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| 1 | Seeking advice: Is using a location tracking app on my boyfriend crossing a line?I don’t care if you’re red pill, blue pill, or purple pill… this is WRONG. I can understand having a bunch of people on your Find My Friends app, especially women who live in urban areas and/or frequently travel or commute alone at night. But to make your boyfriend install a tracking app and lying to him saying that it’s for “his safety in case he hurts himself on his bike” when your real reason is because you’re insecure and want to spy on his every move… that’s insane. Compounded with the fact… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Some of my best feminine care habits, what are yours?Gel infused socks at night. Heated foot bath after every 12hr shift. Arm and Hammer toothpaste with a vibrating toothbrush. Your teeth will always be white with a baking soda toothpaste. Double-cleansing face at night on the days I wear makeup, starting with micellar water to remove makeup, then an oil to remove stubborn eye makeup, then a gentle cleanser to get rid of the oily residue. I use the La Roche Possay micellar water, Algenist oil cleanser, and Philosophy Purity cleanser. I rotate diff… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/23 04:40 AM |
| 4 | I was committed to celibacy but have given in to him twice. How do I regain control of the situation?I think it’s too late to set this boundary. Saying you want to wait x amount of weeks/months/dates before getting physical is a moot point because you’ve already had sex. You’ve only known him for a week and yet you’ve already hung out with him four times and had sex with him half of those times. Stop hanging out with him so much. You’re making yourself way too available. And not for nothing, but if you didn’t want to have sex, then you wouldn’t have gone inside his home at night after a date. T… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Probably because men stop “dating” their wives once they’re married and feel like they no longer have to put in any effort or go out and do fun/adventurous/romantic things because they think that’s what you do to get a wife, not something you do to keep a wife. Want your wife to fuck you? Then take a shower, put on a nice clean well-fitting outfit, and take her somewhere nice for a date. Maybe get her flowers. Compliment her hair and her outfit. Make her feel wanted. It’s really not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 13 | Boyfriends timeline is different than mineHe wants to move in in three years?? No mention of an engagement, marriage, or kids? You two don’t want the same things in life. And that’s okay. But that doesn’t mean you have to put up with it. Sadly, this is to be expected when women date younger men. Sure, he’s only two years younger than you, which you probably didn’t think would be an issue when you first started dating. But lots of men don’t take women’s fertility window seriously. For him to want to wait even up to ten years before havin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Happily married, but thanks for your unsolicited advice 👌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Men care about n-count:The MoratoriumMy guess is that you’ll fuck anything that moves, but you’ll only marry a virgin, right? You’ll beg women for sex (since you said your imperative is to get sex as soon as possible), but if the woman turns you down because she can smell your desperation a mile away, you retort with “whatever, you’re fat/ugly/stupid/[insert insult here] anyway,” and otherwise make it seem like you were doing her a favor by offering to seize on top of her for two minutes and not reciprocate any sexual pleasure. Did… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Men care about n-count:The MoratoriumMy imperative is to get sex as soon as possible. It’s your job as the sexual selectors to keep me from doing that. Has anyone ever told you that you sound like a vile, chauvinist pig? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 11:29 AM |
| 2 | We're equal but also we demand unique privilegesCertainly no one works 30 days in a row. Everyone already gets multiple days off a month, whether it’s weekends, holidays, or just a scheduled day off. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/05/22 11:50 AM |
| 28 | My boyfriend (31) says he wants to move in with me so he can “save” and is not talking about going half on bills. How can I tell him that I expect him to pay bills if he moves in with me ?We decided we might as well… No. “We” didn’t decide anything. HE alone decided. If he wants to save, then why doesn’t he get a roommate to split bills with? Why doesn’t he cut other nonessential expenses? What makes him think it’s okay to move in with his girlfriend and not contribute? He did not mention splitting bills with you because he does not intend to. Your boyfriend is trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Conflicted about having kids with my man due to age gap..I dated a guy that was 15 years older than me for six months. I was 18 and he was 33. I thought I was the ✨coolest✨ freshman on my college campus because I had a mature, handsome, doctor boyfriend who made a lot of money and had a nice car and had his shit together. He had dated plenty of women in the past that were closer in age with him, but they broke up because the women wanted marriage and children and he “wasn’t ready for that yet.” He would make light jabs about not being able to take me … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/22 09:20 PM |
| 3 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.No one expects a man to be a court jester, but some people can be so damn bland. Went on a date once where the guy barely spoke, I was the one who always initiated conversation first and asked questions, and he would respond with one word answers. “Did you grow up around here?” “No.” “So… where did you grow up?” “Somewhere else.” It was like pulling teeth. Boring and uninteresting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 01:09 AM |
| 12 | A man who is above average looking, say 7-9 should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness. The fact that they are forced to work for it and still often struggle to even get their attention perfectly epitomizes women’s inflated self images due to abundance.Just because a guy is good looking, that doesn’t mean they have good personalities. I’ve passed on plenty of objectively handsome men because they were unintelligent, rude, or, or just plain boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 15 | Readers of why men love bitches, what are ur thoughts on my situation?“If so, that sounds horrible. Like you’re going to abandon a man you formally considered a friend/mentor/love interest, during a very difficult time in his life, all because he can’t give you what you want.” I think this is terrible advice. I’m with you on everything else, but that line specifically is awful. He doesn’t want to commit to any sort of relationship with OP, period. It’s not that complicated. It has nothing to do with his business or the fact that he’s mourning the death of his pare… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/22 12:22 PM |
| 24 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?Someone went through my post history and shared pics of me in a wedding dress (that I had posted in the wedding planning sub) and said “this is the face of FDS” and called me fat, even though my physique is very much average at worst 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 11:12 PM |
| 49 | Social media potential flag - should I block/delete?If all the women are from his hometown, they’re likely former classmates from high school or college. My Facebook friends list is filled with old classmates, especially since we recently had our reunion a couple years back. A lot of us reconnected there. I don’t think him being Facebook friends with women is a red flag. She should be more concerned with the fact that he liked the Playboy page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 12:19 PM |
| 10 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.I agree, but this guy makes no mention of saving all his money now so that he can retire early. He makes no mention of income properties, stocks, bonds, crypto, gold/silver/platinum, he doesn’t even own his own home. He does say he has a 401k and a Roth IRA though. If I was making $230k a year, I would own, not waste my money renting and paying someone else’s mortgage. He said he rents because he enjoys the freedom, doesn’t want to be bothered with maintenance, and doesn’t want to commit to buyi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 20 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.To clarify, they do not currently live together and they are each paying their own rent and bills. They are considering moving in together in September, but he wants to keep splitting the rent 50/50 even though he earns almost three times her salary. If I knew this girl personally, I would tell her not to move in with him. I would tell her to only move in with him if he gives her a ring and sets a wedding date, and even then, rent and bills need to be split proportionately according to their res… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 01:53 PM |
| 11 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.To be fair, I think discussing the exact dollar amount you earn should only be brought up if you’re considering marriage, kids, buying property together, or cohabitating. When you’re just dating, I think keeping it general is fine. Like up until this point, this woman knew what he did for work and had a general idea of how much money he made, but it wasn’t until the topic of moving in together that his exact income came to light. I’m sure she probably guessed he made six figures, but she obvious… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 01:38 PM |
| 63 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.I dug through the comments a bit and saw that his girlfriend makes $85k. So he earned almost triple her income. Now, I’m a fair person, so I’ll point out that since this guy works in sales, it’s likely he has a base salary and the rest is commission. Which means that his pay might not be the same week to week, there will be highs and lows, and maybe some lulls where he doesn’t sell anything. But the only way sis is outearning this guy is if he stays employed for a year and doesn’t sell a single … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Is there even a bar anymore?They’re like monkeys… always wanting to show their peepees to anyone with eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 07:27 PM |
