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5

YES!!! And the forearms! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:18 AM
1

This is probably a good thing, though. In order to believe this "men peak at 40 and deserve women in their 20s" crap, one has to believe that women aren't fully human. Those people shouldn't reproduce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:36 PM
10

Right? As if forcing myself to have sex with a gross old man would somehow be better than a fulfilling job that pays me bank and gives me all the freedom I could ever want. No thanks boo 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:28 PM
11

Let's tip this old man/young woman narrative. Young women should get impregnated by young, hot men, but the young woman should get an old rich man to support her and her child because according to scrotes ~it's what's best for the child~. He doesn't get to have sex with her though. Not really, I just want to anger some lurking scrotes today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:24 PM
15

SAME, sis! Even men our age are out here looking haggard! 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:20 PM
4

So you agree? Men have arrested development? Should not take a man 40 years to have his life together. And that's ignoring the fact that his sperm is dusty, hairline is receding, body probably covered in flab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:19 PM
4

I'm the same. It's so hard for me to lose attraction even if a guy has a shit personality. I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:47 PM
1

I also hate onions, but I've never lied about having an allergy. It's tempting though because everyone thinks I'm lying about not liking them, and yOuD lIkE tHeM iF yOu tRiEd tHeM (have tried them, actually still don't like them). In fact certain men I've dated have tried to trick me into eating onions. BUT, I would not eat a dish containing onions. Especially if I'd specifically asked someone to prepare something special for me without onions (I don't ask people to do this, because it's just an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:56 AM
2

Men are so weak willed and easily influenced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:24 PM
18

I hate that the unborn fetuses are seen as more important to keep alive/functioning than the grown women carrying them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:20 PM
27

The one thing that stood out to me is that no woman would consider having sex after 4 dates a "success". I mean even for pickmes, that's not the end goal. It's mundane. I was like "wait what happened next in this fake story? that's it? that's the whole thing?" Like how is it post-worthy to be like "I did it u guys I got laid", especially as a (pretend) woman? We could get laid for breakfast if we wanted to, we could get laid after zero dates, it's not an achievement. Men are truly simple and onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:31 PM
13

Yep. Plus if you have a Google smartphone (not sure about others), it automatically backs up photos online immediately after they're taken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:02 PM
50

Somehow man whores are thought of as the "cool guy" that every other envies but in reality it's sad. Like ok, you're controlled by your desperation to have sex. Your life has no purpose other than to fuck and you will lie and manipulate and hurt people to do it? Sounds super cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:33 PM
3

Men are too simple to understand that both the women working and male patrons of the strip club are being exploited by the club owners. They can't see the third party, the men who are using the women as tools to extract money from the clients.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 07:06 PM
41

Reminds me of my first boyfriend who told me that I was molested as a child (I wasn't) because I'd been uncomfortable around adult men as a child and teenager. Or maybe it's because adult men are just creepy towards girls??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:12 PM
21

Why do these men even date? He's literally admitting that he likes porn more than actually having sex. Just cut out the middlewoman and marry your cum-crusted laptop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:42 PM
34

As others have said, he's mad that he can't have the younger sister. But also, there is no such thing as "brutal honestly". It's obvious in this case, but it's always used as a shitty excuse to be an asshole for no reason. You can be 100% honest and still be tactful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:54 AM
20

That's it. The human race needs to die off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:04 AM
78

I agree. She should at least be getting a paycheck from him to go into her own separate account for all of the administrative tasks she's doing, plus, assuming, the majority of housework and childcare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:03 AM
7

Exactly! We "cause" their impure thoughts simply by existing, so they label us impure, rather than themselves for feeding and acting on those thoughts. Poor, innocent, flawed man, who is corrupted by woman. It's the oldest story told by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:02 AM
84

A thousand times this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:27 PM
21

This is amazing. On a somewhat related note, my parents dressed both my sister and me up as Batman for Halloween as children. 😂 They're conservative but good in certain ways. Never pushed gender roles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:18 PM
14

In my experience, men think that a "better driver" cuts people off, gets in front of everyone, does stupid, dangerous, show off-y shit, etc. No matter how much damage they do to their car and others. Their opinions don't matter. If you have an objective view on what makes a "better driver" (i.e. not hitting stuff with your car, being safe) women are the clear winners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:13 PM
2

Nice! That sounds like it's going to be awesome when it's finished!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:06 PM
71

Funny how men claim that women are impure, but at the same time they can't stop themselves from raping animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:38 PM
15

Even if you do all of the car and yard maintenance yourself, which some people prefer, it's a lot less work than keeping a house clean daily. He's also kidding himself about cooking, laundry, whatever he mentioned being the only household work. What about cleaning bathrooms, vacuuming and mopping? Houses get so dirty even if no one is actively leaving trash around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:41 PM
10

Chiming in as a third here! It's so satisfying to know you can fix your car yourself, not get ripped off or lied to by sleazy mechanics, and just be able to avoid men in general that much more. I'm about to replace the clutch slave cylinder on my car. Though I also just discovered an oil leak and not sure where the source is so I don't know if that is going to be an easy fix 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:39 PM
3

Goals, sis! Do you have a three car garage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:34 PM
6

Some people enjoy doing that stuff, it's not stupid. It takes an hour every 6 months, it's not even a time sink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:32 PM
7

Same, sis. In every relationship I've had, I've become less affectionate over time because I learned that showing any affection would lead to him pestering for sex. And I didn't want to have to reject him so I just stopped hugging/snuggling/whatever I would have actually liked to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:28 PM
39

There's something here about anal... Penis in butthole... Poop comes from buttholes. ONLY poop. Therefore a penis that has been in a butthole is poop. I don't want any dude's nasty, shit-covered dick, even if he's ok not doing that with me. If he's ever done it, it's a deal breaker. The thought is nauseating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:18 AM
18

This is so interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:13 PM
21

Men cockblock themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:51 PM
132

I feel like our society's whole "coming of age" at 18 idea is entirely off. I just turned 30 and I feel like only recently have I blossomed into a full human being. Studies show that the brain doesn't fully mature until around 25, some are saying closer to 30. And isn't it so convenient for men - that as soon as our brains mature and we have enough experience and wherewithal to make our own decisions, recognize bad treatment, etc., we are suddenly "old".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:40 PM
13

True! It's great that she doesn't feel pressure to look a certain way, but it looks like she relies on internet validation too much. I just want to tell her, sis, BE FREE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:20 PM
3

They don't think we are human. That's why they think they're at liberty to make these decisions for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:31 AM
21

Confidence like this is good if it's real, but if she really gets a kick out of men not finding her attractive, why is she wearing makeup and lingerie and posting half naked pics all over the internet? She IS feeding into the male gaze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:25 AM
53

I get what he's saying, but the way he explains the study doesn't make sense. They dress children up sexually and make them pose sexually and this arouses men. And they conclude that men are turned on by the fact that they are children, rather than the things introduced that men recognize as "sexy"? He also seems to think that men are inherently attracted to children. I don't believe this, and I don't think the study as described proves this. Men are trained by society to objectify and sexualize…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:46 PM
16

I feel you. I'm still salty because at my best friend's wedding, they served cake while I was still finishing my dinner, and by the time I was done eating dinner, the cake had disappeared. It was this fancy to-do so they didn't have plates of cake sitting out for people to grab, but waiters walking around handing plates of cake to people. So I'm sure there was cake left, but it wasn't out for people. The bride then promised she'd get me a slice but it never came.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:20 PM
4

Ok, fair point. He does sound extremely insecure 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:52 AM
6

Sis, 5'9 is not the issue here...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:36 AM
5

I think it's supposed to be babies' heads, as in, does he have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 03:35 AM
13

If a guy pulled this crap with me, I'd definitely give him the full baby treatment. Go lie face down on the bed so I can make sure your ass crack is clean, followed by some baby powder. Can't say I'll have adult diapers on hand though 🤷‍♀️ Then call an ambulance since he suddenly can't walk, and let him deal with the hospital bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 05:13 PM
21

Oof... nude yoga sounds like a lot of butthole views. Pls no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:54 AM
32

Came here to say this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:32 AM
23

Why would it make sense biologically for a woman to bond strongly with a male who does not bond with her and thus is likely to leave her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:56 PM
2

And never with body hair! Honestly, media where women always have hairless underarms is jarring to me now - it looks so alien, but it's EVERYWHERE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:41 PM
90

Too much on his head, not enough on the neck and the rest of his body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:08 PM
2

Oh, absolutely. The television networks can get any episodes they want taken down and made unavailable anywhere on the internet. The people in charge have the power and they leave the porn up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:59 PM
8

Ugh, young Val is my ultimate crush.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:05 PM
9

I know this isn't feasible for everyone, but I love having a home gym. Everything is always clean and put away, no wait for gym equipment, no creepy guys staring or trying to snap photos of me, or making any excuse to come and talk to me, no groups of men hogging equipment while they take a full hour for every single one of them to get through using the bench press, and the only person grunting is me. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:24 PM
14

I think 'sensitive' makes more sense 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:15 PM
30

They're obsessed with us. It's so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:41 PM
21

I've never understood having a TV in the bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:09 AM
12

Butter and deadlifts! 👏 I like to credit donuts and squats, but the principle is the same 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:50 PM
6

Wow! I'm so happy for your mom! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:22 PM
79

I just have resting don't fuck with me face. That and any time I go out to run errands, I have a game plan. I hate going to crowded public places so I just do what I need done, no distractions. I walk swiftly and with purpose. I don't have time to stop and talk, and I act like it. Plus, confident body language and good posture helps a ton. I'm a powerlifter so I like to think that my muscles intimidate the men a bit. 😂 Plus as others have mentioned, looking put together. High quality accessories…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:34 PM
2

Wow, this just brought up a buried memory of a scrote I dated saying that he would hardly care about his grandkids because they would be only 1/4 him instead of 1/2 like his own kids would be. This is how narcissists think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:56 AM
1

Eh, more non-shitty men for the rest of us (in theory).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:00 PM
3

Ew. Imagine your husband publicly humiliating you like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:58 PM
13

Lmfao thank you for reminding me of this scene!!! Wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:32 AM
70

On the contrary, it's clear that he didn't give a shit about her because he clearly contributed nothing to the home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:03 AM
170

I want to say she took the mattress (probably a nice one that she paid for because she didn't want to sleep on a rock) and he was too cheap to buy another queen. Lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:59 AM
48

Oh my god, why is this so accurate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:14 AM
11

I'd argue that hypergamy in the sense of wanting a wealthy man able to provide for us is not a biological imperative, but a social one. It wouldn't exist if women were able to make our own living over the course of history. Now wanting a fit, young, attractive man? That is certainly a biological imperative!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:51 PM
19

THIS!!! It helps that I hate corvettes, the quintessential old man mid/late life crisis car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:18 AM
7

The final line of the article is gold 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:53 PM
57

They can't even imagine being alone. This is why they always line up another girlfriend before breaking up with a woman. As if we're like jobs, and it's ethical to be talking to other women while still in a relationship with someone. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:58 PM
9

This is perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:33 PM
39

This sucks but it also makes me feel better about never wanting to cook or clean for a man again. I've never been one to clean up after a man but I used to love cooking. I used to love making a delicious meal for the man I used to love and seeing the joy and appreciation from him. He would cook for me too. But when it stopped being reciprocal, when he stopped helping with dish cleanup and kept expecting me to cook delicious meals, and when he cooked and would not even salt the food (literally), …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:36 PM
46

I think men operate this way quite often, but it's not healthy. If a man "knows" right away if he wants to marry you or just fuck you, it means he doesn't respect women as actual people, and doesn't care about your personality at all so therefore doesn't need time to get to know you. This is a red flag to me. That being said, of course he should still act like you are very important to him from the beginning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:36 PM
111

Yeah I'm starting to think that porn, especially extremely depraved porn, is being pushed by the same billionaires who run pedophile child rape rings, in order to normalize pedophilia and incest and other depraved crimes against women and girls. This world is too far gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 03:56 AM
545

LMFAO. "Do other men have your nudes? If yes, you should be ashamed, you absolute slut. If no, send them to me, a random male who has no attachment to you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:16 PM
310

