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5

He wants unconditional love.
/r/askFDS27/07/21 01:16 AM
16

This made me laugh so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:18 PM
59

Yes you’re so right. This is the reason so many men don’t begin foreplay with flirting, dinner, then kissing on the pier, etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:27 PM
134

The moment women and men were no longer acting human on screen was the moment that the eroticism stopped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:32 AM
27

This is the best advice. Do not shy away from “gossip.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 07:17 AM
10

The mental gymnastics of the guy describing being rejected by a female friend, my god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:37 PM
4

He contacted me to say he realized that he had made reservations for the wrong night and asked if I was alright with him making reservations for another place instead. I said yes and the date was very nice. He was a total gentleman.
/r/askFDS11/07/21 07:50 AM
23

Unfortunately yes. He is getting too comfortable and making you do more work. If he wanted to come to you, then he would find a way. You should keep the app but never force conversation with anyone. The men should be trying to keep up the conversation with you! Wishing you the best in the future. (You don’t have to be this guy’s cheerleader. You have put in so much effort for him. You deserve better.)
/r/askFDS06/07/21 12:47 AM
13

Thank you
/r/askFDS06/07/21 12:40 AM
17

That sounds terrible. I’m sorry you had to go through that. What a useless man.
/r/askFDS06/07/21 12:40 AM
15

We planned the date last week (I was busy over the weekend). He asked me out and proposed the location, but it occurred to me that I should google it to make sure it was open.
/r/askFDS06/07/21 12:38 AM
39

It sounds like you’re being used as a rebound. Your job is NOT to “help him heal.” That is his therapist’s job. But I don’t like hearing that he talks about her often. You have a relationship with him, not a relationship with him and his ex. You need to draw a boundary NOW. Tell him you want him to be present in your relationship. His intense feelings about his ex show that he is not ready for a relationship with you. FDS says to kick him to the curb. However, because this is askFDS I know that …
/r/askFDS05/07/21 08:54 PM
3

A man who raped several women said this to me once. He joined a feminist org I founded. I later found out that he had coerced multiple friends of mine. And he pretended he didn’t know what caused “the darkness.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:06 PM
9

Been meaning to make a post about Chris Watts. This guys was such a monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:03 PM
38

I watched my fair share of Turkish soaps to learn the language and it’s exactly as you describe. Wonderful and understanding men and also men that have no chill and behave like spoiled children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:15 PM
27

The harem were not allowed to leave palace grounds. If that’s not slavery then I don’t know what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:45 PM
1

Does anyone even enjoy being jackhammered?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:08 AM
2

I’m not interested in them, but tell me why!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:54 AM
8

I thought a man had gotten in here to correct your spelling before I noticed it was just you 😂. No need to criticize yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:52 PM
126

I was walking with a small group of women once and we were shot with BB guns for not paying attention to the men in the car that was following us. One hit my friend just above her eye. You can’t even feel safe walking in broad daylight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:36 PM
49

WOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:41 PM
76

Reading the text this man thinks he’s training her to be the perfect Mormon wife, though he doesn’t seem very modest himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:52 PM
38

This seems to be assuming that they only work 8hr/day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:37 PM
11

I would really appreciate it if there are any medical professionals here that can speak as to whether she will be ok if she decides NOT to seek medical help in order to protect her rapist or save herself the embarrassment. I’m figuring that the mucus is puss from an infection and that the feces is from a tear. I’m really worried and scared for her (I can’t believe I’m distinguishing between the mental and physical health because I hate that often people focus on the physical and don’t pay any mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:26 PM
14

TMI as someone with IBS I’ve taken a lot of shits that caused pain and bleeding, often while I am gagging presumably from the discomfort. I wouldn’t wish that on ANYONE (except for men like him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:47 PM
84

What’s her handle? I want to follow her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:31 PM
33

Lol he thought he got you there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:32 PM
8

I’m sorry to hear you went through this. I think it could be a really good thing if you were to write a post about the tactics your abuser experienced for other young women here to read, but of course I understand if that’s too difficult. Be kind to yourself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:13 PM
17

I’m not a native speaker but could possibly help out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:27 PM
28

I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t have this reaction carrying someone else’s baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:57 AM
2

Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:32 AM
23

Wow, this guy was something. Next time, do not tell them that you were with someone who was abusive. They see this as a sign that they can get away with abusing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:18 AM
4

There was a brilliant anti-pornography book that was actually written by a man that changed me. I don’t remember his name, but he used to teach at a university in Texas and I remember reading a paper of his online in which he checked out the top grossing porn flicks from Blockbuster and noted that every single film showed women in pain. His question in the end was, are men ignoring their pain or are they getting off to it? This was written before porn became so proudly violent in the mainstream.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:50 PM
6

I’ve never been into guys who like him actually. I never made that connection. I do know women that listen to his podcast though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:45 PM
3

