woman, he would be complaining that she doesn't look as sexy as the Instagram models he jerks off to (side note: even those insta models don't actually look like that because they use facetune). Even if she was literally perfect personality-wise, he would be saying stuff like, "even though we have amazing stimulating conversations, I still find myself looking at hotter women and imagin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:35 PM |
| 61 | How common is this? You should not be needing marriage counseling right after marriage. Society focuses more on the act of being wed/partnered than they do on the quality of the relationship being established. That's why FDS recommends to vet, vet, vet to keep therapy/divorce costs low later on.Yes, exactly. I think everyone should have a few therapy sessions before getting married because even if the relationship is good right now, most people live with unresolved trauma, bad habits, etc. that might not be a problem now, but could be an issue down the road. It's an opportunity for couples to dig deeper on these issues with the help of a professional. It's an opportunity to eliminate any "fairweather boyfriends" who are with you when life is good but may crumble under the pressure of l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 151 | How common is this? You should not be needing marriage counseling right after marriage. Society focuses more on the act of being wed/partnered than they do on the quality of the relationship being established. That's why FDS recommends to vet, vet, vet to keep therapy/divorce costs low later on.I do think that people should go to therapy before getting married even if the relationship is good, as a preventative measure and general compatibility test. But if you're going to couples therapy with your abusive/cheating boyfriend of 6 months yeah that's super dumb and a waste of money. Dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself?FWB means sex with no emotional connection, commitment, or investment from the man. The "benefits" are sex. It is an arrangement that solely benefits men. For women, it is high risk low reward. For men, it is high reward with little effort/investment. "Casual dating" in this (FDS) context means you're going on dates but not having sex, AND not getting emotionally attached. FDS encourages women to wait minimum 3 months dating before sex. If you do go on dates, look at these men like a science exp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself?Building up a supportive group of female friendships is step #1. Be careful about who you choose to be in your friend circle, you don't want to learn the "rules" from a pickmeisha. Some casual dating while actively working on yourself is fine, just make sure to stay emotionally detached, date multiple men if you can just for "practice" but don't get intimate (physically or emotionally) for 3 months at least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:37 AM |
| 38 | Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself?Sorry, I just went back and reread your post, I missed the part where you said you have autism. I would strongly, strongly advise you not to date until you get some treatment such as therapy and social skills training. Women with autism are far more likely to be abused, because it's harder to read if people have bad intentions. It's normal to feel a little self conscious from time to time. But it is very unhealthy to have this constant feeling of "am I being annoying", feeling like you need to a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 08:12 AM |
| 86 | Ways to ask "am I being annoying" without putting a kick me sign on yourself?Don't ask other people if you are annoying, like you said, it puts a target on your back. The key is to work on yourself and achieve things so that you are more confident, so that you don't even feel the need to ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:59 AM |
| 61 | Video: China's Leftover Men, Desperately Seeking WivesI really, really enjoyed watching this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 57 | Am I LVW?My heart broke reading this. Your ex boyfriend was an asshole, he is 100% in the wrong for disrespecting your boundaries. It's good that you left, you deserve to be treated better than that. People with autism can absolutely be high value. Here you can read about 14 amazing highly accomplished HVW with autism. Of course, people with autism may have more obstacles to overcome compared to someone who is neurotypical. Women with autism need to be especially careful because they are at a much higher… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:13 AM |
| 2 | The rabbis have had ample time to use their sharp minds to nullify a Jewish husband's ability to exploit his power to chain his wife to an unwanted marriage. They just haven’t done anything since it doesn’t benefit men.That's fair, and I apologize. I removed the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 46 | Men are perfectly capable of identifying body shaming when it happens to men. They just don't care when it happens to women, because they see us as their property. When women critique male bodies, we are upsetting the power dynamic in which men are whole human beings and women are consumable objectsAnd we all know that THEY wouldn't offer to pay for it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 8 | Rape Culture Makes Me More SuicidalI really recommend this therapist's YouTube channel: https://youtu.be/_PcVXDJQ9Wc This video in particular helped me understand my parents behavior and helped me stop feeling bad for my mom, and realize that she was a big part of the problem too. Some other videos that really helped me, as in like totally blew my mind and set me on the path towards lasting healing: https://youtu.be/3LVQMgPhP3A https://youtu.be/olqyOZnFRWM https://youtu.be/G0ZjFSzx83Y https://youtu.be/EBpF8sWycQQ https://youtu.be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 14 | Rape Culture Makes Me More SuicidalI feel you. I had to go No Contact with both of my parents because they were abusive narcissists. Are you safe? Are you still living with your parents? I highly recommend going No Contact with them. You cannot heal in the environment that made you sick. Rape culture is super depressing, I agree. There's actually plenty of studies that show that being a minority or a woman severely impacts one's mental health. It is totally normal to have adverse health outcomes if you were abused. You are not al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 156 | Men are perfectly capable of identifying body shaming when it happens to men. They just don't care when it happens to women, because they see us as their property. When women critique male bodies, we are upsetting the power dynamic in which men are whole human beings and women are consumable objectsThat's when they go "bUt wAhMeN cAn GeT pLaSTiC SurGeRy" as if men can't also get plastic surgery 😂 Men complaining about their jawline/height can always get those procedures where the doctor breaks their bones and they regrow better. Remember boys, beauty is pain! Women have been subjecting themselves to horrifying beauty treatments since time immemorial. Welcome to our world! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 103 | "Boyfriends are like, 'why don't you liposuction my girlfriend?' Why don't I liposuction you? Look at that big fat hairy belly of yours." LOL I love this plastic surgeon's tiktok!Yes!! I love seeing men make fun of other, shittier men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 171 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesThis is SO TRUE. Men always act so surprised when they learn that women are multi dimensional beings who do more than just scroll Instagram all day every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:28 PM |
| 12 | "Choking my girlfriend isn't abusive because she asks for it" has the same energy as "well if you're really being abused, why don't you just leave?""You see your honor, my client's girlfriend CONSENTED to having the shit beaten out of her!" 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:48 PM |
| 108 | People respond poorly to Gigi Engle’s newest Pro-Kink article on Instagram, and rather than self reflect, she comes for Redditors. Gets told about herself by some infamous Redditors. 💅Reading that article made me feel sick. I just KNOW that abusive men are gonna use that article to gaslight their mentally ill girlfriends into doing kink under the guise of "sexual healing" only to end up causing her even more trauma. Gigi Engle is literally promoting a pro-abuser and pro-rapist agenda. She is a traitor to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:44 PM |
| 2 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMThat story makes my blood boil 🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:00 PM |
| 135 | From The "Book Of Negs" (Negging). This Is What Seduction/Red Pill/Pick-Up Artists Have Been Teaching Males To Do To UsThe "you had a hard childhood, didn't you?" gave me chills. I've heard that line from men who turned out to be narcissistic abusers. It's straight up EVIL. Someone who has actually suffered from childhood trauma probably thinks that kind of "line" means he feels compassion for her, and is inviting her to open up to him. Nope, he's just a predator looking for weaknesses to exploit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:55 PM |
| – | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.Please crop out the subreddit name and then repost (part of anti brigading efforts) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 23 | “What you fear, you will want to destroy”Contacting your local government representative to petition them to get their shit together providing clean water on reserves/reservations would be a great start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:35 PM |
| 25 | Pro-Kink Author gets ripped to shreds in the comment section of her article; blocks FDS for asking why The Cut didn’t interview straight men who were into “Dominating” women on the podcast about her book.Right?? When they only put the picture of the woman, 100% chance the man looks like a troll. Bothers me so much that pervy scrotes are essentially using their girlfriends to be their own personal pimp for recruiting sex objects for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:11 PM |
| 62 | “What you fear, you will want to destroy”This was so moving, brought tears to my eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:08 PM |
| 94 | If a man abuses you like this it will escalate to physical violence. Leave and don’t let him know your location.This is EXACTLY how I imagine all the triggered scrotes who hate FDS but still desperately try to force their way in to participate. Most likely they are abusers themselves, they don't want their potential victims to know the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:59 PM |
| 18 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMI had an ex straight up leave me behind on a hike. It was a very technical hike and I was struggling in some parts, he was getting impatient with me and rushing ahead. There was one point where I finally got to the top of a steep hill and he was long gone. I could see the color of his jacket waaay in the distance. I hiked the remaining 2 hours alone. It's so dangerous because what if something happened to me? On difficult hikes you should always go in pairs so that one person can call for help i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:37 AM |
| 334 | Pro-Kink Author gets ripped to shreds in the comment section of her article; blocks FDS for asking why The Cut didn’t interview straight men who were into “Dominating” women on the podcast about her book.Eugh. On a side note, I just wanna take a sec to rant about "queer heterosexuality" (touched on by the "emmi" comment) Being into kink is NOT. A. SEXUAL. ORIENTATION. It is NOT the same as being gay, bi, or lesbian. I'm fucking sick and tired of all these straight PERVERTS acting like they're oPpReSsEd because they're so depraved and/or pornsick they can't orgasm unless they're getting punched in the face while dangling from the ceiling by their nipples. Oh and while I'm at it, as a bi chick who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:08 AM |
| 134 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMMy narc ex was exactly like that, always driving off in the wrong direction and then getting mad at me when I pointed it out, causing me to walk on eggshells 🙃 That's a huge red flag, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:33 AM |
| 165 | Patriarchy squashes female liberation by forcing women to choose between two equally oppressive binary gender roles. FDS teaches women that we don't need to take ANY "pills" that do not 100% serve our interests.On a side note I just wanna add that the whole "pill" metaphor is deeply flawed. For one, what kind of idiot just swallows an unmarked pill from a strange man? Ridiculous 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:38 AM |
| 362 | chill bro, we were just joking! dont take it so personally!!!!11For real though, these smoothbrains like to go on and on about having a "dark and edgy" sense of humor but for some reason that only applies to hating on women and minorities. Hmmm 🤔 When they see "dark and edgy" humor that makes fun of men, they cry and mass report it for "advocating violence" such as this one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 67 | The great disparity between sex-workers (TW: graphic abuse and sexual violence)I've seen a few scrote comments like "FDS is SWERF yet they don't use automod to ban users from sex worker subreddits? Their mods must be really dumb because they know how to use automod to ban other subs, so if they wanted to exclude sex workers, they could. Clearly they're just too stupid to realize" Like... bro. How can someone be so close to "getting it" and still have the point fly completely over one's head. We deliberately do not exclude sex workers because they are oppressed under patria… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 94 | Inspired by one of the comments on my most recent post 💀💀💀💀💀Can't wait till the redditors find this and mass report it for "targeted harassment at me" Edit: It has begun. Brace yourselves 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:25 AM |
| 47 | Don't let the red flags pass you by.I know this is meant to be satirical, but I've seen a lot of women have actual conversations like this. Patriarchy so deeply internalized they gaslight themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 36 | "Deadbeat" by TMG (Cody Ko and Noel Miller) had me dying of laughter this morning. I had to share it here 😂Trust me, sis. Girl Defined is most certainly not FDS. Sure, "don't date Mr. Struggle" and "don't obsess over boys" is good all-around dating advice. However the rest of their channel is pretty oppressive to women. They're not encouraging women to level up and be financially independent, they're encouraging them to be submissive and obedient. FDS is not tradcon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:11 PM |
| 12 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️"Crying to their admin daddy" LOL so true, yeah we have quite a lot of misogynistic stalkers with delusions of grandeur who like to pretend they have a close personal relationship with admins. Then when they mass report us and don't get their way, they throw a temper tantrum 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:22 AM |
| 84 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️"bOdY sHaMiNg mEn" Funny how they don't care about body shaming when it's directed at women, but when it's directed at a man? Literally a hate crime 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:39 PM |
| 14 | A guy that I'm seeing sent this to me in good humor #niceforwhat?Personally I like to carry a pocket-sized guillotine with me at all times, you never know when a girl's gonna need it! /s (Google "finger guillotine") | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 89 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️Eh... I dunno if I want to bring homeless people into it. Kinda insulting to actual homeless people. A better comparison would be a robber getting hit by a bus while trying to rob you, and then demanding that you pay his medical bills because it's "your fault" he got hit by the bus, because he was robbing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 60 | I DID IT!!!!!! I STOOD UP TO MY P*RN ADDICTED LVM CHEATING ABUSIVE BOYFRIEND!!!!!!You need to get out. He needs to become your ex boyfriend. I used to date narcissists (also due to childhood abuse and having no boundaries) and learned the hard way that the MOST. DANGEROUS. TIME. is right after you call them out. He'll sit in the corner acting like a little manlet for a while, until he decides to punish you for causing a narcissistic ego injury. Be careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:13 PM |
| – | A guy that I'm seeing sent this to me in good humor #niceforwhat?Men are reporting this for "advocating violence" LMAO what happened to their "dark edgy humor"? 😂 For the record, OBVIOUSLY DO NOT PUT A MAN IN A GUILLOTINE. DO NOT DO A VIOLENCE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:03 PM |
| 33 | Men when you treat them 1% as badly as they treat women:Dudes were mass reporting this post for "advocating violence" What happened to their "dark" "edgy" sense of humor? Or does that only apply when men are being racist and sexist 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:29 PM |
| 14 | You love to see it.Apparently that's "biphobic hate speech" nowadays 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:10 AM |
| – | Tiphany the 911 Dispatcher 🤣 https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeNodDps/Men are reporting this for "advocating violence" LMAO what happened to their "dark edgy humor"? 😂 For the record, obviously DO NOT SHOOT UR BOYFRIEND. DO NOT DO A VIOLENCE. FDS always has and always will promote "BLOCK AND DELETE" as the only appropriate way to deal with undeserving men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:39 AM |
| 117 | Degrading names during sexDudes would laugh if I ever told a guy that my kink is being served grapes while relaxing on a chaise lounge 😂 But no, if you say on reddit that you don't want to be forced to lick a toilet during sex, you'll get an avalanche of pornsick redditors crying "dOnT KiNk sHaMe mE!!!" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 176 | “SIMP” has gone mainstream. Boys bully other boys for being nice to women. This is the male socialization we’re up against.Makes me wonder how many of those shitty friends are behind the "my boyfriend only got me a card and a cardboard box full of dog shit for Valentine's day" stories on all the relationship advice subs. Crabs in the bucket, all of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:09 AM |
| 196 | Remember ladies, anyone who says this sub is "redpill for woman" or "female incels" chances are close to 100% that they are an MRA or incel. They're just bitter their fave sub got banned. It's the same mentality as a child throwing a temper tantrum when their toy gets taken away.Not having sex with men = LiTeRaL VioLenCe!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 54 | You love to see it.Exactly. Being febfem is met with so much hostility because saying "no" to men is considered a hate crime. (Lesbians often face hostility too, I definitely don't want to minimize that.) Recently I've been seeing bisexual circles getting overrun by memes like "bisexual women who date men are still valid!" and "joking that bisexual women are attracted to all women and only 3 men is hateful and biphobic!" (even though that joke was started by and perpetuated by bisexual women). I'm so tired of male… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 12:30 AM |
| 107 | Confirmed: We are the product.Can't wait for Stalker Sub to write a ten-page manifesto based on this comment, declaring that we are a hate sub because we kink-shame mechanophiles 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:57 PM |
| 81 | You love to see it.I'm febfem and I get a lot of hate from misogynistic males who think that being febfem is hateful and exclusionary. What's so weird is that even gay and non-cis males have been attacking me for it. Like, why do they even care? Oh wait because they just hate women 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 17 | Whose child is this? And she proposed at her brother’s wedding of all places?! 🤦🏽♀️ please do not mistake this as “gEnDEr EqAuLiTy” 😑That smile wasn't an "I'm happy" smile. It was a "omg this is so embarrassing" nervous smirk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Women are objectified meanwhile men are personified in our societyI love this new tiktok trend (the sound effect) 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:32 PM |
| 22 | Is it me or every "relationship guru" is like telling women to stop annyoing their bfs?People are actually influenced by these "relationship gurus" They are part of our culture and are deserving of scrutiny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 47 | Is it me or every "relationship guru" is like telling women to stop annyoing their bfs?Relationship coaching for women is about how to change yourself to accommodate a man's disrespect and abuse. Relationship coaching for men is about teaching men how to disrespect and emotionally abuse women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 20 | “I’m part Viking” Avoid Men Who Fake Their Ancestry or Try to Claim Their Ancestors Accomplishments As Their Own"I'm part Viking" sounds way cooler in their mind than "my great grandfather was Swedish" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:13 PM |
| 20 | Trigger Warning: very disturbing sexual violence. Remember how I said that I think previously taboo things like BDSM becoming mainstream are going to force deviants to go more extreme to seek that feeling of taboo? Here we are.Now I want a female artist to make an entire art collection featuring violence against men and then watch it become the most controversial exhibition in history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:09 PM |
| 49 | You love to see it.This made me happy 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 3 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeI was so moved watching this, I cried. Those poor children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:02 PM |
| 79 | How to be emotionally abusive 101Can't wait for FDS Stalker to make a whole post about this comment by taking it out of context, writing an entire unrelated narrative about it, and then accusing us of homophobia and being an LGBT hate sub 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:38 PM |
| 67 | She’s 18 and he’s 23The "other girls he knows with silky smooth skin" are just porn stars. Usually they get their hair professionally removed. He wants her to look like a teen porn star. Gross 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:20 AM |
| 55 | We Don't Understand How Dangerous the Manosphere Truly IsLeft wing misogynists are arguably more dangerous to women because they are more deceptive. They'll put on a niceguy front to gain women's trust and convince them to let their guard down. They'll use a woman's value system against her. At least with alt right guys, they're easy to avoid because they're just blatantly crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:15 AM |
| 11 | This is so wholesome, it momentarily melted my ice-cold heart 🥰Such a beautiful story, and truly high value. We read so many stories on FDS about men abandoning their wives the moment they get sick, while women are expected to stay and be a caregiver if her husband is the one who gets sick. It's almost like the "in sickness and in health" vow only applies to women, not men. So it's really refreshing to read stories of men stepping up to the plate and being a truly good person/spouse. It shows that men are capable of being generous and kind, even if most men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 20 | I asked men why don't they accept compliments from other men...Should have told him that maybe that's why women don't accept his compliments, cuz she's not attracted to him 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Its gross enough that he's attracted to his cousin, but he fully commited to this pervers attraction.Repost | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Its gross enough that he's attracted to his cousin, but he fully commited to this pervers attraction.Just crop out everything but the title and body of post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:05 AM |
| – | Its gross enough that he's attracted to his cousin, but he fully commited to this pervers attraction.Please blur subreddit names | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:28 AM |
| 115 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!"No, you don't understand, I got her 500 dollars worth of Dollar Tree items!" 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:49 AM |
| – | Mission accomplishedWhoops sorry, didn't realize this was already posted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:38 AM |
| – | I’m so sad for this girl - this is never ok.Please blur out subreddit name and reddit usernames | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:30 AM |
| 34 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏There used to be a rape porn subreddit that literally had gifs of men punching pregnant women in the stomach while gang raping them. But no... reddit doesn't have a misogyny problem. The REAL toxicity is MiSaNdRy 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 32 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏We have repeatedly informed reddit Admins and their policy is basically: Men planning coordinated brigades and filling our modmail with an avalanche of abusive hate speech: Totally fine, not harassment. A random FDS user who also happens to browse other subs leaving an FDS-positive comment? BRIGADING AND HARASSMENT We have an anti-brigading policy that is stricter than any other sub, yet they still accuse us of brigading. It has nothing to do with actually reducing harassment, they just hate wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 132 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏FYI to any newbies reading this: Phoenix's comment is exactly why we encourage our users to have an alt that you use only for FDS. Reddit hates women so if you participate in FDS you will be subjected to male harassment. Those same males will then accuse you of harassment simply for existing on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 10:28 AM |
| 43 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏I sent you a DM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:55 AM |
| 128 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏I laugh so hard when those people get precisely one (1) downvote and they start scream-crying "wE'rE bEiNg bRiGaDeD!!!" Like... these are the same people who have entire Discord servers dedicated to planning coordinated attacks on FDS. It's cute when they project their own guilt onto us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:47 AM |
| 5 | Women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 20s.I feel you, ever since I was a teenager I've crushed hard on older women but of course they didn't like me back because of the age gap 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 08:04 AM |
| 58 | Women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 20s.Premature aging caused by abuse can actually be reversed if you remove yourself from the abusive situation and take the time you need to heal before dating again. I look 5 years younger now than compared to how I looked with my narc ex 2 years ago. It is NOT over for you. If you're in your 20s you still have many more good years to come. It will get better, I promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:19 AM |
| 64 | Women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 20s.More for us LMAO exactly. I'm sure there's gonna be dudes in my inbox trying to gloat "tHiS pOsT iS jUsT a cOpE cUz uR aLmOsT pOsT WaLL" like... so what? I don't even want to date men anymore. Why on earth would I date men (blech 🤢🤮🤕) when I have the privilege of being able to date WOMEN? ☺😍👭💃👯♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 45 | Women in their 30s are more attractive than women in their 20s.One of my favorite human beings on this planet is Maria from Gentlewhispering ASMR (yes, I love ASMR, don't judge me lol). I've been watching her videos to help me fall asleep for like 8 years now. When she was in her 20s she was cute of course, but now that she's in her 30s, she is a truly STUNNING woman. Her fashion/makeup went from average to exceptional. Her face is slimmer. She is more confident now, and during those 8 years she has leveled up her video/audio quality to a truly professional… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:23 AM |
| 48 | Guy a cheap date?Yeah he is literally mentally conditioning her to have low expectations. He's training her like a dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:00 AM |
| – | TEEN girls being targeted and brainwashed by pro-r*ape porn propaganda. I feel sick and hopelessRemoved because this has been reposted a few times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 120 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕Woo! Free advertising 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | What perks do you give as a Friend vs a GF vs a Wife?Please post to r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:58 AM |
| – | Should I confront the ghosting or just play it cool and ignore it?Read the handbook before posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:54 AM |
| – | I’m confused on what I should expect from a partner?Read the handbook in our wiki before posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:43 AM |
| 40 | Lmao sometimes I get notifications of what non vetted users comment on a post of mine before they get deleted. Stay mad out there.Yeah the first week being a moderator here I was shocked to be able to see all the auto-removed comments from the non-vetted scrotes. After a few days staring down the barrel of the worst male depravity you can imagine, it's like nothing phases you anymore. At this point, it's all just the same boring shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:54 AM |
| 11 | Reminder - DO NOT POST LINKS TO OTHER SUBSWe have a certain stalker subreddit whose goal is to eliminate all female spaces from reddit under the guise of "fighting hate" (they don't target any of the rape porn subs... hmmm I wonder why 🤔) Needless to say it's funny as fuck to me when they whine "wE'rE BeiNg BriGaDeD" anytime someone gives them one (1) downvote. Talk about projection 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:43 PM |
| – | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes.Please delete this and repost after blurring all usernames and subreddit names | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 08:00 PM |
| – | Reminder - DO NOT POST LINKS TO OTHER SUBSAn important thing to keep in mind is that we tend to attract a lot of manosphere trolls. Whenever FDS gets accused of brigading, it's very seldom our own users doing it. Incel lurkers trying to shut us down have been keeping an eye out for any direct link/mentions of other subreddits here, click on the link, and then go be assholes on other subs. This makes it appear like FDS is the one doing the brigading, even though it's not our actual users doing it. These degenerates have entire Discord se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 9 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂In their mind, Asian and Latina women are extremely fetishized so they probably cannot wrap their pornsick brains around the notion that NO, Asian women and Latinas don't actually want to serve their crusty dicks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:29 AM |
| 12 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Same how the vast majority of anti maskers IRL are men, but the ones you see in the YouTube compilations are all women. They just hate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:26 AM |
| 12 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂They're just trying to come up with any pretext to discredit feminists. There is no "logic" to it except maybe "hey, I'm noticing all this 'anti hate' stuff is getting traction. I'm gonna label the feminists who don't serve my (male) interests as "hateful"...that'll shut those bitches up!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:23 AM |
| 25 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂It's sad to me that most people don't seem to take actual child abuse seriously. The QAnon crazies are ascribing child trafficking to a fictional cult of satanic cannibalistic democrats. The REALITY of child abuse/trafficking is actually quite mundane. It's typically perpetrated on a daily basis by members of their own family. Makes me wonder how many of those qanon crazies are child abusers themselves and are just projecting their guilt onto some boogeyman 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:19 AM |
| 77 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Talking about men's butt crumbs is LiTeRaL VioLeNce 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 03:48 AM |
| 16 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Oh didn't you hear? We were also behind 9/11 AND we're the ones responsible for putting chemicals in the water to turn the frogs gay /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 03:10 AM |
| 32 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Right wing misogynists are generally also super racist. Black women are the most disrespected people in America, both by white people and also black men. When people say "FDS is just full of black women" they are trying to dismiss us as being unworthy of respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:53 AM |
| 69 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂We do have vegan options for our Eternal Youth Potion such as a juice extracted from unripe fruits, or a porridge made from sprouted grains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 212 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Agreed 💯% The most valuable lesson I've learned from FDS is the solidarity with women around the world, from all cultures. Historically speaking, women's tendency to identify more closely with men of their own class/race/religion/etc. than with other women has been an obstacle preventing true female liberation. Men's tendency to identify more with other men than with women in their own class/race/religion has perpetuated and solidified patriarchy, in the sense that all men are united in the oppr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:56 PM |
| 196 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Yeah in the 2 weeks preceding, we were getting tons of messages saying "you bitches wait till january 6!" threatening to pull a handmaid's tale on us. Now, the alt right ppl who were responsible are trying to blame "antifa crisis actors" and some misogynists are trying to pin the blame on women/feminists somehow like...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 122 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Watch out, all the qanon crackpots are gonna read your comment like "see, I KNEW it!" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Men don’t degrade women they love #BringBackKinkShaming2021I love the way this man talks about his wife and daughter. "A living goddess", calling his daughter a "gift", speaking positively of his wife's body and not implying it's "ruined" due to childbirth. Wanting to protect them and make sure they are happy and safe. Beautiful. In an ideal world, this is how all men would think about their wives/children. It's sad that this level of respect and adoration is considered rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:57 PM |
| 52 | Misuse & appropriation of feminist language/concepts by men on RedditIt's very common for abusers to misappropriate and weaponize social justice/therapy buzzwords and twist them to suit their own narratives. 2 examples from my personal life: 1) Whenever my ex boyfriend used to try and rape me, if I used any kind of physical force to defend myself, he called me abusive. In one case he had my arms pinned down above my head and I headbutted him and pushed him off the bed. He starts yelling at me calling ME the abusive one. 2) When I was a teenager and started waking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:44 PM |
| 33 | Cosmopolitan. Why, WHY did I regarded it like the bible once?? SMH. 'WomYN HYperGAMouS BAD, man naturally born one uppers GOOD.When men tell me "all men are like this" I'm like "ok! I believe you. Gonna start avoiding men now" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 04:02 PM |
| 8 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.This video helped me a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:19 AM |
| 304 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.Eh. She was actually pretty abusive to her kids, and was a huge pickme to my dad. She's extremely mentally ill, probably a covert narc/BPD. I'm No Contact with her. When my parents separated I actually stayed with my dad because even though he was a narc, at least he was somewhat stable. My mom on the other hand, had violent mood swings, extremely emotionally abusive, just an all-around terror to be around. Dad was neglectful and spent all of his time chasing women but hey at least he never trie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 320 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.Yeah this was the one that finally made me drop the whole liberal feminism 50/50 schtick. The fact that white, western women are seen as "cheap" and "easy" made me realize that liberal feminism is a scam. I criiiinge at how I used to respond positively when foreign men put me on a pedestal and talked shit about women from their own culture. I should have seen it as the huge red flag that it is. I should have seen those women as fellow sisters, not competition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:32 PM |
