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Lol this is such a fucking amazing find... I haven't had a good laugh for so long!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 12:25 PM
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Is this a joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 02:28 PM
6

I agree there! I should have included a disclaimer, as I was referring to gamers who ignore their partners/life in favour of games. Definitely, not for HVM y :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:51 PM
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I just gave an example. I don't go near OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:48 PM
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When I was an idiot 23 year old and was in a relationship with my unemployed ex (unemployed for two fucking years, living with his mum), he thanked me many times for sticking with him and "supporting" him, but never making any attempt to rise in life. The lowest point was when I was shopping for groceries for myself (we never moved in together) and he just dropped a few packets of biscuits in the cart, like a kid...expecting me to check it out as well. I told him he needs to buy his own stuff...…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:20 PM
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Women clamoring to buy a PS5 by burning a hole in their pocketless dresses, just why ladies? Why am I seeing this all over social media? If you have to buy a special Christmas gift for your SO, please buy something that actually matters, rather than an expensive nonsense that really does nothing except wasting his time, and being a major point of contention when it is you who will be ignored most of the time. With that money, I would never invest in a stupid console, I'd rather buy us a nice ret…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 02:02 PM
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Oh I wish we could have a proper discussion on how effing problematic is Bollywood. In the movie 'Raanjhana', the male protagonist threatens suicide if the school going girl didn't love him back. By the end of the movie, he manages to thwart every attempt she makes to lead an independent life, to the point of breaking up her wedding ceremony with the guy she actually loved. Yet we see her crying buckets for that asshole of a man till the end. And people LOVED it. Called it a love story. FFS it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:58 PM
131

Tinder Plus? They are too broke to have any sort of paid premium membership anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:53 PM
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Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:53 AM
6

You know this very movie was my inspiration! Can you imagine how power dynamics will change if it actually happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:40 AM
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Yes! Nothing like setting up a culture of equality and responsibility right at home. And it's amazing how kids (both boys and girls) are inherently and equally eager to learn stuff in the kitchen from a young age... So its such a BS concept that boys are horrible at chores, not as responsible as girls etc. Raise them right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:03 PM
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Heh. My mom always told my brother whenever he slacked off in general, that no girl is going to take that kind of crap from him in future. He can cook pretty well thanks to my mum. She made sure me and my brother both contributed to the kitchen equally. So yes, it works. Tell your boys too that they will have a sad future if they don't take responsibility now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:01 PM
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The same dudes who say shit like "women's bodies are naturally programmed to shut down when raped". Am I Windows XP? Anyway... Buddy I wish! I would love to have a set of sharp fangs down there that I could use voluntarily. It would really make the world a better place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:11 PM
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See it this way... Woman willingly paying $$$ for something that leads to her eventually being ignored because gaming>quality time with her = 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:58 AM
3

He should buy me one. I love a nice, sweet game like Stardew Valley sometimes. Oh wait... I'll buy myself one pretty soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:55 AM
32

Totally. I can't draw roses for the life of me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:04 PM
3

