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Yes. Wow, I’m actually really thankful someone on this sub has said it! I think that piercing honesty as you put it, is more helpful so some. In my case, it’s also helped me more than therapy. I’m not the type of person to wait around guessing or fishing for a solution to the problem. Most of the time the simplest answer is the problem, and that’s what therapy doesn’t teach you sometimes. This comment turned out longer than intended but your comment spoke revelations to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 01:50 PM
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People slept on it because everything you mentioned above they didn’t like! 🤣 except the soundtrack, anyone who disses the OST can remove themselves kindly from thine eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 01:30 PM
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What’s this warrior gene you speak of? I’m interested in learning more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 03:18 PM
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If I HAD to choose the most decent of Disney HVM it’s probably Hercules for me. I mean he gave up his ‘God’ status to be with her…but the man had his flaws. These are hilarious btw I wish there was more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 03:52 PM
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Interested to hear how you’re reprogramming your brain to break your limerence. I’ve been researching this topic lately and I’d love to hear more about what works, what doesn’t, or share any tips, books, articles? Otherwise, I’m super proud of what you’ve accomplished and how much better you feel overall. The scuba diving bit is so awesome! Did you do a solo trip or invite anyone worthy along for the ride?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 03:05 PM
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I don’t know whether to preach this from the rooftops…or to cry at the brutal honesty…I wish I had all you ladies for friends IRL. I’d probably stop paying my therapist money for the healthy call outs y’all give me on the daily!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 12:39 AM
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TikTok is literal propaganda. I am seriously considering making a small post about it but I was reading somewhere the other day about the use of TikTok in different countries. We all know and have seen the rise of influencers and TikTokers who’ve become famous and get rewarded for the amount of likes, reshapes, remixes, etc. most of them doing dumb ass shit like dancing, drinking, partying, playing jokes, basically anything with no substance and a quick laugh. And it’s rewarded, albeit fake. App…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:40 PM
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Spot on. The ‘with her’ is silent in his statement. Also, every small shred of respect he may have had for her is gone now that SHE proposed to him. Sis needs a breakup and therapy stat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:11 PM
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Are there any helpful tips you or any ladies can share about not painting a future in your mind, not analyzing, and dropping one from the mind? My first suggestion is kinda obvious which is to be so busy you don’t have time to think about anything else. Hobbies are another one. However, sometimes I even get caught up in ‘being so busy’ I can get a bit burnt out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 04:15 PM
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Wow, thanks for elaborating so fully! It’s a lot to take in but I appreciate your expertise in this matter. It really is tragic when people of all sorts will not and cannot take some sense of responsibility. And the way they justify the behavior is just astounding to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:20 PM
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Could you elaborate more on ‘everyone justifies their actions after the fact.’? I’d like to learn more about what that means while I sip my coffee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:19 PM
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I full heartedly agree with this list! Thanks for sharing and putting it out there. I’ve been with a 1 and it was just horrible. I’d also add don’t hookup or get into relationships with girls who already have boyfriends in hopes they’ll leave them for you. It’s not gonna happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:06 PM
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Love this post thanks for bringing it to the table Queen. I have to agree with most here and say it really is a luck of the draw meeting HVW who are also wlw. For example I went to a small little get together the other day, where I met this woman who I felt an instant connection with. We ended up talking with each other the entire night at the party, and of course it turns out she has a gf. I wasn’t surprised either, she’s educated, intelligent, fluent in several languages, well traveled, beauti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:02 PM
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Your last line hit me hard I misted up a little 💜 thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:14 PM
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That quote made so much sense to me when I first read it on this sub. When I stayed up all night reading the handbook…I was angry for an entire year. Like fucking raged. To the point even my aunt and mom were like ‘wtf is going on with you?’ My thing is/was idk what that means when you and the ladies here say, “be gentle with yourself, forgive yourself for not knowing.” Like what are the specific actions one takes to do so? I’ve just been filling my life with things I’ve felt I missed out on but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:57 PM
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‘Copa-cola’ sis I CACKLED! Thanks for brightening my morning 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:47 PM
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It not even funny how accurate this is. Same sister, glad I’m not the only one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:24 PM
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I wasn’t aware about those exceptions…but it shows me that discrimination of lower class peasants had the shit end of the stick from day one. And it seems even noblewomen had their own hardships… And historian or not, being a big reader is very high value in my opinion! Most folks I’ve talked to haven’t read a book in years, or since graduating from secondary education. Which is sad because with how much access to information and text we have today I don’t understand why most people don’t capita…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 07:29 PM
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Once again, bless you for telling this story. It truly is fascinating why stories like these — which happened hundreds of years ago — prove that men have been trying to put women down by any means necessary. It’s incredible the lengths mens I’ll go just to “keep women in their place.” Imagine if they took all of that hatred energy and out it to good use in being a better man for themselves? A better man to their children, wives, brothers, sisters? Men could actually make the world a better place…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:04 PM
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You see this is where the cognitive dissonance comes into full force with these scrotes. They say this shit of ‘why would I pay for a random woman I just met.’ Yet will turn right around and pay for a random woman to have sex with, like a sex worker, or a woman who has an only fans. Make it make sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 05:55 PM
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This short brief history lesson is yet another reason why I enjoy this sub so much! Thank you for educating us! Truly fascinating how they’ll spin anything to keep their abusive power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:30 AM
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I agree with giving young women and girls self esteem fist and foremost. The way I put it is “you are truly the only person you spend your entire life with. Not a boyfriend, not a husband, or a girlfriend. You. So you best make sure you’re a good person to be around!” I think I’ll take what you’ve put in bullets above and save them for future reference when the time comes. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:03 PM
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Thanks for reposting this here! Great advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:40 AM
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Love this idea! I’m totally going to take her shopping once she gets old enough. Whatever she wants 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:40 AM
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Wow! Thank you so much for this list I will definitely be saving & sharing! These are all gems of advice and I feel like once she’s 3 I’ll have enough of these to bring out every time the little niece visits!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:49 AM
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So I was thinking about making a discussion post about this…I’d love advice from this sub on how to talk to young girls about FDS standards. I’ve got a few young girl cousins and a niece and I want to set an example for them, but I also know their parents are horrible examples of guidance and I want to be there for them when the day comes…I just have no idea how I’d even talk to young girls about FDS. Besides the notion of putting yourself first and foremost!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:05 AM
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Spot. On. And per your last sentence, I’d add to that fabulous ending, that, the best way for a woman to keep her inner peace is to ignore LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 01:51 AM
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Which proves the FDS standard practice: Male attention is abundant and useless. Men thrive off women’s attention more than women thrive off of male attention. Case in point, men are the real attention whores in society, not women. Can you imagine if we all just collectively ignored them one day? There would be riots in the street! If men stopped giving women unnecessary attention, we’d thrive. The amount of time we would have on our hands to level up would be so beneficial. But most of us women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:11 AM
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Knowing how depraved some of them are they’d probably like it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:48 PM
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Amazing. Thank you for explaining it so fully. From your response it just goes to show that people who are low value will justify their values, logic, and truth by any means necessary. That point of view is so telling and striking when you put it like that, easy to make sense of most shitty behavior now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 10:15 PM
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Can someone explain this to me please? Like how in the actual hell, does a sentient human being with self awareness have thought patterns like this? Men say they’re not emotional…then apparently pull shit like this!? Someone make it make sense please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:22 PM
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I find that people who intentionally push boundaries are usually fishing for some sort of reaction out of you. So yes, drop a fake pet peeve. If they deliberately do it just to get a reaction out of you, great! Your reaction should be to break things off immediately, block, delete, move on. They can deal with their own childish consequences. This post is stellar advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:42 PM
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Next up: Any Man Of Mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:57 PM
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Happy holidays mods! Thanks for your continuous hard work and dedication to this sub! Your appreciation doesn’t go unnoticed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:46 PM
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Love, love, love the health success you’ve had this year! I hope you feel extremely proud of yourself, it takes true discipline imho! As a woman who suffers from Crohn’s disease your podcast link was like a post Christmas gift! I had my first major Crohns related surgery in which I spent my entire summer indoors recovering from 9+ years of shitty trauma. I’ll absolutely be binging this podcast for any relevant info on how to continue with my new body post surgery. Do you have any favorite episod…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:45 PM
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Love, love, love the health success you’ve had this year! I hope you feel extremely proud of yourself, it takes true discipline imho! As a woman who suffers from Crohn’s disease your podcast link was like a post Christmas gift! I had my first major Crohns related surgery in which I spent my entire summer indoors recovering from 9+ years of shitty trauma. I’ll absolutely be binging this podcast for any relevant info on how to continue with my new body post surgery. Do you have any favorite episod…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:44 PM
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Wow saving this comment for future reference! A bit off topic but I’d love to hear or read any articles regarding weed. I was once a baby daily user and now that the fog is lifted I’ve been trying to cope with how destructive it was. I’ve gotten into a few discussions with some friends who use and they usually brush off when I tell them how destructive it can be. Would love some science to back up the argument!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 07:46 PM
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This is something I could totally get behind! I can hear them screaming that we only deal in absolutes. Well either come correct or don’t come at all, fellas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:17 PM
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This comment belongs in a museum of woman’s history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:19 AM
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I would read a small novel on what you just wrote. It’s all about choice. Low Value People choose to live in the misery of who they are. They don’t choose to get better, and they also can’t accept the fact that not everyone is going to end up with someone, Be successful, own a house, etc. Whereas High Value People know getting better never stops. You don’t stop becoming better. It’s true self discipline that keeps those who are High Value going. If humans just decided to stop bettering technolog…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:19 PM
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The issue with this is, as women, we shouldn’t have to! We shouldn’t have to set up cameras to catch creeps going through our panty drawers. Men are depraved…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:25 PM
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Is this age gap notion also supposed to reflect women in their 30’s? I have this life long friend who is about to turn 32 and her boyfriend — who she just moved in with — is like 39 going on 40. I know the focus of age gaps is strongly focused on women in their 20’s but what when she first told me how old this guy was I felt something was off…he has no kids and they just celebrated their 1 year anniversary by moving in together…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 06:35 PM
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YOU’RE ASKING TOO MUCH!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:04 AM
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The cognitive dissonance is astounding…women always seem like there is something wrong with how they are acting, even when they list out 8 paragraphs of utter filth their partner does. Like honey, did you even read what you just wrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:33 PM
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This hurt to read because I’ve been dealing with the same thing. I came back to my hometown this weekend and hit up a few friends I’ve know my entire life. Left on read. What is it, is it something in the damn air? Or is this just a part of getting older and more mature?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:27 PM
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They don’t want to work for anything these days. You’re spot on, it’s instant gratification and shallow reward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:15 PM
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This is absolutely wonderful! OMFG and they seriously call us emotional and they get triggered by actors playing a fantasy character on screen. Do you think it was because he thought you’d leave him for Legolas or think him unmanly because of his lack of luscious locks? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:35 PM
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Omfg please elaborate like he was legit jealous of a fictional character?! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:41 PM
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You can’t make this shit up…can someone explain to me how they’re not ashamed of themselves when they act like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:34 PM
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Ditto I’d love to read a post about all the wack things people have said to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:55 PM
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Nope. But he will occasionally play with them and keep them occupied while his baby mama is inside doing all of the chores, keeping the house clean. While he is represented as ‘such a great dad’ for ‘bonding’ with his children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:53 PM
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I agree. I’ve been asking men my age who talk about wanting kids, why? Why do you want kids, Dylan? It’s never because they want to be a father and provide for someone other than themselves…it’s usually ‘they seem like fun!’ Mmk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:18 PM
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‘Of course I didn’t orgasm…’ watch the ego slowly drain from his eyes! 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:53 PM
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I just spat out my coffee! Lmfao this is perfect. Might I add always the kid with the gross ass fingernails too! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:29 PM
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Your last sentence could be a great exploratory post about men and how they see the dating world. Where sex is the ‘reward’ just because one nice guy was a ‘gentleman’ to a few women he expects the behavior to be rewarded. Idk I think you have something there and would love to read more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:08 PM
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Personally I think they tried that with the whole 500 days of summer thing. JGL’s character is a prime example of a man who sulks for days about the tone of response from Summer in the elevator about her weekend. Makes conclusions she’s fucking some other guy (or more) and this dude isn’t even in a relationship WITH HER! 😂 and pines after her for eternity…but nah let’s get Jordan Peterson or Joe Rogan type to spill this new age info. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 01:18 AM
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I’d read an entire post about your last paragraph point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:43 PM
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My own company be too good for some smdh…😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 11:33 PM
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They tell us this now as they’re filling a third SATC film! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:22 PM
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Princess Leia though? Although she kissed her brother…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:10 PM
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Leading to her getting knocked up by a child murderer and having to quit her job as a Galactic Senator only to be killed by her baby daddy…I’d argue Padme was a HVW before she robbed the cradle…she was an elected two time Queen after all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:10 PM
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Totally!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:45 PM
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Yes! I’m currently reading it now and it’s helped a lot with coming to terms with my own serious and chronic health conditions. Knowing my life won’t ever be the same or possibly never reaching my fullest potential. I find it helps to keep my focus in perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:44 PM
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Not OP but been practicing and reading Stoic philosophy for several years now on top of adopting FDS practices and standards and it’s changed my life. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is the go to for anyone looking to seek more Stoic sage advice. He was adopted and later became one of the most famous and last great Emperors of Rome. From the comment above The Enchiridion by Epictetus is another, super short but heavy on philosophy read. This one really helped me understand my own limitations and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:47 PM
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I’m so glad he’s your EX! I can’t believe how pathetic some men can be…sneaking into your separate room to try and assault you is horrible and I’m so sorry you had to go through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:04 PM
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For real? How does this even work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:41 AM
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Yes! I can’t remember where I saw it but I saw someone online giving a talk about how you can NEVER trust with 100 percent certainty that your partner, friends, family — all relationships really — aren’t going to hurt you. But you can have 100 percent trust in YOURSELF that if things go badly, or start to turn south that you’ll be able to walk away and be okay. You shouldn’t trust anyone 100 percent except for yourself. You can’t control what others do to, or for you; but you can control your ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:48 PM
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Thank you! 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:27 PM
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Imma flex for a sec because that’s how I’ve been feeling lately. I’ve been struggling with my Crohn’s disease for the last year or so and my entire summer consisted of being in and out of hospital, multiple tests, chronic debilitating pain, emotional grief, surgery, extreme weight loss and fatigue, and learning a whole new different life and intense physical therapy post op; and out of all of it I’m realizing just how strong, brave, and disciplined I am. I’m still away on leave from work and wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:30 PM
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Straight up entitlement to sex and our bodies. Idk how they aren’t ashamed of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 03:19 PM
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Fascinating! Honestly regardless of the guess work on the significance is the peppery way it should be, if there are to be these types of parties. Men listen to men, especially they closely engage with and if older men can properly educate younger men on how to behave, well then I think we can all use our imagination from there. I love that you took the time to further elaborate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 04:09 AM
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You’ve done exactly what this subs purpose is. To look out for yourself and your best interest and not to engage further in a relationship with a man that does not make the cut in your areas of standards and boundaries. This is straight up Queen energy right here and you damn well should be proud of yourself, because we all are, and so is your future self. You’ll look back knowing you made the only choice that needed to be made for you while you drown in success and love away from him. I’ve fini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 03:38 AM
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Mmk the history nerd inside me wants to know more about the original Spartan tradition because that sounds fascinating. Was there a specific name they called the ceremony?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 07:33 PM
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Y’all are doing the Goddess’ work on this sub and I think we can all say how much we appreciate the piles of shit you all have to go through each and every day. FDS is about bettering oneself and I think taking a break and going private is a good thing. Stay strong sisters we’re all behind you! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:41 AM
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Not to mention that all we see growing up is movies, tv, tabloid, etc. showing relationships are everything to be fulfilled. I mean look at the hallmark channel Christmas movie genre. I love this post and agree women have been socialized to want and need a relationship to be happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:31 AM
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The first time I heard “General Organa” I fucking screamed because of how many boiz were upset about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:13 PM
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Ugh right!? Like hello Padme a 20 year old fuckboi slaughtered an entire village 🚩🚩🚩🚩 like how did she go from a Queen to Senator to essentially barefoot and pregnant?? Anakin totally substituted her for his mommy too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:08 PM
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Thank you! Glad you got something out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 10:06 PM
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Thank you! And my practice is molded for what works for me, my schedule, and my body. So usually I’ll wake up around 6:30-7 each day, drink a glass of water with an electrolyte tablet (I get dehydrated very easily) and then take a shower. I usually take 5 minutes in the shower to meditate and practice discipline by turning it to cold. My morning routine is crucial for setting up my day. Even Marcus Aurelius writes that! I’d suggest the Stoic app as it has done wonders for keeping me in routine, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:18 PM
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Right?? Setting a personal boundary is an attempt to keep the relationship healthy and flowing. Scrotes have this ass backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:37 PM
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Yes! What peaked my interest was that it was founded on essentially 3 principles: logic, ethics, physics. Making logical decisions for yourself in situations based on what’s ethically right/wrong and having full awareness that you are a physical being in the universe with purpose, and to live with Nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:32 PM
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Glad you enjoyed! With regards to FDS, I think it’s so important for those who are realizing they’ve been fed a lie and brainwashed by society to feel all those feelings, mourn, cry, get angry, etc. Realize the reality of what has happened, and then move on accordingly with their life. Realizing you have control of yourself and not outside events is truly powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:29 PM
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Totally agree! The Enchiridion helped A LOT with how I viewed my chronic illness and it helped it was a pretty easy read. Redpillers have no values or virtue to live by and it’s a shame they use a great philosophy and twist it so they can abuse and manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:09 PM
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The joker image and mentality is spot on! It’s not cool or a fad to be solemn and emotionless all the time. It’s a sad cope honestly and just makes them look more weak tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 02:07 PM
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As a former lifeguard of over 8 years, if you find yourself in a situation where someone is holding you under water, a trick they taught us in training was to pinch as hard as you can at their underarm (tricep). They’ll let go real quick, and that’s your chance to swim down and away. When someone grabs you by the feet it’s a little more tricky, but since most people are way lighter in the water they taught us for this scenario was to go sink down to their level and grab their wrists, move your h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 11:54 PM
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Sure thing! It’s really changed my perspective on almost everything. I’ll try to put something up this afternoon when I have free time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:44 PM
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Practicing Stoicism helped me so so much in my level up journey. It really helped me put into perspective that this is my life to live, no one else’s. After finding FDS + Stoicism I’ve learned to acknowledge all the bad treatment I went through and put others through. And to live each and everyday being a better version of the version you were yesterday. We our in control of how we react to something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:26 AM
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Smith Jared was by far the hottest and decently respectable men that show produced. Everyone else is pretty much garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:36 AM
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Scrote can’t even spell CHILD right…smdh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:11 AM
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BRB going to go get a fresh cut of filet and treat my self and copy this grand evening! Hope you don’t mind Queen 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:13 PM
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I love when women celebrate getting divorced. I think divorce parties should be a thing for women to finally celebrate a life free from fuckwads. Congrats lady, and totally into the whole self love thing you got going on 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:59 PM
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I saw this story posted on Instagram last night and the comments were downright horrifying…so many men telling on themselves in the comment section. One comment that absolutely disgusted me was in reference to how ‘the victim could barely walk after[he forced anal sex on her]’ and some gross scrote commented ‘Bauer must be packing heavy down there.’ Over half the comments were defending him of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:12 AM
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The day he does is the day he’ll go to jail. He literally typed in his own words asking the world for advice about being a disgusting animal. It’s basically a confession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:54 AM
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Aww thank you! Thanks for the advice I’ll have to add that to my role model list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:05 PM
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Not really FDS related but I am officially an Aunt! My sister and brother in law had their first baby girl early this morning and I honestly can’t wait to spoil the ever living crap out of her! Like this child will want for nothing in our family and I am thankful to this sub for teaching me how to set proper examples of being a HVW to the younger generation. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:28 PM
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Well, I guess there’s a reason why psychopaths tend to start killing small animals…like cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:12 AM
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Did this last Friday evening and it felt divine! Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:48 PM
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I wanna know how men like this are not ashamed of themselves? Like how??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:46 PM
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This happened to my cousin and I was a bridesmaid for her. ALL of the groomsman went out at 9 am to go play 18 rounds of golf, and drink. Then they went to our local brewery, to drink more. Then they came back to the house where the wedding was and killed a 30 rack in a half hour. The groom was so incredibly shitfaced he couldn’t stand up straight at the alter and slurred his vows. At the reception one of ‘the boys’ go hammered and threw up on the dance floor, showed up with the wrong type of sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:04 AM
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This oils totally be a main post and I’d read every word of it! The worst part about quantity for men is they do it to impress other men. I feel like quality in their minds is the version of their dream girl that is a bang maid, personal cook, therapist etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:42 AM
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Also where’s the ‘big pickup truck with the tires jacked up to let everyone know he’s compensating for something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:33 AM
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That ain’t her Merlot on his mouth…that ain’t her jewelry in the joint account…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:31 AM
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And she’s never raised my rent or asked for anything more than she originally did! Part of my rent is mowing the yard and general yard work vs her having to pay landscapers to do it. I don’t know I just want some big property to build my own house and two places like mine but decked out to the nines with appliances but they can have the freedoms to decorate and remodel as they want. That’s what my landlady did for me and so I come home to a place I built by and for myself. I’ve got the garage be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:57 PM
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Love this! It gets so irritating when people literally can’t comprehend can’t grasp that I prefer being alone and only someone who adds value and makes my life easier is worthy of giving up my free time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 11:50 PM
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I’d love to hear some of your ways you vocal your values!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:38 PM
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He’s also clearly stating he doesn’t trust OTHER MEN either. The fact he’s projecting on her about her outfit and choice of deciding to drink is further proof that men KNOW about other men’s behavior. He knows other guys are going to approach her or hawk at her, so he doesn’t like the fact he can’t control her either. So if it’s ‘not all men’ then he shouldn’t be worried about what she’s wearing or going to do at a party, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:28 PM
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Yes! Sometimes if I get stuck and they try and poke back I’ll stare at them dead in the eye until it gets really uncomfortable for them, if they ask ‘wut!? Got nothing to say back insert slur here’ my go to line is ‘Nope. Just want to make sure I recognize your face in case I have to pick it out of a lineup later for being a witness to your degeneracy.’ Prison scares them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:23 PM
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This is such a goal of mine as well! To either have my own house and build two mother in law type suite apartments with garage space underneath like the one I currently live in right now. I was in such a dark and lonely place when I left my previous place and my aunts mother had a vacancy at just the right time. I’ve been able to heal here and learn how to survive on my own. I’d like to pay that forward one day in my own way by renting out only to women who need a safer and cheaper alternative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:21 PM
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Wow thanks for this I had no idea this was a thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:50 PM
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The hell? Please explain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:53 PM
1

