Another day another woman suffering from the "I dont know what consent is also men are oppressed" disease

yoursultana · 2021-03-21T15:04:11+00:00

Men are NOT socialized to not speak up for themselves. They are also massively stronger and faster than us. To anyone with functioning brain cells, the difference is absolutely clear.

Also when 96-99% of ALL rape is committed by men, we don’t need to teach women about consent bc clearly we already respect it.

Edit: I’ve stickied this comment bc I’ve had enough of the derailing and gaslighting for bOtH sides. It’s clear. Read the handbook and rules of the subreddit.

dkwantsdk · 2021-03-21T20:07:22+00:00

Won't someone think of the men and all their imaginary problems!

Let me know when AskMen or any other male focused reddit asks the same question about respecting and making space for a woman's consent with as many rewards.

catifyy · 2021-03-21T16:51:19+00:00

I swear whenever I read a (I am a woman) comment on reddit I just automatically assume it is a man in disguise.

eatnthrowtrashaway · 2021-03-21T18:20:52+00:00

Actually once when I was high with my lvm ex he kissed me aggressively and when I kissed him back he freaked out threw me off him and was like “I didn’t consent to that wtf” but was also giggling and making fun of how horny I was....he seemed to be trying to do some psychological revenge thing but I was so high at the time I just freaked out and cried for forgiveness until he forgave me. Next morning I awoke to a while speech on consent and how males don’t get asked but here’s the kicker; when my little pickme ass agreed and we got up to get breakfast he smacked my ass. So. Fuck this bs. Men will victimize women and call themselves the victims.

LilithWon · 2021-03-21T16:42:16+00:00

I rolled my eyes so hard when I saw this one 🙄

Probably 40% of ALL of the times I have EVER had sex, was not consensual. Most of those times were when I was in a relationship: my boyfriend wanted sex but I didn't, so he would just badger me until I relented because it was easier to just let him fuck me than to put up a fight. (I know, this was pre FDS and I had weak boundaries, should have just dumped them).

Now I'm just imagining stopping my rapist like "hey, are you consenting to this?" and him giving me a weird look like "uh, yeah, I am literally forcing myself on you right now, of course I want it"

That OP was definitely not written by a woman. It's just so insulting and completely ignorant of a woman's real experiences navigating sex with men. Probably some incel writing whataboutthemenz fanfiction.

aquietsword · 2021-03-21T21:37:31+00:00

Women are also generally very good at picking up subtle hints in body language, we can tell when something feels off. Men admit time and time again that they are idiots that can't do this. They NEED to verbally ask for consent.

And men haven't been conditioned from birth to be the accommodating gender. To not make a scene. To keep the peace.

Ask whoever you want for consent, but don't try to make it sound like men are the ones afraid of boundaries being bulldozed during sex.

OrangeyPanda · 2021-03-21T16:09:29+00:00

When men project and women believe their lies.

FoxieFoxxo · 2021-03-21T15:11:15+00:00

all the awards it got 😂

FrequentPoetry · 2021-03-21T15:02:52+00:00

seriously someone save this woman from romantic affairs

randomgirlimok · 2021-03-21T15:46:46+00:00

Can someone tell me how a 200lb man gives consent to a 95lb 5ft woman?

pinkakio · 2021-03-21T17:12:13+00:00

Was she going to peg him or sthg and needed consent? -_-

super_thinker_ · 2021-03-21T18:10:48+00:00

Lord help her. She's preaching to all the wrong choirs here. Will someone please tell her about the 97% study?

WhoopassDiet · 2021-03-22T02:24:53+00:00

Look, you drop any man in an all-male prison and his understanding of consent will immediately elevate to a godly level. They ain’t dumb. Let’s stop that line of reasoning.

The whole point of consent is ensuring that someone who doesn’t actually have the physical power to ditch you is not, in fact, wishing at this moment that they had the physical power to ditch you.

Since men DO have the physical power to ditch you, their mere presence is reasonably interpreted as implied consent. If you’re Xena Warrior Princess and you’re sullying yourself with Woody Allen, then by all means, ask. Otherwise, men aren’t shy; if he’s there and sober and up for it, he will let you know if there’s a psychic element of his experience that you’re overlooking.

SarcasmSlide · 2021-03-21T19:27:01+00:00

I hope you get picked!

Novemberinthechair · 2021-03-22T00:07:29+00:00

That was a dude trying to appropriate a women's issue. I guess MeToo made him left out. Sniff.

ALISHAISHERE123 · 2021-03-21T15:24:14+00:00

LMAO wtf?😂

spinsterchachkies · 2021-03-21T17:36:30+00:00

Stupid

FrequentPoetry · 2021-03-21T15:20:49+00:00

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yoursultana · 2021-03-21T15:08:11+00:00

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Title	Another day another woman suffering from the "I dont know what consent is also men are oppressed" disease
Author	FrequentPoetry
Upvotes	334
Comments	72
Date	March 21, 2021 3:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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