Oh no. Most Desi men actually have a whole different sort of entitlement. He will expect you to provide him with finances, keep working your ass off and also be a housemaid. Good on you to leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:08 AM
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Woah. I am sorry, but if anyone hands me a ring box like a fucking favour with a statement like that, I'll throw it back at his face and break up with him then and there. Do it well or don't do it. She just got a glimpse of how less he cares about what means to her and how much it irks him to even be civil about it, and she justifies it by equating his shitty attitude to his "love language". Oh honey! Your married life as a doormat did not even have a banging start. Sometimes I wonder if it's ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:59 PM
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Nailed it. Men listen to other men. They seek approval from other men. Everything they do is for validation from other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:56 PM
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Of course. I wouldn't judge someone based on one nice statement they made on TikTok. We don't know him personally. The plus that I see here is that the traditional Desi men would at least consider what this guy is saying, compared to a feminist Desi woman. She unfortunately would be either ignored or trolled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:55 PM
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Yes...because they make up for it by being in touch with you in other ways. Same for me, my bf like to videochat or a phonecall. Some people are old school cool, they love a nice chat on phone than a text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:45 PM
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Exactly. If you don't like to text, then call.. if you don't like to hold the phone against your ear, freaking videochat and see my face. Not 'liking' texting isn't a reason to ignore a woman. My current bf would rather pick up the phone/videochat with me than text continuously. That works for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:43 PM
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Only true male allies are HVM. Not fake ones. We've had it with mama's boys masquerading as "feminist wokebois" who think they have conquered the world by doing dishes once in a while, let them hear it out from fellow Desi men who call out on their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:34 PM
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This is bare minimum and I will get flak for supporting him but about time we start seeing more Desi men doing this - in real life too not just Reels and TikTok. This Pakistani guy is setting an example at least for patriarchy ridden South Asian men. Seriously, our men need to learn a LOT. It's like teaching alphabet to a baby. Yes, it is bare minimum and yes we can wonder all we want why we need a guy to say this out loud, but at least it's a start for Desi diaspora. Otherwise, we do not even s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:06 AM
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Oh this one! I have responded to both of these reactions as "Yes, yes absolutely". It made them crazier and then I used the line "Why do you get so emotional". Instant pikachu face. Then we can have a logical discussion... until next male outburst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:20 AM
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I know! It's the delivery of the line that gets me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:17 AM
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Linguiniiiiiii!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:46 PM
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All my female friends are better than most men out there. They text to check on you (without an ulterior motive), they truly care, they keep promises, hype you up when you're sad, support your hobbies, respect your time, pull you out of your funk to give tough love when needed, and know exactly when you need a hug. They know how to give perfect gifts for every occasion and have social graces. No one taught them this, but they made an effort for me and their other friends out of love. My girl fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:45 PM
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I realise now that sometimes even an age gap of 3-4 years is too much. Just my personal experience (or bad luck if it can be called that). I was 30 when I went on a date with a 34 year old. Yikes. Never again. Online dating in India is already a minefield and this guy was problematic on so many levels. He never wanted to leave his parents' house and be independent (common to live in a joint family in India but I have never lived and cannot live in one), had a meltdown (on text!) when he had to p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:39 PM
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She actually takes pride in her work. This is so wholesome and he is just an angry jealous little grinch. He doesn't deserve this nice lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:37 AM
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What a useless insecure, man child. Lying by taking his mom's name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:36 AM
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This is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:27 AM
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One of the most non-judgmental gynaecologists that I came across in my country was a male. Professional, direct, did not hide or evade information, did not ask prying questions or made judgmental comments. Good doctor. Edit: Not against women doctors, but I've seen more women gynaecs in India being way more judgmental and insensitive. Especially older ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:34 PM
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Absolutely. Your college degree is your life partner. Always remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:31 PM
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OP, its never too late. You have the mindset to raise yourself up, that will take you places. Don't dwell on what you did when you were 17 or that you wasted your youth. You have lived and learned and you're wiser. I'm so glad that my parents raised me to be education and career focused. It felt weird as a teenager when they said relationships with boys aren't important, being independent and ambitious is. I was critical of this aspect of Indian/South Asian parenting for a while (both traditiona…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:11 PM
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Well...everytime I read Margaret Atwood, it gives me existential crisis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:16 AM
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Oh Margaret Atwood. This quote gives me existential crisis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:12 AM
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I'm so wary of all these self appointed 'feminist allies'. I will not believe anything until I see it in action. Wokebois are the worst. So any mention of "feminist" in OLD app bios will automatically make me reject that person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:54 AM
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Mario reference was cherry on the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:42 AM
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What an amazing news!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:34 PM
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Don't kill The Office for me girl :/ TV shows show everything in black and white and Jim was one-dimensional pretty much... and I'll let that be. Let fiction be fiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:20 PM
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Burn🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:48 AM
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I saw someone comment on Reddit that he really needs to not be single because cold season is approaching. I mean wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:47 AM
2

