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94

I love tall men with big dicks 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:28 PM
31

I called myself a goddess today. Bought a leaf crown and owned that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:16 PM
28

"I'm filing for divorce."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:34 PM
13

As someone having been married in their early 20s, I wholeheartedly agree. It is too young. I'm a completely different person now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:38 PM
23

Amen 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:45 AM
16

I wish we could order men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:35 PM
7

I've been divorced for 3 years. It was the best, most freeing decision of my life. It was scary navigating things financially at first, but I have only ever leveled up since. I was happy about being divorced. I knew I deserved better for a long time and it was a step in the right direction of doing right by myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:32 PM
7

One of the firefighters at my work was telling my he lifted weights that morning and his medic partner was trying to get me to compliment him while he was flexing. I told him, "Fishing for compliments are we? My arms look bigger than that." He eats that shit up. Men love bitches. I will never give that man a compliment though his arms are amazing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:21 PM
94

So does it just get delivered to my house or.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:16 PM
29

If that's how he treated someone he "really liked" I shutter to think what a low effort date is for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:02 AM
40

I love going to a movie on my own. I am uninterrupted and can genuinely enjoy or hate it. No opinion but my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:55 PM
32

I'd rather ride the cock carousel than be in a relationship with all these low value men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:26 AM
136

Can confirm men are disgusting. Many young men use the ER for burning in their wee wees. None use condoms. I've even been asked, "Do I really need to tell my partners?" They give no fucks about women or their health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:31 PM
114

Act like they're dead, and they literally throw themselves in front of you 🙄😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:26 AM
30

This is awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:27 PM
25

I like nice arms and chest. Im not super into ripped abs, but I don't prefer a beer gut over a toned body. Beer guts show me that all you do is drink, and I want someone who is active with me, not hungover.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:19 PM
11

I've had smart, funny, respectful, and caring men who had unsatisfactory penises, and I ultimately declined being with them because my sexual pleasure is a big deal to me. Penis size MATTERS!!! I want it all, not half the package. Men always get everything they want, so I want that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:21 PM
14

I wish they were easy to get rid of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:04 PM
9

Im working mother's day, but its overtime, so I can put the flooring I want in my new house!!! So, technically spoiling myself. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:46 PM
62

THIS is why the pushing a pregnant woman down the stairs "joke" isn't fucking funny. They aren't joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:42 PM
31

But if you're impossible to please, nO mAn wiLL eVEr wANt yOu 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:37 PM
31

When I wouldn't respond to a scrote's text because I was busy, he texted, "Well you're fat anyways." He then texted, "I just want to talk." Of course I could pass up the opportunity to tell him, "Can't talk. I'm too busy eating." 😂 Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:34 PM
17

King of turds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:31 PM
12

He's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:45 PM
36

I've been told that at work and my response is, "Thank God!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:39 PM
0

Amen. If you love it, do it. I dont know why we care about why we wear make up or certain clothes. Men are completely out of my equation. I'm not giving them anymore head space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:33 PM
38

Majority of the time they only seek custody to reduce the financial burden or to be controlling and abusive. Its rarely about the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:25 AM
103

When you see Disney movies again as an FDSer 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:38 PM
9

"Bread should never go past its date." Sir, you can't even find your way around your own kitchen, so please, shut the fuck up. You know nothing about food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:10 PM
15

Explains a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:52 PM
51

They don't like eating what they dish out that's for sure. I treat casuals like men treat women and they act like I'm the devil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:38 AM
11

He so kindly refers to internet strangers as "bitch", so I can only imagine the amount of respect he has for his wife...-100
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:53 PM
9

Its so sad because women literally think it's romantic to get used and have runny ass eggs like some kind of door prize. They think he's a wonderful person because he offered them a 30 cent meal so he didn't feel so bad for being the piece of shit he knows he is. I want a man who satisfies me and makes me full on breakfast in bed regularly and then cleans the kitchen when he's done because he knows that's what I like....not some pitty eggs. I wish women would wake up and withhold so we could col…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:48 PM
25

Anytime I vent to my mom that I'd eventually like someone special, she always brings me back to reality with, "Do you think most married people are happy? No." Gotta love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:43 PM
16

Please tell me this shit hasn't become fantasized behavior. What happened to taking a woman out properly, treating her with respect, and getting to know her mind before her body was on the table? This trash behavior isn't going to stop until women stop allowing it. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:39 PM
11

They're a sad lot for sure 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:28 PM
30

Cringe... and the need to announce it on the internet 🙄🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:21 PM
11

Friend? Benefits? Where? I see neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:06 AM
22

When I did OLD, I never put that I am a nurse on there. They think money and a caregiver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:13 PM
58

I'm so sick of hearing about squirting. Men are obsessed with it. ITS PEE!!! It's watered down urine mixed with fluid from our Skene's gland. They sincerely think its ejaculate, similar to what they make.They need to read a fucking textbook. Like, just say you like to be peed on so I can block you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:36 PM
9

The only thing I want to know about an ex is why it ended so I can hear how he speaks about her. Some will rant and bitch, so I know I want none of that mess. If they speak respectfully, then I give them an opportunity, but I'm not here to play therapist and dive deep into a man's emotional traumas that they should be solving with a therapist and not a new relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:28 PM
28

That sounds like a ton of work...talk to the ex and play therapist. It's easier to pass that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:25 PM
3

"I don't want to seem toxic" whilst he is doing actual toxic shit. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:18 PM
17

Only those worthy of this intimidating gal, can get a chance with this intimidating gal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:23 PM
3

It was awful, a reminder that men can do whatever the hell they want with no repercussions. He raped and unconscious woman...then got 6 months so his life wouldn't be "ruined".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:46 PM
4

Brock Turner? That POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:37 PM
3

He probably only got 6 months so that it wouldn't ruin his life with the choice he made to ruin someone else's life...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:32 PM
31

"Stop trying to fuck your female friends because you can use them as a therapist and as a way to meet and fuck other females."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:41 PM
9

It was a he...so it explains a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:11 AM
25

screaming puddle of tears and sperm by noon Lmao!!! Yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:46 PM
86

My family court judge insulted me by saying I "emasculated my ex-husband" when I complained that he is not proactive in school, medical, dental (anything that requires effort and responsibility) for our son. Like, no bitch, he is an able bodied man with a brain...he emasculated himself by being weak and lazy in comparison to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:34 PM
29

I LOVE FDS! Thank you to the scrotes talking shit about it because thats how I found it. Fds has helped me realize being alone is amazing. I dont have to put up with anyone's bullshit. My family is complete without a man. I can achieve anything I want on my own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:22 PM
76

Can you imagine if a woman posted this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:17 PM
69

Translation: Im a lazy fuck who knows laundry sucks and my wife hates it, so I do it occasionally for praise because I am such a hero for doing the folding a handful of times. It took you 49 years to realize you need to be a helpful partner to your spouse? Wtf? Women really need to stop enabling these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:16 PM
10

I agree. If they were held more accountable, maybe there wouldn't be a demand for prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:54 PM
8

Yeah, no, thanks. All of my fulfilling sex has ended in orgasm, not snuggles and a heart to heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:09 AM
169

But but then MeN wiLL bECoME mOrE VioLeNt....🥺🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:53 AM
50