Yes! I also find it disturbing when I hear men who watch copious amounts of porn…I always think it’s a bit homoerotic for them to be watching other MEN fucking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:30 PM
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Exactly!! The thing that gets me is they don’t try and sleep with a bunch of women for the props, they sleep with a bunch of women to get approval from other MEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:56 AM
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I honestly couldn’t agree more here! Although it may be nice in theory to go to bed every night together with a spouse, the side effects are not my cup of tea. I sleep hot in general and have literally ruined sheets because of my night sweats. Sleep is so so important to our natural and overall health that I won’t let it be ruined ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 01:35 AM
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This is a fabulous idea I love how this sub continues to grow and expand and it’s not just the same thing over and over like so many other subreddits on this platform. Always new and critical information being brought to the forefront, thank you mods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:37 PM
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This is so inspiring and I want to be you when I grow up 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:11 PM
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Girl I think you might have broken his ego in that moment...he’s never gonna forget it because that’s how pathetic he is 😂 total boss move!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:23 AM
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So happy for you two! Happy Pride! 🌈💕💙💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:19 AM
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I really shouldn’t be surprised honestly. They’re so sensitive these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:07 AM
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Lmfao are you serious they cross posted this and called it hate speech!? 🤣🤣 they are so pathetic I can’t even
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:44 AM
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Facts. What they find funny is laughing at the expense of others. Mostly women. Shows how much they hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:40 AM
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But ladies...isn’t this in our bIoLoGy to want to reproduce with the healthiest of males as does literally almost every other species in the animal kingdom? To want the best for your child so it doesn’t grow up sick? Truthfully I wish my parents had done DNA tests to see just how u healthy both of them were to bring two children into this world. I’ve got Crohns and even if I wanted to have children (I don’t it’s not for me) I wouldn’t even risk the thought of passing my degenerate genes onto my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:36 AM
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I am almost 30 and still pass for a teenager. I think when I get asked what I use for skincare or why I look so young imma say ‘never had boyfriends. It truly does your skin and body wonders.’ 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:24 AM
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Lmfao sis do it please!! Rescue missions need to be expanded other than Reddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:04 AM
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Right?! Now can you tell my mother to go to therapy so she can stop telling my younger self that my makeup and hair look like shit every morning before I leave for school? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:00 AM
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Cue the scrotes screaming ‘you females should have known better then!!’ They will literally find any way to pass the buck onto anyone but themselves. This woman is a hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:20 PM
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I brought this exact same thing that porn is cheating in my eyes, and I was met with, ‘yeah but it’s just a fantasy it isn’t real. And I’m CHOOSING to be with my girlfriend and we all have needs, men AND women. So it’s not like I’m actually cheating on her...’ and then this mf’er went on a rant about the definition of ‘cheating’ and why it doesn’t make sense when people say they cheated on their spouse...honestly I’m exhausted even remembering it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:23 AM
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Male tears are my favorite addition to my morning coffee. Way to go lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:34 PM
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Can you check to see who they’re following if their profile is set to private? I’ve yet to figure out how to see who people follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:56 PM
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I’ve got IBD so unless a man does as well (and some honestly might lie let’s be honest) then anything more than 25 minutes or more is a good indicator. Have I been in the bathroom relieving myself for and hour or more? Yes, but my intestines are degenerate with inflammation. There’s no excuse for a man to be in there that long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:36 AM
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Gospel truth right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:31 PM
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Sis I couldn’t have put it better myself! And then women are told that ‘She led him on!!’ Gimme a break...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:18 PM
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One of my favorite quotes that helped me through a similar situation as yourself is ‘Associate with people who are likely to make you a better person.’ After that it made things really simple of who I wanted and didn’t want in my life. Hang in there, your future self will thank you for it! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:50 PM
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‘No one is nicer and more charming to you than a man who hasn’t fucked you yet.’ — A Queen from this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:50 PM
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I dress the same way and always have, always will, and I absolutely feel where you’re coming from. I wouldn’t call yourself different either, honey, you’re 100% authentically YOU! And I think that’s amazing in and of itself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:16 AM
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They. Are. So. PATHETIC! Do they seriously not see that we laugh at them constantly? How, I pray, HOW can these scrotes have their heads shoved so far up their own ass and think ‘Let me give these females some perspective from ME.’ Men are obsessed with us this only just proves it further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:59 PM
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Especially now since we have all been in a pandemic and not socializing as much. I fear one bland compliment to a man will have him howling at every woman who walks past him...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:00 PM
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Lmao sis, I was such a pick me I bought me and my best ‘guy friend’ matching T-shirts to wear...praised be that was over a decade ago and we avoid that shit at all costs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:27 PM
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EW the Chive!! Back in my college pick-me days I would look at the chive with my ‘guy friends...’ 😷 vomit. So glad I don’t know her anymore 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:32 AM
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YES SIS! I’d even add men who have had addiction problems in the past. Addiction is all about instant gratification and the lengths some will go to get their fix. Self-discipline is my number one value in life and I refuse to have anyone in my life that can’t control themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:41 PM
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My insurance just approved my new medication for a chronic health issue (stuff costs like 10,000 an injection!) but more importantly I’m just excited to be getting on a new regimen and the possibility of feeling like a normal human being again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:31 AM
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Funny how they don’t find this type of liberation with women’s bodies as empowering...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:35 AM
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Honestly Same but I’d read an entire post about it. I think a lot of co-dependency issues stem from early childhood traumas that most women aren’t even aware of...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:01 PM
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We love to see it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:53 PM
12

Quite possibly one of the best feelings in the world is a nice, clean, safe space you can call your own at the end of the day. I’d send you $$ for some candles if I could! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:13 PM
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Yes! In my experience HVM will want you to teach or educate them because it’s a sign of maturity and shows a growth mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:23 PM
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That’s amazing and I seriously look up to women who can do that stuff, especially for other women! Not to mention it’s safer, probably cleaner, and a woman is not likely to hit on you or ask for ‘the man of the house.’ Now this isn’t to say just because I can do these things doesn’t mean I won’t turn down a mans help if he offers, and actually know how to complete said task. But most of the time if I want it done right I have to do it myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:21 PM
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I meant more along the lines of knowing that buying expensive things on credit is not the same as buying with cash. But honestly that is like a sub item under savings/investment now that I re-read your list. I just can’t get over how many men think that using a credit card and taking out loans is the same thing as ‘free money.’ Not to mention the fact I know a few of the women back in my hometown who have had their husbands take out credit cards in their WIFE’S NAME! Like wtf! One claimed it was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:18 PM
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Today I found out I am my own man 💅🏼 Call it what you want but I’ve always found it fun to do these types of things myself growing up as a kid or watching my dad do it. I think a big vetting tool in addition to this list is if he is also okay with you helping him put something together or figure something out. I’d also add knowing how money really works to this list too. Great post honestly handbook material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:12 PM
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Thank you for bringing this up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:31 AM
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Honestly this is more of a vent than it is FDS related but I have a autoimmune disease of the gut/intestines and I’ve failed my 3rd medication in 5 years and honestly the thought of never being able to achieve the life, goals, and dreams that I want because of how debilitating and painful this disease is really gets me in a low point sometimes. But reading and listening to all you ladies fight the fight everyday is was keeps me going! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:21 PM
13

How do you know my mother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:26 PM
11

You Outta Know (Not to KINK shame me!1!1) by AlAnus Morissette — A one hit wonder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:02 PM
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I think I’d need immediate therapy after going through the mods inbox’s...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:27 PM
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I LOVE aglio olio! It’s the best when you seriously don’t want to do much! Sometimes I’ll add a few shrimp or lobster bites to it for something extra! I’ll definitely take a look at those channels thanks for the tips!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:29 PM
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Ooohh I’d love to hear some of the recipes/foods you’ve been trying out lately! I’m a big cooker myself so I’m always looking for new things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:46 AM
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Can we also notice the absolute trashy ness that the bookmark was labeled ‘Busty COLLEGE girls.’ Which means he is absolutely fetishizing the women taking the class...the fucking depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:20 PM
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To me this is straight projection of how they wouldn’t even protect their own wives/daughters if it was happening right in front of them...and I think it happens a lot more than we think. The movies/tv shows where men ‘step in and defend’ are the fairytales that men tell themselves to make them feel like real men. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:35 PM
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BUT MEN ARE VISUAL CREATURES BY NATURE!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:17 PM
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During an interview I was asked why I wanted the job and so I explained how my background experience and professional experience would make me an excellent candidate (which I was/am) and this mf who was interviewing me straight up said, “I sense a little eagerness in you and to prove your skills and abilities here. We aren’t about fast paced production at x Org, we like to take our time to figure things out, so just a heads up your eagerness to work might come off as a negativity...’ I later lea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:08 PM
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Tbh I’m at the point where if I feel my single-ness being threatened by low lives who have nothing to offer I’m honestly quite offended. Like how dare they try and destroy the peace I’ve built for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:45 PM
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Here’s what I don’t get about these ‘men’ when in reality they are boys in my opinion. If these boys don’t like our rules on this sub or the attitude change we represent in ourselves then why bother with us at all? They bitch, moan, and complain about us excluding them to the point of straight up harassment. Women aren’t bombarding the MGTOW and similar subs in an uproar DEMANDING these boys take advice from women for a different perspective. I personally don’t see women trying to bombard any al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:15 AM
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It’s Reddit. Are we really that surprised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:06 PM
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Dead serious! 😂 and he always uses it in the context of ‘how much pain he is able to suffer for so long because of it.’ He’s a straight up narc that is no longer in my life. Thinks real highly of himself too. I honestly don’t get it, and men say women are emotional and crazy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:55 PM
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Can someone please explain to me why some men are obsessed on the one girl who dumped them when they were like 12-14?? For the love of god I had a friend who STILL brings up how heartbroken he is about being dumped in the 7TH GRADE!! He’s 28...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:50 PM
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This isn’t a good look for her...marriage is the biggest scam invented next to winning a million dollars from a Nigerian Prince on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:45 PM
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I’d go one step further and say I’m an 11. And they would be -3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:39 PM
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All cruelty springs from weakness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:36 PM
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I think it was Cher or might have been someone else that once said, “Men should be like Kleenex: soft, strong, disposable.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:52 PM
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opens world history book, searches for evidence, closes book No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:40 PM
17

