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I 100% agree mothers should have the same name as their kids. Too many people have a child unmarried and put the kid in the fathers name, and it grosses me TF out. What has he provided for that honour... What has he sacrificed for the care of that child... What has his body been through to have that child.... What has he done to prove he will always be around for that child... There actually used to be procedure in hospitals (at least in the uk) around 40ish years ago (and some of it still linge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:09 AM
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Completely, I know some sound and level people who also play but it's for the social aspect of it more than the game directly. It's popular among some military squadrons too as way to pass time during down time. From my experience of the game there are outliers to the standard audience it attracts, but the wider majority are neckbeards with poor hygiene and 0 social skills. I agree with you too definitely not a game you want to play in Labour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:35 PM
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I think it's Magic The Gathering - a turn based card game which costs a fortune in collectable cards with varying rarity statuses. Meaning you have to buy more booster packs or trade/buy the rare ones you want. There are international and world tournaments for this kind of game. It attracts a particular trope of man as it's main audience. There are some people who play that aren't the typical target audience but they are on the minority side by comparison. some images to show MTG for context
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:31 AM
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I have appointments with employment services to help me find a path to a new career. I'm hoping I can find something in coaching/teaching that I can afford to take and balance my incoming with my outgoings while I potentially look at a course. I am also working on my journal that I want to use for the next year to get myself organised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:04 AM
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Just relaxed my shoulders! Thank you. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 09:54 AM
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Not only would have have to address his own insecurities and flaws as a person and therefore take accountability for his actions.. but - Is it also because he can continue to objectify and pron-ify hot tall model types because if he actually tried to date them he would have to accept that those women are people.. not just a fetish. Hmm, I wonder 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:02 PM
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This lecture is phenomenal, I watched it when I was learning about porn addiction and it brought me so many words to the thoughts I had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:13 PM
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Those other things this queen can provide for herself anyway. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:40 AM
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There is a website that provides men with a fake STD test that shows all clear for the low price of $25 it's entirely illegal and shows the depravity scrotes have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:36 AM
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this balm is my go to. for when I need a quick 4/10 that and a wand and I can orgasm in about a minute I usually feel more horny after and then get a better orgasm from a blend of external clit stimulation and internal massage, any firm/medium firm dildo will do - it's more about feeling full as my body contracts for orgasm and that will get me a solid 7-8/10 I'm still learning my body, but the first time I used my wand I needed a towel. It was after a period where my brain was constantly sabota…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:28 AM
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Was it not a rule or common expectation that the engagement ring should cost 3 months salary? 113÷12= 9.4166666667 ×3= 28.2500000001 She even rounded down! It's not unfair to expect that form of commitment from a potential spouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:10 PM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:38 PM
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The tick tick posts had SOME great content but it required me to download the app to even feel like I could engage with the community. Going back to this form of communication is stellar. In an image based world it's those who are text literate who have more critical thinking and evaluating skills (from my personal experience).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:16 PM
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Also read : I will ignore your boundaries and make you feel like shit for having them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:07 PM
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I seriously had to go back and look through for it. I genuinely assumed it was a type format that the App or Web page had as a default but that wouldn't make sense to only have it in some not all areas of the field fill text box's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:07 PM
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Big time the "I no longer have pets" my brain rings that bell WHY is it because mummy and daddy actually cared for the family pet you nagged for and lived with but didn't look after? is it that you've been done for animal abuse? that you're not responsible enough to care for another living thing? is it some sick way of you saying you want to do pet play and push beastiality fantasies? Followed by "dog tied up" WHY specify tied up? Do dogs not exist off lead in his world? is this an ownership pow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:02 PM
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It's still under review as an addictive behaviour closest linked to gaming and gambling. Both gaming and gambling have had research into the areas of the brain that are stimulated - with Gambling It's the same parts of the brain associated with hard drugs. It can be compared to other substance abuse - but it could be tackled easier because it's believed to be behaviour based. I agree with everything else you shared though. This new drug is in everyone's pockets and has been invading children's m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:49 PM
