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This is the type of arrangement I desire even if I were to get married, where I don’t have to live with him. We can visit each other a few days a week. I value my private time immensely and expect him to respect that. I have realized that I continue to flourish as an individual during my alone time with myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:16 AM
7

Lmao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:09 AM
25

Absolutely, I need to have this framed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:02 AM
11

I learned this fact the difficult way through watching my mom refuse to allow her second ex husband from paying for anything. The man became a freeloader as a result or he was one right from the start since he didn’t mind living rent free with us. My mom was essentially his second mother because he even jokingly started calling her that while he had no issue cheating on her with women decades younger. He had no problem not splitting bills for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:00 AM
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I decided I would only use this account to post on FDS a while back since I don’t want male lurkers finding out any personal identifiable details of mine. Thank you FDS mods for keeping this subreddit troll free 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:56 AM
2

I’m so sorry, I can also relate to your experience as I’m also from a Muslim background and I never fit in with the wider Muslim community. The thing that bothers me a lot about Islam is child marriage and sex slavery of female prisoners of war.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:36 AM
1

And don’t forget the part where Islam allows men to make s*x slaves out of female prisoners of war. It’s called “The Right Hands Possession.” In the Quran.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:25 AM
95

To me the thought of giving a male a blow job never sat right personally. Such a thought ruins romance for me since it’s degrading. I have never been interested in that and I’ve flat out rejected any guy interested in me that mentioned it was expected. And for this personal dislike, I’ve been accused of being a prude by lvm’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:24 PM
159

That girl is living with so much trauma and no one is shaming this lowlife publicly on mainstream media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:59 PM
31

Oh gross 🤮, that creep must have groomed her as a kid. Where is her mother in all of this ? If these disgusting scrotes could get away with it they would even marry their own biological daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:56 PM
40

I thought that was a grandpa and a young nurse taking care of him 💀 He’s so petty, she definitely dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 10:53 PM
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The best way to keep a man is to spend his money. As a man You’ll feel more useful when you pay my bills. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:24 PM
6

What types of parasites does it treat ? I’ve never heard of this medication before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:54 PM
12

I have this issue with lvm’s I attract, they end up drooling over my mother. I have yet to meet a guy who hasn’t attempted to also hit on my mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:48 PM
39

Yup, he shouldn’t have been dressed so wealthy and so drunk, he was asking for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 07:43 PM
38

This is one of the most bizarre things I’ve read a man watching 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:12 AM
17

Yes especially when it comes to sexual experience, these lvm’s think they’re entitled to non-experienced women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:47 PM
24

I always found it disgusting and unattractive when a male went into details about his sexual past. All I would think about was this guy being a walking STD Petri dish, a hazard to women’s health. I personally prefer mēn with little to no experience in this dept, also without any porn baggage clogging his brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:43 PM
4

He was using her before he would have eventually dumped her for a younger woman, which he clearly states is what he desires as written by him in his journals. She has nothing to be regretful for. She saved herself from being around that zvm. He won’t be any different to the next victim he moves on to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:29 PM
7

Something always seemed off about Tarantino. I never liked him. And then I found out why lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:34 AM
8

Definitely get that vibe from her as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:31 AM
17

I’m of Afghan background and I come across white guys who seem to only want me for the stereotypes of women in Afghanistan being “submissive” to their husbands. They fetishize our subjugation 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:22 AM
11

I think he was at his peak in Romeo & Juliet. In Titanic he starts looking tired and worn out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:19 AM
6

Funnily enough the mgtow zvm’s think he is at his prime 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:18 AM
51

These are the same males who whine about “teen moms”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:29 AM
29

I seriously wish they would stop looking in my direction or asking me for my social media when I’m past their so called “expiration date”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:27 AM
11

This is shocking to me, the west claims to tout feminist rights but rewards r*pists just because they claim to be refugees 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:11 PM
82

My pickme horror story is when I gifted an lvm $300.00 Bitcoin years ago. Never again will I ever spend money on a male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:31 PM
11

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:26 AM
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Yes such as Sweden, the crime and rape skyrocketed because of male refugees who don’t know what consent is. Males committing these crimes should be deported instantly back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:25 AM
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I noticed most refugees are always able bodied males being accepted into the west. It just never sat right with me. Where are the women and children ?? I’m also of Afghan descent and I can tell you that Afghan culture is extremely misogynistic. It’s incredibly selfish and low for the males to flee or use women to get into the west.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:20 AM
196

The gender that claims to be “LoGiCaL” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:22 PM
106

Best advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:21 PM
201

This is why I will never give broke males a chance. They will readily pay bills for the woman they actually desire and they would be taking that money from my pockets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:45 PM
21

The sexiest thing is they claim they are in their prime 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:24 PM
13

Lvm get scared of HVM like your dad since they know the HVM will not tolerate nor teach his daughter to tolerate lvm’s nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:25 PM
51

Yes I noticed this in my experience as well, I’m from an afghan background and the men from my community will treat whiite women like royalty while they mistreat non-white women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:05 PM
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I am wayyyy younger than this peedo and if a 16 year old started pursuing me, I would immediately put a stop to that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:52 AM
5

Lmao 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:41 AM
29

What an amazing dad ! I hope to marry a man like this 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:18 AM
54

I feel I’ve met the same guy. This short gym bro type who got fired finally since everyone complained about his negging and arrogance. One of his go to phrases were “I always win.” But he lost lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:47 AM
71

Lmao I nearly threw my phone 😂😂😂 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:44 AM
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It’s so sad the lengths we have to go through to keep these perverts away and even then in some cases, they continue harassing. When my mom got divorced, men from my background behaved the same way. They thought she was game or stray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:12 PM
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In the west, when I wore the hijab, men acted like they were walking on eggshells around me. But when I wore the hijab in a Muslim country, I still got harassed and groped in public even while I wore a full abaya and niqab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:11 PM
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I’m central Asian (Afghan ethnicity) and I noticed men would be extra careful around me when I wore the hijab. I don’t know if you wear hijab but in my experience I had similar outcomes with them as you while I wore one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:48 PM
6

I love classical type of European Irish music or folk music, it’s always fascinated me even though I am not European. Most males I come across aren’t into it at all. There was one online I met but he lived in another country and he seemed to want to move to the Arabian desert and live as a Bedouin man. I couldn’t sacrifice my other standards so we parted ways respectfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:47 PM
21

His looks were very boyish in the Romeo Juliet and Titanic era. That’s why women loved him back then .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:24 PM
85

Most males are predatory which is why they attacked Keanu for dating his own age range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:23 PM
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Valid point ! A lot of the world is raised to grow up fast. These males just need an excuse for pedophilia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:16 PM
34

And even when they get serious at 50, their sperm has mutated so much and is of poor quality to have kids. Kids will be more likely born with autism even if he has it with a younger woman. There is a reason why sperm banks allow donations up to age 32 only for males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:15 PM
32

I was only attracted to him based on Titanic character. But then I learned about him outside of that and realized what an lvm he is. Yes he has definitely hit the wall hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:13 PM
2

My mom used to be a willfully ignorant pickme, I would tell her many times that her second ex husband was always trying to compliment me and be overly friendly which made me feel comfortable. I was only 16 and this ugly old zvm would gaslight her infront of me, compare her looks with mine. She was too in love with him at the time and would accuse me of being jealous of her. Fortunately enough, she ended things with him after he cheated with a younger woman outside. She apologized for how she beh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:45 PM
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Yes these women are a major threat to our collective safety. They’re the type to help these vile creatures human traffic other women and children. Hell, they even sacrifice their own child for male validation, like in the case of Pearl Fernandez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:04 PM
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I feel terrible for her child too. These types of women can be dangerous to their children. They bring in zvm’s who torture their kids and even murder them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:57 PM
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Even when they are given young virgins, they end up slaughtering them. There was a recent news story in Australia where a 16 year old girl of Afghan background was basically sold to a 25 year old Uber driver of the same background by her parents for $15,000.00. This evil monster tried raping her, and expected she cook and clean for him since he paid her parents money to own her. Two months into the marriage, he slit her throat with a blunt knife, he had to do it twice since the first attempt he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:50 PM
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Oh God, I’ve met many guys with such a story and right after they request nude picture wth. These creeps expect us to provide pity sex. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:44 PM
9

Except now these incels are freaking out that they will be bred out of gene pool since women are raising their standards and not caving into sympathy screwing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:36 PM
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Had she done the exact same thing he did, arrived without showering, in work clothes, looking like a mess, he would have ditched her. These males think they can still get away with being unkempt even as more and more women begin to avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:30 PM
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He should be grateful she even agreed to this poorly attempted second date. The first date sucked and the second date even worse! I’m glad she cut him off without explaining what should have been bare minimum and common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:27 PM
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There was something always off about her, I never found her appealing and now I know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:21 PM
8

I admire this about Eastern European women👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 04:19 PM
8

This isn’t a rising threat, violence against women is a daily occurrence at the hands of men in general. It goes way back even before women had any rights and continues after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 03:26 PM
62

Infant face with a mommy attitude and a bang maid body is what they look for 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:28 AM
5

Most of the males I encounter fit this description…I’m just sickened by them 🤒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:53 PM
2

It’s because it’s so common to give away little girls as wives to these fugly old pedos in Afghanistan, so he thought he would get rewarded the same way in the west 🤮 Btw I’m sorry for what you & you friend had to experience at the hands of that creep. I think he was trying to find nudes in her phone. I’m glad you both got away safely from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:16 AM
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Reminds me of my zvm father...🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:13 AM
59

Reminds me of my father
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:06 AM
19

Congrats for this 💖💖💖 “Savannah believes FDS “isn’t about trying to manipulate men into trying to behave a certain way … it’s more about finding a man who is comfortable with you having boundaries and standards, and who understands how to treat a woman.” ~~~ I love this part ! We are not like those mgtow pick up artists redpill males that seeks ways to manipulate and gaslight and neg women to lower their standards. We seek men who support us for what we stand for and are willing to be there for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:20 PM
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My moms ex husband would do this, have her make me complain about anything he himself found displeasing to a higher up. Then these males proceed to label us as “Karen’s always complaining.” I will never fall for that nonsense again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:05 PM
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Something similar like this nearly occurred with me at an Afghani/Pakistani grocery shop my mom and I would frequent. I always felt discomfort shopping there due to the owner of the shop. He gave off strange creepy vibes and attempted to make small talk that was unnecessary. But my mom didn’t really seemed as bothered as I was. My mom couldn’t find anywhere else to buy specific products since we are from an Afghan background. Anyway long story short, the owner is quite old and has a scraggly bea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:38 PM
6

Lmao @ the dollar store vase 😂😂😂 I would have done the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:19 PM
12

I really wished they would go their own way already 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:36 PM
42

Fr 💯 They think we should be grateful to receive such unwanted attention from males that we don’t even prefer 🤮 They also get upset when women state they like attention from the guy they prefer. I make my preferences known now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:32 PM
14

Lmao @ bubonic banana 😂💀 I experienced this as well before the pandemic, this ancient mummified looking male would show up at my desk during work and just try to make small talk, he’d get upset if any other guy attempted to speak to me. I couldn’t bare sitting there smelling this dusty’s old odor while I typed away on my pc. So I would leave whenever I knew he was making his way down to see me. I’d excuse myself to use the restroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:29 PM
23

Women are told not to have preferences from looks to wealth. These males are a joke. I’d rather be single than lower my standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:24 PM
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Amen 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:28 AM
6

I’m also intrigued ! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 03:11 PM
6

Lmao I also thought it was Leo DiCaprio she left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:24 PM
6

Staying with the lvm for the sake of the children you have with him can influence your kids into disrespecting you especially if it’s sons. My brother disrespects my mom so easily because of what he grew up seeing my zvm dad do. I would suggest you start saving up money aside, learn some skills to earn a high paying job and keep a record of everything wrong this lvm does to you or your children before filing for divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:48 PM
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Seems to me like he’s desperate for her attention, he wants her to see his wealth and make her regret not dating him as if that was all that mattered 🙄 What a loser !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:26 PM
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Oh wow that’s a severe disappointment now that you mention she has onlyfans account. I hope she finds FDS and realizes how degrading onlyfans is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:20 PM
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Khalid Hosseini’s novels always hit home, my heart aches when I read them since i am also from an Afghan background. I feel immense dread & suffocation by the culture of violence against women over there. Now with the American presence no longer in Afghan, the talįban is coming back into full power and they are stripping even the few rights from women , which they had gained with difficulty over the span of 20 years under western military presence. Women are being threatened from obtaining educa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:45 PM
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LOL I think that could be true 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:44 PM
42

Oh wow I didn’t even know there was a sugarbaby sub but then again I’m not surprised since it’s Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:43 PM
2

I was thinking of getting this myself since males have no shame in snooping at my phone screen while I’m out in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:08 PM
20

That reminds me of my moms ex husband, he would ask for her money to pay for dinner so that people would think he was the one paying 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:05 PM
31

Yes, JFk is praised as some sort of a paragon for the civil rights movement when he wasn’t at all. Anytime I asked what exactly did he do, my teachers couldn’t even answer properly. They’d say something like “He supported MLK” ....🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:49 PM
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Yeah or assume that’s his nurse or home health aide accompanying him on the beach to make sure he doesn’t fall and break his weak old bones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:45 PM
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He looks short and shriveled up next to her, at this point she is looking like the authority figure holding power over that wrinkly 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:41 PM
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Anytime I come across a sugar baby video, the woman is always saying something along the lines of “I get paid and I don’t even sleep with any of my sugar daddies. Not all sugar daddies want to sleep with you, some of them just seek your company at a fine restaurant.” Then I scroll down on the comments and see similar responses of certain women claiming they don’t sleep around while getting paid by rich males. And these tend to be the top rated comments. Now a young impressionable girl reading th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:38 PM
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Lmao he does resemble what I would imagine a grotesque Humpty Dumpty would look like. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:32 PM
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Absolutely 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:31 PM
15

