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FDS MEMESdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:44 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:59 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:54 PM
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daglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:25 AM
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PICKME CULTUREdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:11 PM
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daglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:27 AM
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SCROTES MADdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:02 AM
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daglowup/r/askFDS09/09/21 06:31 AM
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daglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:54 AM
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daglowup/r/askFDS01/07/21 10:37 PM
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daglowup/r/askFDS14/02/21 08:37 AM
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FDS MEMESdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:21 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 08:19 AM
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daglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:43 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:04 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:21 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF FAMEdaglowup/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 12:34 PM
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You’re smart. I like you. I think you should write some posts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:40 PM
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I blocked someone for this exact reason last week. If he’s already being so lax now how will he be as time goes on? People usually try to put their best foot forward on the first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:46 AM
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Save your tears by the ultimate toxic king, the weeknd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:04 AM
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Hard to make the assessment, we don’t know him beyond the limited info we get from the media and sometimes AOC. I liked him in knock down the house, he seemed very supportive and helpful while she was campaigning and seemed to be her rock. One thing that concerns me is the fact that they’ve been together a while and there’s no serious commitment beyond living together - is she a forever gf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 12:54 AM
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New motto: “wait for someone who adores you and wait for someone who knows how to adore”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:13 AM
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This energy or NOTHING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:35 AM
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Ah yes, I almost forgot that we have an entire subreddit called fds superfans for that reason 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 09:29 AM
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So true, also beware of men who overly pedestalise their mother - she likely has a huge say in his expectations for women and you’ll probably be under scrutiny for every little aspect of your existence. It’s very hard to please people like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:37 AM
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How can you save an entire generation of morally and spiritually bankrupt individuals? I don’t think it’s possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:50 AM
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They can’t read or write if they’re busy jerking it or watching pick up artists on youtube
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 12:25 AM
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HAHAHAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:06 AM
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the only "roll" he's going to have is the fat rolls on his body as he ages and lets himself go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:32 AM
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My jaded ass thought this was fake. Me and who??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 11:21 PM
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That’s assault…he needs to face some serious consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:20 PM
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Trudy & Peggy were HVW in my opinion. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:01 PM
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My idol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:00 PM
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It’s so funny, while we were together I used to have nightmares about her and pictured running into her and giving her an earful. But now that I’ve moved on, I want to buy her a drink and congratulate her on upgrading and celebrate how we both dodged a bullet with the bummiest dude to walk this earth. Being a pickmeisha is a hell of a drug 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:58 AM
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Missed everyone so much! There was a gaping void in my life this past week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:25 AM
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Stay away from the doctors ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:04 AM
10

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:55 AM
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Ooh amazing! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:54 PM
53