I don’t know anything about Joe Rohan because apparently I live under a rock. What kind of stuff does he say about women? I only saw one clip of him on here where he was arguing with a woman who denied that porn addiction is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 06:38 PM
77

Oh I’m sooo sorry that having a child affected your body like that! Poor man has no control over how all this stress affects him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:51 AM
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Brain fog is something that most of the public won’t take seriously. It’s serious. It affects everything. I’m sorry about this and about your pain. I hope that you are being taken seriously by your doctor. If not, then don’t be afraid to change doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:48 AM
26

That is horrifying. I have a connective tissue disorder and I would be at high risk of this happening. I will never give birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:47 AM
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I am afraid too. The risk does not seem to be worth the so-called reward. I’m sorry to hear that your mother suffered so much. That must have been very hard on both of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:45 AM
28

How disgusting of your doctor to dismiss you like that. Mental health is still health. Shame on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:44 AM
21

Thank you for writing this. It helps my dysfunctional parents better. After a childhood encompassed by abuse, now at 31 with each of them going weeks without contacting me and not liking to hear about my life, they seem to have these sudden and intense worries about my safety in which they need me to respond immediately. It never made sense to me because I don’t feel love from either of them, they have a lot of limitations, but it must be a biological thing. It’s the only time that I can see my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:42 AM
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I ran away to my dad’s when I turned 16. I refused to go back to my mom’s house. I refused to testify at their custody battles. They told me police were going to take me out of my calculus class at the junior college to make me testify. I said ok, let them. The cops never came and no one forced me to go back to my mother 😂. I can’t guarantee that the cops will also leave your daughter alone, but they probably believe that they have better things to be doing with their time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:47 PM
15

This is so confusing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:46 PM
24

I want to ask for a link but I also don’t want to ask for a link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:11 PM
98

He misses the sex with his wife more than anything and is just feeling sorry for himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:26 PM
11

Everything about this, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:40 PM
13

The actors on tv were literally consenting though. I once asked a male friend who enjoyed porn how he reconciled with the fact that just logically it doesn’t seem empowering for women at all, it’s just not a job that a healthy person could want. I said it with as little judgment as I could. He said that he listens to all the sex positive women who say that they love participating in sex work and that he feels wrong to invalidate their experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:07 PM
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I took a communications class on porn and society in college. It’s been demonstrated that serial rapists watch rape porn just before they commit the act. Why do we allow this in society? The Canadian prof said that his research was being used by politicians to try to change laws around porn in Canada, but that there was tremendous backlash, interestingly from LGBT groups calling it homophobic because it was a common thing to be featured in lesbian porn. My guess is that this was at the beginning…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:12 PM
5

What made you decide to disengage from your kinks? I was also exposed to porn very young but I didn’t like it. It broke my heart that my dad wasn’t watching naked videos of my mom (this is long before I knew anything about sexuality—it was just an instinctual feeling). I later tried to get into it because I knew that that’s what other 16yo guys wanted. I tried to act like women did in porn when I was raped so that it would be over faster. I regret so much that I did that. I did everything I coul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:05 PM
16

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:42 PM
35

Yes yes yes. Or if it’s my house then I tell him to leave. I once told an angry guy that if he didn’t leave then I would scream and the neighbors would come. He was stunned for a moment but then he got out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:02 AM
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When they get like this in person, I calmly tell them that if they don’t stop yelling then I’m going to walk away. Then I calmly walk away and don’t look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:41 PM
3

My closest female friend in my city. She had leveled up after her fiancé left her. I didn’t think she would sink back into this and now I harbor resentment towards her. She still calls me to talk about him because I knew him for a few years before I introduced them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:08 PM
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I don’t know if I saw this comment before from you or from someone else bc this seems to be a regular occurrence. It just makes me rage. My friend had 2 days left with her boyfriend before he moved back to his home country. My boyfriend had just dumped me in the middle of the night because I found out he was cheating and I had nowhere to go because I was in between apartments for that week and staying with him. I went to hers and called her at 4am. She immediately packed up her things from her b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:49 PM
4

These faux feminist mindsets are toxic. If you wanted to be in a relationship with her and her boyfriend then you would have invited him to join on a regular basis. It’s not that subtle; why don’t people understand this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:45 PM
8

Wished you lived in my city! Where all the strong women at!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:44 PM
57

This happened to me a week ago. She showed me the texts between her and the guy in which he negged her (called her a 7), asked her if she was free, and she responded yes. When she could tell I was upset, she asked me what she should do. I wasn’t about to make her hang out with me so I told her to do what she wanted. Then she asked me what would be best for her situationship and I told her to just do what she wanted. I’ve had enough talk of his favorite bras and panties of hers, how much he likes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:42 PM
1

Would love to be a specialist :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:42 AM
33