This is from porn. They literally think it's possible for us to be naturally hairless. Naturally bleached assholes and vulvas. Naturally gigantic, perfectly round, gravity defying breasts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:12 PM
71

Men are defective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:30 AM
15

If a man thinks all women are exactly the same, he's an idiot. And a misogynist. I had a man tell me I was LYING when I said I never fantasized about my wedding day growing up, because "all girls do that". Idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:41 PM
50

THIS!!! I find excessive body hair on men to be offensive 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:16 AM
71

Men will identify with anything with a penis, regardless how horrible (the Joker, Patrick Bateman, etc.), before they ever empathize with a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:48 AM
136

By their logic, they have complete control over how "easy" our lives are, and could stop us living on "easy mode" if they would just stop being so easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:24 PM
45

The debt thing only works if you're going to die literally tomorrow. Do they think they can just put off paying it back indefinitely with no consequences? Good luck getting an apartment lease or a home or car loan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:24 AM
43

Eh, that's better than nothing but still disappointing. Men should already not have interest in porn because of the degrading way that it portrays women, even if trafficking and abuse and rape were not so common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:16 AM
114

YES. We need to bring back porn-shaming. Only pathetic men who can't get laid in real life watch porn. Only cucks masturbate while watching other men fuck the women that they want to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:10 AM
13

They are mad when they get the "porn virgin" anyway, because they'll think she's lying about being a virgin. The first guy I slept with accused me of lying about it because I didn't bleed or hurt the first time we had sex (he was fairly big), and I was "too good" at it. Oh no I'm sorry I've masturbated before and know what I like. Sorry that you don't know how hymens actually work or what a turned on vagina feels like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:44 AM
7

Yes, SAME!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:36 AM
11

Damn, looks like her left femur popped out of her hip socket. Edit: I just noticed that more of her face is visible too, because how can we know if she's pretty if we cover her face? Not like she has an identity to protect. Women must be pretty and aesthetically pleasing above all else even if it doesn't fit the context! Men are so logical!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:29 AM
19

THIS. That's what this argument boils down to, they're admitting that porn is rape. Or at the very least, adjacent to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:42 AM
38

Men are literally unfit for survival 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:19 PM
56

He is being charged with "kidnapping resulting in death, carjacking resulting in death, and intentionally killing an unborn child". What about first degree murder of an adult woman?! This was clearly premeditated. The law considers her life and her death less important than those of an unborn fetus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:37 PM
3

Not OP but I found it! https://pantastic.com/products/getbullish-im-not-bossy-im-the-boss-coin-purse-in-pink-with-purple-sassy-kitty?variant=39589414568100&from=cart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:04 AM
62

This, and men 9 times out of 10 do not do shit around the house or parent the kids or contribute in any way other than financially. Everybody knows it. So if a man refused to work he'd just be dead weight. It makes my blood boil that he can't see the hard work she's been doing this whole time to raise his children, and the sacrifice she made by giving up her career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:20 PM
85

Today on When Men Cockblock Themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:47 AM
32

Apparently they missed "muscular legs", or maybe that's just a me thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:39 AM
69

Yep, he definitely got "outie" from either porn subs or redpill/incel subs where they claim that protruding labia minora are the result of a woman having lots of casual sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:51 PM
295

Men sure have done a good job of dressing the disempowerment and objectification of women up as "women's empowerment." This is not accidental. The more actual power and equity we gain, the more they need to degrade and dehumanize us. See also: the rise of massive amounts of free, easily accessible porn that teaches young boys to view women as subhuman sex objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:36 AM
9

Right? Is he quarantining her every month or making her sanitize everything she touches when she's on her period? What a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:32 PM
7

Some of these pornsick men believe that women can come multiple times right after the last, as in, they keep "going" and you have more intense orgasms literally without stopping after the first. They call it "chaining" or "stacking". Now, I'm not going to outright deny that this is possible because I've heard it from women, too. But it isn't possible or at least isn't pleasurable for all of us. I had an ex who insisted that all women could do this, and used it as a measure of his own masculinity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:43 PM
87

Men are insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:48 PM
20

Weird how pubic hair didn't prevent thousands of generations of humans from procreating, or selecting against pubic hair in adult women. It's almost like natural selection has nothing to do with it, or even favors pubic hair 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:27 PM
10

I wonder if they're "poly" and actually live together, and the guy just didn't tell his new girlfriend because he knew she wouldn't be down with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:34 PM
24

I've met men who actually believe that men have one fewer rib than women, proving religion in their minds 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:42 AM
15

Exactly my thoughts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:02 PM
14

But also, why have societal beauty standards for women typically been stick thin with no muscle mass? And even today, you're supposed to have a huge butt, but no corresponding quad/hamstring/calf muscles. Just body fat in the butt and boobs and nowhere else, and no muscle. Men have always wanted us small and weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:19 PM
49

Men are insane. These people are a detriment to society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:04 PM
6

Yeah this was over 5 years ago, I was young and put up with way too much bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:09 AM
53

I had an ex who would always leave me alone at parties his friends threw where I knew no one, and would deliberately go talk to other women in front of me. He was a red pill idiot. Anyway one time he did this, and some other guy started talking to me. My ex came over, annoyed that I was talking to another dude (not even flirting, this other guy was not cute), talking crazy about how my knee was pointed at the guy (we were sitting on a couch, with plenty of space between us and I had my legs cros…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:27 PM
20

I've heard "splenda daddy" for the cheapos, but to be fair I've never been involved in any of this stuff. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:54 AM
23

Honestly, how are men so evil?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:38 AM
9

This is my dream car, the Civic Type R (minus the cringey anime paint job). This personally offends me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:16 PM
31

Yep. We, as human beings, DO have the ability to change our thought patterns. We can retrain our brains to reinforce certain thought patterns. Men constantly do this via porn use. If you use a "thought pathway" (I am no neuroscientist, I do not know the technical term) a lot, it gets stronger. Ones that are not used often get weaker. Therefore if a man is constantly indulging thoughts of fucking other women (even if he doesn't "act" on it by actually cheating, even if he "just" masturbates to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:13 PM
8

They think we like men who sleep with a ton of women, so this follows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:35 PM
5

LMFAO. This is hilarious. Men are so desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:33 PM
34

Yep. If I tried to bring up how often I did chores vs how often my ex did chores, I was evil for "keeping score". According to him we weren't allowed to use numbers, just feelings. Well, he was allowed to use feelings. He "felt like" he was doing half of the chores, so that must have been true. Meanwhile I felt like and actually knew that I was doing more, but that meant nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:32 PM
13

YES omg I keep thinking about that, how do even they get that?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:13 PM
26

Even worse, to me it reads like she is a consumable object, like they're sharing a piece of cheesecake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:19 PM
7

I wish I'd been so witty! I just said "actually, I AM here to build muscle" and ignored him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:56 PM
23

IF HIS NAME IS CHRIS LMFAO 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:45 PM
58

Girl I'm 29 and men my own age look like hell 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:42 PM
15

Even if you do lift weights they will tell you that you're doing it wrong. I've had countless guys mansplain bench press to me even though I can bench as much as I weigh, which isn't bad. Then there were the people telling me I should do yoga instead (I didn't do yoga regularly at the time but I do now and had done it before). And then! There was this old man who I can't up to me in the gym once when I went at an irregular time for me. He told me that I wasn't there to build muscle and that I sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:11 PM
7

I remember hearing of a post on reddit with a medical picture of a person's anus, had to do with a mole removal near the anus or something like that, and a scrote commented on it asking if it was a poopy butthole because... the skin was darker around the anus. This scrote had only seen bleached anuses in porn. He was rightfully ridiculed, but it's true, some men raised on porn think it's supposed to match the color of the rest of the body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:20 AM
16

Love this show 😂 how about the one where Claire opens the relationship and starts dating a second guy, and then the two guys turn into buddies and she ends up with two fully grown male children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:13 PM
75

Same, girl. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:40 PM
9

Are they high? Just today I saw an article about how "dad bods are the biggest turn-on for singles in the pandemic era!!!1!" (🤮 yeah right, I'll stay single and celibate thank you). Please tell me how this isn't male body positivity. You'd never see an article about how "mom bods" or women gaining weight during quarantine is "tHe SeXiEsT tHiNg eVeR!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:42 PM
11

Ahh I'm so petty, I would deliberately ignore and flout the contents of the email, and when someone called me out, say "oh, I thought that didn't apply to me, since it was addressed to the gentlemen."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:11 PM
63

This story deeply saddens me every time I hear it. Just two of the cowardly men could've overpowered this incel and saved 14 beautiful souls. I think back to high school. My situation was way less deadly and less tragic but that should've made it easier for someone to stick up for me. One afternoon as everyone was heading out through the main hallway, a teenage boy bumped into me and stole my wallet and iPod out of my bag. I chased after him and caught him by the arm, and demanded my things back…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 01:02 AM
40

They also have to touch the flusher handle on the urinal though, which is nasty. Also then they go around getting their dick/urinal germs on everything. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:30 AM
41

My super Catholic ex was a porn addict and I believe he genuinely wanted to quit, because it was "sinful". He still couldn't quit, hid it and lied to my face about it, and then accused me of not supporting him through it even though I didn't know about it. Men will make any excuse to continue their disgusting behavior even if it makes them hate themselves, but then they get mad when women don't accept their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:42 PM
69

Are they unaware that we literally just had an incel mass shooting OF PROSTITUTED WOMEN in the US?! Prostitution does not solve mass shootings. It teaches and encourages men to think of us as commodities, chattel, objects, making them even more enraged when we reject them. EVEN IF prostitution helped assuage male violence (which is a ridiculous notion - even the men not killing prostituted women routinely batter and abuse them), it would not be ethical to subject a subset of women to male violen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:35 PM
17

It will pass. I was with my ex fiance for only 2.5 years before we broke up, and it took me several months to get over him. It's tough but you will get through it! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:17 PM
25

Exactly! Unattractive women do not even register as women to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:04 PM
25

As if a man would be satisfied with a woman who is kind, loves sex and sports, but is ugly, or refuses to do any housework or cook for him. Also the logic in this "joke" does not follow. The husband store clearly states that the value of the products increases on each successive floor. How can they fault a (hypothetical) woman for taking this at face value and expecting there to be "products" on every floor? It would be deceitful to say this and then have a trick floor. But yes, let's all go dum…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:01 PM
61

Also he's equating masturbation to watching porn. As if a person can't masturbate without porn, and we are evil for expecting them not to masturbate! The issue is not the masturbation (although excessive masturbation can be an issue but is usually caused by porn use). The issue is men who can't get off without seeing videos of abuse and exploitation of women. For some of us it is also that the man is giving his sexual energy to other women. In any capacity. This should not be normal! We don't ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:53 PM
15

It's not low value but it doesn't take a lot of thought or effort. Is it nice gesture? Yes! I'm not trying to put her down for being happy about it, I just mean that he needs to be doing other things as well. I'd argue that buying a car, if a man is wealthy, is low effort as well (and maybe a reddish flag because very expensive gifts can be a form/indicator of financial abuse - not always though). It's not about the $ amount. It's about the amount of thought and effort he puts in. If a man works…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:24 PM
23

This is sweet and they are beautiful (I love white flowers)! But remember, buying flowers is low effort! Not in a negative way, but it is the bare minimum! I'd say a pale green flag ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:14 PM
25

Don't forget "who are you trying to impress?" Because we can't have nice things for ourselves. 🙄 We have to be either trying to impress someone, or we have caught the interest of another man. Or they're so insecure that they can't treat us better than we treat ourselves. It all boils down to insecure men who want to put in the bare minimum but it's still supposed to wow us somehow. They want to lower the bar so that their "slightly more interested than not interested at all" attitude impresses u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:15 AM
10

Yup. 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:23 PM
7

Yep. I had an ex shamelessly steal jokes that I had made off the cuff for his "comedy routine." I don't think he'll ever even get off a stage but it still pisses me off that he thought he could rip off my humor. They treat us like they are responsible for everything that we do, because they still see us as their property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:58 AM
21

