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COUCH CREATURESFrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:10 AM
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RANTFrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:20 PM
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DISCUSSIONFrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:12 PM
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#KickHimOut2020FrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:01 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶FrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:58 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEFrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:25 AM
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#JustLVMThingsFrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:13 PM
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FrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:22 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSFrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:40 PM
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DISCUSSIONFrequentPoetry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:02 PM
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A man raped and impregnated a woman in a coma...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:31 AM
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i hope you are better!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:30 AM
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iT wAs a JoKe women: small dick energy / short men jokes WOMEN ARE HATEFUL BITCHES HOW IS THIS OK??? REVERSE THE SEXES AND SEE IF ITS OK!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:03 AM
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women need to wake the fuck up. men will not stop abusing women until women start a revolution against them. Tasering, breaking shit, refusing to work. Peaceful protesting doesnt work. Give them the same emergy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:59 AM
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Irrelevant but wanted to share. I wanna cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:46 AM
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lol you clearly missed the point and im pretty sure surgeries could indeed fix his stomach- women get "tummy tucks" after pregnancy for a reason edit: im not defending him btw, scott is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:38 PM
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exactly!! they get a lot of flack from men who are like ~ ew kardashian dumb vapid stupid wh0re gross fakeee ~ and i dont take that seriously, however they should Not be sheltered from criticism because they do a lot of damage to women, not only bc of the 684828 procedures and photoshopped and airbrushed pictures in the media, but because thwy blatanly lie (or used to anyway) about getting cosmetic work done. kylie jenner profitted off of selling lip kits to women to "overline lips" when she was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:10 PM
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no its ok girl lol i was joking about the downvotes !! i never looked into their surgeries in depth but kourtney is just more lowkey abt it, she definitely has botox, fillers, laser treatment etc.. compared to her sis kylie / khloe tho she doesnt seem to go overboard with it for sure edit: same goes for kendall, she had a lot done to her face but she is seem as "the natural kardashian/jenner" just bc shes overshadowed by kylie. its actually quite sad bc kylie is so young and has been getting her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:42 PM
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lmao my comment downvoted but its the truth so they can stay salty i guess💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:30 PM
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kourtney has like 1 million procedures though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:14 PM
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he's famous lol, there are women who will sleep / date / associate with any man no matter how he looks / his age bc they like the fame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:30 PM
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he wants a reaction out of you. dont give him. people like this guy, the thing they hate the MOST is when people dont fall for their games. the moment you reply ANYTHING, you validate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:21 PM
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whats truly fucked up is that these men's idea of "life on easy mode" ALWAYS revolves around dating.. to them, a womans life is summed up by dating men. They see women as sex toys but cant get a woman to have sex with them as easily as a woman can get a man, so they complain that women have it easier. To them, women see men the exact way they see women, but women wont give them the time of the day. Their "life on easy mode" BS never accounts for, you know, existing as someone with less physical …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:19 PM
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they wanna do that SO bad but they cant find a hot sugar daddy to sponsor them so they project it on women: A Theory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:28 PM
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this is the stupidest thing ive seen lmfao "woman whore woman nag woman cheat woman bad man good woman take money man broke" In reality women are raising the kids, working, paying bills, cleaning the house, washing the dishes, cooking the food, doing the laundry so their ~ hubbies ~ can go home, do nothing, and cheat. Because yes, men cheat MUCH more than women. And after doing physical / emotional labor for YEARS while he spent his cash on whatever the fuck men buy or with the ~ bois ~, they co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:24 PM
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Yup. An unfortunate consequence is that a lot of men who claim to be ~ feminists ~ (lol) are actually sometimes even worse than men just minding their business, and use it to lure in women and take advantage of them, e.g. the stereotype of the photographer who wants to "empower women" by taking naked pictures of them, always white and thin too. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:47 PM
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Well im pretty sure most sane people dont really see age as just a number. I think if a woman is over 25 and is dating a man 10, 15 years older*, its not wrong on an ethical level as both are adults. The problem is that when a woman is dating a younger man, men lose their shit so its clearly a misogynistic double standard as a woman's value = her youth... which is bullshit If a 25 year woman is dating a 35 year man most people wouldnt bat an eye. But if its the opposite everyone talks about it 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:33 PM
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As a girl who's sympathized with radical feminism for quite a while I find FDS lacks in a lot of aspects regarding it, so I think it's unfair to say it embraces the whole movement but rather, aspects of it. ps: i also think it's sad this has to be done but I understand why the mods avoid talking about certain subjects as reddit is always trying to find a way to ban female subs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:34 PM
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I do think she comes off as fake ngl, but I feel bad because theres so much false media narrative surrounding her when no one can know whats truly going on but her & the royals Maybe she comes off as fake because she has to in order to be look proper? lolŕ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:24 PM
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nailed it 💗 when men are threatened with the slight possibility of being held to the same standards women are they lose their shit. men cry about this sub saying we are EVIL and HATEFUL bc women here say... they like tall men they could not stand 5 minutes of actual oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:25 AM
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i am 100% you're a man trolling after going through your history, please find something else to do yes? 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:50 PM
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"read the handbook" that's cult-like behavior lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:46 PM
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You're literally trying to police an innocent comment a random girl made, joking, that the guy in question is never going to read, because??? How exactly am I "pickme"? I have no actual interest in dating him. Go take a walk, breathe fresh air, etc. It might help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:44 PM
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you sound like you're in a cult it was a fucking joke. get off reddit for a while
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:39 PM
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oh no what am i gonna do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:37 PM
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lmaoo i skimmed over that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:36 PM
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does the uk exist for anything other than reanimating prince philip whenever he has to be in public, shitting on women marrying into the royal family and producing ugly actors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:24 PM
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A lot of women on Reddit also support this narrative though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:50 PM
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Exactly 😔 honestly, men don't even need the bare minimum to be praised or famous or adored. They just have to exist. Take a look at male celebrities and how often they get away with bullshit. When a man is decent, it's like, WOW, but he doesn't have to be because women hear all the time how bad behavior is "normal". The amount of adoration men receive when they breathe and say "women are humans and deserve rights" is sad. But I also prefer to focus on the good men, and totally get why you posted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:48 PM
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His lucky wife... When I was around 15, I saw a man on a sub that shall not be mentioned talk about how he appreciated the sub. I stalked his profile. He was from New Zealand. I still remember that guy even though I don't remember his username. The power being merely decent as a man has...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:27 PM
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I must say how much I love the pet in your icon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:22 PM
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is this boy single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:54 PM
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I mean you can disagree with her all you want but the misuse of liberal feminist really gets on my nerves on this sub.. shes not a libfem because you dont agree with her lol edit for further clarification: i do think its silly to have a whole ass argument over the word lady, it has nothing to do with liberal feminism though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:30 PM
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I want "5000 years of this shit clearly documented" as a flair!!! lol maybe shorten it to "5000 years documented" Or in arguments: Men trying to lessen misogyny Me: bruv 5000 years of this shit. shut up already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:41 PM
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🤩💋💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:33 PM
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I didnt even reply lol but yeah it's super gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:31 PM
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This wasn't on this account btw. But I doubt this man has never shown signs that he's doing this kind of shit or is a shitty person. Im not blaming the wife. Im saying: please make sure the man you're sleeping next to is a decent one, as much as you can. Don't waste yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:25 PM
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i never thought of the word that way but a lot of icky things get upvoted here like women making fun of other womens appearance🤷‍♀️ disgusting but. yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:16 PM
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isn't it that men use deadlier methods to attempt suicide therefore die more often, not that they TRY to commit suicide more often?? either way, don't argue with men on this. ignore them. if they wanted to understand, they would. if a man gets to the point of derrailing a convo about womens issues he will go to great lengths to exhaust you by being purposely dumb. just ignore them. "but men this men that hurr durr women" "ok" that's it. because men: MEN ARE ABUSED TOO! kevin spacey accused of be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:09 PM
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People want to be accepted and validated and don't enjoy it when somebody makes them feel bad about something. That's why vegans get flack: people who eat meat don't like being called out for supporting such an awful industry. (am not vegan btw) That's why when you tell women their beauty rotines are, in fact, a form of oppression, they get mad. They don't want to think about it. People crave acceptance and validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:36 PM
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ahh OP... I'm sorry. I truly am. I would send you flowers but I cant so here is a flower emoji 🌹 (i cant afford a bouquet ;)) Moving on is never easy in any way when it comes to anything, not only relationships. Moving on from an environment is hard, from a friendship, a job, a partner... it's hard to let go of something that was so close to you, a part of your life that no longer exists because we can't freeze ourselves in time. People need to move on and sometimes life doesnt align with situat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:00 PM
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i honestly dislike and disagree with this comment. its not necessary to bring up their appearance and just feeds into patriarchal narrative. it reminds me of conservative people pitting women against each other based on their looks to prove one is correct and the other is bitter and ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:20 PM
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This is really petty and unnecessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:14 PM
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lmaooooo thank you for this gem sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:55 PM
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The day was almost over. The dinner table filled with half empty glasses; Katherine's heart full of happiness. It had been six months since the beggining of her relationship with Joe. Never in her life had she felt better. Everything seemed alive, in color, excitement fluttering inside of her. Each time, a new, better experience. It was everything she's ever wanted. As she made her way into the living room, where Joe was sitting on the couch, finishing his drink, she thought she needed to kiss h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:56 PM
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I mean yes i get your last point but i was referring more to initiating sex and how if you're already dating its ok to assume you have consent to try and initiate sex with your SO and if they're not in the mood and push you away you werent "harassing" them but i completely understand what you mean yeah? and im glad you are raising your children that way 💕 i bet youre an amazing mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:49 PM
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it reminds me of a screenshot of a girl saying how much she loved men that was posted on here, and later someone said she was obsessed with getting awards and posted it bc she knew she would get them lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:43 PM
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except ALL people are not victims of a misogynistic upbringing. women are. women are not the perpetrators of rape culture. men are. men arent taught that girls hitting them = affection. women are. men are not catcalled since they're kids. women are. men are not roofied at parties and raped. women are. im so fucking done with men circle jerking on reddit over how they're oppressed by reversing situations and taking away the weight and context of them just to have something to complain about. MEN …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:38 PM
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sadly ive seen this kind of thing often enough to know its not a troll post lmao men on reddit will stop anything they're doing to complain about women oppressing them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:21 PM
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this is one of them "He thanks you constantly for asking for consent? This is so fucking weird. Seriously get off Reddit for a while. People don't actually do this. Talk about making something out of nothing. Just start and if he is not in the mood he'll let you know. It's just nerds here blowing the consent thing out of proportion. From the male side I mean. It doesn't have to be verbal. It'll be obvious if you don't wanna have sex. She'll stop then. And if she doesn't then sort it out or leave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:17 PM
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cue entire thread are men circlejerking and saying wOmEn nEvEr aSk fOr cOnSeNt but they WILL turn around the same moment a woman speaks up about being sexually harassed and say "i cant even get near women! EVERYTHING is harassment!" vast majority of men on reddit... why do they exist if not to cry about everything and then complain about how men cant cry 🤩 im glad some men were calling her out lmaooo at least some sanity in that clusterfuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:08 PM