| 134 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.I agree and the lesson here is NOT "marry a rich old foreigner" it's more centered around how to survive, gain the upper hand, and eventually leave if you do find yourself in an abusive, exploitative relationship. If I could have warned these women, I would have. But I was 16-24 at the time and didn't really have much say in my dad's relationships. Also, these women were from very disadvantaged backgrounds so I'm sure saying "don't marry him sis, you deserve better" would have probably come acro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:02 PM |
| 4 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.Please report those for not reading FDS Handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:00 PM |
| 136 | It finally hit me, I’m 26 and feel like time is running out. Does anyone else feel anxious about aging?I'm in my late 20s and I find that by completely de-prioritizing relationships with men, it is easy to eliminate relationship anxiety. Also, being in your 20s, 30s, even 40s isn't "old" My 80 year old grandmother still has men chasing her. She's fit and witty but she's not interested in a relationship, she likes to joke "these old geezers only want a nurse and a purse" "The wall" is a myth. When you're a woman, time will never run out for you 😂 | /r/askFDS | 29/01/21 07:21 PM |
| – | Vegan FDS ladies, what do we think of vegan men?Friendly reminder that this thread is flaired Social Group Strategy. This is a flair reserved for those who wish to discuss issues pertaining to their own culture/in-group. If you are not a member of that social group, please refrain from commenting unless specifically asked by the author. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:49 AM |
| 18 | How do I message mods?I saw your post and I did not approve it because it violates our new anti brigading rules Also, we usually avoid posting when other subreddits complain about us. It doesn't add value to our community. We are not interested in platforming malicious lies about us. If you are worried about FDS being banned, see our wiki to join the Discord and website. | /r/askFDS | 28/01/21 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Is my friends with benefit relationship a waste of time?Please post this in askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:41 AM |
| 100 | “Should I go stay at a hotel for the night?”I used to have a narc ex and the one time he tried to pull this on me, I said "yes, actually. I think that might be for the best" Suddenly he was all crocodile tears 😂🐊💦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:33 AM |
| – | Not being okay with my partner watching pornRemoved because of direct link to another subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:28 AM |
| – | How do you know for sure when the relationship is over?Please read handbook before posting (see sidebar) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:27 AM |
| – | Brown baby boomers could be the absolute worst people for relationship advicePlease repost with an amended title. Our critics tend to take things out of context to create false narratives and I can already imagine how they would try to "spin" this one 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:25 AM |
| 25 | Man’s idea of clean is actually super messy. Avoid men who cannot take care of their living space, even when nobody else will see it. His home should be kept tidy regardless of whether a guest is coming over.Here's a crazy idea. Why not maintain a baseline level of cleanliness all the time? That way, you can invite people over on short notice without much hassle. All you would need to do is a quick tidy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:15 AM |
| – | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manFriendly reminder that this thread is flaired Social Group Strategy. This is a flair reserved for those who wish to discuss issues pertaining to their own culture. If you are not a member of that social group, please refrain from commenting unless specifically asked by the author. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:08 AM |
| – | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manAs part of our anti brigading efforts, please repost this by removing the direct link to another subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:07 AM |
| 72 | Birds are more interesting.LMAO yeah I have precisely zero regrets about "wasting my sexual prime" engaging in hobbies that bring me joy. I love to see young women building themselves up and developing a rich inner world, rather than falling prey to predatory old men who will only leave us traumatized! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my husband to increase my allowance?This is better for r/ askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How to heal when you have been brokenPlease post this to askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you consider this a red flag?Read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 14 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.So long as you're not linking directly, and so long as it's in a context that is friendly and civil then sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 12:12 AM |
| 13 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.See rule 15: no brigading. It should show up when you try to report something but if not, try again later because I just added it and sometimes it takes a little while to update. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:52 PM |
| 24 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.Ask and ye shall receive! Rule 15: No brigading No direct links to other subreddits, no non-participation links, blur out subreddit name and usernames in screenshots, no ban celebrations or subreddit drama, do not post screenshots of you promoting FDS in other subs. Avoid mentioning other subs altogether. If you do see another subreddit mentioned here, do not contact the OP and do not go to the original thread to participate. Do not encourage others to do so, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:43 PM |
| 21 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.This is an excellent take 👍 Doesn't matter what other people are saying about us. We're just here to level up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:31 PM |
| 46 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.If you are browsing the rest of reddit like usual and happen to come across a post where a woman is suffering and you think she might benefit from FDS, AFAIK I don't believe it's against the rules to DM her. But if you see a screenshoted post here on the FDS subreddit, DO NOT go out of your way to contact the OP. Do not encourage others to contact her either. We cannot have multiple people coming from FDS to DM other users as this could be considered harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 11:13 PM |
| 81 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.Exactly. We should be focusing on our own community. We already know that the rest of reddit is a misogynistic cesspool. We don't want to clutter this ONE female space with unnecessary reddit drama. No picking fights with other subs, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:58 PM |
| 61 | [MUST READ] NEW RULES to prevent brigading and to comply with Reddit's Terms of Service.It's when you put "np" in front of the reddit link ("np.reddit.com"). When in non-participation mode, it doesn't allow you to vote or comment. Normally np links are used to prevent brigading but according to reddit admins they actually do very little to prevent brigading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:53 PM |
| 74 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)The man should take his wife's last name. Also, children should take the last name of the mother. When a child is born you always know with 100% certainty who the mother is, whereas paternity is less obvious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Assata Shakur. An iconic woman.I'm working on a post about Stacey Abrams, who is also one of my role models and an absolute Queen. Stay tuned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:31 PM |
| 4 | She really needs our help🚨🚨🚨🚨NARCISSIST ALERT 🚨🚨🚨🚨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 63 | Her scrote husband strung her along by future faking about adopting a child. Men will lie about absolutely anything to tie a woman downAs part of the divorce proceedings she should sue him for every penny he's worth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 24 | Being called a lesbian is just another way guys get us to try and conform to their incredibly unrealistic beauty standardsAw thanks :') every now and then I have to stop myself and think "holy shit, I am so grateful (and lucky) that I've finally gotten my life to a good place" And yeah I really wish we lived in a world where "rumors about being a lesbian" would be considered just as ridiculous as any other mundane fact about someone. Like "hey have you heard? I think Claire over there might be... from Wisconsin!" Gasp! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 08:48 AM |
| 103 | Poor woman, is that what she tells you?? 💀💀💀💀💀💀 Queen holding his ego together by a threadThis should be on r/ badwomensanatomy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 08:11 AM |
| 48 | This poor woman needs help. Her abusive ex is using the court system to go after her and threatened to give her personal info to the man who assaulted her. Idk how else to help besides sharing her story. Here’s to hoping she gets out of this awful situation soonI'm so glad she recorded that phone call. I hope she brings that to court and sues the everlasting shit out of him and takes him for every penny he's worth. Dude's gonna be eating rice and beans for the rest of his life. ALWAYS record your phone calls when talking to an abusive person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:41 AM |
| 6 | I absolutely love Stanzi. She always hits the nail on the head.Ruthless 💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:30 AM |
| 65 | Being called a lesbian is just another way guys get us to try and conform to their incredibly unrealistic beauty standardsI can't even wrap my mind around calling someone a lesbian as an insult. Lesbians are awesome. This might be a bit of a hot take but IMO women who feel embarrassed or insulted at being called a lesbian probably have some internalized homophobia. That doesn't make her a bad person, most people have it to varying degrees, even actual gay people suffer from it sometimes. It's something worth reflecting on, for the betterment of oneself and of society. Speaking from personal experience, it took me a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:22 AM |
| 35 | "But that's hate speech!"That would defeat the purpose because then it would be much harder to manipulate you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:01 AM |
| 46 | "But that's hate speech!"The funny thing is that when women finally realize this double standard and go, "oh okay, so men just want to continue to freely exploit and abuse women and not face any consequences" Then they go "MISANDRY! THIS IS HATE SPEECH AGAINST MEN! YOU'RE GENERALIZING US!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:00 AM |
| 90 | "But that's hate speech!"Wtf. Your counselor sounds like a naive idiot. Personally I was so fortunate to find a therapist who specializes in childhood trauma and who is also friendly to radical feminism. I've been having a lot of breakthroughs with her these past few months, and my mental health has been improving by leaps and bounds. Although I had to go through like eight different therapists over the years to find the right one. Not all therapists are trained to help trauma patients. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.Obviously. The question isn't whether or not the story is real. The problem here is companies leveraging cultural misogyny and preying on women's anxieties to sell us shit that is harmful to our health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 45 | 87% of men think that they actually made you orgasm. Sorry to burst your bubble scrotes, your gf, wife and that porn star are all faking itThe face that porn stars make when they are trying to appeal to weebs IMO it just makes them look like they've been lobotomized which men think is sexy for some reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 7 | Liberal Feminism routinely ignores that women who don’t live in privilege will bear the brunt of sex-based exploitation they call “empowering” and “progressive”. They’re the 1% of feminists benefiting themselves at the rest of our expense.So true. The "your white feminism is showing" comments only ever end up in my inbox when I criticize the sex industry. It's so hypocritical too: they're the ones who are actually being racist by conflating being black with being a sex worker 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 07:13 PM |
| 16 | Lundy was mentioned in PPD today and funnily enough, all the redpill men in the comments were proving this exact quote.This post had me in stitches 😂😂💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 34 | Obama on being a High Value Man: "Being a man is about being a good human. Responsible, reliable, working hard, being kind, respectful, compassionate. Supporting, not dominating. You don't need eight women around you twerking"Exactly. If someone is able to look back on a past mistake and cringe at themselves, then it shows they are capable of introspection and growth. Admitting you were wrong and changing your behavior accordingly is a sign of maturity, which is high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 07:12 AM |
| 43 | Obama on being a High Value Man: "Being a man is about being a good human. Responsible, reliable, working hard, being kind, respectful, compassionate. Supporting, not dominating. You don't need eight women around you twerking"Michelle Obama is smart and she takes no shit. If Obama ever cheated, she would probably find out and divorce his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 175 | He didn’t wanna get a gift"Goodbye julius, I never stopped loving you and I never will" "Stop texting me" 💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:11 AM |
| 182 | He didn’t wanna get a giftOooofffffff. If you wanna cringe, go ahead and pause the video to read those text conversations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 65 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.Literally my worst nightmare. I want someone to make a horror movie with that exact plot, but instead of the husband being possessed by an evil spirit, he was actually just a narcissist all along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 49 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.Oh don't you know that if your dick is a darker color than the rest of your body, it means that you're a dirty incel who masturbates too much? No woman wants that. Men with discolored penises are gross and should feel ashamed of themselves! And that's why I'm launching my new product line, the Dick 'n Balls 9000, to help men disguise their filthy, stained, ugly dicks. We use a concentrated blend of 100% PURE LYE to help men dissolve away their all their shameful secrets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:57 AM |
| 43 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.Lmao now I'm just imagining your mom dipping you into a tub of Lysol to grant you permanent immunity from being cheated on, like Achilles being dipped into the Styx. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 189 | Liberal Feminism routinely ignores that women who don’t live in privilege will bear the brunt of sex-based exploitation they call “empowering” and “progressive”. They’re the 1% of feminists benefiting themselves at the rest of our expense.YES 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥 I agree 100% It bothers me so much when people pay lip service to condemning "white feminism" but don't actually listen to BIPOC feminists. I've also noticed that the term "white feminism" has been misappropriated by bad faith actors in recent years. Freakin' white men message me all the time to say shit like "sHuT tHe fUcK uP kArEn U sTuPiD wHoRe sUcK mY DiCk, uR wHiTe FeMiNisM iS sHoWiNg" Ummm... what the fuck? It's shameful that a serious issue (WOC being excluded from feminism) is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:22 AM |
| 89 | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.Nowadays it's all about bleaching your asshole to achieve that "perfect porn star pink" look that's all the rage right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:35 PM |
| – | Ah yes, the "good old days" of the 1950s. A time where if a man cheated on his wife, it's HER fault for having an unbleached vagina.This ad is just straight-up cruelty. Remember, this was a time where women were completely financially dependent on men. Women knew that getting abandoned by your husband meant being left destitute. Apart from women being able to work nowadays, not much has changed since then. People STILL blame the women if her man cheats. Companies are STILL leveraging cultural misogyny and preying on women's anxieties to sell us shit we don't need (or actively harmful!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:32 PM |
| 61 | A little reminder from @lainey.molnarI really love these type of comics, "both types of women are great!" You don't have to put other women down to make yourself look or feel better. Reminds me of those "body positivity" memes like "real men like curves, only dogs go for bones". Skinny women aren't the enemy, the problem is with beauty standards. Both types of women are great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:08 PM |
| 60 | The myth of male leadership.Women actually score higher than men in most leadership skills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Avoid: personal trainersI hire female personal trainers exclusively. I would never ever spend money on a male personal trainer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 145 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:Probably some kind of brain damaged scrote logic like "FDS is anti porn, so if I masturbate to FDS, Checkmate feminists!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 10:17 AM |
| 226 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:I think I may have gotten one from the same guy! He said he likes to go to FDS to find stories of abuse and masturbate to them because it's "better than porn" Like, okay? Thank you for confirming my existing belief that men are degenerate porn addicts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:46 AM |
| 15 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:Oh yeah and also they have the audacity to be like "what about men's mental health!" and then in the next breath use it to take cheap shots at feminists. They truly make themselves unworthy of our compassion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:43 AM |
| 22 | Proof that scrotes never change, they just make empty promises and get upset when you don’t fall for them.🎶Tale as old as time🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:25 AM |
| 16 | I want girls and young women everywhere to experience this epiphany!I love the song "Most Girls" by Hailee Steinfeld. I literally cried the first time I heard it. It's so true. Most girls ARE smart and strong and beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:26 AM |
| 20 | Tales from the vault IV: the one time we caught a grown man filming teenage girls in public so we started screaming "PEDOPHILE"I touched on the topic in this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hwou8o/never_let_a_lvm_know_that_you_are_angry_with_him/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:04 AM |
| 31 | Tales from the vault IV: the one time we caught a grown man filming teenage girls in public so we started screaming "PEDOPHILE"I swear, if I ever see a strange man taking creepshots of children I'm gonna go full Karen mode | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 64 | How many career women gone wrong stories do you personally know?I know precisely zero career women IRL who regret their career. Meanwhile, I know plenty of women who regret their decision to get married and have kids. They don't say it directly because of course they love their kids, so they say that raising a family is their greatest accomplishment. But they are clearly unhappy with their lives, frustrated that their husbands put in no effort, regretful at the missed opportunities. Most women have had to make some really painful sacrifices to make space for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:40 PM |
| 8 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"You are so right to feel unsettled by it. Beautiful, accomplished women walking around desperately like "I need to get married RIGHT NOW" will make even the scrubbiest of scrubs lean back and smirk like "I've got all the time in the world..." It creates such a massive power imbalance, and it only benefits LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 6 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"This comment had me laughing so hard I added it to the post in an edit 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:09 PM |
| 25 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"This is exactly why so many men are stuck in unfulfilling marriages with wives they share no compatibility with, but they keep her around because he doesn't want to have to do his own laundry. Divorce is too hard so they just cheat on her with a younger woman instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 11 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"He probably manipulates his new doctor gf by implying that she's old, undesirable, that her career doesn't matter because it doesn't add value in the eyes of men. The "preferences" of low value men are about controlling women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:02 PM |
| 13 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"They basically see a woman's career as a giant cock block LMAO that is sooo true hahaha 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 23 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Just hit 100 reports! I think that's gotta be a new record! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 73 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"They want an interesting woman with ambition and a solid career... but guess what, we are not so easily impressed! Younger women are more easy to impress and manipulate which is what initially attracts low value men (until they get bored). And I agree, I feel for those "good enough" girls. I imagine they were young and naive probably looking for genuine love, and ended up just feeling used by your male friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:32 PM |
| 80 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"The funniest thing is that the sort of man who goes on and on about his "preferences" are usually the most desperate who will chase any kind of female attention no matter her age or appearance. All this bloviating about women hitting "the wall" at 25 is just about devaluing women and pressuring us to lower our standards for them. They want to be able to turn to their 30 year old girlfriend and say "your sexual marketplace value is low, you're in no position to be making demands of me, you're ask… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:26 PM |
| 501 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Exactly. We've all been young, pretty, people-pleasing wifey material pickme's in the past. We learned the hard way that it does not yield positive results. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 11:39 AM |
| 341 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality""I can't put my dick in your degree" "I didn't get a degree so that you could put your dick in it" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 11:23 AM |
| 20 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.LMAO yeah I'd love a satirical body-snatchers-style horror movie. The thing taking over people's bodies only affects women and all it does is make women raise their standards and avoid low quality men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:36 PM |
| 51 | Even Jewelry companies want us to buy ourselves our own ringsI guess the jewelry companies have done their market research and have realized that marketing to women directly is more profitable. Makes sense given that we now live in a world where women earn their own money and can buy their own jewelry. Most men are broke and/or stingy commitmentphobes nowadays and don't want to buy jewelry for women anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 8 | Red flags & LVM husband, or is it just me? (start watching at 14:30)I always thought there was something "off" about this couple but I could never quite put my finger on why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:08 PM |
| 47 | Just a porn addict complaining about how much of a victim he is because he— *checks notes* sexually assaulted a family member.. 😐Normally I do feel some compassion for addicts but if an addict stole from me or assaulted me to fuel their fix, I would be justifiably angry and would not hesitate to cut that person off. Addiction (and other mental illness) can explain but does not excuse bad behavior. I hate when misogynists try and go for the pity play whenever they've done something horrible. It's the same logic as "I'm abusive because I was abused, I don't want to be held accountable for my abusive behavior, please tRy tO … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 30 | If he wants you he will do "crazy things" to make that happen - including at the very least paying for dinnerHaha I love Cody Ko and Noel Miller! They have a hilarious video roasting Russ for being LVM 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Hate to see it. Note that the only happy employee is a man who doesn't have to witness or experience the sexual harassment first handI'm saving this to send to guys who say shit like "sexual harassment doesn't exist because I have personally never been affected by it" or "most men are good dudes because they treat me, a man, quite well" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 10 | The "Unconditional Love" mindset is toxic and you should refrain from itThe only people who should show Unconditional Love is parents of young children. My parents were narcs so they had it totally backwards. I was supposed to be the one who loved them Unconditionally (no matter how horrible they were), but this was a one-way street. The love they gave me was Conditional. This led to a lot of people-pleasing tendencies when I started dating, because I thought all love was Conditional and needed to be earned. Unconditional Love can be toxic, but so can Conditional Lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:27 PM |
| 68 | What’s the worst neg you got?"Your hair is sooo long, it must get stuck in your butt crack a lot" -Dude standing behind me in a grocery store line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Is pickmeism actually an unhealed inner child?YES I totally agree. Virtually all women were conditioned since birth to be pickme's. Female socialization is traumatic. As part of my level-up journey I have been seeing a therapist to work on my childhood trauma (narc parents) and a big part of that has been inner child work. Soooo many of my former pickme behaviors could be attributed to an unhealed inner child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:17 PM |
| 42 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”More like "I wanted unprotected sex and expected her to have an abortion if she got pregnant but she refused" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 18 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?Lmao someone took a screenshot of this comment and posted it on r/gatekeeping Some scrote definitely felt personally attacked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 01:51 AM |
| 47 | The Qanon ‘shaman’ with horns and bearskin recently arrested for storming the Capitol is a stay at home dad who is addicted to drugs and judging by the telltale bald head, a porn addict as well. The jokes write themselves ladiesI think we're talking about 2 different people. Bald guy wearing Viking getup isn't the same as podium stealing guy, who does in fact have hair (still a loser tho and prob not a good stay at home dad) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:01 PM |
| 199 | UnfortunatelyMore like: "men and dick" 🤢 "fantasy of genuine romantic love and intimacy" 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:55 PM |
| 131 | The Qanon ‘shaman’ with horns and bearskin recently arrested for storming the Capitol is a stay at home dad who is addicted to drugs and judging by the telltale bald head, a porn addict as well. The jokes write themselves ladiesPodium-stealing guy's wife IS A DOCTOR 😱😱😱 I hope she divorces his ass. She deserves so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:54 PM |
| 395 | Sister finds child porn on brother’s computer. REDDIT: bUt WhY WeRe yOu SnOOPinG ThOugh?If she had never snooped then she would never know that her little bro was planning on raping her while she slept, which would be 1000x more traumatizing. I'd say it was a pretty good call on her part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:48 PM |
| 8 | “Alpha Males” teach men how to be a HVM 🤦🏻♀️This guy is almost certainly a narcissist and would abuse any woman unfortunate enough to find herself entangled with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 06:46 PM |
| 109 | We don't care because we know you'll still degrade us no matter who or how we are! Kindly stfu.Women say all the time what we want/don't want in a man, yet men constantly disappoint us and do whatever they want instead. It's time for women to start doing whatever we want and men just have to deal with it 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 06:32 PM |
| 31 | “Alpha Males” teach men how to be a HVM 🤦🏻♀️This guy does not understand what boundaries mean. Abusers and narcs often misuse the term "boundaries" to mean "imposing your will onto someone else" when it's actually the opposite. In reality, boundaries are about facilitating a healthy relationship by respecting someone else's autonomy and personhood (and them respecting yours!) I remember when I started waking up to my narc mom as a teen, and I tried to start setting boundaries like "please do not come into my room without knocking first" a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 149 | This man confirmed that if he hasn’t proposed WITHIN 3 years, he DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY YOU. Please leave the men who don’t do everything they can to be with you! No forever girlfriends here!See, that's different because he already knew he was going to propose and even bought a ring. It wouldn't even be an "argument" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 584 | This man confirmed that if he hasn’t proposed WITHIN 3 years, he DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY YOU. Please leave the men who don’t do everything they can to be with you! No forever girlfriends here!I've never understood having an argument where the goal is to make a man propose to you. Let alone multiple arguments. Why on earth would you want to marry a man who has to be forced into it? These "arguments" SHOULD be going something like this: Her: "Hey babe we've been together X years, why haven't you proposed to me?" Him: [generic excuses] Her: I see. So you're not yet sure I'm "the one"? If you're not sure, that means I'm probably not. Being together for more time isn't going to change tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:54 PM |
| 4 | 5 days ago some scrote tried to post this. Make no mistake: the storming of the Capitol building was an attempt to overthrow the US Government and instill a fascist government like in The Handmaid's Tale.The scary thing is they don't see it that way. They don't see themselves as privileged. They literally believe that being white and male means that it is their birthright to own women and people of color. White male privilege is the default, it's not even "privilege" in their mind, it's simply how the world is supposed to be. They quite literally believe that they are oppressed because they are being denied their "natural" right to own women and POC. Women and POC having equal rights is consider… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:39 PM |
| 10 | So I just finished watching BRIDGERTON and I am SO FUCKING ANGRY. The two protagonists are a pickme and a fuckboy. Why are people shipping them? Their relationship is toxic AFThat's exactly what I'm saying. At the time, women didn't have many options. They wouldn't have been surprised or incredulous about it. It would have simply been a fact of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:30 PM |
| 16 | 5 days ago some scrote tried to post this. Make no mistake: the storming of the Capitol building was an attempt to overthrow the US Government and instill a fascist government like in The Handmaid's Tale.That's the thing... they specifically want a world in which they can rape women without any consequences. They specifically want a world where they can trample all over women and we are powerless to change it. In their mind they literally think it's their right, that they are entitled to it, and that it's women who are defective for not getting with the program 😑 I mean we mods just laughed about it in the chat when we saw it in the queue. And clearly the coup was destined for failure because of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:21 PM |
| – | 5 days ago some scrote tried to post this. Make no mistake: the storming of the Capitol building was an attempt to overthrow the US Government and instill a fascist government like in The Handmaid's Tale.Oh yeah and he tagged all his favorite mods in the comments because he really, really wanted us to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 09:58 PM |
| 8 | 27 yr old manchild throws tantrum because girlfriend says no to sex while on her periodExactly. I had a narc ex who used to do this stupid baby voice/crying because he knew it pissed me off. He got off on pushing my buttons but then got all pissy when I didn't want to have sex with him. Sorry, not sorry, BRENT, I am NOT sexually attracted to little babies! My pussy drier than the sahara when you pull that shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 09:56 PM |
| 14 | Are there “degrees to pickmeism?”Exactly. I was way ahead of my peers in terms of "adulting" in terms of my physical needs but was way behind at meeting my emotional needs. I agree, therapy is going to be a lifelong pursuit. Having narcissistic parents essentially grooms you to be vulnerable to abuse later in life. It's an albatross around my neck for the rest of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 09:02 PM |
| 19 | So I just finished watching BRIDGERTON and I am SO FUCKING ANGRY. The two protagonists are a pickme and a fuckboy. Why are people shipping them? Their relationship is toxic AFLMAO the scene where Daphne turns to her brother and says incredulously "just because I am a WOMAN, yOu tHiNk i dOnT hAvE ChOiCeS?" Fucking DUH. Women at the time didn't have any choices, and they knew that! They wouldn't be acting all offended that their choices are limited because they are women, it's something they would have taken for granted as an obvious fact. And the show does it in such a heavyhanded way, too. I don't like TV shows that try to force modern value systems onto historical c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 08:56 PM |
| 20 | 27 yr old manchild throws tantrum because girlfriend says no to sex while on her periodWhy is it that so many men seem to handle rejection like a toddler? Throwing a tantrum and crying like their mommy just took away their favorite toy. It's so emotionally immature and unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 10 | So I just finished watching BRIDGERTON and I am SO FUCKING ANGRY. The two protagonists are a pickme and a fuckboy. Why are people shipping them? Their relationship is toxic AFSame, I'm childfree too. I fully supported his decision to not want kids, and I was horrified by that scene. It is impossible to change a man, and it is hugely unethical to force a childfree person to have kids! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:59 PM |
| 47 | Are there “degrees to pickmeism?”I feel this. Especially since I was raised by narcissistic parents, I find that whenever I'm around men I tend to police my own behavior and try not to make them "mad" or horny or whatever Sigh. So I just avoid men altogether 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Casual misogyny on reddit once again, I still don't get the cat lady trope...The most offensive part of this image is the bud light. Single women over 30 usually have better taste than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:10 PM |