It's bad from this type of dude who thinks he shouldn't owe anything to a woman who he coerces to sacrifice her body and career to raise his children and be his mommy maid, in the case of divorce. Prenups are a good thing if they protect us women and our nest eggs from being stolen by selfish men, and also if they give us security in the case of a divorce when we have sacrificed our careers and have less earning potential coming out of a marriage. But these dudes think it should mean a flat "she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:13 PM
4

Chiming in to recommend the beginner's program StrongLifts 5x5. Start with low weight, lower than the empty bar if necessary and work up slowly to learn the movements. Having a set program is so important and helps you stay consistent instead of trying to figure things out on your own. Another popular program is Starting Strength Novice Program. The book has detailed instructions on how to properly perform the lifts. I did StrongLifts until I was strong enough to move on to an intermediate progr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:41 AM
7

Someone has probably beaten me to this comment, but I recommend powerlifting. Not necessarily to compete (of course if you want to then go for it! From my experience the community is super friendly and inclusive), but powerlifting training focuses on compound lifts which are great for building overall strength and maintaining balance between muscle groups. I LOVE what lifting has done to my body, I feel so strong and it has given me a level of confidence that I never had before I started lifting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:12 AM
8

This is good advice overall, but not exactly why we make men wait to have sex. We don't want the dudes who only value us if we make them wait. Those dudes are also low value and misogynistic. The waiting just weeds out those who are too impatient and only want sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:43 AM
3

Thank you! I love reading about this kind of thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:36 PM
35

This reminds me of those Australian beetles that almost went extinct because the males would rather mate with glass beer bottles than females of their own species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 06:16 AM
6

Man realizes that as he ages, it'll no longer be socially acceptable to hit on young women around him. Wonders how he can continue doing this without being creepy. "Is there a less creepy way to do this creepy thing?" Idiot 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:58 AM
12

Does this man have turrets? Why does he shout the word "INCEST" randomly throughout his reply? Really makes him look like a moron, and someone who wants to fuck his own cousin. He's also just openly ridiculing her throughout the whole response. What a clown. Also his solution is to just change the definition of cheating, and do drugs to ignore it? Basically, "If you don't get mad about it, you won't get mad about it. And then it's fine." Genius. Superb male logic here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:56 PM
12

But sites dedicated to the degradation and exploitation of women continue to be allowed. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:01 PM
62

Oof.. aside from how cringey and creepy this is, what a fucking waste of money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:56 AM
13

It's because men are pathetic and have sex with people that they don't like. They don't like them before sex either, they just want to have sex with anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:29 PM
2

I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:38 PM
11

The "age of consent" in GA isn't even 16, to consent to sex with ADULTS. It is illegal in GA for adults to have sex with minors under 18. By law 16-17 year olds can consent to sex with other 16-17 year olds, but not to sex with legal adults. These men are high and grasping at straws to justify their pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:49 PM
12

It's still a hole in their logic, because if there are designated women to fuck, there aren't enough virgins to go around to every man, like they want. It would only make sense if the population of our species was a majority of women with very few males, and even then it would still be a flawed argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:27 PM
33

How is this view even logical? How are women to remain chaste if men want to run around fucking... women? This is the giant hole in their "logic" that I have never heard explained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:27 PM
22

SO weird to talk about your kids' genitalia on social media. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:21 PM
23

What an idiotic conclusion. The referenced "study" seems to have shown that people in healthier relationships tend to make jokes about each other (no distinction between light-hearted banter vs. verbal abuse here), but you'd have to be an absolute moron to take that to mean that if you're in a not so great relationship, adding in making jokes at each other's expense will make it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:12 PM
11

As a society, we need to bring back shame, to some degree. No, it shouldn't be illegal to hump a stuffed animal. But you should be ashamed as fuck about it, and nobody should condone it. This is where "don't kink shame!" has brought us. A world where we can't criticize men who fuck stuffed animals or watch cartoon porn of children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:29 PM
2

Yeah I'm aware it's still contagious. I didn't know there was a blood test 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:00 PM
2

Even if someone requests being tested for herpes it's unlikely to show up as positive unless the person being tested has an active outbreak. This is why it's not included in a standard STI screening. It's possible to have HSV and never have any symptoms, and for it to never show up on an STI test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:28 PM
19

We don't even get the courtesy of courtship anymore. Men want it to go "I want to fuck. But don't try to get to know anything about me beforehand so that you can make an informed decision. And if you say no, I'm going to pout about it. And then if you get pregnant, I want a "financial abortion" since I don't know you or care about you." And this is literally where we are. The only way we can change this happening at such a large scale is to stop having sex with them right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:24 PM
60

This is the one thing I remember from that movie. There was more female nudity than male nudity in a movie about male strippers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:59 AM
29

If he was looking for Instagram, as he claims, why did he click on reddit? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:14 AM
23

From someone who works in tech, if you think your "private" nudes disappear from snapchat's servers you are mistaken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:12 AM
15

They don't want exploitative content on reddit? Lmfao. Oh yes, everyone posting on that dead eyes subreddit (and countless others like it) are women posting "empowering" pictures of themselves, not degenerate men posting pictures of exploited women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:23 AM
54

I used to date a Catholic, and his explanation for this rule was that "priests are servile, and women are too holy to be servile". Right, like those men don't hold a ton of power in their communities... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:37 PM
79

Weird flex, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:36 PM
8

Yes but some people do care. I'd hope that most people care. The people designing artificial wombs will discover the drawbacks, and hopefully they will not be legal to use if they ever even become advanced enough to gestate a fetus. My main point is that I don't think it's a thing that we can replicate - I don't think artificial wombs will create viable fetuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:18 PM
58

I take solace in knowing that the human body, especially the female body, is so complex that it will be a very long time before we can replicate a working artificial womb, if ever. There is nervous communication between mother and fetus. There are bonds formed beyond the physical. Intentionally bringing a child into this world motherless is cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:00 AM
19

This. I know a ton of dunces who ended up with CS degrees, his listing that as a sign of his intelligence is laughable. I am certain that he just thinks she's dumb because he considers her interests "vapid."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:16 PM
22

Honestly strip clubs should be illegal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:34 PM
3

I've never met another! I'm a total sucker for muscular, veiny forearms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:20 PM
10

You're not alone, I'm the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:11 PM
13

This is a weird response. Nowhere did I say there are men who aren't like this, or anything about wanting to date men. I'm happily single. Just saying that as a woman I can't get my head around this way of thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:43 PM
43

Imagine not being able to think clearly because you haven't touched your pp in a while. What a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:27 PM
24

I'm a total forearm woman 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:20 PM
7

Show me a face more punchable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:04 AM
6

Girl/man 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:03 AM
15

The phrase "spoon-fed" has a real "I am very smart" feel to it - like she thinks everyone other than her is an idiot incapable of critical thought. It's like when people use the word "sheeple".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:59 PM
94

Wowwww imagine thinking a person's body is their WHOLE IDENTITY. Honestly fuck this man and anyone who thinks like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:44 PM
100

They don't understand that having boundaries =/= being controlling. I don't care if a man wants to fuck around like that, but he isn't going to be my boyfriend. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:40 PM
47

It is pathetic. It's like, good for you? If he wants to fuck other women, he is not a fucking prize. They can have him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:37 PM
31

Also, Man: sex pls Woman: no, I don't want to Man: wHy NoT pP nEeD sErViCiNg Woman: sigh I have a headache Man: no u don't! haha me smart now you are forced to have sex with me because you have no excuse Woman: I still don't want to Man: I don't understand though, u no have headache? you are obligated to be my sex toy Just more male bullshit that a woman not wanting to is not a valid reason to not have sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:34 PM
26

I didn't get this at first and then I realized it's a "joke" about raping your wife because she finds you repulsive. Men aren't funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:28 PM
13

Don't explain to them. Men lack cognitive function as a factory setting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:20 PM
1

This is gross but wth is a dump truck ass? I mean I get that it means big ass but where does the term come from? An ass that takes huge dumps like a dump truck? What??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:50 PM
328

That's the cost of wasting her time 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:33 PM
35

They're the same picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:14 AM
31

This phrase makes me recoil, my first boyfriend would say that. It was so fucking creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:13 PM
153

Referring to any sexual act as "play" is extremely creepy to me, and downplays violent and degrading acts as innocuous. The other day I saw the phrase "anal play" on a medical site like WebMD. We are beyond the pale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:08 PM
18

Their deterrent is not the fact that hitting someone is illegal, their deterrent is "will this person hit me back and if they do, are they likely to inflict major damage?" Men already hit women and the ironic fact is, they are already less likely to be harshly punished for this than if they were to hit another man. This is just a stupid illogical "argument" from them to try to shut us up. But it does tell us that any man who makes this argument actually wants to hit women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:51 PM
1

All I heard was "I leave my dirty shirts anywhere except the hamper, will put dirty smelly clothes back on unless clean ones magically appear in a more convenient location after I shower, and I never clean anything and constantly add to the mess so that my wife never has a free moment." Plus he looks like THAT. What is this man even good for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:46 AM
28

Is this not normal? My body pillow has a blue cover because I'm clearly into blue rectangular men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:09 AM
7

There's way less demand for male prostitutes and it's harder to traffic men since they are less easily physically overpowered. Even if a man "chose" to go into prostitution, he'd likely have to sell himself to men which is another deterrent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:05 AM
13

The difference is that coerced sex is rape. Coerced employment is just... employment. And honestly, necessary to some degree for societies to function. How could a society be productive if people didn't work? We wouldn't HAVE food, shelter, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:01 AM
20

He looks exactly like every douchebag I've ever met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:43 PM
21

On the bright side, most of the guys following these rules will be inadvertently cockblocking themselves, assuming the women can safely get away. 🤞🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:15 AM
68

It's because no woman actually wants to have sex with them. They just can't make that final logical step and so they think that women don't know what we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:13 AM
84

Idk about you but I never know whether or not I want to kiss the obese stinky neckbeard until he tries it! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 01:07 AM
4

Poor pupper! :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:52 PM
126

Why dirty a whole two plates when you could present your naked body to be used as an object by a man? What an honor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:19 PM
6

It sounds more to me like he slowly drove her to outbursts, but she's codependent and in too deep emotionally, and has resigned to holding her feelings inside and gaslighting herself about her "over"reactions, with his help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:25 PM
10

It's pretty simple, really. Does he ever prioritize games over you? If he does, you have your answer. If he doesn't, you might be ok. Every woman has her limit. Some can tolerate more gaming. I personally can't stand a man who plays hours of video games at a time. I find it unattractive, but that's my own opinion. I will say, I think that very few men can game in a healthy way/a healthy amount. They tend to have less self control and more trouble setting limits for themselves. So figure out wher…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:01 PM
55

Reminds me of my ex who would write down funny stuff that I said for his "comedy routine" (he was not actually a comedian).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:17 PM
25

They get away on the claim that the people having sex/raping and performing violent acts upon women, and those women, are "actors" and it's all just "acting", as if they aren't actually hitting, strangulating, spitting on, and otherwise violently raping these women. "Porn actor" is the an insidious term. They get away saying the women "consented" but hide the massive coercion and abuse that goes on behind getting that technical "consent".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:15 PM
61

We need to regulate not just access to porn, but creation as well. The porn producers get away on the flimsy "freedom of speech" defense because male lawmakers want it to remain legal. Why should depicting acts of violence against women be protected speech? Put and other marginalized group (which contains men) in place of women and it seems horrifying. We need to band together. Why do women still not have a voice? We are brushed aside and ridiculed as "puritans" or "jealous/insecure" when we spe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:50 PM
4

He literally looks like Death - as in, the Grim Reaper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:13 PM
5

I wouldn't necessarily interpret "I hope you have a great week" to mean "I don't plan on taking to you during the week". The issue is that the date was negative effort. Drop this cheap, lazy, basic man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:12 PM
3

These guys have a predefined idea of their ideal woman, and select someone to play that role even if she doesn't fit. Then they get angry when she differs in any way than what they've already decided she should be. I've experienced this with men and also with my ex's mother. I believe it's a narcissist tendency. She decided that I had this "bubbly", ass-kissing personality and when I didn't act like that, she was personally offended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:04 PM
5