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seriously someone save this woman from romantic affairs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:02 PM
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i will say this: if BIG ED from 90 day fiance was able to get a wife, a woman to cheat on his wife with and another GF, YOU. ARE. THE. PROBLEM if you cant get laid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:24 PM
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what did they comment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:48 PM
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this is why there's no such thing as ~ reverse the genders ~. i dont wanna be equal to men. i wanna be FREE from men. it is NEVER ok for a man to hit a woman, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:18 PM
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how do i delete someone elses post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:10 PM
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no idea what the context is but he would've likely hit her if he could
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:58 PM
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how do i delete someone elses post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:27 PM
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I didnt downvote her (i never downvote or upvote anyone), but i think it comes from a place of disagreement with her statement. I think in the eyes of some women it is important for men to talk about these issues with one another, especially given that they only care about male input. Obviously i sympathize with the girls... its just sad. But it gave them strength and courage to tell someone about their rape - at least that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:14 PM
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wait i had no idea omg, how does reddit sell our data??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:56 PM
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I have no idea lol, i thought somene awarded it by accident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:49 PM
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this has to be discussed. men need to call each other out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:20 PM
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cute couple! men wearing suits are 💕💕💕💕💕💕 edit: lol why did this comment receive a helpful award? thank you though 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 07:14 PM
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I feel she got wrapped up in the dream of catching a prince FYI rumour has it her mom purposely sent her to a specific college so she would meet William- her mom kind of "sold her out" 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:12 AM
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i didnt read the post so i cant explain what the hell rly happened, why they were in mexico, etc. i can try to look for it edit: she deleted it but apparently she was stuck there with him, its not that he left her. but its very irrelevant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:16 PM
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I agree w/ you. Ill always be on the side of women bc I know how hard it is for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 10:04 PM
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It was on a post on whether or not you should give your boyfriend a gift for Valentine's Day when in a relationship. You can find it in my history, it's not really that far down And if you're in a relationship where he's not doing the bare minimum, leave? Isnt FDS about leaving shitty relationships? My comment was about exchanging gifts in a decent relationship But its petty on my part and I know that. Thats not my big issue with the sub. There are more important matters than gifts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:47 PM
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I'm not playing devil's advocate, my God. I am well aware that married women live less and guess what? I was banned for saying not all women wanna get married. Like I said. Echo chambers. I didn't mention anything about labor. I didn't say women should be 50/50. I don't think women should be 50/50. My comment har NOTHING to do with the struggles that women face in relationships and society. I used to comment on radfem subs when I was 15, ffs. Im no stranger to how poorly society treats women. Im…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:35 PM
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actually i got the pickme flair after saying its ok to give your boyfriend a valentines day gift And im not talking about being a sahm?? But rather how no man on earth is gonna put up with some (again, not most) of the stuff on here and that doesnt make him low value but i do agree with your stance that it is unlikely to find a man who does all of that... thats my point. Some advice on fds seems to be that if a man doesnt do xyz hes low value and imo there needs a to be a healthy balance between…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:18 PM
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no problem :) I like FDS because Reddit is a misogynistic hell, and it's incredibly refreshing to have a place in which men are NOT allowed to comment. I honestly don't want or care about male input, good or bad, I don't wanna hear it. I don't care. Next. FDS is also essential when it comes to making women realize they deserve better in a relationship, which is something a lot of women unfortunately don't realize, and in turn it causes them great despair. A lot of women see past red flags, excus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:55 PM
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I honestly think this sub is amazing for most purposes but really dislike some aspects of it (hence my flag lol). But a lot of men on Reddit hate anything for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:40 PM
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this one makes me so pissed. especially the last sentence, he made you starve and you split your food with him. what an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:34 PM
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These men cannot live without women. They cant function without women. They cant have a healthy life, study, work, travel, read, sit and have a drink by themselves with their friends. EVERYTHING THEY DO IS FOR WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:25 PM
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always sis 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:39 PM
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the thing about women and aging is that 1. society is inherently misogynistic and quite franly borderline pedophilic (men used to marry women when women were what, 13? and it was acceptable), and women were solely useful for procreating, sex and domestic duties. selling to women the idea that they lose value as they age is a very, very old thing, and the cosmetic industry earns billions off of keeping women buying makeup / skincare as well as getting plastic surgery. if women started to accept t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:49 AM
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men cannot stand not being the center of everything men's day is 365 days a year, they need to shut the fuck up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:08 AM
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i hope the anti simp pills are less expensive than the ones you'll have to take for the erectile dysfunction, loser 🌹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:07 AM
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loll english isnt my 1st language so i interpreted it all wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:56 AM
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Oh okay! Sorry, the comment was a bit confusing, I thought you were saying "thats what I tell my dog" as in "when people are willfully ignorant just ignore them like a dog" 💀 it was my mistake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:50 AM
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i dont know exactly what you meant by the dog comment but if you are comparing the commenter to a dog thats very rude😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:34 AM
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hey, i know you are getting some pretty rude repliws, i totally get your point. i think the point of this post was that the post in the screenshot got so many upvotes, awards, etc, but there is a huge chance that the vast, vast majority of people who are applauding this man for leaving the girl would lose their shit if a woman left a man for consuming porn, which just shows the hypocrisy: it is OK for men to not accept this, but women need to accept men are ~ visual ~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:33 AM
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Male hypocrisy regarding porn and prostitution is sickening. Porn in itself is incredibly damaging, not only because of the unbearable misogyny portrayed in it but also because it literally messes with your brain and your ability to have a healthy sex life. Also, it IS cheating. Being in a relationship and getting off to other women IS cheating, period, women have been gaslighted into accepting porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:21 AM
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thank you for pointing it out!! yeah i worded that poorly lol i meant more in terms of a romantic relationship, young people bring almost nothing to make a relationship work bc of complete different life stages but tbh older women & young women being friends is goals LOL i need to find some older women to talk to, they are usually much less willing to put up with BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:55 AM
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ahhh thank you!! ❤❤ But look, this (i cant format im on my phone sorry!) https://ibb.co/G0LQs6g is a conversation i had with a man when I was 15. I also told him several other things that were "wise" yet 1 month after this convo I "fell" (lol) for a guy who abused me (it was online too) growing up made me realize that no matter how much knowledge a girl has nothing beats experience. there is NO girl mature for her age at 15 and men will use that shit excuse to be depraved edit: the guy i told th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:52 AM
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THANK YOU for this. Some women on this sub are too focused on "the wall" and keep posting pics of celebrities over 30 but they are rich celebrities, in likely photoshopped pictures, with access to dermatologists and plastic surgeons and weekly facial treatments and technology and private chefs and dietitians and so on and so forth. I cant stand the "THERE IS NO WALL" cue Katy Perry pic posts. Its damaging af. Women age. Most - Men and women- people look better young. No problem in that. edit to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:21 AM
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lmao wtf...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:17 AM
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like i would understand if he was super hot or rich without all these red flags but like 😭😭😭😭😭for fucks sake he put his fingers in his ears and threatened to get back with her lmaooooo he is THIRTY EIGHT change healthcare plan and flat for: My (13f) bf (13m) still shares stuff with his ex and it bothers me Hi, weve been dating for 1 year and a half. My bf still shares alot of stuff with his ex, they are in contact on Snapchat and she still wears his hoodies and he buys her lunch. I said it bothe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:55 PM
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this man is almost 40 years old and she is a frwsh 29 year old what the hell is she doing w her life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:50 PM
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yup i agree 100%. Why is the woman in this video powerful? She just has long blonde hair & is wearing a shit ton of makeup and a fancy outfit. Why wouldnt men be able to "handle" her when shes literally catering to the male gaze lolll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:33 AM
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the cool girl & the misogynist babe😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:35 AM
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I would rather die single than deal w/ this crap. Editing this to add: it is not a biological need to objectify and dehumanize women lmao. That's men being depraved. Women in indigenous tribes walk bare breasted among men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:42 PM
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I edited my comment but yeah i get your point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:59 PM
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i have... several times. am i not allowed to disagree with things? I love FDS. I am so thankful for this sub. That does not mean I agree with everything said on here. But I agree with you that men don't really care about Valentine's Day. It's just a nice gesture to get your partner something. an edit: however, that doesn't mean the sub is the problem or that i expect it to change because of what i think, do not want to come off that way at all. but so many women ask for advice on stuff and somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:54 PM
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I totally respect your opinion! Honestly, it's hard to live in this world as a woman. I agree with second wave feminism 100%, but it really took a toll on me to realize the depths of female oppression and I don't know how to change it. I will never be able to change it. At this point, I would rather ignore it altogether and live my life as authentically as I can, without thinking too much about feminism, because I'm a pretty sensitive person and I feel overwhelmed easily. And it is SO overwhelmi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:58 PM
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agree with this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:48 PM
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well you're right about that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:37 PM
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okay I don't wanna get into an argument at all so please do not take my comment as an attack/me trying to stir up drama, but i feel compelled to defend 2nd wave feminism because it taught me a lot: A lot of women who are 2nd wave feminists were simply tired of the constant misogyny/oppression/liberal feminism bullshit. a number of these women were actually abused in the hands of men too. this sub while political is also about dating MEN which women in 2nd wave feminism spaces often times could n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:37 PM
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which facets and ideologies, if you dont mind sharing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:21 PM
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saying "men who support prostitution are more likely to do household chores" and accusing other people of using a strawmen in the same sentence 💀 actually i would love a study like that. take all the self proclaimed feminist pro-prostitution men in relationships and do a survey to see how much they do around the house. if they have a kid, same thing. when was the last time they woke up at 3 am to change a diaper so exhausted GF/wife could sleep in???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:13 PM
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i love fds but it is absolutely not a brand new ideology. anti-porn and anti-prostitution sentiment is something i learned when i was 13 before FDS was even created. women have been saying that for decades now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:09 PM
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Im sorry you went through that, OP. Im sorry about your money too 😞 honestly I think you are in the US and healthcare there drives me insane. It makes my blood fucking boil to see these assholes take a stand against healthcare because "other people's health is not my concern." Stupid, selfish people. I think the doctor was clearly very dismissive of your problem and you should examine the problem further if its bothering you too much / causing you pain and emotional distress. If that means sendi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:55 AM
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🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:56 PM
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omg i smiled a lot reading this lol thank you!! you are too 👑 I used to think the "queen" stuff on this sub was cheesy but i love it now 😭 we're all queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:35 AM
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🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:30 AM
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you are too!! and all women here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:29 AM
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💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:29 AM
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Sure!! I have nothing but free time nowadays lol. Is there anything in your opinion that would be worth to mention/talk about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:29 AM
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Oh my god :(( I'm not gonna lie, I was one of those girls: men who treated others badly but were nice to me made me feel soo special. It's why I was into Ted Bundy when I was younger (like 13). The thing I've learned is that men who treat everyone badly, like you said, WILL treat you badly. A man who is capable of being an asshole to others is also capable of being an asshole to you, it's just a matter of time, and then he will be just as vicious and horrible to you AND having all the material y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:58 PM
