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DISCUSSIONSirCrowDevoidOfCorn/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:25 PM
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35

Not the same species is how I feel too. Imagine thinking your orgasm is more important than the life of a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 06:37 PM
2

Yes please, could you approve me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:53 AM
4

Omg, they see you as easy to get with because you're vulnerable. That's terrible. Do these men even have souls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:33 AM
6

Thank you for telling him to fuck himself. Why can't LVM ever take responsibility for their actions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:31 AM
24

Yep. He never cared how you felt in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:27 AM
42

I love whoever made this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:47 PM
181

So 2,447 men viewed coerced child porn on Pornhub and the site is still up. Yes All Men. Where are the men outraged about this? Where are the male celebs condemning it? Where are the all the guys who claim that now they have a daughter they finaly realize that women are human too, Until that becomes the norm, Yes All Men. Die mad with your pornruined dried up and shredded-from-deathgripping-it-for-hours limp noodle in your hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:33 PM
8

By the same men who trash every movie they deem a "woman's movie."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:53 PM
11

What a disgusting production. The writers, producers, everyone needs to get their hard drives checked. God knows how many girls they've raped already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:52 PM
34

I know right? All the men who claim to be 50 on Tinder are distended bags of blubber, or else tall, skinny and dry-looking, like beef jerky after someone forgot to close the bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:43 PM
26

I have told several men "Don't get hysterical, honey" when they started getting angry and it was worth it every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:24 PM
3

They generally never respond. Their literal only goal is to aggravate a woman. Boy, bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:11 AM
25

I never met a man in his young 20's with ED in the 1990's. Nowadays? Young men with ED from porn are the rule, not the exception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:58 PM
30

So true. Anytime I post in wider Reddit and someone wants to argue some stupid point or just knock me down, they dig in my comment history and knock FDS. And I just respond that I love FDS, more women should find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:53 PM
3

Hon, thank you so much! Its just nice to know someone else is also shaking their head over it. For real these guys should consider themselves lucky to get anyone their own age who is exactly as overweight as they are. But here we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:21 AM
6

I hope you never even cross paths with a guy this shitty ever again. My parents didn't provide any positive role models so I can relate to you. I feel like you deserve to get rich and one day be driving down the street in your nice warm car and see him all desheveled and homeless begging for change on the corner and you roll down the window and say " want a ride?" and then speed away laughing when he gets close to your car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:13 PM
10

I kinda want to stick on r relationshipadvice or AITA from a male point of view to see how many reddit men would defend his actions and explain that "women just don't understand" that sex is their litereral only value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:36 PM
28

I KNOW he's shit in bed. All men who think like this are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:31 PM
42

He waits for non--sex time with her to be over the way I wait for dinner with a client to be over so I can get that lucrative contract signed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:30 PM
30

It's what people who were born female have been socialized by men to do for millenia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:29 PM
17

Im sure he is completely miserable now and doesn't know why he can't keep a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:27 PM
16

The hatred that was directed towards her from grown men was astonishing. I wish the media woukd call this out. I cant imagine any young boy being a target of hatred the way she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:49 AM
11

Maybe I'll start referring to all men as "porn user",
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:31 AM
16

These poor women come from abusive homes where they were never loved and the closest thing they got was being apologized to after some abuse. And now they seek it out because it feels normal. And all the men reading this will think, "oh, so that's what I need to look for - a girl who desperately needs therapy - because the only thing that matters is indulging my pornsick limp weiner"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 10:03 PM
15

I just want to say that my experiences have led me to the exact conclusion as yours. This idea of the sad shy boy who mysteriously attracts this wondrous anime girl and of course she has no needs other than to serve his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:39 PM
8

Porn has made men totally unable to see women as "people". They don't want conversation with us because they don't see us as worthy conversation partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:32 PM
2

I think it's useful for women to discover that these things are happening to all of us, and that it isn't their fault that men on OLD are being disrespectful and disgusting. Some women might think that the fact that they attract trash is because they aren't good enough. It's important for women to realize that all women are attracting pornsick dudes with broken dicks who are no longer able to see a woman as a human being and therefore no longer able to love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:25 PM
5