I don't see this brought up very often but female sterilization is also way harder on the body than snipping the vas deferens. Removal of major organs is no joke. The uterus is held in place by connective tissue and muscles and helps support other organs around it in the lower abdomen. The surrounding organs can prolapse after a hysterectomy. They really shouldn't be done as anything other than a last resort in my opinion (of course I believe it should always be up to the individual to make choi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:14 AM
28

Mine was a wannabe PUA, porn addicted, prioritized video games over me, hated that I made more money than him, thought he was going to "get rich" magically. In general though, I don't play video games much (I used to but haven't at all in the past 2 years or so, just got bored of them) and don't have that much in common with most software guys even if they somehow aren't vidya and porn addicted (and most spent lots of time on computers growing up so were probably exposed to porn early). I'm into…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:41 AM
93

I keep seeing this argument here but even if he was able to provide all of this, treating a woman like this is still not ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:02 AM
127

How to guarantee that you'll never have a second date with a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:53 AM
60

I'm a software engineer as well, I too would never date another software engineer or tech bro of any kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:47 AM
31

In my head she ghosts him after this with no explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:05 PM
112

Lmfao I'm glad I don't have a chance with him. 😂 As if this bridge troll would see any one of us here on the street and actually leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:04 PM
223

So men don't want to be saddled with 100% of the thankless household duties or lift a finger to raise their children? Weird. But women should do all of these things without a complaint, without a voice, and with a smile. Because why, exactly? So LoGiCaL. They really see us as subhuman and want us to be their slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:02 PM
97

This screams controlling narc behavior to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:19 PM
10

Agreed. Not that arm wrestling is the ultimate test of strength, but I'm 5'1, had been powerlifting already for a few years at the time, and was humbled when I tried to arm wrestle a male coworker whose only physical activity was walking from his car to his desk. He had the typical atrophied gamer bod and he still beat me easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:16 PM
41

They don't really get companionship or any modicum of emotional support, though. These men make every excuse to avoid responsibility and spending time with their families and wives, and instead spend their free time with "the boys", or hiding in the bathroom touching their pps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:56 PM
62

We already know that men like this don't wipe their butts, so what else would he be doing in there for that amount of time? Imagine hiding from your family for hours at a time to be in a fantasy world. Pathetic. She would give him what he thinks he wants and just leave him already. Men aren't worth the headache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:09 PM
7

The good thing is that the more women become aware of these tactics, the more these men will just be cockblocking themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:38 PM
3

I feel you, I got a yeast infection every time I had sex with my ex too (luckily no UTIs). They can also be caused by oral sex with a man who doen't brush his teeth. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:28 AM
72

Not to mention unwashed and likely to give you one of more of the following: UTI, yeast infection, STI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:32 AM
10

Men are really good at unwittingly cockblocking themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:29 AM
35

Men's entire "manhood" is founded on subjugating women. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:35 PM
15

I'm sorry, this guy states so matter-of-factly that 10 days is 3 pairs of underwear, as if that's something everyone knows and agreed upon. Since when?! How do they put on the same shit-stained underwear multiple days in a row?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:49 PM
16

How can they say this but at the same time cry about their nonexistent jawlines and "negative canthal tilt" because they know we prefer attractive men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:41 AM
2

Even if unattractive men were nicer, who the hell would want a partner who isn't attracted to them? I wouldn't want a super hot dude if he wasn't also into me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:38 AM
6

Lmfao he's trying to attract gold diggers before he's got any gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:53 AM
3

Agree with all of your points, I want to say thank you for all that you have done and continue to do <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:21 PM
1

Good luck! I love the jade plant, one of my faves! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:54 AM
3

It looks like a bromeliad to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:48 PM
2

This just ruined donuts for me 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:44 PM
9

I was going to say, this guy doesn't even know how to blow his brains out properly. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:21 PM
14

This is so illogical. They wouldn't be able to use their leg muscles effectively due to the pain, and to some extent the pelvic floor muscles as well. They would atrophy due to lack of use and be weaker. REGARDLESS, a disgusting and barbaric practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:10 AM
1

So he comments "hey hot stuff ;)))" on men's shirtless thirst pics too, or what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:32 PM
10

This makes no sense. We don't value sex because we won't fuck any and every man who looks our way? That means we value sex MORE, that we reserve it for only those who are truly worthy. Men are the ones who don't value sex, and yet simultaneously let it control their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:52 PM
46

I just had a realization about what the phrases "father a child" and "mother a child" connote. "Fathering a child" is used to mean lending dna to the fertilization of an ovum that then develops into a fetus, which when born becomes a baby (this is akin to a male animal "siring" offspring). "Mothering a child" means nurturing, parenting, doting on, or babying a child. Just shows how deeply this idea that fathers don't have to be involved in parenting is ingrained in our society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:54 PM
3

These men are spreading urine and feces on everything they touch. In public places, at work, at home. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:57 PM
36

It's surprising how much empathy men are suddenly capable of when other men are involved. Their ability to empathize with men they don't even know, but not with women, points to a fundamental difference in the way they view men (fellow humans) and women (sub-human, non-feeling).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:06 PM
5

Going to echo another commenter and say these are useful tactics for communicating and dealing with conflict in the workplace. You don't want to come across as accusatory or hostile if you've experienced issues with a coworker. I had a narc ex who used these "rules" against me once he learned them, basically did not allow me to voice my feelings if I didn't abide by the "I feel..." rule so I wasn't allowed to talk about anything he did directly ("you" statements). As others have said, these tact…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:34 AM
57

Look for men who are willing and eager to do things for you to make you happy, rather than men who just want you to do things for them. Of course many pull the bait and switch... but some are very bold upfront and will reveal themselves as clowns early on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:13 AM
142

Money and power are what men respect and value in other men, so they think those are the things that we care about, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:08 AM
75

THIS. 6 figures today isn't what 6 figures was 20-30 years ago (in the US anyway). Gold diggers aren't going to be going after you and your Acura, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:05 AM
13

It will come, sis! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:42 PM
128

He wants to be 70 at his kid's college graduation? Betting he wants an under 25 "fErTiLe" woman too. Also, I'm getting some white supremacist vibes from him advertising his blue eyes and saying he likes blue eyes as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:04 PM
66

Every day I grow more grateful that I don't have to stress over a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:00 PM
11

Damn sis, I had a hard time parting with my $10k ring when I called off my engagement 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:20 PM
70

"Here's how to break down her boundaries, gl bro" 🤢 Also, he's already choking and slapping her, and that's not enough. The things he's asking for must be truly horrific... This piece of shit wants to harm his girlfriend even more for his pp feels, no concern about whether or not she wants to (or if she even enjoys what they currently do in bed) just how to get her to concede.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:56 PM
211

Men never acknowledge everything that WE give up for them when we GET married. Our lives, our careers (even if after having kids the mother continues working, her career takes a hit), our bodies if we have kids, all of our free time because they don't do shit around the house, our mental health when he comes home angry that dinner isn't ready because you're busy taking care of and cleaning up after the kids, and him. And then when you lose your sex drive because he's a huge manbaby who treats yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:15 PM
148

That looks like a nice, modern HE dryer. They literally have sensors that tell you when to clean the lint trap. So much for the scrote "jUsT tElL mE wHaT tO dO" excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:02 PM
37

Hot take: they don't really care if it's consensual or not, they just act shocked at the fact that it might not be to save face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:06 PM
8

Girl, you gave me flashbacks to my lvm ex 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:33 AM
1

Awesome, thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:54 AM
90

I don't understand this at all. Why would anyone want to have sex with someone and then never see them again? What is wrong with men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:43 AM
62

Lmao that suggestion is not even mature communication, it's a petty attempt at revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:48 PM
3

I would love to read that if you have a link. I know google assistant lets you change the voice to male (I have done it, but I don't use it often anyway), but the default is still female and I haven't met anyone other than myself who has changed theirs to a male voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:39 PM
34

Chiming in to say I hate these subservient "female" digital assistants. I hate that Apple and Amazon have personified them as female-voiced servants. Just another form societal conditioning that women exist to serve men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:01 AM
4

Scrote-free Sunday! No dumb screenshots or talk about scrotes at all, with a focus on leveling up in our own lives!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:28 PM
251

Boyfriend: you made me look like a dickhead for calling you my wife in front of my coworkers while I refuse to marry you! Woman: but you... actually did those things... Boyfriend: but you made me look bad by telling the truth! You got me into this mess by unweaving my web of lies, now you have to make the lie even more convoluted to make my coworkers think I'm a good person, because it's YOUR fault they think I'm an ass when they know the truth about my character. Woman: ... Basically, he doesn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:06 PM
33

Men actually think that we exist just for them, so what's the point of women if no men are around? To them, a women-only gym is like a food-only restaurant (no customers allowed).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:44 PM
76

I thought from the thumbnail that he took a sledgehammer to her car and I was about to get SO MAD because I love my car... but this is actually highly disturbing. This man should be locked away. This is not ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:56 AM
61

I've had male coworkers ask why I want to keep my own last name. I'm like, uh, the same reason y'all want to keep your names? It's a part of my identity. They can't even imagine changing their own names for a marriage but then ask me why I don't want to change mine??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:44 AM
125

What a meaningless life he must lead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:17 PM
143

Eh, there's certainly something to be said for not being super available for a man, but if you have to restrict yourself like this in order to keep him interested, he isn't a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 11:07 PM
84

From the horse's mouth, don't have sex with any man you wouldn't want to have father your children. They would be furious if we actually lived by this rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 05:27 PM
40

I think a big part of it today is that women, especially young women, don't see how entitled and underdeveloped men are. We expect them to be fully functioning adults who take responsibility for chores, cooking, cleaning, making appointments, etc. just like we are. But they aren't. And then we think that they will catch up to us so we hang on to useless men that we are attached to emotionally. But they will never catch up. Men live in a different world. They believe they shouldn't have to take r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:59 AM
18

The people pushing/making porn make billions off of it, the people advocating against porn make $0 from people not watching porn. So weird, right??? His argument is idiotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:48 AM
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Either this or he expected her to tell him when she was done working that same day, as if she'd want to come over to service his dick after working all day. Since she obviously didn't and wasn't free (for him) until Sunday, he's salty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:34 PM
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I kind of disagree with this... It feels like those people who claim that videos of men cleaning are "porn for women". It denies that we have sexual appetites. Just because we have been so starved of actual affection by the men in our lives that the thought of one actually holding our hand seems exciting, doesn't mean that we don't also appreciate a shirtless attractive man. The difference in the female gaze is that the shirtless man is still a person to us, not an object. He's the main characte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:07 PM
31

Uhh... completely ignoring all that is morally wrong with this, he is an idiot. Even if he did find a crazy doctor to remove her rib bones, they wouldn't take out chunks of the surrounding muscle with it. She'd be maimed if they did that. What does he think meat is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:12 PM
36

Oh my god what a crybaby. "Waaay I guess since there's the risk that I'll be called out on my creepy actions, I'll limit the JOY in our interactions". Like it's a punishment to women lmao. Guess what man, if you have to change your behavior because you're afraid of being accused of harassment, you're actually harassing people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:15 PM
40

I feel this so hard. I've met exactly 3 men that I've been attracted to in the slightest in the past 3 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:52 AM
12

Awww, precious baby. It breaks my heart to know that he has suffered abuse at the hands of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:53 AM
11

I'm not the person you replied to but wth is it with dentists?! I went to one years ago, had seen him regularly and then had a consultation for invisalign. I said I wanted the minimum treatment, just to straighten my front teeth, not fix my bite issues. This guy goes "let me guess, you had braces as a kid and never wore your retainer. You're going to have to wear a retainer, you know". I wore my retainer every night, my teeth still shifted. Quoted me ~$4500 for the minimum treatment. Then I paid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:42 PM
7

Reminds me of the "magic coffee table" video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 07:32 PM
5

I would try something like "I heard in the news that studies have shown that porn can have negative effects on the brain, what do you think of that?" You are not stating your position, you're presenting it as something that has come up in the news recently, not something that's on your mind regarding dating. You're asking to hear his opinion, which men love to give. Or ask him what he thinks of the recent pornhub scandal/removing unverified content. Men love sharing their opinions and I think th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:19 PM
5