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exactly!!! men like that are disgustingly misogynistic but can't function without women. it's why MGTOW are not actually "going their own way", they're obsessing over women: because they're frustrated little boys with misogyny rooted deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:48 PM
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perfect comment!!! you are absolutely right: a man who treats a woman who's not good looking to him like trash is trash himself and has no respect, therefore he doesn't respect a woman he's into either. he'll do what benefits him according to how he knows women will react. he knows the "catch" can leave him for another 500 men so he'll go the extra mile to fuck her. the woman he doesn't like, she's been conditioned to lower her standards and he knows it and WILL take advantage of it. solution: H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:41 PM
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perfect comment!!! you are absolutely right: a man who treats a woman who's not good looking to him like trash is trash himself and has no respect, therefore he doesn't respect a woman he's into either. he'll do what benefits him according to how he knows women will react. he knows the "catch" can leave him for another 500 men so he'll go the extra mile to fuck her. the woman he doesn't like, she's been conditioned to lower her standards and he knows it and WILL take advantage of it. solution: H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:41 PM
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perfect comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:36 PM
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misogyny + uncapable of love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:25 PM
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The fact he said he wouldn't do that with a "catch" makes me wonder if this man is trolling because it's exactly what FDS teaches. I've disagreed with a few stances FDS took on dating but time and time again men prove this sub is correct. Thank God I found it. I think if it wasn't for this sub I wouldn't understand how important it is to never play pickme, men will NOT value you at all. It's absolutely disgusting. edit: stuff like this makes me wanna avoid dating altogether. What if a man doesn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:17 PM
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lingerie is for the man, not her, but that's sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:11 AM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@littlemikasky/video/6898843647056383238?sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=6896843758857897478&is_from_webapp=v2&is_copy_url=0 The dude is the personification of misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:24 AM
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I might be naive but I don't think the BF is purposely making it about him. It's a tough situation. However, OP was the one assaulted, not her boyfriend, and while this might seem harsh to say, she shouldn't have to worry about his mental wellbeing on top of her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:53 PM
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oh no not the court system argument AHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:29 PM
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ahh this is so, so important. it's hard to apply it to pur lives, i think, when we're actually going through something whether it's a break-up or a problem totally unrelated; words seem like just words. but the world is a BIG place full of different countries and cultures and there's more to life than whatever one thing or one person or one memory is bothering you rn. 💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:28 PM
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in brazil we call this a "esquerdomacho" which esquerdo = left and macho... well. these guys are usually abusive and just as bad as the conservatives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:26 PM
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"which also benefit them" no honey child, feminism is a political movement by women FOR women to make WOMEN'S LIVES better. feminists are not obligated to do anything for you ❤❤❤ but its hard to think of women as anything other than servants yeah? servants of men, now servants of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:38 PM
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Im not surr i want to waste 2 hours of my life watching a video with this title but stuff like this makes me think of FDS as much more than just "dating strategies" - girls and women who solely focus on dating usually perpetuate bs like the stuff she likely said in the video. Why would a woman want to live for a man? dress how you like. if a man is too sensitive to deal with CLOTHING he can fuck off????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:24 PM
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yeah i agree, to be honest my comment was harsh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:12 AM
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I don't disagree with you entirely, and this is a dating sub and not a politics sub, so obviously the focus is on dating and finding someone (decent!) to be in a romantic and sexual relationship with includes effort in one's physical appearance, thus I completely understand that women will want to wear makeup, nice clothes, do their hair, etc. But my point is more about how in society, a woman's worth is 100% deemed by how atttactive she is and how she presents herself - and that means an entire…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:24 AM
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i love how some people criticize liberal feminism until its something that does not benefit them but anyway wont argue edit: i dont wanna get banned from this sub also for going off topic which is why ill try to refrain from getting into any spiteful argument about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:03 AM
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I disagree with this. Choices aren't made in a vacuum. There is something to be said about how the beauty industry capitalizes off of female insecurity and the intrinsic need - whether conscious or not - for male approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:32 AM
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Im so fed up of seeing women cry over garbage men omg just DUMP HIM????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:14 PM
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why did you even keep talking to him........... i think this is a good example of how when a person isnt interested in you, they'll do absolutely nothing to impress you because they simply don't care and anything they get from it is whatever. if you accept their not-even-bare-minimum, i mean i guesssss! and if you don't, lol whatever bye then! don't be a man's "whatever". in fact, don't be anyone's whatever. you deserve better than that. its irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:30 PM
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I got news for those creeps: as an 18 year old, i can fucking assure you that 18 year olds are not interested in ugly old dudes. "plenty of younger women who like older men" usually are into those men because 1. they are HOT 2. they are rich 3. they are hot AND rich. I can fucking ASSURE you that a young attractive girl doesnt wanna date a balding 35 year old loser. You're not more attractive because you're 10 years older. If you werent hot when you were 25, you wont be hot because your sex driv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:23 PM
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that's an amazing reply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:20 PM
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this reminds me of a particular celebrity couple (paul wesley & phoebe tonkin). they dated for 4 years and he gave her this cartier ring (which was like over a thousand dollars?) and im not sure if it was a promise ring but definitely wasnt an engagement ring. but she seemed to love it, used to show it off on pics, always wore it, etc. then he dumped her and met someone after 5 months and married his now wife within a year 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 i guess it shows he never intended to be with her forever. phoeb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:14 PM
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arguing online is a waste of time loll either way, put a picture of everyone who was against women that stood up for their rights for thousands of year aka every man that existed on this planet vs the minority who didnt agree with their BS and use the same logic theyd be stuck washing dirty underwear, cooking dinner and being forced to have sex with their husbands every night ❤ they lack critical thinking skills - some of them because they're older and grew up where feminism was seen as a thing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:28 PM
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another day another woman putting on a fake accent and talking about being a "sugar baby" and stereotyping an entire nationality because its funny 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 07:01 PM
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every single day someone will post something from a relationship sub here and while a lot of the stories can be fake its not like men dont act this way AND im so done reading these posts if your SO pressured you into having sex while you're on your period/sick BREAK UP WITH HIMMMMMMM HE HAS NO REGARD FOR YOU AS A PERSONNNNN LEAVEEEE JESUS CHRIST "my SO never cleans up after himself" leave "my SO cheated on me and made it seem like it was my fault" leave "my SO keeps staring at other women" leave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:01 PM
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i didnt get past the "why do i get punished too" BREAK UP WITH HIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:53 PM
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using his shitty logic when im dieting i have a tendency to watch mukbangs/read about food because im hungry but i cant eat so i vicariously eat through other people if women = menu the only reason he's 👀 at the menu is because he wants it but cant get it 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:52 PM
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In Today's What Are Women: women are food
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:45 PM
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no i understand that. most women want marriage anyway so the advice given here could be very useful to them. you want to have a husband, you need to be with a partner that wants to be your husband. but even when it comes to that "engagement within a year" seems incredibly rushed to me :/ im not saying "be his GF for 10 years until he dumps you for another woman", but its important to realize that 1 year of partnership is an incredibly short time. of course there are specific cases (i.e. if you'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:23 AM
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teach girls from a young age that violence is sexy 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:17 PM
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i mean the only man i can think of who does that is elon musk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:10 PM
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ok so i was mistaken, they arent married yet, but are engaged since 2016 or 2015 (unless they married in secret). she was already very successful when she met him though, and she comes from a noble family so she was likely raised very wealthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:03 PM
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It's really sad because theres quite a lot of men who see women as sexual objects and want to be successful and rich in order to sleep with loadss of women, like little prizes, and then you can see stuff like this, quotes with a pic of a man in a suit, "dont quit" mentality etc. the truth is though that its incredibly harmful to think its normal to be a workaholic and exhaust yourself/jeopardize your health bc one day your honest work will "pay off". uhm no. your honest work is putting money in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:47 PM
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i always think its really sad to see people who cant see the difference between millionaires and billionaires. like you're not close to billionaires and you'll likely NEVER become a billionaire in your life EVER. but the worst is seeing men who make 60k a year think they're close to the wealthy 💀💀 lol and yeah i had to google and its rosie..... edit: they've been married since she was 23??? and hes over 50??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:09 PM
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lol at the "billionairebrainclub" these boys really think they have anything in common with billionaires 😭😭😭😭😭 and if im not mistaken the woman in the pic is rose huntington whiteley so the right woman = a supermodel???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:00 PM
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not the brad pitt picture 😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:57 PM
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there's no need to call her misogynistic names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:51 PM
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I agree with you. No one is the asshole in the situation, but OP shouldn't get into a new relationship if he isn't over his ex because it will only cause grief to his new partner. And OP's fiancée should have NOT deleted those videos. The woman is dead. However, there's a difference between "not being over" a person and caring/cherishing the time you had with them. Death is a hard thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:48 PM
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Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:15 PM
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This is a heartbreaking, necessary piece. The woman left her husband for Martin. I remember being 14 years old or so and being extremely angry and disgusted at him, but this woman chose to get romantically involved with him after reporting everything he'd done. It's insane. The person who wrote it describes in a painfully clear way how female socialization is a disgrace. Everything revolves around men. Dumb yourself down to impress men. Listen to men. Help men. Men, men, men. It's so difficult t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:59 PM
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Heyy! I don't know :( I really went to read that book with an open mind and I wanted to like it since FDS recommended it, but to me it set off a lot flags. There's decent advice, sure, but I honestly disliked everything else about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:43 PM
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True! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:26 PM
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i legit laughed reading this i CANT he gave her an old bath towel 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:34 AM
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yeah its very healthy to play emotional games and base your whole relationship and appeal on that so a guy will stick around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:10 PM
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"meal ticket" baby nooo 💀💀 i fucking cant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:44 PM
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im glad someone agrees ! its not entirely garbage but most of the advice there you can get from this sub without all the other crap you read in the book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:30 PM
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oh my god...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:26 PM
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why men love bitches is trash tbh but i havent checked out the other ones so happy reading ! 👑🍾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:23 PM
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he has a side chick, not a friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:16 PM
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english aint my 1st language but if he stated that its a FACT that you can comprehend what hes tryina say then it shouldnt be inconceivable bc its a FACT and the period before although is wrong bc although is connecting two sentences so it should be , not . ?? OP just say "k"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:28 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:21 PM
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i cant read this type of thing without my heart breaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:19 PM
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good luck w the move OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:28 PM
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i dont think watching gossip girl is vapid and media obsessed lol but i do get where you're coming from- i shouldve used a better example. i think what i meant is that despite everything else, its incredibly rare and possibly 100% unlikely that a grown man will want to maintain a friendship with a teen girl - 15 year old nonetheless - because they're in such different stages of life and have different experiences i could definitely maintain a conversation about many subjects when i was 15, but i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 12:51 AM
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im sus to say because ive definitely talked to older men and im 18, but the truth is that a 15 year old is completely uninteresting to an adult man unless said man is a disgusting creep who is preying on her. i dont think theres a single 15 year old who could have a solid friendship that is STRICTLY a friendship w/ an adult man simply because if the adult is decent, equity doesnt exist- they're not on the same level in terms of maturity, intellect, life experience. theres nothing to talk about. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:39 PM
