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| 187 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences? | DISCUSSION | littleredpartydress_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:37 AM |
| 63 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂 | MALE DEPRAVITY | littleredpartydress_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 24 | LVM infantilizing me anyone else experience this | DISCUSSION | littleredpartydress_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 11:27 PM |
| 4 | Redditor sent me a PM bashing me for wanting to tell my parents about a relationship I was in with a 46 year old man when I was 15 | FIELD REPORT | littleredpartydress_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 04:49 PM |
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| 216 | The audacity!The idea that everyone has to control their emotions but not their actions is so backwards. It’s like anyone can do anything to hurt people but the hurt persons reaction is the wrong thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:37 PM |
| 9 | She did not hesitate to put his ass down lolJesus Christ I hate when men act like it isn’t a choice. I’ll admit that the preference of shaved is intergrated into society( through misogyny of course) but regardless I prefer smooth myself and for most sexual activities and make things go better. Both ways. But tbh I will never ever let a man say a woman needs to shave as expectation or the absurdity that it’s more hygienic. If you clean yourself properly it’s equally hygienic. God it fills me with rage the same way they say about fertility … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 02:37 AM |
| 79 | She did not hesitate to put his ass down lolMy brother said woman having leg hair is unhygienic like okay so what about you wooly mamouth? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:12 PM |
| 20 | She did not hesitate to put his ass down lolThe fact that men don’t wash their ass 😫 just how though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:11 PM |
| 9 | So, people thought he should leave because her appearance was changed? Says a lot about patriarchal society doesn’t it?That’s down right disgusting oh my | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 05:16 AM |
| 53 | BrilliantEewwww I hate when men can’t help but common on woman’s appearances for good or for bad. Especially in super irrelevant circumstances. Like shut up it’s so embarassing honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:30 PM |
| 213 | Brilliant“ my dear” 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Real HVM shitSee that’s really weird to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:00 PM |
| 54 | Real HVM shitI think it depends on how he spends money on you if he does it genuinely not flashy and doesn’t expect you to be over the moon and impressed then I think it’s a good sign ( not definitive) but if he expects excessive praise and keeps flaunting his money over you then it’s something to be suspicious of becauee he thinks you and your afffection are a price tag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:46 AM |
| 25 | Found on fbYou nailed it Jesus, it’s like desperate pick me comedy. I find most good comedy genderless is way more about Witt than cringey jokes that imply they have sex a lot or are grosser than other humans 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 78 | Found on fbNeither of those are funny id literally just sit there like this 👁👄👁 ????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 51 | Found on fbGod I hate “feminist” comedian vagina jokes they’re almost never funny, like it’s the equivalent of those guy humour movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:45 PM |
| 25 | Found on fbI can only think of like 2 actually funny men I know tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 28 | Found on fbI watch chiropractor videos for ASMR and all the top commments are just guys making thirsty “jokes” about the woman getting adjusted. Even if she’s wearing leggings and a tshirt. It’s disgusting and makes me mad. None of the jokes are even funny, they’re all poorly done and just sexualizing everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:37 PM |
| 35 | LolThis one guy told me I wore “too much makeup” and my said I should be more natural like my friend. I only wore eyeliner and a light red lip stain she went for the whole face beat ( nothing wrong with that) but a nude lipstick, we both were so confused 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:15 PM |
| 33 | LolPlease tell me that’s why he’s your ex husband right 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 10:13 PM |
| 32 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.Also these “daddy issues” are sexualized I sincerely wish that they weren’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 30 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.As someone with those exact problems I can confirm. It’s a real thing bdsm is often an outlet for these self esteem issues and traumas and at least in my experience it hasn’t helped me it’s made me more confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:15 PM |
| 8 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchy100 percent a win for you :) I’m happy, I think it can be very valuable in treating those issues. If I had them I’d use it in a heart beat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:24 AM |
