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| 57 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin out | NAH, SIS | _Amarantos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:27 PM |
| 8 | Has this been posted yet? Holy projection. | _Amarantos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:32 PM | |
| 1 | TIL I’m a toxic monogamist | _Amarantos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:23 PM |
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| 8 | Why University Greek Life Is Structurally Pick-Me w/ Jana Matthews (FDS PODCAST EPISODE 91)she's in the intro! but yeah she's the quieter member of the three. not gonna lie, i haven't minded lilith's absence as much recently because i feel like i've heard more from savannah than i ever have. i'm hoping it doesn't go away when lilith comes back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why University Greek Life Is Structurally Pick-Me w/ Jana Matthews (FDS PODCAST EPISODE 91)Savannah was in this episode... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Only a miscarriage can save you if a woman decides to force you into having a kid you didn't wantUntil artificial wombs become a thing, yup. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/07/22 12:03 AM |
| 22 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)not to mention Sports Illustrated has had plus size models as early as 2015. Why the anger now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/22 05:08 AM |
| 28 | Ali Wong Getting a DivorceOh 500%. Miss me with that “we met at church” bullshit they tried to pull. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 08:37 PM |
| 120 | Ali Wong Getting a DivorceJohn Mulaney’s entire career was basically talking about his wife and their life (even in a favorable way) and he upped and dipped still. He’s the only one I’ve ever seen get dragged (as he should since it’s heavily suspect that apparently Olivia Munn got knocked up the first month they were together…hmmm) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 27 | I don’t even know what to say 🤦🏼♀️good ol John Mulaney | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 06:26 AM |
| 54 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?My ex was like this and he didn't even go down on me and his kitchen was always filthy so we had to use mine whenever we cooked. Big ol nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 05:19 AM |
| 30 | Be careful posting elsewhereHopefully she has an fds only account | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 02:03 AM |
| 71 | Be careful posting elsewhereQueen mod | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 124 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂Wow this is the most likeable thing I’ve heard about The Office | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:21 PM |
| 83 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂The guy needs to be much less attractive for this to be accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:18 PM |
| 21 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Honestly the comments here aren’t too dissimilar from the comments on 2x and even on bdsm advice. It’s pretty cut and dry: You’re in a shitty relationship with a selfish man who doesn’t give a fuck about you. I don’t know who you’re trying to convince but no one is convinced otherwise, even you admit in some comments that you know that the relationship isn’t healthy, your sex differences will likely lead to divorce, etc. I’m not sure why you’re so angry that other people are pointing it out. PS:… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:50 PM |
| 31 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”love how she posted this on the bdsm subreddit and even some of them are like "sis you need to leave" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.Honestly, I was in so deep that I didn’t even realize I was in a toxic situation until I got out. Even after my therapist said something I thought he was being dramatic, especially since I feel like narcissistic personality/narcissism is often over used in the age of the internet. So I have a bunch but just a general list: Extreme love bombing at first. He would especially compliment features at a time so he could figure out what I was insecure about. Later on he would use these same things to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:10 PM |
| 38 | Has Nvm narc turned your Te Fiti into a Te Ka?Omg I always break down in tears then too. Her realizing she’s just a traumatized goddess and not a monster. 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 03:36 AM |
| 31 | We are living in a clown world 🤡This is obligatory posting for any poly post tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 03:55 PM |
| 9 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 45 - Lundy Bancroft Takes The Queens Inside The Minds of Angry & Controlling Men (Part 1)I literally thought that too until about a year ago on this subreddit when someone mentioned he wasn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:44 PM |
| 22 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 45 - Lundy Bancroft Takes The Queens Inside The Minds of Angry & Controlling Men (Part 1)What an amazing surprise guest. So excited to listen when I get off work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:03 PM |
| 181 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Any man above the age of 22 asking for my “snap” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:56 PM |
| 3 | sEx pOsiTivitY 🤡🤮Are they still poly? Sometimes I do a little creep on her account/s and I've noticed that she hasn't posted anything about them being poly/non-monogamous ever since they got married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 07:07 AM |
| 8 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.Yeah, I really wish I had just left and blocked and deleted on my way home. He got way worse, that was just the first test. I found out after we broke up that he lied about his job the entire time we dated. He told me he was a therapist, worked with adolescent boys, gave me an office he claimed he worked out. I'm someone who ultimately wants to be a psychiatric NP for pediatric/adolescent patients. Turns out he works in HR for a call center for a bank. Never has been a licensed therapist- thank … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:45 PM |