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how can someone be so idiotic and guilible. you are 26 years old. jesus christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:53 PM
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hE HaD tO eAt WiTh A sPoOn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:49 PM
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no one should be dating during this pandemic tbh unless they live in a place with very few cases of covid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:33 AM
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please tell me the page posted this in a sarcastic tone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:24 PM
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these boys are never like "omg all those 500 subs are the most woman hating subs ive ever seen 😔" lmao transparent. go away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:29 PM
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omg "with a big sloppy BJ" is one of those things that if she ever comes to her senses she will cringe forever 😭😭😭 she doesnt even know this guy and SHE is the one sending gifts 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:55 PM
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lmao 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:53 PM
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true!! you can beg and beg and beg for them to respect you, and they won't. you can send long paragraphs, COMMUNICATE forever, and they will NOT respect you. respect isnt something that should be begged. you just realize your worth and dump the garbage. its so tempting to try & make someone SEE your worth or love you or respect you but ya cant. all you can is laugh at the audacity and say boy bye. the more you put up with it, the more he will do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:14 PM
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MEN CHOOSE NOT TO BE A FATHER ALL THE TIMEEEEEEEEEEE AND N O O N E C A R E S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:07 PM
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David Boreanaz married a playmate (Jaime Bergman) & cheated on her. He texted his mistress (Rachel Uchitel, also was Tiger Woods' side piece) while she was in labour apparently (according to celeb rumors that is) and Rachel was grossed out. He only went publicn w it bc someone blackmailed him. Women everywhere get cheated on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:05 PM
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Happy birthday OP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:34 PM
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I can see it being superficial but it's not "whiny". I understand people who are bad at gift giving but when you receive a LIST of things your partner wants and literally all you have to do is choose something and buy it, especially if you know gifts are important to the person, it's not difficult if you actually CARE. It seems like he has a mentality of "gifts aren't that important, I'll just replace the shit you have because I think these are better" which she didn't ask for ... like .. how ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:31 PM
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yup. i got the same message. just dont respond
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:13 PM
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oh shut up seriously im sorry OP but reading posts like this just makes me pissed off. like the second like "does not cause harm to anyone" theres a million counterarguments, this dude just wants to defend getting MUH PENIS off to rape id rather see pickme videos where they clean their bfs house than read this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 03:42 PM
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spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:31 PM
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THIS A MILLION TIMES. Perfect comment!!!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:29 PM
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lmaoooooo true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:18 PM
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yeah he's racist as fuck edit: it appears hes a black man so i dont think he holds societal power to be RACIST but hes definitely one of those black men who put down black women 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:41 PM
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omg no!!! i copied and pasted so he doesnt get clicks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:07 PM
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thank you for this comment queen! you summed it up perfectly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 07:00 PM
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yes! TRP is misogynistic. completely misogynistic. FDS is about avoiding men like that and it bothers him. he said he has women texting him for sex- can u imagine if these women read FDS & actually stopped doing that 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:36 PM
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exactly!! this is a direct quote from him: "Pretty women are highly desirable on the dating market. They have their pick of male suitors. A woman who looks good has all different kinds of men approaching her for dates. Beautiful, feminine, young women don’t need “strategies”; they need a bat to swing at all the men begging to buy her dinner, drinks, and take her on trips." LMAO BITCH WHERE........... in what planet does he live in that men are that decent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:25 PM
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So I stumbled across it while typing FDS on Google, and all I needed to know is that the guy who wrote it is a Red Piller. That right there invalidates everything he has to say about FDS. But what I find hilarious is that he wrote a 12 min read on how bitter FDS is... while he felt the need to write that in the first place 💀💀💀💀💀💀 he seems so upset about how women are taking control of our dating lives, as if we're realizing their shitty tactics and that's bad for them. Its like I said in the gro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:21 PM
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lmaooooooo i feel kinda bad for him tho. he was trying to do something nice at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 05:04 PM
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"improve math skills because memory is bad" ugh she seems terrible. I know it hurts atm OP, and it will hurt for a little while. But like you said, friends are supposed to bring you joy, not to make you feel like shit & put you down. Hang in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 05:02 PM
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she probably knew. if the wife found her on FB she probably knew. plus she went to his house and i assume there would be pictures of the wife laying around, jewelry, feminine clothes etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:46 PM
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lmao @ the comments suggesting counseling "hi. my husband is an asshole who was intimate with another woman while i was working 10 hour shifts everyday... how can i rationalize the unfathomable so he doesn't get dumped?" Heartbreaking... he doesn't care about her. I hope this woman knows she will NEVER get past what he did. She's much better off alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:34 PM
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no i know 😂😂 sorry for the confusion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:25 AM
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baby you're his side chick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:41 PM
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complete lack of empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:38 PM
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nah lots of old lazy LVM too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:09 PM
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wonderful 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:20 PM
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what the hell is this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:06 PM
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i think it boils down to what makes YOU feel good - i think a nice thing is to pamper yourself. buy some fancy bath thingies (just be careful w heavily scented ones bc it can throw your pH off) and take a nice, relaxing bath. listen to some albums and even try exploring and finding new music while at it. look after your hair and skin- do a nice hair and facial mask, look up different skincare routines. Get some wine and cook some nice food and dessert and watch your favorite movie. little things…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:14 PM
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That food seems delicious! Congratulations OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:21 PM
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lol i honestly dont have patience to deal with women like that. this sounds bad but let their stupid pickme attitudes get them fucked up so they can learn their lesson. in my heart im always like "women are raised in a society with misogyny at its core and will obviously internalize - its not their fault" but when you deal with SO MANY dumb women like that who have no problem throwing others under the bus just so they can look cOoL to men, you realize that life will teach them what they shut the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 04:48 PM
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lmao "low libido is a major point of insecurity" dude foreplay has nothing to do with low libido. if he did it once then never again it means he doesnt give a fuck about you enough to please you. he wants to pump&fuck off. JFC girls gotta stop making excuses for their shitty bfs lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:34 AM
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do these men realize how bad they're making themselves look?? they're literally straight up owning that every interaction between them and women needs to be treated like a transaction. they're owning that they can't ever do something out of empathy, kindness or simply lend a helping hand, like a normal and healthy human being. instead, they're acting like perverts who NEED sex from a woman in order to do anything. but they'll be the first to say "not all men" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:44 PM
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I'm 18 currently, but I spent many many years vehemently against marriage and I kept my opinion until FDS. The foundation of marriage and history behind it is incredibly fucked up and mysoginistic. Women, in the past, were men's possession, so even the traditons of the father "giving away" the bride to the groom grossed me out, even though nowadays it obviously doesn't hold the same meaning as it did in the past. I hated how marriage/weddings are imposed on women & how little girls are brought u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:17 AM
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i dont even know who jodeci is so theyre doing a piss poor job at ruining music 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:54 PM
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i wanna know who hes blaming for the "horrible state of music today" 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:47 PM
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lmaoooo what is this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:44 PM
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i'm really happy for you OP! you'll be happier in the future when you achieve great things because you're making the right choice now by prioritizing yourself. one thing i'll say, and i truly apologize if this is uncalled for, but terminating a relationship is almost never easy, so if you find yourself feeling sad, having lingering feelings, etc, it's completely natural and will subside with time. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:20 AM
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I have no words for this post. I feel sick. She's sick and her boyfriend is more preoccupied with getting oral sex as opposed to caring for her. She has a fever, she's weak, and the first thing he thought of was "suck my dick". He has no respect for her & doesn't see her as a human being. "Lie down while he facefucks me" Jesus Christ. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:22 PM
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I dont think they ever got married but I might be wrong, but I think she is single indeed (unless they got back together) Candice is drop dead gorgeous!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:36 PM
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ohh you made my day! you don't have to thank me. honestly, it all comes down to the amazing lessons i've learned from other women on this sub, and i think every single one of them or at least the vast majority have a similar story. it's unfortunate but it's SUCH an eye opener when we realize we deserve better! it has been one of the big, most precious lessons from this sub: if a man doesn't respect you, there is nothing you can do other than walking away. you can't change him. he will ** never**…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:21 AM
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i agree but candice is such a lovely person. im from brazil and she loves brazil, speaks portuguese and values the culture here. she said brazil is her favorite place in the world. she comes across as an amazing person, very lighthearted and free spirit. but yeah, she met her bf (hes a brazilian model) in paris when she was 17 in 2005 and they dated up until 2018/19 iirc bc at the beggining of 2019 she said she was single. i think he proposef after 10 years and i dont know why tbh. but apparentl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:50 AM
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probably my favorite Queen Energy vid ever. also im really sorry if this is offensive but is the filter smoothing out her hands in this video?? it looks so strange
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:05 AM
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100%- you can't ever make a person want you or respect you. if they don't, you won't change that. it will spare you a lot of headache if you recognize your worth and walk away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:02 AM
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got the same message and my answer is "im 18 so how young is that" loll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:38 PM
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I LOVE THIS SM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:49 PM
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How is FDS a hate sub? it's hateful to have a voice as a woman apparently? ffs these people are so transparent. FDS has 100k subs. 100 THOUSAND women who agree with what is said here & contribute to the sub because we live in a misogynistic society and women are a part of it but it's so hateful to call that shit out right? it's hateful to have self-respect. it's hateful to come on top of something that men - no, not joe down the street but men as a WHOLE - created to screw & control women. it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:47 PM
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there's a rumour that Candice Swanepoel was cheated on by her fiancé whom she had been in a relationship with for 13/14 years candice swanepoel betrayal can feel so personal & sting so deeply because i believe it often makes people, especially women, question "was i not good enough?" but that's a dangerous mindset because it truly has nothing to do with you and it has been proven time & time again. if beyoncé was cheated on... it's about the man & his lack of empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:04 PM
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preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:23 PM
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Happy 21st birthday!! I wish you a day filled with happiness and love (and cake!) 💙👑🎉 the cake looks amazing! Whats the flavor?? edit: just read your comment on the flavor!! amazing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:53 PM
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I think being into someone and having them say your name feels good, it's very personal but its NOT at all OMG 😍😍😍😍 lmaoo also i think theres a book thats like "how to get people to like you" and one of the advices is to say their name and i read a funny comment on reddit about how if a person keeps repeating their name in a conversation allll the time theyre out lmaooo edit: did not find the actual comment cause i dont remember it tbh but found this one https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:29 AM
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WHEN HE PUTS ON CLOTHES TO GO OUT WITH YOU 😍😍😍😍 WHEN HE GIVES YOU CAKE ON YOUR BIRTHDAY 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 WHEN HE CLAPS DURING YOUR GRADUATION 😍😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:24 AM
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WHEN HE TALKS TO YOU INSTEAD OF MAKING DOG NOISES 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 WHEN HE GREETS YOU WITH A HUG INSTEAD OF STARING AT YOU 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 WHEN HE WALKS NEXT TO YOU OUT IN PUBLIC❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:20 AM
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its hilarious how pissy some men get at this sub to the point of being driven to send shit like that. stay mad bb ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:30 PM