Women in my background end up getting honor killed or acid tossed into their faces, I really wished those males would end up with the same fate by vengeful women. I’d love to see such a movie 🍿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:29 PM
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JFK looks 20 years older than Jackie 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:23 PM
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MLk was also an lvm towards his wife, he would hook up with prostitutes. I lost respect for him after finding that out. Women back then had to put up with these males since it was considered normal and any woman who dared question her husbands disloyalty, ended up in mental asylums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:21 PM
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He wasn’t even handsome either to me so idk what all the fuss was about over his appearance. Too many pickmeisha’s inflated his ego by entertaining his lvm presence. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:17 PM
24

I noticed the redpill community praises JFK significantly and now I know why 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 04:12 PM
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Lmao I love it 😂💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:21 PM
5

I don’t feel safe when a guy is too close up in my space. Due to past experiences of being hit on & followed, I will try as much as possible to avoid being near random males in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:46 PM
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I’m so glad you posted this since I’m seeing sugar baby relationships being glamorized on social media when those are dangerous for women to be involved in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:00 PM
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Women get brainwashed by Hollywood and Bollywood movies regarding such men. And when these chameleons in disguise get caught for their fake persona/life (which they admit in the movie to the girl, they did it all to gain her affection.) the woman is made to feel guilty for even confronting him since he did it out of “love” for her 🙄. So if he was pretending to be rich and a provider since that what would take to get to her and then he turns out to be a broke guy, she still ends up choosing him i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:11 PM
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I’m from a Muslim central Asian background and we have the same issues, mothers spoiling their sons into laziness while daughters are considered a burden and should be kept under lock and key. The sons expect their wives to be the second mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:01 PM
3

Or “I want you to be my nurse later down the line while I have nothing to offer you ever except for my crusty old wiener”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:11 PM
4

High chance of their offspring born with autism because of his severely old mutated sperm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:09 PM
7

It’s truly disturbing 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:06 PM
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Unfortunately nearly all of my male relatives use family issues as an excuse for their crappy decisions when they’re confronted about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:14 PM
20

That’s reality for women in places like Saudi Arabia even now 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:26 PM
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Those rabbis knew that if the incel were given an inch, he would take a mile and damage her soul instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:01 AM
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So true which is why I don’t really care for islam anymore since it doesn’t benefit and never benefitted me as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:58 AM
18

Men claim their 60’s is when their prime starts 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:22 AM
18

Men are definitely vile gold diggers, youth robbers and soul damagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:19 AM
10

I wish this was an actual punishment for rapists and men who harass women in public. We would feel so much safer and men would be afraid to look in our directions for fear of eyeball plucking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:08 AM
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Those marks are so common amongst men. I used to think so many had diarrhea issues since I’d see many with their pants hanging below their underwear with that mark in public. Now I realize they just don’t wash their arse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:01 AM
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Today I saw a guy walking with his jeans hanging below his underwear, and the back of his underwear had a large wet stain 🤮 His guy friends didn’t even mind as they all slapped eachother’s palms in a greeting manner. I later on saw him playing dice at a corner store and hollering at any attractive woman that walked past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:56 AM
14

Lmao I’m crying laughing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:52 AM
17

My dad would force my mom to abort babies by adding some form of medicine to her food, he tried doing the same when she was pregnant with me but thankfully I survived and so did two of my younger brothers. Now this fool wants us to take care of his old and crusting self, he goes around complaining to our distant relatives that we are responsible for him since he’s our father 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:20 AM
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This is why I can’t take men seriously when they say they are attracted to younger women “due to how fertile she is”, when most of these men don’t even want to be responsible fathers and they believe in disgusting mgtow sayings like “pump & dump”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:05 AM
5

He checks out other women so blatantly while he’s sitting next to her face. It’s been caught on camera several times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:05 AM
86

Yes as soon as you help them level up in anyway, they automatically reveal their true nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:28 AM
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My moms lvm ex husband was this type of guy. He resented her for giving him a chance because no one else wanted him. As soon as she caved in, he became bitter and spiteful towards her. I learned a huge lesson from that, if too many women are avoiding a guy then it’s for a good reason I do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:27 AM
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They carry multiple stds as well so I never found such a man attractive for sleeping around casually .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:25 AM
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This 💯 It’s why I tend not to give homeless men any money because the entire system of our societies are mostly geared towards upholding the patriarchy. They have zero excuse for being jobless or poor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:04 PM
2

Kevin hart is a colorist and a user from what I’ve over heard about him leaving his former wife who helped build him up. One of my friends was telling about this. I was disappointed tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:53 AM
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Another reason why I don’t trust men enough to become intimate with. This is one of those nightmares I worry about becoming reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:34 PM
9

The name fits them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:33 PM
4

Yes definitely female separatism. Most men are depraved degenerates. Those top porn searches are clear indication of how disgusting most men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:09 PM
5

This really scares me as I’ve been personally effected by child abuse from my own father. I could never trust any man to leave a child of mine alone with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:07 PM
15

Fr 💯, places like the major cities are a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:33 PM
33

Haha same, I prefer they keep their mouths shut and gazes lowered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:31 PM
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Yes the serial killer vibes 😳, I always felt super disturbed when there is a murderous glint in their eyes as they growl out “beautiful”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:30 PM
7

My mom was also like this because of my lvm father. He never cleaned anything. And my brother picked up on this behavior so he also never cleans up after himself, he expects his future wife to do all of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:11 PM
6

Yet they actively sleep with/flirt with women who are in a relationship. Their whole “camaraderie” about “warning” men for signs of female depravity absolves themslves of any wrong doing when it comes to hurting the men she’s with. < I always wondered this about them..this alone indicates that men don’t really care for other men. And that they are the ones who actively seek to destroy another man’s relationship by sleeping/flirting with his partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:03 PM
15

And yet men still want us around them, men suffer from major cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:51 PM
7

I’ll be that aunt 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:16 AM
46

Western white men think they can be cheaper with me just because of my background. I feel like it’s important for me to post this on FDS because I wanted to know if other women of color here have experienced this as well and also for this to serve as a cautionary post for red flags to look out for amongst western white men. I’m a central Asian woman and any white guy that has given me romantic interest is usually never 100% genuine about it. There was always something off with the way they treat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:38 PM
103

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:50 PM
12

Or be Barb the builder for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:34 PM
8

Yesss wallet and luxury woman myself 😍✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:03 PM
28

They whine about vasectomies and male birth control pills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:02 PM
12

This is exactly my preference too. I’m a money, riches and success girl. But men love to shame me for my preferences yet while they deem their own preferences perfectly acceptable for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:02 PM
12

OmG I’m wheezing with laughter 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:55 PM
73

Honestly, I don’t even want to be in a relationship with them anymore now 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:27 PM
1

I love this post 🥰 So should all the other Disney princesses ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:03 PM
54

Lol fr 💯 Or having to serve his family like their personal maid. A lvm co worker brags about his wife serving his parents and washing their clothes etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:32 AM
4

This is 💯 true! I’ve never had a genuine male friend who didn’t want to use me for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:17 AM
108

In Pakistan, one of my female relatives husband was kind, protective and providing towards his own daughters. I later found out he gang raped a woman and then sold her back n the 90’s. The woman had committed suicide because of this. He wasn’t even charged for the crime since the cops there were his friends. Very corrupt system. I can’t trust men anymore...he may be playing an hvm act with one woman but he might a total vile monster towards another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:05 AM
42

Lol men are unable to get their narrative straight 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:25 AM
7

Well stated 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:24 AM
32

Well said 👏🏻 Our skincare and makeup products cost more than their dinner dates! I could just eat at home instead if all I wanted was a free meal smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:22 AM
3

Honestly, your post deserves a thread of its own, I love it 👏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:11 AM
15

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:03 AM
4

It’s nature’s way of telling us that men should be the ones putting in all the effort to attract women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:24 PM
6

Can you let me know as well which youtuber ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:17 PM
3

I totally agree, it seems outdated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:14 PM
31

This happened to my mom, she did everything for her loser ex husband and he still cheated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:13 PM
41

No wonder why sperm banks won’t accept Sperm from men over 32.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:44 AM
22

Fr 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:36 AM
118

He’s probably overweight, balding and unhygienic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:31 AM
15

You spoke what’s on my mind when I see white libfem side with brown/black guys over white ones. They don’t know our struggles living under brown and black male patriarchy. Our nations are still so far behind the west when it pertains to women’s rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:21 PM
32

I’ve experienced the same type of treatment from brown guys of my background.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:09 PM
12

Yeah I was surprised they only mentioned white guys. I’ve had bad experience with guys from my own background the most(mid eastern central Asian).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:07 PM
33

Great point, this is something I hadn’t thought of before. Why do married women need to be differentiated by the “mrs.” title? It should be rid off since it means the woman “belongs” to a man by law according to patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:08 PM
14

This reminds me of my former self, I wanted what you described but then I spent some time around so called trad communities and I was severely disappointed. I’ll have a traditional marriage with myself instead lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:09 PM
7

Men seem to only respect other men or want to impress other men, I really wished they would just leave women alone tbh and marry eachother instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:59 PM
2

OmG that’s a beautiful ring 😍🥰💞🌸 A lovely reminder, thank you 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:52 PM
2

https://youtu.be/NLai5jTnsis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:53 PM
2

I’m straight myself but I love admiring the woman’s body and physique more than a man’s. I am supportive towards bisexual and lesbian women. I actually wished I was lesbian tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:36 PM
3

Lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:36 PM
22

A profound response 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:35 PM
16

Men can’t stand the fact that women are also visual creatures even more so than men when it comes to our celeb crushes etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:34 PM
2

I agree 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:44 AM
9

I feel so bad for young girls who end up screwing their future over an old guy 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:41 AM
16

Maybe he’s looking for even younger than her so he can feel like a toddler 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:40 AM
22

I feel so disgusted when a 50 yr old looks in my direction with desire 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:38 AM
17

These types of men would sleep with 7 year olds if they could get away with it. 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:36 AM
23

And men have the audacity to claim they’re the logical ones 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:34 AM
16

I saw a video of him strutting in a very feminine manner alongside his latest gf, his walk had an extra sass to it in comparison to his gf. Made me wonder...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:32 AM
34

They might as well just marry other men already 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:31 AM
9

I have to agree with this 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:02 PM
40

Fr 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:53 PM
5

Muslim men also do this when they bring up verses about beating the wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:07 PM
5

This is so true...it’s why I’ve given up. I’ll sit it out instead lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:22 PM
10

Lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:18 PM
3

This is one of the most profound posts I’ve found here. It’s also my epiphany about men tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:14 AM
8

Yesss 🥰✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:31 PM
17

We are trained to believe that good looking men are more superficial than unattractive ones. But that is so wrong. They are all superficial. Some more - some less.< This is so true 💯 I used to think good looking were less superficial than unattractive ones because my mom would give unattractive ones a chance since she believed they would value her more for her beauty. But I have found that even the conventionally attractive ones can be lvm and superficial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:30 PM
74

Fr💯 Most Women’s life expectancy decreases in a marriage for these reasons while the married man’s increases because he dumps most of the work on her shoulders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:15 PM
57

A lot of men out there also trick women initially about taking care of the housework and doing their share of cooking. They deliberately do a messy job so that the wife or gf has to take over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:11 PM
11

That’s profound insight ! ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:12 PM
40

Men allow themselves preferences but they get mad when women have preferences. The double standards are appalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:10 PM
28

Yes they get mad when we have preferences but yet they’re allowed to have them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:09 PM
4

I wish FDS existed when I was a teenager, it would have saved me a lot of wasted time. When I look at my teenage pics, I think wow I wasn’t as pretty as I am now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:08 PM
6

It’s shows and books like this that are one of the leading causes for creation of Pickmeisha and Barb The Builder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:00 PM
15

That’s actually how I came across this sub and it clicked with my soul 😭🥰✅🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:58 PM
13

Exactly 💯Anything wrong going on with them even by another man is always projected out towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:25 PM
21

They also can’t afford an escort so they manipulate women on regular dating sites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:20 PM
5

Lmao fr 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:18 PM
9

I’m saving that analogy 👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:17 PM
28

Now imagine if the roles were reversed and it was a girl saying she just wanted to see how many guys were attracted to her, the same lvm’s would try to shame her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:10 PM
20

Casual sex is a total scam for women, we are also at higher risk of getting STD’s which condoms don’t even prevent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:05 PM
17

Wow what a great dad! One of my uncles treats his wife like a Queen. I don’t expect any less when ever I do marry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:00 PM
95

This 💯 My own brother wishes for a time where women were treated as second class citizens or property. I feel bad for the woman that ends up with him..unless she is willing to discard the pickmeisha cape and hear me out without ratting to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:14 PM
99

This 💯 My own brother wishes for a time where women were treated as second class citizens or property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:11 PM
3

This is a very important post deserving of its own thread tbh. I keep warning my friends about this since too many of them think condoms can prevent such STD’s. I’ve read condoms are not effective with hpv strains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:24 PM
60

Fr💯 I’ve given up on men tbh. I come here to further enlightenment myself on why I’ve given up lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:11 AM
103

I also block them now whenever they say “with that face, that body, how can I be rude to you.” I think of how many women he’s likely mistreated just because he didn’t find them attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:19 PM
55

A friend of mine was just slightly chubby and the guy she was set to be engaged to, mocked her weight constantly. Turns out he was only using her for green card and he had a side girl who he mistreated later on. Too many men out there will have no qualms about using a woman to get where they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:08 PM
21

Fr 💯They can’t seem to go their own way already 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:05 AM
10

Lmao 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:56 AM
54

I bet he’s whining about gold diggers on some manosphere forum right about now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:58 PM
42

Yup mortgage payments to a home that isn’t even under her name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:56 PM
17

Ikr I was smiling and brought to tears at the same time 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:33 AM
12

Yup our fellow Queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:28 AM
22

I loved it, total Queen 👑💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:25 AM
11

They want our youth, they shouldn’t be mad when we demand or take their wealth then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:27 PM
9

I’ve seen disgusting 50 yr old men say those same things 🤣 They also tend to be avid video game players at that age 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:16 PM
32

They think it’s the best thing ever to happen to us when some creep gives attention or stares at us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:17 PM
25

This is exactly right 💯 In my past pickmeisha phase, I used to think any male staring out of desire was proof of my self worth being high to me. My standards were so low before I came across SheRaSeven1 on YT and FDS on reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:14 PM
4

My youngest bro is autistic because of my dads old age. My mom was only 19 when she was married off to a 48 year old lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:05 AM
11