Thank you! Those candies looked really interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:45 AM
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It's misogynistic male depravity that's all. No wonder men are demanding more extreme porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:20 AM
8

I just had my breakfast. And its making my stomach hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:17 AM
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Oh no. This was exactly what my ex kept saying that his ex gf was such an angel, was so sweet and what not... And i was young and silly. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:14 AM
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At some point, it stops being about grief and turns into a game of comparison and manipulation. Firstly, no one should be entering into new romantic relationships while dragging grief from previous romantic relationship. It is gonna be a disaster and will cause a lot of hurt. Secondly this guy here is making her feel bad for the heck of it. He will never get over his ex for his own convenience. And this girl needs to set standards and tell him to get help or he can fuck off and find his ex's loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:11 AM
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How can we say no to Jim 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:43 AM
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I know I'm changing the topic here... But you can also delve into: 1. The Edible Woman 2. The Blind Assassin 3. Oryx and Crake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:34 AM
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Margaret Atwood is the real deal. I really wanna discuss her on this sub sometine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:47 AM
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Was this written by a man? Because its awful awful awful in so many ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:43 AM
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You stress women out and make them old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:33 AM
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Who started this dad bod culture? Healthy 30 somethings with no underlying sudden weightgain issues, just do not get to get away with laziness and bad lifestyle choices by claiming "dad bod".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:32 AM
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"Yet when women start aging and gaining weight from stress/sleep deprivation(courtesy of lazy men) they think its okay to cheat, watch porn and use family money on OnlyFans/escorts/prostitutes. Instead of the proper solution which is lightening the load on her shoulders" THIS. Edit - sorry, I can't quote text off a post on mobile so I copy-paste🤐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:28 AM
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I know quite a few angry, needlessly frustrated, lazyass fathers who have the audacity to discuss how their baby screams at night while taking endless smoke breaks at work. And how their wives are more demanding than ever now that there's a baby and she's at home full time. I never lose the chance to ask them if they are the father because they sure don't sound like one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:27 AM
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Gosh Woody Allen makes me wanna puke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:12 AM
14

I am. Oh the collective male meltdown over IPL matches 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 02:11 PM
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Yup. There's a limit to screaming at television. I get the enthusiasm as a cricket fan myself, but there's a difference between celebration and cursing. Also, people should have the sense to curb their banshee screaming when at home. Save it for when you're at a stadium. I told my ex to keep it down while I was reading in the same room and he had the audacity to tell me to shut up because he loves football and can't stand his team losing. If that is the reaction to someone requesting you to lowe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:33 PM
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Haha. I've heard while growing up that boys' teen years are tough on parents because they are troublesome and hyper..and girls are responsible and "emotionally mature". Way to treat us as designated therapists from the day we're born.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:26 PM
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Yeah... all those weird comments from guys when their girlfriends lose weight and start talking care of their health? Just sickening. bUT nOw yOu'rE tOo Thin..likE a MoDeL. YoU shOuLD sTaHP! You're looking just too good for me. Basically. Also, any positive change in health subconsciously drives people to change and improve upon other aspects of their life. No wonder many women dump their partners after significant weightloss. Might as well lose all the dead weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:52 AM
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Dino? I thought this is alligator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:44 AM
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Exactly. I made a lemon icing cake for my parents' anniversary this year and I'd never made a cake with lemon based icing before. I tested the recipe because I wanted the icing to hold up good and not split or go runny later. This is just common sense. I can't imagine producing a cake wreck for anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:43 AM
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If I can't bake a cake, then I'd rather buy a fabulous looking (and tasting) cake, set down proper table decorations, and spend my energy on looking good. Voila! I am a novice baker and will never try a new, ambitious recipe for someone's special day lest it fails massively and I've to apologise for my "attempt". This alligator cake is not a good surprise. And then the audacity to post on Reddit to fish for brownie points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:38 AM
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This gives out such strong Ghislain Maxwell vibes. Oh my God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:33 AM
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Massive coming from a gender who have created a religion around team sports, videogames and automobiles. Now valuing self care and relationships with our friends makes us robots😂 Preach boy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:30 AM
7