I was never taught manners or to ask people about themselves. For years as an adult when people asked how I was doing, I'd just respond "good!" without asking back, before I started to notice that that was what normal people did. It's still an effort every time. I struggle to ask people about themselves in conversation, it just doesn't occur to me unless I remind myself that it's the polite thing to do. I still wonder if I might just be sociopathic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 11:27 AM
20

They don't see us as human with our own thoughts and desires. This is why they can't understand why we'd ever reject a man for any reason. Or the extreme, red pillers and incels believe we (women) do everything on instinct like animals, i.e. we are all programmed to look for certain very specific traits in men, they believe that we don't know what's best for us (and they do lmao), therefore they are able to justify rape, forced marriage, etc. in their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:06 PM
25

They let a man give parenting advice???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:07 PM
27

Am I the only one getting anxiety over the $20 bill touching the bread? 🤮 Also, "grab a bag" - implying that he has multiple lying about, for all of his hookups. Dirty ass community dick. 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:03 PM
45

Even ignoring the exploitation issues, a man who would ever have sex with a prostitute has to fundamentally view women as sex objects, and is therefore undatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:52 PM
18

Yeah I agree with you completely. Oxytocin and pair bonding is a thing but after having sex ONCE? No. And they want me to believe that women bond but men somehow don't? What possible biological advantage could that have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:56 PM
3

Part of the issue is that the men who "pride themselves" on being able to pleasure a woman aren't actually pleasuring women. Porn teaches them that jackhammering, loveless sex without touching her body with anything other than his dick is enough to make a woman come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:07 PM
20

I think it's deeper than just spreading their seed, they want to feel like they own us or have had a significant (usually negative) impact on us in some way. I don't try to understand it, it's fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:45 PM
41

They just want to leave their "mark" on women without any of the accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:41 PM
14

I've got some anger issues, I would throw the whole thing on the floor if I ever saw this in my fridge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:17 PM
2

I agree. If a man knows immediately that a woman is "the one", he has no interest in getting to know her as a person. He's just pre-selected her to fit into the role of wife in his life, regardless of who she is and what that role might be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:22 AM
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This!!! I don't understand how men are fat either! I feel like I GORGE myself, I exercise but not a crazy amount, and when I'm not exercising I am the laziest person alive. I'm still 120lbs at 5'1, admittedly carrying a little more fat than I'd like to, but if I was a dude I'd be in excellent shape. They literally have to put in minimum effort and can still eat loads, and it'll just go to building muscle! Yet they just laze around and their muscles atrophy... not attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:21 PM
10

As a woman who used to game, yes. We can handle it in moderation usually but men let it consume their whole lives. Let them be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:04 PM
23

Men talk out of their asses with such confidence. I learned this in my last relationship where after he said something questionable and I was like "hmm I'm not sure that's true", and he said "I'm pretty sure it is", I would google to find that he was wrong and refused to educate himself because he thought he was right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:27 PM
7

I've been powerlifting for years. I can bench bodyweight but I'm quite small even for a woman and my bench has been stalled for... years. Every man tells me to grip the bar wider, as if that will somehow fix it. As if I don't know my own body and proportions and they don't realize that because my shoulders are so much narrower than theirs, my grip will naturally be narrower. My real issue is constantly waffling between thinking I'm fat and wanting to lose fat and thinking I'm too weak and wantin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:59 PM
3

Just want to say you're not alone on the pet thing. I LOVE dogs, but I had to rehome my puppy because taking care of her was too anxiety-inducing and utterly exhausting for me. I don't like human children in the first place so yeah, not for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 03:23 AM
7

This is anecdotal but I had an abortion at 12 weeks and I didn't experience any body changes at all, even temporary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 04:57 AM
7

Men are so boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:43 PM
4

Yeah, my super Catholic ex claimed that he was only attracted to me, I later found out he had a current porn addiction and was lying to me about it. Also said he'd love me forever, then withdrew emotionally when I said I wasn't happy and I wouldn't stay in the relationship if things didn't change. Sometimes I feel like men are incapable of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:42 AM
5

I got him a really nice new stereo system for his car, which was something I knew he wanted. He got me... nothing? If I remember correctly? Because he "didn't know what to get". Then a few days later got me a computer chair that I didn't want, because I guess he felt guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:38 PM
22

You are right, 100%. Women are funnier. Male jokes are largely misogynistic or penis-related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 04:27 AM
6

I have always wanted to be a cougar! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:07 PM
13

I think some of these men are just stupid. They think it's unfair that they CAN'T objectify themselves for money (I mean they can, but not to the audience they'd want). I had an ex who said I was lucky, if he was a woman he would strip/prostitute himself etc. for money because "I lOvE sEx". They imagine themselves doing this for people whom they are attracted to, AND getting paid, ignoring that is disgusting old men who are the target audience. Let alone all of the detrimental psychological effe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:43 PM
4

That's the sweetest story! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:35 AM
7

Too generic? Aside from the fact that he dismissed your preference, simple, minimalist design bags are great. They're so versatile and never go out of style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:05 PM
11

So ingrained is the idea that women are inferior to men in every way, that an inactive male thinks he's a better soccer player than a world-class professional soccer-playing woman, and a male who has never played chess thinks he's better at it than a female chess champion. They do not view us as fully human, and grow up in a society that reinforces this - from explicit pornography depicting violence against women as normal, to mainstream media and advertising where women are sexy props and one-d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:23 PM
11

I'm confused, does seeing a proportionately large dick being stroked get him off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:58 PM
2

I just realized that he wasn't talking about watching the Olympics. 😅 Who the heck describes sex that way? Oh right, people who have never had sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:46 AM
7

That thread is shocking. I mean, good for them for trying to get their problem under control, but imagine being such a slave to your dick to get to that point in the first place. Being male sounds like a hell of a drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:30 AM
20

Eh, I'm not interested in a man who pretends he's less interested in order to manipulate me, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:19 AM
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Why do men feel the need to express that they like having sex with us? We KNOW. They're emphasizing the fact that they don't care about us as people when they say shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:33 PM
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They purposefully ignore our clear-as-day signals and then play dumb "she didn't say no, how was I supposed to know?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:03 PM
13

Honestly. How could we get so far if we didn't know how to cook for ourselves and do our own laundry? Who does he think is doing it for us? Women who work hard in their careers tend to put effort into their home lives as well. Men are the ones with no husband skills. Besides, fuck men who think all that house cleaning shit is women's work. He's right in a sense though, the independent women with careers, houses, and dogs have nothing to offer him, because they don't want his sorry ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:48 AM
15

Yeah that's a dude. No curly haired woman has ever "brushed" braids out of her hair. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:17 AM
3

I feel you!!! This has always bothered me, at least spit on the grass, but no, they've got to spit on the damn sidewalk. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:55 AM
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AND mommy issues. They're so butthurt about the fact that women create life that they had to make up a story about and all-powerful male deity (why does it have a sex?!) who created women, and claim every baby is a miracle created by their god. Ok if that's true then why do we women still have to carry every single baby, sacrifice our bodies, and risk death? All of the work and none of the credit, as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:09 PM
8

Yeah, I hate the effects that porn has had on society as a whole, but I don't care about the many individual penises it has made limp, or the things attached to them. Those guys kinda deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:52 PM
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It sounds like a dude. It comes off as extremely mansplainy, he uses the phrase "gain access to men", bad male statistics/logic (the 10 out of 50 guys thing), "my guy friend told me this". The whole thing just has a general I Am Very Smart vibe. His own "logic" proves him wrong anyway. If only 10 out of 50 men we find attractive approach us, we can assume that the other 40 aren't interested. Why the hell would I approach a dude who clearly isn't interested in me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:40 PM
5

Nope. Mine only ever wanted to watch tv. I love to knit, which fortunately can be done while watching tv without being disruptive! And it's more productive than just sitting there doing nothing. But he'd get whiny when I knit because I was paying attention to something other than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:57 AM
3

For what it's worth I agree with you, Colin Firth is not handsome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 05:24 AM
17

YES! Men are honestly too fragile to buy skincare and haircare products if they aren't labeled something like "beard balm", "man balm", or "ball sweat powder", and they need to come in a dark blue or black packaging so they know it's for men. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:08 PM
5

I read this more as women have and voice their opinions and expect them to be taken into account instead of just deferring to their husbands on every decision. I personally don't want a man to make every decision for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:21 AM
13

Someone linked to a reddit post (to support this "it's so common and normal and not a red flag!" narrative) wherein a man lost part of his leg, asked the doctor if he could keep it, then proceeded to cook and eat his own leg and share it with friends. AND POSTED THE PICTURES TO REDDIT. He did an AMA and the most upvoted comments were not disgusted, they were cracking jokes. I just... That should be illegal if it's not already. You can't just ask hospitals for discarded remains. There are real re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:48 PM
4

Washing some dishes is not the same amount of effort as cooking every single meal. He's telling her that he will never cook and he expects her to cook all the time, and from experience we know that when most guys say "I'll clean up!", they do a shitty job or don't even do it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:53 PM
3

HARD agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:21 PM
13

I'm less sociable than average and I find it particularly grueling to spend one on one time with someone I've no interest in talking to, and have nothing in common with. I would never do that just for food. I've gone on ONE date that I wasn't enthusiastic about beforehand and it was hell. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:41 PM
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My ex fiance told me I was talking too loud at a wedding reception, you know where people drink and talk and there's loud music and dancing. The next night I had a housewarming party and in my own home, in front of my friends, he told me I was being too loud. In a house, not an apartment. It was humiliating. I do get loud when I drink but damn, I'm allowed to be loud in my own house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 01:36 PM
7

Yes. I have a very common name with two common spellings, one with a silent letter and one without. If they leave off that letter because they can't read (this happens a lot, at work for fuck's sake), fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:19 AM
1

Yeah I'm no spring chicken, when someone interrupts me I just keep talking. If it wasn't clear in my original comment, I'm not new to the industry, just going to work for a new company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:13 PM
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My narc red pill ex would eat a fry off of my plate as soon as I got it, before I could eat anything. Even when he had ordered fries too. He was trying to show dominance/possession. It was really very childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:32 PM
9

I read The Game years ago when I found out about the red pill. These guys are so much easier to ignore and laugh at when you learn that they themselves admit that attractive, confident men don't need to use their manipulative "PUA" tactics. They developed these tactics because they're ugly and have no social skills, and the smarter ones can con the dumb ones into paying beaucoup cash to learn the tactics (that don't even work). If it was worth a shit, they wouldn't have to sit around on reddit c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:26 PM
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I bought a house when my ex fiance had no money and I did, and I was tired of living in apartments. We broke up but I still have my house, the breakup wasn't messy. If she can afford it alone, I think it's smart. Looking back though, I'd never buy a house "for a man" again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 01:01 PM
2

Good tips! I've been in the field for years, just starting a job at a new company. You just never know what the culture is going to be like. So I've got some of the tools, but I do tend to get too friendly with my coworkers since I don't have many friends outside of work. This has made it harder, at my current job, to call out poor behavior like tossing around the word "bitch" at work. The meeting thing is key. I can't tell you how many meetings I've had to get clarification on beforehand becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 12:16 PM
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This is so strange. I'm starting a new job in a week (STEM field) and my anxious mind is preparing me for every wild scenario and being expected to mother tech manbabies is actually a scenario that came up in my mind earlier today. I refuse to do this. I'm not a team lead or manager or anything, I'll be a team player but I don't care if some sweaty nerd can't take care of himself. Fuck whoever thinks like this. I don't have a nurturing bone in my body and if I did, I still wouldn't be doing some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:31 AM
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Beautiful and smart is our default ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:14 AM
18

So what I read is, men are so emotionally stunted that they can't experience emotional intimacy in any form other than sex, and it's our responsibility to provide sex to them to keep them from straying, because he's fine and doesn't need to fix his issues. Also you can just jerk him off or suck his dick if you don't want to have sex, because if a woman is not sexually aroused she still has no excuse not to do those things (presumably "touch" and "mouth" stuff he refers to in the article does not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:28 PM
11