Fr 💯, I thought he looked great at 25 and Leo was in his prime at 20-23.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 03:03 AM
3

This sums up the patriarchy very concisely ! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:09 AM
17

50 cent is a disgusting misogynistic colorist. The amount of hate he has for darker bw, should be enough of a huge red flag for all other women to avoids this lvm 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:40 PM
3

Fr 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:25 PM
9

Exactly, the nerve of them with those double standards 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:25 PM
86

A married creep at work was being overly flirty towards me so I told him I loved rich men. He avoids me now 🤣 This works like a charm 💯💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:21 PM
5

Well said 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:16 PM
3

Queen response 💗💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:16 AM
3

And then they have the nerve of lying about being “more loyal than women”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 05:10 AM
74

Lmao same ! I wish I wasn’t attracted to good looking men, I wish I was an asexual 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:46 PM
10

Yup! That’s when these same men have the nerve to say “she hit the wall.” 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:14 PM
13

Damn who was this guy ? Girls would never be forgiven for their past mistakes !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:13 PM
5

This is definitely what I’ve observed as well 😳 Makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:53 PM
20

Lmao same 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:43 PM
19

Exactly ! 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:43 PM
5

💯🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:40 PM
6

Thank you for this post 💞🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:38 PM
3

So true, I’ve seen many women on here complain about finding out the lvm was dwelling in his car or in a tent at the park.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:35 PM
7

Or he’s just looking for a mommy who can adopt his grown behind and take care of him. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:30 PM
2

What this is to me: He’s bragging about stealing food from those less fortunate. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:29 PM
2

But the stress of heartbreaks (which is major) or any stress can cause one to age prematurely and develop auto immune diseases. I’d rather avoid heartbreaks by not investing after witnessing the first red flag. Yeah no thanks, I’m not entertaining lvm’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:27 PM
13

How did that happen ? 😯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:24 PM
7

Thank you for this post 🙏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:17 PM
21

Yup! They’re placed on a pedestal for doing the bare minimum or what’s common sense, as in being a responsible dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:16 PM
19

Exactly! These types complain about so called “hypergamy” in women when it’s really their own lvm nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:14 PM
27

I knew of an lvm who would whine and complain about his friend wasting years away with a gf that apparently became “over weight” and “not attractive anymore”. This lvm would try to convince his friend to leave his gf of 20 years and go find a younger attractive girl. His friend wouldn’t leave because he was overweight himself and he wasn’t earning as much as his gf, he told him that he was dependent on the gf and lived under her roof. These lvm’s are using women they’re with while they dream of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:12 PM
11

I remember being ogled a lot at age 9 by creepy old middle aged men. I felt scared whenever I’d catch one staring at me with intensity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:06 PM
5

This is what I should have been doing a long time ago !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:01 PM
9

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:55 PM
6

Lvm are the real gold diggers and shallow ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:53 AM
27

Absolutely 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:04 AM
44

Mgtow has a tough time going their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:22 PM
17

LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:20 PM
20

LMAO 🤣the cringe 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:20 PM
5

I was asked this two days ago, if only I had this image earlier to summarize why I am still single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:19 PM
22

I love this Queenly response. I’m glad you’ve never lowered your standards sis. This was inspiring to read💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:16 PM
9

These lvm’s then have the nerve to say “women are sensitive about their age.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:14 AM
12

Damn, this repels me from considering even the rich older men. I don’t want to end up in the situation your step mother in law is, I hope she’s free of this lvm soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:11 AM
24

HVM quality 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:06 AM
38

My thoughts exactly !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:03 AM
68

Instead of complaining, he could have hired a chef and cleaning crew so she could rest from taking of care of her family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:03 AM
42

SheRaSeven1 advises use men’s sly tactics back on men, those very same games they try to play on us. If a man pressures me to cook for him, I’d just ruin the food intentionally so he never asks again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:56 AM
8

That is a precise queenly response 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:50 AM
39

This is openly accepted in muslim patriarchal societies (I come from one 😒), “A woman’s testimony is worth/considered less than or half of the testimony of a man.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:26 AM
10

As soon as some guy starts with this, my current answer is “There are professional psychiatrists out there for you.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:16 PM
12

Men expect women to go 50/50 on bills and also take on the housework and childcare, plus look good. All of that is taken for granted by lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:12 PM
19

These same men also complain about single mothers on welfare.This is actually what I argued with my lvm male relative over. He blames women for having kids with broke men and yet he also bashes other women for dismissing broke men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:22 AM
1

Haha yes 💯😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:40 AM
2

She also most likely paid half or all of the bills while he lazed around playing video games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:30 AM
1

Thank you for this 💯👏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:29 AM
1

Lmao I thought the same ! I was confused by the sudden personality modifications. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:28 AM
2

Queenly clap back 💯👏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:23 AM
3

Exactly ! This is why we tend to provide excuses of having a “husband or bf” instead of declining outright. It’s a scary world for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:23 AM
1

I love how she presented it while dancing with the goddess energy 👏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:18 AM
2

For real 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:06 AM
16

Honestly at this point this scum is worth more to her paying child support instead of being a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:02 AM
13

This is what nightmares are like when manifested into reality. She should definitely file for divorce !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:59 AM
8

Aww this is sweet 💘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:56 AM
11

LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:55 AM
11

Instead they become hateful incels expecting women to give it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:53 AM
60

Exactly ! They play this scam just so they don’t have to pay the higher price for an actual prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:48 AM
1

I laugh when I come across lvm’s complaining about how much advantage women have over getting sex easily. Just because we can doesn’t mean we want to have it with lvm’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:21 PM
2

Facts 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:16 PM
2

This is so precise and to the point, I love it 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:10 PM
1

Can you invite me on there ? Thank you 🙏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:08 PM
1

They should be speaking out against the acid attacks and rejection attacks men unleash upon women daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:07 PM
6

Love it 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:06 PM
2

I was actually thinking this the other night, how I don’t have to worry over anyone but myself. I felt so grateful 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:51 AM
5

Wow I didn’t think of that either but makes sense !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:12 AM
71

I agree 💯Modern liberal third wave feminism has turned men into grown children. It has stripped dignity from women and lowered women’s standards. Men expect sex, cooking, cleaning, paying the bills, birthing and raising children for FREE from women with nothing but stress and dust offered in return. Then these same men wonder why women have become “masculinized”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:37 PM
10

OmG this person sent me messages as well! They were also asking me for ideas to sell on their site 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:22 PM
4

Thanks for the heads up everyone🙏🏻 I received a chat message from such a person as well linking me that site. The username u/blessing-to-your-day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:20 PM
3

Queen response 💞👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:35 AM
13

OmG yeah like 50 cent and lil Wayne were bragging about getting “exotic” women while they bashed black women smh 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:47 AM
17

I had argument with my brother today over this. He’s upset that feminism has spread to Muslim countries (we are of Muslim central asian/Mid East bg). He’s angry that women have control over their own bodies. He brings up some religious Islamic scripture about more women burning in hellfire than men 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:42 AM
5

That’s a big red flag ! Brown girl of Mid East/central asian bg here, even brown men have this strange view towards non-brown women or women of different cultures. They fetishize white and black western women as some easy lay. They also spout off nonsense like “a fob wife will be submissive, don’t get a brown girl from the west since she’s infected with feminism”. I avoid such men now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:39 AM
2

Why do these men date when they’re living in cars 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:59 PM
10

Thank you for this gem of a post 💞🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:43 AM
46

I notice such “Intellectual artsy” types tend to think they’re the prize. I used be a pick me for such types. I never found the gamer or jock type attractive. But these artsy types can be more dangerous mentally since they use their orator skills to ensnare women like this guy was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:22 PM
17

Great response 💯💞👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:17 PM
8

Exactly ! There are men out there who will go above and beyond for their dream girl. Every woman is someone’s dream girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:42 AM
1

My father started yelling at the judge when it came to child support 🤣 My mom told her lawyer that we didn’t want even a penny from that monster. My dad is capable of causing us physical harm as well. We just wanted him gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:39 AM
4

love that Queen response 🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:37 AM
5

Absolutely 💯👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:36 AM
4

This 💯! My past pickmeisha self would have been flattered that some guy decided to choose me when I wasn’t his usual type. But now I know better thanks to all of you on fds and SheRaSeven1 💞💞💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:35 AM
7

Yes this 💯💞👏🏻 I’m saving your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:19 AM
7

Yes 💯, those cases involved such types touting “purity” and “honor”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:17 AM
10

I love her, she knows she’s the prize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:15 AM
3

The egg never chases the sperm. That’s one of the things that made me realize how silly I was in my past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:15 AM
3

Yes I don’t understand such kids! I’ve always stood by my mothers side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:12 AM
3

Yes it’s made me so angry 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:11 AM
5

My lvm dad, a garbage of a man, expected us to side with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:07 AM
4

Those men complain about this to women they don’t find desirable as the dream girl they have in mind to spoil later on when he hits it big.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:06 AM
4

That’s why I stopped desiring a marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:04 AM
3

Even so called “HVM” can end up doing this to a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:02 AM
7

A loser like this pm’d me on here complaining about my posts on fds. I go on his profile and find him posting about how much wealth he wants to make so he can own luxury cars and that he would be able to attract young hot women as well because of the wealth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:59 AM
7

And never wait on a man’s potential. Never ever wait in broke men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:53 AM
5

Exactly what SheRaSeven1 says all the time, unconditional love is for your kids only and not for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:53 AM
3

Exactly ! This never happens to actual “gold diggers” but this always happens to the ride or die, struggle love supporting women. It’s so sad that those women end up learning the hard way, never build a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:51 AM
3

Growing up, I’ve always helped with cleaning but my bro never did. Men expect women to clean up after them for free. There are cleaning/maintainence companies out there that charge for these services.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:46 AM
3

Those news stories are so heartbreaking to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:41 AM
2

Lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:28 AM
3

My female mentor is SheRaSeven1 on YouTube 💞 I’m so glad I stumbled across her videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:20 AM
6

Thanks for the link 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:16 AM
2

Lol it’s so pathetic and sickening at the same time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:14 AM
11

I feel like I’ve seen this guy on a ted talk vid...has he done one ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:09 AM
39

Most men seem to have mental illnesses imo. Not every man is medically diagnosed but that doesn’t mean he won’t have one or two mental illnesses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 08:05 AM
5

Once he’s financially set after she’s built him up, he will dump her for the girl of his dreams whom he will provide for without complaints.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:47 AM
1

This !! Absolutely this 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:36 AM
8

Or when they ask “wat u wearin “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:25 AM
4

I like how in traditional Hinduism, they use astrology and the timing of births to determine if a relationship would work out or not. It’s very accurate imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:24 AM
15

Trash men will age the woman fast or cause her an early death. And I noticed ugly men tend to be the most trashiest jealous of women’s beauty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:11 AM
12

I bet he’s already a mgtow member 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:07 AM
12

Yup definitely a pedo 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:05 AM
5

I wish more men would say or post such things so we would know which ones to avoid 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:02 AM
268

I used to like this guy who showed interest in me first. As soon as I displayed interest in return, he described his type as the very opposite of my physical appearance. I was confused af. So I stopped liking him and he would keep messaging me, telling me I was his type. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:58 AM
16

Damn, I was like that too because of my Muslim upbringing. I ascribed to a very orthodox view in religion, so I’d say all sorts of dumb things about women’s rights 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:54 AM
7

I was going to ask this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:46 AM
3

They want us to be robots programmed by them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:43 AM
1

Love this post 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:39 AM
2

Thank you for this great advice 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:33 AM
11

His regulars are a box of tissues and a one dollar lotion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:19 AM
7

Wow love this response 💞👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:18 AM
5

Lol fr 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:17 AM
6

Absolutely 💯💞👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:15 AM
6

I love her responses 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:14 AM
7

I love your response 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:49 AM
3

Lol same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:43 AM
8

OmG 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:15 AM
2

So true! So as long as those younger men don’t go 50/50 with us or try to steal from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:06 AM
5

Lol yes that was a high value response 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:01 AM
3

Interesting psychological take on this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:54 AM
8

These types tend to sexually abuse their children. I know of many cases personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:50 AM
6

LOL 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:48 AM
8

This 💯🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:45 AM
6

I call them the Dust Club or the Dust Bin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:39 AM
5

Lol this reminds me of my dad buying a huge bulky couch for himself to sleep on. We could even hang in the lounge room anymore because of his huge bulky couch and big squared bulky coffee table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:13 PM
3

My brother is like this, he leaves his things cluttered everywhere. It’s annoying as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:11 PM
2

lol I’m saving this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:06 AM
56

This true for a lot of Muslim girls and men from the Mid East to Central Asia. I remember when I was 9 and my uncles telling me that I could no longer play on the roof top with the other kids because I was becoming a woman 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ I was just a kid. I cried silently that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:04 AM
8

I used to be one those pickmeishas. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:59 AM
2

This 💯I don’t like hairy men either 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:55 AM
1

What career field of men do you recommend ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:52 AM
3

I nearly choked on my tongue while laughing. This was so Entertaining to read 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:49 AM
6

Lmao exactly ! They don’t want a woman who’s completely natural.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:45 AM
9

So true ! Most men her age are balding wrinkly grandpas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:43 AM
13

Lmao love this clap back 🤣💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:23 AM
11

I’m so happy women are exposing these lvm for what they truly are 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:21 AM
27

This is why I hope to have daughters. I’ve seen male relatives treat their moms like sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:19 AM
47

So true ! The cops did nothing to keep my mother, siblings and I safe from my abusive father. Same with the family courts. They’re useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:17 AM
7

Thank you for this insight. 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:15 AM
10

What a truly empowering acknowledgement. This lady is a Queen 💞👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:12 AM
12

Now I just block and delete lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:09 AM
3

Or they’re running out of supplies and rent money so they decide to reach out to take advantage of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:08 AM
24

Same! I don’t want to be with any man now. But I like coming here to read and share my perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:23 AM
18

“They want you to feel confused and insecure. If someone makes you feel unsteady, throw that man away.” One of the Best advice here 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:18 AM
11

This is a Queen response 💯👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:49 PM
147

That’s why most men are lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:49 PM
44