| 13 | Oh no no... I have no words, just down votes.."Western women do orgies and gangbangs" = "I watch A LOT of porn" What other porn tropes does this guy believe to be correct? Does he also try to bang his stepsister whenever she's stuck in the washing machine? Must be what he's referring to when he says "strong family system" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 144 | A lot of words for "I can't pleasure women"The fact that he is comparing pornography (which has real human women) to vibrators (an inanimate object) shows me that he already thinks women are objects, probably because of... you guessed it... watching too much porn. Vibrators don't make me see men as objects. Men's behavior is what turns me off of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 197 | Circle the LieA lot of racist conservative women are having a "leopards ate my face" moment. Alt right women want a race war yet act so surprised when alt right dudes are misogynistic towards them and tell them to get back in the kitchen and make babies. (Oh btw, these women are also antifeminist 😑) A woman started a female version of "Proud Boys" ("Proud Girls") and the PB are fighting her on it: https://www.the-sun.com/news/2057226/proud-boys-female-extremist-rivals-proud-girl/amp/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:14 PM |
| – | Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today:For the past couple weeks, FDS mods have received the occasional troll post/message that goes something like "just wait till Jan 6! Men will rise up and then you bitches will be sorry!!!" I guess they must have been talking about storming the Capitol building today. Basically a failed coup. Did these losers honestly think they would be able to take control of the government and pull a handmaid's tale on us? These dudes look like they couldn't even muster the willpower make a dinner reservation, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 23 | "Sex work is empowering" sounds suspiciously a lot like "trauma induced hypersexuality"YES this is so true. I was thinking about the similarities with anorexia while writing this post but wasn't sure how to include it. I was hoping someone would make that comparison. Just because you feel powerful when doing something doesn't mean you are. It's such a tragedy, really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 10:35 PM |
| 115 | "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife" is a LIE and is pure projection. The truth is that you can't turn a fuckboy into a husband, because we live in a culture where promiscuous men have zero incentive to change.Yes, I agree. Liberal feminism has tried to normalize sex, BDSM, porn, prostitution, etc. but the reality is that these still.disproportionately harm women and benefit men. Since men refuse to meet us halfway, it's time we start holding them to the same standards they've always held us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:18 PM |
| 7 | "Sex work is empowering" sounds suspiciously a lot like "trauma induced hypersexuality"I am fortunate in that I was never sexually abused as a child (although I have been sexually assaulted as a teen and in my early 20s) and never personally developed hypersexuality. Unfortunately, I have a cousin who was molested by her stepfather and she is now a stripper, and my best friend since elementary school was molested by her older brother who now does onlyfans. Both were sexually abused, both developed hypersexuality, and both are now sex workers. It's a topic that's very near and dear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:43 PM |
| 112 | "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife" is a LIE and is pure projection. The truth is that you can't turn a fuckboy into a husband, because we live in a culture where promiscuous men have zero incentive to change.It's not even about becoming a literal housewife. It's more about the ability to grow and mature over time, and letting go of risky or immature behaviors (such as promiscuity). When men say "can't turn a hoe into a housewife" what they mean is "once a woman sleeps around she is permanently damaged and worthless" which isn't true for us, but is true for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 42 | A household with a LVM father and a pickme mother is a terrible environment to raise children. So many people have unresolved childhood trauma from being raised in this dynamic.YES!!! I agree 100%. Far too many people are having kids for purely narcissistic reasons. You shouldn't be having kids unless YOU have something to offer THEM. Having kids (and by extension - having sex) is so serious and so consequential. You are literally creating life. That is a HUGE responsibility. It should only be done when your life has stability (emotional, financial, etc.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:49 AM |
| 16 | Tales from the Vault III: When my cousin used to bully me, I went crying to my mom for help. She was sitting with my aunt and grandmother, and they all laughed and accused ME of having a crush on HIM. This is just one example of how female socialization grooms girls to tolerate abusive relationshipsThey're from the Alabama of Canada (aka Manitoba) 😂 And yeah, they're from a religious sect where first cousin marriage isn't frowned upon 🤢 So glad I got out of there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 10:08 AM |
| 29 | Tales from the Vault III: When my cousin used to bully me, I went crying to my mom for help. She was sitting with my aunt and grandmother, and they all laughed and accused ME of having a crush on HIM. This is just one example of how female socialization grooms girls to tolerate abusive relationshipsUnfortunately, it seems only me and my sister have left the narcissistic family system. One of my female cousins is most likely a narcissist. She is an anti vaxxer and constantly posts about the health issues of her children on Facebook. She gives me strong Munchausen-by-proxy vibes. My other cousin (who I'm closer with) struggles with depression, substance abuse issues, hypersexuality, and a history of toxic relationships. Our grandfather was extremely abusive. My grandmother was an enabler/cod… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 04:23 AM |
| 311 | Reminder that the idea of “withholding sex” isn’t real because sex isn’t something anyone is entitled to get.Totally agree. I see red every time I glance at the relationship subreddits and see a comment like "you did something horrible to your wife and now she refuses to have sex?! SHE'S the abuser!" Like duh. Being a bad bf/husband is kind of a libido killer. Coercing a woman to have sex when she doesn't want it? Now THAT'S abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 12:31 AM |
| 5 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.A good therapist won't invalidate your feelings like that. At least, my therapist doesn't. You should find a new therapist if they try to suppress your anger. Of course, the goal is to learn healthy coping skills and (eventually) acceptance. It's not healthy or even possible to experience red-hot rage all of the time. The goal is to redirect that anger, and allow it to motivate you to take more productive actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:25 AM |
| 11 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.Please report such comments, and PM me their usernames for moderator review. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What’s your physical type?Men and women with big brown eyes, long eyelashes, dark curly hair, olive/tanned complexion, fit. Personality-wise, I like educated and witty people. | /r/askFDS | 28/12/20 07:41 AM |
| 87 | Do him dirty in front of his squad 💅🏻 don't sugar coat sh*tI like to imagine this is how they are when they're hate-browsing FDS 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 10 | Another tale from the vault: Before FDS, I used to have to persuade men to wear a condom by telling them I was pro-life. To really sell it, I would look them directly in the eye, smile gleefully, and tell them that if they ever got me pregnant, I would keep the baby.https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.health.com/condition/sexual-assault/what-is-stealthing%3Famp=true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:50 PM |
| 46 | Another tale from the vault: Before FDS, I used to have to persuade men to wear a condom by telling them I was pro-life. To really sell it, I would look them directly in the eye, smile gleefully, and tell them that if they ever got me pregnant, I would keep the baby.Exactly, that's why I wrote that this tactic is NOT FDS approved. It was something I resorted to before I learned how to vet properly and set firm boundaries. If you feel you have to use this tactic with someone, he is 1) probably low value, and 2) hasn't been vetted properly. Bad idea to have sex with people like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:27 PM |
| 152 | Porn is empowering though, right? Of course a lot of comments say NTA. I feel so sorry for the cousin's kids.The sad irony is that every single man in this story almost certainly watches porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:29 PM |
| 5 | Almost everything a man says is projection and/or self-serving. It's time we stop accepting their word at face value.Everyone knows that a man's word is worth less than half as much as a woman's word. That's why in court, 2 male witnesses are equivalent to 1 female witness. (/s for the bitterbois angrily mashing their keyboard) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 156 | Almost everything a man says is projection and/or self-serving. It's time we stop accepting their word at face value.Right??? side note I just wanna say I love your posts, always so high quality, so you have been promoted to Disciple. Huzzah ⚔ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:35 AM |
| 42 | Only 5% of bachelors over 40 ever marryI can't wait for all the 20-something incels to grow up. Right now they're shaking their fists at the women who won't fuck them like "just wait till you bitches are POST WALL! When we're 40, you'll be a used up old hag and I'll be a billionaire with supermodels hanging off my arm!" They're holding out, thinking all they have to do is wait, that there's no need to stay in shape or work on self improvement or have a multi-step skincare routine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:43 AM |
| 15 | Onlyfans creators marketing themselves by radiating pickme energy"So long as I'm feeling empowered getting paid" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:26 AM |
| 116 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?Not me personally but I have a cousin who donated her kidney to her husband who, unbeknownst to her, had been cheating on her the entire marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 29 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.We are not a dying breed. We are a rapidly growing movement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 12 | Women don't want to be "treated like a man" ...have you SEEN how men treat other men? Women want to be treated with basic human decency and respect. Why is this such a foreign concept for so many men?SO TRUE. There's this stereotype that "women can't handle working in a commercial kitchen because they are tOo eMoTiOnaL" Nah dude, it's just that men are generally rude and shitty to one another. It's women who are the rational ones for not being okay with being treated badly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 30 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.We do not give warnings or second chances. We expect all users to read the rules before leaving a post or comment here. If we see a rule being broken, we ban on sight. We are quite clear about our anti porn stance including onlyfans. Logistically speaking, with the sheer volume of content we moderate, we have no way of keeping track if it's someone's first or second offense. The closest thing to that would be the flair system. If I see someone flaired as pickmeisha or at-risk pickme youth, it me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:21 AM |
| 102 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.I don't disagree with this. Here at FDS we don't pretend like women are perfect. We criticize women who make bad choices, too. However, you won't see many discussions like "women can be bad partners too" here because 1) too often it is used as a derailing tactic, 2) men as a whole generally have a lot more room for improvement than women as a whole, and 3) women's shortcomings are already discussed at length everywhere else on the internet. This is the only unapologetically pro-female space and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 158 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.So true, internalized misogyny is wild. It conditions women to see a twisted version of the world and act against their own interests. I see comments from women all the time like "FDS does make some good points but they are too extreme" I'm sure there were women in the early 1900s saying stuff like "the suffragettes do make some good points but women having the right to VOTE? That's way too extreme" Some women will never learn, and that's okay. Their daughters will grow up in a different world. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*Yes! I watch it at least once per year too! Colin Firth as Darcy is just... WHOOSH 😏💧💦🌊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:37 PM |
| 102 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.Yes, and we also get lots of women who are sex workers who agree with FDS but are unable or unwilling to give up their livelihood. They see male depravity all the time, so they agree with 99% of what we post, and they tend to share our ruthless pragmatism especially if they have been in the industry a long time. Even then, we will still ban those users if they are defending porn, sex work, or abuse kinks. A while back there was a highly active user whose content I really enjoyed, until she start… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:47 PM |
| 157 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.There are a lot of reasons. A big one is that many are still so male identified that they feel more empathy for LVMs getting roasted here than they do for the women those LVMs traumatized. So they believe the false narrative that we are a "hate sub" I get a lot of feedback from women saying that they love men, that FDS is too hard on men, NAMALT, that women are bad too sometimes, etc. Likewise, there were plenty of 19th and 20th century pickme's voicing similar "but what about the poor men!" com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*Sooo true! I love to rewatch these shows with people who haven't seen it before because I enjoy the discussion, and often the other person can bring in a new perspective and make an observation that I hadn't thought of before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*Most men are so uncultured, when they hear "period drama" their brain goes "gross, PeRioDs! 💉" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:03 PM |
| 47 | Women don't want to be "treated like a man" ...have you SEEN how men treat other men? Women want to be treated with basic human decency and respect. Why is this such a foreign concept for so many men?"No sex then" is a big assumption. I've overheard waaay too many conversations between men that sounded like they were filming violent gay porn. I once worked with two guys who were best friends since elementary school and they were always saying stuff like "I'm gonna FUCK YOU IN THE ASS" to communicate something like, "I am going to perform better than you in this sales competition" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 68 | Women don't want to be "treated like a man" ...have you SEEN how men treat other men? Women want to be treated with basic human decency and respect. Why is this such a foreign concept for so many men?At this point I am completely unapologetically in favor of female supremacy and/or separatism. Yup, I'm sure there will be tons of MRAs reading this comment and cross posting it to r/ mensrights with the caption "FDS mod LITERALLY supports female supremacy!" and then hate-commenting like chickens with their heads cut off. I mean, duh. We have no other option. Men aren't acting in good faith. Achieving a truly equal society is not possible so long as men are willing to resort to increasingly abus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:28 PM |
| 27 | Women don't want to be "treated like a man" ...have you SEEN how men treat other men? Women want to be treated with basic human decency and respect. Why is this such a foreign concept for so many men?More like "if u are a feminist I want to punch u bcuz im a massive loser and a bully" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 6 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*I used to really like animal crossing and soooo many guys will be like aNiMaL cRoSsiNg iSnT A rEaL gAmE AHUEHUEHUEHUE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 7 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*LMAO so true. Lizzie comes back with a zinger like "no, I prefer to be unsociable and taciturn" and I'm like OOHHH SHIT DING DING DING 🛎🛎🛎🔥🔥🔥 UR GONNA NEED SOME POLYSPORIN FOR THAT SICK BURN and the guy I'm watching it with is like wHaT iS TaCiTurN??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:36 PM |
| 17 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*Those guys probably idolize Polanski because he bangs minors and models. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:47 PM |
| 288 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.I used to have a "male friend" who once "jokingly" pushed me while we were walking over an overpass. This was literally five seconds after I told him I was afraid of heights and I was nervously looking down at the busy highway below. He pushed me into the railing and I screamed. He laughed like it was some funny joke. I was yelling at him saying that was NOT OKAY and it just made him laugh more. I told to never speak to me again, which wiped his smirk right off his stupid smug face and he demand… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:09 PM |
| 11 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*This is so true. Gamer girls are so disrespected by gamer guys. They're always doubting their skills/knowledge and quizzing them on esoteric details to "prove" she's "not a real gamer girl and only doing it for attention" But if she IS a "real" gamer girl and is better than them, their brains literally cannot compute and they hurl misogynistic abuse at her to try and take her down a peg. Their ideal of a "gamer girl" is someone who is permissive and enables his addiction, gives him constant prai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:01 PM |
| 27 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*Oh yeah, I had to sift through a lot of unicorn hunters before I finally met my current gf. A major turning point for me was quitting online dating, because OLD is a cesspool for bisexual women. I ended up meeting my gf IRL over a shared hobby (motorcycles), but that's a long story. And I agree, not every couple needs to like the same things, and that insulting the other person's hobbies is a huge dealbreaker. Both me and my gf have hobbies that we don't have in common and we still support each … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:18 PM |
| 69 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*Literally was never able to experience that type of joy until I met my girlfriend. My favorite book is Pride & Prejudice and I especially love the BBC adaptation (although the one with Kiera Knightley is pretty good too tho ngl). Anytime I tried to watch it with a boyfriend they always just tried to ruin it for me. Couldn't watch more than 5 minutes without scrolling on their phone and then going "what's going on? None of this makes any sense" and criticizing everything even though it's their fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:50 PM |
| 178 | Men be like "all I want is a girl who will watch me play video games." Also men: *can't sit through five minutes of Pride and Prejudice*"I'd rather die alone than date a gamer" This is the reason why all the entitled manchildren gamerbros of reddit want to shut down FDS 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:28 PM |
| 126 | Whew Chile...the girls just can’t keep stop giving me second embarrassment!This is quite a succinct and accurate description of gender roles in the past 50 years. Men have been watching women rise above them and rather than work on improving themselves, they try to abuse us back down into submission so they can feel big and strong in comparison. Most men are just straight up bullies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:01 AM |
| 20 | A man's opinion always matters. A woman's opinion only matters when she's right. (From What I Don’t Tell My Students About “The Husband Stitch,” a book by Carmen Maria Machado)So true. The LVMs I dated all had negative reactions to my perception. The 2 HVMs I dated actually valued my perspective and opinions, often seeking my counsel before making major decisions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:11 AM |
| 59 | A man's opinion always matters. A woman's opinion only matters when she's right. (From What I Don’t Tell My Students About “The Husband Stitch,” a book by Carmen Maria Machado)Women do actually have a better sense of smell than men. It's not casual sexism for the gas guy to say "always trust a woman's nose" because he's probably seen tons of cases where a woman can smell gas but a man can't. In general, women tend to have better sense/perception abilities than men. We literally see more colors and tend to be more hypervigilant in our day to day lives, and are just generally better at noticing patterns, subtle cues, and abnormalities. Whether these are due to biologica… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 25 | Dear gamer guys of reddit: this holiday season, give yourself the gift of mental health and GO 👏 TO 👏 THERAPY👏 instead of spending thousands of dollars on your entertainment room."A man owning a gaming chair is a huge red flag" isn't talked about enough imo. Every guy I've met IRL who owned that chair was an entitled manchild who worshipped pewdiepie And yeah, "gamer girls" are not the same as gamer guys. Most women I know who play video games are high functioning. They have jobs, other hobbies, and friendships that don't solely revolve around gaming. Whenever I criticize gamer culture there's always dudes like wHaTaBouT gAmEr GiRLz. Bruh, it's not the same. Not even clo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:45 AM |
| 34 | Straight from a man’s mouth about excessive masturbation and penis sizeI'd say it's real in the sense that excessive masturbation and porn addiction can cause erectile dysfunction. Guys with porn-induced ED typically struggle to get an erection, and even when they do it's not fully hard, like it's still semi flaccid and therefore smaller. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 08:34 PM |
| 28 | Excuse me, what? (Women who don't fulfill their man's sexual needs should expect him to fulfill them elsewhere)I agree with the latter, but not the former. It's not even a "double standard" because women's sexual needs are generally more reasonable than men's. Most women just want to be able to have an actual orgasm from time to time, while men want to degrade and dominate women, and expect us to cater to their myriad of depraved sexual fantasies. For men, it's like "my wife gave birth 2 weeks ago and won't let me have sex. She wont even consider anal or blow jobs, so I should be allowed to set aside $20… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:20 PM |
| 58 | Excuse me, what? (Women who don't fulfill their man's sexual needs should expect him to fulfill them elsewhere)"If you're not satisfying your husbands sexual needs then you should expect him to cheat" Okay but what about men not satisfying their wives sexual needs? "If a husband can't make his wife cum then he should expect her to cheat" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:37 PM |
| 135 | Sex Pozzy Columnist Nadia Bokody defends PornHub and says that our conflicting feelings on porn are because we’ve been “taught women couldn’t be powerful & sexual”(link in pic#5). I took screenshots of all the “EmPoWeRmEnt” from the hottest US videos on PornHub.Has this columnist ever actually watched porn or is she just delusional? It's not just "having sex on camera" that's the problem here. How incredibly disingenuous. It's the slapping, whipping, restraining, strangling, and other forceful, degrading, and VIOLENT acts that are performed ALMOST EXCLUSIVELY BY MEN ONTO WOMEN in porn. That is NOT empowering! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:03 PM |
| 21 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsI like to monetize my male friendships. As soon as a male friend/acquaintance expresses sexual interest in me, he gets tossed into the scrotation. I let them buy me things but don't have sex with them. They all KNOW I already have a girlfriend, so I don't feel bad about exploiting them financially. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 11:04 PM |
| 13 | If "sex work is work" then why are there so few safety measures to counteract occupational hazards?If they can't use condoms because of the volume of scenes they do, they should reduce the volume to a threshold where it is safe to use condoms. Quite frankly though I find it a nonsense excuse. It would be like an employer saying "oh I don't let my employees wear safety gloves because I set the conveyor belts so fast, they'd end up losing twice as many fingers as they already do!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 10:08 AM |
| 77 | How dare a mother try to protect her daughter! Read the comments for some more 🤮The fact that this OP prioritizes her boyfriend's ego over her niece's safety reveals that she is unfit to babysit her niece anyways. A child's safety is ALWAYS paramount. The fact that she is getting all hung up on this one thing is extremely suspicious to me. Sure, she is allowed to decline babysitting for any reason including "I just don't want to" But for THIS reason? She seems like the sort of person where if her boyfriend did actually molest someone, she would defend him until the bitter e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:43 AM |
| 32 | If "sex work is work" then why are there so few safety measures to counteract occupational hazards?It's not even that they don't care, it's that they specifically like it and search for it. And other men will defend them by saying NAMALT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 31 | If "sex work is work" then why are there so few safety measures to counteract occupational hazards?Oh that's already been a thing for a while, "snuff films" (don't Google that, NSFL) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 58 | If "sex work is work" then why are there so few safety measures to counteract occupational hazards?For some men, it would probably add to their arousal if that were the case 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 27 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"Imagine if we lived in a world where literally every man on the planet were addicted to meth. One of my standards is "I don't date people who do drugs" Would there be people going "BUT AAAALLLL MEN ARE ADDICTED TO METH" So? My statement still stands. I don't want to date people whose brains have been turned into swiss cheese by meth (porn) addiction. Not gonna lower my standards to accommodate men who don't meet them, even if that means excluding literally all men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 239 | Men really do miss the days where a man could just forcibly impregnate a woman and then abandon her on a whim, leaving her desperate and penniless. This is why we vet ruthlessly.Men be like, "It is my RIGHT as a MAN to EJACULATE directly inside a VAGINA if I want to" Also men: Child support is FiNanCiaL rApE Also also men: Why won't women fuck me??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 11 | I think we’ve all had a guy like Jay at some point 🙄 (Big Mouth - s4 ep7)If a guy said that to me, I don't think I would be able to stop myself from laughing in his face 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:45 AM |
| 36 | Men are really weird 🤨LMAO this is getting reported for "promoting hate based on identity or vulnerability" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 13 | Men need to stop complaining that they do not receive compliments from women.Men who are hot and/or skilled at something get compliments all the time. When a guy on reddit says he's sad because he never gets compliments, I assume it's because he's either unattractive and/or hasn't done anything to earn a genuine compliment. Sounds like a you problem, buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 78 | Cycle of abuseThe moment a woman describes her boyfriend as "moody" I tell her to run. It's one of the most accurate tells of emotional abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 5 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.Yes! I just binge watched The Crown and I'm so pissed off by how Diana was treated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:34 AM |
| 48 | Do Men Care if You Come?If they do care, it's usually only because their ego was hurt. Most of these dudes would rather lash out at you or demand that you comfort and reassure them, rather than making an effort to become an actual good lover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:18 AM |
| 60 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.Having an exit plan and taking the time to execute it correctly is part of leaving. I don't expect women to leave immediately, but they should leave eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 09:56 PM |
| 36 | Request: can members kindly clarify that FDS policy of not paying for dates excludes affair partners bilking marital assets?FDS is strongly against dating married men. We're not gonna start going 50/50 on every date just in case he's married so we don't accidentally steal from his family. If he's cheating, he's stealing from his own family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 09:49 PM |
| 176 | This libfem meme directed at us so-called SWERFs makes me sad. :(The fact that they put "trafficked women" in a bingo square I just- 🤮🤮🤮 Do they think trafficked women aren't real? Or that they just don't matter? It trivializes a serious issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 13 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.I never said they need to leave immediately I said they need to leave. The specific time frame of when that happens is up to the woman and will depend on her unique circumstances. She needs to start developing an exit plan, which could take months or even years depending on if there are children involved, figuring out equitable division of marital assets, protective measures if he is abusive, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:18 PM |
| 14 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.So are you saying that abuse victims should stay with their abuser if it's too hard to leave? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:59 PM |
| 80 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.in a world where 99% of men cheat They cheat at the high rate that they do at least in part because they know they will get away with it. It's time for women to start enforcing consequences for men's bad behavior and stop letting them disrespect us over and over and over again. Hillary Clinton chose to stay for the political connections, that's true. She wanted to be president one day and she knew it would be easier with Bill by her side than not. Part of me respects her hustle, but part of me i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 60 | Am I bugging or is this a real thing? The first thing I thought was “sounds rapey to me” I’ve had this happen to me, but idk how the person could really be sleeping. A lot of folks in the comments agree that it’s a thing.I've read of cases where child molesters will use the excuse "I have sexomnia" when they get caught raping their daughter or other minor family members. I'm extremely suspicious of anyone who uses this excuse retroactively. Someone who really has this condition would be proactive in having safety measures to prevent anything non-consensual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:30 PM |
| 23 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄In the wise words of Megan Thee Stallion, men who cheat are just greedy. They'll still be in love when they come home and want their wives to forgive them. Always divorce men who cheat. We need to start enforcing consequences for their betrayal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 239 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.We like to approach modding the same way we approach dating... RUTHLESSLY 😂 Keep on reporting even mildly troublesome comments so we can BAN & DELETE 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Be careful about building an online influence (or any kind of business) with your boyfriend. Never be overly dependent on a man, it makes it so much harder to leave him if the relationship goes bad.This makes my blood boil every time I think about it 😤 I used to really love beyonce. But ever since she found out Jay Z cheated on her, I just feel like she deserves so much better. I'm annoyed when women forgive their cheating partners especially when she has any kind of influence/celebrity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:57 AM |
| 134 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour."Some of the allegations are false" is a confession that at least SOME of the allegations are true. It's a form of trickle truth. Like when a cheater is confronted with evidence of their cheating, they only admit to the parts that can be definitively proven and deny everything else until more evidence is found. "Okay, you caught me texting another girl, but we never met in person" Finds evidence they met in person "Okay, I admit that we did meet but nothing happened, there was nothing physical" … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:49 AM |
| 25 | Woman spends her time caring for the guy and their child, guy gives her a miniscule "salary" compared to his income and complains when wife wants a bit more to spend. Thus must be a dream for assholes: a full time maid and prostitute for minimum wage... 😠😠😠 Ofc commenters agree with him -.-She is effectively a single mom who makes 25k/year except with more chores because she has to cook and clean for her husband and not just herself and her baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 10:19 PM |
| 40 | Woman spends her time caring for the guy and their child, guy gives her a miniscule "salary" compared to his income and complains when wife wants a bit more to spend. Thus must be a dream for assholes: a full time maid and prostitute for minimum wage... 😠😠😠 Ofc commenters agree with him -.-If she were working 40 hours per week and making £500 that's only £12.50/hour. And you just KNOW she is doing more than 40 hrs/wk. Being a parent of an infant is a 24/7 job. He makes 250k and he's only willing to give his wife and child barely 10% of his income. Dude. That's your wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 50 | "I don't do friends."He's not even singing, he's lip synching. And badly, too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 04:41 AM |
| 216 | "I don't do friends."There are probably tons of male lurkers watching this and thinking "SEE? Women hate nice guys" and not seeing anything wrong with his behavior at all. One of many reasons why these dudes are single 🤣💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:58 AM |
| 28 | Be careful about building an online influence (or any kind of business) with your boyfriend. Never be overly dependent on a man, it makes it so much harder to leave him if the relationship goes bad.Exactly. For these same reasons, I would never take my husband's last name because I never want to publish any of MY creative or academic work under some man's name. I don't want his name because I'M the one who did the work and unless he contributed in a serious way, his name doesn't deserve to be on it. My work, my name. I don't want my memories or successes to be tainted by someone who might disappoint me one day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Men who are “jealous” of abusers give me the creepsI realized a while back that when incels complain "feeemales only want asshole bad boy Chads" They aren't jealous of the fact that the other guy is more good looking, or the fact that he has been with more women. He's jealous that he isn't good looking enough to be able to treat women like crap and still get away with it. They are resentful that if they want to attract women, they have to adopt a mating strategy that involves treating women well. They resent having to play the role of the "nice"… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:10 PM |
| 9 | In a study definitely not conducted by incels..."Women who don't fuck on the first date are psychopaths. See, there's even a study about it!" 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Why are all the stories of women buying houses with their boyfriends nightmare fuel?What a fucking psycho. Makes my blood boil. I used to work with a guy who admitted to doing fucked up shit like this. One night we all went out for drinks as a team and decided to play 2 truths and a lie. One of the things he said was "when I was a kid I used to kill stray cats by pouring boiling oil on them" We assumed that was the lie because we thought "no way someone would do something so fucked up" but NOPE apparently that was the truth! 🤬 The rest of the table got all quiet for a second un… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:01 AM |