I paid for a background check service for the past few months due to a stalker situation. I have unlimited searches. I don’t know if this is against the rules, but as long as I don’t get more requests than I can keep up with, I am happy to search someone and let you know if there is criminal history. I recently found out that an acquaintance was dating a rapist and swiftly sent her the report.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:18 PM
4

How long did he wait to say I love you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:08 PM
9

I’m shocked, wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:14 PM
35

This is so accurate it hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:03 PM
8

What happened to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:21 PM
1

He hates her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:20 PM
1

The child is the puppy. The parent is the adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:55 AM
46

Cuddle to them = sex. Block the cuddle bois.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:49 AM
27

Examples of the difference between equality and equity in the lives of women and men in hetero relationships: A couple is having sex. He goes down on her for 10 minutes and they have sex for 10 minutes. Is this equal? Yes. Equitable? No, because only he got to orgasm. The man in the couple is annoyed that whenever his partner wants sex, she can get it from him, but whenever he wants sex, he can be denied by her. Is this equal? No. Equitable? Yes, because this helps to ensure that no one is coerc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:59 PM
45

I want to see part 2! What is her handle?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:17 AM
21

They did nothing when I was being stalked and my home was being broken into. They did nothing when I reported my rape. They’re ain’t shit but a state-sponsored gang that only looks out for their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:08 AM
6

This is so true. I like to let every Man I date know that I have a couple very close girl friends. I hope that he will know that I will be getting some opinionated feedback if he ever hurts me. Not sure if these guys actually think that far ahead though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:06 AM
25

Wow, what a roller coaster. I’m so glad that you’re out. These things can happen to us without warning. My first FDS relationship was like this. He became my anonymous stalker and used the situation to make me stay with him to protect my safety. Block him. You didn’t deserve it. He love-bombed you. Now I check in with my therapist every week about the health of my relationships. Wishing you the best. Pm me if you ever need to talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:17 AM
2

Is this true for head hair as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:20 AM
2

Oh no, what did he do in the funeral pic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:13 AM
3

This is valuable information, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 09:07 PM
19

How about several?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 08:59 PM
1

Please DM me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:16 PM
13

Lost it right here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:49 PM
16

Be sure to take care of your own needs while you are pursuing your degree! I am in grad school too and I often push my needs aside in order to finish my work. I think every grad student needs a therapist and it’s amazing that you are going to become one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:37 PM
37

I don’t blame you for having the affair. It sounds like your husband didn’t care about your needs (I am sure that you brought them up with him on numerous occasions)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 08:35 PM
3

I’m confused by this. What is going on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:58 PM
4

After finishing, he soulfully looks into your eyes and voices a husky, “Hey.” WHY DO THEY DO THIS! How do they want us to respond to that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:35 PM
1

I thought this too 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:34 PM
21

This guy got massages on top of all the shit he made her deal with alone?? He still got sex when he wanted it?? Helllll no Good for her for leaving his dead weight! #kickhimout2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:17 PM
23

This happened constantly in Breaking Bad and everyone hated Skylar for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:12 AM
4

I’ve wanted to go there forever! I spent some time around old Turkish women and it really was the same sort of vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:54 AM
19

I loved that chair. I want to rescue it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:34 AM
5

He is likely looking for someone younger than you. I think you should put your age a couple years lower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:31 AM
3

Wow, can you share your penisbread recipe? It’s gluten free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:05 AM
2

Me too please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 11:57 PM
10

Also confused. What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:34 PM
5

What is the censored word? Sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:20 AM
1

Wants dry sex? What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:26 AM
3

This cracked me up, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:04 PM
19

I think you misunderstood—this was manipulated into a romantic comedy trailer but the movie is anything but
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:56 PM
2

I see hinge profiles where guys purposefully block the algorithm from catching that they are leaving the prompts empty. What’s the point of this? And then they message me and expect to have a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:37 PM
15

What app was this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:46 AM
19

Midsommar is a good breakup film!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:32 AM
2

No but now I want to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:11 PM
17

That boyfriend is terrible!! And the stepbrother, to think that they actually translate porn into their real lives to THAT extent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:16 PM
2

Demi sexuals are attracted to close emotional bonds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:27 PM
8

I hope she took the information to someone who could protect her or show it to the cops. I feel so sorry for her and I’m glad she survived.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:13 PM
3

I read that there are ways to prevent this from happening but it means that they have to either wipe, not have the waistband at the base of the dick when you pee, or press on the perineum. I’ve hounded every boyfriend to do these things so that his underwear doesn’t smell of piss...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:02 PM
27

They let it drip into their underwear instead shudders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:55 PM
33

I have had men give me the same excuse. Even when I’m camping I change my underwear daily or sometimes twice daily. I don’t see how even just sweat and sitting in the same clothes doesn’t feel gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:29 PM
36

And doing what you tell them not to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 07:44 PM
5

Do they think it will work? Are they just trying to blow off steam? What is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:08 AM
30

Wow, a pedophile? How did he admit this to you??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:20 PM
1