Anytime I hear a guy say that, I try to avoid him as best as I could. He’s likely the red pill type lvm. Don’t want anything to do with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:25 PM
2

Yet they rely on women to take care of them for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:43 PM
20

Men don’t have it as worse than women. It’s unheard of for a woman to ever do this to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:27 PM
15

I wish those were the only horrible experiences I’ve suffered 😢 This is why I will never speak against feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:47 PM
4

LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:36 PM
4

You made the right move by ending it. Toxic friends are not worth our time. Like everyone else said, leveling up means dropping lvm and lvw. You have like minded sisters here to give you sound advice 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:01 PM
48

Haha yes the ones who are rich never care if women are gold diggers or not, rich men openly provide for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:46 PM
21

So sad, she likely built him up too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:12 AM
252

Yesss I want to see women stand by eachothers sides against these lvm. 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:09 AM
3

Thanks for this 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:06 AM
1

This 💯✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:27 AM
1

Thank you for answering🙏🏻, I didn’t know there were web/software development jobs in stem. I’ll look into to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 05:25 AM
3

I love your queen response ! They think beauty just materializes out of nowhere when it takes effort and money to maintain appearances and figures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:34 AM
1

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:32 AM
1

I love how concisely stated this is 👏🏻 These men would leave if women arrived as plain and unkempt as men on dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:31 AM
1

Exactly ! Call girls and escorts charge way more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:24 AM
3

When I was a pickmeisha, I sent $200.00 dollars to an lvm 🤦🏻‍♀️ That mistake still haunts me when ever I remember it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:20 AM
2

Images of snakes would be more fitting for these lvm’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:15 AM
1

Was it no neck Ed 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:12 AM
2

I always wondered this. Instead of shaming abusive fathers, these men shame the victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:59 AM
1

My monster of a father and step father could easily form tears and claim victim hood as they stabbed us in the back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:52 AM
2

Same, I would 💯 dump him right when he threatens to cheat.I don’t give second chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:50 AM
3

I really wished they would heed this advice and leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:48 AM
10

Exactly! Meanwhile they expect a super model 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:42 AM
5

Yes this 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:40 AM
5

You’re right most of these men who complain about women’s ages aren’t even wanting to responsible fathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:39 AM
10

Some men straight up say the wall is at 13 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:37 AM
23

Wow congrats sis 💞 I love reading such success stories from women. May I ask how many years of college it takes to get into STEM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:37 AM
17

They’re whining about women not giving them access to their bodies as much anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:35 AM
21

Exactly, men cause world wars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:34 AM
22

This is definitely frightening as my moms childhood friend was stabbed to death by her lvm husband. Most victims of domestic violence are women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:32 AM
11

One of my worst nightmares is an lvm son. If I ever get married, I hope to have many daughters and maybe one son. Hopefully he will learn from HVM qualities from his father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:29 AM
2

Well stated 💯👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:25 AM
2

They always come back. I still receive poorly written notes by mail on paper torn from a note book 🤦🏻‍♀️ from this porn addicted lvm every year. He keeps checking for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:40 AM
28

So true, they act like having lvm dusty options is something amazing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:31 PM
7

Exactly! 👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:11 PM
7

💯 I always bring up the children’s topic and these dusties become quiet. I tell them I’m not going to be a welfare mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:02 PM
31

That sub horrified me and I’m so thankful for FDS existing. Women have a lot to risk and it’s never worth it for an lvm. I’d rather remain single and childless for life than ever lower my FDS ingrained/empowered standards. 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:01 PM
2

That’s way worse, I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:57 PM
9

I love reading posts like this 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:58 AM
2

His male lovers would call the home and show up on the door step. He himself was very jealous of my moms beauty and tried to find ways to ruin it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:50 AM
2

Exactly, once these old dusty male partners die, the woman ends up spending the remainder of her life alone. This is why women need to demand wealth from old men that pursue them. It’s not worth it otherwise to sacrifice your youth for some crusty looking dusty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:49 AM
1

Thank you dear for the words of support ❣️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:46 AM
18

Queen response 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:19 PM
57

I hope she secures the bag 💰 since she’s wasting her youth on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:27 PM
34

This 💯 Men always claim divorced women with children are unwanted and women like Jada break their narrative. She’s a queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:26 PM
10

So true and I’ve heard Will smith cheated on her several times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:24 PM
3

I’m very sorry for your loss and hope that you meet another hvm 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:41 AM
46

My lvm father was like this, he slept with men and then claimed to be straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:38 AM
9

Reading that made me sick briefly 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:34 AM
101

I remember an old wealthy married lawyer who advised me to marry a rich man since I was worth pampering. He said he never made his wife cook or clean, he hired cleaning people and a personal chef for her to live comfortably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:31 AM
7

I wish I did that the first time the guy who wasted my time told me that I wasn’t his usual type. Now I avoid such men like the plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:29 AM
3

He’s now her adopted son instead of partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:25 AM
45

I wish I had someone to tell me this when I was a teenager 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:24 AM
1

I would become so rich in certain areas if this was real 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:23 AM
27

So true sis 👏🏻💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:16 AM
13

They get that from the Bollywood movies. With the knowledge I have now, I’d get a restraining order against the psycho that cut himself to prove his love for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:01 AM
16

Worse is when the MIL’s parade their sons around as if he dropped from heaven 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:00 AM
17

Same, I will date outside of mine unless the guy is very HVM and doesn’t carry the patriarchical cultural baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:58 AM
19

So true 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:55 AM
22

As someone of central Asian muslim background, I also agree with this post. My mom went through at the hands of my psychopathic lvm dad and his family. The second brown guy she married was also a nightmare. I really wished Muslim women in majority Muslim lands would stop marrying completely until society stops favoring the patriarchy. Japanese and south Korean women are leading by a great example, no wonder they look so dolled up and healthy. They care for themselves instead of these no lvm’s ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:53 AM
20

Men are ultimate hypocrites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:40 AM
13

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:36 AM
38

Because she’s not the girl of his dreams, she’s Barbara The Builder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:35 AM
51

Sadly there’s pickmeisha’s out there groveling for such lvm’s 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:35 AM
3

So true 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:17 AM
1

LOL this 🤣💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:11 AM
2

This is a great response 🔥👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:10 AM
8

Thank you so much for this reminder 💞✨❣️ I really needed this right now as I was about to doubt myself for blocking someone who wasted so much of my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:03 AM
82

This is exactly what most men demand ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:52 AM
3

lol this post is savage 💯✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:39 PM
39

Exactly 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:06 AM
1

That’s heartbreaking, she was too pretty for that monster 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:49 AM
7

I’m sorry you had to experience that! One of my aunts is 16 years younger than her lvm husband and he’s obsessed with teenagers while he’s 60 now 🤢 He calls my aunt old. OmG the nerve of this lvm 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:53 AM
12

Exactly! They want polished beautiful well maintained women, they have zero idea how much it costs to look pretty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:28 AM
14

Yes and then they say “men don’t care about your career, they care about youth and ferility” while on the other hand they also say “you’re a gold digger for wanting a provider husband”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:26 AM
7

This💯👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:24 AM
19

That and park and Ice cream truck dates 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:23 AM
32

Something like this happened to one of my co-workers. when she told the guy that she didn’t know him, his response was “But I’ve been walking you to the cafe everyday, so you know me by now.” She didn’t even ask for this random guy to accompany her on her walks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:22 AM
23

Exactly! And risking stds 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:19 AM
39

OmG secondary murder location 😳, honestly hope no woman is gullible enough to agree to hiking as first date 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:17 AM
32

Ugh so many pickmeisha’s still enabling these lvm’s😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:16 AM
3

Lmao, I also imagined that 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:14 AM
16

What an amazing man👏🏻 This story is also heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:12 AM
3

This is so true, thanks for the head up ✅🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:09 AM
15

So true, I was telling one of my friends of how much my skincare products cost me. I spent $400.00 on Japanese and Korean skin care lines just to keep myself looking youthful and glowing. I can’t waste that on an lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:08 AM
4

Exactly sis, smh 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:06 AM
32

Or he will ruin your beauty and youth, it’s happened to my mom marrying my dad who was decades older than her. He wanted to make her ugly by any means possible. Just one of the many cons of marrying older men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:03 AM
5

So true! Those are lvm’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:58 AM
4

You’re mom is amazing to warn you about pedos out there. Sadly, I had to learn on my own and from my friends experiences or rely on my intuition. My mom didn’t know anything much about what’s a pedo since she didn’t speak English and she’s from a country where it’s common to marry of little girls to crusty wrinkly old men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:55 AM
8

OmG I also had a 30 year old bus driver pursue me when I was only 15. He knew my age and still wouldn’t stop trying to converse with me, he offered to drive me around on his bus during his break 😒 I was thinking ‘ughh I’ll just take the train to school instead, this guy is a creep.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:51 AM
10

All of these responses from my sisters on here are spot on 💯✅ Innocence is definitely not something he has in common with an 18 yo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:47 AM
4

Accurate translation 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:45 AM
6

Thank you for sharing your insight 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:44 AM
3

This 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:41 AM
9

They ruin innocence and then they have the nerve to call women “bitter” for what they did to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:38 AM
10

Yes, they say they want a successful woman but then they end up feeling emasculated by her 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:12 AM
2

Well said 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:57 PM
1

This is on point✅ You’re right about men being blinded by looks only or youth. They have only themselves to blame for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:55 PM
2

Exactly 💯 Now I avoid those types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:52 PM
2

Back clapping response to the lvm’s 💯 It always boils down to men trying to seek power in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:42 PM
6

One of my aunts husbands would do this, clean his gun at the dinner table sometimes. You’re right, it’s a threat of violence. He tried that nonsense with my mom when she was visiting. She got up and left instead of cower like my aunt did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:37 PM
2

Thank you for sharing your experience. I will definitely keep this in mind for when I’m approached by men decades older than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:09 PM
2

That’s so poetically stated 👏🏻 Well done, sis 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:08 PM
12

HVM response from your partner 👏🏻✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:19 AM
2

Exactly! Or the ones participating in the nofap movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:18 AM
3

Horrifying “logic” a lot of these men have 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:17 AM
72

Lmao I’m 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:10 AM
12

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:10 AM
25

Yes those are their role models 🤢 They love how these men use women and discard them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:08 AM
14

My mom did this, helped build him up and even paid his share of the rent and utilities. He started to lie about being laid off from work, she paid him for being a lazy bum. Little did she know that he was saving up his own money to spend it on younger women. Then I came across SheRaSeven1 videos on this topic, never build a man up. They will resent you for it since men view this as emasculating them. Also if you earn more than him. They will replace you with a younger woman or the woman he alway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:05 AM
4

I agree with the others, not all men like the same body type in a woman. Look at Chris Hemsworths wife, she has the body type you’ve described and he loves her the way she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:58 AM
27

Exactly ! Men are never shamed for their standards but women are expected to be shamed or labeled shallow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:54 AM
2

0:34 her reply summed up ✅👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:49 AM
1

Same, I’ve never sent them either! I was pressured a lot for them but thankfully I never submitted. I remembered what happened to one of my friends who did and her nudes were leaked to the entire school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:45 AM
1

This is so romantic 😍 I really hope I’m this loved one day as well 🥰🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:42 AM
10

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:38 AM
18

Have you shared your stories here ? I’m curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:35 AM
7

This makes me cringe at thinking back to my teen years 😭 I really wish this message could spread like wildfire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:32 AM
21

True Queen response 👏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:25 AM
9

So true ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:16 AM
14

I forget how I discovered this sub but I’m so grateful I did.Thank you for sharing this post 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:16 AM
1

Thank you sis 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:19 PM
13

It’s so sad that most women waste their years with such men 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:08 PM
12

This 💯👏🏻 Men are hypocrites. They hate “gold diggers” when they can’t afford them. Yet these same men are proud of old bloated male celebs like Leo DiCaprio affording young expensive models.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:00 PM
3

Lmao I was wondering that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:23 AM
5

Most men (lvm) don’t want a serious relationship which is why they collect all these dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:15 AM
10

This ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:08 AM
5

Blissful reminder 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:52 AM
1

LOL 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:51 AM
3

It’s like he’s asking to be knocked out 🥊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:51 AM
1

Lmao 🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:50 AM
4

It’s like he placed an “emotional/help save me” filter on his picture to match the message under 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:48 AM
1

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:46 AM
6

Lol yess 👏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:40 AM
3

My former Pickmeisha self would have stuck around showing how “confident” I was meanwhile my self esteem died gradually. Now I know better thanks to FDS sisters 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:38 AM
6

Sis, You dodged a nuke 💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:36 AM
17

Yes I noticed it’s not only a white guy thing. Muslim men from places like afghan (my origins) are extremely possessive over Muslim women of their family. Acid attacks and honor killings are common and that is way worse to me. I’m so glad I don’t live amongst my extended family as they praise honor killers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:33 AM
13

It’s so sad 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:30 AM
11

And I’m told by Muslim men that me dating out would be giving birth to nonMuslims 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:30 AM
19

Yes ! Men think they can go around sleeping with all races of women, yet expect race loyalty. The men from my background can go as far as honor kill the girl if she dates a white guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:29 AM
9

I’m not white or black and one of my supervisors who is a black guy keeps pressing me to get into a relationship with a black man only. Every time he shows up, he has to say something about his skin color. I don’t understand why men are so obsessed over what race a woman dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:25 AM
5

I also carry a mini roll on deodorant in my bag. I can’t stand bad hygiene 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:23 AM
7

Who is she 😭 How can we get her to FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:22 AM
15

OmG exactly! Men would never tolerate this from women. I feel sick reading it 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:19 AM
8

This, it makes my heart cry 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:16 AM
17

And these crusty looking stinking men believe they are a gift to women 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:14 AM
3

Oh grosss 🤢🤢🤢😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:13 AM
3

I’m deeply sorry you went through those traumatic events. I am glad that you’ve got a hvm who cherishes you as you deserve to be cherished. I too am from a very traditional central/south asian background and I have never engaged in any sexual activity until I get married...well if I ever get married. I did at some points in my life wonder if I was in the wrong, this sex positivity movement nearly singed my staunch beliefs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:12 AM
4

Thank you for providing these articles 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:08 AM
39