Same! I'm always shocked to find they're younger than me. I'm 32 but get told I look mid 20s all the time. Scrotes be lookin like a bag of grapes left in the sun. 📢 Skincare and a healthy diet go a long way fellas.📢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:07 PM
13

Im so sorry. Birth can be and typically is a traumatizing event for the body and the mind. It took me years to get over the birth of my son. People always like to invalidate your experience too by saying, "well at least the baby is healthy" as if that makes what you experienced any better. My child won't remember his birth, but I will. I remember being in shock and everyone just wanted to get at my son. Whenever I'm asked or invited to come visit friends in the hospital, I always focus on mom be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:45 PM
16

I've been more than vaginally traumatized with childbirth, a colposcopy (which was painful and made me cringe for a few days), and another biopsy. When my doctor suggested an IUD to help with my heavy periods, I said I'd rather suffer and be anemic. She then prescribed me a medication to help me clot during my menstrual cycle instead. She's the best gyn I've had. Men need to do some suffering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:34 PM
123

I'm going to ruffle some feathers here, but the only compatibility issue I see is having a little dick 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:25 PM
153

This guy doesn't even know the difference between rape and an enthusiastic yes. Starfishing...you mean when she lays there lifeless because you've begged and pleaded and coerced her and she feels like you won't stop unless she just lays there. I'd like to call out the rapists who think raping a woman in this position is anything other than rape. Starfishing isn't an insult to women, it just lets us know you're a rapist who doesn't accept no for an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:56 AM
23

Who are all these young girls finding this attractive? When I was 18 and 19, older men creeped me out. If they looked me up and down or made sexually suggestive glances, it made me feel like shit. I was literally still like a child. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:14 AM
36

Half the time the restaurant they pick isn't worth it, and I could have made a better dinner at home. Unless it's steak or sushi, I don't bother going anymore. If they can't even listen to my favorites, they don't need to date me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:02 AM
16

Wtf did I just see?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:33 PM
8

That woman is a mess...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:29 PM
45

That's okay. When he's out banging 18 year olds and blowing her money, she'll come here. She just needs to hit rock bottom first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:09 PM
18

Thank you! I'm excited!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:59 PM
72

Im just about to purchase a home on my own as single mother. Stay mad scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:18 PM
32

You know he doesn't wash dishes... he let's them collect so she can do them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:15 PM
13

That they all felt the need to comment as if you live your life to listen to how miserable they all are...😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:07 PM
14

They act like putting 10 grand into a down-payment is some huge thing. Wow, enjoy the 100 dollars off on your mortgage, wanker. I also love how it's okay to detract from a gift for her so that he can benefit as well. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:52 PM
74

I imagine if their web page led to rape, that would also be their only response 🙄. Fuck online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:23 AM
15

Child support. She probably has more money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:27 PM
15

I got invited to help a guy paint his new home. I laughed and said I'm not free labor nor do I do shit for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:06 PM
10

It sucks because penis size is a literal genetic crapshoot. Too bad it doesn't just increase in size the more high value the man is...like Pinocchio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:18 AM
108

If she died it would absolutely be premeditated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:57 PM
82

Maybe your wife is sick of being your mother and doesn't want to fuck a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:14 PM
552

At this point, I'm a "leave me the hell alone" kind of gal. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:58 PM
2

I had "too big of hips". Women always tell me my shape is lovely, and they wish theirs was like mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:05 PM
13

I've even had one go as far as calling me bipolar when I called him out on his bullshit, telling him I was upset that he lied about feelings he "developed" for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:14 PM
36

This is why my mom, brother, and I all decided that we'd just like steak and lobster with sides on holidays. The prep and cook time is that of a normal meal, and no one over eats or is stuck cleaning up for a ridiculous amount of time. If we want a traditional dish, we'll add it, but we all realized we don't like that aspect of holidays. We like lounging with family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:40 PM
60

They're mad because it hit home. They KNOW they're disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:14 PM
49

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:06 AM
10

Jesus they aren't funny, like even a little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:15 PM
81

Want him to stop? Report him for child abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:33 AM
78

Should we all just create our own city without shitty men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:26 PM
16

I stopped caring about a man getting off. In fact, when I had casual sex, sometimes they didn't get to orgasm. I had complaints only a few times...😈.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:04 AM
2

I stand behind it 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:03 AM
25

I already have a child, but I've had more than my fair share of men tell me they wanted me to have more kids when we dated. I dont want more because I had the lions share of the work in raising the one I have. I want to focus on my career and myself and am able to do that at this point. I've only had a few say they would forgo children for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:55 PM
19

Yep, that "friend" that gives you that off feeling is never a friend. Always leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:36 AM
15

Men are the biggest whine tits in the ER. Women will suffer in silence for painful disease processes while men will bitch and moan over something simple like a cut. I can't when they start crying. Gag me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:21 AM
16

Wondering when the divorce is coming... Resentment from childbirth doesn't just disappear, and this fuck is never going to validate her feelings or apologize for his shit behavior. What blows my mind is that her vagina was good enough to fuck but once a baby comes out with blood, it's gross. Her ass was good enough to eat until she shits herself during labor. Her tits were good enough to play with until a baby needs milk from them. Fuck men who can't deal with natural body processes. I'm disgust…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:19 AM
8

If I were an OBGYN, it'd perform them low key for women. Fuck men. If that passed you'd likely see a spike in suicide, or women harming themselves accidently trying to abort the fetus with home remedies etc. But it's fine because it's just women. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:31 AM
13

This! Getting toasty once in a while is fine, but bailing or using it as a "look how cool I am" statement is ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:55 AM
15

A lot would. They'll assume your anesthesia still works or try to rush through without numbing you because it's just "a few pokes". If it were the head of the penis though...they'd have a moderate sedation or full blown anesthesia. Fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:50 PM
26

Yeah and they tend not to use anything to numb it up unless you bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:36 AM
109

There is no fomo because they're all trash, you've proven it to yourself already. Have you had a positive experience on dating apps? Then you won't be missing out. I've only had shitty dating experience on apps. I've had generally good experience with people I know from daily life. I'd rather spend time with my hobbies and friends and maybe something will come up through that, but at least I'm working on myself and my needs. On dating apps, you're only focusing on others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:55 PM
1

Its your time, so you dictate if and when the calls happen. He has no control. If he calls, don't answer or tell him he may call between such and such time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:47 AM
42

Its its not all compliments and support from the next one, he can gtfo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:48 AM
195

I make six figures, am almost 6 ft tall, and the dildo I bought is over 6 inches....Im pretty comparable 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:16 AM
103

Right? The sooner those apps die off the better. They were great when they started to connect you with people you wouldn't normally connect with, but they're just terrible now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:20 PM
121

They'll find a million reasons to defend their friends for disgusting behavior, but damn if you so much as throw out a hard boundary of yours, something simple, they act like you're the worst person on the planet. 😒 Fucking men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:23 AM
5

It's an indicator of more violent tendencies. There is so much anger/frustration/rage that they feel the need to take it out physically. You could be on the receiving end given the right circumstances. I've learned to channel anger into healthier physical activity. Men can too, but some choose to hit walls....eventually your face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:30 PM
220