| 9 | Engagement rings are a scam just get me a ring pop 🤪🤡People spend money on the things that are important to them. Meanwhile, I know guys who have spent $5000 on their gaming/entertainment room, or $15,000 on a motorcycle, but balk at the idea of spending more than a couple hundred bucks on their girlfriend's wedding ring. To these men, their own entertainment is more important to them than their relationship. Yeah, a thousand dollars is a lot of money for most people. But, this is a piece of jewelry she will be wearing every day for the rest of he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:33 AM |
| 51 | Do you confront a men ?I have walked out of dates mid-mouthful. Dude says something unacceptable, I go "Excuse me, have to go to the washroom", block and delete while walking to my car, drive away, forget about them completely. There is no point in arguing with men especially over basic stuff like human decency, respect, values etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:21 AM |
| 12 | Caitlin Reilly - First Sleepover with the Guy You Dated in CollegeThe face she makes after clapping and saying "my roommate has karate" SO ACCURATE 😱😱😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:52 PM |
| 26 | Make sure to nurture your man during YOUR pregnancy so he doesn't cheat, but if he does anyways, it's pretty normal and totally forgivable!Lmao and FDS gets accused of "promoting genocide" when we say that low quality men should not be having kids. Oh sorry I didn't realize that "worthless male" is a specific ethnic group and legally protected class 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 10 | When your seemingly HVM...is an undercover copIt should be illegal for police to have sex while undercover. It's rape by deception. It should be illegal for officers to have sex while on duty, or with any civilian connected to their police work even when off-duty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:11 PM |
| 71 | I'm tired of men sexualizing EVERYTHINGI hate how choker necklaces are sexualized. (I hate the term "choker" too ugh) I used to wear this cute black velvet ribbon necklace until some dude told me those necklaces were "a sign that the girl has a black belt in sucking dick" and I never wore it again after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:26 PM |
| 103 | The idea that someone is ever "asking for it" is disgusting. R*pe is about sick people, not their victims.I recall reading in some crime book that a woman wearing sweatpants walking with her head down is actually more likely to be raped/kidnapped/murdered than a woman strutting down the street in a minidress. Criminals always target victims they perceive as weak, vulnerable, unconfident, won't fight back, and with no support network. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 202 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthIt's fine for men to gloat about how evil they are but as soon as women actually notice and go, "hey, that's evil" suddenly we're hateful misandrist feminazis 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:19 PM |
| 32 | A tale from the vault: The one time my narc ex ate poisonous berries right after I told him they were poisonous and he blamed me when he got raging diarrhea 🤦♀️I know the passage you are talking about. That was my ex pretty much to a T. I had countless arguments like that. In fact when I was reading WDHDT while in a relationship with him, reading that passage felt soooo familiar, as if it were written about our relationship. In this specific scenario, he just couldn't let me be the expert on something. He eats the berries and if he doesn't get sick, he can laugh at me like "Haha you said they were poisonous but I'm fine, you're always making a big deal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 20 | A tale from the vault: The one time my narc ex ate poisonous berries right after I told him they were poisonous and he blamed me when he got raging diarrhea 🤦♀️Yes, and I got the usual narc blameshifting "well I wouldn't have done that if YOU hadn't blah blah blah [word salad, gaslighting, change topic]" Narcissists live in a world where they ABSOLUTELY CANNOT BE WRONG about something, anything, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:23 AM |
| 88 | A tale from the vault: The one time my narc ex ate poisonous berries right after I told him they were poisonous and he blamed me when he got raging diarrhea 🤦♀️He was just a very contrarian, high conflict individual. Had problems with "authority" and would just be needlessly oppositional at all times even when he is demonstrably wrong. It was also a power/entertainment thing. He got off on my distress. He's a narc. They'll say something controversial because they love the attention they get when people argue with them. It's the same mentality as a troll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:11 PM |
| 49 | Narcissist Men = VampiresThey know. They are abusive/manipulative because it gets them what they want. It's worked for them in the past, which is how they learned to be this way. So long as it keeps working for them they have no incentive to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:59 PM |
| 77 | Men and their repulsive homes 🤢I have no idea either. I get straight up depressed when my home is too messy for too long. It makes me happy to have a tidy space. I wonder if all these dudes complaining about "men's mental health" live in junkyards like that. Bro just take out the recycling and make your bed = instant mood boost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:56 PM |
| 106 | A tale from the vault: The one time my narc ex ate poisonous berries right after I told him they were poisonous and he blamed me when he got raging diarrhea 🤦♀️Reminds me of all the times I see my dogs chewing on something they're not supposed to be eating, and when I go to take it away they start chewing faster like this meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:19 PM |
| 126 | A tale from the vault: The one time my narc ex ate poisonous berries right after I told him they were poisonous and he blamed me when he got raging diarrhea 🤦♀️It was the ensuing emotional abuse that wasn't funny. I started grinning pretty much as soon as he complained about an upset stomach 😂 This was all pre-FDS and before I learned about narcissism and emotional abuse. At the time I just remember feeling confused like "why is my boyfriend so stupid and stubborn???" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:57 PM |
| 68 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?they like to make up drama for fun I swear They absolutely do. Oh the stories I could tell 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:28 PM |
| 70 | Some of these men are absolutely repulsive."If I have suspicions of cheating it's game over" Sounds like he's looking for his next murder victim. Psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:25 PM |
| 7 | On wgtow, we are considered a cult. New mods coming down hard on what can be talked about, discussions on male violence & depravity not allowed? Accuse our mods of brigading and trolling. I love FDS, it helped me immensely. This bs post had me leave wgtow.It's more about not wanting to respond to that mod. She has been active trying to stir up drama with FDS mods, accusing us of brigading, harassment, etc. so recently we decided to just avoid giving her our attention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:20 PM |
| – | On wgtow, we are considered a cult. New mods coming down hard on what can be talked about, discussions on male violence & depravity not allowed? Accuse our mods of brigading and trolling. I love FDS, it helped me immensely. This bs post had me leave wgtow.Removed because we don't care lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:14 PM |
| 64 | “YouTuber kills pregnant girlfriend on live-stream as viewers pay him to abuse her.” - Summary in comments.This dude straight up murdered his girlfriend and he's only getting "up to 2 years" What the fuck, Russia??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:11 PM |
| 9 | Candace Owens is so cringyOhhhh like the whole "soy boy" thing. I get it now. So dumb. And I agree, people are free to dress however they like. Men's fashion used to be really "effeminate" (at least by today's standards.) Meme mom made a really good video about it. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 47 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"I know right??? I am shocked by the amount of contempt and hate for Grimes in this thread. Based on the tone of "she's getting what she deserves" you'd think she was a cannibal or a war criminal but no... she hasn't done anything to hurt anyone except herself and even the latter is up for debate. The reason why I posted her quote is because I actually agree with her feelings on motherhood as a loss of power, and I am simultaneously horrified that that is our reality. I didn't post her here for a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 50 | Candace Owens is so cringyI think they are trying to say "straight men are killing themselves because women won't have sex with them" I think??? Still a very stupid statement. "Heterophobia" isn't real, it's like reverse racism or misandry. It doesn't result in violence against straight people. Unlike HOMOhobia, which actually DOES result in violence against LGBT people or people perceived to be LGBT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 66 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"Stimming during interviews, struggles to communicate with others effectively, intense obsession with niche topics (AI, Space, etc.), desire for sameness (she said in an interview that she only ate spaghetti for an entire year causing nutritional deficiencies), great ability in one area but struggles with others (highly talented musician/artist but struggles in other aspects of her life) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 12 | WTF. Just looked at how divorce works in Canada. Why do you have to justify to a court why you want to leave in order to get approved if your spouse refuses to sign the papers? Just wanting to be single should be enough reason to be granted divorce.A judge would never ever just go "rejected, small problems, do marriage counseling" in Canada. If you want to keep your life private (because of abuse or any other reason) you don't have to share that to get "permission" to divorce (although, it may benefit you to disclose abuse because you'll likely be granted a protection order, a higher settlement $$$, better custody arrangement, etc.) The only grounds for divorce in Canada is marriage breakdown. It could be for any reason as extreme as abuse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 21 | WTF. Just looked at how divorce works in Canada. Why do you have to justify to a court why you want to leave in order to get approved if your spouse refuses to sign the papers? Just wanting to be single should be enough reason to be granted divorce.Contesting a divorce is more to do with division of marital assets, child custody, spousal support, etc. Just because your ex is contesting the divorce doesn't mean you're not getting divorced, it just means it's gonna take longer. Also, marital rape is illegal in Canada. It is totally possible to not be in a relationship with your husband while still legally married to him due to court proceedings. It can be a pain in the ass though, especially if your ex is the litigious type, he can waste you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:35 PM |
| 90 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"Autism isn't something you can grow out of. Adults with autism are vulnerable to abuse their entire adult lives. Even for neurotypical people, money and fame doesn't make you immune from abuse. Just look at Rihanna. Misogyny is universal and it affects all women, both rich and poor. No amount of money, fame, life experience, etc. will make a woman immune to misogyny and abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:07 PM |
| 165 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"I'm hesitant to label her as either a victim or not-a-victim. We don't know all the intimate details of their relationship. What we do know is that Elon Musk is a narcissist who spews redpill bullshit on twitter. Personally, I can attest to the powerful intoxication of narcissistic manipulation. He is also 17 years older than her. Meanwhile, I'm pretty sure Grimes is not neurotypical. She is fiercely intelligent and creative for sure, but it wouldn't surprise me if she were on the spectrum. Auti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 91 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"Exactly. I crave deeply, from the bottom of my heart, that we could live in a world where a man and a woman having sex was by default an act of mutual love and intimacy. Unfortunately, that is not the world we live in. Men act like sex is something they do to a woman, to degrade her, to dominate her, to control her. It's something that nearly all women have experienced which is why it's so relatable, but it's horrifying because it shouldn't be that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 130 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"I was tempted to flair this "forever gf tales" as a joke but I felt it would detract from the seriousness of her statement. Yes, it's a very bad call. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 05:24 PM |
| 31 | Do not date a man who refuses to eat food from your cultureIf a guy turns up his nose at your cooking, then he just has bad manners and probably has the palate of a toddler. Complete dealbreaker to me. It's pretty much a universally accepted cultural norm that it's impolite to criticize the food that is being served to you, unless the chef specifically asks for constructive criticism. I've dated guys who had immature palates like "I don't eat vegetables except in the form of tomato sauce" or "I am unable to eat al dente pasta, only mush, just the way my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 61 | Why has watching porn when you're in a relationship been normalized? (Also: "sex positive, monogamous" -_-)I don't even think this was written by a woman, probably a male LARPer. Too callous and victim blamey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 228 | New Yorker criticizes Queen’s Gambit actress as too good looking for the role. Because being smart must = being ugly even after any glowup.I loved TQG but the one thing that interfered with my suspension of disbelief is that it wasn't sexist enough. This was the 60s. Women couldn't legally have a bank account without her husband's approval. There would have been far more barriers for her than what the show portrays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:39 PM |
| 156 | Did you know that "aftercare" was a thing with BDSM?BDSM followed by aftercare is pretty much just the cycle of abuse + trauma bonding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 94 | My heart broke reading this. Stories like this are why we vet ruthlessly, and why we block and delete at the first sign of disrespect. I cannot imagine wasting 30 years of my life with a man who would risk letting me die because he's too lazy and selfish to take me to the hospital.I relate so much to this. My narc parents always denied me medical care as a control thing. Whenever I was sick they just yelled at me and called me overly dramatic. One time I ended up in the hospital with pneumonia and they still thought I was trying to "embarrass" them. I'm No Contact with both. Most of the men I dated were also narcs. I had such a tolerance for mistreatment, it felt oddly familiar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:15 AM |
| 110 | My heart broke reading this. Stories like this are why we vet ruthlessly, and why we block and delete at the first sign of disrespect. I cannot imagine wasting 30 years of my life with a man who would risk letting me die because he's too lazy and selfish to take me to the hospital.It's not borderline, it is straight up abusive. In her comments she says she isn't going to leave him because she's in her 50s and "knows" she would be alone if she left him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:05 AM |
| 5 | “I can’t stick my dick in your master’s degree”Successful women are harder to impress. LVM know they cannot compete, so they insult successful women instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 09:44 PM |
| 7 | Sigh...... block and delete. She made a logical conclusion at the end and still wants to keep him around?!"He's a tad bit off" = he's waving a million red flags I choose to ignore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 09:49 PM |
| 37 | Saw this on dank memes and laughed cuz they do be useless thoI always thought gender roles in chess were so accurate. The Queen is so versatile and powerful, and can move in any direction. The King is useless and takes the entire game down with him when he goes like some kind of family annihilator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:56 AM |
| 16 | Misogyny is about hating women who refuse to be ruled by men. Misandry is also about hating women for refusing to be ruled by men.Exactly. I know far too many working class men who treat their wives like shit. They'll complain about male disposability but instead of recognizing that they are all oppressed by capitalism, working class men choose to worship strongmen like Trump. They identify more closely with tyrants than with women in their own socioeconomic class. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:22 AM |
| 85 | Lord have mercyRed flags of abuse in this post 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩(I mean, other than the actual "sex" which is just straight up abuse) Triangulation. Negatively characterizing his ex in such a way is a manipulation tactic intended to trigger a sense of competitiveness in the new woman. This conditions the new woman to want to please him and to erase her own boundaries. As if to say, "I left my ex because of this bad and horrible thing that she did. If you don't want me to leave you, you better not do that!" Sex as stress r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:46 PM |
| 83 | Misogyny is about hating women who refuse to be ruled by men. Misandry is also about hating women for refusing to be ruled by men.And what do abusers/misogynists want? Power over women. It's really interesting how someone's "wants" says a lot about who they are as a person. Behavior is driven by wants. A HVM is someone who wants fairness, someone who values compassion for victims of abuse, someone who wants to make the world a better place for all. Their actions are guided by those goals. A LVM/misogynist/abuser (tbh they are all pretty much the same) just wants a servant, an easy life, power and control without having to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 49 | They think this is an accomplishment."I have inserted my penis into 79 sexthings" "LMAO RIGHT ON BRO" [high five] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 35 | I think I found the queen of pickmesPretty much yeah. She's acting as though she's performing an act of charity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:00 AM |
| 50 | Vogue YouTube makes Pick-Me Porn. Karley Sciortino Describes Finding Another Woman’s Panties in her boyfriends bed TWICE and then wearing them.I can't believe this woman is a sex columnist. There are women out there who actually look up to her for advice. Terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:05 PM |
| 6 | I feel so sick after reading this. “She should know I would never do that to her.”I hope when she goes to the hospital she says "I'm in an abusive relationship, please help me get out" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:59 PM |
| 26 | A r*pe guidebook disguised as a "guide for frat boys to seduce freshman girls". Fucking disgusting. (found on another sub)They'll mock you for being gullible and naive then exploit you because of it. They'll mock you for being wary and suspicious, and then wonder why we hate men 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 05:56 PM |
| 21 | What a HVM looks like. He's always doing stuff like this for his wifeThis made me laugh out loud 😂😂😂 Banned because male but leaving this comment up for the lolz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 14 | What a HVM looks like. He's always doing stuff like this for his wifeStuff like this always makes me smile. I subscribe to r/ woodworking and so many of the posts there are dudes making gifts for their wives and girlfriends. So cute!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:04 AM |
| 115 | Grand pickmeisha. Precious “husband” is going to be walking all over this doormat in no timeThe fact that she would even date the brother of her sister's cheating stalker ex is a good enough reason for her sister to avoid any relationship with her. But inviting the cheating stalker ex insread of the victim is a whole new low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 01:01 AM |
| 25 | period.Women accumulate relationship trauma, men accumulate "valuable life lessons" and "relationship skills" (at our expense) 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 34 | They're so close to getting it. And yet...So true. I know plenty of working class men who treat their wives like shit and instead of acknowledging that both are oppressed because of capitalism, he takes out his frustrations on his poor wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 11:24 PM |
| 18 | I’ve had this conversation way too many times 🚩In his interview with Bill Maher discussing porn, BM said he doesn't like how most mainstream porn is "rapey" and Joe Rogan acted all incredulous like "wow what sites are YOU going to?" and BM went on to list all the mainstream porn tropes that explicitly portray nonconsent, and JR begridgingly accepted. So basically he's just another pornsick scrote who has seen so much violent "stepdaughter PAINAL" "gangbang DESTROYS yoga teacher" "security guard FORCES shoplifter" that he doesn't even bat an … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 02:07 AM |
| 10 | Imagine this level of gaslighting, diverting and blameshifting.Yes! A true role model for healthy masculinity. I consider him among the top 0.1% of highest value men. Just the sheer effort and courage it takes to go toe-to-toe with traffickers to liberate women and girls deserves a lot of respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:55 AM |
| 5 | A great article on how sexual liberalism and bare minimum expectations of decency from men has lead to high levels of sexual dissatisfaction. Peep the comments for FDS tackling some more wokebro mansplaining!This is such a great article. I especially loved these quotes: “ignoring our animal nature in favour of an abstract vision of egalitarianism has ended up disproportionately harming women”. "A moral system based solely on consent is inadequate because the presence of consent is such a very, very low bar — an absolute bare minimum requirement, not an ideal." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:01 AM |
| 5 | In your opinion, how long into an official relationship is it acceptable/ expected for someone to say ‘I love you’?I'd say in the 3-4 month range | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:42 AM |
| 22 | What’s the worst pick-me song of all time?And s8er boi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:39 AM |
| 15 | Boyfriends/Husbands who destroy their partners things: a FDS investigation.There was a guy who permanently deleted his girlfriends instagram account because she was an influencer and he thought she spent too much time on it or whatever He deleted the post but heres an article about it: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-8354801/Boyfriend-blasted-deleting-girlfriends-Instagram-account-decided-shes-obsessed.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:33 AM |
| – | He told me to remove FDS because of the "toxic thinking and expectations"FDS is like Fight Club. Rule #1: don't talk about FDS with men you know IRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 112 | I’ve had this conversation way too many times 🚩OMG HER FACE IS SO PERFECT. She's got comedic timing, captions, and acting on point 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:18 AM |
| 50 | Man is angry he isn't his wife's special little boy anymoreReminds me of people who complain about a "deer crossing" sign being put in a location that is personally inconvenient to them. "Why is the deer x-ing in front of my house? Why can't the deer cross the street further down?" In all seriousness though this dude should have worn a condom or had a vasectomy. The rhythm method is probably the least effective form of birth control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:12 AM |
| 13 | Men Shaming Anger, Gaslighting/ Manipulating Down Your Concerns, then Getting Angry When the Problem Pops Up AgainGreat post! I really like how you broke down this type of manipulation into multiple phases, which makes it easier for women to spot it in the moment, while also recognizing the overall "big picture" pattern. Always break up at the first sign of disrespect. Don't let time pass, don't let him bully you into silence. It's actually hilarious how men react when you block/break up with him at the first sign of disrespect. They always have this shocked pikachu face like this is the first time it has e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 12:06 AM |
| 54 | Imagine this level of gaslighting, diverting and blameshifting."Despite never doing anything" That's the problem. He's doing NOTHING. Being a male ally is more than just not being a rapist/harasser/pervert/etc. If he's doing nothing, he's part of the problem. It takes an active effort to fight misogyny. Any man who does not actively fight misogyny, and just sits back watching it happen, IS a misogynist. Taking no action in the face of oppression always helps the oppressors. I can only think of a handful of men who have truly dedicated their lives to fightin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:52 PM |
| 13 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits continues their Pro-Pedophile agenda by smearing FDSers concerned about protecting gay youth from predatory adult men as “hateful”. Makes extremely homophobic claims that FDSers are “Political Lesbians”.I've been called a "political lesbian" because I'm febfem (female exclusive bisexual woman). I really don't understand why this term has such a negative connotation. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian and there's nothing wrong with being politically active. Why, if you put those words together, they become an insult? Anyone who uses the term "political lesbian" as an insult is automatically a misogynist. What am I supposed to do to keep these people happy? Have sex with men even though … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | 'Before I respect you, I want to know all aspects of you. Let's exchange detailed photos of us physically'. My best friend found this gem in the wild 😂Yeah that's why I said "sometimes" and in another comment that there were genuinely decent men too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:49 PM |
| 8 | 'Before I respect you, I want to know all aspects of you. Let's exchange detailed photos of us physically'. My best friend found this gem in the wild 😂Some were actually pretty decent people though, at least on the surface level. (and hot too 😂) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 21 | 'Before I respect you, I want to know all aspects of you. Let's exchange detailed photos of us physically'. My best friend found this gem in the wild 😂KRAV MAGA lmao I tried that for a few months and half the dudes were creepy redpillers. Women who choose krav maga go there to learn how to not get raped. Men who choose Krav Maga are sometimes just straight up sociopaths who want to learn how to kill with their bare hands. Edit: just want to add that the other half of the dudes seemed like genuinely good people at least at surface level. Do not let this comment dissuade you from learning self defense, including KM. There are scrotes everywhere,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:58 AM |
| 29 | That's how scrotes see women. They really think that the worst thing that a woman can experience, is not being considered fckable by some crusty, pathetic male.The Nazis and Soviet union soldiers would rape literally every woman they came across, everyone from infants to 80 year old grandmas. Looks did not matter to them. The objective was demoralizing a conquered population by degrading their women. I'm sure many of those victimized women would have preferred being rejected for being ugly or whatever, over being brutally violated. That OP feels no empathy for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 89 | “I love a woman with a sense of humour.” Translation: she must laugh at my shit jokes.So much of their humor is at other people's expense too. Pranks, "punching down" and being needlessly cruel is never funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:48 AM |
| 21 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highLmao the anger over men paying on first dates got me laughing. If a guy wants to split the bill, I graciously accept, pay my half, and then never speak to him again. That's it. There is literally nothing wrong with me doing that, nobody is being harmed, I'm not doing anything illegal, I haven't "tricked" him or stolen his money. The funny part is that those are the ones who usually end up blowing up my phone begging for a 2nd date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:28 PM |
| 10 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highThey already send us their dick pics and random gore shit 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:41 PM |
| 26 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highThey're obsessed with us 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:35 PM |
| 57 | This hits too close to my pickme teen years.Same here. Also, feeling suspicious whenever someone was being genuinely nice to me. My narc parents only ever were nice to be as part of a manipulation tactic so it conditioned me to expect that something bad is about to happen. The uncertainty of not knowing what will happen when the other shoe drops just makes me go crazy. Any man who says "women love being treated like shit" are talking about re-abusing abuse victims. Like wow, congratulations on being a bad person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:20 PM |
| 17 | Marina just dropped this epic song! Man's world by MarinaGod, women are so gorgeous. We are so much more beautiful than men. The dude with his hairy chest out ruined this for me tho. The fact that he can have his nipples out in a music video but the women can't do the same without the video being censored and labelled pornographic is itself part of living in a man's world. Edit: also, the fact that he is allowed to have visible body hair but women can't, is also part of living in a "mans world". Men are allowed to exist with their bodies exactly how t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:44 PM |
| 5 | How To Shut Down Woke Bros Who Think Women Exercising our FREE SEXUAL CHOICE is a hate crime"Men don't owe you cock" Umm... I never said that they did. Stop trying to put words in our mouths, and while you're at it stop trying to put your dicks in there too. Even though they don't owe us cock they seem obsessed with shoving it in our faces 24/7 anyways. Like seriously, please stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:34 PM |
| 55 | This is what porn does. This poor child is being sexually harassed in her own home because of her step-brother’s pornsickness. I hope that she can get the frick frack outta there and that he gets put into intensive therapy (and subject to constant surveillance by his parents) before he escalatesSo sad that her own father is gaslighting her into tolerating Mike's harssment. Poor girl literally says "I feel crazy" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:13 PM |
| 50 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highKeep a close eye out and report any comments that seem suspicious to you (like they might have been written by a man). Typically the way they write just seems "off" you know? Sometimes they go too extreme because they are writing a caricature of a "angry woman" Apparently men are paying actual money for flaired FDS accounts so that they can comment/post. So dudes will make account that toes the party line for a while until they become an approved commenter, sell it to a troll, who then starts le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:50 PM |
| 13 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.Men think that being denied sex is oppression, akin to being deprived of essentials such as food and water. In a society with like 110 men for every 100 women, and where women almost never have sex outside of marriage because it is highly stigmatized for them, there are going to be A LOT of guys who will probably live their entire lives never having sex with a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:25 PM |
| 34 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highOh haven't you heard? Not wanting to have sex with men is abusive and literal violence. If you want to be a "good girl" you must spread your legs for any man who desires you. Having standards is misandry. (/s for the morons at AHS 😂) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:21 PM |
| 14 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highRemoved for the last 2 sentences which could get us in trouble. Please edit your comment to remove the last 2 sentences and I will approve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:06 AM |
| 128 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highThere are literally at least 10 guys in my phone right now where if I asked if they wanted to come over to have sex, they would be at my door in five minutes. Dudes are just salty that we have (what they think) is so much power at our fingertips, and we STILL choose to pass on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:44 AM |
| 66 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highImagine being THAT paranoid and psychotic. Like a dude who thinks the CIA is spying on him with robot birds 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:37 AM |
| 46 | FDS is a very specific dating strategy - if you don't like it get lostThey quite literally think that women should be doled out to working class men to be used as incubators to keep "birth rates" high | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:27 AM |
| 190 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highThey don't care whether or not we want them. Female choice is irrelevant to them. All they care about is male supremacy: their goal is to bend us to their will and force us to kneel before anyone with a scrotum. Edit: in fact, for many of them, the fact that we dont want them makes them even more obsessed with violating us. Lots of men get off on that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:05 AM |
| 82 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highExactly. They're basically like "women are only allowed to be inferior or [begrudging noises] eQuAL (on the condition that I can punch women and don't have to pay child support). Women can NEVER be superior because that's misandry!!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:53 AM |
| 8 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.Oooo reading that gave me chills 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:51 AM |
| 73 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highExactly. When you're raised in a misogynistic/racist world, you hardly notice it. What you DO notice is antimisogyny and antiracism, which makes most people umcomfortable at best or rage at worst, because it goes against what's considered "normal" For example most people hardly bat an eye at the 80/20 rule or they just roll their eyes and ignore it. But in my last post (what AHS screenshots are referring to), I turn the 80/20 rule on its head and got a TON of backlash. AHS basically says that op… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:46 AM |
| 240 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highFDS fun fact: nearly every post that mentions the word "men" and "ugly" in the same sentence gets mass reported for "targeted harassment against me" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:28 AM |
| – | Found on r/MadeMeSmile, comment section is all about pick mes 'hoping my bf doesn't find this haha'Removed because this is a repost | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:19 AM |
| – | Can we talk for a moment about LVM and steroid abuse?FDS strongly advises against dating men who use drugs, including anabolic steroids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:04 AM |
| 246 | FDS is a very specific dating strategy - if you don't like it get lostPreach. All these other subreddits hating on FDS are missing the whole point: FDS is about a specific type of dating. It's about maximum female benefit. If you don't wanna date like that, then don't! Nobody from FDS is gonna come arrest you for not following the handbook. Nobody from FDS is forcing anyone to do anything, so it would be nice if men and pickmes stopped trying to shut us down. They're the ones trying to force us to date how they want, which just so happens to be in a way that does … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:02 AM |
