Do you think men notice how these two things are treated differently online by men? And why we are tired of it?

thatsodee · 2020-09-24T13:02:20+00:00

I think Will Smith and Jada had an open relationship. Will spent his time kissing his female costars in front of everyone and had even photos with Margot robbie showing her breast to the camera so 😅

Trillian_42_ · 2020-09-24T13:30:39+00:00

The sad part is Jada didn’t cheat. In the interview she held with herself and her husband they BOTH made it clear that when she was with someone else they were and had been seperated for a while. They just hadn’t started divorce proceedings yet. But they agreed they were not together

GlitteringAdvice2020 · 2020-09-24T13:29:18+00:00

No one plays the double standards game better than men. 🤷‍♀️

SunsetOwls · 2020-09-24T12:32:59+00:00

But women are the overly emotional gender, right?

Lilybb16 · 2020-09-24T13:31:46+00:00

Didnt Will cheated on Jada with Margot robbie a few years back? Lol

YveisGrey · 2020-09-24T14:26:02+00:00

Lol they also got mad at “women” not because any of us were defending Jada or slandering Will but because we didn’t go in on Jada! Also note that most of the backlash towards Cardi came after she filed for divorce, so these men have no problem so long as women stay in abusive dysfunctional relationships!

Silverpool2018 · 2020-09-24T14:25:25+00:00

It was public knowledge for years that Will and Jada had an open relationship. But Jada was the one who was decent about it, unlike Will who dragged the status in public.

But oh just guess what's the rule of nature when it comes to open relationships? Women always have more options and chances. Bam.

Now cry.

skyerippa · 2020-09-24T15:56:30+00:00

Jada didnt even fucking cheat!

They were separated and Will kicked her out!

CloacaDiddler · 2020-09-24T15:06:36+00:00

Where are the ones in the background that talk about how “men are treated more cruelly for cheating!! Women get a free pass!!!” Yeah like where ya cheese doodle

jayohday · 2020-09-24T15:45:44+00:00

Yeahhhhh I was waiting for this to come up in here — was gonna write the post myself if I didn’t. Glad Cardi left his ass. I love how men shit all over her for being who she is, fearlessly, and being successful because of it.

Mimory125 · 2020-09-24T15:17:14+00:00

Remember everything a woman does is always wrong.. Somewhere women are doing something and they re judget by doing it.... 🙄🙄😒😒😑😑

GIfuckingJane · 2020-09-24T14:56:33+00:00

“It’s wicked out here” 😂

Men can’t see their own hypocrisy/double standards because they refuse to believe they are they bad guy. (This is everyone tho, men in general are just more conditioned to be this way by sOcIeTY)

They will always rationalize their shit actions and blame the woman to avoid taking responsibility at all costs. It’s willful immaturity and ignorance.

So no, men just aren’t self aware, if they are, they are being cowards.

Most people are not self aware tho, it comes from having adversity and self doubt in life (which most women have to go thru just by existing).

KittyIchigo1 · 2020-09-24T17:00:16+00:00

There was a whole trend on tik tok about how guys would say mean things/hurt the women in their friend groups to "avenge Will"/"get back at the female race".

It was honestly disgusting. And they were so proud of it too.

heleninthealps · 2020-09-24T12:35:59+00:00

Haha this is so accurate!

SpaceC4se · 2020-09-24T22:48:22+00:00

Women can cook and clean and that still won't make a shit dude stay. It really is rough out here but not for the reasons they think

typeadhd · 2020-09-24T21:44:20+00:00

When women cheat: her fault she’s horrible and a witch

When men cheat: she wasn’t good enough, she’s horrible he deserves better she clearly should have done more

They should just say they hate women and go because no matter what the woman still gets blamed

I don’t condone cheating at all and think whether it’s a man or woman doing it, it still makes it gross but let’s not pretend that women don’t get blamed either way

KayyeXx · 2020-09-24T22:11:40+00:00

Didn’t see a single comment about Offset saying “where does he belong...?” Referring to, of course, the streets.

Sekina7 · 2020-09-24T17:46:30+00:00

AND Jada didn't even cheat! They had a open relationship, which WILL initiated and acted on with BOTH genders "allegedly". Men can dish it but can NEVER take it. Their ego's and sex drive are serious curses....

CarmelPeach · 2020-09-24T17:25:02+00:00

They’re just telling on themselves lmao now we can see more boys to stay away from

palmettojla · 2020-09-24T18:02:33+00:00

It isn't exactly cheating if the three adults involved are consenting. No one heard about it because there was no drama, atleast not enough. She claimed she was helping guide him in life which does come off as predatory grooming. His response to people's reactions shows he was groomed and definitely sucked into the Smith life.

And to the original question, do men notice? Doubtful. Do they care about the opposing side of reality? No. If it contradicts their arguement they will deny or simply avoid it as if it isn't even a thing.