So he has a tiny peen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:21 PM
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There was a post on here the other day about how all unwanted pregnancy’s are caused by the males inability to not selfishly orgasm for like 5 seconds...and this just proves they have zero regard for anyone but themselves. They would rather have the instant gratification of cumming inside a woman, but not the emotional capacity of raising a child for the long haul. A man who fails to pay child support is saying that his meekly orgasm is worth more than taking responsibility for his own flesh and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:56 PM
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OMG their song Sex With Me on Spotify by them is HILARIOUS!! It’s basically them describing LVM all of us have come across in our lifetime. I’m literally bopping to these lyrics right now 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:52 PM
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And women rarely make fandoms that are vile, toxic, hateful, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:33 PM
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How are they not ashamed?? How are they not being sought after by the state for not legally paying?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:29 PM
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He picked up vulnerable women from NA meetings?? This is why we don’t date addicts or men who use. You’re just another drug for them to exploit and abuse...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:54 PM
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Boys who obsess over the Joker persona are the real simps. I said what I said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:42 PM
13

Can you shake it for me too mommy? Vomit 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:16 PM
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LMFAO I don’t know why this made me literally spit out my coffee but thanks for the laugh this AM sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:14 PM
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Can confirm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:43 PM
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I was a nervous wreck on my first few dates with a woman so totally natural! And as for advice, I love talking about music and what types they listen to as it shows me if there are any artists/bands that we both listen to. Music choice/taste is a very high dealbreaker for me, so if I don’t vibe with the type of music they listen to, only listen to one specific genre, or if they’re unwilling to share music with me it’s a hard no. Going through someone’s music library can tell you A LOT about a pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:40 PM
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Omg exciting!! What are your first date plans? My last date with a woman lasted like 6 hours but felt like 2 and I was never bored. Hope you have a great time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:03 PM
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I was a bit of a late bloomer myself! I thank my stars all the time I can date the other half of the population on this planet. But also SO happy for you discovering another part of yourself to love and cherish xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:59 PM
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Exactly! I used to be like the person you described, like literally all day everyday for years...so glad I woke the fuck up and realized that being high/stoner is NOT a personality and can set your life back years. Can tell you first hand how much I hid everything from most in my life, and honestly made the anxiety/depression worse. A massive dealbreaker for me is if a person claims that weed isn’t addictive or habit forming — because I can tell you first hand that it fucking is! So as a former …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:07 PM
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The equivalent of if he wanted to he would
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:15 PM
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How are these men not ashamed of themselves? HOW!? And they literally have the audacity to call women the gold diggers when we in fact have our own money to spend...honestly this says so much about both of them it’s hard to know which is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:08 PM
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I’ve had this same thought! It always puzzled me when I watched nature docs and most of the female species shown seemed to have it way better than women. I don’t really have a theory to your question but most likely religion and the fragile male ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:57 AM
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Or one who quite literally doesn’t even exist! That’s the lengths women have to go through just to not be assaulted or harassed further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:47 AM
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Lmao so I totally pulled that card of ‘men who get assaulted are assaulted by other men,’ when the topic came up and I was dead ass met with, ‘well not necessarily...’ Like bro who is assaulting men when more than half of the population is bigger, stronger, taller than you? Laughable. Loved your last sentence btw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:41 PM
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Same sis same! If it weren’t for my Crohn’s I’d have them tied up by now living a blissful child free life. Hope you get to relax some day lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:04 PM
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Completely agree! Whenever a woman gives me extra attention I feel so much better about MYSELF. Most men just make me want to take a shower after being in the same room as them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:58 AM
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There’s so much to that statement he told you that I’m afraid for any woman he comes into contact with...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:59 PM
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This is when you turn the tables on them and say that cuddling/affection after sex is your physical touch love language. Watch them try and weasel their way out of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:30 PM
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This enraged me...why, WHY do they have to take credit for something they never did? It would literally eat away at me knowing I didn’t put in any effort of my blood, sweat, tears, or time into something that I has no part of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:25 PM
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Woman: exists Men: this is ours now A brief history of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:22 PM
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I think this should be an FDS anthem honestly. The fact that these boys lurk on our sub jacking off to porn all day and then have the fucking audacity to try and infiltrate FDS when they claim to hate us and want nothing to do with us is literally obsessive. They’re delusional...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:21 PM
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Right!? I mean besides it being an incredible film imho, it really shows the depravity of men of all ages and backgrounds. Honestly, my main takeaway from the film (and many might disagree) is no one is going to help, save, rescue women except WOMEN. We have to do it ourselves, which is essentially what Hannibal was trying to get Clarice to figure out. You wanna change the world? You gotta be willing to go DEEP within yourself and your insecurities and fears to come out on top at the end of it a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:04 PM
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This is why I believe every woman should watch the film The Silence of the Lambs because this is literally how Buffalo Bill lures the young woman and abducts her. That scene traumatized me so much as a young girl...if a man wants help for anything ‘physical’ he can ask another fucking man to help him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:37 PM
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I grew up as a tomboy too! Actually I totally still am, and I won’t apologize for it in anyway shape or form. But instead of a mom like yours, when I started puberty she always made comments about my clothes, hair, appearance etc. and how they looked like shit. Or my personal favorite, is how much I was told ‘you need to be nice. It’s a lot easier to be nice than it is to be mean.’ Like you I’m finally coming out of where nice DIDN’T get me in life. I’m also going to go and copy your Pinterest b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:28 AM
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Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Literally all the main women leads are strong af, who doesn’t like a 90’s fashion throwback, and SMG is an actual HVW in real life who has a HVM at her side. I mean the woman has a black belt in karate...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:58 PM
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Can they just for once, shut the fuck up? God damn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:45 AM
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That’s actually not a bad idea! I’ll also have to do some more research on this but it might be something to look into if the state/county laws become troublesome. Honestly it’s quite sad the holes we have to jump through just to have a safe space in this world...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:27 AM
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I’ll have to do some more research but thanks for the tips!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:48 PM
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Yes yes a thousand times yes!! I’m blessed with so much gratitude during this pandemic that I’m wanting to put some money down on some property and build some spaces for women only. But does anyone know of any laws that prohibit having women only places? What I mean is I can see the manosphere and scrotes coming out of the woodworks screaming misandry and how its discriminating, waahh! I live in a pretty ‘woke’ state and sometimes things get so ass backwards here that if feels like things are re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:05 PM
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I can’t upvote this enough!! Per your last thought, I’ve embodied the Cher attitude of being my ‘own rich man.’ It stuns people when I tell them that I provide myself everything a rich man in this world could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:59 PM
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God I love Tori!! BRB while I go and listen to Little Earthquakes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:50 PM
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Hahaha thank you I’ll check it out! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:14 AM
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What TedTalk is this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:39 PM
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I’ve been trying to slowly make my way into gardening and plan to this spring/summer! What do you typically garden? I’d love to share my work! However I also don’t want to spam this sub with posts unrelated to dating strategies 😁 although I might posts in some other subreddits related to woodworking thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:48 PM
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Sis yes!! I have no doubts you will make that happen someday, and someday soon! I’m just now learning how to build nightstands out of birch and pine so I’m with you on the furniture part. My next goal with woodworking is to hopefully use the side money I make selling pieces and funnel it into buying some real estate where I can create a work space she-shed place where I can one day teach other women of all ages how to woodwork and build things for themselves. Of course it will be women ONLY. God…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:02 PM
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Thank you!! If I make them out of walnut/oak I usually do around 100-150 (they will literally survive being tossed off a roof because they’re hardwood). I do 12x20 for the large boards and also make wooden trivets out of the scraps after I do the original cuts so I can give them as a set rather than just one cutting board!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:55 PM
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I recently took up woodworking as a hobby because it’s been a life long craft I’ve wanted to try. This weekend I was making a cutting board set for my friend who I’ve known since birth and she recently just married. I have to say I’ve never felt so at peace alone in the shop with my classic rock playlist playing and being able to work and make something with my hands. I’ve come to realize that personal hobbies are so important for the self and for fulfillment in life. I honestly couldn’t believe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:59 PM
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I can’t find the lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:12 AM
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Damn, after reading this post three times I realized my mother did this to me and my sibling growing up all the time...always annoyed whenever we brought up a problem/feeling/issue and we were dismissed as being emotional or dramatic and told to get over it because it isn’t or wasn’t that bad. I remember trying to calmly push to say ‘no, actually I’d really like to talk about this because xyz and how it makes me feel etc.’ then get shut down and told to ‘drop it’ or ‘I’m done talking about it,’ …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:53 PM
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I’m exhausted for her from just reading that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:40 PM
19

So basically all I’m learning from this post is men around the world fall into one of said categories: Addicted to weed/booze with a fake ‘woke’ personality Finance fuckboi’s with no personality at all Balding men with ‘dad-boss’ without actually producing any children and are obsessed with violent sports Unkempt, poly mansplainers And misogynists with a death grip We got some real winners around the globe ladies how ever will any of us be able to choose the right one!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:57 PM
9

OMG it’s a jOkE!! God where’s your sense of HuMoR!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:29 PM
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Lmao, these same men claim they are visual creatures yet can’t tell the difference between a natural look and manufactured images.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:23 PM
34

This is just gross...also the age difference raises a red flag to me. Even though she’s in her mid 30’s and he’s in his early 40’s it always makes the alert system in the back of my mind go ‘alert, alert!’ I know we talk about age differences with young women usually in their 20’s on this sub but idk something just seems off about it to me, or maybe I’m just looking for other red flags besides the obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:37 PM
51

‘Sorry, can’t hold him or else I’d have to set down my beer.” That’s some simp shit if I’ve ever seen it. Why is he not ashamed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:52 PM
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Everything about this is true to a T! Anyone, man or woman, who makes fun or shames others for doing what makes them happy or treating others with basic kindness and respect is a simp imho. And if anything I’d DEMAND you tell me where you got those cute shoes so I can go buy some myself 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:53 AM
5

It would be SPOTLESS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:35 PM
7

This is when I usually tell men who complain like the man child above how they would like it if gay men hit on them at every turn they went, salivating at the mouth when looking them up and down. Men only like attention from women but flip the tables and they go all soft. Literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:27 PM
20

Thanks now my breakfast sandwich is stuck in my throat 😂💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:46 PM
6

LMFAO 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:59 PM
6

Lmao! Come to the ‘dark side’ ladies we have orgasms! If I had the gold I’d give it you you 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:57 PM
22

I’ve been laughing for the past 10 minutes and this further proves that women are so much funnier than men. CEO of Barstool Sports had me reeling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:44 PM
19

Lmao more like imaginary numbers! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:06 PM
51

That will be an additional 75 bucks an hour because love isn’t enough. Cash or credit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:31 PM
17

EXACTLY!! Like they have this ass backwards way of thinking. It’s a pretty simple concept: you don’t like something? Leave, get out, right now. Not like we go and spam MGTOW even though we know it’s toxic. So riddle me this, who’s the emotional gender??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:28 PM
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LMAO, that’s cute, but I think we give them too much faith. I don’t think they would last a single day! I love your comment so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:07 AM
13

Don’t forget taking care of him and the kids when they get sick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:54 AM
11

Saw something similar to this in my hometown the other day. A guy I went to school with since middle school and his wife did a gender reveal. He straight up said, and I QUOTE, “if it’s a girl, I won’t acknowledge that it’s mine.’ Well guess what!? It’s a girl! He hit a golf ball that exploded and in the video that was taken you can tell he want to throw and bang his golf club against the ground. But lots of people were around so he held it in. Meanwhile, my sister and brother in law are due in J…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:32 AM
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Omg I love tabby cats!! 😍 I’m not sure if you’ve experienced this in the past but I truly feel like even the thought of dating or putting myself out there again sounds exhausting! I’ve lost great friends with this disease as those who don’t understand will never understand. I don’t want to speak for you but the last several years I’ve come to the conclusion that I can’t have a fulfilling career that I love and also be in an active relationship. Both take just as much energy for me to get my bad …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:33 PM
12

That’s why we don’t give them any attention when they pull this shit and they can die mad about it. So pathetic and needy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:25 AM
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LMAO South Park did an entire season about this and as you can guess the Scrotes went to the ends of the earth to not be found out 😂 pretty sure it was called Troll Trace or something like that too. Where do I send my support money for this platform?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:56 AM
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Can confirm on your last point. Literally everyday before I left for high school my mother would tell me how much my makeup and hair ‘looked like shit,’ and how much I looked like a ‘lesbian.’ Totally transfers into the dating life too. I never mock anyone because it is so cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:38 AM
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So sorry he did that to you. They really just see women has holes and vessels to climb the latter to show off ‘ferda boys.’ You didn’t deserve that and your body is yours and yours alone, I don’t understand how this is hard to comprehend for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:35 PM
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This is fact. Men don’t listen or perform for the attention of women, they do it for other men. Marriage proves your point of your value determines how much he can move up in ranks to other men. Hell, some marry women just so they won’t feel ‘left out’ in their social hierarchy, I’ve personally seen this several times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:44 AM
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Yes! My mind immediately goes to that one part in Silence Of the Lambs how Buffalo Bill lured the woman to help him put something in the back of his van and maneuvered the scenario so she would have to go into the BACK OF THE VAN!! That film traumatized me that I’ll never help any man on the street ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:07 PM
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Ugh why is this behavior so common? It’s such a blatant form of disrespect on so many levels...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:35 PM
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Ditto
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:18 AM
6

YESS!! Hi fellow Jeeper, we LOVE to see it sis! ✌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:47 AM
7

Once I got my first big girl job I opened an account for situations like this. If it weren’t for the few women who supported me and helped me escape a terrible living situation, opened their homes to me, and gave me enough cash to pay my first and last month rent upfront I truly don’t know where I’d be. I don’t care if you’re my best friend of 20+ years, a family member, a random woman on the street corner, or someone I haven’t spoken or seen in years, if a woman ever needs help leaving an abusi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:00 PM
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A bit Off topic but as a bi woman myself do you find that men are even more self conscious and get way more butthurt if/when a girl breaks up with them and begins dating another woman? Of course speaking from personal experience this is pretty much how I swore off men completely and solely date women but I’m just curious. Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:30 AM
9

We’ll get Taylor Swift to write our initiation song 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 01:08 AM
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Personally I loved every song on the album from start to finish but ‘Fun Tonight’ is about a conversation between Lady Gaga and Stefani Germanotta (her real name) and honestly it’s where I got the idea of looking at myself in the mirror. ‘911’ is also great as it depicts her battle with fibromyalgia and taking anti-psychotics. ‘Replay’ is about her interpretation and experience with PTSD from her rape and it hits hard. And I usually just type in chromatica online go to Wikipedia and scroll down …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:15 AM
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So whenever I have my pity party moments from time to time I usually just remember one quote of hers which is something like ‘if you’re wondering whether to choose a man or your career, remember your career won’t wake up one day and say it doesn’t love you anymore.’ I also suffer from a chronic illness that causes daily pain, much like her so I like to channel her energy by saying if Gaga can write and perform music even with the immense pressure of fame and not being able to control your own na…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:27 AM
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Low key a dream of mine but where we write stories and share them with the world. And Boston is ultimately where I’d love to end up one day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:55 PM
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Ugh I love Tay Tay! She herself has been through some tough shit and after watching Miss Americana I have such a new found respect for her. Gaga is my inner coach, both 5’2 and big Aries energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:48 PM
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I think I’m going to make a collective picture book — since they claim they are visual creatures — and the only words that will be in it are ‘yes’ ‘no’ ‘good’ ‘bad’ with the corresponding photo. Example: picture of man giving woman nice massage = yes;good vs picture of man raping and exploiting woman = no/bad. Then when they come out and say they don’t understand you’ll have the evidence and excuse to leave and say you don’t need to be dating a literal child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:38 PM
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Okay I don’t get this either! A guy from my hometown STILL talks about his college papers he wrote...8 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:29 AM
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Thank you! 💕 She’ll always be a HVW to me xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:11 AM
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Couldn’t agree more. And no they didn’t because they were always working towards something that had value in their lifestyle and living off the land as much as they could. I’ve known dozens of men from my home town who’d farm/chore all day and still have time to make their kids sports games and take their wives out to a nice dinner out of town on the weekend. It’s not hard, and as you said they do it to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:39 PM
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Can confirm. Old housemate used to do the same when I was super sick and had to rest 16+ hours a day. Apparently he was mad that I wasn’t spending enough time with him. Like that was a requirement to begin with lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:47 PM
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LMAO saving this comment for future reference! It’s so true though. I grew up super super rural and it wasn’t uncommon for those who lived and worked on farms to get up at the ass crack of dawn to do work before going to school. And they never once complained all throughout high school. My first job that I was actually paid for was spraying weeds, rock picking, and picking oats. At 11 years old that’s what most of us did. The men I grew up with have been working damn near everyday since pre-teen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:32 PM
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Uses ‘baby girl’ because he can’t remember all the names of the pickme’s he’s playing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:21 AM
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And you can sit wherever the fuck you want, don’t have to share snacks or drinks, and my personal favorite, go to a matinee and then dinner afterwards. Honestly it’s some of the best memories of my life going to the cinema alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:12 AM
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Yeah if they can’t take the 10 minutes it would take to look up information about the female anatomy on a device that they are low key addicted to, and that has the worlds abundance of information within their fingertips then they seriously don’t deserve sex anymore. You could even find this shit on YouTube for visual representation because their ‘visual creatures’ don’t ya know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:38 PM
10