I feel so sorry for Asian women and the fetishizing trash they attract. I can't remember which subreddit that talked about this was quarantined for being a hate site - it was for the kids of Asian-Caucasian marriages, and so many kids told the same story of an Asian mom and a totally demented white dad who thought Asians were not as human as whites and their pick-me Asian wives had internalized racism and kind of thought the same way. Men need to stop trying to ban subs that shed light on how de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:21 PM
5

I`m so disgusted by old men on Tinder. The number of men who are over 50, obviously totally out of shape, wrinkled, baggy, and looking for "hot fun" and "something casual" - WTF ever fucks them for free? Some of them even talk ablut being into kink, and I just can't understand that a woman exists anywhere who would hook up with them under any circumstances. Any woman wanting a hookup is going to choose someone in shape who looks nice - including women the same age who are overweight. Thanks just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:13 PM
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I am so sorry all of this happened to you. I too, have noticed how the porn industry socialized me a little to think I needed to act like a porn star in bed (you know, women who get as high as they can before filming so they can endure the physical pain) And I hate it. I hate that no young person can escape from porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:31 PM
2

Since 8? This is honestly so sad. Why do men give so much power to the porn industry? They're crippling an entire generation of men. I hope they realize it's why they aren't getting laid as much as previous generations did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:19 PM
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This. This thought needs to be broadcast far and wide. Men need to know that porn ruins their equipment, their brains, and their relationship possibilities, so much that this thought should be a mandatory warning label on all porn the way pictures of diseased lungs are put on packs of cigarettes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:15 PM
2

This story is amazing, would you mind sharing a little more? Am I to understand that he put two other women he was dating on speaker with you there? What in the everloving shit is this behavior? What outcome did he expect? I can't bring myself to date right now, meeting shitty men is too exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:02 PM
3

This. Currently I can't even face OLD. My messages are piling up and I'm just like 'this is too much work."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:40 PM
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There is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:18 AM
3

You should write out these stories somewhere else on Reddit and send me the link, perhaps people who are less conscientious than myself might benefit from reading them. I am too much of a 'Barb the Builder" type and I can say that I've done my best to leave every man in better condition than I found him in. - And I have - even in my not-so-wise pre-fds days sometimes at the cost of prioritizing their emotional needs above my own. If anything I need to be less of a Barb the Builder or at least st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:21 PM
3

A man who is in his mid-twenties, which I specified I prefer in my original post, is hardly a kid. I don't mind that you disagree with me on this point, but I also know that you don't know me. I know that I conduct myself ethically and don't do any harm. The 19 year old was a fluke. I turned down his advances many times over the course of a year until I woke up with him one day. Maybe I should have made that clear earlier. He chased me and not the opposite. And the morning I woke up with him he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:16 AM
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That's fine, you do you. Personally I find young guys a stress-free no brainer, something that adds fun to my life and takes stress away. It goes without saying that they made me orgasm and pleased me sexually. I'm good at reading people and choosing guys who have good hearts and enjoy making me happy. I'm also a good person myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:21 AM
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Not at all. I'm a super-nice person IRL, loving and giving, nurturing. I genuinely like being good to others and bringing out the best in them, and this is the context of anything I say, No one has ever interpreted the way I conduct myself the way you are now. Plus, can you really argue that it isn't true? Of course there are women who don't like it as much as others, but nevertheless, a man who doesnt have the desire to give a woman pleasure, who doesn't even care enough to learn how to make a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:19 AM
4

You do you, but personally, for me, I don't agree with this. As long as the guy is legal (I prefer 23-28 but there was a cute as fuck 19 year old last year and I don't regret it) Guys who are obviously not in my age range for marriage KNOW that I don't want a relationship with them. They know that their only purpose in my life is to please me sexually. And I can say things like "If you don't get good at going down no woman is ever going to really want to stay with you", politely, just giving adv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:53 PM
20