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I once found out a friend of a friend from the same social circle truly believes that all women are hypergamous. As you could imagine that same guy is now a super fan of Joe Rogan and is giving out relationship advice to people while he is single and has been for nearly 4 years. I don't ever see that man getting into another relationship. The way he treated his ex was disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:51 PM
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knew he sucked but still refused therapy. If you know you're a fuckup and have a track record of burned bridges, NOT working on yourself is just irresponsible. I wrote this in my journal today. May it be a permanent reminder for me to always see the qualities of LVM for what they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 09:48 AM
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I do have my own account and it moves out by transfer so I think I got the wrong end of the stick when talking about shared finance. Because I do the admin and banking (surprise) the bills are all in my name. That is more what I was getting at. Konmari is on my plan, I rarely have the energy for it hence my commitment to my body first. I've been wanting to downscale my life for a while. The lease has another 9 months. I live in an expensive area so I need more time to build up a deposit and firs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:44 PM
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I think you're right. I know it's impossible and the sunk cost fallacy has me in a choke hold. Finances? Too late - pickme of the past was already doing wife shit. We don't own property together (though he would choose property over marriage first and I refuse. I'm stupid but I'm not that dumb at least) I am proud to say that the financial co dependency is being stripped back bit by bit. -I- am the one who runs admin and I have the contracts for the bills in a position where it won't cost to can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:56 PM
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You're not being mean at all, I know it and I need to hear it more tbh. I'm still working on me. I've read the handbook but I've got a lot of things I'm holding myself back in. I am a work in progress for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:08 AM
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FML , FM gently with a chainsaw! It's this!! THIS IS THE MF TEA! My boyfriend said this early last year and I immediately told him no. The dumbass REALLY believes it's to protect our individual assets.. of which HE HAS NONE. I would want a prenup tO pRoTeCt yOu bAbE. I on the other hand earn less money than him, have saved enough money that I have half of a month's rent/bills to lean on in an accessible account (I'm working on getting that to a full month), the same again in a help to buy accoun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:44 AM
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I agree but I also have to laugh. High School of the Dead is a "classic" the animators were purposefully taking the piss with that boob shot. Sadly, the audience didn't take the "joke".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:21 PM
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The way of the house husband is AMAZING!! I laughed so hard and was genuinely heartwarmed too! Not a manga but STRONGLY recommend SAGA : image comics, written by Brian K Vaughn. But stunningly illustrated by Fiona Staples. There are explicit elements to this comic but it is almost always to illustrate the distance in the depravity of a right and just or a wrong mind or about the lack of moderation. It's a space opera and has themes of slavery, war, racism, and the over arching plot is about a yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:52 PM
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Appleseed was a good one but still problematic in places (especially the revamp) Full Metal Alchemist is one I would encourage others to watch for the story - there is only one "big boobie" character in the whole show. The other women in it are beautifully done, disabled, brawny, talented, deadly and all of them real. I fully agree with everything you said too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:43 PM
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Worse still to know that some of the more "lifelike" hentai are drawn from genuine reference photographs. An illustrator will make more money on commissions for hentai than they will working for an animation company. (Animation companies treat their workers poorly in the Anime markets) but instead of stopping and sticking to their morals and ethics about not producing this content, period. Instead they "have to do it, or they starve" (some not all) and I think the issue there again is the sheer …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:36 PM
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I would hope that the shoe tap at the end was a good first hint but I AGREE, let us see the interior, let us see it's not just a mask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:47 PM
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I'm so relieved to read that you've already seen him for what he is. I may have misread the subcontext of your previous comment. I think my alarm bell went off and just wanted to warn you too 💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:25 PM
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Thank you, I wanted to check I wasn't missing something important. ❤ thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:21 PM
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What does & mean? EDIT, I types amp ; after the & but in my comment it shows as a space so I think I answered my own question and looked like an idiot for good measure 😅 Double Edit: I edited before I saw the response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:06 PM
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You don't need to entertain this man. He makes you uncomfortable and you do not need to endure his predatory behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:53 PM