| 20 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.I sell stuff from my wardrobe on Poshmark. I’ve recouped thousands of dollars from selling my stuff over the past several years. If my husband told me to give him half or to put that money in our joint account, I would laugh in his face. I purchased all of my clothes using my own money, and most of my pieces were from before we got married. This loser allocates an “allowance” or a budget for his wife to spend on whatever she wants, and clearly it’s not enough if she’s clutching on to a measly $2… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 04:38 PM |
| -8 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Yes, I’m for real. A comedian’s job is to make jokes and roast people, and usually the people sitting up front are the targets. Also, the jokes for the Oscars of all events are definitely vetted beforehand. I don’t get why the joke is what people are hung up on… do people think Will Smith is high value or something? Because he’s not. He won his first Oscar last night, and yet that’s not what people are talking about today… he’s always gonna be known as the guy who smacked a comedian for making a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:01 PM |
| -7 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?“Do your research” seems to be the go-to phrase that people will throw around when they see an opinion they don’t like. Here is some research for ya, along with dates, quotes, photos, Twitter screenshots, and interviews on talk shows. In 2011, Jada was rumored to be having an affair with Marc Anthony. In 2013, Jada came out and said she and Will did not have an open marriage. Later that same year, there were rumors that Will and Margot Robbie hooked up while working on a movie together. I don’t … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:53 PM |
| -20 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Will Smith has turned into the male version of a pick-me… he accepts crumbs from his wife and will do anything to stay with her, even if it makes him look desperate and comes at the expense of his mental health. Ladies, put yourself in Will’s shoes… you’re faithfully married for over 20 years, you worship your spouse, you have children, but your man is out clowning around with another woman half your age and publicly displaying her at parties. What do you do? You leave! We’ve talked about this m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:13 PM |
| 7 | Scrote wants his mortgage paid offOh. My. GOD! And men have the audacity to say we’re the gold diggers! Women: I just want a nice, financially stable guy to take me out to a fancy restaurant and be loyal to me. Men: wow, you’re a gold-digging hoe. I’m a KING! You need to suck my peepee and prove your worth to me before I spend $100 to take you out on a date. Also men: I won’t date a woman who makes more money than me because I am a KING and I should be the breadwinner, but I also expect her to pay 50% of the bills, carry my seed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:53 PM |
| 17 | Spotted one in the wild.“Show me you’re worth pursuing” = “dance for me, little monkey!” Yuck, no thanks 💁🏽♀️🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 04:27 PM |
| -7 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24I never said it was Molly’s duty, but these two are supposedly best friends and grew up together, so you’d think if your best friend comes to you saying he’s down in the dumps because he can’t hook a date, you’d give him some good and honest advice. Instead she told him he’s too nice and too available. This is terrible advice and a disservice to women everywhere. Women like nice guys, not bad boys… He was “too nice” before, so he took his friend’s advice seriously, did a 180, and is a bad boy no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 04:15 PM |
| -12 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24Am I the only one who thinks Molly sucks and is at fault for creating a monster? She’s a pick-me who always likes to tag along with this guy and hangs out at all-guy parties with him. She literally told this dude to stop being nice to women, stop chasing women, stop texting them first, stop being available to them, act more mysterious… that literally goes against our FDS code. Women should not be texting guys first or chasing guys for dates. Why tf would Molly tell her friend to stop being “so n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 02:42 PM |
| 16 | Reminder to also vet your female roommates!This happened to an old friend of mine. Her roommate had questionable judgement when it came to men. She was bringing home a different guy every weekend. One of them stole my friend’s LV bag that had her wallet (with cash, cards, and unlimited metro card), keys, phone, and some bougie makeup and perfume. We’re talking a loss of over $5000. She had a firm discussion with her roommate and basically said if you don’t get my stuff back, I’m calling the police on both of you. So the roommate called t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 02:16 PM |
| 34 | Love Is Blind- What Did Shake Say Behind Deeptis Back?She told one of her fellow female castmates in the ladies’ dwelling that “it would be nice to be a doctor’s wife.” I like Deepti, but jfc, what a severe lapse in judgement. She was naive to accept Shake’s proposal. He literally spelled out exactly the kind of person he was in the pods. He flat out said he doesn’t date Indian girls, he exclusively dated white blonde women, and asked questions to try and gauge how big/heavy the women were in the pods by asking if he could carry them in his shoulde… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 06:09 PM |
| 18 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?I traveled back to my home country for five weeks to visit my ill grandmother in her small village. She had cancer and was very weak and frail, so I did all the home care for her (cleaning, laundry, dishes, etc), ran all the errands (driving into the city to get groceries and meds, going to the bank and the post, filling jugs with water from the well). I did go out every evening with my cousins and friends for dinners and drinks once my grandma went to bed at 9, but this trip was by no means “a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 04:27 PM |
| -13 | Dodged a bullet. 👑If you really think it’s okay to knock up your girl, love bomb her, and then dump her in the middle of her abortion because you are now “free” of obligation, you have some serious issues that need to be addressed in therapy. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/02/22 09:13 PM |
| -20 | Dodged a bullet. 👑Look at all the loser incels praising this sorry excuse of a man. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/02/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Supporting bf through unemployment - how long to wait for balance?“Shutting up” and being submissive to him won’t make him respect you more, and him demanding those things doesn’t make him a HVM. Can’t you see that he’s testing you? He’s testing you to see how far he can go before you reach your breaking point. He even gave you an out and said if you don’t want to stick around for his situation to get better, you can leave. You should have taken that opportunity, but you fell right into his trap. You have an unemployed man baby living in your apartment and not… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 0 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.I still don’t understand why someone would ask their significant other if they want a birthday gift. If you have to ask, then you’re a lame partner. Sorry if that’s too blunt, but I never ask my husband if he wants a birthday present. I always get him something, make him a fancy cake, and either cook his favorite dinner or go out to a nice restaurant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/22 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.Exactly. It’s a personal decision. The woman didn’t choose to cheat on her diet by indulging in junk. Her boyfriend took it upon himself to make that decision for her. He probably thought she would make an exception and eat the cookies because 1. it was her birthday, and 2. the cookies were from him. He was wrong on both counts. Like I said, he could have gotten her flowers. It’s more romantic and definitely a safe option for someone with a strict diet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/22 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.I think you missed the point entirely. I agree that this woman lacked tact. Her outburst was childish, and ghosting him was even more juvenile. But if you’ve been with someone for six months and you know they have dietary restrictions, why would you get them a basket filled with junk you know they can’t eat? It lacks thought. A gorgeous bouquet of flowers and a card would have been better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/22 03:45 AM |
| 4 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.What kind of person asks someone if they want a gift for their birthday? Of course we want gifts for our birthday, but in an effort to be diplomatic, we would never say “yes, of course I want you to give me birthday presents!” This is something a child would say. Don’t ever ask someone if they want a gift. If you see something that makes you think of them and you know they would like it, then just give it to them as a gift. And if you’ve been dating someone for six months, you should give them a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/22 03:40 AM |
| 10 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?If he yells at you. And I’m not talking about just a regular disagreement or something, I mean full out screaming, pulsating temple veins, face turning red. Even if he doesn’t hit you in that moment, stick around and he eventually will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 02:35 PM |