I was hopeful for first couple of seconds lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:28 AM
49

I wish I could give you an award.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:24 AM
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Or worse..it gets smaller everytime🙀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:23 AM
28

They infact recreate this every year on the same date. It's called 'Women's Day Off' now, where Icelandic women leave work early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:31 PM
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I am also reminded of the 1975 Icelandic Women's strike. No work, or childcare for a day. Let the men try and do it all for a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:35 AM
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I guess you're right. She posted this 6 months back. Now posted a similar update 2 months ago. Nothing changed. Just as deluded. Edit - Also just noted that all commets on the Relationships sub post tell her to let go. But she clearly didn't. Sigh. It's vicariously painful in a way to see someone nearing 30 self sabotage like this rather than wising up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:40 PM
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Listen to this sub girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:38 PM
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Yeah and it's not about short men being unattractive, it's actually about the weird attitude that they bring to the relationship if woman is tall. The constant negging about your height, choice of footwear.. all because they end up projecting at women for what they lack. So who wants that toxicity? That's why women go for men sufficietly taller than them, its not always about the looks. It's because then you don't get to hear shit like "don't wear heels with me".. " you're a giraffe". Because a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 12:40 PM
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I am tall for a woman (at least in my country I am as tall as, and at times taller than the average male) and have been hearing this since puberty that I'll not find a man because of how tall I am. People literally told me "Stop growing so tall!" As if I could control that. And when I grew up, there was jealousy and snide comments "you've got an amazing personality but you will have a hard time finding a tall guy" and so on. Okay done. Challenge accepted. Won't ever date short men, because every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:48 AM
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Good luck girl! Keep at it. Never ignore your own self and core values when you date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:43 PM
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"Wait for It" pulls me out of my funk. Truly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:40 PM
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Can you believe he didn't buy it when I said that they are performing for the camera? The man had the audacity to say that they looked like they were enjoying it, he could tell. I mean broooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:07 PM
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Haha unless you're Shahrukh Khan, please no 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:07 AM
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Ugh I'm pretty sure my ex just exacerbated my PCOS. So stressful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:29 AM
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It's the Cadillac of sex toys. No shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:19 AM
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Mine was actually a positive experience which reinforced this belief in me, that you really need to vet and judge people, wait as much as you need to, at your own pace, and to let only the right person in (well, literally!). I can never see myself be with selfish men who cannot commit beyond a single hookup. It was respectful, super pleasurable and loving experience for me. We dated for couple of years until I had to move countries for education but I now know that this sub's ideals are somethin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:17 AM
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We're just seeing the ill effects of porn getting manifested now - no surprises there - and people finally talking about the toll it's taking on them. Wait and watch. It's gonna get much worse for people and relationships. Porn addiction has already been identified as a disorder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:13 AM
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Let's just let foreplay be foreplay. Men evade it a lot anyway, please let's not turn it into something else to generate more reasons to avoid it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:10 AM
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Oh the quintessential "other girls like it"... "Girls in porn do it and they seem to enjoy it".. wow buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:08 AM
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He had the audacity to say that I humped him too hard, he's out of steam and done for the day. Even our clothes weren't off. Also, lazy. Won't do anything except just lie down and make me do the work. Noped out super fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:07 AM
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But how do we identify this before it's too late? I mean, going by this description, even if you take your time with them it seems like that they will continue playing on forever. The mask won't ever come off. I am just concerned that some men are truly capable of faking it for ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:01 AM
2

Now this post brought out the Hamilton fan in me! Rise Up Wise Up Eyes Up 🎵🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:56 AM
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You know, while we on this sub also hold women responsible for choices they make, we certainly do not want them to be shamed and cursed until the end of the world. Learn from your past girl, and rise up. Never again. But men hold, and continue to hold single mothers in contempt, see them as 'easy lay', consider them irresponsible because she got pregnant outside a committed relationship/marriage (she is the responsible one in fact who is actually caring for that kid!), desperate because apparent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:54 AM
2

