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16

You said it yourself, there's a reason it didn't work out with the wife and he even avoided the question when asked. Also, no empathy? Girl, never settle for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:29 PM
61

Shit, I FEEL this. I started a new job the day after my ex left, and while I had no time to deal with that traumatic relationship, I was already dealing with another toxic dude, MY NEW BOSS. Unfortunately for me, there were no higher ups as he's the literal owner. Fast forward 2 years and I'm finally over grieving for that toxic ex although I still haven't dealt with the trauma (just starting therapy now, COVID really screwed with the wait times) and I'm going back to school in October! No more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:05 PM
185

I've been wanting to post here about this as a recovering victim and my God was that video haunting. I cried with her, for so many reasons. All I could see was an abused woman and her abuser. Rest well Gabby 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:35 AM
14

Oh girl, dealing with this dude for the last 5 years has been less than stellar. We're as civil as we have to be, of course, but it's been a long road. I think it's so funny this was posted, just because the last time he was on his shit was this past Wednesday. Legally only have to deal with him for 8 more years, and I'm definitely counting lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:02 AM
25

Dealing with this bullshit right now with my daughter's no value father. She's turning 10 in a few weeks, he threw us out when she was 5 (in the middle of the night - she was allowed to stay but I wasn't, he also punched my Dad in the face and threw him down stairs that night) and he's never once paid child support. He thinks he doesn't have to, he thinks it's 50/50 and that if anything, I OWE HIM! Dude is delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:27 PM
12

Body count. A fucking body count. That is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:49 AM
3

No problem. The Family Upstairs got me hooked, I'll probably read it again lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:23 PM
2

Hopefully by the time she's old enough for it, it'll be a forgotten fad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:23 PM
39

My 9 year old wants tik tok. I blocked it on her tablet. She got mad because everyone else has it. Of course that's a terrible reason but I don't trust that shit and she's only 9. I don't even have one so she will be just fine without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:48 AM
13

Like, actually Goodbye Earl the fucking creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:42 AM
13

Read any book by Lisa Jewell. She writes twisty mysteries or psychological thrillers (which is the boring name I think lol). You won't want to put them down! Sorry, don't read romance and never have. But I think you might like Lisa's books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:33 AM
0

Lmao that's not what FDS is about.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/21 10:21 AM
25

So they're in an agreement and not a relationship. That's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:58 AM
2

I was just talking about this with my colleague. Her mom did everything for her dad and now her mom has severe dementia and her dad has to pick up the slack after 50 years of doing nothing. She says all he does is complain and demand from her now and she's pissed because he's not even grateful, he just expects to be waited on hand and foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:23 AM
60

The fact that she has to ask if she's the asshole when her husband seems to always be an asshole is sad. She took a stand for herself and now has second thoughts and has to ask reddit. Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:51 PM
6

I can attest to this. He didn't marry me and left me out to dry and I'm still trying to recover. I will never play house or be Barb the Builder again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 12:55 PM
17

Ahahaha this is definitely a type and my ex is one of them. Eyebrow raised in every pic with this weird smirk (although he can't actually smile because his teeth are falling out), likes 90% of what you just said. He ended up being a covert narcissist who even joked about how he thinks he's a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:27 PM
195

Damn that's an angry neckbeard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 10:11 AM
7

Lol I don't try to comprehend the minds of morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:25 PM
2

Right. It's also bizarre to me to be with someone and be looking for someone else on the side. Why the fuck be with that person just to fucking hurt them in the end? Makes no sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:20 PM
5

Yeah. Coltee is just as disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:18 PM
14

Shit my ex wouldn't even admit it and instead tried to jump out our bedroom window 🤣🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:17 PM
2

LMAO this is my ex ahahahahah I'm dead 🤣🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 02:05 AM
100

Oh God. This was probably my loser ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:34 PM
2

Lol. I had 2 long term relationships since I was 17. I'm 31 now and I'm single so I guess being young made no difference. Every damn day that goes by I get more comfortable with single life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:08 PM
64

Lmaoooo what he said about all his exes and I'm sure what he says about me now 🙃🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 01:42 AM
3

Right? And how the fuck they get away with it is unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:33 PM
24

