| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The male who is so angry about a woman in FDS buying herself something nice happens to be an anime obsessed alcoholic deadbeat father with mommy issues. Who would’ve thought! | ROAST-A-SCROTE | kahootofficial | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:47 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | I asked her "whose P is this", she just stayed silentWhy would you even ask that to someone you’re casual about. You hurt your own feelings 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Was I too direct?Wtf how hard is it to say “Thank you, so are you. What’s your name?” | /r/seduction | 21/06/26 03:38 PM |
| 1 | When a girl asks for your Instagram while texting, is that a shit test?Not everything is a “shit test” just because YOU are insecure about something, god forbid a girl wants to send you some memes | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Cold approached and took her homeAbsolutely no way a random man in his 30s walking around a random college campus got let into a sorority house midday those things are LOCKED DOWN | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 10:31 PM |
| 329 | A trend I've noticed among LVM.Only attractive women exist to them, any woman they deem unattractive no longer exists, but are merely ghosts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 46 | What is something a man did that he thought was cute and romantic but was gross and insulting?I had this same experience! I let a “friend” sleep over while he was in town and in the morning he said he’s surprised he didn’t have sex with me. What tf am I supposed to say to that?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:18 PM |
| 32 | Petition for a new term for men that marry women solely based on looks... booty chaser? shallow swimmer? scrubby squib? Suggestions welcome. We need to start holding them in the same regard that they hold usAs a former sugar baby I’m so SICK of the blame being put on the younger woman, THESE MEN ARE GROWN, THEY KNOW EXACTLY WHATS GOING ON. These women aren’t evil scheming masterminds these old men KNOW damn well she only likes him because he’s rich. The man is never some innocent idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:21 PM |
| 12 | Scrotes mad! How dare we value our time and peace. Have you been blocking and deleting people more since you've learned about FDS?Black men especially cannot stand when a black woman doesn’t put up with “struggle love” and doesn’t takes all their abuse happily. We have to be GRATEFUL they chose us to use | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:18 AM |
| 206 | Pickmesha on TikTok comments. 😔 Video was a lock on video game console 😌I keep seeing tweet that say “why cheat when we can fuck her together” and I want to SCREAM fuckin pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 05:53 PM |
| 93 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...I have been saying this for years! Coerced sex is rape, which means if a man lies about himself to get sex, that should be considered RAPE. Of course men don’t want to address this because they’ll have to face the fact that most of them are fucking rapists | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 96 | Not sure if this is allowed here, but more women should know about comphetI’ve always identified as bisexual and I’ve definitely fallen victim to Comphet. With all this new time in my hands (thanks Covid) I’ve realized I’ve never actually had a real relationship with a woman because horny straight men are everywhere and I thought I HAD to give them a chance, even if I didn’t like them, they liked me so I can’t be “mean”. They ended up just wasting my precious time and now I really want to have a relationship with a woman, I feel that not only the sex would be better b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 8 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.I’ve been thinking about that for a while, even with our very hostile relationship I still think she deserves much much better than this piece of garbage. However with that very hostile relationship I honestly believe she’d beat me up before addressing dumping him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:24 AM |
| 55 | You deserve to have high standards even if you are overweight.I said no, men are obsessed with anything they can get their hands on. They want to sleep with thin women, big women, tall women, short women, white women and black women, regardless if they’re committed to someone else or not. I remember your comment and that REALLY resonated with me. Recently (I’m 22 I’m still young and learning through mistakes sadly) I was the other woman for a dude who broadcasted to everyone that he only likes big breasted thin women. like his gf. So when he wanted to slee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:47 PM |
| 32 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.FDS stole me from my “ex”, if I can even call him that, really a creepy older man preying on my niceness and naiveté. So grateful for this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:33 AM |
| 258 | Imagine rejecting a proposal and the first thing a man says is “I am rich, I have a lot of money”. So you can agree to marry him.Men “hate” gold diggers and yet constantly get mad when their money doesn’t attract said gold diggers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:23 PM |
| 26 | Interpreting men's social media useOver the course of the first couple months I just wait until he uses his code where I can see and remember it, and then wait until he’s asleep and go through it at night. Once you’re in, do a THOROUGH investigation because I have found out there’s more than just dms, there are apps that are made to look unsuspecting but are actually a vault app for hidden photos/videos. If you don’t find anything, don’t admit to going through their phone just in case you need to do it again in the future. If you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:12 AM |
