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I just wish wearing a mask didn’t give me acne :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:17 AM
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Yup. I have so many female relatives and friends who could only benefit from leaving their partner. Like, they’re so smart, caring, have good jobs, are good mothers and all that for what? Their husbands/boyfriends are alcoholics, smokers, cheaters, bums, just disgusting ass leeches. I hate them so much, I want better for those women and I wish I could just wake up one day and they were gone. I especially hate my culture because it teaches us women that kids need their father no matter how much o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:57 AM
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The same thing happened to me. It was so crazy how someone who tells you they love you can be so close to end your life like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:39 AM
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I might as well just marry myself at that point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:40 PM
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If you ever wonder what they’re tryna hide under all that hair, just google Gavin Mcinnes (founder of proud boys) without beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:37 PM
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Ctrl has biiiig pick me energy, but I like to think she’s talking about previous experiences as being a reformed pick me because otherwise I can’t listen to her 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:43 AM
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Listening to SZA makes me wanna clean my room, start meditating, finish my homework and never text any man ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:20 AM
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Every single women I know has dated men way uglier than them, yet I don’t know a single man who’s dated a girl uglier than them. I mean, look at men in power, they’re so many of them who are really ugly but because they have other things going for them (intelligence/power/money) their ugliness is just a second thought, it’s like society forgives them for being ugly but doesn’t have the same compassion for women. Look at all the memes criticizing female politicians’ appearances, articles about wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:16 AM
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Talking about sex when we barely met, only talking about himself and not showing any interest in my life, doesn’t seem to have much going on in his life, not offering to take me out on a real date before any other informal plan, wanting girlfriend treatment before making me a girlfriend, not having female friends or being too attached to female friends, mentioning their ex in any way, complimenting me on a picture instead of commenting on it directly, and if after a few months I don’t see any in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:52 PM
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Get a side girl who will gladly do it 😛 Jk. dump his ass. He doesn’t care about your orgasms, he doesn’t care about YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 11:42 PM
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The chase never really stops. Men should be aware that any time they stop treating you like you deserve is the moment you leave. Otherwise they’re gonna take you for granted. Most men get bored because they’re used to getting sex with low/no effort. That’s why we gotta step our game up. If you’re HV yourself they’ll notice, but they’ll still try to get sex from you with the least amount of effort they can get away with. That’s when you let them know through your actions that that’s not gonna hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:10 PM
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This is exactly why I’ll never lower my standards. They never lower theirs even when we permanently deform our bodies to give them a baby, yet we’re the superficial ones for preferring men with a stable income and basic hygiene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:49 PM
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What works for me is just using my imagination. Usually I remember the times I had passionate sex, but sometimes I think of a person I think is attractive (a coworker, classmate, friend) and I imagine them being really in love with me and really wanting me. I think of how I’d like to be touched, caressed, how I’d like them to eat me out, to ride them, us kissing, you get the idea lol I used to be very dependent on porn to get a good orgasm but once you do this regularly it honestly feels better …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:32 AM
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“Asking as they can separate that type of physical contact to the bedroom and not out it’s okay” For sure dude, you can hit a woman all you want and choke her and slap her because ✨it’s a seggs thing✨ Fuck no dude. This is some depraved shit. I bet none of those people are parents except maybe the person who showed concern. Parents are not supposed to be your friends who will support you no matter what, they’re here to protect you from things like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:15 AM
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If he’s in the financial situation he says he’s in, then don’t pick an expensive place. You ask her out, you pay. For every dating option he has, she has another 5 at least so he should be the one impressing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:35 AM
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I just saw a post of someone praising him for posting pictures of her with long captions on Insta like ???? Did y’all forget about that video where he closed the car door on her face?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:56 AM
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“Disgusting pig” says the rapist who coerced his SICK WIFE (who he should be taking care of) into being his cum dumpster and when she had an accident he acted like a child. The projection is unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:54 AM
