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Gurl....you dodged the asteroid that killed the dinosaurs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:56 AM
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This is really hitting home since we're going into the holidays and it's going to be my 13th Christmas with Barnacle. I'm not big on the holidays but there are a few main things that I loved to do before him. First, I used to travel for Thanksgiving. Usually internationally. I don't have family so instead of sitting around bored by myself one year I went to Spain. Loved it so much I started doing it every year. Other countries DGAF about Thanksgiving and for most places it's the off season which…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:27 PM
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Great Danes are better behaved. They don't slam doors or give you the finger and are great couch cuddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:31 PM
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Thank you sis! I couldn't even process the rest of the video. I mean it's terrible she's his maid and all, but WTF Eggo's are not healthy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:28 PM
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This is why the current trend in changing language to be more inclusive is discouraging and dangerous. I'm not a former uterus haver. I'm a woman. Doing all these backflips to change language is just distraction from us talking about our lived experiences. Because conversations will get interrupted by someone being called the wrong pronoun and then instead of sharing experiences, offering support, or processing trauma we waste time having to soothe the hurt feelings of the person who got called …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:18 PM
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I tried to talk to Barnacle about how I hated when he talked over me so much and he got sulky and LEFT THE HOUSE FOR THREE HOURS. He comes back and pretends nothing is wrong and proceeds to continue talking over me. It was one of the last things that led me to settle on divorce. What is even the point anymore? How do you communicate with someone who literally walks away when you are trying to communicate? I never advise women to communicate anymore. Men don't listen anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:05 PM
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This is adjacent to "We don't have a racism problem in France because we don't categorize people by race, but we don't like Algerians because they're dangerous criminals, but that's not racist."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:43 PM
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Mental health care isn't like a broken bone where you wear a a cast for six weeks then you're back on your feet good as new. It's more like having diabetes or any other chronic illness. You manage symptoms, monitor progress, deal with setbacks, and for the most part go on with your life. Been in therapy ~15 years. It's still helpful. It's just part of my support system. Friends and family are great, but it's hard for them to be objective or they don't have great listening skills or they're just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:08 PM
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This is the part that is so discouraging. I think being supportive is a genuine human trait for both sexes. In women it's cultivated/encouraged/enforced so many of us do it without even thinking. We have to actively train ourselves not to care so much because men will drain us til we're shells of our former selves and then complain about why we aren't fun anymore. They will then move on and use that as fuel as to why they're so broken. And the next victim will give her all trying to feed the bot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:43 PM
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Also part of the leveling up and bounce club. Throw some more dusties on the bonfire in 2021!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:45 PM
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Deborrah Cooper has a great video about men complaining about independent women and how men forced us to be this way. They can't manage their emotions. They can't communicate. They manipulate and gaslight so much that we just end up disgusted and want nothing to do with them. They abandon the children they create so we have to learn how to be both parents and level up our careers so we can provide. They don't want to plan things so we take trips or a start a new hobby without them. They don't gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:04 AM
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Oh totally. Gay men aren't getting a pass. I hate drag culture and find it just as insulting as blackface. In the 80s at the beginning of AIDS epidemic, lesbians took care of their sick asses when everyone else was scared to be in the same room with them. Yet when have they ever had lesbians' backs? Trash men are trash men no matter who they fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:01 AM
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They are plush toys of different microbes. They look exactly like what the little critters look like under a microscope. An old ex gave me Chicken Pox, Hepatitis, Chlamydia, and Bookworm. Very cute, but kinda of like an inside joke type thing. I wouldn't just give it to anyone and it definitely wouldn't be the only gift. https://www.giantmicrobes.com/us/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:27 PM
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There's the beginning of a movement for theLGB to separate from the TQ+. Sexual orientation and gender identity are two different things with conflicting goals and I think they should separate. Especially since many Ts and their superwoke allies have decided that harassing and threatening the LGBs into dating them is acceptable and lauded behavior. For example calling a gay man a genital fetishist because he doesn't want his dick to come with a set of breasts or a vagina. Or threatening lesbians…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:09 PM
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Judge Lynn Toler is a national treasure. Divorce Court is great for watching LVM/NVM/ZVM in action. You can learn a lot from how they interact with the judge. Especially when it looks like things aren't going their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:28 PM
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Love Jessica Jones! Season 1 is one of the best seasons of the Marvel Netflix shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:45 PM
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Agent Carter. Set right after the end of WWII, it's the adventures of Peggy Carter as a super spy after Capt. America dies. Only two seasons, but very fun with a great cast. I'm not sure she's leveling up, because she was already pretty fantastic in the first Capt. America movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:47 PM