| 20 | Interpreting men's social media useThis might be downvoted here but me personally I go though a boyfriends phone after a couple months. I give them the benefit of the doubt and believe what they say and if it’s all true from the evidence, no need to go though the phone again. If there are holes in what they said or they’re straight up a different person when you’re not around, now you know and can act accordingly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 150 | Another person said it. Never allow porn in a relationship if you want a healthy relationship.It’s sucks that he has to preface saying he’s not against it but that’s the only way men will listen, having another man slowly get them to see it’s bad rather than a radical woman. They won’t listen to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 35 | Men negging through the use of racial preferencesAs a black girl I’ve had to normalize saying “What was the point of telling me that?” “I usually think black women are UGLY but you’re different” What was the point of telling me that. “I used to think fake nails/hair was GHETTO but now I don’t anymore!” What was the point of telling me that. “My ex was black” What was the point of telling me that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:25 PM |
| 7 | The delusion. The scrotacity lolI’m on sugar dating websites (I know fds doesn’t support sex work and I understand) and soo many of them lie about their age, like dude who are you fooling as long as you pay me I don’t care. Are they trying to lie to us or themselves.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 16 | Ladies, how much do men you date tend to spend on you, per month, during the early phase?After only a month of dating, he sounds creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 131 | What a lowlife smhI thought it was going to end differently since I’m too used to seeing woman be abused till death, I’m so glad she recovered and he got what was coming to him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 09:33 PM |
| 5 | Low value men whine about women not playing the role of a therapist, calling us unempathetic for not letting them cross our boundaries in that regard. I explained to the idiots on how the healthy relationship works. :/Can we get that “FDS_historian” guy banned? He’s pretty much the only one posting in that sub frantically trying to start a hate train of red pillers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 13 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapiansWe must have the same brother! The most recent one he just left on the side of the road after an accident and called an Uber, now he’s mad he doesn’t have a car but was asking for a PS5 for Christmas, PRIORITIES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 11 | Seen this wayyy too many times!🙄 Women are held solely responsible for breaking relationships by other women because of internalised misogyny. The poor cheating bf is a "good guy otherwise".I don’t get mad at the other woman, whether she knew he was in a relationship or not, because at the end of the day she has 0 obligation to you HE is the one in the relationship who was supposed to be loyal. Don’t even fight him either just leave his life quietly and maybeeee cut the sleeves off all his clothes if you have the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:16 PM |
| 15 | FDS Isn't a Hate Sub, We're An Angry SubShout out to my fellow Black Women who are too used to being tone policed and having the “angry black woman” stereotype type thrown at us as the drop of a hat when we were the victims of the situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 41 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthThe most annoying thing is when you DONT fall for this shit and they STILL tell everyone you’re so in love with them and obsessed. No matter what I said this mans inflated ego thought that just because I fucked and cuddled after I wanted to date him sOoOO bAd. Never doing FWB again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:23 PM |
| 12 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"This is why women have to be more “shallow”. Guys know when you’re out of their league, and then you’re nothing more than a trophy to them. Having their object being wanted by other men is the highest form of flattery to them and they don’t understand why the object doesn’t like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:07 PM |
| 8 | On sex educationMy boyfriend in highschool almost got me pregnant because he genuinely thought girls could only get pregnant during their period... I thank god for plan b every day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Asking for men to pull their weight is MaNiPuLaTiOnThis. This is exactly why I will never have children. I don’t want ANY reason to feel stuck with a man (even though women still do all the work anyway). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:43 AM |
| 56 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.Although the act of throwing the food SEEMS satisfying, she is actually still not doing enough. He knows she is still going to live with him in which he will directly benefit. She needs to FILE FOR DIVORCE not just make another rule for this manchild to eventually twist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:56 PM |
| 63 | That one friend that loves the minimal effort“Well we all aren’t gold diggers like you!” proceeds to be cheated on 12 more times because he knows she will accept literally anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:11 PM |
| 71 | 😭😭😭😭Wow a whole new nightmare thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:30 PM |
| 23 | Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds.I remember being in MIDDLE SCHOOL and a girl in my class was raving about her 20+ year old boyfriend. We were 12. I knew something was weird about that situation but at 12 years old I didn’t know how to voice it, I think about her a lot and god I hope she’s ok now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 8 | Saw this floating around on Twitter and thought we could do an FDS version. Please share your examples of non-compliments from LVMPick up artist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:21 PM |
| 27 | The audacity!lol I actually do have the memory of a goldfish and it’s always used against me when someone wrongs me but later I can’t remember what they did, I had to start writing down what they did and blocking so I don’t get gaslit into thinking I’m overreacting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:53 PM |
| 35 | A man wanting to have sex with you does not mean he likes about you. Male sexual attention is abundant and low value. Also, the same men who are going bareback with women are also the same ones who will complain the woman “trapped them” if she gets pregnant and decided to keep it. 🤡EXACTLY, I was talking to a guy for 2 years on and off, when we were on he’s telling me how perfect I am and how he’d want to marry a woman just like me (should’ve took that as a red flag in hindsight) and the minute he finally convinced me to have sex with him he wouldn’t even walk me downstairs to my car, that was the end of that but wow I felt so hurt and deceived | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:01 PM |
