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It’s always about HIS “legacy” and never hers.. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:08 AM
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FDS Women: “okay.” chooses better men These Men: “No not like that!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:56 PM
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Personally I've been in age gap relationships before, and now wouldn't go higher than a few years older or younger if I was in the dating field again. A big part of it was that I was pretty young when I was dating around, and when I finally reached the age that those men were I realized how inappropriate it was and how people that age are like kids to me now, it really shook me. Of course as you get much older the range spreads out a bit, but when you're young you don't realize how much those ye…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 11:02 PM
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When they say “support sex workers” they actually mean “support the good ones who act like they love being abused.” To them, sex workers who talk about their negative experiences with it aren’t real feminists and that was a hard lesson for me to learn; My opinion about it didn’t matter unless I was loving it. Which is the same way of thinking the men using me had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 02:10 PM
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Even if you’re a former sex worker you can’t say your real opinion on sex work if it’s negative. You can probably guess how I know that, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 03:59 AM
81

Men: swipe on every woman possible Also men: “How come women get so many more options, it’s unfair!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:10 AM
68

The DIY community is getting out of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:25 AM
81

Some say he's still waiting for his plate to be fixed to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:03 PM
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Joke's on him because IIRC it's one of the signature dishes from her cookbook after she won that season. Edit: It was MasterChef. I've been watching these a lot this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 04:33 PM
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The funniest thing is it happens anytime a woman even says she has any kind of preference. Not even "basing their worth" off it or making it an absolute requirement but just saying something small like "I like guys who are taller than me." They'll do everything to tear down her looks if she says that, implying she's overweight as the go-to insult, then post it to that dating app sub for the 50th same "joke" that day alone. It's really pathetic and says a whole lot about their own insecurities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 04:12 PM
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Yup I've said it before on here too: A good diet/hygiene, bit of exercise, well-fitting clothes- these are the absolute basics which would help the VAST MAJORITY of these guys who complain, if they could even be bothered to stick to a simple routine. I started doing all this in high school between studying and I wasn't even making a decent income until fairly recently, so there's not a lot of legit excuses (beyond a physical disability obviously) to not take care of yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:30 PM
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A common theme of LVM/NVM: "This woman is too smart/too successful/too much for me to handle, how dare she make me feel inferior by existing."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:12 PM
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They're always complaining about "pretty privilege" but still doing fuck-all to improve their appearance.. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:06 PM
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Yes! RUN, don't walk, don't even pack your stuff, you can get new stuff girl!!! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:55 PM
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LOL I feel this. A little nausea-inducing but cute, I'm still happy for them anyway. 🤣 At least it's more positive than the 5,347 "Breaking News: random scrote complains about FDS" posts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:47 PM
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Men be like: "I've tried nothing... and now I'm all out of ideas." 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:06 PM
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I KNOW, OMG. I literally just scrolled through hoping someone commented on this. That was the part that broke my brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:06 PM
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That's like saying "I totally don't want a million dollars" while secretly hoping it'll just deposit itself into your bank account. She probably doesn't even think about him at all. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:07 PM
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Lost a friend once because we used to agree on EVERYTHING but once I started having my own opinions she turned on me real fast. FDS showed me that having people who value me is more important than having just anyone around, and sometimes it's better to go my own way than follow the crowd. FDS is full of the "big sister advice" I think a lot of us needed to gain self confidence and respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:56 PM
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That was the funniest part to me too!! He’s just all-around confused. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:38 PM
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“Scrotation” is funny as hell as a word but a rotation of scrotes sounds like the worst, LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:22 PM
6