This is great and so true. I always thought I got butterflies but no, I realize it was my anxiety and my intuition screaming at me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:58 PM
69

This is all kinds of disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:12 PM
23

Do NOT focus on guys at your age. Don't. Please focus on your education and becoming successful on your own. You aren't wasting anything. I had no one to guide me when I was younger and now in my 30s I am picking up all the pieces of my earlier life and it isn't easy. If I could change so many things about my past, I would, but I can't so I'm trying to focus on becoming a better me. That's something I should have done when I was younger. You will be just fine love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:39 PM
9

When my daughter's father and I broke up I took back the phone he was using because it was mine. He tried to smash it but it had an otterbox so it didn't break. When I went through it I found he was messaging the woman that is his current girlfriend (hence why he probably tried to smash the phone). At this point, I don't think there's a fucking guy in this world I would ever trust again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:49 PM
3

I totally agree but some don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:44 PM
19

Oh and I never snooped. I'm not that type of person. I asked him to show me the first and only time, almost 3 years in, and that was his reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:44 PM
19

This is true. I never saw my ex without his beard but I saw pics and consciously knew I wouldn't be attracted to him without it. He used his beard as a tool and he thought literally just that would attract women. He was a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:20 PM
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The phone ended my last relationship. He was hiding so much shit that he tried to jump out a window instead of showing me. I still don't know what it was and I never will but I'm not stupid lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:11 PM
1

Lol this is hilarious! My ex has a beard and although I never saw him clean shaven I did see pictures and I specifically told him never to shave his beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:02 PM
11

Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:58 PM
27

Yeah I quite enjoy my organs so I'm going to take a hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:20 AM
54

It's not even 9am and I'm sick of my reddit home page. I like memes. I don't give a shit about international men's day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 01:55 PM
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This is my exact routine so I don't think you're an outlier lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:49 AM
2

And the ones in the 5% don't even care where they are because they're too busy being HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:40 PM
3

I have no friends anymore because they're all in shit relationships or I pushed them away when I was with my ex. So, I wish I could relate. I miss having friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:46 PM
308

I'd rather my stretch marks than that fucking mug. Woof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 12:15 PM
14

This kills me. Every fucking day I see more and more all the shit I did for him and all the shit he never did for me. I wish I found this sub sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 01:51 PM
5

My ex would go whole weekends without showering and get mad when I asked about it lol he was gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:09 PM
30

Took me a long time to realize this even though I consciously knew it. Still struggling some days but most days are good now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:04 PM
112

Right. Look at his gangly ass knees. Men are uglyyyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:35 PM
17

Exactly this. I may want to date again in the future, but I'm taking the time to better myself and level up as a woman before I even think of attempting that, and that's what FDS is for me. A safe space where I can learn more about myself with empowered women, something I've never had in my life. FDS isn't just a dating strategy, it's a life strategy in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:08 PM
5

She has a gun tattooed on her neck so I think this is pretty on brand for this type of pick me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:03 PM
13

You're not wrong. I joined that sub thinking maybe there'd be some single moms I could relate to. Nope. Just miserable women everywhere. I left so fast, the negativity radiates from that sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:49 PM
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Haha that place is fucking horrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:04 PM
173

I'm gonna guess breaking mom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:53 AM
6

I got out of a decade long relationship at 27 and I ended up with my super low value loser ex. I WISH I stayed single and tried to figure my life out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:50 PM
6

This was me. I've been working hard on getting myself back. Some days are harder than others and it's taken time, and it will take more time, but I'm getting there. You are not alone sisters 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:43 PM
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LMAO YOU GOT ME!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:58 PM
9

Right? I'm so lost. What's the point she's trying to get across here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:11 PM
11

Some do, most don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:05 PM
6

Lol I mean we maybe did. He used to get mad at me for not answering a video call at the exact time he wanted. So many red flags and I just ignored them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:01 PM
3

Lmao my ex's bio on tinder is so stupid and ridiculous. "You can ask me literally anything and I will answer" Oh really? I seem to recall a whole ass breakup due to me getting sick and you hiding shit then me asking you about said shady shit. I guess it's easier to lie about menial shit with random girls than tell the truth with the woman you "wanted to marry". I sound resentful, because I am. I'm working through it but I am so happy I dodged that bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:23 PM
43