I just spit out my drink! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:27 PM
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Fellow Crohnie here! I’ve lived with this disease for over 18 years of my life and I won’t sugar coat it for you. This disease is hard, humiliating, debilitating, and the symptoms range dramatically. I’ve been chasing remission for over 8 years and all I’ll say is this: make your health your number 1 priority every single day. For myself I can be feeling like an actual human being ready to take on the world and then 20 minutes later I’m in the bathroom for an hour. Be prepared for your friends a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:28 AM
11

Are we surprised though? Men have even infiltrated lesbian spaces because they can’t stand the fact that men don’t belong in lesbian spaces. Like dogs, they have to piss on everything that is holy to claim territories. This includes all of Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:18 PM
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Ugh I’m sorry she blabbed about you two. I just don’t get it, what is the motivation behind telling people? I guess I’m also just a bit peeved because I found out she also told her boyfriend about us... What did you say to the friend who blabbed? Or are they an ex-friend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:17 AM
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My parents have been married 28 years and my father STILL cooks dinner every night for my mom and makes her breakfast on the weekends. It’s not hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:23 PM
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Good on your manager for putting her in her place! They are so right because now I am only associated as that person in her life when I’ve leveled up and done a massive 180 since. I can’t believe that happened to your friend in a professional setting because that association is never going to go away...why do they do that is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:09 PM
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Thank you for the support. It is a total privacy violation and it is still upsetting because I know what happened between us meant WAY more to me than it ever did to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:06 PM
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Thank you for bringing this up! The worst was when I hooked up with my best girlfriend at the time, nothing ever came from it but it was also our first time being intimate with another woman. Cut to 2 years later and I find out she’s told EVERYONE in her friend group, her boyfriend, the community she works for etc. about how her and I slept together. She has a boyfriend and I honestly cannot ever imagine meeting him in person knowing she’s told him about us. Thankfully we now live in different s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:36 AM
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Nice penmanship is also a high value trait in my opinion. My father has some of the best penmanship I’ve ever seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:23 AM
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I’ve recently started saying something along the lines of ‘well if nobody is giving you a chance then maybe there’s a reason?’ Watch em squirm and fall back on their words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:43 PM
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Off topic but I love to see a good prequel reference from time to time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:15 PM
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Or then when you do tell them no and they pull this stalker shit their rebuttal is, ‘Well you must have did something to make him follow you...’ or ‘Well you just need to be more aware of your surroundings and not talk to strange men...’ or ‘Yeah that sucks.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:40 PM
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Make it 99% let’s not give them an inch or the benefit of the doubt. Because we know where that gets us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:22 PM
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Yes! A thousand times yes! I’d also even add that same aspect towards social media. We as humans were NEVER meant to know what hundreds and thousands of people think of us. The amount of psychological damage is horrible...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:37 AM
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And then when you do present evidence you’re gaslit into oblivion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:51 PM
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This. Honestly I wouldn’t be the least mad if this topic became a full on post. The trauma bonding but is spot on accurate! It’s like the ONE good thing he does out of the 200 bad things he does is only what people tend to focus on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:49 PM
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Listening is the most IMPORTANT part of communicating. Quite literally the whole point in my opinion. Thank you for stating facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:05 PM
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This would be a fantastic stand alone post. Everything you’ve pointed out is true to a T. I like women, and I cannot tell you how many women who are bi-sexual are coerced and manipulated into these types of relationships. Mostly on the false pretense that it’s ‘empowering’ and a way to ‘explore their sexuality’ WITH their boyfriend...this is just another way for men to subdue and control women’s bodies and make women’s sexuality all about their penis. Pick-me’s who fall into relationships like t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:35 PM
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I honestly cannot imagine how many stories you’ve heard from men and the sick disgusting things they’ve said about their wives/girlfriends...why do they gush on about the cheating? Is it really just for the small ego boost they get? I will never understand why men cheat...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:17 PM
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Pretty sure I’ve seen that film before too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:25 PM
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Shania Twain is a national Treasure! And quite frankly writes a lot of fantastic bangers (which in my opinion some are quite FDS focused) and went through hell with her ex-husband and best friend when she found out they were having an affair behind her back. Although her current partner is some high exec who works for Nestle which is a horrible corporation...Shania is still the one, forever and for always! Why do people think it’s okay to point out the any flaws of others...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:15 PM
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Oh yay more free publicity for women to flock to us and level up their damn fine selves! All the hate speech about FDS is what brought me here to the first place. Amazing to think I found so much love and support from women I’ve never personally met from some mad scrote in his basement posting hate all over the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:18 PM
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Amazing, if I could purchase you your first briefcase (or whatever top notch lawyers carry these days) I do so in a heart beat! That’s wonderful and I know you’ll learn and do amazing things as such a lawyer. Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:10 PM
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I’m constantly referring BACK to the Handbook. Text is meant to be read and referred to time to time. Source material at my fingertips about how to level up and be the HVW I want to be. One of the most important takeaways I get from reading it is how one has to be a HVW to even enter a relationship that will benefit and bring value to. Most if not all the answers are in there. Clearly I’m a fan 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:13 PM
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Worked on a commercial with him in it and after paying for dinner for the entire crew he also personally thanked each and every one of us; shook our hands and said he appreciated us working with him. Also, really short for what I would have guessed an NFL quarterback. So I guess the short guys really can’t say shit. Ciara is a Queen and he loves her for it. It was all the rage when it was out that they were waiting until marriage to have sex. Plus he gives back to his community in Seattle. Never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:17 AM
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‘Hence reddit.’ ACCURATE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:22 PM
4

‘Breaker of chains, coupon for dominos.’ 🤣🤣 this has me reeling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:50 AM
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Thank you for the advice and words of wisdom. You’re right, this is temporary for right now but there will come a day where I’ll have to part ways and move onward. I’m planning to network more over the winter and into the new year to grow my circle for when the day comes. I know this won’t last forever and I’ll be taking your advice and will be documenting everything and anything. I think the biggest warning sign that it’s a toxic environment is the fact I don’t feel comfortable speaking up or e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:30 PM
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LMAO!! The last man I slept with was so f*cking terrible in bed that after several attempts of coyly maneuvering his hand where I liked it, I finally had to explicitly say, ‘I actually love it right here...’ he blew the fuck up!! He basically blamed me for his boner going away and that ‘it’s not sexy or hot when I tell him what to do and ruins the mood for him.’ They tell us to communicate yet they get butthurt and a bruised ego when we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:32 PM
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Heading this advice like my career depends on it! To answer your questions: No, our org isn’t big at all, I’d say we have about 25-35 people working for the org at any given time. Ironically, our CEO is a woman, and I look up to her a lot and try to mirror how she interacts and leads and presents herself working the organization. But I don’t feel comfortable bringing this up to her because I’m still a bit prideful and like to try and figure things out for myself—I don’t want to waste her time wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:24 PM
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Thank you for this! I have everything he said documented down in my notebook, and he knows I take notes on everything. Unfortunately, since he is the team lead I have 3 meetings a week with him to talk progress/tracking. However, taking your advice I’ll be sure to keep asking the questions you suggested above and document everything he says. It’s the conflicting feedback that I get from him that makes things frustrating. ‘Be nice, but be relentless, but be friendly, but also you need to get on p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:39 PM
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No I appreciate the honesty and you’re right it’s a ridiculous double standard. I plan to ask him on Monday for suggestions and document them for future reference. My mentality as of right now is to, yes, essentially grin and bear it for the time being, so the best work I can do and get the letter of rec I’ll need to move forward and advance my career. Thanks for commiserating it helped bring me out of a funk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:10 PM
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When I moved into a house with a piece of literal trash I asked the landlady who we were renting from if she had any advice for me (I had just turned 24). Ladies, verbatim she said: ‘Make/earn your own money. Money is power, as horrible as it is sweetie it’s one of the only things that can protect you of something terrible were to happen.’ 4 months later I had to secretly plan to move out and find a new place because the guy I was cohabitating with charged me and attempted to grip his hand aroun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:39 AM
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Thank you! I plan to share this with all my girl friends. Truly life saving advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:35 AM
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More of a rant than anything but could use some FDS advice—I’ve been trying every single day to be a better person, woman, and overall human being. After reading the handbook about what qualities are in a HVW and I’ve been striving to be the best me I can be. This week at work I was given some really conflicting feedback by a man who’s the team lead I work on. I help plan, manage, and track projects and part of the job is checking in with people about the status of their projects and if they wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:26 AM
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Neither will a ring or a threesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 02:59 AM
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This is amazing! I love a good character arc across the seasons! Currently writing my first short with a similar premise about family, fear, loss, denial, shame all of that. Happy writing I hope to hear and see more someday! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:50 PM
2

Ugh same! Scarlets Walk is one of my favs! Honestly all her music is fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:38 PM
2

I love her. A Sorta Fairytale was what got me onto her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:18 PM
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OMG TORI!! BRB gonna to listen Little Earthquakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:09 PM
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Honestly this is quite inspiring for my Monday morning. Starting high and strong to the start of the week!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:37 PM
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This is what I counter with when scrotes say they are visual creatures. Plus most of us at sometime have our heads on a swivel looking in all directions because of fear of danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 03:32 PM
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Same I felt really guilty for making fun of her and laughing, clearly not knowing the full situation and cycle of abuse and trauma she’s suffered basically all her life...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:51 PM
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I do follow her on Insta! Breaks my heart too how she’s been manipulated and abused by her own family, the media, K-fed, for so long that it is seriously criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:50 PM
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Free Britney! She’s suffered enough! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:03 AM
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Pretty sure she’s paying his student loans from Harvard too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:24 PM
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Glad someone else noticed this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:19 PM
2

Please do Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:51 AM
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YES YES YES!! It always makes me sad when I hear or see women/girls saying they can’t do something. YES YOU CAN! Honestly it gives me a sense of pride whenever I do/repair something myself. And please for the love that is holy don’t EVER let a man or other insecure pick-me’s bring you down by telling you ‘that’s a mans job! Girls don’t do those types of things. You won’t be able to do that yourself, or no you can’t.’ Because the fact of the matter is it’s MEN who enforced these notions upon ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:48 PM
2