| 37 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyI feel the exact same way and other women think I’m crazy when I tell them I don’t and never will use birth control. I had a problem with it when I first tried. Realized it wasn’t for me and haven’t even had a problem. Only reason I would would be if I had period problems, not for pregnancy. I think it’s honestly used so lightly these days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:15 AM |
| 3 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?I don’t find myself unconcerned with the obesity epidemic however it is quite clear the shaming of the body positivity movement is just disguised as a concern for health and just an opportunity to disrespect people. Also a lot of what I see about body positivity isn’t just for bigger sized woman a lot of it is for thin women and all shapes. Exactly though you don’t run up to everyone who smokes a cigarette and berate them so it’s madness that people are using this as an exscuse to dehumanize peo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...Oh yes sharing our lived experiences as females is hijacking a sub with radical feminism sincerely get a grip on yourself. You can’t even respect a perspective from a person who had actual real lived experience as someone female within female friendships. Jealousy is common to human nature however ADULTS don’t act on jealousy nearly never. I can say as a female if my friend was stopping me from hooking up with someone I wanted to I would stop being friends with them. But that problem never comes… | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?Oh he his 100 percent, ignorant as hell, and also simple minded too. I’m worried for their girlfriends, they gladly state their girlfriends “ aren’t crazy feminists” like it’s a good thing also a lot of teenage girls say they aren’t to avoid ridicule from teenage boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?I honestly didn’t believe how far that truth really was until I had multiple of these conversations with my brothers. They just don’t regard woman as functioning and complex people. They think are emotions are simple and consistently degrade me and my sister who don’t have boyfriends and aren’t married ( I’m 20). Every point they make is so shallow and lacks depth, I don’t even want to cut it down to age because I sure as hell wasnt a misogynistic brat and had such strong opinions about life whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 12 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?Such a shining truth and they still believe mansplaining isn’t a thing. Like no you literally just tried to explain my own experience to me like you’re a liscneded psychologist took away my own validitiy and just condescended me and on top of that your reasoning is just absurdly inaccurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:26 PM |
| 8 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?Exactly honestly the thing I desire more than a relationship is strong female friendships ! I’ve always wanted that and valued that. I agree also it’s so misogynistic that the instant response for any critique a woman has towards another woman is instantly dismissed as jealousy. Realized that incredibly quickly, I critiqued an actress in the movie and said they she was kind of a bad actress ( it was frickin riverdale too 😭) nothing to do with her looks or her being female and was instantly met w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 9 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?To them it doesn’t exist everything a girl does for her friend is because she’s so jealous. Becky definitely didn’t just tell her too grab her from the creepy man who persisted to buy her a drink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:46 AM |
| 19 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?I know I was really shocked that men bought into the narrative that women live in a cesspool of jealousy for one another. I just don’t think it’s that common anymore especially not outwardly or anywhere that’s not a middle school. Also absolutely not the only desirable way to be my brother is just delusional and started talking about how skinny pretty girls have it the worst. Yes that’s obviously who is the most oppressed in society right now 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:43 AM |
| 16 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?It amazes me how whether it’s not were being treated “good” or bad it’s still not as an equal. I mean we’re either subhuman hag if they can’t stick their dick in us or were a subhuman sex doll if they can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:41 AM |
| 36 | We don’t stalk male only subbredditsIt’s hilarious that they are upset they can’t comment and say that all genders can comment in other forums but refuse to acknowledge that if we express our feelings in other forums they silence us by saying we are irrational and deluded. We just know talking to you is like talking to a brick wall I’d rather do anything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:49 AM |
| 18 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?I’m going to have to start making this transition for my own sanity, I find myself in blind moments of internal rage where after they say something so misogynistic and narcissistic I just think “ there is no way they’re going to be able to detach themself from their ego and understand what I’m trying to say” it’s disturbing. I wish I didn’t care as much as I do 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:42 AM |