You are my hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:16 PM
66

This should be on billboards around the country. Along with Megan Thee Stallion's lyrics "Neva let a broke scrote* sex me!" Because it's 100% logical to not expose your reproductive system to a man who is unable to support a child. You are precious, dear! If he can't pay for childcare, it's self-care not to take that chance. sure she used another word which is her right to use but "broke scrote' works for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:40 AM
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Oh hell to the yeah! You're going to end up spending a couple of years unable to admit to yourself that you made a mistake, followed by a few years of slowly accepting the fact that you married into a shitty marriage and you're ashamed to admit it to your family and friends. After a suitable length of time has gone by where you think it's socially acceptable to get a divorce, you'll get a divorce. It will take a few years and age you as he drags you through the court system. Finally you'll be di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:36 AM
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They're mad that it's a space for women only. Incels are desperate to access women's spaces by any means necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:59 PM
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I don't use it. It's a made-up word to counter mysogyny and say bOth sIdeS aRe tHE saMe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:40 PM
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I need this in my life. Is it real? Women need their own subs because the world is different for us. A man who is built like a footballer isn't going to be talked to by a toxic manager the way a woman who weighs 50 kgs is. That man can't even relate to what women go through, so why would I take his advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:35 PM
21

They are trying. Reddit is going down a strange path, and I don't think it will end well for Reddit. I'm so bored of non-FDS reddit, it isn't even worth reading coments in any of the main subs because men enjoy arguing over nothing for sport. I think alienating women will end up ruining Reddit and that's not my problem. I'm happy to go the the FDS website and stay there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:58 AM
19

I have weeks where I just don't get around to checking my dating apps because I'm too busy with work and when I come back to check men are angry that I didn't write them back already. It's unbelieveable how many men expect that because I responded to a message -the very first step in vetting, that it means that now I have to prioritize them. Pal - you're little more than a face on an app at this point - I don't even know if you are the same person as in the photos - and you think you have some r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:52 AM
31

That's ridiculous. I'm white and I enjoy reading BPT. I enjoy the country club threads and I get why they want a space of their own where they aren't bothered by white people arguing with them. There's a bigger problem at work here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:42 AM
9

Lol we're "legbeards". My legs are the stuff of dreams. I play Bette Midler's song "Pretty Legs and Great Big Knockers" when I get ready for dates because that's what I've got. : )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:37 AM
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Feminists are very dangerous to your bottom line if you are a corporation whose profits depend on paying women less than they pay men and refusing to provide any health benefits pertaining to childcare, or reasonable options for women raising children. I do think that's what this is really about. A lot of men, most men, perhaps even very close to all men wish that the highest-paid woman in the world made less than they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:58 PM
3

I will join it today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:53 PM
17

Lol. "Let me give you a massage" **Does 150 seconds of halfhearted squeezing activity on your shoulders which somehow communicates that he is completely uninterested in giving you pleasure and also doesn't think nonverbal communication is a possibility which exists, then reaches around and squeezes your breasts as if they were stressballs and whispers, "Do you like that?" Bleahhhhhh. This is why I make my own money and pay a therapist and a masseuse (and also a maid) to help de-stress my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:24 PM
6

Proof the only people who ever give him the time of day and speak to him are the extreme left end of the bell curve stupid and uneducated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:00 AM
8

It always was mine. I had several girlfriends whose moms wanted to leave their husbands but couldn't for financial reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:54 AM
9

This drives me crazy. I'm getting better at responding to them by asking them, "Why do you think I need to justify anything I say or do to you?" It blows my mind how many men really think women look up to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:41 AM
10

r/antimlm It's a great sub. My Aunt sells Young Living AKA ScamYourFamilyLiving. Screw them and the stupid other oil MLM one too. Their business model is literally to sell your aging parents and family members magic oil which won't cure their ailments and the poor old people never believe their own family would lie to them, and buy these stupid oils while the scammy oil-peddling family member just keeps lying to them. Sure, some of it smells good, and some of it smells like toxic chemicals (it's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:05 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:47 PM
16

This shit got instilled in me by my parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:49 AM
14

He settled for his current woman and is trying to make himself feel better. He knows he wasn't enough for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 03:49 AM
13