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I think my boss who liked to date married men had this going on. She finally got one that left his wife for her and was terrified he was cheating whenever he went out of town on business. The level of schadenfreude I got out of her alone could light up Times Square on NYE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:18 PM
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I fucking hate them. They have co-opted black peoples looks and style and get paid millions. Meanwhile actual black people wearing certain clothes, or born with a certain body type, or rocking certain hairstyles aren't hired, or get reprimanded at school and the military, or get called ratchet and ghetto. And don't get me started on their "dad". Woman of the Year my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:27 AM
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OMG. I remember all the whining about how Skylar was such a nag and wouldn't let Walter live his life. Even after the showrunner came out and said literally "Walter White is not a good person. You should not like him." They still blamed the woman because...reasons. I mean, if you're gonna idolize a drug kingpin, Gus was the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:47 PM
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Another thing to remember is that this isn't really about Lupita. He's doing two things here. 1) Broadcasting to dark skinned women that you could be as rich and successful and beautiful as Lupita, but you still ain't shit. 2) Dude version of PickMe. Signals to other trash men that "I'm a cool guy! Please like me. I desperately need attention." Oh, and there is a third option. Signals to any woman from any race/culture/ethnicity to stay away from his NVM ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:15 PM
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Misogynoir strikes again! There is a certain subset of black men who cannot go a day without shitting on black women in general and especially dark skinned women. Kevin Hart is a famous one. There are many. Do not date anyone who trashes the women of their own race. This shows that they disrespect their mother/sister/aunties. More likely than not, they have boatloads of racist, stereotypical ideas about women of other cultures and races. "Black women are too bossy." = Expects you to be a pushove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:41 PM
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Shoooo...the average woman is a size 14 these days. Keep up the great attitude and reasonable expectations. 👑 THIS IS QUEEN ENERGY! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:56 PM
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I was a toxic friend to someone a long time ago. She had huge breasts and didn't wear a bra and I shamed her something awful for it. I also mocked her sensitivity. I was a hard core "cool girl" back then. After about two years of friendship she rightfully dumped me. I feel terrible about it now because what I realized way too late was that I was attracted to her and her breasts were so distracting and making fun of her was the only way to maintain some control over those unfamiliar feelings. Las…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:27 PM
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This is why we need to be listening to our spidey sense more. That feeling that he's doing something shady didn't spring from nowhere. He's said or done something to make her second guess him. That's when instead of playing Mission Impossible games to find out what he's been up to just leave to start over with someone who hasn't triggered your alarms. What happens when she checks the phone and finds nothing. Does that sense of something wrong go away or does she start thinking he has another pho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:46 PM
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I had boss that used to date married men all the time. She finally got one of these dudes to leave his wife for her. Once they were together she freaked out big time whenever he went away for business. He was in sales so it was at least once a month. We had an open office so I heard her calling him every hour asking where he was or who he was with and were there any hot girls there. Had me laughing my ass off all the time. Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:03 PM
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Same here. Freedom 2021! We can do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:21 PM
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Urgh. If I had a dollar for every time he's said "But you do it tooooo!" I'd be able to buy RiRi's new skincare line AND a couple of lingerie sets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:25 AM
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DC is amazing and I totally stan her so much! There's probably one about porn on there that might give you some insight on how to proceed with your current guy. I think it was mentioned recently here in FDS or maybe it was in Ask Women Over 30...anyway they said that it's easier to start over with someone new and have your boundaries firmly intact than it is to try to enforce them with someone who's already messed up. Your dude has messed up twice and has to have a digital babysitter so he won't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 07:19 PM
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You still care if you care about crushing his ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:09 PM
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If a man doesn't make you secure in the relationship what is he bringing to the table? Deborrah Cooper is running a series right now called What's In It For Me. It's about the qualities women should be looking for beyond basics. Things like knowing himself and recognizing his part in how things happen in his life, being emotionally available, showing the ability to create a true partnership. It's really enlightening. https://youtu.be/zM4uUEStBaA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:56 PM
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This is playing games and wasting time. When they disrespect your boundaries you dump them. You don't flirt with other guys to make him jealous. You don't fake non-interest. You show non-interest. By dumping him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:46 PM
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I love watching Deborrah Cooper. She's like an awesome Auntie and is especially great at breaking down the cultural BS in the black community. She must have some great moderation because the comments are mostly positive. A dusty or two will get through but they are easy to ignore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:34 PM
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Yeah I ended up giving my furry critter to my bestie. She's doing well and I'm glad I did it because she's had a very good life, but I miss her all the time. That was the first sign Mr. Barnacle was a LVM. I should've listened. *sigh* Well, lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:29 AM