| 70 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.I have such a hard time wrapping my head around how extremely devalued women are in indian society. We literally create life yet men see this as having no value? Women are so devalued in india that they literally get murdered and nobody bats an eye. Female infanticide and sex selective abortions have skewed the gender balance in favor of sons: now there are way more men than women. You'd think that women would be valued more now because of supply/demand. Apparently not! Tons of thirsty LVMs in i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:43 AM |
| 31 | Such.. bitterness.Dating culture would be so much better if all men had actual standards and didn't just see us as a "numbers game" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:29 AM |
| 8 | Probably one of the most thoughtless gifts to be given, and absolutely rampant around the holiday season. No thank you! ✋LMAO yeah I only give these to people I don't like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:17 AM |
| 29 | And you can customize the skin color. 😉Yeah we are getting hella brigaded right now by againsthatesubreddits They're just spamming us with reports on literally every highly upvoted post even if it makes no sense just to try and get this subreddit banned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:09 AM |
| 60 | And you can customize the skin color. 😉LMAO this was reported for "IT THREATENS VIOLENCE OR PHYSICAL HARM AT SOMEONE ELSE" Men are so emotionally fragile 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 120 | Adult Toddler Wants "Chocwit Ice Cream." I Can't with This.u/smallslicedskin your husband is an emotional sadist. He doesn't have a brain tumor ffs. He knows what he's doing, and he's enjoying pushing your buttons for his own personal amusement. My narc ex used to troll me by doing baby voices or pretending to cry like a baby. He thought it was soooo funny to see my repulsed, annoyed face. And then he had the nerve to get angry with me when I didn't want to have sex after. I cannot think of a bigger turnoff than a grown adult roleplaying as an infant. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:59 AM |
| 45 | Bisexuals: Don't share your orientation with your man. No good comes of it.As a bi chick, I cosign this post. Every man I have ever dated thought that "bisexual woman" automatically meant "down to have threesomes" No, I don't want to watch my partner fuck another woman in front of me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:55 AM |
| 18 | LVM takes his date for a walk in the park and proceeds to sh*t himself in the bushes. Karma for organising an awful ‘date’.He says in the 2nd paragraph that he drank both | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 03:58 PM |
| – | Ladies, how do humble an arrogant guy who thinks all women should worship him due to his “status” education, salary, looks, etc?How to humble a guy? You can't. Don't bother. Avoid arrogant men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:45 AM |
| – | Would there be an interest in a QueerFemaleDatingStrategyWe have r/lesbiandatingstrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:44 AM |
| – | I'm having pick me tendencies towards my ex of 7 yearsGirl you need therapy. This is above reddit paygrade. You know we're gonna tell you to block and delete. This man will bring no value to your life even as a friend. These feelings are best hashed out with a qualified therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:42 AM |
| – | Thoughts?No direct links to manosphere subreddits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:32 AM |
| – | My boyfriend asked if I'd like to move in with him. How should I respond?This is more appopriate for r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:24 AM |
| 24 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.The lucky ones are single IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:05 AM |
| 74 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.The comments on those are always what get me laughing. For a man, they say "if you cut/style your hair better, dressed nicer, and took photos from a better angle, you would be a solid 5" For women, they go "take away the makeup, lighting, nice clothes, filters, posing, good photography etc. then you would only be a 5" Basically the standard for women is "take away everything that makes you attractive, then you're unattractive" but for men they are much more charitable and judge them based on eff… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 12:39 AM |
| 21 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.I genuinely hope these guys get the help they need. Really, I do. The world would be a better place if mentally ill men got the treatment they needed. I've struggled with depression and suicidal ideation in the past, so I totally empathize with those who experience mental health struggles. That being said, I'm not going to censor myself to accommodate hateful misogynists. Most of the time when I click on their username, their comment history is full of awful redpill/incel shit like saying women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 12:15 AM |
| 33 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Exactly. They justify it by ignoring everything that women bring to the table, and amplifying the ONE thing that men (sometimes but not always) bring to the table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:15 PM |
| 118 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Same here. My gf is from a culture that treats daughters like servants and sons like princes. When she was a child she was like a second mommy to her brothers, cleaning up after them, helping cook dinner for them, taking their dishes to the kitchen after meals to be washed. The men even ATE first before the women... even though the women made the meal! But all the women and girls got were leftovers and scraps. Nowadays she literally has a masters degree and high paying STEM career, is highly res… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 92 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Scrotes are calling me an "incel" when I literally have a girlfriend and have never had any issues attracting men. They're just salty that the bi chicks of FDS get more pussy than them 😂😂😂 They cherry pick my post with such sanctimonious outrage as though getting super butthurt over my words is somehow gonna make this post magically less correct. Where's the lie, bro? 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 161 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Yuuup. They mass report most of my posts for "promoting violence" because I straight up murdered them with words 😂 In all seriousness though, I never advocate for actual violence. The solution that I always advocate for is that women should stay single rather than be with a man who does not meet her standards. Seems pretty straightforward and innocent, right? Apparently not, because men think that women not dating them is LiTeRaL VioLeNce. My last one in particular garnered a lot of messages say… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:26 PM |
| 139 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Right?? When I see incels go "women only date up and across" I'm like, "what fucking planet are you from?" Nearly every couple I know, the woman settled for someone far below her worth. She is an AMAZING human being and the guy is basically "well at least I don't hit her" The only way someone comes to the conclusion that women only date up and across is if you already believe that women are worthless and that it is therefore impossible for women to "date down": they think women are already the l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:42 PM |
| 43 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Get thee to a nunnery! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:33 PM |
| 122 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Female-Exclusive Bisexual female Basically, bi women who only date women. Although I've only been febfem for about 6 months now. Mostly because of FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:32 PM |
| 47 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.20 is just a random number that men came up with to be more charitable regarding the value of their own gender. IMO the "80/20 rule" is a misnomer. More like 95/5. Or 99.99/0.01 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 173 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Even pickmes swipe left on most men on tinder 😂 Really says something when even the most people-pleasing, male pandering, male identified women still reject the vast majority of men. But yeah I agree that women should be more choosy, hence why FDS is necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 07:47 PM |
| 202 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Same! Both me and my gf are febfem. She is the single greatest partner I have ever dated, bar none. She is higher value than even the highest value men I have dated. More women need to start internalizing their own worth. Nearly every woman I know has been beaten down her entire life and as a result has bad self esteem. Men depend on women having low self esteem because a woman who knows her worth won't put up with being treated badly by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 07:39 PM |
| 55 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?No, they are unaware that they give off that aura instead they blame women for being "hypergamous" and "shallow" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:40 PM |
| 74 | My narc ex lived like this 🤢5 years from now there will be dudes crowing about how all they need to survive is their feeding tube, VR headset, and a fully automatic robot fleshlight 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:34 PM |
| 14 | My narc ex lived like this 🤢My neck hurts just looking at the ergonomics of it. Dude's gonna end up a hunchback from continuous bad posture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:30 PM |
| 19 | AccurateAh yes, the holy trinity of NVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:29 PM |
| 19 | Well there’s that.As a plant lover this makes me see red lmao. At least my plants will never cheat on me or gaslight me or treat me like shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:35 AM |
| 25 | Most men my age are permanently undateable because of porn. Yes, permanently.Good idea! Crossposted :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:05 PM |
| 95 | Most men my age are permanently undateable because of porn. Yes, permanently.Oh yeah for sure. Before the internet, porn was available on VHS and DVDs. Hell, even dirty mags like playboy have been setting men up to be depraved for decades. No man alive today hasn't been affected by porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 08:45 PM |
| 74 | When even men like Bill Maher can acknowledge and criticize the abusive,rapey and misogynistic nature of modern porn, what's the excuse of the rest of the scores that play stupid?I fucking hate Joe Rogan. I hate his crazy eyes, I hate how his audience of LVM worship him like he's some kind of all knowing god and an expert on everything, when really he just has a very superficial understanding of a wide range of topics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 86 | Girls please never chase men! As if the post isn't embarassing enough, a guy commented just to make fun of her...Why can't these guys understand that being discarded after sex is 1000x worse than being rejected after a cold approach 🙄 Guys are so lacking in empathy for women they probably just think she should consider herself lucky bEcAuSe aT LeAsT sHe HaD sEx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:38 AM |
| 35 | The “”friend zone””It's not cognitive dissonance. The double standards that men have for women are entirely consistent with their worldview that "women are beneath me and must serve me" They don't want to be treated like they treat women because this upsets the power dynamic. They are ok with doing it to women because it is consistent with their power dynamic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:37 PM |
| 56 | "I love your cooking" is NOT a real complimentLiterally have not cooked a meal for a man since I found FDS 😂 Although I do cook for my gf most nights. The difference is that she actually appreciates it as an act of love, not an act of servitude, and she reciprocates in other ways. As a bi chick I cannot get over how different it is to date women vs men. Like, wow! Amazing! I can act in gender coded ways with my gf and not get devalued and degraded, unlike if I was with a man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:23 AM |
| 38 | America’s ‘Daughters’ Grow Up To Be Women It Can’t Handle: Defiant young girls have become a political symbol in a country that fears grown women.Oof, this hit hard. Narc parents turned me into an over-achiever in school. Once I grew up and started using my smarts to stand up to them, they tried to destroy me. I know far too many women who were raised to be "strong daughters" but when they grew up and became women that same assertiveness was punished. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:14 AM |
| 63 | Feeling defeated, need advice pleaseQuite frankly, true HVM are exceedingly rare. The average woman is far higher value than the average man. Incels like to accuse us "80% of women date top 20% of men" as evidence of "female hypergamy" which isn't true. The reality is that only the top 10-20% of men have equal value as 80% of women. It's the men who are hypergamous, and are usually batting out of their league. Provided that women stick to their standards and refuse to date down, this means that there are going to be a lot of lifel… | /r/askFDS | 16/11/20 05:34 AM |
| 50 | Best relationship tips, big and small: let's share!If you had narc parents such as myself, go. to. therapy. (or if you had dysfunctional parents of any kind who did not model healthy relationship behaviors) Reading about narcissism and how it can affect children raised by narcissists can only do so much. A therapist will help you work on any blind spots you may have. Do this for yourself, and also for the people you date. People with unresolved childhood trauma often cause unnecessary and preventable emotional pain for their loved ones. Even tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:00 PM |
| 41 | Imagine if all the women collectively rejected such NVM/LVM. What's gonna happen to the patriarchal society? 💀I already say that to men and they always give me a shocked pikachu face 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 04:43 PM |
| – | I believe a man who supports and tries to help his SO’s career path is a HVM, right?Removed because this has been reposted many times on this subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:28 PM |
| 15 | One of the top posts in the dating advice subreddit reddit. LVM are upset that women don't approach them! When will men understand that women want a confident man that puts in effort to date them.Men saying that they don't ask women out anymore because of #meetoo is such a lazy, stupid, LVM cope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:50 PM |
| 69 | Pick Me Buys into Male Lies and Propaganda as to why Millions Of Men No Longer Want To Get Married. It’s sad it’s so easy to get women to buy into easily disprovable stupidity.Men be like "I don't want to get married unless I can financially abuse my wife into compliance and leave her destitute (legally) in the event of divorce" FDS: "ok, then we won't marry you or birth your children or even touch your dick" Men: angry incel noises | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:49 PM |
| 18 | I wheezed reading this 😂🙅♀️Misogynistic contrarians are the worst. A woman could say literally any fact and he wouldn't believe her, because she's a woman. In fact he would then make it his life's mission to either prove her wrong or destroy her in the process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:22 PM |
| 12 | Boohoo male LARPers, your 8th alt account got banned. Go complain about it on r/exfds and leave us alone 😂😂😂Yup he calls himself a "bread scientist" not a "baker" which is too feminine. Like bro just say you like making bread and go. It's ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:08 PM |
| 32 | I wheezed reading this 😂🙅♀️Lmao this comment gave me PTSD flashbacks 😂😂 When I make ribs without a BBQ, I usually cook them in the oven for ~4-6 hours on 225 to get them nice and soft, then put on the sauce and jack up the heat to max for a few minutes to get a nice crispy skin. For some reason my narc ex just had a problem with that. When I tried explaining that you need to cook it low and slow to break down the connective tissue, he just. didn't. believe. me. He assumed, "if it takes 6 hours to cook at 225, then if you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:00 PM |
| 33 | Seeking advice and discussion about the harms of porn useIf a guy literally cannot masturbate without porn, chances are almost 100% he is a porn addict. Men have been jerking off for thousands of years, but the porn industry has only been around for a few decades. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:43 AM |
| 47 | Seeking advice and discussion about the harms of porn useMasturbation is totally alright, for both men and women. Bothers me so much when we critique porn and guys conflate porn with masturbation and go "uR cOnTroLLiNg wHaT i dO WiTh mY bOdy" My main issue with porn is 1) the industry itself is incredibly problematic and exploitative of women, often coercing, drugging, and ruining the lives of female performers. 2) the way that it affects men's brains, causing them to see us as less than human, as objects for their sexual gratification, and normalizin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Whodathunkit? Another fresh one with zero karma!You can upload to imgur and send link to mods | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 132 | Oh Holy HellRight??? She sounds like an absolute national treasure and must be protected at all costs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:12 AM |
| 125 | Oh Holy HellApparently she cooks for him and does his laundry, which is what he is so upset about 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:12 AM |
| – | Oh Holy HellHis comments on his own post make it SO much worse: I never said she was my property, but she usually cooks dinner and does laundry for us both and hasn’t been. I don’t think she’s mine, but no I don’t like the way guys stare at her. I obviously don’t take her opinion into consideration since she dresses so ridiculously. I’m wrong for lying absolutely. I don’t see how I’m wrong for expecting my feelings on what she’s wearing to be taken into consideration though. You think it’s appropriate to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:11 AM |
| 67 | THIS is why we have FDS - at least he’s more honest about it than some men are. Gross!!"I want you to be real but also never break character" What??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 02:33 AM |
| 45 | Poor woman, awful husbandSo true. Men love to complain how hard it is to be a man in the dating world and how lonely they are. Most of them treat women like shit. They don't deserve to have a girlfriend or wife to keep them company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 15 | Whelp it’s the end of an era y’all. r/UnpopularOpinion moderators and their selective application of the rules only on women who have actual unpopular opinions that they don’t personally like strikes again.LOL getting banned from unpopularopinion for being an "incel" is like going to jail in Nazi Germany for being "too racist" 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:41 PM |
| 21 | To men who get all defensive and reiterate "not all men". Are you sure? Because it seems like a wolf tryna say "I'm not a wolf, I am a sheep.""AS SOMEONE WHO NEVER DRINKS AND DRIVES I FIND IT SO OFFENSIVE TO BE GROUPED IN WITH THOSE WHO HAVE DUI's JUST BECAUSE WE BOTH DRIVE. IT'S SO BAD FOR OUR MENTAL HEALTH. ALL OF THESE "MOTHERS AGAINST DRUNK DRIVING" ADs ARE DISCRIMINATION AGAINST DRIVERS. YOU'LL CONVINCE MORE PEOPLE NOT TO DRINK AND DRIVE IF YOU STOP USING THAT TONE AND GENERALIZING ALL DRIVERS, DON'T YOU WANT ALLIES LIKE ME???" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | 😎"Have you even considered that he might be depressed? Shame on you, it's your job to help him!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 46 | Why FDS is Anti-Kink"Non negotiated CNC" is just NC (nonconsent). So, basically rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:15 PM |
| 9 | men like this are why I’m happy being singleIf he gets that much anxiety over a pregnancy announcement, he isn't fit to be a parent. Is he gonna do this every single time he feels a drop of cortisol in his blood? What's he gonna do when the baby is born, it's crying, needs diaper changed, his wife might have post partum depression and they're both sleep deprived? Is he gonna step up, be a good parent, and change the diaper? or is he gonna fuck off to Costa Rica for a week to "process his emotions" leaving his stressed out wife at home? He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 17 | All this manosphere anti-feminist backlash is just a crude attempt to regain power over women and force us to be subservient to them. The good news is that it's having the opposite effect: alienting women and motivating us to be even more independent from them.This is so painfully true. Most women just want to love and be loved. Unfortunately, the ones we want to love are unwilling or unable to love us back. They don't want love, they only want to dominate, exploit, and abuse us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 23 | All this manosphere anti-feminist backlash is just a crude attempt to regain power over women and force us to be subservient to them. The good news is that it's having the opposite effect: alienting women and motivating us to be even more independent from them.They would gladly burn our entire civilization to the ground just because they don't want to do chores Imagine being THAT lazy, stubborn, and stupid 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 09:46 PM |
| 35 | All this manosphere anti-feminist backlash is just a crude attempt to regain power over women and force us to be subservient to them. The good news is that it's having the opposite effect: alienting women and motivating us to be even more independent from them.These guys don't care at all about actually being attractive to women. I see it all the time on manosphere dating websites, "never go to women for dating advice, women don't know what they want" etc. They think that women should just automatically fawn all over him just because he has a penis, without any effort on his part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 09:17 PM |
| 24 | ⚡ STRESS TESTS: How to test the HV-ness of your partner ⚡My interpretation of what u/Moira_Spice said is basically, "pay attention to how someone behaves under stress because how they respond in a stressful situation says a lot about the sort of person they are" It's not about manufacturing drama, and it's nothing like what redpillers do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:54 PM |
| 27 | How to deal with a cheaterThis is the best answer. The most important thing to men and narcissists is control. When you leave without a word, YOU are in control, not them. When you stay and give them an opportunity to lie to you, they are chasing the feeling of control that comes with successfully convincing you to forgive them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:23 PM |
| 89 | I feel like kids have less tolerance for offensive and annoying behavior than adults doA child has not yet been beaten down by life. They have more energy to fight back against injustice. By the time a woman is a grown adult, she feels exhausted from a lifetime of societal gaslighting grinding her down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 07:00 PM |
| 72 | Calls his wife a “total bitch” 2 months postpartum and almost no one is calling out the disrespectExactly. Men always be complaining about FeMaLe hYpErGaMy like "women never date down, only across and up!" as though that makes us bad people. We don't date broke dudes for this exact reason. Having children seriously affects a woman's earning potential, so the father will need to help pick up the slack. IMO choosing to have children with a broke LVM is borderline child abuse. Men who earn less than $70,000/year shouldn't be having children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?LMAO yeah, bad glasses, bad hair, serial killer eyes, bad face altogether 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 03:06 PM |
| 11 | LVM out here “cooking” dog food and frozen broccoli on “dates.” I’d literally rather go to the field.OMG I literally choked on my drink reading this 😂😂😂 I've dated bodybuilder types who would cook this exact meal all the time and get offended when I didn't want to eat it. "But it's high protein low carb! Think of the macros!" Meanwhile I would often spend 3 hours making a multi course gourmet meal that they scarfed down in 5 minutes without even chewing properly 🙄😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 07:25 AM |
| 6 | The audacity!So basically a covert narc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 07:17 AM |
| 38 | Stop letting men down "nicely"This is an EXCELLENT point and very true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 07:13 AM |
| 19 | Stop letting men down "nicely"As I said in my post, if you are alone with him then yes, your physical safety comes first. If you are in public with him and surrounded by people, or talking over text, this strategy still applies. I certainly empathize with the fear of violence, especially since my parents are abusive narcs who raised me to have zero boundaries. It took a lot of therapy and conscious effort to overcome that conditioning, and I still struggle with it from time to time. That being said, I'll be blunt: a HVW does… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:49 AM |
| 9 | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?"My entire personality is a carefully constructed persona based on what I think will get me laid" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 21 | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?This is such a great point! It's a common manipulation tactic for guys on tinder to open with "deep" questions like "so, tell me about all your childhood trauma and insecurities!" which is information they will later use against you. It also creates a false sense of intimacy. Most people know not to ask stuff like that until you know someone very intimately and have a lot of trust. This guy basically wants to skip the "building trust" phase and go straight to the "give me information I can use t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:25 AM |
| 36 | Hell to the yeah.Lmao what does he expect? For women to not cross the street to avoid hurting his feelings? I'm just imagining some pickme out there who is so hardcore that even if she is being chased by a literal serial killer, she chooses not to run away, for fear of hurting his feelings 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:06 AM |
| 46 | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?Soooo fucking true! Literally every guy I know is like "I'm a gamer" or "I'm a gym rat" or "I have a motorcycle" They all have ONE hobby that their entire life revolves around, and on which their entire identity is based. Talking to them is boring because they are so one dimensional and incapable of holding a conversation on a topic other than their hobby of choice. Meanwhile, nearly every woman I know has a variety of interests and hobbies, and no single hobby defines her entire personality. Fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:35 AM |
| 46 | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?"I'm not socially retarded, it's the women who are wrong!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:43 AM |
| 49 | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?This guy probably shows up to dates talking about himself like "HELLO I AM A NICE GUY PLEASE SEX ME" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:04 AM |
| 100 | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?I posted this mainly because I've been negged by guys for my hobbies many times, even by guys who supposedly aren't incels. It's so nefarious because developing hobbies is one of the many ways that women level up. It's just another way of putting women down. A woman's interests are an extension of herself. Insulting her hobbies is an insult to her. Ladies, never let a man shame you for your interests and hobbies. If a guy insults your hobbies, it says more about him than it does about you. I pos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 12:00 AM |
| – | Wahmen bad for... *checks notes* having hobbies?The best part about this thread was all the comments explaining that you can tell what someone's personality is by talking about hobbies as a conversation starter, and the OP arguing with them and just not. getting. it. Basically this scrote is unable to read a woman's personality traits (kindness, intelligence, extraversion/introversion, etc.) unless the woman literally spells it out for him. He's one of those guys who refuses to admit that women aren't interested in him because he is poorly so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 11:46 PM |
| 21 | 🤮 FWB NVM wants a live-in bangmaid 🤮"Haha he is such a joker" (um no, he's just an asshole) A lost cause indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Drinks = drunk enough for sex with a random girl, movie and cuddle = sex with a random girl, but dinner is too much of a risk in this “current climate” 😒🙄I read that with the same intonation that I would say to my dogs: "wanna go for a WALK?" and they get all excited. You can't just treat a woman like you would a dog 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:41 PM |
| 25 | This makes me feel so sad...To an abuser, children are merely hostages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Unattractive man catfishes women because he feels entitled to have a more attractive woman."People keep telling me to improve but that gets me nowhere!" eyeroll I'm curious to know what he is actually doing to improve himself. Literally every guy I meet who says he's "tried self improvement" didn't actually DO anything to improve themselves. Or, they tried the thing once and gave up because they didn't get instant results. "I tried meditation once but I didn't like it" "I went to the gym for 2 weeks but didn't see any results" "I asked my boss for a raise but he said no" Like, bro. Yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 07:15 AM |
| 8 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogHe sounds like a fucking sadist. Block and delete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 12:52 AM |
| 4 | NEVER put "feminist" in your dating profile. You'll just end up attracting misogynistic losers who watch violent rape porn and fantasize about "breaking" feminists.Michelle McDaniel from "My Thoughts Will Probably Offend You" has a great video on this. Most of the time these guys follow up by hitting on the woman they just insulted. So yes, it is a form of negging, but quite frankly I doubt that they are doing it from a place of PUA strategy. They just hate women and don't know how to relate to women unless they are insulting them (but they still wanna fuck them). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 08:55 PM |
| – | I just found this site and was instantly repulsed by the clickbate-y titles, but then I read a few articles and it's... actually pretty good? Am I missing something? Are these guys actually getting a clue? Please, I need more eyes on this, I need more opinions!No direct links to incel, redpill, or any other manosphere website | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 04:37 PM |
| 6 | The Booty Kings (Chris Redd, Kenan Thompson), Uncle Butt (Pete Davidson), Lil Wayne and Future rap about how much they love women and consent.Ugh that was so painful to watch, I couldn't even finish it. The hypocrisy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:30 PM |
| 13 | "You'll Never Get a Date Like THAT:" Male Sympathy is Inversely Correlated with the Effectiveness of Any Movement, Wide-ranging (RadFem) or Personal (FDS), that Benefits WomenI see this all the time, usually from the "Not ALL men" crowd. They'll go something like "it makes me uncomfortable when women talk about rape, pedophilia, abuse, etc. as something that men do because it feels bad to be associated with a gender that does these things. I'm a good guy! Don't you think you would get more support from men if you tried to be more appealing to guys like me?" All I hear is "me me me me, everything should be about me, even though I have never been raped, molested, or ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:23 PM |
| 26 | The age difference made me cringe, maybe I’m over thinking it ladies. Correct me please. In 10 yrs the age won’t matter.He is 36.8% older than her. Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 3 | NEVER put "feminist" in your dating profile. You'll just end up attracting misogynistic losers who watch violent rape porn and fantasize about "breaking" feminists.Yes! I love that page, I've submitted a couple messages haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 36 | “Online dating is so easy for women, you get so many messages!” My inbox:"wOmEn OnLy tHiNk tOp 20% oF mEn aRe aTtRaCtiVe" Well yeah. That's because 80% of men actually ARE unattractive, like this guy for example. They say that with such sanctimonious outrage like we're the evil shallow ones for being attracted to attractive people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:03 PM |
| 18 | “I feel bad for whoever tries to date you”People SHOULD feel bad for the men who try to date me because there's like a 99% chance they won't meet my standards and I will reject them which will make them sad LMAO I mean really, I cannot think of a worse punishment 👸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:48 AM |
| 85 | NEVER put "feminist" in your dating profile. You'll just end up attracting misogynistic losers who watch violent rape porn and fantasize about "breaking" feminists.the nastiest comments about fat women come from even fatter men Fat men mock muscular women too ugh. In the past year I had a major fitness transformation, lost a lot of bodyfat and gained some muscle. Every now and then I get insta DMs from random fat guys who say shit like "you look like a man" "I don't think muscular women are attractive" "if you keep lifting weights you're going to turn into a man" etc. First of all, I don't GAF what some fat ugly neckbeard finds attractive. Secondly, I'm no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 10:05 PM |
| 15 | My soulmate married someone else. Am I wasting my life waiting for him?IME, the only men who have ever said the word "soulmate" to me were love bombing narcs It is a stupid concept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, yet another manipulation tactic we should be aware of! This one is more subtle and absolutely terrifying.How is this different from gaslighting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 09:39 PM |
| 83 | Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷♀️Extremely accurate. Most men wouldn't be comfortable with their girlfriend having male friends, fathers don't like the idea of their daughters dating, a husband won't like his wife going on a business trip alone with a male coworker. Because they know. They know how men think. All men recognize male depravity but if a woman points that out suddenly she's a hateful misandrist 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:21 AM |
| 16 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.Lmao I must admit, it took me a couple minutes to come up with that one, but we were going back and forth arguing a bit before I finally said in a playful way "hey you know what? Most restaurants have those little booster seats for children, I could ask the waitress for you if that would make you more comfortable" His jaw dropped, he scoffed, and he started acting all offended, so I said "omg it's just a JOKE! I'm teasing youuu!" Funny how they don't like when you use their own gaslighting tacti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 43 | Beware of the pick-me!You'd be surprised by how many women are charged with child sex crimes, typically as facilitators for pedophiles. In many cases, they pimped out their own children. Now that's hardcore pickmeism. Plenty of drug addicted mothers out there selling their daughters for their next fix. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 08:23 PM |
| – | Oh look another double bind for women. Damned if you do, damned if you don't 🤷♀️Let's discuss the strategic applications here: Always err on the side of NOT trusting men. Trusting men is high risk, low reward. Distrusting men is low risk, high reward. Men who blame you for getting abused because you were "stupid to trust men" are absolving themselves of culpability for being abusers. It also shifts the blame away from men who are abusive and onto the victim, and creates a cultural narrative that it is the woman's burden to avoid abuse (and not the man's responsibility to re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 08:06 PM |