Just imagine all your FDS sisters and aunties looking over your shoulder. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:02 AM
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There’s no upper limit for me (within reason of course, no need to mortgage your house for one), but definitely a minimum price, which is ~5000 usd. I also want a lab diamond because I don’t want to be associated with the exploitation of workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 07:56 AM
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100%, my classmates and teachers were super supportive and fostered a really great learning environment. I don’t know if this would’ve improved or got worse if there were boys around 🤷🏻‍♀️ Not really, most of my self esteem was tied to my academics and working towards college acceptance. Of course I was sometimes intimidated by the hot blondes who somehow “developed” faster than everyone else, or the girls whose mothers flew them to another city for the weekend just to go shopping for a prom dre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:39 PM
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What kind of cognitive dissonance is this? Working towards diversity as a profession and then getting turned on by being a racist in the bedroom? The fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 09:28 PM
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Absolutely! It’s by no means an exhaustive list, I don’t know that many scrotey comedians because I simply don’t care to learn about them 😂 I was just listing the ones I’ve seen. If you personally know any and they raise a red flag for you, they count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:02 AM
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Sneaky! This is the final scrote boss you have to defeat. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:45 AM
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Burning my copy of the fountainhead as we speak, my otherwise HVM cousin gave it to me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:05 AM
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An interest in “bro” standup comedy (Russell peters, Chris rock, Kevin hart, and so forth) Jordan Peterson Joe Rogan The Bent-Lee brothers following any “dating coaches”/PUA type content anything related to gaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:43 AM
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This is art.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:40 PM
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I’ve been there girl, it’s such a difficult time because you feel like you’ll never get through the days that lie ahead without talking to your person. It’s great that you’ve been filling that time with other activities and events that nurture you! Keep doing that. As someone who’s now almost one year no contact, I can say with confidence that this WILL pass. One day I woke up and felt like I’d been underwater for 10 years, and had finally come to the surface. Everything was clearer and I was no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:49 PM
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An underrated way I made friends last year was to join a Facebook group for a podcast I listen to (it’s quite popular, though now defunct). Some of the girls in that group then made a group chat and we organised a picnic. From that we’ve had different offshoot groups - a book club, a group of us went to pride together, etc. It doesn’t just have to be a podcast, take this and apply it to your own life as it fits!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:46 AM
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I know miguel has a rep but he’s a problematic fave of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:19 PM
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NO. my jaw dropped to the floor when I saw this. Despite the questionable timeline I was seriously rooting for them. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:18 PM
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Seriously if I could be 1% the woman she is, I will have considered it a life well lived.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:14 AM
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Meanwhile jada has will absolutely STRESSED out here in these streets. He’s not okay. Why is anyone supposed to aspire to this dynamic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:30 AM
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Ouuuu lemme hit y’all with my list (continually being curated in my notes app). Still waters run deep Thoroughly decent human being Good sense of humour, I’m not trying to fake laughter in my own house Emotionally intelligent Deeply respectful to women, children and animals. Spiritual; doesn’t have to be religious but does believe there’s something more than 3D. Believer in equality Honest Ambitious. I have several degrees, am applying to medical school so I expect someone in a similar sort of l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:59 AM
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The earth is healing, our sisters are being freed from the shackles of tech bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 03:02 AM
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He hasn’t worked on himself, still has baggage and possibly residual feelings. He didn’t really process anything before getting with you, it’s not your fault you didn’t know because men are really good at hiding and repressing emotions.
/r/askFDS24/09/21 11:28 PM
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Aww, thank you, I appreciate your comment. That is indeed what I desire, but I guess no solid track record of men proving themselves capable or even willing to treat me the way I deserve. Once bitten twice shy as they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:20 AM
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A lot to ask of one man - that's why I'm expecting to be alone for a long, long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:43 PM
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Proud of you! We’re all here to celebrate and support you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:13 AM
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When the guy I thought was the love of my life blatantly cheated, lied and disrespected me to my face and I found the strength to block him and move on. No waiting for explanations, apologies or “closure”. When I started carrying myself with dignity and professionalism at work, not accepting anything less than the highest quality in all aspects of my life. It’s been a great 2 years. Cheers, my sisters. 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:09 AM
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Right? I’d be a bass playing, karate chopping, oil painter by now. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 06:27 AM
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Hey girl, I just had a quick look at your previous post and saw the age difference. Do you feel like he's intimidating in some way? Do you have any fears for if you were to assert your boundaries? If the answer to those is no, I would just sit him down and explain that you had a good time with him but what you're looking for is a serious and committed relationship, if not now, then eventually, and continuing to be involved with each other is incompatible with that goal. Also frankly, I would mak…
/r/askFDS13/09/21 02:11 AM
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Mirror the energy and see what he does. If he comes back more eager, he's playing some sort of weird game with you and you don't want him. If he disappears too, you have your answer. Either way, doesn't really sound like your future husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 02:02 AM
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Yup, I have a hunch I may be ghosting him sooner rather than later.
/r/askFDS11/09/21 09:14 PM
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Yup, I’m definitely going to double down on my goals and keep working on myself instead of talking to men. The right one will arrive when he’s meant to.
/r/askFDS11/09/21 09:14 PM
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I’ve come to love this concept since learning about it on FDS. The former pickmeisha version of me would’ve wanted that immediate chemistry and familiarity, but I now know that it’s a recipe for disaster and probably a trauma response.
/r/askFDS11/09/21 09:13 PM
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Thank you! You hit the nail on the head, I’m proceeding with extreme caution.
/r/askFDS11/09/21 09:11 PM
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Thanks for this! I’ve thought about it over the last few days and I’m definitely going to disengage.
/r/askFDS11/09/21 09:11 PM
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The “smex” sent me 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:47 PM
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Yeah normally I would 100% agree with you but we’re in lockdown at the moment here, so I can’t meet up with him until it’s safe to do so. :)
/r/askFDS09/09/21 07:35 PM
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So I haven’t followed this story at all, can someone explain what in the jerry springer is going on here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 11:33 AM
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This is it. 100% integrity or nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 09:31 AM
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Men are only in it for themselves at the end of the day. Take solace in knowing that your heart is made of gold and his is a cheap trinket that is easily available to anyone who gives him attention. The right person won’t need to sleep around to decide on you. Onwards and upwards sis 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:58 AM
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Are you okay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:53 AM
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The people downvoting me are all 5’9 or shorter. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:43 AM
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I have a theory that coronavirus is as bad as it is because scrotes were standing 5 ft 9 inches away from people claiming it was 6 ft. 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:44 PM
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One thing that always gets me is the fact that this fuck shit only happens in these “together for 50 years, engaged for 2” type relationships. Howwww do people let this behaviour carry on for so long?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:26 AM
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Not using soap and a rag on their whole body. Not washing their crack. Holes in underwear and socks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:16 PM
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So great 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:01 AM
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Hang in there short kings, there’s someone out there for you. Or not. Maybe just your right hand. 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:47 AM
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I’m a bit confused, can you clarify on what basis you became exclusive? Was there some kind of conversation about your desire to progress the relationship and escalate into something serious? Because if so, then why are you still only seeing each other once a week? And if no conversation of that kind took place, then why are you exclusive? What are both of your intentions for this relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:32 AM
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Shit yes. It's taken me a long time to realise this but I am way, way better than any man I've fallen for and I've always been that bitch. I'm never abandoning myself again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:57 AM
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Not the fruit snacks. 💀 I’m tired of y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:00 AM
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Baby, you a servant. At least house help gets paid, what exactly are you getting out of this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:59 AM
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The maximum I’ve gone is 5 years older (26 & 31) and even that was pushing it, he seemed to think 5 years actually felt like 10. He had his life more together on paper but I was wayyy more mature and understanding. I’d be wary of condescending old scrotes who think they have some kind of power over you. Eventually I see myself marrying either someone my age, or 2-4 years older max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:06 PM
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Seriously, I can’t tell who the bigger clown is, the poor girl who’s putting up with this scrote, or this libfem influencer who thinks she’s equipped to give relationship advice. It’s giving big “gaslight, girl boss, gatekeep” energy. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:03 PM
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I wish we could make this happen over zoom or something! Would be so fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:42 AM
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I would kill to be able to do my makeup like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:25 AM
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Amazing video! Also I wanna add that you shouldn’t FOR A SECOND fall into the rabbit hole of “oh why is he treating me like this, if I were gOoD enOugH for him he would be much nicer.” Sis, no. If he can’t treat a woman he doesn’t like with respect, that’s a huge sign that he has no integrity. A real HVM would let you know pretty early that your relationship wasn’t heading anywhere because he recognises that if not him, you deserve to find someone who’s fully into you. It needs to be uniform, re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:22 AM