I haven’t listened to his podcast but everyone I know loves it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:58 PM
10

Lol this isn’t a bad response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:57 PM
25

Also illegal in my state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:31 PM
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Over half of his photos are of him holding a young baby, without the face blurred out, and he is unkempt af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:11 PM
5

What does the last one mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:43 PM
40

Now I’m completely disgusted by Joe Rogan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:42 PM
23

What is her handle? I want to follow her but I can’t read it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:09 AM
4

Yeet the girl. Much of what you wrote I was expecting, but when you said that she doesn’t take your autoimmune disorder seriously...FUCK her. Really, how can she be SO self-absorbed? You deserve so much better in a friend. Medical matters matter so much. And I am surprised that she managed to combine alllll of these bad traits into one person. I could write so much more about your other bullet points. Know that you did the right thing. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:12 PM
6

I use Hinge so that I don’t have to swipe. That way they come to you. But no one seems to be attractive except for the men who are poly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:26 PM
2

This just went to my soul. Yes every time. One even broke up with me on my birthday so that he didn’t have to come up with anything to do for it. Expected me to try and get him back afterwards. Ha HA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:03 AM
4

“Sorry I can be kind of playful sometimes.” This is so real. I don’t even know how to describe this very interaction but it makes me cringe everytime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:42 AM
3

I actually think that the friend who warned you about his stinginess would be receptive to hearing about how stingy he was in your relationship. Did you ever talk about his stinginess with this person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:33 AM
3

How tiny was it? I’m guessing that he was not the best in bed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:32 AM
3

What is a feve?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:21 AM
1

Nothing good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:15 AM
45

“He looks like he can lick good clit.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:34 PM
6

Happy birthday though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:46 AM
2

You can transfer to a different program if need be. I know I have thought about it many times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:50 PM
15

Hm, I’ve never been in her position so I can’t say how she would feel. I would hope that she would see the other woman as a reminder of the beginning of a better life. But then again, maybe it’s too difficult to detach from a relationship like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:46 PM
26

I want to believe that female friendships resulted from these things. Was that the case for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:42 PM
25

Me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:10 PM
6

Listen to Lundy Bancroft audiobooks while doing puzzles really helped me organize my thoughts into a healthy pattern. Why Does He Do That saved me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:54 PM
21

EW eweweeew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:34 PM
5

He began to anonymously stalk me after I broke up with him and told me that I should stay with him to keep myself safe from the stalker. I did for some time but he never ceased being a complete fuckhead so after the day he told me “I actually don’t think he was a stalker. I think he was just a guy who wanted to communicate with you,” I never spoke to him again. I didn’t block him however, because I need to know any possible warning signs that he might come and do something violent to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:31 PM
10

The bf I met on OLD shortly before lockdown starts having some kind of mental breakdown shortly after lockdown begins. I ask him to take me out and he says there are no dates to go on during covid. So I asked him to take me on a picnic. I show up to his house and ask about the food bag, wondering if I can put my jacket in there because it’s sunny but also cold. He tells me that we’re not using a bag, so I should just use my purse. Well my jacket doesn’t fit there so I just leave it behind. He ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:47 AM
9

YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:49 PM
9

I also grew up in a situation similar to yours but with just one man. He of course cheated on her and broke up with her, but began to come over often when he found out that I was staying with her (which I was doing because I have a stalker in my hometown who I think is dangerous). She taught me horrible values when it comes to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:03 PM
26

You win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 05:43 AM
70

LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:31 AM
15

I have one friend who was in a frat who is 100% HVM. I didn’t want to talk to him when I met him and learned that he was in a frat. Our social circles mixed though and he’s just a great person! He doesn’t participate in hookup culture. Though I still wouldn’t want to give another man a minute of my day if I knew he was in a frat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 08:14 AM
2

I just imagined seeing this in the opening credits for the Simpsons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 07:45 AM
3

This really only works with carpet, for those who are interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:52 AM
10

My bug finder arrived in the mail yesterday but the instructions are in Chinese. I am going to figure out how to use it tonight (I know that you have to flip the breakers to cut electricity before you do it). I brought my car to the mechanic and asked him to search for tracking devices. He said he didn’t see any but there could be some behind the radio or in the door panel. You’re supposed to drive your car to a place without electricity nearby to check it for bugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:35 AM
3

It’s called a bug finder, they have them on Amazon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:32 AM
5

Read this in Lundy Banckroft!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:46 AM
5

My stalker broke in and stole my dildo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:01 AM
2

I actually don’t swipe right for that either, partly because I feel too young to be involved with someone who has children, partly because it seems needlessly hostile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:54 PM
1

Life has put me in a spot where one of my closest friend is a guy. People always though he and I were dating, which I didn’t understand. I recently found out that he wanted to be dating me at the time. Apparently those people saw something I didn’t. No boyfriend of mine has ever let on to feeling threatened by my guy friend though. I think because I don’t flaunt our friendship like somebody would if they were in love with their friend? Or maybe because he’s not muscly or clean-shaven, so he does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:48 PM
14