Even if it's true that these guys equate emotional intimacy with sex, and NEED sex to feel emotional intimacy, that is on those guys and they need to get therapy for it. It's not on women to just provide sex because of his issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:21 PM
25

They all want to take credit for any great invention or good deed done by a man, but when it comes to rape, murder, pedophilia, etc. it's "not all men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:02 AM
7

I love their wings but I would never go there on a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:57 AM
6

I feel you completely. I have enjoyed these recently: Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt Crazy Ex Girlfriend (she's pickme-ish at first but does grow to value herself and make better choices) Man Seeking Woman (not woman centric but it's amusing and surprisingly not misogynistic as I was afraid from the title) Disenchantment What We Do in the Shadows (the tv series)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:40 PM
3

🤮 good excuse to never buy Oreos again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:54 PM
13

I stopped watching after this: Woman: "oh and the sexiest part..." cut to man's butt while he is bending over Woman: "no not that, THAT!" cut to side view of man bending over and shirt staying tucked, not exposing ass crack Oh yes, it's funny because women aren't attracted to men and men don't need to look sexy for us, they just need to cover their disgusting bodies. How are the women on Facebook enjoying this ad? I have never washed a man's shirt, because I don't have a son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:49 PM
18

Good riddance, the guy can't even fill out those skinny jeans 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:51 PM
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Oh my goodness, my ex did the same thing when I was drinking hot tea!!! 280 pounds of carelessness, and he never cared to change this habit of plopping down with all of his weight. Plus I constantly worried that it would eventually break my couch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:55 PM
1

He's not even cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:48 PM
13

My heart aches for that poor puppy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:32 PM
8

Their souls that seethe with hatred for women who have dared to age and date other men in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:59 PM
8

Exactly! If men really did peak at middle age, they wouldn't have to keep screaming at us about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:51 PM
45

Translation: his female relatives stood up to him and didn't take his bullshit or treat him like a precious little prince. He met men later on who reinforced his ideas that women should kowtow to him. Therefore, male=logical=good, women=emotional=bad. I'm rebranding this male "logic" as Logique™, since it's nothing more than a poor imitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:17 AM
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He's missing the part where young women still date men their own age instead of his crusty old associates. I'm "old" in his book (late twenties) and I still wouldn't touch a 35 or older man with a twenty foot pole. In their prime? With their dad bods, receding hair lines, and even limper dicks? It's the saddest cope ever. Also lmao at "his income is finally starting to come in" at 40... If he's only starting to make good money in his late 30s/40s he's way behind. That's not even the kind of guy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:04 AM
5

I had a guy invite me over to his place because he didn't want to drive to me, but his excuse was that it would give him a reason to clean his apartment. When I got there it looked like it had been ransacked. Stuff lying all over the floor, empty beer bottles in the shower. A rowing machine that he clearly never used, where a coffee table should have been. So much clutter all over the place. I was in total shock. If he had cleaned at all, there was no evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:17 AM
5

So I had thrown a surprise birthday party for my boyfriend at the time. He was obviously annoyed that I "outsmarted" him by surprising him with a party. He was even more annoyed that I spent time talking to a male platonic friend (one of my brother's best friends growing up and someone I've known for basically all of my life) that night, so my boyfriend spent the night verbally abusing me for "flirting" with this guy. I was honestly pretty done with the relationship already and this was the stra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:39 PM
64

They honestly think their sad, limp dicks are a precious gift to us 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:16 PM
9

Because they're pedophiles. They say the only differences are physical, and their justification for their attraction to minors being ok is that girls/women stop maturing at 15. This is textbook pedophilia apology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:04 PM
5

Lol I love this, MGNOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:45 PM
6

It's funny how men torment us with emotional and physical abuse and then get mad when we inevitably become disillusioned with them and stop taking their shit. Also notice how these men say we stop maturing say 15-16, but also 18 years olds are still "teachable" (read: "groomable"), while 30 year olds are wise to their bullshit. What is that if not maturity? Of course we continue maturing. Supreme male logic, there. My take: men aren't turned off by physical maturity in women, but mental maturity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:45 PM
5

Right? Like we just sit around staring ahead blankly until they find us (how do they think we pay for food, shelter, clothing, etc?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:17 PM
13

On top of this, how sad would it be to force a child to be born to a parent that never wanted them? And yet we are expected to have kids regardless of whether or not we want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:10 PM
2

He didn't have the balls to end the marriage when it wasn't working (i.e. he wasn't supporting his wife through her quitting smoking), OR stay committed when it was rough, he didn't have the balls to end the affair even after his marriage improved ("hoping to find a way", i.e. hoping it just happened for him so he wouldn't have to do anything hard). He's a coward and can't take responsibility for any of his actions. He doesn't even have the balls to end the affair now. Why? He doesn't want to. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:23 PM
11

Ugh, I dated a guy who said on more than one occasion, "I already ate, did you eat?", with a shit eating grin on his face. Like no, I didn't eat, I thought we were going on a date! Making me feel like a dumbass (in retrospect, not entirely untrue).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:57 PM
39

Can someone explain to these shits how I own my own home, car paid in full, stocks, savings, and still have disposable income as a single woman under 30, if women can't fend for themselves? Oh wait, it's pointless to explain to them because their brains are tiny and they can't understand. It would be like trying to explain it to a dog. I've never dated a man who made more money than me, and they were all insecure about it. This is why men have to pay/provide - because they feel emasculated when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:42 PM
67

Lmao I had one guy say almost this exact thing, I was supposed to train him like a dog by praising him when he did something good instead of telling him that I was upset when he did something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:37 PM
10

This is what constant exposure to porn and media which sexualizes women at every turn (mainstream movies, tv, etc) does. Desensitizes men to this kind of talk in real life. I remember starting some tv show on Netflix that looked promising and the FIRST SCENE was two young men discussing whether or not they would rape Marilyn Monroe's freshly dead corpse. It was HORRIFYING. I turned it off right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:00 PM
1

Lmao what point? That he's an ass?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:20 PM
19

Honestly. Imagine a woman acting the way that this man does. She would get dropped SO FAST, by every man she dated. Why do women put up with this shit from men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:21 PM
14

I actually got offended when I realized that tinder shows me EVERYONE, including the guys that are way below my league 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:14 PM
41

Ew! I have curly/wavy hair that I used to keep super long, but a few years ago cut short because it became dry and damaged from hard water and heat styling. My ex kept saying "I liked it longer" and "I can't wait until it grows back" 🤮 do you want the arduous task of washing, styling, drying, and protecting it then? It's medium length now and still a pain, but I deal with it because I like being able to put it in a ponytail/bun to get it out of my face. We are expected to just be beautiful for m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 04:32 AM
22

Men don't know the difference between want and need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:51 AM
28

Men are such drama queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:11 PM
30

My ex's "dark sense of humor" was joking about beating women. I was never allowed to criticize because"that's just my sense of humor". However the second I made a joke about me being the breadwinner in the relationship (I was relatively new at a great job and he had quit his internship to focus on the last semester of school), some jokes became off limits...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:10 PM
9

I'm only 29 and recently downloaded tinder. The age range was automatically set to 19-39 but even 19-21 year old men look like straight up children to me. Like you said, even if they were good looking they just looked way too young for me to feel sexual attraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:13 AM
85

Female subjugation, which severely limited our ability to choose the best mates over thousands of years, and therefore allowed subpar males to procreate. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:02 PM
45

Alternate explanation: he's still butthurt about her rejecting his proposal and wants to make her "pay" for it by never marrying her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:06 PM
5

It's because men are largely one-dimensional and think that Rick is the good guy (see also: American Psycho, Wolf of Wall Street, Lolita), idolize him, and use him to excuse their shitty personality traits. They see themselves in the villain/antihero but because he is the main character they can't understand that the character is a critique of those traits, not a glorification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:07 PM
4

I love doing car stuff but I hate asking men for help when I need a second person (bleeding a clutch, for example) because men want to take over and suck at just being told what to do when it's MY car. I couldn't even tell my ex, when he was jumping a random lady's car, that he was connecting the cables in the wrong order because "I kNoW hOw tO jUmP a CaR". Clearly you don't, Chris.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:52 AM
16

"As beautiful as your beauty" lmfao what a way with words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:30 PM
5

I thought I knew a thing about cars but what the hell even is that part that she's holding, and how did it cost so much that he can't afford a ring? Sounds like he can't afford that truck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:57 PM
13

"Cute" can also be another way for them to say they find you attractive, but not enough for them to call you "pretty" or "beautiful".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:16 PM
7

I'm American with mainly Anglo-Saxon ancestry (read: white af) and a few years ago a guy I didn't know at work asked me where I was from because I looked "exotic". I was like, uh... New Jersey? It was the weirdest thing, not to mention a completely inappropriate thing to say to anyone, especially at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:07 PM
23

Argh, this reminded me that my ex used to write down hilarious jokes that I made for HIS half-baked comedy routine. No shame, just stealing my jokes right in front of me because I was funnier than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:42 PM
22

Ugh I'm so sorry. Empty promises hurt more than just getting nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:11 PM
76

The marriage to car analogy here works when it's an old junker that he refuses to take into the shop or do any maintenance on. When marriages fall apart, it's usually because the man puts in no effort and does nothing to maintain his relationship with his wife, if he's not actively destroying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:40 AM
5

I had never considered that! I usually go braless at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:49 AM
8

I don't, I'm sorry! I have very small breasts, my favorite bralettes are seamless ones that I got from Express years ago. I don't think they make them anymore. I can't stand anything with a seam or elastic right beneath my breasts, I hate anything that's too tight in that area. But I agree - a lot of bralettes have a weird shape that looks frumpy under clothes. It's so hard to find good ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:00 PM
135

Yeah, everything men do is to manipulate us into giving them sex, so they project that onto us as well, and think everything that we do is for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:58 PM
36

Also on the bra thing, bras should be hand washed to make them last longer (elastic, cup shape, etc), and hung to try even if machine washed. And they take a while to dry depending on the cup/padding thickness. We'd have to have so many bras to have a fresh one every day, unless we want to be hand washing bras every single day. Team bralette for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:55 PM
14

It's a strawman argument meant to discredit feminists and shut us up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:10 AM
1

Maybe? They really smelled like a man's BO more than mildew though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 05:13 PM
32

International Men's Day? We already have trash day once a week. 🗑️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:10 AM
3

He washed the towels though! And they still always smelled gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:29 PM
7

My most recent ex's bath towel always stank horribly - not like ass but like general BO. How does a towel that only touches your supposedly clean body stink at all?! They seriously just don't know how to wash themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:28 AM
6

Of course it's Chris! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:12 AM
6

Just because the vast majority of men are repulsive doesn't mean we can choose to be attracted to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:03 AM
5

"Sexual market value", a gross term used by red pill guys/incels to describe someone's sexual appeal as if it's an objective measure that can be manipulated by behaviors, actions, etc. According to their views, men who sleep around a lot have a high smv because it means lots of women want him, there is high competition. But a woman who sleeps around has a low smv because misogyny, she's "used up" or not discerning or something. Likewise they say a man's increases as he ages, and a woman's decrea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 01:59 PM
16

This was my first thought as well. 41 is too young to have an old man husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:17 AM
21

I wouldn't be surprised if there were no other women and he just bought this stuff to "increase his smv"/make her insecure. They really think that rubbing all of the sex they have with other women (real or fabricated) will make us want them more, when all it does is show us that they're trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:22 PM
9

Yeah this is multiple red flags, not just one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:02 PM
84

Woman bad, man good. The oldest story told by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:18 PM
23

Music is extremely powerful and influential. I don't think it's a coincidence that there are themes of female subjugation and excusing shitty male behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:32 AM
9

Exactly my thought! "Oh no, I have my yoga class tonight!" And leave him to either embarrass himself by trying to cook, or make an ass of himself by cancelling last minute because he didn't check with his wife first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:09 AM
21

I'm American and I wish I hadn't read this lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:16 PM
42

What is this pic? One of those creepy AI generated faces? It's pure nightmare fuel 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:55 AM
31

Curt: lists 4 physical attributes and only 1 non-physical attribute in his "likes" Also Curt: says nothing about his own appearance I already know he is too ugly to be making any demands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:52 AM
4