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Has anyone pretty much accepted they’re probably going to be alone for a long time, unless an HVM appears out of nowhere? When I think of the number of factors that would have to come together in creating a healthy and functional relationship, I just can’t fathom it happening. For example, To find someone who is okay with me becoming an ER doctor, who doesn’t really want children, and wants to live in many different places? I feel like the only guy who’d be okay with that is kinda bummy and like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 11:05 AM
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They all do, or like 99.9999% anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:21 AM
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Your care is in your hands. You do not have to do anything you don’t want to do. Remember that the next time someone tries to take away your autonomy. Sending lots of healing your way. xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:14 PM
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Every man watches porn. Chase the bag, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:17 PM
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Hahahaha I’m so allergic to those two words now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:29 AM
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Interesting story, one time I was travelling through India and hired a private car for part of it. The driver had experience chauffeuring for high profile clients, of whom Raj was one. The driver couldn’t stop boasting about how kind Raj was and how he really appreciated the fact that he treated him as a human being rather than just another blue collar dude. Goes to show, ladies, men will always respect other men whilst potentially doing disrespectful, shady and criminal things behind closed doo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:10 PM
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Dated one recently for a few months. I was definitely duped by the prospect of stability and I liked that he had ambition and worked hard. But there was only room for his ambition, and he seemed to resent that I wanted to go to medical school because he was looking for a SAHM to fulfil his white picket fence dreams. Be aware that some corporate men will only look at you as a means to an end, and your dreams will often take a backseat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 10:06 PM
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Lollll @ “fires to put out…bank to make”. Your shitty podcast doesn’t count as important work, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:31 PM
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What a sad, sad little poem. Sylvia Plath is turning in her grave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:28 PM
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Watch me be single forever after this. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:16 AM
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Where does a mansplainer get his water? From a well, actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:13 AM
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I choked on my tea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 06:20 AM
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I love how she’s all the way in the corner like “ew, stay the f*ck away from me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:50 AM
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The part where she goes into patois is 😍😍😍.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:56 PM
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Zaddyyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:33 AM
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How does it feeeel 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:35 PM
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Ooh gurl he fiiiiiine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:38 PM
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Needed this! Going on a third date later today and I needed to check myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:59 PM
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Good question! I haven’t really thought about it. I don’t want kids so I guess it doesn’t matter too much.
/r/askFDS16/02/21 01:12 AM
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Genius!! Definitely trying this out.
/r/askFDS15/02/21 10:28 AM
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Oh sorry I should've mentioned, I'm from a part of Australia where there are no community cases, and so there are very few restrictions. Thank you for your advice, I'll take it on board. :)
/r/askFDS14/02/21 10:26 AM
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STUNNING. I’m in love with you OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:22 AM
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Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:48 AM
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I was actually having a conversation about this other day with a male coworker who was complaining about rental prices in our city and he said “even though my wife and I split the rent it still seems like daylight robbery”. I couldn’t help but pull him up on the splitting and he had the audacity to be offended and say “this isn’t the 1950s”. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:09 AM
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Frank is such a good album. Some of it is genuinely FDS approved. I feel like meeting Blake and also the ongoing torture by her dad exacerbated her pick me tendencies and ultimately led to her own demise. A few of my faves from that album: stronger than me, help yourself and f**k me pumps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:13 AM
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You dropped this: 👑 Well done!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:24 PM
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Honestly I’m at that point where even guys who have a significant number of female friends repulse me, like what is the motive for having her in your life if not for sex? Emotional validation? Issa no either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:22 PM
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I just had a flashback to when my ex thought it would be cool to have empty bottles of henny as decor 🤦🏻‍♀️ Cringeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:41 AM
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They’re not just clowns, they’re the whole circus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:33 AM
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Not gon lie I thought it was going to go differently based on the first few words...like she’d find porn or something else depraved. Pleasantly surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:50 AM
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Ugh it really do be like that huh 🤦🏻‍♀️ Step it up men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:24 AM
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He did you a favour by disclosing his mental health issues and preoccupation with his own life, you got a preview for what the relationship would’ve been like if it had continued.
/r/askFDS03/01/21 07:33 PM
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I’m no economist but doesn’t printing money make its value go down? So telling that an LVM would say this since they pretty much start taking their wife for granted and devaluing her from day 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:07 PM
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I am truly disgusted by this. Sis needs to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:23 AM
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This post is absolute gold. Take notes everyone. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:32 AM
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the phrase "ethically produced consensual non-consent" gave me a seizure. anything that starts with "ethically" when talking about sex is probably the complete opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:30 AM
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Ewww wtf is wrong with her??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:51 PM
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Wtf is a sex goal. Get some actual goals loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:25 PM
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I ThOugHT iD gEt a TeXT frOm u Uhhh do I look like pickmeisha to you? Fuck outta here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:17 AM
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Shout out to the double standards which expect women to provide the same to guys without them having earned it 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:49 AM
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👏Stop having children with NVM 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:46 PM
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We all know this one: you’re not like other girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:38 AM
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I love these! Thank you for the concrete, actionable suggestions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:55 AM
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HAHAHAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:15 PM
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Seconded!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:57 AM
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BuY mE PizZa anD TouCh mY BuTt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:36 AM
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Cariño, you dodged a bullet. Seriously. Life is going to be so much better for you from now on and your future is looking very bright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:36 AM
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Oh wow what a catch, sign me up please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:59 AM
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Ewww this reminds me of my red pill women pickme days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:54 AM
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Right! Of ALL the names in the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:48 AM
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Artistic excellence!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 11:38 AM
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Lol, watch this guy end up decrepit and alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:55 AM
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I feel like I may have received this exact message from some braindead scrote lurker on this sub. If you’re reading, shut down the porn and go read a book and stop being pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:31 PM
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Was Mr Darcy an HVM or LVM? I still don’t know. I’m team Bingley.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:45 PM
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I’ll bite. My most recent date was with a divorced guy. It came up in our early conversations but by the time we met for a date I think he had forgotten he told me (a lot of people don’t remember what is said over text) so when it came up again he kept referring to it as a “serious relationship”. It made me wonder whether he took it seriously at all and how much respect he had for the institution of marriage. Did he view his ex wife on the same level as any other ex gf? Something to watch out fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:05 AM
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aww thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:50 AM
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I'm trying but I just got rejected from medical school today. Back to the grind...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:00 AM
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they're back together!! :O
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:41 AM
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Know nothing about physics, but can I just say that you queens inspire me. Keep up the amazing work, you’re going to change the world ❤️ 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:07 PM
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There’s a YouTuber named daria andronescu who is a stylist and knows a lot about fabric, curating wardrobes, etc. she does different in depth videos on how to build up your wardrobe according to season, budget, aesthetic. She also had some fun videos where she takes famous paintings and tries to create outfits using the colour palette/theme from it for inspo. I’m a huge art nerd so I tried to incorporate that thinking into my own wardrobe curation. Overall her channel has really helped me to cut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:46 AM
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Love it! Keep slaying queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:07 AM
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I’m sorry but I’m in a similar line of work to you and absolutely love what I do so if all some scrote had to say about it was “that’s really nice”, I would ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:05 AM
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Oh my gosh, of course! I have a little too much trust in men clearly 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 09:08 AM
142