BasieSkanks · 2020-09-24T12:34:55+00:00

I think both Offset and Jada are low value as hell. Cheating is low value behaviour through and through. Whilst I understand that differences in how men are perceived after they cheat, it’s not a hill to die on IMO, because cheating is just shitty behaviour. We shouldn’t try to be like men and get passes for poor behaviour.

monivoz · 2020-09-24T15:59:05+00:00

In general I don't judge women who cheat. It's such a personal thing to me, and doesn't really change my view her. I dunno..... it's an unpopular stance. My aquantences have ostracized other friends that have cheated and it puts me on the fence because I'm expected to be horrified and also shun her when I don't feel that at all. Women would like to hold other women to higher standards of conduct I guess.

sushiwalrus · 2020-09-24T19:01:20+00:00

The best part is that Jada never cheated since both Smiths have been in an open relationship for at least a decade now 😂 Yet they still came out in droves to support their fallen brother Will who got his wittle feelings hurt.

Oityouthere · 2020-09-24T21:00:20+00:00

Jada didn't cheat

jeneprometsrien · 2020-09-24T18:38:49+00:00

First of all, Jada didn’t cheat.

Ms_RAD · 2020-09-24T18:50:11+00:00

If I’m being completely honest in my thinking here, Will and Jada’s whole publicized “clearing the air” of the relationship was nothing but a diversion tactic to distract us from the fact that he was on the Epstein flight logs and Jada has a history of alleged human trafficking suspicions. Of course the double standards is always going to be there between men and women and relations in regards to what people can get away with, but Js...Epstein didn’t kill himself.

Youdidntfindthis · 2020-09-24T21:06:25+00:00

I just realized that , and it was him who cheated 🤔

Blackrose_ · 2020-09-24T22:25:59+00:00

I had to look up who Offset was. I see.

Ah yes. Well as an older female that myth of "being unwanted" is just that - a myth. We are dealing with men here aren't we.

CatusCactus · 2020-09-24T21:12:17+00:00

I love this post so much.😂 These men that get their feelings hurt over Jada’s “cheating” are the same ones who call women “females” and say no one wants women after 25.😂😂😂

It’s crazy how they blame everything on the women but hold no accountability for themselves. They blame Offset’s cheating on Cardi’s ability to not be a domestic slave, cooking, cleaning, and catering to every need from her man. She’s a fucking millionaire, a grown woman, and she can do whatever the fuck she wants! It seems like if men can’t have control over a woman, they see her as a threat and punish her being independent, but at the same time they don’t want “gold-diggers”🙄. Men get their feeling hurt one time and all of the sudden say they can no longer trust women. Meanwhile, women get harassed and abused by men on the daily, yet when we talk about not trusting men, we’re bitter and lonely.

At this point I’m content with living my own life with my cats, leveling up, and being free from the expectations of men. I want to live my own life, and if I meet a HVM, then that’s great, but I have my own life to live and goals outside of being with a man. I don’t want kids or to get married, so I’m not scared of being alone. Being alone is not a threat to me, that’s kind of life I want. Lol

eluriaeve · 2020-09-24T15:07:16+00:00

The double standards are intense! Lol

Hello3424 · 2020-09-24T20:45:05+00:00

Really after listening to men drag women for everything they do and also drag them for everything they don't do, I think men just hate women. and they have the audacity to say women hate men when women start demanding things like rights, bodily autonomy, and not to be talked down to by men, or groped at work by men.

Saitschik · 2020-09-24T23:34:54+00:00

Cheating as a woman is a dark tirade tactic to bond a man forever. They freak out but you will turn into "the one who got away" in their heads nevertheless. Have seen it plenty of times...

Quicklyquigly · 2020-09-24T17:19:44+00:00

I literally just saw a post how women are beating the shit out of men during the pandemic. 🤣 The comments were a laugh riot. I hope they don’t have kids. Probably call the UN if their infant accidentally kicks them. My baby kicked a hole in my chest!!! I need support! Help!!! Help!! Men need help!

Nvm 1: She hits meeeeeee wahhhhhhhhh.

Nvm 2: Omg. This is not okay! Call the abuse hotline! Call the police!

Saitschik · 2020-09-24T22:57:26+00:00

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aly666 · 2020-09-25T00:15:05+00:00

Seeing those comments online make me glad I’m bi.

so_crat_ic · 2020-09-24T15:36:54+00:00

I think the hate towards Jada is more about our love of Will Smith. than anything else. and the excuses she told herself were really something also. Will Smith > whatever PickMe is with Offset. don't even care if I'm flamed for it.

Title	Do you think men notice how these two things are treated differently online by men? And why we are tired of it?
Author	softestbean
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Date	September 24, 2020 12:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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They were separated and Will kicked her out!