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I’ve apologized to my best friend because of this. I was young and didn’t know any better so I got mad when she asked me why I was moving to a different country for a man who had an untreated mental illness and would gaslight me into believing all of our arguments were caused by me. We’re cool now but that’s one of my biggest regrets because she’s always been there for me and when we broke up she was also there for me no matter how much of an asshole I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:32 AM
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I honestly feel so bad for her, I saw her post history, not only is her boyfriend immature, he’s also an abusive asshole who rages when he loses a video game and she’s afraid of him. I really hope someone in her life helps her escape this piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:33 AM
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You should! Adding alternative accessories or clothing pieces to non-alternative outfits is so easy and it makes outfits look so much more unique and adds detail. Omg I think you’re right. I’ve been talking to other people but I’ve only been going out on dates with him, maybe that’s why I’m putting too much value on what he thinks of me already. Thank you, I’ll definitely try that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:09 PM
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It’s true, if I don’t block her I’ll just be suffering looking at her pictures. Also what you said bout comparing her beauty to mine is so true, I hadn’t looked at it that way. Thank you so much! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:00 PM
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Ok I need some advice please :( I’ve started to date a guy who so far hasn’t shown any LVM traits, everything is going fine, but I think I found his ex’s Instagram and she’s so beautiful. I have a more alternative style (piercings, tattoos, dark clothing) while she’s conventionally pretty (blonde hair, trendy clothes, pictures at the beach). I can’t help but feel insecure because I can tell that’s the type of girls he usually goes for, and I know I’m pretty too and he’s very into me but I just c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:06 AM
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I can relate so much to this. I was also the subject of so many disrespectful comments made by my “friends” in high school, back when I didn’t respect myself enough. Somewhere along my journey I realized part of respecting and loving myself was forgiving my past self for that, so please be kind to yourself and forgive your younger self for that, remember most of us have been conditioned to take so much shit from men, what’s important is that you know better now and you hold yourself to a higher …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:10 AM
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Non-playable character. It’s basically video game lingo for people (men in this case) who are boring and repeat the same overly used jokes just like those characters who only say one or two lines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:52 PM
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I hate memes like this because they only shame women who have bum ass baby daddies but not the man for, you know, being a bum instead of stepping up for his child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:29 PM
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Ooof this used to be me when I thought CHD was the most enlightened podcast I’d ever heard and hooked up with random guys who gave me a crumb of validation 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:25 PM
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Same thing that happened with “simp” it’s a word that’s been around for many years before the general population hopped on the trend of callling every man who shows basic respect for a woman a simp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:24 PM
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I was one of these girls. Basically I felt superior because I was dating someone way older, who would give me all their money in exchange for a little bit of attention and a little sex. Also I had low self esteem and since it’s extremely easy to get their attention I felt validated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:06 PM
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Another day, another man who blames women for men’s actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:59 AM
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My experience has been the opposite. I had a female obgyn do my first Pap smear and it was incredibly painful. I’ll never forget it as I was 18 and didn’t know what was normal in a Pap smear. I had another one done by a male obgyn and it was completely different, no pain whatsoever. He also referred me to a dermatologist instead of ignoring me like the female doctor did when I told him about my acne and how I thought it was related to my birth control. I understand everyone’s experience is diffe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:08 PM
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Good. We need to keep supporting with our money companies who take action instead of turning a blind eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:49 PM
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I’ve listened to a lot of podcasts and I cannot remember a single male host talking about going to therapy, but most female hosts I’ve listened to talk about going to therapy to become better people and stop hurting those around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:11 AM
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I know, me too. Like why would you do this to someone you love? She looks so sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:35 AM
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There is a trend on Tik Tok where girls dance and shake their ass or show off their body to this song. Nothing wrong with that, but the guy that posted the video wanted to get her reaction from him pretending to look at other girls and judging from her face she seems pretty sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:05 AM
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I’m just honest and say I don’t have a type, because I really don’t. The only things that are non negotiable for me are basic respect which they should already be doing without me telling them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:15 PM