What 9 year old has that much wisdom? It’s probably a typo but still, mad respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:59 AM
6

Amazing! I want to start Muay Thai when the gyms open up again, I’m so excited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:03 AM
24

What’s your life like at the moment? Do you have any big goals you wanna work towards, a good group of non pickmeisha friends, family support, hobbies? Bring the focus back onto yourself for long enough and you’ll start looking at dating as a time consuming chore until you meet someone who is right for you. You’ll be so in love with your life that you won’t want to bring anyone into it unless they have something amazing to contribute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:23 AM
69

He’s entitled and immature, she needs to seriously reconsider marrying him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:11 AM
38

Can we talk about how the baby sounds like such a sweetheart tho! Rather than spend time with his son making cute memories this LVM dad decides to do the most 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:27 PM
2

What would be funny is if “guy” isn’t actually his name and just what you’ve saved him as in your phone 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:58 AM
5

I can help you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 12:14 PM
5

I was trying to get context so I could give you more specific advice but you’ve gone and ballsed it up. Good luck.
/r/askFDS15/05/20 12:35 AM
17

Passion is great for the initial stages but it’s not enough to sustain a life partnership. Chemistry is slightly more important I would say, you want to be able to laugh and converse with someone for potentially a lifetime. I’m inclined to echo a sentiment some wise ladies have already mentioned on this thread, that the ex I had the most chemistry with ended up being the one that fucked me over the most emotionally. These days I like to go for a more temperate sorta guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:13 PM
8

Why are you interested in older women? FDS women would look at it as a red flag, are you looking for a mommy figure?
/r/askFDS13/05/20 10:43 AM
4

You don't have to like someone back just because they like you. Just tell her though, it'll save her a lot of time and misery.
/r/askFDS11/05/20 12:25 PM
11

Bro, it ain't that deep. Just cut porn out of your life. Also BDSM is something the libfems would have you believe is a thing that every woman wants. Not the case at all.
/r/askFDS11/05/20 12:22 PM
16

A bop!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:07 PM
2

You already know what to do sis. If it’s safe to do so, leave asap and go stay with your family for a bit. I would completely ghost him too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:34 PM
22

I need to start shopping at your local grocery store 😂 what section would they even put that in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:05 PM
20

This! Also I’ve been thinking about this whole issue a lot lately and might write a big post on it. Watch this space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:27 PM
55

You came for their jugulars with this one, sis. Die mad, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:09 AM
34

Omg this is pathetic. Let’s do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:21 AM
10

Um
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:02 AM
40

No thank you. If I wanted to be a hooker/maid, I would just go be one and then actually get paid for it. 🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:54 PM
27

Oh wow this is really upsetting. What can we do to help?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:03 AM
50

Men are narsty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:02 AM
19

I feel like before even asking another person, we should know our own answers to these questions. These would make for great journaling prompts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 02:11 AM
24

Facts 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:33 AM
13

The only thing he grew was audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:31 AM
41

I bet he’s a 5’11 scrote who likes to round up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:20 PM
2

Let me know how it goes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 08:45 PM
4

My strategy is to go for one solid, good match/right swipe per day. This is someone you have a preliminary good feeling about from his profile and wouldn’t mind getting to know. As soon as I get that match I’m done for the day. This way you have a better chance of talking to a small pool of “good quality” guys instead of wasting your time shifting through hundreds in your inbox.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:01 AM
7

I freakin love this sub. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:31 AM
25

Ugh I adore this lady, whoever she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:45 AM
7

Also side note - women who call their partners “the hubs” or “the boyf” are a special level of pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:30 AM
168

I agree! Let’s bring the focus back onto us and get 👏 shit 👏 done, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:26 PM
22

If it were legal, those men would date MUCH younger than early 20s. Male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:37 AM
5

I feel like your comment is reductive. Mental health is more complex than any one man’s power over someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 12:23 PM
14

Oh noooo, I used to be that girl. Sis needs to find someone else stat or she’ll be pining forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:13 AM
19

Wtf, that is disgusting behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:19 AM
24

Wow, breaking quarantine rules for some D. They’re dedicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:47 AM
32

I only watched that one she did on Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom, her explanation actually made my jaw drop and I paused and typed out what she said (I have it saved): "What do we say about hurt lockers? We don’t want to date them, we want to be them. They are people we imprint on, our ego fuses to them because we are in a place of fractured identity, poor self-esteem, trauma. If you say “I want a good body” but you eat nothing but cake do you want a good body? What is fuelling that cognitive dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:09 PM
41

Maybe we can do a series later on the hurt locker! It’s a concept I’ve been trying to navigate, maybe unpacking it in a group will help :) without disclosing too much trauma of course. Would anyone be interested?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:30 AM
61

You are gorgeous but beware the scrotes 👀 better turn off your dms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:08 AM
13

Louder for our sisters in the back!! 👏🗣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:56 AM
32

You don’t miss him, you miss what he represents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:53 AM
5

What's goin on hun?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:24 AM
5

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:04 AM
7

You're 20. Focus on school. You'll wreck your GPA for this dude and regret it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:03 AM
71