I love to see how pissed men get when women leave their children (like men typically do) and then he subsequently has to actually be a parent because mom just leaves. They act like women should automatically want to be mothers and care for their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:11 AM
78

They know. They're just playing games with a woman's feelings and you're right, it speaks volumes of their character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:48 PM
74

Whenever I notice a change in communication, it's almost always another woman. They always want their cake and to eat it too. It's best just to notice your needs not being met and move on, no stress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:46 PM
62

He absolutely would have done that right back to her. What a lying, cry baby. No grace there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:57 PM
82

He's cheating on you sis, and he's a creep! It wouldn't be acceptable to masturbate to one of your girlfriends and then tell her about it. It's creepy af, so it doesn't make it different because she's on Instagram. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:25 PM
1

I don't think male or female is a bad word, nor boy or girl, nor dude or chick. I use them all interchangeably because I don't have a misogynistic adgenda hidden behind those pronouns/adjectives. I see how you'd want to assign intention behind it because men often use it to be offensive, but that isn't the case here. If I used it disparagingly, I could see how you'd have an argument, but I didn't. I said I couldn't see myself having a female child, not that I think they're hard to raise. I don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 05:53 PM
-1

Just referring to biological gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:44 PM
106

Mine doesn't like all men. He's only comfortable with certain men. I usually go with my dog's gut reaction to people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:23 AM
4

Im a "boy mom" meaning I only have a boy. I never saw myself as a mother to a female child, even when I was younger. I dont think there is anything wrong with wanting only boys or only girls. So far my son has been raised with self-esteem, empathy, honesty, emotional intelligence, kindness, accountability, and the ability to stand up for others when there is wrong doing. If anything, I have taken from my experiences and taught him how I want to be treated as a woman, and how he should treat othe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:36 PM
2

I can't even have pleasurable sex while drunk. I call it whiskey clit. So if I'm not going to get off, there's no point, even to drunk me. I'd recommend not drinking as much or not at all. Maybe not going to actual parties, but more of a cocktail type of thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:19 PM
136

Don't you love that she's getting the SAME treatment we speak about and defend ourselves against. She proved herself an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:49 PM
17

That is rape, plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:31 AM
66

Right...like a bench of bad dicks with even worse personalities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:25 AM
29

I would have mortified him by saying, "yeah but you dont know what kinda shit I got".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:59 PM
8

Weird that sexless women don't have uncontrollable violent tendencies towards men. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 05:23 PM
23

In my opinion, they don't even have dick good enough to save them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:42 AM
83

I feel that it is common courtesy if you invite someone on a date, you pay. I even pay for girlfriends if I ask them to come with me and take time from their day. LVM are just here to push "equality" while still using and abusing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:43 PM
16

Any man that comes across me better know that type of conversation won't fly. I refuse to even communicate it to them. If you don't already know, we don't jive. You haven't learned respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:18 PM
11

I have both and am literally no better off in the dating pool because men are shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:15 AM
7

I've said it more than once and I'll say it again. Firefighters are fucking dogs. I literally can't with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:50 PM
13

Cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:29 AM
9

Should we just start putting them down? There's no coming back from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:55 PM
2

Good for you queen! There is something empowering about blocking without explaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:05 PM
12

You would think anyone who wasn't a biological parent would go out of their way to ensure that they didn't cross any boundaries or make their stepchild uncomfortable like this Yes! My ex used to tell me he wasn't sure he'd be comfortable helping my son with certain things because he didn't want to be perceived as something happening. He wouldn't even get into those situations that could be misconstrued. This guy was already told by the wife it was a no go, but he's still doing it. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:27 AM
53

He was deceitful. He faked a very important, fundamental compatibility stance and wasted her time all because he thought she'd drop the issue. I can't with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:26 PM
13

Sounds like he is literally offering professional job help and mentoring, expecting these women to fuck him, and is mad when they utilize him for exactly that without the sexual relationship they probably didn't know was supposed to be the payment. Sounds like he is deceitful in his intentions...trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:03 PM
7

Get it! Congratulations to you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:45 PM
1

If you look through old posts on this sub you will see that a lot of men are just selfish and mean. They were taught how great they were and learned they could use and abuse people with no consequences. The sheer amount of posts will open your eyes to the amount of shitty men there are in this world and how many awesome women have been hurt by their selfishness. A good man would not string you along if he didn't see a future with you. All you need to know is that guy was not a good man. The only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:42 PM
1

Girl, the man you were seeing was low value who strung you along and was dating someone else. Stop investing in what makes them stay. Who cares why they do? Invest in you. Do you really want to date a man who would treat you so unkind? If you vet to see if they fit you, you will never again be focused on what about you doesn't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:50 PM
1

If you are not serious about someone yes, its a reason. If he wanted to commit he would have moved or offered you a commitment so you'd move. That's why you should have bailed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:38 PM
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Couldn't tell you. Its individualized. I have not been able to see myself with certain men because they were: too immature, didn't care about appearance, didn't have a good job, lived too far, didn't put in enough effort, tried to instill rules in my house early on, not handy enough, never took me out enough, were messy...it could be anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:31 PM
1

For any reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:56 PM
1

For low value men? Its whatever is easiest, most convenient, hottest, or most fuckable. For high value men, its what we seek. A respectful and caring partner who puts forth effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:26 PM
1

There is nothing you can do to keep them interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:04 PM
3

I think you're asking the wrong question. It isn't about men and what they like so you can become that. Its about becoming the you that you love regardless of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:51 AM
2

I agree. You need to build confidence in yourself. If you do not with every ounce of your being believe that you are worthy of be treated with respect and love, then other people will follow suit and treat you like shit. Therapy and boundary building can be helpful and honestly, stop investing in men. Invest in yourself. Date yourself. Take yourself to a nice dinner and drinks or go with a girlfriend. Buy yourself jewelry. Spend time alone. Exercise. Find your hobbies. Once I invested in myself,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:41 AM
7

What you could do differently is never stop vetting. Make a list of must haves and don't waver on them in the future. The list is your set of boundaries. I guarantee you'll get better results when you know what you want and stick to your guns. Boundaries are to help you keep your sanity. He was kind until a point. The point he stopped acting that way is when he showed you his true colors. You should cut people off at that point otherwise it leaves you clawing for that attention/affection that wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:21 AM
11

They don't change. He is LOW VALUE and will always be. You have spent almost all day now obsessing over why he didn't pick you when you could have spent the time focusing on healing and self care. Was this man providing for you financially, emotionally, and making your life easier? Was he trying to move for you or offer you marriage to make you apart of his life? No? Then he was not benefiting you. Who gives a shit what you or other women have to offer to him? What was he offering to you? Sounds…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:40 AM
21

My dog is a rescue, and he is not trusting of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:36 AM
25

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:11 PM
72

Weird that you dont see shows with grown women showing up to young boy's homes... Men know its wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:31 AM
15

They all do...🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:19 AM
58

This! My mother put her dreams on hold because my dad didn't want her to go to school and wouldn't help raise us. He's a piece of shit. My mom is now a lawyer (got her doctorate in her 50s) and worked her way up the career ladder at a company. She makes quadruple what my dad makes. Im proud of her, and she's my inspiration not to let a man hold me back. She always tells me she admires me for leaving my marriage as early as I did because she wishes she had believed in herself sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:46 PM
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Those women are brave and amazing. You know, every documentary I've seen about matriarchal societies has seemed so nice. Can you imagine how much we as women could accomplish without men around naysaying...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:20 PM
68