With Fire & Blood. Take what is ours!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:27 PM
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Whenever I get called high maintenance or a bitch I always respond with: ‘why thank you! It’s amazing to feel so empowered.’ Watch em squirm. Or they’ll come back with the ‘men don’t like high maintenance women.’ I always just reply with their favorite three words when talking about women’s issues: Not All Men 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:23 PM
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Honestly I bust a gut and nearly spit out my morning coffee every single time I come to read my daily dose of FDS and self worth positivity because y’all are some funny af women! If I can burst out laughing just by reading comments! Most of the time men have terrible grammar and spelling that I sometimes wonder if they need to go back to elementary school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:59 PM
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Ditto I like the second one too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:51 AM
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I purposefully dress in clothing that is typically more masculine due to the fact I work in one of the most male dominant industries. What’s sad is I see it all the time in the city I live in and occasionally through work. It gives a whole new meaning to the idea of ‘if you can’t beat em join em.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:33 PM
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Omg it’s on audible?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:07 PM
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Thank you! Another fun perk I plan to use is if anyone ever asks what I can bring to the table, I’ll tell them I can BUILD the gotdamn table!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:31 AM
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Or one of my other favorites is when men say something along the lines of ‘well I could have hit/slapped/assaulted tore into her etc. but I didn’t!!’ I’m all like yeah okay? Do you want a cookie? Do you want a treat like a dog for not doing something that is obvious to the rest of the world? They get pissed at that too 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:51 AM
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Yes I love to hear it! It’s honestly so soothing to me and gets me out of my own head because I HAVE to pay attention to where I’m drilling, cutting, gluing etc. I first started out small like with simple DIY projects from coat hangers to desks and more. But fortunately I am lucky to have a great mentor who teaches me and lets me use the shop with all the tools you could need. But I invested more in self learning due to me being a self sufficient motherf*cker and I LOVE the feeling that I really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:49 AM
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Ugh right?! I gave up on men a long time ago but visit this sub daily as it holds and keeps me accountable for my actions and decisions. I truly don’t know where I’d be if I hadn’t stumbled across this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:02 PM
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Sis I CACKLED at this response! The accuracy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:40 PM
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My favorite response to ‘men don’t like short hair on women,’ is ‘NOT ALL MEN.’ Watch em squirm at that 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:34 PM
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I’ve recently started woodworking! It’s something I have always, always wanted to try and I have a shop with all the tools I need and great support. Honestly it’s been amazing and it’s crazy how fast my weeks are going by now because I look forward to it every Saturday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:22 AM
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Are you currently looking for any new roommates? Because this sounds like Eden...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:20 PM
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🥳🥰 YAAASSS!!! I’ve never in my life felt so supported, validated, and heard from so many women I’ve never even met! I feel like I can do anything since finding this sub. Truly, TRULY changed my life for the better. I honestly don’t know where I’d be without it and the constant reminder that ALL women deserve better! Bless the mods, y’all are doing God’s work here and it shows. This sub would be nothing without each and everyone of you! Onto the next 100k! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:18 AM
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This is the energy I needed this AM. Bless you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:31 PM
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I recently just started practicing stoicism in my life and I’ve already seen a dramatic change in how I process thoughts and emotions. I’ve actually found quite a few fantastic videos about stoicism, self-reliance and awareness on YouTube that helped put things into perspective as well. Honestly the biggest takeaway I’ve learned so far is self forgiveness; and how forgiving yourself prevents you from continuing to put things off—which was my biggest issue, always putting things off because I did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:40 PM
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This is beautiful. And FACTS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:22 PM
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My god...my parents are celebrating their 29th anniversary this November and my father has already planned a TWO day celebration. One with all of us kids, mom, dad; and then he’s taking her to dinner and spending the night in one of the nicest hotels in the city. I mean ffs they are literally right now on a weekend date together with the dog...men really do show you how they feel about you from the very beginning! It’s not hard, if he wanted to he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:21 PM
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Whenever I hear, ‘I don’t want a daughter...’ etc etc all I can think of is Regina George saying, ‘So you agree? All men are predatory in nature?’ Like how do they not get they are literally telling us they know other men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:06 PM
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They hate us cause they ain’t us 💅🏼 thanks for the free publicity boys! It’s how I found my way here in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:14 AM
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I literally just spit out my morning coffee reading this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:56 PM
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Lady Gaga 😍 I love how she dumped her ex fiancé when he was like ‘can you slow down your career for me so I can feel better about my terrible acting career.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 03:03 PM
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In addition to this disgusting depravity that is Hollywood; is that all this uproar and people defending it (for some sick disgusting reason) is it’s essentially getting free publicity...I mean the way I found my way to FDS was by scrotes saying it’s the worse sub on the planet. Netflix and Hollywood don’t care how it’s represented in the public, just as long as the ratings are climbing, people are watching, and more people subscribe. The more people talk about it the more attention it gets. It’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:20 PM
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As someone who’s struggled with substance abuse and addiction in the past I can confirm. Sharing all your trauma over and over again with different people, including men can have horrible side effects. It’s been stated on this sub multiple times that men see vulnerability as an easy target to get what they want via manipulation. Women addicts are extremely susceptible and vulnerable to these types of predatory behaviors and basically end up right back in the same place they started. It’s happene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:52 PM
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What a wonderful world...we can hope to dream it will be some day. But the work starts now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:09 AM
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Thank you! I felt I learned so much more about myself and am already planning another one next summer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:14 PM
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Yes I did the PCH too it was awesome and challenged me in so many ways! Congrats to you also for completing it you are one badass already! And yes don’t waste precious water when they ain’t given you shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:34 AM
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God i hate this...9 years old and constantly fatigued, going to the bathroom multiple times a day and intense stomach pain I couldn’t (and still can’t) stand up straight...oh it’s your menstrual cycle and your female body doing these things...nope it was Crohn’s disease. After spending weeks in the hospital having them call me crazy and accuse my mother of poisoning me. The disparity is astounding! Oh don’t forget the ridiculous dollar amount they bill you for telling you it’s all in your head..…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:15 PM
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To be completely transparent, and it may sound a tad crass but just do it. Just go for it. Test yourself because you won’t know what you’re capable of until you try it out. I was reading Emerson’s essay on self reliance and came to the conclusion that by imagining the worst case scenario before anything had ever happened, all I was doing was hindering and rejecting myself first and foremost. I realized a Queen doesn’t reject herself, she gives to herself first and foremost. Other than that you k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:04 PM
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I recently just got back from my first solo road trip down the west coast and all I can say is that it seriously forever changed me. I learned so much about myself that I started to make a list of things that I learned and some of them were: I very much enjoy my own company, I have impeccable music taste, I’m beginning to become more brave, I’ve been watering a few too many dead plants, and that even though I know I have a lot to give to others I will always need to give more to myself. This sub…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:38 PM
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Hoping to see you soon! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:14 AM
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Okay, wtf is actually up with this?! How did they completely miss the mark and go for the inner thigh/groin area?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:25 PM
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This is the Queen energy I didn’t know I needed today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:23 PM
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Omfg congrats you’ve absolutely earned it and well deserved! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 03:45 PM
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I’m with you, I’m not into the 12 step program people either. If it works for them, great! But I can’t get behind the constant daily reminder of the negative and hurtful things they did in the past. If you keep reiterating the bad past behavior, goes what, you’re probably going to start believing it sooner or later and relapse. I am sorry about the passing of your ex, it’s always sad to hear someone was taken by drug abuse. Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:42 AM
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Omg yes! I have never liked alcohol and I’m a damn train wreck when I’m drunk so I just don’t do it other than maybe a glass of champagne at a wedding or NYE. I just tell myself that they are projecting their own insecurities onto me when they get all defensive. Ain’t nothing wrong with a Diet Coke imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:40 AM
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I’ve also found that men who are in AA/recovering sometimes prey on women who are recovering because of their vulnerability...but congrats queen so proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:36 AM
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I started my long time desire of woodworking and just built my first craft! I’m also currently trying to write everyday even if it’s just free thought and doesn’t make sense. In addition, I’m looking at how to create financial assets in my life for some side money to put toward paying off all my debt. Furthermore, I’ve decided to take up acting classes again since I’ll be directing my first film next year, and want to make sure I give the best direction and manage a safe and fun set. Oh, and NEV…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:15 AM
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Apparently hell isn’t even low enough...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:59 AM
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I concur. Sadly. People forget that the best form of communication is listening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:07 AM
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Omg my friend TSwift mentioned the same thing...now I forgot that they existed 💁🏼‍♀️ This is so true tho! It’s hard to do and I’m still working on it myself but thanks for the daily motivation sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:20 PM
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So can we all agree that this sounds like an amazing time and If I could wish it into existence I’d love to have a cup of coffee with a croissant sitting out on a terrace with all you queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:13 PM
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Love this jam! Listened to it myself when I went to NYC for the first time ha! However I’m glad to hear that even though your career ended up in a different direction you still find the good in the different path you had to take. It’s actually quite inspiring hearing your story as I’m a bit in the same boat right now. Having a weird late 20’s mid life crisis and don’t know which direction to go. You know the usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:55 PM
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This is exactly how I’ve been feeling lately and I just couldn’t put my finger on why I was feeling this way. Thank you, I needed to hear it. Out of curiosity which song was it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:06 AM
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Thanks lady the kind words mean so so much to me right now. I know I’ll always love them and care for them and long for them, but timing is a huge factor and it just never worked out because we were both very career focused and I don’t blame either one of us. But it still hurts like a bitch to see them moved on and happy—even if I am happy for their happiness. How did you cope over the years? I’m trying to keep them out of my mind but of course the thoughts come back time to time... I’m sorry to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:55 AM
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Oof needed this today...found out an old flame of mine that I felt the strongest connection to in my entire life is in a relationship, but happy. No Ill will no hate or blame we just had to go our separate ways but man seeing that shit stings like a bitch when all I’ve been trying to do is get healthy of body and mind. Don’t get me wrong I love the single life but sometimes it can get me down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:33 AM
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Same here! I’ve been in my own head lately that I need a release so I feel you sis. I hope the interview went well tho and knowing you’re and FDS member you probably killed it! Our pop queen Britney deserved so much better from everyone, but I’ll still love her and her music. Ugh I love TN, Nashville is by far my favorite city to visit and have a blast in! We don’t get a lot of personal interaction up here in WA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:26 AM
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This! I dated a bi girl who was in an open relationship with her bf at the time (I’ve now learned my lesson, never again). Ironically guess when he started bringing up opening their relationship up? Right after she came out to him that she has an interest in girls. Bonus: she was absolutely stunning and he looked like a worn out shoe turned upside down. Thank you for calling these people out! Coming out and expressing who you are sexually can be life changing and those who exploit that vulnerabi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:59 PM
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OT this episode literally traumatized me as a child. Nightmares for weeks! It’s only fitting this context is the same! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:55 PM
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They think they’re sooooo cool in their piece of crap Honda Civic acting like they own a Maserati
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:55 PM
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Midnight Sky is my jam right now! So glad she’s out of that situationship and focusing on her music and career. Miley gets a lot of shit but the girl was a Disney child actor at 13, she could have turned out a lot worse! Fun fact! One of my longtime mentors who was a Hollywood director in the 90’s-00’s taught acting to Miley Cyrus and Selena Gomez when they were just starting out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:51 PM
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When will they finally figure out that all the spamming they do to us is just laughable and further proves our point? Degenerates the lot of them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:35 PM
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True angels on Earth. Bless and thank you all! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:21 AM
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The fact that this sub was set to private for maintenance yet STILL scrotes are trying to weasel their way Into our space and give their completely unnecessary opinion. Why are they so obsessed with us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:57 AM
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Omg I JUST watched this the other day and was surprised at how many references I made to FDS throughout! I also had to explain the my male cousins and friends as to why only the female ants have wings and males don’t, per their question. And I literally said, ‘because the female/queen ant is the most valuable and instrumental to the survival of the colony, without the queen ant they can’t reproduce. So if there is an imminent threat at large the female/queen ant can fly away to safety and contin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:58 PM
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I just recently went off my birth control this year after being on it for almost 9 years and I’ll tell ya, I feel amazing. Sure the periods and cramps, bloating all that isn’t daisies and daffodils but knowing that no synthetic hormones are entering my body in the daily is worth it. I always used to get the worst stomach aches and thought it was due to my Crohn’s but as soon as I went off BC I felt so much lighter and I haven’t had problems with my gut since. I also just feel more connected to m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:26 PM
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Independent women pt. 1 also by Destiny’s Child!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:40 PM
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Facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:30 PM
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I used swagger before switching to an online brand. Because as said earlier fuck the pink tax and I find it kind of ridiculous that we as a human species have found a way to gender label smells/scents. How can our natural senses be gendered!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:08 AM
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We love to hear it! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:02 AM
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Yes! Male lions sometimes kill male cubs for dominance and control. What’s f*cking new...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:44 PM
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WOW. Saving this amazing power move for next time! This is on a new level of confidence I can get behind sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 03:56 PM
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My father once told me a bit of advice that I’ve never forgotten. I was in high school and this guy I knew pulled a massive ‘nice guy’ move on me. In short I couldn’t go to his graduation party he invited me too and he flipped shit. I told my dad because he knew him and was longtime family friends. I asked my dad why he was so upset at me as I didn’t understand what I did wrong when I was going to be out of town. First my dad told me that I did nothing wrong. He then told me ‘that men need to fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:46 PM
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It really just goes to show they want nothing from you except your body to use for their pleasure. I made a deal with myself a long time ago that if I never get touched by another human being again then so be it. Going on 2.5 years now and honestly I’d rather be deprived of physical intimacy then allow myself to be played and used by someone else. So to agree with you sis, same, it’s a big red flag and humiliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:38 PM
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Couldn’t have put it better myself sis! I hate when men are all like physical touch is my love language. When they really mean sex, not intimacy or even physical intimacy outside of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:28 PM
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It’s lovely! I’ve saved it for a rainy day to read xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:42 AM
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They tell us we just have to pick better men! Please...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:59 PM
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Who wrote this? This is quite beautiful imho. Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:11 PM
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They can die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:45 AM
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The hell?? How did that man have the AUDACITY to try and take ownership and control of exploring your sexuality. My god they will stop at nothing to make themselves feel superior...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:23 PM
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When your girlfriends are better then ALL the boyfriends something is very off balance. You’re right they need to step the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:23 PM
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I wait for the opportune time to throw it back in their faces. For example one time I was living with a guy (never again) and I was talking about cutting my hair short and trying a different look. He said ‘men don’t like women with short hair. Long hair is more feminine.’ My response was...’not all men, some like it.’ He literally had no response. None.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:15 PM
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She also dumped her LV ex fiancé when he told her she should put HER career on hold because their schedules were so busy and he wanted to continue to work...like the woman is a multi platinum artist with multiple Grammys, an Oscar, can compose, write, sing, dance, act, has her own charity, and is an amazing entrepreneur. Yeah go tell someone like Lady Gaga to put her career on hold while you finish your canceled NBC cable show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:23 PM
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Ohhh I love free publicity for more of our sisters to find us! I love how their hate against this sub was the one thing that led me here in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 03:03 PM
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My personal favorite is when they get mad and upset at you for telling them about all the mean and hurtful things they did to you. The mental gymnastics...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:08 PM
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I wonder what it feels like to have this much confidence and self righteousness to claim something that isn’t yours? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:47 PM
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Oh look I found another double standard against women! Seriously god bless you mods for keeping our FDS community safe and free of trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:08 PM
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Regardless of his degeneracy, I am proud of you for putting yourself first and getting sober. If you ever need support feel free to DM. Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:05 PM
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Regardless of his degeneracy, I am proud of you for putting yourself first and getting sober. If you ever need support feel free to DM. Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:05 PM
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This. I also find it unsettling when women have men has sponsors, especially when they are just starting to find their way again and get clean and healthy again. This is why women only spaces are so important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:03 PM
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This is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:44 PM
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I love this sub 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:42 AM
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If men got pregnant they would be able to get an abortion at an ATM or gas station
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:33 AM
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Yes! And you’re right, I’m currently working on a separate aspect of our work right now and it’s a team of 5 women. Literally just today after our last meeting we all said how weird and smooth everything is running for us. Meanwhile, the team with the man who clearly doesn’t respect boundaries or authority from a woman is led by two privileged males. I just don’t get how they rarely ever follow through on tasks yet get paid more...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:28 AM
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I’ve even let the CEO know in the same email thread to contact me on my work cell if they need to urgently get a hold of me. So your projection might bear fruit, he already has a tendency to just not listen to what I have to say until it’s too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:03 PM
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He has my number for emergency reasons and he technically is above me in chain of command. But I’ve thought about switching the personal number to work number for in case of emergency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:01 PM
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Oooh what kind do woodworking do you do? I recently just built myself a ‘Murphy desk’ that hands off the side of a wall for optimal space usage! Congrats on the massive accomplishment too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:21 PM
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Of course because you are totally the reason why he couldn’t pick, wash, and iron a decent outfit. He wanted a mommy to do it for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:09 PM
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Omfg I’m OBSESSED with the entire album. OT sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:31 PM
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I find this idea amazing and will show you several things: one, who’s willing to even write you. Two, if they can use correct spelling, grammar, punctuation etc. Three, I also think it’s a great opportunity for them to show if they can write a decent love letter 💅🏼 If you end up receiving any please keep us posted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:40 PM
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The mods are literal angels. A PDF of the handbook to share to our sisters, and the amount of trash and filth they must see on a daily basis would send me running for the hills. I’d send them baked goods if I could xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:08 PM
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LOL he really went with the ‘she even got me on camera—it wasn’t me.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:14 PM
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So he wants to abuse and degrade her like he sees in the porn he watches. Wow men know no bounds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:33 PM
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After you multiply by 100 be sure to add tax to your worth. This temple ain’t the clearance rack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:46 PM
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Pray tell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:40 AM
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W2 is exactly how I wanna be when I grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 01:34 AM
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So my last (and final) ex bf had woo’d me because he told me one of his favorite films was Pride & Prejudice, we it was mine and I loved the book. He was completely and unequivocally a Wickham.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:37 AM
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So glad you realized the relationship and situation wasn’t benefiting you in the slightest and was clearly weighted to only one person benefiting from you being in that relationship. The fact that he straight up told you ‘it’s too hard to mold another girlfriend’ sends off several red flags. So he doesn’t want to put in effort to making a solid connection, he knows that he probably won’t/can’t find anyone better than you so he’s essentially settling and dragging you with him, the language also i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:31 PM
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I know exactly what you mean...tbh I’ve parted ways with the LGBT community. This whole sense of everyone else needs a label to feel special is getting old to me. Like I wanna get to know YOU the person! Not worry if I’m offending someone by my sexual preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 11:31 PM
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It’s stupid because a lesbian who likes a man is not a lesbian...it’s a fetish for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:57 PM
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Imagine that...I love how they conveniently just forget about the oppression of all women for literal eons and centuries where we couldn’t get an education or learn to read or write for the longest time. I mean we literally only got to start voting a hundred years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:58 PM
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I also just don’t understand why they WANT to continue to live in their trauma and not move forward. As you said I don’t know a single woman who hasn’t been harassed in some way, shape, or form and yet we don’t relish the fact that not working through your trauma and issues only hinders you. It’s almost like they somewhat enjoy living with their problems so they look all broody and sensitive...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:04 PM
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Boys are like rubber bands...they always snap back into our lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:28 AM
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^ THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:13 AM
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Someone trademark this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:13 AM
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This is so true it should be scripture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:34 AM
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Wait for real? Did she dump him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:33 AM
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Gave up on them a long ass time ago, at least I can explore the other 50 percent of the population!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:49 AM
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I got a full fledged step 9 amends phone call the other day...like I still have no idea how to process because I literally thought I’d never see or hear from them ever again, and now that I got the ‘apology’ I always secretly wanted I still have no idea how to feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:21 AM
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Why are they like this!? Honestly it’s like they find so many things to poke at us, but god forbid we ask for basic human decency and they throw a fit like a petulant child. And women are the ‘insecure ones,’ jfc...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:57 PM
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Omg this makes absolute sense now!! My dad LOVED Billy Crystal. Great advice regardless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:59 PM
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This is so accurate it made my blood boil. They literally take credit for everything even if it has nothing to do with them in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:56 PM
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I’ll share what my father told me when I became a teenager: on the basis of sex, women need a reason, men need a place. Full stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:02 PM
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Exactly. Once again women who have attraction to other women being used for the male gaze...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:13 PM
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LOL the women on the sub are solid 11/10’s they couldn’t pay our price even if they wanted to 💅🏼 love this sub and all the things it’s taught me xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:12 PM
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Couldn’t agree more! I dated a girl briefly who was in an open relationship (never again) she was 21 at the time the boyfriend was 27, and all the red flags were there from the beginning. He used her sexuality against her to coerce her into an open relationship, and they had planned to move in together after she graduated university...it’s just sad honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:18 PM
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Oh yes, so right! I forgot that asking ourselves simple questions that puts our safety and sanity first is hate speech and is a crime against humanity... /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:56 PM
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Nailed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:09 AM
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Omg yes to everything about if we expressed our preferences or things we love, especially thing it to past exes. But I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if the responses were, ‘I did that for all my past exes and they said they hated me going down on them and treating them with basic human respect.’ To which my response would be ‘yeah you’re probably right, because you just weren’t that good.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:07 PM
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I can feel the radiating boss energy from this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:34 AM
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I totally heard your response in the Kate Winslet voice in Titanic when she shits heck the fuck up by yelling ‘I know what I’ve fishing is!’ Regardless so glad you shut him down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:49 AM
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I concur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:08 PM
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No probs! I really just didn’t want to give Ben Affleck any credit he clearly doesn’t deserve as a LVM himself. I’ll never forgive him for Batman...I believe it was also one of Reese Witherspoon’s first films she helped produce from her own production company too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:54 PM
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Yes! I should have said ‘I don’t date bums.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:47 PM
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Thank you for bringing this up. It’s under the same line as lesbian erasure simply for the sole benefit of men who think their sexuality is made for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:32 PM
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This is some massive Queen energy! Similar story: a guy asked me out in college and I said sure sounds like fun, we had been in the same class and had never really talked face to face. I wanna note that this guy wore some ratty tennis shoes, shorts and like a old wrinkled tshirt and sweater combo almost every time I saw him. We decide to meet on campus (my choice as I didn’t want him to know where I lived) and when she showed up 15 minutes late he was wearing the exact same outfit he usually wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:57 PM
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I believe David Fincher directed the film. I remember reading about why Fincher decided to cast Ben because he wanted someone who resembled Nick IRL. He said he was looking up shit eating grins on google and several pics of Ben Affleck came up and he said that something like that—like how Nick smiles when the press is there and he’s standing in front of Amy’s picture—is hard to fake. He basically said he liked how sneaky Ben affleck was in real life 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:17 PM
3