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dont have stomach to see posts like this tbh. bdsm can fuck off forever as far as im concerned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:31 PM
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Please for the love of god divorce this man. He said it himself - he does not value you. That will NOT change. I promise. Divorce him OP and it will spare you time and pain. Your child deserves better and so does you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:24 PM
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lmao as someone whose first language isnt english "oxymorons" sounds sooo funny. its like you're saying someone is a super duper moron
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:54 AM
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The guy is attractive but she looks AMAZING. And I love her outfit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:17 AM
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love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:48 PM
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The kind of maturity, strength and self respect I aspire to have one day. Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:58 PM
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I'm SO happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:56 PM
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needed this. thank you ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:12 PM
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"body count" he a serial killer or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:34 PM
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there are men out there who will swear to god that the woman should pay for dates but i feel like if a guy is really really REALLY into you, he wants to impress you, he'll pay for it. he will be embarassed to ask for you to pay. i read a comment once that said "he'd never make Margot Robbie go 50/50" and it's true lmao but in this case her bf was a LVM and i wouldnt wanna be in a relationship with a dude who would dump me over a dinner bill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:45 AM
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lmao this is sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:42 AM
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its hideous and looks so cheap... if u r gonna throw away all the respect u have for your character and body over a bag at least get a decent looking bag lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:18 PM
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that's such an ugly bag you got -100 self respect AND an ugly bag i cant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:38 AM
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legit feels like im reading something from the year 1235
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 04:55 PM
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"are the best unlike us women" i have no words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:11 PM
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i love her and the man speaking is asking bs questions but has a wonderful voice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:23 AM
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agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 10:52 AM
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i prefer young. 18 or 19 because im a garbage waste of space and i need to manipulate you 💅👄and CONTROL you😁😁😁 jesus christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:51 PM
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omg seeing posts like this make me so sad. she's literally married to him, this isnt a random dude she's been seeing for a couple weeks. they have history together and were going to a buy a house together. im sure that at this point shes used to him making jokes like that because i bet its not the first time. as much as i wish she would divorce him that is likely not happening, especially because things like this are perceived as small, as a joke. it's not. it's not a joke, it's a lack of respec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:06 AM
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this lady is so well spoken. 💫🌙 preach! men are not children. don't ever coddle them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:44 AM
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All the upvotes.... Reddit (and the world in general but especially Reddit) so blatantly has a hard on for men. It' ridiculous. It's like when a "false rape accusation" post gets a thousand upvotes but all the other million "I got raped" posts by women go by unnoticed. Some men hate women so much that they'd rather hold on to the idea that a woman MIGHT make a "false accusation" as opposed to realizing how many men rape women. Tragique.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:13 PM
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ti be honest i just feel bad about that much money being burned.. jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:01 PM
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this is a nice gesture and all but women have been waking up early to make their kids' breakfast since... forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:45 PM
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When the Taylor/Kanye shit went down I was 14 and I sided with Kanye even though I was a die-hard fan, simply because she said one thing in the phone call & then acted like she had no idea the song even existed, even though she clearly did. But now I realize how hard it must've been for her to deal with the entire world talking shit about her and being so happy about her "downfall". Im glad she recovered from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:42 PM
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Hey dear, I'm so incredibly sorry you went through all of that. It's abuse, like you said- it is straight up abuse. He drained you and took advantage of your kidness, your love. That's what men like him do. They have no worth whatsoever & in the end they take away your feelings of worthyness, but it was him all along. He is an infinite number negative value man. He's a piece of shit. I understand you're feeling a lot of bad feelings right now, and that's ok. Those feelings will come and it's onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:01 PM
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The food looks so delicious!! Congrats OP <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:48 PM
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to be honest I just feel grossed out by women who do everything for men and treat men like children. It makes me wanna shake their shoulders and say "stop it!". Like your partner isn't a child, stop treating him like one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:40 PM
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God this pisses me off so much. Get over your fucking break up without using women to fill the void. Fucking asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:23 PM
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omg really? :(( i didnt know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:53 PM
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You have a completely valid point. And marriage is indeed misogynistic, the OG idea of marriage was that womem are property & belong to men. Times have changed and things have evolved so of course nowadays the meaning isn't the same, but marriage is still shoved down women's throats since women are born. There's so much encouragement to find a Prince Charming and get married, and lotsss of women want to have a wedding. I personally don't - even though I'm only 18 & my stance is bound to change o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:36 PM
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:( i am sorry, u deserve much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:21 PM
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you are welcome!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:20 PM
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good point!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:19 PM
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Hi!!! Omg how cute 😍😍💙 brazilian people LOVE it when foreigners compliment brigadeiros bc people here are incredibly proud of it lol, I do agree they are incredible!!! I bet the US has amazing sweets too and you guys have the most amazing selections of candy 😬 There is the "white" version of brigadeiro, beijinho (it literally means little kiss) and you do the same thing except you use coconut instead of chocolate powder! Some people like to use white chocolate as well. There is also pavê, which …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:33 AM
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omg how cute that you wrote it in portuguese 😍 and the story of fudge is so cool!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:26 AM
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i dont know a lot about angelina, but she did an interview saying she couldnt wait to go to work, and then jennifer aniston said that was NOT cool of her. i just feel horrible about what jennifer went through, but she is a multi millionaire and this happened 15 years ago so nowadays she could not care less if she tried i think. on one hand, the man is obviously the one to blame. on the other hand, it is not classy to get with someone's husband. on stories like this i used to think "wow that suck…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:05 AM
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I'm in Brazil!!! I swear these sweets are so delicious it's insane. But because brazilians have a huge sweet tooth maybe it would be a liiittle too sweet. But it's really good. They are called "palha italiana" and the recipe is condensed milk, chocolate powder, butter and sweet biscuits. You put the condensed milk, chocolate powder and butter in a pan (medium heat) and you mix it until it becomes a paste (basically if you can see the bottom of the pan after you drag the spoon across it you are g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:39 AM
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omg 😬 i bet that extended to other things?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:25 AM
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Portman 🤢 Reminds me of Angelina and Brad. Though the man is much more at fault, why would you put yourself through that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:13 AM
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Wouldn't add this on the title cause it's too long, but: if a freaking random Starbucks barista went out of his way to be kind to me and remembered what I liked, your boyfriend can remember your freaking anniversary. If he doesn't do things it's bc HE DOESN'T CARE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:05 AM
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Lol women get showered with complimets alll the time... from men.. bc said men want something from us. It's not deep. I dont understand the point of those posts. Men want women to go around throwing compliments? I know it makes people feel good but maybe women get so many compliments bc society is structured to base our worth on our appearance lmao Do men wanna trade?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:37 PM
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men really will look for a strawman of any kind to believe they are oppressed huh lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:33 PM
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LMAO "he made me split the bill but he even got me ketchup packets!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:59 PM
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this is my favorite post here today. wish i had money to award it. im dying from laughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:49 PM
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noooo ahahah that was just me trying to be funny because a lot of posts have a huge age gap and often have completely unacceptable issues as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:36 PM
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this is just sad posts on reddit are like "me (20f) and my boyfriend (65m), found out he's been cheating the whole time and forgave him because he proposed. he said he will only get married with a prenup. am i being a gold digger??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:54 PM
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💙💙💙 don't ever do something you don't want because a man tells you to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:18 PM
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it's sad that there needs to be a place where mods have to approve comments because people cant see the point. but im happy it exists. i try to be polite but honestly you wanna have an argument about literal violence without condemning it, go to literally any other sub. they'll entertain you there. i dont have time for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:51 PM
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someone made a comment saying this post made them realize this sub is ~ toxic ~ because life is too short to worry about little things like this violence against women being normalized is not A LITTLE THING. i dont agree with women on this sub 100% of the time but out of all things you choose something as serious as this to be upset over? tragic. c'est la vie i guess. au revoir, sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:46 PM
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oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:36 PM
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🌷💙 yeah if someone loves you they won't enjoy calling you a whore and inflicting pain on you. and if someone is mentally stable and decent they won't enjoy insulting any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:22 PM
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Of course. Wish I could give you a hug. Thank you for writing this comment, the part where you mentioned you felt ashamed until you found the "sex positive" community and then you were like yeah great I feel better is incredibly insightful & so true. I am so very sorry you went through those things with your dad. I think it definitely impacted how you perceive sex. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable. It's not supposed to cause you even more pain. I hope you are on your way to healing. You are worth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:15 PM
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I'm talking about BDSM in general & the reason why it's so normalized I mean if you like a little pain while having sex I wont burst into your bedroom and write you a ticket. But yeah. People need to question why they like things. I personally don't find any of it appealing, though sex in itself can be hot-and-bothered-need-you-right-now without being painful and degrading which I feel is where the difference lies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:49 PM
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Yes! I find it hilarious when men refer to liberal feminism as "radical feminism". Like first of all you don't even know what you're talking about. And second, you took the most male-centric form of "feminism" and claimed it is radical. What do you want?? It's easier to straight up say you hate women. Sorry they made you cry :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:33 PM
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Some people are commenting about shaming but the comments don't get approved? And I'm not sure if they will so I'll address this here. I made this post with the women of this sub in mind. I would assume most women here are familiar with the topic and at least understand where I'm coming from so there's no need to sugarcoat things. Honestly, I do realize this post might sound... harsh, but it's honest. I'm not victim blaming women who fell pray to this nor am I trying to make women out to be the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:31 PM
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omg his father is such an asshole... i actually commented this but deleted it cause i felt like it was unnecessary and TMI (i have a problem with oversharing ahaha) but since you are sharing your experience i'll share something i went through, i think it might help u to feel better knowing you're not alone in that. when i was 16 (about a month after i turned 16) i had a dumb virtual relationship, i never met the guy (thank god btw). he was about to turn 19. he lived in another state. i got his n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:02 PM
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I am so very sorry you went through this dear :( your ex is a disgusting piece of shit. I'm glad you found an actually decent man. Hope you are at peace now with yourself 🌷 u prob already know this but none of that was your fault. women get manipulated and pressured into doing degrading sex acts all the time. we deserve better. we are human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:41 PM
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thank you so much!!!!! u are so kind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:35 PM
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exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:31 PM
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it's so gross. honestly obviously there are exceptions to any rule but i feel like men who are actually confident in themselves don't feel like they need to degrade women to feel ~ manly. they already know they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:15 PM
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i chuckled i cant the absolute state of - what i assume is a man - in 2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:38 PM
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Very important message! ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:06 PM
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im really sorry :/ sending love and light your way girl! 💙🥀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:32 AM
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aaaa que legal!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:22 PM
5

