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1

Wrong simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:44 PM
2

Oh man this is very interesting to hear because it has happened now multiple times to me And i am getting so sick of it. The guy who did it to me has a double masters. Theoretical he should be on the same level but maybe he's jealous of me trying to get a PhD. Its possible. So disgusting. And btw i am working in research and have published so like... The things i have to endure are just beyond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 10:18 PM
11

I will look into it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:18 AM
12

Preach!! Reads like a breath of fresh air. I cannot wait to be single and not exposed to this anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:00 AM
9

Wow. I mean at least he recognized his place in his deeply messed up mental model
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:58 PM
31

I feel like he will be even more pissed if i someone with me though. I will try to make him pack my things and put them outside for me using an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:44 PM
16

I actually really do. He has a super expensive water filter of mine that i can't repurchase and clothes that i love and more... I am actually scared of bringing a male with me because of what he might do. I feel like he may really lose his mind if I bring someone to intimidate him. No options i have are good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:30 PM
50

:') :') :') super smart comment, i feel that deeply. Teared up at the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:28 PM
17

Right!? Like at this point nothing checks out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:26 PM
21

I am so done with dating you have no idea haha i will be single for a very long and very deserved time. I am so looking forward to being on my own and not being exposed to bullshit. At least i love myself and show it. Being single seems like taking a warm bath right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:24 PM
20

Perfect. Keep it simple. I am on my way out ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:22 PM
14

Hahahhahaha exactly!! So random and that's the thing i don't know where these landmines are. Reading that all of you share my perceptions is incredibly validating. I think it's almost funny right now how we can see through him so deeply. It's absolutely true with the control thing. He does so much other stuff that seems to be secretly aimed at controlling me actually. But his sketchy ways aren't as geniusly hidden as he thinks. It's especially funny because he is incredibly smart and thinks he's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:21 PM
12

He may really be :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:17 PM
12

Wow yes i have been having doubts about that!!!! Thank you this is helping me a lot. Thank you for taking the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:15 PM
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Yup he said this verbatim. He said my unwillingness to submit baffles him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:16 PM
10

Yeah sounds about right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:14 PM
53

I have to tell him because i don't have key so he will be there when i gather all my belongings :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:13 PM
35

Love!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:23 PM
20

Thank you for the beautiful comment. I am seeing more and more that there isnt perspective even though I love so many things about him. Things are really taking a turn for the worse. I am in the process of ending it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:22 PM
119

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:19 PM
26

Jup lol he dish but he can't take
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:19 PM
84

Reading it right now. Ur an angel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:18 PM
45

I know. I wish i had a key. This sucks so much my heart goes out to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:09 PM
62

Damn how did you absolutely nail this!? My grandma is currently dying and he's not showing very much support, more so he's giving me petty arguments like this. Truly why do shitty colors fly during times of need!!! Like why this worst timing thing real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:08 PM
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Tbh yes i need to read this book immediately. Intermittent validation also sounds exactly what he's doing to me. Because he's nice like 3/7 days a week and then in horrible moods the rest of the time. I also think it may eventually escalate to physical abuse because he has taken me by the shoulders before and moved me around during an argument and i can see him breaking physical boundaries eventually even though he's a super smart and super sensitive guy (sensitive to his own needs i guess) and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:06 PM
26

Holy f****** shit.... This is so scary. I hate everything about this. Do you think it's a reason to break things off or a red flag at least?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:02 PM
61

Ok damn yes you just enlightened me!! Very very good. They are like children and i should walk away from tantrum time. Do you think this warrants breaking up on my part or should I just let men have tantrums and return when they act normal again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:35 PM
105

I am in the break up process. Comment made me smile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:33 PM
87

I hate that i have to do this :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:17 PM
31

Thank you so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:16 PM
408

Seriously i get this feeling quite a lot that he hates me because he can turn cold like this. Like stone cold. He will tell me one day he loves me and i m the best thing ever and the next day insult the ever living shit out of me thinking i deserve this? Makes no sense to me but it's starting to break me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:16 PM
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Thank you so much for taking the time. I actually decided last night that i will end things. I am a bit scared to get my stuff back ngl but i can't handle frequent assaults on my self esteem even if it was self defense on his part. He's so insane for thinking what i said would warrant such a reaction seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:10 PM
7

Shows you exactly what's to come during future times when you need his support. My grandma just died and my wonderful boyfriend showed his true colors and didn't even do the bare minimum of support. You can just wait for your life to fall apart and your relationship to be based on serving him. Call me when you find a man who ain't like this smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:48 PM
14

Yeah like brutal in a op way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:35 PM
71

Brutal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:31 AM
1

why is my post history sus?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:53 AM
5

hhhhahahahahahhahahah spot on lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:28 AM
22

he was really good.... until this happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:18 AM
4

i mean its possible this is my bias because of my experience. in my experience talking never worked. why should it work now. i had a lot of respect for him and he was brutally honest until now (or so i thought). crushing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:07 AM
22