I'm pretty sure 90% of us have already been young, attractive, pleasant and perfect wifey material. Preach! What MEN haven't been is husband material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:29 PM
14

Oh but they are attracted to your career...because they're gold digging pieces of shit. Most men I've dated tried to mooch off of me at some point. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:27 PM
42

Technically...it is your biology to be attracted to a male who will ensure you and your offspring survive. So, you are not wrong for giving them that reason 😈.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:09 AM
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Good for her. Being a nurse is hard work. Its emotionally and physically taxing. You can harden yourself to some things, but child deaths are generally not something nurses can just block out. Something about children dying is different. I cant imagine how devastating that is for her. I hope she speaks to someone about her loss. Fuck her POS husband. Mental health is so important when you're caring for others constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:06 AM
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They have made men obsolete for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:46 PM
68

Saw a meme about dad bods the other day that made me laugh. "Dad bods are only cute when you take care of your kids. Nice try though fat bitch."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:41 PM
6

I guess I don't understand the reason for your post then. All societies have beauty standards including tribes that have minimal contact with the westernized world. The post and your reply seem to take a shaming approach towards women having procedures for alterations and enhancements. If I went completely natural, then I'd be following someone else's idea of what beauty is. Im following my idea of what beauty is. If society instilled some of it, oh well, but I'm not wrong for doing any of it. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:34 AM
10

I feel like this is a bit desparaging to those of us who choose to spend money on cosmetic procedures. Why do women buy expensive handbags? Why do women buy themselves jewelry? The answer is typically because they liked it, they could, and it make them happy/feel good. If I want to spend $250 on botox every few months to make me feel better, then I'm going to. It's my money, my face, and my decision. I don't hate my face, but I like taking care of my skin and preventing wrinkles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:27 PM
3

I had the same issue, couldn't orgasm, and felt defeated. I just stopped anything sexual for a few months including self pleasure. When I restarted, I went with the mindset of exploring myself. Its been great since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:58 PM
18

Can we stop fucking dating these losers? Then, they'll never procreate and their shitty lineage will die off...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:55 PM
11

My ex used to watch really thin shapeless women in porn. Im curvy with a big butt. He told me I was perfect from the waist up 🤮. Low and behold after I broke up with him, all he dated were rail thin girls. I was always self conscious about my shape, but I get complimented on my shape by women all of the time. I was shocked when several men told me my shape was desirable. I had to learn to love my body again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 08:51 PM
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Despite what she claims, he actually isn't a good father and husband. He lets them do without so he can feed an addiction. Women need to stop covering for men with that blanket "bUT heS A gOoD faTHer" bullshit. If he was a good father, he'd be hustling for them and getting off his fucking gaming system instead of driving his family into debt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:58 PM
10

How awful, so he could use some poor girl as his sex therapist 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:40 PM
11

Yes, you can still get it while your body is building antibodies. To clarify, it was not caused by the vaccine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:26 AM
14

Don't do it. I got both vaccines, got COVID-19, and am just getting over COVID-19. I was vaccinated and it still sucked. You cannot go about normal daily tasks without being short of breath. As an emergency nurse, please don't risk it for a man. There is no way to guarantee they are not COVID positive upon your meeting. I am seeing people die left and right, people who were careful, people who are in their 30s and 40s on ventilators. It is truly devastating to intubate people knowing full well t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:57 AM
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"Maternal Gatekeeping" aka protection from incompetent care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:17 AM
9

He wants her as the safety net and house maid while he fucks random girls. I bet if she pulled that same shit, he'd be gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:27 PM
22

You were unknowingly a prostitute, worth $40, a bag of doritos, and a shitty sandwich. How soul crushing is that. This is why we don't have casual sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:55 PM
83

Very few men deserve a Valentine's Day "about them" because everything is already about them all the time. Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:47 PM
74

Lmao! I had a male patient trying to pry into if I was single for his son. He asked ,"Do you have a special someone in your life?" I told him, "Yes, its me!" Look on his face was of shock 🤣😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:43 PM
38

Bet he'll get a job once you leave and no longer foot the bill. He knows. He doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:31 PM
3

I hope she realizes she's better than that. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:27 PM
8

If she posted it looking for opinions, she's disappointed. Even in my pick me days, I would have cried over this ring because that would have been a display of how much you meant to a man...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:24 PM
11

My thoughts? He👏can't👏afford👏her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:20 PM
12

Hope she enjoys that pneumothorax and chest tube 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:13 PM
26

Right there with you sister! I also decided to take the year off, but wouldn't be disappointed if it went on longer. I want to focus on myself, my hobbies, work, and healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:13 AM
2

I am! Thank you for the appreciation. Its my pleasure. It really was a great compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:46 AM
154

No cooking, no cleaning, no tidying up, no washing clothing, no buying toiletries, no picking out clothes, no making appointments, no filling out forms or applications, no help with school work or businesses Anything I expect I do for myself, they should be able to do for themselves. The list is what I help my son do and am teaching him to do for himself, so my partner better damn well be capable if a 10 year old is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:19 PM
14

I hope you feel better soon! A+ for fiancé!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:06 PM
23

He's afraid of getting mugged 🙄. Sir, if you have never had to worry that some depraved monster might try to forcefully impale you with his penis while you were walking alone at night, then you have no room to speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:03 PM
10

One of my new grads told me she aspires to have the level of confidence and command presence I have with patients ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:00 PM
7

I'm 5'10. I don't prefer shorter men because I've never had a positive experience with them. At first its, "yeah wear heels, do what you like", but the moment they realize they're way shorter, they turn into criticizing pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:47 PM
15

I was just thinking that, "this is the logical sex, huh?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:26 PM
57

I love this. I hope self love and no longer pandering to men is also trending 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:33 PM
102

So he's fat and masturbates too much but isn't fixing either of those problems...he just wants internet coddling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:31 PM
108

Seriously. I had a guy take me ice skating because I'd never been before, researched a place, and took me out for sushi because he listened when I talked. It really isn't hard or costly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:55 PM
162

Knocks a whole lot of them out 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:02 PM
11

I was married with a kiddo at 23, also struggling to get into nursing school while being poor and managing a lame ass husband. Technically I had all of the things you are seeing other people obtain, but I was so miserable. Social media only shows the good. What I mean by all of this is comparison is the thief of joy. Follow your own timeline. There is nothing that says you need to have xyz completed by a certain date. Enjoy your journey getting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:49 PM
39

Can confirm. I've seen so many "turtle" penises on obese older male patients. Its like the penis retracts back into the body never to see the light of day again. Haven't seen too many poorly aged vaginas in my professional experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:10 PM
91

This! Don't allow people to use that as manipulation. You can call the police and let them handle it. If they were serious, you may have stopped them, and if they were using it as a manipulation tactic, you make them feel like morons for even threatening something so serious. I see so many get to the hospital and have instant regret for threatening suicide when they truly didn't mean it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:08 AM
45