Man? I thought it was a goblin from the Harry Potter movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:26 PM
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I was thinking that maybe they're there to make people "look fatter" so they keep working out LOL. But you may be onto something..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:16 PM
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LOL SAME. I wonder how much money I wasted in middle/high school on foundation JUST to cover freckles. And straightening curly/wavy hair too! I’d fry it until the ends were splitting to fit in with everyone else. The locker room after gym was always a battlefield of girls trying to plug in their flat irons and get a decent mirror spot. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:48 PM
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These men: "It's when they're most fertile! biOlOgy! SpReAdInG MuH sEeD!" Also these men: "Don't let her baby trap you though"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 04:37 PM
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At least the little bike matches the giant shoes. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:58 PM
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That's no age gap, more like an age canyon. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:58 PM
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Wtf? It's like we aren't as eXtReMe MiSaNdRiStS as they want us to be so they have to go make their own fake proof against us. I didn't think it could get more pathetic for these men but here we are. Funnily enough it's almost exactly how I found this sub- men complaining about how cRaZy it is so I had to check it out. Here I am a year later still wondering where all the "ugly entitled man-hating harpies" are. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:08 PM
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He said that men need more calories than women, and that men's livers can handle more alcohol. Then said, "It's not fair, but that's the way it is." Same guy about literally everything else that doesn't benefit him: "50/50 though, because of equality."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 09:33 PM
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I'll take your word for it- don't want to give them any more attention, plus I like keeping my brain cells intact. 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:18 PM
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... There’s whole essays and YouTube videos from these guys about FDS? We really do live in their heads rent free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:04 PM
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Yea this would be funny if it wasn't so sad and pathetic. Anyway, FDSers who see this post will forget about it in 5 minutes but scrotes will continue making fake posts because they're obsessed with us. Kind of like their real life crushes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 07:25 PM
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Yes I was about to say this too, blocking DMs was one of the first things I did when making an account. It's best to just let them yell into the void and ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 08:12 PM
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*Write It's good you aren't charging for the editing. 😂 Sorry, I couldn't resist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:55 PM
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I think some people who are perhaps newer are missing the point of this post. I don’t think you’re saying we have to be actively dating and looking for a HVM at all times when subbed here, but we should at least be open to it. Some people on here have been saying they don’t want to date at all, which is fine and valid but like you said this sub has a goal. There’s also femalelevelupstrategy for posts that don’t have to do with dating if that’s the vibe someone wants instead. edit: Reading throug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:52 PM
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does not want to seek mental health care because if he does get mental health care he won’t be allowed to have a gun. The kind of guy who puts owning a gun above his mental health is the guy who should not have a gun imo. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:28 AM
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“Underachieving slacker man finds amazing accomplished woman who expects nothing from him, strings her along and frustrates her until the last minute when he reveals his feelings for her because she’s about to leave.” So RoMaNtIC 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:32 PM
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I’d rather be on a cruise ship than a rowboat thanks. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:41 PM
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The funny thing about this is that I have only ever seen vocal fry being criticized as something "annoying" that teen girls do. I've noticed more men that do it personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:08 PM
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Dudes walking around in broad daylight with unibrows and hobbit feet being picky about women's bodies not being completely hairless... make it make sense. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:57 PM
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Saame, when I first found FDS I had to get used to not having to make every excuse for men. It's so nice to have a place where people don't jump down your throat, because they know exactly what you mean here. 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:04 PM
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"yOuR DeGrEeS wOn'T KeeP YoU WArm at NigHt" is always rich coming from broke dudes with no education or future plans. Without decent income what's even keeping them warm at night, besides the friction from rubbing their limp dicks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:55 PM
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According to this guy we should all just be constantly wearing those interpretive dancing sheets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:43 PM
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"Women have so many options, it isn't fair! But they better not try to make the best choice for themselves or they're a shallow sl*t/cold-hearted golddigger. I swipe right on literally every woman, they should just give me a chance or ten- but I shouldn't have to be the one making the first move though!" Gee maybe women have so many options because men are the ones throwing themselves at every woman that blinks at them? Go for ones you are attracted to and actually value as people instead of eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 10:27 PM
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Send them to her lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:43 PM
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Reminds me of this meme 1870: Man: My wife, whom had 4 babies and 0 orgasms this year, and is not allowed to vote, cries a lot Doctor: Obviously she is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:57 PM
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TIL these guys are basically just Frollo from The Hunchback of Notre Dame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:31 AM
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Same, I actually just filter the tag out but the hypocrisy from the "mEn NEED pOrN tHo" crowd is amusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:44 PM
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I saw a picture of Clooney the other day and he looked exactly like my damn grandpa. My mom was joking that he picked the right time to get married, he could feel himself starting to wrinkle. 😂 These clowns think they have a lifetime to try and settle down right at the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:34 PM
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In high school I had a friend whose dad was in his 70s, he would just be in the living room all the time in a hospital bed or the recliner hooked up to oxygen or something (never really got a good look, we had to stay out of there). Anyway the mom was in her 40s, she was taking care of him full time until he died, a couple years after we all graduated. That was one of my first looks at how a real age-gap relationship looks 20 years later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:27 PM
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Right I was just thinking, "Where does he work so I can avoid it forever?" What business would want to be associated with this man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:01 PM
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Give men a whole mile and they'll still want that last inch from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:24 PM
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ಠ__ಠ What the heck did I just read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:20 PM
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Omg I saw that post the other day and thought it was weird and clearly scripted. Glad I didn't bother checking the comments and wasting mental energy because of course "a WoMaN iS MeAn" gets blamed on FDS. Oh well, it's basically how I found this sub last year so welcome to our new subscribers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:04 PM