AND she dumped her piece of shit cheating ass husband for having an affair with her BEST FRIEND who lied to her face when Shania asked her if she thought Mutt was having an affair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:42 PM
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LOL let them stay mad! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:36 PM
8

💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:26 PM
9

Omg yes that’s where I’ve heard it! Idk why the heck I thought it was Cher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:22 PM
29

Wasn’t it Cher who also said ‘men should be like Kleenex: soft, strong, and disposable.’ I don’t disagree...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:15 PM
2

Savage by Dior is a fav of mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:22 PM
12

This is a whole mood 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:50 PM
11

Ew mansplaining...in your own BODY. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:06 PM
6

Great read. Thank you for posting this. The most wonderful therapist I’ve ever had once told me, ‘the search for romantic love is a dyslexic search for self-love.’ That always stuck with me, and this article reminded me of that quote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:29 PM
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God I’m so so sorry that terrible situation happened to you. To be violated is something I never want to feel again, and i hope you’ve been able to move forward with your life in all the healthy ways. Much love xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:42 PM
27

Thank you. And I’m sorry your EX did that to you as well. I don’t understand what goes through their minds that they think this is okay? I’ve moved forward and rarely ever think about it unless I hear it has happened to other women. Stay strong sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:41 PM
11

Then he shouldn’t complain when she eats her baked goods in front of him and he gets none! On another note good for her for baking and at least trying something. He probably sits in the couch and picks his nose and eats them for dessert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:30 PM
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Wow...I know exactly how this feels. In college I was on heavy sleep medication due to insomnia. I went to bed one night after taking my sleep aid and there were a few guys over that night that my roommate had invited over for board games; I knew a few of them since we all worked together. All I remember from that night was one of the guys slipping I to my bed and sticking his hand down my pants and started to touch me. I literally couldn’t do anything because of the medication I was on and I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 04:22 PM
6

I choked on my popcorn omg 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:13 PM
11

God bless this sub. Truly xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:50 PM
31

THIS! I sometimes even see bisexual women who are in relationships with men get brainwashed into thinking it’s ‘liberating’ to have a threesome because of her sexuality. Who benefits from this type of behavior? Men. Not the women at all. OLD is trash for dating women. I wish most of these women would dump their LVM boyfriends and explore their sexuality on their own. A threesome won’t save your relationship. Neither will a ring or a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:44 PM
2

Bless you 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:43 PM
2

Omg me either do you have any particular sites that are good and have adequate kits??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 10:17 PM
1

This is wonderfully written and thank you for validating what I’ve been saying to my friends in below average relationships for years! Sad part is they won’t see it until it’s either too late, or it has ate away at them. Wise words, saving this comment for future reference!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:37 PM
1

This. Is. Amazing. I needed this kind of energy in my life today! A true queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:51 PM
8

Delusion is real...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:15 PM
4

Ditto. They are disgusting pigs who need to be shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:50 PM
3

This is fantastic and I hope you can make it over here and love the life you absolutely deserve Queen. Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:27 PM
1

💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:26 PM
1

Totally get that! It’s always nice to feel appreciated, and I’m so glad you have an amazing support system to back you. Keep on keeping on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:26 PM
2

Hahah I was going for the ‘Kermit the frog I’ll just sip my tea/spill the tea’ but I’d go with your spirit animal for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:46 AM
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The sad part is—and I don’t mean to air his dirty laundry but after that comment idgaf anymore—he’s been a subject of male sexual abuse himself! He’s become quite the narcissist lately and after that comment I told him that if he is willing to defend rape porn then our friendship would be terminated. 22 years down the drain. I blocked him shortly after that text. This sub has been so eye opening for me, and no man gets a pass no matter how long I’ve known him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:53 PM
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Right!? I was talking to one of my long time ‘friends’ about porn culture and how it’s disgusting and warps the minds of men, and how there are literal rape categories and videos of actual rape on pornhub. His response? ‘Some of it is fake...’ really!? THAT’S all you have to say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:37 PM
9

Spill sis 🐸☕️ I need a good story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 09:18 PM
9

Happy birthday! Now drop this troll and celebrate yourself. Here’s a cake and some love 💜🎂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:55 PM
8

Nothing truer has been spoken. Men are like rubber bands; they always snap back whether you like it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:22 PM
50

I honestly counted three chins 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:14 PM
9

Right!? Like get that sh*t outta here! Sexual conquests are not a commodity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:08 PM
1

Omg brb gonna go jam to Meredith Brooks now! Also I would add ‘Man’ by Jojo. Been on repeat lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:57 PM
3

Ditto ^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:42 PM
5

I wanna add ‘Any Man Of Mine’ by Shania Twain on the Spotify playlist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:17 PM
8

Tori helped me get through the darkest days of my life. So glad there are other Tori Amos fans on here! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:09 PM
13

You’re so right...I see a lot of my old friends in open relationships and I just seriously do not get why these women put up with it! For YEARS I thought something was wrong with me because I found the idea of an open relationship/poly stupid and honestly harmful. I literally could not wrap my head around loving or having multiple relationships with other people at the same time. Like where does one even find the time to have these relationships?! I barely have time to date with a full time job,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:06 PM
9

God bless you lady! Thank you for the tips and advice, my biggest weakness is buying shit I don’t necessarily need...btw take this crown you earned it 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:59 PM
9

It is Tori Amos’ first album! It’s my favorite of hers—and she named the album little earthquakes to symbolize orgasms! I love her XX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:56 PM
3

PREACH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:12 PM
23

BRB gonna go listen to ‘Little Earthquakes’ and find myself. Bless you for this list of artists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:08 PM
28

Damn woman!! What’s your secret? I just bought my first car and my next big goal is forming my own business/buying a house. 26 myself and looking to level up heavily before I hit my 30’s so I can travel more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:05 PM
79

They can’t even find the clit so I’m guessing no...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:53 PM
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Yes! I’m so sick of hearing men wanting open relationships just so they can have their cake and eat it too. If you wanna fuck around then stay single. I get so upset whenever i see women give into this notion just because they wanna seem like a ‘cool girl.’ Girl there is NOTHING cool about being someone’s second choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:51 PM
6

You’ve named all the films I would have suggested so my recommendation is a tv series: Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:49 AM
2

Thank you! I’m looking to give Dworkin a try soon. I appreciate the recs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 03:57 PM
11

OT what kind of books do you read? I’m looking to expand my literary palette
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 08:10 PM
5

It’s almost like...they can’t stand when we don’t give them attention...or like they can’t live without us...shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:37 PM
6

Well I’m proud of you for getting out! You did what was best for you first and foremost and it truly does make people insecure when you’re able to walk away and they are to chicken shit to do it themselves. I know what you mean when they ‘shame’ you for leaving especially after the fact. I had to let someone I would have given the moon to because of how it was affecting me and those around me. I still get made fun of and shamed for staying as long as I did. But guess who’s happier now and not a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:32 PM
3

Omg that is horrible...karma I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 01:11 AM
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Love is NEVER hard. That’s some Hollywood romanticized bullsh*t. If he loves you it will be easy. Love is never hard and it is never hurtful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:38 PM
8

I once cohabitated with a man who would let his mail pile up into mountains! Like covering the entire table and counters of just mail that he never opened. Like there was some important stuff in there I’m sure but that is just a sign of negligence in many forms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:28 PM
15

Gospel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:26 PM
7

Right?! I got major Dahmer vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:43 AM
7

LOL at how he tried to cover his ass in the after thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 12:57 AM
3

Whoop there it is! Preach sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:39 PM
13

How...how did you find out my kink?! Please don’t shame me for wanting something natural I can share with another person intimately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:13 PM
11

‘It was just a jOkE! Don’t take everything so seriously JEEZE!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:05 PM
6

💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:41 PM
52

Ew this is so true and I hate it...😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 06:58 PM
11

It really is. Especially when they laugh at other expenses involving a child in pain or purposefully doing something to a small child for entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 08:53 PM
21

This should be made into a full on post. You’re so right when you say nothing shows a mans character more than what he laughs at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:56 PM
3

Groundbreaking isn’t it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:28 PM
58

I love when men’s plans blow up in their face and end up humiliating them instead. Wholesome. I bet those apples tasted great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:13 PM
52

THIS. The double standard only benefits men when the spotlight isn’t on them for being the victim. This is disgusting and abhorrent, how in anyway can you justify an abuse like this just because the woman is ‘hot.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:52 PM
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Girl same, like I already work in a male dominated industry and all of my past gfs have moved away for work or with their boyfriends. I’m so tired of only seeing male names pop up in my email or texts. They find the smallest ways to manipulate at every turn. Stay strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:50 PM
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I love this post. Thank you xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:35 PM
9

Low key feel attacked but okay sometimes we need to hear things out loud for them to hit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 11:31 PM
8

Open relationships are abhorrent. What a disrespectful roundabout way to say I wanna cheat on you and I’m not fully invested in us but I wanna have my cake and eat it to until I find ‘the one.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:10 PM
5

‘Combat instructor’ equals ‘I have abusive tendencies that I will use on you in the bedroom.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:00 PM
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So this might not be a popular opinion for most but I completely agree that 95% of males are more boring that a doorknob. The first time I started to date women (I’m bi) I was floored by how long our dates lasted because of just simple great conversation alone. Never a dull moment, great music taste, and just overall some of the best dates I’ve ever been on. I brought this up to one of my old professors because they were dealing with a serious sexual misconduct issue at a department they worked …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:48 PM
1

Bless you!! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 01:13 AM
4

Let’s just hope they get out of the denial phase...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:38 PM
3

Thank you! Would I find it under gender dynamics, sex talk, or dating strategy? My whole day has been made knowing this is in the handbook thank you! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:26 PM
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Someone should send her that comment from that nurse who told us all about why we are not made for anal sex. Honestly I’d love it if it was placed in the FDS handbook/rules somewhere. I wish I had saved that comment myself. Enough is enough ladies, this type of behavior in the bedroom has got to stop for the sole purpose of male pleasure...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:17 AM
107

I’ve never, ever met a woman who said they enjoyed anal sex. It’s literally reverse shitting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:05 AM
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Omfg one of my ex friends (who studied psychology and physiology in college 6 years ago and never lets anyone forget it) who is a male btw, told me that ‘all genders have anal and pudendal nerve endings. So I wouldn’t say it wouldn’t be pleasure able for women...’ oh right totally forgot that you didn’t go to medical school after your undergrad and are now, and have been working as a front desk clerk at a clinic. Mmk, yeah I’ll be sure to take your advice on all medical questions from here on ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:03 AM
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Good. Let them stay mad. That episode was hilarious especially how the therapist just destroyed rick at the end. And she’s also a ‘shit therapist,’ to Morty’s teacher I died 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:26 PM
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Exactly! And if they truly have a problem with these acts, how dare they kink shame us! Everyone has their preferences and it’s only natural we have these urges and fulfill our needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:55 AM
5

Of course sis, don’t blame yourself for men not communicating properly before hand about basic respect and proper boundaries! How are you supposed to know these things—you can’t read minds after all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:42 AM
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May I also suggest sticking fingers up his asshole and then when he freaks out just claim they ‘accidentally slipped in’ works like a charm 😉 because of course he didn’t communicate before hand that he didn’t like assplay right??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:26 AM
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And then add tax 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:25 PM
9

Woman!! Just reading the confidence and direct intent through your words gave me chills! Thank you for taking the time to write bs k and give advice. I’m extremely happy you got what was obviously deserved and continue to do good work! I’ll definitely take your advice with me when trying to move up the corporate ladder in life. I have goals and career dreams that I want to make happen without any distraction. My true love is my work and I know I deserve the best. Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:14 PM
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First off thank you for that article—cuz wow! It’s so true, I’m so sick of seeing straight couples in lesbian spaces, online and off. Lesbian and women’s spaces are already seeming to be non existent these days, and I honestly think it does have something to do with Libfems. I’m rad fem myself as well and I get what you mean by being uncomfortable in ‘queer’ spaces. LGB spaces are in short supply these days because of woke culture and it’s honestly disheartening. I’m actually really relieved tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 10:10 PM
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I love this post! Love LOVE! My father was saying how he can’t wait to have grandkids, and I quickly told him you’ll have to rely on my younger sister because I have no intention of ever having children. He looked like someone had just ran over his dog or something. On another note, could you elaborate on how you negotiated and got your raise? I feel like women don’t actively fight or ask for them in the workplace and this needs to change!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:44 PM
6

Nice candid photo 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:37 PM
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It’s my true kink. Don’t you dare kink shame me either, that means you don’t have an open mind! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:18 PM
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Sis do we have the same life? Truly I gave up on OLD for both men and women (being bi myself) and jfc all I would find is as follows: couple looking for a third/unicorn, creepy men/creepy men in wigs trying to pull of being female, and those still living with their ex. And you’re right it’s ALWAYS a potato scrote with a beautiful girlfriend in open relationships. I don’t get it. Those women deserve better than just being a side piece while he gets to explore and she can only date women because o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:17 PM
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Oof I know what you mean. I spent 18 years of my life on the other side of WA and the country boys are just pornsick hicks who think misogynist jokes are a way to a woman’s heart. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:44 PM
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Girl the PNW is horrible! HORRID! I feel you about moving and relocating I’m in the same boat but not for men in the slightest. I just need a change of scene, change of pace, new people new perspectives other than this tech bro, latte drinking, skinny jean ‘woke’ culture up here. I’ve been thinking east coast for years now. I hope you find what you’re looking for if you do move; and nothing but happiness and joy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:25 PM
13

Really shows how ‘manly’ they are doesn’t it? Picking on people smaller than they are—pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:36 PM
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Wonder how’d they’d feel if when we were on top we would death grip their balls and put all our weight onto their necks? WhY wOuLd yOu dO tHaT iTs dEgRaDiNg!?! ‘Sorry you should have communicated before hand.’ I’m so sick of this type of crap I could scream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:26 AM
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When my old roommate would tell me that he did the dishes or took out the trash (once every three weeks) is always respond with ‘okay?... want a cookie?’ In the most sarcastic condescending tone I could. If he acts like a dog imma treat him like a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:23 AM
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Shoved his dick down your throat and started mouth fucking you? You should have pulled away from his death grip on your head...it’s sickening to think we still have to explain ourselves after everything. Men should know better by this point and they are actively choosing not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:21 AM
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Wtf was he thinking would happen? Do they really think we are that stupid to believe this would work? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:54 AM
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‘You can’t fire me! I QUIT!’ Mmk well there’s the door bye bye now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:53 AM
4

Yes!! Honestly I kinda wish more mothers would join this sub to get clarity on their relationships with LVM. I’d honestly rather see women single and happy with who they are than miserable and sad with a LVM. Glad you’re here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:13 PM
18

Whoa, slow down please that is too much for the male species to handle. You’re gonna get kink shamed. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:08 PM
20

Men: goes down on women for .02 seconds Men: are you horny yet? 🙃🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:04 PM
26

‘Not a Queen...a Khaleesi!’ Drag him like the savage bad ass she is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 04:54 PM
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Oh man I’ve def tried this with an ex roommate of mine, so there wasn’t even the boyfriend aspect of it. After doing this for several weeks after I moved in he started saying how much of a bitch I was and how ungrateful I was being rejecting his sincere offers 😂 also said I was being condescending because I never thought his offers were good enough. Well they weren’t bud and that’s why I always rejected them! Fucking filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 04:49 PM
3

He was the sweetest ever! I wanted to take him so badly when I left that horrible place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:09 AM
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I wanted to take the dog when I got the hell out of there when he literally threatened my own life. He doesn’t deserve that amazing canine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:08 AM
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I also want to add this: a past roommate of mine who was the epitome of LVM had the most wonderful German shepherd. He was so well trained, the biggest love bug, so smart and loved to play. Ladies be aware of how men treat their dogs when they’re drunk. This man was a abusive alcoholic and the way he would switch his attitude towards his pup when he was drunk was absolutely vile. I’m talking hitting, screaming, throwing things etc. if he’s willing to treat ‘mans beat friend’ in such a degrading …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:47 PM
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Honestly all this has told me is how much men really do hate women. How they see us as a slit to insert themselves at free will. They see us as disposal and something to poke and laugh at. But god forbid us ladies in this sub talk about standards to preserve our own safety. But us posting trashy scrotes with their tinder profiles is completely tHe sAmE as posting nudes of women for all of Facebook to see and jack off too. Yeah ok I totally see how that’s fair gentlemen. I’m so mad right now I ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:29 PM
15

