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12

Goddess. I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:21 AM
37

Don't let anyone tell you there's an age, or a specific time, you have to lose it. Do what feels right for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:23 AM
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When I was a teenager and had older men hit on me, I was flattered by it. Oh, how mistaken I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:30 AM
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Honestly, a big part of our culture—a culture predominately influenced by men—trains women that being desired by men is their purpose in life. When you have that tied into your societal- and self-worth, it can be hard to break. I went through my ho phase a few years ago. It wasn't for me. I was left feeling lonely, disrespected and dehumanized. I'm glad that I recognize that though and can move forward in life with a different focus. A lot of women still drink the Kool Aid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:27 PM
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Recently, a male friend I had twenty years ago and lost touch with reconnected on social media. Their father had died. Knowing mine did too, they sought advice. I didn't mind helping ... but I do admit, I was a bit leery. There's always a hidden motive after all. Anyway, in the time since it has transpired to him calling me "cutie" in messages and talking about how much he would love to travel with me, which clearly oversteps boundaries as I am quite vocal that I am in a relationship and I am ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:00 PM
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I feel the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:26 AM
10

The war on women is the longest running war in history ... but we don't talk about it. Because, culture. Ideologies and norms that men created under the guise of culture and religion get the benefit of protection because of time and history. It's complete bullshit and you can't call it out without being labelled discriminatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:36 PM
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“wow, you girls must have money to be paying for a ride and going out for drinks” This statement reveals so, so much about him. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:24 PM
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Just reading this gave me bad vibes. You did the right thing by not helping. If she was in such distress, taking the long way shouldn't have mattered. She wanted you in the car for another purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 03:19 PM
29

This was my realization too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:24 PM
17

I would add that this should extend to all people in your life—friends, family, colleagues that might also act victimized when you set boundaries and look after your own wellbeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:23 PM
26

I love this comment and agree with everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:41 PM
34

Those face masks are terrible for this. They don't do anything and are quite harmful to the environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:40 PM
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I agree. I would also like to add the disturbing trend of younger and younger women getting plastic surgery, fillers, etc. This is as much an industry as anything else; it exists to profit off a consumer base. Try to learn acceptance and build your confidence that way rather than playing into society's expectations of beauty (which are often filtered through the male gaze).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:33 PM
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I HOWLED. ha ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:40 PM
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When I ended things with my ex, I sent him one last message detailing how I felt (yes, this was before I read FDS; I was a full clown). My exact words to him were that he was manipulative and deceitful. I don't think it's a coincidence that your experience was similar. It's how these man-boys are raised by their parents as little kings and girls are treated like burdens. It extends across the full society and culture. The only reason I found out this ass was married is because his wife posted al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:10 PM
10

Not in Toronto but I am Canadian and I would be your friend. You deserve better in life than that treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:23 AM
12

"...convince my parents to start looking for a rich, porn addict, misogynist, ugly guy from our community." Jesus. You have my sympathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:22 AM
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OMG - "community dick" is exactly how I described my ex. ha ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:47 PM
99

I feel for you. Just some insight from a white woman that dated several Indian men. They totally deceit and use us for sex and then also lie to you about being perfect, gentlemen virgins while doing those arranged marriage "interviews". I ended things with one guy because I was already catching him in lies ... and I later discovered he got married two months afterwards. I'm sure his bride would have loved to know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:51 PM
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This is truly disgusting. I feel so enraged watching this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:33 PM
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I've noted this with my own mother. I don't have a lot of pictures of her over time (80s/90s/00s) and it makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:23 AM
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I would even go so far as to create a fake profile on dating sites. When I did online dating years ago, there were a few men chatting me up and seeking sex that I later discovered had relationships (two of them even had newborns). I discovered this after exchanging numbers and then having them automatically show up on WhatsApp ... where their profile pic was of a baby. Going further down the hole into their socials is where I made more discovery. You just can't trust men. Thankfully, a lot of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:16 AM
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I could have written this myself. It makes me sad to realize how many women go through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:17 PM
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Yes. I think this is normal. The important thing is that you learned from it and won't tolerate it in the future. I actually took notes during one of my previous relationships so that when I felt the pang of longing for attention and companionship, I would reference it and remember what really happened and how I felt in the moment. Journalling can be a helpful tool to get over past traumas and remind yourself of what you want in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:14 PM
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You and I would make such amazing besties. I agree with everything you wrote and support and want to see you THRIVE with everything you wrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:51 PM
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I LOVE this :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:49 PM
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Years ago and during a time of diminished confidence, I was in a toxic relationship that I left after we got in an argument. When he reached out a few weeks later, I did write the paragraphs of text back to him, letting him know how I felt and how he hurt me. He ended by saying a few lines including "I didn't mean to hurt you" and "You need to understand that I'm not good at explaining myself or texting". lol That was IT. That then angered me even more. I wasn't even deserving of a proper apolog…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:50 PM
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My partner is from Kerala and has told me to not go to India because I will be harassed wherever I go. I guess it's called "eve teasing" there but it's just straight up sexual harassment and assault. He doesn't even like returning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:48 PM
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lol - I dated "two inch dick and lies" and can confirm this is accurate af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:12 PM
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Yes. This can f*** up your self-esteem for YEARS. It's not worth it (signed, someone who has been there).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:34 PM
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This is making me hungry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:55 PM
7