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(I copy-pasted this by using "removeddit" instead of "reddit" in the address FYI) Edit: Fixed so it doesn't make links to other subs, sorry. The Purge A little over two weeks later, Cedar, with no announcement or discussion with any of the mods, removed over half of the modlist. Subsequent chats with Cedar were interesting. They said that we were running the sub badly, that we were cliquey and backstabby (et tu, Brute?). They said that they were tired of getting requests to remove Shill, and als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:08 PM
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(I copy-pasted this by using "removeddit" instead of "reddit" in the address FYI) Edit: Fixed so it doesn't make links to other subs, sorry. Hello /prochoice, I’m TrustedAdult, a physician who performs abortions. I wanted to give everybody an update on what has been happening at /abortion, since many have reached out to ask. Background /abortion is the subreddit where people go to get advice when they’re having or seeking an abortion. It’s also where people go when they need to talk about aborti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:07 PM
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Yeah and then even if they get married he will retire a decade+ before her while she's still working, SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 10:35 PM
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And then you get the comments that are like "She should have just said yes and then let him down gently later so he wouldn't be embarrassed!" Of course if she did that she would be the villain again for "breaking his heart out of the blue" or some other asinine reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:28 PM
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I just looked that one up, the amount of salt in that post could fill an ocean (big enough to travel across for a vacation in fact. 😂) I'm not even someone who travels a lot since I grew up poor in an affluent area, but a lot of my friends travel and it's never the "show off brag" this guy is imagining. They're just doing what they like and sharing it. If someone's posts are making him insecure he should look inwardly at why that is, and maybe just unfollow them, instead of basically saying to k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:41 PM
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Wtf lol everything comes back to their own insecure bullshit doesn't it. "Well I couldn't afford to travel so she must be getting help from another man of course. And obviously that man is a sUgAr DaDdY."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:19 PM
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They post trash like this and then wonder why women won’t sleep with them anymore. SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:30 AM
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There's entire subreddits for OnlyFans rips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:48 PM
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They're not scared about future jobs because they've convinced themselves they're going to get rich doing this. Somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:47 PM
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I read that and literally went "hahah what the fuck?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:50 PM
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That part was so sad to read. Just wanting to be with someone and be loved back and she thinks that's the wrong part here. He should be counting his lucky stars that she even considered dating him, yet she's the one pining after him. These NVM don't even realize what they have. I hope she found her way here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:19 PM
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This is so true. Scrotes will decorate their house with literally nothing but a recliner and tv (with the newest game system ofc) and mattress right on the floor, maybe a taped up poster of Fight Club or Boondock Saints with the corners torn, and still have the audacity to call us "basic" when they don't even have the basic necessities. edit: Once I dated a guy who didn't even own plates or actual utensils. Just used paper towels and plastic spoons every time. If he needed a cereal bowl? Red sol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:39 PM
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If a man can't pass a comment on a woman, does she still exist? He'll pretend she doesn't while still spending his time obsessing ways to catch a mere second of her notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:20 PM
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And if his inbox is "filled with moderator messages" that means he just had to keep trying after the first time.. 🙄 I don't get it, I'm certainly not over here trying to sneak random unwanted comments into the conservative or mensrights subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:17 PM
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You’re an inspiration 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:34 PM
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I for one am much more comfortable not showing my full face to strange men. I think after this is “over” I’ll keep masking in public, it’s so nice not being told to smile or anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:15 PM
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^ ^ ^ ^ It will ALWAYS be about performing for these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:49 PM
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Men: “I prefer down to earth REAL women.” Also men: “Ew her waist is thicker than her neck, lemme edit that”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:57 AM
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Spectator sports, gaming, porn, shitty beer, and superhero franchises. And unironically uses the term "basic b*tch" while doing all of the above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:26 AM
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None worth keeping lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:07 AM
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I always think of those puffy/gelly stickers from the 90s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:30 PM
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If a grown woman said her life sucks because she didn't go to prom she would literally become another Karen meme. SMH how ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:19 PM
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I saw this on the front page and my first thought was "a man DEFINITELY wrote this." 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:36 PM
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Oh but didn’t you know being single is The Absolute Worst Thing a woman can be?? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:19 PM
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Meh, I'll consider starting to feel a tiny bit bad for them when the day comes that no more children are ever molested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:37 PM
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Perhaps they were reported by someone and a mod just needs to review it? I'm just guessing. I know there have been instances of brigading on here before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:43 PM
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Bit redundant isn’t it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:49 PM
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I gotta ask why are you with this guy if you are disgusted by his ... bed nest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:09 PM
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We aren’t even demanding it. If a man wants to split the check the advice I’ve seen from here says to smile, pay your half, then block and delete because it isn’t worth our time. No lectures, no tricks, no whining. Sure am seeing a lot of those three things from men who complain about FDS though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:52 PM
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I do the same thing, literally every time I open up the front page and scroll for two minutes there’s always some poor woman who could use tips on boundaries or just basic respect from a partner. It’s actually sad how these women or even teenage girls are giving so much of their time and energy to a guy who in their own description is an absolute loser (trying as hard as they can to make him look good too!!) I was in one of those relationships where I’d come on Reddit for advice only to be basic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:45 PM
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it’s cuz I know what I want You’re so right. If you don’t, then they go the other way and say “Women are so indecisive! Why can’t they just say what they want?” They’re going to criticize you either way so you might as well be direct aka “bossy”. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:03 PM
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Unrelated but I’m dying at your username 💀 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:51 PM