I’m finally relieved to know I’m not alone in this. Had a friend in college come over for game night. I went to bed early because I was on sleeping pills during this time. All I remember is feeling a sense of arousal and someone with their hand in my pants caressing my groin area. I literally couldn’t do anything due to the sleeping pill I was on. I later confronted him about it due to suspicion and he didn’t even deny it. His reason? He needed a place to sleep for the night because he ‘drank to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:29 PM
3

But women are emotional and men are reserved and stoic. Mmk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:47 PM
5

It’s like when men say ‘I slipped and my dick fell inter her vagina and she accidentally got pregnant.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 04:42 PM
14

I once told an abusive roommate of mine that if I wanted to I could probably get any guy I wanted. He was bitching about how he approached a beautiful woman and got rejected and was throwing a pity party. After i told him that I tried to tell him it’s not about ‘finding a man,’ it’s about finding a good one, and weeding out all the creeps. And then I told him he was being a creep by approaching that woman at 9 pm walking groceries back to her car at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:59 PM
26

They really can’t go 2 seconds without the attention on them can they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:26 PM
11

I would watch her on a weekly basis if she decided to have a segment just like this. See these are the types of tik toks I don’t mind. It’s the ones with young girls posing in doggy style positions that say beginner, intermediate, advanced, expert. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:27 PM
27

Why are they so obsessed with their penis’? Like is there a cord that connects their brain to their dick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:01 PM
18

Never...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:00 PM
36

Parasites...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 04:57 PM
8

Sis I’m so so sorry you’ve had to deal with this as being a Bi woman. It’s not fair to have your sexuality exploited by a LVM. I dated a girl once who was in an open relationship and on our first meeting she was like ‘oh yeah we’ve had a few threesomes and I’ve just learned a lot about who I am in the process...’ this woman was gorgeous and so kind and it was clear from day one she was manipulated into this type of situation. I met her bf once and was not impressed...he was 27 (she was 21 at the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:47 PM
26

This can’t be real..can it?? Like how can they live in absolute filth?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:20 PM
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I’ve tried looking for it for hours! But here’s something juicy: thanksgiving dinner the whole fam is there including great grandma. We are searching through the channels to find something to watch and BAM it’s THE episode that our cousin was in on tv...on thanksgiving day. The sheer amount of odds of that happening I can’t even fathom. It was truly meant for the entire family to be seen. Our whole arrangement was we could never tell great grandma because it would shock her. I’ve never seen her …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:53 PM
71

Why. Are. They. Like. THIS!?! It’s absolutely revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:09 AM
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It’s like when men claim they’re ‘alpha.’ LOL you’re a beta bitch if you have to tell people you’re an alpha male bro
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:10 AM
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So my cousin was on an episode for a petty crime and I asked her what Judge Judy was really like and she basically said she was terrifying at how quit witted she is! She dragged her across the floor during her case too. Left a great mark on the family history 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:49 PM
10

Sis I’m DEAD! 😂🤮🤮 I can honestly just imagine the smell of his scalp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:47 PM
8

I bet he loves to listen to himself talk too...he seems soooooo smart /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:10 AM
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The grease in his hair is revolting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:07 AM
2

Ew...i find it gross that he gave the excuse of having so much love to give, when most men out there can’t even understand consent. I’m so glad he’s and ex because you clearly deserve the best and he was absolutely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:04 AM
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Thank you for explaining so fully! I wanted to clarify cause in my pickme days I entered a ‘relationship’ with a girl who was coupled/open and everything you’ve explained makes so much sense now. I asked why she agreed just out of curiosity and her reasoning was ‘I just learned a lot about myself in doing so.’ Mmk...it also didn’t help she was 21 and her bf was 27 and looked like a total tool. She was also recently exploring her bisexuality which, from your response above, makes complete sense t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:03 AM
0

Wait an open relationship is different than being poly? I’m so confused I thought they were essentially the same thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:32 PM
1

Is ethical non-monogamous the same as ‘coupled?’ When I was on OLD I saw a lot more people labeling that they were coupled instead of saying poly. Just curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:13 PM
40

As if they don’t already do revenge porn on women! So therefore creep revenge seems fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:49 PM
53

But yet they scream DiVoRcE rApE! Like god they truly are vile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 03:51 AM
17

That is psychotic. I hope you blocked and reported him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:08 PM
3

I have no idea. It’s like they think they can just piss on everything and mark it as theirs—even if it isn’t! I can’t imagine what it feels like to be THAT entitled to something that isn’t theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:06 PM
9

Those women don’t love themselves...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:39 AM
14

Oof you’re right. Looks like they’re stuck in the denial phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:37 AM
51

Girl Run! He won’t be able to catch you anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:35 AM
28

How can these men just up and vanish when they do stuff like this? Like truly, how can they live with what they’ve done? Are they all sociopaths who can’t process responsibility or emotion? Also what a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:27 AM
20

I’ve never EVER let any man I’ve dated in the past borrow much car. And you know what’s funny? When I would flat out say NO, or I’m driving (in my own car) they lost their shit! Men are reckless drivers and are more likely to get into accidents in general. If it doesn’t belong to them they treat it like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:26 AM
57

Ugh hormonal acne right before I start my period is. The. WORST. No amount of washing or skincare can take care of that 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:35 PM
11

Praised be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:18 PM
20

Should we put that book on suggested reading? Cuz that sounds insane that men lead with pity parties is it because it’s their way of cooing women into their trap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:08 PM
2

Exactly! God he did so much more shit like, when I would take naps I remember one time he came home drunk and opened my bedroom door and watched me for a good 10 seconds—I was so scared I was going to get sexually assaulted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:43 AM
2

I love a good Boston marriage! It’s honestly what I’m looking for in life myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:45 PM
11

What is it with these trash men asking their girlfriends to quit their jobs that are literally the backbone to fight this epidemic?? Like how, HOW can these men be that self absorbed and selfish to ask this type of crap? He seems like a real winner if he smokes weed and plays video games all day too...how do these LVM have these high paying jobs and do the bare minimum even in a pandemic?! Are women looked over that much in society when it comes to high paying careers!? Idk maybe it’s a blessing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:38 PM
8

Completely agree with this, it’s astounding how much little effort men are willing to put in these days. However, the standards of pick-me’s are helping to lower their effort as well which is unfortunate. Just imagine what would happen if all the women in the world refused to put out or give men even the slightest attention without high effort...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:30 PM
7

Girl same here...I feel so bad for some of my straight women friends these days because the bar is on the ground! I’m happy I’m gay, but I wish these LVM would shape up because these women deserve so much more than the bare fucking minimum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:21 PM
47

I think a Queen got her crown. Final move is to drop his ass and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:17 PM
4

It’s so sad. I can only imagine the places all over the world that are going underreported or not reported at all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:36 PM
11

sector I work in Engineering the amount of time I spend at work I don’t work The cognitive dissonance is strong with this one ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:36 PM
31

Buckle up...I want to make it clear that I never, ever dated this man; i only lived with him due to being in a bad financial/health situation. I moved in with a guy from work, he was 37 and I was 24 at the time (I know cringe) but the rent was cheap, the place was nice, and I could save money carpooling to work. Ladies this man had an alcohol problem, where he would take 2 shots of Jack Daniels and down a tall boy of PBR before we went to work at 3AM—we worked first shift. So he would go to work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:28 PM
31

Idk why but the ‘she has bangs’ but cracked me up! Your visual representation of her is spot on sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:08 PM
7

Can confirm DV is rising in the emerald city tho...but what a tool tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:06 PM
11

That’s disgusting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:10 AM
9

Gospel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 12:10 AM
9

Yes just a joke, probably should have used /s to clarify it was to be intended sarcastically. Thanks for looking out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:04 PM
34

Because blondes have more fun and therefore she’s having a fun time having breakfast in bed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:30 AM
2

Sweet dreams...;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 03:29 AM
5

I’m happy about that too. Although it still bugs me that men will only listen to other men, like dude made his gf cry, gaslit, and laughed at her for having valid feelings. Hope he learns to shape up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:02 AM
25

UGH! YES! I hated how she went from Queen, to bad ass senator who fought at the beginning of the clone wars, to barefoot, pregnant, and, Dying over a CHILD MURDERER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:04 AM
3

The entitlement is ASTOUNDING! Where they get this self confidence that they shouldn’t have to try is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:06 PM
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Thank you. And recreationally is absolutely fine! Weed can be fun in moderation and in good company. It’s only when one starts to use all day everyday, alone with nothing but your thoughts. And the personality trait bit is what made me want to quit; my entire days, weekends, friends, and life revolved around it. I was always looking for the next high. What bugs me the most is when I hear people say weed isn’t addictive! like really? It’s a psychoactive drug that releases dopamine in your brain, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:16 PM
8

To add onto this: most cars/vehicles on the market are only tested for men’s bodies. This includes air bag testing, seatbelts, the seats in cars and etc. that’s why most men survive crashes and the majority of women tend to end up with more severe injuries due to this. They don’t even test children sizes either! So I’m with you, I want to learn about women’s bodies! I’m tired of the ‘you’re just emotional right now it’s probably due to your period or sum thing!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:10 PM
4

I spit out my coffee sis! 🤣👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:04 PM
6

Eons really 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:04 PM
23

Weed really does make you feel okay about being just OKAY. Talking from experience and if he was a daily user then nothing is going to change. Wasted 3 years of my life to the drug but have been on the up and up since I quit. So glad she dumped his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:53 PM
31

Oh praised be! Another woman free of a scrote! So proud of her and hope she never sees he’s pornsick face again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:47 PM
9

Lazy degenerates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:45 PM
11

My thoughts exactly! Like who cares what they think anyways, we already know they hate us and can never have us! But you’re right we NEED to know what men think apparently 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:44 PM
15

I was dying at the responses! And seriously most of the time we arnt that into them and don’t wanna cause a scene for saying no...politely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:42 PM
5

YES!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:41 PM
33

Same girl same! As a matter of fact I don’t even allow them to ask the question in the first place!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:28 PM
8

Hold up, group masturbation sessions? The fuck? So guys will touch each other in close proximity and won’t call it gay...? Sometimes I honestly think most males are so sexually repressed, and actually like to watch the male in the porn vids more than anything. I’m honestly disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:14 PM
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I love it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:06 PM
2

Good! I’m glad you’re happy and he’s out of the picture. It’s true tho, we live and learn from our past and I’m glad you are on the up and up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:05 PM
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Apologies if this is TMI but in the past when guys would ask me to do anal, I would say no, they would obviously push and push. I then started showing them pictures of what my colon looked on the inside (I have severe inflammation due to a chronic illness) from my past colonoscopies and it shut them the fuck up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:52 PM
183

My thoughts exactly...it really is just about degrading women in one of the most intimate and vulnerable acts between two people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:50 PM
3

Omg he went with the girls can give you something I can’t lecture? Oh and trust I know allll about that ‘trust’ bullshit they try and spin. So sorry you were put through that and hopefully he is no longer in your life. They always have another one lined up before they decide to leave the current gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:37 PM
25

Escapism is real folks. Just up and dropped every responsibility because he probably couldn’t handle reality. Jesus the bar is on the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:54 AM
11

OOF! I had no idea about the dogs! That’s horrible, humans don’t deserve the unconditional love that dogs give us. But totally agree that he traded up and found ‘something better’ when he became an A lister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:01 PM
7

He’s not even that great of an actor. No depth, every role I’ve seen him in he’s played the same character type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:34 PM
103

Ugly AND chubby! He only got into shape for one role, not even to better himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:32 PM
134

I love Anna Faris! I actually met her one time in a Costco I was working at at the time! She’s seriously so sweet and kind and she did not deserve how Pratt treated her once he started to get successful in his acting career. I’m glad she’s doing a lot better now. Her show Mom is god damn hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:14 PM
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This is awful I’m so sorry this happened to you and your friend. I totally understand being direct and blunt when turning down a man, but there is that indistinguishable layer of fear that comes with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:04 PM
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When he asked me for an open relationship...ugh never again. If you’re not his first, his A-team, or endgame then he just wants a chance to have his cake and eat it too. Don’t fall into the trap that is liberal feminism and sexual liberations ladies. Not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:48 PM
18

But muh dick! And my fee fees! So pathetic honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:23 AM
17

Honestly...true. What a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 12:31 AM
7

But if we oppose any of it we are bigots and kinkshamers. I’m really afraid of what the future holds with everything being available to us at the tap of a finger. It’s not healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:21 PM
17

Same girl same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:13 PM
7

MANSLATION😂 imma start using this from now on! GOLD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:11 PM
3

Proud of you for putting yourself first and working on yourself! It’s amazing what we do to fill in the time to better ourselves first and foremost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:10 PM
9

It reminds me of the time Lady Gaga did an art stunt one year and showed up dressed like a man and performed the entire evening dressed up looking like an Italian guy and people literally hated her for it. Clearly they didn’t ‘get’ the point of the stunt. Men get waaayyy more attention in the music industry and arnt told to specialize themselves to make sales. It’s terrible what people say about Billie — she’s a teenager for gods sake!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:06 PM
7

Dam woman you be looking fine! Chad isn’t worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:51 PM
13

Escapism is REAL. People need to find better coping mechanisms to deal with being alone during quarantine, and thereafter. There is absolutely NO excuse not to be doing something to better yourself during this time; whether that’s working out from home, learning to cook, listen or play music, or ffs you can even make a short film if you want to! Cameras in our phones are amazing. When your goals are bigger than your excuses you’ll see you can accomplish so. Much. MORE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:50 PM
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Ladies he showered at a MINIMUM twice a month...and is no better with brushing his teeth...I know we all deal with bad breath sometimes, I know my staple is morning breath but the first thing I do every morning is brush, floss and gargle mouthwash...I truly wonder what would happen if she didn’t shower or brush and if he would even notice! Now excuse me while I go shower and do my morning skincare routine and scrub the filth I just read from my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:46 PM
5

Of course! Because she’s a cool girl, who’s gonna get back in the gym as soon as she gives birth! I just loved his justification so he’s can have something to look at.’ Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:36 AM
2

I’m crying 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:25 PM
9

He must have been depressed!! mEn can’t express their emotions and are stigmatized for having fEeLiNgS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:51 PM
7

When she showed the picture of the nanny I fucking lost it sis! Like there was some fucked yo shit in that whole series but the nanny at the end what the cherry on top of his repulsiveness! And his reasoning behind it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:43 PM
24

He led you here HIMSELF!! Isn’t it Ironic, Alanis? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:16 PM
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Because they would actually have to try something for once in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:21 PM
4

Welp. Then there’s your answer. Sorry to say but dump him, block, and start trying to move on by working on yourself to be the best version of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:14 PM
7

Honestly I’d check the trash cans in his place. If you find them then you have your answer. Then take out the trash yourself and leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 05:57 PM
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This right HERE! ^ he sounds negligent. Drop him like a hat, and focus on your health and well-being in the meantime. I can guarantee the stress he is causing you is harming you along with being ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 05:34 PM
25

I need a shower after reading this comment because it’s probably true...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 04:32 PM
24

I cackled!! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 08:32 PM
5

Yes! Just bought her new book actually specifically for quarantine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:25 PM
7

Oof needed this. This weekend is the anniversary of when I had to let go of someone I loved so much through flaws and everything, and it’s been so hard to get them out of my head, and blaming myself for not doing enough of not backing off and letting them have space when I should have. Cherry on top? It happened on my birthday. What a lovely memory amirite? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:04 PM
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My father knew after the first date with my mom. He told his best friend after he dropped her off that she was the woman he would be marrying. 8 months later he proposed, and they’ve been happily married for 29 years. So yes ladies, he knows, don’t hold out hoping he’ll come around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:21 PM
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So he’s legit doing a form of water boarding on her. Mmk. Idk how most men arnt in prison tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:04 AM
20

Because it isn’t about them therefore they have to make it about them by hating on it. Because WhAt aBoUt tHe mEnZ!?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:03 AM
9

Honestly it just shows that you’re 1) not number one and 2)this is an easy way for him to search for other options that are more like his dream girl he made up in his head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:01 AM
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Yo same! I had a talk with my therapist once about how I felt uncomfortable about how everyone seemed to be in open relationships today and I thought I was the problem and something was wrong with ME. She was like, listen I see a lot of women who are in open relationships/had threesomes etc. and she basically said that the woman in the relationship 9/10 ends up leaving. I just wish all of them wouldn’t put themselves in that situation and dump the ass who even suggests it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:30 PM
1

If I remember correctly he specifically stated that he didn’t want to do the bday activity, he only likes to watch the show on Netflix not participate. He also blamed it on his childhood trauma that his parents forgot his bday once; and I believe this man child was close to 30 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:42 PM
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I fall in love every morning during my AM skincare routine 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:48 PM
5