| 22 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?Can confirm. I tried to rescue a girl from marrying this scumbag who was flirting with me, asking me out on dates, sending me dick pics. And asking me to send him nudes. I sent her the screenshots. She left me on read and married him anyway. These idiots don’t want to be saved. Just let them be miserable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesEh, it’s a quick $2 path ride away. I’d rather that than have him pick me up and know where I live or work. But he better take me to someplace great, not Dunkin Donuts for fucks sake 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 39 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesI totally agree with you! On the one hand, I like the idea that a coffee date is flexible… it’s a good way to vet the guy, see if he’s handsome/matches his online photos, gauge to see how clean he is and if he’s nice and polite, but also be able to dip out if you’re not feeling it. But on the other hand, I also agree with the general consensus in this sub that coffee dates are very low effort. So maybe a way to make the guy put in more effort while still giving you the flexibility to bounce if y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 21 | DAE have a visceral negative reaction to Hinge’s social media ads? Who are these meant to market to? It can’t be women.To be totally totally fair, if a guy read my bio (because let’s be honest, most of them don’t and just swipe right on everyone with hopes they’ll get a match) and took note of my favorite foods or hobbies and then made sure to come through with it on a date, I would like that. But it can’t be something dumb like string cheese. Maybe he could have taken her to a cheese making session or a cheese and wine pairing. Something a little more thoughtful than Polly-O string cheese 🤦🏽♀️ On my profile I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 05:33 PM |
| 8 | How to reconcile with the fact that my brother doesn't support the FDS strategies, although he is an HVM?I’ve read your post and all your comments, and I hate to break it to you, but your brother is not a HVM. He treats his girlfriend like a queen (so we believe), but balks when you tell him you expect the same from the men you date? Why? Does he think his little sister isn’t worthy of being treated nice? That just means he respects his girlfriend more than you… most likely because he fucks her. If a man only thinks you’re worthy of being treated like a queen because you sleep with him, then he’s l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:33 PM |
| 40 | A cautionary tale on why you shouldn't settle for less. Break up at the first sign.I remember reading this a while back and I voted that they were both assholes. She was rude in this scenario. Her wealthy boyfriend hit a major roadblock during the pandemic, as did millions of other people. She should have been a little more compassionate and sympathetic to that, especially knowing he was a single dad and had a kid to take care of. He was transparent about his inability to pay for an expensive dinner and bougie birthday cake, and he and his daughter cooked the meal and baked th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:56 PM |
| -6 | Vetting Strategy: Ask a man how he feels about his sexual health.I don’t disagree with that. I’m just saying that not trusting your partner to be transparent about his past is not good for your mental health and is a sign he’s not the one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:23 AM |
| -36 | Vetting Strategy: Ask a man how he feels about his sexual health.I was with you up until you said “I even get tested every few months in a monogamous relationship, I can never take a man at his word when it comes to this topic.” If you’re in a serious monogamous relationship with a man, but you still feel the need/want to test yourself for STDs on a regular basis because you don’t trust him to tell you the truth, then why are you with him? The relationship is doomed. Best to just end it at that point instead of stressing yourself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 2 | This is why FDS is so important !I was this woman a few years ago. I didn’t waste 13 years of my life, but I was the nurse who was earning more than double what her resident boyfriend was. I made the money. I cleaned and did laundry. I ran errands. I cooked. In my head I kept thinking this was an investment, and once he started making more money, he would do these things for me too. I dumped him after a year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 01:49 PM |
| 2 | OP asked for advice and naturally everyone gaslit her into thinking she was at faultImagine complaining that you have to drive an hour for work… and not even a daily occurrence, but for a temporary project. I know people with much longer commutes than that. Also, driving really isn’t a chore. Now, I’m NOT advocating that you snooze behind the wheel, obviously! But with cruise control, drive assist, lane keep, and anti-collision safety sensors, driving really has become sort of a mindless task. Just keep your hands on the wheel, eyes on the road, and relax while listening to you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 08:04 PM |
| 29 | Where to look to find HVM?Settling for any guy just to have someone to live with is a terrible idea. If you have anxiety over living alone, then you have deeper rooted issues that warrant help from a therapist. Just because you’ve already gone to therapy, that doesn’t mean it’s failed you. Go again or try a different therapist. You can’t expect to be rid of your anxieties just because you’ve talked to someone a handful of times. You don’t have to live alone somewhere remote or secluded. Live in a complex where there’s pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:18 PM |
| 6 | This is why we block and delete, it’s as much about preventing our own harmful acts in a moment of weakness.I don’t think this is something that blocking and deleting would have prevented. She would have just asked her friends to use their socials accounts to snoop on him. This woman is obviously disturbed and hurting and needs therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:59 PM |
| 26 | Would you date someone divorced/ have kids?No. I did it once for a few months and thought it was great, but that was only because his ex took the kids to Italy for eight weeks in the summer to visit the grandparents. So basically those two months were just a wild fuckfest. Once his kids came back, his Friday nights and weekends were reserved for the kids and I fell to the wayside. Then I would only get texts at 8pm on a Tuesday night saying “hey what are you doing right now?” No thanks. I feel like dating a man with kids only works if yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:25 PM |
| -2 | The bar is in Hades. When will we stop glorifying terrible men?These guys are gross, but tbf, skinny tatted white dudes give the best dicking. Let’s not pretend like we don’t know why these rich influential women are even with these guys 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 16 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Jfc I remember the first time I went over to my husband’s house back when we first started dating, it was spotless. And I mean, magazine/showroom quality spotless. I commented on how nice his home was and he shyly admitted that he spent the entire day deep cleaning everything for my arrival (vacuuming the chairs and sofas, washing the cabinets, baseboards, and doors, power washing the siding and windows, shining the wood floors and furniture, even cleaned the inside of his oven because we were g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 01:18 PM |
| 6 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.I don’t feel sorry for her. She’s a major pickme. She chose to sleep with him. She didn’t protect herself. She allowed a NVM to nut in her. It’s hard to feel sympathy for someone who talks shit about another woman because of her skin color. Low-class all around. I feel sorry for the child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 04:20 PM |
| 9 | Love is never enough!The three things you should absolutely agree on to make a marriage work are: finances, politics, and religion. I think politics is the biggest one because whether or not you realize it, your political beliefs dictate how you will raise your kids, handle money, and run your household. I saw firsthand how a difference in political beliefs can strain a marriage. My father is conservative, my mother is liberal, and this is reflected in their spending habits. My father never shops. My mother shops mu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag if he kisses you on the first date without asking first?If it’s a nice gentle kiss, then it’s fine with me. But if it’s aggressive, grabs your head or shoulders, too much tongue… hell no. I personally think asking for permission to give you a kiss kinda kills the mood. I just like to let things happen organically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:38 PM |
| 13 | Please don’t try to pick up people at their jobsWhen I worked as a server and bartender, I absolutely LOVED it when customers would ask me out. I’d say yes, hype them up for the duration of their visit, make a couple sarcastic and/or flirtatious jokes, they’d tip me 30% or better, and then I’d ghost them 💁🏽♀️ I know it’s different when you don’t work for tips though. I’m a nurse now and when middle aged able-bodied men would ask for my number, try to grope me, or ask for bed baths, I just call and tell their wives 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:35 PM |
| 21 | A real "Cool Girl" is one who turns down Leonardo DiCaprioThis reminds me of that scene from the movie Bad Teacher where Cameron Diaz’s character said “I spent the entire summer following the Chicago Bulls, but those guys are not looking to settle down. They all wear condoms, then they take the condoms with them… that’s how paranoid they are, like it’s so easy to get pregnant from some guy nutting into a condom.” NBA players don’t wanna chance getting baby trapped with a one night stand… especially if they’re married! 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 01:39 PM |
| 128 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.There’s a way to do it. Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively do this all the time. But it only works because she roasts him back. This girl just sits there and takes it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 42 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.“She gives me everything, so in return I open jars for her. Her heart belongs to me. If I don’t get her anything for her birthday, I’ll just show her this post.” Certainly he wrote this in jest, but like… no. It’s not funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:36 PM |
| 10 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupPlease include the link to this post. I just wanna talk to him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 17 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….“The dates were mediocre because he did the bare minimum of paying for dinner, and he was not a gentleman because talked about other women he found attractive and would have sleepovers with them.” There, I fixed it for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 3 | That alota damageOkay, Great Value Krysten Ritter 🙄 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together?You’re not impure. But if your idea of purity is directly proportional to whether or not you’ve slept with someone, then you were already “impure” for sleeping with your ex. Sorry, but a man who speaks to you in that way, dumps you, says he never loved you, blocked you and ghosted you… he’s not even worth the dry ashy skin on the heels of my feet. He doesn’t own you, especially not after he broke up with you. Do not make up with this person. He’s insecure and controlling. He probably broke up wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/21 12:45 PM |