Unless he's a Bollywood actor, just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:48 AM
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I can't unsmell this comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:47 AM
14

Haha now it is for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:47 AM
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It's very important to have similar political views. Well... In this case it's of utmost importance that someone considers you worthy of basic human rights!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:22 PM
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Can we get an amen to that amazing clapback? Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:19 PM
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Lol "super healthy relationship". When women explain their relationships with unnecessary adjectives like 'super' and 'healthy', we know it is anything but that. Girl, if it was that super and healthy, you would be married by now and you wouldn't be scrambling for advice on the internet. Shit has hit the fan and it shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:27 PM
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Yup. It's for pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:20 PM
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LOL this is so damn funny. For number 5, men hardly accept NO for an answer. They'd rather get a brain aneurysm than accept a NO as a full sentence from women. Also, whoever wrote number 21, that sleeping on the couch is like camping, it is just the saddest sentence that I've read today. You don't deserve camping bro, you definitely deserve to sleep on couch for saying that though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:19 PM
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Oh I called him a manchild on AITA, like many others. And they banned me for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:03 PM
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Yup. In fact it is proven that when people are exposed to 'mothering' behaviors, they somewhat relapse and regress to their child/teen selves. Frequently seen in people who move back in with parents for long term. So yeah, here too we have a woman taking care of a grown man like a child. And no surprise - he turns into one, crying and screaming for videogames.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:06 PM
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I get you totally. I love games myself. I am a fan of stuff like Stardew Valley and Terraria. But my life, my relationships, my work, chores, people priorities etc. are wholly separate from these games - when there's stuff to be done, gametime takes a backseat. Nothing should take over your psyche so much that you act irrational and ignore your life! If your gaming habits are affecting your life and relationships, it is a problem. Games are for fun and relaxation, and that's about it. You can't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:02 PM
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What do they call women who dare to spill one bit of tear, bring an iota of emotion in their conversation while cOmMuNiCaTiNg like adults with men? They judge them irrational, crazy, unhinged. But this guy? Oh no.. a 40 year old manchild screams murder while playing videogames - let's say he is just depressed and sad. Slow clap for the male hive mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:43 PM
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It's one thing to do this out of love. As women, we get to set how enthusiastic we wanna get about it, it definitely cannot become degrading. No sir. But getting your face shoved in forcefully to the point you gag? Boy I have teeth and I will use them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:03 AM
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Haha. Nooo! Get in line sis! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:59 AM
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I was talking to my dad recently and he casually mentioned that short people at his workplace were more insecure than others, were generally frustrated and seemed to compensate for that lack in height in weird controlling ways. He is tall and has noticed it throughout his life. We basically compared notes on respective experiences with short people and now I am very sure that there is definitely a thing called short guy syndrome. Maybe not all, but majority have it for sure. And the sad thing is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:44 AM
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I mean, being immature is not equivalent to 'young at heart'. The mental gymnastics here make my brain hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:06 AM
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This, girls! Listen to your family when they notice oddities and weirdness in your relationship. My mum has been spot on about men in my life (both good and bad), and while she and I disagree as different generations on a lot of issues, I'll consider her views if she has something to say. This is no way means that you're choosing exactly what your mum wants, but what this means is that you'll be objective in your relationship when your own family starts telling you that something does not feel r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:59 AM
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Desperation and low self esteem. Typical pickmeisha on TikTok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:49 AM
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It isn't community, religion or region specific. It is the norm actually! Desi people don't RSVP, don't care for your time or money and, everyone expects to show up at their convenience AND be served. No wonder certain desi people complain at Indian weddings, it's because they decide to show up and not get to eat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:46 AM
3

Whenever I find myself second guessing my abilities, or doing mental gymnastics to see the situation as favorable/helpful for me (when objectively it's not) - I always remeber what men do in similar situations. Men abosultely do not put up with shit that wastes their time, effort, emotions (if used) and money. They'll nip it in the bud in no time, no apologies or questions asked, and back up pretty fast. It is one of the traits women can adpat and implement - however, we have been conditioned to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:37 PM
3