| 46 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.Yeah, I got out of a relationship with a man who was admittingly avoidantly attached, after talking it over with my therapist for a while he was like "you realize this man has narcissistic personality pillars and was extremely emotionally manipulative and abusive to you, right?" You can even peep my history and see a situation where he called me needy for wanting...normal behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 05:21 AM |
| 24 | OP is ignored by her boyfriend at a friend's birthday party because he was busy speaking to another woman all day. Comments told her to just talk to him. Proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for him as well.This. I had this happen to me and I wish I had just blocked and deleted him on the way home. He got way worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 28 | OP is ignored by her boyfriend at a friend's birthday party because he was busy speaking to another woman all day. Comments told her to just talk to him. Proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for him as well.Hoo lord. My ex did this shit to me then when I left in tears he had the nerve to call me and ask if I had fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.Yup. My no value ex has used the blue chew since he was 27. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 14 | Pick me gf and pornsick bf vibesDon’t forget ass to mouth and other degrading rhetoric. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 14 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…Sometimes I think it’s beneficial to listen to those you don’t agree with because listening to how they think allows you to take down their argument better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 18 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.Lmao if a man acted like this on a date I would excuse myself to the bathroom and leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:31 AM |
| 10 | Men don’t always marry the woman they love the most: a n insight from an OLD convoCurrently feeling like this now from my most recent breakup. Ive been reading fds for a minute now but looking back I didn’t have as strong of boundaries as I should have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:18 PM |
| 27 | This post will probably be removed.Always wondered why I saw women with this flair who had some good takes. Like…does it ever get removed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 50 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherAs someone who is fresh off a breakup, this thread helps. Thanks ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Coping with the early stages of a breakupThis is late but I just went through a difficult breakup last night and found this thread through the search bar. Thank you so much for this, it made me cry but it really helped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 23 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?why I only work with female photographers lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 84 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳Jerry is the true HVM in the show tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 32 | I’m really effing tired of the ‘give a short man a chance’ propaganda.I love the men who are like "I usually prefer shorter girls" yeah, well, I usually prefer handsome men so gtfo my inbox Gollum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:32 PM |
| 7 | The uglies always have the most to say 🤡Damn, real shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 07:41 PM |
| 9 | I don’t know if you’ve guys have seen this account. But it’s literally just the husband “simping” over his wife even after 24 years of marriage. And I’m down for it, it’s so bloody cute.Welp now I'm crying. So sweet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 07:31 PM |
| 27 | Big Clit Energy Right Here!Good God, she's beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 111 | Facts!!! 🔥Currently vetting and going on dates with a guy and a lot of people are shocked that I haven't slept with him yet...it's been 3 dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 09:57 PM |
| 31 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachineCan’t listen to all of this as I am about to start work but AHHHHH GAIL DINES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Sometimes it just makes me want to cry.Same. It’s like “Damn, you can’t even hide the fact that you just view me as a set of warm holes.” Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Real shit.And this why I never let men know I'm bisexual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Sometimes it just makes me want to cry.Cool that the app picks up on that now, but they likely don't do anything about it. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:35 AM |
| 46 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️Yes, this happened to me when I did invisalign, accutane and when I started wearing a lighter hair color (it brights up my skin and features more.) always some insecure man crying about it. At least the one with the hair color admitted that’s why he was worried lmao, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 60 | A picture is worth a thousand words...While this is super serious, Wanda Sykes has a great stand up skit about how she wishes she had a detachable pussy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_7KWGGAbgA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:34 AM |
| 109 | Really making us ask for our oppresion. Almost beautiful how evil this "woman proposes" horse shit isGod, there's this girl I know who proposed to her boyfriend. She's obsessed with the relationship being '100% equal!" She's currently pregnant and the fiance venmoed her some money for 'spa day for my love' and she sent back the money with the note "I don't want this, I can pay for myself." Like girl....lmao. Can't wait to see if her tone changes when she realizes her fiance can't go 50/50 on cracked nipples and perineal tears. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:23 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-inMore than likely we'll be in the work market until we're 60/70. Do you really want to work a job you dislike for decades because you were afraid to make a switch because of being "too old'? You got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:48 AM |