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LOL right! 😂 If only it was as easy for us as just saying “Rapist, no raping!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:22 AM
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On the plus side he sounds like the kind of man who wouldn’t bother actually unpacking his boxes for a while, makes it easier to move him right back out again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:53 PM
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Scrubs and pickmes: “Disney movies give UnReAliStIc ExpEcTaTioNs!!!” FDS: “You’re right, women deserve better than these lame princes.” 👸 Scrubs and pickmes: “wait no not like that”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:43 PM
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Same, I assume the mods are just busy sifting through all the fake profiles, plus the sub is getting more members than ever now. Just keep posting and commenting and it’ll be approved soon. It’s almost sad to imagine someone making a fake account to get access to a forum just to disagree with people. And unless they’re actually posting according to FDS guidelines their comments aren’t even seen by most because they get downvoted and reported, what a waste of time and energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:27 PM
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THIS is what happens when we back each other up! We create a scrote-proof shield for each other.🛡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:14 PM
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“She didn’t cOmMuNiCaTe what she wanted! I’m not a mind reader!!” 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:00 PM
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That last point you made reminded me of one time I read about how burglars will actually sometimes see a guard dog as an advantage, because they can give it a treat or even poison, and then they can assume the rest of the house or yard is clear (of alarms etc) because the dog could walk around freely. I know burglars are a bit of a different situation but it is something to think about as well. I know I’ll probably get a large dog eventually to feel safe on walks in the future, but I will defini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:40 PM
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“Hey I did one (1) load of dishes, I’d like a sex now please.” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:34 PM
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And if she actually isn’t in the mood to have sex that exact night, they’ll turn around and go “I did all this work and I don’t even get my reward for it!” Without realizing the irony..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:32 PM
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Why do these guys always have to have Pitt bulls too? Pitties are such sweet dogs when they’re properly trained. Not when people like this just chop their ears off and put a choke chain on to look tough next to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:57 PM
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HVM just get it. Sometimes I’ll show my boyfriend memes or tiktoks from here without context and just say”lol watch this” to see his reaction. Usually he says it’s hilarious or made him think from a new perspective. He’s always saying the “cRuMbS aRe FoR pIgEoNs” meme. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:58 AM
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Gosh that is scary, I hope you can get those new locks soon and some answers for who that guy was. Good thing your building manager is a woman- they tend to take things like safety more seriously just based off the ones I’ve had. Something similar happened to me recently, my neighbor tried walking into my apartment but it was locked. He kept trying and after a moment my boyfriend opened the door and asked what he was doing. Used some excuse about mixing up the doors. (After years of living here?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:33 PM
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If she didn’t have that livestream going and she had been assaulted or worse, those same commenters would be saying that she shouldn’t have been out alone. It’s always the woman’s fault to these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:59 PM
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I'd love an invite code if you wouldn't mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:12 AM
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I've seen it used as a joke/meme, but usually with "scrotery" instead of "scrotation." As in, "I couldn't believe the scrotery of this man." Not mean keeping a lame guy in your "dating rotation" or anything like that, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:10 AM
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They literally pretend they live in a vacuum that doesn’t affect or get affected by the rest of the world. It’s a fantasy that they have the privilege of indulging in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:01 PM
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Anyone have some good examples of subtle ways to get a woman out of that situation? Edit: Thanks everyone for the tips!! There should be a handbook or wiki post or something full of these- just an idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:25 AM
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Interesting read, thank you for linking the article. Each day here it seems I learn something new about how women have been disadvantaged throughout history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:17 PM
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Right lol 😂 The only reason I can think of is either what you just said, or he’s creating “evidence” that she’s a cheater so he doesn’t look bad. Either way, just weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:25 PM
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Same, when I think of unisex bathrooms I think of the single room ones as well, but multiple stalls would definitely make me uncomfortable in a unisex bathroom. I’m a petite woman and bathrooms tend to be out of the way, I don’t want to go in there knowing any man can just follow behind. Also makes me nervous about those tiny hidden cameras people sometimes find in stalls even in separated bathrooms. I’m a little germaphobic anyway but if this catches on more I think I’d rather just go home than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:20 PM
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Same for me too, and when I check back here every few days or so there's another 1000+ women subbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:14 AM
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Seriously? Like the Von Trapps in The Sound of Music?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:05 AM
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He looks like a townie from The Sims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:46 PM
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"Safe cannibalism fetish" LOL what. How's he gonna do that safely, pretend he's eating her leg with fake chomps like it's a corn on the cob?? I'm deceased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:39 PM
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My pets at least keep it outside, or in the litter box.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:43 PM
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At one of my first jobs as a teen, one of the tasks was to mop the bathroom floors. I've heard a lot of people say that women's restrooms are gross too, and yes that is true after all we are human, but they had nothing on the men's restrooms. They were mopped daily but every time I went in to do it the men's room was literally sticky. Toilet paper on the floor everywhere. Unidentified substances on the walls and mirrors. It was like a bunch of animals were in there all day. I got a new job reall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:39 PM
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"Men aren't allowed to cry! sOcIeTy!!!" -man who calls other men p*ssies and simps every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:31 PM
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“Could you imagine the consequences he will face for such a serious allegation? He might get a whole slap on the wrist.” 🙄 oh the humanity. Won’t somebody think of the predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:20 AM
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You've got this. 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:07 PM
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I want an emotionally available man to respect me, treat me, and not lust after other women. Apparently that is controlling and abusive- while choking a woman until she turns blue, beating her, and even wanting to literally eat her flesh is totally fine and kinky. I don't want to live on this planet anymore, any aliens reading this beam me up please. 🛸🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:00 AM
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"Oh no, exposure to a different idea is forcing me to think critically about something, and possibly making me start to realize some things about myself that I don't want to confront, gRoSs!" Some people become adults but never really grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:50 PM
23