| 49 | Men unloading unprocessed trauma on women: is therapy? 🥺👉👈That last sentence hit me way too hard, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:18 PM |
| 23 | Don’t go on “boat dates” with guys you don’t know well or you could be put into a situation you don’t want to be in. 😬It’s literally a quote from the reference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:35 PM |
| 8 | Man complains about dating a cold right-wing woman but said he stayed because of the sex and because she was “hot.” There’s so much to unpack here.I don’t know if he’s black or if that’s just how the illustration depicted him but as a black woman this reminds me all the black men who only date white women because they feel dark skinned women are beneath them and then when their gf (who they never bothered to learn about because as long a shes white she’s right) calls them the n-word or brings him to meet the parents and it’s obvious she was only using him to get a rise out of her racist family, now HE wants to act all hurt and stereotyped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 7 | When a LVM says he is "loyal"It means he won’t cheat on you, sure, but he’s gonna dangle that carrot over your head so you put up with all of his other shittiness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:08 PM |
| 70 | In this episode of “which kind of maid am I today?” we’re hair-cutting maids.OOF, this one hurt me because I used to cut my ex-bfs hair, soon found out I was just a servant placeholder until the girl he actually wanted became single and cheated on me to get to her ASAP and treated her ways I had to beg him to treat me.......they’re still together 4 years later....... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 4 | I’m sick of all these LVM.I completely feel you, I just turned 22 and I’ve given up on dating 2 years ago, at least for right now. It does suck seeing all my friends in relationships and I’m the only single one but I know only 1 of them have an actual HVM and I’d rather wait until I’m older I have my career and the men my age grow out of this “hoe phase” so the dating pool goes up, rather than get a guy now and have it be a complete gamble as to where his life ends up and how that influences my life choices. REMEMBER: we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:01 PM |
| 11 | This is the 2nd time I got a dm from an ugly male lurker on this subreddit. I trolled him a bit and then blocked. Don’t they know how pathetic they look? 😂 they’re literally only proving us right.He messaged me yesterday too! Imagine having nothing better to do in your life like this guy lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:12 PM |
| 86 | Imagine Expecting a Period and Getting a Kid Like This Instead.exactly why I’m not having kids, of all these opportunistic rapists out here how many of their mothers know? They all think their precious boy is different | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 6 | A real winner here 🤢And he’s almost 40, wow what a catch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:59 PM |
| 2 | We should all be like this!!!!I’ve gotten into pickmeisha’s relationship drama before and NEVER AGAIN. Women like this have all the evidence they need to dump him and won’t, if a man is making you sit up until 3 am and you believe he’s cheating, he probably is. She doesn’t want to live the truth and she will not leave him. I refuse to deal with that, now if she dumps his ass at 3am and needs me to come pick her up that’s different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 43 | Don't "act" busy be busy! Have your own life.Honestly lost a HVM because I had 0 hobbies. I didn’t even realize at the time but all I could talk about was Netflix while he travels the world and actually makes something of himself. DONT BE LIKE ME LADIES, pick up a new hobby, get out the house, be passionate about something so when a HVM does come along you’re not just another pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:21 AM |
| 94 | Stay single, sisAnother reason why I’ve divested, people say I’m judgmental but I don’t care: grown men obsessed with video games is a TURN OFF. They seem to love 2k so much they’d turn down sex with their actual girlfriend, I’d much rather try new things like camping or paddle boarding or any “white” activity than sit behind a man playing the same game.....every day.....for hours on end | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:24 AM |
| 3 | How old are the posters here and is betabucks really even a relevant option for them right now?I agree with u/flamingoinghome, men seem to prefer the actual one night stands while women want “fwb’s” or fuck buddies, someone they like physically and trust more than a fling (which is really important to women) but maybe don’t like romantically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 04:47 PM |
| -1 | People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided.the same can be said for men fucking the hot college girls putting up with the fact that’s she’s a little crazy because he wants to fuck hot girls, now if we went into statistics for how many men leave their terminally ill or incarcerated wife vs women you’d also see men simply do not allow the same graces than women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 05:16 PM |
| 0 | People who think " if you didnt want us at my worse, you don't dont deserve us at our best" should be avoided.there are way too many women with dead beat baby daddies for this to be true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Strategic friend zoningNot only is this such a manipulative way to start of a new relationship, but it probably won’t even work. I’ve had multiple guys who’s liked me get over it and started treating me as a friend, now idk if that was apart of a “plan” or not but now we are just.....friends..... like what else would you expect | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 02:34 PM |
| 19 | Men be likeMakeup, Botox, surgery. If women have to feel socially pressured so should men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:11 PM |
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