| -1 | How to handle your boyfriend following women on Instagram?Sorry, but you don’t sound very honest. You claim you have social media and don’t follow anyone except your university… sure, Jan 🙄 And you and your boyfriend don’t follow each other? Why? Why are you being so secretive? Why have an anonymous account? What are you hiding? How do you know who your boyfriend follows if you don’t follow each other? Sounds to me like you’re spying on him. At least your boyfriend is transparent about his social media accounts and who he follows. I follow models, acto… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/21 04:50 AM |
| 4 | How to handle your boyfriend following women on Instagram?What world do you live in where masturbation is cheating? Get a grip. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/21 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Hoping to have a traditional relationship with my boyfriend :)You say you don’t want kids, but what about him? When I was 20, I also said I didn’t want kids. But here I am at 30 and now I’m discussing family planning with my spouse. People change as they grow and mature. Of course a 20yo doesn’t want kids… right now. But it’s worth having a discussion with him on what his expectations are for the future. My female cousin got married when she was 38. She married a 25yo guy. Their marriage was perfect… vacations multiple times a year not having to worry abou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Sleeping in his dirty house has changed my opinion of him… unsure how to proceed.Are you sure it’s not his parents who are messy and dirty? I mean, even if it was his parents, there’s no excuse why he can’t tidy up before having you over. Maybe ask him to clean up before you come over next time. Is he looking to move into his own place soon? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/21 02:44 PM |
| 10 | Just been banned from r/naturalhair for simply commenting under a post here. LOL.I got banned from another pro-woman subreddit because I commented on a post in r/entitledbitch It didn’t matter that I was defending the woman everyone was shaming. Some admins’ heads get wayyy too big, they think they wield some crazy power 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/21 06:21 PM |
| 3 | What even is this logic???Woman works two jobs to provide a home for her mooch boyfriend. Boyfriend lives with mommy and daddy until he’s 26 to save money, continues to hoard all his income while living with girlfriend, won’t pay for her trip to visit his family. Damn. She should date her boyfriend’s brother instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any sympathy for women who wish men would approach them in real life *more*?Any time I see the words “sweatpants” and “dick” in the same sentence, I think of Justin Thoreau jogging in those grey sweatpants in The Leftovers 🔥🔥🔥 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any sympathy for women who wish men would approach them in real life *more*?Confidence is key. I have lots of friends who go out in sweats and dirty buns and they own it! More power to them because I definitely would not feel confident going out with greasy hair. A shot of dry shampoo and hair wrapped in a fun claw clip can take you miles if you don’t feel like washing it. Same goes with nails. I’d rather have clean, short, unpolished nails than go out with chipped polish and a missing tip. It doesn’t take a lot of effort to look put together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Do you have any sympathy for women who wish men would approach them in real life *more*?It depends. How does she present herself? If she’s rolling up to places with a messy greasy bun on the top of her head, frumpy sweats, dirty nails, unwashed face, etc etc, then no, I don’t feel sorry for her. I respect a woman who follows “The Rules” (that is after all how I met my husband), but The Rules also state that you need to put your best self forward in order for men to approach you. Clean, flattering clothing, well-groomed hair, brows, and nails, a chic eye-catching accessory (my perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How can so many women be this delusional about men past the age of 30?But... you do construct love. Are you implying that you loved your wife the instant you met her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How can so many women be this delusional about men past the age of 30?I’m not sure which you’re implying is “more expensive,” but either way it’s gross. A car is a material item that has an expiration date. They’re not built to last forever anymore and we live in a society where almost everyone leases. I don’t know a single person who buys a car with the intent to keep it forever. Dating leads to marriage, which shouldn’t have an expiration date. Yes, shit happens and people get divorced, but no one goes into a marriage thinking “I’ll lease this person for 36 mont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!I hear what you’re saying, but if we’re being fair, the childfree sub is INSANELY toxic. Most posts on there call mothers “breeders” and refer to their children as “crotch goblins” and “spawn,” saying things like “you’re not special just because you let a guy jizz in you.” That’s so incredibly degrading, as if mothers only serve one purpose and that is to be an incubator for babies. If women want to be mothers, that’s their choice. That’s the whole point of the women’s movement: freedom of choic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How can so many women be this delusional about men past the age of 30?Women are not cars. Can this analogy just die already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 02:26 PM |
| 3 | I have no words...This is an easy fix. You leave him, take half his shit, keep the house, demand alimony and child support, and he can have custody of the kids on weekends, which will make it harder for him to date (ie: screw) other women on Saturdays and Sundays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 6 | "Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractiveMaybe some women have a type? I like hairy guys with big noses. I cannot even begin to tell you how many times people make a face when I say that. Fine with me! They can have all the tanned hairless blond Zac Efron types, and leave all the sexy scruffy Adrien Brody types for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 02:35 PM |
| 13 | How to date when you are unhappy with your career?Speaking from personal experience: most men don’t care about your career or how much money you make. All they care about is that you have a job and do something productive. I dated a few successful men. At the time, I was in nursing school, I worked part time as a nurses aid wiping ass for $12/hr, and weekends as a bartender. If it wasn’t for the bartending side hustle, I would have been broke as a joke. The guys didn’t care. My now-husband said he didn’t care. He just loved that I was driven an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 6 | Tips on not feeling bad about “hitting the wall”It’s a myth. I look better now (at 30), than I did when I was in college. I’m more fit, my hair and makeup are always clean and on point, I have a healthy skincare regimen, and I have a perfectly curated wardrobe full of flattering staple pieces. In college, I wore the ugliest fast fashion items, black eyeliner and glitter everywhere, stayed up late and partied too much (and my eyes and skin gave it away), and my diet was crap. It gets better after you graduate and begin your career. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you wear a necklace with a tiny script personalized to say "housewife"? Would you wear it for everyday wear? I'm really considering getting one for myself. It would be just slightly longer than a choker.I wouldn’t do this. As others have stated, chokers with words on them tend to have trashy/BDSM/slave connotations associated with them, even though I’m sure that’s not your intent. Also, to address one of your previous comments, no, nurses and teachers do not wear necklaces with their titles on them. Any teacher that wears that kind of stuff probably wears it because it was gifted to her by one of her students or something. I’m a nurse and I would never wear a necklace that says nurse on it. Tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/21 05:34 PM |
| 26 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!This has to be scripted... she’s smiling and laughing the whole time, and this is the same couple that made that video back in the summer where he surprised his wife by getting a babysitter and took her out for brunch, shopping, and pedicures and she was so effing excited to have the day off from the baby. In any case, props to dad. But the husband definitely treats his lady right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | We both can be picky just remember which is within ones control.Lol, you can tell if someone is skinny, fat, or average by looking at them, but you can’t tell their weight. In any case, asking someone a personal question about their body can be perceived as inappropriate. But this woman opened the door to that discussion when she asked the guy how tall he was. And as you said. Some people have their preferences. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | We both can be picky just remember which is within ones control.The woman was fine to ask his height, but it wasn’t fine for the man to ask her weight? How do you figure? He said he was 6’3” and she replied “oh good,” implying that she prefers taller men, which is totally fine. The man asked how much she weighed, and instead of answering, she asked “why does it matter?” It matters because just as she had a height preference, he has a weight preference. So she should answer truthfully and hope her weight is to this guy’s preference. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/11/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | 3 angry women vs 1 doormanThe older guy with the pink shirt and hat walking buy with a beer in his hand as if this is a typical day in the neighborhood.... 😹👌🏽 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 7 | A well mastered technique“Looked to be quite frail” LOLLL, she‘s of average height and build. He pulled her away from the car, held her on the ground, took the weapon away from her, and walked away. He didn’t beat her. People like you are the problem. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/11/20 12:42 AM |