você é brasileira?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:21 PM
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Im so sorry this happened to you 😓😓 did you report him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:28 PM
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i have a feeling harvard/other ivy league or top notch universities lets anyone in as long as daddy is paying for it cough kushner cough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:13 PM
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omg the ex GF line is so bad but this 50 yr old grown ass man saying "young lady" is 🤢 edit: oh my god i thought he meant drown as in = forget/drown them out. not literally................. i have no words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:10 PM
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exactly! men love to act like they are oppressed due to """paternity rights""" and its like do you even know how heterosexual family dynamics work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:47 PM
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LMAO IM DEAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:18 PM
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Ohh I had never heard of him! But I can relate to what you felt because there are actors and musicians that I LOVE but unfortunatel they had shitty attitudes :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:05 PM
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No it's okay! Hahahaha I was confused for a but I assumed the latter (do u mind saying who it is?? I'm curious now)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:57 PM
2

Wait did you meet the celebrity or were you just a fan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:55 PM
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Well I don't know about "HVW" but loneliness is a completely natural, human emotion. Everyone feels lonely at one point or another. Please try not to feel bad about feeling like this, because it doesn't make you any less worthy. People go through complex emotions and I believe it can be a relief to know that you have control at least of the things you do. And you can only push forward and choose how you'll manage things from now on. There are people who like to be in a relationship but it's impo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:17 PM
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Your life is about to change yeah sister now you have 20 more traumas to recover from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:58 PM
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Wtf lmao "you first" this is so disgusting. He is treating her like shit over a haircut... Peoples lives is much more complex than just reading "dump him" and packing your bags and saying "au revoir perish you prick". She is married to him, they've had a whole relationship, share things together, live together etc. Its not easy to leave over something like this. But she should. If he treats her like this over small stuff like this... I dont know what the fuck is wrong with men like this lmao go …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:31 AM
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I believe this vid a joke and she is dramaticizing her reaction over papel towels she got from her Sugar Daddy for comedic purposes. Like he is her (supposedly) rich sugar daddy and got her a pack of... paper towels lmao. But who knows..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:09 PM
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ok i wanna know who is ben??? but this is so lovely oh my god :((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:01 PM
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you click on it then click at the three dots on the right upper corner and download it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:32 PM
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oh my god so groundbreaking and empowering its not like prostitutes have existed since the dawn of time because women have always been seen as objects :O i am so shook by this and men everywhere are crying in despair because you are gonna do exactly what they want ;(((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:01 AM
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By the way I couldn't add this in the title but Little Mix is an underrated amazing british girlband. If anyone is interested in their work I highly recommend a song called Boy. But they have more recent work similar to this song like their single Hair which is also about Kick Him Out 2020! Pretty much almost all of their songs are about being confident in yourself & taking no shit from men. They have a music video called Little Me which is not about dating but it goes like "I'd tell her to spea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 12:01 AM
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It's so great to be like this. Unfortunately I care too much what others think and I never want to upset anyone so I act like a doormat :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:41 PM
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Unfortunately I have a tendency to be the "no it's fine!" girl 😞 I have a hard time standing my ground to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:01 PM
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i dont even understand whats going on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:35 PM
3