I’ve never seen an actual “manipulation tip” on here or anything like that. 😂 The people who say that are people who base their opinion of FDS on a boogeyman version that random internet dudebros invented because they were insecure. They’d have people believe we’re all bitter ugly harpies scheming to steal men’s money and happiness while hiding our true nature, or something. There’s no actual truth to it. If you don’t like something the FDS “strategy” is to just leave and make yourself happy, no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:09 PM
21

Men don’t build everything, they just take credit for it. So many times a man would take credit especially for his wife’s accomplishments. I just read a post the other day about how in the past female NASA researchers couldn’t even put their names on their work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:45 PM
5

Right though? If they were smart, they’d sit back and learn about what women really want and try to emulate some of those HVM traits. It’s literally like a cheat sheet if they cared to apply it! Instead they just scroll through seething about a small portion of women having their own reasonable standards that most men could reach if they actually tried. I never understood why they visit a sub they disagree with just to make themselves angry and try to post hateful comments (which the mods are on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:00 PM
1

Funny thing is she literally has made fun of people for working at fast food/retail places but they are guaranteed to at least make minimum wage with benefits and legal protections... 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:07 PM
11

I’m poorly paraphrasing a comedian here, but having a vagina “is like like having a backpack full of $10k on you at all times.” Honestly when I first heard that, something just clicked for me. Most people say they’d never steal, but a backpack with thousands of dollars just sitting there? Some of those same people would be desperate or stupid enough to go for it if the opportunity presented itself. I think about that a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:53 AM
25

I personally know a woman who presents her life like your first example always showing off her presents, but in reality is barely scraping by with what she's actually making. It's pretty sad because she could literally be making more with an actual minimum wage job but it's almost like she thinks she's too good for that. It's so backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:33 PM
38

Honestly it’s yet another reason not to date older men at that age (any age actually, but especially then).These men throw around essentially what amounts to pocket change and these young girls think they’re being spoiled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:25 AM
102

Yup exactly. I was just like this girl, thinking everything was so easy and nbd- until I was assaulted in a limo and shoved out in a parking lot. Even then I couldn't admit it, because I felt stupid. Only recently I was able to accept the reality of what happened that night and start speaking out against this, thanks in part to this sub creating a safe space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:05 PM
48

Even the slightest criticism triggers male tantrums. Mantrums, if you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:54 PM
76

With how much effort women out into looking good for a date, even if one were to date just for the free food, would the cost of the meal even cancel out the time taken getting ready and money for products?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:15 PM
11

The entire concept of "post-nut clarity" has always made me wonder how the self-described "LoGiCaL sEx" is apparently in a haze their whole life except for those few minutes of reflection. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:20 PM
13

"What a dreamboat, he feels so bad for ruining her life. Sign me up next!" 😍 -probably what they expect you to think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:12 PM
30

I saw an askreddit thread earlier (maybe askmen?) about sexism against men, 90% of the answers were like this. "People think I'm babysitting when I take the kids off my wife's hands for a day!" (How is that one against men? Seems like they're getting gold stars for basic parenting and then complaining about it.) "Women cross the street at night to avoid me- I'm a good guy! Don't they know it hurts our feelings??" Or my favorite, "I never get hugs or compliments! I make no effort to be likeable t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:23 AM
43

This is terrifying, and he bit her EYE too??? That’s so disgusting. 🤢 I hope they find these horrible men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:29 PM
38

Same, I just message a quick link to the OP. Not worth being harassed by scrotes in the comments about how we're eViL mEaN WoMeN for having any standards and getting banned anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 07:27 PM
3

This is why I have DMs off. I suggest you all do the same as well, it is so great not getting any of these messages. Also this would probably be better in /r/FDSSuperFans, but honestly even though the impotent rage is pretty amusing I don't think it's wise in the long run to give them attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:21 PM
14

I heard that sub is also unfortunately run by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:44 PM
8

Here I copy-pasted that article here so no one else will have to click on that ad infested link lol. Truly a horrifying article to read through. How you will soon be able to sue prostitutes for poor performance and why brothels could be built in 'every suburb' under dramatic changes to sex laws NT becomes the third jurisdiction in the world to fully decrimialise sex work Sex Industry Bill allows industry to operate with laws applicable to other fields Concerns laws will set precedent for custome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:54 PM
11

especially if they have daughters of their own. This is true but at the same time you now have the opportunity to lead by example as the “cool, beautiful aunt who has her shit together without LVM bs.” Maybe you couldn’t save your sister but the next generation is starting to get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:11 PM
107

I honestly never realized until this post that it's always men they're afraid of. The only time a dog has been wary of me is if I'm wearing a hat or something until I take it off. And I've worked at multiple pet stores so I met a LOT of dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:04 AM
8

Read the handbook in the side bar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:53 AM
1

Right, he gets to have the fun “breaking the rules!” memories because she doesn’t get that luxury. I’m sure she would LOVE to be able spend a day just getting a meal delivered and watching movies with the kids and not doing any chores, but she has to be the responsible one and rein it in because her husband isn’t going to pick up any slack like she does for him. He has the fun, and then she cleans up the mess after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:33 AM
57

pick his boogers for him I've heard of girls popping their boyfriend's zits (already disgusting) but this is yet another level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 12:44 AM
4

I'm sorry to inform you but it's actually Phat. And now you have learned something completely useless. 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:06 PM
96

Agreed on your second paragraph especially, we don't really need to be posting screenshots from their subs like they do with ours. I prefer the positive improvement or advice posts. Screenshots of random internet dwellers going "FDS Bad!" isn't very constructive to the purposes of this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:53 PM
468

This is SO great but be careful not to post pics of yourself on here/this account! edit: I'm not here to debate safety, it's just against the rules to post pics of yourself/surroundings for reasons the mods have already explained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:32 AM
85