Oh God this was my whole relationship with my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:11 PM
68

Every single day I grow more and more okay with being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:36 PM
12

Sounds exactly like my loser ex, while on tinder the whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 06:03 AM
3

My ex was an "all my exes are crazy" type of dude. Wish I saw that huge red flag as it slapped me in the face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:28 AM
17

Exact same situation here. Anyone wants to start a group or something, I'm totally down lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:59 AM
19

And of course the comments are all agreeing with her shitty husband. They clearly have very different views on sex and she doesn't even enjoy it. Some people are just like that. They're never going to be compatible in bed but of course she's the one who has to change and not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:53 AM
15

When my ex was trying to come back recently he kept using the whole "I want to marry you, I asked your dad if I could" and I'm just like okay? But you didn't when you had the chance. Easier to say than do of course, and he also likes to tell me how he went to jewelry stores with his mom and I kept thinking "but I didn't want anything from a jewelry store, I showed you what I wanted" and after reading this I'm glad I dodged that bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:45 AM
3

Thank you so much 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:54 PM
202

Oh wow I am bawling. I think about when I got sick and how my ex just left when I needed him. He caused so much bullshit and all I was doing was trying to recover. He made it worse. I'm still recovering, now from the trauma he caused on top of my illness. She is so fucking lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:53 PM
13

I hate snapchat. Always have. Seems I'm the only one I know without it. I think its ridiculous for a grown ass man in his 30s to ask for my fucking snapchat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:53 PM
2

So I've read more into this and I still think you should tell her. Women have to look out for women regardless. It's the only way we move forward. Who cares what will happen, it's not going to affect your life and she should know, if she doesn't already, that she's dating a piece of shit. What she chooses to do with the information is up to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:45 PM
2

I would do it, as someone has done it for me and personally I was so fucking grateful to her. She deserves to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:37 PM
70

Nope. And she married the wrong dude. That sucks. Im never getting married lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:50 AM
11

Ladies. My whole city is a fucking poor neighborhood lol. Everyone around hates my city because of how industrial it is. I live in a beautiful neighborhood but right down the street there is a giant steel mill. I guess I'm screwed, but I'm alright with it haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:26 PM
21

He literally runs himself in a circle with that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:29 PM
13

The rest said abuse and other obvious red flags for PEOPLE not to date PEOPLE, but it's all directed towards just women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:27 PM
36

I'm 31 and you would never know. This guy looks old enough to be my Father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:20 AM
6

What a fucking loon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:13 PM
11

I'm having a hard time with this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:45 AM
44

Lmao I hate seafood. Loser ex loved it. He never cooked. I never made seafood. He would complain. I would say "you can make your own food any time you want". He never made his own food and still constantly complained about not having seafood. Not my problem and I never cared lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:58 PM
2

Currently where I'm at. It's a good thing to realize this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:30 PM
2

Can confirm. I fell ill last year and took a month off work to recover. He left in the first week and made it all so much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:10 PM
2

Also Bergy has baby blues too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:47 AM
2

Okay so it very well may be but holy the resemblance lol. I'm not too familiar with Jude. More with Bergy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:46 AM
14

No doubt. He makes terrible decisions at work so it's probably true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:37 PM
33

I am fucking dying at the pic of Marc Bergevin's receding hairline (GM of Montreal Canadiens ) on the bottom left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:35 PM
11

Right lol it's so fucking STUPID.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:55 PM
23

I never went through my ex's phone. Not once. We had the same passwords for a while so I never felt the need, and I trusted him, we lived together. Eventually, he started acting shady about his phone, and one night I asked to read an article he was showing me on his phone and although he let me, he hovered behind my back and snatched the phone back before I could even finish the article. I asked why. No answer I asked to see his phone, he said no, had the deer in headlights look. When I pressed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:36 AM
11

And what the fuck do I get out of it? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:54 AM
18

I flew to meet my ex. 4 years ago today. Keyword: ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:51 AM
2