Why are people still trying to date during the quarantine??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:39 PM
11

I have a soft spot for that song but I agree. Also it took him hoeing around and travelling the world for him to realise he wanted to be with her? Boy bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:46 AM
22

You have no business being exclusive with someone you’ve only been on 2 dates with. You should be keeping your options open too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:35 PM
3

We need to post this on RPW. They’re so brainwashed they’d probably love it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:56 PM
35

Porn/airbrushing have rendered men absolute basket cases. There is no hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:54 AM
10

How do you send anonymously? Just make a fake account or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:11 PM
15

You're right, I don't think she'd leave him, she'd rationalise it as him being bored during the quarantine or some nonsense. Also I've kind of distanced myself from her lately because of her pickmeisha ideologies, so I'm definitely thinking about how to approach this. I don't want to be like..."heyyyy I know I haven't talked to you in 3 months cos I find you annoying, but here's some screenshots." At the end of the day, she is my friend and quarantine means she's all alone to process some pretty…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:10 PM
14

I don't think she does!! She's a severe pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:08 PM
5

In that case it would be more beneficial for you to network and get work experience than spend time doing a dissertation. It’s all about using time wisely in your senior year :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:12 PM
6

What are your plans after you graduate? Do you want to go into research and academics? Then do a dissertation. Corporate jobs won’t really care about it, but they’ll be impressed by good grades. I’d do whatever was most beneficial for my future career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:31 PM
5

Nice! Great that you already know what you want to do. Don’t worry too much about law school just yet, but you might want to identify some soft skills that’ll help you in your career eg interviewing people, public speaking, reading speed and find YouTube videos or short courses to do. Also read anything and everything you can get your hands on!! Of course, focus on school work and catch up on your classes and homework. Fitness wise, get a jump rope maybe? Also focus on your nutrition and learn h…
/r/askFDS17/03/20 09:04 PM
65

I would rather be celibate for life than have sex with a guy like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:09 AM
9

Major 🔑
/r/askFDS17/03/20 08:43 AM
9

What are your goals for this coming year? Identify those and break them down into actionable steps, do the ones that don’t require you to be outside during this self isolation period. You’ll be setting yourself up well for when life resumes.
/r/askFDS17/03/20 12:32 AM
41

Why don't they have a chance with women? Are they too lazy to get out of the basement and go to the gym/get jobs/study? If so, that's on them and it's not our duty to accomodate them. Also getting rid of the porn industry is not as simple as saying "all men need to get girlfriends and have real life sex", it's a power structure that's deeply embedded in our societies via media and other channels, propelled by liberal feminism.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 02:34 AM
25

Honestly, outside of a few male friends and cousins I’ve known my whole life, I don’t like to go out of my way to befriend guys. They add nothing to my life.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 02:00 AM
45

Also it’s not up to us to regulate your libidos and teach you how to deal with your urges in healthy, non toxic ways.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 01:51 AM
72

It’s not just about how it ruins men, but how predatory and exploitative it is towards women. We take issue with the porn industry as an institution and the negative ways in which it affects womens’ lives.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 01:50 AM
3

But why is this fake male character better than any man I've ever encountered?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:40 PM
4

I see u HVM, planning dates and shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:09 PM
11

My ex had all sorts of mental illness, the byproduct of a shitty childhood, which I accepted and wanted to support him through. But god damn, was it hard. Eventually you realise that no amount of YOU wanting them to take care of themselves will actually prompt them to. I believe he’s still unmedicated and unwilling to go to therapy. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I wont be doing that again.
/r/askFDS15/03/20 08:55 PM
15

Do u? Haha maybe u could show me, just kidding...unLeSS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:23 PM
35

Oh my god I am cryingggg. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:24 AM
21

Seems like a breeding ground for narcissists...but then again that’s OLD in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:10 PM
26

What in the halitosis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:33 PM
2

I would be asking, plain and simple. In a diplomatic way of course, but it is part of my vetting.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 07:47 PM
10

I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s no easy thing to navigate. For that reason I’d recommend taking a good amount of time to grieve and process your emotions, which it seems like you’re already doing. I would highly recommend seeing a therapist before you start considering dating. FDS is very against unequal emotional labour, and you need to avoid making your future partner feel like she will have to help you through any unresolved feelings. Of course, relationships are about emotional support but …
/r/askFDS14/03/20 12:05 AM
6

Contrary to popular belief, not every woman is a size queen and there is actually a point of diminishing returns with big dicks. My best advice to you is to focus on your partners pleasure, amp up the foreplay, lots of kissing and letting her know you’re psyched to be there. So much of arousal is mental for women, and I don’t think men really understand that. It’s not all about dicks all the time.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 10:36 PM
56

Yup. One dude actually got mildly sad/annoyed that I wouldn’t stay up to text him. Bitch I gotta be at work the next day what do you mean!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:34 AM
131

Happy for you but be careful, it’s still too early to accurately assess this mans character. Keep your options open.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:30 AM
32

She is a queen, in her own weird way. A true leader and visionary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:00 AM
40

Turn off your DMs, gal. There are some sick people out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:19 AM
68

I shouldn’t have snooped but apparently he also has a 12 year old son while also commenting on young boys and girls “rate me” threads saying they’re cute and sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:33 AM
99

Also he’s married! I wonder if his wife knows what he gets up to online 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:13 AM
31

This is so, so weird. OP are ya alright?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:27 PM
26

Willing to bet my money on this also. Do people not have jobs or better things to do with their time? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:24 AM
53

The circle jerk one is pure cancer. If you’re reading this fdscj, sorry you got banned but maybe...get a life? And stop obsessing over what we do or don’t do. Love you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:39 PM
8

The real meaning of sloppy seconds is quite crude but it basically translates to another person’s leftovers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:46 AM
27

Nope. If men get to be on their high horse talking about “I don’t want sloppy seconds” then we should be able to do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:23 AM
14