I had an ex who would not even see me when I was on my period, let alone actually sick with a flu. Same guy would expect me to cater his every need when he got the sniffles. Current boyfriend (when we were first dating) left work when I was sick to bring me food, flowers, care pack, and a freaking air purifier. Hmm, I wonder which one would be there for me in an emergency? Scrotes and pickmes are like, "give the first guy another chance!" 🤪 Now I'll never accept doing something for someone who w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:08 AM
7

No /s necessary, I've legit heard this from a man's mouth about how much "effort" he put into the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:22 AM
8

I used to bite my nails down to the absolute nub, and then go after my cuticles. Such a bad habit, I never thought I’d have beautiful nails! Then one year I made it a resolution to STOP messing with my nails and start moisturizing and pampering them. It was hard work and took a few setbacks but I replaced the habit with filing/painting my nails, and now I’m so proud and get so many compliments. Go get the nails you want and deserve, girl! Never a better time to start. 💅 r/calmhands helped a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:32 PM
43

“It’S jUsT a FaNtAsY!” Why the fuck are you fantasizing about this kind of thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:19 AM
69

This just confirms that men date young girls because they can't get someone their own age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:46 PM
12

Yes girl! Start the new year the right way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:43 PM
13

Respect. Teachers are the key to the future. Exactly though, I can't really be stoked about a system that profits off the backs of so many women. It's great for those few women who have learned to game the system, get that bag. But throw a rope down for the rest of us to climb up together, you know? Not all of us have the resources or sheer luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:04 PM
20

Wow why didn’t I just think of pulling myself up by the bootstraps I can’t even afford? Honestly though if you aspire to be part of the 1% “ultra wealthy” you might be an actual dragon. Edit: "JusT dEcidE TO bE Rich" I'm dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:46 PM
57

Do all that and he’ll still be sitting there thinking “why didn’t she at least finish up?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:25 PM
66

Don’t even do wifey things for a boyfriend. He wants wife benefits he’s got to provide husband benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 05:23 PM
26

No want baby? But female! Grog no get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:29 PM
62

Let's be real, women would still be outperforming men and it would somehow be our fault again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:25 PM
12

Spot on. Why wake him up and give him the chance to ExPlAiN hImSeLf? She saw the texts, there's nothing left to discuss. Use those 10 hours wisely and get out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:29 PM
27

Banana Laffy Taffy Gang rise up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:36 AM
68

We’re apparently supposed to build him up so that he’s successful enough to “trade up” the wifey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:49 PM
52

This right here. “I can finally enjoy sex now!” Well he was enjoying it the whole time so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:27 PM
13

A male friend I'd known for years once got me drunk and forced his hand down my pants multiple times while I was telling him to stop. Then he complained that I wasn't wet at all. Do not trust male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:21 AM
3

Personally it's always been one of my favorite movies since I was a kid, the little details in the animation and backgrounds are so beautiful. I always thought they helped each other though, with Sophie gaining confidence and magic (in the book) and Howl letting go of greed and finding his true self again. Maybe I should watch it again- the pandemic has given me a lot of time for movie nights :) (Side note- I'd love an FDS movie night/slumber party with everyone!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:39 PM
16

This is so true, he got exactly the result he should have expected if he had thought about her reaction at all. ^(Also I'm sorry but "waste" would be the correct spelling.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:21 PM
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I’m 5ft and average height guys who are maybe 5’9” will always try to tell me they’re 6ft. 😂 Like they think I can’t tell from down here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:39 PM
74

He’s probably dating to get back on his feet by getting a girlfriend for “50/50”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:19 PM
34

Raise your hand if you’d rather “miss out on this chance with a good brotha” than humble yourself. 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:16 PM
28

"I want my husband to spend a couple years out of his life being pregnant with my 2.5 kids (ruining his formerly hot bod which is a real bummer for Me), cleaning my house and making my dinners daily, staying home to save on daycare (which isn't a real job because it's just what he's supposed to do naturally).." Could you imagine if gender roles were reversed for anything that actually mattered? I'll hold doors sure, when I can just walk down my own damn street without pepper spray in my purse. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:10 PM
16

Gosh if only we knew- if we want to demand "special treatment" like not getting raped, gas-lighted, or beaten, all we need to do is make it EqUaL and hold doors open for men or pay for their dates! 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:57 PM
71

What’s with all the “I don’t have sympathy for this woman” comments I’ve been seeing on here today? I thought this was a place to build women up, not keep repeating the toxic cycle of tearing each other down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 04:01 AM
2

Won’t SOMEBODY please think of the straight men for once???? 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:45 AM
8

Hope you told on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:36 PM
25

"Not all men" are abusive ... but "Yes, ALL women" have to worry about being safe from abusive men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:33 PM
63

I almost went out with a guy years ago, when I was just out of high school, but then he made a “joke” about not googling his name. You better believe that’s the first thing I did, and found out he went to JAIL for “statutory” rape of a FIFTEEN YEAR OLD. As someone petite I always have had to be wary of these absolute creeps who want the “jailbait” look. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:41 PM
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If withholding sex is abuse, how would that even be enforced? 😂 A hole punch card maybe? “10 punches and you get one free No!*” Even the replies to her ask how it would work legally and she says it should be “society” not laws. Soo she’s admitting it’s not actually abuse then? These people really don’t think through their own logic.. *at husband’s discretion of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:30 PM
44