| 48 | My grandpa has alzheimer's and the only person he recognizes is my grandmaMy late grandfather had Alzheimer's. The only person he recognized was my grandma, but he sometimes forgot that he was married to her so every time he saw her (even if it had only been 5 minutes) he would flirt with her like "wow! Who are you? You are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen!" She would usually just playfully roll her eyes like "Roberrrrt! Tsk, I know that you know who I am, I'm your wife!" And he would go "oh really?" confusion "how on earth did I manage to do that?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 5 | Do you know of any examples of High Value Men? Do you have any type in mind when doing the work on FDS?Youtubers I like include Cody Ko, Noel Miller, Drew Gooden, Kurtis Conner, and Danny Gonzales. I like how they casually call out misogyny but not in a way that's trying too hard to be performatively woke, it's just incorporated quite naturally in their comedy. Many of them make videos mocking PUA coaches for example. I like seeing them interact with their wives/girlfriends, super cute to see couples so in love, and where the man is genuinely respectful and attentive to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 144 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.I once went on a date with a guy who was the same height as me, but when we sat down at our table, I appeared taller than him because I have better posture. He literally expected me to hunch over to make himself feel better. I told him we could ask the waitress for a booster seat if that would make him feel more comfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 04:26 AM |
| 57 | Meme: The Hebephile in DenialMissed the "fErTiLiTy" argument | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 18 | Scientists discover how to turn women's bone marrow into sperm"critics warn that it sidelines men" Um, duh. That's the whole point. Misogynists have been talking forever about creating artificial wombs to "render women obsolete" It's such a silly idea because sperm is much simpler and easier to replicate than eggs and a womb (and, ya know, the WHOLE female body which signals what to do and when for fetal development for the entire pregnancy) Men have always been jealous that women are the ones who create life. They want to control us in order to control th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:33 AM |
| 12 | Women's EnlightenmentExcellent post 👌 It is so incredibly limiting for women to live our lives constantly worrying about what men like and want in a woman. Male attention is fleeting and worthless. Most of the time it is worse than worthless: trying to please a man will cost you far more than it will benefit you. It should be the men who are worrying about how to please women. That's how it works in virtually every other species on earth. The greatest accomplishment that any male can achieve, of any species, is mati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:21 AM |
| 58 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterYup, I once went on a couple dates with a guy who tried negging me by saying I was "only 8 out of 10" meanwhile he was like 5/10. I stopped seeing him after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:45 AM |
| 23 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterThere's literally dozens of similar lists floating around on the internet and it's always low functioning sociopaths/narcs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 09:32 AM |
| 43 | Has anyone noticed a gradual shift in the way people are discussing pornography?I saw a comment here a while back (paraphrasing): "nearly every man nowadays has been addicted to porn since they were 9, most have watched violent abuse porn before they ever held a girl's hand" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 06:30 AM |
| 78 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterI would say "abuser" but in general these guys are beta as fuck and know that if they ever raised a hand to a woman she would probably beat the shit out of him. So they abuse her mind instead. Speaking from personal experience 😂😭😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 06:03 AM |
| 47 | Sad we need to train our girls to be women at such a young age to prepare them for a world of depravity. Credit for video: @frugaltraciVery true. My girlfriend was treated like a servant and told to "cover up" whenever men came to the house ever since she was as young as 8 or 9. Meanwhile her brothers were treated like princes and allowed to act however they wanted no matter how immature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:06 AM |
| 6 | I am so sick and TIRED of men bringing up weapons during a discussion about BARE HANDED VIOLENCE.What the fuck. Okay first of all lions have never been domesticated. They've been put in cages but they are still wild animals. Secondly, what the hell does that have to do with unarmed violence between men and women??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:00 AM |
| 183 | Reminder: Never EVER build a man up. He will throw it all back in your faceJesus Fucking Christ. Being called a gold digger is the least of her problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 06:56 AM |
| 49 | Im not saying he is a HVM, but he has potentialOne of my best relationships, the guy referred to his own money as "our money" and my money as "your [my] money" We were together almost 2 years and he consulted me on every major purchase he made during that time because he valued my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:07 AM |
| 15 | FDS Moodboard for my fellow queens ❤Same. Also why is she dragging some guy? I always think those insta pics are so weird. I wish there was a gif version where the camera pans around and BOOM it's actually the girl's former self! Meaning her idealized self is pulling her former self up/forward in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 182 | Men are the weakest link. She liked all the comments about breaking up with him, but haven't done anything about itThe talking over her and yelling "I'M LIVESTREAMING THAT'S WHAT I DO OKAY?" gave me CPTSD flashbacks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:31 PM |
| 44 | Middle aged man marries teen. Decades later, writes her out of his will.Wtf. You can't just disinherit your spouse. That is not legal at all. If they were still legally married at the time, she is still entitled to a portion of the estate. And even if they had gotten a divorce before he died, she still would have been entitled to an equitable division of marital assets. They were together 30 years and she invested some of her own money into his home. The important lesson here is that if you are married or in a longterm relationship with a man and you have even the s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:32 AM |
| 44 | “Don’t wank with your right and point with your left.” A word.Basically the madonna/whore complex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:10 AM |
| 15 | This was a man’s response to another man crowing than women with standards are often single. Even men know their class ain’t shit!The guys on that sub (basically all incels) are completely delusional. When they say "lower your standards" they only mean in terms of looks/money. The translation is basically "you should be dating a broke ugly manlet like ME! You deserve to be abused for dating those other guys and not me" They literally think that only "Chads" or attractive men can be abusive or bad partners. They think that because they are ugly, that automatically means they are nice. When you tell them that ugly men can be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 32 | Do NOT settle for someone who doesn't put in the effort you deserve.This is the same type of woman who would say "it's okay babe, I don't need to have an orgasm, it's feeling connected with you that I really like" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 03:01 PM |
| 7 | FDS writing exercise: let's practice seeing the truth behind male gaslighting and manipulation by translating this piece of male propagandaEvery time a guy tells me that I'm just like, "you should just be honest with your girlfriend and tell her that the bike will always be the #1 priority" They always give me this weird look, as if to say "pffft, why would I do that, she might break up with me" Well yeah. Tell her the truth and let her decide if she's okay with that arrangement or not. But no, these guys think they're entitled to keep their sex object. The translation for this point would be "don't ask me questions if the honest a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:44 PM |
| 86 | FDS writing exercise: let's practice seeing the truth behind male gaslighting and manipulation by translating this piece of male propagandaPerfect. Chef's kiss👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 18 | The scam of believing men will bring you fulfillmentThe greatest sense of fulfillment I feel is something I get to experience every day: looking at my garden and marvelling at this beautiful space I created. Or slicing into a giant heirloom tomato that I grew myself and appreciating its rich color, flavor, and aroma. Or, getting a professional award at work. Even dating a HVM didn't give me quite the same fulfillment. Temporary comfort and dopamine/oxytocin, sure. But life fulfillment? Not quite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 08:11 PM |
| 38 | FDS writing exercise: let's practice seeing the truth behind male gaslighting and manipulation by translating this piece of male propagandaNumber 15 is used a lot as a "joke" by motorcycle dudes. "my ex girlfriend asked me which one do I love more, her or my bike? I told her not to ask questions she didn't want the answer to" They say that to me like I'm supposed to "get" it or that it's somehow a compliment to me because I also ride? Sometimes I wonder if these guys collectively share one brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:36 PM |
| 111 | FDS writing exercise: let's practice seeing the truth behind male gaslighting and manipulation by translating this piece of male propagandaCrying is blackmail More like "I'm gonna emotionally abuse you and when you break down from it I'm gonna gaslight you and accuse you of trying to manipulate me. As a man, it is my RIGHT to behave however I want, even (and especially) if it hurts you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 171 | FDS writing exercise: let's practice seeing the truth behind male gaslighting and manipulation by translating this piece of male propagandaI'll start. 1) men are not mind readers Translation: "I have bad people skills so I don't pick up on body language or social cues like a normal person would. And even if I do, I choose to ignore it. And even if you tell me in plain language what you want, I'm still going to ignore it. Because I don't give a shit about you or your needs." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 13 | Teach young girls they don’t need a man to be happy"Behind every great man is a strong woman" Fuck that. Time for us ladies to step in front and BE great. No more letting men take credit for our work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 04:16 AM |
| – | This is just so dumb it makes my head hurtRemoved for not blocking out username of the commenter. Feel free to repost this with all usernames redacted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:52 PM |
| 33 | A man trying to red pill his 14 year old son.Ewwww that is so disgusting. Why would he even share that on the internet. To pander to other men who would want to fuck his daughter? Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 19 | Blaming women for their own sexual exploitation and somehow making it about how oppressed men are... just what?That's when they go, "it's women's fault men watch porn. It's actually women creating the demand because they reject men who want to have sex with them, and these poor horny victims are FORCED to watch porn" Because apparently men are never responsible for their choices and everything is women's fault 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Super grateful for learning how not to beg from FDS. He kissed me Sunday and told me he chose another girl over me on Thursday. Bye.I don't know why guys do this. It's such a stupid manipulation tactic. Whether the other girl is real or not, when a guy says he's seeing someone else I go "ok" and move on. Half of the time they come crawling back days or weeks later but by then I've moved on and I'm not interested in him anymore. Only a crazy woman would see a guy choose another woman over her and go "nooo! Pick me! Let me convince u!" 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:51 AM |
| 5 | I'm not sure if this belongs here. This is so disgusting!Wtf is with that font for "asian woman" It's like yellowface font | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Understanding the cycle of abuse from the perspective of the abuser 🚩🚩🚩🚨🚨🚨I read that he declined royal titles and declined swedish citizenship. Seems kinda rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:38 AM |
| 33 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Self awareness isn't alpha LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Understanding the cycle of abuse from the perspective of the abuser 🚩🚩🚩🚨🚨🚨What's wrong with the guy her younger sister married? (Sorry, I don't know much about european royal families) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Understanding the cycle of abuse from the perspective of the abuser 🚩🚩🚩🚨🚨🚨No idea. It's the pic associated with the article I linked about the narcissistic love script. No clue why they chose that pic specifically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:38 AM |
| 28 | Understanding the cycle of abuse from the perspective of the abuser 🚩🚩🚩🚨🚨🚨I KNOW RIGHT. Haven't seen Joker but when I was watching You, it gave me so much anxiety. I had to shut it off and stop watching because it wasn't even entertaining to me, just stressing me out and giving me CPTSD flashbacks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:54 AM |
| 29 | I just ordered her book, ngl.Women have a good reason to not like men. Why on earth should we like the people who abuse and exploit us??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 12 | On the ground outside..."Unbelievable, FDS is so classist! Clearly this man is in poverty, why aren't you doing anything to help him? From his perspective, a relationship with you could literally change his life. This would be a great opportunity for you to support a fellow human being in need. But no, because you bitches are shallow and only care about material things" MY VAGINA ISN'T A CHARITY 🤬🤬🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 05:12 PM |
| 14 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!Mass production of humans does not lead to a healthy society. It does not lead to mentally healthy people. Ideal world for me would be a matriarchal one similar to the Iroquois in which when a woman gets married, she stays with her family/clan. Her husband leaves his own clan and joins hers. This is ideal for women because if she wants a divorce, she is surrounded by a support network who has her back. The children stay with the mother's family and therefore have guaranteed stability and care. M… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:36 PM |
| 15 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!Actually there is quite some evidence that men have essentially "domesticated" women over the past few thousand years, similar to sheep and cattle. Animal husbandry 101 involves culling undesirable traits in livestock such as agression and noncompliance. The burning of witches, "honor" killings, and basically murdering any disobedient/independent women, while favoring docility and mild temperament in mothers, is essentially a form of artificial selection. But, in the same way that farmers have s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!At this point I've given up on advocating for equality. Too many times it's been used by misogynists to derail conversations and gaslight feminists like "you're not a real feminist if you're not fighting for divorced men seeking child custody, male suicide, etc. because feminism is about EqUaLiTy and men aren't equal!!!" This is why I love FDS. It is unapologetically, no bullshit, pro-female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:56 PM |
| 8 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.THANK YOU. God I feel like I'm going crazy in this thread 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:20 AM |
| 30 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!Now I'm just picturing all the men who complain about FDS as the human equivalent of a peacock with patchy, dull, ragged looking feathers. "Unbelievable, those peahens must be stopped! They only want to fuck Chads with nice feathers who treat them like shit. If only they gave me a chance they would see I'm such a nice bird. Misandry!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:19 AM |
| 7 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!Your comment made me realize that the reason why the average male is so terrible and refuses to improve is at least in part because of the elimination of female choice, and therefore one of the main drivers of evolution: sexual selection. So I made an edit to my post adding that lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 06:03 AM |
| 6 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.I never really watched Anna Akana before but her recent work has been in my youtube recommendations and seems more FDS friendly. She has videos like "Stop Chasing" and "I left a date 30 minutes in" and "Unfuck your boundaries" in the last 3 months. I try to be optimistic. People can change and improve over time. I used to be a pickme too, and it is challenging to overcome a lifetime of patriarchal conditioning. Plus, FDS as a movement is only about a year old and women are waking up in droves on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.I agree that influencers should be held to a higher standard and that they should be called out when they say something problematic. My issue with this whole thread is that no one seems to be addressing anything in the video I actually posted. If you don't like Anna Akana and don't want to give her clicks, that's fine, you can just move on to other posts on this sub or respond to the topic based off my title alone. I also have an issue with comments saying she shouldn't be posted here whatsoever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:08 AM |
| 58 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!Exactly. Anytime we talk about how much we hate misogyny, they accuse us of hating men. So they're basically admitting that misogyny is an inherent aspect of their own sense of masculinity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:49 AM |
| 78 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!This is an excellent point. Women who recognize male depravity are labelled crazy, hateful, bitter, and therefore unreliable and not worth listening to. Women are gaslit into denying their own instincts of self preservation, even though deep down everyone knows what men are really like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:47 AM |
| 4 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.See my pinned comment. I agree that a lot of her other stuff is problematic. No single post is an endorsement of the entire person. There's a reason why she's not on our list of approved FDS youtubers. Nevertheless, I don't agree with the notion that just because someone has said some problematic stuff, that automatically invalidates everything else that person has ever said or ever will say. Women are already held to an extremely high standard by society generally, whereas the bar is in hell fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:43 AM |
| 8 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.No single post is an endorsement of the entire person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:32 AM |
| 118 | Patriarchy favors male reproductive success by limiting female choice. FDS is a long-overdue countermeasure in the sexual arms race. It's high time women fight back!I think that's why so many men have this kneejerk hatred of FDS. They are literally watching their power and privileges slipping away. Sorry boys, it's not "man hating" to develop counter measures against you. It's biology! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:27 AM |
| – | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.Mods don't have time to research every single person who gets posted, and no single post is a blanket endorsement of an entire person. This post is not an endorsement for Anna Akana. It's not about all the other pickme shit she has said. I posted this to invite discussion on how we raise girls to be "good" in a way that is harmful to themselves and yet I'm seeing very few comments on this topic. And frankly, even if someone was/is a pickme, that doesn't automatically invalidate every single thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:06 AM |
| 28 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.I think that is fair criticism, about both Anna Akana and Shallon Lester. I just watched the former's video about how dating women made her understand men better and it made me wanna vomit 🤮 As a bi woman, my experience when I started dating women was the exact opposite as hers (IMO women are much better to date and I dont think I'll ever bother with men again). Her video just seemed super male pandering and leaning into misogynistic stereotypes. That being said, I find that women are generally … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 10:48 PM |
| 8 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.Same 😭😭😭 even as an adult I sometimes struggle to express normal human emotions in a healthy way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 10:14 PM |
| 35 | Stop being a good girl. Take some time to reflect on what you were praised for as a child. Was it being quiet? Obedient? Having no boundaries? Self denial? People pleasing? Having a "perfect body"? The very concept of "goodness" in how we raise girls is so damaging.No idea. That's not what this video is about. Some of her stuff is libfem pickme-esque, but imo that doesn't discredit the message in this specific video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 6 | "I’m NOT into beautiful women ” - Men, Beauty and Power 💄What a strange, self contradictory thing to say. When you look at it logically, he is saying one of two things: "I'm into you even though you are not beautiful" OR "I'm not into you, because you are beautiful" In any case, it's a neg. Classic PUA tactic to try and bring women's self esteem down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:43 AM |
| 18 | Wife being evicted by step kids after 30 years of marriage because her scrote lied about adding her to the deed and disinherited her.This happened in 2015. I want to know what happened to her. Did she contest it? Did she win/lose? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:26 AM |
| 31 | Handmaidens comparing FDS to red pill NVMs is some stupid and dangerous cognitive dissonanceMen plotting to rape and murder women is EQUALLY AS BAD as women taking action to avoid being raped and murdered in their mind 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:17 AM |
| 3 | There is way too much wrong in this post. Why do young women allow themselves to be used like this???roleplaying father and child pedophile child rapist father + sexually abused incest victim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:47 AM |
| 8 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youYea well I'm Canadian, so maybe that explains the difference in attire 😂 If some girl showed up to class in beach wear, people would probably think she is either mentally ill or on drugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | It’s a trapThis is genius. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 131 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youYeah like... I dunno what university he's going to but when I was in uni, most girls wore baggy sweaters/hoodies over jeans or leggings. Only maybe 1% of girls wore clothes he described, and even then, they weren't going to school in full outfits of revealing clothes. Maybe a crop top with pants, or short shorts with a baggy hoodie, etc. Sounds like this guy is just hyper focused on the specific body parts of a small percentage of women and feeling bad because he's addicted to porn or some shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 02:53 PM |
| 12 | Imagine, your country found your gender so worthless when you were born, your peers were left in ditches to die. Now there's a surge in single lonely men in China & it's your fault for not settling. Oh and a red pill moron is making an example out of you. 😡This woman ended up studying in France, moving to Germany, and finding a man who meets her standards there. Good for her :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 05:08 AM |
| – | This gem straight from Pickme hellPlease do not link directly to alt right content creators. We don't want to give them ad revenue. Lauren Southern doesn't even believe most of what she says, she just says it to generate views, controversy, and money in her own pocket. She is just a troll. She doesn't deserve a paycheck from us. If you'd like to post other content creators criticizing her work, that is more than welcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 08:07 PM |
| 3 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.I always do that on leg day because I'm paranoid about busting a seam whenever I do deep squats 😂 2 layers of protection is so much better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 6 | Alright ladies! How many of you have been in a fight like this?! (The Break Up)Watching this scene pre- and post- FDS was completely different for me. Before, it was like, "something's not quite right" but I couldn't quite articulate why, just like Jennifer Aniston struggles to express her deep feelings in this scene. After FDS I realized, it's not about the actual dishes, flowers, lemons, ballet, etc. It's about wanting to do nice things for your partner. It's about sharing household responsibilities if both people work, instead of the man slacking off and playing video g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:49 PM |
| 29 | Excellent Article on why Women should never make the first moveMaking the first move on a guy has never worked out for me. Spending money on him, buying him gifts, cooking for him, fucking like a porn star, complimenting him and doing emotional labor, etc. they never seemed to actually appreciate. I mean, they gladly accepted those things in the moment but had zero respect for me as a person. They didn't value or even recognize that I had a loving, generous nature. They just saw me as a sucker. Someone easy to exploit. Men always saying "omg I wish women wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:30 PM |
| 23 | There's this new Tiktok trend of singing this song to your girlfriend 'Why Beer is better than Women' and watching her reaction, and it's not just the kids doing it. Disgusting, once you hear the lyrics..Exactly. If he literally prefers beer over women, why is he still dating women? Nobody is forcing him to have a girlfriend. Why not just become an alcoholic MGTOW since he clearly prefers that. Oh wait, they still want to date women, they just want to degrade and objectify those women, and shame them for having any standards or boundaries 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:03 PM |
| – | Engagement rings - do they tell a lot about how he values you?This belongs more in r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 327 | I haven’t used OLD in forever, and this was literally my first experience. “I’m an empath so I feel things more than you” is a massive red flag. What I hear is “I can be as insensitive to you as I please, but don’t you DARE have feelings around me because only my feefees are important”.In my personal experience, all of the men I've met who called themselves "empaths" were all covert narcissists. The women I meet who call themselves "empaths" usually have anxious attachment styles and are hypervigilant about other people's feelings due to trauma from being abused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Do something for yourself before the weekend is overPaid a personal trainer/strength coach to help me improve my barbell squat and deadlift 💪💪💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 28 | Clip from Made in Dagenham: Every argument you've ever had with a LVM and why he is now an ex.The fact that he interrupted her anytime she tried to say anything gave me CPTSD flashbacks 😡😡😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:05 PM |
| 14 | A man who is into you will make firm plans when it comes to being around you and take initiative. “You can come if you want” is not it.Sex isn't a McDonald's drive thru. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 73 | Bi-women don’t want a threesome, you porn-sick loser.YES. Literally every single guy I dated thinks bisexuality = down to have threesomes. NO, I don't want to watch my partner fuck another woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:49 PM |
| 11 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Sounds like they read this post and collectively got butthurt lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:47 PM |
| 34 | Ladies, how has FDS affected or improved your family dynamics?I went No Contact with all of the narcissists in my family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:06 PM |
| 8 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.I just wanna point out that his new wife, Shay Shariatzadeh, is an engineer and is extremely intelligent and accomplished 😍 She's too good for him tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:59 PM |
| 45 | Every time some incel sends us a message "wAhMeN r ObSoLeTe bCuZ pOrN aNd sEx DoLLz" I think about this picture and laugh. Remember ladies, YOU are the beautiful landscape! Image courtesy of r/nofapExactly. Mountains do not care what mankind thinks of them. The mountains are gonna continue being themselves, beautiful and mighty AF. Mankind is insignificant to them. That's what I love about this picture. Women are MOUNTAINS, immovable and majestic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 21 | Men Have Become Utterly Delusional!Same here, I was with him until the blatant misogyny right there. And then he referenced that pickme dating coach 🙄 It's important for men to call out other men though. Women can call out male depravity until we're blue in the face and it won't matter one bit because the men who need to hear it the most, just don't listen to women. They don't feel a need to improve until a man tells them, which is why Jordan Peterson is so popular. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 13 | So apparently this man is engaged but still has the time to write an essay on why FDSers are evil and entitled b******. If he was so happy, why would he care about what women he’s not dating are doing?Yeah the fact that his fiance would act so pathetically over the top "grateful" tells me this guy is probably moody 90% of the time and treats her like an emotional punching bag. So that on the rare occasion he IS nice to her it seems that much more "special" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:18 PM |
| 28 | So apparently this man is engaged but still has the time to write an essay on why FDSers are evil and entitled b******. If he was so happy, why would he care about what women he’s not dating are doing?I don't like it how he put it as though he only does nice things for his fiancee when he "feels like it" What of he doesn't "feel like it"? Does he then ignore her or treat her badly? I cannot tell you how many times I've dated guys whose kindness was entirely contingent on how they were "feeling" that day. If he had a bad day at work or was stuck in traffic he always took it out on me. When called out for their shitty behavior they always go "babe I had a bad day!" or "you know I'm under so muc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:01 PM |
| 44 | How to deal with this guy I turned down at the gym?This guy is negging you. Negging is a pretty common tactic used by PUA/redpill men on attractive women to try and break down the woman's self esteem and manipulate her into seeking his approval. 1) Set firm boundaries. Say "Stop insulting me. Do not talk to me again". He may try to laugh it off, gaslight you, tell you he was joking or that you're being too serious, whatever. Ignore him and stay true to your boundary. 2) Talk to management. Tell them he has been harassing you. Request that they e… | /r/askFDS | 15/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Literally! They only say it so they don’t have to put in effort- this is coming from someone who used to think men saying this was a compliment !What he said was so narcissistic. A man with good intentions would say something like "I think we would be great together" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:41 AM |
| 6 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"Unless the dad is literally on the same level as the male marmoset when it comes to childcare, it's pretty much impossible for a man to "take care of the children equally". It would take an extremely high level of childcare for the father to fully compensate for the permanent changes to the mother's body, carrying the baby inside her body for 9 months, nursing the baby for a year post-birth, etc. (It frustrates me that men don't seem to recognize reproductive labor as actual labor.) I haven't ye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 07:36 PM |
| 4 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"And men say that they are the "rational" ones 😂 Yet they expect all arguments to be delivered with a soothing tone so as not to upset their fragile emotions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 113 | If it comes to “policing porn” he’s already gone, but “mind control”? The scrotedacity is at an all time high"Breaking up with your boyfriend because he is a porn addict is a form of mind control because you are literally controlling his feelings which is wrong" 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:20 AM |
| 35 | And that's that!So many of the muslim women I know have PhD/masters degrees and really advanced careers and then their male peers are unemployed and just drive around with their bros and vape all day like... what??? If it weren't for the family pressure and cultural norms these ladies would feel zero sense of urgency to get married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:15 AM |
| 16 | And that's that!I absolutely LOVE this! Thanks for the FDS queen images! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:12 AM |
| 13 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"Yup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:05 AM |
| 17 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"I had a guy comment on this post saying he performed cunnilingus so well and gave a woman an orgasm so intense that it scared her 🙄 Like, why? Was he expecting a round of applause? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:03 AM |
| 23 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"90% of the comments on twox is "man here..." as though their perspective is unique and valuable because they're a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:58 AM |
| 14 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"Sooo fucking true omg. The implication is that they don't think women deserve rights unless we hold their hand and explain in a nice, soothing tone of voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:56 AM |
| 36 | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion""I'm allowed to have an opinion" "Not all men are like that" "Women do that too sometimes" "It's not nice to say things like that" And any multitude of other unhelpful, trite, cliche, pointless statements that don't actually achieve anything. Don't bother arguing with men, sis. Even if they provide sources. More often than not when backed into a corner, knowing they're wrong, they resort to these types of statements anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:17 AM |
| – | This is why we don't let men post on this subreddit. We don't want to clutter our feed with a bunch of sea lions DEMANDING that we drop everything to engage in "civil discussion"From the wikipedia: Sealioning (also spelled sea-lioning and sea lioning) is a type of trolling or harassment which consists of pursuing people with persistent requests for evidence or repeated questions, while maintaining a pretense of civility and sincerity. It may take the form of "incessant, bad-faith invitations to engage in debate". The troll feigns ignorance and politeness, so that if the target is provoked into making an angry response, the troll can then act as the aggrieved party. Rhet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:26 PM |
| 19 | "Men are shamed for being emotional in public"Male philosophers have spent millennia constructing this dichotomy of rational vs emotional as the polar opposites, with rationality being the superior of the two. Rationality was coded as male, emotions coded as female. This dichotomy of man = rational and emotionless, female = irrational and emotional, has been used to justify male supremacy. Women weren't considered fit for leadership or any kind of decision making role because of this. Grinds my gears that men now have the AUDACITY to compla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:12 PM |