This would be a great video if she were talking about a Great Dane puppy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:33 PM
28

Groomed by porn. Taught what it means to be a man by pornsites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:30 PM
5

This. The more I hang out on FDS, the more I can see that the male-infested parts of Reddit are just worthless babble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:21 PM
17

Thank you for this reasoned response. I'm currently dealing with a famiky member who does this to me, and I know she has some deep issues. If you have any links to things I could read on this topic, I would love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:20 PM
31

And starting pornsites where we pay vulnerable young homeless drug-addicted boys to humiliate themselves on camera for masturbation material for women. Oh wait, women would never do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:09 PM
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Me either. At what point do we confront as a society that we've allowed an entire generation of children to be literally socialized by porn sites?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:06 PM
9

Yes. I wish there was a spinoff site for FDS ladies who are recovering fro having had narcissists for parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:11 PM
12

Committing this to memory. Thanks, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:19 AM
14

Im with you. Wondering how to bring this up on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:15 AM
13

Babe, I second every word of this. It's all true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:56 AM
43

Back when I was 17 I went dutch with my bf all the time. He disrespected me so much and acted like I was lucky to be with him. Fuck that guy, I hope he died in a ditch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:56 PM
91

Honey, listen...I only pay money because I like to look at a big dick once in a while. Baby, don't take it so personally, you're too sensitive, your insecurity is a turnoff, you know. You should be able to look at pictures of buff guys with big dicks with me, my last boyfriend did. How come you never go down on me while I'm looking at pictures of big dicks? You're so uptight. A true sex-positive woke guy would be happy to eat my pussy while I look at pictures of big dicks, why do you have to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:54 PM
98

Proof that it's really about the feeling they get when they tell themselves they have financial control over a woman. When they get played by a woman they feel like they got played.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:49 PM
11

I'm glad the term "woke" is like a red flag to swipe left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:52 PM
11

This is the correct response to all such stupid responses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:50 PM
13

Babe I am so sorry. I'm glad that's behind you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 10:03 AM
9

Yes, there are exceptions to this. One HVM I dated used to call me every night to give me compliments and sweet words and tell me goodnight, and he would text first to ask if he could call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:54 AM
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She's a queen and I love her fashion aesthetic. Those prim sweaters with the neckace and then the nose rings. I would have never thought to put together a look like that but on her it is just dynamite! I wish she was my stylist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:16 AM
2

He thinks he is right about politics and you should think of him as a guru.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:11 AM
2

I recently started using OLD and the number of men who complain about women in their profiles shocked me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:09 AM
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I inhaled with an expression of horror when I read your post. 5'4" and 110 is really thin! How in the hell? I bet he will never date a woman thinner than you were ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:03 AM
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Oh boy, nothing makes me want to take off my clothes like a guy who tries to ruin my self-esteem! /s He's probably posting on some PUA forum right now being told that you would have stayed if he had negged you harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 11:01 AM
65

They can't let a woman believe she has any power over them. D:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:58 AM
34

Thank you so much. I agree 100% but I hadn't ever pictured a woman doing this. I love FDS. I think I'll start a business where people can hire me to embarrass the shit out of any man they choose. I'll show up at his work with a big bunch of daisies and a big bow on top of my head like I'm a present and sing love songs with his name until he comes outside, and then I'll throw a fit when he acts like he doesn't know me saying "you promised we'd be together forever, you promised!" Just kidding abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:47 AM
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I think it's worse. I think some guys think that she will want the whole world to see and acknowledge that a man picked her! Omg, lucky girl, she's finally got her prince charming! Blea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 10:42 AM
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Thank you so much for this reply. I feel it. If I hadn't gone to therapy when I was younger I could have been this woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:36 AM
3

I'm happy for you. Your room sounds cool. May I ask you what you plan to use it for? Is it your personal chill-out room or office?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:26 AM
5

It will, thank you. I'm saving this to watch a bit later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:45 AM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you, babe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:54 PM
2