| 13 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsGod I hope so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:28 PM |
| 13 | No quarter for coomersI’ll definitely check it out. Thanks for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:43 PM |
| 23 | When their lame man-brags are deeply unimpressiveLmao what a mood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 3 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉He’s a talented actor but I think everyone disliking Ross kind of negatively affected his ability to get other roles for a bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:40 PM |
| 40 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 11 - FDS Gets Entangled with Sex Work Twitteroh hell yeah. randomly being up super late pays off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:24 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021Where’s everyone’s favorite places to buy clothes online? I’m trying to expand my horizons a bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021Aww, I love this. Makes me wanna live with my bestie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021Applied for a new job yesterday and applying for one today. Getting my hair done on Thursday and I’m so nervous because it’s my first time ever doing vivids. I’m doing a hidden rainbow type dealio. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Tired of people trying to sell this idea that posting half naked pics on instagram is empowering to us girls and womenI feel like there's a difference between provocative/thirst traps and every day photos. Like there's a famous twerk dancer on instagram whose profile photo is literally just her ass with someone's hand on it. A lot of her photos/videos on her page are very body focused because that's her brand. I feel like that's different than a face focused bikini photo with your friends at the beach/on a boat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:03 PM |
| 5 | STOP normalizing polyamory while we still live in a patriarchy. Tired of these “wax poetical” think pieces about the obvious.😴🤮obligatory watch when polyamory comes up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:15 AM |
| 11 | Men and Pickmes are confused because they think men are necessary, rather than optionalFantastic analogy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:37 PM |
| 26 | Share your standards!Nothing more annoying than a man who only eats chicken fingers and fries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Share your standards!Pretty much the same as mine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:16 PM |
| 60 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"Ikr, imagine if I got this defensive when people criticized the American healthcare system or the hospital I work at lmao. Like any other form of criticism of industry is perfectly valid but god forbid we talk about the dark sides of the sex industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 106 | If it’s on a popular sub for women, it’s fine. But if we say the same thing here, suddenly we are the actual devil and hate men (like that’s a bad thing). Whyy? At least they’re getting it.The amount of men who don’t even look at the mom/are on their phone when their own child is being delivered (I’m a nurse) just solidifies this shit even more for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:34 PM |
| 69 | Weekly FDS Check-InDo you all think Weird Al yankovic is a HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 26 | Weekly FDS Check-InHappy birthday queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Check-InIt honestly depends on what your skin concerns are but as a whole I recommend a gentle cleanser, a retinoid and a good sunscreen (look for Asian sunscreens, they typically have better materials and make) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:51 PM |
| 102 | Women are the only ones receiving the blame about having fewer children, despite the unevenness of the weight of parenthood across the gendersI literally just shared a NY Times article on my page asking people if they wanted to have kids why or why not. The majority of the men have answered yes to kids, majority of the women have answered no. What a shock. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 55 | Henry VIII's wives if they'd never met himsame. bottom middle is mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:14 AM |
| 165 | The kind of thing that I don't remember being mentioned in all those articles about population declineReminds me of that article where that woman who owned her own tech company ended up shutting it down because her jobless husband couldn’t handle watching their kid for 3 days??? https://www.thelily.com/i-had-to-choose-being-a-mother-with-no-child-care-or-summer-camps-women-are-being-edged-out-of-the-workforce/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineYeah, I really wish people would consider this before personally insulting her character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineYou seem really angry and emotional over this lmao. You’re the one insulting a woman, calling her boring and ordinary because of a photoshoot and when I say that seems like it’s going too far you get all mad about it and try to sarcastically “honey” me. Chill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineOoh I don’t know shit about her brother. off to google | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 15 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineThis thread also has me curious about why is there an uproar about Billie wearing relatively conservative lingerie but one of her most famous songs is about letting some dude dominate her? “Bruises on both my knees for you” “I like it when you take control, I’ll be your animal” is sexualization only worth talking about when it’s visual? For the record: I’m not saying any of this is “empowering” and I’m tired of that narrative too but I am also not shocked by this because the sexualization of her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:08 AM |
