How do you conduct OLD on your terms?

daglowup · 2020-02-08T16:16:32+00:00

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PrettyCicada · 2020-02-08T17:49:35+00:00

I don't. OLD is trash. Meeting people IRL is far better for filtering out the LVMs.

eatapeach18 · 2020-02-08T23:52:52+00:00

You don’t have to meet up immediately, but you also shouldn’t chat endlessly. If you’re chatting with a guy from OLD and he doesn’t ask you out or make solid concrete plans to meet you for a date within a week of chatting, then I think he’s a time-waster.

You don’t need to meet within a week, but you should at the very least have plans to meet to keep things going, or else you might end up with a pen pal or someone who chats endlessly waiting for someone “better” to come along.

Your time is precious too.

turquoiseblues · 2020-02-09T10:37:12+00:00

Yes, I really hate the pressure to meet up right now. And many are unwilling to schedule a few weeks in advance. I don’t know why it doesn’t occur to men that we have busy lives and are being asked out all the damn time.

throwaway64857 · 2020-02-08T17:47:26+00:00

Really jist take the reigns when decision making. A lot of people are just apathetic to decisions which is why there is the classic "what do you want to do?" "I don't know what do you want to do?" Instead of not knowing, just decide. Decide when you want to meet. Decide where. The more decisions you make on your terms, the more charge you are taking over this.

Title	How do you conduct OLD on your terms?
Author	daglowup
Upvotes	23
Comments	14
Date	February 8, 2020 4:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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