| 24 | Why do lvm seem to believe that women exist in a bubble defined by jealousy for the male gaze and actively deny our lives experiences?Honestly it irks me to no end that our own experience is consistently denied because they haven’t been in our place. It’s the most illogical premise for dismissal and it appears in all forms of inequality. I’m in my college years right now and am finding myself more and more discouraged by how the male gaze defines literally everything. I guess the only way is to not define myself by it but i can’t lie when I say it really disturbs me. I really want this empire to collapse on itself, but honestl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:39 AM |
| – | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...In men’s minds female friendship dynamics are all just filled with jealousy over men. I can’t tell you the last time I was jealous over a guy hitting on my friend because I had to be about 12 at my middle school dance 😭😭💀 | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 02:59 AM |
| – | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...From the female perspective, almost 9 times out of 10 they communicated to that friend for that to happen | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 02:32 AM |
| – | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...If the girl really likes the guy her friends won’t be able to drag her off, that’s just truth lol | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 02:22 AM |
| – | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...Also most of the time it’s because the girl they’re hitting on told their friend she needed an out lol 💀 | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...It really depends honestly I’ve been texted by a lot of my friends to come up and steal them away from a situation they don’t want. I don’t really interfere unless my friends want me too. So it’s not always jealously although sometimes I’m sure that could be a factor. But don’t assume it | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 02:20 AM |
| 13 | Pickmeisha talking about the "normalization of abuse towards men" like men don't do worse things like rape, beat, torture, and murder women.A lot of these things were messed up and uncalled for and immature. But also she’s reading these with no context of what the relationship was like. Most people don’t take these comments seriously because most of them are lies. Also she’s such a hypocrite “ that’s so immature “ and proceeds to follow it up with if someone sent that to me I’d slap them, id slap the shit out of them. Like ??????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:26 AM |
| 15 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Rainforest cafe 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 2 | I’ve bad a bad day, so imma cheer up someone else! So quick reminder to you wonderful creatures!Thanks Ariana grande💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Life will test you the minute you decide to be a HVW.Great advice :) I especially like the the thing about buying the pads and donating sprinkled in there a little bit of taking care of your sisters too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:16 PM |
| 19 | Damn. That kind of hurt.Eh this was clearly a funny joke I will admit a lot of twitters sex confessions or jokes or relatability things or cringey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Damn. That kind of hurt.Noooooo 💀💀💀😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 2 | I did my first approach!! WOWThat’s true I don’t know just the way it was worded I was like 😬🙃 please don’t hit on teenage girls | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I did my first approach!! WOW😭😭💀 | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 02:44 PM |
| – | I did my first approach!! WOWI hope she wasn’t 16 Jesus | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Poetic justice 💋Ooooof that’s gotta feel a little good for the karmic soul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 20 | Words of advice to the Poly-debate. You aren't "radical" or "non-conformative" you are literally enforcing stereotypes as old as time. You are a HUGE part of the patriarchy. Charles Manson, other cult leaders and sultans etc all had harems of women, you are no different. We aren't buying your lies.I laughed way too hard at this lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:16 PM |
| 76 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏I should send this to my fucking middle aged boyfriend who had sex with me not even a relationship with me at 15 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 118 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"I came here from one of my posts on relationships being cross posted here. I had no idea what it was and at first thought everyone was making fun of me. Then I visited the sub and have gotten way better and feel much more encouraged. I feel safer and more sane. My situation/ post before was about me feeling too old for men in their 40s and 50s to like me. I was 19 years old. I was badly twisted in the head and without FDS I probably still would be. This sub is women supporting women and also str… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 35 | Who would've thought... 🙃This fact makes me so sad 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 05:37 AM |
| 64 | Who would've thought... 🙃I wore shorts on a school trip to Europe and was pulled aside by the female teachers and told the way I was dressing was creating an uncomfortable time for the male chaperones. Like sorry are you saying that me as a 15 year old girl is responsible because some of those 45 year old men can’t control their boners. Also the shorts were literally appropriate and I’m not even sugarcoating it my ass wasn’t even close to showing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:18 AM |