Jennifer Aniston is inspiration. She looks good and has an amazing life. Helen Mirren is my personal inspiration for aging. She looks great, she has great presence. I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:18 PM
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I bet he's said or implied "it's what she would have wanted". Yes, your dead wife wanted to be replaced like a broken coffee maker. Yes, your new wife wants to set aside her own life to emotionally support you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:57 PM
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Completely agree. It just makes it seem like the partner was an object, easily replaced and upgraded. Not there for love but rather convenience. There are new models on the market. Time to upgrade. I judge any person that does that. I'm not implying someone should grieve for years (or decades) and spend the rest of their life alone, but the cases I've seen where someone—usually a man—has a new partner within weeks/months is disturbing. I'm also not sure why someone would want to be with a partne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:54 PM
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lol "I like to go with the flow" ... this isn't going anywhere, I'm going to waste your time but I want free sex and attention and it seems like your low self-esteem will allow me to do that with the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:34 PM
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Seriously. Vibrator for "release" and pet dog for whatever sense of companionship you need. At least the dog will love you unconditionally and welcome you home every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:36 AM
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I felt this WAY too hard. RIP my former self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:33 AM
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So much damage has already been done. I don't know how this was ever legal in the first place. The amount of "amateur" porn that was hidden cameras or outright rape. The lack of accountability with ensuring consent for those featured. This company is complete trash and should be persecuted to the full extent of the law.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:15 PM
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☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:40 PM
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It's taken me awhile to admit that I was raped by someone before. I used to always use the term "sexual assault" as I didn't want to associate with the word rape or have it tied to me but it was damn near exact what you wrote. I was pinned by someone who started reaching into my clothes, against my very verbal wishes, only for it to escalate. I eventually gave in because I couldn't overpower him (and he wasn't going to stop anyway). When confronted, he said "I know you liked it". That was it. No…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:38 PM
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Years ago, I was led to believe that this is what modern dating consisted of and that I was too much of a prude and should just be down with it. The men I met - the absolute garbage I let "entertain" me - did a number on my self-esteem that I am still trying to recover from. To any young women on here, don't sell yourself short and don't allow yourself to be manipulated into doing something that is not in your best interests in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:59 PM
28

Dogs > Men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:50 AM
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I'm really glad you are in a better place. This sub can be like therapy for a lot of people. I know there is a lot here I needed to learn and have ongoing support for : ) Also - your ex is an ass. I think a lot of men think like that but don't actually say it out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:15 PM
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Low self-esteem holds us back so much (and it's led by a culture that actively instigates it in women).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 03:32 PM
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The more posts I read on FDS, the more I believe that there is a secret universal playbook that they all read and have "bro-code" on. There's no originality at all. It's like a poorly scripted movie they aren't clever enough to rewrite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:45 PM
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Yup, same. It makes you believe that this is just the way it is. I've only recently starting cutting out friends that treat me like garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:30 PM
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I notice this not just with men, but with toxic family and friends too. There's always a ton of excuses and making the person who is reacting to being hurt/disrespected as though they are in the wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:48 PM
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lol - when I was around 19, a friend set me up with an older guy (late 20s) who worked as a stockbroker. The guy liked to give an outward impression of success. One time we went shopping and he made a big scene about buying an expensive suit. Anyway, as we dated I started to see the real cheapskate him. We went for dinner with a large group of his friends and he left early, leaving his portion of the bill for someone else to pick up. Then one time we were at the pet store getting food for his fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:08 PM
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In past bad relationships, I started to ask myself "what advice would you give your best friend if she were going through this?". Inevitably, it was dump him. So why wasn't I granting myself the same consideration?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:48 PM
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And in extreme cases, it can cost a woman her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:46 PM
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I myself could have written what you wrote. I completely agree with the other comment stating society conditions us this way. Don't beat yourself up over it. You ARE worth more. You ARE a queen that deserves love, respect and honesty. And you are learning to only accept that into your life. Good things will follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:22 PM
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Great comment (and so true).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:52 PM
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I also hate how it is not just men talking about this but selling products like this ... I was shopping (pre-COVID) and recall seeing a wedding cake topper that was a woman dragging a man, as he tried to escape. Who the f buys that shit? But someone probably thinks it's "funny" or cute. It's garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:20 PM
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Denying a woman the opportunity to make an educated, informed decision by concealing information is one of the most devious–and common–things men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:53 PM
11