🤣👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:03 AM
15

Same lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:03 AM
5

SheRaSeven1 on YouTube advised to never mention you’re a flight attendant as some men will either want to use you, think of ways to cheat on you while you’re gone, or they will label you “a loose woman”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:02 AM
15

I was wondering the other day, why they turn every innocent thing into some strange sexual fetish 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:56 AM
5

These are a penny a dozen 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:55 AM
2

Oh God, this is traumatic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:54 AM
8

Exactly ! Nearly everyone of them gives this lame azz excuse 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:51 AM
2

Lmao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:49 AM
1

What an Azzhole 😳 Glad you dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:47 AM
2

I’m so glad I didn’t live back when this was accepted as a fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:45 AM
4

My dad was a jealous insecure monster towards my mom. He wanted to make her look ugly. He cut up her hair many times while she slept. He wouldn’t buy proper clothes for her. She didn’t speak English and was a house wife, so she suffered for years until I became old enough to help her get away from that evil demonic being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:42 AM
21

“A gun will not leave you if you run out of ammo.” “Your primary gun doesn’t care if you keep a gun on the side.” They admit they want to cheat but hate it when a woman does 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:39 AM
6

LOL 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:35 AM
6

This post is valuable ! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:34 AM
7

This 💥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:23 AM
13

Wow you’re a queen for digging his record up! I’m glad you’re safe. 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:21 AM
8

This is profound 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:18 AM
5

LMAO 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:58 AM
1

This ✅💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:58 AM
6

This is so true ✅ It’s like they are on these sites to be chat buddies lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:16 AM
15

LMAO 🤣 now post something about Leonardo DiCaprio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:49 AM
2

Thanks for explaining 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:48 AM
2

Lmao this is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:33 AM
15

This ! And when it’s blatantly clear, the girl is not showing any interest in return, these lvm continue pestering 😒 I’ve had situations like this come up too many times at work but I have to be polite since it’s customer service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:58 AM
2

Lmao this made me laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:55 AM
11

He probably watched Roosh or Rollo Tomassi videos on YouTube to try that gross move 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:54 AM
2

It’s pointless nowadays!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:52 AM
1

Fr 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:52 AM
4

I needed this! Thanks 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:51 AM
32

Some guy told me I needed to stop allowing the wrong guys into my life and that guys like him would treat me like a queen but that I shouldn’t expect anything from him except his private area. I was flabbergasted 😲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:45 AM
3

I’ve had a guy tell me I needed to be confident while he checked other girls out. I’m like wth I don’t want this type of relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:43 AM
3

Wow what a great man your great grandfather was😊 My great grandfather placed his wife in charge of all the land he owned, he gave it all to her. She was the boss and he loved her so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:38 AM
2

I love your comment, 👏🏻💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:31 AM
2

My mom cried so much when she saw her stomach after she gave birth. She was so shocked at what happened to her body. Meanwhile my dad (lvm) was busy flirting with the nurses and collecting phone numbers of various other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:20 AM
1

Yes atleast we are more free to choose what we desire now as opposed to 60 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:12 AM
2

Like that new cardi B song WAP...I was scratching my head in confusion. Apparently that’s mean to be liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:06 AM
3

Yes I noticed this as well, she wants men to treat white girls who look like her as above all other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:51 AM
3

Men are hating on tomi anyway no matter how much she’s groveled for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:47 AM
8

Did you all notice the amount of men under her video that are stating “we don’t care about a woman’s career, we only care about her beauty.” ? These men are finally admitting that they do indeed like “gold diggers”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:43 AM
14

This is true 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:43 PM
1

lol thanks, it’s the only way to deal with these men 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:40 AM
8

Beautiful quote 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:07 PM
1

Omar Suleiman is a very gentle mannered man and one of my go to’s as well. Then I will let God decide what he wants to do with me-not any human being.< This 💯👏🏻 I will let God judge me! That’s what will happen to everyone anyway regardless of what they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:51 PM
1

💯👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:20 PM
2

Oh wow MashaAllah I watch him ! He’s a very good HVM. My relatives dismiss him though. They call him a “deviant”. 🙄 There is also this wonderful knowledgeable sheikh but Saudi Arabia imprisoned him wrongly because his views are not aligned with their version of Islam. You might also enjoy listening to this Mufti who’s hung out with Nouman Ali Khan, (that’s how I found the mufti) These three men are for empowering women and minorities in Muslim lands or to broaden the Muslim mindset in the light …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:39 PM
5

This absolutely 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:10 PM
15

Men always sexualize everything, 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:09 PM
6

This 💯💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:02 PM
5

They also keep twisting their gelled mustaches while they wiggle their brows suggestively, I’ve encountered too many of such south Asian men who do this. Now every time one is about to try those moves, I turn away before he can give me the brow wiggle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:55 PM
2

Lmao wtf did I just read 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:50 PM
6

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:46 PM
37

Lmao this definitely would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:44 PM
1

Oh damn, I have no twitter or Instagram or FB. I guess I’ll keep posting here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:43 PM
2

OmG sister, this is what I’ve been going through. I even ended up leaving Islam a while back because all of these people kept telling me I was following a watered down version or that I was a “liberal Muslim” or a deviant. I fell into depression. but thankfully I am back because in my heart I know that these people are the ones in the wrong and they bullied me. May I know who is the Quran researcher you follow? I’ve stopped following a lot of so called scholars approved by the patriarchy. I’m ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:34 PM
2

Exactly! Sad part is my moms family thinks he was right to defend his “honor” 🙄. All of these people are idiots. And when I did tell them Islam doesn’t allow this, they say I have no right to speak about Islam since I’m not a scholar. And if bring up a scholar, they call the scholar a deviant. You can’t win with these people. They twist the faith for their own needs. And I don’t praise the western justice system, they let him off the hook many times. Although it’s better and safer to live here b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:28 PM
3

Why do these men want to message women or go to online dating sites when these men don’t want to get married? What’s up with this logic? Then they bread crumb and string a woman along for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:21 PM
50

I’ve read cases of men killing women who simply reject them. A woman’s life is in constant danger around every man because men can easily dominate a woman by physical strength unless she’s trained in martial arts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:25 PM
8

Lmao fr as if we are meant to be impressed by a man finally learning to grow up mentally instead of being and adult child who needs a mommy/therapist as a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:15 PM
2

You are spot on and I absolutely agree with everything you’ve written! Unfortunately my family is filled with pick me’s. They are brainwashed by the patriarchy that twists Islam to to suit male needs. We have a long way to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:14 PM
3

They have been divorced and separated because we live in the west. Had we remained in the country of my origin, my dad threatened to honor kill her. Also he violated restraining order many times but the justice system in the west let him off the hook since he’s diabetic. They felt bad for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:10 PM
1

Lmao chihuahuas complex 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:12 PM
16

He’s probably been binge watching mgtow channels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:41 PM
6

I run when they mention those lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:38 PM
3

Lmao nazi German happened in the 1930’s. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:35 PM
4

What would be better is him transferring a $100 or more dollars over with every good morning text, preferably on cash app. These bills won’t be paying themselves, honey 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:33 PM
4

My relatives would say I would expire after 25 and no good man would want me. I’m still single after that age and now they lament that I will be childess and die with cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:31 PM
3

Damn, what happened to her was exactly what happened to my mom and we are from a very patriarchal Muslim country where men are held above women. My evil dad would deliberately mix strange medications and liquids into her food so she could miscarry. I was a kid and I had no idea why my moms life was in constant danger, she would fall unconscious or start bleeding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:29 PM
3

Likewise for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:25 PM
32

I had a guy who was supposedly interested in me say this, “it’s too hard to please you, I can’t be texting all the time.” And I’m like I’ve never even asked you to lmao 🤣 The egg don’t chase the sperm 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:43 PM
6

Reminds me of how my mom would gush over her second live in ex-husband who’d just give her phone a single ring whenever he thought of her. 🤣Yet she paid for all his sh** and allowed him to live practically rent free with us. She would think he was a good man since my dad never even called her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:40 PM
1

Men are definitely the real gold diggers. She needs to dump him already. Did you try to link her FDS? This place is a savior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:30 PM
1

For real 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:28 PM
2

If you don’t me asking, which Asian country are you from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:28 PM
18

Lmao Pickme Pattie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:15 PM
34

He wants wife duties before he even invested or paid her bills or bought her a home 🙄. The former pickmeisha in me would have been groveling since I find Swedish men super attractive😒. The new me finds such behavior renders the guy nonexistent as I block .💅🏻 All thanks to my FDS sisters advices 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:13 PM
11

You did the right thing to toss him aside. I had a female friend who did this, invited me over and had me pay for all food through out the day to whatever restaurant she selected. I was shocked at the lack of hospitality since I even brought along gifts for her. Now that I’ve learned my lesson, I will never tolerate such behavior from ANYONE. If I invite someone over, and chose the restaurant, I’d be the one paying. It’s highly disrespectful for anyone not to especially when it’s related fo roma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:09 PM
2

💯Periodt 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:05 PM
10

So true 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:15 PM
1

LMAO I love it 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:09 PM
1

Thank you sis 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:05 PM
1

Thank you sis 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:04 PM
1

Thank you sis 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:04 PM
3

Beautiful advice from a beautiful sis 💕 May we know which fragrance free cleansing oil you use ? The moisturizer you use ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:11 AM
19

Lol your grandma is right 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:00 AM
2

Lmao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:59 AM
9

Truth 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:52 AM
36

The media continues to subliminally groom women into lowering their standards. It’s sick 😷 I switch off any such movie. I’m just really done with this nonsense. It pains me so much to see women suffer. I sometimes cry myself to sleep when I think over what’s going on in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:51 AM
17

This, I wish I could hug you for posting these words! 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:45 AM
25

Yes I am 💯% for this. I also believe women should marry at 25 since people’s brains aren’t fully developed until 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:41 AM
2

True ! yet these are the same lvm complaining about “single moms being on welfare for not choosing a proper man in the first place.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:33 AM
2

You’ve hit the nail on the head, sis 👏🏻 If she had rejected him instead, I would have loved the novel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:30 AM
2

Ohh I didn’t know that 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:29 AM
2

Low value Men like that are a penny a dozen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:28 AM
1

Yes I didn’t know they are suffering from pick-me syndrome since I was basing my observations of Russians in the west.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:26 AM
1

Oh wow I didn’t know this. I was basing my observations from living in a Russian neighborhood in the west. Thank you for enlightening me with a different perspective. 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:25 AM
1

Lol an lvm said this to me as well. I just blocked him afterwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:52 PM
3

Men tend to sexualize everything ughhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:51 PM
4

Damn I also never thought about it this way! Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:50 PM
9

I’m sorry you had to put up with that. He reminds me of someone I was interested for so long when I was a pickme. A red flag 🚩 of not being his dream girl is when he likes on social media certain types of women or the pics of women he shares, or compliments and stares at in public.That will show you what his type is so you don’t waste your time on him. All men have a certain “type”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:48 PM
1

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:41 PM
4

In reality however, men don’t change lol. There are countless threads on here about an lvm owning up to his shortcomings when he wants to return but he’s never changed. It’s why I don’t believe in giving a guy a second chance to begin with. It’s the only issue I have with Pride And Prejudice, it gives women a false belief that somehow they can change a snobby jerk face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:39 PM
3

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:37 PM
17

It’s always the secret pedophiles who complain about such protective measures for children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:34 PM
19

Exactly! Which is why people are uncomfortable about Leonardo DiCaprio hanging around under age girls. His current gf was 10 or 11 when he would visit her parents and hang around her. It’s disgusting child grooming. Just wait when all these women come out against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:32 PM
1

I loved it! Sucks tiktok getting banned 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:28 PM
2

Russian women have very high standards which these lvm can never measure upto. They think those model like girls will put up with low value behavior, they are in for a surprise. Russian women care a lot about their appearances hence why most of them are always fashionably dressed even when they are out to check their mail boxes (I’ve lived in a majority Russian neighborhood). Not only that, Russian men WANT to pay for their women to look fashionably feminine unlike western men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:25 PM
6

Lmao same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:22 PM
5

So true 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:22 PM
8

I’m also from a Muslim eastern background and I’ve seen how 99% of the men are. Which is why I’m more open to dating out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:21 PM
8

Girl that’s it, stay single until you meet that Prince Charming that’s wiling to go above and beyond for you. Atleast Janet Jackson got the bags 💰 out of her short marriage with Arabian nobility. She came out the winner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:18 PM
6

Lmao this seems like my bro’s requirements except he’s Afghani background. He also expects the 50/50 on bills and rent from his future wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:15 PM
5

They never change. They just try to test the waters with you one more time to see how much they can get away with the second time around or how much respect you hold for yourself to allow them back in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:13 PM
14

Having a wife is privilege for men and a status symbol in society for them < This 💯💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:04 PM
2

Sadly, You’d be surprise at the amount of pickme’s out there who will take just about any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:01 PM
8

Congrats 🎉 💞Your leveling up experience is an inspiration for those of us who are on our own level up journeys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:00 PM
10

LMAO I love this 💞💞💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:51 PM
19

LOL “expensive words” that’s how you know he can’t afford you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:50 PM
6

Lmao I’ve had men tell me this, “why do u use big words?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:48 PM
7

Exactly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:47 PM
13

So true ! And dirty men seem to mock clean men about how “metrosexual” they are for keeping themselves and their homes clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:47 PM
74

This happened to me when I stopped pursuing a guy who was hot and cold. He returned begging for a chance. I’m like bye 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:47 PM
24

My evil dad and creepy stepdad won’t leave my mom alone even after all these years of her saying a solid NO. She had to file restraining orders against both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:37 PM
54

Don’t forget when they call us “gold diggers” for not wanting to end up being “a single mom on welfare line”. Yet at the same time these are the men who complain about “single moms being on welfare for not choosing a proper man in the first place.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:36 PM
9

Lmao I love the woman response 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:54 AM
2

This describes the actor Leonardo DiCaprio. Except he hasn’t had a child yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:49 AM
7

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:41 AM
2

Same 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:38 AM
9

And it’s posted on some mgtow forum 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:29 AM
52

They always bring up bloated Leonardo DiCaprio as an example of men aging like wine lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:23 AM
29