| 10 | Makes me 😤 to see a gorgeous queen put in effort for date night while her man does the absolute leastMy gorgeous friend just eloped last month. She wore an ivory tea length dress and a simple blowout and makeup. Her fiancé wore a polo shirt, jogger sweatpants (you know, with the tight rolled cuffs), and sneakers. At least they were fashion sneakers and not athletic sneakers... but STILL!! Ten years ago I went on a date in NYC. I wore a long sleeved dress, black tights, and black high heeled boots. He wore his college hoodie, adidas track pants, and socks with adidas slides. I wanted to fucking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Truer words were never spoken 💛When I was a kid growing up in my old village. There was a guy that would always pee in the yard or a bush or something. It was weird because he would literally drop his pants in the middle of the street to do it instead of just unzipping and discreetly slipping it out. Everyone were repulsed..... until we realized he was slowly becoming demented. By the end of the year, he was roaming the streets naked and all the kids got used to bringing him back home when he was found randomly sitting on som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:47 PM |
| 21 | Time and time again, just blockHonestly, the reason I don’t block my exes on social media is because I know they internet stalk and go creeping late at night, so I want them to be able to see how fabulous my life is without them 💁🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | She finished him 😂I don’t know why, but this reminded me of that episode of Friends where Ross shouted at Susan saying “EVERY DAY IS LESBIAN LOVER’S DAY!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:47 AM |
| 15 | HVM will not waste your time and know when games are games“Country-fried fuck” Girrrrl 😹👌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 12:21 AM |
| 2 | HVM will not waste your time and know when games are gamesTo be fair, weddings are a lot more expensive in America than they are in Europe so a lot of people need a year and a half not only to plan, but to save up. I’m planning my wedding right now and everything is so expensive, even for baseline stuff. I suggested we get married in my home country in Europe... it would be more beautiful and MUCH less money. But none of his family would be able to come 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 5 | HVM will not waste your time and know when games are gamesImagine dating someone for FIVE years, and then he has the AUDACITY to insist on being engaged for another FOUR AND A HALF years 🤦🏽♀️ I met my fiancé June 2018. We’re getting married this November. He didn’t waste any time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 12:15 AM |
| 28 | 🤣😭While I hate men who date women indefinitely with zero intention to formally commit (ie: marriage), I think the woman counting her “days not engaged” and posting it on social media as a way to “light a fire” under her man’s ass is really sad. She should have just ended the relationship. Nagging a man to propose to you never works out long-term 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 07:39 PM |
| 11 | How about no?“Community dick” omg 😹😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:14 PM |
| 14 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄LOL that’s me in the wedding dress! I’m willing to bet the loser that called me fat is the one who made this collage 😹😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 12:45 AM |
| 39 | Hey Ladies, just a reminder to not post personal pics to your FDS username. The Scrotes are extra mad and are sending around “compilation” pictures of FDS members. 🙄Damn, my wedding dress photo made the cut 😹😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 6 | Is it a red flag when they’re laying on the cheesy pick up lines/ flattery early?Depends what they’re saying. If he says something like “wow, you look amazing!” That’s sweet. But if they say something like “wow, you’re so hot, you could be a model, you’re prettier than [insert attractive female celebrity name here]” then no. Eff that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Thank you Carrie ❤️“Shut the fuck up, I wasn’t talking to you.” 😹😹👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:17 PM |
| 6 | UPDATE: Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?Maybe this girl is a genius and we just don't realize it yet. What if there was no prenup? He's a new doctor and has high income earning potential... maybe she's just waiting for the right moment to pounce and get that alimony 😹😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 4 | UPDATE: Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?I deactivated because I knew if I blocked, then I would have to re-add the asshole to get a life update. But by deactivating, I could just come back whenever I wanted and pick up where I left off. But the screenshots were more than enough proof. his phone number was clear as day. No way someone could have made this shit up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 09:13 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?I wondered that as well, but I refuse to believe that a doctor working in a hospital in the middle of a pandemic would be spending his time creeping through his girl's Facebook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 09:10 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?I honestly wanted to wait around for a response and make myself available to her to ask questions if she wanted to. But the compromise with my fiance was that I wouldn't get dragged into it and I wanted to respect that. His reasoning was that while she does have the right to know, we don't know what kind of person she is. She could be just as shitty as my ex. She could be a super vindictive stalker. We don't know 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 09:06 PM |
| 22 | Our expectations aren’t unreasonableLOLLLL they can pay for school but they can’t buy class 😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:29 PM |
| 43 | Our expectations aren’t unreasonableI used to be that girl. I dated a guy who slept on a blow up mattress on the floor, had a single plastic step stool in his living room in front a 60” 4K TV instead of a sofa/chairs/coffee table, kept his clothes in the plastic bags from the laundromat, and instead of having a trash can, he just had a bunch of plastic supermarket bags hanging from all the handles of his kitchen drawers. I came through and decorated and furnished his entire place and the fucker still cheated on me 🤦🏻♀️ Oh and ps:… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:16 PM |
| 9 | If you're bored at home and want a good laugh (or cry), watch this. Imagine dating or being married to one of these "winners"I was literally thinking that!! If she divorced him, she’d suddenly come into some serious coin! This reeks of financial abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandI’m working on my DNP. Socially I’ll use my fiancé’s last name once we’re married, but professionally I will always use my maiden name. I love him more than words, but I’M the one who slaved my way through a doctorate program, not him 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 01:16 AM |
| 14 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayI don’t think I have “a stronger argument” by saying to wash your butt with soap 😹 Someone further down in the comments literally mentioned the need to wash your butt with soap. Not sure where the argument is. Wash yourself however you want, what can I tell ya? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:45 AM |
| 19 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayThe vagina is a self-cleaning organ. I said this. Spraying some water on it while you’re in the shower is enough. But your skin folds (labia) and ass should absolutely be washed with mild cleanser and water. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:17 AM |
| 24 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayOmg YES, how could I forget to mention this... wash your asses! With mild soap, not just water! Nobody likes swamp ass 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:39 PM |
| 12 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayYeah exactly. And ladies, let’s not lie to ourselves... we’re ALL guilty of wearing trendy fast-fashion items that are almost always mixed synthetic fabrics. We’re all guilty of running our errands in our cute fabletics spandex. And hopefully we are all being moderately active and getting sweaty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:13 PM |
| 59 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayHello ladies, nurse here. I’m seeing a lot of conflicting information here in the comments. Remember the vagina and the vulva are two different things. Lots of things dictate how you will end up washing yourself. If you lead a sedentary lifestyle and/or wear loose clothing in natural fabrics like cotton and linen, then washing with lukewarm water could be sufficient enough. But if you’re active, go jogging, bike riding, do yard work, and you wear typical tight spandex workout clothes, any kind o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 09:37 PM |
| 11 | I’m crying y’all“Near Amish facial hair” 😹👌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?I haven’t spoken to him since our initial conversation three weeks ago when he reached out with an apology. But he continues to text me flirty stuff. I don’t answer and my fiancé is aware of this and thinks it’s hilarious, but he’s telling me to stay out of it and not say anything to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:07 PM |
| 7 | Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?I don’t talk to him. The only conversation we had was when he first reached out to me three weeks ago when he apologized to me and then we caught up about our professional lives and I openly spoke about my fiancé. I haven’t spoken to him since then, but he continued to send me texts that went unanswered. My fiancé is aware of all this and finds it hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 04:58 PM |
| 12 | Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?They definitely didn’t break up. She posted a couple weeks ago reminding people to send in their RSVPs 🤦🏻♀️ I don’t know how this girl thinks she’s still having a wedding with everything going on in the world, but as of two weeks ago everything is still on as planned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:34 PM |