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Notice how those are all harmless things?(Except maybe the self diagnosing but then again how would they know she’s not diagnosed?) I’ll never be surprised by how misogynistic popular subreddits are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:51 PM
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The Mexican flag on her name tells me everything I need to know. It’s ingrained in our culture to put up with this kinda bullshit, but I’m glad the feminist movement has been calling it out. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:52 PM
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“My boyfriend got mad and yelled at me because I wore my hair different” Yup, definitely the rational, less emotional and smarter gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:41 PM
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It’s not that they don’t notice it, they just don’t care about our feelings, LVM just wanna have no consequences to their lack of emotional maturity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:55 PM
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I mean, we’ve been knowing he’s a piece of shit since his first bm called him out on it like 2 yrs ago. Idk what the second girl was thinking when she decided to be with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:31 PM
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I’m horrified by this story. Men are so entitled to women’s bodies they’re willing to let us die to satisfy their “needs”. I really hope she’s not with him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:49 PM
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Women literally end up being murdered. Here in Mexico there’s been dozens of cases of women being brutally murdered for leaving their abusive partners, being pregnant, wanting to be serious with a man or just for rejecting them. And they still have the audacity to say “wOmEn ArE CRAzY”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:03 PM
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It’s not fair for either one to fall in love with someone’s potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:12 PM
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Lol I know now, I’ve realized how evil and depraved men can be, to the point where he still thinks he’s the victim bc I dumped him. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:16 PM
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You definitely dodged a bullet there. And I hope the woman with the guy that wants her to move dumps his ass for being so entitled to her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:15 PM
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I made that mistake a year ago and it’s one of my biggest regrets. He promised me so many things like paying for my school, a car and an apartment, and when I got there I got nothing. And my family and friends were thousands of miles away so I had no support network. I was alone and getting outta there was hard and humiliating to go back to live at home but I’m so glad I got outta there, I was miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:28 AM
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They fucking wish 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:53 PM
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And she looks hella young. It makes me so sad to think girls right now are being groomed into thinking men treating you like that during sex is okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:51 PM
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THIS. I think this is the essence of FDS. Putting yourself above anyone and everyone, always knowing we’re the prize and if we somehow end up single, we’re gonna be more than okay because our life is fulfilling by itself and men are only worth it if they prove themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:17 AM
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Yup, just like Cardi B’s LVM husband Offset, who is trying to win her back after cheating with a Bentley.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:00 AM
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I always laugh whenever men say they’re “waking up” and “they’re not simps anymore” like I used to think it was being normalized not treating women like human beings, until I realized they just say that to appeal to other men. I’m not saying that’s not wrong in itself, but I’ve witnessed a few men who say that online and share memes about not being simps, but in person they’re in happy committed relationships, buying their girlfriends a new phone, paying for their doctors appointments, hair, nai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:43 PM
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I don’t see what’s wrong with wanting to be taken care of financially, to each their own. Besides, if the roles were reversed and it was us taking care of men most of them would agree to that if it was more socially acceptable. Yeah it’s nothing to be proud of but it’s also nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:15 AM
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I have a male obgyn and he’s been so nice, professional, always making sure I’m comfortable, that nothing hurts, has never shamed me for anything, I always recommend him to my girlfriends. Im not sure I understand your question, from that Im seeing in the comments it’s about feeling like male doctors don’t listen to you and have bad intentions, I’ve personally never felt like that with a male doctor but you do whatever makes you feel comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:47 PM
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I’m so happy to see this mentality. Sometimes I see women that are willing to put other women down just for some male validation and it just makes me sad. Like, what makes you think you won’t be the butt end of the joke one day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:46 PM
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Go to therapy. Usually after a relationship with a person like that your self esteem takes a pretty big hit. I used to cry at night about this, wondering what she had and I didn’t that made him treat me like shit and her like a queen. Trust me, it has nothing to do with you at all, even if it seems like it. Stop obsessing over what happened, do some volunteering, get a hobby, do things that occupy your mind but most importantly heal yourself from the inside. It’ll help you a lot to talk about th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:56 PM