And women are pressured and expected to lower their standards by dating a guy that looks less attractive than her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:20 AM
133

They also say that when a woman turns them down, they call her “ugly”and that he was merely “pitying” her to give her a “chance”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:17 PM
1

lol we did do this once and my bro behaved like a spoiled princess, threw a tantrum over it. I can’t wait till I get my own home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:07 PM
12

There is an Islamic saying, you will know a man’s character by the people he chooses to affiliate himself with. My dad was a violent man, we recently found out his closest friend raped his own daughter and went to jail for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:05 PM
51

Absolutely horrid 😡Now imagine how many Iraqi and afghani women these lvm must have raped and tortured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:43 PM
1

Thank you for the heads up ! I love this subreddit because it keeps me from straying. 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:39 PM
7

Spot on, sis !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:55 AM
6

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:52 AM
2

Beautifully stated sis. You know what’s worse? All these so called “dawah” guys lecturing about how a wife should be but yet they won’t speak of Hadiths about the prophet (s) doing the housework and doing his own laundry and sewing his own clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:33 AM
9

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:30 AM
3

What’s scary is when a woman simply declines without giving that excuse and the lvm turns out to murder her. There are cases of this happening and it really frightens me. Which is why I will wear a wedding ring at certain places I go. Or give the bf excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:28 AM
12

I’m so glad I came across that subreddit, showed my future to me if I had married the lvm’s I thought we’re good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:26 AM
7

Absolutely agree with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:04 AM
25

Scares me from marrying lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:01 AM
5

This is my new motto now 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:53 AM
12

Periodt 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:52 AM
2

This is why I don’t talk to any of relatives anymore because they start saying I’m a “bad Muslim” for not completing half of my deen which is marriage. 🙄 As you said, they expect me to marry some random Muslim guy regardless of what his behavior is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:44 AM
3

Exactly! Halle Barry and Beyoncé got cheated on when these women are gorgeous and successful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:25 PM
2

It seems to me like you’re from a Muslim country, I’ve also experienced my relatives forcing me to lower my standards for an lvm guy just because they considered I’d “expire” after age 25. They would tell me “leave it to Allah.” Or they would pressure me to be a third wife for some other lvm 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:12 PM
3

Thanks for posting this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:06 PM
1

Then there are some lvm’s who think it’s okay to hit on nurses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:02 PM
7

It’s now on my list of what makes a lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:01 PM
3

Lmao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:00 PM
1

Gross, my bro’s do this. They don’t pick up their trimming so my mom and I have to constantly clean up after them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:00 PM
2

I agree with this 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:30 AM
7

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:24 AM
5

I’m stealing that question lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:19 AM
26

This 💯 Looks definitely matter when choosing a man. I lowered my standards in the past and regretted every bit because the guys were resentful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:18 AM
12

I thought he would have mean stalkerish when he said psycho. Reminds me of someone I knew once and they couldn’t keep a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:14 AM
2

Haha yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:11 AM
2

The first half, I was about to say no sis ! Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:09 AM
8

Wow this is the question I should have been asking all these years, sis 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:07 AM
4

I’m glad you got out quick ! I learned a lot from your post, thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:06 AM
11

I used to think fixing a broken man or being a free therapist and a shoulder to cry on will make him appreciate me more, instead it makes them disrespectful and abusive. It’s not our job to fix men. They walk all over any woman that does this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:00 AM
131

One of the major differences between a man and a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:51 PM
3

That movie hit hard, I need to rewatch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:52 AM
2

This! Men always try to make it about themselves 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:25 PM
138

I was lacking self love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 06:51 AM
28

For a guy, a gf is a temporary test wife so she could build him and then he can leave her to afford and marry the girl he always wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 03:35 PM
15

This 💯👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:18 AM
18

Where I come from it’s still like this, a woman can’t divorce without proving her case but a man can easily divorce her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:18 PM
29

Some guys pretend to be courteous in public, so I have tough time trusting them unless I know he’s just as courteous at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:10 PM
3

I was almost this pickme, nearly left everything to pursue a guy 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:41 AM
3

lol wth is up with these men 😳, why is he even telling you about who he got pregnant, either this lvm expects a pity party or he’s trying to make you jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:19 PM
6

My bar use to be as low, I’d think a guy who doesn’t drink or do drugs was good enough for me .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:07 PM
9

This 💯🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:06 PM
10

Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:05 PM
8

I’ll use this when I date lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:05 PM
8

Exactly ! Even the nonviolent ones get offended and offer snide remarks. I can’t with these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:02 PM
13

So true! This is a reason why I tread carefully around guys I’m not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:00 PM
2

Wow your response is amazing 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:01 PM
3

This 💯‼️ meanwhile they can dip their sticks wherever and however and do whatever they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:42 PM
21

Lmao whenever I realize a guy isn’t sh*t, he seems to pick up the vibe where ever he might be at the time 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:37 PM
1

This 💯 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:05 AM
2

💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:04 AM
3

The wedding embellishments would be part of its attire 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:33 PM
24

This is why I’m afraid to ever have sex 😳 I’ve also heard a large amount of men don’t wash their hands when they use the restroom 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:01 PM
19

Yes lol but I like to imagine having a wedding where I walk up the alter and marry my own wealth. Maybe it’s silly but I like to imagine lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:58 PM
17

The prostitute would charge him which is why men like him try to get it for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:57 PM
18

I think that means his girl might be a former guy that now identifies a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:01 PM
11

This ughh I keep attracting such men 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:00 PM
9

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:56 PM
23

Wow he’s a rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:56 PM
23

This is why I’m marrying my own wealth. Can’t take men seriously. I’ve seen this happen to women irl. I’ve heard these stories. Not worth it tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:55 PM
41

A guy admitted this to me after I refused being intimate. Ironically he told me I wasted his time 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:53 PM
2

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:54 AM
9

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:49 AM
18

What a great man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 03:49 AM
2

Bedroom eyes equals to eyes on the bed for these men I think lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:31 PM
1

Lol kinkmeisha is a new term I learned today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:01 PM
4

Very delusional 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:33 PM
4

I agree with this so much ‼️💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:32 PM
5

This ! It’s disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:29 PM
6

Lol wth is “vaginal depth” ? 😳😳😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:03 PM
21

And when you refuse, that nice guy facade falls apart fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:13 PM
5

The guy must have pressured her to leave that school for him. It’s always an lvm trait when they try to persuade the girl away from her goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:31 AM
64

Yes instead they have the audacity to call women “washed up hoes”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:28 AM
63

I’m using this response as a reply to any guy that suggests I lower my standards for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 03:27 AM
3

This 💯‼️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:32 PM
19

I love this quote ! I’m borrowing it 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:07 AM
3

White Christian guys that earn high and look good over 6ft tend to believe they are also a prize. I made the mistake of waiting on one such type.This white guy lead me on for so long(made promises, showed interest) to only end up telling me he couldn’t marry someone who wasn’t a white girl and that he was not the real him when he had made the promises to me. 😳 So when you mentioned being rejected for your faith, it felt so closely related to my experience of being rejected based on faith and rac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:29 PM
3

I noticed good looking pretty boy educated type of men from middle eastern background are also like this. They believe they are the prize lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:17 PM
1

Grosss that guy is a total creep, I feel bad for what his wife must go through putting up with someone with such a mindset. You shouldn’t have replied. I too was once a nice girl to such guys saying stupid things like this. Now I block lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:09 PM
2

This 💯‼️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:58 PM
8

So true. Most men tend to look at women they can not afford.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:57 PM
6

This 💯‼️👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:09 AM
6

This 💯👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:22 AM
2

So true 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:55 AM
56

If he buys you a mansion, get him a thank you card from the one dollar store and a Hershey’s kiss taped to it. Edit: I just remembered one of SheRaSeven1’s videos on a birthday gift for your provider man. She said visit the dollar shop, pick up a plastic disposable small bowl, fill it with mardi gra beads and some candies and tell him you got him a surprise gift basket 🤣🤣🤣 Sprinkle sprinkle, baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 06:31 PM
5

Loved it 💕 thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:34 PM
3

You were at the right place at the right time ! Glad you escorted them safely to their mom. Yes some parents are very gullible and let their kids out of their sights. I’d be paranoid parent, I’ve seen too many news articles of a parent looking away for a minute, and the kids gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:07 PM
5

It’s not easy out there for women, I’m glad you got away safely !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:05 PM
12

Definitely 💯 she plays no games when it comes to leveling up & men. I wish I had her wisdom at the age she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:48 PM
15

Sprinkle sprinkle 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:39 PM
26

This is so scary! I was nearly followed home three months ago by someone who looked decent on first glance and were dressed decently. It was on the subway train and my instinct warned me something was off about the guy that I perceived to look decent outwardly. He kept nearly arising out of his seat when the train would stop at any station, he would peer at me from the corner of his eyes as he did this, likely to see if I was going to disembark at the current stop. When he would see I made no mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:04 PM
99

I’d rather be a gold digger by keeping my standards high 💅🏻 instead of being a dust digger for some dusty 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:47 PM
26

Incidents like this make me scared to get married 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:48 PM
3

OmG grossss 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:05 PM
4

That sub Makes me so grateful I haven’t settled for less than what I desire 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:04 PM
9

So true 💯 Always love yourself first be comfortable being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:03 PM
15

I’ve felt this way when an 80 something grandpa kept approaching me 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:50 PM
36

Yes that age gap is a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:49 PM
30

I bet she goes 50/50 as well and cooks and cleans 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 02:48 PM
2

Lol so true 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:52 AM
18

Exactly ! They would never stay if their wife got pregnant by another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:51 AM
4

An lvm recently provided such an excuse and I ended up ignoring him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:50 AM
6

And mgtow still claim he’s done wrong for not continuing to sleep around with younger women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:35 PM
5

This is why one of my brothers is autistic because my dusty crusty lvm dad was 50 when he married my 19 year old mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:28 PM
5

Tell this to the next man that claims “women hit the wall after 25”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:25 PM
68

That’s suspicious, he’s likely having a lot of girls over and sleeping around. I don’t trust men like this. Danger of STD’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:23 PM
3

Wow what a beautiful authentic Queen she is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:21 PM
2

Wth did I just read 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:18 PM
2

Lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:15 PM
8

True, it’s not honorable at all 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:13 PM
28

This is why I’m starting to believe in remaining single. My top priority is to become rich for myself and I’ll likely adopt daughters later on in life. I don’t want to put up with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:12 PM
5

Gross, that’s too old. It’s even worse when they are 80 something and think they can get with me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:05 PM
5

I’ve never had anyone’s d**k so I wouldn’t even know lol. That billboard should be “Love yourself & secure the bag 💰”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:03 PM
3

This like fifty shades of grey nonsense, where a woman is expected to change a toxic man 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:00 PM
2

This is awful 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:59 PM
10

This occurred with me, I’ve been strung along and expected to be loyal until they made up their mind for whether they wanted to marry me or not. I will never waste my time on a guy who can’t decide or ones with commitment issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:59 PM
1

I wish my bro was like this lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:45 PM
10

Same ! Still a virgin and will remain one till the right man provides for and marries me. Won’t lower my standards for anything less than what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:42 PM
3

Facts 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:38 PM
47

I was thinking the same, boys like this can end up raping their younger siblings 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:35 PM
9

I wanted to prove to him I was a loyal type of a girl, yet I realized I was being loyal to a dusty who didn’t even provide me anything in return and just strung me along for his own ego boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:23 PM
3

This is such a beautiful inspirational post. I feel Queenly just reading it 👸🏻 Thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:57 PM
7

Damn, she should have dumped his behind for a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:54 PM
5

They know how gross this deed is 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:45 PM
1

He’s likely cheating on her too and spending a lot of money on the other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:45 PM
35

Most of them still tend to be lvm’s trying to play some tricks to get you to lower your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:39 PM
3

This is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:37 PM
7

Thanks for sharing this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:31 PM
2

Thanks for the tips !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:29 PM
3

Did your ex attempt to contact you again after your energy changed ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:14 PM
4

I need to drill this in my mind everyday until it’s all I live and breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:13 PM
7

This scares me from getting into a relationship with any man 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:12 PM
9

lol I would have laughed and walked away shaking my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:03 PM
11

LOL this is hilarious ! They expect pickmeisha to build that table up for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 09:59 PM
3

That’s definitely a high value man ! High respect for him! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:31 PM
17

He even looks broke. Only broke men ask such a question or ones with broke mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:30 PM
8

I see fat balding old men labeling women decades younger than them as “cat ladies” or “she’s hit the wall.” It’s truly mind boggling to see this 😐 If only there were no more Pickmeisha’s and every woman knew her worth, these men would actually be FORCED to go their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 02:31 PM
10

Great advice !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:42 PM
44

Same for his family members! If they don’t like you, it’s a high chance he’s been talking nonsense about you behind your back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 10:29 PM
13

My grandma had to put up with my grandfather talking nonsense about her where ever he went. He was always putting her down. She had no choice but to stay with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:31 PM
9

What a great response from that guy ! It’s rare to see men positively acknowledging the women realize their worth more now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:29 PM
22

What’s wrong with these men smh 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:46 AM
8

True! I’ve had an 80 something year old grandpa think he had a chance with me 🤢 Men DO NOT care about immense age gaps at all. I’m young enough to be his granddaughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:36 PM
1

“I told her, what kind of bad expectations do you have from your relationships and how are you able to put yourself in such a situation where when actually a guy is simply respect you feel like he's TOO NICE. It didn't enter in my brain. Disgusting and sad. And so many women suffer from this humiliation.” This alone lets us know how scummy majority of men are towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:34 PM
3

This! We are brainwashed into believing a man’s interest is something valuable. I’ve attracted more male attention when I didn’t value their interest at all. I will continue to value myself as I’ve noticed it brings me more comfort and ease. Valuing a males interest will cause stress and age you quick, lose sight of your achieving your own goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:31 PM
7

I can not count the number of times I’ve been pressured by others to settle for a guy who’s “nice and likes you”. A month ago a 19 year old guy became actively interested in me. My female pickmeisha co-workers were gushing over how “good looking” he is and that I should consider myself lucky he wants to be with me. This guy is broke and can barely pay for his food. But just because he looks good and is younger than me, I should lower the bar and give him pity sex according to pickmeisha’s. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:27 PM
8