| 0 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineNo one called you a prude. You can criticize cultural grooming and sexualization of teenagers/the count down until they’re legal without saying there’s nothing special or unique about her anymore because she fell into it. I was pretty disappointed when Chloe and Halle went a similar route (and still am) but I’m not about to pretend they aren’t interesting, talented women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 10:49 AM |
| 6 | Billie Eilish and the teenager to Sex Symbol pipelineFor real. I love this subreddit but sometimes I feel like I'm too immodest to be here. Like damn, I've modeled lingerie and swimwear but that's the least interesting thing about me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 02:16 AM |
| 37 | What even is this logic???This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 11:40 AM |
| 26 | After men in Spain got paternity leave, they wanted fewer kidsI always say this as well, didn't know it was from her lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 11:38 AM |
| 7 | Half of women 'have suffered sexual assault by a partner while asleep'Oh I went NUTS when I found out. Such a mix of anger and upset but also relief because I wasn't actually crazy for thinking something was wrong. I'm glad you're out too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | What did he expect when he told her he wanted to sleep with another woman ?How do you bring it up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 18 | Half of women 'have suffered sexual assault by a partner while asleep'Ended up going to the hospital because one of my UTIs reached my kidneys and my urine tested positive for sedatives. Realized he had an ambien prescription and put two and two together. He eventually admitted it when he stalked me in a park once to try to get me back after I dumped him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:23 PM |
| 19 | Half of women 'have suffered sexual assault by a partner while asleep'Yeah, once I was crying while on the toilet because I literally peed blood and I was already on antibiotics and I was scared it was only getting worse and he was all “why do you keep getting this shit anyway? Are you sleeping around?” Which lead to me crying more because I had to defend myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:57 PM |
| 9 | Porn Actress Reilly Reid’s InterviewI felt so awful for her when she said her therapist doesn’t even know what to say to her. I mean...it’s one thing to go through trauma but it’s another to have your trauma all over the internet for the rest of your life for people to get pleasure from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 79 | What did he expect when he told her he wanted to sleep with another woman ?Go her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:30 PM |
| 45 | Half of women 'have suffered sexual assault by a partner while asleep'Trigger warning Seriously it’s bad But my first ex used to slip ambien into my food and drink and then rape me in my sleep. I would get constant UTIs and I always felt groggy and weird and he would gaslight me. I would ask what the hell was happening/what he did and he accused me of cheating on him. Absolute insanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:26 PM |
| 29 | Is anyone really surprised about this?Jill (the disowned one) is also getting therapy that she desperately needs after being m*lested by her brother and growing up in that hell hole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Ads on Reddit targeting poor women and girls for prostitution. Absolutely disgusting.Angers me how so many disturbing episodes of Black Mirror are still regularly talked about but the episode where the girl is coerced into doing porn is largely forgotten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Lundy Bancroft on Pornyes omg. i'm like "lundy is a man??" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:41 AM |
| 18 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180There's this girl who I have known for several years who recently started onlyfans. She is in the "Single digits" as far as popularity among content creators. She made $420.59 in a week. Could literally make that working in a fast food job in this area. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoIt is definitely unfortunate. I also know a lot of nurses who go for shit men because "so many men don't want to deal with our schedules" like...what? We work 3 days a week lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoyup. I avoid telling men what I do until they ask and I note their reaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:05 PM |
| 26 | Further proof that women can be happy staying single as they age. We can't say the same for men, as they will not be able to survive without women.I love her and have always thought she was so talented and gorgeous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Weird Red Flags?it's honestly disrespectful the cow had to die for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 12 | Weird Red Flags?I got "my ex girlfriends didn't nag me this much." He got a swift reply of "Yeah, that's because they all fucked other people behind your back and complained to them rather than to your face". Dude constantly cried about how every single one of his exes cheated, gee, wonder why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI just didn’t know if the logo was protected or not. It’s a blatant rip off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InUh...has anyone noticed the pickme version of this sub has been created and they’re blatantly riffing off our terminology and logo? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration dateThat's why I really enjoyed PEN15, all of the actors are actual high school/middle school age besides the leads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | From the interview “Prostitution is rape, and men know it” with Rachel Moran.I'll definitely be using this article in the future, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:06 PM |
| 3 | From the interview “Prostitution is rape, and men know it” with Rachel Moran.Whore's Glory is a decent one too. Very fly on the wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:04 PM |