I had a typing teacher in high-school who would massage shoulders of girls with large breasts. They all thought he was gross and a pervert, but no one ever said anything. Thank goodness he never laid a hand on me. I used to think it odd and perverted to see him doing it to my fellow classmates, never boys though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:52 PM
27

She married a child. She now needs to abandon that child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:34 PM
8

Lmfao!!!!! Yes!!! I can't!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:32 PM
6

Proud of you sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:27 AM
6

I'll say one. Majority of firefighters I know love attention and are massive fuckboys, even when married with children. They go from hospital to hospital and flirt inappropriately with many nurses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 01:29 AM
6

He's gross af...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:49 AM
26

Pretending to have a Chad? Bahaha! Its a bigger flex that I buy myself shit as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:33 PM
22

A real "doormat"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:46 PM
10

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 12:36 AM
30

I have noticed men do tend to have less people who care about them in the hospital. Of course this is only my experience. Also, I notice women tend to outlive their partners and go on to have fulfilling lives while men tend to die shortly after their partners do. I can only attribute it to the fact that they don't have anything to live for. I'd be happy to be alone with my cat. He is affectionate and cute so I dont mind cleaning up his messes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:44 PM
18

They act stupid, but when you call them on the stupidity they get their feelings hurt. My ex did something like this, so I asked if he was genuinely that unintelligent. He gave me the hurt puppy look and never fucked up again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:51 PM
11

And she can buy a lot more for herself when he's gone...boy bye 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:43 PM
16

I would love this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:01 AM
10

I enjoy having a home base. I always have. Traveling is exhausting and I like a sense of community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:29 PM
43

After finding FDS, I realized that sex has always been better with men who didn't watch porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:24 PM
2

Lmao! It really does look like that when you see bridge trolls with gorgeous women. Kinda like my ex and I. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:55 PM
6

Where to go from here? A divorce lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:38 PM
2

Oh! Its just a raised rectangle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:37 AM
3

The one on the top right? Its a triangle with little CZ stones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:22 AM
12

Thank you ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:39 PM
14

Me too! It feels good to treat myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:38 PM
9

Thank you! Nordstrom Rack! Its from COVET. Im not sure what the stone is. Its super pretty in the sunlight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:36 PM
3

So adorable!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:58 PM
47

They're intimate 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:05 AM
7

Someone goes to the home to investigate for abuse. Dumping someone off at the hospital and refusing to make any arrangements/answer phone or pick them up is abandonment. Similar to if you did it to a child. If he is her caregiver as he is claiming, he could be held liable for it. What he is supposed to be doing is working with a case manager to have her placed using insurance etc. He probably just doesn't want to pay for it. It sounds like she may not meet all criteria for a skilled nursing faci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:41 PM
8

Weird, vanilla sex isn't boring when you love and care about your partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:47 PM
17

This! You wouldn't need to keep reminding women to submit if it was natural for them to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 08:38 PM
27

No discussion tonight. Block and delete. Let him enjoy the silence that is less "mentally draining". Im sure sex with his hand will also be less draining for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:42 PM
67

As a nurse. I would have filed an APS report against him. He is proclaiming himself as her care giver. Hospitals are not dumping grounds for the spouse you dont give a shit about anymore. There are proper channels to have a family member placed in a facility. He could have also employed a caregiver. What a piece of shit. Welcome to what women do day in and day out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:27 PM
2

Not even in the toilet...just on the floor, you know, how they like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:49 PM
54

I didn't realize treating yourself well and buying things with your own money was an issue...men do it for themselves all the time, and we don't hear shit about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:35 PM
9

Go to HR and ask them how to appropriately ask him to stop trying to ask you out romantically on a company phone 😁.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:35 PM
66

Its cheating. Its coveting other women because in reality, he wants to fuck them. If I told a significant other I wanted to look at naked men all day and wanted to fuck them but couldn't because I didn't know them, they'd call me a cheating whore. The only thing standing in his way is a screen. He told you you weren't important enough to stop that shitty habit. Good for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:24 PM
153

Maybe she should ask the police if its okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:34 PM
8

Get the espresso machine, block and delete. Enjoy an espresso. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:11 PM
14

They should have been like, "You dropped this 🔴. Its your clown nose." 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:28 PM
31

I had a guy buy my friend and I drinks at a bar, then threw it in my face later when I didn't want to go home with him. I threw a twenty at him and told him, if money was that big of a deal he could have it back. I've never seen an ego crushed more when people at the bar started laughing at him. Fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:51 PM
2

I'll take a real diamond 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:34 PM
5

I don't understand why single moms get such a bad rap. We're out here thriving and taking care of shit. Most "single dads" aka every other weekend dads, don't even know their kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:52 AM
5

🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:19 PM
27

"35(M) loser here. Looking for someone young and inexperienced to trick into having sex with me because I'm incapable of finding someone my own age. I sit in my own filth all day playing video games and will expect blowjobs. Don't mind that I've never shaved down there and my penis is really small."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 05:05 PM
65

I fucking hate when men make the "push her down the stairs while pregnant" joke. Its not funny. Youre telling her you would like to abort your child in the most vile of ways. It isn't a joke. Its how they actually feel. They joke about hurting you and killing your unborn child they don't want. Fuck men like that. She should call the police and have the shit scared out of him. "Well you actually tried to push and I feared for our lives."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:53 PM
8

Ditto
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:43 PM
108

I can open my own door, but I'm worth having someone else do it. I wish young women would recognize that yes, you are independent, but it isn't about that. Its about men proving they're good enough through actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:51 PM
91

The fucked part is that women don't need to be cOmMunIcATed to to know that pissing on the floor and leaving it there is a dick move. Men don't need communication. They need a lesson on respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:58 PM
9

"Pick me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:03 AM
33

I love emojis, but I'm not easily manipulated 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:14 PM
9

Uhhh, he's got it turned around. Men hit their peak at 25. They stop growing mentally and start turning into fat, sloppy cave dwellers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:12 PM
16

I hope no one proves him wrong and he just dies alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:07 PM
8

The amount of times I've said WTF this week....Her self esteem must be so low. How heartbreaking to think that is all you deserve. I pray she realizes this neckbeard would be jack shit without her and flip the script on him. I feel like it's our mission to rescue these women and put men in their place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:25 PM
1

I would disown my son if he pulled this shit on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:18 PM
8

I date someone a bit younger than I am. He is the pursuer, respectful, and is head over heels for me. Its been like that for over a year. I agree that its set in their twenties and there really isn't much changing beyond that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:09 PM
16

If that happened between an employee of mine, I'd go to HR to get them fired. That's sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:44 PM
10

Its a thing. I dont know where it came from and I wish it would stop. It's disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:43 PM
18

What in the actual fuck. Are people really that dumb?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:40 PM
194

I don't understand wanting to humiliate your partner. This and smashing wedding cake into someone's face piss me off to no end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:00 AM
38

He literally has told her he'd rather fuck and inanimate object who looks nothing like her. Then, when she is clearly hurt by the disrespectful, sickening request, HIS feelings are hurt? What in the actual fuck. Men do not deserve women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:09 PM
77

Because money is always more important than human suffering 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:12 AM
38

How scary! I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:11 AM
35

Being the one to make the first move kept me being the one to make all of the moves. It's exhausting. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:42 PM
30