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Same. Screaming empty feeling *shudder* So true it hurts. Sometimes I get scared and weak and think is it really that bad to stay with him? He's not that bad. Then I remind myself of all the times I've been scared or depressed or just had a bad day and the only thing he does is change the subject or say how he has it worse. Done with it. Freedom in 2021!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:07 PM
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He's standing in a kitchen and makes a plug for hiring him for private events. Dude, do you want a date or a catering gig?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:44 PM
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Great news! Strength and healing to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:50 PM
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Next time one of them gets murdered by the police, we should just sit and wait for Sally, Molly, and Becky to organize a march for them. I'm sure Maria, Rosa, and Guadeloupe will get right on that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:07 PM
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Misogynoir is alive in thriving. I mean there are multiple famous black men that are proud to say they won't date us because we're too bossy/angry/demanding or they think dark skinned women are ugly. These same men get mad when we date non-black men. It sickening and I'm so over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:59 PM
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Don't know if she's updated her views, but last time I knew she was a Cosby apologist more worried about his legacy than the 60 women he drugged and abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:27 PM
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If you are not in actual physical danger, uprooting yourself with no job in a global pandemic is not very smart. How much savings do you have? You might be able to sign a lease with no proof of employment if you can pay a whole year upfront. Is he really worth draining your savings over? You want to rely on the kindness of friends and relatives? How many weeks/months until you've run out of couches to stay on? Get serious about leaving him and make a plan. Act as if the relationship is over. Sto…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:55 PM
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So no one really likes going to the doctor but if something is hurting him for like two months will he eventually go? Does he expect you to tell him to go? Are you putting in emotional labor on this front that is starting to drain you? What kind of messiness does he have and what is your tolerance for it? It's good he doesn't expect you to clean it, but what happens if you want to have people over? If he's not meeting your standard now, he's not going to get better with time and living together.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:28 PM
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Thanks! There appears to be plenty of demand even during pandemic madness. This is proof that you are never to old to stop learning. It's never too late to start again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:02 PM
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Signed up for Medical Assistant school at community college. Classes start in one month. So excited for another fresh start. Project Freedom 2021 has begun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:26 PM
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LOL...Sir, this is an Arby's! I don't mind heavy or short guys and don't care about career/job as long as you can function as an adult. But OMG that whining. Nothing says you can show a lady a good time like crying about all the things you aren't and the women you can't get. NEXT!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:35 PM
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No. This is creepy AF. Like I'm almost sick to my stomach about how creepy this is. He's all "I know you look terrified, but I have to save you from all those other creepy assholes by being the creepiest of them all." I want to mace him SO MANY TIMES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:19 PM
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Correct me if in wrong but GenXers were dating in the free love era right? Dammit we're not THAT old! Free love was the 60s when even the oldest of us were children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:59 PM
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I wish Themyscira was real every damn day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:37 PM
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How much you or someone else spends on something should not determine how you feel in it. A woman can be dripping in diamonds and still feel like trash. A woman can be wearing Payless pumps and be on top of the world. Self esteem has no price tag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:47 PM
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Yes, to all this! Telling all you have and accomplished to someone you're not interested in is a waste of time and energy. It serves no purpose. By saying all that she is still trying to prove herself worthy. To who? For what? Do not engage. It reminds me of cred checking. This happens a lot to women who have hobbies that are traditionally male dominated. They throw inane, obscure trivia at you to see if you can prove you belong. This is a trap. In their minds you will never belong because you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:03 PM
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After five more years of this BS, dude will be posting on divorce boards whining that she left him because he didn't clean his beard trimmings while the article "She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes in the Sink" sits unread in his inbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:54 PM
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Afternoon productivity ruined. This is comedy gold. These people writing dissertations in a dating ad eliminate themselves by the sheer amount of word vomit on the page. No reading required except for entertainment purposes. Get a load of this gem. https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/4031578917.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 06:25 PM
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My barnacle is very similar to yours. Sucks up all my emotional energy. Yet gives none. It took the pandemic for this to sink in. He's especially insidious because he posts all this "I love my Queen. She's my best friend." BS on FB. Except that love is contingent on me never having a bad day or having any problems. Whenever that happens the vague posts like "The ones closest to you are sometimes the least supportive." or "Moodiness isn't cute." I've sunk almost 13 years into this mess. Don't was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:38 PM