Well. Being in FDS for a bit now, as soon as I read this I was like wtf? I didn't listen to anyone's opinions of my ex, and now I'm single, financially fucked and feeling real shitty today on what would've been our anniversary. I really wish I did listen, because recovery from this shit is HARD. Plus, dogs know. So do cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:45 AM
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Its been a bit over a year since my insecure narc ex left, and what would have been our anniversary is tomorrow, so I'm feeling heavy. This is all him to a tee. I needed to read this because some days are fucking hard when you're recovering from this type of person. I don't even know what was real, and I'm truly jaded. Doesn't help that all my friends are well into their lives, marriages, kids. Thats what I was doing too. Now I'm not, they are, and I'm learning how to navigate life as a single m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:15 PM
41

My heart. This poor woman. I can't even imagine. They know how to rip life as we know it right out from under us, don't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:55 AM
3

Someone has reported my comment now because I said he had a tiny dick ahahha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:51 AM
21

She can totally handle it better but those 2 ganging up on her. The dad sounds like a fucking 12 year old and he's belittling her body, telling her to "get some lift.. you're 45 just.. get some lift", all while his dick is probably tiny and broken because he sounds like he watches a lot of porn. This whole dynamic is toxic. Let the boys be loser and you walk away, then they won'tbe living off your shit. Let the kid collect his CERB and completely fuck himself over at tax time, because all us Can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:47 AM
3

Are we the same person? Lol I still get these too and they're deleted instantly. He left me when I got really sick and I spent the better part of a year letting him come and go as he pleased. I've put a stop to it on my end but he's realized what he's lost and that the grass wasn't greener. Sucks to suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:00 PM
46

He raped her. Plain and simple. This is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:44 AM
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Thank you so much, I'm actually crying from that. I have not much support in life so even just a stranger on reddit is enough to make me cry lol. I've been struggling the past few months but yes, I've been out of the relationship, went NC. Moved into a perfect little house for my daughter and I. Things are on the upswing I just get real depressed about the money. Thank you for your words, you honestly don't know how much I needed to read them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:42 AM
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I played house. I am financially fucked because of it. I can't get ahead. I wish I wasn't so fucking stupid. Thankfully, buying a house wasn't part of it or I'd be even worse off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:19 AM
5

Oh oh. And my password is STILL the same one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:36 PM
6

Almost. He had soulless eyes too. Thought he was hot shit cause he has a beard and a decent sized dick. Literally thought he was the Universe's gift to women. We broke up because for the first time in almost a 4 year relationship I asked to see his phone because shit had changed and he was acting real weird. I was reading something on his phone and he hovered then basically grabbed it out of my hand. Asked him to see it and he said no. I was instantly like you're cheating, claims he's not but st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:35 PM
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My ex was gross. He didn't really care for basic hygiene. I mean he showered but not until hours after working and sweating in a steel mill, then sitting in his gross sweaty boxers on my couches. He would constantly fart around me then laugh like a child, but he has GI issues he refused to get taken care of so they smelled horrible. I had to ask him to go to another room and of course he threw a fit. When he was growing up he didn't take care of his teeth, so they're literally crumbling out of h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:43 AM
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Holy shit this enrages me. Why would giving her son away be an option? This woman needs some serious help and she probably should let the boy live with his dad to get that help and step up her fucking Mom game. My daughter goes to her dads every other weekend and I'm fucking lost without her. Reading shit like this pisses me off, here's this woman worried about some dick, meanwhile I'm working my ass off to get back on my feet financially after my LVM narc ex left. Worry about you and your son w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:32 AM
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Lmao the robbers have no morals but they clearly have good enough common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:42 PM
3

Right. And it's definitely innocent because it's his first time. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:15 PM
3

My kids come first, but they come 27th in my Tinder bio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:02 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:12 PM
2

I just made a post about you! Thank you for sharing this song, it has been my anthem since I saw your post!! Thank you thank you THANK YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:12 PM
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I heard of her from a post on here. And I'm forever grateful. Was it you?! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:11 PM
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Not sure, just look up that song on YouTube. You won't regret it. I drive down the street with it just blaring out of my car screaming YOU MESSED UP lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:10 PM
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I love this !!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:47 AM
2

One of my all time faves. I wore that tape out as a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:41 AM
7

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:36 AM
8

This is beautiful. I'm 31 and have been feeling this dread, so it's refreshing to read your take. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:34 AM
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Bookmarking this for when needed. Thank you! I'll be new to OLD so I'm going in HV from the get!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:31 AM
7