| 293 | An interesting read! Haven’t read the whole book but it certainly sounds intriguing, and will be next on my audible wish list!I agree. Instead of saying "violence against women", say "male violence". It also encapsulates violence committed against children and other men. Funny how so many men get angry about the term "male violence" They say they are "uncomfortable" with men being characterized as violent. Yet they don't seem uncomfortable about the fact that women are victims of said violence? Very telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:05 PM |
| 11 | When a man has only female friends - red flag?Excuse me? Did you read my last paragraph? 😂 I definitely agree that the overwhelming majority of men would want to fuck their female friends, I don't believe that literally. every. single. man. on this planet is incapable of being platonic friends with women. A big part of it is culture. IME American culture is a lot worse in this regard, the men are so deeply conditioned to perceive women as nothing more than maids and sexual objects. They're so emotionally repressed, entitled, and misogynisti… | /r/askFDS | 13/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 58 | When a man has only female friends - red flag?I think it's a good sign when a man has some female friends, as in a mixed gender social group, that's a green flag I'd say. But if it's either 100% dudebros, or 100% women, that's just kinda weird to me tbh. I don't think it's necessarily a red flag though, more like a yellow/orange flag. Depends on the reason why. For example I have one male friend who is a good guy, but he avoids interacting with men due to repeated traumatic experiences. He works in a female dominated profession and has all … | /r/askFDS | 13/10/20 05:01 AM |
| 38 | They wanna take all and give back nothingI was thinking the same thing. "Sweet HOT compassionate gf" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:40 AM |
| 45 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮One in which he expects her to do all the domestic labor, so that on the rare occasion he makes a huge mess in the kitchen and almost burns the house down cooks for her, it's SpEShUL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:23 PM |
| 11 | Spotting red flags is self-protection ✌️ Have a good day ladies!The sort of men who say "you're not a real feminist if you're not for equality" never hold themselves to the same standards. They'll be openly misogynistic and then gaslight feminists with "male suicide rates" and "men lose everything in the divorce" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 32 | Spotting red flags is self-protection ✌️ Have a good day ladies!With that kind of thinking you are basically gaslighting yourself. When abusers are called out on their shitty behavior they often blameshift with classics like, "but what about something YOU did?" Implying that until you're perfect, he doesn't need to change anything about himself. You shouldn't be doing that work for them in advance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 02:03 PM |
| – | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingNo comments promoting violence. Any comments promoting violence will be removed and the users banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 60 | Found this gem in my suggested posts. It’s actually crazy how delusional MGTOW are. Do they really think they need this much protection?The funniest part to me was being worried about "an acquaintance" making up false rape allegations because he rejected her. No sane woman would do something as crazy as making up a false rape accusation just to get back at some guy for something as minor as turning her down. If they haven't even had sex, she would just move on. The only scenario I can imagine a woman wanting "revenge" like that would be if he did something really, really shitty like lying to get in her pants, stealthing (taking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:49 PM |
| 71 | "It's wrong to expect men to provide for you! Men are under so much pressure to provide, it's not faaaair! pAtRiArChy hUrTs mEn tOo!"They act as though every single privilege they are afforded under patriarchy is some kind of huge burden, but also that it's all women's fault. Marriage as an institution overwhelmingly benefits men, yet they have the nerve to complain about their wife as "the old ball and chain" Boys, if it's really such a burden having all that money, power, and free female labor why don't you just give it up? Or share that "burden" with us? Oh wait haha they don't actually want to do that, they want to keep t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:48 PM |
| 56 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outMost women consider themselves modern, feminist women. But the men around us certainly aren't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | 🙄🙄This post made me see red. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:42 PM |
| 10 | I'm tired of men gaslighting me over my caloric intake.This is the best advice. I tell them I like weightlifting and then suddenly all these mediocre couch creatures start acting like expert personal trainers 🙄 I've been lifting 8 years and learning about nutrition science for almost that long yet these guys have the nerve to start mansplaining and mentioning some healthline article they skimmed once. I just don't talk about fitness with guys anymore unless they are ACTUAL experts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 22 | Sis, just leave during the dateThis guy is an emotional abuser and probably a narcissist/psychopath. Just no empathy at all. It's weird though because most narcissists and psychopaths can be pretty charming and know how to imitate normal human social interaction, at least for a while, until their victim is hooked, at which point they will let the mask slip. Whereas this guy had extremely bad social skills coming right out of the gate. She made the right move walking out. The only thing she could have done better was leaving e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Beware of men who use idioms like "when I want to learn to fish I ask the fisherman, not the trout"Yes! I swear, PUAs will approach 100 women, get turned down by 98% of them, and then will make sweeping generalizations about ALL women based on the TWO he managed to sleep with. The only sort of women who would fall for these tactics would be insecure pickme's with low self esteem. But hey, that's probably the type of woman they're going for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:17 AM |
| 6 | What? Should I ask him if he can take me on his bike to a field he knows? The low effort I swear, this was his SECOND message to me!As a female rider, can confirm. The men are SO MUCH MORE RECKLESS than women. Every male rider I know has been in at least 1 accident. My moto mentor is this badass lady in her 50s who has been riding since she was a teenager. 40 years riding motorcycles and not ONE accident for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | FDS Media Coverage! “Reddit's Female Dating Strategy turns love into a game. Does it work? - ABC Life”YES this is the absolute best way to put it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:37 PM |
| 29 | Beware of men who use idioms like "when I want to learn to fish I ask the fisherman, not the trout"I like the cut of your jib 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 5 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...Probably on tren lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:53 PM |
| 40 | Some humourIt is a form of mate guarding. It is to reduce competition from other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 41 | What would happen if we stopped sleeping with LVM 🤔Their barely concealed simmering misogyny would go through the roof like a geyser. Many of these LVMs are incapable of self improvement. Most of them don't even think there is anything wrong with them, and if they do know they are flawed, they go "the right woman for me will accept me for the piece of shit I am" Also, most of their brains are fried from playing video games and watching porn since they were 9. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:02 PM |
| 22 | FDS Media Coverage! “Reddit's Female Dating Strategy turns love into a game. Does it work? - ABC Life”"Turns love into a game" How fucking infantilizing. For women, dating is not fun and games. It's about avoiding abuse and male violence. It's about survival. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeshas, assemble! (Seriously, they love their psychotic jail lvms.)This made me so sad to read. I'm just imagining those poor girls, the terror and betrayal they must have felt when their own father committed such a heinous act of violence against them. Makes me even more furious when he did that interview on the news saying "I love those kids" "I would do anything to have those kids back" KNOWING that he will never see them again, because HE WAS THE ONE WHO BRUTALLY KILLED THEM. That he feels no shame for what he did is incomprehensible to me. What a fucking p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 53 | Setting standards for male friendsFirst of all, NEVER ask male friends and relatives for dating advice. Men are very tribal and will give you advice meant to benefit other men (that they don't even know) at the expense of the female friend/relative (that they've known for years). Second, you said you made a profile that was intended to dissuade LVM, and then your male friend says "I wouldn't swipe right on that". Congratulations, you have just identified that your friend is LVM. Why are you still friends with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Oh really? Then why 90% of profiles on OLD looks horrible.Just because some people are dying of thirst does not mean that drowning is privileged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:31 PM |
| 23 | I will NEVER get over the fact that Mariah Carey got a $70mil payout from ex-fiancé James Packer for “wasting her time” and did not have SEX with him even ONCE! And he apologized to *HER* for it! 😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌"Obsessed" is the single greatest diss track of all time and nobody will ever be able to convince me otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:59 PM |
| 35 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.I always felt attraction to both men and women, even going back to elementary school crushes. I never really acted on it because of fear of homophobia and not knowing which girls were also into girls. I just didn't really know how to go about dating women. Also, men are way easier to date. There are more straight men than bi/lesbian women. Also, men chase you, so they're less effort to get with, but also lower quality partners on average. Men are easy to date, women are better quality to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:28 PM |
| 70 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.In theory this would be awesome to implement but in practice, it's not worth it. The man will always put up a fight, make excuses, go on the offensive, etc. And for what? A dinner? What a waste of energy. Better to just divorce a man like that. Or even better, not marry someone like that to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:43 PM |
| 135 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.LMAO what a ridiculous comparison. When a woman is upfront about wanting an orgasm CLEARLY she is a psychopath. I mean you basically murdered his ego which is just as bad if not worse than actually killing someone amirite 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:59 PM |
| 69 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.That's been my policy since finding FDS, but I haven't yet had to actually implement it! I've been on dozens of dates and haven't gotten to the point of getting intimate with ANY man. 80% don't even make it past the first date 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:31 PM |
| 145 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.And using an oven isn't that hard either yet I had an ex who insisted that he couldn't get dinner started before I got home from work, even though he was at home all day, because he "didn't know how to use the oven" Literally it's just 2 buttons and a frozen lasagna 🙄 They're not that stupid. They know. They just don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:26 PM |
| 10 | Every single time one of these baby videos is posted, this happens. Please protect your babies and respect their privacy.Has this been reported for involuntary pornography? Because I'm pretty fucking sure a literal BABY cannot consent to their image being used in this way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 21 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sexThis dichotomy bothers me for so many reasons. Adventurous/boring Virgin/whore Cool girl/feminazi Men love to create these false dichotomies about women to control us, when in fact women are diverse and fall along some kind of spectrum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, if you think the average scrote is drowning in women, just remember not even the pickmes want them half the time.I always laugh whenever I see manosphere comments like "all the women I've dated just wanted a free meal! They weren't actually interested in me! Why should I spend money on a woman when she'll probably never let me see her again!" Have these guys ever stopped to think that maybe, just maybe, at least some of these women WERE interested in him BEFORE the date, and that she lost interest DURING the date? 😂😂😂 These men never seem to put 2 and 2 together and recognize that if very few women want to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Male med student wants to be able to examine female patients against their will. LVM are everywhere.Probably will end up like one of those doctors who sexually assaults female patients while they're under anesthesia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:15 AM |
| 69 | Say it louder for those LVMs in the backThe actual choosing beggars subreddit has LOADS of FDS screenshots. I used to like that sub until every 10th post was a screenshot of FDS saying that men should pay for dates. I unsubscribed (and no, I didn't go to r/ justunsubbed to whine about like a lil bitch like all the pickmeishas who are salty about us criticizing them) Because apparently women with standards are all "beggars" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:17 AM |
| 88 | Say it louder for those LVMs in the backLmao, "that's a bold assumption that I would either date OR marry you, when I would rather just leave you in the dumpster where you belong" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:11 AM |
| 5 | The most empowering takeaway from FDS is "you don't have to put up with this"Yeah that's fair. I get that sometimes in work situations or with friends too. And like you said in another comment, it takes a lot of work to retrain your brain to respond instead of react, ground yourself so you're not driven by fight or flight response, etc. It's different when dating, though. A friend might say something critical of me to protect me because they genuinely care about me, their intentions are good, they're motivated by my wellbeing. In contrast, when you're on a first or secon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:15 PM |
| 10 | The most empowering takeaway from FDS is "you don't have to put up with this"Personally I prefer to err on the side of caution nowadays. I used to basically gaslight myself like "am I reading too far into this? Am I being irrational? Am I the one being too sensitive?" After reading "The Gift of Fear" I realized it's okay to trust your instincts, because they are usually right. Your body knows. Your intuition has value. As with all decisions in life, it is important to weigh the possible benefits vs the possible downsides. If I cut off a guy who I feel said/did something … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:14 PM |
| 5 | The most empowering takeaway from FDS is "you don't have to put up with this"From my early FDS days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 3 | MGTOW on Tinder lolWhy is a MGTOW guy on Tinder. Aren't they supposed to be going their own way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Ageing married scrote with kids looking to cheat on wife seeks woman that must be younger than him and states 'his pleasure must be the most important.'I am dominant by nature and very much like to take what I need from a woman. That invariably means you get your pleasure too The definition of "invariably" is "in every case or on every occasion; always" That's a pretty big assumption that she's gonna get ANY pleasure from 2 minutes of semi-flaccid jackhammering and using her body like a masturbatory tool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 18 | The most empowering takeaway from FDS is "you don't have to put up with this"Oops, meant 2019 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:55 PM |
| 159 | Beware of the “meet cute” guys.What you think is a "meet cute" is what a pickup artist calls a "cold approach" and they've probably tried it on hundreds of women. You might think it's super cute and romantic, but it's nowhere near as special to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:41 AM |
| 29 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayBasically he thought that women should be hairless from the neck down 24/7 and if he saw/felt even one tenth of a mm of stubble he would recoil in disgust and go on a rant about "hygiene" Meanwhile he was hairy AF. Oh and I wasn't allowed to have ingrown hairs or razor burn either which he referred to as "infections" He didn't even like the appearance of the pores that the hair follicles grew from, even when they were shaved. He wanted me to get a spray tan to cover those up. He also hated the f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:03 PM |
| 30 | Reason 1 out of 30,000I fucking hate it how so many men are "overly competitive about everything" EVEN WITH THEIR GIRLFRIEND IN A RELATIONSHIP. One time I told my gaslighting ex "relationships are not a competition!" and he unironically said "EVERYTHING is a competition" It's fucking exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Wife of John Lennon’s killer Mark Chapman reveals he told her of his plans two months before the murderBeing in love with a murderer teehee #relatable 🤪 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:32 AM |
| 175 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayI had the exact same thought. My emotionally abusive narcissist ex was the exact same way except with my body hair. u/lovelyloon you need to read this. Kick this guy to the curb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:26 AM |
| 11 | This is why we don’t do friends with benefits. Vet these guys and vet them hard. Don’t catch feelings unless you want them to be used against youThe fact that he negs her, and then calls it "her bullshit" when she is understandably upset, says that this guy is an emotional abuser. Even if this story is fake, and it probably is, it means he fantasizes about negging and DARVO-ing beautiful women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 05:04 AM |
| 7 | scrote finds out his fiancée had one night stands in college and cancels marriage because he had to wait three months to bone her 🤡Omg I remember that post 💀💀💀 Just reading it made me feel viscerally ill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:16 PM |
| 27 | Being (rightfully) cautious around men is enough for women to be called misandrist. But even men don’t trust other men.When a man says "not ALL men are like that" what he is really saying is "I'M not like that, even though the overwhelming majority of men are" Most men acknowledge that the majority of men are depraved but they want to be treated like they are the exception. They will never admit it directly but if you look at their actions it is very obvious, here are a few examples: 1) When a father refuses to allow his daughter to be alone with boys because "I know what those boys are thinking" 2) When a boyfr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 65 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!Exactly. Mocking every tiny detail of a woman's looks is COMPLETELY NORMALIZED, yet men usually throw a temper tantrum when they experience 1% of the criticism we face for our looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 124 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!Lmao, those guys need to suck it up and recognize that if they are short and want to date, they just need to work harder. Their lazy whiny entitled attitude is the biggest turn off, not their actual height. Don't wanna put in the effort? Then don't date. I'm a tall lass and I've dated guys an inch or two shorter than me if they treated me really well (and I mean in a genuine, high effort, selfless, non-transactional way). Definitely helps if they work out and have a nice body, dress fashionably,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:39 AM |
| 77 | I think all ladies could benefit from Dianic Wicca, even if they aren't religiousSo awesome to see this here! I used to date a guy who, although not particularly religious, he was extremely superstitious due to the region/culture where he grew up. He genuinely believed in curses, "the evil eye", that witches have real supernatural powers, etc. When he saw "The Green Witch" on my bookshelf he was like O.O "WHAT IS THIS" and I talked about my spiritual practices, herbs, crystal collection, etc. I could see the gears turning in his head as if he was thinking "if I break up with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:28 AM |
| 8 | This is why I’ll never put a dick in my mouth. Men have absolutely no respect for us.You would not believe how many disgusting messages from blackcels we get in modmail or DMs 🙄 BPT is the kind of community that will ban you for saying anything remotely transphobic but even the most extreme, deplorable misogyny is tolerated at best, actively encouraged at worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 34 | Don’t post screenshots of texts to men UNLESS...IMPORTANT: Don't post screenshots of conversations unless your account is a throwaway because you could get doxed! Who knows, maybe the guy browses reddit. However unlikely, there's always a chance that he could recognize himself in the conversation and use your account history against you IRL. This is especially risky for women with high profile jobs, and ESPECIALLY for longtime active FDS posters/commenters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:42 PM |
| 125 | Daily Reminder: There are far worse things than being alone.This is a great way to put it. One of the "critiques" I see about FDS is "if they think there are very few HVM and a lot of HVW then why isn't their strategy to compete with each other to get HVM? Checkmate, feminists!" Because that's a bad strategy, it's a race to the bottom at that point. No man is worth debasing ourselves over. We either find a man who meets our standards or we don't, it's that simple. We will be happy either way. Kinda sad that they have such a hard time wrapping their brain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 55 | The low value men in my life have confirmed that everything FDS says is trueEXCELLENT post. This should be pinned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:52 AM |
| 81 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyThe main reason why the burden of birth control falls on women is because women overwhelmingly have more to lose from an unwanted pregnancy. For women, getting pregnant can literally ruin your life, especially if at the wrong time or with the wrong man. Your body will never be the same, you'll be shamed as a single mother, your career derailed, you'll be forever tied to a NVM/LVM, hell some women can even die in childbirth. Men, AT MOST, might have to pay some child support. And even that is not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:56 AM |
| 5 | I've seen the Presidential debate compared to a lot of things: the circus, Facebook fights, wild animals attacking each other.... But this is what really got me. I think every woman has at least one story of arguing with a piece of shit NVM like Trump. Watching it was like an out of body experienceWatching that debate gave me CPTSD flashbacks holy shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:30 AM |
| 19 | Pick-me Sh*tshowAs a bisexual woman I have definitely noticed that women with tattoos are far superior to men with tattoos. Men with tattoos are more likely than the general male population to be NVM/LVM. Women with tattoos are usually badasses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 3 | This is why you should never date a man who does steroids. Juicy meathead sub be like "FDS is MiSrEpRuHsEnTiNg us!!!" Also juicy meathead sub:I found way more actually, I had to trim it down because reddit only allows galleries of up to 20 images | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 8 | This is why you should never date a man who does steroids. Juicy meathead sub be like "FDS is MiSrEpRuHsEnTiNg us!!!" Also juicy meathead sub:Not gonna lie, the cyclists I've gone out with who were genuinely good people were also mildly ugly or short haha. I feel you though. Both of my parents are narcissists and they basically pre-groomed me into being vulnerable to abusive relationships. To this day I get triggered by slamming doors/cupboards, angry sighs, yelling, etc. It takes a long time and a conscious effort to overcome that kind of conditioning and some people never do, and that's okay. In the meantime, be kind to yourself and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:38 AM |
| 10 | This is why you should never date a man who does steroids. Juicy meathead sub be like "FDS is MiSrEpRuHsEnTiNg us!!!" Also juicy meathead sub:Yeah that's fair. I guess it really depends on the specific sport too. The ones I personally get along the best with are endurance athletes (cyclists and runners mostly). Also I'm bi, and I find that the women are especially amazing. Dates are fun because they take me out and we eat like 3000 calories in one sitting. I schedule those around my leg days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:45 AM |
| 55 | This is why you should never date a man who does steroids. Juicy meathead sub be like "FDS is MiSrEpRuHsEnTiNg us!!!" Also juicy meathead sub:I agree, although most of those upvotes are coming from other steroid bros. It's also important to remember that r/ steroids has weirdly become a new gathering place for incels after r/ incels got banned. Makes sense given their homoerotic "Chad" fantasies. Notice in the last pic, their mod announces "no mentioning female dating strategy or any other incel/redpill" talk which does two things: 1) it groups FDS along with the toxic manosphere subs, as if to say "if they can be SeXiSt then so can w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:20 AM |
| 112 | This is why you should never date a man who does steroids. Juicy meathead sub be like "FDS is MiSrEpRuHsEnTiNg us!!!" Also juicy meathead sub:This is one of those cases where I would unironically say "not all men are like that" Steroid users are a special breed of fucked up. Although, the average man still has the potential to be depraved, it's just less concentrated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:11 AM |
| 14 | This is why you should never date a man who does steroids. Juicy meathead sub be like "FDS is MiSrEpRuHsEnTiNg us!!!" Also juicy meathead sub:Aw I'm sorry. It's important to remember that just because a guy is XYZ, and XYZ tend to be HVM, it is no guarantee. Think of it in terms of proportions. Let's say the general male population is 30% NVM, 50% LVM, and 20% HVM (just making up numbers, it's not exact). Bodybuilders are more skewed towards NVM/LVM. Say 45/45/10. Other types of athletes would be more skewed towards HVM, but NVM/LVM definitely still exist. Say 20/50/30. So don't be too hard on yourself. He probably was just an asshole… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:06 AM |
| 7 | How do you approach dating if you share children with an adversarial person?So first of all, do not tell your kids you are dating until you are in a serious, committed relationship with a genuinely good man. If the kids know you have a date, they might accidentally mention it to the dad, he will get jealous and then orchestrate some kind of situation that will ruin your date. It's not enough to tell them "don't tell daddy" because it's not fair to them to have to keep a secret. Second, you need to have other people in your life you can share your issues with other than … | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you approach dating if you share children with an adversarial person?So you have the kids on all weekdays? Meaning you're free only 4 days per month? | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | How do you approach dating if you share children with an adversarial person?This is going to depend heavily on your custody arrangement. Do you share custody? What's the schedule? Weekends/weekdays/etc. | /r/askFDS | 29/09/20 03:04 AM |
| 113 | human scum justifies cheating on fiancee because she is unsexy pregnantExact same thing happened with my parents. My dad is a grandiose narcissist, needs constant praise, thinks he's the best, needs to be the center of attention at all times. He became physically abusive to my mom after I was born because obviously my mom paid more attention to me than him. He was mad because he was no longer the center of attention. Imagine being jealous of a literal baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 28 | Male delusion is realI've seen countless couples where the woman is wearing a mask and the man isn't. I always think to myself "sis, dump him! He is putting you in danger!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 69 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭Cooking together is a low effort first or second date (or hell, anytime within the first 3 months). Totally fine for couples, but as a getting-to-know-you activity, it's terrible. Basically the same low vibrational shit as "netflix and chill" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:40 AM |
| 25 | So you WANT her to cry over your dumb ass...okay. Sick emotionally manipulative mf"I'll forgive you if you take me to [insert extremely expensive restaurant] tonight. To make it up to me" And he would go, "done! haha" with his stupid, cocky, narcissistic smirk like he thinks he's so slick. Reminds me of those negotiations where the buyer is "haggling" except the opposite like "I'll give you $100 for it. How about $250. Okay $500, final offer!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:36 AM |
| 68 | "Men don't really get better looking with age". Tell us something we don't know!I swear like 80% of men hit the wall before they're even born. And they still have the nerve to look at women like Kim Kardashian and rate her 4/10 simply because she's NiNe yEaRs pOsT WaLL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:18 AM |
| 12 | Where do you meet worthwhile dates?My MO is getting involved in hobbies/sports that attract athletic guys who train for non-aesthetic goals: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ff1v2j/a_tip_on_finding_hvms_go_for_athletic_guys_who/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/askFDS | 28/09/20 07:15 AM |
| 50 | Males obsession with sex makes them fundamentally untrustworthy and malevolent. NEVER FORGET THATExactly. If we fight for equality then we will always end up with less. Besides, the whole "feminism is about gender equality" is just used by misogynists to gaslight women. I say we go "fuck it" and fight for female dominance. The world would be a better place if women were in charge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:00 AM |
| 15 | I just had my first internet wake up callA lot of people say to turn off chats, which I recommend if you're an especially sensitive person and these things really affect your mood and mental health. I know we all like to think of ourselves as unbothered, invincible Queens who care not for the opinions of peasants. Realistically though, we are still human, we feel emotions, we are social creatures who respond to feedback from others whether we like it or not. Personally, I leave the chats on. As a mod, I've received hundreds of messages… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:56 AM |
| 222 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭I am very food motivated. If my partner took the time to learn how to make my favorite dish according to my exact specifications, that would be super sweet and meaningful to me. Of course, this only applies to long term partnerships. If at any point in the early vetting phase, a man asks you to come over to his place and teach him how to make your favorite meal, it's too soon. Huge red flag. So, this chicken cutlet story isn't really about vetting. It's about the type of relationship you can loo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:44 AM |
| 20 | Upset. Just got chased 1/4 mile by a man on my runI highly recommend practicing the headbutt. It's such an underrated self defense technique. It's especially useful to women because being shorter gives you an advantage, and it works well in close spaces especially if he's got your arms. It's something you absolutely must practice in advance though. People like to think "oh, if I was in X scenario I would just do Y" but the thing is, when you find yourself in an emergency situation, you do NOT "rise to the occasion", you fall to your level of tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:57 AM |
| 157 | Males obsession with sex makes them fundamentally untrustworthy and malevolent. NEVER FORGET THATI've had countless incels message me shit like "if a guy buys you dinner and you don't have sex with him you're taking advantage of him" yet they simultaneously believe that "if a guy ghosts a woman after sex then it's her fault for being a dumb slut and falling for it" Funny how they're okay with double standards so long as it serves their interests. Male depravity is a given, yet women are expected to play by the rules. This is why FDS isn't interested in being fair to men. Men already aren't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:42 AM |
| 62 | So you WANT her to cry over your dumb ass...okay. Sick emotionally manipulative mfMy narc ex "broke up" with me like five or six times over the course of our 1 year relationship. We were never broken up for more than like 30 minutes at a time. Every now and then he would randomly sit down with me and do the whole "this isn't working out" shtick and I would go "ok!" as though a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I suppose that wasn't the reaction he wanted, because as soon as I packed my things and made my way to the door, he always said "no wait!" and tried to conv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 22 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???This is an actual fetish, called "free use" that my ex was obsessed with. He begged, and I mean begged me to suck his d*ck when he was watching TV, gaming, eating at the dinner table, sitting at his desk, etc. I was always like wtf no, why would I ever do that? Why would I put in the effort of giving a blowjob when he's not even paying attention to me. When I want to be intimate, I want it to actually be intimate, as in two people mutually engaging with each other and making love. He would also … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 24 | When he says “You will never do better than me.”LMAO every time a man has ever said "you'll never do any better than me" it is 100% projection and I just laugh in their face and walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 22 | EVERY guy I talk to on tinder will not stop talking about himselfSame here. My girlfriend is also female-exclusive bisexual but before I met her, I had a hard time finding someone I was compatible with. Lesbians seem to think I'm just a straight girl "experimenting" and not serious about wlw. Straight men just fetishize my sexuality and assume that bisexual woman = down to have threesomes. No thanks. And then there's the unicorn hunters 🙄🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 13 | Viral videos of women having sexI feel this way about leaked celebrity nudes. Like wow, congratulations, you have evidence that JLaw has two nipples and a vulva. There are plenty of pictures on the internet of women posing naked or having sex on camera consensually. Porn stars, hell even many regular actresses willingly choose to do scenes in the nude. The sort of man who gets off on leaked nudes or viral videos of women having sex (without consenting to be filmed) are specifically turned on by the violating aspect of it. They… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*Exactly, when people are having a conversation, they aren't speaking in logical, structured arguments. People who jump down your throat for using "logical fallacies" just have bad people skills. Also, the whole "your argument is invalid because [insert logical fallacy]" is itself a logical fallacy. Just because the reasoning may not be perfect doesn't automatically make the entire claim false. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Absolutely depraved comments sectionHey, it's 2020. Nothing stopping them from identifying as a woman if they want to 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:52 AM |
| 143 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂My favorite part was when he accused her of having an "attitude" after he acted like an ill mannered cretin for one solid minute. LMAO. You think she has an attitude? Look in the mirror bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:26 AM |