This is the kind of low effort “creative” writing that comes from a generation of men who pride themselves on not reading books, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:48 PM
64

For me it’s a little much to not have ANY guy friends, if they’re properly vetted. It’s half the planet after all. I’ll probably get some flack here but my best friend is a man, since middle school. We bonded over being some of the only really poor kids in a rich area at the time and trying to rise above it. Never has he made a move, or said anything to make me think he’s at all interested. I used to crash on his couch to get out of my abusive home before we graduated. It’s honestly been really …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:56 PM
12

Oh it definitely is a great addition. Just observing how this sub's users are always bashed as demanding and high maintenance by having these same standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:24 AM
15

I saw this on the front page earlier and thought it was funny how everything from FDS is on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:44 AM
8

Honestly they don’t even try to hide it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 04:50 PM
23

What the hell is up with that punching thing anyway? Women ask for equality and their first thought is, "Oh so that means I can just beat the living shit out of a woman now for hitting my arm? EqUaL rIgHtS eQuAl LeFtS!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:53 AM
62

He probably gets to be the "fun dad" playing video games with the kids (AKA the kids watching him play games) while his wife is cleaning up after him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:35 PM
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Three kids and has time for Tinder? Obviously he’s doing nothing but video games at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:09 PM
4

Thank you so much- It's great you got out of that situation too. You're exactly right though, without all this we maybe wouldn't have found FDS and we would still be dating the same category of LVM. Not a nice alternate universe to think about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:06 PM
1

Yeah I saw that part, makes me wonder a little if all LVM are actually just this one guy making the rounds. 😂 If only we just had the one to worry about LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:23 AM
11

My first real relationship was with a guy I was best friends with in high school because I wanted to give him a chance, LOL. Looking back I was way out of his league. We were together for 3 years and I really cared about him. He ended up hanging out with other girl “friends” behind my back, and talking bad about me to his friends who treated me horribly, and gaslighting me about it all. When we finally broke up he admitted that at least the last 6 months he had only stuck around to have sex when…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 11:43 PM
9

It's depressing how common it is to see couples where the woman clearly takes care of herself and dresses well and then you look at the guy and he's an actual potato.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:54 PM
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“GiVe HiM a ChAnCe He ReAlLy LiKeS yOu!!” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:15 PM
1

My bad, I skimmed through part 2 and missed that it was with the next partner. Now I’m even more horrified that he dragged down TWO women like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 10:01 PM
11

In the comments I think he says they kept talking afterwards and “mutually” decided they weren’t a good fit. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:54 PM
18

ANY amount wouldn’t excuse this audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:55 PM
12

They think it's Women's Day (to care about men even more) and Men's Day (for their "equality" before getting back to the sandwich jokes tomorrow)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:27 PM
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Is there some sort of law that Men's Day can't be mentioned without comparing it to Women's? Like just say "Happy Men's Day" if you're going to. Otherwise you don't actually care about the day or the men..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:00 PM
17

Right though? Why else would you drink not one, but TWO "laxative" drinks knowing you have stomach issues?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:45 PM
18

Always. Be. Vetting. Never trust a man on his word, get the receipts for everything. Any man who has ever had a problem with me verifying his claims has had something to hide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:31 PM
13

Been there as well, sis. That's why personally I can't be too hard on the mild pickmes, I used to be one (like many others here) and it's really hard to break out of that mentality when everyone around is a pickme too! I'm proud of the ones who manage to take off the blinders whether through FDS or their own motivation. I wish we could all show our past selves the Queens we're becoming. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:15 PM
13

I know right? Even my pickme past self was like "HELL no, byee." I have a feeling this guy probably has a ton of red flags, she just recently started to have the rose glasses fall off and is seeing clearly for the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:59 PM
15

In part 2 she reveals he'd raped her and gotten her pregnant, so she had to do all that while also protecting her son from an abusive man. I can't even imagine. This is why it's so important for women everywhere to have resources to be independent and to separate themselves from abuse. Definitely a sad story that reinforces the lessons I've been reading here on FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:54 PM
13

I'll have to read that one next. There truly is no low they won't sink to, is there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:33 PM
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Your last line I was literally thinking that- what's next after he repierces her ears? "Well he got to take your virginity to it's only fair I can take your "anal virginity"" (something a scrote actually said to me before I dumped him). The entitlement WILL NOT end. Just throw the whole man out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:29 PM
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I saw this randomly on Pocket today and was absolutely astounded at this man. It's a BLESSING actually that he's out of her life now. Anyway I thought this was an excellent cautionary tale for this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:12 PM
12

You’re right, LOL. For some reason my brain read “12 year OLD vegan.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:06 AM
9

I’m assuming you meant 21 😂 I wish I had FDS when I was around that age though, would’ve prevented a lot of trouble as a teen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:26 AM
25

Take your own username more seriously girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:33 AM
15

And yet everything men say is “jUsT a JoKe!!1!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:43 PM
73

Take those rose glasses off and smash them sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:08 PM
21

My mom always told me to guard and protect my fertility, I didn’t understand what it really meant until I found FDS. Essentially, don’t have kids with a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:32 PM
37