This makes sense. I received DMs last week called me a "femcell". I have a partner/common-law husband that I would consider a HVM. But this only came into fruition after years of seeing garbage men and having my self-esteem and confidence diminished because I thought that was all I could attract and all I was worth. I've already thought that if my relationship were to ever end, I would stop dating. It's not worth it. I'd rather just get a dog for companionship (and a vibrator for sexual release)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:29 PM
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I'm curious if this is in response to DM's you may have received? I received some last week calling me a "femcell". I actually don't think what I post is that bad. It's just my personal experience and impression of dating in this day-and-age. To any men lurking here, you should try better. Can the entitlement, be honest and stop treating women like commodities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:54 PM
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I legit cackled at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:26 PM
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Cutting out soda and other bad stuff and drinking pretty much 95% water has transformed my skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:33 PM
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lol - this was one of my final lines to a LVM I was seeing for two years (before starting to love myself). I felt so damn good texting it. The response I received was "I'm not looking for that. I'm seeking companionship" ... which really meant a warm body between the hours of midnight and three a.m. Ugh. I'm so thankful I evolved from accepting this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:15 PM
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I'm with you on the blocking. I think a lot of people keep contacts around in some foolish attempt to look like the better person, but really it's all to boast and/or snoop. Exes are dead weight. We can learn from the experience but it's rather unhealthy to keep reminders of them around in our everyday lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:12 PM
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This has nothing to do with you. You are good enough. Social media can be deceiving. Poor character will reveal itself eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:58 PM
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I've had a few LVM in my life. When I stopped seeing them, because they were treating me so poorly, they would always ask one last time "can we be friends?". We weren't friends to begin with, for f***sakes. Even if we were, friends treat each other better than how these guys feel they should treat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:23 PM
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Same. Women really are conditioned to sacrifice themselves and their wellbeing for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:48 PM
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Good on you. Don't look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:36 PM
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What a great answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:59 PM
3

Absolute goddess and I worship at her throne.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:31 PM
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Father was dead and I was desperate for male affection. I've been there. :( We are so vulnerable in this situation and it shows the poor character of someone willing to take advantage of another human being in that state. I would also state that just because you consensually allowed this to happen doesn't make it right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:38 PM
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I left the following advice here before (under a different account) and it bears repeating - any woman doing online dating needs to create a fake account with a younger-looking profile picture (18/19-ish). Heck, even if you want to do an anthropological study on men you should do this. The men approaching you and the creepy message you receive will provide a lot of insight. You may even encounter men you know. When I did this years ago, men with private accounts (many of them older) came out of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:34 PM
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You levelled up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:25 PM
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It should make you more picky ... but not all of these men are prizes either and I'm sure they (and their family) lie. I was involved with an Indian man a few years ago (I'm white). We were together for around two years. I finally ended things as nothing was progressing, even though he would regularly tell me he loved me and asked me to marry him several times. It was just words. Lo-and-behold, two months after I broke things off, he was married. Not engaged, full-on married. I don't know if he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:49 PM
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I think it's more nuanced than that. Knowing myself and some situations I've been in, I knew things were red-flags but I needed confirmation from others because I just didn't have the confidence or self-esteem to stand up for myself. Having people confirm with you that you deserve better can help one initiate the action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:21 AM
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I just finished this book. Required reading for all women, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:01 PM
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In all seriousness, I would rather have a dog than most men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:10 PM
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I'd never heard of that before but read the wiki and am REPULSED. The picture of Talaat Harb Street where a five-hour assault occurred made me feel ill. It's a busy street with numerous hi-rises surrounding it. How could no one stop this? And "60% of the highest educated women polled blame the victim because of their provocative clothing"! This just made me so mad. These women deserve better. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:54 PM
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I am just finishing this book right now. Every woman should read it. Our super-power is our instinct and we need to learn how valuable it is for our own wellbeing and self-preservation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:33 PM
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One just has to look at celebrity relationships. You could be the perfect woman - looks, talent, intelligence, ferocity - you could be BEYONCE and a man will still cheat on you. The bar isn't higher for us; it's completely non-existent for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:36 PM
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I'm the same way. I've been called "cold" numerous times throughout my life by people who couldn't manipulate me into giving them what they want. Always consider the source and intention of those who say similar to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 05:27 PM
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He sounds like an ass and karma will one day come for him. You are worthy of so much more. You deserve respect and love. Don't look back, just learn the lesson and keep moving forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:44 AM
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Ouch. I felt this. Heed these words, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:38 PM
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A few years ago, I lost a parent (who was also my best friend). It was somewhat sudden and led me to fall into depression. I felt lost. I felt I needed happiness and sought it in the worst ways. I was just so desperate for companionship and love to fill that void that I became a pickmesha. Looking back at that time of my life makes me sad now. I don't recognize that girl. The people I was with were TERRIBLE. If there's something below a LVM, that was they. They knew what I was going through and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:14 AM
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No losses, just experiences I love this line. Use those experiences as lessons learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:02 AM
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My office is street level and has a large window. As people walk by, I can overhear conversations. Most of the time, this just becomes background noise to my workday but a few years ago there was a particularly loud group of young men (early twenties) who attended a college on the next block. Everyday they would pass while going to get a coffee during their break. Their conversations were often vulgar and shocked me as it was normally first thing in the morning when I would hear it ... but one c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:00 AM
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How is PornHub not taken to task for hosting actual rape and revenge porn videos ? How does PornHub verify consent or someone's age? I feel no one (in media or with authority) questions this. The company is just allowed to exist and propagate the war on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:59 PM
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