Female socialization is horrible. Little girls are brought up to believe that their biggest acomplishment in life is being pretty and good at doing things to males, so that they can find a man. Female babies have their ears pierced; young female children receive faux makeup kits, dolls and tea sets as toys; clothing designed for girls have ridiculous sayings printed on them, usually referring to their physical appearance or perceived helplessness: delicate princess, daddy's girl, etc; girls are socialized to help around the house and once they learn how to cook, they have to hear how they're "ready for marriage"; beauty/fashion magazines are 100% marketed for girls with its entire content's focus being... you guessed it... dating, clothing, makeup, with incredibly harmful photoshopped pictures of women and entire columns about dieting; girls drown in oceans of advertisement about how they can beautiful! how they can look YOUNG! what MEN like!. It's ENDLESS bullshit.

Women's upbringing is horrifically misogynistic, is tied directly to men and most importantly, it's a scam. But why?

Women are taught our WHOLE LIVES that the most important and valuable asset we have is our physical appearance, so we look after it. We buy the makeup, the skincare products, we look beautiful. We know how to clean, we know how to cook, we know BASIC HYGIENE. And despite the idea that's sold that "STEM is for the bois", "business is for the bois", "men are smarter", despite being the second sex, women still do well in school. Women do well in college. Women get their degrees, women get jobs, women buy their own properties. Being the direct target of an opressive, dehumanizing system doesn't stop women from moving forward, from living our lives to the fullest. Men? Men are a second thought. Yet, we're brought up to put them at the main spot.

Men are raised in an entirely opposite way: they're encouraged to chase women, but to prioritize their education, their finances, to pursue a career. Men rule the world, and most importantly, men rule their own lives. They are the main character of their own narrative, with the women at their feet: women who are beautiful and ready to be a girlfriend. Women are not to be anything but a mere addition to their already fulfilled lives.

Yet, without women, many of them would be... nothing. Women raise men - it's not that men don't have the ability to change diapers, to feed a kid, to be compassionate; they choose not to. Women cook for men, women clean for men, women make men happier. Women perform the emotional labor. And often times, thats on TOP of working.

Married men live longer.

Ladies: realize that without a man, you're still capable of being a functioning human being. You deserve a man who is also capable of being a functioning human being without a woman. Break the cycle of being a free babysitter. Be a PARTNER.