I want to add that a video doorbell can be bypassed with a WiFi jammer because they typically have no local storage. If the camera can’t connect to the internet then it can’t send the footage to the server.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:59 PM
26

The long version deserves its own post but in “short:” a note and some gifts showed up at my door. Then another note (which I can’t find right now). Then some texts. I looked up the phone number and it belonged to a maintenance worker for my building who had left in 2016 but had since been charged with human trafficking, violating parole, carrying illegal ammunition, etc. The stalker was pretending to be someone who lived in my apartment complex though, and he gave me a fake name that happened t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:47 PM
32

Don’t throw it away because you may need it again. This really rustled my jimmies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:10 PM
40

PM me his full name (if you have it) and city and I’ll do a background check through public records. I’m worried for your safety. I went through something very similar to this and he became my stalker and is still breaking into my apartment. You can never be too cautious. I’m following you if that’s ok—I want to know that you’re safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:04 PM
8

I am paying for a background check website for the next few months. If anyone would like me to send a report, PM me and I’ll look someone up for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:01 PM
3

I feel very sorry for girls today. It was terrible when I was a child and it’s even worse today. I appreciated that the documentary made the point that dates don’t exist—only sex as an audition for a relationship. How disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:11 PM
1

I hope you quoted Mean Girls in that too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:07 PM
32

Body positivity was supposed to be about accepting people with handicaps, disabilities, deformities, etc. Then it was co-opted. As a disabled person I despise this movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:57 AM
12

Thanks so much for posting this. I resonate with it because I grew up right when kids were getting their own phones. Texting didn’t exist until high school, but even then it cost extra money. iPhones changed everything when I was 16, but I didn’t want one because it was consumerist, materialistic. Smart phones cost so much money that our parents wouldn’t have been able to pay for the data. Those were different times. Now my students are in a GroupMe that I babysit so that they don’t exchange any…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 09:30 PM
9

If you’re lucky, he may invite you to his bed without a frame or sheets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:42 PM
4

Ok I don’t know anything about fetlife, but that sounds so crazy that it makes me wonder if any of these are fake profiles made by abusive exes. Is the world really this terrible?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:22 PM
19

Lol at trying to shove in a softy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:07 PM
16

Who is twisting nipples! Somebody arrest this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:05 PM
4

I hope someone reported him to Harvard’s title ix office with this photo attached
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:58 PM
3

Oh god I’ve written resumes and cover letters for boyfriends in my pickme days (because I was sick of always paying for them!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:40 PM
4

Omg I did not know that there was an overlap between r/curlyhair and FDS beyond only me. That sub makes me so proud of my looks because I did it myself, with my own research, to find out what feels the best, even to the touch. So proud of my curly locks now! And if any of you ladies want curly or wavy hair advice, I’m your girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:23 PM
7

Wishing you the best 🐙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:26 AM
14

Lost it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:25 AM
1

Like skid marks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:20 AM
6

I don’t like that she is increasing the risk of exposing her kids to covid as well. Because you can’t expect someone like him to be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:09 PM
30

On top of pregnancy, STIs, and social stigma, she was also risking catching covid, all for a man that lied about where he would take her. Notice he also said nothing about, you know, getting her off. “She seemed really into it.” No, she was waiting for you to finish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:04 PM
8

🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:09 PM
7

This is even more sinister than it sounds. He is going to stalk her YouTube account and then he will stalk her in real life. But he won’t show her that he is the stalker, rather, it will be his way of punishing her for going against his word. “The stalker” will put her in physical danger and she’ll be forced to leave her apartment and move in with him because he’ll “keep [her] safe from the stalker.” He will use psychological tactics to scare her more, and he will become more and more manipulati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:19 AM
12

The last bullet really hit me. So many boyfriends in the past thought that their work was more important than mine when we were both in PhD programs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:27 PM
3

I see your point. Maybe it’s a sensitivity of mine from having had a handful of anorexic friends that were triggered by those kinds of outlandish comments. I hated seeing them not eat. All because of assholes like that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:22 PM
19

Nowhere in the article do they mention that SHE’S NOT EVEN FAT. Not that it should make a difference in whether or not she should be abused, but it shows the amount of discrimination that happens on these platforms. For them, a fat woman is “only a fuck.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:42 AM
15

Can there be a sub for women who love Midsommar AND practice FDS? Another thing—SO creepy when Pelle said “Do you feel held by him?” There was an interesting split amongst pickmes who loved that line and other women that found it disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:14 AM
27

He wanted to keep you around as a backup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:43 PM
80