Im open about have rigorous standards and feeling comfortable in being alone until I get them. Ive honestly gotten support from both women and men telling me I really shouldn't settle in life for anything. I figure being open about it has kept the LVM away, knowing they aren't good enough, and has kept the pick-mes out of my friend circle. I refuse to give people the time of day who somehow feel I deserve less in my life because they accept less. The pick-mes who argue the most, I've noticed, ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:41 PM
59

I don't understand the judgements from them. If I don't want to go to an unknown man's dusty cave and get fucked by him, then that is my prerogative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:34 PM
18

"I feel uncomfortable babysitting for you anymore now that I know your husband is a pedophile. I'm concerned for my safety."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:11 AM
2

He was lazy, had a shit job, no drive, never cleaned, rarely cooked and if he did, it was what he wanted only. I had to get through nursing school and raising a toddler with almost no help. When I asked for help, he shirked it onto his mother. Who wants to fuck a child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:54 PM
3

Holy shit. She should have blocked him when she found out he was having a love child and then she could have saved herself from this disgusting question. He has no morals. What a piece of flaming shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:10 PM
4

What is this? The Scarlett Letter? Way to slut shame your fiance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:53 PM
64

I don't think women in the U.S. realize they have a right to privacy, even from their spouse in a hospital setting, and we do honor that. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:13 PM
36

I agree it is. That's why I'm very blunt and direct in what they're calling me essentially. They don't like being called out for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:35 PM
105

Thats when you flat out ask them, "Are you insinuating I'm a liar?". When they say no, they're forced to agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:21 PM
48

The only hostage in the situation is the wife. She likely doesn't realize she is about to lose years of her life, her mind, and sanity raising this piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:23 PM
235

Imagine being told on your wedding day how unimportant you are....🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:19 PM
7

Well said! 🙌👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:33 PM
7

I'll add Josh and Steven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:50 PM
2

Don't date, focus on your career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:41 PM
12

It didn't work for my son. My son was tired on his dad's weeks, falling asleep in school because his dad woke him up at 5 a.m. everyday when school started at 8 a.m. school work didn't get turned in, he wouldn't communicate or attend any school conferences, and he wouldn't keep up with my son's learning disability. He is much happier and thriving in school now that he is only with me in one household that is consistent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:17 PM
5

This is my category. My son is happy as a clam, and doesn't want for anything. His dad lives in poverty because he never had goals of achieving more. I can only imagine how terrible my son would turn out if he had to endure his father's defeatist attitude day in and out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:13 PM
205

400,000? Is there a reason a nanny isn't an option?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:41 PM
7

He didn't do it properly because no one stores it in a drink pitcher 😡. No one should have sided with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:42 AM
7

Clown wall... for sure 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:32 AM
5

Lmao! Yesss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:58 AM
21

Sounds like the equivalent to those "put your big girl panties on" women who are proud martyrs for their shitty spouses. Gag me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:22 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 11:54 PM
156

Elevate your own fucking grooming game you lazy POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:25 AM
21

No girl....NO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:24 AM
1

Spotted a typo. She meant it will only go down from here....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:16 AM
51

I'd compliment her outfit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:31 AM
10

Same. They're the catalyst to their eventual downfall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:30 PM
16

How dare you not want to participate in a walking date in a secluded area....so entitled. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:28 PM
6

"And then Susannah round house kicked her lazy husband, and took a spa day for herself, leaving him with all of the responsibilities. The end."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:51 AM
28

Oh God. Her life sounds miserable. I cant imagine ever feeling good with absolutely no self care. She's headed for a mental break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:40 AM
7

I'm sure the man in the end acted all heartbroken that they put him in that position...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:46 AM
17

Hahahaha you're already fucked dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:35 PM
157

"Better ways to deal with your mid-life crisis." DIVORCE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 02:44 PM
11

Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:46 PM
3

They all are, especially as the show develops, but initially he was decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:38 PM
46

"Jeeze, lighten up. Can't you take a joke?" Doesn't feel so good reversed does it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:44 PM
7

I'm raising my son to be a good man for himself and a woman someday. He made me proud when we were watching Gilmore girls and he told me he didn't like Jess because he was a low value man and he didn't understand why Rory left Dean for him. Lol! He's 9 and can spot a jerk already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:14 PM
24

The more they call you something, the more it seems like they're really talking about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:09 PM
15

The only appropriate response in my opinion: "I'd no longer like to buy a house. I'd like a divorce."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:04 PM
1

You miss the point entirely. The point is this is the bare minimum that mothers do for their children. Men aren't even capable of meeting that standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:08 PM
7

Men do not deserve praise for basic life skills. I have never once been praised for doing my job as a mother and feeding my child. It is expected of me. Where's my pat on the back, trophy, online recognition for being a parent? Or any other single mother for that matter... It is so uncommon for men to care for the basic needs of their own child that people think its such an achievement when they do it one time. Fuck that. I do it day in and day out because I had a kid and its my responsibility u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:22 PM
3

I've been making breakfast every morning for my son for almost 10 years. I'd like my award now. 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:15 PM
62

Right!?! Best orgasms ever, no need to share the bed or TV remote. I can wear my ugly comfy pjs and go to sleep when I'm ready. Why are men? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 08:13 PM
4

Well what was he wearing? Must've been asking for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:08 PM
27

Sounds like another made up term for a low value douche bag 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:44 PM
1

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:05 PM
14

🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:48 AM
51

I work in emergency and this is spot on. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:33 AM
-2

Im not sure where I mentioned they were abused?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:45 PM
212

Bet if she returned the favor he'd be a wounded lamb. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:07 PM
39

I think children bully other children because its an outlet from their home life. I don't think it has anything to do with liking someone. It is a myth parents need to stop telling their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 12:56 PM
3

I can't 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:43 AM
13

Dump👏him👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:35 AM
16

Love me some PSL 🥤💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:55 AM
32

His love language is gaslighting and manipulation 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:54 AM
7

Her picker isn't broken. Her standards are low. Im sure they're low because she probably had a shit father figure or a pick me mother who didn't teach her to respect and value herself. Men have themselves to blame. Fuck them. And as far as child support, I had to pay my ex because I worked hard and more than his lazy ass did. I was the parent who did everything. These fucks bitch about child support when they aren't having to pay for another room, more electricity, food, daycare, gas for transpo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:20 PM
17

Men are life diggers. They will take your best years and then shit all over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:32 PM
2

Hope you enjoyed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:27 AM
31

Uhh...if single moms are so awful on the dating market, why are men always up my ass trying to be a dad to my kid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:24 AM
12

Hopefully she'll find us one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:43 AM
89

They probably taste like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:09 AM
9

I bought myself and my son Starbucks the other day and my scrote neighbor had the audacity to ask if the second one was for him. I laughed and said, "I dont buy men gifts." The AUDACITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:06 PM
1

Yum. A pox marked face, yellow fucked up teeth, and thinning hair. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:03 PM
41

Not together, just fulfilling all aspects of a wife 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:51 PM
14

Yeah, I'm not about home dates either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:13 PM
76

OLD sucks the life out of you. I just deleted it and gave up. I don't have time to electronically meet someone and explain my life. I'll meet someone in person someday, maybe. If not, I'm also good with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:04 PM
6

