The audacity!

s_slayer · 2020-11-02T15:58:07+00:00

My ex husband would do this all the time. He’d get me upset then the focus would be on my reaction rather than what he did to cause it.

myousername · 2020-11-02T15:46:03+00:00

Yes, they're highly sensitive to their needs, but that sensitivity is forgotten when caring about other's needs.

littleredpartydress_ · 2020-11-02T14:37:29+00:00

The idea that everyone has to control their emotions but not their actions is so backwards. It’s like anyone can do anything to hurt people but the hurt persons reaction is the wrong thing

FleetingDaisy · 2020-11-02T14:36:37+00:00

Oh I had a cool exchange with a LVM yesterday evening. Personally, I drop guys when a phonecall has been arranged for a certain date and time, and he does not call or give a plausible excuse on time (family emergency, work delay, etc.). Happened yesterday. Told him not to contact me again. His response was that I'm giving him drama :D

sxfjcg9900 · 2020-11-02T16:55:22+00:00

It’s not that they don’t notice it, they just don’t care about our feelings, LVM just wanna have no consequences to their lack of emotional maturity.

Downtown-Temporary52 · 2020-11-02T16:09:52+00:00

Geee this is very my ex. It's always been me to comfort him back when I confronted him about his behaviours to me.

idiopathictendencies · 2020-11-02T14:02:57+00:00

Ugh yes! “Oh, why am I crying and being so emotional? It certainly has nothing to do with you ignoring me without explanation the last three days.”

WWisMyCo-pilot · 2020-11-02T12:49:19+00:00

"ComMunIcAte!" No bitch, stop and reflect

Wonderrednow · 2020-11-02T21:57:01+00:00

And this is why I forgive myself for all the dumb shit. They're never at home worrying about how they did you wrong. Let go, level up, move on!

llamasinspace420 · 2020-11-02T12:11:11+00:00

Oh God this was my whole relationship with my ex.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2020-11-03T01:15:00+00:00

You’re mad at me bc I’m mad you for liking other girls pictures and following random women... gotcha. Instead of changing your behavior, apologizing, and not doing it again, you gaslight and invalidate my feelings.

Thxxxxxx :/

Equal-Ear2312 · 2020-11-02T17:27:08+00:00

This is literally my ex. He could never see the beanpole in his eyes...

tweinerr · 2020-11-02T20:19:06+00:00

If this isn't facts on so many levels......

babyels · 2020-11-03T03:12:24+00:00

My parents are like that. I just can’t 🙈

2020-11-03T04:12:59+00:00

I need to send this to some people ... of the male gender.

Title	The audacity!
Author	gagger_of_lolly
Upvotes	2596
Comments	37
Date	November 2, 2020 10:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jmlfhy/the_audacity/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/the-audacity.327314 https://theredarchive.com/post/327314

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