Omg I saw that and was like what In the actual fuck is this bullshit!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:45 AM
11

Yes I’d like to report a child molester, predator, and an incestuous fiend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:28 AM
8

No it’s just natural selection at it’s finest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:19 AM
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LOUDER 👏🏻 FOR 👏🏻 THE 👏🏻 PEOPLE 👏🏻 IN 👏🏻 THE 👏🏻 BACK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 12:11 AM
9

I laughed so hard for 10 straight minutes! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:49 PM
2

Yes I just scanned it and saw it in gender dynamics and saw there was a small list in there. Totally understand, trying times right now and appreciate you all for everything you do for this sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:10 PM
2

Would it be possible to add something like a check list type of thing in the handbook about the specific risks women deal with when they opt in for casual sex, the dangers of porn on the brain, and how it affects intimacy? Like what women risk vs what men risk when casual sex happens or is implied? I see a lot of posts about whether FWB’s can or cannot work and I feel like if it was required reading for this sub, and laid out for those who still don’t understand the risks women put themselves th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:02 PM
16

Ok so I want to bring something up. I saw I post the other day about how a woman went ALL OUT for her boyfriends birthday while they were quarantined. It was a themed bday where she baked cakes to do a Nailed It activity together. He went ape shit on her saying how nobody loves him, nobody remembers his birthday, made her feel like shit, made her cry, and if I remember correctly he blamed it on his depression/anxiety. She posted this online asking for advice and the comments were filled with wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:41 PM
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I love what you said about not becoming a ‘wounded woman.’ It reminded me of what Iliza Schlesinger’s comedy bit about how men don’t want the ‘gazelle running at 90mph who owns her own house and has her PhD. They want the wounded gazelle because it’s easier prey and they don’t have to work hard.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:27 PM
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Cannot emphasize a proper skincare routine enough! Recently I’ve gotten into this new routine, where I draw myself a bath, relax, lotion body and face, brush teeth and floss and I swear I’ve NEVER slept better. Something about a bedtime routine really helps me get a solid night sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:03 AM
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I’m not gonna lie, it was actually a he...shock I know! But his advice has never ever led me wrong. Every time I’ve asked for advice he would deliver and it’s always led to new and brighter things in my life. But to answer your question the advice helped me get sober, land a promotion and a raise at work, and it helped me ground myself by not thinking about the future so much; because it’s not guaranteed. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:40 AM
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His comment of ‘I want to FUCK. Have sex. Coitus.’ Is fucking hysterical! This post and his comments scream incel. I bet he’s paid for all his sexual encounters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 07:45 PM
14

My long time mentor told me this when I was really struggling at my new job: do whatever you can TODAY to get to where you want to be tomorrow. Essentially help yourself one day at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:42 PM
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LOL ‘I’m not looking for anything at all.’ Translation: validate my weak ego as a male who has to actually take care of someone other than myself for once 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:52 AM
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Ok let me spin it another way; if you didn’t know how to do something what would you do? In my case (being an extremely self sufficient woman) I go online, do research, ask my close friends for their advice/opinion because i trust their judgement, and then give whatever I was trying to learn/do/etc and give it a whirl. Basically it comes down to effort. I had no fucking idea how to change oil in a car, drive stick, cook from scratch etc. but i put in the effort and time to learn for myself. I’ll…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:40 PM
11

So long, farewell, auf wiedersehen, GOODBYE SCROTE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:22 PM
5

Ask yourself this: do you want a project? Or a man? If he’s not taking the time to take a simple hour to shower, shave, groom, and dress himself in something other than his work clothes, then he probably won’t put that effort into you. Like the old saying goes, if you can’t love and improve on yourself you can’t love someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:19 PM
5

I couldn’t agree more! I went through some rough years post undergrad, but pulled myself up financially, got sober, have my own place and a bomb ass job. Now all I hear with one of my closest friends is nothing but the suffering olympics. So glad you said this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:16 PM
24

And they say women are the ‘clingy’ ones 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:33 PM
2

Exactly! It’s absolutely ridiculous. After he said that I was like like, ‘okay? Do you want a cookie for being such a good boy?’ Needless to say he didn’t like that very much but I never once heard him say anything like that again. Men should fucking know better by at this point, they are actively choosing not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:15 PM
13

I once lived with a NVM who literally told me after he went on a ‘bad date,’ ‘I could have raped and beat her to a pulp but I didn’t! ‘ what. The. Actual. Fuck. And he wanted praise for literally not doing harm on another woman being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:56 PM
18

He needs to shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 11:53 PM
11

Can confirm. It’s literally all I see on women centric dating apps. It’s fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:28 PM
14

I couldn’t get over the title of the post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:25 PM
6

Escapism is REAL. Coming from an ex-daily weed user. You’re absolutely right that it just masks the real issues to deal with. Sobriety really opened up to how much I’ve wasted on a plant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:31 AM
6

👑 put this crown on, you deserve it, and you’ve EARNED it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:15 AM
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Couldn’t agree more! And there’s a PDF version online so access to most is essential. It’s incredible what is detailed in that book, the amount of delusion men have is astounding to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 12:10 AM
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Literally all those comments are prime examples of what is stated in ‘why does he do that.’ He HAD to react because of what she said right? No way he could control his own emotions because men are LoGiCaL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:38 PM
5

LOL ‘became lesbian’ as if sexuality is a choice. Men are so fucking stupid 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:35 PM
8

🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️ except most bi girls are in open relationships or poly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:58 AM
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I think it’s a huge stigma for Bi girls especially. If they have boyfriends, and when he finds out about their gf being into girls they suggest a threesome and spin it as a way to ‘explore her sexuality’ and ‘feel liberated sexually,’ like give me a fucking break, that is straight up coercion and only benefits the MAN! So not only do these women have 0 dignity, but are having their sexuality exploited by LVM. I agree with you women need to stop selling this as being fun and ‘being open to try ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:53 PM
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I literally do not understand the concept of being poly or having an ‘open relationship.’ If you want to date other people then just stay single and date around. I once’s asked a girl who was in an open relationship why she decided to do it and her answer was ‘I just realized a lot about myself in the process...’ eye roll translation: I was coerced by my bf because I can’t be alone! Seriously what is the appeal of these types of relationships and why do women fall for it? It boggles my mind. If …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:57 PM
20

Never. They love to hear themselves talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:00 AM
4

🙌🏼 twins!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:02 PM
1

ENFJ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:02 PM
6

Omg the men writing women sub is hilariously sad. Like do you need a WHOLE page to describe a woman’s breasts? Oh and half of the information they write about is flat out wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:54 PM
5

Ok I just teared up reading this! So beautiful. I’m honestly afraid of meeting my person too late in life too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:40 PM
12

Some guys just can’t hold their arsenic...oh well he had it coming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:05 PM
12

Top 3 11/10 absolutely Gorgeous women. Bottom level -10
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:26 AM
2

My thoughts exactly! The username itself is a giveaway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:45 PM
9

Is this on the FDS suggested reading list cause it fucking should be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:26 PM
53

Omg stealing the ‘saved a ton of money by switching to single!’ 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:10 PM
43

The one with his shirt off is one ‘rejection’ away from shooting up a school. And they wonder why women don’t talk to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:48 PM
23

I literally threw up in my mouth...brb brushing my TEETH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:45 PM
5

And his bathroom has that layer of fuzz on the countertops and the back of the toilet...oh and my personal favorite, when he’s run out of hand soap so he puts water into it to ‘make it last.’ 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:35 PM
4

Sign me the fuck up! I seriously feel bad for straight women...😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:33 PM
13

I used to ‘help’ my FWB go through tinder right after sex...in which he never, ever made me climax, and he had pornsick limpdick and would always go soft right when things would start to get good. Oh, and he never went down on me afterwards or offered to get me off. He was and is the last man I’ll ever date. So glad I’m bi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:04 AM
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So one time I straight up asked a guy why is it that women have long lines in the bathroom and men don’t? His answer? Because men don’t wash their hands. I almost threw up🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:19 AM
5

Yes! The last man I slept with literally squeezed my boobs so hard it was like he was trying to pop balloons with his hands!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:00 PM
13

I spit out my drink! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:28 PM
10

Couldn’t relate more to having moments of missing a person who wasn’t good for me. They still pop into my mind quite often, and I legit just need to accept the fact that I’m never getting closure, never getting an apology, and never going to know if they really cared about me or not. Hang in there, emotions are a real bitch and at times so confusing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:37 AM
31

Omg my Panties dropped so hard at this comment it registered on the Richter scale! A person who actually follows through on something they said they would is so hot...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:18 AM
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Of course! They want submissive women and who makes way less money. I’m so sick of the double standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:47 PM
60

But if a man says it he’s confident, assertive, and has big dick energy! Vomit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:42 PM
27

‘You were a rebound.’ Sorry not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:33 AM
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The logic chain of the male species ASTOUNDS me. Double standards everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:27 PM
33

This could not be a more truer statement. ‘BuT wHaT AbOuT tHe mEn!?’ Like fucking chill, not everything revolves around you and your pee pee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:54 PM
2

My situation was with a LVW, unfortunately. I just recently found out after years of wondering how I must have misunderstood things, that in fact she knew about my feelings for her, and was completely aware of the fact that she was abusing my kindness, generosity, emotional labor etc. I felt the blow even 3 years after the fact...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:17 PM
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A true queen. Radiates Queen energy. Dropped her EX-fiancé because he wanted her to slow down her career while he continued is mediocre TV career. LOL tell that to her plethora of Grammys, golden globe, and Oscar. And one of the highest selling pop stars ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:54 PM
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I honestly cannot understand the male species. Truly. Like what in the actual fuck? Barf🤮 has anyone on this sub have any sort of success from tinder? I’m not on OLD so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 08:14 PM
11

One of them was let go last week. So I got a raise and promoted to his position. 💁🏼‍♀️ now I want pastries...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 11:28 PM
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As a millennial, you’re so fucking right...I see men my age (26) who show up to work 2 hours late, wearing basketball shorts and backwards caps, and fall asleep in meetings. Yet I can’t get my voice heard in a meeting when I bring real ideas to the table. The bar is on the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:31 PM
13

They can’t pay our price 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 04:23 PM
30

‘Burn the witch!’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 06:10 PM
7

He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:11 AM
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Gay girl here—or when you tell men that you’re clearly not into them in anyway, shape, or form, even when you explicitly say ‘I am a lesbian and I like girls,’ you get the typical, ‘give me a chance to turn you straight,’ or getting asked to do a threesome. Even lesbians are subjected to the male gaze. My sexuality is not for their fucking entertainment. They still find ways to put women down, although it is no where near as bad as it is for straight women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:03 AM
2

And try to live out their ‘glory days’ of high school ball. Like fellas, just stop already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 11:57 PM
33

Or small pee pee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:41 PM
20

Honestly I feel that this sub could benefit from shared experiences on how to properly manage ones own finances. I’ve had immense trouble in the past figuring out how money works, how to save, and how to grow wealth. I just got a recent promotion with a raise and I would love to hear from those of you who are bad asses with their cash. Also I apologize if this comment doesn’t belong here since it is a sub about dating. The best advice my landlady gave me was ‘money is power. If you have it you’r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:32 PM
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I feel like you’re my twin! I’ve recently done the same, living on my own for the first time, cut out the shitty people, working on myself and my career goals etc. but I feel what you mean about the WHY—that is by far been the hardest part, of going down the rabbit hole of did I even matter to them in the first place? I find it wonderful that you’re working on YOU.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:54 AM
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You spelled ‘men’ wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:45 AM
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Yes! It was the director of the doc who speaks from behind the camera that women have been brainwashed into thinking this way. I actually really enjoyed the doc, especially where Tay Tay was all ‘why should I apologize...with the house that I bought, with the songs I wrote.’ No woman should ever have to apologize for doing her job and being successful. Men don’t, so why the fuck should we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:19 PM
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Wow. That’s incredible and thank you for sharing with me. I didn’t know amends were a part of the model for recovery. I’ve struggled with using for the past several years and your comment made me realize how much I’ve hurt people while using. When you say some people don’t follow the 12 step model what does that mean? Like they skip the amends part? Sorry for all these questions I’m just looking to better myself from here on out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:24 PM
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Proud of you! What do you mean by making amends? Is that a part of the process?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:08 PM
14

What kind? I’m thinking bout purchasing but so many options these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:35 PM
14

I wonder which face he puts on for dates...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:39 PM
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Same here! My grandmother and I were talking a while ago and she asked if I was seeing anyone, I said no I have better things to do. Then out of nowhere she says, ‘I think if you got married it would be the worst decision of your life.’ I’m the first in my family to graduate college and reach middle class status and to hear that coming from her made literally everything come into perspective. She’s been married since she was 19 years old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:16 PM
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I’m dead serious. If you ever decide to make a post on here about how to be financially responsible and learn how to grow income I think a lot more women might benefit from it than just me! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:30 AM
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I’ll take one on how to be a badass with money. I was never taught anything growing up about money and I just got a huge promotion and raise and would like to level up in this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:29 PM
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I would add ‘The Holiday,’ just for the sole fact of Kate Winslet’s transformation from pickme to Queen in just one scene. It seriously changed my life. Also jack black is so good in it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:31 AM
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‘BuT GuRlz dOnT PoOp!!’ Seriously some men actually think that women don’t shit. Fantastic response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:34 PM
3

We already knew this, they can barely last 5 minutes in bed...and honestly I think we’ve built up our endurance levels running from men in past generations! Mother Nature is trying to help us! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:57 AM
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Most of what I see on OLD when I was still on it was women in ‘open relationships,’ looking to ‘explore’ their sexuality while still being tied to their male partner. In my experience, if a woman is still in the closet about feeling attracted to women, but wants to ‘explore’ my advice would be to not engage. 9/10 it’s a pick me who does have actual sexual feelings for women but is too afraid of exploring on her own, and therefore stays tied to her boyfriend. We all take our time coming out, I su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:37 PM
2

Have he ever killed a woman? How many women has he killed? Please sir don’t kill me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:27 PM
3

How surprising...🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:26 AM
15

Ugh...that throw away username 😒 you can tell a lot about immaturity levels from a quickly thought out throwaway account...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:03 AM
10

Ditto on going down on other women. I don’t know what it is but I also derive pleasure by giving women oral. I don’t think I’ll suck another dick for the rest of my lifetime, and I’m happy about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:54 PM
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Do you like fantasy? The ‘Throne of Glass’ and ‘A Court Of Thorns and Roses’ series by Sarah J Maas are two of my favorite contemporary book series. Both are woman centered and isn’t one sided or makes them perfect women in every way. Would highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:23 PM
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I agree. I have several friends who are men, but we play for the same team (since I’m bi but lean heavily toward women) so that’s the only difference i see. I’m my best guy friends ‘best mate,’ at his wedding this year and I can’t wait to see him marry the love of his life and be there for him. I will say, be aware of any weird compliments straight males ask you or awkward touches. Had to drop a few fella friends because they crossed the boundary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:17 PM
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Glad you reported him. He’s literally asking for it at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:39 PM
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Can we all just acknowledge his username is a abhorrent slander against women...real winner there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:28 PM
19

Boys are like rubber bands; they can stretch and stretch and stretch, but at some point they come snapping back with a bite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:11 PM
11

Life imitates art. And by that I mean it’s also showing young boys who watch these films how to get a woman. Same thing with what porn is doing to males; unrealistic expectations of sex and women. And knowing from personal experience, yes it’s not a conspiracy it’s just not as our in the open talked about. I’ve literally seen male directors change a script and write in a ‘love scene,’ because it adds depth to the story, and not surprisingly only adds character development to the lead male charac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:23 AM
7

Honestly he was murdered by your words. I hope you two are online happy together! Xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:16 AM
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I can almost gag from what I can imagine the smell to be...😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:46 PM
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I would agree one hundred percent to not date or initiate anything with another woman who is in an open relationship with her boyfriend. Learned this one the hard way. In my experience, if a bi woman is in an open relationship with a man it is clearly all for the mans gain. It’s an easy way for him to get three ways, because he has ultimately manipulated his gf into experimenting with the safety that he will be there in the room. This is still a woman seeking validation in the bedroom. And don’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:19 PM
2

Ew, the ‘birds and the bees’ emoji reference...smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:07 AM
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My EX boyfriend went down on me for literally 3 seconds and then out loud said, ‘yeah I’m fucking over this.’ After the initial shock I promptly said the same thing back and ended the relationship right then and there. The fucking audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:03 PM
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The entire ask reddit sub is literally just full of questions about sex, porn, and dicks. I literally do not get the fascination men have with their genitalia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 03:51 PM
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First of all, stop calling yourself pathetic. Right now. You’re not pathetic. Block him, delete him, forget him. One day at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:02 AM
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