When I watched it, I couldn't help but think, this is yet another good reason not to date married or separated men. Until you are divorced, you aren't single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:49 PM
51

I have a 70 lb dog to protect me from creeps like that. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:28 PM
6

Ask him what color bath bomb you should use while you relax at home instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:26 AM
10

Same! Divorced and POS ex moved out of state. We have almost no contact, and zero drama. I give no fucks about him and he about me. It's amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:56 AM
14

I see being the bigger person as choosing not to engage or invest your time when someone is being a shithead. For instance, when men start throwing a tantrum when their affections are not returned, being the bigger person is refusing to engage with them in their pettiness and blocking them. I don't think being the bigger person is lonely or accommodating. Its actually wonderful for mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:39 AM
44

Girl, have some self respect. Not even that dress deserves to be in that position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:44 PM
74

We've all experienced men...hence this groups creation 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:43 PM
3

Yep, they bounce from ER to ER trying to hit on/screw all of the nurses and techs. I refer to them as dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:30 AM
13

Take up space, walk with confidence and purpose, look through them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:49 AM
9

Sounds like ex wife won the lottery!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:45 AM
10

Hormonal birth control has always caused severe depression for me. I felt out of control like I couldn't trust myself. I will never use birth control again. My mental health is worth more to me. I use condoms every time now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:53 PM
10

If he cared or wanted to clean his room, he would have. Run! Maid will be your forever role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:32 PM
34

I know! Can she share with us, where she'd get some appreciation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:43 PM
68

Better yet, leave her for someone who doesn't cook and get engaged within a year 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:42 PM
260

Yes we need the full story 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:50 PM
14

Just show up full clown attire 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:32 AM
27

Gross. She has already cOmUnIcAtEd....he just gives no fucks because he's too busy beating it to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:14 PM
12

I was just thinking, oh perfect, she can cut her losses and not have wasted half of her life 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:13 PM
27

I would agree, personalities don't ruin marriages. It's typically resentment from unequal weight distribution in the responsibility department.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:00 PM
3

If that was his BEST foot forward, I shudder to think what a future would be like 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:39 PM
6

I don't "do" short men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:55 AM
2

That's exactly what he'd do! Some men think raising their child is babysitting. Girl, I don't blame you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:17 AM
2

Self care, its expected. (Had to say it given your username ❤)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:19 AM
72

I would have divorced him. After birth, it felt like someone took a baseball bat to my vagina. I could barely walk upstairs. My tits were huge, nipples raw, and leaking fucking everywhere. Let's not forget the never ending bleeding. I had a baby who would get so upset trying to latch that it was a 10-20 min cry sesh before he'd latch. The first 6 months is fucking hard. You know who needs the break?! She does. She went through trauma, fucked up hormones, a body leaking from most places which doe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:17 AM
9

Im glad you removed yourself from that HOT mess of a child . Amen sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:03 AM
17

I'm a single mom, and the worst people I've ever dated were single dads. I typically only date childless men because they tend to have less baggage. I'd say all of them either came from a single parent household, a blended family, or had a step parent, so they were comfortable with the dynamic. But this guy in the post sounds like he was likely a major asshole all along and red flags were likely ignored. Their relationship was over when he said he would go without her. If you date a single paren…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:57 AM
25

I think its only if you open it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:40 AM
11

He would have expected she put out for a 5 dollar coffee and a walk 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:54 AM
125

Tell him since he has failed to give a shit about you, youre going to date yourself, never fuck him, and move on to a better life...✌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:29 PM
6

Laziness begets laziness. I'd be disguated with myself if I couldn't get my shit together after a WEEK of a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:24 PM
5

My ex used to like to tell me when he had shimmer from my make up on his face. He would always tell me, "that's my baby's glitter" haha. Get you a man who loves it 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:59 PM
4

10/10 would not hire. What in the literal fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:37 PM
5

It doesn't. I'm a nurse and at times exude more confidence than the doctor treating the patient. Level of training/education has nothing to do with being secure/insecure. Thats male logic for ya! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:24 PM
20

That sub gets on my nerves sometimes. There is plenty that is funny that doesn't involve degrading women or making fun of race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:51 PM
38

Could be me....but I have standards 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:34 PM
12

Hahaha yaaas!!! Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:03 AM
17

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:24 PM
22

I have never hit my son. He is 9. He does things that are at times disrespectful, but we talk about why the behavior is not wanted and what his consequences are if it continues. When he was little. It was time outs, follow through, and a lot of talking. It was exhausting, but worth it to have a respectful little human. I was spanked and hit with the belt as a child. It didn't teach me anything. The most effective punishments were when I had been a disappointment to my mother because I had respec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:39 PM
12

I like thicker dicks, about 7" in length with a slight curve upwards. Shaved balls, must have trimmed pubes. Nothing worse than sliding back and forth on razorblades as new hair starts growing back 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:08 PM
7

I swear, its the same photo from every guy, same pose, same ugly sheets, same messy room, same dick grab. Lacks creativity. Thats a 0/10 from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:09 PM
14

You're so right in that they do know what to do. I feel like what they're really asking is if what they're going to need to go through in order to build themselves back up and stand on their own again is worth the work. It is 100% worth it. Drop his ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:58 PM
34

The sex obviously isn't that immaculate if he's just trying to tear his way into her with ZERO regard for the fact that she isn't even turned on. How fucking sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:14 PM
16

Sounds like he's looking to sleep with one of his buddies. He should hit them up and try to force himself upon them 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:27 AM
34

This is sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:08 AM
2

Hope he went to bed cold and alone 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:12 PM
4

I never picture anyone when I do the deed to myself. I just try to be super in tune with the sensations. Men ruin it for me😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:25 PM
41

If you don't want a relationship, then don't be in one. Get off tinder, and masturbate at home, alone. Save woman the heartache and hassle that will certainly come from you playing aloof 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:29 PM
4

Get you some! 👸🍰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:50 PM
33

Can someone please make this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:16 PM
18

Its like being on a diet and telling yourself you can't have chocolate cake, and all you can think about is chocolate cake. Their stupidity never ceases to amaze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:28 PM
46

I don't know when it became a "tradition", but it's certainly not one I want to practice or continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:22 PM
24

I'm just lurking. I have trouble making girlfriends too 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:02 PM
38

Why is she listening to people who have NEVER been in her position? All of the women who have been in her position are giving solid advice. All she is going to do is paint a giant red sign on her forehead that says "please screw me over".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:50 AM
8

That's actually a great strategy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:38 AM
30

Wow how abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:41 PM
66

I'm 5'10. I will date my height and above only. Shorter men feel less manly around me, and Im not about to have someone's complex taken out on me. Its easier to date men who are 6ft and taller because it makes me feel more feminine, but as long as they're confident and secure, I don't mind a 5'10 guy. My ex was 5'10 and really didn't mind if I wore heels to functions and whatnot. It never bothered him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:38 PM
18

Girl I thought the same thing 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:20 PM
13

The men who have been really into me always tried to nail down a "next time" to see me. If men don't display that same vigor, I don't want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:14 PM
3