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She was going for that when she asked for the trash bin on his phone too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:50 AM
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I'm so pleased to hear it. I took some time to read your other posts. There's some really great reading there. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:11 AM
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Makes sense, I wasn't coming for you. I was still waking up and could have been more eloquent for sure. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:46 AM
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Not even then, recognising your own power in being a problem solver and the level of self growth and exploration performed to learn at every opportunity is what brought you here. Even if it was googling a scrotes behavior as the motivations, we still pushed the keys and clicked search.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:05 AM
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Belle Delphine springs to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:29 AM
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I will never forget the last time I made a joke in the company of men. Scene: ex NVM bf had a brother who was Army and unfortunately died in an unrelated car accident. His family were invited guests at a parade held by army brother's squad ex bf asked me to attend with him as support (and as a trophy I think) so we attend. After parade we are invited in for coffee, the mother and father are talking about army brother to the commanding Sargent or whatever high rank and the conversation naturally …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:13 PM
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Howling 🛋 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:23 AM
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There is only 2 men in my entire life in their 50's who had great bodies. One was a Boxing coach who needed Viagra to get it up with me - a 20 year old toned and strong woman (also looking back I totally understand why he was such a vulture at the boxing club and why his previous partner had left him. Dude was clean and tidy in the home and in person but his head was A MESS) he got blocked a LONG LONG time ago. The other guy with a great body at 50 is still active in team sport an ally to women,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:17 AM
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"There's better things to twiddle when the men have sailed away" genuinely got a good laugh out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:10 PM
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I caught my partner in his sick porn problem and since September he hasn't masturbated apparently... his hairline is receding though, it wasn't before I found out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:13 PM
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Men can help it - they choose not to. Ultimately they want you to live in their garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:07 PM
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Exclusive thoughts and eyes, not just Exclusive genitals in the bedroom. The world is full of cheats and liars it's hard to find someone who believes in Exclusive eyes in a relationship. "Looking doesn't hurt anyone" is such a bulshit line - if men were happy and satisfied they wouldn't look elsewhere, they need to stop stringing someone along as an insurance piece because she is the one they have access to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 02:06 PM
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Good luck and God speed you beautiful genius!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:13 PM
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insert shocked pikachu meme I'm so glad I found this sub, it's cathartic and refreshing to be able to share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:10 AM
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For men who do so love "problem solving and solution giving" isn't it rich that this gap in communication is one they can't figure out? It's almost like they don't want to figure it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:32 PM
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That show actually looks enticing - I want to know what happens. And even more now because I KNOW she won't just "help the male protagonist get to wherever they're going"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:26 PM
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So many red flags, like... I know LVM do the bare minimum(badly) and herald all their hard work - but this takes the fucking cake. So many red flags, so many points of negligence from the sites administration - its almost like they don't actually care about the safety of females and minors as long as there's enough stimulation to get their porn sick lim dicks hard and it doesn't involve fecal matter or toddlers it gets uploaded. They allow voyeurism and that covers the whole umbrella of the term…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:01 PM
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I appreciate that, but don't feel that you need to. I found catharsis is sharing my experience and I will happily read and respond to whatever you might share in return. But don't feel that just because I made a big comment that you have to too. Good luck with your essays ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:12 PM
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This actually reminds me of an ex, who dumped me the night before we were due to move into his Mother's house (following the death/suicide of his father) we had packed up everything of our lives mixed up in boxes together, things I needed for Uni, clothes, high value electronics and valuables. He dumped me because I found and confronted him about pornography on his laptop, the page was left open and I was trying to use the laptop to buy some train tickets. The porn was a gut punch - we were havi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:08 PM
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Another book i love (and I will keep reccomending till the end of my days) is Women don't owe you pretty by Florence Given She talks about internalised misogyny which causes some women to attack others to get ahead (the pickmesha's) She talks about being whole in yourself before including someone else, they should be an addition of value not a leach. And she talks about "Desirability Politics" ie, the pretty privilege. (Almost Like how FDS would encourage us to take advantage of a male who gives…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:38 AM