This, I felt your post in my soul. I can't believe the extent at which men derail conversations at even talking about. How are there no regulations on Exploitative porn. And can we have some research into how we can help young girls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:47 AM
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Thank you! I think it was the things I've learned from FDS that inspired me to write this is my offmychest post. I apologize if posting this here was a bit redundant, in any case, I'm so happy to have a place where saying these thoughts is "preaching to the choir" because the rest of Reddit is certainly not it. I'm really grateful for this forum and the women who contribute here. Update: I was banned from /offmychest because of this post. No warning, no notification, I am no longer allowed to po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:30 PM
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Thank you so much for saying this! I was afraid to check my responses because I got some icky responses to the offmychest post where I wrote this originally. I'd love to know how the debate with your male friends goes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:29 PM
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I would be okay with that, as long as he knew that his dick wasn't shit and didn"t expect me to pretend like it was. Im just not a fan of piv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:26 PM
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Now I am daydreaming about telling a man who brags about his big feet/ hands "Big dick ain't shit without stamina and your ass would be sweating on top of me in 5 minutes, lardboy" 😆😂🥳🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:24 PM
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Besides The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill, which is a masterpiece, what album of hers would you recommend second? And can you recommend any other Black Woman artists who are similar to her in that they don't overly sexualize themselves or they sing about topics other than men, self-love even? I normally listen to alternative but current politics makes me hate all male voices. Currently I adore Megan Thee Stallion. I don't care about the criticism of her lyrics, I just love the sound of her voice, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:21 PM
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Kesha's Rainbow album is also amazing. Don't Let the Bastards grind you down, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 07:11 PM
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Benjamin Franklin used his fame to sleep with women wherever he travelled and told women that he had perfected a foolproof method of birth control. He lied. He had a lot of children which he did not care for and did not provide for. Source: one of those many books about things that get left out of history books, don't remember the name, but it was an academic book. Einstein beat his wife, as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:09 PM
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That's a great point. I saw my parents in an entirely different light after I worked for a woman manager who was truly fair and inspiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:02 AM
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Your first point - ugh, I felt that. "She did it with him so she has to do it with me" and he'll look down in you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:01 AM
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Thank you for this post. I'm a little vulnerable right now and I want to make a poster out of your last two points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:59 AM
20