Yes!! There's a song I've wanting to share as well by Little Mix 😬 they have whole albums that scream Queen Shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:33 PM
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it's not about how much money you make or being a workslave or having a demanding high paying job to prove yourself to be worthy. its about making the best of what you have and not settling. people have different paths in life and thats ok 💙 never feel lesser or bad bc you dont have a fancy job- tbh fancy job or not the only ones who are ""winning"" are the bosses anyways. they are the millionaires/billionaires exploiting everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:24 AM
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This sub is big on making sure you are not a Forever Girlfriend, and I think I understand why. Maybe there are women who stay in long term relationships expecting a marriage, and the man never proposes, which perhaps means he doesn't take the relationship that seriously. I don't know. However, I am not a fan of marriage. I'm 18 so of course my views on things are bound to change and evolve over time, but I have NEVER liked the idea of getting married. It just seems like it sucks for women. The i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:28 AM
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yeah i mean, the situation is some clown shit regardless... but i guess my point was that often people overlook things/excuse things or certain behaviors if someone has model looks, so i guess it would make more sense to have a woman pining after him that way?? i def think this vid is a joke though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:21 AM
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Yes! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:34 AM
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I mean I don't think working at Target is a huge issue. It's honest work. Of course we don't know the story behind why he works there but idk shaming this kind of labor doesnt sit well w me. He is average looking though and has a woman begging him to marry her like... sis. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:03 AM
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Congratulations! I'm sorry you have a daughter with this piece of shit but I'm glad you are in a better place, finally. You are strong and amazing and deserve so much better. I'm glad you see that now. ♡ do not allow men like him to disrespect you in any way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:35 PM
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Just the fact that this is long distance is already... like, break up. But long distance with a dude who won't even respect you? I hope she dumps him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:25 PM
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This is gross beyond words. It is absolutely NORMAL to feel uncomfortable, as a woman, to a man being all up in our vulva even if it's for medical purpose. A lot of women feel many different emotions. Some women are embarassed. Self conscious. Etc. Some women might have been sexually harassed, sexually abused, and thus do not want a stranger touching them. I wish there was a way to contact these people's workplace and report them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:55 PM
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It is, sis Men are responsible for creating a world in which they have always treated women in inhumane ways, and everything revolves around them. Women were forced to marry men, sleep with men, raise men's children, have men's children, cook for men, clean for men, look a certain way to appeal to men And the more women started to stand our ground the more desperate men became to keep us tied to them- through making sure women feel bad about our appearance, making sure we compete with one anothe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:21 PM
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I am honestly exhausted of men and their desperation for female attention, their deep hatred of women, their entitlement and manipulation tactics, all of it GO your fucking way and leave women alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:14 PM
74