| 42 | Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?If it were me in her position, I would absolutely want to know if my fiancé was flirting with other women, asking for bikini photos, and asking to take them out for dinner. BUT, what scares me is her reaction and the backlash I’d get from him. What if she calls me a homewrecking bitch or something? What if she wants to call and speak to me on the phone with HIM listening with her? How do I even start the message to her? Do I just say “hey you don’t know me, but look what your fiancé said to me” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 02:27 PM |
| 51 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorBest take-away from this post: High Status doesn’t equate High Value. I’ve dated plenty of doctors and lawyers (a med student, two residents, a surgeon, a hospitalist, and two corporate lawyers) and they were all the worst boyfriends I ever had. They wanted women to basically kiss the ground they walked on because of their fucking title and because they made a lot of money. Meanwhile, I made more money than five out of those seven losers 😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:11 PM |
| 4 | DON'T DATE SIGNIFICANTLY OLDER MEN.🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 13 | Judge Judy putting a male in his placeJUDGE JUDY 4 PREZ 2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 04:36 PM |
| 8 | Autoban from r/breakingmom just for participating here. I guess it's not just men who don't like women to know their worth.To be fair, I was once auto-banned from FDS because I commented on a post on r/entitledbitch I was DEFENDING the person everyone was calling a bitch, and I still got banned from here. Obviously it’s been resolved or else I wouldn’t be able to post here, but it was annoying. I think being auto banned just because of other subs you follow is really unfair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 04:05 PM |
| 2 | She screwed this dusty troll and he complains! This is the reality of LVM. They’re never happy because they’re deeply inadequate. DISGUSTING! Most of these women sadly find out most of those men barely scraped plane ticket money to get there!This show is my guilty pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 9 | Comments are shaming the OP for not wanting to stick it out with borderline obese bf who refuses to eat like an adult even though she says she isn’t concerned about his looks and only about his health🤦♀️One of my very close childhood friends eats like this. She will only eat chicken nuggets, pizza, and Mac and cheese. And her husband is the same way too. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a single fresh thing in their fridge. Don’t get me wrong, these things are hella tasty, but I like to jazz it up since I’m an adult. I invited her and her husband to my house for dinner one night and I made homemade Mac and cheese (I spent like $40 on Gouda and other artisanal cheeses) and homemade breaded chicken c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 03:26 PM |
| 11 | Dick is abundant and of low valueI saw that post last night. All three of them were assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want.“Everyone hates me. My family, my friends, my girlfriend. I was in a crazy boat accident where I was attacked by the lochness monster and I was temporarily paralyzed and left mute. The only way for me to overcome this is for you to send me nudes.” What the fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 11:25 PM |
| 20 | What’s with the obsession with splitting everything 50/50?I’m gonna say something that will most likely trigger all the scrotes lurking on here... I dated this guy and lived with him part time (3-4 nights a week at his place, the rest at my place). I cooked, cleaned, did dishes, made beds, did laundry, washed floors, scrubbed showers, and ran all his errands like going to the post, the dry cleaners, and grocery shopping. I sucked the life out of his dick every night. My income was almost triple his and he guilted me into paying for the majority of our … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:48 PM |
| 4 | What an awesome husbandWow, a sub just for me! Fondant is for creating art, not for eating 😹🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.LOL omg nooo, that would be so incredibly unethical! I would never date my patients, and I'm certain my OBGYN wouldn't either. He gushes about his wife and kids all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.I'm not disagreeing with your healthcare choices. I'm disagreeing with your blanket statement that "Males are sick and typically abuse women's healthcare spaces." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:51 PM |
| 4 | I don't want youI think being polite in the workplace is an absolute must, especially when you or that coworker is new. You don’t have to be their best friend or hang out outside of work or anything, you just have to be nice. It’s not about stroking their ego. You just want to be approachable and make a good impression on your new colleagues (regardless if they’re male or female) and I’m sure your boss would notice this too. But outside of the workplace, you don’t owe anyone anything. Especially in a club. Oh d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:27 PM |
| 12 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.This is fucking scary. Hope you got rid of him for good and he doesn’t find you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:55 PM |
| 12 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.No shame! And I’ve noticed now that I’m engaged, a lot of exes and old dates are coming out of the woodwork. Am I more appealing to them now that I’m spoken for?? I’m not calling off my engagement to give my idiot ex another go, and it’s funny that they think I would! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.Of course you are free to do whatever you want regarding your body and healthcare choices, but I will have to respectfully disagree. I pick my doctors based on merit, skill, and experience, not their gender. And as someone who works in healthcare and worked really hard to make a name for herself, I would feel awful if patients rejected my care just because of my gender. Now in terms of dating doctors, HELL NO. Never again. I’ve dated medical students, residents, fellows, and established physicia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:50 PM |
| 46 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.Welp, I should have said that. 🤦🏻♀️👌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:47 AM |
| 17 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.Ugh girl, I get it. How many times have we been in awkward sexual situations where we just sit there and think “okay is it over yet? Cuz I’m out.” 😹😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:09 AM |
| 48 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.Ladies, we all know that girth matters more than length... it was literally Gumby’s dick. I couldn’t 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 11:56 PM |
| 30 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.At that time, I never would have had the balls to say that to his face. Present-day me would have loved the opportunity, just to see his facial expression 😹😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:39 PM |
| 46 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.But even though I didn’t want to hurt his feelings, I still should have just left after I changed my mind about hooking up with him. To be fair though, even my present-day self wouldn’t insult someone’s body and appearance when they’re naked and vulnerable, not to their face. It wasn’t his fault he had weird genitalia. But coming at me SIX YEARS LATER, boasting that he was soo good and that I must want him and truly believing that?? Oh hell no, I’m putting him in his place 😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 10:35 PM |
| 83 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.Because I didn’t want to offend him or hurt his feelings 😹🤦🏻♀️ That’s how dumb I was back then. Who cares if you hurt their feelings? They have no problem hurting ours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:40 PM |
| 17 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.I don’t think either of us scored that night and if he continued catfishing after me, I’m CERTAIN other women weren’t naive Pickmes like I was and either ignored him or called him out. I was really dumb and thirsty for male attention at 22. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:34 PM |
| 29 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.Girl, I know I know. I was a total Pickme when I was 22 and would have given any guy a chance just for being “nice” to me. I googled him and he really was a doctor at the hospital he said he worked at, complete with photo and everything, so nothing would have happened. The photo he used on his dating profile looked like it could pass as him (same skin color, hair color and style, height, face shape) I mean could it have been him in that photo? Maybe. but I really didn’t believe so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:20 PM |
| 183 | Cleaning out my texts and found this ancient artifact. Backstory in the comments.Some backstory: I was 22 and a total Pickme. I had just started my career as a nurse so I was looking to date a like-minded man. Met this guy online who was a OBGYN resident and lived about 40min away from me. He looked really good in his photo so I agreed to meet up for a first date. LADIES. He did not look ANYTHING like his photo. It wasn’t even like the photo was old or something... the person in the photo was a completely different human being. HOWEVER, he didn’t look bad. He was cute and ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | HVM and divorceAs an engaged woman, I would never let one of my girlfriends third-wheel our trip. She could go on a girls trip though, although with a husband and kids, it might be hard for her friends to commit to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Diagram of men who keep being thrown back into the dating pooldusties: dusty the clown wants to settle down. (40M seeking 20F to have my miscarriages and change my diapers) Damn girl, you really went there 😹👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:36 PM |
| 3 | A story about how my HVM showed his worth from the jump.A literal fairytale. This brought a tear to my eye. Hoping my life unfolds the same way with my HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:29 PM |
| 64 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?I remember reading somewhere that they wouldn’t get married until gay marriage was legal. Part of me thinks that Dax thought gay marriage would never become legal and that would be his loophole for never having to formally commit to Kristen. Then gay marriage became legal, and now here he is years later, publicly mocking her. Kristen is too good for Dax. She’s way more successful than him and I bet it kills him to see that. Literally the only thing he was in was Employee of the Month with Dane C… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:19 PM |