Timb is funny though because his production slaps and he’s been married for like 30 years but in his songs he always tries to portray himself as this thug 😂 Also yeah sad about keri’s career
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:20 AM
16

Yes! Even when the song came out when I was like 10 or something I remember thinking “ew this guy sounds gross, she can do better”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:10 AM
6

Came here to say this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:27 AM
89

She’s probs really hot and he’s scared ppl will hit on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:42 AM
179

ITs wORk NoT FuN TiMe Ok principal trunchbull... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:55 AM
45

Forget hot girl summer, it’s fugly boy summer y’allll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:12 AM
32

I am SCREAMING. 😂 I genuinely think we’re the funniest sub on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:41 AM
22

Lost me at “9 years”. Gurl bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:21 AM
20

What in the scrotation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:55 AM
36

I bet some pick me’s going to be like OMG YESSS THATS ME BOO, we’re the “cool grandparents”, I’m ur ride or dieee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:06 AM
2

Ooh I must watch this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 06:48 AM
8

What do you use to make your coffee? I’m researching different methods (I ordered an Aeropress but I wasn’t home when the package arrived so they refunded my money 🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:55 AM
22

He needs therapy not OLD 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:29 AM
77

Right! Who raised him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:22 AM
21

Haha an absolute classic. I love how close she is to her dad, reminds me of my own old man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:20 AM
7

How old are you OP? That’ll give a clue as to his age settings on the app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:56 PM
15

Let me take a stab: he was in a serious relationship in his mid-late twenties but that ended once he started making decent money and realised he was an “8/10”. Then he decided to find a younger trophy wife but realised that’s easier said than done. He’s on OLD to find easy sex but is still looking for his 25 year old handmaiden and will dump you if he finds her. And that’s the tea for today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:55 PM
131

That’s actually considered a form of child abuse/neglect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:52 PM
49

Or be like “you’re right I don’t care to reach out, bye” and block. Depending how petty OP is 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:49 PM
125

Ghost him immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:45 PM
3

Laura, snez is cool (from what I know of her). Richie and honey badger were objectively LVMs. Like case studies almost. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:16 PM
48

They absolutely looove having loose ends don’t they? I don’t think I’ve ever met a guy who hasn’t tried to “be on good terms” with their ex 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:26 AM
53

Disgusting. They want them around so they can message them to come over when their little peepees are lonely. kickhimout2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:10 AM
24

FDS RESCUE MISSION 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:40 AM
47

There’s a couple from the bachelor here in Australia who had a baby recently, the girl is still being a total pickme talking about how she “won him” from the other girls. Cannot stand her.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:32 AM
29

Oop, if it ain’t my ex 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:30 AM
7

Why, pickmeisha? I bet ya mans is hanging out with 2-3 girl friends of his own, hop to it and do the same 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:23 AM
43

wait till a hot girl steals his wife, he’ll change his tune real quick. condescending prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 01:18 AM
38

Lol it is rough out here in these streets y’all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:56 AM
24

Could’ve sworn he was talking about his boyfriend. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:15 AM
1

Oh sweet sweet Pickmeisha. She’s in for a mindfuck if she decides to date him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:00 AM
31

LOL bold of you to assume he’s getting any at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:48 AM
21

Depends on how old he is and whether he has ambition and a plan for his life and career. I’m in my early twenties, so I would be fine with a guy who was my age to still be starting/finishing grad school or in his first “serious” job. But if he’s late 20s or early 30s without a plan? Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:20 AM
92

MeN AGe LiKe WiNe aND wE cAN HaVE ChILdrEn aT AnY aGe...UnLiKe WoMYNz. I once asked my LVM ex if he planned on having children and he said “not sure, I’m just going to go with the flow” (dudes in his 30s). Good luck with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:42 AM
47

He looks like a scrotum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:41 AM
24

Mans needs to get in the bin immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:55 AM
104

We ain’t doing this in 2020.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:21 AM
48

Shout out to my high value 10th grade English teacher for letting us watch this in class back in the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:10 AM
44

what the actual fuck is wrong with people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:58 PM
9

This is where your vetting comes in. You need to look for other things like his career trajectory, whether he has longstanding friendships, and whether he comes from a home where his parents are in a healthy and loving marriage. You can also find out about his own past relationships and if he’s been faithful in them. It’s not just about “getting the ring”, it’s about not locking yourself into a LTR that only benefits him in the long term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:51 PM
7

Have you read the sidebar?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:29 PM
51

I’m not trying to standard shame you here, in fact, I admire that you know what you want and you won’t settle. Having said that, you’re 22, and you need to allow some room for life to expand and contract in different areas as you grow and have new life experiences. So keep striving for your goals, but keep an open mind about the future too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:17 PM
22

Did he reply?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:09 AM
41

DUSTY. HAHAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:10 AM
3

Aww I hope things get better for you! You got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 10:35 AM
10

Yup. We don’t worry about small dicks here either ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:33 AM
36

When he asks to reschedule be like “I’m good luv, enjoy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:34 AM
7

Whats brigading? Sorry, reddit noob here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:52 AM
18

Only sixth form? This might sound elitist but freakin hell, read a book instead of being on bumble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:08 AM
144

Ugh WHY. I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who only wants me when I show no interest. So paradoxical and exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:03 PM
23

Um what app is this? Just so I can make sure to never join it. Why on Earth would they allow rematches?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:53 AM
11

Haha I just remembered that quote in up in the air where Vera is like “I’ve tried it, we’re no picnic ourselves”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:32 AM
9

They’re a rIdE oR DiE couple 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:52 AM
42

21 and 28 is a bit of a red flag to me. He may have started viewing you as “his property” already. Also why can’t he get girls his own age? If you look deeper into that I’m sure you’ll find more sus things come out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:35 PM
22

I actually have a good friend navigating an “ethically non monogamous marriage” at the moment and he’s had his heart broken 5 times, and the wife is also jealous of his girlfriends. And it was her idea to begin with 🤦‍♀️ So that’s going well for them I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:11 PM
32

this x10000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:59 PM
27

So what exactly are the logistics of this potential relationship? You’d write each other notes to communicate until one of you dies? Sounds romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:57 PM
3