| 68 | Epiphany: Imagine if dating made your life easier (like it does for men)Yeah, I've noticed this too. Men will whine and moan about how women just take in relationships/dating is useless/etc but then they're still so desperate for it. Like, if it's that bad, why not just be single and celibate? Are you such a masochist that you chase something so apparently awful? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 395 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?Yup. Shit girl, send me a DM and I'll report all his shit too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:30 AM |
| 8 | Never thought about this until I came across the idea today. The comments miss the point but I think you all would appreciate this type of discussion.NARS has a mascara called climax and another blusher called deep throat. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:21 PM |
| 4 | SLUG UPDATE: SHE DID EVENTUALLY LEAVE THE GUY WHO WAS FEEDING HER SLUGS! [EXTREME NSFL IN PICS 2 AND 3]I always think I couldn't unalive someone but I do want to go full Jodi Arias on this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 01:05 PM |
| 40 | You know it is true.That shit gets so old anyway. Like can't we have a normal conversation? Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:30 PM |
| 23 | Never settle for less. If he really loves you, he will go to the ends of the earth for you. Stop giving your energy to guys who are just going to leave you in read for two weeksomg, there's a book? truly why is this not a movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 54 | The biggest problem with "sex positivity" is that it put the cart before the horse.My 82 year old grandma says that with today’s climate she wouldn’t even bother dating because women get nothing out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:22 PM |
| 4 | I thought this skit from Portlandia painted a lot of LVM really wellMan I love Portlandia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | I love being tall. There I said it.I get my height from the Danes ;) Dad's dad was from Denmark. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | I love being tall. There I said it.I'm going to start wearing heels more often now. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I love being tall. There I said it.I always wondered if tall strippers still wore those huge heels, I've only ever met women 5'5 and shorter who did that line of work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:48 PM |
| 10 | women only hotelsI love solo travel, I just wish it were safer for us. You really have to do your research before you go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:43 PM |
| 44 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleAgreeing with a few posters in here, I would contact some of the local news or somewhere like Buzzfeed/Huff Post and try to make this go viral. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 6 | Ain't it StrangeAlso incredibly sad that female-dominant professions outside of sex work are still underpaid, overworked, and often have morality tied into them which keeps the martyr complex going (teaching and nursing are what I speak of here). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Crazy Ex-Girlfriend is brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 9 | I would give my child my maiden name as their last name after this.isn't this the shit Paris Hilton's boyfriend tried to pull when she was really excited to perform in her documentary? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:25 PM |
| 4 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futuresame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 5 | it's sad because our pain will only ever be hypothetical to themGod yes, I love that argument "stop quoting statistics omg" okay me not quoting them doesn't make them not exist lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 9 | Boring/completely ordinary men thinking they know more than you when you're an expert.I'm a nurse and I can't tell you how many male real estate agents (seriously, do you have to be a dick to get your license?) try to mansplain me about biology and heathcare lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 52 | Woman confronts, foils man’s attempt to abduct young girl after raping herI don't know how she kept from killing him right then and there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 105 | I had a date tonight...pick up artist. aka misogynist piece of shit who just wants to fuck women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"I would love to see that study | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on my new theory on why many men prefer dogs to cats?Honestly I don't date men with dogs anymore. I've had too many times of going over to a guy's house for the first time and half of the time they're screaming at the dog for jumping on me/being excited/wanting to be affectionate with me. Like dude, it's not the dog's fault you've put no time into training it. Don't even get me started on the dudes who won't fix their male dogs out of some weird sense of pride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Ladies! Cell Phone Tango PART TWO 😍I fuckin love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:39 AM |
| 19 | This slapped in me in the face on my TikTok FYP and I though you all would also enjoy getting slapped in the face ✨The background music is just making me think of sexy Bridgerton scenes. But yes, good mantra. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:34 AM |
| 25 | !!Marina out here with the queen energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Thank you thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.I’ll check it out, totally not an ad ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Thank you thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.What do you use to trade crypto? Is it an app? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:07 PM |