Unfortunate Pickmeisha’s afraid of being single will settle for such abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:22 PM
9

OmG that’s very eye opening indeed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:21 PM
2

This 💯. I’m never settling for less than what I deserve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:12 PM
4

Same, I’m guilty of this myself. The way I’ve seen my mom mistreated by my dad influenced me to retain that low status bar I had for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:12 PM
2

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:38 AM
6

The sad idea from society that “women lose their worth over 25” is what gets women panicking to settle for any mediocre relationship. Then they end up divorced in their 30’s with so much stress and burden on their shoulders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:34 AM
8

Same for me! They become confused as to why I’m not in a relationship and they encourage me to find a man to grow old with. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 11:31 AM
8

This 💯 I don’t fall for that nonsense anymore! I used to think it was a compliment when a guy would say “oh ur not like other girls”. It’s an insult!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:49 AM
34

And then these men have the audacity to say “she hit the wall” or “she’s let herself go”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:47 PM
14

Eww that guy Dan is so gross, and he has lots of Pickmeishas trying to be his one and only. So many men want to be like him, it’s appalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:31 PM
68

Better to be alone and stress free than to age quicker in a miserable relationship 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:24 PM
1

Some guy sent me a creepy pm, asking me how would I know I was marrying a sexually compatible man if I don’t have physical relations with him before marrying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:03 PM
51

I’ve rushed past men who were encouraging me to lower my face mask 😷so they can see “how pretty I am under that thing”. 🙄 Reading all of these posts makes me realize men are the main reason why sexually transmitted diseases won’t die off, still remaining an issue. They do not care about the safety of anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:13 PM
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A lot of these men are evil as they try to stress out the woman in the relationship with such statements so that she could end up losing her glow and youth quick to bring them down to their own level. My moms crusty old ex husband was like this. It’s nerve wracking to sift through the lvm’s out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:02 PM
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They also forget the fact that those older male celebrities they look upto a lot are actually financially funding the lifestyles of the younger women they date or marry, which mgtow men can not ever do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:56 PM
2

Mgtow doesn’t believe in going their own way since most of their beliefs are about how to use women and discard women before she can get any financial support out of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:54 PM
3

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:12 AM
4

This is 💯 percent true sis! They always approach me when I’m not interested in being approached which is a lot these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:11 AM
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Mgtow and redpill tells these 35+ men that they can still get access to loads of younger women because apparently “men never hit the wall” 🙄 Such men also forget the fact that the older male celebrities they look upto a lot are actually financially funding the lifestyles of the younger women they date or marry, which mgtow men refuse to do for any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:30 AM
1

This !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 07:29 PM
1

You forget one important thing about Leonardo DiCaprio which a lot of these redpillers and mgtows tend to conveniently skip over, he financially supports the girls he dates while he is dating them. He lavishes them with gifts etc, he does all the things mgtow and redpill men refuse to do for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:59 PM
2

This is so on point. People marry their own age group the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:15 PM
1

Yes he’s sexy to millions of people (including me) but Miley left him anyway. It’s makes me wonder deeply about physical appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:11 PM
1

I don’t regret it at all. There were red flags and I’ve heard other women who ended up with those guys are now suffering or divorced, abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:05 PM
3

Amazingly worded 👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:59 PM
2

We will never hear about a woman going on a shooting spree because men rejected her. Or women tossing acid on men who’ve rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:56 PM
1

A lot of these redpill men want to go back to that time when women had to put up with their husbands cheating on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 05:39 PM
9

So true.. I get people telling me I need to lower my standards. It’s even worse when family members say it “oh you’ll never get married with those standards.” And I’m like “so? I’d rather be single than lower my standards!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:15 PM
4

lol I end up feeling that way no matter how attractive and charming the guy is, I feel above him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:12 PM
8

Aww Don’t feel sad over this, be glad he was upfront about what he wanted instead of placing you as his backup plan! Remember you’re the prize, you don’t need a man to validate you. Place yourself on a pedestal, sis. A man should only add comfort to your life, not stress you out or play mind games. Block him and never take him back. You got this ! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:09 AM
13

He seems like a stalker rapist type 😐 Just block him on FB now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:06 AM
10

Keep repeating in your mind, that you’re the prize. Daily affirm to yourself “I am the prize” “I am above these men.” “I am the most beautiful”. It works wonders !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:04 AM
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I’m the same way, sis. This is the difference between men and women! Men will date just about any pickmeisha until they dump her for the girl of their dreams if she shows up and he has enough to support her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 10:02 PM
1

On point sis 👏🏻 A woman is always the prize 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:51 AM
5

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:44 AM
14

Men like this are delusional. A man above 35 is likely to have autistic offspring regardless of him having it with a younger woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:42 AM
13

Ikr, clean up after him while he goes out to screw other women 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:32 AM
14

Same, I wasn’t even born yet and she’s been cooking for this loser everyday for 32 years 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:27 AM
17

I bet she’s paying for net & WiFi services so he gets to watch porn 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:25 AM
9

I wonder the same thing these days 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:20 AM
6

So true 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:19 AM
28

Her rewards is to start aging faster because of all that stress from the lvm so the lvm can later complain to his buddies that his wife has “hit the wall”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:18 AM
7

Why do men like bj’s so much ? I find that disgusting 🤢 Why do they want a woman’s mouth on their private area 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:16 AM
7

This. Wife duties should be for marriage only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:43 AM
5

Exactly ! Even the rich ones hate the way they’re mistreated under sharia law! I’ve seen videos on that as well. It’s incredible to then see the amount of Muslim girls living in the west who support sharia law over the freedoms they have here as from that pickmeishas comments. I’m so happy I live in the west now and i can choose the way I want to live my life without any Muslim male breathing down my back about how I’m disobeying Islamic teachings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:31 PM
7

Well worded sis 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:57 PM
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You’ll end up being labeled “islamophobic” for revealing the truth by a pickmeisha that lurks here 😐 That girl has two accounts here and she was trying to have me remove my post about Islam having some very misogynistic verses in the scripture like taking NonMuslim women as sex slaves in the Quran and husbands allowed to beat their wives over disloyalty. I’m from a Muslim background and I’ve grown up hearing men and even women justify men’s dominance over women because the Quran explicitly decla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:55 PM
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He will only hit her again after this. She needs to divorce him ASAP otherwise this vicious cycle will continue and he will become more violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:02 PM
4

Welcome 💕🌸💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:43 AM
4

Same, i can’t even browse through r/conspiracy without feeling disgusted by the amount of mgtows and racists flooding that subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:40 AM
1

This, they know exactly what they want and yet they brainwash women about “loyalty”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 06:37 AM
2

Haha the candy metaphor is so commonly used by some people I know when they try to get me to wear hijab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:56 AM
8

Beautifully stated, sis. 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:01 AM
12

Exactly ! And yet they have the audacity to say we “hit the wall” while they’re looking like a balding old chicken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:51 AM
5

Lmao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:48 AM
39

True! He’s self projecting because he has likely raped women during their sleep or inebriated conditions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:46 AM
12

Worse things like being harassed by lvm’s at work places and shopping centers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:44 AM
4

He should blame himself for “wife letting herself go” because he likely stressed her out a lot!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:43 AM
5

Awww, he’s a sweet man 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:41 AM
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So true !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:41 AM
0

You must be suffering from memory loss. You responded to me first. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:41 PM
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Stop replying to me then and mind your own business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:38 PM
2

You’re providing me example of Azeri culture NOT ISLAM. The religion mandates men are allowed to govern and rule over women, they’re allowed to beat their wives. Please refute the Quran Ayah for beating wives and the Quran Ayah for keeping NonMuslim sex slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:37 PM
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Do you see the example of a Muslim girl u/applestrudlee here defending the misogyny of Islam? Look at what she’s posting to me for opening up about the violence against women mandated in many parts of the Islamic scripture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:33 PM
2

You couldn’t refute any of what I posted about Islam being a misogynistic religion while I’ve provided evidence from its literature. Yet you the have the audacity to call me a “toxic ex Muslim”. I’m Muslim too but i don’t believe Islam is perfect and I will never defend misogyny against women. I’ll contact the moderators about you, you’re obviously a pickmeisha. This place is meant as a safe place for women and you’re here bullying me and trying to keep me quiet about the misogyny that’s rampant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:30 PM
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This guy is pressuring her in an indirect way by mocking safety concerns. A major red flag ! I’ve come across such men, I shut down on them immediately and block. They are likely serial killer types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:50 PM
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Yes! I never commit to a guy unless he’s willing to marry and I get the lavish wedding of my dreams. Otherwise I am single and will keep searching. Ladies don’t offer intimacy & wife duties to those who haven’t married you. It will definitely save a lot of heart ache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:45 PM
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It’s a culture and it’s a religion. All muslims don’t follow mainstream Islam word for word but it’s definitely a misogynistic religion and permeates into culture where ever Muslims are. Majority of the Muslim world supports death for apostasy laws from Sahih Bukhari. Not only that, the Quran is fine with taking NonMuslim women as sex slaves, “those whom your right hands possesses.” The Quran also encourages the husband to beat his wife for showing disloyalty and yet there is no prescription for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:24 PM
6

The ending was realistic sadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:31 AM
1

This is why I’d expect my daughters (whether I have them by an hvm or adoption) to be there by my side when I’m about pass away from this life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:14 PM
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My mom’s second ex husband(lvm) had his own mother killed overseas because his mother was preventing him from marrying a 20 year old girl he was secretly drugging up. This occurred in Pakistan and my mom just recently found out. Thank God she divorced that lowlife years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:12 PM
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This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:08 PM
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I wish my mom knew what your mom knows and also I wished I was given this lecture at 17 when I became smitten with a manipulative 30 yr old lvm. Women should never date an older man unless he’s willing to spend millions on her. Never hand over your youth to men who are old enough to be your fathers or grandfathers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:06 PM
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This ! Queens always have everything planned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:45 PM
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My moms ex husband (lvm) keeps calling and texting her with various different phone numbers. This post reminded me of that. Before he would call two times a day, now it’s numerous times a day. I told her it’s likely because of the Coronavirus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:21 PM
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At work I’ve been polite and nice to everyone but this disgusting old creep thinks I’m interested in him. I’ve told him it’s inappropriate for him to try to give me a hug & kiss after he said he was leaving the company for good. He retreated and looked nervous because we have surveillance cameras in the company. But I knew he wasn’t going to back off this easily. And my gut instinct proved me right! He shows up the next weekend, (his story of moving away was a lie just so could have an excuse to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:15 PM
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In other words, he’s actually targeting pickmeisha with this message to give him sex for free and he will consider her a human unlike the prostitute or stripper who empties out his wallet until he saves up to visit the strip club again. Then pickmeisha will be left on the back burner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:04 PM
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On point, sis 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:55 PM
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You’re husband is a good man! He put her in her place ! I don’t understand the mentality of those home wrecking women. I could never steal a married or taken man away from his partner. If I found out he’s lying about being involved with another woman, i will leave and block him out of my life for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:51 PM
6

Reminds me of one of my pickmeisha friends. Actually reminds me of myself when I was a pickme during highschool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:46 PM
12

This 💯👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:41 PM
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I’ll be doing that when I’m on my way home from work. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:40 PM
14

lol this !!! I’ve seen my mom save so much money by switching to single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:38 PM
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Let’s face it, majority of men are not worth dating. I won’t love a man even if he appears high value because your post is a reminder of men being incapable of loving a woman. My broke old dusty father would resent my mother even more when she was bedridden with a cold. He wouldn’t even stop to ask how she was feeling, instead he would watch porn in another room and we would over hear it sometimes 🤢 When he was sick, she would take care of his wrinkly old self. That ungrateful old snot didn’t co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:34 PM
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Thank you 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:15 PM
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I’m so sorry you had to go through this. It reminded me of what I’ve been through so many times. They come back and I don’t want them. They say it’s easy for them to get other women, and yet they keep coming back 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:34 PM
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Lol what happened next ? When men shame other men, they tend to clean up and get their act together sooner if they have any ounce of shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:41 PM
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My mom married conventionally ugly old broke men twice when she herself looked like an angel. Sadly her mother had brainwashed her with nonsense like “ugly broke men will love you more and not cheat.” So she was extremely traumatized when her ugly ex husband mistreated and abused her. He would say things like “if I could get you easily, I could get even better.” But now that old dusty is rotting away somewhere in his fellow ugly friends basement. The other ugly broke man got deported by authorit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:36 PM
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Exactly, sis ! “Words of love” don’t pay the bills 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:17 PM
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I completely agree. This is how I feel which is why I will side with women over men more. And I’ve had such a hard time at many of my jobs because of stalkerish entitled men. I just don’t feel safe around most of them since most of them are lvm and creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:16 PM
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Most parents have certainly failed to drill this into their sons head for women though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:07 PM
11

Exactly! You want a woman to submit, pay her bills and take her out to expensive places. Invest in her for long term goals with pricey gifts and wealth. Otherwise you’re a joke of a man and a woman knowing her worth would never submit to a joke that calls himself “alpha” yet can’t provide 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:05 PM
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This! We all deserve to know who these monsters are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:01 PM
8

Classic lvm behavior! Which is why I no longer explain my standards to such types since I don’t want to see their contemptuous mockery of them. All I think is, he had the audacity to ask me to “Netflix & chill, drinks” so he needs to be blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:00 PM
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You’re a Queen to max, sis ! I commend you’re actions. 👏🏻 I bet he was one of those pretty boy types that believe he’s the “prize”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:56 AM
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I bet 100% he thinks he’s a “nice guy”. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:52 AM
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Lol this ! So true. 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:51 AM
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Exactly! Entertaining these types of guys is dangerous too, they can be violent. Usually men who aren’t generous with women or children tend to be violent ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:51 AM
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His words are dripping with mockery. I don’t even bother to explain my standards to men who initiate with “let’s have drink sometime”. I just ignore and block if they pester me with that nonsense. I’ve arrived to the point in my life where I will no longer waste my time explaining what’s common sense and dignity to these lvm. If a man asks me out to a drink, I consider him lvm automatically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:47 AM
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This is one of their ultimate go to lines. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:40 AM
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This is true of every guy I’ve come across 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:38 AM
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It’s really saddening to see the amount of Muslim women who conceal, lie, or defend this about Islam even when they grow up in the west seeing other women have more freedoms to do as they please after 18. Brainwashing takes quite a long time to rid off fully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:36 AM
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My mom failed to teach my bro this since the culture I come from (Muslim), boys are allowed to do whatever while girls are locked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:45 AM
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So true, in the country of my origin (Afghanistan) the men there control the entertainment industry and promote serials of it being okay for the male lead role to take a second wife because his first wife was no longer pretty enough for him 😑 And they bash minorities by giving them cleaning/maid roles and easily kill them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:50 PM
1