| 64 | Who would've thought... 🙃I love how this sentence is just in complete opposition to their other claim of being the “rational” sex , like y’all can’t even use human rationality to control your “biological urges” as if most of their perversion isn’t fuelled by the culture surrounding it and not their horomones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:15 AM |
| 5 | Swipe LEFT on hot girls who have their snapchat and instagrams in their biosIt’s definitely unhealthy as a girl I don’t use dating apps for this reason mainly plus a whole bunch of others. I also don’t use Instagram or other main social media sites so I find it super hard to even network lol. I just realized how many validation problems it was causing for me in highschool and decided I’d be better off without it. Also I feel like If you meet people in person it’s way easier to tell if any chemistry would be there because people don’t always look the same as online both … | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Nothing but factsI wish it wasn’t automatically thought of as “kinky” and “cool” then most people wouldn’t pretend to be 100 percent into. There’s people that are for real and that’s fine, I’m one of them, but I really wish it wasn’t the gold standard of sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | How I feel about this subI love it here 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Who here can relate?Jesus Christ that is absolutely so awful I’m so sorry :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:39 AM |
| 19 | Time and time again, just blockTo be fair having “daddy issues” has become a weird trend that’s almost kink like these days and it’s really confusing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.Women: hey could you maybe not dehumanize and think of us as your domestic sex slave fill in mommy you are entitled to with no effort? Men: feminism has gone way to far. The delusion is unbelievable me and my dick have decided together that woman are once again hysterical and men hating old hags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 08:39 PM |
| 149 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.Also men : well if you guys want equality, then boys should be able to hit girls Like why is that the first thing they think of !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:32 AM |
| 51 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.Honestly it was never the gender roles that pisses me off the most it was always the hypocrisy and the AUDACITY to expect everything when they’ve got nothing to give, not even a little appreciation or respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 05:23 AM |
| 15 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?It’s also not even just “peak attractiveness” women that they obsess over, like they genuinely have to perv on every bit of leg or cleavage they see. As if you can’t see boobs literally anywhere. I’ll never understand that. They always have to make it an event. I don’t check out the average dudes body but men will ogle every single women they see ( and sometimes young children at that I mean most girls have their first experience with that by nine 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 07:44 PM |
| 9 | Who here can relate?This is where I would’ve got up and left | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Who here can relate?I didn’t even realize that jealously was a thing in relationships like towards each others achievements. Like what? That’s your girlfriend she got a promotion why are you jealous it’s so bizarre to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 18 | For all the pickmeishas and LVMs in the backThat’s like saying you exist every single day so you shouldn’t celebrate your birthday lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:18 PM |
| 12 | For all the pickmeishas and LVMs in the backThey think they’re being true in love but what that stuff really applies to is if your partner is ill or suddenly looses everything or is struggling that you don’t just leave them. Not them being not generous and refusing to see you as an important priority and your relationship as a loving investment with eachother. Like you being that way doesn’t mean that you somehow know more about love 😭. You can both be poor and have real love and be rich and have real love and the opposite it true to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 222 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020Especially with someone who you’re new with you can really tell by what they choose to make jokes about because they tend to do it as hinting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 118 | Being a self-proclaimed advocate and supporter of the MeToo but then choosing to lash out, deny, discredit or retaliate against any woman that shares their experience with you bc it hits too close to home to you makes you complicit in sexism and rape culture.I am so over people playing devils adovacte on issues about literal fucking human rights. Like you can’t play devils advocate to someone else’s traumatic experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 09:10 PM |