| 5 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?“I really like you and I can’t wait for you to meet my parents because I know they’re gonna adore you.” “You’re everything I’ve been looking for.” “I can’t believe I got so lucky to have someone like you like me.” “I’m planning a vacation for us, do you prefer beach or mountains?”- then I didn’t hear from him for 3 entire weeks until he texted me happy new year and asked if I wanted to hang out “this weekend” (on a Friday night at 9pm) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 23 | Where's the lie?Thank God for this subreddit to make me feel less alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women losewoof. too real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Expose on Pornhub Front Page of NYTShared this article all over my social media today. I'm sure most will ignore it but fuck it, I'm tired of staying silent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 11 | Great Video On Pickmes. It's great that more people start to acknowledge and point it out. AMEN.for someone who applauds herself as being "not like other girls" she sure is shrieky and irritating like lvm think we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Clueless scrote in the dating over forty whining about how his "date" wasn't an "adult" because she didn't want to talk about his dick after only 1 "date". Then has the NERVE to advise the rest of us that he did HER a favor and DOING US a favor by putting PSA in the subject line.me too, I wanted to read the comments lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:18 AM |
| 25 | Men like me more when I unexpectedly drop them like a hot potato. Whyyy??really any J name has a higher than normal chance of being a fuckboy in my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:19 AM |
| 42 | Found this lol. "What myth is still widely circulated as truth?" Sorry, didn't know what flair to use.I've unfortunately been victim to it. Most recently it was two years ago and this dude still finds a new way to try to contact me every 6 months. First 6 months- text. 12 months? Facebook. 18 months? Instagram. Now? LinkedIn. He works in television and I'm in healthcare so no crossover whatsoever lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:09 AM |
| 121 | Found this lol. "What myth is still widely circulated as truth?" Sorry, didn't know what flair to use.Honestly in my experience the ugly dude gets over confident and decides that if he can score you, he can score any girl he wants. So he dumps you/tries to cheat on you only to come crying about how he made a mistake when it goes absolutely nowhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:30 PM |
| 21 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterI get this ALL the time as a tall woman. "oh I prefer short girls. they're so cute and feminine." okay, then go date a short girl. There's plenty of them. But then they still stay in my inbox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:52 PM |
| 7 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisand he's still getting plenty of work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Has this been posted yet? Holy projection.He’s black himself too, so it’s even worse. And he talks about his stepfather while shitting on single moms. How can you be raised by a woman like that and come out hating them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Has this been posted yet? Holy projection.I posted a selfie once on r/toastme and I had 28 messages from dudes in less than an hour. I think I’ll be fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Saw this comment on a pro-BDSM YouTube video. So close to approaching the point, yet still so far away.what an incredible shul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:30 AM |
| 20 | when men expect us to bear the brunt of domestic dutiesI love this scene so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.i need the tea plz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:50 AM |
| 13 | To love & to obey? Nah, sislast I saw she was dating a lovely woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:42 AM |
| 14 | When you complain about a beautiful woman for using barely perceptible filters in her pics, it would be a good idea if you didn't look like a sex offender kicked out of a Mennonite community yourself.who is this scrote, I just wanna talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:57 AM |
| 7 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin outShe has another post where she discusses that when you examined the goods that trafficked people produce, pornography is barely on there....idk girl did you ever think that maybe they don’t consider prostitution to be a “good” ie gold, coffee, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 7 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin outTrue, true. I was just speaking at the very basic level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:01 PM |
| 31 | 100,000 toxic monogamists just hangin outBasically. Yeah, all work is exploitation under capitalism but a job at McDonald’s isn’t as likely to have me be killed by a customer or give me throat or cervical cancer via hpv. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 43 | Do you think men notice how these two things are treated differently online by men? And why we are tired of it?Dates younger and younger women as he ages | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 12 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.Then after you breakup with them they try to tell everyone that you're evil for leaving them. I had a narc ex and a mutual friend with said ex. I told friend everything that happened from my perspective and friend was trying to be neutral. Eventually he decided he couldn't be anymore and calmly asked him what happened between us, months later. Narc ex flipped the fuck out and said he didn't want to be friends anymore, cursed him out, etc and said I abandoned him while his grandfather was dying. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 25 | Thoughts?What I don't get is that a lot of libfems I know constantly talk about male entitlement while having this open attitude about sex work. How is it not support male entitlement when you teach men "yeah you can do whatever you want to women/have whatever woman you want as long as you pay for it"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Hollywood big shot started an acting school. Married one of his students when she was 16 and he 51.Thank God I’m not the only one who can’t stand this woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 5 | It really is hard out here 😣u/bananamilk58, we gotta do this. (she my irl bestie) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:46 AM |