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I have but it's always good to revisit it. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:27 AM
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Honestly at first I thought, what's wrong with that. Then I read that children can do better and youtube has tutorials and I remembered, if my partner who has significant painting/drawing skills produced this. Either something went horribly wrong and he had to adapt and we laugh about it or he doesn't care. And 99%of the time -They don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:47 PM
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I'll take it, it's cannon now :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:16 PM
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Because that's exactly what happens to porn sick penis' (peni? peniss?) ... Porn sick dongs. The scrote who watches and jacks off to too much porn only can then get off from the same conditioned friction/feeling. Which is sometimes called death grip. It causes Erectile Dysfunction and Delayed Ejaculation because the vagina can't produce the same sensations as their own hand strangling their member like an MMA fighter chokes out their opponent. So I can only presume that men are projecting their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:12 PM
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My partner did this yesterday and I was able to tell him to stop it. He's vowed to try and respect when I don't want to talk or I'm not ready yet. It comes from how he grew up and when there was something wrong with his mum there was absence of affection. So when I withdraw because I need time to figure out my thoughts and feelings He breaks down the wall to fix me and gets upset when he can't. It comes from a place of love but it's so harmful and I'm glad we were able to pin point it. I'm glad …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:37 PM
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I'm sorry this has happened to you so much that you feel the need to do this. But I applaud you for taking steps to verify your sanity. Even if it's just so you can give yourself permission to feel angry, sad, vindicated or whatever other emotion you need to process the event that caused you to write it down in the first place. I think I'm going to take a leaf out of your book and start doing the same thing, it might be less stressful for me when I do question realty vs being told how it happene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:00 PM
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It's honestly a pleasure, enjoy your day/night. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:25 PM
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I quite literally wouldn't be who I am without everything she's done for me and now I'm in a position to help her straighten her crown again. By practicing in this with way with my mum I have no excuse not to treat myself the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:44 PM
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My mum has had to go back on antidepressants and is seeing a therapist, she was beating herself up over it and I sent her flowers with a note to tell her she deserves a break from all the stress she's been under. After I ordered them I took a moment - "this is how I treat someone I love, what am I doing for me?" So I ordered some for me too. It's been an incredible week for me, the smell of the flowers has been such a nice way of stopping my thoughts from spiralling into aggressive self sabotage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:18 PM
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I ran today at 3pm, it was bright out and a busy public foot path and a scrote STILL slow cycled behind me too long for comfort and when he eventually over took (no other foot traffic preventing him from doing so at any point) he was still rubber necking to check out my tits as well. Never looked me in the eye because I'm not a human to men like that, just something to objectify. It doesn't matter the time of day or the location, the person (man) who would be an opportunistic sexual predator wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:26 PM
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Too real :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:27 PM
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I was going to share these! So pleased someone else beat me to it because it feels like an affirmation that I'm thinking in the right patterns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:38 PM
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I'd love to hear the full story too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:39 PM
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The Key missing with with Rule 34 is "if it exists" - there's porn of it. Two guys giving oral at the same time is as rare as rocking horse shit. Because porn isn't made to cater to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:11 PM
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Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:42 AM
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This is hard to read but I'm listening, im learning and I'm growing myself. I already have invested in my own sexuality, with OMGyes and i bought a magic wand this month and had the most satisfying orgasms I've had in months. Im going back to school next year too, for a career in nursing that I think is going to be fulfilling for me, I'm growing my financial independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:21 PM
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That's it in a nutshell for me too! I finally was like “you know what? Fine. I’ll be the bad guy if it means you actually respect my fucking boundaries.” That willingness to embrace the "villain" or "cold bitch" mode to demonstrate that NONE are allowed to cross your boundaries. It's so liberating because it's an exercise of self love and respect, the more you do it the easier it gets and you realise, you're more house witch with sage than the hansel and grettle child eating witch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:53 AM