This was me until FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:17 PM
15

Girl I blocked, deleted and made the emails go to junk. This motherfucker gets a text app and texts me asking to be friends after he completely fucked me over lol. Gotta admit, before I found FDS I was a total pick me and super LV. I'm learning my worth and how badass I actually am. To be fair, the ex wasn't slim dick whatsoever, that's about all I really miss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:16 PM
3

I would upvote this 1000 times if I could
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:18 PM
14

What the absolute actual fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:59 PM
4

What about dudes topless in general? Nips are nips regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:44 PM
12

Girl, I am in Ontario, Canada and it is totally LEGAL to walk around topless here. If I had the confidence, you bet your fucking ass I would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:44 PM
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Oh jesus. I guess I'm naive to that shit, my last 2 exes were long term and they didn't give a shit about that type of stuff. So the fact a dude exists that actually INSISTS on matching fucking under garments is gross to me. Actually, they didn't give much of a shit at all hence why I'm single now, but that's another story for another time lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:43 PM
7

Right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:40 PM
20

Girl, preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:39 PM
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Also, I'm flabbergasted that he's so "self-aware" but still thought it wise to post this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:26 PM
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Totally agree, and it was most definitely her I bet. I'm more so baffled at the long winded post about a bra/nipples UNDER CLOTHES lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:24 PM
9

Beat me to it! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:50 PM
5

In any other situation where they're not partners? Loads of people have sex without a label attached to what they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:56 AM
3

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:55 AM
2

Just based off your title, no. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:55 AM
11

All of this is just totally fucked up. This boy needs help. He watched hentai and couldn't separate that shit from reality? Uuf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:45 AM
20

I'm wondering how he's made it through life so far being that fucking stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:35 AM
22

Looks exactly like my ex! Can confirm: way overpriced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:27 AM
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I find it disgusting how she has to justify that she never turns him down or that he's not deprived. Gross. No woman should ever fucking feel guilty about saying no to sex, especially if it's with their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:07 AM
3

Sending love 💜🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:29 PM
13

You got this! You definitely have to feel everything to let it go, LVM or not it can still suck. We're all here for you! I found this sub at a time when I really needed it and it has completely changed my whole outlook. You'll be okay and you will get there! 💜🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:27 PM
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I used to always have yo ask my LVM Narc ex why he ever smiled when he saw me. It could be after a few hours, days or whatever, the dude never smiled when he saw me. There was also zero emotion when he picked up my calls. Flat, monotone "Hi". Now that I'm here and I've been reading the handbook, I get it. I shouldn't have to fucking wonder why someone who claims to love me more than anything doesn't even smile when he sees me after work. Now that I know he's a Narcissist though, I probably wasn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:50 AM
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He definitely had something to do with it for sure. I wanted to kick that old man right in the fucking mouth. That episode had me livid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:42 AM
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Lol. Girl, my narcissist ass ex said this to me every time he ghosted me and came back, for the better course of a year. "I didn't intend to stop talking to you, I don't know why I got like that." Fuck was I ever naive. He said this when he emailed me a few weeks ago trying to test the waters, and I told him to beat it. It's a pure deflection so he doesn't have to actually deal with the issue at hand. Pretty big red flag, in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:02 AM
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I'm new here! I've started the handbook and this is an eye opener. I'm so grateful for this place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:37 AM
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Are you talking to my ex? I wouldn't be surprised lol. That's his exact line when I said he needed therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:59 AM
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My ex asked my dad if he could ask me to marry him and my dad said yes. That was pretty early on I guess, and he never asked. He just ran the first time shitngot rough. Dodged that bullet, but if he didn't want to marry me why did he even ask for my dad's permission?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:55 AM
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I'm new to this sub but holy shit am I ever glad I found it. Ladies. My ex is a LVM from what I'm learning and his life will be #2. We got together and had nothing, built up a whole life and shit, almost had a baby (I miscarried in 2018), I fucking built that loser up all the while I was fucking losing myself. He's 31. He's balding with untreated psoriasis on his scalp so when he loses his hair his scalp will be red and scaly (I found him a doctor, all he had to do was call and make an appointme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:48 AM
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Lol I received a similar email this past Sunday. They're really all the same eh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:06 AM
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