| 57 | Caption was “just bc p*rn is normal for boys of our age doesn’t mean its good for you”. I’ve never seen men speak up against this, Im having hope for improvement for the next generation (sorry if the flair is wrong)honestly, I thought it was just me! Gen Z seems to have a bit of a critical lens of internet culture/social media/internet porn that I enjoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 12:17 AM |
| 26 | There is no greater way to kill a woman’s libido then to make her feel like she has to parent you. You’re in the friendzone because you’re whiny and childish, Craig. You also look like you need help dressing yourself and are allergic to lotion.Basically, my last text to him was "If you want to stay alone, a virgin, with a shitty roommate, and working at a job you hate then by all means go ahead. I hope you find happiness in it. However you don't seem happy with it and you're standing in your own way by blaming literally everyone around you for your life but yourself." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:16 AM |
| 70 | There is no greater way to kill a woman’s libido then to make her feel like she has to parent you. You’re in the friendzone because you’re whiny and childish, Craig. You also look like you need help dressing yourself and are allergic to lotion.jesus I literally just got into it with my guy friend today who I have rejected. He hates his roommate situation, he hates his job, cried when I wouldn't sleep with him and told me that he feels his life is worthless because no one wants to be with him, he's a virgin, no car, no driver's license, etc. I tried to tell him that maybe he needs to look at himself and stop acting like his life will get better if he doesn't want to improve himself. He blocked me lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:27 AM |
| 4 | Remember ladies, loving someone unconditionally just gets you screwed over. 😌then they crawl back when they realize that they're still ugly and crap lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:47 AM |
| 6 | Megan discussing why men cheat & where the ‘crazy’ label comes from...the interviewer is grinning but i’ll tell you who looks crazier...a gaslighting cheat when you delete and BLOCK him sis.megan thee stallion :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:34 AM |
| 8 | Megan discussing why men cheat & where the ‘crazy’ label comes from...the interviewer is grinning but i’ll tell you who looks crazier...a gaslighting cheat when you delete and BLOCK him sis.this is megan thee stallion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Friendship is Magicomg I love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:56 AM |
| 152 | Residents at Waratah Lodge share their dating adviceYou missed June's! Hers was my favorite. Her advice was simply "Don't." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 46 | I'm thinking I didn't miss much....Had a guy match me on hinge and immediately message me "I'm normally into skinny girls but you're so beautiful I'll make an exception." (I'm 5'11 and a size 10). So I wrote back "it's okay, I'm usually into tall men." "I'm 5'9." "and I'm 5'11.' "I guess I'm not tall enough for you then. :( Is my height seriously an issue?" Left him on read and unmatched him. I don't actually give a shit about height but who the fuck messages a woman that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 08:19 AM |
| 21 | Her husband wants to get her pregnant despite her objections, and her poor soul thinks that he might “just be curious”Is it really worth having a man? Like...really? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 71 | If i could pass any knowledge for future generations is this. Lowering your standards is never worth it.Yup, without fail you give an ugly guy a chance and he starts acting like you’re the ugly one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:26 PM |
| 8 | When men complain datings so hard for them. Maybe if you put in effort...Literally every negative stereotype men have about women is them projecting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:52 PM |
| 22 | Grimes’ baby father is wildin’ on the Internet and she just came to collect him. Embarrassing.Oblivion was written after she was sexually assaulted iirc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:42 PM |
| 3 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.No one here has mentioned quite possibly...the worst offender I've ever seen: Netflix's LOVE. Holy shit. Ugly ass comedian who has a THREESOME in the first episode, the beautiful Gillian Jacobs and and Briga Heelan as love interests. I literally couldn't watch because I felt like I was watching his own masturbatory fantasies in a tv show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:08 AM |
| 32 | Love Droplets from Crazy Ex-Girlfriend ( OG Pickme Anthem)This show is criminally underrated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:50 AM |
| 6 | Those couples on dating sites looking for a "third" 🤮I am screaming laughing at this. Amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:39 AM |
| 9 | Those couples on dating sites looking for a "third" 🤮omg I'm so glad I'm not the only one who notices this phenomenon. Sometimes I think it's a conspiracy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:35 AM |
| 11 | After five years together and no ring, I broke up with him and got myself my own diamond!Gorgeous and classy. What a lovely reminder of your worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | What's the most egregious behavior you've tolerated before finding FDS?God I feel this 100%. I’m amazed at all the lies I heard just for men to fuck me, show me off to their friends and then get bored of me when I started asking questions/asking for commitment. I even had a guy dump me an hour before we were supposed to go on vacation because he “wanted to see what else was out there.” His mom called me to apologize for his behavior, she was so ashamed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Where my tuition fees go...I wouldn't have an issue with it if it weren't for the whole "only women allowed" part. We have a women's center at school for a similar type of thing (originally meant to be a room where women can pump/breast feed and to find counseling on abortion/adoption/unwanted pregnancies) but guys are allowed there and honestly there's usually more men in there at a given time than there are ladies- for the free coffee and tea, of course. | /r/MensRights | 22/05/13 06:44 PM |
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