Ah. The mantra of the desperate - as old as time perhaps - "No one will love as much as I do". Sure buddy, no one will suck this much. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:27 PM
6

I am glad people are wearing their opinions. Literally. They are outing themselves as trash that I'd rather keep distance from. So I am kinda thankful that products like these exist - good for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:58 PM
4

Cringey totally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:56 PM
13

Spot on. The shittyness shows up eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:54 PM
18

Perfect clown in making. And then we'll hear her brag "mY cHoIcE" because..."I choose to be a cOoL girl".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:53 PM
24

I am Indian. I should shut my mouth on punctuality. People show up the next day here😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:52 PM
20

The fuck do women put up with leeches who bleed them of their quality time? That's what my ex used to do. He didn't visit my place a lot because he (his words) found my home boring (I didn't have TV in bedroom and I definitely didn't have sports channels that he could watch rather than spend quality time with me) - but whenever he did, it was at these odd time, late nights with the sole purpose of sex and sleeping. The same used to happen when I used to visit. He'd call me in just for sleepovers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:51 PM
28

Wow girl. May you never come across a guy who throws you out of bed for a toot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:12 AM
11

Yeah which is why either you do it for people who can appreciate it, or be one of those who do the good deed and forget about it. Generally, I've seen women appreciate gestures more. They also know how to return them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:23 PM
5

Gosh that Netflix series made my blood boil. But it is very, very real. And far worse than what they've shown for TV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:22 PM
10

"Too dusty to date" is so gonna be part of vocabulary now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:21 PM
8

Damn. All Rahuls seem to be fuccbois.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:20 PM
16

Lol at "We're nervous as hell". So its the male nervousness that makes them grope us on first dates? Act assholes about not paying?... yeah right. Please don't go on dates with women if nervousness turns you into a whiny loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:01 AM
89

Very true. Sometimes this sub places too much value on spending power, while ignoring the fact that it is also a red flag that you are treated like someone who can be influenced by gifts easily. This could very well keep you blind from all other issues. There are other more important markers of generosity in a person which cannot be overlooked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:24 AM
23

The headline is killing me😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:31 PM
10

Baldness may be hereditary but ED in 20s is definitely alarming. Guess that's what happens with raging porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:56 AM
8

God! It makes me so infuriated to see the whole "dad bod" tripe being glorified. Hey Justin, you're just fat...stop drinking beer and sitting on your ass all day. Go do something!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:55 AM
8

Are you talking about my ex? Because he practically gave up on himself as soon as he turned 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:53 AM
6

You are right. They look haggard in real life. They look old, as old people do. "Sexy older man" is just a narrative trope being piled onto us to keep considering somewhat older men as relevant sexual partners. They have their own problems (money, sanity, health, relationships) and social media just ignores it concentrates on that perfectly coiffured white hair and fitted jacket. No hate on rich old men, but rich old men can be super problematic, especially the ones who go from woman to woman, p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:50 AM
11

It's okay. He asked her and she wanted to. Holding hands is pretty innocent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:45 AM
9

Wow. Just why would people do that? If you don't need a blanket on chair, please fold it and keep it elsewhere. Like a functional human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:43 AM
11

That's a valid reason to not date IMO. Can't stand open mouth chewing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:41 AM
14

I see more women striving to do better - getting therapy, taking up a workout, meditation, yoga, house projects, new hobbies, organizing, planning, genuinely connecting with friends and family and remembering birthdays, knowing how to gift thoughtfully... The list goes on. None of it is ingrained in us but we value what means to us, our relationships and health. We make an effort to grow and enrich our inner lives. Imagine being asked to deal with men who cannot even be bothered to make an effor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:37 AM
35

Yup. They'd rather suck up to and worship other powerful men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:47 PM
89