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Right there with you in planning to escape my male-shaped emotional barnacle. Keep fighting the good fight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:25 PM
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My husband is the same way! He knows he's got depression and a host of messiness from an abusive childhood. When things get tense between us, he slips into the whole "I know I'm fucked up/You don't deserve me" spiel. In the past I'd always reassure him. Tell him he's worthy. He's a good person. Then fifteen minutes later I'd be pissed again because whatever the issue was between us hadn't been solved, yet he'd gotten his hurt ego soothed, and I stopped talking about him going to therapy. I don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 05:17 PM
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Independent woman who doesn't need anyone = Don't bother me with your emotions or problems but must be my therapist/cheerleader/mood booster 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:11 PM
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Hope you have a great time at the beach! I haven't shaved anything in ~5 years, and pits were the last to go au natural. I was inspired by a woman on the subway. It was July and hot AF. She was standing across from where I was sitting, holding on to the pole just as casual as could be while reading her book. Hairy pits on full display and not a care in the world. I decided that day to be that woman. I still get self conscious in the summertime lifting my arms too much, but not having to deal wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:57 PM
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Champion used to be really cheap here too around 20+ years ago. I think you coulda found the sneakers at Payless. Same thing with Converse. You could get a pair for $20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:16 PM
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I'm sorry, these men who don't shower or wear dirty clothes aren't LVM. They are Zero or even more likely Negative Value Men. LVM might be lazy or cheap with dates, but still show up in clean clothes. Back in ancient times (late 90s/early 00s) I really don't remember anyone showing up in dirty clothes and smelly. They might have had bad table manners or a bad attitude or whatever else got them dismissed, but, lords above and below, at least they showed up clean. WHAT HAPPENED???? This was only 2…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:26 PM
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What is this idea that cast iron is some delicate orchid that must be cared for just the right way or it will....what...cease being a pan? I mean our great grandmas were using this thing to make bomb ass biscuits with a fireplace and no electricity or running water. Cast iron is helluva lot easier to take care of than precious nonstick that you have to be careful what spatula you use or else the coating will flake into your food. Sounds like some stupid mess men made up to make their cooking equ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:44 PM
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I haven't dated in 13+ years. Women really doing all this for dinner and a movie? Or is that a fancy date these days. What is a casual date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:14 PM
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You've seen his lady, right? Gorgeous rocking her gray and totally AGE APPROPRIATE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:49 AM
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This pic is a thing of beauty! (right click + save) ETA: Can't wait to be single again. I'm getting a friggin' dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:35 AM
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Too true. Look at how the Democratic primary turned out. A clown car full of entitled white men taking up all the oxygen in the room so in November we're left with choosing between a sexual harasser with Klan rally type racism or a sexual harasser with "I got one black friend so I'm not racist" type racism. At the end of the day women, especially women of color are still losing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:12 PM
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Apolitical? In these times? Nopety nope nope. 40 and this boring? He's probably married and trolling for anything breathing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:37 PM
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Even when you're into the same things somehow the ones you like are always diminished. And oh, lords above and below spare me from the cred checking. Like comic books or sci-fi? Be prepared to be asked about the most inane, obscure BS they can dig up just so they can say you're not a real fan. *barf*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:53 AM
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Yes! These guys think strong women are great....for other people. Or a strong woman means he never has to deal with any of her negative emotions yet feels free to dump his problems on her 24/7. Like when I was in the hospital recovering from a hysterectomy my husband dropped by after work then proceeded to spend 15 minutes bitching about the job and all the other stuff that bothered him that day. I was like "Why did you come here to tell me how shitty your day was?" He had the most lost look on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:39 PM
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I love this sub because it's so direct. There's no beating around the bush or "maybe you need to communicate more" BS. Talking will never help when these LVM don't listen and don't care. It's really made me realize how much time I've wasted with a LVM. That's okay. Got an exit plan and already imagining a future without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:09 PM
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It's really no better on the atheist/skeptics side either. They even had to fire the head of American Atheists over allegations of sexual misconduct. Multiple women going to atheist conventions report harassment in addition to the usual disrespect (talking over, not taken seriously, etc.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:48 PM
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Oof. I feel this so much. After 13 years the pandemic has awakened me to the fact I married a LVM. He can't muster more than a grunt for anything new I learn or get excited about. Like I LOVE the show The Expanse and can't help but gush about the characters, the storyline, the actors, all of it. His response is usually disinterested, or even worse, talks over me to change the subject to one of his interests. It's as if I like something he already deems it boring and not worth his time even thoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:38 PM
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