THIS. I had an ex who acted like a baby if I had the nerve to knit when we were on the couch watching TV together. All he ever wanted to do was watch TV. So boring. But I was "ignoring him" if I wanted to knit as well instead of have my eyes glued to the screen. As a child he once told his mother that he didn't like when she read because she wasn't paying attention to him. Tip of the iceberg but they really do think that women exist only for them, how dare we be our own people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 05:02 PM
3

I think some men talk because they are afraid of silence and the insecurities that run through their heads when they allow themselves to hear their own thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:45 AM
4

If he's going to base his argument on the mating habits of animals, which is flawed thinking, someone should tell him that the vast majority of mammals only mate when the females are in heat, females are selective and when one is not receptive, the male fucks off, and does not force himself on her. The males aren't just going around fucking every female they see all of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 03:24 PM
11

Maybe he's overweight, or super hairy in that area and it just traps stray hairs in as well. I've seen this on some guys to some degree, never as disgusting as this lady's description, but they're bellybuttons do trap lint... have never had that issue myself though. It really is strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:04 PM
22

Do we have the same ex?! Literally stopping short and creeping up to like a foot behind the car in front of him at every stoplight, yet when I was driving (0 accidents ever and I learned to drive in a city with crazy drivers and awful traffic), he would clutch at the passenger seat and gasp every time he saw brakelights ahead of us. Like what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 10:54 PM
1

Is this why men are in the bathroom for 30 minutes when they take a dump?! I have never understood what takes them so long. Edit: BESIDES porn. I've witnessed this even when they don't take their phones into the bathroom. One time my family was headed to brunch and my ex made us pull over at a gas station so he could use the bathroom. We all waited on him in the car for like 15-20 minutes. I don't understand why he couldn't have waited until we got to the restaurant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:11 PM
5

Yes!!! This! My lvm ex was all for "equality" when it came to paying for "dates" (boo Applebee's is not a date), but thought men should be the "captain" and have final say on everything and wanted me to not work after he "made it big", lmao he told me he was going to drive a purple challenger. 😂😂😂 In other words, he would take advantage of me every way he could but wanted to control me and wanted me to be dependent on him and to have no way to leave him. First of all, I have never wanted to be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:05 PM
3

My ex would never season anything he cooked. One time he made burgers, I asked for cheese which he somehow forgot, so I got an unsalted, unseasoned meat brick on a MOLDY BUN, no toppings at all. And I was the asshole for being upset about it. I love to cook and love making things that taste good. He would cook sometimes, but less often, always flavorless and bland food, because it was "good enough" for him. This guy was, at the time, unemployed (in school part time for a master's degree), would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:45 PM
8

So they think men would pay hundreds of dollars for a service like this (do they think professional videographers and a studio set are cheap?!) when they won't shell out $50 for a dinner date? Men are dumb. One told me about his idea for a dating app where there was "no BS", i.e. no messaging before meeting up, and the app would pick a public place to meet up. I told him that no woman in her right mind would use that, and he told me, an actual woman, that I was wrong. Let them squander their lif…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:05 PM
1

I agree that logic and emotion are not opposites, and having emotional reactions is natural and not irrational or illogical. I think men mistake their own emotions and feelings for logic, which is why they believe that they aren't emotional, and anyone who feels differently is wrong and illogical/emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:37 PM
3

"Interdependence", "empathy", "nurturance" (this isn't even a word but ok). I've just realized that the concept of "feminine" is men projecting their mommy issues onto all women. They can't imagine a mother existing without her children, or for any other reason, so she (and all women) must be dependent, nurturing, not self-sufficient, not fulfilled by anything other than caring for other people. And when we are independent, prefer being alone, or prefer careers over having families, we are imita…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:21 PM
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They know it deep down. The only reason they "need" the red pill is because they are unattractive, creepy losers. I mean, their manipulation tactics don't work because women are actually capable of rational thought, contrary to their beliefs, but attractive and confident men don't need to manipulate and trick women into being interested in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:29 AM
14

This is my favorite response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:20 PM
6

This same thing happened to me. Because I was aroused, and he was so "big", he didn't believe I was a virgin before him because it didn't hurt me my first time, and I didn't bleed. And because I was too good at it 🙄. He was genuinely upset. Joke's on him, I now consider that I was a virgin even after him because he was so bad at sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:53 PM
4

No attractive man would describe himself as "dashing" or "exquisite" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:34 PM
2

Whew, that really was a long-winded neg. What a sad, pathetic man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:14 PM
2

I believe that this is a result of males reproducing via rape over millennia. Either overly as in times of war, or covertly by way of patriarchy and subjugating women. Violent, rapist, woman hating males have been allowed and encouraged to thrive and reproduce for thousands of years, and this is the result. They can't be fixed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:37 PM
10

They actually see us as appliances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:44 AM
6

Men actually use this assignment, that women are more powerful because men start wars over women. As if that's what we want, or within our control at all 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:38 PM
7

Thanks. I didn't even get a warning or anything, I just noticed after I commented on a post the other day. I feel like most of my comments are just agreeing that men suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:07 PM
17

Why is my flair "PickmeishaTM"? I've been "FDS Newbie" until pretty recently, not really sure what I did to deserve this label.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:05 AM
5

And who is telling them to bite and pinch our nipples? 😭 It's like they don't understand that harder does not equal better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:57 AM
13

HONESTLY, lmao. Please explain why I can make myself orgasm but men can't. He's seriously over there like "maybe women are so stupid that they don't realize that they're not having orgasms?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:53 AM
1

Yep. Very disappointing to see first hand how misogyny still thrives in this day and age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:51 AM
1

This was the first thing that I thought as well. They would respect the authority of a male governor even if they disagree with his politics. Governor Whitmer has done nothing egregious and has only been acting to protect the citizens of her state while our federal government refuses to do anything regarding the pandemic and the president continues to encourage reckless behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:50 AM
2

She has gotten SO much disrespect and hate for trying to keep us safe during the pandemic. The Michigan supreme court just stripped her of her power to declare a state of emergency. Really disappointing and just shows how much hatred for women still exists in this country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:47 AM
22

So it wasn't a date, but he still expected her to invite him home for sex afterwards? Delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:35 PM
5

I think of this scene at least 3x a week. Why is it so true 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:47 PM
37

Even late 20s these days 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:55 AM
10

Love =/= viewing someone as an object that no one else can ever have touched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:47 AM
11

"It's a little thing called style, look it up sometime!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:56 PM
13

Also notice how he waits for mom to come back and break the bad news to the daughter that she can't have everything that she wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:18 AM
35

I'm not so sure about this. I actually had this same mindset because, until this past year, every man I'd dated had fallen in love with me. I thought every man I'd ever date would fall in love with me. So it fucked me over mentally super hard when this didn't happen, twice in a row within a matter of months. I could not figure out what egregious thing I'd done to repel these men, I ruminated over every word I'd said, I was sleepless for weeks. Would not recommend it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:04 AM
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Men referring to sex as "play" has always creeped me out. It's just so wrong in so many ways. Play is something that children do. Plus, I am not a toy. My first "boyfriend" always said "wanna play?" before getting sexual and it was just so disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:50 AM
18

I think men do this when they're afraid of rejection, among other reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:39 AM
2

Can you pm me too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:07 PM
9

10/10 comedy gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:35 AM
63

Men aren't funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:34 AM
1

Yes! How could I forget the excessive drinking and smoking?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:03 PM
4

Especially when men treat their bodies like garbage cans, as they usually do. Eating trash and never exercising or taking care of themselves in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:55 PM
14

Their personalities are usually garbage too, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:41 PM
35

Men constantly demonstrate to us that their lives are largely meaningless outside of having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:07 AM
5

They mistake penis feels for rational thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:58 AM
2

Lmao I love how people are rating him in replies to his tweets. Also: there is actual porn on twitter?! Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:11 AM
48

Hahahaha these men sure are idiots, one of my exes a few years back once brought a pile of dirty laundry to my apartment (which he didn't contribute to at all, despite staying over several nights a week and otherwise living with his parents), and told me to do it for him. I just said no, he can do it himself. Sometimes I think I should've said I would do it and then thrown it all in the dumpster when he was gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:39 PM
3

This happens in many traditionally "feminine" hobby communities like knitting and sewing as well, and even professions like nursing. I've heard it referred to as the "glass elevator", and it's SO infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:22 AM
10

As if the child won't eventually see through this and resent the parent who never showed them actual affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:47 PM
10

I could've written this comment! I have had countless exes and other males in my life try to tell me this! They think their own point of view is THE ONLY ONE that exists. Typical male narcissism and lack of empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:41 PM
32

So strange that I have a deep, visceral feeling of disgust towards men who want to have more than one partner, when I'm supposed to be part of an "alpha" male's harem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:51 AM
18

Right? The last guy I dated was CONFUSED because I had a flat sheet between my fitted sheet and comforter. Like what, that's standard! They come in a set! He just had a blanket and fitted sheet on his bed. The previous one had several blankets (now that I think about it, I don't think he ever used a flat sheet either...) that were too small for the bed and got bunched up during the night, sleeping in his bed was a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:50 AM
5

Furthermore, porn and prostitution are not only degrading to the women involved, but to every single woman on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:31 AM
45

I hate how accurate this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:46 AM
30

Also he never actually looks her in the eyes or even at her at all, he just gazes off to the side. Super unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:43 PM
2

Yeah, I don't believe in a deity myself but atheist men (like most men, religious or not) are so self-righteous and think they are intellectually superior to anyone who thinks differently, and often to people who have the same beliefs as well. Furthermore they tend to think that "right" and "wrong" are completely subjective and that they themselves are the ultimate judges of what is good and bad, and use that to justify their own shitty behavior towards other people. Just avoid. What's funny is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:56 PM
23

How can someone say something so rude to someone, especially unsolicited, without cringing at their own self? He is the one who should be embarrassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:42 PM
17

Yuuup, but then it gets framed as us "getting mad for no reason". Women are the ones whose emotional reactions are constantly policed or written off as "crazy". Whereas men's emotional reactions are seen as "logical".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:32 AM
32

But it was a lOgIcAl reaction!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:26 AM
12

What a meaningless existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:30 PM
-3

Cat shit and piss smell disgusting and some people don't want animal fur all over their house, clothes, furniture, countertops (if you find this controlling... 🙄). Plus puke and piss/shit on the carpet when they get old. I am not cleaning up another being's excrement. I don't hate them but yeah, not for me. Not everyone who doesn't like cats is a control freak. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:32 PM
8

Mine are pretty obvious, I think, but men are still always like "did you come?" because I guess it's not what they see/hear in porn 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:12 PM
45

I agree with the sentiment but not all women are the same, and men are especially prone to thinking if it's true for one woman, it's true for every woman. I dry up after I come, there is no dick going inside me after I come, when I'm done I am DONE. And no multiple orgasms... I hate that myth SO MUCH, so many times my ex would refuse to stop giving oral after I came and it became unpleasant/too sensitive (either he thought he was going to give me multiple or was too stupid to realized that I had…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:33 PM
12

I can't find the part where she says he spent $10k on a home gym so I'm not sure if that's an exaggeration, but if not... how the hell do you spend that much on a HOME GYM? Is an entire level of the house a dedicated gym?! Sounds like he is bad with money and doesn't have enough left over for the woman he claims to love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:57 PM
14

With that chimpanzee physique? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:36 PM
1

Pizza, money, ass. Going to assume that last one means one or more hot guys with muscular asses, 2021 is looking up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:07 PM
5

I had one who refused to say the words "I'm sorry" because it admitted guilt and weakness (his own reasoning). He would only say "I apologize", if I could ever get an apology out of him. He would also do that thing where he would say "now is there anything you want to say to me?" and then get pissy at me when I didn't apologize to him after he did some stupid shit and I got upset at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:46 PM
64

Meanwhile, on pornhub, countless videos of real women being brutalized, raped, and otherwise abused are allowed to stay up, and are celebrated by men. Porn is hate speech against women. Bless every woman who has the courage to speak out against men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:37 PM
64