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That is so true. HVM see it as an investment, because they know our time is just as valuable if not more in this case. We have way more options, they statistically live more when they’re in a relationship, we bring emotional support, we spend way more money on looking good for a date, some of us pay for our own transportation for safety and they still expect us to pay for the date? No sir. Just like someone else said “Couldn’t be me but you do you”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:38 PM
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If that man is “better” than most of her past relationships I feel so bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:18 PM
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This is so damn lame, like if I was living like this I wouldn’t even post it, for what? To get sympathy from strangers? Nah sis if you already made up your mind about living like that just take the L and go, no one needs to know you have a manchild for a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:42 PM
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That’s why after the breakup I immediately blocked my ex. I caught myself wanting to do things just so that he sees how good I’m doing without him, and in case he got someone else I didn’t even wanna see it. My mental health is great now bc of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:01 PM
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Thanks for giving me another sub to lurk lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:12 PM
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Also, mandatory 50/50 relationship (lets be honest, more like 70/30 if you take into account emotional labor) otherwise you’re just taking advantage of men LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 10:08 PM
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Honestly idk if this is only a Mexican thing, but women are almost always in the kitchen trying to make the perfect dishes for their husbands, because we’re always compared to the mother in law in that aspect. Trying and trying so many times to get it perfect, so this is not very uncommon in women, that’s why seeing it in men doesn’t really scream HV to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:19 PM
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You should block them both, it’s not good for your mental health. Also you said it first, you don’t know what might be happening beyond those posts, I used to be depressed bc my ex seemed happier with his new girl, taking her out on nice dates and posting her all over his socials. Then I found out she pays for most of the dates, and does most of the house cleaning herself (she brags about those two things all the time on her ig) So I realized guys don’t really change, and if they do is either th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:30 PM
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STEM, especially the tech part. My brother is a mechatronic engineer and he’s pulled a lot of bs on his gfs. His friends are the same if not worse, and they’re all engineers, programmers, etc. I also dated a few guys in stem and most of them believe in the red pill or something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:36 PM
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“Breaking up is not an option” girl you already know what you have to do. He doesn’t wanna change because he is a selfish asshole. So either you break up with him or you get used to dry ass sex. I swear this pickmes are always bending over backwards to please men who won’t even bother to get a pussy wet. And she even gave him kids!!!! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:43 PM
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It honestly sound like she has low self esteem. Apologizing, self doubt, praising the other person for the bare minimum. I think she should work on her self esteem before even being in a relationship, because a lack of self worth makes us attractive to lvm, who are selfish lovers and make us feel insecure and needy for basic things like wanting affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:42 PM
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And this is why I refuse to feel bad for wanting men to spoil me. If I’m gonna be judged it might as well be in a sports car that I didn’t pay for 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 08:52 PM
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I really wish I knew this before my high school teacher groomed me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:12 AM
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My situation was way worse bc we weren’t even married, I was just a girlfriend. I thought it was so cool that he was gonna get us an apartment in his city and he promised me a car and to put me through school. LIES, ALL OF THEM. We lived with his parents most of the time we were together, and his family was crazy controlling. They assumed I was illegal and only got with him for a visa, tried to make me Christian, tried to convince me to get my tattoos removed or covered all the time, and when I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:48 PM
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I have an aunt exactly like that. All she wanted was to be a SAHM and cook and take care of kids all day but her fear of “getting too old” made her settle down for a man who I’ve never seen work a day in his life, doesn’t even do anything around the house, smokes, drinks, made her go deep in debt, and my cousin is an annoying brat bc she spends most of her day with him and he taught her to be like that. So now she feels stuck and whenever my mom tries to help her she pushes her away even more an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:40 PM
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Honestly I’m not even sure Megan dated Tory, I know of so many lvm who will do anything to control a woman they like, even hurt her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:30 PM
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