Who cares at this point if he cheated? You don't need to prove it to yourself in order to terminate this relationship.You feel the way you do because he disrespected boundaries and is making you feel devalued. Every.single.time. I felt how you did, it was because I sensed a change in my partner's behavior and never once was I crazy like they tried to make me out to be. He sucks. He's gaslighting you. Just stop dealing with him. Save yourself "feeling crazy". Go out with your friends and have a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:42 PM
10

I'm sick of men throwing around the word entitled when we have a boundary. If anyone has too much entitlement, its men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:01 PM
10

That actually sounds like a nice balance. As long as you're feeling respected and holding onto boundaries, then you should do what makes you feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:46 PM
19

I think what you said holds so much truth. We do need to hold ourselves accountable for the love and treatment we want to receive. I believe in the statement, 'you teach others how to treat you'. No one is out there telling others how to treat us. It is up to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:31 PM
12

Sounds like a great way to throw away your life for someone who doesn't even care to get their own together. Yeah, spend years of your life helping him lose weight and gain self confidence so you can gain nothing while he turns around with his new found confidence and fucks someone else because he's too embarrassed that you were with him for the struggle. Fucking pass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:36 PM
25

Yeah "not all men" when the comment section literally proves its 99% of men. We don't even need to provide proof. They do it for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:32 PM
4

Jeeze 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:21 PM
7

Holy shit. A nice gesture would have been to cancel the trip and allowed you to have saved your money for yourself and be around people who care about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:25 AM
25

Thanks girl 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:21 PM
92

Girl it crushed mine at the time. I cried when my mom asked me what he got me. That was the end of my marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:52 PM
9

I think I just don't get much out of just clitoral orgasms which is all I get from oral sex. Even when using a vibrator, the clitoral orgasms are small and not super satisfying. However, vaginal orgasms are amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:49 PM
13

No, I still expect the offer. It just does nothing for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:42 PM
20

Am I the only woman who hates men going down on them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:15 PM
537

My shitty ex-husband got me nothing for Christmas one year. I saved for months to buy him a gun part he wanted, and then he told me ,"I didn't know what to get you, so I got you nothing." I had never felt so unappreciated. This is why I don't date men who are shitty gift givers. My ex-boyfriend at least always made me happy in the gifts department.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:11 PM
13

The comments make me glad I'm single. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:11 AM
16

Great advice. I got rid of all of the people I followed for fitness and dieting because it made me feel bad about myself. Im probably the heaviest I've ever been, but I love my body now that the only thing I compare it to is itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:58 AM
2

Inspiration for bad days 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:46 AM
74

I love the confidence in the last answer 😂🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:45 AM
57

We must be hitting her where it hurts if she made an entire video justifying the shitty behavior she is willing to endure from the men in her life. Its a hard pill to swallow. Sucks to suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:41 AM
97

I found this sub because of a man bashing it in comments. Saw a few posts and was sold on this better way of life, and now I preach it to all of my female friends. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:39 PM
23

Ditto girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:41 PM
11

I love it! How awesome for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:26 PM
2

Well said 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:19 PM
8

I love you 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:11 PM
19

Its a crappy compliment, a crapliment if you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:12 PM
22

Did he feel bad when he dropped you and hurt your feelings? Nope, he didn't realize it until his first option didn't work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:53 AM
6

100% go to HR. His behavior and the supervisor's is absolutely disgusting and illegal. Quid pro quo is a big fucking no no if you're in the U.S.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:19 PM
53

Im 5'10, so I tell them off the bat that I prefer tall men. As shallow as they act like I am, I'm not willing to deal with height insecurity from a man who is 5'9 when I want to wear heels. They'll tell you it isn't an issue until you want to wear heels and they tell you they want you to wear flats 🖕.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:35 PM
37

The fucker would have caught hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:49 PM
16

How are we a hate group? I see no hate. Its female support and encouragement. Guess that makes us haters 🤷‍♀️.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:08 PM
32

He lost me at "your".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:37 AM
66

She should start seeing other men now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:02 PM
4

Can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:23 PM
30

You didn't get the "good vibes only" vibe from me? Bummer 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:16 PM
15

Men do this to me as well. I'm a nurse. I took it off online dating profile when I had one and noticed I had a lot less annoying comments. When they ask about my job, I tell them briefly I'm a nurse and then move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:14 AM
52

I have 1 child. His dad is low value. I put up with him for 7 years. I woke up one morning realizing he never cared about me, I was just his meal ticket, and I hated my life.The moment I dropped his ass, I sought after career opportunities that I had previously never felt good enough for, and now I make six figures, tripling his income 😎. Turns out, you can reach higher when you drop the dead weight. Currently teaching my son what it is to be a high value man and how to respect women. I love my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:07 AM
5

Damn, are you in Southern CA too? Talk about vapid and broken people who only want FWB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:02 PM
1

OR show up, order, tell him you were there and got yours to go because coffee dates aren't real dates and high value men know that already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:16 AM
1

I'm about to start posting their dick pics to reddit for others to rate and then get back to them. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 10:13 AM
1

What a whiney bitch. It's not light hearted. He's just a selfish asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:54 AM
5

And they act like women are so fickle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:21 PM
20

Omg yes! It would be nice to have more male friendships, but I only have one that really is a platonic friendship. Men act like you're no longer a valuable human in any regard once they find out you aren't going to fuck them. It really is their loss because I'm an amazing friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:13 PM
3

Men I've dated will dance if asked. They may not be good, but they know I enjoy it, so they'll at least attempt. These were even LVM from the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:32 PM
6

He sounds very feminine and insecure. Who needs that much external validation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:23 PM
3

I'd have to agree. Im a single mom and an ER nurse who matched with a single dad who is an ER doctor and we find time to chat and video chat with one another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:26 PM
14

Well said! Nice is a default setting, not an achievement. 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 10:33 PM
7

I'm like, I'll put it on if I can NP swab you and start a Foley. 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:27 PM
26

Also a nurse. Guys always want to see "the outfit". Hate to break it to the fellas, its baggy scrubs 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:07 AM
1

Started walking daily, bought a paddleboard, bought a keyboard to learn piano, started playing golf. I've been working through the pandemic, but I've been trying to get outdoors more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:14 AM
14

I've dated mostly men who don't care about sex, and it kills me inside. No more, gotta have matching sex drives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:52 AM
29

Isn't it so sad that we are literally just asking to be treated respectfully and most can't even do that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:24 AM
26

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahaha 🤣😂🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:29 AM
68

Imagine how many things you could by yourself with the portion they expected you to use on them? Spa, clothes, lavish dinner....men are out of their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:46 PM
66

And that's why traveling alone sounds amazing 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:45 PM
12

Not only living, but thriving 🙌. The sky is the limit when you drop dead weight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:49 PM
12

It taught me that I need to show my son how to love and respect women appropriately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:46 PM
2

That's so awesome! Mine got worse after birth 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:14 PM
174

I birthed a whole ass human, and some days period cramps are comparable. Until a man births a child and bleeds regularly for most of his life, he will have no say on how I experience those pains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:58 AM
7

So much truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:40 AM
14

Yaaaas queen!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:45 PM
9

I probably would have played like I was still up for it and then when you weren't there, told him you were just returning the favor of disappointment. I'd also be out doing something fun. Fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:08 PM
1

This thread makes me wanna wear a chastity belt.
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