Back when men and women could trust each other Women have never been able to trust men. Men sure could trust us not to speak up though, out of fear for our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:47 PM
8

Third most recent emoji is your reaction? 🕷️ black widow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:45 PM
11

I hate circumcised penises. Life is hard in the land of circumcision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:01 AM
3

So interesting! I wonder what effects different sibling dynamics might have, i.e. multiple boys ganging up against one sister vs multiple sisters ganging up against a brother. I said in another comment that my brother is one of the most (if not THE most) empathetic people I know, and he grew up with multiple sisters and no brothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:34 AM
1

My little brother is the youngest with multiple sisters too, and he's one of the most empathetic people I know. We would also tease him by calling him the female version of his name 😂 but yeah he grew up to respect women and able to empathize with us. Anecdotal but I think there's something to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:30 AM
2

Yeah, I didn't mean that men who have sisters are all great, just that men who don't tend to be worse, in my experience. If it weren't for my own brother, I would not have faith in men at all. The worst men I've dated have only had brothers. It's not universal just a generalization based on personal experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:25 AM
2

the more level headed gender Sis I got some news for you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:51 PM
62

This is why I'm extremely wary of dating men who didn't grow up with sisters. Not that men who have sisters are immune to this kind of sexist thinking, but in my experience men who only have brothers are especially bad about not relating to women and thinking that women are non-human. I think toxic masculinity also plays a part. They are so obsessed with everything they do being "manly" at all times, it consumes their thoughts, so they think that we are similar, our heads always full of "feminin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:42 PM
5

So... he doesn't want her to have the better life that she deserves? That is not love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:59 PM
1

Hard agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:32 PM
2

Sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:55 AM
15

Lmao, I only saw the first screenshot and didn't realize there were more at first, and I still agreed that she wasted too many words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:18 PM
7

It's so frustrating when you want to help them, I've quit trying. A few weeks ago I was talking to a friend's brother who is in his mid 30s and has mentioned getting into skincare because he's starting to get wrinkles. I said the most important thing is sunscreen, daily. He works outside and said he never uses sunscreen! And didn't seem interested in starting, yet he worries about wrinkles. It's no use trying to help them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:28 AM
5

Tbh I had this same thought when I typed out my other comment 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:55 PM
23

My friends keep trying to push their 10-years-older-than-me, single dad, dad bod, tobacco using friend on me despite my telling them repeatedly that I'm not interested or attracted to him in any way, that his personality repulses me, and that I'm not interested in children, ever, in any form. Our desires as women do not even register to them. We're supposed to be objects of male desire, not want anything for ourselves. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:55 PM
2

She sounds like a predator. Also her only reason for not fucking married guys is so that she doesn't have "girls coming after her"? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:36 PM
3

Ugh, all I hear is blaming women for men's problems, lack of self control, and insecurity, yet again. While simultaneously undermining women's autonomy (characterizing our choices as "whims" and "random"). He's right that men are massively insecure and let sex rule their lives. He's right that men try to gain control over this by controlling women. Doesn't even acknowledge a solution that doesn't treat women as subhuman, which would be men controlling THEMSELVES and their own sexual urges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 12:52 PM
3

That episode is priceless! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:15 AM
41

That part was hilarious 😂 yes my dude, I'm sure she came 5 times while you were deliberately ignoring her pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:12 AM
12

I used to get a yeast infection every time after having sex with my nasty ex 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:57 PM
1

Yes, big red flag. Either he is actually hiding something or, even if he isn't, he wants you to think he's hiding something to keep you insecure/seeking his approval. This is an idiotic red pill manipulation tactic. I had an ex like this, always hiding his phone screen for me, making sure I noticed that he was hiding it from me. Never shared his passcode, always put his phone down face down on tables and countertops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:33 PM
13

CHRIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:59 AM
11

I got something along the lines of "you'd be a 10 if you had bigger boobs". He then reassured me that it was a "good thing" because if I was a 10 he would be afraid that I'd leave him. 🙄 Meanwhile he was overweight, bad teeth, bad face. I was blinded by first-boyfriend feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:47 AM
1

How could you put your bare feet on that floor?! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:33 PM
14

nubile children 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:10 PM
88

Right? Last two guys I dated were 5'8 and 5'11 and both thought they were short. Meanwhile I'm over here at 5'1. 🙄 Their height was never an issue for me but both were so insecure about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:01 PM
8

They always want to take credit where it's not due but none of the blame when it is due, don't they? Years ago I had a party at my own apartment, my boyfriend at the time didn't live with me (but he did spend a lot of time at my apartment, never contributing towards any of my costs), didn't help me prepare at all so I had to clean the whole place, cook a bunch of finger foods, get everything prepared, etc. Later on I was joking with my friends about how I did all of this hard work all by myself,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:26 PM
13

Isn't it fucked up how they want to feel superior to us? I can't even imagine being in a relationship with someone who I look down on but that seems to be a requirement for lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:02 PM
13

Men: men are more visual Also men: men can't tell the difference between colors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:05 PM
6

I feel sorry for that poor puppy... :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:42 AM
52

I hate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:27 AM
24

This sub constantly gives me flashbacks of LVM exes, one was convinced that I was a lesbian because he tanked my sex drive so aggressively. I was still with him when he tried to tell me that I was a lesbian because that was apparently the only explanation for my low libido (which came back with a fury when I left him). In reality he was constantly trying to force sex acts that I objected to (anal and the like) and gave me yeast infections every time we had sex. Men just have no capacity to under…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 03:01 AM
21

Aside from "you're insecure" being used as a catch-all for every relationship issue brought up by a woman, it seems that when women are insecure, we are told it's irrational and to get over it, but when men are insecure, we women need to change our behavior to tiptoe around their feelings and reassure them that they are perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:04 PM
8

It sounds like a 16 year old would actually be closer to her own maturity level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:35 AM
41

Yeah the only times I've been attracted to other people while in a relationship, it was a sign that I didn't want to be with my partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:57 PM
25

This reminded me of my ex who was also "very smart", who would drive on the wrong side of the road (at night!!!) because he was "bored" and apparently it was fine if there weren't any other cars around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 12:24 PM
2

I am dumber for just having skimmed this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:24 AM
33

My ex boyfriend literally did this. Surprise, surprise, he frequented that sub. But he never stopped to wonder why I didn't want to have sex with him. Basically, he never took the time to get me wet, constantly pressured me for anal and was always trying to stick his fingers up there, and oh yeah, acted like a child in every other aspect of our relationship which caused me to lose all ability to be sexually attracted to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:23 PM
19

A little off topic, but I don't get why they seem to actively not want to give us orgasms. If they know so much about how vaginas work, don't they understand that the vagina contracts rapidly during orgasm? Why wouldn't they want to experience that on their dicks? Seems like a win/win to me but oh well, too bad for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:56 PM
23

Exactly! He's right that they're not elastic but he's got it backwards. Elastic stretches out over time and loses the ability to shrink back. Muscles/vaginas get stronger with use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:40 PM
36

This, or they think that it's ok for them to lust over other women, but not ok for women to lust over other men. I.e. the "men are more visual" or "men are supposed to be promiscuous, women are supposed to be chaste" arguments which make no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:34 PM
24

I feel like they think that because it's what the majority of men would do... string you along until they find someone new because they don't want to be alone. Plus it's sort of a cope for them. It's an extra blow to their ego to know that we'd rather be with no one than with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:17 AM
17

I keep being reminded of when my ex didn't know how to safely connect the wires to jump start a car, but would not listen to me because apparently there's no way I could have known more than him about the subject, and no way he could be wrong. He got mad at me for trying to correct him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:27 AM
49

Exactly, with the post the other day about the guy demanding his former roommate's nudes/onlyfans for free when she didn't even have an onlyfans account makes me fear a future where every woman is expected to have an onlyfans and nudes for sale or freely available. Because women are just for sex... When one woman is for sale, we all are. And young women and girls are so impressionable, it's easy to get coerced into these behaviors even when we know in our guts it is wrong. I hate this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:06 PM
27

Ahaha, I lived with an ex very briefly and one time caught him pooping with the door wide open in the house that he owned. He freaked out that I saw him on the toilet, it's like, yeah, close the freaking door then? He also peed with the door open when we had company. I think it was a weird territorial thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:41 PM
26

I'm confused, all I see is two toilets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:44 AM
7

Seriously. How detached from the experience and entrenched in fantasy do you have to be to call out the wrong name during sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:53 PM
36

It's like how they would "love" an object, like a car. They don't have actual feelings of love towards it, just like how it looks and how fast it can go. It seems a lot of men can't distinguish between this and truly loving someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:06 PM
6

They really think we have nothing better to do than sadistically dangle sex in front of their dumb faces? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:40 AM
22

Lol right? Plus the guy who refuses to wear a face mask probably has the nastiest dick and the most germs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:28 PM
32

I can see this guy dashing around from woman to woman after every one comes up with some "I have to go..." excuse, like Johnny Bravo lmao. He doesn't understand that he's being rejected. Comedy gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:16 PM
4

Huh, that is so interesting! Yeah I also don't use soap on mine, unless they have been sitting around for a while getting dusty (it's just a cleanliness thing for me). Pretty jealous of your heirlooms! I just have a bunch of Lodge skillets. They're alright but nothing like the old ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 01:01 PM
13

Yeah this was exactly it! He would use one of my skillets to cook himself breakfast before work, "not have time" to clean it, leave it for either me to clean up after him or until he got home after work, letting the food dry and crust on and would beat my skillets up to get them clean. If you don't have time to clean it (it takes under a minute, seriously), you don't have time to use it. Drove me nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:48 PM
17

It's advice from when soap used to contain lye and would actually strip the seasoning. Today's soaps are mild in comparison! It's still a good idea to wipe with a regular oil after use (I use avocado because I always have it on hand) to keep the seasoning nice and strong, nothing really special is needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:45 PM
25

Yeah my ex kept destroying the seasoning on all of my skillets by using salt and scrubbing as hard as he could (man logic...). A drop of soap won't hurt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:19 PM
3

Ugh, I can't stand guys who refuse to make a move. They expect us to hand ourselves to them. No. They use OLD because it's low risk and low effort. You've already indicated interest, so they aren't afraid of rejection. These men are cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:33 PM
79

They wouldn't even make these jokes if a man killed and raped 16 dogs. We are lesser than animals to them, they hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:50 PM
17

Classic male projection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:59 AM
24

Just speaking for myself, I play video games here and there, used to be super into MMOs, but I would still never date a man who plays video games. An exception could be made for a truly "casual" gamer, but in my experience, most men who game spend way too much time on it and prioritize games over the people in their lives. It's nothing against video games at all, just the way that they use them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:27 PM
33

Lmao, men admitting that they are garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:48 PM
13

Definitely agree with this. I was engaged to a Catholic man who believed that humans have no innate sense of what is right or wrong. He could not wrap his head around how I, an atheist, could reason that killing or hurting other people was wrong. He really believed that we wouldn't know that these things were bad if a divine power didn't tell us they were bad, and that individuals have no right or ability to determine right from wrong. I think he was right... about men. Men like him need religio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:39 PM
6

I'd say be cautious. You've been "talking" to this guy for barely more than a week! (Have you and he actually talked since the first night or just texted?! Texting creates false intimacy. Do not fall for a man over text message). You don't really know the guy and none of us here can tell you if he's being honest. I will say that I don't think it's a red flag that he didn't "invite" you out for Saturday night. You already said you were going to the same place, why would he need to invite you? He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:00 AM
51

Nearly everything that men claim about women is a projection/reversal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:20 PM
9

Overweight/excessive body fat Skinny fat/low muscle tone Beard/facial hair Excessive body hair Bald/balding Bad skin (I struggled with face and body acne for years, but finally found a routine that works for me, there is no excuse), and doesn't take care of skin or protect from sun damage Smoker Crooked teeth (they don't need to be perfect but there's a limit) Long or unkempt hair No chin Bad posture Poor cardiovascular fitness Poor hygiene Ratty clothes Under 5'7 or much over 6' (I'm short and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:54 PM
8

Lmao, grown men bragging about how they could beat up a 10 year old girl. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:10 PM
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