"Then bring home the groceries, Greg. And a proper dining table and chairs. And proper plates and napkins. A fucking house, if you will." Then you deserve us making you dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:20 PM
70

Yup. They are also suuuuuper hormonal I swear. What else can explain those inappropriate boners that they can't seem to control and beg unwilling partners to deal with? LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:16 PM
12

The way he said good luck. Hahahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:13 PM
53

True. About time women stop taking on the role of Office Mommies. Men can serve their own food, set up their own buffet, cut their own damn cake and even decorate a room if they put their minds to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:20 PM
198

Well done you! Incompetent and overconfident corporate bros are a whole different nonsense really!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:58 AM
18

Good on her to yeet him at the spot. That's some queen shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:35 PM
37

True. In India, we usually get engagement rings made to order, not always retail. And it must be quality yellow gold. Not 14k or 18k... But 22k (because 24k purity gold is too soft for regular wear). To Indians, gold resale value means the bomb. So jewellery truly becomes an investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:31 PM
29

You know, I like some video games and I am all for how video game relics can be a sweet gift... but come on, if someone wants a traditional engagement ring, then it cannot be a substitute. She asked for it, specifically because a ring symbolises engagement for her and means something to her. You bet that necklace wasn't made to order, but a cheap knockoff. She didn't even put him down for giving him the necklace. But this guy is hell bent on trying to get internet's validation... like 'oh she ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:27 PM
12

Queen would totally love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:08 AM
4

Ugh my parents did it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:36 AM
108

It was public knowledge for years that Will and Jada had an open relationship. But Jada was the one who was decent about it, unlike Will who dragged the status in public. But oh just guess what's the rule of nature when it comes to open relationships? Women always have more options and chances. Bam. Now cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:25 PM
24

I swear, it's a whole another language in itself. Like Klingon, or Dothraki... We have Scrotish. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:14 AM
5

His response to OP being busy was sarcasm. As if a person he barely knows being genuinely busy somehow majorly inconveniences him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:28 PM
8

Oh yeah. The fact that we've to invite people for relationship's sake who we don't even particularly like. Makes me want a smaller ceremony even more! But that doesn't mean I don't want one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:33 PM
14

I also suggest reading policies of dating apps that you use. Hinge, for example, explicitly states that you block and report anyone who tries to move conversation off the dating platform. In fact, I have found their safe dating policies really effective. Always be on the safe side. Taking it off the platform will give them a free pass to share dick pics and sexting which otherwise, in an OLD app interface, get their account blocked and even have them reported to authorities depending on the degr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:03 AM
20

Yup. I guess he just wants her to chip in her 50% financing and "travel the world" and then he can leave her down the line with zero responsibilities...poor and mentally broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:55 AM
16

I totally judge people on their texting etiquette. Throw a 'wyd' at me and you're blocked buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:52 AM
2

Unlike women who wear low cut tops, I don't need to drink to have fun. #GirlBoss 😂 Hahahahaha! This is nuts. But I do enjoy a drink, come on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:46 AM
106

While I personally do not favour a very big, elaborate wedding ceremony (I am an Indian and trust me when I say this, our 'modest' weddings are still over the top compared to the West), a fitting celebration for friends and family and a bit of tradition is not something to be treated as inconsequential or worthless. It is important that you celebrate that milestone of your life - make it small if you must, but what is so wrong about making it special? I just don't get some men treating weddings …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:35 AM
17

That 'class' comment really showed his. Tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:28 AM
5

Oh yes. Red Foreman might be old fashioned but he is hvm 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:49 PM
11

He literally said it makes him jealous because she seems so happy. I can't stop laughing. Why do these idiots keep suggesting fantasies they can't keep up with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:36 PM
22

I always say this and will still say this - Male gender digs their own grave. They don't even support their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:48 AM
54

I do wonder, if the Fab Five must feel relieved that those men are not in their dating pool. I definitely remeber Tan France telling a guy who basically was wondering out loud if Tan is hitting on him that the poor women can keep him, gays don't want him. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:20 AM
6