Capitain Save-a-Scrote 🥶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:56 AM
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I wish I had learned this when I was 13.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:55 AM
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If you're trying to make someone love you, consider that it might be that you are addicted to the feeling of trying to make someone like you as a result of one of your parents being a narcissist and you spent your childhood trying to "be good enough" for them and "earn" their love. Not speaking about you directly, saying that this is a harsh reality I learned for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:50 AM
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He probably can't love a woman unless she hates sex and he feels like she is making the sacrifice for him, as her wifely duty. 🤮🥺🥱💩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:46 AM
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Men who look down on women for enjoying sex, who absolutely have bought into the narrative that a good woman doesn't enjoy sex, and will hate and resent any woman who wants to enjoy sex, are out there. Honestly, you do you, but this is why I could never marry a man without having sex with him first. I don't want any of this attitude. If I see even a hint of it...i.e calling me a 'naughty girl', implying that girls who like sex need to be punished. 🤮🤮🤮, it's an immediate no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:44 AM
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Sounds lovely babe. I remember my first meal in my own place after moving out from a jackass and throwing him out of my life. He was so blindsided, I had told him that we we would stay friends, I just wanted my own place just to keep my move-out peaceful. It was so weird to watch him thinking I was staying with him whike actually I was lying. That first meal was so delicious, my own place, my rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:44 AM
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This. Who wouldn't want a woman to live with them and do all of the household chores without complaining and iron your clothes before work and pack you nutritious meals and pay half the rent and think they're lucky just to have been chosen by you? Oh, wait, you want ME to do all that shit? 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:40 AM
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Will you do my laundry and clean up after me and pack me nutritious lunches so I can devote more time to excelling in my career?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:32 AM
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Oh god, the font. I feel so sorry for my Asian sisters and what they have to put up with. Sure, there are HVM in love with Asian women, but, damn, the bullshit Asian women have to sort through on the way to finding them. Keep your heads up, ladies! I want to do a reverse version of this: Professional women in love with Asian men- and "Asian Men" is spelled with some kind of lettering that signals a 7 figure salary working at Google or wherever. I'm not as good at this as I woukd like to be. I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:27 PM
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I think coming up with ideas for it could be a thread of its own- Just seeing how different women thought of it would help deconstruct what it's done to us, if enough ladies express interest and the mods approve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:05 PM
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Hi! Thank you! Actually, you are the first! Parliament-Funkadelic will always be near and dear to my heart!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:35 AM
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Poor girl. Lucky you. Ariana Grande said "I don't care if you flirt with my man. If he flirts back, he.'s yours." This didn't happen because you aren't enough in any way, this happened because he's a bad, deceitful person. Good that he's out of your life? Have you ever seen "The Heat" with Melissa McCarthy and Sandra Bullock? It's hilarious and and a great movie to watch when you're not happy with men. I loved Birds of Prey, too, but The Heat is funnier, IMHO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:50 PM
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Hi Soroka-Soroka! I'm going to PM you my reply with one suggestion. It was removed by the bots because a word tripped the filter. I just wanted to give you a heads up since my name has the word "Sir" in it. Have a nice day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:24 PM
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OP, I can't help you find a good young man, unfortunately, but I just wanted to relate a story to you. I am properly middle aged and I look great. I slept with a 19 year old boy last year because he was honestly so beautiful. He was also nice, I'd known him for about 6 months and knew he was interested and I just caved in one day and invited him over. It was so much worse than sex with 19 year old guys when I was 19, when I was 25, and when I was 30, and 35. (I don't hook up with men in my actua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:55 PM
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I see your point now and I agree completely. I'm no fan of the porn industry and I'm aware that a large number of them were tricked into it, bullied into it, human trafficking victims, or faced the choice of either doing porn or becoming homeless, etc. I don't want to put down exploited women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:34 PM
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Non-consenting to be portrayed in porn. I'm sure porn stars don't like this either but there is a difference between doing this to a known porn star and doing it to an elementary school teacher and then sending it to all of the parents of her students. Or doing this to any woman whose job a man wants. Obviously you can see the difference. Lets say "nonconsenting woman." This area is so new we don't even have vocabulary for it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:29 PM
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I'm seconding this. I study Russian and I added the Russian subs here on Reddit because I thought it would make me more productive while I kill time on Reddit. Holy gross porn in my newsfeed! I unsubbed right away! My Russian skills are nowhere good enough to do this, but would it be worth translating some of the grossest stuff and sending it as a story to, say Buzzfeed? Also since Reddit has a zero tolerance policy for transphobia, I'm sure you could find plenty of transphobic and anti-LGB post…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:24 PM
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Thats amazing. Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:08 PM
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Me too. My mom was a full-blown narcissist and omg, I hate the men I dated back then who knew how broken I was and took full advantage while never ever helping me. I know now, and I'm in a good place financially and physically. I'm trying OLD now and haven't met anyone yet because I drop anyone who wants to meet too soon in a freakin' pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:09 PM
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Is "booty girl" actually a category in the modeling world? What other categories are there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:07 AM
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The boys want someone more feminine, but they'll keep her around for validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:00 AM
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I wish I had the money to put this on billboards everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:21 AM
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I laugh and say "All any woman needs to do to get married is keep her mouth shut and play along." Seriously, I know way too many women who married a LVM just for the illlusion of normalcy on social media. Why would anybody want to go through that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:00 PM
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You have such a good head on your shoulders and you are so much more grounded than I was when I was 18. I'm so glad there are young girls like you making their voices heard. You're also a very good writer - you should consider polishing this and adding some personal experiences about all the things you've seen with your friends about what teen girls are going through these days and publish it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:52 PM
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I think everyone should watch Lilya Forever, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:44 AM
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Could you tell the story here or pm it to me? I want to study Russian and am considering living in Ukraine or Russia for a short time to attend a uni for Russian and do that after the pandemic goes away. Ukraine is slightly warmer than Russia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:42 AM
6