| 8 | Exactly! It's not about being more "selective"; I'm literally sorting through trash!Why do people get so mad about a woman actually literally any individual having some level of standards because they know what will work for them and 90 percent of the time these standards are about love and respect. Also most of us women looking for a high value man are also trying to if we aren’t already high value women. We are not the equivalent of the overweight balding 40 year old who sits on the couch is unemployed and drinks like 2 cases a day, and then proceeds to berate the woman who g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 89 | What, too many standards?The term ‘man child’ should not be offensive to any man who isn’t a man child I’ve heard other men use it ? It’s not an offensive term against the whole male gender Edit: they can’t say the same about curse words against woman because they demean all women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 05:13 PM |
| 15 | On a thread about a woman shaving her head and her husband not being attracted to her anymore. Pathetic.Then when a women treats it transactional expects them to keep up their end of the bargain with money and providing she’s an ungrateful leech | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 12 | On a thread about a woman shaving her head and her husband not being attracted to her anymore. Pathetic.I never thought I’d come to this conclusion but fuck them they’re so gross. There is no female equivalence for their depravity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 08:52 PM |
| 11 | In order to not end up miserable, you should keep leveling up to derive power and self-esteem from other sources than LVM validation.Right!? Why is this a thing why do most girls experience cat calling by like 9 years old. I was 11 walking down a street when two grown ass men yelled whore at me because I was wearing a very age appropriate dress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:04 AM |
| 19 | In order to not end up miserable, you should keep leveling up to derive power and self-esteem from other sources than LVM validation.When I was 13 I got like 20x more attention when I’d where my sports uniform not because it was more revealing but because it made me look more childlike 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 15 | Relationship advice for men teaches men to be predatory and exploitative, relationship advice for women teaches women to be masochistic and confused.The part about most of women’s dating advice is masochistic and confused literally the two things to describe my feelings right now. At this point I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to have any dynamic with a male i feel so estranged | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 10 | R/Dating Banned Me For Advising Young Women Not To Fall For Manipulation Tactics To Have Sex Early/ Without Commitment On A Woman's Post Opposing Men Expecting Sex On The Third Date (EYE ROLL)Ouch After feeling too old at 18 I get this so badly I’m trying to change it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 19 | R/Dating Banned Me For Advising Young Women Not To Fall For Manipulation Tactics To Have Sex Early/ Without Commitment On A Woman's Post Opposing Men Expecting Sex On The Third Date (EYE ROLL)This sub has been saving me at 19, honestly don’t know why people think we are gold diggers pushing an agenda that women want gasp love and respect 😦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:29 PM |
| 13 | In order to not end up miserable, you should keep leveling up to derive power and self-esteem from other sources than LVM validation.I’m so scared for this sting that I wasted 18 and 19 being terrified of being 20 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 20 | Nothing but tea100 percent, it’s not something simple. My nature is fairly submissive but I’ve made the decision I won’t submit to a man unless he is HVM and someone I actually trust someone who deserves that kind of trust | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | It’s not worth it in the long runThis is sadly so true, not even that they would if opportunity arises but the fact that they actually think about it nearly everyday and want to. I don’t understand it, it scares me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:44 PM |
| 57 | Nothing but teaThis!!!! In my mind you have to earn the right to have someone be submissive to you. That includes knowing what they like so they obviously enjoy it to and want to submit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 64 | Nothing but teaThe accuracy I - 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | It’s not worth it in the long runI hope you can be single happily for the rest of your life. It’s not as impossible as everyone seems to think. I’ll even add the extra blessing of I hope you find an actually valuable partner who isn’t depraved. I’m 19 and I’ve already been beaten down so I don’t know if I ever will rise back up especially now that I have an age complex but I wish you all the best do it for yourself and if you can’t do it for all of the other girls who are fed up and have lost hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | It’s not worth it in the long runYeah it sucks there is no way to weed out the bad ones because these depraved men are the ‘normal’ ones we interact with everyday. I struggle a lot with the fact that men consistently fantasize, view and actually have sex with teenage girls. I can actually verify this because I’m suicidal because I was that girl since I was 13. I’m 19 now and have the worst issues because of it like it impacts every second of my dad and I’m always hurt by it. It’s too dismaying to even think about it, it feels i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | It’s not worth it