I hope she divorces him

daisy_0720 · 2020-10-27T08:07:03+00:00

One thing FDS taught me:

Men are never 'joking'. They always mean the inappropriate shit they say. They just express it in a 'joking' tone to get away with it. Their 'jokes' always reveal their true feelings.

Sage_Planter · 2020-10-27T04:04:03+00:00

I don't understand how we've normalized "the man cave," but women are expected to be happy with whatever small portion of the house she can get for her space to relax and unwind.

honeybeeroll · 2020-10-27T04:17:40+00:00

Why doesn't everyone on these relationship subs just title their post: Local Woman Admits in Broad Daylight Husband/BF Doesn't Respect Her at All, Stays with Him Anyways

FrequentPoetry · 2020-10-27T04:06:28+00:00

omg seeing posts like this make me so sad. she's literally married to him, this isnt a random dude she's been seeing for a couple weeks. they have history together and were going to a buy a house together. im sure that at this point shes used to him making jokes like that because i bet its not the first time. as much as i wish she would divorce him that is likely not happening, especially because things like this are perceived as small, as a joke. it's not. it's not a joke, it's a lack of respect. a huge lack of respect.

UGH.

also the term man cave is gross. and it's hilarious that its used for gaming. actual caves served for men who were freaking HUNTERS as far as i know bb.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-10-27T08:14:25+00:00

I thought 90 percent of the world was already a man cave.

We need to make women's space sacred again!!

ladylabrys · 2020-10-27T06:22:21+00:00

I hate that men created the myth that they need their own spaces as if their wives have taken over the whole house. The reality is that they feel entitled to the WHOLE house and treat their wives like maids who's job is to clean it. The woman rarely gets her own room or office. She's lucky if she gets her own closet.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-27T09:13:38+00:00

And this is how your life goes when you continue to date and then marry a sexist piece of shit who's fine telling you how much of a sexist piece of shit he is to your face.

"I was annoyed"

I would divorce a man for speaking to me like that. He can run after me making a fool of himself repeating "you're overreacting" all he wants. Meanwhile if you make a joke like this to a shity man he'll probably fake punching you in the face.

_linay · 2020-10-27T03:55:44+00:00

Throw the whole man out. 🗑

7Cuervos · 2020-10-27T04:46:35+00:00

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Toxic-Deadly-Tacos · 2020-10-27T04:27:41+00:00

Comments like that should automatic grounds for divorce.

localgirlcult · 2020-10-27T09:21:15+00:00

She won't. She's buying a house with this man and nothing's gonna stop that. She'll wait until him and the children they have or are definitely going to have, drain her completely. And then she'll keep venting online growing unhappier by the year. You can see in her tone that she isn't even thinking of doing anything about this. It's too hard.

jddmartini · 2020-10-27T10:42:32+00:00

This is why I don't date.

I will become a social outcast and die in the streets before I become a slave.

And it just may come to that one day.

Gloomy-Ad3145 · 2020-10-27T07:00:40+00:00

Every time I see some shit like this, I remember how amazing my man is to give me the best room to myself. It's a red room with old creaky wood floors, I have my bookshelves in there with all my candles. He replaced the old light bulb with a Halloween themed one and agreed to help me set up a tank for a potential bearded dragon. He's also making more room in the basement so I can have my own personal gym. IF HE WANTED TO, HE FUCKING WOULD. LEAVE HIS DUSTY, YEASTY BALL SACK HAVING ASS FOR A MAN WHO'LL WEAR YOU LIKE A FEEDER AND LET YOU HAVE YOUR SPACE.

7Cuervos · 2020-10-27T08:18:44+00:00

That's not a husband. That's called a divorce.

NurseBubbleGum · 2020-10-27T13:04:44+00:00

The only appropriate response in my opinion: "I'd no longer like to buy a house. I'd like a divorce."

GreenerGrass4u · 2020-10-27T05:11:23+00:00

It won’t be funny anymore when he actually moves into the two best spaces of the house.

aellope · 2020-10-27T10:44:40+00:00

They actually see us as appliances.

CandyCaneQueenz · 2020-10-27T17:18:30+00:00

Funny enough I've always agreed on a man cave, a small room. HOWEVER that means I get a room all to myself no males are allow to enter.

Equal rights botch

Equal-Ear2312 · 2020-10-27T08:29:52+00:00

if I were her, I would simply start on said rooms with renovations and transform them into sitting rooms/ whatever and clear some space in the basement for his gaming activities. you don't need sunlight to play your games and burp the beer ( I imagine that's the kind of man she married). then when he catches on and asks: "where's my office/ man cave?", I would simply reply: " oh, honey, stop joking! it's in the basement, of course! Can't you take a joke, for chrissakes?"

Vmwvi · 2020-10-27T05:26:58+00:00

Did you link her to FDS?

tossed_salad100 · 2020-10-27T21:41:35+00:00

My boyfriend keeps talking about how when we buy our house, he's going to make sure I have an attic room to do my crafts and be introverted in. We've also discussed a man-cave for him to play video games, have friends over, and workout in, but he's more interested in making sure I have that attic room. Don't settle.

margitaolympia · 2020-10-27T12:13:22+00:00

ma'am please run NOW

emmqb · 2020-10-27T15:08:29+00:00

i hate this sooo much!! women don’t have to tolerate this! what you do in situations like these is you break glass. maybe he has a vase containing his grandma’s ashes, or a family heirloom- you take your arm and you sweep it across it. and then you walk out and don’t come back. of course she was dumb enough to marry him so it’s more complicated than that. UGHH!

light_workerx3 · 2020-10-27T14:14:40+00:00

Sounds like the father of my son . I swear this conversation has happened multiple times . So Annoying ..

2020-10-28T10:45:31+00:00

Man cave oh lord

2020-10-27T16:00:53+00:00

“I’ll take care of the domestic duties if you buy me a house.” Or no?

Title	I hope she divorces him
Author	7Cuervos
Upvotes	504
Comments	92
Date	October 27, 2020 3:48 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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