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Another thing I needed to hear lately. I caught my partner out on a lie yesterday, he didn't make me feel like a villain but the me of 8 months ago would have been so submissive and would have immediately backed down and apologised at the first sign of resistance. The lie was about if he had masturbated while i was out, he says 4 times he didn't and even promised, "i can promise you I haven't" I've started to notice his behaviour of big talk and no follow through, all words no action. So I'm not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:39 AM
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My heart melted! Aww what a sweet Husband <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:38 PM
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I really needed to hear this today!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:44 PM
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I found FDS this year and ive told two women I love and trust that needed to hear about it. My work gal pal who has just gone back to school and my mum. My mum has always been a tiger, but she's also emotionally vulnerable all the time from her self confidence and self worth. She's exhausted: struggled out of debt my deadbeat dad left her with, been on her own with now 2 kids for 21 years, now has 3 kids the youngest(9) of which is adopted and she's having to constantly battle and fight for what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:32 PM
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I'm working hard to be the cat this year, ive got some whiskers now from the boundaries ive been setting with my mum and my brother, empowering my mum to set boundaries with other people and I'm slowly getting the hang of setting boundaries with strangers on the Internet. I just need more experience to really get down that hiss/glare and I'll be sorted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:14 PM
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That was the same thing that made me do the double take, nu-uh nothing gives him the right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:56 PM
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You are a super Sleuth Queen! I knew about the ages (but gave benefit of the doubt that there was a birthday recently, more fool me eh?) I didn't know there was an age gap or that they met online. All red flags. Poor lamb, hopefully she will learn from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:32 AM
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Yeah, can lead a horse to water ect. I just really don't get this putting other women down negging stuff. It seems so alien to me, and FDS has been nothing but a positive influence for me personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:24 AM
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I blocked the guy but I think he deleted his comments because I can't even see my own responses now. 😏 EDIT: my comments are there but jumbled under the wrong thread as I see them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:19 AM
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Just today I had someone say that FDS is "not good at all" and encourages women to prey on men with money... I'm still learning FDS ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:08 AM
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And they're everywhere too! Like how is it so hard to ask to be treated with respect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:04 AM
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I had such a dirty laugh with Bonus piggy snort at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:46 PM
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This made me actually chuckle <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:57 AM
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I watched Legally Blonde this year before I knew about FDS and I thought it was "just okay, good for her, that guy was always an ashole" I wonder if I re- watched it now I'd feel different and more inspired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:52 AM
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It's not an angle I had considered and you're on the money with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:48 AM
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How does society think it's acceptable for men to live this way? Wearing the same underwear for 4 days and clipping their fingernails and not cleaning up after themselves. Gives me serious rage so it does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:47 AM
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I thought she does what he tells her to because he's her boss, not because it's a pick me trait?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 10:38 AM
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Please can I also have this link to check I'm not on there. I was dumb in the past and sent nudes to an abusive ex. When I broke up with him he threatened to post them publicly. I don't trust that fucker as far as I could throw him that it was just a threat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:23 PM
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We move quick, I borrow money from family and landlord agrees to let out out of tenancy after 1 month so that we can move into the apartment we're in now, I wanted to view multiple places and try to get something cheaper, BF saw the current apartment (we saw two appatments in the same complex in neighbouring buildings within half an hour of each other because I'm a fucking pro at organising an easy life) he decided 2nd was good enough and wanted to sign almost immediately, he then spent the rest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:17 PM
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This is a long one, and I'm struggling but willing to grow. I'm feeling so broken, this is almost me. I posted about this in relationship advice and someone sent a PM about FDS over the past day(ish) I've been lurking and I don't feel any strong affinity to the vast majority of the other posts here. This one i do: The truth is, I am(F) 30 in February and my bf of 8 years is 29 in Feb. 2012- 2013: 1 year FBW 2013-2014: I approached him about possible living together, he wasn't ready, I respected …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:57 PM
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