UmMmM it’s 2020 I can do what I want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:51 PM
14

Health and wellness (but like evidence based not Gwyneth Paltrow shit), investing in female friendships, getting ahead in your career and setting financial goals. Face masks and bubble baths are fine but they won’t bring tangible, long term results. :) All the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:12 PM
4

Cool story but why do we need to know this exactly? There was no FDS applied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:59 PM
8

Yes! I’ve been centring myself and trying to carry myself with gravitas and dem mans can feel 👏it. They are quaking in their boots out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:43 AM
6

Wow his house must smell nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:56 PM
3

Jokes on them cos I was stealing dinners well before I found this sub. When I started eating solid food as a baby to be precise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:55 PM
2

Yeah I didn’t know low standard were that ubiquitous though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:34 PM
18

Shoutout to ya brother!! Mad respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:33 PM
366

Oh gosh the jokes are writing themselves at this point. Sis really said “they shared a room” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:27 PM
189

“I’m going to always fantasise about other woman but if you try to be like them it’s going to ruin the Madonna-whore complex I have for you so stay in your frumpy housewife lane....also MUH PENIS.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:17 PM
52

Listen, jollof rice slaps but this is disrespectful. Why even ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:34 AM
142

Was he always this condescending? I want to gouge my eyes out with a spoon after reading that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:31 AM
155

Bro, if you’re reading this, she good. 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:28 AM
52

Carrie Bradshaw in pretty much every moment of sex and the city, both the movies and tv show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:30 AM
4

Amazing that you’ve cut him off!! It’s going to be a bitch, but you will emerge like a phoenix from the ashes!! You got this queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:15 AM
256

I bow to you my queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:09 AM
10

You will never get closure on this. You could agonise all day everyday for 25 years over this and still not have the answer, ruining your mental health in the process. He’s not the guy for you, try to move on and find some peace. We’re all here to support you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:07 AM
10

Would not date him even if he was the last man left on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:41 AM
1

Oooh I like this! And here’s the meme: https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/www.bet.com/music/2018/06/11/im-good-luv-enjoy-future.amp.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:33 PM
40

But muh penis!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:18 PM
114

This is why we don’t marry potential. Assume no human being on this planet is capable of fundamentally changing their personality “blueprint”. Not without a lot of inner work and therapy anyway. Which an LVM wouldn’t do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:28 PM
3

I don’t know who that is 😂 I was referring to that future meme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:51 AM
26

I’m good luv, enjoy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:48 AM
6

Also stoners have really annoying laughs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:45 AM
22

I cut off an otherwise very lovely guy because of his weed use. There’s nothing wrong with weed in and of itself but when someone starts using it to self medicate/thinks it gives them a personality, that’s when it’s a red flag. Stoner dudes are the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:44 AM
19

Blockedt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:25 AM
69

Check his reply tho. “Another black and white mentality” LMAO hes actually looking for someone to VALIDATE him and praise his penis!!! Useless scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:06 PM
29

Wtf, did he say it totally out of context? Either way you dodged a bullet, he probably would’ve started sleeping with her behind your back if you’d allowed it to go on 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:13 PM
32

Oh my goodness the last line has me deceased. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:45 AM
53

These are my cOnfeSsiOns...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:51 AM
11

I’m no expert but I would interpret it as your subconscious bringing uncomfortable or repressed feelings to the surface, urging you to examine and resolve them so you can be fully present in this new relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 01:49 AM
4

Ahahaha you're a better woman than I am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:50 PM
21

Happy birthday queen! You’re too good for all of them, never forget. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:24 PM
10

I’m sure your bf wouldn’t mind in the name of comedy. Guys love trolling other guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:21 PM
38

I did galentines dinner with my best friend last night. It was very premium, we got dressed up, split an expensive wagyu steak and drank some amazing wine while discussing our goals and hopes for this year. My heart is full.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:45 PM
21

Damn, she needs to raise her standards. If I had her body I wouldn’t know how to act
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:49 AM
32

SIS SAID MEDICAL SCHOOL. You’re coming for our jugulars 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:48 AM
7

Oh yeah that’s what I meant, he features heavily on all my 00’s playlists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:59 AM
30

Omg another problematic artist whose music slaps. If they keep doing shit like this I won’t have any music left to listen to 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:58 PM
22

I screamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 10:54 PM
36

Amen!! Buy a vibrator and keep it moving ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:53 AM
69

But muh marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:51 AM
24

Ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:58 AM
0

Love lazy Sunday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:31 PM
3

It’s not for everyone but I adore chergui by serge lutens. I smelled it on a male coworker and was delighted to know it’s a unisex scent. Makes you smell rich (costs an arm and a leg tho 😡)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:30 PM
15

Let me project into the future real quick. You keep fucking, he's still acting distant and only seeing you on his terms/when he needs a warm body next to him. You're still waiting for him to be "ready" to be in a relationship with you (it's going to happen! it's so close! you can feel it in your bones). Then one night, after he hasn't hit you up in like a month, you get a message from him saying he met a girl at a party/at a bar/on tinder and he'd like to see where things go with her because the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:12 AM
36

Queen shit!! I’m thinking of doing this with the guy I’m speaking to atm. A few days ago he revealed to me that he smoked weed most days and also that he’s had a bunch of career plans over the years but none have worked out. He’s so lovely otherwise but issa no from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:08 AM
17

Love love love her. I always try to channel her character in sex and the city 2 in social situations 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:37 AM
5

Please write a post about ring tips!! This was super informative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:57 PM
14

A tip: tell your best friend exactly what you want so when the time comes they can tell your bae and no one will be disappointed. Also don’t date broke men ladies. I would love a cushion cut on a gold band myself :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:53 AM
3