This is my favorite movie. I have my theory about it so spoiler alert: Christian’s Swedish friend killed her family so that she had no one else to celebrate her birthday with and would come to Sweden. It would also bring her closer to him because of the whole “orphan” thing and then of course he can replace her family with a cult. There is an amazing deleted scene if you watch the director’s cut: an argument between Dani and Christian. Their relationship is SO realistic. I watched the movie with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:28 PM
2

I think it’s whisper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:16 PM
17

Getting out of the house makes such a big difference in the quality of men you encounter. In the meantime it’s good to invest in yourself and put off dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:49 PM
48

“You should be honored by my lateness” lol good luck with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:32 PM
4

Lolled at Dr. Ramani, I have been there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:15 AM
2

I live near the beach and they are always asking to go for walks on the beach. What do I reply to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:54 AM
8

What was the camp?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:43 AM
10

Lol! Little do they know it’s often the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:33 AM
8

Wow. I have a similar illness but that IS my biggest insecurity. Most people don’t know what to say when they find out so I downplay it and they downplay it more and I start to feel awful about it. How did you get to the place where you are now? (I’ve had mine for 24 years—-I’m 31 now, so time doesn’t seem to have been quite enough for me)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:29 AM
6

👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:19 AM
3

Watched this in March and I still think about it every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:47 AM
3

Shana Tovah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:43 AM
4

What is it with these lost bois? Why are they so lost?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:42 AM
1

I too love plants! Beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:50 AM
10

Shana Tovah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:45 AM
1

I love it! Some of the best music has come from “untrained” musicians! My favorite music at least :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:01 AM
3

Harp! I know what you mean, they are very hard on students in music school. You’re probably healthier for having left >.<. I’m now doing a degree in ethnomusicology so I’m specializing in a middle eastern guitar-like instrument called the oud. What do you play??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:59 AM
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I heard things like this in my house too. Now I have a bachelors and masters in music, working on my PhD. I still have a complex about it too, a very intense fear of being perceived as terribly untalented or a total fraud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:18 PM
2

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:11 AM
1

Due to Reddit’s overwhelming support for the idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:10 AM
8

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:16 AM
38

You can guess how the comments were. Out of 117 I only saw one that was suspicious that he would cheat again. Probably he’s there because he lost his job or wanted a woman to take care of him as he got older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:19 PM
20

Cold approaches when the air quality index is 250 out of 300 while in the state with the highest number of covid cases in the nation? That’s a new level that I hadn’t even considered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:56 AM
17

Similar story to the gyno at the student health center at UCLA. My friend was a victim of his. I will NEVER trust a man down there and I feel like the women who do are trying to prove to themselves that their apprehension (read: gut) is just them overreacting or being sexist. Never make yourself a guinea pig just to prove to yourself that you aren’t sexist. If we had a manual for teenagers and young women, I would demand that this be included in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:32 AM
13

I’m interested, why no long vacations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:23 AM
3

Is that true?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:18 AM
3

And on top of this he assumes that you don’t like the way you currently look?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:52 AM
18

Was at my favorite brewery on my birthday waiting in line with a friend. The guy behind us asks us something and we get into conversation. He then asks if we’re a couple. We said no and he said oh he was excited when he thought we were lesbians, then he turned beet red, apologized, and bought our beers. I have no idea what happened there, maybe he punished himself? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:50 AM
2

Actually it’s usually been the guy who calls it boring! There’s a lot on my profile to ask me about...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:05 PM
2

When she finally does come home, he’ll accuse her of judging him, complain that he couldn’t relax all evening because of her, and he’ll probably cry about it. He’ll also tell her he’s never had the urge to do this before and it’s the first time this ever happened. Girl is probably leaving out that he was watching his favorite porn star rapist Ron Jeremey do the same on the screen across from him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:47 PM
3

I’d had them do this and then comment on how boring the conversation was. Now I don’t even respond with a “hi” anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:13 PM
12

Let’s just say I’m pro scallion and leave it at that ;). Are you huevos and whiskey?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:41 AM
21

I agree with you on the tulips, I just hate when people say potatoes. How about orchids or comfy chairs that don’t have arms on them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:51 PM
4

Or the MIL trying to murder the DIL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:19 PM
2

Is pretending you didn’t receive messages some kind of tactic? I’ve never heard of this before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:20 PM
2

Your brain in playing a biological trick on you because it is hardwired to keep this connection so that your children will have the protection of a father. Luckily you have no children together yay (and not that they would need a father in today’s day and age anyway)! Just suddenly stop talking to him. No explanation. Take back your power, and after a few weeks of doing this, you’ll see him as the degenerate loser that he is. Level up lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:08 PM
2

What is his name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:51 PM
14

Definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 06:21 AM
25

This still made me rage inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:39 PM
42

But why are we painting the woman on the left as empowered? She is also going through abuse as her job (if anyone trusts men who pay for sex then we’re gonna need a bigger boat). How much of this is really her choice? Are we going to pretend that if we lived in a society in which everyone was paid a comfortable living wage that women would still be putting themselves in danger? This is some ignoramous Girl Scout feminism to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:37 PM
3