what exactly is he expecting from that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:49 PM
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I'm not sure what her exact age is but she's def in her 50s. He's 20 something, but his mom is young And she was outside the house and asked him to open the front gate but he wouldnt do it until he was done gaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:54 PM
52

"and gets moody when I ask him to pause" this pissed me off so much to read... lol also reminds me of how the guy i used to talk on the phone with let his 50+ yr old grandmother locked outside until he was done with his gaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:24 AM
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No one is obligated to sleep with you because you have common sense... and then it turns out you were only talking about these ideals in the first place because you wanted women to sleep with you.Do they not realize they are shooting themselves in the foot?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:32 PM
246

I stopped reading at "while I was bummed" Fuck this idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:27 PM
42

A part of me thought this was a troll post due to the fact I can't believe someone would be this disgusting. But I know men are worse. I don't have words. I hope this girl goes to the police but I know often times the police doesn't care. She needs to find a way to get the law to know she suspects of her boyfriend. I can't. Too much. Disgusting piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:59 PM
12

She is beautiful, young and successful... I hope she realizes she deserves better and THERE IS someone better for her. If she stays, she will likely always feel afraid of him being sleazy, plus the whole "you are beautiful and successful and I can't stand it !" will NOT go away. Drop the asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:25 AM
20

the first one has a struggle sad hairline but isnt really unattractive. however, due to his attitude he is a 0 to me. gross men like this can look like brad pitt and id still steer clear of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:08 PM
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I believe it comes from low self esteem and the desire to be special. I also think this rings especially True for After, but can be applied to a lot of other movies like Twilight, 50 shades, and even the obsession some girls have with serial killers. After was originally a self-insert 1D fanfiction, and what you see in the movie is a Pacific-Ocean-Watered-Down version of what you read in the fanfiction. Basically, the author Anna Todd took members from One Direction and turned these guys into fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:09 PM
57

Jesus Christ. So fucking gross. Yes, you break up with this piece of shit and you focus on your kid. I can only imagine the pain this woman is in :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:06 PM
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I believe it comes from low self esteem and the desire to be special. I also think this rings especially True for After, but can be applied to a lot of other movies like Twilight, 50 shades, and even the obsession some girls have with serial killers. After was originally a self-insert 1D fanfiction, and what you see in the movie is a Pacific-Ocean-Watered-Down version of what you read in the fanfiction. Basically, the author Anna Todd took members from One Direction and turned these guys into fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 06:54 PM
18

Girl I was such a clown too because he would send me those long voice messages crying over some other girl and literally saying "I'm stalking her... please don't hate me" and since I didn't wanna be jEaLoUs aNd tOxIc my reply was I'm so sorry you're hurting LOL never again Girl in question was someone he texted for like 2 weeks too and he was crying over her 5 months later......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:01 PM
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Piggybacking on your comment: there is. When I met my ex-online-boyfriend, at the very beggining he would say things like "we've known each other for x amount of days, why don't you hate me by now?" and of course what I did was stroke his ego and say that there was no reason to hate him, he was great, etc. Truth is, I barely knew him so why I would I hate him? Then I started to understand it later when he proved himself to be immature, delusional, etcetc. Not saying it's ALWAYS the case with jok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:52 PM
45

Ugh even if this is a joke it's a no from me. If you perceive me as someone who is "dropping my standards" for being interested in you it's bye-bye. Find someone who will put up with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:39 PM
19

Giving advice is always so easy because I'm not the one in your place, but I would say, acknowledge your feelings as something that is out of your control. They might not be valid, as in, your exes treating their new partners a certain way says nothing about you, but you still feel this way and it's okay. Don't punish yourself for feeling like this. However, you should know that it says nothing about you, about who you are, about your worth. I'm sure you gave your all and if they couldn't apprec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:21 PM
10

Happy birthday OP!!! The sea is always lovely, enjoy your day ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:15 PM
6

God this is so cringe. How can people manage? If I invited someone out I would pay out of sheer embarassment of asking them to pay... and I'm a girl. This makes for such a bad first impression. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:42 PM
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