BOY BYE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:47 AM
11

Please don’t tell me you’re dating this mess. You can do so much better with your beautiful self!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:55 AM
5

This exact thing happened to me with one of my best friends. We were both 19, now almost 25. I broke up with my ex long ago, she’s still with the same guy and they’re so happy (though they’ve been together 6 years and no ring so idk, but that’s side plot). Point is, everyone has their own path, and maybe you going through this was a lesson that was necessary in order to level up. Diamonds are made under pressure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:27 AM
21

Excited for this discourse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:14 AM
6

That’s the dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:43 PM
4

Thanks! I don’t fully agree but I respect where you’re coming from. Based on past experience I know that for me, chasing the spark will have me doing some pick me things like answering “wyd” texts at midnight and going Dutch on dates. I’m looking for a different dynamic now so I’m happy to go for someone who doesn’t give me butterflies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 08:41 PM
10

Thanks for sharing! Yes I could definitely work on my boundary-setting skills. I guess my dilemma is that I matched with a guy about three weeks ago and I went on vacation. We messaged a few times while I was away and now that I'm back he wants to go out ASAP. But to be honest, I don't feel "pulled" to meet up with him just yet. I also have finals in a few weeks and I want to focus on studying for those. It's a tricky one to navigate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:39 PM
10

I’m so sick of all the clowns who write this shit and some poor impressionable girl takes it to heart. Enough trolling, scrotes. It’s actually really damaging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 06:41 AM
33

Um, no. Kill this with fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:34 AM
175

Yikes, this is next level pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:31 AM
24

Harry Potter and the Secret Child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:54 PM
40

$200-$300 ring? Sis needs to pack her bags yesterday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:06 AM
29

Lord, save these pickmeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:39 AM
3

DISGUSTANG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:56 PM
5

My favourite: ghosts for two weeks and then messages like nothing happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:52 AM
1

Yeah ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:33 PM
4

Adorable and wholesome content. Love you ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 10:32 AM
5

I see u, scrote troll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 10:26 AM
2

Oops I just wrote something exactly like this, but you said it better! It’s such a toxic cycle for women to get caught up in, and none of it was their fault to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:59 AM
10

I also despise LVMs and pickmeishas who say “if he really loved you he would change so if he doesn’t then you ain’t the one” Excuse me? Why do I have to prove myself as WoRtHY just to inspire him to work on himself and make changes? Especially when he’d probably dump me after his upgrade for someone he perceived as better? I’m not participating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:57 AM
46

When I woke up this morning I thought to myself “what fresh hell will today bring?” This answered my question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:41 AM
16

Yes! When my exes ask to be friends I always say “you were never my friend, and there is nothing you can give me that I don’t already get in spades from my gal pals.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:51 AM
7

You’re the prize, he’s trying to impress you. Not the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 07:36 AM
5

That is an excellent point, thanks so much for your input!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:45 AM
12

Thank you! Yes I agree, love is not enough and I wish media and pop culture would stop feeding this bullshit narrative to us from such a young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:38 AM
6

I’m single at the moment so this is a hypothetical situation for when I start dating again. I plan to circular date so should therapy be a qualifier in deciding which guys to engage with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:37 AM
26

The state of dating today. From Shakespeare’s sonnets to this, for what???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 09:20 AM
24

I love that this is an example. Lessons can be found everywhere hey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:17 AM
22

Issa meme mami, it’s been doing the rounds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 10:29 AM
50

Ahhh I love nothing more than when the trash takes itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:06 AM
1

Brad, Adam or Chris? I gotta know haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:06 AM
165

You know who else is lonely bill? Your poor wife sitting at home!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:55 AM
22

She. Is. Adorable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:52 AM
14

SHE SAID FABERGE EGG. Sis, you need to write a book please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:07 AM
43

Back atcha!! Thank you so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 09:55 AM
6

Date a guy with tattoos! The non-loser ones though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:56 AM
26

Why do they do this?? Why can’t men just recognise they have a queen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 09:44 PM
14

I want this dynamic! How did you meet him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:56 AM
26

Just did! the "give each other many orgasms through the night and years after" is a SCAM. he probably hasn't ever given a girl an orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:01 AM
34

What's with all the biting? Is this twilight? No one is biting anything of mine until there's a ring on my finger lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:51 PM
9

You are a boss! Good luck babe, you will be amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:48 AM
20

2020 is the year of doing better. I’m going to be evangelical about FDS to all the women in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 08:31 PM
7

Thanks for your input, I appreciate it. I thought it was a bit harsh to block at first but then I saw the 5 other messages in my inbox where guys were saying things like “I hope 2020 brings you everything you hope for etc etc” and I was like... this dude is so low value compared to them and I don’t really want to go down the path of wherever this is leading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 08:23 PM
20

If it’s particular acts that are triggering you then I feel that you’re well within your right to say no to participating and offer no further explanation, you don’t owe him anything. Always put your well-being first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:31 PM
81

My heart hurts for the ex :( I hope she finds someone better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 11:59 AM
141

Does it weird anyone else out that these geriatric men know exactly what they’re doing? They know that a lot of girls will filter their actual age out in their settings but they INSIST on being seen by the younger girls despite that? So forceful and creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 11:49 AM
6

I know i'm just a random on the internet so feel free to take this with a pinch of salt. I mean this in the nicest way possible but I'm getting really anxious and tightly wound vibes from your posts on this thread. I feel like it would help if you stepped back and stopped trying to play things a certain way, for now at least. I don't think he's sitting there overanalysing, so match his energy. So let him make the next move, it's going to be a really good indicator into just how high value he is.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:31 AM
10

Thank you so much for your reply! I thought as much, a shame though because he's cute. Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 09:44 AM
20

Hey beautiful pals, just a minor question about OLD. What's your opinion on when a guy hits you with the "where do you live?" question pretty early in the conversation? To me it just screams uninspired and potentially like he's just trying to come over or something. But maybe I'm being too harsh and it's a genuine factor in deciding to ask someone out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 09:37 AM
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