in the long runThis made me cry especially the obsession with minors and CP men have and how it’s this huge merry go round of illusions and tricks for women it’s the most depressing thing ever I’ve never felt more broken about something as I feel as a teenager in this generation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | It’s not worth it in the long runThis kills me inside it’s made me hate all men even ones that have raised me even my own brothers. I’ve seen the worst secrets of the minds of men and their depravity it’s actually making me suicidal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 16 | It’s not worth it in the long runThis is so accurate! I’ve been saying this forever. I can’t wait until the intense sexual liberation subsides. I’m not a prude by any means and I like sex. I could just see how it was being taken to an extreme and glorified, it’s like it swung too far to the other extreme. Let’s keep somewhere in the middle sex positive but not sex obsessed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 81 | And that’s the tea!For real lmao, don’t even get me started on wannabe doms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 6 | I don't enjoy being degraded for someone else's pleasure. It's not liberating, it's demeaning and rooted in sexism, but if women address this to LVM, we're "kink-shaming".Damn this hits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:00 PM |
| 55 | I don't enjoy being degraded for someone else's pleasure. It's not liberating, it's demeaning and rooted in sexism, but if women address this to LVM, we're "kink-shaming".I’m not against BDSM entirely and such but I do hate how people act like it’s makes them quirky, I feel like pickmes are notorious for this. Hehe haha I’m not like other girls I like to be choked and handcuffs ouuuu. Sorry lol that might be off base | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:47 AM |
| 47 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.Literally this sub helped me label what happened to me as rape too finally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:30 AM |
| 6 | In Light of Recent Events, I'd Like to Give This Sub My Thanks Before it Goes Down.Nooooo why is this sub being taken down it literally was the only thing that pulled me out of a deep suicidal feeling because I was sexually abused. Like genuinely this sub helped me recognize that and also started to make me feel more empowered. HOW is this men hating, if we ever trash on men it’s normally posting examples of them trashing on women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:28 AM |
| 38 | "men who are 'anti porn' because of the negative side effects for men, are not our allies!!!I have been consuming pornography since I was 9 years old, as a girl I always thought it was because I was gross and weird. I was initially introduced to it by someone older than me. And then developed weird usage of it all through my teenage years. Recently I started to hate it and see it for what it was, it’s disgusting a lot of the time. It now scares me. I wish I never saw it part of the stuff I watched as a young girl was heavily focused on “forced sex” which is rape largely because I was s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂They disregard the fact that young women are their own human beings with their own problems and the need to live their own lives. Not untouched Barbie dolls for them to play with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:05 PM |
| 13 | This.That’s so gross I’m so sorry :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:08 PM |
| 11 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂They can’t even hear themselves and how ridiculous sounds. This idea of prime isn’t even logical. I’m 19 suicidal with rampant mental health issues if this is the prime of my life and when I’m most valuable to men well damn 😂😂😂. When you need somebody to be a specific age you aren’t start. Treating them like objects. This whole sexual market value thing is gross. Like I’m not a Toyota or a stock I don’t go up or down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:02 AM |
| 16 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂Don’t forget that when the production of that healthy offspring ruins their 23 year old wives body they’ll become disgusted and label themselves as the victim again because her body didn’t stay hot enough. Their logic I just 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:39 AM |
| 13 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂I have been so traumatized by men’s fixations on teenage girls, it destroyed my teenage years and then gave me a complex about my age and I’m 19. CAN I LIVE without feeling like an old hag for not being a child anymore 😭😭😭 They say it’s biology but we all know it’s the cultural perversion that turns them on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 01:05 AM |
| 30 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂I also love the hypocrisy of how they point out it’s usually mentally ill and daddy issues women after 30 who are still trying to compete. Doesn’t this guy realize that most ( of course not al) young women his “teenage girlfriends” have those issues and that’s part of the reason why they do that with him and others........ As a 19 year old with BPD I’m literally the women he claims he knows the best and is using as his defense. He doesn’t know anything about young woman and I say that as who he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 08:24 PM |