| 9 | ‘Good luck never finding anyone’I get angry DMs from salty scrotes all the time like "GOOD LUCK NEVER FINDING ANYONE U BITCHES GONNA BE SINGLE FOREVER" Like bro, chill. I'm in a relationship. With a woman. And I have a few guys who buy me things and do manual labor for me. No need to worry about my relationship status, boys 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 23 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.I can't believe the world almost lost Megan Thee Stallion and the news just sorta glossed over it like "whateverrr" 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 20 | Stay awareThis guy is acting like he just discovered some sort of epic #relationshiphack when actually he's just describing love bombing, a tactic used by emotional abusers since the beginning of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 7 | Local man can't handle the fact his girlfriend is smarter than himHe sounds like an antivaxxer or some other conspiracy theory peddling bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:35 AM |
| 6 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*I swear it's like women can't even make small talk about how our day went because men will just shriek "ANECDOTAL EVIDENCE" or some shit Ummmm I'm sorry DEREK I didn't realize that our lighthearted conversation was a high school debate club 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 06:03 AM |
| 10 | I just removed myself from a childfree group because of scrotes and pickmes and I really need to rant.I highly recommend r/ truechildfree. It's a much more positive and encouraging community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:56 AM |
| 9 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*Aw thanks, I got SOOOO many angry DMs from salty scrotes about that one. Probability just a bunch of butthurt philosophy majors 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 41 | The only 50/50 to aspire toChef's kiss 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:05 AM |
| 104 | Local man can't handle the fact his girlfriend is smarter than himI literally laughed out loud at the "first retarded member of MENSA" comment LMAO. She is savage as fuck, I love her. EDIT: HOLY SHIT I CAN'T BELIEVE I MISSED "FLUSTRATED" IN HIS TITLE LOLOLOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:45 AM |
| 15 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*It's funny you say that because one of my first posts on FDS was about why you shouldn't date a philosophy major 🤣🤣🤣 https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/eczzw2/never_date_a_guy_who_studied_philosophy/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:09 AM |
| 16 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*They act as though they found some kind of loophole that allows them to "win" every conversation. I just want to reach through the screen and shake them like "that's not what those words mean!!!" Real life doesn't have cheat codes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 28 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*They don't even read academic sources, at absolute MOST they will skim an abstract and completely miss the actual conclusion of the researchers findings 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 20 | Wannabe intellectual LVM be like "You're not allowed to criticize me because that's ad hominem!" *struts around triumphantly while making smug noises*In one of my posts I added an edit where I quoted word-for-word a troll DM that I had received and I received even more troll comments saying "uR eDiTs r StRaWmAn ArGuMeNt" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 09:14 PM |
| 212 | “Girls Mature Faster than Boys” and other classic hits from LVMFunny how "girls mature faster" is never used to advance women into positions of power and leadership. It's only ever used to justify sexually exploiting young women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 23 | Meatheads on Juicy Meathead Subreddit Shocked They’re Being Called our for Meathead BehaviourI once dated a guy who was on steroids and whenever he was on a cycle he literally just had no empathy. And his baseline empathy was already pretty low. He got SO MAD over the tiniest things, like just lost his fucking mind over the most minor shit like me eating a slice of cheesecake, him getting stuck in traffic, someone using a piece of gym equipment that he wanted to use, etc. I finally broke up with him after a fight in which he put his hands over my neck and squeezed really hard until I al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 24 | I'm so proud of you ladies. Whenever I see a woman on another subreddit who could use our help, I send her a DM invitation. Seems many of you are doing the same! Keep it up, it is our sacred duty to uplift women especially when they have been trampled by patriarchy. Cheers to 100K! 🥳🍻🎉🥂👯♀️🍻🎊Same here. About a year ago I posted about my narc ex on gender critical and everyone accurately pointed out that the relationship was abusive. I made a bunch of excuses for him, and then they all called me out for making those excuses, etc. (back when I was a pickme and still brainwashed by my narc ex) I must admit that it hurt to be called out like that, my immediate reaction was to feel defensive. Even though some of the comments were kinda "mean" or "insensitive", ultimately I'm glad they sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:38 AM |
| 48 | I'm so proud of you ladies. Whenever I see a woman on another subreddit who could use our help, I send her a DM invitation. Seems many of you are doing the same! Keep it up, it is our sacred duty to uplift women especially when they have been trampled by patriarchy. Cheers to 100K! 🥳🍻🎉🥂👯♀️🍻🎊Yeah I get similar responses. 50% hostility, 30% excuses, 20% interest. I say keep fighting. The 20% we can help is worth going through the remaining 80%. Just don't internalize or take their BS personally. It's a reflection of themselves, not you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 23 | Can we stop using "walk date" like it's an actual thing? Sis that's not a date. It's a walk.They technically can I suppose even if they are banned. And yes, the thought that they helped boost us over 100K made me giggle too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:53 AM |
| 27 | I'm so proud of you ladies. Whenever I see a woman on another subreddit who could use our help, I send her a DM invitation. Seems many of you are doing the same! Keep it up, it is our sacred duty to uplift women especially when they have been trampled by patriarchy. Cheers to 100K! 🥳🍻🎉🥂👯♀️🍻🎊It's just www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 15 | I'm so proud of you ladies. Whenever I see a woman on another subreddit who could use our help, I send her a DM invitation. Seems many of you are doing the same! Keep it up, it is our sacred duty to uplift women especially when they have been trampled by patriarchy. Cheers to 100K! 🥳🍻🎉🥂👯♀️🍻🎊What do you mean? Like how to share a link to FDS when not using reddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 130 | Incels get the wallThis is a prime example of low status men choosing to tear women down because it's easier to be a bully than to improve their dusty ass selves. She is clearly beautiful and at a healthy weight. He sees a woman leveling up and wants to drag her down, because he is a NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 25 | Another FDS queen by the sounds of itFrom my early days not long after discovering FDS: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f96vcv/ladies_dont_be_afraid_to_leave_in_the_middle_of_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Since then, I've walked out on dates at least 10 times now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 96 | Can we stop using "walk date" like it's an actual thing? Sis that's not a date. It's a walk.This was reported for being "rude, vulgar, or offensive" Omfg the male snowflakes are on the prowl today 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 51 | Another FDS queen by the sounds of itLadies I think he might be talking about me because I do shit like this allll the time 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 11 | High Earning, Well-Educated and Well-Dressed Does Not a HVM MakeThis guy acted like his Aston Martin is the be-all, end-all, that made up for his complete lack of manners, class, intellect, and social skills. I got the impression that he lived his whole life dreaming of the day he would be rich enough to pick up women without having to put any effort into her, and that simply having a luxury car would be enough. Getting turned down by a woman he considers beneath him (and he probably considers all women "beneath" him) was just too much for his ego to handle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 47 | My theory about the men who always complain about women being boring...I once had a date like this where he kept interrupting me. So I decided to leave. He kept talking and talking even as I put my jacket on, grabbed my purse, and stood up. Only when I turned around and started walking away he was like "hey... what??" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:15 AM |
| 121 | High Earning, Well-Educated and Well-Dressed Does Not a HVM MakeI once went on a date with a guy who drove an Aston Martin. When the waitress came with the bill she asked "together or separate?" and he snapped "SEPARATE" I was thinking to myself "wow ok, he clearly isn't enjoying the date" so I paid my half of the check and made a mental note to block this guy on everything and never see him again. As we were leaving, he asked if I wanted to go home with him. I was like "ummm no?" because he was acting like he wasn't interested in me. I was waiting for my Ub… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:57 AM |
| 154 | ATTN Lurking Scrotes, LVMs, and NVMs: We are almost at 100k subscribers!I find it especially reassuring that this is such a fast growing movement, and that the actual FDS subreddit is really only a small part of it. Women all over the world are rising up and aren't taking men's bullshit anymore. Plenty of women are choosing to remain single and childfree, rather than settle for someone beneath her standards who will make her life miserable. Teenage girls on tiktok are making content mocking pickme's and LVM. We are making history, the world is transforming right bef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 15 | Society has set the bar much higher for men’s cancellable mistakes because they are seen as irreplaceable."Cancelling problematic women" is the exact trend she's talking about in this pic, yet she's one of the loudest voices in the mob. And by "problematic" I mean "slightly imperfect in any way" whereas men are held to a much easier standard. The moment Kim K posts something, Jameela's like "shame on you for affecting little girls!" some fitness influencer talks about her diet and Jameela is quick to criticize her. Photoshop? Make it illegal! JK Rowling says something radfem and Jameela jumps on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 06:25 AM |
| 16 | Society has set the bar much higher for men’s cancellable mistakes because they are seen as irreplaceable.Did Jameela Jamil actually say this? She is such a libfem pickme and one of the first to jump on the "cancelling problematic women" bandwagon. JK Rowling for example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 06:08 AM |
| 46 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?Monogamy is affirmative action for beta males | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:34 AM |
| 175 | Today I saw a crackhead panhandling for over an hour and then using that money to buy his girlfriend a meal at A&W. Dear men: you have no excuse. If a literal beggar is happy to provide for his girlfriend then so can you.Get a guy who will hold an umbrella over your head when it's raining while you smoke your crack pipe 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:53 AM |
| 216 | Today I saw a crackhead panhandling for over an hour and then using that money to buy his girlfriend a meal at A&W. Dear men: you have no excuse. If a literal beggar is happy to provide for his girlfriend then so can you.Of course, when deciding if a man is HV or not you gotta look at the whole package. FDS official policy is DO NOT DATE PEOPLE WITH SUBSTANCE ABUSE ISSUES. But still, watching this couple made me chuckle and realize that all the men complaining that a $20 meal is gonna bankrupt them, are literally being outperformed by a beggar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:41 AM |
| 25 | Got banned from r/datingoverthirty due to inviting women to FDS via PMYou can still follow a subreddit and message people even if they ban you. Fuck that subreddit, if they're gonna be giving bad advice to women they deserve to have their female subscribers redirected here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 9 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secEvery time I have ever tried to "communicate" with any of my exes it always went something like this: Me: express feelings, boundary, expectation Him: DARVO, gaslighting, blame shifting, etc. Me: feeling even more sad, frustrated, angry Nowadays I just withdraw or laugh at him and it works like a charm. Men know how to act right, they just choose not to if they think they can get away with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 08:42 PM |
| 19 | LibFems: Women don’t need UBI because Sex Work is part of the “Divine Feminine” and “empowering”🤡The divine feminine has more to do with fertility and the creation/sustaining of life especially as it relates to agriculture, nature, and earth (gaia/terra). This is literally the opposite of prostitution. Prostitutes generally want to AVOID "creating life". Getting pregnant by a john is a massive inconvenience at best or a death sentence at worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 27 | Let's talk about gaslighting for a secEXCELLENT post. I also noticed that the vast majority of men seem to have this kneejerk reaction and act all contrarian, argumentative, and gaslighting anytime a woman voices a reasonable boundary or expectation. This is why "cOmMuNiCaTe" rarely works. Whenever a woman tries to communicate with a man, most of the time he sees it as a personal attack, a battle that he must win. This is because he sees women as inferior, and he does not want to be controlled by someone he considers inferior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 4 | This, my fellow Queens, is why we say that men should plan dates and show effort from the very beginning. Because if he doesn’t, it will NOT get better."In the Dark Ages" LMAO I love that, gonna start using it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:09 PM |
| 153 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"For the exact one you would expect 😂 I'm convinced that some guy has probably created a bunch of bots that automatically report any of our posts that have the word "men" and "ugly" in the same sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:26 AM |
| 7 | The Ultimate Pickmesha and Raha The Fucking Queen.The only truthful thing the pickmeisha said in the whole interview was "I don't know anything about politics" "I was just sharing my opinion!" Ok well, if you are completely ignorant, then your "opinion" is meaningless at best, harmful at worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:59 AM |
| 81 | FDS fun fact: The posts that get reported the most on Female Dating Strategy are the ones that go something like "why are men so ugly?" Most of these reports are for "targeted harassment against me"I think that's why I've lost so much weight since discovering FDS. Incel tears give me such a delicious energy boost, yet they are calorie-free! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:06 AM |
| 3 | This community changed the course of my lifeI love seeing posts like this about how FDS changed your life for the better. FDS changed my life too, and I like to see the positive surge of sisterly solidarity. Keep em coming! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:42 AM |
| 12 | In MemoriamRBG was a Queen of Queens, a true goddess among mortals. She will be missed. We cannot let her life and death be in vain. We must fight for our rights now more than ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:45 AM |
| 23 | The ”Dogpill”, AKA They think we reject them to fuck dogs.Same reason why men hate on "horse girls" They know they'll never be #1 in her life. Prolly also lowkey jealous of their dongs 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:42 AM |
| 40 | The ”Dogpill”, AKA They think we reject them to fuck dogs.A lot of men get dogs specifically to try and attract women. My ex (before FDS) straight up admitted that. I'm not proud of it. Our first date was taking our dogs for a walk in the park 🤦♀️ Although, it's worth mentioning that most men are not incels. Incels, redpillers, MGTOW, PUA are bottom barrel men but altogether they only comprise 5% of the male population at most. No, most guys who are LVM or NVM are low value in a totally ordinary way. Lazy, low effort, entitled, mediocre, casual misogy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:39 AM |
| 14 | A day in the life of our lost sisters at breaking mom.I only subscribe to breaking mom and justnoSO to mentally condition myself to never EVER settle like them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:32 PM |
| 10 | Charlize Theron Reveals She Hasn't Dated Anyone In 5 Years: 'I Don’t Feel Lonely'Charlize Theron is literally Queen of Queens and I doubt there are many men on her level, if any. So it makes sense, really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 52 | How men subtly deflect.I don't think she is trying to normalize it. The tone is sarcastic and making fun of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:21 PM |
| 13 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:I choose option 3: leave him on read, then BLOCK AND DELETE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:09 AM |
| 32 | All the usual pickmes in the comments saying asking for child support is gold digging...smhIf she genuinely doesn't need the money right now to cover day to day expenses, that's awesome, but she should still collect the child support and put it in a savings account so that her child can spend it on college or a down payment on a house when she's older. Boasting about not needing child support as a "flex" is pure vanity. Even if YOU don't need it, your child still might. You're right, it is stealing from your child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 37 | Not only do they base a woman's value over her 'cooking and cleaning' but then they try to change the narrative of who ended things by saying some 'struggling in silence' nonesense 😭😭 the audacityShe didn't rape anybody. You're literally repeating an MRA talking point. It's usually brought up in the context of a woman talking about male violence, how common it is for men to drug women and rape them. Then there's always some MRA who brings up Cardi B like "see! Women can be rapists too! Therefore male violence is not a gendered issue because BoTh SiDeS" But that's not what happened. It's a false equivalency. The men she robbed were the ones trying to pay her for sex. They were trying to r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:59 PM |
| 27 | Not only do they base a woman's value over her 'cooking and cleaning' but then they try to change the narrative of who ended things by saying some 'struggling in silence' nonesense 😭😭 the audacityBy saying "toxic love" he is implying it is a "we" problem when it is actually just a "him" problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 9 | Think you intimidate me? I'll laugh in your face, scrote.Yeah if you go to r/ pussypassdenied or r/ publicfreakout there are TONS of videos of men jumping at the opportunity to knock a woman unconscious in "self defense" even though it is a totally out of proportion response. For example she might have dumped her drink on him or spat on him or yelled in his face or flicked her cigarette butt in his general direction and BOOM CONCUSSION. The comments are just scrotes cheering like "Yeah! Justice!" even though it is totally unnecessary, over the top, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts?I laugh every time some pickme or LVM messages me to say "not ALL men" because they are the same type of person who says "all men watch porn" and "all men would pump and dump" and "all men check out hot girls even if they're in a relationship" etc. To attempt to justify male depravity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 25 | What an asshole. ITS NOT EVEN YOUR HOUSE GTFO. YOU DONT EVEN PAY MY BILLSEvery time she sings from now on she will remember that moment. That selfish asshole literally ruined the joy of SINGING to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:05 AM |
| 8 | Rules of Misogyny in case you forgot or didn't know. And I'm sure there's more to add to it.Here's a fun tip, whenever a guy makes a bad faith argument, rather than waste your energy actually engaging with him, just copy & paste the relevant rule of misogyny and send it to him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:03 AM |
| 18 | Dear Reddit LibFems: Nobody died and made your self important asses the gatekeepers of feminism. We're not "fake feminists" because you don't agree with us, nor are you as inclusive and non-judgmental of women's choices as you pretend you are.Libfems: omg FDS is so PROBLEMATIC Also libfems: support prostitution and porn industry, which is TOTALLY not problematic AT ALL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:57 PM |
| 12 | People who say "not ALL men are like that" are lowkey agreeing with us because even they acknowledge that at least SOME men actually are like that.Honestly whenever a guy messages me incel shit like "you gold digging whores only want rich chads! Nice guys like me are killing themselves because of women like you!" I usually reply something like "yes" I'm indifferent to the fact that so many incels and "former" incels admit that FDS confirms all their pre-existing paranoid thoughts. In fact it's one of my guilty pleasures. It's pointless trying to change their minds, they are already set in their ways. It's not my job to emotionally coddle t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 15 | People who say "not ALL men are like that" are lowkey agreeing with us because even they acknowledge that at least SOME men actually are like that.Yes exactly. I'm bisexual and while some of the FDS principles don't apply (anything that exists due to gendered power imbalances). A lot of the rules definitely still do apply to wlw. For example "if you want a high value partner then you have to be high value" and "if someone doesn't meet your standards then move on" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Wannabe tradwives aren’t respected by the men they worshipIsn't it crazy how when you use different words it totally changes the meaning of the sentence. "I like to eat pizza" Angry man: Now imagine if you removed the word "pizza" with BABIES. Disgusting, right? FDS SUPPORTS EATING BABIES, REEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:30 PM |
| 38 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄That's not involuntary. You are choosing not to have sex with substandard men. True incels want to have sex but get rejected by every woman they talk to. If you're the one doing the rejecting, you are not an incel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 99 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄It's pretty much the exact same thing as my narcissist ex saying "OH OKAY SO YOU JUST WANT ME TO DIE THEN" whenever I asked him to be less of a jerk to me 🙄 We can see through your shit, boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Men rate women’s physical attractiveness on a 1-10 scale. Women rate using 0s and 1s (f*ck yes or f*ck no). Thoughts?The function of each scale is different. For most men (except really hot ones), they would have sex with any woman on the 1-10 scale, even 1s and 2s depending on how desperate and horny they are. Attraction is not a requirement for sex. The 1-10 scale is more about quantifying their perceived value of the woman, and therefore how little effort he can get away with, or how badly he thinks he is entitled to treat her. I've seen plenty of manosphere comments like "I'm just going to meet her for cof… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:06 PM |
| 31 | I hate the fact men think, they gave us the right. Like do they have a brain?I have literally seen MRA comments like "feminists should be THANKING MEN because we allowed them to have the right to vote! Since they're being so ungrateful maybe we should just take it away!" Oh so all the hunger strikes, protests, political organizing, etc. done by the suffragettes was nothing apparently? These guys are completely ahistorical and paternalistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 2 | FrOm ThE pAsT...best father of the year"Kids from the past" lmao what other type of children are there? Kids from the future? All kids are from the "past" because that's how time works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 181 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.My BFF has a cat who is very aloof. He is loving to my friend, but if a stranger tries to pet him or even look at him for too long, he hides under the bed or on the top of something high like a bookshelf/fridge. For the longest time I mostly ignored him, sometimes I forgot he is even there until I look up at the shelf and he's just staring at us, always watching. Anyways one day, I was sitting on the couch watching TV with my friend and he just hops up onto my lap and bunted my hand, then just s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 51 | My comment on an r/sex post about a woman who's male "friend" tried to guilt her into having sex with him because she's had sex with other people and these are the responses. The post was locked before I could respond but why even bother 🤣🤣The word "gaslighting" gets thrown around a lot but I would say this is one example where it is 100% accurate. He is literally implying that she is mentally unwell for not trusting men. Basically he is saying "wow you don't want to get raped? What a psycho, you need therapy" except with fake concern signaling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 10 | If the sex is bad the first time, move on.A couple years ago I was dating a guy and when I was finally ready to have sex with him, he came in literally 2 seconds. A LITERAL TWO PUMP CHUMP, I am not exaggerating. I was shocked. Like I didn't even know that was possible to get off in 2 strokes. I froze, didn't say anything at all, just trying to hold back laughter. Anyways I guess he felt emasculated because before I could even react, he immediately started yelling at me "THIS IS A HUGE PROBLEM FOR ME OKAY? I CAN'T CONTROL IT. YOU ARE THE… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:40 AM |
| 25 | Her asking her ex for flowers VS when they broke up and he saw her receive flowers from one someone else 😂😂😂yeah most of the people in my classes are either women (as a bi chick, I can't complain). The few men who are there are either old or not my type. But my ex never stepped foot in a dance studio so he didn't know that. And I didn't bother trying to correct his catastrophizing accusations like I'm getting grinded on by a dance troupe of magic mike lookalikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:30 AM |
| 9 | Before I joined FDS, I went on a coffee date with a man (38M) who told me he planned to buy a Tesla. He asked me to dinner and suggested a place, then asked if we can go to a place of my ethnic cuisine. The next day he asked if the place was $$ bc he was on a budget.. Sigh!The type of guys who get in financial trouble buying meals at mid-range restaurants are usually going on dates with multiple women per week, and wants to spend as little as possible on each one. It's a common PUA tactic: "spend only $3 on her coffee so you can afford to date more women!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:25 AM |
| 12 | Before I joined FDS, I went on a coffee date with a man (38M) who told me he planned to buy a Tesla. He asked me to dinner and suggested a place, then asked if we can go to a place of my ethnic cuisine. The next day he asked if the place was $$ bc he was on a budget.. Sigh!This guy is an obsessive bean counter. RUN. He's the type of guy who would complain about condoms because they're SOOOO EXPENSIVE and then charge you a prorated fee for every single one he used with you...down to the penny. DON'T. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:21 AM |
| 58 | Her asking her ex for flowers VS when they broke up and he saw her receive flowers from one someone else 😂😂😂LMAO reminds me of how I begged my narcissist ex to come with me to a salsa class (I always wanted to learn how to dance). He refused, so I went to a singles class by myself. HOOO BOY did he ever have a problem with that. He didn't like the idea of me dancing with other men so I told him, then come with me to a couples class. Nope. Didn't wanna do that either. I kept going to the damn salsa class while he sulked about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:14 AM |
| 16 | "But what do you bring to the table?"choosing beggars LMAO so true. We get featured a lot on the choosing beggars subreddit because apparently wanting to go on a dinner date and not a coffee date makes us EnTitLeD. They're the ones desperate for female companionship. They are the real beggars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:31 PM |
| 69 | Madagascar had it right😊Message for male lurkers: this is what an ACTUAL nice guy is like. He makes an effort to learn the likes and dislikes of the woman he loves. Being passive and unattractive doesn't automatically make you "nice" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 34 | Broke PickMe proves to her multi-millionaire boyfriend that "she's not like other girls" by spoiling him with gifts and not asking him for anything. Then when she ask for help with her $1000 rent he says NO.In terms of relationship value, there is literally no difference between a homeless man and a stingy rich man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Ah they probably blocked me so I wouldn't see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:42 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Would you mind DMing me the links to anything complaining about this post? Always good to know where the brigading is coming from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 21 | Reminder: It is Okay to not be OkayGreat post. It took me a few months to untangle my mind after leaving my narcissist ex. Ladies if you feel sad after a breakup, that means you are a normal person. Only sociopaths and narcissists discard their loved ones without a second thought. Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to feel those feelings, it takes time to heal and finally move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:09 PM |
| 49 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Lmao I never said anything about having sex with these guys. Poly people are always going on and on about how non poly people "always make it about sex when actually it's about emotional connection" I like when guys do stuff for me but it's not a transaction. Sex ain't guaranteed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:24 PM |
| 9 | Why "walk dates" are a thing on OLD and why they should be trashed every single time.Even if it's your boyfriend, you are never completely 100% safe: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5849371/Woman-joked-murdered-family-dying-hike-boyfriend.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 10:03 AM |
| 35 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?Lmao this has been reported like 18 times, 10 of which are "targeted harassment based on identity" I didn't realize that "ugly men" were a legally protected class 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:57 AM |
| 13 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Same sex polycules are cool I guess? But not really within the scope of this subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:05 AM |
| 29 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Our objective is maximum female benefit. 1 queen with multiple manservants is maximum female benefit. Any other arrangement is suboptimal for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:04 AM |
| 35 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Harem with 1 woman and multiple men = FDS approved Harem with 1 man and multiple women = not FDS approved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:01 AM |
| 1 | KEEP 👏 UP 👏 YOUR 👏 QUEEN 👏 SHIT 👏 FOR 👏 YOURSELF 👏 don’t let LVMs get you downRemoved for being a repost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:56 AM |
| 12 | I keep seeing scrotes calling dates they pay for "glorified prostitution", because they expect sex for money. So to negate these erroneous beliefs I say, follow FDS standards and make them wait months and months on end.Can't win either way So may as well just fleece men for what they're worth. If a guy's gonna treat you like shit no matter what you do, make them pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:55 AM |
| 43 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!If women want to engage in polyamory, that's fine. It's just not FDS. FDS is about a specific way of dating, it's not for everyone. We get hate from the poly community, BDSM people, porn users, etc. like we want them dead or in jail which just isn't true. You're totally free to do those things, we're not gonna stop you, it's just not FDS. We are under no obligation to support things that do not align with our values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:40 AM |
| 49 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!I didn't have to pay to have my motorcycle serviced this year, and I have been gifted some new gear/tires/accessories. I just sigh wistfully and complain about an issue with my bike in the presence of other (mostly male) riders and they just start falling all over each other like "I WOULD BE HAPPY TO TAKE A LOOK AT IT! ME! PICK ME! NO, PICK ME!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:37 AM |
| 165 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Sorry, sometimes my sarcasm is so dry that people just think I am a literal idiot 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:30 AM |
| 55 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Ditto. That's what amazon wishlists are for 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 07:41 AM |
| 210 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!And remember, as long as these guys are CONSENTING to being beaten to a bloody pulp, it is totally okay. Because as soon as someone chooses to do something, that automatically makes it unproblematic and empowering, even. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:41 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!After OVERWHELMING feedback from the polyamory community regarding this post, both in modmail and on other subreddits, we have decided to update our official FDS policy on polyamory. Special thanks to the poly community for so graciously educating us about the nuances of your sex lives, it really helped us see the errors in our thinking. After a lengthy discussion amongst our moderators, we decided to update our policy to be more inclusive and open minded! We now recognize that "polyamory" (mean… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | If you're not married, you are SINGLE. Point blank.From a legal standpoint this is completely accurate. Until you sign on the dotted line and are legally married, you are single. This applies to insurance, inheritance, medical decisions, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:51 AM |
| 28 | You ain’t shit boy :’)I love when a guy is being rude and disrespectful, so I respond with the same tone and energy as him, and he gets all mad like "wow women these days have such a bad attitude" Ladies, take note: you are not obligated to respond to disrespect with deference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:49 AM |
| 20 | They don’t even try to hide how vile they are. They just tell on themselves.This comment is so perfect I upgraded your flair. That's some Queen shit right there 😂👸👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:35 AM |
| 86 | When You Try to Help a PickMe"I LIKE being choked you fucking bigot!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Thought of you all... the answer is obviousMy narcissistic ex was a Capricorn and he was the fucking wooorst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:23 AM |
| 131 | Scrote want to have sex with a prostitute because his wife refuses to submit to a painful sex act. DIVORCE HIM.Easy: divorce him and take him to the cleaners. Sure, he can go ahead and spend a couple grand on hookers, but she's gonna take the house, the car, and the other $28,000 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:14 AM |
| 11 | Men’s favorite body type: InsecureI specifically work out my shoulders to achieve a more dramatic hourglass figure LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Don't Forget the Search Bar Leads to a GoldmineAwww thanks :) one of the ones I'm most proud of | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:17 AM |
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