I didn’t know James McAvoy is short ? 😯 How short is he ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:47 PM
2

Fifty Shades Of Grey comes to mind 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:46 PM
3

Ewwwww are you serious ? 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:45 PM
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Ewww gross and now take into account the amount of men who expect women to give them blow jobs 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:43 PM
2

I will never date online! Not my cup of tea.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 10:13 PM
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This! One of my friends waited an entire year and the guy turned out to be an lvm who disrespected her for it. I advise women to wait till the man proves himself by spending loads of money on her and committing to her by a lavish huge wedding. Otherwise it’s not worth it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:01 PM
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This was so on point, sis 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 09:59 PM
1

So true! This is majority of men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 09:56 PM
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I knew someone from there and from what they told me, the dating culture is to go Dutch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 09:54 PM
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I’m so sorry you had to go through that! I reject men with children and men with financial issues because of those reasons.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 09:26 PM
1

You’ve worded my thoughts !
/r/askFDS14/03/20 09:17 PM
1

Well said 👏🏻
/r/askFDS14/03/20 09:08 PM
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HVM don’t even have the time to spend on a women’s forum. They are busy negotiating deals in the business world or pursuing high end goals in their careers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:36 PM
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Amazing dads !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:33 PM
3

That I agree on, women shouldn’t consent to be in porn. But that doesn’t stop the trafficked women from being used in porn or the ones groomed by traffickers and red light districts. Men are still largely to blame for pornography even existing.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 06:26 PM
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The Muslim world should change too and it will (women’s day was celebrated in many Muslim countries more than it was years ago). I absolutely despise Muslim patriarchy more. This is the Age of Aquarius arriving, “globalism” or treating others as humans will continue to grow whether you like it or not.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 05:53 PM
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Grossss, so many men lack basic hygiene from all of the posts I’m reading here 🤢 Makes me super scared to ever enter a guys home unless he’s super wealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:40 PM
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I’m so sorry you had to go through such a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:32 PM
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So true ! I’ve met some trashy men from such fields. I used to think educated men would know better or be more civil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:31 PM
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I stopped being friends with a guy when he kept asking me to take a sip of alcohol with him. He showed his true colors then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:22 PM
4

What’s his zodiac sign ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:15 AM
7

Amazing man 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:40 AM
2

Which book is that and the authors name ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:28 AM
1

This makes so much sense and don’t forget the new woman is the trophy (wife/gf) they can show off with their wealth to their friends and public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:26 AM
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They get jealous that you’re out of their league
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:16 AM
2

Ughh this makes me upset! This is what my mom has to put up with ! broke men are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:12 AM
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So true ! Men of means wouldn’t be spending time on a women’s forum !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:09 AM
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I hope you’ve broken up with him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:00 AM
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A guy at work was complaining about this girl he was seeing and he expected her to buy him something to eat on a date he asked her out on. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️ That girl didn’t buy him anything and only paid for her own food and quietly left after eating it slowly infront of him. He said she was enjoying herself while she ate and he had no food. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:58 AM
1

LOL so true !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:55 AM
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That’s why I say to men like this, “Love doesn’t pay the bills.” 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:55 AM
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Notice it’s usually broke men who complain about women rejecting them. A woman’s beauty, body and companionship is priceless. They expect women to sleep, cook, clean for them for free 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:52 AM
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She’s a real Queen 👑👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:40 AM
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Thanks for posting this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:52 PM
7

Exactly! Nothing wrong with people having preferences. If a guy rejected me, I wouldn’t get mad over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:00 PM
6

This. 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 02:36 PM
2

Is he paying for it too? Then it’s definitely relationship goals 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:13 PM
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So true ! Wished my mom taught my bro some housework. He expects only women to do the housework and also expects his gf to be financially independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 09:07 PM
6

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:23 AM
8

Wow he was creepy as hell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:24 AM
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This is why I can’t be with men who watch porn or follow instagram women. Those are his dream girls which he will leave you for once or if he acquires the money to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:17 AM
4

This is absolutely true for me. I’ve noticed even when I’m with my mother, men have honked, slowed down their cars and proceeded to talk to me. But when I’m out with my bro, they just leer from afar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:45 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:42 PM
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I had to unlearn some Muslim culture things like “A girl should be covered in hijab or burka, otherwise she’s the one to be blamed for being sexually harassed.” “Why was she dressed in revealing clothes? Clearly she was asking for it.” Or “Men are so passionate about women, they can’t control their desires for her which is why she must remain covered in a burka or hijab.” All of that including what you’ve posted, I’ve had to unlearn. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:40 AM
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THIS. And it works even with toxic family members. Just avoid them or remove them from your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:33 AM
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I’ve had Muslim guys corner me at school just because a nonMuslim guy spoke to me or carried my books for me when I used to wear a hijab. They accused me of sinning etc meanwhile I’d spot them in corridors kissing up girls. I’d think wth ! Some of these guys would plead for me to never speak to a nonMuslim guy and remain chaste for a Muslim guy. I was so glad once the semester changed and they got held back so I didn’t have to hear their intolerant rants anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:28 AM
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Definitely avoiding virtue signalers. I feel like they’re trying to earn points for something that should be common sense. Then they announce it to the world, of the supposed favors they have bestowed which end up seeming disingenuous. They do it for publicity and fame too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:20 AM
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OmG it’s all boys beating up that poor girl! Where is the outcry for this ?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:13 AM
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I’ve overheard low value black men talk disparagingly about black women as well. Look at that tommy sotomayor guy. He’s one example but I’ve heard some worse ones and it left me shocked. I know this because I’ve attended majority black schools in the past and these type of lvm seem to fetishize mixed girls or nonblack girls or place them above darker skinned black girls. They praise rappers or sports stars who choose nonblack girls over black ones. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:10 AM
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This is heartbreaking. It makes me wonder if they have any ounce of respect for their own mother. Men who disrespect women of their own background will never respect other women either. These types of black guys have zero appreciation for the sacrifices black women make for them. They try to brainwash black girls into being slaves to them by spouting nonsense like “you’re unwanted by others”. It’s all to keep black women from advancing in life. When they see a high value nonBlack guy with a blac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:01 AM
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Honestly sometimes I feel like I’m becoming asexual because of men 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:24 PM
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So true! Which is why I try to avoid most of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:22 PM
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I didn’t bookmark the link to that thread but I think it could be still up since I saw it three days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:53 PM
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OmG why is he not in in prison for this 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:41 PM
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He gave her a sexually transmitted disease and she killed herself for it. He’s a vile person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:23 PM
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Exactly! Which is why mgtow and redpill people are so upset! They can’t buy women easily with a McDonald’s coupon anymore as they once did decades ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:21 PM
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You’d be surprise at the audacity of these old men. An 80 something grandpa would hit on me when I’m in my 20’s. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:20 PM
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lol ! So true, mgtow & redpill will be praising this super ancient guy like they praise Leonardo DiCaprio’s bloated old face for dating “gold diggers”. These right wing men are contradictory, they claim to hate “gold diggers” and yet praise men with “gold diggers”. The true nature of men is, they hate “gold diggers” when they are unable to afford them and they expect women to lower their standards. Ladies, never lower your standards for any dusty. I’d rather be a gold digger than a dust digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:55 PM
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I’ve been told that by all the LVM I’ve had the displeasure of crossing paths with. That statement came off as very arrogant and selfish to me even during my Pickmeisha phase. I’d wonder why they couldn’t wish me well like I did them instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 06:12 AM
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I actually came across some useless doorknob parroting nonsense like that on Purple Pill subreddit. They stupidly think this sub is only filled with black women🙄 They can’t seem to comprehend that women of ANY & ALL backgrounds are facing hardships because of LVM from ANY & All backgrounds. I’m of middle eastern/central Asian descent and growing up, I’ve experienced one of the most misogynistic violent culture there is, the Muslim patriarchy. That only made me shut down towards Muslim men. But t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:42 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 05:02 AM
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Yet these same men(mgtow/incels) blame women for being single moms. This is exactly why we wish to avoid LVM, so we can reduce the single motherhood struggles that women end up facing because of LVM. Which is why this subreddit is so important for women all over the world. We could heal the future generations by vetting out the men we will create families with. Only when the divine feminine energy is held with a high sacred regard, will we see the world healed from its traumas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:57 AM
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What a profound poem! I’ll definitely keep this in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 04:43 AM
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His gf is a pickme and will alert him to what I’ve said. My mom and I did try to talk some sense into him but he became angry. I think I’ll just set an example of myself for his gf. I’ll talk about the standards I have set for men and maybe she’ll get the hint that she needs to leave him unless he changes his ways(which men rarely do)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:40 PM
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This happened to my mom! Never ever build a man up or stick around with his excuses of “having a potential.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:41 PM
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OmG same! I’m so grateful I have learned about this subreddit before I’ve been in a relationship with any guy. Now I’ll know what to look for and how to vet out unsuitable men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:39 PM
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She was building him up without knowing it 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:37 PM
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Exactly! So in other words, u/MyHusbandsGoddess is saying her brain fully developed before the age of 25. 🙄 Its likely a male lurking here, trying to justify grooming. He’s basically saying some girls at 13 are mature enough to handle being with grown men. That’s never the case. It’s child abuse. I hope the moderators look at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:57 PM
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One of my aunts was 14 and got married off to a 47 year old pedo. My grandmother didn’t even care and just sold her daughter off (common amongst Afghan Pashtuns, they sell their daughters off to the highest bidder for marriage. It’s worse in some families, they never get to see their daughters again, and lots of these girls end up in Saudi Arabia and UAE as sex slaves.) To this day, my aunt constantly relives the memories of the traumatic events that took place in her life. She will never forgiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:48 PM
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They don’t, these sick men tend to rape eachother in prison but not for punishing any pedo. They don’t think twice about sleeping with teenagers decades younger than them. It’s just how they are, thinking with their private part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:44 PM
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Pregnancy and menstrual cycles all take a huge toll on a woman’s health. On top of all of this, imagine having to go to work and then come home to cook and clean because that’s expected by an lvm while also paying 50/50 for everything. That’s a nightmare. Women should remain single without adding an lvm to their list of headaches they have to go through while on their menstrual cycles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:39 PM
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You have an amazing husband! Hopefully I find such a HVL soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:35 PM
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That sounds like my bro, he claims he will make his future wife work and go 50/50 even though she would be carrying his child for 9 months because “equality”. It’s absolutely disgraceful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:34 PM
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They do exist, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:25 PM
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This happens all the time in such situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:22 PM
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1.) I lean towards white men (like the Hemsworth brothers appearances). (No casual stuff) 2.) Not really. 3.) Wont answer. 4.) As a girl, I see myself at an advantage look wise but my race is quite diverse of appearances (afghan/Persian) 5.) I really don’t care (but I do feel it can be unhealthy in many ways as they don’t see the persons inner self as much as their physical appearance) 6.) nothing else to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:35 AM
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Absolutely disgusting response from him as if he’s the victim with an underdeveloped brain. He abused his authority, manipulated a gullible child. I remember when I was 16, I was such a kid, so trusting of adults. Incidents like this make my blood boil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:14 AM
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So true ! My grandmother would constantly pressure me to give into any LVM that she sought to marry me off to. She would excuse men’s behaviors by saying “it’s just a man thing, you have to accept him and love him with all your heart and he will be yours forever, you’ll have to win him over from other women..do it before you turn 25! otherwise no good man will want you after.” 🙄 The guy she pressured me into getting engaged to (I broke it off) was involved with another girl on the side. I though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 05:08 AM
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Same in my family, the men are LVM, and resentful towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:59 AM
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Most women in my moms (including my mom) family have been mistreated, emotionally or physically abused by men. Unfortunately some female relatives along with male ones wanted to trap me into a miserable form of existence as well by arranging for me to marry a LVM. I’ve noticed some women like my female relatives trapped in disastrous marriages, desire to see another girl suffer the same fate as them instead of warning. Thankfully I escaped such a destiny as I’ve always had a rebellious spirit wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:57 AM
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It is depressing and for a long time I’ve struggled to accept this about men’s nature. which is why i’d rather be cheated on by a rich man than a broke man. They’re all like this..only as loyal as their options. Atleast with the rich guy, I’ll have some form of financial security or I’ll have secured the bag 💰 But with a broke man, I’d be left with misery and dust. My youth would be wasted on having paid 50/50 while he leaves for greener pastures. So no dusties allowed into my life anymore! 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:43 AM
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Wth he’s comparing you with a child, an underage kid who’s brain isn’t even fully developed yet. Men are insane, some more than others and they conceal for years even until something like THIS happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:37 AM
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Spot on, sis 👏🏻 Men don’t love like women do which is why we need to start putting ourselves first. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:34 AM
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What’s the authors name ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:31 AM
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Brave women! Wish there was an Afghanistan, pakistan & Saudi Arabia branch. Those countries are way worse for women and I speak from experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:33 AM
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So true ! I come from such a background (Muslim) and I’ve only ever been attracted to NonMuslim men but my relatives once pressured me into an engagement with a lvm Muslim guy of their choice. Thankfully I broke it off before I got stuck there in a marriage. I just don’t gel with most Muslim men, they bring up the Quran or hadith verses of justifying to control me and that I should be a complete doormat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:28 PM
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This and the way you dress and how well groomed you are also makes people treat you with respect. I spend a lot of time taking care of my physical and emotional health. I purposefully visit rich areas of town so I can attract a high value man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:05 PM
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This 💯 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:02 PM
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I wish I had this advice a year ago ! I’ve spilled too much of my private life to random people online and even offline. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:01 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:57 PM
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