Don’t tell him what he did wrong because that leaves him room to negotiate. Truer words have never been written. He knows. He just doesn’t care. Ghost him back hardcore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:22 PM
1

I would like there to be an area where we can collaborate to make a handbook for preteen and teenage girls, even if it doesn’t have FDS in large letters in its title. There is too much terrible dating advice for girls out there today and I think that what I read in Seventeen magazine encouraged me to get on this life’s path. Let’s publish something that can be sold in trade paperback.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:43 PM
1

I am worried that it has taken the username from my email that everyone knows! Is there a way to change this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:40 PM
10

He took every word that you wrote to him as an invitation to continue talking at you. I can’t believe you had the patience to read this all and also respond! I’m so sorry you went through that. He writes that it’s difficult to negotiate consent. Excuse me? No it’s not. It’s not at all. He cares 0% about you which is why he continued to be pushy. This man is so so dangerous. You don’t owe these men any responses. It will not teach them because they don’t care about you in the first place. Edit: Y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:26 PM
8

I had an ex accuse his ex of stealing $30k from him. When I asked further, he told me that $30k was the sum of all the money he decided to spend on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:32 PM
4

Exactly! It wasn’t a nap. And he could have sent off a quick text to say he was spending the day with his family. This guy was on an in-person date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:28 AM
10

This is wonderful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:22 AM
12

I’m not Asian, but I noticed that in Korean music videos, the men are very emotional. They’re emotionally available for the women they date. This is seen as a masculine trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:42 PM
17

SO MANY women are depressed after giving birth. But they don’t leave their children and their husbands to turn partying into a lifestyle. So LV. I feel sorry for the children and the husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:06 PM
3

Greetings from LA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:03 AM
1

Lol!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:01 PM
13

This excuse about it only being a girlfriend activity is something I’ve heard before. I think it’s to make you continue pleasuring him in hopes of becoming his girlfriend someday even though he never actually entertained that possibility. Though the idea of trying to become someone’s girlfriend just so they’ll eat you out is really only something that a man would think to do so it’s doubly ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:06 PM
2

I don’t think you should be embarrassed at all. He should! I know we’re don’t know each other but I’m very proud of you anyway. That must have taken an unbelievable amount of courage and strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:05 AM
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Oh my god I am so sorry! You didn’t deserve any of that. The miscarriage idea was so smart. I will always think of your story in the future if I allow another man to get close to me. May I ask how many months it took for him to show his real self?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:10 AM
7

At this point the only problem he must have with his current situation is that she isn’t drugged and is consenting. Rat him out for possession of child pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:04 AM
6

Report him for holding onto child porn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:02 AM
8

QUEEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:51 AM
10

“She caught me sexting an ex and so I hid your number until she dumped me. Anyway, wanna drive over and blow me? Btw I have a new car for you to pay for.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:44 AM
3

Oh no, he got you pregnant without telling you??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:23 AM
8

Why do they do this, what are they thinking really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:16 AM
24

Who else here has had relatives hit on them? I know I have and they certainly weren’t female!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 11:05 PM
56

Right, he was making the mature decision by getting married to a woman, agreeing to have a child, grooming a 16 year old, leaving his wife at the last minute so the child won’t have a father, and then being upset when the 16yo doesn’t want to be in a sexual or romantic relationship with someone her father’s age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:24 AM
7

I think women look great in sweatpants! It’s men, when they’re formless and they have the dick print!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:37 AM
4

This is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:35 PM
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What is this thing with the gray sweatpants? I’ve seen women on reddit saying that they love them. When I’ve seen men in gray sweatpants they’re usually not even bothering to wear underwear and it shows 🤢 Also sometimes there is swampass. I just can’t 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:32 PM
21

Yes but I mean that because he convinced that many women to sleep with him despite his marriage with you! I also have an autoimmune disorder and I know how hard it can be sometimes. Any man who neglects you because of this isn’t worth a minute of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:57 AM
1

What is the pill you use?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:43 AM
27

Wow, I’m so sorry that happened to you. He must be very manipulative to have slept with so many people that you interact with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:37 AM
1

I play the harp. It’s a big instrument. Oftentimes men would see me struggling to hold a door open for myself and do nothing to help. It changed somewhat when I lost weight, but I really don’t like that that was likely the reason. The men tend to be older or they do it so they can strike up a conversation with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:26 AM
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I really feel for mothers who are in this position. I know that when I was in grade school, the boys would go to the friend’s house where no parents were home and then take turns watching porn on the family computer. And once color phones became a thing, I stopped finding playboys hidden in the playgrounds because every guy had videos on his phone instead. You can tell a young man to make good decisions and explain exactly why his decisions are bad, but this stuff is just too addictive for a chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:24 PM
1