He said that? Oh honey I am so sorry. I hope you are doing better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:53 AM
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Yes, a guy I was platonically hanging out with in my 'cool girl' days told me, of his girlfriend with whom he lived and was planning a vacation with, "I want to have kids, but not with her....i know, I gotta let her go!" And he laughed about it. Girl was probably cooking and cleaning for him and probably planned the vacation, too. At least this experience let me know at an early age that such guys exist. There's a bit of value to having a 'cool girl' phase - I learned so much about men when I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:44 AM
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"If it's not based on mutual love and affection I don't want it." That's a great headline for OLD. Think I'll use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:04 AM
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I hate anything that is a symbol of anger. Slapping, choking, biting, spanking, hair-pulling...none of it feels good. Maybe these women just enjoy thinking of themselves as cool girls. You know that men look down on the women who let men do this to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:59 AM
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Babe, I ain't gonna google it. But....do you even have to ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:56 AM
5

This is one of the most difficult lessons for me to learn. Would you be so kind as to link me to that post you're referencing? I know I need to read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:19 AM
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Oh, this hit hard! Thank you, OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:11 AM
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You were wiser at 23 than I was. I love "Sounds like a YOU problem" : D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:47 AM
6

I've noticed that using the word "American" as an insult is common in countries where "Americans" are used as the imaginary other that they define themselves in opposition to. And oh lordy do they ever talk about Americans constantly... "I'm not sure where that country is located but at least I'm not like the Americans who don't even know what the word 'geography' means." "I'm eating a second piece of pizza but at least I'm not like the Americans who eat five pizzas in one sitting." "We have X i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:59 AM
6

I've lived in Europe as well. It's so rare to be in a room with two or more Europeans and not hear a conversation about American politics, having it happen was like a special treat. America is like Regina George telling the rest of the world "it's like you're obsessed with me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:49 AM
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Whoa...... The other red flag was on the second date when he said, “I have had a lot of things happen to me that have made me a broken person...” And I actually listened and realized that he was paving the way for asshole behavior based on whatever his mom did forty years ago. " If you wouldnt mind, could you go into some more detail about this? I would love to hear more about what he said specifically that let you know he was trying to excuse asshope behavior. Sounds like you have A LOT of wisd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:17 PM
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It's true. I'm white and men ask me if I've ever dated a black guy and I know that if I say yes, I will be lowered in their eyes. I HATE this. You know in their heads they're imagining a professional athlete sized black man with a giant footlong sausage that broke my vagina and made me scream. That's what that's about. And also, white men really believe they own white women. It'a so hard to deal with realizing that men really don't see us as people, just a way of reproducing themselfes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:12 PM
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Yes, especially in Eastern Europe. Women there have a sense of pride. You aren't picking up women and tricking them into sex in Eastern Europe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:02 PM
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Oh gross, I just read it. It's a sick porn fantasy and then she makes efforts to " win him back," I love Jennifer Aniston, but girl, what the hell were you thinking making this flop?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:00 PM
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Oh, me too! I just play along and they think they've got me in the palm of their hand, but in reality I'm watching their machinations and studying their manipulation techniques.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:56 PM
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Ouch. I wasn't loved enough by my mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:31 PM
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OP, that pic is hilarious! 'Oh no way, I'm noping right out of here! BOY, BYE! " Holy LOL :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 02:49 PM
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If I wanted to get back at a guy I can think of a million ways to get him in trouble than accusing him of a crime that has like a 3% chance of getting a conviction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:47 PM
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He's the kind of guy who, after getting a woman's number, will call her right then and there while looking at her threateningly and saying "You better not have given me a fake number!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:45 PM
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Imagine if the lawyer is a successful HVM with a great attitude towards women, happy relationships in his dating history and a loving marriage. I would love to read a transcript of the conversation between them and hear what thet lawyer says to his friends about this loser afterwards. Dear bescroted lurkers: There are men in this world who know what it's like to make a woman so happy in the bedroom that she goes and whips up some yummy post-sex food for him while happily singing and dancing arou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:43 PM
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Reddit is such trash. I'd like to see the statistics on how much sex Reddit male moderators are getting as opposed to regular men. Most Reddit male mods probably haven't seen an actual woman naked in so long they can't accurately remember when it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:30 PM
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The male identity is based on othering women, projecting all of the worst characteristics to women and then claiming to be the opposite. I hate the fact that "You do X like a girl" is an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:24 PM
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Probably much better looking, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:14 PM
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Oh, that makes so much sense, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:57 AM
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Thank you so much for this, you are right. Imagine how much wiser we'll all be by age 47.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:45 AM
15