Yeah i can already sense that talking is futile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:02 AM
2

this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:42 PM
32

29 here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:58 AM
10

Thanks so so much. I can feel a long time of being single coming on. I really want to level up in a way i never have been able before constantly having been in really bad relationships. Thanks so much i appreciate your comment super hard right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 05:04 PM
63

Every time i go on a date I have to pretend like i am the absolute mother Theresa of male acceptance when talk gets directed to preferences meanwhile these dudes explicitly tell me to my face they don't date fat girls. The eggshell thing is 💯 fucking real. Grinds my gears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:30 AM
11

Seriously every single movie and series is somehow about a dude cheating, being older/uglier than the woman and getting what he wants in the end because he's irresistible. Boys will be boys. The further you go back in time in movie production, the worse this gets. I can hardly watch anything at all and nobody seems to mind/notice!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:38 AM
3

I love that we all see this now. Their bullshit empire is coming to an end. This is helping me so much. Just knowing that my perspective is valid because i share it with all of you. No, we aren't too demanding or too negative or crazy. We are just humans. This shit stops with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:18 PM
12

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 10:52 AM
7

My ex: "you are really funny.... For a girl!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:52 PM
5

This is off topic but have you ever noticed that most men have the most fucked up, semi surpressed and ugly sounding wheeze/scream of a laugh? Like they are too manly to let themselves go while they laugh so it comes out an unnatural pitch that is so unattractive? Its disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:51 PM
2

Amen! Preach preach preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:06 AM
37

Daaamn hahhahah what he say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:24 AM
11

Fucking lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:55 AM
26

This is an incredible thought process. Might as well get paid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:04 PM
9

fucking beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:32 PM
17

I have met and been with a few far in between men who don't watch porn or who quit porn. They exist!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:41 AM
9

that will be me some time in the near future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:18 AM
3

Oh shit what gives you cancer.. tretinoin also ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:37 PM
13

Lolol every time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:58 AM
13

Honestly even men who aren't narcs do this. Defensive to death. Vulnerably of any form gets overridden by gaslighting and pointing back. I have been in 3 relationships where this was the norm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:57 AM
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but also why does everyone immediately think of girls who are having daddy issues when its so many men also?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:18 PM
19

If the underlying motivation is in the wrong place, no talking will make a difference
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:50 PM
15

My boyfriend's mind is like teflon and whatever i say slips off right away. I take so many hours of my life to explain something to him with so much energy and nothing ever gets from my mind into his. He just hits me with his original point again. Selfish, inconsiderate and in complete auto pilot. I don't know why they have relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:47 PM
21

God dammit literally happened to me today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:42 PM
1

Men talk to be right, not to understand something or listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:11 PM
5

Loool why are you addressing me personally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:35 PM
2

This is it. They never ever ever sit at home worrying about anything they did. It's very noticeable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:47 AM
4

Looool it's be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:51 PM
3

I took this post as a motivation to read her book and oh Lord it's excellent!!!! I can super recommend. She's an inspiring role model. Such insight. I learned a lot about leveling up from that book!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:52 AM
14

they lose their family? like isnt it men walking out on them and leaving children to the care of the mother in the majority of cases? what's scarier: the prospect to potentially one day walk away from all your responsibilities and start a new life or the prospect of being left alone with children you have to care for on your own?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:27 AM
4

Tbh from what I have seen everyone here is smoking hot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:38 AM
8

Hahahahahaha spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:34 AM
13

This thread is Comedy gold for real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:19 AM
13

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:15 AM
13

Wisdom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:09 AM
2

Looooool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:07 AM
9

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:37 AM
8

Men are doing nothing but he judgemental. They always choose what suits them. It's their nature to be selfish. We are really just pulling equal by putting our needs in the picture!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:35 AM
14

Lol story of my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:40 PM
1

Also, does he need to like me more for the whole duration of the relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:37 PM
3

To number 7: are they saying every man with options is confused?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:34 PM
3

Wow you sound professional and absolutely and 💯 nailed this!!! I m so impressed!! He did triangulate me with her which is why I was worried you are so right arrrgh I m so mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:29 AM
6

So basically don't promise and then see if they do it and dump them if they don't do it on their own? Is talking to exes ever okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:41 PM
5

I know that's never how I want to see myself. I never want to see myself as that woman, I am not her. I can tolerate a lot but infidelity it stops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:37 PM
8

Yeah this. He can't explain it in a way to make it okay. This was very evident today when we talked. He feels bad but has no excuse really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:35 PM
8

That's what I think atm honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:34 PM
4

Thank you :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:33 PM
9

That's what I m scared of. That if I take him back now he'll think he can do it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:33 PM
15

Holy fucking shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:32 PM
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