If that's so then I misunderstood!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:24 PM
4

Oh I was banned on r/amitheasshole for a whole fucking month for calling a poster 'manchild'... Which he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:55 AM
6

I sometimes use the tall guy line to get rid of annoying men who keep pushing and won't take no for an answer, even when tallness is not a factor I consider high on my list of attributes 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:47 AM
99

Whoever this person is, hope she is alright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:44 AM
1

Why isn't he turned into a stew already, huh? Jokes aside, this man can eat cereal for all I care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:42 AM
32

Because in his silly world he thinks it's being served to him on a platter (lol) and then he doesn't have the brains to put work on it. People approaching you and initiating does not mean they are throwing themselves at you and you've nailed them. He's the moron of the highest order who doesn't even know what's wrong with him because he lacks basic empathy for women. Also, he looks down on women once they are least bit attentive to him. Probbaly he hates himself and projects it. Date a model? Wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:49 AM
31

Sad, desperate little clown. You can see his ego shattering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:00 AM
37

Love is a neurochemical response with a shelf life long enough to perpetuate the species. Said by my favourite blogger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:55 AM
50

Since you're already contacting DV shelters, its obvious you have to leave immediately. Do you have parents? Or family or friends whose house you can move into? Have you spoken to anyone close to you about your situation? In addition to what other posts have rightly mentioned, also start rallying up trustworthy people in your life. Call them, email them - let them know what you're going through. This is very important if you have to take sudden decisions to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:53 AM
7

Love that list. Definitely I'd not do wife-y stuff like cook for him or clean around him. I'll not bring that to the table at all until I know for sure that he can handle himself on his own and bear responsibility of the house alongside me. And no, it doesn't mean taking my instructions, it means stepping up and taking mental responsibility for chores around the house and doing them without being asked. Mama's boys are fucking worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:01 PM
61

Yup. I was catcalled and groped the most when I was 12-13.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:00 AM
58

That kind of girl will not stick around with him. She will make a career out of chasing wildlife and live happily with tigers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:26 AM
18

Hahah eat dirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:13 AM
15

Gaslighter - The Chicks My new favourite these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:12 AM
3

What a fucking clown. How much can one disrespect herself? Brush and shower? OMG. Does her guy wear a diaper already? That will probably happen pretty soon too going by the trend, and he will expect her to change and wipe him then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:01 PM
11

Mediocre dicks come a dime a dozen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:45 PM
3

Butter, money , and.. homosex? I'd take the last one anyday over straight. I am pretty sure it will be fabulous and respectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:39 PM
1

That's the best use of space OP! Good on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:02 PM
9

It seems to be removed now. I wish I could read all of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:01 PM
23

True that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:59 PM
1

This is how most men think - from a place of deep, deep insecurity, control and jealousy - and then have the audacity to abuse and demean the women who choose to date their sorry ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:42 AM
1

This is accurate. Better than lighting forests on fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:36 AM
9

She's not gonna stick around for long. At some point he's gonna run out of pretense and she'll get someone new, for her own good. I sincerely hope she finds a respectful guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:10 AM
24

What's wrong with even eating lunch brought from home? Sometimes this sub pushes things too far, it's not as black and white also. These men work hard and provide for their families. Most men I know who work in construction or are in blue collar jobs are doing this as breadwinners and are much, much more family oriented and involved in lives of their kids than the men who do desk jobs, and have the audacity to pretend they're so damn bushed after a 9-5. Please. Women aren't heartless. They will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:06 AM
36

Keep doing what you're doing. Enjoy this trip, network with all your colleagues and build yourself. The best revenge is to live well. And the best strategy for people like your ex is pure indifference - no hate, no resentment, no drama, no ulterior motive, no jealousy. This has worked for me in life with not just an ex but with anyone I've had the misfortune of being stuck with, for lack of choice. Like water off a duck's back. Your emotions will not be riled up by their existence. Acknowledge t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:35 AM
3

I'm from a 3 rd world country and sorry we have standards too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:15 AM
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