| 56 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂Literally ! Like this difference shows how drugs ruin you not age. And yet...... Lindsey Lohan now is still better looking than him IMO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | This makes me sad :/Looking back I really didn’t look that old for my age I was still clearly a teenager and with my parents like 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 11:27 PM |
| 4 | This makes me sad :/Jesus that’s so young I remember getting upset when people “ ruined it for me too” but like Jesus yikes how could anyone not step in. I remember getting hit on quite a bit as a young teenager and my sister or mom having to yell “SHES 13!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 3 | All that needs to be saidLiterally half of it is incest and pedoville often combined. It is such a diservice to our youth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 5 | All that needs to be saidLiterally. I don’t understand how jailbait is even a temptation. They act like teenage girls are some dangerous nymphs and sirens. They’re just normal girls not seductresses. Like literally when I was 15 I thought I must’ve been so seductive just to grow up and realize it was all because of a number not Ana cruel temptation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 08:08 PM |
| 5 | All that needs to be saidThank you I really appreciate that I’m trying not to let it destroy anymore of my youth than it already has, he has a wife and shit too. Ughhhh I hate the world. Im never getting married because I’m too scared my husband will sleep with a. 15 year old. I hate how men also hide behind the guise of the “pathological pedophile” in my mind there is two differences each as horrible but one more easy to empathize with. To me a pathological pediphile is someone who struggled with CSA themself or feels … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | All that needs to be saidI feel like I’m commenting way too much on this post. I just feel passionate about this topic. BUT I can confirm it’s all about the conceived age not the appearance or anything. I was with this guy ( I’m 19) I don’t know how he got this wrong in my mind at all but randomly later in that night he said “ I can’t believe I get to have sex with a 15 year old tonight you’re so much prettier than girls my age” I literally jumped back. And was like I’m not 15 why the hell would you even want me if I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 7 | All that needs to be saidLiterally they also claim it’s “biological” no it is very very clear that they get off on the cultural perversion and the no no. It’s not beauty or anything of the sorts. If that were true it literally wouldn’t happen to every single teenage girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:27 PM |
| 14 | All that needs to be saidThis!!!!!!! They comepletely forget the fact that Young men exist at the exact same time as them. Like it’s actually that disturbing how a 13 year old girl could be talking to a completely age appropriate boy and having her first experiences and learning at her own pace and then some asshole who’s 40 comes along and grooms her and just rapes her and it completely changes her mind and traumatizes her. They also should stop saying that them and a kid is a natural dynamic. Don’t they realize it’s n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:22 PM |
| 20 | This makes me sad :/Honestl for most if starts as young as 9 like what it’s horrific what in their right mind makes this okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:12 PM |
| 13 | All that needs to be saidI know it’s bor defensible when teenagers and kids are the targets of these fantasies. I feel so bad for how teenage female sexuality is it’s so hopeless too me. Makes me suicidal like Jesus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:24 AM |
| 14 | All that needs to be saidI also got into it at young age and the stuff I saw was so disturbing. When I was 15 I found out not all the content on there was monitored and I freaked out. I thought it was absurdly ridiculous anyone could upload anything. The fact that the common words next to teen include force punish and gang rape is also concerning. I understand it is “fantasy” as people write it off as but it’s so inherently harmful. I’ll be bold and say I struggled with being turned on by the idea of forced sex because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:03 AM |
| 32 | All that needs to be saidThe disturbing part is all the actresses in the teen category are 25-29ish even early 30s but they don’t let them look like young women. Because men don’t want “ young women” as they claim they make them look as young as possible with the braces the makeup style the way they act the knee high socks etc. It’s disturbing. As a woman I do watch some porn but I want to share this really disturbing pop up I get on those sites. It’s a page with “ all models legal age” and it’s like women made to look … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:24 PM |
| 21 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycleLike if he said that after already making a consistent effort and actually holding a conversation. That’s be one thing but like he’s saying it so he doesn’t have to? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:38 PM |
| 19 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycleI hate the way they say I’d like to be friends if that’s okay. That’s such an awkward way of wording it. Like it’s like demanding almost disguised between “ if that’s okay”. I don’t know how to describe it but I just 👁👄👁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:37 PM |