| 71 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?When he doesn’t answer calls or texts, but you see him active on social media. After a first date, if he says “we’ll keep in touch,” chances are he will NOT be keeping in touch. If he keeps you a secret from his friends and family. If he only calls or asks you to “hang out” at weird obscure hours... spoiler: he’s either bored or horny, but definitely NOT into you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 06:57 PM |
| 8 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?Just curious, how old are you two? What you did wasn’t cheating though, so don’t feel quilty. He’s never taken you out on a date in the four years you‘ve been “together.” And yes I’m putting that in quotations because you’re not really together. “After the virus is over he wants to date me.” So you said it yourself... you currently are not dating. There is no shortage of nice, loyal men who aren’t addicted to porn and aren’t misogynists, so this guy isn’t a rare commodity and you’re putting him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?Thankfully no! No fetishes, kink, or porn. He does enjoy sexy lingerie, but I like it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:57 PM |
| 0 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?I’m not sure what you mean by that...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:47 PM |
| 14 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?Definitely not a myth. They’re out there, the timing just has to be right for your paths to cross. I met my fiancé literally a week after my previous relationship ended (dated the guy for a year, I paid for everything, cooked and cleaned for him, meanwhile he was cheating on me for at least half the time we were together that I know of). I cried in bed and was gross and depressed for a week and then I said, eff this, I’m just going to put myself out there. And then I found my fiancé! I wasn’t ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?Thanks! We were really lucky to have found each other 😻😻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:32 PM |
| 42 | What's your relationship with your HVM like?I’m engaged to a HVM. We met online and he did everything right. He initiated the first message. We chatted back and forth for a couple days before he asked for my number and locked me down for a Saturday night dinner date. This is really important to note: a guy who chats endlessly for weeks without ever asking you out for dinner will never actually ask you out. He’s just bored and killing time by chatting with women online and hoping they validate him and stroke his ego. If you’re doing OLD an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 04:29 PM |
| 3 | anybody else unable to tolerate normal relationship subs anymore?GIRRLLL, you don’t have to tell me about it. A couple months ago I had my ass chewed out because a girl was thinking of proposing to her boyfriend and I said “don’t do it, let him take the lead. If he feels the same way as you, he’s probably planning a special proposal.” Not only was I downvoted into oblivion, and not only were people commenting saying that I would end up divorced and die alone, but I had this one bitch flood my PMs with hate speech, calling me a fat ugly cunt. I am not fat, or … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Based coomerThis doesn’t fit in this sub at all, but okay | /r/PussyPassDenied | 28/03/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Basic Bitch wants Free AirfareAt least be fair... She wasn’t looking for free airfare. She just wants more attention than you’re able to give. That alone would deter me from dating her, so I don’t know why you kept trying after that by saying you have 12 days off per month. You really wanna spend your 12 days off with someone as unstable as her? But she sucks too. “What am I supposed to do, have other partners while you’re gone?” No, you’re supposed to respect that some people travel for work and that being with someone 24/7… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/02/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.The good news is divorce rates for younger couples are actually dropping because women don’t get married right out of high school anymore and we’ve learned to not accept a proposal from the first guy that’s nice to us. Check it out https://www.wsj.com/amp/articles/the-divorce-rate-is-at-a-40-year-low-unless-youre-55-or-older-11561116601 Apparently if you’re 55 or older, you probably fall in that “got married before I could even legally drink” category and that could be why they are more likely t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.Lots of people still believe in only one marriage for life. I think people do get married with the thought that they will stay married forever, but unfortunate things can happen in the future (infidelity, abuse, death, etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:56 PM |
| 5 | PSA: When you screenshot a woman asking for advice on Reddit on how to deal with her shitty BF, tag the OP so she can see the FDS perspective.I don’t know. I would tread lightly on this. Some people just don’t want to be helped. They’ll just have to learn things the hard way. I just did this the other day when I made a post about how women shouldn’t propose to men, and now my inbox is full of PMs from salty pickmes and talking about how shameful and miserable I must be on other threads. I don’t really care, they can do whatever they want with their lives. Unfortunately our help isn’t always well-received 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 04:12 PM |
| 2 | And supposedly we’re the ones that are gold diggers.I think we should be fair about this one... gold-diggers are people who seek to date others who already have money. The OP and her boyfriend were just regular working-class people. It wasn’t like OP was already rich and her boyfriend was dating her only for the money. When my partner and I first started dating, he really liked how motivated and hardworking I was, and I liked how motivated and hardworking he was. If he suddenly won the lottery or received an inheritance and decided to quit his jo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I don’t know why Pickmeishas bother bragging about their husbands like I can’t date him too.Wait, let’s discuss... D. Wade? Steve Harvey??? Kanye is bizarre, but he worships Kim and the ground she walks on. Why are they trash? The rest I agree with 100%, especially R. Kelly and Jay-Z. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 03:25 PM |
| 3 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.But I don’t think asking someone to marry you and spend the rest of their life with you is the same as asking someone to dance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 61 | I'm enjoying the 90s Pickmeishas, but how about a 00s Queen for inspiration ;)Aww but that nerd was cute! Way cuter than Warner! 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:20 PM |
| 3 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.Speaking of Sex and the City... do we remember how cringey it was when Charlotte proposed to Trey? [one month into dating] Charlotte: We should get married! Trey: Alrighty then. 😷😷😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:26 PM |
| 4 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.You pose an excellent point... why do we give men that role? Well 70+ years ago when women were dependent on men (since women generally didn’t work or go to college), they had multiple men writing them love letters and shit, outlining all the wonderful things they promised to do for said woman. It was considered an honorable thing to do to take care of a woman. Today, women are strong and independent, they go to college, have masters degrees, are CEOs, have a house and a mortgage, and I know ple… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:13 PM |
| 5 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.Thank you, I really appreciate you saying that. Some girls are just so miserable that they feel better tearing other women apart. Calling me fat won’t make her skinny 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:34 AM |
| 11 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.Those were my thoughts exactly... even the most important man in her life (her father) told her not to do it. I’m shocked her mother was encouraging her to do it. Does she not remember the thrill she felt when her husband proposed to her? So bizarre. 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:28 AM |
| 15 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.You are correct, it was NOT the OP who shamed my body. Some other sad soul did. I already reported her but yet the mods there told me to “be civil.” They need new mods 😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:16 PM |
| 7 | HVW would NEVER propose marriage to a man. Period.Thanks I really appreciate that. To be fair, it wasn’t the OP who made those rude comments about my body. Some other sad pathetic person did. But yeah, I’m with the OP’s dad on this: if he wants to marry you, he will ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:14 PM |
| 5 | How do you conduct OLD on your terms?Lots of HVW have careers that force them to work long hours, work nights, or travel. Sometimes OLD is the only way. When I started my career as a nurse, I worked nights in the ED and slept all day. I met my now-fiancé online 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:04 AM |
| 4 | How do you conduct OLD on your terms?You don’t have to meet up immediately, but you also shouldn’t chat endlessly. If you’re chatting with a guy from OLD and he doesn’t ask you out or make solid concrete plans to meet you for a date within a week of chatting, then I think he’s a time-waster. You don’t need to meet within a week, but you should at the very least have plans to meet to keep things going, or else you might end up with a pen pal or someone who chats endlessly waiting for someone “better” to come along. Your time is prec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Hot Tip for weeding out LVM on OLD - cross-check their profile on seeking arrangementsI think it also depends what dating sites you’re using. I’m not saying that all the single ladies here on FDS should run off and make eharmony.com and match.com profiles, but I feel like men who are paying for a dating site are more serious about dating. If a guy just wanted to get laid, he could just go on Tinder, no need to pay! Then you have other free sites that aren’t centered around hooking up, but because they’re free, they attract a lot of time-wasters (OKC, PoF, etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 9 | Hot Tip for weeding out LVM on OLD - cross-check their profile on seeking arrangementsNot true! OLD is a great way to open doors to people you never would have met otherwise! Met my fiancé online and although he only lived about 25min away from me, we never frequented the same spots so I never would have met this wonderful gem if it wasn’t for OLD. BUT! Even if you do OLD, you still have to follow “The Rules”... don’t text/talk too much, he still needs to ask you out on the first date, and cut ties the second you get “pen pal” vibes... if he keeps going back and forth either onli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 05:11 PM |