HE’s working a lot? He basically told her on his way out the door “by the way I invited two people over for dinner, I’m assuming you’ll do everything for that because Wife. Ok bye!” So she had to work a full day probably thinking about what she now has to cook when she gets home, then when she’s off work she also has to clean up after this man, and then be the hostess! I honestly want to know what kind of vitamins or what this woman is taking to give her the energy to do all this and put up with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:11 PM
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she picked up [my things cluttering] the house even though it wasn’t really [her problem to deal with] that [took hours along with the cooking because I am just so damn] messy There, I fixed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:07 PM
93

My dad ended up leaving our family for his side girlfriend, after being married for almost a decade. Then leaving her for his other side girlfriend after she had kids for him too. My mom never even so much as let a man into the house for repairs without a chaperone (shout-out to our sweet old lady neighbor💕). My mom always told me to never date a man in the military after that, and she’s not wrong. I’m not about to be dragged around to different bases, giving up my career, popping out babies, wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:02 PM
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That’s something that bothers the hell out of me. We always hear about “Jody” but they never want to talk about the “barracks bunnies” (not my fave term at all tbh but that’s what they use) that they ALL have on the side. Source: military dad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:44 PM
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She works full time and at the drop of a dime he expects her to whip up a full dinner for him and two people he randomly invited over too? When does this poor woman get to sit down for a minute?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:39 PM
33

To be fair he “normally” waits for work to be over. You can’t expect a man to have to wait for literally anything if he wants it, that’s practically taking away his freedom. (/s because... well Reddit.) Of course if it turns out the boss can’t see his screen then the floodgates are wide open for paid “entertainment time.” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:32 PM
19

Literally LOLd at the title. He wants a woman who doesn't know she's hot so that she won't realize how much she's out of his league. Dude probably thinks he's Adonis too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:41 PM
6

Insecurity isn't a good look for any age, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:28 PM
18

They think the things they try to apply to us don't apply to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:20 PM
50

Honestly you're so right. I remember as girls we would rate OURSELVES, and much lower than we should have too. It's like we had this never-ending and ever-changing list of traits we needed to be a "10" and anything less than that perfect 10 (in our teen minds) subconsciously meant we needed to work harder to be worthy of love and respect. And OF COURSE none of us were ever going to achieve perfection. Meanwhile the boys just had to be "nice" and if we expected more we were shallow, and any crumb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:10 PM
215

Share Brian’s profile ....to his wife. 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:53 PM
48

You mean the rapist Brock Turner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:25 PM
6

Just think of a pendulum, it swings just as far the opposite direction. That "weakness" you feel is because of your strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:03 AM
3

It's good that she can't come around to stalk you anymore. Thank you mods for keeping FDS a place where we build up and don't tolerate tearing down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:50 PM
18

Yes, this is awesome! Visualize your ideal self and then BECOME HER! You got this, you are your own hero!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:27 PM
3

You weren't even giving an attitude, and neither was anyone else at all until she started in on it, even then they were still trying to calm down and help her. It's hard to tell tone over text sometimes but this person seems to interpret everything with some sort of snarky overlay. It reminds me lot of high school, with some people thinking the whole world is against them, some never do grow out of it. Anyway, I hope she stops harassing you and others on here just for giving advice that she aske…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:21 PM
5

Wow I think I found the post out of curiosity, what a sad case though! I hope either she leaves here and takes her bad vibes with her, or somehow realizes she can do a lot more with this energy if directed positively. But that would take a lot of reflecting.. Either way you're awesome for trying at least. Some people latch on to the "tough" part of tough love and can't take any advice that isn't coddling them, that's why I like this sub because we support each other without too much sugarcoating…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:39 PM
3

They're probably just a troll but it's obvious they're still very troubled. I hope they can reach out to someone who cares about them. But who am I kidding they've probably pushed everyone out of their life by now and this is just a sad attempt to have some connection, even negatively, outside of their pathetic bubble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 07:06 PM
7

Thinking we are weak, they force us to show how strong we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:48 PM
27

“Am I so out of touch? ... No, it’s the women who are wrong.” -- men probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 10:43 PM
6

The jury is still out on that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:00 PM
17

Damn, it only took an hour to get over his grandmother's supposed death? Poor gran, not even she has much value to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:59 PM
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I think you’re only a “forever girlfriend” if you don’t want to be one, if that makes sense? Like wanting to be married but he won’t commit to it. If you don’t want to be married anyway then that’s what works for you girl. A few years ago when I met my HVM at 19 (long before FDS) I didn’t think I wanted to ever marry, he respected that and said if I changed my mind he’d get a ring but he was sticking with me either way. Now that I’m a little older, I’m thinking of possibly getting married and ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:45 PM
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Honestly same. I don’t agree with everyone here all the time but the great thing is how diverse we all are and how we’re all becoming our best selves while having discussions in a truly woman-positive space. And I’ve learned how much of an absolute doormat I was. Pickme? No more, just picky now. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:06 AM
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> If cleaning and cooking and looking after children are not that difficult, why are so many men so bad at these things? Louder for the scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:24 PM
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My father legitimately didn't want any of his children after the divorce. They tried giving him custody because my mom was a SAHM at the time, and she had to fight to get custody. Even then he was supposed to have us kids over for summers. Guess who never even showed up to collect us? Can you believe we still were dumb enough to be disappointed every year. These men don't care, they just want their "property" in their name but for the woman to still take care of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:00 PM
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