| 10 | Since finding this sub a good few months ago and reinforcing my self-respectI just want to know why in any form they think this is socially respectable do they not have social cues or a filter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:46 AM |
| 5 | Louder for the people in the back please!!Unfortunately I can attest to that as I was that young girl although it was still ILLEGAL. They like to act like it’s about biological maturation. But it’s actually the cultural perversion and taboo that drives this obsession. I feel so sorry for young girls it’s so confusing I remember I was so confused. Young boys don’t get sexualized by society as a whole this way ( I’m not saying they aren’t victim of pathological pedophiles), they get to discover it on their own culturally girls don’t. I ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:18 AM |
| 15 | Louder for the people in the back please!!The amount of time I’ve heard “ you’re the mature one they’re just boys they tease it’s what they do” funny how a little later it turned into “ you were mature it’s men they like sex it what they do “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:52 PM |
| 33 | Louder for the people in the back please!!Also I feel like girls mature faster because we are literally reprimanded way more often for “childish things” I can’t count how many times me and my brother would do the exact same thing and the response they got was “ boys will be boys” and the one I got was a punishment or a talking to about how I can’t do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:59 PM |
| 90 | Louder for the people in the back please!!The logic they use for this doesn’t even make sense it’s always like 40 years olds saying this too lmao, like so a 13 or a 15 year old girl matured like a good 27 or 30 years than boys. Even if girls really did mature faster, why would that give you permission or entitlement to them?? Men can be so entitled with age. They need a “ young wife” they claim because of biology and the wall. Well how come you didn’t have a baby when you were also somewhat relatively young. Also at that, it’s always th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:50 PM |
| 59 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.I’m 19 and have only ever been with 40-50 year old men since I was 15 ( I know gross), and I can verify that they were always annoyed/ surprised when I would act “adult” like. They were so patronizing if we ever talked about politics or even philosophy art etc. All the “academic topics” they expected me to swoon at their knowledge and when I kind of pushed or questioned it or tried to have a conversation like I was their equal they shot me down. As soon as my eyes of wonder I held them in disapp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 04:00 PM |
| 7 | Nothing but truthwe really can’t win, men switch up their minds on them all the time they go from she’s a prude who’s no fun to she’s respects herself. Or she’s a nasty whore who Sleeps with everyone to she’s fun wild and adventurous. Like can women just get peace in yknow making decisions about our own sexuality either way 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:48 PM |
| 32 | Nothing but truthI genuinely feel like we are in the transition where the “virgin” is being shamed more than the whore. I wish we could evolve past and accept all women despite whatever their boundaries on sex are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 11:42 PM |
| 12 | People who hate the opposite gender: what can they do to earn your "forgiveness"? What would it take for you to stop hating them?I don’t hate men, I still have sex with a lot of them. But I don’t trust them at all, I realize it’s ridiculous but in my mind they’re all pedophiles just waiting to fuck the next young teenager. Hearing them try and debate why it’s okay is nauseating. But again I understand it’s a unfair generalization. I guess they could stop doing that and I’d have more faith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | LVM infantilizing me anyone else experience thisReversing the ages I actually can never imagine that happening in a million years it’s disgusting 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:16 PM |
| 7 | LVM infantilizing me anyone else experience thisI can’t stand when they can’t ever take you seriously in a conversation is humiliating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Since men are still not speaking up against porn and male pedophilia on the rise they certainly deserve to be under suspicion in these situations. If they want to not be “unfairly targeted” maybe they should have been speaking up against their male peers who are normalizing pedophilia and pornThis breaks my heart so much. It’s important to take things such as this seriously. Especially as a mother I’m surprised she isn’t more concerned than this sibling. Suspicion is very much warranted, even as her father if you didn’t do anything wouldn’t you just as much want to know what is going on. Obviously you hope that isn’t what’s actually happening but it’s good to keep it open as an option | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:12 AM |
| 18 | Swear to god someone went through my old messages to make this...I’m so sorry, i hate that, it’s like when they say someone thing that’s starting to be helpful in the first three lines. And then hit you with “ you could always suck my dick that’d make you feel better” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 07:09 PM |
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