He’s trying to make the argument that if you just had had sex with him, then it would have fixed all the other problems in your relationship. So why give up the relationship so easily without even attempting sex? In his mind you owe it to him to try to fix the relationship in every way possible. So all you need to do is let him plow you for as long as it takes for you to enjoy it and then your relationship will be saved. Clearly it’s your fault that the relationship didn’t work out...I wouldn’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:29 PM
15

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:52 PM
2

If he wanted to make you his girlfriend, then he would have done that. Instead he’s trying to control what shoes you wear and make you drive him around! Plus he says racist shit?! Girl you deserve to be with someone who would never even think these things, let alone say them out loud. I get the whole thing about not being attracted to your guy friends. But here’s the thing—your don’t have to date them either! Focus on your mental health and on making your baby’s life the best it can be. The last…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:15 PM
25

I’m no expert here, but my guess is she wants a reaction from you so show can think of herself as better than you in some way. My mother used to tell me “kill them with kindness,” as in, refuse to let it affect you. Harness that queen energy ❤️ I know that my response is very generic—-If you give an example of a typical situation she might put you in, then maybe we can help better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:20 AM
11

Love this sub ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:03 AM
31

That is terrifying. I am also hiding from a stalker ex and the cops have taken reports but done little else. I haven’t been home in two months and the detective told me he’s sure I’ll be fine after the ex broke into my apartment while I was sleeping months after I broke up with him (only a 3-month relationship). I’m so sick of cops allowing men to murder women when they have every probable cause they need to stop the guy. Few living women have trusted the police to keep them safe in situations l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:56 AM
6

He tries to negotiate your future this early on? Hella red flags girl, you made the right decision! But he will be back, best to block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:28 AM
3

He was very cheap and didn’t want his money spent on them to go to waste so he sent the socks to me because at least I could wear them. I didn’t wear them, not only because they had lost all elasticity... I’m sure you can imagine my disappointment when I found a package from Japan on my doorstep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:32 AM
23

I actually think that him telling you about the other women was a shit test. He wanted to see you become disappointed and then negotiate your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:30 PM
19

Had a boyfriend who I found out, after two years of us living together, didn’t wash his hands and proceeded to touch everything else in the apartment, including me, afterwards. Bonus: before we were living together he once mailed me his socks that were too small for him. Later when we tried Skype sex (was a pickme...), he put the sock on the end of his dick in anticipation of, I can’t even say it because the memory is so disgusting. When I asked him wtf he was doing, he claimed that he definitel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:00 PM
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Do you hear that? That’s the sound of this entire sub breathing a sigh of relief. Good for you, and now you’ve got a vacation out of it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:06 PM
1

I lived the same situation as you and I promise you that when you feel entirely safe with the man, including emotionally, and you aren’t pressuring yourself to do anything, he will fit inside you. But you have to give it the time you need to be completely comfortable on your own. Never have sex as a favor or as a way to keep someone around. There is a reason that they won’t fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:04 AM
8

It makes me wonder if he just smells like stinky feet all the time. Poor OP has probably bought him all kinds of de-odorizers for his shoes and powders for his feet and he probably refuses to use them at all because he thinks she’s being too controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:44 AM
10

I think the above comment meant for “she was ALSO drunk” to add to the victimization of OP, because she did what he told her to do while she was in a state in which she couldn’t consent. You’re in agreement but not on the same page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:51 PM
29

He actually makes it sound like he doesn’t really consider her a friend either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:38 PM
17

3 days of trying to blame you and you have gone no contact for 5 Sorry for being mean. -In what way? I don’t know, for being selfish. -How? I don’t know I just am. -Do you know what you did wrong? Look I said I’m sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:10 PM
7

Upvoted for you’re. So tru
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:07 PM
15

YES! “I’m a good boyfriend. You have to realize that you are way too sensitive.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:06 PM
8

Do it do it doitdoitdoitdoit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:32 PM
5

I’m confused by this meme. How are they not the same man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:40 AM
2

Or someone else’s body on your head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:31 PM
6

This disgusts me even more because he does this during covid. He blatantly doesn’t care whether or not he gives you a deadly virus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:33 PM
2

I play the oud for belly dancers! So cool. Tell them on your profile that you love dance or Middle Eastern music and when they ask about it, you can use the moment to test their maturity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:15 PM
2

His profile is about his dog and he talks about being a dog dad looking a mom for his dog 🤢 Wears hats in every photo 👎 All of his photos are from the same shoot 🤦🏻‍♀️ Shows right off the bat that he hasn’t read my profile 🙅🏻‍♀️ Wants to know if I’m dating anyone else 💩 Thinks that the virus is over exaggerated 🤡 Brings up porn as if it’s given that everyone watches it 🐍 Spells my name wrong (it’s right there!) 🥊 Wants a LV date 🙉 Mansplains 🃏 Anime or video games listed as his hobbies 🥾 No effo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:08 PM
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