| 26 | guys are learning astrology to try to get laidGuy: “You demand class and respect.” Also guy: “Do you have a big clit?” I fucking can’t 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 08:37 PM |
| 29 | GOOD MORNING TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ROBAgreed! A lot of times we think we’re taking the high road by not responding or blocking them, but as the great Samantha Jones once said: “These bitches need to be put in their place.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Kevin Hart: rich, and funny does not mean HVMWhat I wanna know is why celebrities cheat. You’re a CELEBRITY, do you really think no one will fine out and that you’ll get away with it? Years ago when it came out that Ben Affleck cheated on Jen Garner WITH THE NANNY... I was totally beside myself. What went through his mind? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 03:08 PM |
| 5 | Texting causes fake sense of intimacyAbout 5 or 6 years ago I met a guy online who was allllll about talking on the phone. I was busy, being a full-time student and working two jobs, so talking on the phone wasn’t really an option for me. It was better for me to text because then I could just reply whenever I had a free moment between classes or jobs. He would get super mad when I couldn’t stay and chat on the phone for 60+ minutes. He said “There’s 24 hours in a day, 60 minutes an hour. That means there’s 1,440 minutes in a day. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 02:27 PM |
| 18 | This video shows a man that ask for his wife to be a bang maid barbie doll 24/7, if she wants to keep him faithfull... All female in the world need to be aware of FDSOmg I remember when this first aired on TV... made my blood boil. I hope this woman woke up and left his ass. “Women hit on me 15 times a week.” Sure, Jan. 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Lisa Bonet (51) and Jason Momoa (40) together for 14 years. He said he’s been in love with her since he was 8 years old.Would you say that Lisa Bonet is “privileged” because she married Jason Momoa who is 11 years younger than her? Because I definitely don’t think so. I think they truly love each other and don’t even look or care about their ages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Lisa Bonet (51) and Jason Momoa (40) together for 14 years. He said he’s been in love with her since he was 8 years old.I’m a woman and in my 28 years of life I have literally never known or heard of the term “spring chicken” as being a derogatory term for women. I’m being ever so serious, I’m not mocking or anything. My goodness, ya’ll need to lighten up. How many times do I have to say that Amal is amazing and I think she and George make a fine couple? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Lisa Bonet (51) and Jason Momoa (40) together for 14 years. He said he’s been in love with her since he was 8 years old.No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:58 AM |
| -2 | I don’t know who needs to hear thisBut how do you say that without sounding like a total bitch? When I was in nursing school, I was dating a surgeon. He was a resident and worked crazy hours and was under a lot of pressure to get into his top fellowship. After about six months of dating, I asked him to come to a BBQ/pool party at my parents’ house and he freaked out and broke up with me. When I asked why, he said that he couldn’t commit to a serious relationship now and word for word said “I need to focus on my career. Women come… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else notice that Cops are forever trying to hide the fact that they’re cops?Also to add, one of my best friends from college is a lawyer. On his dating profile he listed that he went to Boston University Law School. He got ZERO matches or messages. Then he decided to exclude his post-grad information and only listed his undergraduate education on his profile. He got a decent amount of matches and messages. Whenever someone would message him asking what he did, he would say he was a lawyer. Then they would ghost/unmatch him. No one bothered to ask what kind of law he pra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcI’m not trying to make this a political debate. I’m just saying that all political radicals are all pretty awful to put up with in the dating world. But okay, you keep doing you, girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/19 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcI mean, you could say that anyone that is radically political in either direction is abhorrent and not worth dating, not just conservatives.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 09:09 PM |
| 0 | Proposal for a sticky: a non negotiable list of dealbreakers in husbands, fans, dates, boyfriends, etcWhy are politically conservative men “bad”? What if we are politically conservative women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:34 PM |
| 12 | “Heyy I know I ghosted you when you called me out on my shit, but don’t worry - I forgive you. Would you like to stroke my ego some more?”Ghosted you for three months... meaning the last time you spoke was back in the summer. This idiot is coming out of the woodwork now because it’s cuffing season and he needs a date for all the bullshit family parties and holiday parties coming his way. Stay strong. Don’t fall for it. 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 03:16 PM |
| 21 | FDS done right. She was busy, unavailable, didn't worry or obsess over him, created a dynamic where she was being pursued, was high value, and he committed. She still left but did it right, tooYikes! Strongly disagree. She’s 35 and has only ever had 2 relationships in her life, the longest one being only 6 months long. That reflects more on her than the men she’s been with. If we take this man’s post at face value, it appears that he did everything right. He pursued her. He initiated calls, texts, and dates. He respected her boundaries and slowed down when she told him to. He introduced her to his friends and family first. He was clear upfront that he was looking for a long term relat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 02:49 PM |
| 3 | That time a man made a clown out of me: lessons to learn from my personal experienceHahaha yes, in a way I have her to thank because if he never cheated (or if I never found out about the cheating) I would have moved down there with him and been suckered into paying for EVERYTHING. His fellowship is three years long, and coincidentally it takes three years of being married to an American to get your citizenship. Those three years are coming to a close though, I wonder what’s going to happen to the home-wrecker when he finishes his fellowship and gets his citizenship.... 😹😹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Sort of an AITAGenerally, you can’t change a relationship. You need to set the tone from the start. But you can try... Start by being less available. Instead of studying at home, study at the library or in a local coffee shop. Don’t answer your phone during study time. Go out with friends and coworkers more often. Go to the gym. Do a yoga or spin class. Go hiking alone. Get your nails done. Go window shopping (or actual shopping lol). Do whatever you need to do to get out of the house and fill your free time w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Dating my boyfriend for 9 months - not unhappy, but not ecstatic either. Is it ok to date others?You say you’ve been with him for 9 months but you’ve never been intimate... sounds like he’s more of a friend, not a boyfriend. But you say that he still adds value to your life though, so if you don’t mind having him as a friend, then keep him around. But just make sure he’s aware. Date around and start seeing other people. Your time is too precious to waste! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 06:24 PM |
| 29 | That time a man made a clown out of me: lessons to learn from my personal experienceYes! Male gold diggers exist! When he asked me if I was doctor shopping, I should have snapped back with “are you green card shopping??” but I was too upset to think that quickly lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 06:18 PM |
| 17 | That time a man made a clown out of me: lessons to learn from my personal experienceI’m not upset about it. I mean, justifiably I was depressed for a month after I found out about the cheating, but I met my now-fiancé soon after. I just thought this story was worth sharing on this sub so that no other ladies make the same stupid choices that I made. I sold so many of my belongings, gave in my two weeks notice at my job, and almost moved 1000 miles away for a gold digger with a double life... I’m so glad I found out before making the move! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 06:15 PM |
| 25 | Look Hotter If You Want To Get a BoyfriendOne of my classmates in college was a really handsome guy, always perfectly groomed, great smile, and in excellent shape. He was a cheerleader and told us the only reason he did cheerleading was because he would always be surrounded by pretty girls. But we found it kind of strange when we would meet his new girlfriends and they would always be kind of... dowdy. Not at all like the cheerleaders he was always hanging around. I’m not saying this to be mean, but these girls always looked run down, w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 06:07 PM |
| 5 | What should happen next?Honestly? You moved too fast and did too much too soon. Slow down. Don’t give him too much of your time so soon or else why would he want to go out again? Your first date was fine. But the fact that you spent literally the entire day with him the very next day after your first date? That right there was your mistake. Even if you were DYING to hang out with him again, even if you had no other plans going on, you should have told him you were unavailable the next day. This basically FORCES him to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 04:55 AM |
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