This is why some of us don't mind being single. The number of married and taken men who have tried to get with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:44 AM
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I only "like" posts on Twitter from women. I am so sick of the male voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:41 AM
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I am all for women uniting as a political class. I can't stand the horrible ways men talk about women politicians. We need to unite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:38 AM
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I was thinking about this the other day. I do think that women have a responsibility not to take advantage of the idea (which is correct) than men should never hit a woman. What I mean by that is, imagine being a HVM who has a great attitude towards women, and a narcissistic woman just taking advantage of his never hitting women to be all kinds of verbally and physically abusive. What would it feel like to be in that position? What's the proper response? I don't even stay in relationships with m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:36 AM
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If you don't mind me asking, in what form were these proposals? Were these men friends with you, how well did they know you? I'm asking because I am not getting any marriage proposals (I'm not trying to get married) and I am curious what's happening with other women. If this question is too personal you can choose to ignore it or pm me. There are so many topics that women don't discuss with each other online because men derail everything and this is one of them. Women should be able to talk abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:20 AM
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I think mainstream attention would be good, as long as we call attention to that women need to talk to each other without men trolling us because we are all having the same experiences They don't hate us for anything we say, they hate us because we don'y need a man's opinion on this, thanks. And thank you so much to the mods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:10 AM
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And self-love and self-care. Incels should be learning from us! (Quietly, of course)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:06 AM
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I love your outlook. I could make several affirmations out of your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:06 AM
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Good for you! Did you break up with him then and there, or did you wait a while first? My ex-bf talked down to me and went through my phone once in front of his friends and I wish I could go back to that day and just leave him right there. I didn't even say "really, you're treating me like this in front of your friends to show off?" I wish I'd said that and then "Boy, bye"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:28 PM
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Oh god, that's awful. I'm sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:46 PM
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I'm stealing it too! Cheers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:41 PM
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Haha, that's hilarious that scrotes are outraged about this. It just goes to show you that the information here is true. If they thought it wasn't, they wouldn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:03 PM
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I'm seconding what another lady said: Please try writing a smutty short story. It would probably go viral online and bring laughter to so many women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:58 PM
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Guys with huge dicks are nice to women, and don't have a fixation with anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:52 PM
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Partially cooked noodles! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:48 PM
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Oh, I hate those, fat with a head that just kind of tapers. I call thise dicks "whybothers" . Yeah, girl, he had one of thise whybothers, I pretended I had left something in the car and left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:07 PM
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I'm with you on this. I'm okay with small and medium sized dicks but they have to be pretty. Perfectly proportionate and firm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:05 PM
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Oh I hate having to put a condom over a dick that keeps shrinking. If a dude wants to ruin his dick jacking it to porn he shouldn't date women until he gets counseling and gets back to normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:02 PM
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Maybe I'll start calling two-tone dicks "discolored". Looks like something didn't finish baking. Or maybe it's a sign, I hope I never see a two tone dick again but if I do I'll say, "looks like you took a layer of skin off masturbating, why did you ruin it?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:59 PM
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I love this thread. I think we should normalize giving gross names to male body parts the way they do to us. For example, call those saggy balls "deflated shit sacs" Hey guys why don't you get your balls operated on to be firm and youthful, nobody wants deflated shit sacks in their bed" And I hate skinny dicks with a big head on top, they look like droopy dying flowers. I noped out of a relationship with a guy as soon as I saw that. That scrote has droopy daisy dick! Yuck! And if the skin on the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:55 PM
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